I began writing this text a few days before I slept with girl 100, pondering what I would say. It's been an interesting journey from losing my virginity 8 years ago when I was 22 to where I am now.

Here are the stats: Across 35 nationalities, White (33), East Asian (24), Latina (21), South Asian (12), North African (2), Mixed (8)

Never paid for sex, but I've payed for everything else; drinks, dinners, taxis, hotels, vacations etc. 'You pay either way' is a common phrase I hear, but what’s important to know is that anyone of these women could have rejected me at any point of the encounter (which has happened many times with other women) but did not.

Growing up I never got any attention from the women I wanted. Too timid and lacking charisma despite playing contact sports, being 6ft1 from the age of 17 onwards. Before getting laid I would walk down the street and have women make eye contact with me and I used to think to myself "what's the point of even looking at these women it's not like I can just go up to them and start a conversation". All this changed when I turned 22 and a friend came to visit me. We walked past a book store and it had the book 'The Game' by Niel Strauss and my buddy bought it for me. Looking back I realised the book was very entertaining, but could not apply to my life EXCEPT FOR ONE ASPECT: daygame.

Daygame made me who I am today. I still remember my first approach at a bus stop. Got a quick polite blowout and my hands were trembling. But that same day I approached another woman and our conversation went so deep she started showing me pictures on her phone from her travels and her family. That's when I realised this worked. I could walk up to a woman and get something going.

Fast forward 3 years, pre COVID, I'd been with 10 women. Most of which I've met through daygame or in real life, with a couple of girls from dating apps.

The next big shift was when COVID happened. I moved out to a studio apartment in the city and started using dating apps more. The country I was in closed all bars, restaurants and schools but we were allowed to go out to parks. I would invite my dates to meet me in the late afternoons in the parks and we'd drink rhubarb vodka I'd make myself, and then I'd bring them home. In a span of 5 months my body count went from 10 to 23. One vital factor was that my dating app pictures were golden. It displayed all my hobbies of playing live music as well as high quality photos of me in action while playing contact sports. There was a photographer that would come to the games and this guy has no idea how much I owe him.

The next big shift is leaving the city to move back into my parents place. I had a ton of matches but no logistics which is a fucking pillar of seduction. I would go on dates in hopes the girl would be able to bring me back to hers. In the spirit of COVID I brought wine to the park. So many girls I couldn't pull because they were turned off by the fact I lived with my parents. It wasn't until I met an American lady (my American flag no less) who was married but near divorce from her husband that suggested we get a hotel. I offered to set something up the following week and she replied 'uhm next week?? How about now??'. Hence I obtained a new approach. Go on dates with girls in the park and then ask if they would like to join me in a cheap hotel (I never mentioned it being cheap but they knew it was going to be). Out of approximately 40 dates in various parks, 5 agreed to go to a hotel with me. 2 weeks before I find my own place and move out of my parent's, I finally find a lady who has her own place and she takes me home. At this point my body count is 29.

In June of 2021 I move a street down from my parents and for the next 10 months I've got a place of my own. This is the next phase where I realised, in certain countries especially when it's common for people to not move out of their parent's place (either due to high cost of living or culture) women are more than willing to meet you on the first date at your place either for drinks or dinner. "I won't go over to your place to have sex" would be her response to my invite. "We don't have to do anything we don't want to" would be my reply. Works like a charm and they come over and have sex anyway.. my body count is now 48.

The job I had worked required me to travel to remote areas away from society for weeks at a time. It was decent money but I abstained from sex. At this point I also became a nomad. Since my work required me to travel for more than half a year there was no point paying rent, so I packed my life into a suitcase and traveled the world in-between jobs. From 2022 to now I've been to many countries in SEA, LATAM, other parts of Asia and the EU. Quite a few times I've tried to get with women I meet online and have them host me at their place. Easier for women in remote towns but was impossible for me in NYC.

I'm now in LATAM and girl 100 (22yo from Brazil, in her final year of studying medicine) just left my place. She really enjoyed the steak and veggies.

100 girls is a large number to majority of mankind but there are guys with 700 lays. Sometimes I'll see a family with young kids and its something that I think I would desire. Other times I'm on a dating app and lusting over a girl I just matched with, impatiently waiting to bang her. Let's see what the future could possibly hold.

Thai-Rhone