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Dunno, I'm pretty happy that the women in my life aren't oppressed, tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:31 AM
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Negative IQ comment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:28 AM
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If those kids could read, they would be very upset
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:27 AM
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It's weird. It all seems to be for the glory of other men. I have observed this in myself and many other dudes when I was 20. Seems to fade more and more, I'm 30 now and I see it less and less. But I am 100% convinced that this is definitely a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:01 PM
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women are kept from jobs they want, equal pay Dunno how many times this has to be empirically disproven for people to stop saying it adequate healthcare Moot: (young) women pay more for healthcare but they also visit the doctor more often and use more services promotions, being seen as intelligent or capable Ah yes, something that every man is gifted on a daily basis, of course. Not at all a victim mentality displayed here. There's literally no positive characteristics that are ascribed to women…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:57 PM
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It means nothing, because the reasons are completely different. I thought the red pill meant accepting the world as it is? Why can't you guys just accept that a man offering to pay is attractive to women? That's the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:21 AM
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"Oh you don't want to be a housewife some day, I didn't realize you were in your masculine energy era!" But guys literally say that all the time. 'Career women are manly and that's why they stay alone' is like one of the most prominent talking points here "Oh you're not going to cook for me, I didn't realize that this was just a roommate situation, but now I understand!" Literally also a thing that you hear all the time - 'modern women can't cook, they are not feminine anymore' I don't know what…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:00 AM
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I always ask myself what the fuck kind of women you guys are meeting, seriously. I've been on so many dates with many different women and I NEVER had anything like this happen to me. Maybe you should start actually filtering your girls for personality and not date any available, ratchet skank off tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:57 AM
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Don't take women on expensive first dates, it's pretentious and boring. Weed out women that give gold-digger-vibes, which is easy, if you really try. Be financially literate so you can pay 20$ for a coffee date without having an existential crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:53 AM
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She is blatantly shit-testing you. You should respond with 'I didn't, your shit stank and you a dumb hoe' - this will destroy her ego and make her susceptible to further suggestions and intricate manipulation by you. After that, you should continue to verbally harass her over text. This will establish your position as the alpha male in the group. Next, go on craigslist and find somebody that sells trenbolone. Buy his entire stack and start blasting away. This will pretty much ensure 100% that yo…
/r/seduction21/12/24 12:48 PM
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you got me in the first half not gonna lie
/r/seduction16/12/24 09:50 PM
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I think what people mostly mean when they say looks don't matter is that the spectrum of looking good is a little broader for men, so to speak. As a women there is a pretty clearly defined age, weight and facial structure that makes women attractive to men. Also body composition. When you ask men to describe an attractive women, they will mostly say the same stuff: Thin, long hair, nice tits & ass, youthful face, blabla. But if you turn it around, it's a bit different. Women do have some clearly…
/r/seduction29/11/24 11:50 AM
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I am an introvert and poor at making random banter. I am 99% sure that your problem is this: Learn to accept the awkward silence. There is no need to always fill it. We are not talkshow moderators, and even they leave their partner hanging time and time. And as you learn to do that, you will notice that your conversation partner will actually fill in those pauses more than often. It radiates confidence to actually NOT always get nervous and fill in every pause with saying literally ANYTHING. It'…
/r/seduction29/11/24 11:39 AM
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Of course you can repair it! Step by step. Don't focus on the big picture first. Choose something small that you want to improve in your life and go for it. And try to just not give a fuck at all about girls for a while, at least a few weeks. Try to force yourself, maybe don't even go online to talk about it. Just to kind of 'reset' yourself. If we only focus in life on the big pile of trash that all of us sit on, it can get overwhelming. You need to start cleaning up step by step, and also acce…
/r/seduction27/11/24 09:58 PM
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I don't know your exact situation. But sometimes it helps to let loose a bit. I know it sounds counter-intuitive, but if you have so many negative emotions attached to this and are not having fun at all, it's literally impossible to meet someone that can catch your vibe. It might literally be a worse problem for you than your height, if you think about it. I know I can't give you a tip that just fixes everything. But learn be good to yourself man. I'm also in the process of learning this, it's r…
/r/seduction27/11/24 08:03 PM
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No, all in good faith If you're watching how long it's been since you've replied, or worrying about your emoji use or your grammar you've lost the plot. I agree with you in principle. I tried to give a few quick fixes to what I thought was a total beginner. The endgame should absolutely be that you don't need to do that. But conveying that to somebody who has no experience whatsoever is near impossible. That's why you start emulating behaviour that works and train it until it feels natural - jus…
/r/seduction27/11/24 07:50 PM
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Didn't want to front you. But yes, that mindset is very unattractive in itself. Obviously height is not unimportant. But walking around assuming nobody wants you will make it worse. And there are definitely short guys that are getting girls. I mean bro, there are literal cripples that get girls. Friend of mine who is married now never had problems getting girls. He is 5'6 for reference but he never gave a fuck and that's why it didn't matter. Another friend of mine is 5'8, but literally 130 poun…
/r/seduction27/11/24 07:27 PM
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I feel like these are the three central issues for typical 'nice guys': Not setting boundaries. Not having enough self-respect. Not having the capacity to be dominant. This results in girls perceiving them as weak, boring pushovers.
/r/seduction27/11/24 06:55 PM
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I find it's somewhat normal to talk about your ex in some context. Just matters to me how they say it and how often. If she talks about him too regularly, without a reason, or speaks excessively good OR bad of him, that's a huge red flag in my experience. But it's certainly normal if an ex is brought up here and there without any hard feelings attached.
/r/seduction27/11/24 06:51 PM
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You don't. /thread
/r/seduction27/11/24 06:45 PM
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One day you'll realize that you are wrong and that you spent all these years with a shitty mindset for nothing
/r/seduction27/11/24 06:41 PM
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Really good idea with the chat-to-type. Could help guys that are too in their head and engineer their texts
/r/seduction27/11/24 06:39 PM
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Be yourself What does that mean? I can be who I want to be. I want to be more assertive? I can learn it. Nobody is saying stop playing Fortnite or stop listening to progressive rock. Nobody wants you to change your personality. Also 'be yourself' is the last thing that anybody wants to hear who is asking those questions, because 'be yourself' obviously doesn't work if it isn't grounded in confidence. Also, tip number 4 is literally a quick fix for actually confidently 'being yourself'. and find …
/r/seduction27/11/24 06:35 PM
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Do you have a problem with girls you already have rapport with? For example, you meet a girl at a party, exchange numbers, do you have problems then? Or only if you 'cold-text' girls on IG or online dating? I'm out with the IG game. I don't use it at all. But I can help you a bit maybe if we can figure out what your problem actually is
/r/seduction27/11/24 04:06 PM
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I hate texting and prefer real life, or even a phone call, but I know a lot of women need to feel comfortable first before jumping into that. I swear online dating and social media has cooked our brains. Guys aren't even entertaining the thought that you can meet women in real life. It's 1000x easier texting girls if you have rapport beforehand. From the post I assume you're messaging girls on IG? I guess if you want to waste a lot of time on cold-texting girls that you can't even get a proper r…
/r/seduction27/11/24 04:00 PM
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I'd say for any individual, successful approach: 40% skill, 60% luck. In this context, luck is mainly a girl liking you out of the bat and skill is mainly you not fucking it up in the process. Actually seducing an undecided girl (who is not just playing a few games) is rather rare, and there is a case to be made that you shouldn't even try, as lowering your investment is probably the better play here. Even rarer, changing a made up mind pretty much never happens at all. But one of the most impor…
/r/seduction26/11/24 02:38 PM
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Sounds to me like you're a bit uptight with it my man but correct me if I'm wrong. I found learning to have fun and taking the edge of a 'weird' situation like approaching a girl is really useful. Don't take yourself so seriously, crack a few jokes, say a bit of dumb shit. Just like a normal dude, just like you're talking with your friends. Embrace the awkwardness and it will fade away. What you actually say isn't that important. You can twist a funny story out of almost anything. If you underst…
/r/seduction25/11/24 08:50 PM
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I was diagnosed with OCD when I was a teen and in therapy I learned that the quickest way to get over pretty much any fear or obsessive thought is repeated exposition, if you can stomach it.
/r/seduction25/11/24 11:01 AM
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How do you meet women usually? Don't know but for me it's always through parties/social circle/clubs and I swear I always get read as a fuckboy. Like women assume straight away that I only want casual anyways, I don't even have to say anything. And it's not even like I 100% want this. I mean I don't mind too much, obviously, but... would be nice to meet a girl that's actually interested in getting to know me. At this point I'm getting pretty convinced that it's my approach to things that attract…
/r/seduction25/11/24 08:49 AM
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I just turned 30 so I'm not qualified to answer this personally, but I know a dude from my gym who is like 45 and a personal trainer. he's really well in shape and I swear the 30-40 y/o women are gooning over this guy so hard lol
/r/seduction25/11/24 08:34 AM
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but this is literally how women signal interest lol. wdym don't fall for the bait, most dudes here literally need to learn how to recognize the bait
/r/seduction25/11/24 08:30 AM
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Obviously walking back up to them wouldn't be the best move from a seduction standpoint I don't really agree, this is 100% situation dependent. First off, you got nothing to lose but your pride. I mean I wouldn't approach again if they were rude or annoyed before, but if it was a short little chat and one of them is looking, definitely I'm reapproaching later in the night. Second, it depends if you got a hard rejection or if we just chatted a bit and parted. In the latter case, it's absolutely n…
/r/seduction25/11/24 08:27 AM
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Maybe she liked you but didn't want to put out before the others, you never know. You can definitely say something when you pass them by again to check waters and you have the feeling that one of them is looking. Just go more into autopilot, not mechanically like 'I approached this set before and now it's closed, don't look their way, beep bop'. I've often casually reapproached girls later in the night, just don't invest at all, show you're still here and vibin' and see if something comes up. Al…
/r/seduction25/11/24 08:18 AM
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I'm more faceted. I'm literally ultra-faceted. These bitches don't even know what hit 'em, they don't know what facet to even look at
/r/seduction21/11/24 09:53 AM
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This reads so much like "I'm not like other girls. Why don't guys notice I'm special?" lmao
/r/seduction21/11/24 09:50 AM
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I love when you know someone gets it
/r/seduction20/11/24 09:53 AM
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As someone who mostly gets read as a fuckboy: working out and not being afraid to present yourself easy and aloof with sex, sex is very normal -> very important because women don't like at all to feel judged physically escalating very early not being afraid to convey that you've done this before being naturally flirty with girls being extroverted, not being too serious like all the tryhards in the club for example, having dumb fun style probably: 1) suit & luxury watches = high performer, husban…
/r/seduction20/11/24 09:50 AM
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so i just cant hookup with any mid women. Obviously you shouldn't date ugly or average girls, but if you're overly superficial that can be a sign that you're dating to impress other people. Your primary concern isn't having good sex or finding a soulmate or whatever, it's that other people see you with a hot girl. Honestly I started changing my perspective on this when I had MORE hookups. I mean I had pretty much models in bed that SUCKED (and not in the good way), and that I had zero connection…
/r/seduction20/11/24 09:27 AM
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I 100% agree with your first statement. I also agree that I don't think vulnerability is a distinctly masculine or feminine trait. I would say physical strength is a strong differentiating factor between men and women, that is both measurable and strongly correlated with gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:36 PM
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Yes they are and obviously their gf's/wives are shitty people for doing that. I honestly think you shouldn't date people like that, which can be tricky to vet for, admittedly. My point is: Saying, for example, that dominance is masculine, it makes sense; it's a function that is in most cases strongly displayed only in males, it correlates with the sexual hormonal serum levels, it is displayed interculturally, it has a proven positive correlation with perceived attractiveness by the other gender,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:04 PM
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I wish people would stop pushing this talking point. Being in touch with your emotions and having capacity to be vulnerable is HEALTHY but that doesn't mean it is MASCULINE (or attractive). Studies support men finding vulnerability attractive in women, there is literally no proof the other way round. Yes you should find a woman that lets you express your emotions in a healthy way without resenting you for it, but you shouldn't live in the illusion that being a crybaby is in general attractive to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:51 AM
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always worked for me and worked for the girl in the OP lol
/r/seduction17/11/24 01:41 PM
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Of course it's not your fault. You can't wingman vibes into existence if there are none. As a wingman you do your best job when you bring your bro into a situation, set him up with someone, make him stand in a good light, then leave, as low-key as possible. But if a girl just doesn't feel him or is feeling you more - can't really change that and why would you. If he's a good bro he understands that.
/r/seduction17/11/24 01:37 PM
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Typo, oversaturated FOR women. It is oversaturated with men, who are flooding the few girls with likes and bombard them with messages. Thus the value in general of men on those apps is falling. That's what I meant. Imagine a beach. There are three dudes around, selling sunglasses. You'll check out their inventory and buy a pair from the dude that looks most trustworthy. Now imagine the same beach, but there's hundreds of guys, aggressively pushing nearly identical sunglasses. You'll probably be …
/r/seduction13/11/24 12:50 PM
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Yes, James Bond is probably one of the best examples.
/r/seduction13/11/24 12:42 PM
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I mean, yeah, the apps are dying. Women leave them in droves. Just look at the MatchGroup stock. They are literally scrambling for users. It's neither your fault, nor do your pictures suck.
