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Fundamentals thai-rhone/r/seduction19/11/24 09:56 PM
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Fundamentals thai-rhone/r/seduction05/06/26 01:01 PM
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Conversationthai-rhone/r/seduction22/11/24 07:44 PM
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Logisticsthai-rhone/r/seduction01/06/26 04:47 AM
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Lifestylethai-rhone/r/seduction18/01/25 06:20 AM
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Resourcesthai-rhone/r/seduction01/10/25 06:02 PM
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Conversationthai-rhone/r/seduction10/08/25 10:33 PM
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Resourcesthai-rhone/r/seduction18/05/26 09:18 PM
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Lifestylethai-rhone/r/seduction21/11/24 02:52 PM
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Fundamentals thai-rhone/r/seduction01/03/26 10:51 AM
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Lifestylethai-rhone/r/seduction27/11/24 07:06 AM
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Lifestylethai-rhone/r/seduction07/12/24 03:48 AM
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Logisticsthai-rhone/r/seduction27/06/26 08:09 AM
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Logisticsthai-rhone/r/seduction08/07/26 10:15 AM
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Inner Game thai-rhone/r/seduction17/06/26 04:22 PM
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Field Reportthai-rhone/r/seduction10/04/25 04:13 PM
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Lifestylethai-rhone/r/seduction21/11/24 11:08 AM
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I've never been to a camp like that in the US
/r/seduction08/07/26 10:56 AM
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It's more about your competition, you need to be better than all the guys over there
/r/seduction08/07/26 10:40 AM
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I would assume its like any other social scenario, don't be too thirsty, you're there for the camp so prioritise being the best camp leader. Put your work first, and try to have fun. Naturally if you're attractive to people, and show that you're a fun camp leader the other camp leader girls will be rimming you in no time
/r/seduction08/07/26 10:22 AM
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Be the most, or one of the most attractive (not just looks) guy in the camp
/r/seduction08/07/26 10:20 AM
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What in the game of thrones is going on?
/r/seduction08/07/26 10:18 AM
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Make sure you're at the top of the food chain and there won't be much you'd need to do. Do you already have success with women prior?
/r/seduction08/07/26 10:17 AM
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Direct from app to house? It works. Depends on location
/r/seduction26/06/26 04:43 AM
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After uni I had to move back in with my parents for 8 months. Went on 40 dates and got laid five times. Four times in a hotel and one time a girl brought me back to her place. If I had my own place I would have gotten laid to at least 25 of the 40. Once I moved out and got my own place I rarely went out on dates and just invited girls straight over to my house from the app
/r/seduction26/06/26 01:14 AM
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Escort you out? Can they legally do that? Or would cold approach be considered harassment in a store?
/r/seduction21/06/26 10:42 AM
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I should have mentioned I already have a second phone purely for dating.. so it's about deleting that number
/r/seduction17/06/26 04:32 PM
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Ah ok I read it wrong
/r/seduction15/06/26 10:53 AM
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Different if you're a woman
/r/seduction15/06/26 09:13 AM
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The first threesome I had one girl lick my ass while the other was sucking my dick at the same time. Once you have that happen to you, you're chasing that dragon forever
/r/seduction06/06/26 03:04 PM
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A train with 2 guys is gay, not a threesome with 2 women
/r/seduction06/06/26 01:56 PM
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I almost always ask. But sometimes I'm just not in one place long enough to find a second girl that's suitable for the threesome, so they would both be attracted to each other. Hence I'm trying to figure out the most convinient/ fastest was to get it done
/r/seduction06/06/26 01:55 PM
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Hahahahaha
/r/seduction06/06/26 12:01 PM
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Early 30s
/r/seduction06/06/26 12:01 PM
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The rest were good enough for a night/nut
/r/seduction06/06/26 12:01 PM
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That's fair man, of the 139 women I've slept with only 10 or so we're really attractive. The rest were sport
/r/seduction06/06/26 07:47 AM
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Fair point
/r/seduction05/06/26 10:40 PM
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I'm pretty successful with dating apps, but it depends on city. And feeld needs to be in a big city if not there just isn't enough volume
/r/seduction05/06/26 10:39 PM
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Height, facial attraction, althletism (contact sports), a hobby (music), and a lucrative job that lets you travel
/r/seduction05/06/26 10:38 PM
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Still have not crossed the line of paying for sex. Not saying I wouldn't but I think I'm not ready for it. I might try fetlife again. But one thing I noticed about apps that are heavily sexual (like fetlife and feeld) are that the results aren't really great. Whereas an app like hinge that's meant for girls to be serious has resulted in some of the kinkiest one night stands I've had I have a big issue with other men involved in anything sexual hence why the swinging thing isn't really for me. I …
/r/seduction05/06/26 01:26 PM
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Height, facial attraction, althletism (contact sports), a hobby (music), and a lucrative job that lets you travel
/r/seduction05/06/26 01:23 PM
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I'm looking at my list, my body count was 10 when covid happened, and now I'm at 139, so 129 in 6 years. But the girls I had the threesome with were #44 & #47, so yeah almost 100 in 4, years
/r/seduction05/06/26 01:13 PM
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My God you have a lot of shit to fix with yourself. Just reading your post made me feel so fucking sad for you. The fact that your friend acts alpha around you is because you bring it out of him. He isn't threatened by your presence and does not value your friendship. You need to increase your value. You've already lost it with this social group. I suggest you cut all these people out. Take the time to reflect on why you are being mogged and improve your value. Once that is fixed finding new fri…
/r/seduction02/06/26 10:20 AM
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Already memorised the National Anthem when I was 12. All other countries are run by little girls
/r/seduction02/06/26 04:15 AM
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Not much loss if she's 34F. It's kind of funny that you had sex on the 3rd date but not 4th. For me once a partner is sexual, all meetings following are at my house, with the occasional going out to eat
/r/seduction27/05/26 11:30 PM
