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| 3 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?Don’t trust them more than you trust yourself. If you can’t trust yourself, then you got some self improvement to do | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 02:27 PM |
| 1 | It still surprises me how easily some guys get dates or hook-ups through social mediaAsk him, and if he is truly a friend, he would give you some pointers | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 02:43 AM |
| 2 | What Elements Create an Attractive "Aura" Beyond Just "Good Looks"?Might sound controversial, but this ‘aura’ that you’re talking about that some people seem to just have, IMHO are pheromones. Their bodies might just secrete more of it than the rest of us which influence perception. Unfortunately scientific research into this area is scarce with conflicting results. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 05:08 AM |
| 1 | I have noticed a pattern amongst some women that I dated. Have you noticed it too?Tale as old as time, moving on | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Any advice on how to avoid the "i just didn't feel the spark"try pheromones spray or perfumes with pheromones in it. Do some research, consider then try. Im not being /s here. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 08:11 AM |
| 3 | What's the best $100-$200 you've spent that helped you meet women/improve your odds?I swear by pheromones too. But it might be controversial because there's no way that i know of to prove the benefits, or the placebo effect taking place. | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 06:52 AM |
| 36 | Guy Dressed Like a Santa, and Girls Were All Over HimSpot on. I would argue most of the younger guys here didn't even know who he was. Maybe pickup routines does works better for girls nowadays, rather then seduction? | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 02:37 AM |
| 2 | what can I do to develop an abundance mindset?r/lawofattraction | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Most good posts are from years agoCovid | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Having a female best friend is undoubtedly one of the reasons I have success with other girls.Same | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 01:07 AM |
| 6 | Hot waitress.Ask her politely, let her know that she catches your eye and you want to know her genuinely. If she responds well, then mazeltov!, if not you should not be sad, the point is you shoot your shot. Don't listen to people telling you not to do it. Do it as simple as possible, the result will show itself. Nobody knows shit about anything or anyone. | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 06:39 AM |
| 4 | I have never seem a guy spit game like thisI don't mean to judge but he gives me a bit of hypomania vibe through your description. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 11:16 AM |
| 8 | I have never seem a guy spit game like thisWhat is rather baffling to me is his amount of energy. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Anyone have difficulty getting up again after they've been horny and then time has passed?This should be on r/sex | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 08:24 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]"Be yourself, unless you can be Batman. Then be Batman." - Anon | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 07:30 AM |
| 1 | My Ex gf reached out..Can't believe you still want her | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 04:18 PM |
| 7 | Women can be extremely fickle with their emotions when you first get to know them. They can be attracted to you one day, and then lose interest the next. Understand and accept this before you develop feelings for someone you barely knowsame | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Does crying in front of your girlfriend/partner destroy sexual attraction?I would say it depends on the current level of attraction | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Sent a very risky text now what?I suggest not over text. Phone, if meetup is out of the question. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 09:53 AM |
| 18 | I want to approach girls but i couldn't coz of..This is the least talked about topic, but a very important one. The seduction community lean on western values and cultures mostly, thus the western approach/way, this is definitely not a one size fits all approach, cultural differences and 'mores' definitely effect women's perception and thus your success on seduction. In my opinion, you must have the core value (inner game) of the best of us in this community, and approach women using your own method (outer game) while upholding the mindset. Y… | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 01:52 PM |
| 1 | I did it!!You don't need to overthink and overanalyze whether it is 'good or bad sign.' What done is done, it is up to her how to interpret you approaching her as impressive or creepy, as long as you're being your best self at that moment, you cannot control that aspect of the woman and you have to make peace with it. As for your question, in my opinion it depends on how you feel about your approach, i.e. if you felt you did good, go on and text her, if you felt bad about your approach, then don't, or jus… | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 07:40 AM |
| 2 | I did it!!Congrats, it's a successful approach,it's enough for now. Unless she gave her social media @ directly i never follow anyone, and i recommend you do the same,cause it doesn't give a really good impression. If you want to follow her insta, ask her first the next time you meet, (do you have social media? Questions as such), don't text too much at this stage,only to arrange meetups; if you can, talk to her more directly (not through text messages), either on gym or through meetups. If you intend to … | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 08:43 AM |
| 15 | I did it!!I think it's a good philosophy on a gym approach. I never did it on a gym myself, but I would think they wouldn't like to be bothered by strangers, or talk too much when working out, because I don't. Ask her number next then begin to take steps to invite her out. | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 10:13 AM |
