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Any time a girl gives you anything other than yes, it's usually the run around. Interested girls make time.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 02:30 AM
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This right here OP
/r/askTRP12/09/17 02:28 AM
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Stopped reading after the first sentence. No, just no.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 02:26 AM
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Traveling is always worth it especially while young, and especially if it's on the company dime. Do it for a few years and then do something else, at worst you will have a padded resume of global experience. At best you will always remember your globetrotting days as the most fun you've had. Havent been to the european places youve mentioned, but Japan and Korea are awesome from personal experience , there are few cities like Tokyo and Seoul, and plenty of 7-10 HBs that would like to try out a f…
/r/askTRP12/09/17 02:23 AM
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Always ignore outbursts. They are attempts at making you feel "guilty". If she wants it, she'll keep coming to your parties and chatting you up. Men don't usually lose girls because they didn't respond well enough to thier outbursts with the adequate amount of attention, quite the opposite actually. Do not be afraid to say "I'm not dealing with this right now" and walk off and cuddle with the lesbian chick again. I highly doubt she'd go anywhere after that. You control the situation, and they si…
/r/askTRP18/07/17 04:26 AM
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if shes truly an 8, rest assured in the fact that if you destroy her and her flatmates can hear, your stock goes up. There is no downside to people hearing you smash. There is a downside to "he isn't getting hard". And I do realize, only having sex 5 times before, your still figuring it out and everything, but seriously, people hearing you will not diminish you in any way. If anything, the other girls will be curious, and the dudes might give you a high five. Own it, loud and proud. I've had man…
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:58 AM
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gtfo
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:49 AM
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Man its going to be a next most likely. A little personal experience, I can say I've been randomly kiss attacked, only once ever and probably the only time it will ever happen, I think she thought I was someone else. I Was in a bar, and was definitely shit hammered, reflexes were probably 50% of normal, I still managed to avoid it even only catching the movement towards me out of the corner of my eye and I was, tbh, pretty drunk. If she was kissed, she was close enough to be kissed. Adding in th…
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:34 AM
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Spiking your drink? Red flag for crazy, get out now before she keys your car.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 12:11 PM
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"could probably manipulate her into asking me for a LDR, but I'm not sure it's a good idea." Of course it's not a good idea, listen to yourself, that's woman talk.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 12:08 PM
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that...kind of thing...exists? I feel like I just read a limp handshake if that's even possible.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 12:00 PM
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I dont think i would quite call that a shit test persay, looks more like flirtatious banter in her attempt to open. AA with sexually suggestive comedy maybe "Looking for someone to help polish my halo"
/r/askTRP12/04/17 11:52 AM
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I would recommend Meditations by Marcus Aurelius and The Prince by Niccolo Machiavelli Both drop a lot of red pill knowledge
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 11:44 AM
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34 here, financially secure and making 6 figure salary, have 80k in investments that are doing well. The last several years I mostly dated 21-22 year olds casually and had some fun. When I was 26 I was paycheck to paycheck with no savings and busted credit, so I feel good with my progress thus far when I decided to turn my life around. Still have a full head of hair currently in an LTR with a 25 year old for a year that is going well. No complaints here
/r/askTRP11/04/17 11:07 PM
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The end game for a single mom is always finding a provider no matter how many times they say "I'm not looking for a father figure" never LTR a single mom.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 10:55 PM
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You can't negotiate attraction, move on.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 10:51 PM
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Is the girl telling lies the ugly one out of the bunch? if so, there's your answer. Also, probably find new friends.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 10:38 PM
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No she doesn't see you as an obstacle to her career or studies, she sees you as an obstacle to sex with new men. The usual rules always apply, especially for a girl who has been in a 5 year relationship since she was 18, just the way it goes man. The sooner you stop making excuses about why this is happening the better off you'll be.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 10:33 PM
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"It's getting to the point where a man can be in the Top 20% of men simply by embracing his masculinity and nothing else at all." Highly understated sentiment. It's such a simple thing that eludes so many men these days.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 06:08 PM