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What was the reason she didn't get married at a younger age? Has she been with many men before? Could she possibly be using you as leverage for a visa? Usually good women settle with men from their own country
/r/seduction26/05/26 06:35 AM
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We're you ever curious about her past? Late 20s means some things may have happened before you met
/r/seduction25/05/26 08:54 PM
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Yeah but it's a matter of finding that type of woman in the first place
/r/seduction25/05/26 11:41 AM
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Nice, where was she from and how old was she?
/r/seduction25/05/26 11:40 AM
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What quality about her made you change? I'm currently raking up bodies, now at 138.. and I'm thinking of going celibate for a year
/r/seduction24/05/26 07:18 PM
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Where are you located? A lot of women globally have come directly to my airbnb, and sometimes not even for dinner, just drinks/dessert
/r/seduction21/05/26 10:24 PM
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You giving girls pickles and eggs when you bring them back? Legend
/r/seduction18/05/26 09:37 PM
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I would immediately be annoyed that you asked me a self sabotaging question, and would reply with 'No comment'
/r/seduction08/05/26 05:40 PM
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It's also really obvious if you are forcing it, so find the right music for you. If you're not dacing at home alone with music playing then don't do it at the club. But I'm open to be proven wrong if people think unnatural dancing works
/r/seduction07/05/26 06:11 PM
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White European women tend to be less superficial
/r/seduction29/04/26 06:07 AM
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She was not
/r/seduction21/04/26 10:54 AM
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6ft tall Dutch girl with long curly hair. Matched on the app and she came straight to my house and we had sex. Bumped into her on the street once after when I was with a friend but never saw her after
/r/seduction21/04/26 09:26 AM
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Unless she doesn't hesitate and she's willing to sneak into your house. I'd say just go for the hotel
/r/seduction20/04/26 04:02 AM
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DM me your dating profile pics and I'll give you some advice
/r/seduction14/04/26 04:18 AM
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You're focused too much on one girl
/r/seduction29/03/26 08:59 AM
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Setting up the date would incline her to give the number. If she doesn't then you need to ignore her and move on. You're having one-itis right now
/r/seduction29/03/26 01:35 AM
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You set the date before moving from hinge to WhatsApp
/r/seduction28/03/26 11:28 AM
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Are you a guy yourself? What is your success with not being mysterious? How many women have you slept with, or successful relationships have you had Depending on your criteria of success
/r/seduction26/03/26 12:05 PM
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I can get laid in my home city, but traveling gives options and variety. I like alternating between ethnicities
/r/seduction04/03/26 01:06 PM
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I concur the point that some women claim they want something serious yet have casual sex that has happened plenty of times. What I am asking is what do you put on your own profile in order to get the biggest ROI? You would have to select at least one option
/r/seduction01/03/26 03:54 PM
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I don't bother kissing in public. I invite her to my place and take it from there
/r/seduction28/02/26 06:03 PM
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He can focus on hooking up if he wants to
/r/seduction17/01/26 05:03 AM
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Finish dinner, have dessert on the couch. No TV but make sure the music is on, and the lights are dim. While talking over dessert reach your hand out and start making out with her. You don't really need to escalate much before this point. Although you do need to be comfortable throughout the night and by doing so she'll feel comfortable as well
/r/seduction16/01/26 11:31 AM
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I have no problems lining up dates with the apps. My struggle is meeting women in real life outside of daygame. I feel like the bars don't work at all, especially in Europe
/r/seduction13/12/25 11:30 AM
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I'm lucky height wise and I've got good pictures displaying my hobbies
/r/seduction13/12/25 12:23 AM
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You should have escalated for sex on the first date. Do not do a second date outside but invite her over for dinner or drinks at your place. Never ever ask a woman to pay for a date. If you're frugal like I am, just keep your dates cheap like drinks at a bar only or coffee
/r/seduction13/12/25 12:20 AM
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I don't say anything when I like pictures, I just give them a like and if its a match I take it from there. I go low effort. 'Hey there how's it going'. Over the years I've noticed most conversations are the same to the point I have a clipboard of what to reply for everything a girl says. I won't tell you what I type specifically but I've got an opener, and a second question after the opener, something teasing about what she possibly does for work since they mostly talk about that eventually. So…
/r/seduction11/12/25 07:08 AM
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Depends. If she cancels early, and offers another day to reschedule. Easy to forgive. If she cancels at the last moment, doesn't offer to reschedule, but the pursuit rekindles, then it comes down to her having to provide value
/r/seduction01/12/25 09:16 PM
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I'm talking about casual sex
/r/seduction29/11/25 07:15 PM
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I do give them a second chance but they end up on the end of the wait list. I give her space by prioritising the rest of my roster. Also if she flakes on a date, the next potential meet up would be less of an initiative. For example if we were to meet for drinks at a bar before, she would now have to meet at my house directly. There should be some sort of penalty for wasting your time prior
/r/seduction29/11/25 07:03 PM
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Ah fair! I left LATAM in July, but will probably return at some point next year for a bit
/r/seduction12/11/25 07:44 PM
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You need to think about the competition because women are only going to have sex with the best, you need to be the best in the area
/r/seduction12/11/25 06:03 PM
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What up player. I have to say to some degree I still get annoyed when women talk about other men in front of me, maybe something I have to learn to navigate better. Hope you're doing well man. Still in South America?
/r/seduction12/11/25 06:00 PM
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I'm trying to keep this profile Anonymous, so I'll just describe it to you. I play music and sports. All my photos are high quality of me on stage or playing sports showing my muscles. And 6ft1
/r/seduction12/11/25 05:57 PM
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Will do that at some point for sure
/r/seduction10/11/25 04:28 AM