/r/seduction13/11/24 10:26 AM
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OLD is just super oversaturated with women. That's the primary problem. It's too easy for women to meet someone over OLD, so they wont. Men on the other hand are flooding these apps and simping all over the women, which obviously raises their standards by a lot.
/r/seduction13/11/24 08:59 AM
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You need to be socially dominant. To be specific, in psychology this is called pro-social dominance. 'Assholes' and 'rude people' usually are, among other things, socially dominant, which is attractive to women. That doesn't mean you have to be an asshole, you just need the part with the pro-social dominance. Analogy: A good basketball player is tall. Dutch people, on average, are very tall. So do you need to be dutch to be a good basketball player? No, you just have to be tall. What you need: A…
/r/seduction13/11/24 08:55 AM
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Dunno bro I've danced with tons of girls in this day & age and I never got accused of anything. Guess it might happen but why would it if you can read the room and don't do anything completely unsolicited
/r/seduction13/11/24 08:34 AM
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If anything they get guilt tripped over themselves lol, I've literally never heard a girl saying she feels bad for 'using' a guy for a ONS.
/r/seduction13/11/24 08:25 AM
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I think it's mostly kids doing that, most girls I've been with the last years always appreciated being upfront and honest. But I mean usually I do present myself as the dude that's gonna clap her cheeks and that's it. Also girls tend to always read me as a stone-cold player until they know me better. So I guess they mostly know before I tell them.
/r/seduction13/11/24 08:22 AM
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I would change 5 to: Wait until she confesses her feelings and then reciprocate modestly
/r/seduction12/11/24 11:46 AM
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A woman bonding to you happens 99% after sex IMO. They release a metric shit-ton of Oxytocin and that's when they usually start thinking more about a specific guy. Confessing feelings to a woman is nearly ALWAYS a bad idea. As you have observed, and many others here and elsewhere will confirm, women tend to pull away after you confessing your feelings. It destroys the power dynamic of her looking up to you that creates attraction in her. You have to wait for her to confess her feelings, then you…
/r/seduction12/11/24 11:46 AM
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It's always the girls that you don't give a fuck about who chase the hardest
/r/seduction12/11/24 11:23 AM
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When I was 15, I confessed my feelings to a friend of mine that I liked a lot. She just laughed in my face and told me that I'm too nice. Cue the rabbit hole, I started researching why she would say that, then found the very early RSD Julien vids. That single moment was a huge turning point in my life. Funny thing is, I saw that girl again 3-4 years ago and she tried so hard to get with me. I shot her down obviously, but I did feel some vindication if I'm being honest.
/r/seduction12/11/24 11:21 AM
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You're definitely not. I mean that's why people drink lol. I also love to drink when I go out, but hell, I like doing it and the girls love it too so I'm just having fun. Just note when you're getting too wasted, at some point it starts having a detrimental effect. Just don't rely 100% on it. I still flirt when I'm sober, sure I'm more inhibited, but a lot of the experience obviously is shared.
/r/seduction11/11/24 10:55 AM
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Of course it is. Also note I'm not advocating for relentless cold approach. But you learn a bit every time you approach a girl and while doing so have a lot more sensory input as opposed to OLD where the system is such a blackbox that you can barely tell what you did right or wrong.
/r/seduction11/11/24 10:46 AM
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Not using tinder drastically lowers the number of competitors. If you meet a girl in real life and cultivate attraction, you're not competing with her tinder matches.
/r/seduction11/11/24 09:23 AM
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My impression as well is that cold approach is for guys that already do decently well with women But how do you learn that if not from approaching girls and getting more attractive? I’m sick and tired of “just get off the apps” being the default advice. But it's literally good advice. It's just not advice people like to hear. It's like telling fat people to exercise versus telling them to 'just' use Ozempic. 'All those exercise scientists telling me to get off my fat ass, nah, it won't work and …
/r/seduction11/11/24 09:20 AM
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a woman on the apps has thousands of matches and tons of attention on there, how is approaching the same woman in public going to magically increase one’s chances Because these two are completely different scenarios. Wouldn't you agree that someone complimenting your haircut in real life feels better than someone doing it over text? Also you answered your own question - oversaturation. Yes those girls have 1000 matches, but they don't care. They mostly don't want the quick fuck, the FWB. We proj…
/r/seduction11/11/24 09:15 AM
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I mean you're just wrong lol. This is like saying if you can't drive a race car then you can't drive a race bike. I mean sure there are some similarities but these are two different skillsets. What skill on OLD would predict success in real life in your opinion? Taking good pictures? Inventing witty openers? None of this teaches you to create attraction, you just assume it's there.
/r/seduction11/11/24 08:57 AM
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women can’t tell the difference often Sure they can, better than us men. They just interpret it selectively. If it's a provider guy she'll say things like 'Ugh, he only thinks about sex. What a turn off.' If it's a stud, then on the contrary, she will probably interpret his physical infatuation as love or him being obsessed with her. Source: Been on both sides.
/r/seduction11/11/24 08:50 AM
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Dunno, always felt like the apps were a waste of time in comparison with actually going out. Also they'd legit make me feel like a loser lol, swiping so many girls and then just getting breadcrumbs feels weird. Especially when you are used to getting rather easy action in real life. I mean I go to the club, I have fun, hit some girls up, sometimes get hit up, and more often than not you go home with somebody or get a number of somebody who genuinely wants to meet up. Then on Tinder I even used P…
/r/seduction11/11/24 08:43 AM
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Actually breaking up: Go in with your mind set. IT IS NOT GOING TO BE CHANGED UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE. Even if she threatens self-harm. Then you just call the cops. Don't talk about love. Tell her rationally why it doesn't work out for you. Give yourself permission to be the asshole and also allow her to view you as such if she wants to. Someone has to be. Don't blame her for the breakup so you can save face. Offer closure but notice the point where everything is said and then LEAVE. Make it clea…
/r/seduction09/11/24 10:14 AM
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When we first started, I wasn’t exactly in love with her, but hey, she was good company, and I liked having someone around. I mean you got your cake, now eat it too. If you're not a bitch, bite the bullet and tell her upfront
/r/seduction09/11/24 10:08 AM
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Ahahahahaha don't take advice from these stone age players homes. Phone calling was a thing like 10 years ago, it's so overrated now. Or you mean facetime? Also wouldn't do that tho. Who got time for that. Just ask her to meet up. If she's down, rizz her up in real life. Your goal over text should be to get her to meet up. Your goal on the date should be to create physical attraction. If you have problems 'sexting' girls or making conversation a bit spicy, I URGE YOU to read some of those cheap …
/r/seduction09/11/24 10:06 AM
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1) (DO THIS) Just tell her. The vibe wasn't there, you think you're not a good fit, just say it. Give yourself permission to hurt her and be the asshole. Someone always has to be. You can do it over text, it was just one night. 2) Ghost her (you are a dickhead) 3) If you are advanced and only a bit of a dickhead, you can try lowering her attraction level progressively. Meaning doing things intentionally that are unattractive. Or just fade out the whole thing, stop responding at all to some messa…
/r/seduction09/11/24 09:50 AM
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She also slept with you, eh? You didn't force her I hope, so I guess she can feel whatever the fuck she wants
/r/seduction09/11/24 09:39 AM
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If he doesn't you know damn well it'll be the democrats fault one way or the other
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:30 AM
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It's obviously the latter. The first was just facade because those guys were too BETA™ to actually say what they think
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:45 AM
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I love this thread, it's hard proof that I was right all these years
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:43 AM
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Dude he just wrote he wants his 'enemies' to be 'hurt politically and socially'. Who tf says shit like that? Definitely not someone anyone would actually want to hang out with in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:42 AM
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It doesn't matter actually, they just admire his 'masculinity'. Which seems to consist of being a lying sack of shit, being totally out of shape for an entire lifetime, taking zero accountability and also being extremely stubborn. Also getting salty when things don't go your way seems to be a huge thing. They also seem to love his 'conservative values', such as getting married three times, being outwardly corrupt and unreliable, getting associated with .pdf files, disgracing women publicly and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:28 AM
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You know what's good about those 4 years of Trump? All those people wearing their masks will now stop doing so for a period of time. You will be able to see all that ugly shit unfold right in front of your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:13 AM
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He was voting for Trump because he wanted to trigger the libs. And because of the transgender surgeries in mexican child prisons. Get your facts, straight, wokie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:12 AM
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Now they can hate women with lawful conviction
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:11 AM
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I cannot think of a single policy or instance where Trump has said that he aims to better the lives of young men I cannot think of literally a single policy of Trump at all. Does he even have a platform this time?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:10 AM
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Because you're evil! Get that into your head goddammit!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:06 AM
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You could classify Trump as a domestic terrorist at that point lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:05 AM
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You mean like the MAGA regards that lost their shit and drove 20 states when the 'ElEcTion wAs StOleN'? Or like when they cried 24/7 for getting banned from twitter? Or when they lose their shit because you dare to criticize their cult leader? I mean think about this. MAGA calls liberals idiots for getting triggered by losing an election, but when MAGA lost the election, they literally were so triggered that they tried to fucking violently disrupt the voting process and take over the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:04 AM
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shit now this here is top tier cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:55 AM
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You seem to have a desire to spew bullshit on the internet, to each their own I say
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:53 AM
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Shit dude get over yourself maybe that will get you actually laid some day
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:51 AM
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Didn't Trump try to unlawfully have Pence declare him President? Didn't he contact senators to send their own slates of electors? Like, as in, actually trying to undermine democracy and forcefully try to stay in power? Y'all already forget Jan 6th? So insane these days, people literally deny shit that happened a year ago in front of their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:50 AM
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fuck I hope you notice how stupid you sound right now in a few years
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:48 AM
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lmao and there are still people who actually say this movement isn't about edginess and hate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:47 AM
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Hope you owned those libs amirite hahaha!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:45 AM
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This is such a cope. The 50% that aren't fucking, most of them don't do it by choice. 95% don't because they just can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:44 AM
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What does Trump actually do for young guys? What's his solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:42 AM
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You will actually notice in time that your game runs 2x better when you don't get your hopes up at all. Kinda unromantic and stuff, but yeah.
/r/seduction18/10/24 03:10 PM
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But when I called her a couple of days later Why you wait so long? Just text her the next day. I know there are guys saying you should call over texting to stand out, but I wouldn't do that. If she wants to respond, she will. I'd say calling is actually more risky because nowadays chances are that rather it's going to come off weird than 'ballsy'... stupid, but it is what it is. Aside from that, shit happens my brother. Truth is you will probably never find out what happened in this specific cas…
/r/seduction18/10/24 03:06 PM
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Honestly I just try to have dumb fun. I like to say outrageous and stupid shit while I physically escalate and sub-communicate my desire if I'm interested. That's pretty much my game.
/r/seduction18/10/24 09:36 AM
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I don't think it's cheating but I find it to be detrimental to a person in general and especially in a relationship, and, depending on the degree, also disrespectful to your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:44 AM
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I exaggerated a bit because I don't really think open relationships work for most people. I think the problem is that a relationship can endure a lot but it is still fragile over a long period of time. Like, if you don't put any work in, in 99% of cases it won't work out for long. But if you put too much work in constantly, it starts to feel like therapy/work. At least for me. You shouldn't throw everything away at the first inconvenience, but you shouldn't try to make something work that just w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:41 PM
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I agree, and I want to add on that I think that saying 'everything men want is a bangmaid that cleans their house' is quite insulting. Would even call it misandric, but what can you expected from a radfem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:35 PM
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It's wild how many guys there are with similar 'villain arcs'. Guess I'm sorta one of them too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:23 PM
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She just a pick-me my brother. Most men in marriage over 35 have sex on their birthday, and then that one time when their wife got drunk and riled up by the hot coworker at the office christmas party lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:08 PM
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This is the saddest reply on here. Is it Weird that you consider settling as a way to give up power, rather than all the benefits men get by getting one bangmaid to look after their house and kids. Nah fam. This right here. This is the saddest reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:07 PM
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Also, wouldn't you at least try to bring it up with her and try to resolve it to make it a happy relationship? I hate this modern notion of always making EVERYTHING work out inside a relationship. If my partner wants to have sex with someone else, fine, fuck off, there's the door. Actually asking me if that is fine? That's more of an insult than anything else. Like we've all become therapists now lol. You can't fix everything by talking about it. If you put too much work in a relationship, it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:05 PM
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Social Media
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:01 PM
2