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This should help clear things up https://youtu.be/7dw2m3jbybs
/r/askTRP24/03/17 06:00 PM
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If you stop banging your woman someone else will start. I would not advise this strategy, especially being an hour away from each other. If she already doesn't put much in, and he starts withholding sex, she'll be gone probably. He needs to bang her more not less.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 05:56 PM
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I've dated one of those types of girls before, all into healing crystals and a bunch of new age shit. It will eventually get old and you'll be ready to bounce, but might as well take all the tantric massages you can get before you do.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 04:23 PM
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Evident now as feminism has aligned itself with Islam in some kind of weird S&M symbiotic mess. The men in Europe standby while pretty blonde German and Swede women show up to greet muslim immigrants with flowers despite the rising crime and rape everyone is aware of. They are so starved for manly men they are willing import thier own demise just to look good to thier friends on social media and gain that temporary boost ego boost
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 07:45 PM
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To add to this OP, every girl will be bitchy sometimes. The kicker is that if they apologize afterwards, the next morning, after a cool off period etc, this let's you know you kept frame and have shit under control. If the bitchy behavior is just going unchecked and getting more and more frequent, frame and respect is gone, and its just going to be a deeper descent into betafication. time to put your foot down and walk as suggested.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 10:18 PM
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First- You are average, most dudes are around your size roughly, you are not small, you are not big, you are simply normal. Nothing to feel ashamed of, or to be disrespected over. Second- No, she didnt have one 3 times as long, that would be a 15 inch penis, which would be so rare it would be an statistical anomoly. Shes probably more likely to get struck by lightning than to meet some dude above 10-11 inches. Third- She is disrespecting you to your face, by what sounds to be very often. Hard ne…
/r/askTRP30/11/16 07:58 PM
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Don't respond at all, she'll text back if she wants you. Dont fake something, or try and come with up something clever
/r/askTRP29/11/16 09:19 PM
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28 is better than the early 20s in my opinion in NYC, and is the perfect age to move there. Youll be a bit more financially secure than in your early 20s, and finding 22 year olds fresh out of college living the dream starry eyed in the big city is a dime a dozen occurrence . It's very transient in nature and will probably take you a year or so to really nail down a social circle. But dating you can step right into on day 1. A few things that will hopefully help Dont have roomates if you don't h…
/r/askTRP29/11/16 07:22 PM
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I dont live there anymore, but frequently go back because I am from nashville, and this is just not true at all. Transplants from all over the country now outnumber locals now there anyway, and the city is 30% black as it is. Nashville has a bit higher black population percentage wise than NYC. It also has several prestigious black colleges. What you are saying is straight up wrong. And the area he's talking about, well most of those people don't even live there. It's neck and neck with Vegas fo…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 11:18 PM
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She needs to go live under Sharia in Saudi Arabia, then then take another shot at this video and see if her opinion changes. She would beg to be taken back by all these despicable white men she wants to unbuderened from.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 01:46 PM
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The ole "staring into the bottom of his beer glass" is a dead giveaway he knows what's up. The thousand cuck stare.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 09:14 PM
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"Clearly she's interested" This is debatable judging by the info in your post. Her actions towards you are not showing interest. Girls do not take days to respond to guys they have high attraction for. It's possible she is busy, or has plenty of options. You should probably stop chasing her at this point. Sometimes the best action to take is none at all. When it comes to communication with women- You will never kill attraction by not taking action, but taking action can sometimes kill the attrac…
/r/askTRP29/10/16 09:58 PM
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Shes going to look for two things here most likely, sex with lots of new men, and lots of orbiter validation from all the betas she already knows. Eat, pray, love, bang etc. You in no way should think about LTR'ing this chick. Proceed if you want to, but keep in mind, you are not the only dude probably that is formulating a plan. I'm sure thirsty dudes are lining up to get with her now that she's divorced. You are going to be an item on the buffet which she can eat if she wants to, but there are…
/r/askTRP28/10/16 06:14 PM
