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A guy that stays with a girl for 10 years is in love, a girl that stays with a guy for 10 years just hasn't found a better guy. Hypergamy can be a real eye opener, it's hard to understand how common it is until you're the one stealing girls instead of being cheated on.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 03:00 PM
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As someone that went from fat (285lb) to skinny (145lb) to athletic (185lb), packing on some solid muscle makes all the difference in the world. (6ft tall for reference) They find a reason to touch your shoulders or arms or chest, and you can see them swoon a little when you're not soft. It's almost creepy, every woman of every age will do it. They can't resist, your friends/coworkers/family will even do it. Other thing I noticed is bumping into you in a crowded area. If you're fat or skinny, th…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 06:18 PM
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Along the same lines, I've heard dozens of girls mention that guys shake their hands like pussies (often, after I do the opposite). Shake hands like you'd grab their ass. A handshake is often your first chance to make physical contact after an introduction. They know damn well those limp gripped bitches aren't going to pull their hair and slap their ass.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 05:57 PM
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New to area-top of pack Also new to all potential matches. You haven't exhausted the pool. Finally, less competition. If a girl can swipe 50 guys/day, and there's 500,000 to go through, you're less likely to be seen than if there was only 50,000 or 10,000 to go through.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 03:08 PM
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Don't look for a girlfriend, look to meet girls and have fun. If it turns into a relationship, so be it, but don't be surprised if you run through a bunch of girls that just disappear off the face of the earth for no apparent reason. Start on square one, open. Start conversations, especially with girls you notice checking you out. Just walk up and introduce yourself, or make a relevant comment. I like day game, I hit a lot of street fairs/car shows/etc. Easy to approach any girl eating anything …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 03:01 PM
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It's only gay if you push back.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 02:49 PM
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Can confirm, female bullshit detectors are well calibrated. Hipster chicks definitely dig nervous guys more than usual, but IMO, that's mostly because hipster dudes are pussies in general. At least in my area, they're basically nerds that grew large beards.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 02:51 AM
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I'm not doubting you, no worries bro. I was just clarifying for the newbies that will inevitably stumble upon this. They don't understand the nuance. Like I said, girls aren't stupid, they see the signs. They know what was left behind and what was planted, and planting is a guaranteed way to make them GTFO.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 02:10 AM
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Own up to your responsibility. You sprayed a kid in some dumb ho. That doesn't make her less of a dumb ho, that just gives her leverage. Get it in her hair, bust on her tits, spray in your hand and eat it for all I care, just don't shoot your load in the only hole that results in child support.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 02:00 AM
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Hitting a triple is better than striking out, and a whole shit ton better than sitting in the stands. Learn, improve, try again. There's billions out there waiting for you. These types of ASD/LMR situations are the prime time to test your tactics and see what works. If you lost the game either way, might as well try running that new play to see what happens because there's nothing left to lose. Last time I had that situation, I stood up and stripped to my boxers after it became clear she just wa…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 01:48 AM
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People either take advantage of others, are taken advantage of, or land in a situation where neither happens (because they won't let themselves be taken advantage of, and others won't let them take advantage). Real friends are the ones that don't fit in those categories, and most people only have 1-3, 5 tops. Don't be afraid to graciously take what others offer you. If people want to be your friend, want to do nice things, you gain nothing by telling them to fuck off. Avail yourself, make the co…
/r/askTRP21/03/17 01:31 AM
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It's less a tip, more an observance. I wouldn't advise anyone to plant items in their houses, I can't see faking it ending well. But, if there's a wine glass with lipstick in your sink, or hand prints on the bathroom mirror from the last girl bent over the sink, it's not going to hurt you.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 01:22 AM
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some women are into you and some aren't "The wolf prefers carrion to the sweetest fruit" (carrion is rotten flesh, to save you the googling) Even if you're 10/10 Chad Thundercock, you'll still get dissed by some HB4 chubber that only wants something you're not. On equal grounds, my brown buddies do as well as anyone else. But, by and far, my brown buddies are chubby and awkward. It's not that girls have an issue with brown dudes, it's that they have an issue with desperate and awkward chubby guy…
/r/askTRP21/03/17 12:28 AM
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For thousands of years, we've accepted that broken hymen=not virgin. In fact, for quite a while, if your wife had a broken hymen on your wedding night, it was her family's duty to stone her to death. You can say whatever you want, doesn't make it true, and any guy that's been around can tell.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 11:59 PM
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I have a "lost and found" shelf in my room of whatever odds and ends girls leave behind. I also have an iPhone charger next to my bed, but I don't have one. Girls aren't stupid. They see two water bottles on the night stand. They see two phone chargers. They see girl's clothes. They see bobby pins and hair ties. They see the girly handwriting on my whiteboard. They see all the signs, know exactly what's up, and I've never once had one say a word about it. If anything, it seals the deal.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 11:55 PM
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General rule is don't fuck with drug addicts. Adderall is a small step away from meth, and I know you wouldn't be fucking with a meth head.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 11:49 PM
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A few years ago, I was dating a girl for a while and she dropped that question on me. I joked "don't worry, I'm not knocking you up any time soon." She didn't like that and pressed, so I deflected "I wouldn't complain if your ass got rounder, but there's a limit to everything". Again, she didn't like that, and pressed further. "That's not you. You're not the type of person to do that. For that to happen, you'd have to change, and I don't know if I'll feel the same way about you if you changed in…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 11:43 PM
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This is so stupidly common that once you learn how to spot it you'll see it everywhere you go. I was at a St Paddy's parade with some buddies. One started chatting up a group of 3 girls (HB 7/8's). Body language made it clear they had no interest, attitudes made it clear they were out for free drinks, it was as clear as day even half drunk and 20 feet away. He called me over to wingman, and he suggests a round of shots, to which they of course agree. I followed him to the bar and made it clear n…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 11:23 PM
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You're far better off with a proper diet and exercise. I hurt myself last year, a few months on the couch led to a lot of lost muscle and 40lbs of weight gain. Spent about 5 months putting muscle back on. Didn't lose a single pound, I was eating to build muscle. In mid-January, I began my cut, strict keto diet, 10-20% calorie deficit, and 5x/week in the gym for at least an hour (40mins of weights, 20 mins of cardio). I'm down 20 lbs, and will continue to drop 2-3lbs/week until I hit my goal. Poi…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 09:26 PM
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Reading, lifting, dressing/grooming/eating right just means you're on the right path, not that you've arrived at the destination. Your response to their laughter shows you have a LONG way to go mentally. Doesn't matter where you're from or what color your skin is, girls are going to ignore you and laugh about it. For all you know, they're lesbians and found it hilarious you couldn't tell.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 09:07 PM
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Reminds me of something I did a little while back. Ran into a highschool friend out at a bar. She was on a double date. We started chatting, catching up, and she introduced me to her BF and friends. Conversation flowed, the boyfriends were buying drinks for the table (which now included me). The girls were flirting with me, but hey, drunk girls do that. The girls were both short, like 5 foot nothing, and the guys weren't much bigger. It was clear I intimidated them a bit. They spent most of the …
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 03:26 PM
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You're right, I was not yet satisfied with my life and TRP had some of the knowledge and tips I needed to reach where I wanted to be. I'm here now to give back. I think the ones who overcome their struggles are naturally tougher than those who don't go through any struggles at all. Can't disagree, you either rise to the occasion or get beaten to a pulp. (Or, you know, whine on the internet about it while never accomplishing anything.)
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 12:54 PM
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The message is clear: You miss 100% of the chances you don't take. These guys never asked for their number, although they could have gotten it. You'll never see "You asked for my number, I said no, and that was a mistake". (Then again, decent chance the guy wasn't interested at all and the girl is reaching out trying to get a guy out of her league.)
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 05:41 PM
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"You nicknamed my cock 'special'?"
/r/askTRP30/09/16 04:41 PM
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Love it. It wasn't so convenient when I was a teen. I earned the nickname "babyface". Grew a beard around 20, and I suddenly looked my age, but the nickname stuck until recently. Pushing 30 now, and I'm sure I'll be passing as a 20-something for many years to come.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 03:56 PM
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The only way to avoid it is to get the hell out of dodge. Ignoring a girl is pretty much the meanest thing you can do. It's worse than insulting them to their face, because at least then, they know they're worthy of time and emotion.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 03:38 PM
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"It just didn't work out" is golden. No matter what happens, that's the go to. Prevents follow-up questions, addresses their concern, and confirms you won't be some spiteful trash talking asshole putting them on blast when you inevitably split from them as well.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 03:28 PM
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Good. Go get it. You need to get tested regularly anyway. Anything that can be treated is easier to take care of when caught early. If she's putting you through that, she's likely putting the other guys through it too. She's likely not having random hookups. She's likely scaring away the guys looking for easy lays. She's likely clean, with a lower than average n-count. Green flag bro. I know it seems strange, but it's actually a good thing when a girl has this mentality. Just beware, they're alm…
/r/askTRP30/09/16 03:23 PM
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You're doing just fine. Bouncers don't like it if someone's feet leave the ground. So, you know, don't let them catch you. Be aware of your surroundings. Do it in a more private area, outside, or back at home. 99% of girls love it when a guy picks them up. Shows your capable of throwing them around in bed. If you're tall and decent looking, should be EZ mode.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 03:18 PM
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Girls wear makeup, guys lie. You're 6ft tall. She won't measure. You're in imports and exports, she doesn't need to know your rung. She joked about PolSci major? "Actually, it's been a real help with securing these government contracts." Wants to know if you're popular? Yes, always and forever. Could have banged her out and sent her home in her shitbox to go drink herself to sleep instead of getting nexted by a 5/10. PS, No body pics=disgusting body, 100% guaranteed. Why you wasting time on some…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 02:33 PM
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So you're saying in 40 years, all your hookups were at her place? I call bullshit. Girls are 10x more concerned about some random guy knowing exactly where they live than vice-versa. Sure, there's some that will take you home, but it's certainly not common.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 08:07 PM
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How common is going back to her place? Not all that common, but not unheard of. NBD. I guess I'd be open to a hotel too but seems too explicit to work on a lot of girls. Not if you play it off the right way. Plant the seed that you're only in town for a bit, live out of country, etc. Not strange at all for someone visiting to have a hotel room. Conversely, pick girls up at the hotel bar. They probably have a room too...
/r/askTRP23/09/16 07:44 PM
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No, you've been "exposed" to lots of garbage. Unless you've had an intimate relationship, you have't experienced what they're like to live with. You don't know how they handle money. You don't know how well they cook or clean. You don't know how they are in bed. You don't know what kind of back rubs they give. You don't know if they're the best lay you ever had. You catch my drift? I've met some truly horrible women that were actually fantastic girls to be involved with. The type that is an utte…
/r/askTRP23/09/16 07:41 PM
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Get a dick augmentation. Or, you know, do what everyone else does and deal with it.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 07:35 PM
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"anyone can choose any candidate, that's the whole point of free speech" Sounds like you surround yourself with idiots. The point of having freedom of speech is that the government can't prosecute you for your opinion. Nothing protects you from other citizens, nor does it have anything to do with what candidate you choose... It's your fault for engaging. It's your fault for allowing politics to be discussed. It's your fault for amplifying the situation instead of diffusing. You're not in control…
/r/askTRP23/09/16 07:34 PM
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Do you prefer Midol or a heating pad for your menstrual cramps?
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 06:11 PM
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I'm not advising to increase notch count with low quality women, I'm advising to experience more women. Higher quality, if possible, because I know for shit sure there's better girls out there. Chances are, this girl is totally average and OP put her on a pedestal. When do you cash out? When you're dead, or can't imagine your life without her, whichever comes first. There's a slim chance in hell the best OP can do is the second girl he ever was with. If she's truly his soul mate, she'll take him…
/r/askTRP23/09/16 06:05 PM
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She's a total unicorn all around I hate to rain on your parade, but you wouldn't know a unicorn if it buttfucked you with it's majestic horn. You've been with 2 girls, she's the best yet, that's all you know. Until you experience a lot of girls, see what there is out there, you don't even know what you're missing. She sounds like a nice girl, but it also sounds like she's totally average.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 04:53 PM