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It works if it's been set up right, meaning putting you in the top percentile. I still daygame and that's always a thrill when it happens
/r/seduction09/11/25 08:08 PM
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Of course, you can only do what you can. You've asked women and they've said your pictures are decent, yet you don't get matches.. they are just being nice. You have to see what the competition is to see where you stand
/r/seduction09/11/25 08:06 PM
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Your looks, height, quality of yours pictures and hobbies matter. I also travel extensively so these are lays from around the world
/r/seduction09/11/25 07:17 PM
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Welcome brother. Glad I went through that earlier in life but still, welcome
/r/seduction05/11/25 06:28 PM
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I don't try to make flirting obvious, snipy comments and eye contact is what I do
/r/seduction22/10/25 06:56 PM
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I don't kiss until the apartment. It's just not as classy to be making out with a girl in the bar I feel. I create tension through conversation, I touch her hands and our legs touch if we're close. Invite her back and the pretty much full gear after that
/r/seduction22/10/25 03:57 PM
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If the conversation goes to your work you gotta paint the picture in a much more interesting way.. "I work with sharp blades" or some bullshit, you think of something cool. Most jobs are boring and require lots of numbers or emails so don't let that hold you back
/r/seduction20/10/25 12:23 PM
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I agree with you on the fact that women will sleep with you wherever you are, but there has to be things to say to play it cool, much like the many phrases I've learned through trial and error that work to let's say, get a girl back to your place. But I could also be direct and say let's go to your place and take the answer for what it is
/r/seduction18/10/25 07:20 PM
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Tips on coming across safe? Just be direct or is there a better way to put it?
/r/seduction01/10/25 09:33 PM
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My problem isn't conversation it's getting matches. Other than my kinks I've only bio is very vanilla
/r/seduction01/10/25 07:58 PM
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For some reason I don't get that many matched on feeld compared to other apps. Maybe I gotta write a longer bio or something
/r/seduction11/08/25 05:06 AM
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I travel way too much. I'm not in one place for more than a month unfortunately
/r/seduction11/08/25 01:39 AM
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Not by blood haha, but through marriage
/r/seduction11/08/25 12:54 AM
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I do not, but I'm going to meet an old fling in a few weeks and she's pretty open
/r/seduction11/08/25 12:53 AM
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I've tried getting the girl to take the lead but they never get around to it successfully. They are too picky and take forever to get to the point when texting other women. I almost had a 2nd threesome this year but it didn't work out when I shared the girls pictures with each other.. turns out they were related.. Maybe there is a girl out there that's more efficient but I haven't met her yet
/r/seduction11/08/25 12:26 AM
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Being friends with a woman to try and get with her friends is the biggest waste of time. Juice ain't worth the squeeze
/r/seduction10/07/25 06:11 PM
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Next time bring a taser
/r/seduction26/06/25 03:19 PM
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Cold approaching is not a sin. You can find good women who would be grateful that you are not trying to have sex with them before marriage
/r/seduction05/06/25 01:48 PM
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Age is important, I can't take older women seriously. But older men might take you seriously. Withhold sex until marriage. That's your safety net until he truly commits. If that's not what you believe in then just enjoy life for what it is, not everyone is entitled to a soulmate or someone that would take them 'seriously'
/r/seduction29/05/25 10:02 PM
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I always invite them to mine. And I do it in safer countries/cities/areas. That being said, you can always get robbed after a date
/r/seduction29/05/25 09:06 PM
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Great post man. I only have about 3 to 4 free evenings a night so I always prioritise girls that come straight to my house for dinner. I rarely end up on coffee dates because I don't have the time but I should try the coffee to dinner approach
/r/seduction29/05/25 08:53 PM
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I'm brown, but I'm also tall. Go through my post history
/r/seduction28/05/25 07:15 PM
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Straight to your house. Dinner is a little more enticing than just drinks. I personally would never mention a movie. I think it kills the vibe. Better to say music
/r/seduction28/05/25 10:29 AM
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She had better options
/r/seduction01/05/25 09:46 PM
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Thank you man
/r/seduction17/04/25 01:22 AM
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Cheers man, just something I wanted to express
/r/seduction17/04/25 01:22 AM
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Ask for a threesome, if she agrees it’ll spice things up, and if she can get into that lifestyle then you can keep her and look for girls for the threesome. If she doesn’t agree she’ll leave you and you can be on your way to becoming a PUA master
/r/seduction16/04/25 02:30 PM
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Go through my post history, I don’t really keep count on rejections but you’ll see my success stories instead. I do play the numbers game
/r/seduction15/04/25 01:36 PM
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Whether or not she ‘seems’ to be into me I always ask her to come to my place to ‘listen to music’ or for ‘drinks’. There were times when dates didn’t seem to go well - the girl was unresponsive to my question or didn’t seem that into me but still went back to mine for sex. Just pull the trigger and embrace the outcome, whether it’s rejection or not. The more you do it the better you’ll get
/r/seduction15/04/25 02:54 AM
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Never start something with a woman planting the seed in her mind that you’re gay. Unless you are gay then you’re being honest
/r/seduction11/04/25 03:41 PM
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I’m not white or American..
/r/seduction10/04/25 05:02 PM
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Only 15% of my lays are from day game/real life interactions
/r/seduction10/04/25 04:24 PM
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I use protection 90% of the time and I get tested at least twice a year. Never got STDs
/r/seduction10/04/25 04:24 PM
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21 never looked back
/r/seduction10/04/25 04:09 PM
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Why did you delete your long comment about giving girls you haven’t slept with your Netflix password?
/r/seduction09/02/25 12:00 AM
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Thanks, you’re right I did all of that
/r/seduction08/02/25 11:56 PM
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Maybe she’s donating the money to kids with cancer what ever it is, I don’t want her to sex with me for money, I want her to have sex with me, because it’s me.