| 1 | My Relationship Manifesto: What To Do After You Get the GirlThe definitive cheklist for seduction. | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Smoothest rejection I’ve ever had, we both got a laugh outta itNow that's seduction | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 01:48 PM |
| 4 | Type of women you can attractIt really is true | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 11:27 AM |
| 17 | Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold?How did you find out her IG? | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 04:53 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Sounds exciting honestly | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 02:36 AM |
| 1 | I woke up today and i saw a message from a girl who broke my heart 3 years before.For your own sake, do not respond | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Online texting seems to just kill my chances every time. I’m sick of it.Recently i have one of this moment again. It's excellent at the beginning, i can converse with her up until 2 am, even made her woke up late to her zoom jobs or whatever, we were smitten. But gradually those hearts and long sentences began to turn to just smiles, stupid lmao emoji, and short words. I'm not new to this kind of thing but sometimes I'm still baffled by it, what the hell am I doing wrong? If you're asking yourself the same thing, the answer is nothing. Respect yourself and move on, … | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 07:27 AM |
| 2 | So, I‘m a woman and just got approached by a guy.Thanks for the encouragement lady, It's nice to hear that from women. The fact that you made your way here, tells that you were indeed truly impressed. Kudos for whoever the guy was, for showing people we are a positive movement. | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 04:08 AM |
| – | Wingman in ParisIs this a good idea on pandemic times | /r/seduction | 05/01/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | get this stuff right and it might just work out for you.Grooming, fashion styling, and fitness | /r/seduction | 24/12/20 12:23 PM |
| 1 | My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrongYou quantify what shouldn't be quantified. Maybe this is the reason for your breakup. | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 12:22 PM |
| – | Sometimes, it’s just not worth pursuingPreach breda | /r/seduction | 29/11/20 02:00 PM |
| 8 | I did my first approach!! WOWWTF, first approach and in front of the parents? What a madlad | /r/seduction | 22/09/20 03:59 AM |
| – | How exciting of a life do I really need for a girl to want to date me?I ship you and OP | /r/seduction | 02/09/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | First day of approaching girls - FailedReminds me of myself when i first did that 7 years ago | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 06:26 AM |
| 2 | I feel way more comfortable talking in English than my native languageThe only language more beautiful than english is Latin, that's my personal opinion. Sad you can't pick girls up with Latin. Salve puella pulchra, ego velle basium tu. Or some such, lol | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 03:07 PM |
| – | I feel way more comfortable talking in English than my native languageIt's called the Sapir-Whorf linguistic relativity hypotheses | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 02:56 PM |
| 5 | I moved a curl behind his earWell i know seduction is a mindset not techniques, algorithm bla bla. You do have guts to approach the guy, but why i get the feeling that this does not belong here... Perhaps because female to male approach is almost a guaranteed success, while male to female approach is almost a guaranteed fail, regardless the level of relative attractiveness of both side of the subjects. I kind of saw seduction as against the odds, or rags to riches story, chronicle of a zero to hero, and a guaranteed success… | /r/seduction | 22/07/20 10:50 AM |
| 2 | 100 approaches and still nothingTry to join a real life community, we used to call them Lairs back in the day, you can find fellow hustlers or even a mentor, search for one in your local area, just use google. Oh, don't forget this is corona season, so unsolicited cold approach are a bit discouraged for the time being,maybe it did impacted your results. | /r/seduction | 20/07/20 03:13 AM |
| – | 100 approaches and still nothingDon't approach alone now, it embedded your errors. Best do it with a good friend, even if he only observes | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 08:47 AM |
| 1 | First date ever at 28 and got rejected next dayIf i were you i wouldn't want to be with her. | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 05:04 AM |
| – | Hygiene & GroomingThank | /r/seduction | 04/07/20 01:38 AM |
| 3 | Consider the possibility that the unrequited crush you are holding on to is a defense mechanism designed to keep you from having meaningful relationships with new people.Hmm. I am the type of person that like to 'chase' girls, and yes, i feel like if i am able to make them have feelings for me, bam, 'mission accomplished', i lose interest,move on to the other not-yet-requited girls. It seems i like the thrill of the chase more than having a commited relationship, so to speak. From what you describe, it seems iam the complete opposite. Now I am confused. | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Mental Strength Training - Rejecting WomenYou don't even need to explain the reason | /r/seduction | 24/05/20 02:24 PM |
| 3 | During quarantine, exchange emails instead of messaging through WhatsApp/Facebook/other messaging appI guess you're on the extreme side of a bell curve | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 12:28 AM |
| 1 | What you need are social skillsIt is the foundation sure, but sometimes for women you want to be romantically involved with its not enough, they need special care. I'm just speaking from experience. | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Double rejection but it's OKNot trying to be overly pedantic, but isn't texting a de-escalation? | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 02:24 PM |
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