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Military is always looking for new recruits. Won't have to deal with breaking up, you just disappear. No issues at work, you won't be back. Fuck a keylogger, you won't be using that thing for a while.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 04:43 PM
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Block=bruise on her=you get some new bracelets and a free ride to the local police station with Officer Friendly (and all the fun that follows). Dodge it or take it, but either way, get the fuck out of there ASAP.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 04:38 PM
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Def do a FR, it always leads to some funny situations.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 04:23 PM
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Clear head is a huge help. Don't think too much, don't obsess, just go with the flow. Bite your tongue if you get too close. Pull out and change positions if you have to. Pulling out and stopping is obvious, pulling out and ordering her to move won't even register. Practice edging to recognize the sensation and control it. Strengthen those PC muscles. Know what gets you off, positions, visuals, hot spots, whatever. If your first nut falls out and the second one takes work, consider whacking off …
/r/askTRP23/09/16 04:14 PM
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We did first name only, any order, honor system (although there were normally facebook/text messages backing up the claims). Check Asian girls for X names. Xuan, Xiang, and Xiu-Mei aren't all that uncommon.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 04:05 PM
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Might be a sign, might not. Either way, don't stick your dick in crazy. That applies double when that crazy is related to you. I get that they're not married, no blood, whatever. Still close enough that I'd consider it "shitting where you eat". Really going to want to deal with little miss Psych ward at every family event for the rest of your life?
/r/askTRP23/09/16 03:57 PM
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Entertain yourself bro. The "amused master" is amusing himself, not relying on others to go out of their way to amuse him. Make fun of people. Fuck with their heads. Crack jokes. Pull valuable information out of them. Talk them into doing shit. Egg them on, make shit happen. Most people aren't interesting, but if you say there's no way they can chug that entire pitcher, it's at least going to be amusing to watch no matter what.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 03:54 PM
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Yoga is a great compliment to lifting. I used to do 30-45 minute sessions after lifting to stretch everything out and keep loose. I noticed it certainly helped recovery and reduced soreness as well. The price is a bit steep, but if the facility is nice, the trainers are knowledgeable, and it's unlimited, I can't knock it. At this point, I know enough to do it on my own. I hit the gym, head home, down the post-workout shake, do some yoga, and hop in the shower. You'll notice you've become much mo…
/r/askTRP23/09/16 03:51 PM
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Unless you have a top tier physique, I'd say to wear something that fits rather than something tight. Tight exposes flaws. It just does. If you're flawless, and show that off, it can be effective. If you have flaws, you're better off with something that compliments your shape while hiding the imperfections.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 03:40 PM
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Thinking about doing the alphabet test. Pro-tip: first one to get a Q usually wins. I took home my first black girl ever because I couldn't find a Quinn or Queenie, but ran into a Quiesha. P/U/Y/Z are pretty hard to find too. It's can be really fucking funny if you're doing it with friends, always end up approaching girls and blowing them off when you find out you already have the letter. Ends up being a whole bunch of girls hovering around wondering why you left them for some uglier girl (that …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 03:26 PM
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Some of us are manly men and do things besides show off our bodies. Ever change a tire on a dump truck? Ever hike 5 miles from the campsite to the lake with a loaded kayak on your shoulders (before paddling 8 miles and then hiking back)? Ever clear trees after a hurricane? Ever do a 20-mile mountainbike ride on steep terrain? Ever replace batteries in a boat? Ever carry loads of shingles up a ladder? Ever load a lawnmower/dirtbike/ATV into a pickup? Ever move a house and carry furniture up stair…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 02:14 PM
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Depends on the situation, and what I feel like doing. Generally, I'm being a smartass and messing with people, so take my advice with that caveat. I found in pregames/mixers that it's best to break them up or they'll just gossip over you, so focus on stealing one or two from the group. Sometimes, I call one over or motion for one to come to me. I smile, pull them close and say "you should introduce me to your hot friend". Just to see what they do, for shits and giggles. Sometimes they introduce …
/r/askTRP23/09/16 01:18 PM
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Your right, it's an "engaged silence", not a "check your messages while they think" silence. Imo, the pushy salesman angle doesn't work so well these days. Apple and Best Buy are on the front of the curve, "geniuses" acting as "guides" is well received now. Your info better be spot on, they'll Google whatever you say and distrust if you're wrong.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 05:26 PM
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From a fraternity guy: Start the drinking games, recruit the players. I used to start 10v10 flipcup games while waiting for my spot on the beer pong table. Gave me a chance to talk to every girl I could see, and make some physical contact while pushing them towards the table. You get to be in control, you get to be the center of the group, you're known for initiating the fun. Trust me, there's worse things in life than being crammed in the middle of 19 sorority girls. As far as banter, it's no d…
/r/askTRP22/09/16 03:31 PM
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At the gym last week, I was chatting with some guy while waiting for the squat rack. Graying hair, but handsome and fit. Clearly an athletic guy (built like a pro soccer player), enthusiastic, pretty fun to chat with. Clearly, this guy had some serious game. He asked if he could get on the rack first, as he had a date to get to, so I obliged. Turns out, that handsome fucker is 60 years old, taking out a 32 year old fox. My grandfather just turned 80. He's not exactly built like an athlete anymor…
/r/askTRP22/09/16 03:22 PM
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Suicidal people are suicidal people. Relationships, money, sex, success, toys, appearance, education, achievement, none of it matters.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 02:54 PM
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Dude, she's in India. She has electricity, a laptop, internet, a bed with a frame, a cellphone. I bet she even has running water! That's a pretty big deal. I'm not even being facetious. They have the largest portion of population without electricity in the world. Median income is only $600, per year. To have those basics puts her pretty high up the ladder.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 02:46 PM
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Learn to get a read on your customers. I have a bit over a decade of face-to-face sales experience at this point. Reading customers and reflecting their values back at them is the most important thing I do. Being able to adapt your presentation to their expectations will increase anyone's close rate. It's amazing how much of a difference it can make. Even the most basic, telling whether they value bullet points and saved time, or want every detail and don't care about time, can make a huge diffe…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 02:38 PM
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Don't hit, pick up and drop on head. It's so much more embarrassing for them, and you're way less likely to break your hand.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 01:28 PM
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This is well known and accepted on TRP. Top tier hotties are a handful. Girls with an SMV 2 notches lower than you are far easier to control, keep loyal, and are more likely to put in the extra effort to keep you happy. Sure, a top tier guy can get that HB9 to cook dinner and mop the floor, but maintaining that frame for decades is nearly impossible. Maintaining it with a girl a few notches down is notably easier.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 01:26 PM
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Perception of you will take time to change. People will assume you are the same person they knew, until they can't remember the old you. Stay on the right path. Do the right thing. Improve yourself every day. Soon enough, others will recognize the change. The judgmental looks are for what you were, not what you can be. When they see change, their look will change. Don't fall back in the same pattern, or you'll just spend a lifetime in that rut.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 01:22 PM
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I've had an easier time than ever making guy friends. I lost some along the path, but then again, you'll lose friends as time passes no matter what. I never really hung out with "losers", there's no one trying to bring me down, they're all trying to bring me up or climb up with me.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 01:19 PM
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You're not fooling us FUBIG. Your stories get more intricate, but the plot is always the same.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 01:16 PM
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Go for it. If you've never been, it's a fucking awesome experience. We get together 15-20 people every month and do a private outing. Ends up being like $80 for 3 hours, balls/air/entry/refs/tips/gun/mask/etc all included.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 12:42 PM
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The recreational fields all have a 15-ft surrender rule now. Gotta yell surrender, and if you shoot, you're both out. Can't enter their side of the bunker either, too many people took gun barrels to the face. My last game of the day, out of balls, I surrendered 6/8 players. I just waited for them to run to a bunker, ran to the same one right after they got there, and surrendered them from the other side before they stuck their head out. It was hilarious.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 12:40 PM
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You played this all wrong from the start. Flip it on her as fast as possible, beat her to the punch. "I'm uncomfortable you commented on this girl's photo" "That's nice" or "that sucks" or "ok" or something equally flippant. "I want you to stop commenting" "No" "why not? Do you really value her more than our relationship?" "I value my freedom more than anything. Don't make me choose." You put her in a position where she's risking the relationship by even bringing up the subject. It's not you cho…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 05:49 PM
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Why am I putting my mouth in places cocks have been? Because I don't give a fuck. P.s. There's cock on everything you've ever eaten, everything you've ever touched.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 04:58 PM
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You could have fucked a new 20-something slut in half the time it took you to worry about this. Move on.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 04:40 PM
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Consider your words, your entire response, before you open your mouth. That short pause is likely all it takes to "stupid check" your response and give you the clarity to deliver it correctly (coming from someone that spent years in speech therapy, a small pause is all I need to ensure I pronunciate correctly). Read some real books, classics. The mere exposure to the verbiage, the sentence structure, the way words are used, will make you more familiar with what you should be doing. Your generati…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 04:05 PM
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"Transamerica/Aegon" is a well known pyramid scheme, WFG is a well known MLM owned by Aegon. Run. Don't do it. 98%+ of their "employees" have negative income. They pay for training and never get a return. They use high pressure tactics and psychological manipulation to get people to join (as you've experienced). They promise huge incomes, and a long commission tail, but the reality is that the huge income comes from getting tons of schmucks like yourself in their downline.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 03:57 PM
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The first time I played paintball, I was fucking terrified. Literally shaking in fear, couldn't bring myself to move, couldn't even speak. I was damn near in tears, cowering in a bunker (cut me some slack, I was 10). I went with some friends a few weeks ago. I walked around the field without concern, in shorts and a t-shirt (while everyone else sweat their asses off in layers of clothes and padding). Sat in bunkers with my back to the enemy and texted on my phone while they wasted paint. Waved a…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 03:46 PM
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TRP is basically an online locker room. If the lightbulb hasn't gone off in your head yet, make friends with some guys that display RP thinking. If you've been here for a while, you should at least be able to spot that. Then, simply, have conversations with them in person. Before PUA, before TRP, before the internet, we just shared experiences and learned from each other. That's still as valid as ever. Just a few weeks ago, I was chatting with a buddy over a beer, discussing how willing girls ar…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 03:36 PM
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Handle it any way you want, there's no single best answer, it's all dependent on context. "Haters are just jealous fans" is a nice way to brush it off. "No one hates a failure" is a simple way to DHV and show you don't give a fuck about their hate, in fact, it validates your accomplishments. Of course, no matter what, answer like it's a fucking joke, because it is. Use the same tone and attitude you'd give a 3 year old that said "my friends think you're a poopie head".
/r/askTRP21/09/16 03:29 PM
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Don't take the advice here, don't take the advice of random coaches at the gym. Don't fuck around with a spinal injury, especially when this close to full recovery. Only take the advice of a real physical therapist or doctor. Pay them if you have to, most PT's are willing to draft up a routine or at least provide a list of recommended exercises. Thing is, you HAVE to do exercises that stress the spine, in the right way, with the right weight, in order to strengthen the support muscles. You NEED …
/r/askTRP21/09/16 01:08 PM
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The easiest time I ever had picking up girls was after getting my ass kicked. Busted lip, broken nose, bruises and whatnot. I looked like hell, they were falling over me, and then "took care of me". So, head out and celebrate your next ass kicking. But, most importantly, laugh. A sullen guy with a busted face is scary. A fun guy with a busted face is worth investigating. Joke that it might be an improvement, she should see the other guy, whatever you can come up with.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 01:01 PM
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If it's a meme troll, they're executing it exceptionally well. I'm convinced FUBIG is one person.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 12:49 PM
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No, you tell her you're running late, so grab a nice bottle of wine and relax. Then, you don't show up.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 12:49 PM
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6' tall blue eyed white boy. Any girl that says I look like someone, chooses Ryan Gosling. Never noticed any trend in race/nationality of women that are attracted to me, seems like it's just plain all of them, but especially cougars. They love me for some reason.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 12:47 PM
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You're correct, it didn't affect me at all. No one really cared, and I kept a nice place all things considered. If you drank Corona, rode a bike, and played volleyball, you were practically family (even though my Spanish is barely passable).
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 12:30 PM
1

