Over the past 8 years of dating, I (M30) have had multiple casual sexual encounters on the first date (65/82 women). One thing I still haven’t figured out is how to tell if a girl would have sex with you on the first date. Most of the dates things go well and I bring the girl home. But once in Australia a girl looked annoyed when she found out I was just there traveling for a few days and not a local, and then agreed to come to my apartment 20 minutes later. Another time I had a French girl not listen to any of my suggestions during a date (like to sit next to me etc), but then also agree to come back to mine at the end of the date.

Wondering what other people’s experiences are, and how I should take it moving forward. I feel like there isn’t a way to tell and it’s a bunch of factors from attraction to how the girl is feeling regardless of how the date went.

If I had a crystal ball to know I wouldn’t be getting laid from a date, I wouldn’t go. But I think the only thing now is to just keep going and see how things turn out