Opening Hinge Messages

igerster · 2025-12-10T23:58:22+00:00

People have success on those apps?

Nubenebbiosa · 2025-12-11T01:16:02+00:00

I don't do apps anymore but it was all about volume. I would send the random shit and that would hook more than a well crafted message. It's all about timing, how horny she is, and she might pick you from the hundreds.

thai-rhone · 2025-12-11T07:08:08+00:00

I don't say anything when I like pictures, I just give them a like and if its a match I take it from there.

I go low effort. 'Hey there how's it going'.

Over the years I've noticed most conversations are the same to the point I have a clipboard of what to reply for everything a girl says.

I won't tell you what I type specifically but I've got an opener, and a second question after the opener, something teasing about what she possibly does for work since they mostly talk about that eventually. Something teasing that I do for work because she will ask that eventually and finally it's the proposal "let's meet". If she agrees I ask for the number

rich_god · 2025-12-11T13:06:43+00:00

I read the title as « opening hinge massages ». In polyamory a hinge is the person connecting two other people. Basically I thought this thread would be explaining how to have threesomes with massage opening.

Kinda disappointed to be honest.

Pickledsundae · 2025-12-11T15:18:41+00:00

So, I have had great success with this strategy: because girls dig something that stands out from boring normal openers, when I used to use dating apps, I always would always send them a funny short poem with their name (and incorporating their profile/picture details if possible), usually used in a punny way. Nearly always, they loved it, and then id make conversation focus on something from their pictures or profile. To get the number after building a little rapport, I would do a "truth or dare" routine, where you say "let's play truth or dare: you pick and start first"

After they said either truth or dare, you say something like "what are the true 7 digits to the phone in your hand right now" or "I dare you to lemme know the 7 digits to your number".

Here's an example of one of the name puns: lemme know if you want me to share the list of poems I have; I used to kinda be a man whore, so I have like one for every girl name lol:

(Crystal)

Roses can be white like bunnies Violets are blue like yo undies I feel I'm good at Crystallography So lemme feel your structure over coffee.

Fdc1210 · 2025-12-11T01:31:43+00:00

“You’re really cute. 😍”

That’s it…you’re welcome. Got me 150+ matches in 6 months. But the follow up once matched is more important and the most difficult. You will need to figure that part out

Dizzy-Craft3082 · 2025-12-11T03:35:59+00:00

I saw this opener somewhere. I don't remember the OP but it goes " You look suspiciously innocent." It has worked so many times.

Ill_Evening23 · 2025-12-11T14:01:07+00:00

“You have nice legs”.

admirabletitle · 2025-12-11T08:14:16+00:00

This is the thing about dating apps.

Dudes discover lines

Works for a bit

Dudes share lines and it gets around

Girls see over and over

line becomes useless

Dudes discover new line

Repeat

So really you have 2 options. Either make sure you’re up to date on the current meta, or use ur brain and be creative with your openers. Personally, I’ve had a lot of success with the latter so imma keep doing that lol

artsyaika · 2025-12-11T00:15:39+00:00

Make your opening message memorable, something they'll remember.

2025-12-11T04:11:01+00:00

I get responses/dates using intros that add attraction+genuine interest. I pick out a feature I like(eyes,style, hygiene) then I add a compliment about one of their interests:

"You have a beautiful sense of fashion! What would you say is your Favorite book in the Harry Potter Series?" (I'm a nerd, doesn't work EVERY time, and I hate apps like everyone else lol, I do get matches tho)

Title	Opening Hinge Messages
Author	Dry_Following_3628
Upvotes	18
Comments	27
Date	December 10, 2025 11:56 PM UTC (7 months ago)
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