If a person needs help, I help them. I don't care about their age, sex, race, whatever. If they need help, I'm helping, and not accepting anything in return. You don't become a beta orbiter by helping someone in need, you orbit someone who isn't interested in you and just keeps you around for validation. So, don't do that, and you're fine. White knights stand up to defend the honor of m'lady with the expectation of her attention/love/pussy in return, a covert contract. Girls can take care of the…
/r/askTRP20/09/16 07:05 PM
1

Go get a license or certification relating to your field. I'm not sure what you plan on doing specifically, but a license/cert can usually be obtained in a few weeks to months. So long as it relates to the field you're going into, you instantly look better than all the other applicants with a degree and no experience in the industry.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 06:43 PM
2

From a religious standpoint: Whatever god you believe in wouldn't make it so fun, and feel so good, if they didn't want us to do it. They wouldn't even provide the opportunity if it wasn't their plan for you to partake. It's disrespectful to deny the gift they have given you, the opportunity they have created.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 06:21 PM
2

Seek professional help for your self control issues.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 06:17 PM
2

It's not making or costing me money. It's not getting me laid or preventing me from getting laid. So, IDGAF. None of you should either. If it's not your problem, it's not your problem.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 06:17 PM
1

The kicker is, he's taking care of the kid, she basically abandoned them to go ride the CC once she was awakened to how much fun it is. This was a sheltered, highly religious, virgin until married, "pure" girl. Pretty, submissive, smart, low n-count, basically everything you'd look for in a unicorn. The guy is genuinely one of the nicest and smartest men I've ever met. Damn good looking and athletic to boot. BP through and through. His failure is one of the things that opened my eyes to reality,…
/r/askTRP20/09/16 06:14 PM
2

You're teenagers... There's nothing unusual about teenagers fucking. It's the easiest sex you'll get in your entire life. You can't plate a girl you haven't fucked, and IMO, you can't date one either. You have a friend you kiss. To blatantly say you're going to have a non-exclusive relationship must have made her laugh her ass off internally, as she knows you can't even pull off a relationship with her.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 06:08 PM
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Sewing and knitting used to be manly as hell. How do you think all those fishing nets got made? Who do you think was fixing the mainsail after grapeshot tore it apart during a sea battle? If it must be done, a man must know how to do it.
/r/becomeaman20/09/16 06:01 PM
1

Or, she's the craziest closet freak you've ever gotten your hands on. She realizes you can't satisfy her needs, so she starts cheating. Whole family, and parish, blames you personally for corrupting their little angel while she gets no blame. (Happened to a family friend with a JW girl he met. He's still JW, some "born again true path" bullshit rationalization for changing his religion over some pussy. Had to move to another state, since he was no longer welcome at local temples.)
/r/askTRP20/09/16 05:40 PM
1

Even worse, what if she's a "no sex until marriage" religious fanatic that is going to make you chop off your foreskin and swear allegiance to her chosen god before giving up the goods?
/r/askTRP20/09/16 05:20 PM
2

You exhibit some flawed logic there. Would you not agree that a woman with pure genes, born to a n=1 mother, raised in a "no sex until marriage" culture, is capable of becoming a slut by choice? Would you agree that a dumb girl, born to a dumb mom, from a line of dumb people, is capable of learning and becoming smart? Achieving in the academic field? What women choose to be isn't necessarily what they were genetically destined to do. It's what they've chosen to do. They may not live a life as an…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 05:18 PM
1

I'd take what actually works over what they want to work any day of the week. That's the fact of the matter, they tell you what they think they want, what they're supposed to want, what they should want. We're discussing what actually works. What we've tested, time and again, and proven to be effective, regardless of the way things should be. Everyone here should know, the world is the way it is, not the way it should be.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 03:11 PM
2

My goal with this girl is to make her my girlfriend Your goal with all women, every time, should be to figure out if she's worthy of being your girlfriend. Meet, date, fuck, and if she's cool, plate her. If she proves herself, date her. Can anyone offer a step-by-step way to escalate in this situation to someone with literally 0 experience? Kino shouldn't be forced. It should be natural. Invade her space, touch her in "comfortable" places, then more private places, gauging her reaction at each s…
/r/askTRP20/09/16 03:06 PM
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And there's nothing different from white parts of town Here, there's a massive difference. You can tell just by the housing, businesses, and cars, that you've entered the hispanic area. It's certainly a tier lower and an entirely different aesthetic. The people are all cool though. They thought it was hilarious to see a white boy mowing his own lawn. Got along with everyone. Friendlier than my neighbors in my new white hood (I bought my first house this summer, no more renting in sketchy places)…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 02:58 PM
0

It's no obsession, or even a requirement, girls just know they can get away with listing it. Men just ignore the fatties, without saying "no fatties" or "swipe left if your waist is over 32 inches". We enforce the requirement just as strictly, we're just less blatant about it. For every girl turning down a guy because he's too short, there's a guy turning down a girl because she's too fat or ugly.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 01:44 PM
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When I first graduated college, I lived in hispanic neighborhoods for a few years. In my area, that's where the cheap places were. The supermercados are amazing. No-bullshit produce and meat, 30-50% cheaper than the chain markets in the white part of town. I still go there weekly. I can't bring myself to pay $25 for a jug of detergent when the SAME one (same brand, size, scent) is $9.99 at the spanish place. Why pay $7.88/lb for steak when the same cut is $4.79/lb at the spanish place? If you ge…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 01:10 PM
1

The majority is the majority preference, not the majority user. Sites track the usage patterns, not the user demographics. They don't care who you are or what color your skin is, they care about what you're looking for.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 12:59 PM
1

While you're at it, enjoy some of the activities you just plain don't have time to do usually. Basically, have some fun. I don't care how good your discipline is, sticking to your routine is easier when you know how long you have to go to get a break. Reward yourself for doing so well, and get back too it when the break is over.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 12:45 PM
1

Funny thing is, guys here all say they're a 7-8, even when there's nothing to support it or evidence to the contrary. Go creep OP's post history and tell me if you think he's a 7-8. I have him pegged at a 4, maybe a 5 if his face is nice. Your SMV is the average of the girls you close, +1, because girls so rarely go down. You're not a 7-8 unless you consistently can close 6-7's.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 08:25 PM
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No. You should focus on getting the next girl. And the next one. And the next one. Get so many you don't know what do with all of them. Before you know it, you won't even remember whats-her-butt's name and won't have a single fuck left to give about her feelings. Life gets much easier when you hit that point.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 08:11 PM
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We did a couple of shoots together So she's a client? Requisite "Don't shit where you eat" reminder. I'd imagine you'd have a tough time making profit if every person that googles you sees a report of you making advances on a client. All it takes is a facebook rant... That said, No Contact is probably the way to go. Chances are, she's just not that interested.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 08:00 PM
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To use the car sales analogy: PUA- Sell cars through crafty salesman. Make the sale no matter what, even if the good are misrepresented. We know most buyers can tell they're being lied to these days, making it harder to do. TRP- Survey the market, build the best car possible, knowing it will sell itself on merit alone. May not be the car for everyone, but enough will want it that you'll never have a shortage. MGTOW- Fuck the market, fuck sales, build your dream car and enjoy it. If you feel like…
/r/askTRP19/09/16 07:52 PM
0

I see the problem here. You're a massive pussy. That's it. That's your only issue. The only thing wrong here is that you're afraid. Only solution to fear is exposure. Do something that terrifies you every single day until you aren't afraid anymore. Or, you know, stock up on doritos and Mt. Dew and accept your life as a basement dwelling incel.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 07:43 PM
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No one has to say they like white women, it's assumed. The only people that mention their preference are ones out of the ordinary. What most people would call a "fetish". Ever notice how all porn sites have a Latina/Asian/Ebony search, but never a white/caucasian/european search?
/r/askTRP19/09/16 07:35 PM
2

Ask them where things are. Ask them what rides they've been on, what they think of it. Ask for suggestions on what to go on next. Ask them if they want to join. Of course, get their name, make some small talk, get a number if you can. But, the environment will leave no shortage of things to talk about, even if it's just "did you have to park in the middle of nowhere too? I would have brought my scooter if I knew my car would be miles away."
/r/askTRP19/09/16 07:27 PM
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The problem is that I feel unworthy to receive love. So how do I start to change my self belief? Should I believe that I am a good, worthy guy, despite being a total loser? No one deserves anything. No one is worthy of anything. Get that stupid fucking idea out of your head right now. Everyone takes what they want until someone stops them. That's how the world works. Open your goddamn eyes. You had a girl into you, in bed with you, and instead of taking what you wanted, you laid there and looked…
/r/askTRP19/09/16 07:25 PM
3

Serious is the opposite of "amused master" or "dgaf attitude". You give off a vibe of being nervous or anxious. You don't appear comfortable, you don't appear to be having fun (regardless of the truth, people only know what they see, the way things appear). Crack a joke, crack a smile, be a little silly, say something bold, or even just offensive, have a little fun.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 07:13 PM
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Clearly, you need to go to they gym 5 times a day to limit the potential opportunities for breaking discipline. /s Take a vacation. You don't have to leave, just take a break, a cheat week, whatever you want to consider it. Eat some food, slack off from the gym, whack off and play some video games, whatever. Get it out of your system, re-evaluate what's essential, and go forward with a clear head.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 07:03 PM
3

Why is this bitch acting like she's hard to get? She's not. She has a bunch of plates after all those years on the CC. When they fall through, she takes the first reasonable tinder match to reply. You're not first to reply, so you're not getting anywhere. She's not hard to get, she's so easy to get she's not available for you. This shit is hilarious to see how even a 3/10 holds an unreasonable value for herself You confuse "HB" with "SMV". She might be a HB3/10, but she's SMV8/10. This ain't a b…
/r/askTRP19/09/16 06:59 PM
2

Anyone that tells you they can teach you to get the girl you want is lying to your face. Any guy that claims they can get any girl is lying to your face. Honestly, 99% of the time, a no is a no forever. You can get girls, you can get girls you want, but no one will ever get 100% of the girls they want, every try, every time. Approach a hundred girls you want, and you might get a few of them.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 04:42 PM
2