/r/seduction08/02/25 06:15 PM
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Why because I don’t pay for sex?
/r/seduction08/02/25 06:10 PM
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If I paid her cash for sex, she could then spend that money on another man. But since I’m spending it on other companies, she can only enjoy the time or experience. Besides, if you pay for sex, sex is guaranteed, if you pay for anything else a woman can still deny you sex
/r/seduction08/02/25 06:07 PM
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Like once every two weeks mostly just to send nudes
/r/seduction08/02/25 06:04 PM
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I wasn’t in the country when we texted occasionally for a few months
/r/seduction08/02/25 06:02 PM
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You need to become sexually attractive. Change the things you can control, muscles, passion, hobbies and make sure they are displayed with high quality images on your dating profile. I’d recommend cold approaching if you’re starting out though. That’s how I started
/r/seduction08/02/25 05:40 PM
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For you maybe they’re coming straight to my place
/r/seduction08/02/25 04:57 PM
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So as charity a hot girl would have sex with me to validate me? I might have missed the point you were trying to make
/r/seduction08/02/25 04:50 PM
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Cheers man, I agree. I do my best to be a gentleman, pay for dates, taxis etc, but after that, nothing is owed. Not even a second sexual encounter
/r/seduction08/02/25 04:14 PM
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Hahahhahaha
/r/seduction08/02/25 04:13 PM
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The latter would give me more validation as she is the better looking girl, but in reality why would she give me free sex if she sees me as a 4/10? There are still plenty of women I swipe left on in dating apps, because I know there’s no way I’d be able to get hard for them, or I’d be too embarrassed to meet them at the front of the apartment complex (the nice security guard greets all the women I bang).
/r/seduction08/02/25 04:13 PM
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The only thing I spent on her before having sex was a 5 dollar cab ride for her to get to my place, and I used my app to bring her to my apartment. After that, I cooked a small dinner and got her another 5 dollar cab ride home
/r/seduction08/02/25 04:04 PM
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You’re right, she’s not that memorable, but despite that, this is still a woman I’ve had sex with and it’s not like me to just ghost someone but it seems I need to do this
/r/seduction08/02/25 04:01 PM
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Yes, I make sure their desire to have sex is with my physical attributes or personality. I also have a good logistics which is key
/r/seduction08/02/25 03:05 PM
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Yeah but I’ve been with about 10 women from LATAM so far, I’ve provided other things like meals but shoes? That’s a whole other thing. At least at a restaurant she’s spending time with me. This is the first chick to ask me this but I’ll see if other girls do the same
/r/seduction08/02/25 02:54 PM
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Provider testing that’s interesting. I’ve had instances with women doing this before we meet which I’ve always declined but this is the first time it’s happened after sex
/r/seduction08/02/25 02:39 PM
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Bro you made a whole post on 1 match lol? I’m currently in LATAM I speak very basic Spanish I use that as an excuse to have girls come straight to my house. It’s to avoid the hassle of using a translator in public
/r/seduction29/01/25 08:57 PM
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I go from dating app to WhatsApp, and then invite them to meet at my place. Sometimes the reason is to ‘listen to music’, or ‘eat dinner’, I’m sober for now but if I wasn’t I’d say ‘I’m making cocktails come join me’. Works well with women who don’t live alone. That being said she still needs to be attracted sexually to your profile
/r/seduction25/01/25 09:14 PM
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I do have a playboy profile, and yes they are horny no doubt
/r/seduction25/01/25 07:59 PM
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My issue with Instagram is a lot of times women follow each other and when she sees you follow 20 other of her friends that might put her off. At least with the number it created the illusion that she’s the only one you’re working on
/r/seduction25/01/25 07:58 PM
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Lol bro where I am now women come straight to my house for a date. Out of 7 women 3 declined the invitation but 4 accepted. But all of them gave me their number after a few lines of text. If she’s attracted her guard will be down
/r/seduction25/01/25 07:54 PM
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What up player! Still in LATAM? I’ve been on a serious diet of as little carbs as possible and no alcohol, I’m basically a terrible date. I hate eating with girls I haven’t slept with. I used to tell them to come over for a drink and music but now it’s just music lol. Of course sparkling water is ready. Any other ideas for getting them over without implying sex?
/r/seduction21/01/25 11:05 AM
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Yeah and with bumble if you set your vpn to Nigeria and pay on your computer it costs nothing
/r/seduction18/01/25 08:15 PM
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“Would you like to listen to some music?” “Where?” “Over at my place” Then you’ll get your answer. Take note there are plenty of women on dating apps that will go straight to a man’s apartment without a first date
/r/seduction18/01/25 07:29 PM
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Agree on tinder’s boost it’s ridiculous. Bumble’s boost is far cheaper
/r/seduction18/01/25 01:55 PM
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There’s actually codes online for way cheaper than that from some game sites
/r/seduction18/01/25 01:54 PM
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Platinum or gold?
/r/seduction18/01/25 01:43 PM
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Cheers man
/r/seduction18/01/25 01:10 PM
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Yeah I travel a ton. I’ll get a one month hinge subscription if I know I’m going to be is a 1st world English speaking/European city
/r/seduction18/01/25 12:19 PM
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Bumble. I’m in LATAM not sure what else I could use
/r/seduction18/01/25 12:17 PM
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Thanks man. Hinge is great, but not for LATAM unfortunately as not a lot of people use it here
/r/seduction18/01/25 12:16 PM
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Thanks for the comment man, I’m already doing decent with gold, if platinum is better than I’ll consider giving it a shot
/r/seduction18/01/25 12:16 PM
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Cheers having the best comment on this thread. I’ve never used badoo before, for some reason I always equated it as a trashy app from Asia but I never realised it was the go to for hookups in Europe. Something I’m gonna have to try in the future. My matches on tinder are pretty decent. I’ve used gold before and it’s just easier to sieve through the matches that way. So thanks, you’ve answered my question, I’ll stick to gold
/r/seduction18/01/25 12:15 PM
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I play rugby and music. So no selfies all pictures of me in ‘action’. Also I’m 6ft1
/r/seduction18/01/25 12:01 PM
1

