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Field Reportheytherefreeman/r/seduction02/08/26 09:09 PM
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Resourcesheytherefreeman/r/seduction09/08/25 04:59 AM
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Conversationheytherefreeman/r/seduction13/07/26 06:37 PM
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Lifestyleheytherefreeman/r/seduction04/07/26 07:23 PM
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3

maybe on Mars
/r/seduction16/08/26 07:34 PM
3

what if one of the dudes gets her pregnant or gives her an STD during an intense "in-the-moment" slipup?
/r/seduction16/08/26 07:33 PM
1

Good content, thanks for sharing
/r/seduction16/08/26 01:44 AM
0

dont text her anything, wait until she does. If it fizzles out then it fizzles out. You would likely make her angry if you text her while she's with the bf and he might see the text popping up randomly.
/r/seduction16/08/26 01:32 AM
7

Yeah, guys get clingy sometimes due to lack of options, and don’t realise it hurts them so much more when they are clingy
/r/seduction15/08/26 09:13 PM
37

move on
/r/seduction15/08/26 07:10 PM
2

Wut
/r/seduction15/08/26 05:55 PM
2

keep at it, soldier, good report
/r/seduction15/08/26 06:18 AM
3

I’m more naturally introverted so for me it takes more effort
/r/seduction15/08/26 12:49 AM
3

You have to force it sometimes to do 5-10 per day but it can start burning you out. If you feel burnt out, take a day off or few, but try to approach multiple times per week. I am self employed so I have more flexibility than you but you just have to do your best and plan to allocate time when you’re free for that. From what you said, you should likely get dates fairly quickly as it only took you 3 approaches to get laid.
/r/seduction14/08/26 11:31 PM
2

I guess it's always different for everyone. Not in my case.
/r/seduction14/08/26 06:55 AM
1

Consider cold approaching older girls to find more and great casual
/r/seduction14/08/26 05:37 AM
2

Cuz he wrote this with ChatGPT
/r/seduction12/08/26 10:03 PM
7

People just trying to larp for karma points..
/r/seduction12/08/26 09:20 PM
6

Idk what these people are doing 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction12/08/26 09:18 PM
12

Why didn't you take her home after going to 1 bar together? Or did you take her home after going to 3 other bars?
/r/seduction12/08/26 08:43 PM
66

she didnt get spooked of a stranger tapping her on the back from behind in NYC? Congrats tho. Hope it's not a fake story with ChatGPT
/r/seduction12/08/26 06:27 PM
0

ChatGPT is your friend too when it comes to research like this and reddit forums to cross-check surgeons
/r/seduction09/08/26 05:15 PM
1

hardmaxx- plastic surgery to fix obvious facial imperfections $2-3k is usually not enough for anything when it comes to serious plastic surgery. E.g. rhinoplasty costs $10-20k Jaw surgery and chin augmentations: $30-60k I would also advise against fillers, as they migrate and can make you look worse over time.
/r/seduction09/08/26 05:14 PM
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What's your PSL? Gym gains also take time and for a lot people a few months is not enough to see visible gains. Now you can also start cold approaching and practicing these approaches 5-10 times per day when you have free time to build more confidence and to get lays and/or find a gf. Are you on dating apps too? How is it going there for you? Also, if you are severely recessed (chin) or have some obvious facial imperfections, they might be holding you back too from good dating experiences in lif…
/r/seduction09/08/26 04:32 PM
1

idk, I got a lay last week, and I only talked to her at a grocery store for 10 min, but to each their own
/r/seduction09/08/26 01:47 AM
1

bro, 30 min?? I think 10 is the limit, or you are overinvesting too much in a single dialogue, unless you have such a strong connection with her out of nowhere
/r/seduction09/08/26 01:18 AM
1

I think looks help here a lot to speed up the process of getting a lay. I am not a male model, tho, but I am lean, and PSL scale rating is around 5.4. But the girl was 4'11", so I was a giant next to her, even at 5'9" lol. I think she def liked the height difference and the fact that another older girl interrupted us and complimented my tanktop, while we were talking.
/r/seduction08/08/26 05:40 PM
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I did observe that my interactions are better when I wear it. But I also was able to get more lean where it makes sense to showcase the work in the gym with a tanktop.
/r/seduction07/08/26 08:19 PM
3

start with 5-10 daily
/r/seduction06/08/26 08:21 AM
1

You can sue her for defamation
/r/seduction06/08/26 01:01 AM
3

Girls can do the same but we don’t make FB groups to expose them in every city. Not saying that you are, personally.
/r/seduction06/08/26 12:38 AM
3