What should i talk about? Ask their opinion. Literally anything works. Then, pick something and go off on a tangent. EX: "You ever have the burgers here? Any good?" "Oh, yes, it's great. They won a cookoff last year for it." "A cookoff? Really? Where was that?" "At the park down the road, all the local places were there" "That's the park where they do the fireworks, right?" "Yes! They were so good this year, I went with my girlfriends from college." "What college did you go to?" Get the idea? Be…
/r/askTRP19/09/16 04:33 PM
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Main street in my town has about 2 dozen bars/restaurants/coffee places. I've had quite a few "lets meet for a coffee" dates turn into "lets grab a drink" turn into "I'm hungry, lets eat" turn into "let's grab another drink" turn into "your place or mine?" Even just bar hopping, it seems like the success rate is always higher than staying at one place.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 04:27 PM
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I had my eyes on three girls. Doomed to fail from the start. You've limited yourself to 3 options out of 3.5 billion. Your odds are basically 1,000,000,000:1 of success. What I had in my mind was since she wasin't relationship , thats why I called her on a date. Its dating with no emotions. Date=beginning relationship. Casual or not, still square one. Bad way to approach that one. Later in person , she said she can't do anything since her friends will judge her. Ship sailed, you missed your chan…
/r/askTRP19/09/16 04:23 PM
6

No, no it doesn't. Not everything is a commentary on race.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 04:06 PM
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Back in gradeschool, a game called runescape came out. A bunch of my friends and I started playing. One had the bright idea to play as if he was a dumb girl. Guys just powerleveled him for no good reason. Gave him supplies and gear and money. Before we knew it, they were by far the richest and most powerful of everyone in our school. So, we all did it too... All you had to do was make a female username and ask for help, and you'd get it. Do the same with a male name, and they would ridicule you …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 03:58 PM
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Search and you can find anything Literally typed "hb rating scale" into google images and visited the first result. Hey, what do you know, exactly what you're looking for.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 02:56 PM
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"Quick" and "slow" are relative. As a "yankee", when I go down south, I'm generally the fastest talker everywhere I go. In my hometown, I'm pretty much average. There's a point where you can talk with a flow, without hesitation or pauses, with proper pronunciation and inflection. In the workplace, this is ideal. The lack of pauses shows command of the subject, and therefore, authority. The quick pace imparts the importance of the subject, and the time of those involved. The lack of "speeding" th…
/r/askTRP19/09/16 02:48 PM
12

Women from all races and cultures prefer tall white men. Just like men from all races and cultures prefer thin white women.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 02:00 PM
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This weekend, I opened a girl and simply asked "what do you do?" she asked "like for a job?" and I sarcastically said "no, martial arts, you look like an ass kicker". Girl talked about the types of karate for like half an hour, she actually was into it. We debated what actually works in the real world. Even if you don't have anything good to say, be a smart ass.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 12:57 PM
13

I'm not sure if you've had the chance to experience it, but fucking women is a lot of fun. The whole process is fun. Why do I spend time perfecting game and using it to get laid? Because I enjoy it more than the alternative. Sure, I could sit at home sipping on tea and reading books every weekend, but I'd much rather sip on a beer and chat with beautiful women until I find one that wants me to tear her clothes off and have my way with her.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 06:45 PM
1

I have a really simple rebuttal: If your theoretical "true/real/natural alpha" gets pussywhipped into becoming a beta bitch, is he still a "true alpha" or is he now a beta? I'm sure you'll agree, if he's acting like a beta, living like a beta, he's a beta, even if he was once a natural alpha. My point is, what you were doesn't matter, all that matters is what you are right now, what you are when people meet you. A beta that learns the alpha ways, internalizes them, makes them a part of their bei…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 06:28 PM
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There was an open table 5 meters away. The fuck was I supposed to do? You're supposed to walk 5 meters to the open table. You lose, you move, new guy has a chance to challenge the winner. Works that way literally everywhere in the world. Instead, you tried to be a tough guy and intimidate someone that's larger and more capable than you in order to impress some girl. I'd slam your dumb ass on the floor too.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:57 PM
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Women with more money than the guy can afford a better lawyer... Even if the guy doesn't have to give her half his networth, he's still getting the short end of the stick, he's still losing his place to live, he's still losing custody, he's still paying child support. It's rare for the male to make out in a divorce. You know when you play the lottery there's a slim chance you come out on top, and marriage for males is no different. Realistically, you're getting screwed, the only question is when…
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:45 PM
2

That was the whole reason the skit is funny, they snuck around the obscenity regs, but everyone knew exactly what they were doing. I can't even joke around with my coworkers using a reference. Come in late and hungover, I want to say "were you out soaking corks all night?", but I know damn well that shit will turn into a suit if a female overhears. We adhere to regulations and the code of conduct with an epic amount of sarcasm. It's always "Mr. Jones, how are you?" "Just dandy Mr. Smith, just da…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 05:40 PM
3

Buying a used car can be a hell of a value. Got a $38k sticker car for $28k after title and taxes, fresh out of a factory-maintained lease, still had the factory warranty plus the pre-certified extension. I've tripled the mileage, spent a grand total of $500 on repairs over 6 years, and it's still worth $18k. I wouldn't be surprised to go another 5 years without needing a real repair. I get to drive around in a 300hp luxury sedan, for the cost of a Hyundai Elantra lease.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 03:19 PM
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It sucks that people are so sensitive these days. I was in the conference room with some execs at our weekly meeting. Girls didn't come for one reason or another, ended up being all men. We got everything done in half the time it usually takes, so we were bullshitting and cracking jokes, having a great time. One thing led to another, we were watching an old SNL skit about "cork soakers". CFO looked around and said "this doesn't leave the room". It's fucked up you can't even share a funny skit fr…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 02:49 PM
1

Kind of sucks that we really get no advantage from this Girls talk. Word spreads. There is an advantage, it's just that bragging about it directly isn't one of them.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 02:19 PM
2

"I'm trying to get into AEPhi (or whatever sorority they're in)" They'll get the joke, or say something along the lines of "guys can't be in a sorority" That's your chance to say "not even for a night?"
/r/askTRP16/09/16 12:57 PM
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Guys who brag about their size are generally the ones that don't have anything worth bragging about. They only get fooled so many times, so unless you're banging highschoolers, don't bother. If you have a big dick and know how to use it, word will spread.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 12:51 PM
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Girls that want you to chase them are destined to only be involved with the lowest quality guys around. Guys so desperate for pussy they'll chase a girl. Guys so desperate for love they'll do whatever it takes to get her. Often, borderline stalkers and creeps. In her mind, it's a romantic gesture, proof of their love, vetting of their devotion. We can see it for what it is.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 12:47 PM
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how can I get girls in highschool ? Read and implement the advice here. There's no "magic bullet", it's more about having a complete package. what is your advice on removing the doubt from a shy guy's( sort of) head when approaching a girl? Just do it, only experience will remove the doubt and anxiety. Unless you're a total creep, unless you ignore all their signs, nothing bad will happen. Open conversations, be friendly, chat, and gauge their interest. Learn to read their body language and subt…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 05:40 PM
1

If she's paying, what's it matter? Won't be your turn forever, at least you get to be the first one to enjoy then.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 04:50 PM
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Silence is fine too. In my experience, silence is more likely to let their hamster decide I was upset than a short and upbeat response. Either way, doesn't fucking matter, so don't waste too much time thinking about it.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 04:14 PM
0

Go do some stuff that might kill you. Literally, death, dismemberment, and crippling injury must be a real possibility. Put your skills and capabilities between you and death, rely on yourself. Rock climb, ride a motorcycle, race cars/bikes/boats, shoot guns, go white water rafting, skydive, join an MMA gym, climb something tall. All of the above if possible. There's always the pseudo-danger stuff like paintball and rollercoasters that will get your blood running, but when you put yourself in si…
/r/askTRP15/09/16 04:11 PM
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She's not interested. I'd just leave her with an "ok" and go NC. She's either going to hamster that she threw away a good option and get back in touch, apologize, and set up another meet, or she just isn't into you and this is her way of letting you down. Either way, there's about 3.5 billion more to meet.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 03:10 PM
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Robert Greene talks about playing on the insecurities others have to make them "feel good." That shit works, and works especially well on women. You just have to recognize when and how to implement it properly. All girls have insecurities. Every single one of them. They obsess about their flaws all day and night. Literally every 9 or 10 I've gotten, I complimented an insecurity. I didn't compliment them in general, and certainly didn't open with a compliment. Especially with hot girls, that does…
/r/askTRP15/09/16 02:59 PM
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I know the go to response here is next her, but have a couple years invested here. (From your original post) You going to marry this girl and spend her life with her? You've been with her for years, you should know that answer. I assume the answer is no, you're not going to marry this girl, you don't plan on spending the rest of your life with her. If you were, you wouldn't be here in the first place... In that case, you haven't invested years, you've wasted years. Stop wasting your time, cut yo…
/r/askTRP15/09/16 02:18 PM
1

Don't shit where you eat always applies. You think it won't fuck up a reference? Destroy the offer of a permanent position? It's just not worth it. Activity when I go out is pretty much always the same: get some drinks, get her home. Only question is which place we're drinking at.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 01:30 PM
1

In many girls eyes, it's pretty much the lowest thing you can do outside of drugging girls for some date rape. It implies you don't "respect" women. It implies you can't get laid. It implies you can't get a girlfriend. It implies you're desperate. It implies you're dirty and disease ridden. It implies you have low standards. It implies you can't control your sexual urges. It implies you're a creep. Basically, it just doesn't make you look good.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 01:12 PM
1

are you that good? Yes Is the girl that easy? Yes Did you and her find each other so attractive there was no other option? There's always another option. how did you meet these same day lays? Cold approaches, generally, at bars later at night What do you look like as far as height/weight body composition? 6ft tall blue eyed white boy with a trimmed beard and athletic body. Do women tell you that you're handsome? Their moms say I'm handsome, the daughters say I'm sexy. What is your game like/how …
/r/askTRP15/09/16 01:09 PM
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For starters, don't worry about this bullshit, because it's pure bullshit from daytime TV pseudo doctors. Research shows that even when immediately used after production, and left for a month to allow leeching, the levels in a water bottle barely reach 1 part per billion. It's so insignificant it's not even worth considering. Most bottles don't have phthalates in the first place anymore. Anything stamped with a "1" in the recycle logo is PET and has no phthalates. There's also no BPA, another co…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 06:58 PM
1

Going to YOUR PLACE =fucking. Netflix, drinks, hang out, whatever, she knows what's up. But, if you just come out and say you want to meet for sex, anti-slut-defense is in full swing and she'll probably back out. Dinner, park, anywhere besides your place=date. Clearly, that's not what she's looking for. One text doesn't matter any more than one sentence in person. Trust me, if you said it to her face, you'd get the same result.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 06:41 PM
1

Something went on in your interaction that led her to believe you're either a provider or a nice guy looking for a relationship. Probably post-sex and before her long message. Yeah fair enough. I guess I should have just asked her if she wanted to fuck instead of asking her to meet up for dinner No, you ask her to meet up. Come over for drinks. Coffee. Hang out. She knows what's up, she knows what's going to happen, she knows the code. You leave that plausible deniability so she doesn't slut-sha…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 06:16 PM
4

You're not special. It applies to everyone. The more you text, the less you have to talk about in real life. When you meet, if you can't keep the conversation flowing, she's not going to be interested. If your in-person flirting doesn't match your text flirting (you're more of a pussy IRL, and don't have the opportunity to wait and think about a perfect response), she's not going to be interested. If you treat her like every other bitch ass orbiter that texts her all day, don't expect to be trea…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 06:10 PM
2