I have had to kill that man Bruh yeah I feel you on that. Feels the same for me, it just didn't work out, I felt dumb and at times humiliated being a romantic. Like every single time without fail when I developed feelings for someone it went to shit, I felt miserable for MONTHS at a time. I don't want that again. But now that I just have casual stuff and I'm pretty much as stoic as can get, I feel like I actually want to have that magical feeling again, but I just can't. Which is a bit scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:00 PM
3

Way to go manifesting those shitty thoughts my homie. But I do feel you to a degree
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:55 PM
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Women are like oh look at him all the women get with him, if I land him I’ll make other women jealous. That's wrong, psychologically speaking what you are witnessing is preselection, meaning a woman relying on the 'references' of other women to determine if a dude is a good package. They don't try to make other girls jealous, they just read the reviews before they make a purchase, so to speak. Other horny slutty guys are I wish I could stick my dick in multiple random attractive promiscuous wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:52 PM
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Sex without a romantic, emotional connection seems like it would be awful and uncomfortable It's not that bad, it's still quite enjoyable but yeah. I see what you mean. It feels great when you do it and then afterwards you might have a bit of a comedown and feeling of inner emptiness, at least for me. Feels a bit like doing drugs. Plus the knowledge that while it doesn't hurt anyone now, it will probably do so later somewhere down the road. Casual, short-term, and situationships hold no interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:46 PM
1

That seems entirely inverted from modern experience That's because it is. While the form of monogamy we (used to?) promote in society might be useful, it is anything but natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:03 PM
3

I love how most dudes shoot over the target of criticizing OLD and instead resort to the old and trusted women-shaming. Seeking casual sex and multiple sex partners is way more common in males on average and the data supports this. People always complain about 'hoes' but even in 2024, male hoes are way more common than female hoes. While there is a growing subset of men that report not having sex at all in the last year, if you look at the average number of sex partners - and yes, even if you lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:08 AM
1

That's what the app drives you to do, though, and by design. If most users get low matches but keep swiping, the machine works as intended. That means showing you a few of the hottest profiles in the area as soon as you open the app, making you think you have a chance with them and lowering satisfaction when you 'settle' for something lesser.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:53 AM
1

Women aren't wired to find the average guy attractive. Around 70% of your male ancestors never procreated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:49 AM
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Yeah, I think this is largely because of the words he uses. He describes the human condition as a cycle of having a 'lack' in some aspect of your life, then 'suffering' in order to quench that need. But then, shortly after a new 'lack' arises. So for him, human's can never really be content (which is true in a sense) and thus he defines life as an endless cycle of 'lack' and 'suffering'. I honestly dislike this philosophy even though one cannot really disprove it - the context at core is true, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:29 PM
1

I think you are correct, and I want to add something: I 100% think that after talking to somebody for 1-2 minutes, sometimes even less, I will be able to say if there is attraction and potential for short-term infatuation. But I also believe that while you may be able to say after that time with high confidence that someone is NOT a good match long-term, it's pretty much impossible to say with good confidence that things WILL work out well in the long-term. For example, doing sports every day mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:45 AM
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and you think men are the victims here? He didn't actually say that, but why is it alien to you that men as a whole might have faced some backlash from the movement? That can be said without even looking at the movement's many positive successes for women. Please, show me where feminists have advocated removing presumption of innocence from the legal system. I don't like this argument, I've heard it a lot in regards to gendered language. 'Show me the legal code that says you have to do XYZ' - no…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:53 AM
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But every time I interact with men socially in different forums Great foundation to base your opinion on, since we all know that what a biased sample of men write on random forums reflects 1:1 on their personality which then in turn reflects 1:1 on all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:12 AM
1

Except you are. You're trying to hide something from her on the first date. Which is actually worse than just letting things flow and eventually admitting you're also texting other girls, thus making her qualify herself. Or, you know, just pocket your phone during a date like you should anyways.
/r/seduction10/10/24 10:25 AM
1

It's still gonna peak her interest due to preselection and her knowing she has competition. I wouldn't worry about this at all honestly, unless you're together or on the way there, but then obviously you shouldn't be using Tinder anyways.
/r/seduction10/10/24 10:19 AM
2

any spare money to spend until I’m a doctor in ten years. You have potential. So fuck what you own now, you have youth, you own yourself. Last date I want on I blew $200 and my date still made me feel poor First off, fuck that girl if she makes you feel that way. Second, why the fuck would you spend that much money on a date especially if you are in grad school? Let me tell you, I'm 30, I've been on lots of dates and I NEVER spent that much money on a girl that is not my GF. On first dates I oft…
/r/seduction05/10/24 09:25 PM
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realest answer lmao
/r/seduction30/09/24 01:52 PM
0

even if u are trolling this is just sad tbh
/r/seduction30/09/24 11:15 AM
1

Also checked after I read this, was at 2h14m and much of that was me watching youtube in bed lol. I don't use social media though, i think that is the biggest time sink for most people
/r/seduction24/09/24 12:46 PM
2

The grass is always greener on the other side, we know that, but in the specific case of relationships I usually find it impossible to resist this fallacy.
/r/seduction17/09/24 09:39 AM
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It's a vicious cycle, truly. Get better with girls and you will become more disillusioned with relationships and less tolerant to problems that typically arise in them. You'll also crave new sex partners more than someone who doesn't have casual sex. Internally you might still cling to the fairytale love that you yearn for which supposedly gives meaning opposed to casual sex that is almost definitely purely hedonistic. And with every new partner you become less likely to settle and settling feel…
/r/seduction16/09/24 02:28 PM
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Show them how the everyday lives of healthy relationships look like Lmao this is literally what made me so reluctant to have one. Literally 4 out of 5 people in LTR are unhappy, sexually frustrated or stay together out of habit. For example, nearly every dude in a LTR I talk to fantasizes about banging other women when they are fully honest. A lot of dudes that are married will tell you to never marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:35 AM
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Honestly I don't see the problem at all in being honest. Obviously you don't have to tell her by yourself on the first date. But really there are two scenarios: 1) You meet. You have the frame of someone who fucks. You have sex a few times after zero, one or two dates. She asks the question. You answer truthfully. She can decide for herself if she is fine with the situation or not. 2) You meet. You have two or more dates, but no sex. She asks what your intentions are. You answer truthfully. She …
/r/seduction10/09/24 05:14 PM
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Not in the same way as you - I have no problem getting physical fast and I haven't had that even before I started entering the rabbit hole. For me it's more that I've become extremely critical of monogamous relationships from all the shit I've experienced and observed since learning game. I'm kinda accepting right now that this 'fairytale' you speak of, I will probably never find, and at this point I'm even wondering if I actually want to find it at all. Most relationships have a relatively shor…
/r/seduction10/09/24 12:11 PM
1

Never tried something like this but I do have some mantras that I wrote down that I like to read through if I feel like I need it. Find out what works for you.
/r/seduction05/09/24 09:54 AM
3

I also sometimes get approached in clubs and bars, but it's usually only if I'm alone at that moment. Girls don't usually approach groups with multiple guys or at least it's very rare.
/r/seduction05/09/24 09:53 AM
3

fuck off, Lisa
/r/seduction05/09/24 09:48 AM
2

If you're consciously pondering breaking up over a longer period of time, you should most probably do it.
/r/seduction03/09/24 12:25 PM
1

Personally, a rebound always helps me, but if you put too much pressure on yourself the opposite will happen. So take it slow, enjoy your freedom. The worst thing to happen after a breakup is getting feelings of loneliness after weeks/months of nothing new happening. Then you will sometimes lose track of the bad things that lead to the breakup and backwards-rationalize your relationship. I personally noticed (might be different for you), that this has a substantial sexual component - often when …
/r/seduction03/09/24 12:24 PM
5

Omitting the wins is exactly what I always did. I also noticed that I was always very forgiving to others, but not very forgiving to myself. Not even in the long-term, it's not like I lie down in bed and think about mistakes I made years ago, but more in the short-term, as in finding mistakes primarily with myself when something went wrong. I couldn't be really mad at others, but I could be mad at myself, if that makes sense. I think it's mainly a good thing to be able to see mistakes you did, b…
/r/seduction30/08/24 12:14 PM
2

Got it done now, check my profile
/r/seduction30/08/24 11:25 AM
2

I started a success journal a few weeks ago and holy shit I can only recommend everybody to try it. I might make a post about it tomorrow
/r/seduction29/08/24 03:30 PM
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He's in theory justified IMO, I've had something comparable happen to me, when my then GF demanded to see my phone because an old female friend of mine texted me, and then insisted on it, a bit of the relationship died for me. The moment I realized she was not reciprocating my universal trust, I had a sinking feeling in my stomach and I couldn't really forget that. Also the look in her eyes - eerie. The situation is special, however, because the woman here is pregnant. I think blaming it on 'pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:20 PM
94

Ah yes, the forbidden techniques. Love to see it.
/r/seduction28/08/24 07:46 AM
7