I still use dating apps because it’s extremely easy. 70/85 lays I’ve gotten were from online apps. The remaining 15 women were from cold approaches. I love daygaming and that’s where I meet the most quality and the relationships I have are the most meaningful. However you’re approaching women that are married, not single, not interested, to find a few women that reciprocate. I love daygaming and will never stop doing it but apps are so much easier for casual sex
/r/seduction18/01/25 07:54 AM
1

Right but what year was this? Or was it in discount?
/r/seduction18/01/25 07:29 AM
6

Get that and bumble
/r/seduction18/01/25 07:26 AM
16

Hinge is the best for 1st world English speaking/ European cities. Come to LATAM and you run out of profiles in less than a day. While I would never use tinder in a 1st word city, it surprisingly is really good for getting laid in the third world
/r/seduction18/01/25 07:23 AM
78

Yeah but I’m a whore
/r/seduction18/01/25 07:22 AM
1

Hinge is the best for 1st world English speaking/ European cities. Come to LATAM and you run out of profiles in less than a day. While I would never use tinder in a 1st word city, it surprisingly is really good for getting laid in the third world
/r/seduction18/01/25 07:21 AM
1

Fair man, currently in LATAM actually. Btw where did you get platinum at 50 for the year?
/r/seduction18/01/25 07:19 AM
1

Cheers man. I’ve only met virgins through cold approach but that’s probably because I’m pretty direct to the point online, hence I get a lot of chicks who just come over to my place. As for cost, tinder isn’t even that expensive. If you go online and look for codes there’s 6 months worth of gold and platinum for approximately 30 usd and 80 usd respectively
/r/seduction18/01/25 07:17 AM
19