Block of text almost always means she sees you as a "nice guy", and thus, it's necessary to let you down easy, explain her situation, justify the position, address the potential questions, etc. Otherwise, she knows you'd be following her around and trying to see her until she dropped a bomb. If she saw you as a Chad, she'd just not answer, knowing you'd get the hint and continue on with one of your younger and hotter options. You can try telling her you just want a FB, but she'll just assume it'…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 06:04 PM
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Her sex drive isn't low. It's just low with you. That's the moral of the story. She might be great, you might be awesome, but that doesn't mean you're sexually compatible. Guarantee there's someone great out there that is ALSO sexually compatible.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 05:54 PM
5

Call your crush and tell her how beautiful she is, tell her how you feel, really spill your guts out. Or, you know, read the sidebar advice. There's literally thousands of pages compiled and waiting for you.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 05:01 PM
1

It's "contextual comfort". You're comfortable when you have people you know on a personal level nearby for support. Not that you need it, just the availability puts you at ease. Flying solo, you get anxious. Whether that's standing by yourself approaching others, or standing at the front of the class giving a presentation, being on your own is freaking you out. It's nothing to do with the class, everything to do with your safety net being gone when flying solo. Best way to overcome fear is throu…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 04:41 PM
1

If your life is full of shit to do and not predictable in the first place, your dates won't be either. Fill your life with shit to do and you won't have to worry about faking it. I have no clue what tactic is most successful, I've never paid attention, they get invites basically whenever I think of it. Sometimes, I know what I'm doing, who I want to take, and set plans weeks in advance. Sometimes, they invite me out, and I oblige. Sometimes, I just feel like going out or staying in and call them…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 04:34 PM
2

"Why aren't you married?" "Polygamy isn't legal" "Why don't you have a girlfriend?" "Because having 5 is more fun" Problem solved.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 02:12 PM
4

20-something, can get chicks, choose not to fuck. IF that's not the most obvious symptom, I don't know what is. Not to mention, lots of guys masturbate/have sex daily or more. To only feel the urge maybe once a week is certainly on the low side.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:57 PM
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Two scenarios: Dedicated slut/CC rider. Serial monogamist with issues so severe no one has lasted. Either way, will never be LTR material, but probably is fun to fuck after all the experience they've gotten.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:54 PM
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I never said it's the culprit, I said it was one of them. Many billions are spent on grain subsidies, a reason why things like bread and cereal are so cheap. Billions are spent on corn/corn syrup subsidies, which is why cupcakes, syrup, and soda is so cheap. Cheap cheese is a byproduct of beef subsidies, and the reason it's cheaper than healthier protein sources like chicken or fish. Moral is, it's big fucking business, and subsidies are the reason that the least healthy options are the cheapest…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 04:58 PM
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Pretty much any other protein source, from chicken and fish, to soy.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 04:25 PM
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Subsidized beef makes it cheaper than healthier alternatives. Dollars to calories, it's incredibly dense in comparison to other meats. Obesity is clearly tied to income level, it's not debatable that lower-income people are more likely to be obese, many large scale studies have irrefutably proven this relation. When the cheapest food is also the least healthy, you can't contest it's not contributing.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 01:58 PM
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Making people fat and keeping them that way is big business. We shamed fatties for decades, who do you think paid for all the campaigning to change the public outlook? That's right, the people who profit off of fatties. There's an entire industry based around selling snakeoil cures to fat people. A multi-billion dollar industry that disappears if people just lead healthy lives. Billions are spent on gyms, trainers, dietitians, nutritionists, to try and get rid of the fat. Billions are spent on c…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 05:35 PM
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Next time you get one of those obvious opportunities, just kiss her. She'll either be down, or she'll shut you down. Either way, I guarantee it won't be anything like you've been fantasizing about for the past decade.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 05:20 PM
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I had the chance to try a Rift. There's some calibration program that basically has you sitting at a desk with a flower, lamp, and a picture. I tried to grab the picture. Like, literally, reaching out and trying to grab it. Apparently, pretty much everyone does the same thing. It's amazing how immersive 3-D and head tracking can be.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 02:02 PM
2

Replacing the shampoo with Nair is probably enough to send the message.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 01:49 PM
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Usually, it's one of those "I love my nephews/cousins/god children so much!" posts that they just re-used the picture of. The message is clear: Knock me up, I'm ready. Proceed with caution, they generally push for commitment early and steamroll ahead. Before you know it, she's not the only one calling you daddy.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 01:13 PM
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Spear her chocolate starfish
/r/askTRP12/09/16 01:11 PM
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What is the best way to deal with this? Do I just stop taking this many girls home, or do I not give a fuck? Don't give a fuck. Trust me, they give exactly 0 fucks that a patron gets lucky on a regular basis. No one cares unless it hits them personally, so don't fuck their wives and daughters. Everything else is fair game, and no one is going to care that a 21 year old guy is having sex with consenting adults on a regular basis. They were doing the exact same thing at your age, and still would b…
/r/askTRP12/09/16 01:09 PM
1

My preference, I generally go for the girls with the least/no makeup. They're out there, especially if you pick up at the beach (I love living on an island sometimes). For starters, you know what you're getting into, you know what you're waking up next to, you know what she'll look like in the rain or after the pool. I've dated girls that I've NEVER seen without makeup. No joke, sleep in it, and set an early alarm to shower and put it back on before I get out of bed. Won't go in the pool, won't …
/r/askTRP12/09/16 01:02 PM
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No need to stay away, just don't cause a problem, the ones that know their shit aren't the ones starting shit. Trust me, some of the most unassuming and friendly looking guys can be the most capable. The ones making the noise and threats often have no clue how to back it up. They don't get the chance to take out their aggression in a gym/dojo, so they let loose at a bar. There's a famous story of one of my family members stopping at a bar after a rough day at work (in a suit and tie), and some 2…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 12:42 PM
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Thanks for following up, and I'm glad it was successful for you. The most valuable part of TRP is sharing knowledge of what actually happens in real life, especially when the solution is as counter-intuitive as this. The more you learn, the easier this whole process gets. Good luck lifting, approaching, and closing bro.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 12:27 PM
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Hot girls like being the alpha. They like being the uncontested hot one. Ugly girls like being associated with the hot girls. The group gets attention and opportunity it wouldn't otherwise get. Fat girls hang out in packs, as they all support each other and have common interests. Pretty girls generally don't, as they all fight each other. Sure, there's some groups of pretty girls, but you'll notice that they all hate eachother at some point, and members rotate in and out. Always drama. It's just…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 07:43 PM
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Totally understand, I'm just pointing out the difference. Your approach, while direct and hard to misunderstand, also leaves plausible deniability. It's a little joke, they're in on it, and free to take it or leave it. I'm glad you agree that "hey chicks lets fuck" is rude, offensive, and asking to get beat up or deal with cops. I took a plate to a wedding once, left her on the dance floor while getting drinks. Some guy came up to her and said "You are beautiful, I want to fuck you, we go now?" …
/r/askTRP09/09/16 07:37 PM
1

I have this plate ... I met her a couple days ago and got her number. Plates are girls you've met, fucked, and keep fucking (aka, spinning). This is just some random girl that answered your text. That's it. So how do I engage in this environment Stick your cock through the bottom of the popcorn and ask her if she wants some. Butter makes great lube, just make sure you don't get salt. Worse than a handjob on the beach. Btw what's the most you guys have ever got from a girl at the movies A buttery…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 07:25 PM
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I just legitimately laughed out loud.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 07:02 PM
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Fucking your grandma is still incest buddy.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 06:46 PM
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Porn sites cater to the users. If you're searching for and watching a specific type of porn, they'll present more of it to you. You don't need to be logged in, you don't even need cookies enabled, they base it on source IP. Is there something you want to tell us?
/r/askTRP09/09/16 06:30 PM
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Height has nothing to do with being alpha. Height matters for attraction. Girls don't want short guys, just like guys don't want fat girls. Difference is, girls can get away with stating that. If you have game, if you're attractive, you'll have success. You might fail to get a specific girl because of your height, but then again, girls fail to get specific guys because of their weight all the damn time. We're just less blatant about it.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 06:27 PM
1

Most common pieces of advice given on TRP: Read the Side Bar Lift Don't shit where you eat/don't stick your pen in company ink Thank you for providing yet another example of why you don't fuck coworkers. Can't ignore her, can't replace her, can't deal with seeing her so often, can't deal with the fallout of your choices? Find a new job...
/r/askTRP09/09/16 06:22 PM
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I don't just mean escaping the friend zone, but were constantly being friendzoned by women and then suddenly it all changed. It doesn't suddenly change. It's a gradual change. You'll improve, new options will open, but you won't suddenly find that all options are now available. There's no threshold or milestone, there's not even a finish line. she INVITED ME out, used me to lay all her problems on, had me pay for all the drinks and I am the bad guy and shes the righteous one. You know why? Becau…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 06:02 PM
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I only consider an LTR if I can seriously see myself spending my life with that person. Anything short of that, it's a disservice to both of us to be off the market. You're new, so my advice to you is that it will take 3-6 months, yes months, to find out who she really is and figure out if you really are compatible. Spin the plate, enjoy your time with her, but don't rush it. Female sluts its give out sex, male sluts its give out commitment. Don't be a slut. P.s. A girl you can live with, and a …
/r/askTRP09/09/16 05:02 PM
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Hit the nail on the head. Building value vs. Building a facade. All girls these days can spot a neg, pick up lines, and a guy that just plain isn't genuine.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 04:54 PM
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"Come for coffee at my place" isn't "hey, let's fuck" or "would you suck my cock fit $20?" Being forward and bold works, no doubt, and that's what you were doing. Cold approaching and DIRECTLY ASKING FOR SEX does not work. Neither does offering cash.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 04:50 PM
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"Why did you do this to me I cared so much about you" "If you loved me then why did you do this" "That is really fucked up of you" "I miss you so much" Classic shaming tactics and attempts at pulling at your heartstrings. Kudos to you for recognizing and resisting. Her family hates her because she's a selfish cunt. That's why her grandma/grandpa didn't tell her I was dropping her shit off and that's why they told me I can visit them anytime. Family issues like that are a red flag you should watc…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 04:11 PM
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Do you guys think i ever could of banged? Yes, you could have, but you didn't, and that was the correct choice. now i think i've been put into the friend-zone You put yourself there, by choice, and it was the correct choice. A female friend/roommate can be awesome. Her mere presence is validating and displays preselection. She has friends to introduce you to, and there's no issue banging a few of them out. She'll likely give good advice if requested (even if it's just her opinion on your new hai…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 04:04 PM
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in the past I would try to escalate too fast The "closing our eyes" line is taking your first message ever a bit too far. You're implying being together with her and traveling the world, but haven't even met her. A line is getting crossed there, moving too fast, it's a bit creepy. "What's your definition of adventurous?" is all you needed. Not intimidating. Nothing implied. Soft qualifier, she knows her response has to meet your standards. If you're more playful, "what's the most adventurous thi…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 03:41 PM
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Looking back, you're right, he did a lot of things that the PUA community would push you to do, right down to spotting the opportunity. You don't have to be an expert to spot the pseudo-confidence of a PUA compared to true confidence. From what I've seen, that's part of the reason PUA doesn't work like it used to.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 03:19 PM
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Fuzzyface is right, it's literally that easy. women have an innate desire to see men other than those she sees on a daily basis. That's just plain wrong, you're just pulling excuses out of your ass. If anything, comfort is helping you. That reminds me, the redhead at the local deli is pretty cute, but the blonde is the one always flirting with me. They're only there on Sundays, I'll report back.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 02:34 PM
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No. Some die young. Some keep their alpha. Some never get an alpha. Chad isn't fucking the 1/10 with cerebral palsy, now is he? Some get pumped and dumped without ever forming an emotional bond. Might crave alpha sex, but they don't know what they're missing when it comes to a relationship.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 02:28 PM
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Serious question: Are you fucking retarded, or just really dumb? Porn isn't real life... Those are all paid actors...
/r/askTRP09/09/16 02:05 PM
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Is there a time where it is appropriate to ask a girl for sex directly? Cold approaching a girl and asking for sex will NEVER work and is creepy as fuck. Asking in general is a bad idea. Being bold with a girl you've been talking with, who has been showing interest, can work wonders. Still, don't ask, just imply sex or straight up tell them what you want. EX: "I can't wait to get you out of those jeans." or simply "you wanna get out of here?" Or ask a girl out for sex and pay her some money (not…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 01:44 PM
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Find students who attend that highschool... If you want to pay for ads, you can direct it only to those who are of the proper age and list that highschool in their education details.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 01:32 PM
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You can talk about anything, but generally, ask their opinion or about something they have or are doing. If all else fails, ask them the time or where something is. Then, introduce yourself, give a short reason why you have no time, and try for a number. EX: "Do you know where XYZ Bar is" "Yea, it's a block down on the left." "Thanks, I'm trpthroway" "I'm girlname" "I heard they have good truffle fries, you ever try them?" "They're gross, get the sweet potato fries" "Thanks for saving me the dis…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 01:30 PM
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Company page on facebook, market through there, easy to find students. Fliers on bulletin boards in dorms/campus center. Can even stuff mailboxes if you want.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 01:16 PM
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Fuck her mom/sister. Other than that, anything you do can backfire and result in her wanting you more. Fuck her friend, she might find out you're good in bed and want a piece. Ignore her, she might double down on getting your attention. Be an ass to her, and she might try even harder to get your approval. Be beta, and she might just eat it up and LTR you. Date someone else, make it clear you're not available, and she might be jealous/see preselection and want you more. Tell her you're gay and sh…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 01:14 PM
1