I think a lot of women do want more emotionally intelligent and available men to talk about their feelings with without it being weird. They want them as friends or therapists, but it's still not something that is attractive to them and might even give them the 'ick'. As soon as you are too emotionally available, you will become a drama- and trauma-dump to them and in turn they dry up faster than the sahara.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:47 PM
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It's for the same reason that a large part of masculine behaviour has been labeled toxic, honestly. That's why women only selectively admit to desiring certain traits and add a lot of bullshit to make up for it. It's fine to say that you want a guy that's dependable, tall, has a good job etc., that's all fair game. Then for maximum virtue add that he has to be 'nice' and 'emotionally available', while they don't actually care about that at all, at least not for short-term attraction, where it mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:40 PM
3

You ain't. Wrong. Also, who is 'you guys'? Are you another victim of terminally online brainrot that is unable to have a proper discussion? In the US it's 35, it's 30 where I'm from. Litterallly nothing of it is true It is literally all true. Miscarriage risk by age Rate of spontaneous abortion Nearly 2-fold risk of pregnancy loss in 35-y/o Fertility drops hard after 35 40 y/o women have 10% chance of natural pregnancy compared to 25 y/o No, that's not the fucking reason. You want me to take you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:14 AM
5

Schizo brainrot Women's attractiveness peaks in their 20's 1 2 Redpill revenge fantasy and contempt for young men delusion What the fuck are you even talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:31 AM
1

A woman over 30 isn't "unlikely to be fertile enough to have them" Of course 30 is not a magical cutoff date, but they still have a lot of pressure on their shoulders, since medically at 30 you are a 'risk pregnancy'. Most women can perfectly have kids until 45 lol. Absolute nonsense. At 35 the chance of losing the child is about 25%, rising to 50% at 40. At 45, over 90% of pregnancies fail. Also, the chances of getting naturally pregnant within 12 months is about 90% for women 20-24, while it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:45 PM
1

I'm 30 and I also get very suspicious of women 3+ years older than me. I know why they act like they do, their dating value is deprecating and they know it. For a LTR I'd much rather prefer to date women between 23-28 y/o, who are usually still much more attractive aswell and also show a lot of interest in men my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:37 PM
2

From my very limited perspective, I don't think you are boring, just inhibited. Which is very normal, and you can work on that. Keep putting yourself out there and gather experience.
/r/seduction18/08/24 09:29 PM
1

Great for you mate
/r/seduction18/08/24 09:25 PM
5

I guess I gotta keep trying You're gonna get better at this 100% if you don't let initial failures let you down. Social skills like talking to women can be learned just like any other skill. Just put yourself out there. these dumping kinda hurt my ego I feel you, and let me tell you, it never goes away. As men, we just have to deal with a lot more rejection and it always hurts - if we want to participate, we have to learn to not let other people's reactions drag us down and instead learn to look…
/r/seduction18/08/24 12:51 PM
1

You are right but a little obscure - I think what you want to say is that social dominance and pro-social behaviour in general are attractive to women.
/r/seduction18/08/24 12:40 PM
5

Guys are too blackpilled these days, honestly. They think it's all about looks when looks are basically just a door opener. If you don't follow up accordingly, that initial attraction fades fast. I don't usually like these categorizations, but a girl will quickly recognize a 'beta in the wolf's clothing'.
/r/seduction18/08/24 12:37 PM
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Guys not doing this ASAP is the number one reason why they walk home from a date and ask these questions. If you think manifesting physical attraction on a first date is unimportant, you shouldn't wonder why you're rather the provider she keeps waiting for sex than the dude she goes home after a night out.
/r/seduction18/08/24 12:35 PM
2

This is solid advice, if you are on this sub and downvote this, rethink your mindset.
/r/seduction18/08/24 12:31 PM
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If this is a one timer - who cares, just move on. If this regularly happens to you - you are probably too nice/gentle/predictable or however you want to put it. Just a few quick ideas for your next date: Be more straightforward with your attraction, especially in your sub-communication. Sit close, touch her, push/pull, hold eye contact. Don't be afraid to touch on romantic, dating or sexual topics - this signals that you are indeed on a date and it plants some ideas in her head inadvertantly. Ha…
/r/seduction18/08/24 12:29 PM
5

He did push his bodycount though, I see this as an absolute success
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:13 AM
10

I wanna fuck her, not be her butler? Everything you mentioned except 10 and 11 is dehumidifying pussy faster than you can tip your fedora and say "I respect women" twenty times
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:08 AM
1

Obviously, getting better at sex is advisable, but most people talk mad shit when it's about their own sex life and performance, take it with a grain of salt and don't let it get to you. Also, I don't think that I, or anyone for that matter, has EVER made a stellar performance on ANYTHING they did for the first time.
/r/seduction06/08/24 02:06 PM
1

So women who do hookups have no self-respect?
/r/seduction23/07/24 09:52 AM
1

Not saying you shouldn't hit the gym or work on your finances, but cringey red-pillers have truly fucked the brains of an entire generation - 17 y/o who thinks he needs to look like a fitness model and make bank to get a girl. This entire 'high value male' bullshit is just a spook, it doesn't work except for making you unhappy. Don't get bitter, you are so young, just enjoy your life and learn to have fun and approach girls. Fuck that other noise. But that's just my two cents.
/r/seduction22/07/24 11:26 AM
2

Saying this as someone who had to hammer this in my own brain one to many times: Where is your fucking pride man?
/r/seduction22/07/24 09:28 AM
12

thought the same lol
/r/seduction20/07/24 10:51 AM
47

That doesn't mean she won't do hookups, it just means that she had bad experiences with hookups in the past so she's trying to deflect responsibility
/r/seduction20/07/24 10:51 AM
2

Solid advice, has become a lot more rare here
/r/seduction18/07/24 07:08 PM
2

how the fuck it can work out with a normie glamourous girl? So whats the point of aproaching that chick? Now that is a limiting belief if I have ever seen one There is nothing in common the girl only has one type You don't know that why waste time? experience by trial and error, also don't pre-expect outcomes and view socializing as wasting time
/r/seduction18/07/24 03:48 PM
9

Shit man I had this girl with a mandala under her tits a few months ago and now this seems to be a kink of mine lol
/r/seduction18/07/24 03:44 PM
20

Let your desire flow freely, think about undressing and fucking her when you talk to her
/r/seduction18/07/24 03:42 PM
4

So what you are essentially describing is settling, which I would advise against. Cutting down on your standards and making too many compromises is a surefire way to net an unfilfilling relationship and the point will come where you will ask yourself why you didn't just stay single. Shouldn't swing to the other extreme though and don't compromise at all. Some compromises have to be made for relationships, it's normal.
/r/seduction18/07/24 10:43 AM
5

I like to feel retarded from time to time
/r/seduction18/07/24 08:23 AM
1

Low dose Ketamin or Molly. But seriously if you don't drink heavily and regularly, I wouldn't worry too much about brain damage
/r/seduction18/07/24 08:23 AM
9

Dunno, for fun maybe? I did that before also, physically escalating on a girl but telling her I was gay. Was quite entertaining and built a lot of tension.
/r/seduction14/07/24 10:48 AM
1

wrong sub pal
/r/seduction14/07/24 10:44 AM
1

I don't lol
/r/seduction03/07/24 01:56 PM
2

Quite the existential crisis that you have over buying a figurine. I'm gonna tell you the problem and the solution: The problem is, sure, there are some things that one may like or do that people might find weird, or off-putting, or unattractive. You could, in theory, align your life and your personality to be as attractive and likeable as possible to as many people as possible. This is a surefire way to be unhappy. The solution is doing stuff you like and do but also OWNING stuff you like and d…
/r/seduction17/06/24 01:40 PM
3

I don't think this is fair to say, I doubt men today are very different in that regard than they were 50 years ago. Most men are prone to give themselves oneitis because they just aren't used to getting a constant stream of female attention. Then when it rarely does happen and there seems to be a girl that is interested, it's hard to 'let go' if it's not what you expected, even if doing so would in every regard be the best possible thing you could do. I guess it helps to understand why we behave…
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:53 PM
3

She rejected you, move on. Don't get needy and give yourself oneitis over a girl where barely anything happened. Trust me, I did it all the time, it won't get you anywhere, there is nothing you could say or do that would make her change her mind. The only thing you will do is damage your own confidence and feed yourself negative emotions. Matter of fact, the best thing to win a girl back is to ignore her and move on with your life. Chasing a girl almost never works. But if you just move on there…
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:36 PM
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Very good advice, I want to add an intermediate step for dates, between 0 escalation and lightly touching, since that seems to be the part that many seem to be struggling with, do some of the following: Physically: I'm not usually this specific, because I do most of this subconsciously, but when you pass by her, 'accidentally' touch her briefly, or rather brush by her, do really minimalistic contact - or when you stand near her, stand a little closer to her than you normally would. Once you and …
/r/seduction08/06/24 10:42 AM
7

No, never. If you go for it and get rejected without a follow-up date, it would've happened anyways. In fact, the girl I'm dating right now also rejected my first kiss. Granted, I was pretty drunk, she had offered to drive me home, we talked for a bit and I just went for it. She turned her cheek at first, asking where that came from. I unapologetically told her that I'm very attracted to her and I just felt like kissing her. She looked at me for a few seconds and then kissed me.
/r/seduction03/06/24 08:00 AM
17

Tbh I think that what you described is only a minor part of the equation. Actually I think it is even detrimental to only focus on the more mechanical part of sex. Some non-specific things women go crazy for (my experience): Learn to dominate her properly during sex. Almost every girl loves a degree of domination, find the sweet spot for her. But also allow her to be dominant for a while if she wants to, then 'reclaim' control. Learn to let go and channel your inner wild animal. Sounds weird, bu…
/r/seduction28/05/24 11:48 AM
4

In the end, it's a numbers game, there is chemistry, or there is not. Having game, practicing approaching etc. just tilts the numbers more in your favor, but in the end - yeah, still a numbers game.
/r/seduction14/04/24 06:45 PM
3

I just shave with a normal gillette razor under the shower every 1-2 weeks, zero issues. Also why would I care about my ass hair. I'm a man, I have a hairy ass.
/r/seduction13/04/24 09:18 PM
1

Try it, why not. You have nothing to lose basically. Just do me a favor and take it easily if she does reject you, it is very uncomfortable for service workers having to reject unwanted advances.
/r/seduction12/04/24 08:13 AM
2

The old RSD stuff was purged from Youtube after the Julien Blanc scandal. It's hard to find aside from dubious torrents. Basically, I was very 'bluepilled' as a consequence of my upbringing and at 18 y/o had a bad crush on a girl that had rejected me, couldn't get over her. I randomly found a video from Julien where he basically explained how to not put girls on a pedestal, you're deluding yourself to think she was that special, you're gonna create another experience with another girl that will …
/r/seduction28/03/24 09:01 AM
10

She has to put in work too, or you leave her. If either party is complacent, relationships fail. So yes, he is right.
/r/seduction27/03/24 06:45 PM
4

I partly agree with you: I think it is true that if applied correctly, the 'modern methods' will net you better results and are usually way healthier to yourself. I'm not a fan of outer game myself and PUA in the 2000s was basically outer game on steroids. BUT: The old content of the early 2010s used to have a lot of 'oomph' to it. I remember stumbling upon Julien Blanc for the first time when I had very bad Oneitis at 18 y/o. It was like I randomly found the rabbit hole. A lot of the stuff was …
/r/seduction27/03/24 09:04 AM
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I feel like the lack of 'stars' in the scene is not a problem, most gurus just want to pick your pockets. The bigger problem is the greater impact of the societal debate that RSD sparked and lost with Julien Blanc and Tyler Durden. For that reason, most seduction content to date is very diluted. If guys are too direct and real with their viewers, it gets labeled as sexist or misogyny or whatever. Just like with other issues, dating strategy for women is a mainstream topic but dating strategy for…
/r/seduction26/03/24 10:09 AM
6