Girls can do the same too, you know? But we don’t make FB groups to blast them like they do to us?
/r/seduction05/08/26 11:35 PM
1

Found the poster
/r/seduction05/08/26 11:34 PM
3

same happened to me. Petty things make girls lie or exaggerate facts about you on those groups.
/r/seduction05/08/26 08:42 PM
1

Met last Tuesday, first date on Friday, second date Saturday
/r/seduction04/08/26 04:14 PM
4

We kept talking in the same grocery isle
/r/seduction04/08/26 04:13 PM
1

I agree, but getting laid feels nice too
/r/seduction04/08/26 07:57 AM
8

Yes. We both talked honestly about our goals and agreed to keep it casual. I think she is about 9-11 years older than me but I didn’t really care to ask for her age tbh. She’s got a hot body.
/r/seduction03/08/26 11:38 PM
2

Moneymaxx then hardmaxx, it’s just harder now when you lack looks. Not impossible but it’s day and night when you just are in then higher tier % of males. In the meantime, you can leanmaxx and get to 10-12% bf to mog with your body, at least. Can still cold approach and meet people online and irl but it will be harder for now.
/r/seduction03/08/26 09:23 PM
1

I try to approach girls of all ages, not just older ones, but I seem to click way better with older girls overall. I agree with you though. Work in progress!
/r/seduction03/08/26 08:41 PM
2

Good job for trying but it all means nothing until she’s in your bed. Exchanging info is a good start so keep at it, and do daily reps!
/r/seduction03/08/26 06:40 PM
1

34 is not old, what do you mean.
/r/seduction03/08/26 04:34 PM
3

maybe consider moving at some point in the future?
/r/seduction03/08/26 06:08 AM
1

💯
/r/seduction03/08/26 03:01 AM
12

I warmed her up during the 9 min of the conversation by asking relevant questions about her background and our mutual possible interests, as well as sharing personal information about myself. During the conversation I could tell that that she was engaged with me, so at the end I just said “how about we talk more and grab a drink later this week when we’re both free. She agreed and I asked for her number.
/r/seduction03/08/26 02:36 AM
1

Thank you
/r/seduction02/08/26 11:44 PM
-1

😂
/r/seduction02/08/26 10:58 PM
6

Thank you, best of luck to you!
/r/seduction02/08/26 10:19 PM
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Very few messages. All about logistics and date planning 95% of messages. Not much small talk via texts, other than saying it was a pleasure meeting you that day. She texted me first 10 min after I left the grocery store, which was a good interest indicator for me. Next message I sent (after saying “it was a pleasure meeting you too”) was “let’s meet at X on Friday at 7 pm!”, and she agreed. No texts after that before the first date. During first date she also invited me to the second date to co…
/r/seduction02/08/26 09:55 PM
9

For sure, thank you!
/r/seduction02/08/26 09:49 PM
3

Thank you and best of luck!
/r/seduction02/08/26 09:49 PM
1

Looksmaxxing scale: mid-tier-normie to high-tier-normie range. Average looking to slightly above average in looks.
/r/seduction02/08/26 09:49 PM
18

I saw dudes posting pictures of their dating apps exploding with likes when they set their geo to one of the cities in that region.
/r/seduction29/07/26 05:09 AM
38

Africa might work
/r/seduction29/07/26 04:02 AM
20

💀
/r/seduction29/07/26 04:00 AM
2

Yeah, you’re doing great. Keep at it.
/r/seduction29/07/26 02:35 AM
1

Month is entry level. Now try to aim for 3-10 approaches per day. If you can do this daily, you will feel a lot more confident by next month. I have to force myself sometimes and I did have bad anxiety at first but it got better over time, though I still have it sometimes. It will be a road full of rejections but it’s okay. As long as you can handle them.
/r/seduction29/07/26 02:14 AM
2

How long have you been cold approaching for so far?
/r/seduction29/07/26 12:46 AM
1