My grandfather loves the saying "How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time." You achieve big things by breaking it down into many smaller parts, and knocking those goals down one by one. I've had over a decade of setting goals, achieving them, and moving the goalposts further away. Everyone wants the easy way, they just want it to happen, they don't want to work, they don't want to start small. Reality is, there's only one path to success, take it or leave it.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 01:07 PM
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I realized how red pill my dad was after I got into a minor car accident in town. Exchanging information, gave the guy my name, and he asked "trpthroway123 junior?" "Yea, you know my dad?" "He fucked my wife. And my ex wife." "sucks to be you bro" My recently divorced, nearly 50 year old dad, was slaying. He taught me how to command respect, how exude an aura of power and confidence, and generally be the type of person that can walk into a room and get positive attention. I'm certainly the man I…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 01:01 PM
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Someone is paying attention! Your life is the only one you can control, and you're the only one that controls your life. Make the most of it.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 12:40 PM
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We were rowdy kids, lots of after school fights and bullshit like that. I have a few years of martial arts and wrestling under my belt, and I do bag training every week. Bag training made a huge difference in the power I can put behind my hand. One cousin is just a 6'4" beast of linebacker, the other was a top tier wrestler that just loved to fight. He can kick my ass when I have a 50lb advantage... Those days are over, and my wrestler cousin fucked his life up with some charges over fighting. I…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 12:37 PM
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Thanks. I'll have more to share soon enough. Stay tuned.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 08:34 PM
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Shit happens. Long story short, my cousin fucked some guy's girl, he and his friends caught us out at the bar, decided to jump us, 8 vs. 3. 7 out of 8 were on the ground when we walked out. I got my nose broken, cousins caught a few lumps. Amazing what knowing how to handle yourself can do.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 07:55 PM
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It makes complete sense. No one is perpetually happy. We all have problems, we all have issues. How you deal with it, how you overcome, is what defines you. If you've come this far, and you're cognizant of the root problem, I'm sure you already understand the path to a solution. Get your issues sorted, get that off your mind, I promise the rest will fall back in place.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 07:00 PM
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Missionary position (or similar, her ankles on your shoulders, whatever) Prop up on one hand, put two fingers (middle/ring) in her mouth as deep as you can, fingering her throat. You'll end up pressing her head into the pillow as you try to get your fingers deeper. I assume you have a decent mental picture now. I usually start slow. Let her suck a finger, then two, then shove them deeper, and deeper, until your knuckles are past her teeth, then hold it in for longer and longer. Keep eye contact,…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 06:55 PM
2

I had a girl a while back that got off tossing salad. Straddle her, sit on her face, she licked my asshole and back of the balls, and I'd just play with her pussy. I wasn't that into it, but what followed was worth it. Her on her back, head hanging off the bed, mouth open, and fuck her throat. Could see my cock in her throat. She'd grab my ass and pull me all the way in. Holy shit, was that fucking fun.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 06:28 PM
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It was all light-hearted. I didn't take a single jab, even after he did. People won't fight you unless you give a damn good reason. I may have embarrassed him, but it wasn't malicious. I had no fear of him getting violent. Even if he did, wouldn't be my first fight at that particular bar...
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 06:23 PM
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I've been on a gagging binge recently. Two fingers in the mouth, finger her throat, pressing her head in the pillow while fucking from on top. Take it out and drip the spit back where it came from, or tell her to suck it off. Bonus points if you finger her first and let her taste herself. Get a blow job, grab her head, shove it all the way in, and don't let go until she puts both hands on your thighs and pushes away. The freaky girls love that moment of panic when they try to pull their head bac…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 05:38 PM
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Sex is the cherry on top of the sundae we consider a successful life. Sounds like you're lacking fulfillment in other aspects of your life, and you're not getting excited about about the cherry in an empty cup. Take a step back. Figure out what's lacking. Address it. Fulfill yourself. Fill that cup back up, you'll be much more satisfied. To be clear, I don't mean you're failing, or even doing badly, just that you know you're capable of more.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 05:31 PM
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Rejection is just experience and a lesson
/r/askTRP08/09/16 05:23 PM
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Trolling shitty girls is some of the most fun you'll ever have. Just egg them on to dig their hole as deep as possible, and then walk off while they try to climb back out.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 03:54 PM
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I was expecting a story about a freaky chick that wants an entire hand inside of her.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 03:36 PM
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Doesn't matter how you know them, shitty people are shitty people. Shitty people shouldn't be in your life, they're just going to bring you down. I had to ghost my entire dad's side of the family. I had to ghost my sister. I had to ghost a cousin on my mom's side. Some of it is over money. Some of it is over robbing me. Some of it is over being generally horrible people I wouldn't risk my reputation or career by being associated with. You know what? They don't so much as send me a "happy birthda…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 03:33 PM
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A-fucking-men bro. I have friends that are convinced that stripper really is into them, she even gave her instagram name, so it must be true. I just sit there wondering how the hell I ended up friends with such massive idiots.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 03:27 PM
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Keep your cool, stand your ground. If they really go nuts, call the cops, let them commit her to psych hold. Then never, ever, ever talk to her again, in any way shape or form.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:42 PM
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Yes, very happy, happier than I've ever been. My life is fucking awesome. If I died today, oh well, it's my time. Fate catches up with all of us. You're the only one in control of your destiny. If you choose to stagnate your life, if you choose to not make any changes, that's on you. I don't care who you are, unless you're in a prison cell, you can change anything you want. There's always an option, there's always a choice.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:21 PM
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Clothing doesn't make the man. You attire won't trick anyone. I guarantee you'll see high-SMV alpha type males in class with flip flops, gym shorts, and a white tee/hoodie. They don't give a fuck. Wear something appropriate for your situation. No tuxedos in class, no t-shirts at a funeral, etc... Don't follow the bleeding edge trends, be timeless. Along the same lines, don't obsess over high fashion. College girls can't tell a $135 Armani Crew neck from the 5 for $25 Hanes equivalent Be comforta…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:12 PM
1

Girls threaten suicide all the fucking time. It's their nuclear option. I'm entirely cold to it at this point, I can't begin to tell you how many times I've heard that fucking line. I'd say about 2/3rds of girls I've broken up with used it. They don't. They never do. They never will. They just want the attention. (Even when girls do try, it's rarely over a breakup, and they're 1,200% more likely to fail than a man. They're not doing it for results, they're doing it for attention...) Don't let th…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 01:56 PM
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Don't hesitate. Don't second guess. Don't be shy. Basically, don't show fear. That's not sexy. Grab, touch, rub, squeeze, whatever you want. She'll stop you if she's not comfortable. (EX: You put your hand up her shirt to play with her tits, she puts your hand back on her hip, you just found the line she doesn't want to let you cross.) If she's in tight jeans, play with her over the jeans. If you get her in your lap (one of the least awkward positions to do this), she'll start grinding on you if…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 01:29 PM
1

wronged you Sue for damages. How do you fulfill your needs, come out on top, and remain dignified? Success is the best revenge. Drop them out of your life, be fucking awesome. Let them live the rest of their life knowing that you rock, they suck, and they're so insignificant they don't even make a blip on your radar. If it makes you feel better, fuck their mom/sister/GF/crush. I feel like a total bitch-boy when I kiss some incompetent fuck's butt just to manipulate them when I know I can bully t…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 01:20 PM
2

Employment in the states is "at will" (other than Montana). AKA, management can let you go whenever they feel like it, without any reason. There's exceptions, but generally, they can just send you packing with no reason given (even if the real reason is known, the employee would have to go to court and prove it. It's very hard to do.)
/r/askTRP08/09/16 01:15 PM
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provide at least some insight on the matter of how beta and stupid I am. Very. Read the side bar, this is relationship 101. Recently things've gotten rough, because she believes I find her boring and unattractive, and instead I'm looking at other women. I don't find other women sexually, erotically or emotionally interesting, That's a problem. You should be looking at other women. Talking. Flirting. Read up on "dread". She's making stuff up to be mad about, that should be a huge red flag that th…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 01:04 PM
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Do you think that having the goal of plating a girl before sex is bad? Yes, that's what I've been saying. You don't know if any given girl is even worth plating, until you've at least had sex. Until you know she's compatible, and capable of having that type of arrangement, it's silly to go in with that mindset. For all you know, she was just cruising for a hookup. Once you fuck, she may never answer you again. Now you're crushed, trying to figure out why your "plate" ditched you, when in reality…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 12:36 PM
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I recently had to attend a birthday party. Formal affair, bring a date. Girls don't go to a formal party without taking pictures, which means it's going on social media, which means I'm getting tagged, which means I have to deal with the other plates getting pissed off they weren't the chosen one. To prevent the drama (and maybe get some numbers out of it) I went stag. Sat at a table with a few people I knew, a few I didn't, all couples of course. Buddy asked "where's your date?", so I held up m…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 08:46 PM
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It is, and anyone that reads the sidebar should pick up on it. Doesn't stop all the posts about "I read all the sidebar and matched with this girl on tinder I want to LTR, how do I ask her out?"
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 08:06 PM
1

Have fun trolling.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 08:04 PM
1