Blanc was never actually charged with anything substantial outside of media outrage for being edgy, as opposed to the journalist in the famous (TOTALLY unbiased) interview that buried RSD... Cuomo was his name I think. He was actually charged with sexual harassment a few years later. Quite ironic.
/r/seduction26/03/24 08:26 AM
23

You'll get used to it
/r/seduction21/03/24 02:37 PM
5

The gym always helps. With almost everything
/r/seduction18/03/24 10:50 AM
0

Don't change, you're doing everything right. Don't justify yourself. Let them find out for themselves
/r/seduction16/03/24 05:01 PM
2

Can you just rate the pictures without context? nobody asked about her makeup routine. It's like I ask you if a cheeseburger or peperoni pizza tastes better and you start talking about nutritional values
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:03 PM
4

99% of women really are incapable of rating just looks, that's also my main takeaway from like EVERY jubilee video. That's probably why the blone is getting so much shit from other girls but most guys tend to agree with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:01 PM
0

They asked about the pictures tho, and while I think this rating stuff is bullshit in general, if you pressed me on it I would've given the brunette a 6.5 and the blonde a 7.5.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:59 AM
0

that's because it works
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:41 PM
31

Good advice - this is a concept that many guys struggle with. The reason most guys don’t even try to spice up their conversations is that it's riskier and they are afraid to get rejected. That's right, all-in or nothing. There is no point playing it safe with girls. Safe is boring. Safe is unexciting. Polarize as soon as possible and you will waste less time on girls that aren't interested anyways.
/r/seduction07/03/24 04:00 PM
2