Going outside may increase quality but not quantity
/r/seduction18/01/25 06:49 AM
-1

About 70/85 lays so far
/r/seduction18/01/25 06:45 AM
-22

I wouldn’t say that. I get laid quite often from dating apps
/r/seduction18/01/25 06:32 AM
14

If you see my post history I’m well versed in cold approaches but the net I cast is wide
/r/seduction18/01/25 06:25 AM
1

Sure, something vigorous
/r/seduction10/12/24 11:24 PM
8

You should check out boxing chess
/r/seduction10/12/24 09:43 AM
48

All males should play sports
/r/seduction10/12/24 09:32 AM
3

You also need to be comfortable with silence. Which is a great opportunity to maintain eye contact and create tension. One simple topic I bring up is her family. Have her talk about her parents, siblings etc
/r/seduction07/12/24 03:45 AM
2

Work on your pictures. If you’re ripped that helps. Sports activities etc
/r/seduction04/12/24 03:44 AM
1

Only went to Athens, loved it
/r/seduction02/12/24 04:48 PM
1

Haha in the end I didn’t. Went to Greece and it was perfect
/r/seduction02/12/24 04:47 AM
5

Yeah you could get an account with both of you and be direct about what you’re looking for in the bio. Or you could use separate accounts and be direct in your bio. I personally use my own account but I’m not direct with my intention until we match. I usually bring it up after a couple messages have been exchanged with ‘My girl and I think you’re cute’. And see how they respond from there
/r/seduction29/11/24 02:42 PM
8

Dating apps worked for me
/r/seduction29/11/24 01:34 PM
1

A big issue I have is getting with most of the music being played
/r/seduction29/11/24 12:41 PM
1

Lucky you, I never had that
/r/seduction29/11/24 12:34 PM
1

I’d be fine with time signatures
/r/seduction29/11/24 12:34 PM
-2

Actually dude I just watched the first video for merengue and the guy made it look gay as hell. I’ve seen black guys dance Latin and not make it look that gay. Are there any other examples perhaps? I’ll look in the mean time
/r/seduction28/11/24 12:14 PM
2

Cheers for this man, I’m gonna give it a shot. Going to LATAM next year so will have a chance to get a tutor
/r/seduction28/11/24 10:52 AM
1

Thanks for the tip
/r/seduction28/11/24 09:06 AM
2

A big part for me is also the fact that I the most of the music
/r/seduction28/11/24 03:41 AM
2

I might try salsa. But if it’s not my thing then it just isn’t. I play multiple instruments, but just could never get into dancing
/r/seduction28/11/24 03:41 AM
2

Cheers man thanks for the insight
/r/seduction27/11/24 07:46 PM
1

Definitely a turn off for them if you tried speaking Spanish
/r/seduction23/11/24 03:55 PM
1

Yeah I’ve been with Spanish girls outside Spain and they’re all great. Problem comes when you’re in Spain and they barely speak English. I’ve never been able to sleep with a girl I couldn’t have a proper conversation with
/r/seduction23/11/24 01:34 PM
-1

Seduction is to prevent you from fucking up with a girl that already likes you
/r/seduction23/11/24 01:32 PM
11

I’m talking about 1 drink at the bar. Not dinners
/r/seduction22/11/24 10:57 PM
6

Ive gone on dates with them
/r/seduction22/11/24 10:07 PM
23

Go for as many dates as possible, keep all of them short and cheap, and pay the bill. If a woman starts talking about another guy be bold and upfront and say this isn’t a conversation you want to continue and change the topic. You’d be surprised how much respect you’d garner from that move. And if the dates go bad, they were short and cheap anyway so it didn’t matter
/r/seduction22/11/24 09:04 PM
5

Honestly women with kids are the best. They are always a fun night because as you said, they know what they want. I’ve never gone on a date with a milf and not gotten laid. The problem is women in the same age range without kids. They’ve got a ticking clock and it could really go either way when it comes to sex on the first date
/r/seduction22/11/24 08:19 PM
1

You’re the guy spending money while other dudes are banging her quicker for almost nothing. You need to show that you’ll only be interested in her if she puts in the work. She needs to prove herself
/r/seduction22/11/24 04:45 PM
1

You’re missing the point here. The venue is not the fun. YOU are the fun. If the date was in an elevator you need to be so entertaining that it wouldn’t matter the location. You can do all the other stuff like mini golf or whatever after you’ve had sex, but if you invest too much before that it doesn’t come across well
/r/seduction22/11/24 03:29 PM
0

I kinda look Greek so I think I’ll be fine
/r/seduction22/11/24 07:27 AM
1

How are the girls there? I’m presuming they prefer a man who lives in Georgia?
/r/seduction21/11/24 10:52 PM
1

Brown actually.. so I’m fighting uphill
/r/seduction21/11/24 08:39 PM
1

Fair enough man, decided I’ll be going to Greece. Since Romania is a little cold now but that country is on my list
/r/seduction21/11/24 06:57 PM
1

Done it multiple times but more during COVID when it was much more acceptable
/r/seduction21/11/24 04:57 PM
1