When she's crying on the witness stand, who do you think gets the sympathy? When she says "he told me it's to protect both of our interests in the future, but when my lawyer read it, I learned it only benefits him", how does that make you look? When her lawyer brings up that the pre-nup came after the proposal, after it was publicly announced, after the date was set, after deposits were made, and she says "I'd die of embarrassment if I had to tell all my friends and family we cancelled our weddi…
/r/askTRP07/09/16 07:55 PM
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Not all constructive feedback makes you feel all warm and fuzzy. Sometimes, you need someone to slap the stupid out of you when you're doing something stupid. Meet girls. Fuck them. Find out about them, what they want, what they're looking for, who they are as a person, how they fit into your life. If they're worth it, upgrade to plate. If not, next. If they prove themselves as a plate over the course of months, consider upgrading. It comes up a few times a day here, and while it should be RP101…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 07:47 PM
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If you have to ask, the answer is no. You have a high grade fucked up woman on your hands with enough baggage to fill a semi. Unless you want to deal with the fallout of this shit for the next 5-10 years, at minimum, get out before shit hits the fan.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 04:57 PM
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If I read one more story about some beta-trying-to-be-alpha that wants to plate/LTR/marry a girl they just met and haven't even fucked yet, I'll puke.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 04:51 PM
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You think you're fun and not high maintenance. Doesn't mean the guys that see you think the same. Doesn't mean they'll take the time to figure out if their assumption is correct when there's obvious answers to their question a seat over at the bar. People judge you based on appearance. You look like a high maintenance girl that's already used to the finer things, and the resting bitch face doesn't make you look like fun. Outside of sugar daddies, not a lot of guys want to deal with that.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 04:05 PM
1

Actually, no Ashley's since I got a new phone in April. That name isn't too common here for some reason. Seems like I run into Amanda/Brittney/Heather/Jen (Jenna, Jennifer)/Jessica/Katie/Kelly/Michelle/Sarah everywhere I go.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 03:57 PM
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I'm sure I can make her sign it That's called "duress" and is grounds for throwing out the entire pre-nup. That's right, no matter how comprehensive and air-tight it is, they can just throw it out if she claims she was forced or coerced into signing it. Heck, it might even be thrown out over something as silly as he-said/she-said with no evidence. A good example is Elizabeth Petrakis, who got her pre-nup thrown out, hinging on the claim "he said he would tear it up after the birth of their first…
/r/askTRP07/09/16 03:46 PM
1

Ever consider those uglier, fatter, dumber, louder girls are more fun? Maybe they're nicer people? Possibly, they're more open to meeting people? Easier to approach? More receptive to flirting? Lower standards perhaps? Less maintenance? Less expectations? Easier to please?
/r/askTRP07/09/16 03:35 PM
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I'd write it off as a lesson and move on to the next girl. Salvage isn't my specialty, especially when there's so many options.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 03:20 PM
1

Ever saw this girl before? If not, chances are, you'll never see her again. Might as well take your shot, there's nothing to lose.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 03:14 PM
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Your timing seems to be the problem, you waited until it was far too late to escalate. She was already done with it, legitimately going to sleep, and you were trying to start from scratch. While hanging out and drinking, you should have made a move that can't be mistaken for friendly orbiter behavior (showing the girls how to defend themselves with JJ is something an orbiter might try to do). You should get her alone, share an intimate moment, pull her close, kiss her, build some attraction and …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 03:04 PM
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In my phone book, friends and plates get first and last name, randoms get a first name or nick name. Once in a while, I'll scroll through, and drop out the randoms I haven't talked to. My record is 12 Samanthas.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 02:23 PM
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Speed reading has made my normal reading much faster. I'm somewhere around 300-350wpm for normal content, like Reddit posts and news articles, but that drops a lot if the content is technical, important, or difficult to understand in general (I read a lot of contracts and laws/regulations, it drops to around 200wpm) Full blown speed reading, I'm somewhere around 600wpm, but comprehension suffers greatly. It's great for skimming through to find the content that matters, but it's much closer to "l…
/r/askTRP07/09/16 02:16 PM
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I hate to ask the obvious, but you didn't mention it at all: did you kiss this girl? You've been over twice. You stayed until she fell asleep. You were drinking together. Did you ever make the move and kiss her? Make out? Feel her up? Hands in pants? Escalate to the bedroom? Or did you just chill, rub her leg, and then lay in bed next to her and hope she wants to fuck?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 01:35 PM
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No, the average dick a girl sees is going to be average. There's no link between cock size and promiscuity, just like there's no link between breast size and promiscuity. Having a big dick doesn't mean you're good with it. Doesn't mean you're physically attractive enough to slay. Doesn't mean you have game. Doesn't mean you're social and meet new women.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 01:28 PM
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Guys i'm fucking clueless here, what on earth do i do? You're 20. Move out. Problem solved. You can't un-explode a bomb, but you can dive for cover. Run while you still can, run before they bring you down with them.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 01:06 PM
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My $0.02, get your shit together, then get back out there. Don't focus on game until you have your foundation taken care of, but there's no need to monk mode for a year. If you got the bed bugs out, your college studies done, your PT done, and still have time to socialize, go for it. But please, do not compromise your long term goals for some short term fun. Skipping that project, that homework, that study time, so you can hit a party and game girls will do more harm than good in the long run. T…
/r/askTRP07/09/16 12:55 PM
1

As I pointed out, self reported studies overwhelmingly end up with men over representing length by 1 inch. Doesn't matter how much you trust your buddies, they're still human males, and your sample is still skewed from the self reporting. 15% over 6, and 1% over 7, is much closer to reality, but even that is on the high side.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 12:52 PM
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that also means that I probably didn't do a thorough enough job of weeding out low quality guys with issues, but sometimes they can disguise themselves well. If you think a guy can disguise himself, try dealing with girls... What we see is never what we get. What they say is never the truth. What they tell is never the whole story. The 9/10 college grad with DD tits and a career in pharmaceuticals you meet at the bar quickly becomes a 5/10 CVS cashier with c-cups and an associates from the local…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 06:45 PM
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How Can I gain that confidence and fire to keep working harder and harder at rehab THIS IS YOUR LIFE. DON'T FUCK IT UP. It's not optional. There's no alternative. Don't fuck up the rest of your life just because it's difficult to do the right thing. How Can I just get this girl out of my mind? Same advice we give to everyone with oneitis. Fuck other girls. Develop true abundance mentality. Meet new ones, game new ones, spin some plates, realize she's replaceable and nothing special.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 06:32 PM
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Having a high end social media presence can boost you, but lacking one when you're high value otherwise won't hurt. In fact, all the stuff you're doing with your life while others are posting selfies and selling miracle weight loss saran wrap to their friends is likely raising your SMV even more.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 06:26 PM
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Reach out in a day or two, with a "hey ___ it's ta0259 from __" so she knows who you are and where you met. Propose a meet in a day or two. No more than a week. Preferably, a quick one, lunch/drinks/coffee/etc. Keep your conversation short. This isn't the time to share 1000 text messages and learn her whole history. Save that so you have something to talk about on the date. Meet, converse, make some physical contact (even if it's just your hand on her back while you hold a door, have to start so…
/r/askTRP06/09/16 06:00 PM
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She wanted you, and expected a hookup. You didn't initiate, so she did, and I'd assume after you ignored/missed a bunch of her IOI's. You lost the upper hand, showed beta traits, and dried her up. That's why it never went anywhere, that's why she had some shitty excuse to avoid a second date. She assumed you're beta based on the date, but you used the proper "next and no contact" response to her excuse. Now she's wondering if she was wrong, maybe she misread it, etc. In context, her "no expectat…
/r/askTRP06/09/16 04:27 PM
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Less than one in a thousand is >7.5" Less than one in 10,000 is >8.5" Somewhere around 50% of men are between 5-6". That's the average, that's normal. I'm not perfect evidence, I'm a single sample. The data I'm citing is referencing many thousands of individuals.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 04:08 PM
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Who approaches, my plate or me? Either/or. If your game/appearance is top notch, you'll have a better chance opening the girl yourself, steering the conversation sexual and escalating a bit, and then introducing your girl and the idea of a 3some. Some girls just respond better to a girl, especially if she pulls the "look at that hot guy over there" routine. Do we act as a couple or just randoms having fun. Couple. Less intimidating. Should I initiate hooking up first or the girl. Expect to do al…
/r/askTRP06/09/16 01:52 PM
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When i returned to college i have got two of my friends telling me i have dissapeared and i never contacted them ( which i did at least 2-3 times ) and that i dont care about them. "Phones work both ways, why didn't you reach out?" I also deleted Facebook and got abused about why i did it.What's your opinion about it ? I am thinking of making one again but with measures. Even 10 years ago when there were no shitposts, videos, viruses, ads, or clickbait news, social media was a fucking waste of t…
/r/askTRP06/09/16 01:45 PM
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Studies that rely on self-reporting information end up with a 6-6.5" average. Studies where medical staff measures end up with a 5-5.5" average. Normal range is 4-7.5". Worth mentioning, they measure from the hip bone along the top of the shaft (for consistency, need to measure everyone the same way), so they're giving the most flattering measurement possible. Moral is, guys over-report their size by about an inch when asked, 99% fall into the 4-7.5" range. Now you know. Following their method, …
/r/askTRP06/09/16 12:55 PM
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Two weeks ago, I tapped a random guy on the shoulder, asked if he wanted to wingman, and nodded at a group of girls (saw him check them out and not approach). He asked what to do, I said "just don't agree with me on anything, unless it gets us a drink" Walk up, say "can you settle a debate? Beard or no beard?" Made a little discussion, cracked some jokes, threw an insult or two, tallied the results. No matter what they answered, I did some obvious drunken mental math, carried the one, and came t…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 04:29 PM
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With the varied women that catch my eye, I can't find any rhyme or reason. Tall, short, light, dark, skinny, thick, ass, titties, legs, hips, lips, whatever. If you ask me, my preference is 5'6"-5'9" skinny 20-something blondes with a thigh gap. Won't stop me from flirting with that latina with a round ass.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 03:08 PM
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What they're taking 100% depends on the area, their social group, and the trends. In my area, the young, hot, rich white girls are on cocaine. We started getting a nice supply of high end shit recently, it's exploded. If they're raving, ecstasy (probably, powder form, "molly". Haven't seen it in pill form in at least half a decade.) The hippie chicks are all smoking weed and popping hipster pills, whatever is new and different. Occasionally some hallucinogens. Housewives are all on xanax and add…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:56 PM
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Honestly, I don't even know what it is. Just seems like all the tinder thots work there. I see "sephora" more than any other profession by at least a factor of 10.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:46 PM
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I'd take your average 5/10 CC rider over a 9/10 virgin to be honest. 9.8 hottie is a no contest... Virgins are no fun at all. They don't know what they're doing. They're not freaky. They can't be pounded. They're too tight to get it all in. They'll likely be in pain and stop you. They do weird shit and move in weird ways and make sex awkward overall. I'd much rather have a girl that knows how to take a dick. (Guess it's worth qualifying, my dick isn't small)
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:43 PM
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buying her what I am already drinking before approaching. You don't know if she speaks the same language. You don't know if she's married to a football player that went to the bathroom and will break you when he gets back. You don't know if she's lesbian. You don't know if she's a person you can tolerate being around. You don't know if she'll give you the time of day. You haven't qualified her at all. All you know is that she's good looking, so you immediately fall into the provider role and sta…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:38 PM
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Dumb girls are easier to control Train wrecks and damsels in distress are easier to control. Girls with shitty careers, shitty educations, are easier to control. Moral is, guys go for the easy targets, and when we're talking relationships/hookups, the easy ones are the ones that can be controlled and manipulated. That's especially true if they're giving IOI's or look like they're out to slut it up. Guys run from girls like you because unless they're looking for a long-term partner, they're not w…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:10 PM
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The situations I'm referring to are mostly forms of public transportation, where the audience is fixed for a decent amount of time. When is the last time one of them talked to you? Serious question. Ever? I can't remember it ever happening. I've been coked up on the 7am rush hour train carrying a case of beer while singing in the aisle and no one even looked my way. I've dragged friends, passed out drunk, down the aisle, down the steps, and off the train, and no one even offered to grab their fe…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:02 PM
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I'm not a lawyer, but, it comes down to expectation of privacy. It's reasonably expected that in a bedroom, naked, having sex, you aren't being recorded and have privacy. It's that expectation of privacy that's a hinge point. It doesn't exist in the driveway, or the kitchen, but it does in a bathroom and bedroom. Also, don't forget, AUDIO is separate from VIDEO, legally speaking. A situation where a hidden camera is legal may become illegal if it also records sound (which a GoPro does). You'll h…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 01:50 PM
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How awkward is it to ask for someone's help to pull splinters out of your chocolate starfish? Even with my long arms, I doubt I could get one out of my cinnamon ring. Ever consider going to a plastic field goal thingy?
/r/askTRP01/09/16 06:45 PM
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Having implicit consent You need to have it written, signed, notarized, and video taped. Preferably, with a clean tox report to prove she wasn't on drugs or alcohol. You'll want a witness (preferably, a lawyer or LEO) there to verify she wasn't under duress while giving her written and videotaped consent. Even with it, nothing stops her from making the accusation. That will just make it easier (but not guaranteed) to prove innocence. For example, the pornstar Amber Rayne accused James Deen of se…
/r/askTRP01/09/16 06:31 PM
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The reason why I feel this is going nowhere is I don't see her enough and feel a connection brewing. She's in a residency at a major hospital, so she generally doesn't have much free time, to clarify. Let it die on the vine. Just stop trying so hard. Before you know it, you'll realize you haven't seen her in a month and haven't really talked. Relationship is basically over, while avoiding any of the potential pitfalls or backlash from "officially" breaking up. Not to mention, without closure, sh…
/r/askTRP01/09/16 06:11 PM
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What happens when you poop? Do you have one of those grabby handle things to wipe with like those fat people on TV?
/r/askTRP01/09/16 06:08 PM
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I've never had an issue hitting the cage, they don't exactly move around.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 05:48 PM
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You took it a step too far a step too early. Don't be surprised if she flakes now that you showed your hand and left no doubt as to your intentions. It's 100% clear you're only inviting her over to fuck, and ASD might very well kick in no matter how willing she is. This us why we always try to leave plausible deniability. Makes life much easier. Telling a girl to wear something sexy should be saved for the point where you're already ducking and she already knows that's why she's coming over.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 05:40 PM
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I don't think a batting lesson is going to solve anything.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 05:32 PM
1