You should gauge attraction first if you never talked to her in person. I wouldn't stomp in the door like that, but I'm not really good with text game myself. Anyways, your chances are probably a lot higher if you ask her out in person.
/r/seduction07/03/24 10:06 AM
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Men who excessively care about body count are insecure and NOT the majority, though. I have a higher body count, too, why would I judge a woman for it if it's not excessive. Also there is a big difference between not giving yourself up for nothing and using sex as leverage to pressure a guy into a relationship. The healthy way to do it is somewhere in between. Many people never learned to not hold their past traumas against current partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:00 AM
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How do you know if you're "truly attracted" to someone after 2 dates? You barely know that person It depends on the person. I'm very quick to trust and gauge my attraction to a woman, for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:56 AM
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At least anecdotally from my experience, you are 100% right about this. It's also become a huge red flag for me if a woman (excessively) does this and it's an almost certain predictor that she sees sex as 'functional tool' rather than more of a 'spiritual joining', she will be less likely to enjoy it and more likely to use it against you. I can see women being reluctant to have sex on the first date or spontaneously hooking up on a night out and I don't think it is a problem. I might try to teas…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:52 AM
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The timespan which people take to trust somebody and feel connected can vary by huge amounts. I'm very quick in that department, for example, but I know people who say it takes years to really get to know somebody. Usually, these people place less genuine and only superficial interest in their partners though, and often have attachment fear, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:42 AM
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Men are expected to be the proactive side but with less and less time people spend offline socializing with others, they have less and less chances to actually approach. this is spot on Nowadays it's just too easy to entertain yourself at home. I feel like this never went back to baseline after covid
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:58 PM
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I need female energy in my life, just like I need food and shelter. I like to feel valued and important to somebody that in turn feels valued and important to me. I like to have an anchor in my life and in turn be a bastion of calm for my partner. I want to share honest, spiritual intimacy. I want to have a family one day. Those are probably the main reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:48 AM
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When I watch the whatever podcast I'm always baffled how anyone would take dating advice from 25 y/o dudes with no game or prior experience. I remember the episode where they all said how long their longest relationship was and I thought to myself 'why would anybody take serious advice from this guy who is obviously bitter and has had one prior relationship that barely lasted a year'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:43 AM
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I may not like them, but they do legit speak for a lot of men. This is true. They have a lot of leverage because there are a lot of guys out there who have no platform in a dating market that has rapidly changed over the last one or two decades. Bear with me for this outlandish comparison, but it's really a bit like Hitler before WW2 (not because of politics, just the rhetorics and modus operandi). It's not that what he said to the masses was offering any objective truth, instead he applied a fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:39 AM
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I dislike them because most of their 'opinions' are just copes, revamped black-pill content or straight misogyny. There is no value to be found in these podcasts, except reinforcing your biases. Also I often wonder why anyone would take advice from those guys who are obviously inexperienced, grifting losers with zero footing in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:31 AM
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When I read stuff like that I wonder if people actually perceive reality. This take is the polar opposite of what is happening today.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:09 AM
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who never had to put forth much effort back when women had to get married to survive This is honestly, no offense, a delusional take. You say that women had it hard because they had to use makeup and high heels to compete? Well, in that time period, men had to work 10 hours a day in demanding, soul-crushing jobs to even be considered a potential mate. Both genders had leverage. Now, men have pretty much none, while women still do. It's insane to think that today's playing field is in any way lev…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:07 AM
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While I agree that nobody is at fault (who can really be at fault if you investigate such macro-trends) and I agree that our society is generally getting more anti-social by the day, I tend to feel like that disadvantages men more than women. Men are less social by default and more prone to feel lonely. They also tend to bottle their emotions more and get belittled if they openly share that they feel that way. Also men usually being the pursuers but at the same time losing most of their 'leverag…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:00 AM
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Who hurt you? ... and that's usually the best answer to 90% of posts on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 03:41 PM
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It's usually low sex-drive women that watched too many disney movies who say this. They can't enjoy sex due to insecurities and project that onto their men. They'll actually view it as a negative if their man openly desires them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 03:40 PM
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One thing I learned over the years is to stay away from women like you who view sex as a transactional component in a relationship rather than enjoying a spiritual connecting of two people. One of my exes would constantly act like me wanting to have sex with her and me loving her were two different things. Like, I wouldn't be in a relationship with her if we didn't have sex. Obviously we wouldn't, not because I expect my partner to have sex with me, but rather because it is an integral part of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 03:39 PM
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I would find it weird, as I generally feel like it is a very weird thing for people in committed relationships to watch porn by themselves, male or female. For many it replaces their sex drive over the course of the relationship and I think that is kind of... not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:04 AM
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listens to boring music low sex drive / vanilla sex / no sex-positivity is very anti-drugs can't take a joke and/or doesn't get sarcasm has no real hobbies and no real friend circle
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:52 AM
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Nothingburger Nothingburger Humblebrag Nothingburger Humblebrag This is your post
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:28 PM
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a lot of people call moderate to often porn watching an addiction I don't really care, I think there is no benefit in watching porn even just 'recreationally', it ruins your sex drive, warps your expectations, it is addictive, it might give you ED in the long run, it's a bottomless outlet for frustration, it's mostly shameful to oneself, it is totally detached from actual sex, the porn industry is a fully degenerate tar-pit and it is actually just voyeurism in an alternate form. or who have just…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:36 AM
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So you are recognizing that an imbalance/dissonance exists, but attribute it to an entire gender 'letting themselves go', even if there is no data that suggests so? Is it such a wild take that Instagram and OLD have changed the landscape in a way that heavily favors women? I mean, it's not even a criticism of women as a whole, why do you think it warrants resorting to blaming men as a whole? ...but the moment you use that exact same logic to suggest that women laser-swiping-left on anything unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:30 PM
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Yeah, go on and ruin your own sanity aswell, that'll show 'em!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:20 PM
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I feel like that's just a surefire way to hurt yourself in the long run, stemming from insecurity, but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:28 AM
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Your wife seems like a horrible person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:03 AM
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People constantly mistake being vulnerable with being weak or crying in front of girls. I interpret being vulnerable as being able to put myself out there - subject myself to rejection, don't hide or put on a mask. And in some way, realizing that women not accepting the real me are not a loss. What vulnerability means to me is basically 'I don't care if you might hurt me for being true to myself.'
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:02 AM
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That's where you're wrong. Go talk to some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:44 PM
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He said two things: be a kind person -> Nearly all women don't care about that, at least not for dating. Like, not at all, zero, you might even say it's a detriment to you if you are overly kind. be fun to be around -> This does indeed work, but you still have to pursue women or you are just goofing around. You still need some form of game. If you don't have game, but you are funny, you're just a clown basically. I associate mostly the kindness stuff with being blue-pilled, and seeing as more an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:17 AM
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EVERYBODY eats manosphere logic nowadays like cereal for breakfast. Even most guys I know who are in relationships talk that way. I think Onlyfans was the final nail in the coffin for the broad masses. Which I honestly don't like, because I think the whole 'High Value Man' stuff is bullshit compensation and doesn't work either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:13 AM
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Every step you go towards your goal is a success.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:36 PM
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Alright, thanks for the input bro, much appreciated
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:42 AM
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You are free to believe that but this is exactly what happens
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:18 PM
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your mind is made already
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:15 PM
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what qualifies as a 'warm' approach to you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:41 PM
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It's still the best game you can play
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:58 PM
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This is actually a bonus of having deleted my IG. Either girls give me their number, and if they don't, at least I don't have to compete with the 50 simps in her DM's.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:37 PM
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When I read comments like this I always wonder why I and most guys I know get 0 results on OLD lol. I'm 29, 6'2'', good-looking, in great shape. Easy-going profile, not compensating much. But I guess my pics are shite because I just don't take many and I abandoned social media a few years ago. I wonder if it is because I swiped right only on about 1 in 15 girls, but I guess my standards are set by my real-life experiences. Most girls I talk to about Tinder always assume I'm crushing on there but…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:34 PM
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I'd say messaging on IG is another, less effective form of cold approach. OLD these days is just a toxic slot-machine that ravages guys' mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:24 PM
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Which is all becoming less common because society is atomized and social circles are shrinking as people become more and more isolated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:23 PM
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Women have never liked cold approaches They do if they like the guy. And then afterwards they never say 'I was cold approached', they say 'We caught eyes and he just talked to me' or 'We met at the train'. Cold approaches and pushy men You are minimizing the pushy part if you are actually good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:21 PM
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It just generally doesn’t work This is just not true. Maybe this is your experience, but it has worked for me, many guys I talked online and even some friends of mine that have never before heard of pickup or cold approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:19 PM
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Yeah, you can push those numbers, but when you start doing it and are subpar looks-wise and with your social skills, it might just be <1%, depending on the girls you are approaching. If everything is in order, you have experience, confidence and good looks, you might have a success rate of 10% or more, maybe even around 40-50% if you do 'lukewarm'-approaching in a club or some similar place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:16 PM
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It's rough in the beginning. You automatically projected what you were feeling to the other person, so it actually was sleazy. When you get smoother with it and learn to handle rejection it starts to feel a lot more natural. But I refuse to buy into the mindset that asking a girl if she would like to grab a drink sometime is toxic or intruding. That is just another example to me that society is doomed and getting more parasocial by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:13 PM
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Cold approaching has a substantial failure rate, but if it does work, women mostly backwards rationalize it and would never say that they were 'cold approached'. Most girls I've approached successfully afterwards told people 'We met at the club' or 'We caught eyes and he just came over', usually framing it in a positive light. Cold approaching is looked down upon if it doesn't work, but if there is chemistry (let's say in about 1/10 cases) most women will speak highly of it, at least in my exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:09 PM
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"I'm horny so she'll do..." I never did that and probably never will. It's mostly guys with super low demands who do that and I don't believe most women have low demands because they have a lot more supply, among other things
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:11 PM
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That's fair, I can see that. I tend to give a lot even when it's just a ONS but I know many guys who don't even give head or minimize foreplay because they don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:08 PM
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I think they are saying what they want to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:05 PM
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I literally laughed out as I read this. How should he have a better understanding, this thread is just a pile of rationalization, which, funny enough, is 100% what I expected when I read the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:07 AM
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But OF COURSE it had nothing to do with you being horny, I literally can't anymore. This should be printed in the dictionary under 'rationalization', it's just too perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:05 AM
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Of course they did, they were probably shamed to hell and back by other women and provider simps. Doesn't change the primal nature of their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:58 AM
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I like how every man will just straight up admit to this pretty obvious fact but almost all women jump through weird loopholes to rationalize their behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:56 AM
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'I had no lust for my flings whatsoever, I was just so horny that my rational brain was overridden and now I backwards rationalize the shit out of it.'
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:54 AM
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It's literally so pointless to figure out who to put the blame on. The world doesn't revolve around you, ride the waves or drown in the ocean like the other drones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:41 PM
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It is normally catfights or manipulation lol Crazy thing to say when at least 1/3 of all physical abuse victims are men but the ratio of male-female shelters is about 1/1000.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:34 AM
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Does it matter? Are car accidents less problematic in Italy than they are in the States because there are less people living there?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:31 AM
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'The CDC has stated that 43.8% of lesbian women reported experiencing physical violence, stalking, or rape by their partners.' [...] 'In contrast, 35% of heterosexual women reported having been victim of intimate partner violence.' It is not, this is just another example of the current societal trend of 'muh men bad'. Also, no hard feelings, but it is pretty disgusting that you think rape is less explicit if it doesn't involve penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:25 AM
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That's usually the problem of late virgins, they put sex on this crazy high pedestal and view it as a separate part of dating and attractiveness, when it is really embedded and intertwined into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:11 AM
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Ever thought about the fact that someone might be a virgin BECAUSE he is undesirable or framing himself as such, not the other way around?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:10 AM
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you forgot the weird self-centered coping
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:07 AM
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is about as shallow as everything else about them My bitterness meter just went off
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:05 AM
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Bumble is unnatural in a way by trying to flip the script. It's still guys having to rizz up girls, just hidden behind the girls having to express initial interest by saying 'hey'. You can't override biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:04 AM
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I love a good blackpill cope in the morning. The world is obviously divided into braindead alpha chads and suave rizzlord sigma males, that's how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:01 AM
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I don't understand, really. Most women like an experienced and confident man. Sure you might still be sexually confident as a virgin but it's just a lot less likely. That's pretty much all there is to it. Let's face it, women do not actually LOVE men. They view men as a trophy, as arm candy, as a means to an end to impress their peers. Lmao it's wild what people are interpreting into this nowadays. Women primarily want security and adventure and they tend to fall in love with a man who can provi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:54 AM
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Social media is not social though. At best it is a rudimentary surrogate for real social contact. Social media has as much to do with real social dynamics as watching porn has with having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:48 AM
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I'm shocked to see the unfairness in dating I feel like it makes it a lot easier to get through life if you accept that nothing in it is inherently fair. and can you believe they're in their late twenties and never even got to experience a basic experience such as a kiss They probably don't have rizz or they internalized a lot of seriousness into their game. Or both. dating apps Dating apps are a trap insofar as seemingly facilitating dating for men when they actually don't. Also, neither most w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:07 PM
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I don't know if it is the same study we are both referencing, but I recollect it as saying that on a scale from 1-7, men rate themselves as a 3.5 on average, which is statistically perfectly normal. While women rate themselves as something like a 2.5 on average. So in actuality, women are underestimating themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 12:26 PM
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'With regard to the rape allegations made to police or campus authority that are proven false after a thorough investigation has established that no crime was committed or attempted, estimates generally vary from 2% to 10%.' Yeah, guess ~5% is just being paranoid. Totally doesn't happen to some dudes. And what are they complaining about, 5 years in prison for nothing? Pfft. Did you know that the risk of infection with HIV is like 0,1% on normal intercourse? Guess that whole talk about preventing…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 12:06 PM