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You are correct, shes not in love, she wants to enjoy guilt free sex with new cocks, you are a roadblock to that. She'll find a new dude (if she hasn't already) and in a month she'll drop you a line about how you've both changed, and then break up with you for good. Your only move here is to say "I think youre right, we had our run, let's just make the break permanent" Flip the script and walk away with your dignity in tact, and head held high. This is 100% the only way to leave a breakup. No ex…
/r/askTRP28/10/16 06:02 PM
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She was dishonest about spending time with another dude...in a band. She either has, or was thinking about cheating. She would have not been shady about it if it wasn't on the table, remember that.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 02:11 PM
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If she is cheating, she probably wanders into her brothers place at like 3am to establish truth, do not engage the brother, if she is not, she'll see it as you checking up on her which is needy behavior. When the next party comes up, just say "Hey I'm feeling like getting out, wouldn't mind meeting some of your Co workers either, the parties sound like a good time" or something to that effect in a very casual manner. If she says sure! without thinking about it, there is probably nothing to worry…
/r/askTRP28/10/16 01:55 PM
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Honestly man, You felt sorry for her for some reason, took equal blame in bringing out her hypergamy, and gave her comfort when non was deserved, and made sure she sees you as a good person before parting while apologizing..She was about to cheat behind your back, I think you lost frame on this one. But what's done is done
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:41 PM
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Probably. If a girl clicks off stuff quickly, especially a dudes profile twice, shes probably tinglin. And since she agreed to meet up with this guy and is obviously not going to tell you about it, most likely yes she is going cheat. You made the right call breaking up with her. No further explanation is needed from your point other than you're just over it, just stop talking to her. NEVER bring up you were on her FB, ever. That will be the narrative all her friends and your friends get that you…
/r/askTRP26/10/16 10:07 PM
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No. This is nonsense. You obviously do care about the relationship, too much so judging by your post. Youre saying you'll give her a chance if you deem shes worthy. Newsflash, shes not. Shes in Amsterdam, she either wants to, or is doing foreign dudes, you are naive to think otherwise. She didn't break up with you because you demanded something of her she is not. She broke up with you, because you were a hanger on, and she wants to hop on the cock carousel and live the student abroad fantasy. Sh…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 08:22 PM
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How long ago did all this "end" curious as to how you're doing now? Was the house paid off, or are you still on the hook for mortgage too in addition to the settlement? Tough story man, tough.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 08:08 PM
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This article is a nuclear explosion of AWALT behaviors. Such a clear example of "love is always conditional"
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 01:46 PM
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Standard mental hamstering. At this point if you take the queue you're given at face value you can easily kill the attraction. A woman who doesn't want to sleep with you will almost never tell you this outright, but rather act uninterested.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 05:09 PM
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Google says she is 30, partying has not been kind to her.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 04:54 PM
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So cringeworthy. You can just see the absolute lack of remorse in her tone and demeanor, she has successfully created her victim narrative and this guy buys it hook, line and sinker. Her pussy got wet and she opened her legs, AWALT. Also..pretty sure the other guys dick was bigger judging by her response. She casually answers yes to the protection question without thinking about it. But looks him deep in the eyes to sell the lie on who had the bigger johnson. /cucked
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 04:01 PM
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Agreed, highly unique field report material.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 03:10 PM
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Man, for real. Get off reddit and Go to your doctor, be open about the depression, and the suicidal thoughts. It's not a normal thought process to have, the mere thought should be enough to check yourself in somewhere. I think you are well beyond the type of expertise that asktrp can offer you. Get yourself right man, dont play around with your life.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 08:28 PM
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I hope you say that in jest, no girl is worth that. If you are not saying that in jest, you need to get off reddit and seek professional help immediatley. If you read through these boards, you will see countless stories of wives cheatings, men losing thier earnings and thier kids and basically thier life only to faced with rebuilding their entire lives. Look at it this way, youre not facing any of that (that I can see from your post) So count yourself lucky on some counts, because you have an ea…
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:06 PM