Your friends have the height and the looks card going for them so they don’t need much game to pull. You don’t have the height card and based on the fact that you don’t pull, you might also not have the best face card either. You will need to jestermax to compensate for it by improving your game, confidence, money, status instead. You can also consider plastic surgery to improve the face card but I can’t tell for sure, as I haven’t seen your pics.
/r/seduction28/07/26 07:56 AM
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if you're in the 7-10 range, you might be able to pull without getting along much, otherwise I wouldn't waste time
/r/seduction28/07/26 06:56 AM
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sure, well let's see it, if the OP sends pics
/r/seduction28/07/26 06:41 AM
1

try leanmaxing and getting to 10-12% bf then in the meantime. It might lean our your face more too, and make you a little more chiseled. But we can't really help if you don't send a pic of yourself for analysis
/r/seduction28/07/26 05:15 AM
3

plastic surgery
/r/seduction28/07/26 04:25 AM
2

hardmaxing
/r/seduction28/07/26 03:13 AM
3

Get yourself out of the house and try to interact with people daily, even if you have to force yourself to do so
/r/seduction27/07/26 09:27 PM
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if you dont have the looks and height, then you have to compensate with money and status
/r/seduction26/07/26 05:54 PM
3

"she refuses to kiss" - this is when I'd normally move on. But before things lead to a kiss, make sure you have warmed the girl up enough, so a kiss is actually appropriate and not out of the blue, irrelevant. Sometimes kiss at a public place like bar might scare the girl off, but she can give you a kiss in a more private setting. Again, the kiss needs to be appropriate.
/r/seduction25/07/26 06:00 AM
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I’d move on if a girl is not comfortable after 3rd date
/r/seduction18/07/26 09:00 PM
1

wdym?
/r/seduction14/07/26 08:42 PM
3

Did you tell your sister-in-law that it’s cringe? How did she react?
/r/seduction14/07/26 04:27 PM
3

yeah, after the date she actually texted that she "had a great time"
/r/seduction14/07/26 03:35 AM
6

she posted asking for "tea" about me AFTER after our first date. Yes, we met in-person at a grocery store. It was a cold approach.
/r/seduction13/07/26 10:09 PM
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I know I am not perfect
/r/seduction13/07/26 10:05 PM
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she is the one who asked to give "tea" on me. She didn't make up stuff about me, only asked. Other people who commented on her post were anonymous commenters, with some making very exaggerated claims about me.
/r/seduction13/07/26 10:04 PM
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Only care as it blew up the second date with that girl, and we would have had sex on it. But yes, of course I will move on. Just been dealing with issue a lot more often lately. My friend who is a girl tells me about these posts, and I can pretty much confirm who asks for “tea” about me relatively accurately.
/r/seduction13/07/26 08:02 PM
3

Problem is, I met her irl, but they still ask about you after the date pretty often, it seems lol
/r/seduction13/07/26 07:20 PM
3

Can’t sue anonymous people but I reported that group before on FB.
/r/seduction13/07/26 06:56 PM
1

Would you still text back or arrange a new date with a girl who posted about you on that group?
/r/seduction13/07/26 06:55 PM
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I mean I found out about this after the date over the weekend from a friend who told me that I was posted there. That girl sent our text history where we arranged the date and my photo from IG asking about “tea” on me. The date went really well and we kissed, and I was gonna text her tonight to arrange our second date, but now I am not sure I should text her at all.
/r/seduction13/07/26 06:52 PM
3

A friend of mine who is a girl told me, as we’re close friends, and she’s in that group
/r/seduction13/07/26 06:49 PM
3

Met at grocery store and exchanged basic info via text (name). We went on a date 2 days later, and kissed after, and she already knew my name by that point and looked up my insta at that point too, as we exchanged insta on that date. So all it took for her is asking if anyone has any tea on X, attaching a pic of me from my IG for reference, then getting all those comments.
/r/seduction13/07/26 06:44 PM
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No dating coach advice beats you putting yourself out there, and approaching girls yourself. Stop making these people rich.
/r/seduction09/07/26 10:03 PM
2

How did you meet her and approach her?
/r/seduction08/07/26 04:21 AM
3

you don't cold approach?
/r/seduction04/07/26 10:34 PM
30

Because on dating apps they have a lot of 7-10 guys to select from and you’re not in that category, most likely.
/r/seduction25/06/26 06:57 PM
-3