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How is this any different advice than telling girls to 'just not fuck assholes' and 'stop doing ONS'? I seriously think this argument is on the same level as telling people to 'just move to some other country if you don't like it here'.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 12:02 PM
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If women dress themselves properly, stop being slutty, and make sure not to walk alone at night, they are not likely to get raped. And if theyre really concerned, then they should just stop flirting with men outside of a relationship. What is the rate of rape vs the rate of consensual sexual intercourse? Bearing in mind that most rapists get judged for their crimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 11:58 AM
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literally not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 11:17 AM
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I'm guessing your underlying misandry is also the product of some frustration? It's interesting how spiteful your use of 'good behaviour' is, as if guys behave like that purely to attract women and then get frustrated when it doesn't work. Which is mostly just not true. A lot of guys just were brought up in a way to be humble, respectful and put others needs in front of their own. You can blame mothers if you don't like that. The frustration of guys stems from the fact, or better, from the reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:19 PM
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No it's not lol. At least not for everyone. There are often elements in play of validation, exploration, satisfaction, potentially deeper feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:34 PM
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I don't know where you people live where fucking a whore is the same thing as fucking a young, hot girl that wants you bad. Whores do not fix this problem, much less for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 12:08 PM
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Yeah, would be great. Though, I prefer to shape my reality according to the maxime that not everyone is just being nice. Let's call it more realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 12:58 PM
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What we need to do is encourage women to be nicer to men and not take advantage of them. Won't happen. A woman dates a man primarily for his value, so it is completely innate that she takes advantage of him. You could even go as far as saying that women actively search for the guys to best take advantage off. What you can change is your value, what kind of advantage are you offering? Is she 'taking advantage' off you by valueing your masculinity, enjoying your protection, your stability? Good, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 12:56 PM
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Hey. You. Yes, you. You will be dead one day. DEAD. 100%. And here you are, wasting your precious time lusting after a married slut that would drop you dead just as she does with her husband. You are better than that, brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:02 AM
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This is such bullshit. Stop overcomplicating reality with bogus models that some incel came up with in his basement. as they begin to respect their partner, they discontinue degrading or objectifying sexual acts for more considerate or simple ones Bull fucking shit. For me it is even the exact opposite. I really don't know how people can come up with bullshit like that and let it dictate their reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:59 AM
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There is only one thing to do. Deep down, you know what it takes. Listen to your balls, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:54 AM
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What about the absurdist Fuckboy? When you kinda adopted a nihilistic view of romantic love and relationships but then you also want to fuck because you are a horny testosterone-fueled 20-something dude and picking up girls is kind of fun. But deep inside you still got a little hope that maaaaybe there will be one that sticks out from the crowd. But even then it's still a fucking relationship that becomes stale and boring and in modern society goes inevitable down the drain after a max of a few …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 01:43 PM
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You only want her because you can't have her right now. You probably had a good reason for breaking up with her. Don't get manipulated by your feelings!
/r/seduction17/12/19 02:17 PM
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Good lord, we have a mod now that actually enforces the rules? I like it, keep going!
/r/seduction17/12/19 02:15 PM
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Holy shit this is supremely fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:17 AM
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That is definitely true, 30+ I would also prefer bars or streetgame. And yes you are right, I am 25.
/r/seduction15/12/19 04:35 PM
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Why do I go out with my boys? To have fun. The same reason girls go with their 'tribe'. And I often see girls in groups of 2 aswell. As for the cockblocking, if you don't only game your target, but game the whole group, you will sometimes even have the exact opposite of cockblocking, but instead the girl's friends will root for you and push you. I had one time a girl's best friend practically pushing her to go home with me because I built some rapport with her. And dunno how it's in different ci…
/r/seduction15/12/19 03:51 PM
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How the fuck is it difficult to game girls in clubs? I'll admit that it's probably not the optimal starting ground for a LTR if you are looking exclusively for that (even tho it still happens, lots of times, I met my ex at the club for instance). But shit, firstly everybody is drunk which makes people more outgoing, and is also a plus if you are like me and like drinking. Girls are also more receptive as they go to the club with the intention of meeting somebody. Then the atmosphere with loud mu…
/r/seduction15/12/19 02:07 PM
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This is why 70% of divorces are initiated by women. They get bored by their betas eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 12:21 PM
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No, that's reality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:40 AM
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Models Models Models Models Models You don't need any other book IMO. Read Models by Mark Manson and then applicate. This book has everything, you don't need any more theory.
/r/seduction14/12/19 01:40 PM
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Lol seriously this... A friend of mine is together with his current girlfriend for like one and a half year, and he already paid like two full one-week vacations for her and buys her gifts all the time. Retarded shit to be honest. Find a girl who is financially stable and if she isn't, don't blow sugar up her ass all the time. As for the wedding ring, I also don't see that. My cousin's fiance paid like 300 bucks for the ring when he proposed to her, which is totally okay IMO. If your girl is act…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:30 PM
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They disdain high n-count women because they get what those guys want but cant get themselves. They feel entitled to girls putting out ASAP because they are horny and want to fuck. It's actually that simple. Classic double-standard. It's the same thing with girls hating on 'player guys' but then fucking exactly those guys. People say one thing and do another, this is not female-exclusive behaviour. Humans just can't be honest, not even with themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:24 PM
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You know, I'm all for tattoos, and I would say that a good tattoo is not at all trashy. But honestly, if I were with a girl and she had 'daddy's girl' tattoed right above her cunt, then yes, I would assume a certain level of trashieness and I would call that a red flag for a serious relationship lol. Would still hit her tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:10 PM
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Not exactly the same, as i would estimate at least about 20% of girls my age have tattoos, but there are probably only 0,001% fedora wearing neckbeards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:06 PM
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as actually being with someone you love I feel like that is mostly true, but you can have great casual sex or ONS, it's just less likely. And I could also make the statement that sex often starts to be less exciting in a relationship after some time and can actually be a dealbreaker for many couples after months of a relationship. there really isn't any secondary considerations Yeah I guess these are risks you have to take if you want to enjoy casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 03:31 PM
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The only upside to casual sex is short-term validation I don't know, what about the fulfillment of your desires, the excitement, the energized feeling afterwards, the adrenaline rush, the actual fun you have? I don't know but I would choose casual sex over masturbating any day lol Also: Masturbating to porn is wrong and unhealthy. Besides being risky for mental health, It also degrades both men and women by reducing sex to a kind of business transaction as opposed to intimate act of love between…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 02:34 PM
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Women are biologically bound to be attracted by resourceful men. You could also call it social dominance or social status, because it's not necessarily the resources itself that attract a woman, but rather seeing the potential in a man to earn resources. A man without these resources or the potential to earn them can't offer lomg-term value to women. It's a pretty complex topic that I only briefly touched here, but I can recommend you the book Models by Mark Manson, I honestly think he did a fan…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:30 PM
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You are purposefully misrepresenting what I said in order to discuss pointless semantics. Complain all you want lol, I don't care. It won't help. I'm here to help people, not spread negativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 11:31 AM
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I found this, for what it's worth. In the context of the full model, five predictors [...] were significant predictors. Gender was a negative predictor (men cheat more often), satisfaction was negative, while number of sex partners, quality of alternatives and impulsivity were found as positive predictors. So I would say the sparse science on this topic seems to imply some correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:12 PM
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The world is not 0 and 1 my dude. And you can work around problems. And that last sentence you seem to keep referring was more tongue-in-cheek. If you are literally so ugly that no girl on this planet will ever want to be with you no matter what you do, then I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:37 PM
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I swear this place is infested since purge week
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:08 PM
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No but I worked on combatting the problem. I could also make posts on the internet every day complaining about how shitty it is to be born with OCD. But whatever dude, like I give a fuck if you bathe in self-loathing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:51 PM
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I wish this was true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:09 PM
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A good body can make a big difference and you can achieve that with 5 hours of workout a week. Reading Mark Manson's Models takes one week. Saving money for cosmetic surgery is harder, but it can be done if you are determined. I'm not saying that everybody can be Channing Tatum or whatever, but you definitely have some space to play in. Assuming you live in the US or Europe, you have more opportunities to change than 90% of people will have in their entire lifetime. But complaining on the intern…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:44 PM
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So? I'm born with OCD and I can't make that go away either. The effort comes when playing the game even if your hand is shitty. You can't complain and get a new hand, and no one said it is fair, that's not life. So there is no other option than doing what you can to achieve what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:26 PM
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Hair system is better, I know 2 guys wearing them who slay like crazy. Also anyone looks better jacked. If you don't even work out, don't cry about it. Go pick up a martial art, learn how to stand your ground. Height. Yes it sucks being small but like 80% of girls are smaller than 170cm. You can't change it, but you can change your frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:21 PM
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Thanks to this study for perfectly summarizing something that was common sense for anyone living in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:47 PM
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Low-value men (see how I avoided saying the i-word) love rubbing shit like this in your face and saying 'see, this is why im miserable!', instead of just accepting the fucking reality and doing what they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:42 PM
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[...] In both studies, men perceived sexual advances as less negative than women, [...] I wonder who is surprised by these findings though. For the ugly guys in this thread: Yes, being ugly is a disadvantage. Start doing something about it. There are no ugly guys, only lazy ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:35 PM
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Basically eat her pussy for ~20 min and then fuck her like an animal
/r/seduction28/11/19 01:39 PM
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Look if you are paying like 100$ bills in expensive restaurants for girls who obviously just want to milk your pockets, then yeah, just stop doing that. If you are running into a financial crisis because of inviting a girl for 1 or 2 drinks, overthink your life decisions. If you think a girl owes you sex because you paid her drinks, and you get mad after the date because you spent like 10$ on this bitch and now she wont even bang you, overthink your mindset. And if you don't have money for shit,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 03:02 PM
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Scarcity usually leads to oneitis, in my personal and observational experience. But you shouldn't try to supress your feelings, rather you should learn how to move on and how to disconnect feelings/heartbreak from the other areas in your life. The problem isn't catching feelings for a girl, the problem is it destroying you if it doesn't work out or you throwing your life out of the window because you think that this girl is going to be your all and everything. In an abundance mindset, you will b…
/r/seduction27/11/19 10:08 AM
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Honestly, the theory is fun and all, but I, for example, waited way too long for the theory to do work on its own. It won't. But when you start to actually apply all this stuff, there are so many puzzle pieces falling into the right place, it's just beautiful. You can read a book about playing the guitar, but you won't know how to play. Practice is the bread and butter for honing your skills, but the best way to get better is practice in combination with theory.
/r/seduction26/11/19 10:55 AM
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This is mostly because of a different way of communication. On average, girls are just less straightforward and more emotional when it comes to communicating. They drop subtle hints because they want to lure you in, they want YOU to make a move. They want to have the feeling that they have seduced you, but without being too obvious. A girl's fantasy in a moment like this is that she just stands there being cute, smiling at you briefly and you just being blown away by her, coming over, talking to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:41 AM
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People are picky if they can afford to. More women can afford it compared to men.There, I solved the riddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 01:16 PM
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It's obviously not as simple as flipping a switch and then you're good to go. There are a lot of variables coming into play here, however I want to give you some food for thought. 1) Take sex off the pedestal. That's right, I speak from experience as I also lost my virginity at 19 y/o. Sex is... just sex. It's a completely normal thing to most people. Speak openly about it, act like it's no big deal. Stop seeing yourself as a special snowflake because you are a virgin. You are not. Nobody cares,…
/r/seduction19/11/19 11:26 AM
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Wow it's almost like you can individually choose what person you want to be... And here I was, thinking you could only be red or blue pill, how silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 08:31 PM
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Yes! Don't listen to the OP if you are in doubt. I honestly wonder why she got upvoted so hard. Feels like a lot of guys are desperately clinging to their nice-guy utopia.
/r/seduction14/11/19 12:02 PM
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Ah shit here we go again... let's break this down... 1) Your post is anecdotal. Also you are virtue-signalling and your dating advice is shit. No hard feelings. 2) Ofc the first moments are cringe, it's normal. People need to calibrate themselves in social conversation. And it's also this way, albeit less intense, if you approach someone in a club or bar. It just takes away some of the awkwardness. Of course you are going to be a little uncomfortable at first - the question is whether there is c…
/r/seduction14/11/19 11:55 AM
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who attempt to coax women into having sex with them through a mixture of flattery, psychological manipulation and coercion nefarious tactics, such as negging – insulting a woman to undermine her confidence, and make her feel as if she has to seek your approval The thing that always bugs me when outsiders talk about seduction: They act like PUA's invented some kind of black magic hex to put a spell on women or something. No. It's literally just stuff that works, as seen on succesful men that don'…
/r/seduction05/11/19 12:48 PM
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Yes, it's normal to not want to be normal. I guess it's one of the most normal things there is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:49 AM
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You are not longing after a 'normal' dating life. I consider many of your points somewhat valid, but the thing is, what you want to be is Chad, essentially. You want to be desired, you want to have the feeling of girls chasing after you, soaking their panties over sighting you in the club. This is NOT normal. And I'm saying this as a guy who, in complete honesty, also has a crack for getting validation from women. And how could you not? There are women all over social media, our brain is getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:59 AM
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What do I care. I don't even want to slutshame you in the slightest, but your lifestyle seems so excessive, scummy and unhealthy that you might aswell be a caricature. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 09:45 PM
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Who the fuck is talking about personality. Game is about asserting social status/social dominance. Women virtue signal often when they talk about stuff like that, get over it. You wouldn't admit to a girl straight up that you would fuck her ass if she was asking, even if it is true. Game works. Looks just make it easier to pull of, since yeah, looks matter and they also signify a certain social status by themselves. Also: Game =/= PUA.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 01:58 PM
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Ambitious nihilism... isn't that pretty much the definition of absurdism?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 11:59 AM
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You can't 'win'. Someday you will be dead, your grandkids will remember you, their kids will know you maybe by name, and their offspring then will not have a fucking clue who you were. Passing your genes would be the closest to an objective meaning of life, at least you are playing your role in this bigger scheme called evolution. Everything else? Just fucking enjoy it while it lasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 11:58 AM
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Why do you downvote this gal? This is the only correct answer in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 11:43 AM
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So after looking through her post history, it seems to me that OP is either... a 19F black proud slut, making extra cash through e-thottery, bragging about leading men on to the point of desperation, bragging to get 'anally raped', bragging to have psychopathic tendencies and probably looking how much STD she can amass before 20. Orrrr... an incel posing as a women for some weird troll fetish. You make your pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 11:12 AM
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Dude are you alright lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:26 PM
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I'm always happy to help someone who wants to help himself. But fuck these bitter, misogynistic, self-loathing, cringy edgelords that call themselves incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:25 PM