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Snap the hell out of it. You are now doing this to yourself. It's over, its been over. You need to get your shit together. You've wasted two years at this point. Take a vacation, go see beautiful foreign Wimmins, scuba dive, surf, whatever, you need to reset yourself, Get a new perspective on life. You have a defeatist attitude and are gauging your worth by a girl that you dated two years ago. You seriously need to start the upward climb out of this oneitis rabbit hole you've found yourself in.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 01:26 PM
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Don't do it.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 01:10 PM
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First off, like everyone says, read the sidebar. If you got jacked over the past three years, congrats, you can skip that part of the phase. Next step, work on those clothes you don't like, throw out all the baggy shit you own, work on getting clothes that fit well and show off your physique. Work on Base wardrobe pieces, some googling will give you a good idea of what your basics should be. If you mostly wear tshirts, start wearing button ups. Get a haircut, something new and different for you,…
/r/askTRP12/10/16 10:13 PM
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Pretty much the sidebar TLDR edition.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 09:55 PM
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Fair enough, you know you, if you find yourself catching feelz, make a swift exit. Also... Wrap it up if you aren't, and get tested. Now you know she engages in some risky behavior, and sounds like she will probably continue to do so. Take care of the twig and berries.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 09:49 PM
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Okay he asked you if you banged her, and you answered with hooking up, this seems like it's a no. The sexual threshold is quite a big difference from making out. You've been ambiguous about whether you've had sex, you really need to clarify, so until you do I'll say this: If you have not had sex with her: Your are overly stating your worth to her, shes ducking you and getting gang banged, and she's not giving you any. If she comes over to cuddle, makeout with you and then goes and gets gangbange…
/r/askTRP12/10/16 08:25 PM
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She only seems remorseful because you caught her, and she has now been defamed in the eyes of her family and possibly work as well. Keep that in the front of your mind. If you hadn't she would still be banging this guy behind your back. She wouldnt come out with it voluntarily, and would just keep doing it, probably with more partners and ever increasing riskier behaviors. Now ask yourself if that behavior truly deserves a second chance. If you can say yes, you're beyond help and doomed to be to…
/r/askTRP10/10/16 07:34 PM
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This post reeks of neediness. If she never initiates contact with you shes not tinglin' even if you hang out. Sounds like you are an orbiter, and oribiters hang out with hot girls all the time. If you've been reading trp material for 5 years, then you should know what you are doing is wrong. Sack up and quit being one of her girlfriends.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 05:40 PM
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Reads like oneitus, stop talking to her. If she messages you back again, don't answer back. I'm assuming she broke up with you because this post reads as you messaged her and not vice versa. Dont try to get her back, move on.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 05:27 PM
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Do not LTR a CC rider if that's what your thinking of doing.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 05:12 PM
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There are jacked meat eaters, there are jacked vegans. The human body will literally turn just about anything into energy that isn't poisonous, i dont think this is something to be considered "is this red pill?" Thats getting into the weeds a bit for me. Most vegans you run across tend to be SJW/granola type people. But if you've ever met a true vegan lifter doing it right, more power to them to relate thier experiences to others, because they are pretty healthy folks. That being said, I don't t…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 12:52 AM
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Pre-selection is one of the most powerful tools in the male toolbox. When it is achieved naturally, it truly is absurd how well it works. Plates will try harder, LTRs will mate guard. Diamonds and gold (despite thier superior uses in certain engineering cases) have no other intrinsic value other than they are scarce resources. But the earth has pre-selected them by way of thier scare integrity. Perhaps a loose analogy, but women desire that which is rare and socially verifiable to hold worth, ju…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 12:34 AM
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The Paretto principle applies highly to women and todays dating, especially online dating. 20% of the men on tinder have a lock on 80% of the females on Tinder. Being 6'1 and up with low body fat, a chiseled jawline with a 6 figure income is the gold standard all women look for on dating sites. A nice 5'6" guy with a little extra body fat, maybe with a receding hairline, with a stable government job pulling down 42k a year will be fighting for scraps and will be probably deemed creepy by most gi…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 01:30 PM
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Oneitis. Cut it loose
/r/askTRP05/08/16 03:20 AM
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If a girl ever calls you hot to your face, wrap it up, because your about to bang in the alley.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 03:18 AM