Curious to know why you're on this sub if you're married?
/r/seduction27/05/26 05:44 AM
3

They follow rule 1 and 2 without having to rely too much on strong game. Rest need to improve their game and their looks to have better chances
/r/seduction22/05/26 02:02 AM
1

Society for some reason doesn't promote focusing on your appearance as a man whereas it does for women. - Clavicular enters the chat
/r/seduction11/05/26 05:58 PM
1

I approach girls at the gym, even when I get rejected by them, and still see at the gym, nothing happens, we all just go on our days. It's not a big deal really. Now per audience, yes, maybe don't ask her when there are a lot of people nearby, if there is ahigh chance of rejection, you can just wait until she is more isolated in the corner or there are less people around you, if it bothers you too much next time.
/r/seduction14/04/26 05:34 AM
4

you need to start doing cold approach regularly to overcome all of this
/r/seduction14/04/26 05:28 AM
1

hotel bars, grocery stores, Target, etc.
/r/seduction13/04/26 11:10 PM
10

I just went to Target yesterday, saw a gorgeous Asian milf with fake big tits, walked up to her, said "hey, I wanted to say that you look great, and wanted to say hi to you". It went from there, we had a 10 min convo, she gave me her phone #. Going on a date on Thu.
/r/seduction13/04/26 09:46 PM
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👆
/r/seduction11/04/26 01:21 AM
3

the best
/r/seduction09/04/26 05:38 PM
1

The best one for you would be to meet people at events. Mutual activities and sport meetup events that you like. Also work on yourself and bulk up. It will help with cold approach success rate. But you can still shoot your shot in grocery stores, gym, parks, bars, etc. still, if you want, but cold approach success will take practice, time, and patience. You can also try Tinder, Bumble, Hinge but you will need to lower your standards, based on what you described above. I would do everything, pers…
/r/seduction09/04/26 05:34 AM
33

Can’t blame you, she wasn’t that interested in meeting up as much, and this is why it happens. Move on to next!
/r/seduction29/03/26 12:50 AM
1

He didn’t have it lol
/r/seduction07/03/26 09:09 AM
6

Wut
/r/seduction27/02/26 06:26 AM
3

I agree
/r/seduction14/02/26 01:58 AM
1

Problem is, other girls still see the bs comments that are fake and exaggerated, and cancel date. Anyone can say anything anonymously there without consequences, even if they never met you.
/r/seduction14/02/26 01:14 AM
2

Same, I also read some of the things as the girl showed me, and there were quite a few exaggerations and lies
/r/seduction14/02/26 12:29 AM
2

Sure, lol, I never said that this is the only reason they cancel a date with me. But it’s a little creepy for you to check me out like that
/r/seduction14/02/26 12:28 AM
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Mainly that I didn’t want a serious relationship with them, and I didn’t want to be stuck in friend-zones with some other girls, so I ghosted them
/r/seduction13/02/26 11:58 PM
2

Cold approach is a better way to get around this issue, because online dating girls, in my experience so far, definitely seem to be checking these sites a lot more than my cold approached girls.
/r/seduction13/02/26 11:34 PM
5

A girl I have seen for a while told me that there are multiple posts about me there. That girl also told me that ALL of her girl friends are checking it all the time before they go out on dates now. I am leaning towards that reason for my cancellations, but of course, there could have been a few reasons here, and there, but it is now playing a factor for sure.
/r/seduction13/02/26 11:31 PM
17

Don’t forget the FB groups “are we dating the same guy”. I got multiple date cancellations due to that
/r/seduction13/02/26 11:14 PM
2

have your vibes changed in 2 weeks?
/r/seduction13/02/26 05:09 AM
17

You can test the waters and go for it, but there is a risk that the bf will find out
/r/seduction10/02/26 05:02 PM
1

Both
/r/seduction09/02/26 11:24 PM
3

Good question
/r/seduction07/02/26 08:33 PM
1

Pretty much the rule since the start of humanity
/r/seduction23/01/26 02:04 AM
10

Press X to respawn
/r/seduction19/01/26 09:52 PM
16

after we did it, she kept pawing for more
/r/seduction17/01/26 07:16 PM
2

what objections?
/r/seduction17/01/26 06:50 PM
79

yes, girls say that it's a one-off sometimes, but if she still gives you physical signals to this date, it means she might still very well be open if another occasion arises.
/r/seduction17/01/26 06:32 PM
8

