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Resourcesheytherefreeman/r/seduction09/08/25 04:59 AM
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Conversationheytherefreeman/r/seduction13/07/26 06:37 PM
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Lifestyleheytherefreeman/r/seduction04/07/26 07:23 PM
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try leanmaxing and getting to 10-12% bf then in the meantime. It might lean our your face more too, and make you a little more chiseled. But we can't really help if you don't send a pic of yourself for analysis
/r/seduction28/07/26 05:15 AM
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plastic surgery
/r/seduction28/07/26 04:25 AM
2

hardmaxing
/r/seduction28/07/26 03:13 AM
2

Get yourself out of the house and try to interact with people daily, even if you have to force yourself to do so
/r/seduction27/07/26 09:27 PM
5

if you dont have the looks and height, then you have to compensate with money and status
/r/seduction26/07/26 05:54 PM
3

"she refuses to kiss" - this is when I'd normally move on. But before things lead to a kiss, make sure you have warmed the girl up enough, so a kiss is actually appropriate and not out of the blue, irrelevant. Sometimes kiss at a public place like bar might scare the girl off, but she can give you a kiss in a more private setting. Again, the kiss needs to be appropriate.
/r/seduction25/07/26 06:00 AM
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I’d move on if a girl is not comfortable after 3rd date
/r/seduction18/07/26 09:00 PM
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wdym?
/r/seduction14/07/26 08:42 PM
3

Did you tell your sister-in-law that it’s cringe? How did she react?
/r/seduction14/07/26 04:27 PM
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yeah, after the date she actually texted that she "had a great time"
/r/seduction14/07/26 03:35 AM
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she posted asking for "tea" about me AFTER after our first date. Yes, we met in-person at a grocery store. It was a cold approach.
/r/seduction13/07/26 10:09 PM
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I know I am not perfect
/r/seduction13/07/26 10:05 PM
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she is the one who asked to give "tea" on me. She didn't make up stuff about me, only asked. Other people who commented on her post were anonymous commenters, with some making very exaggerated claims about me.
/r/seduction13/07/26 10:04 PM
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Only care as it blew up the second date with that girl, and we would have had sex on it. But yes, of course I will move on. Just been dealing with issue a lot more often lately. My friend who is a girl tells me about these posts, and I can pretty much confirm who asks for “tea” about me relatively accurately.
/r/seduction13/07/26 08:02 PM
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Problem is, I met her irl, but they still ask about you after the date pretty often, it seems lol
/r/seduction13/07/26 07:20 PM
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Can’t sue anonymous people but I reported that group before on FB.
/r/seduction13/07/26 06:56 PM
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I mean I found out about this after the date over the weekend from a friend who told me that I was posted there. That girl sent our text history where we arranged the date and my photo from IG asking about “tea” on me. The date went really well and we kissed, and I was gonna text her tonight to arrange our second date, but now I am not sure I should text her at all.
/r/seduction13/07/26 06:52 PM
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A friend of mine who is a girl told me, as we’re close friends, and she’s in that group
/r/seduction13/07/26 06:49 PM
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Met at grocery store and exchanged basic info via text (name). We went on a date 2 days later, and kissed after, and she already knew my name by that point and looked up my insta at that point too, as we exchanged insta on that date. So all it took for her is asking if anyone has any tea on X, attaching a pic of me from my IG for reference, then getting all those comments.
/r/seduction13/07/26 06:44 PM
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No dating coach advice beats you putting yourself out there, and approaching girls yourself. Stop making these people rich.
/r/seduction09/07/26 10:03 PM
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How did you meet her and approach her?
/r/seduction08/07/26 04:21 AM
3