It’s happened plenty of times for me. If she wants to have sex with you, you wont need much time or many dates
/r/seduction21/11/24 04:43 PM
2

Yeah with the cold your only option is to go to bars really. I’ve done first date dinners before but would probably never do them again. It’s too formal and too much to give to a stranger
/r/seduction21/11/24 04:07 PM
21

Haha my bad man didn’t mean to come across rude Speakeasy cocktail bars Coffee in the afternoon, next date is dinner at your home Park bench - bring some drinks or snacks Make sure the dates allow you to have conversations No movies, no dinners
/r/seduction21/11/24 03:59 PM
31

No to movies and the comedy club. You want to be the entertainment not somebody telling 9/11 jokes at an open mic
/r/seduction21/11/24 02:48 PM
2

Fair point man
/r/seduction21/11/24 01:57 PM
3

Fair enough, the culture is very different
/r/seduction21/11/24 12:05 PM
1

Any experience in this for Morocco or from other places?
/r/seduction21/11/24 12:01 PM
2

Cheers man. I’m thinking Casablanca due to the population size, more the 3 million hence there’d be a higher chance to meet girls. Rabat is a lot smaller with 500k but Tangier seems decent with close to a million. Did you have any issues with apartment security bringing girls back?
/r/seduction21/11/24 11:49 AM
3

That’s a fair point. The reason I don’t shrug a country off just because it’s Muslim is because you can get laid in Indonesia really easily, especially in the big cities even though it’s a Muslim conservative country. Hence the post to ask if anyone who has visited Morocco before and tried dating
/r/seduction21/11/24 11:28 AM
4

Of the 80+ women I’ve been with only about 7 of them are truly attractive trophy woman to have. That being said… the hottest girl I’ve ever been with came to my house the first date (we were going to go to the park but it began to rain) and the second hottest girl came to my house after we spent an hour in the park. Both instances during covid so that definitely played a big role
/r/seduction20/11/24 05:31 PM
1

I don’t live in NL anymore but I used to daygame in The Hague quite a bit. The city centre is perfect, although I met my gf then at the Rotterdam train station so it really doesn’t matter where you do it
/r/seduction20/11/24 04:04 PM
1

Sure thing man
/r/seduction20/11/24 03:10 PM
1

How was Africa interesting? I find it’s easier with expat women in 3rd world countries although it’s easy to blow a place out like that quick. I’d do better in South America if I spoke Spanish. To me Europe is still Mecca
/r/seduction20/11/24 12:27 PM
1

Nice if the bedroom is separate from the living room, then you can chill at the living room and just take it easy for the first 1 hour. Make sure she has a drink it doesn’t have to be alcoholic. Get to know her. Ask personal questions about her family and siblings, try and figure out what she’s about and lead the conversation, and you’ll also have a chance to talk about yourself. You do not have to bring up and sexual topics. You create sexual tension solely by maintaining eye contact during you…
/r/seduction20/11/24 12:25 PM
1

Yeah that’s totally fine
/r/seduction20/11/24 12:05 PM
1

I wouldn’t mind as long as it’s discrete, definitely do not want to be doing it at a restaurant or even a bar when we’re not situated well
/r/seduction20/11/24 11:07 AM
3

Seems adolescent to me.. definitely used to go for it when I was in uni but not anymore. I also like the contrast in not showing any public display of affection but fucking each other’s brains out in private
/r/seduction20/11/24 10:53 AM
3

Bumble Hinge and tinder works best for me in that order
/r/seduction20/11/24 10:51 AM
1

It’s hard, most women don’t entertain you the moment they know you’re traveling so my options get cut down. I’m honest anyway regardless I’ve been nomadic literally on all continents except Africa
/r/seduction20/11/24 10:47 AM
4

I’m still figuring that out to be honest. Nothing crazy has ever happened to my life and non of my family have gone as crazy as me
/r/seduction20/11/24 10:44 AM
2

Nah she wasn’t shy, she was a young corporate lady and said no pretty firm and nonchalantly. But I also reacted with a poker face so I believe it was test I had passed with her
/r/seduction20/11/24 10:41 AM
12

This was straight out of university and around the time I started my first job where I didn’t have that many responsibilities. I keep texting to the bare minimum to save time and to come across a little mysterious. I then keep dates to as little time as possible, about an hour or a little more before inviting them home
/r/seduction20/11/24 10:37 AM
17

Low vibrational women need loving too
/r/seduction20/11/24 10:12 AM
4

That’s actually Interesting
/r/seduction20/11/24 05:33 AM
1

Haha nah, but I would like some community because I know I’ve got plenty to learn, and would gladly share any tips I have hence I’m open to DMs
/r/seduction20/11/24 01:43 AM
2

Cheers man
/r/seduction20/11/24 01:33 AM
90

For starters, this was in 2021/2022 when COVID forced lots of public Places to be closed. Girls were primed to going to a stranger’s house for dates. Also I lived in a place where housing was expensive and most young adults lived with their parents. For them to come across a guy who had his own place was rare. I can only imagine they were used to going on dates knowing they wouldn’t get fucked at the end. I did an experiment once for a whole week where every girl I was talking to on a dating app…
/r/seduction20/11/24 01:22 AM
1