Just ensure you don’t let her abuse you financially without you getting anything in return. Billions more gorgeous girls out there
/r/seduction27/11/25 03:47 AM
8

If you still haven’t even smashed, move on. Or smash and move on
/r/seduction27/11/25 02:53 AM
1

I got dates using this exact method, so idk
/r/seduction22/11/25 07:45 AM
2

face them so they can see you approaching them, then say "hey, I know it's random, but you're pretty cute, and I wanted to say hi". Then go from there, depending if she is interested in further discussion or not. Easy
/r/seduction21/11/25 08:53 PM
5

Amen
/r/seduction15/11/25 03:24 AM
0

Or other plastic surgery
/r/seduction06/11/25 04:00 AM
12

👌
/r/seduction31/10/25 09:18 AM
202

Yes because you don’t act needy or desperate to girls that you talk to
/r/seduction01/10/25 08:03 PM
38

Not a bad problem to have
/r/seduction29/09/25 05:05 AM
1

Then he could loose all 3 or some of the 3. Unless they all poly lol
/r/seduction27/09/25 06:29 PM
2

Until the 3 find out about each other 😂
/r/seduction26/09/25 09:05 PM
15

Might be time to start getting off porn and getting out more in real world
/r/seduction10/09/25 03:36 PM
1

Nice course
/r/seduction15/08/25 06:47 AM
6

So did you end up losing your new girl because of the lies made up by the other girl? Or did you expose the lying girl?
/r/seduction09/08/25 04:49 PM
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ok chad
/r/seduction30/07/25 06:37 PM
1

any complications? I heard many get some sort with jaw surgeries and implants.
/r/seduction23/07/25 05:43 PM
14

he said he had surgery
/r/seduction23/07/25 05:41 PM
1

make a house party yourself or do you not have friends? If you have friends, ask your friends to invite their friends, etc.
/r/seduction20/07/25 06:47 PM
2

thanks chatgpt
/r/seduction20/07/25 06:32 PM
2

why are you so focused on the club scene? Go to bars, house parties, social events instead where you can actually show off your "cool" personality. Barely anyone will hear you in the club anyway
/r/seduction20/07/25 06:32 PM
118

Step 1: talk to them
/r/seduction17/07/25 12:23 AM
0

send us your pics so we can validate
/r/seduction11/07/25 08:03 PM
2

He wants to f around
/r/seduction11/07/25 02:22 AM
18

Show us your pics
/r/seduction23/05/25 05:24 AM
8

Hinge works the best for me
/r/seduction14/04/25 04:58 PM
71

Most of my hookups are girls who are 14+ years older than me, tbh. I don't match well with girls my age or younger girls lol. I am 29. Go to bars or go on dating apps (adjust age setting to this age group). In bars, you just talk to them, and you will feel if the vibes are right. Have a standard conversation but escalate into more romantic topics, if you feel that the vibes are right again, when you are in bars. For online dating conversations, chat about a few casual topics, keep it short, then…
/r/seduction14/04/25 04:55 PM
2

check his screenshot of matches
/r/seduction14/04/25 04:53 PM
2

He is matching in South or North Africa it seems, wonder if his results adjust in North America
/r/seduction13/04/25 08:28 PM
2

From 4 to 2000 or 1267, cool, miracles do happen after all
/r/seduction11/04/25 12:56 AM
15

Send your profile screenshot showing this
/r/seduction10/04/25 11:00 PM
1

ok, Thai-Rhone
/r/seduction10/04/25 04:22 PM
11

ask her out on a date and you will find out
/r/seduction25/03/25 12:55 AM
1

No wonder girls are so picky, even without online dating apps
/r/seduction19/02/25 09:18 AM
1

"just be yourself"
/r/seduction23/01/25 12:15 AM
16

Bruh, they won’t chase, they have 100 other guys doing the same thing like you daily
/r/seduction11/08/24 06:18 AM
3

It will be harder for them to make a new account as apps block new accounts that they will make once an account is banned
/r/seduction07/08/24 11:31 PM
47

4x2=8
/r/seduction06/08/24 04:10 AM
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