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The bad news? Life sucks right now. The good news? At rock bottom, you dont have anywhere to go but up. Stop the smokes, and commit to 7 days of healthy eating, and excersize every day and get 8 hours of sleep. The difference in just those 7 days should be enough to give you a peek into a better life if you keep building on your small victory. And read every bit of the sidebar in the meantime. If you change your habits for 30 days and dont feel better, even by a bit, go see the doctor and get ch…
/r/askTRP05/08/16 03:11 AM
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Maybe work on the idgaf mindset, every other mope that tries to buy an 8+ a drink gives a fuck in spades. Youll be ahead of 90% of guys that approach her if you dont care what she thinks, with the sound of your physique, probably 95%, so just say whatever without worrying about the repercussions and see what happens. At worst you wont get the 8+ you already dont have, so you dont have much to lose.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 02:58 AM
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Generally it feigns thier interest, beta loser orbiters could never "be players" They smell danger, exciting sweaty danger. In too small of a town, this may play against you because of thier percieved social stigma from other girls. In a big city, its a goldmine.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:57 PM
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Shes not interested. She knows what a netflix and chill is, and didnt want to have sex with you. Disengage unless you hear from her.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 10:14 PM
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Once. If you give a girl tingles, she will not ignore you or make up excuses and bumble on about when she might be free, she will reschedule on the spot. Anything else is low attraction plain and simple.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 10:10 PM
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Shes most definatley going to run through several guys, the fact that she doesnt know anyone makes this more likely, since she will not have to fear social stigma. You made it firm, its too late to go back now. Wish her well and cool it on the talking, and you do you. Its highly unlikely she would be faithful, so save the frustration. Shell more than likely get at you when she gets back if you hold frame. Girls will often look for some kind of commitment when moving since they fear being alone. …
/r/askTRP03/08/16 10:00 PM
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Nothing other than no one will ever give a shit about helping you. If you're male, low to middle class and white You will claw and scrape for everything you have, only to be reminded by society it was handed to you on a silver platter because of your skin color. Just the way she goes.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 09:49 PM
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Man..just... this is all wrong, this whole post. Womyns gonna womyn, anything you do from this point on is going to reek of desperation and neediness and you will look like a needy pathetic loser to her, if thats what you want, have at it. Otherwise, save face and disappear. It sounds like you have a serious case of oneitis. Move on, skip the revenge fantasy. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 09:42 PM
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If you live in an expensive city, you are probably buying high right now with a decent down payment. Real estate can be a great investment, just make sure you arent buying into the high end of the market, as your returns in equity will be less than they would in your portfolio. You also never know if you might have to reinvest more of your own capital to get the second business off the ground. With that said, 22 is super young, you are ahead of the game, no need to be tied down to an asset like …
/r/askTRP11/07/16 12:43 PM
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Tip for good service, not because shes attractive. If both are met, tip. shitpost.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 12:30 PM
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I'm suprised she hasnt left you already, keep this up and its bound to happen. You need to get your shit together. Sidebar. All of it.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 12:24 PM
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Bingo. She added a nice touch with the "his sister came along" bit. So both of these people have a train or plane to catch to leave the damn country in probably several hours, but they decided to both come by and apologize for this 19 year old's behavior. Bologna.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 09:48 PM
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Not me, but i knew some folks who taught over there, they are fairly common
/r/askTRP09/07/16 09:22 PM
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The answer to "should i move on from this oneitus?" Is always yes. If she says no, or flakes, next step is orbiter status. So move on
/r/askTRP09/07/16 04:44 PM
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the internet validation machine is pretty much always in full force for any average or above looking girl. Hundreds of thirsty dudes will be lined up to like statuses, comment on that bikini picture at the beach etc, looking to get a whiff of her asshole. The only difference is, you dont like her statuses, you dont comment on her wall, you have sex with her. Leave that other shit to the orbiters. The minute you are like " whos that guy who liked your picture" or "you commented on this" youve los…
/r/askTRP09/07/16 04:38 PM
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Youll get that feeling when things dont add up. You may not be able to prove it right away, but if you have a sinking feeling and dont have a history of being paranoid, trust on your side at least is already gone. Next with little explanation and move on. When she has gaps in time you dont hear from her If she stops texting you when shes out with the girls When she doesnt seem to be where she should be when she starts buying new underwear and doesnt make it a point to show them off to you. If sh…