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Women want what they use to SEX. Men get what they SEX to have SEXY SEX SEX.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 01:54 PM
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Nutting raw in a thirsty girl is one of the most animalic and satisfying things you can do. I can't really resist if the girl wants it. All you can do is trust that they take the pill. Kids... later in life. I'm not even done studying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 01:37 PM
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No true scotsman!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 09:55 AM
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You kids with your fucking pills
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 10:21 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 10:16 PM
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“Flow in the living moment. — We are always in a process of becoming and nothing is fixed. Have no rigid system in you, and you’ll be flexible to change with the ever changing. Open yourself and flow, my friend. Flow in the total openness of the living moment. If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves. Moving, be like water. Still, be like a mirror. Respond like an echo.” (Bruce Lee)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 03:57 PM
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Lots of average and even above average looking guys are overlooked. It's because looks only play one of many parts in your attractiveness as a man. The figure of sexless men is rising because... Social media/Online dating being the new norm while also being skewed to strongly favor women on the sexual market (which also explains the rising figures beginning in 2008) young men being essentially raised to be self-loathing whimps who are afraid of every expression of masculinity, in combination wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 10:52 AM
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I’m a Virgin, 20yo male. Chill out. I was 20 when I first had sex and I have made a lot of experiences since then. Good friend of me same thing. No pressure. I feel like I missed out on casual sex as well as having a serious relationship. Yeah, I know that feeling. But the thing with the past is, it is gone, you can't touch it anymore. You can only learn from what has happened and cherish your memories. Focus on what you can do now, as you have plenty of time left. Should I try to have a serious…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 01:28 PM
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This is pretty much my stance on this topic. Everybody can do whatever they want, but nobody is immune to judgement and the reactions by other people. Do I care if a woman is a slut? No. I have no problem with banging around, I'm doing it too. But there is a point where I start to find it gross and it makes the woman less attractive to me. Can't help that. Can I still be cool with this girl? Of course, I won't hold her sexuality against her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 01:08 PM
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You don't really have to. It's not about pursuing, but really just about showing her that you are into her. You can do this by body language (distance, posture, facial expressions) or by subcommunicating it (sexualising the conversation). Important is that you do it early, and with the right balance of subletly and obviousness. You will find that the conversation usually goes very differently from this point, girls often reciprocate the flirting once they notice that you find them attractive and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 11:26 AM
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Well I guess there is a fine line that you can't really objectively draw on when (malicious) manipulation starts and when it's just 'tactics/strategy'. For example, I am a guy who often compliments his peers, and I like a good compliment if it's honest. However, I noticed already as a teen that when doing it to girls who I was flirting with, they were actually losing interest more often than not. So I basically told myself to refrain from making these standard compliments to a girl early in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 10:36 AM
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This manipulation stuff is such bullshit. Speech by definition is manipulation, ALWAYS. A salesman trying to sell you a car? Manipulation. Your teacher telling you to do your homework? Manipulation. Your best friend telling you that X did Y? Manipulation. Everyone manipulates other people on a daily basis. The problem is more ill intentions - are you lying to get what you want? Are you purposefully hurting feelings, or hiding your true intentions? That would be malicious manipulation. And actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 10:01 AM
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Look, the discussion was whether the average Joe has more success running tinder or running game. By your description just here, I can estimate that you are more good-looking than, say 80% of guys. So it doesn't really surprise me that you're doing semi-well on tinder. I would even say that I have it pretty much the same, so I can relate. Did you see those posts of the guy on dataisbeautiful? Where he swiped like 25,000 times and still get only 15 matches or so? THAT is the average/below average…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 10:31 AM
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What I mean by that is that society is portraying masculinity as something negative. I was more referring to your figure of 30% young men and rising, it wasn't related to you. And anecdotally, I experience the exact opposite of your anecdote in my social circle and myself. Guess that's the problem with anecdotal evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 10:14 AM
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run social circle game Or just run normal game which is 10x more effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:30 PM
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That is because masculinity is dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:29 PM
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get laid with just their looks on tinder Just one aspect of many. Who is gonna get laid more, assuming equal attractiveness: The guy with three mirror selfies, or the guy who showcases his interesting life? Women of course factor looks aswell (on Tinder obviously more than in real life), but to a lesser degree than men who almost exclusively factor looks (especially on Tinder), instead they also factor other aspects of his profile. you don't have time to go out and approach strangers during the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:28 PM
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Okay, so first of all, I can greatly recommend the beginner reads linked here in the sidebar. There you can find reading recommendations, FAQ's, beginner questions etc. It's a great place to start going. Aside from that, I will tell you from my perspective what types of material there are, and where you should start digging in IMO: Books This is where you should start IMO. There is a lot of lecture, and specifically one book gets recommended a great deal on here, it is 'Models' by Mark Manson. T…
/r/seduction11/08/19 03:26 PM
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Look, this is in no way meant to offend you. But people coming to this sub, without any apparent background knowledge of seduction, asking these very specific questions, it's like the equivalent of someone having absolutely no clue on programming and then posting his broken code in a forum and asking people to fix it for him. You have to understand that seduction advice is not made to help you with a single specific girl. It is taylored to make you better with girls in general. For example, furt…
/r/seduction11/08/19 01:11 PM
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no longer want to deal with ANY social obligation at all, ever. You seem to have made up your mind. Why are you here, then? Change your frame bro. I have EVERY possible quality women do not want. Every single point that you listed can be changed if you work on it. With that mindset, however, you have already set your fate in stone. Why is that? Also, there is no 'all women'. For example, some girls will like me for my for my dark humor, some will hate me for it. Most won't mind either way. In an…
/r/seduction09/08/19 08:38 AM
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I swear that if you accept that silence does sometimes happen during any conversation, and you learn to be confident throughout it and not perceive it as awkward, so often the girl will come up with a new topic by herself. Which then shifts the dynamic, you could see it as a form of push and pull. Some essential tips for OP: Assume attraction, you have nothing to lose by that. Give the girl room to seduce you! You are not some form of entertainer who is obligated to provide talking points all th…
/r/seduction09/08/19 08:23 AM
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Yo dude I love weed, but it's terrible for socializing IMO. Or at least, it's good to put some depth into existing bonds, but I sure as hell can't do approaches in a club/party when I'm stoned. If you go out, leave a joint at home and aim to smoke it with the girl you will potentially take home.
/r/seduction24/06/19 07:07 AM
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What do you wanna hear lol? It sounds like you only want someone to tell you that your efforts are fruitless and your soul is doomed forever. With that attitude you have towards sex you'll never get it you can trust me. You act like sex is something super special but for non virgins its just a normal thing. Transform that fear into desire. Try stopping to fap for a while. Also you sound like you think all your problems stem from your virginity, which I can assure you is not the case. Anyways, yo…
/r/seduction01/08/17 12:38 AM
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in a situation as simple as this . creates reddit thread about situation
/r/seduction01/08/17 12:23 AM
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It doesn't change anything about the fact that you have to approach. I was very skinny and now I have a very toned body, and the only thing that changed is that I'm getting more compliments and funny reactions when girls undress you. BUT girls won't magically flock on your dick or some shit. You still have to approach. It just sometimes makes it easier if you do. The most important thing though is that it gives you self confidence. Hitting the gym will have you love and worship your own body eve…
/r/seduction19/07/17 06:02 PM
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The fear never goes away completely, you have to learn to work with it. For starters, try to just greet random people on the street, in the train. Learn to communicate without a deeper intention. Try to hold prolonged conversation, when you are thrown into it. Ask the cashier how her day was. Stuff like that. Then you will notice that talking to women is easy, and the hardest part is actually going there and saying the first few words.
/r/seduction14/07/17 12:40 PM
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I will share something with you that resonated with me. Actually it is the first rule of the earth of modern satanism. I'm not one myself, but this particular rule makes a lot of sense to me. "Do not give opinion or advice unless you are asked for it." This is a good way to prevent crossing that line of needyness. It is not your job to fix her life. If she is asking for help you can provide it. You are not a bad person who wants to see other people suffer. BUT you have to deal with your own shit…
/r/seduction14/07/17 12:30 PM
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1 and 2 make me think, why do people always want to live by absolutes? You are referencing a model of reality, it isn't always perfect and you always need to apply it to yourself and to the situation. I like to think that delivery is key, but in many situations you also shouldn't underestimate the power of word. 'It doesn't matter what you say' is just a phrase to get you out of your head, it doesn't mean that you will net the same results in every situation if you start strictly talking trash. …
/r/seduction30/06/17 12:21 PM
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Number 1 shouldn't really be an issue. Always try to kiss on the first date, even if she rejects you it is better than not trying. This is an easy way to get in her head and show what you want. I wouldn't strictly interpret it as disinterest though, I have had girls tell me that and they were strongly interested. It depends a lot on the person, age, circumstances... always read the situation. Best way to counter number 3 is to just ignore it. If she talks about her boyfriend, ex-boyfriend, guy s…
/r/seduction30/06/17 11:51 AM
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Which part of the story don't you believe? I have no reason to bullshit anyone, especially not here.
/r/seduction12/06/17 08:55 PM
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Haha I like it! I will try it out when I see fit.
/r/seduction12/06/17 08:53 PM
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I don't approach a lot, just when I'm out with my boys, not in public. I am actually quite good with girls, its just hard for me to get out of my mind and actually approach and the stuff here and youtube really helped me to combat this anxiety. Im glad I did so, there have been positive and negative experiences but its a hundred times better than the way I dealt with it before (doing precisely nothing). I consider myself way happier than before I started getting into PUA theory and self-developm…
/r/seduction12/06/17 08:52 PM
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Thanks, great answer!
/r/seduction12/06/17 04:52 PM
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So you just sleep with girls when you are 100% sure that they want to just fuck, or what? I can say from my experience that in many cases I can't really tell and many girls change their mind AFTER a few times of having sex. My question was more like, do you guys stop gaming, or even go as far as denying a lay if you notice that the girl has more than just sexual interest in you?
/r/seduction12/06/17 04:29 PM
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Okay dude that just resonated with me because I basically was the same way, and sometimes still am. The thing is really, your mind is tricky, and what you are going through is completely normal and understandable (sort of?). So, whenever you talk to a girl, kiss, touch her, hook up with her, your brain will capture all these beautiful moments and associate them with positive emotions. So after a while, if you are needy, because you don't have many women in your life, and you think about that one…
/r/seduction12/06/17 02:36 PM
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Texting can definitely work, especially if your social media profile oozes value. A friend of mine has 4000+ followers on his IG and its super easy to actually make use of this. Its not much different than tinder but I would go as far and say IG is even easier if your profile is solid. But even in that case it's just a method to get to see the girls in public. Sooooo, in your case... it's your choice really, but for most guys its just so much more effective to talk to girls from face to face. Yo…
/r/seduction12/06/17 02:23 PM
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I don't want to say too much, but before you end this one chance you have, just sell your shit, pack your bag and travel the world. Get a ticket. Buy a car and just drive. There is so much beauty on this planet to explore. Why would you end your life over shit and decisions that other people made. Just learn there is more to life than a fucking job and girls. Learn to love life again.
/r/seduction09/06/17 01:58 PM
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Yes dude, I am very aware of that. The thing is that I also see this notion of girls increasing their expectations while most guys seem to lower theirs. This is not the way to go however. By lowering your own value you are telling yourself that you are not good enough. What you should never forget is that even though there might be some things fucked up on the macroscopic view of the dating world, and movies like that have always been out and spewing fairytales at young girls, but never forget t…
/r/seduction07/06/17 10:49 AM
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I explicitly said that there are no 'bad' hobbies in itself, and OP's question was what hobbies ATTRACT the most girls. Are you even capable of nuanced views? 'There's just not much as far as a "universal" hobby goes.' Where did I say anything different? I was just trying to explain why most chicks wet their pants when you play them a half-assed version of wonderwall with your shirt off in the bedroom. Also you are making too many assumptions for my taste. I didn't say that these are boring hobb…
/r/seduction07/06/17 10:33 AM
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I probably don't approach even close as much as you, but the fact that you're getting downvoted for it is a sad reflection of the state of this sub. It's like people want to do everything to get girls, besides actually just approaching girls. Might be a sign that they actually only want girls to satiate their ego.
/r/seduction06/06/17 09:25 PM
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I would rather compare it to saying your hobby is watching movies or reading books... nothing bad in itself, but such a broad topic that it doesn't really invite for deeper questions. Plus you have to consider that most girls don't have any inside knowledge of gaming. I sometimes mentioned to girls that I used to play a lot of games few years ago, what kinds of games and it was normal talk. But for most girls you can't really expect to get a lot of interaction from her if you dive deeper into th…
/r/seduction06/06/17 09:16 PM
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Nobody 'deserves' women. They are human beings dude. Of course they want certain qualities in their partners, so do you. You can't blame them for not wanting to be with you, especially if you can't even see qualities in yourself.
/r/seduction06/06/17 02:06 PM
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Just a random thought: Mostly you don't even have to ask that question if you just escalate a little instead. The harder you escalate the quicker the interaction will turn emotional/sexual and the question will answer itself. Easy to overdo it, however.
/r/seduction13/11/16 08:28 PM
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Overinvesting in your snapchat story, what a great way to outsource your confidence. Most people's stories are shit, especially girls, and most of the time it's super-obvious attention whoring. It's always those dudes and deeds that try to make more of their snapchat story than it is, who end up posting cringy bullshit, massive amounts of uninteresting, completely pointless content. My take on it: Just a good way of letting people know that you are still there, if you post something very interes…
/r/seduction13/11/16 11:58 AM
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Models by Mark Manson is a good book to start. I also recommend watching some of the free videos on youtube by Tyler, Julien, Max (RSD guys). They have great content and their videos often have lots of eye-opening moments. Also their stuff is not strictly about seduction, but also about self-development, which is, in my opinion, even more important, everyone can benefit from it. A lot of it is also practice, so don't get too deep into the theory.
/r/seduction28/10/16 12:25 PM
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To be honest, it depends on what you want from game. If you want to be the guy that goes to the club, searches for the hottest chick in there, takes her home and bangs her, and then never talks to her again, you can use that stuff. The "classic" PUA's did exactly that and they basically faked their entire personality. But if you read "the game" by Neil Strauss, he actually tells you that for the vast majority of them, it was detrimental to their happiness, it didn't fulfill them. If you are like…
/r/seduction08/07/16 10:45 AM
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Except the fact that "being yourself" is actually how you should and want to naturally behave, and obsessing over single texts or trying to find the "magic words" will make you a social robot in the long run.
/r/seduction08/07/16 10:28 AM
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I like to think that in the big picture, these details make little difference, and in the end your exact wording is close to irrelevant. If you ask a girl out via text, she will say yes or no depending on what you did before that and whether she wants to see you again or not. Does anyone really think she would have said yes if you had used different wording? I personally don't think it matters a lot as long as your texting is congruent with your actual personality. So don't overthink what you ar…
/r/seduction08/07/16 10:21 AM
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I am currently 21 years old and have been smoking for 2 years now, sometimes daily, sometimes less frequently. My success with girls didn't really change a lot since that time, but I did notice my game is a lot worse WHILE HIGH. However, I feel way more confident and have less problems with being outgoing while IM SOBER, but I can't say if there is any connection or if it's just the fact that I've been working on myself for some time now. I say it gets bad, and your conscience tells you that, if…
/r/seduction28/03/16 10:34 PM
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All this sub is doing is teaching you to get better with women. What you then do with these skills is your decision. Personally, my ultimate goal is not banging as many girls as possible. I want to increase the number of women I interact and socialize with. This may lead to new friends, or sex, or a relationship. You need to clear out your mind when interacting with girls and have 0, and I mean literally zero expectations. Interact and flirt with them because you want to do it right now and for …
/r/seduction25/09/15 07:22 AM
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I wish people would just stop saying "Alpha Male". Stop classifying people. That shit is the exact opposite of self-confidence.
/r/seduction02/07/15 10:07 PM
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If you already have a specific day in mind, put a direct phrase rather than a question: "Let's grab some drinks tomorrow. I'll pick you up." Something like that. Shows that you got something specific in mind and want to lead the conversation.
/r/seduction27/06/15 04:33 PM
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