you don't cold approach?
/r/seduction04/07/26 10:34 PM
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Because on dating apps they have a lot of 7-10 guys to select from and you’re not in that category, most likely.
/r/seduction25/06/26 06:57 PM
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Curious to know why you're on this sub if you're married?
/r/seduction27/05/26 05:44 AM
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They follow rule 1 and 2 without having to rely too much on strong game. Rest need to improve their game and their looks to have better chances
/r/seduction22/05/26 02:02 AM
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Society for some reason doesn't promote focusing on your appearance as a man whereas it does for women. - Clavicular enters the chat
/r/seduction11/05/26 05:58 PM
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I approach girls at the gym, even when I get rejected by them, and still see at the gym, nothing happens, we all just go on our days. It's not a big deal really. Now per audience, yes, maybe don't ask her when there are a lot of people nearby, if there is ahigh chance of rejection, you can just wait until she is more isolated in the corner or there are less people around you, if it bothers you too much next time.
/r/seduction14/04/26 05:34 AM
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you need to start doing cold approach regularly to overcome all of this
/r/seduction14/04/26 05:28 AM
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hotel bars, grocery stores, Target, etc.
/r/seduction13/04/26 11:10 PM
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I just went to Target yesterday, saw a gorgeous Asian milf with fake big tits, walked up to her, said "hey, I wanted to say that you look great, and wanted to say hi to you". It went from there, we had a 10 min convo, she gave me her phone #. Going on a date on Thu.
/r/seduction13/04/26 09:46 PM
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👆
/r/seduction11/04/26 01:21 AM
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the best
/r/seduction09/04/26 05:38 PM
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The best one for you would be to meet people at events. Mutual activities and sport meetup events that you like. Also work on yourself and bulk up. It will help with cold approach success rate. But you can still shoot your shot in grocery stores, gym, parks, bars, etc. still, if you want, but cold approach success will take practice, time, and patience. You can also try Tinder, Bumble, Hinge but you will need to lower your standards, based on what you described above. I would do everything, pers…
/r/seduction09/04/26 05:34 AM
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Can’t blame you, she wasn’t that interested in meeting up as much, and this is why it happens. Move on to next!
/r/seduction29/03/26 12:50 AM
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He didn’t have it lol
/r/seduction07/03/26 09:09 AM
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Wut
/r/seduction27/02/26 06:26 AM
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I agree
/r/seduction14/02/26 01:58 AM
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Problem is, other girls still see the bs comments that are fake and exaggerated, and cancel date. Anyone can say anything anonymously there without consequences, even if they never met you.
/r/seduction14/02/26 01:14 AM
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Same, I also read some of the things as the girl showed me, and there were quite a few exaggerations and lies
/r/seduction14/02/26 12:29 AM
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Sure, lol, I never said that this is the only reason they cancel a date with me. But it’s a little creepy for you to check me out like that
/r/seduction14/02/26 12:28 AM
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Mainly that I didn’t want a serious relationship with them, and I didn’t want to be stuck in friend-zones with some other girls, so I ghosted them
/r/seduction13/02/26 11:58 PM
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Cold approach is a better way to get around this issue, because online dating girls, in my experience so far, definitely seem to be checking these sites a lot more than my cold approached girls.
/r/seduction13/02/26 11:34 PM
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A girl I have seen for a while told me that there are multiple posts about me there. That girl also told me that ALL of her girl friends are checking it all the time before they go out on dates now. I am leaning towards that reason for my cancellations, but of course, there could have been a few reasons here, and there, but it is now playing a factor for sure.
/r/seduction13/02/26 11:31 PM
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Don’t forget the FB groups “are we dating the same guy”. I got multiple date cancellations due to that
/r/seduction13/02/26 11:14 PM
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have your vibes changed in 2 weeks?
/r/seduction13/02/26 05:09 AM
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You can test the waters and go for it, but there is a risk that the bf will find out
/r/seduction10/02/26 05:02 PM
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Both
/r/seduction09/02/26 11:24 PM
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Good question
/r/seduction07/02/26 08:33 PM
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Pretty much the rule since the start of humanity
/r/seduction23/01/26 02:04 AM
10