/r/askTRP09/07/16 04:26 PM
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When you get to Japan, youll be able to find a plethora of thirsty white english teachers if you live in a bigger city.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 04:12 PM
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Dirty sex somewhere semi public, of course dont mention this is the plan, make it spotaneous. Bonus points if her panties are still wet when you show up to the restaurant later and she feels like everyone knows what she just did. After 10 years the fantasy is gone, give her tingles for her anniversary, for you it will be the gift that keeps on giving.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 04:06 PM
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If shes awake, put your arm over her stomach, kiss her, shes waiting for it, she didnt invite you into her bed for sleep. Granted, being a virgin, you are still trying to figure out how all this works, and thats okay, its normal. But this is always a signal, even if the anti slut defense kicks in.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 03:59 PM
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Stronglifts is a great way to keep a program simple, just make sure you are increasing weights enough to give you a challenge. As for goals, you need to step it up. No one controls this but you. Budget what you have, and try to save. Drive uber or lyft on the side, make you own hours and get some extra money. Formulate a plan for the next 365 days on where you want to be a year from now and stick to it.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 12:59 PM
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Youre in a good spot, you used a condom. Assuming you used it properly, there is a very low chance of pregnancy. Plan B is meant more for a condom breaking, you went inside, or had zero birth control options in play. Buying plan B everytime you have sex is highly not logical. Mother nature can always pull a rabbit out of a hat sometimes, but it sounds unlikely in your case.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 12:47 PM
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If she branch swings to you, she will branch swing away from you. Not something to seek out, unless only for bang bangs.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 11:41 AM
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Dont ever talk about fight club with an LTR. Dont drink if youre not able to control your actions.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 11:35 AM
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Really man the best thing you can do is read and internalize the sidebar material. There are no specific ways to get over the anger phase, it will eventually happen. I think oneitis can make this last longer in most cases however, which with a cheating ex this sounds like it may be the case. If you are having trouble achieving, Set mini goals for yourself, eventually make them bigger, and dont focus on too many at one time. Get in the habit of finishing what you start. Start approaching girls, i…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 11:22 AM
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A guy could have twice the ego that you have, or have half the ego you have, and get more girls than you do due to his overall SMV. What AFPJ is saying is you are asking the wrong question. Besides, Egos and confidence are not the same, Egos generally require a steady diet of validation, straight up confidence does not. So perhaps the question you need to ask is how might your ego be affecting your past relationships, give some examples from your past and let us try and help you out. You may not…
/r/askTRP24/06/16 09:26 PM
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Womyns gonna womyn, you are at her beck and call, and are acting like a temporary validation machine, cut that shit out. When she watched Chad leave from the bar with a different girl, thats probably exactly when she texted you.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 08:59 PM
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There isnt much context here to go on, but i would advise you to not shit where you eat first and foremost. TMI? Probably. Deal breaker? Not if shes interested. What are you doing in an LDR anyway? Judging by your description, youre not really into it, with good reason, because LDRs are doomed to fail.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 12:34 PM
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Good for you man, walking away with your head up and your dignity in tact makes the situation that much easier to deal with. You have now learned a valuable lesson, taking control of your own shit will always be in your favor, instead of waiting for the other shoe to drop.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 12:22 PM
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No special stuff needed to end it "This isnt working for me, Im going to see other people" walk away, ignore contact from her.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 12:58 PM
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Dont be naive, she had sex with the co worker and probably one or several of the guys you saw her out with. Key phrases like "find myself" and "working on my happiness" really mean "looking for new, more exciting cocks than yours" Its textbook branch swinging behavior. She had free reign to look for guilt free sex with new men by dropping that line on you, and then comes back when she gets pumped and dumped by Chad. This behavior will now continue until she finds the one she wants to jump to, do…
/r/askTRP22/06/16 12:37 PM
1

