Lately, I've been called a player by several women in different occasions. Sometimes I don't even have to say a word.

At first I thought it was a good thing but despite my interactions going well the flake rate is very high. In fact I'm in a one month dry spell (nowadays I'm a little more selective).

I live in a small city so this can be factor too. Everybody knows everybody.

When a girl labels you a player does it mean I come a cross as a phony or fake? Too sexual in the beginning?

I've to rethink my strategy. I think it's not working.