| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | What’s the point of female friendshipsI have lots of female friends. They give really good advice about dating, and they'll set you up with their friends. I've gotten laid from the latter. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 07:06 PM |
| 17 | Yall ever use reddit as a dating app?What kind of sub was it on? | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Yall ever use reddit as a dating app?Was it on an r4r sub? I'm always worried all the cute girls on there are just scammers | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 05:34 PM |
| 3 | I used to think I needed to be better looking to approach women. But that was never the real problem.Thank you for the reminder to have a "buyer" mindset instead of a "seller" mindset. I keep reminding myself that yet for some reason it's so hard to actually feel that way. | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 06:00 PM |
| 1 | You want to know a cheat code? Use sun screen every day.Does it really matter if you're inside all day? | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 08:52 PM |
| 4 | (Longer post) My own story of finally understanding that sex appeal matters more than being handsomeCan you expand a bit on what "letting your balls hang" entailed and the rest of this shift that you describe? It sounds like it was very fruitful. | /r/seduction | 22/02/25 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Disturbing patternI had that same experience in nyc too it's wild lol | /r/seduction | 22/02/25 05:35 PM |
| 3 | How can you tell when a girl is ready to go back to your place?Any other thoughts on this? How does this square with the principle of leading interactions as a male? | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Presence is most keenly felt in absence-Whore from shogun.But it's also easy to go too far in this direction and not show enough interest/hardly contact her at all, which can cause women to lose interest in you. | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 07:57 PM |
| 2 | If a woman seems really interested in and is asking about your past dating experiences does that mean she's interested?So the "shit test" here is trying to ascertain if other girls have been interested in you or not? Or if you've had enough value to have other relationships in the past? | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 07:54 PM |
| 1 | I don't know what a shit test isCan someone also provide an example please? | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps, what's the point?I live in CA too. I used to live in NY and girls are way more engaged/down. Any advice for improving things in CA, esp on dating apps? | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 04:16 AM |
| 1 | How Beginners Can Use Push and Pull To Flirt With Women EffortlesslyWhat was the sub more like a decade ago compared to now? | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 08:48 PM |
| 5 | It's crazy how much of a different texting her less makesDo you have any recommendations for books or resources that gave you this insight into the psychological process for women? | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Do you have any recommendations for books on female psychology? | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:46 PM |
| 0 | Tips and tricks to “innocently” seduce a guyWhy not let it look intentional? Guys appreciate that | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Book recsAny books in particular by women? | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Here's Why Matching Someone's Messaging Style is Important and Can Instantly Improve Your Text GameThanks again for your feedback, much appreciated. Staying fully engaged with your own life yet also staying engaged enough in communication can indeed feel like trying to strike a balance. | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Here's Why Matching Someone's Messaging Style is Important and Can Instantly Improve Your Text GameWould you say this also applies to how quickly a girl replies to messages? Like if she always replies within the hour, do the same/ if she doesn't usually respond until the next day, do the same? | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 03:39 AM |
| 2 | I've seen people say you make women fall in love with you if you can make her release dopamine and oxytocine. What are example of those?No apologies needed as the length of your answer is appreciated, as is its depth. | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 07:01 PM |
| 1 | I've seen people say you make women fall in love with you if you can make her release dopamine and oxytocine. What are example of those?How do you feel push-pull figures into fostering novelty/surprises? Do you think it is overly cynical to withold a certain amount so that certain things are more novel/induce more dopamine when they do happen? Not in a way that's being an asshole, but just in a way that's being collected and not obsequious | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 06:47 PM |
| 1 | 2024 was a record year for me in multiple ways and I have this sub to thank for it so I wanted to share the 5 most important things I've learned over the years with you guysThanks so much for all the input. Can you offer any more advice on how to message girls on dating apps, and keep them responding to you on dating apps? Much appreciated. | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 11:36 PM |
| 27 | What books are good for learning game or changing your mindset?Reading Models by Mark Manson right now and it's really fantastic. Highly recommend. | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 08:58 PM |
| 1 | My own toxic masculinityHey I just want to thank everyone for their support feedback and constructive criticism. A lot of suppressed emotions can come up for men and can manifest in nasty ways in this process, and it really helps me to process them by exploring them with other people on here. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 09:07 PM |
| 0 | ModelsSo where does the idea of not caring about the outcome come in if you fall in love with someone? | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 03:04 AM |
| 5 | What are your go to questions when meeting new people ?This didn't occur to me before, that if she cares about how you perceive her she will be less likely to hook up with you. So then if the goal is for her not to like you too much, so she doesn't care about how you perceive her, how do you know how much to get her to like you so that she'll still want to hook up with you? | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 07:55 PM |
| 9 | Sex on the first dateThanks for all the great advice! | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 02:21 AM |
| 25 | Sex on the first dateCan I ask how you get girls to come straight to your house for a first date? I'd say I'm a 7 or so and haven't really been able to pull that off, even with girls a lot less attractive than me. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 01:12 AM |
| 0 | Moving beyond the "hey" stepKind of mean | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Overall PrincipleAddendum: I recently had a first date with a girl who seemed SUPER into me. Because she seemed very, very interested, I figured there'd be nothing to lose by ending it with "I'd love to hang out again sometime". Turns out I was wrong--radio silence from her after. So I guess even if a girl is ga-ga for you, you still shouldn't give complete assurance of your interest. | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 11:54 PM |
| 2 | [VIDEO] 13 Indicators of Interest (IOIs): How to Tell if She’s Attracted to YouCan you please speak more to the point of more conservative girls not showing "any public displays of affection whatsoever, but are completely willing to get freaky once you’re in a more discrete location"? What is the general model to get them to a more discrete location if they are so reserved upon first contact? | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 01:10 AM |
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