As many have stated, simply ignore. Let her hamster spin into infinity.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 08:35 PM
2

"She was definitely a carousel rider, and then found me at a time when she was all alone in life and wanted companionship." It seems like you want this to be a thing, but do not LTR this one.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 08:26 PM
1

Next. That behavior will show back up, and probably at the worst time.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 05:10 PM
1

Prime example: Here is a womyn being the instigator of this situation per usual. The guy gets out of the truck and whiteknights all the way up to the car and kicked it to show m'lady he had her back and that he's tough. The guys who got out of the car? Now they can go to jail for assault https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QtyLQ1GXX-c The guy who kicked the car, eventually hit and runs these dudes. Who is the only person in this video that will not get charges pressed against them? The big ole woman…
/r/askTRP20/06/16 03:21 PM
1

"If I was a boss I should just literally not use a condom, pump until I am about to cum, pull out, cum, and be done for the night" There is nothing boss about playing roulette with your dick health. This is twice you have mentioned no condoms fairly flippantly, with a Tinderella no less. Dude be smart.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 02:52 PM
7

Quite simply, ignore and move on. Engaging with white knights to the point of violence isnt netting you anything, especially if you end up in jail. Most of the time the woman will escalate or rile up the white knights to do her bidding. Learn to recognize and have awareness of a situation where "male privelage" will put your back against the wall against 3 dudes wanting to joust for m'lady.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 12:40 PM
1

Incoming tough love man: Get your ass in check. Judging by this last post you have lost frame and are all over the place. You are on the receiving end of her dread and its got you hook, line and sinker going out of your mind. You can't fix this right now, and any attempt to do so will not help anything. Yes, it sounds she likely is banging or is about to bang someone else, nothing you can do about this. What you can do is get your shit together and center yourself. Panic and desperation are the …
/r/askTRP13/06/16 06:10 PM
3

It's just pack mentality on display. Guys who do this feel safe in numbers to pick off what they perceive as weaker targets without real threat. A 6'5" 275 lb tree trunk of a man however could walk by and they wouldn't say anything because 1 male lion can kill 4-5 Hyenas, its all about who they perceive as weak.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 05:08 PM
1

You set a profile pic of you and her on your FB profile after 2 weeks of dating. This plainly says "I have no other options" your stock is not valuable, this immediately has given her the option to look for better investments. Not to mention you bought her an expensive gift after two weeks as well. These are tingle killers, as you say, you are exhibiting needy behaviors. A girl will drag their vag over hot coals to see a guy they are tingling for, she has the time, but she's using it elsewhere. …
/r/askTRP13/06/16 04:50 PM
4

So she didn't get gang-banged, she got the train ran on her... Result is still the same, move out and move on.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 04:11 PM
2

Fight your instinct to marry and have kids, dont ever look for that or you put yourself in a position of "this is the result" which can lead you to overlook things in women which you should not. If you want a LTR, do not make an LTR a goal, an LTR should come as a byproduct of your ability to screen Higher quality women. To do this, you must date around and learn how this works. A LTR does not make things easier, shit tests never end, frame checking never ends. Live how you want to live now, bec…
/r/askTRP07/06/16 10:24 PM
7

I think it's simple really, give em a little slap on the ass and call it a day. Her attempting to get you to share in the profoundness of her vagina is her attempting to get you to bend to her frame. Don't do it. You're supposed to be amazed that she let you into her special flower, you are supposed to be grateful. When you do not act this way, you are qualifying your high SMV because you always get quality bedmates and today is no exception. If she pouts, let her pout, don't coddle her, don't c…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 01:27 PM
1

Girls will drag the pussy over broken glass to sleep with a guy they are tingling for, right now it's the guy with the cooler car. If she says she's busy and doesn't offer an alternative day especially if you took the V, she's not feeling you as much as the other guy.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 09:50 PM
1

It sounds like you are hamstering here, excusing her behavior. Stick is right, she was openly challenging your SMV. Shut that shit down. The correct response here should have been to reframe your SMV with amused mastery . Example: Look at her and say something like "well your not the only girl to grace my mattress either" with a grin and playfully poke her in the forehead. always Treat her like a bratty little sister when she deserves it.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 01:06 AM
1

Time to escalate, just realize this is your first, you will mess something up along the way, and that's okay you need this experience. Also realize, she is probably 4-6 partners deep at 22 so she'll be a bit more experienced. Does she know your a virgin?
/r/askTRP25/04/16 12:40 AM
3

You are too invested. Only text with purpose to schedule the next meet up, never make idle chit chat. Do not repeat text her either. We can tell by your post she has the power right now. Her interest may be waning, or she is tied up at work, or she is shit testing you to see if the neediness comes out. A girl will move mountains to talk to and see a guy she is tingling for because AWALT. You need to relax, withdraw a bit and work on not losing frame because of her silence.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 12:34 AM
3

Man, these stories never get easy to read. Be prepared, the pill is bitter. No texts, phone calls, Facebook, get all of her info, photos, social media all of that out of your life. There is zero contact with her from now on. She is about ride the cock carousel. Get all of these images out of the way now: she's going to blow guys in their cars, in the alley, and get jackhammered into her mattress by every guy that treats her like a piece of meat and nothing else. Its what she wants right now more…
/r/askTRP22/04/16 09:21 PM
1

" The greatest football team in the history of civilization is the Pittsburgh Steelers of 1975-1980" number 17
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 10:16 PM
13