Press X to respawn
/r/seduction19/01/26 09:52 PM
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after we did it, she kept pawing for more
/r/seduction17/01/26 07:16 PM
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what objections?
/r/seduction17/01/26 06:50 PM
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yes, girls say that it's a one-off sometimes, but if she still gives you physical signals to this date, it means she might still very well be open if another occasion arises.
/r/seduction17/01/26 06:32 PM
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Just ensure you don’t let her abuse you financially without you getting anything in return. Billions more gorgeous girls out there
/r/seduction27/11/25 03:47 AM
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If you still haven’t even smashed, move on. Or smash and move on
/r/seduction27/11/25 02:53 AM
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face them so they can see you approaching them, then say "hey, I know it's random, but you're pretty cute, and I wanted to say hi". Then go from there, depending if she is interested in further discussion or not. Easy
/r/seduction21/11/25 08:53 PM
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Amen
/r/seduction15/11/25 03:24 AM
0

Or other plastic surgery
/r/seduction06/11/25 04:00 AM
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👌
/r/seduction31/10/25 09:18 AM
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Yes because you don’t act needy or desperate to girls that you talk to
/r/seduction01/10/25 08:03 PM
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Not a bad problem to have
/r/seduction29/09/25 05:05 AM
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Then he could loose all 3 or some of the 3. Unless they all poly lol
/r/seduction27/09/25 06:29 PM
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Until the 3 find out about each other 😂
/r/seduction26/09/25 09:05 PM
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Might be time to start getting off porn and getting out more in real world
/r/seduction10/09/25 03:36 PM
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So did you end up losing your new girl because of the lies made up by the other girl? Or did you expose the lying girl?
/r/seduction09/08/25 04:49 PM
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any complications? I heard many get some sort with jaw surgeries and implants.
/r/seduction23/07/25 05:43 PM
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he said he had surgery
/r/seduction23/07/25 05:41 PM
1

make a house party yourself or do you not have friends? If you have friends, ask your friends to invite their friends, etc.
/r/seduction20/07/25 06:47 PM
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thanks chatgpt
/r/seduction20/07/25 06:32 PM
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why are you so focused on the club scene? Go to bars, house parties, social events instead where you can actually show off your "cool" personality. Barely anyone will hear you in the club anyway
/r/seduction20/07/25 06:32 PM
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Step 1: talk to them
/r/seduction17/07/25 12:23 AM
0

send us your pics so we can validate
/r/seduction11/07/25 08:03 PM
2

He wants to f around
/r/seduction11/07/25 02:22 AM
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Show us your pics
/r/seduction23/05/25 05:24 AM
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Hinge works the best for me
/r/seduction14/04/25 04:58 PM
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Most of my hookups are girls who are 14+ years older than me, tbh. I don't match well with girls my age or younger girls lol. I am 29. Go to bars or go on dating apps (adjust age setting to this age group). In bars, you just talk to them, and you will feel if the vibes are right. Have a standard conversation but escalate into more romantic topics, if you feel that the vibes are right again, when you are in bars. For online dating conversations, chat about a few casual topics, keep it short, then…
/r/seduction14/04/25 04:55 PM
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check his screenshot of matches
/r/seduction14/04/25 04:53 PM
2

He is matching in South or North Africa it seems, wonder if his results adjust in North America
/r/seduction13/04/25 08:28 PM
2

From 4 to 2000 or 1267, cool, miracles do happen after all
/r/seduction11/04/25 12:56 AM
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Send your profile screenshot showing this
/r/seduction10/04/25 11:00 PM
1

ok, Thai-Rhone
/r/seduction10/04/25 04:22 PM
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ask her out on a date and you will find out
/r/seduction25/03/25 12:55 AM
1

No wonder girls are so picky, even without online dating apps
/r/seduction19/02/25 09:18 AM
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Bruh, they won’t chase, they have 100 other guys doing the same thing like you daily
/r/seduction11/08/24 06:18 AM
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It will be harder for them to make a new account as apps block new accounts that they will make once an account is banned
/r/seduction07/08/24 11:31 PM
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4x2=8
/r/seduction06/08/24 04:10 AM
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