We’re on the same page. If coffee goes well then dinner at my place. Damn if I ever run into that situation where a girl meets someone she knows and then dilutes our personal date to a group thing I would just leave. Unless it’s her Dad then I’d be respectful and let him join lol
/r/seduction20/11/24 01:03 AM
1

Even two spots to me feels like overkill (such a romantic aren’t I hahaha). I can’t do more than 1 drink, I mean I could but I really don’t want to. I just don’t have the gene to enjoy alcohol. And I’ve been in scenarios where I’ve definitely made some mistakes with planning. Recently I’ve advanced financially and have gone on a bunch of dinner dates but I’m gonna dial it back to just drinks or coffee in the afternoon. And yeah bummer to hear about hanging out with that chicks sister and BF. Was…
/r/seduction20/11/24 12:52 AM
26

I’m 6ft1, play sports and music, which I relay with high quality pictures on my dating apps, so I use these to my advantage. I’m currently in Spain and there are plenty of guys around who are better looking facially. I can only play with the cards I have
/r/seduction20/11/24 12:46 AM
3

That’s true man. I seems like I have lost touch with what those mannerisms are. What throws me off is the successes too since when I usually extend the invitation, I have no idea where it’s going to go since the dates go well 99% of the time - decent conversation etc. To be honest getting laid was also a lot easier during COVID. I tend to also think older women are less likely to have sex on the first date since they’ve already played the field and are looking for something more meaningful but l…
/r/seduction20/11/24 12:38 AM
2

I’m all up for fucking til 3am but man I hate eating before I have sex. My ideal situation would be one drink at 8, and then 9 head back to my place to relax and chat, have another drink or dessert before I initiate. Last thing I want to do is meet a girl at 6 only for her to say she’s going home at 11
/r/seduction20/11/24 12:32 AM
11

I started at 22, at 25 I’d say you still have plenty of time. Better now than never. Go cold approach and feel the burn of rejection. It’ll build you. DM me if you need someone to talk to
/r/seduction20/11/24 12:05 AM
2

Great analogy, thanks for that. However, if there was a way to tell this before going on the date, or during the date without killing all attraction by bringing up the topic of sex
/r/seduction19/11/24 11:53 PM
1

What time do you start your dates? 3 hours for a date starting at 8 ends at 11, and if it’s a weekday (even a weekend sometimes) that’s difficult to get her home since there’s the burden of going to work the next day
/r/seduction19/11/24 11:41 PM
10

It’s a mix between listening to advice from dating coaches and my own life experience. I totally understand what you’re saying with the conflicting advice. I’ve tried most things and failed a lot. Sometimes I know exactly what I’ve done wrong and it’s left a bad impression. Like meeting a girl for a first date and not giving her a hug. Letting her steer the conversation (which will usually end up into topics that will eventually cockblock you) etc One thing to take into account is that dating is…
/r/seduction19/11/24 11:38 PM
1

Wait I messed those numbers up, 65 sex on first dates, and the rest (17) sex on second dates onwards
/r/seduction19/11/24 11:30 PM
12

Eye contact, don’t say things to overly please her, keep the emotions subtle and neutral, stoic
/r/seduction19/11/24 11:23 PM
14

That’s the thing, finding out if they want to have sex. I always keep things tense and flirtatious but I never bring up anything sexual during the date as I feel the overt suggestion would kill everything
/r/seduction19/11/24 11:04 PM
5

I’ll be honest I don’t really like kissing girls in public especially on the first date. No problem touching her hands or earrings/jewellery. I agree with the calibration thing, and in most cases it’s pretty straight forward, date goes decent, and I blankly ask if she’d like to listen to some music at my place. I’ve never really been able to figure if any part of a date would result in a yes or no to my invitation
/r/seduction19/11/24 10:49 PM
8

That’s a good point
/r/seduction19/11/24 10:42 PM
10

Fair enough man, it’s just something I’ve been thinking about. I know I have issues and there’s definitely a void im trying to fill
/r/seduction19/11/24 10:38 PM
35

I have issues hahaha. Late bloomer being one of them. I’ve also been nomadic for the last 3 years. Longest LTR I’ve had was for 2 years
/r/seduction19/11/24 10:25 PM
16

The number 65/82, 65 are sex on the first date and the remaining 17 are sex from the 2nd date onwards. I have no idea what the number of actual dates I’ve been on, but I’m guessing it’s at least 300-400.. so not sure if that’s a good ratio
/r/seduction19/11/24 10:08 PM
77

Thanks man, and yeah I figured there’s no way to know. I should probably add that of the 65 maybe 15 of them were girls that came straight to my house without going on a date. But then again there’s girls who’ve come straight to my house and not have sex lol
/r/seduction19/11/24 10:04 PM
20

Bro do 60 year old women put out?
/r/seduction19/11/24 09:40 PM
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