So true, a female I know once got married for no other fact than her friends were all in thier BB finding phase and kept pushing her into it. She got married after 3 months and got knocked up immediately, and was miserable. The herd opinion won out over her own decisions. These same female friends no doubt will be the same ones who convince her to divorce the guy a few years down the road as they all start divorcing thier husbands, collect free resources and hop back on the carousel. It was so e…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 04:26 PM
1

I don't trust people's ellipses sometimes. Brb, calling the doctor.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 12:39 PM
1

Sorry man, you are no exception. She also cheated on you. If she admitted to cheating on every other boyfriend, she's definitely cheated on you too. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 01:22 AM
23

You are dead on. I've seen exactly two episodes of sex and the city, and no way that main guy is committing to that post wall cc rider. Rich and handsome in Manhattan? Forget it, he'd be drowning in HB10s half his age 365 days a year. Having spent a few years in NYC, that place is crawling with thirsty women looking for powerful men. A pocket square and some cash brings 23 year olds around like moths to a flame. You barely even have to try, let alone if you have status. That's where the true Alp…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 10:08 PM
2

Everything he describes as bad qualities are all the things that give her tingles. Wealthy, known and alone? Hardly. To boot, she's looking pretty good for 2 kids and probably about 30.. She has her BB, This guy is going to get steamrolled right before the wall hits.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 07:23 PM
2

N count is definitely a marker for an LTR candidate, along with a solid family dynamic, with a masculine father and feminine mother. The difference here is generally girls raised in this environment seek masculine approval by proving their worth, and not that they should just automatically get it due to having a vagina. Strangely enough, now that she's an adult and out of the house she needs new masculine approval due to the growing absence of her father in her daily life, because she was raised…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 06:42 PM
10

Generally, a girl who explicitly states she's looking for a relationship because of all the " d-bags" out there is someone's Alpha Widow. Not the best type to actively pursue an LTR with if that's what your looking for. She will withold sex not because of how she was raised ( what you want in an LTR candidate, generally low number count) but because she's more than likely been pumped and dumped a lot, and would bang her past oneitis alpha in a heartbeat behind your back if he texts her. Proceed …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 04:49 PM
3

She didn't want a relationship, all that means is she wanted a relationship with Chad the biker and he was having none of it. Being that she said she's tired of all the men who just wanted to bang on tinder means she got pumped and dumped by all those guys she's mentioning. Never take what they say they want at face value, it's her hamster talking, not her tingly bits.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 04:13 AM
2

Textbook Alpha widow behavior. Although you rolled out at least. The next guy probably agreed with everything she said, stupid or not, they probably went out for 7-8 dates with not so much as a hand hold since he was being respectful and nice...that is until the bouncer texted her at 1am for a roll in the hay cause tingles
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 03:58 AM
5

A dangerous combination. Confidence + Beta = usually something cringeworthy. Like bringing flowers to the bar where you saw your oneitis checked in on Facebook to ask her out while not being aware she's banging the bartender. This story was told to me by... You guessed it, the bartender that was banging this guys oneitis
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 01:23 AM
1

I spin a few plates until I find one worthy of possible LTR, then I give her a shot, if it doesn't work out, rinse and repeat. A high quality woman is worth several others to me, yes AWALT applies still, but To me redpill is about maintaining frame and understanding the hard wired responses from women. Its about me never losing the masculine frame that I need to have a good time with a high quality female and life in general. I've just never been only content with endless plate spinning all the …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 10:08 PM
1

Good point, Also the same women you mentioned are mad because post wall all they have for choices are betas with lower value. High SMV men at that age are now banging women half thier age, any man at that age banging a 22 year old could spin a metric ton of post wall burnouts, they just choose not too, and this infuriates those women. Thus the hamster spins the creepy and gross narrative to take away the loss of thier ability to bed high quality men. Where have all the good men gone= why aren't …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 05:06 PM
3

When you cheat, it's your fault. When they cheat, it's your fault. The hamster will always victimize and make excuses. The pill is always hard to swallow, but when you apply red pill principles to your past experiences, everything all of a sudden makes sense. It may not make them easy to deal with immediately, but applying logic is the way men deal and cope. Those who don't ever come to the realizations you have may in fact never cope, because the logic is never applied, the problem never solved…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 02:50 PM
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