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Escalation & CalibrationWonderful_Idea_5145/r/seduction05/02/25 01:59 AM
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Fundamentals Wonderful_Idea_5145/r/seduction04/10/24 06:01 PM
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Inner Game Wonderful_Idea_5145/r/seduction24/12/24 09:00 PM
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Outer Game Wonderful_Idea_5145/r/seduction02/02/25 11:17 PM
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Fundamentals Wonderful_Idea_5145/r/seduction03/02/25 04:03 AM
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Escalation & CalibrationWonderful_Idea_5145/r/seduction06/01/25 09:37 PM
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Fundamentals Wonderful_Idea_5145/r/seduction04/12/24 09:42 PM
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Fundamentals Wonderful_Idea_5145/r/seduction28/03/25 08:47 PM
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Outer Game Wonderful_Idea_5145/r/seduction21/09/24 08:58 PM
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Inner Game Wonderful_Idea_5145/r/seduction15/01/25 02:48 AM
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Field ReportWonderful_Idea_5145/r/seduction06/07/25 08:51 PM
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Fundamentals Wonderful_Idea_5145/r/seduction05/10/24 11:57 PM
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ResourcesWonderful_Idea_5145/r/seduction12/01/25 06:21 AM
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ConversationWonderful_Idea_5145/r/seduction02/02/25 05:44 PM
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Escalation & CalibrationWonderful_Idea_5145/r/seduction13/01/25 09:56 PM
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Field ReportWonderful_Idea_5145/r/seduction21/11/24 10:09 PM
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I have lots of female friends. They give really good advice about dating, and they'll set you up with their friends. I've gotten laid from the latter.
/r/seduction10/07/25 07:06 PM
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What kind of sub was it on?
/r/seduction28/06/25 05:34 PM
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Was it on an r4r sub? I'm always worried all the cute girls on there are just scammers
/r/seduction28/06/25 05:34 PM
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Thank you for the reminder to have a "buyer" mindset instead of a "seller" mindset. I keep reminding myself that yet for some reason it's so hard to actually feel that way.
/r/seduction03/04/25 06:00 PM
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Does it really matter if you're inside all day?
/r/seduction27/02/25 08:52 PM
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Can you expand a bit on what "letting your balls hang" entailed and the rest of this shift that you describe? It sounds like it was very fruitful.
/r/seduction22/02/25 11:32 PM
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I had that same experience in nyc too it's wild lol
/r/seduction22/02/25 05:35 PM
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Any other thoughts on this? How does this square with the principle of leading interactions as a male?
/r/seduction05/02/25 06:38 PM
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But it's also easy to go too far in this direction and not show enough interest/hardly contact her at all, which can cause women to lose interest in you.
/r/seduction03/02/25 07:57 PM
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So the "shit test" here is trying to ascertain if other girls have been interested in you or not? Or if you've had enough value to have other relationships in the past?
/r/seduction03/02/25 07:54 PM
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Can someone also provide an example please?
/r/seduction03/02/25 04:19 AM
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I live in CA too. I used to live in NY and girls are way more engaged/down. Any advice for improving things in CA, esp on dating apps?
/r/seduction20/01/25 04:16 AM
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What was the sub more like a decade ago compared to now?
/r/seduction19/01/25 08:48 PM
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Do you have any recommendations for books or resources that gave you this insight into the psychological process for women?
/r/seduction17/01/25 10:35 PM
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Do you have any recommendations for books on female psychology?
/r/seduction17/01/25 06:46 PM
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Why not let it look intentional? Guys appreciate that
/r/seduction16/01/25 05:13 PM
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Any books in particular by women?
/r/seduction13/01/25 06:45 PM
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Thanks again for your feedback, much appreciated. Staying fully engaged with your own life yet also staying engaged enough in communication can indeed feel like trying to strike a balance.
/r/seduction06/01/25 06:49 PM
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Would you say this also applies to how quickly a girl replies to messages? Like if she always replies within the hour, do the same/ if she doesn't usually respond until the next day, do the same?
/r/seduction05/01/25 03:39 AM
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No apologies needed as the length of your answer is appreciated, as is its depth.
/r/seduction04/01/25 07:01 PM
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How do you feel push-pull figures into fostering novelty/surprises? Do you think it is overly cynical to withold a certain amount so that certain things are more novel/induce more dopamine when they do happen? Not in a way that's being an asshole, but just in a way that's being collected and not obsequious
/r/seduction03/01/25 06:47 PM
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Thanks so much for all the input. Can you offer any more advice on how to message girls on dating apps, and keep them responding to you on dating apps? Much appreciated.
/r/seduction31/12/24 11:36 PM
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Reading Models by Mark Manson right now and it's really fantastic. Highly recommend.
/r/seduction31/12/24 08:58 PM
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Hey I just want to thank everyone for their support feedback and constructive criticism. A lot of suppressed emotions can come up for men and can manifest in nasty ways in this process, and it really helps me to process them by exploring them with other people on here.
/r/seduction27/12/24 09:07 PM
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So where does the idea of not caring about the outcome come in if you fall in love with someone?
/r/seduction05/12/24 03:04 AM
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This didn't occur to me before, that if she cares about how you perceive her she will be less likely to hook up with you. So then if the goal is for her not to like you too much, so she doesn't care about how you perceive her, how do you know how much to get her to like you so that she'll still want to hook up with you?
/r/seduction21/11/24 07:55 PM
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Thanks for all the great advice!
/r/seduction20/11/24 02:21 AM
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Can I ask how you get girls to come straight to your house for a first date? I'd say I'm a 7 or so and haven't really been able to pull that off, even with girls a lot less attractive than me.
/r/seduction20/11/24 01:12 AM
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Kind of mean
/r/seduction22/10/24 09:59 PM
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Addendum: I recently had a first date with a girl who seemed SUPER into me. Because she seemed very, very interested, I figured there'd be nothing to lose by ending it with "I'd love to hang out again sometime". Turns out I was wrong--radio silence from her after. So I guess even if a girl is ga-ga for you, you still shouldn't give complete assurance of your interest.
/r/seduction05/10/24 11:54 PM
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Can you please speak more to the point of more conservative girls not showing "any public displays of affection whatsoever, but are completely willing to get freaky once you’re in a more discrete location"? What is the general model to get them to a more discrete location if they are so reserved upon first contact?
/r/seduction24/09/24 01:10 AM
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