Considering your circumstance, might not be such a bad idea to hire a hooker. Experiencing sex in a "can't go wrong" scenario can go a long way towards removing the fear you've ingrained that makes you so uncomfortable with escalation. Escalation is basically just moving forward until you hit a limit. Do some reading on Kino, as that's basically step one. Physical contact, gauge their reception, go for more if it's received positively. Learn to recognize the opportunity to steal a kiss. Gauge he…
/r/askTRP01/09/16 05:01 PM
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I'd bet it's your body language more than anything. No interaction, not close enough to smell you, not offensively ugly, and I assume you dress like a normal human, so something must trigger them to stay away. If you're hunched over, have a scowl, avert eye contact, "close" yourself off (crossed arms, barriers), and droop your head, people will naturally assume you don't want anyone near you. They're essentially respecting the message you're sending. If you have good posture, head high, amused s…
/r/askTRP01/09/16 04:44 PM
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I'm looking for a busty blonde with no gag reflex that shits gold nuggets, but you can't always get what you're looking for. If you find the magic secret let us know. Until then, you're stuck doing what every other person in the world is stuck doing: meeting them and figuring it out.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 04:34 PM
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No, it is reality. Literally everyone is there to find someone to fuck, unless they explicitly say they're abstinent. Even the girls that say "no hookups" or "not looking for sex" will fuck...
/r/askTRP01/09/16 04:16 PM
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So, invite her over and fuck, repeat until she leaves. Don't forget to find a replacement before you need one. It's like a plunger, last thing you want is to need it and not have it.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 03:54 PM
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If they're on a dating app, they're DTF. The real question is, are they down to fuck you. Only way to find out is to take them on a date. Read their body language, pay attention to their response to kino and escalation. Start with the hottest one, work your way down the list until you're successful, then repeat.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 03:49 PM
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Uninstall the game(s). Replace game time with something constructive. You can always re-install, but the time it takes is enough of a barrier to help break the addiction.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 03:41 PM
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The girl I've been casually dating You mean, you're taking her out and not fucking? Or you're fucking and it's just not a serious relationship? If you're already fucking, just tell her to come over. If you're not, just tell her to come over. Moral is, just get her to come over and then escalate.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 03:39 PM
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You know how dogs will smell another dog's piss, and then piss on top of it to claim the territory for themselves while ignoring everything else they could potentially be peeing on? Girls do the same thing. If she felt the need to mark her territory, obviously it's for a reason. Better believe girls will line up to piss on you, I mean, try to claim you as their territory. Ignore it, but remember that it's a clear sign of preselection and will likely only help you. For future reference, if you te…
/r/askTRP01/09/16 02:53 PM
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Fuck it, go for broke. Easier to laugh it off when you turn it into a joke that might get you laid. "If you enjoy mustache rides, wait until you try a nose ride" "If I got a nose job, how would I rub your clit while eating you out?" Or, just play it like you heard what you wanted to hear, "you could use a nose blow job". "You're right, a blow job would be amazing right now, you volunteering?"
/r/askTRP01/09/16 02:42 PM
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Can girls change their minds about guys they had previously denied Yes, without a doubt. When you improve, it's very clear that they've changed how they see you, how they interact. is it lost forever when you show weakness? They won't forget it. Doesn't really matter for a hookup, but will be an issue in a relationship. IMO, don't go rooting through your garbage. Focus on you, focus on new girls. Don't go chasing her, don't worry about her at all. If you happen to cross paths, and she wants to f…
/r/askTRP01/09/16 02:34 PM
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Painful is a good way to describe it. I sincerely hope it serves as a wake up call to those that recognize themselves acting in a similar way, as well as to those who feel that just because they're not tall/white/jacked they have no chance.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 02:26 PM
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I work for a conglomerate. We've made millions selling overpriced beer and wings at sports bars we own. We've made millions buying land at wholesale, building condos or industrial parks, and then selling/renting. We've made millions funding hotel franchises in exchange for loan repayment+interest+profit share. We've made millions selling branded nic nacs, clothing, and accessories in retail shops. We've made millions supporting brokers of financial products (collecting overrides on business they…
/r/askTRP01/09/16 02:15 PM
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Outgoing girls give less fucks. Enamored doesn't mean tolerant. They aren't necessarily turned off by inexperience, some of them love it, and the rest love the attention and validation. Don't forget, they're easier to turn on in the first place compared to a shy girl. Outgoing girls are generally far more tolerant of trying things or experimenting. Don't expect a shy girl to let you pile driver her off the couch or fuck on the kitchen counter with the blinds open. Heck, some of them don't even w…
/r/askTRP01/09/16 02:03 PM
2

People call me "sir" almost exclusively when I'm in a suit and tie. Things get much less formal when I'm in a t-shirt and jeans. Look like their boss, and they'll probably call you sir.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 01:40 PM
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I take it you're Indian, shorter than 5'10", making >$100k/year, out of shape, and looking for others to confirm that your poor success is systemic and not due to yourself. Sorry bud, that's just not the case. If you have confidence, a good attitude, proper game, and look good, you'll find success no matter what shade your skin is. If you're missing a piece of the puzzle, you're going to have a hard time no matter what. You can be 6'4", white, built like a god, and a 40 year old virgin if you do…
/r/askTRP01/09/16 12:48 PM
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Going back to an ex is a lot like picking scraps out of the trash because there's still some meat on the bone. There's millions of girls out there waiting for you, don't waste your time on one you already confirmed isn't compatible.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 12:39 PM
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In ldr= wrong woman The line is very clear. If you're happy, if you can't find a problem, that's the girl. Enjoy until you're not happy or have a problem that isn't worth fixing. No matter what, cover your ass, these hoes ain't loyal and nothing lasts forever.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 03:02 AM
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to be secure and confident enough to fuck around like that I'm really secure, and really don't give a flying fuck. There's a picture somewhere of me in swim trunks being carried into a gay bar on the shoulders of a half dozen shirtless homos. I have a handful of gay/lesbian friends. They're a whole lot more fun than most of my straight friends, always make sure I look good, and are amazing wing men. Believe it or not, incredibly respectful of boundaries.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:13 PM
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Most guys are really insecure when it comes to gay shit, terrified of the mere insinuation of homosexuality. You wouldn't believe how many times I talked myself out of a shitty situation just by acting a little gay. "You checking out my girl asshole?" "No sweetie, I'm checking you out. You squat? You look like you squat?" I find it fucking hilarious.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 07:49 PM
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Of course she brought this up just before going to bed, Girls aren't dumb. She was waiting for the moment where she was most likely to be told what she wanted to hear. I'm just gonna have to talk with her later and say that after contemplation, I would not be in favor of her doing so. Best of luck with that endeavor.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 07:37 PM
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If you were happy, you wouldn't "really really want to" fuck other girls. You wouldn't be fantasizing about breaking up with her so you can have the fun you so desperately desire. You don't know the others aren't a better long term fit, you think they aren't. You're not fucking them, you're not dating them, you're just assuming. It's your rationalization hamster justifying why you're staying with her.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 07:34 PM
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I was picturing you giving an over the head hi-5 and then just holding their hand instead of slapping it, awkwardly standing there with your hands in the air and seeing what happens. What you describe doesn't sound a whole lot less awkward. "This isn't what I signed up for" must be running through her head when a simple hi-5 turned into some eye gazing hand holding test. I might just be getting old, but those "excuses" to touch, the "games" of bumping people, just aren't in my bag of tricks. I j…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 07:29 PM
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If possible, crush his hand and pull away when he relaxes his grip. You've been lifting, right? Treat his hand like the bar on a 365lb deadlift... If you get the last (finger tip) knuckle of your middle and ring finger around the first (hand side) knuckle of his pinky (very easy in a normal handshake), you can wiggle his pinky knuckle against his ring knuckle. You'll feel it "pop" as you move it. It's so uncomfortable, so disconcerting, any normal person will recoil in disgust. I've had people l…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 07:15 PM
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So, do I tell her that if she shaves her head, I might not stick around? That's probably a form of manipulation, but it's also the truth, Are you stupid, or just dumb? It's confirmation you lied to her face when asked a simple and direct question. She gave you the opportunity to provide input, and you chose the beta bitch path of telling her what she wanted to hear instead of telling her the truth. Now, you either get to tell the truth and be the beta bitch liar, or ignore it and be the asshole …
/r/askTRP31/08/16 07:09 PM
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Girls want validation. I feel like a fucking idiot for being so blind to this simple fact for so long. Everything a girl does comes back to her need for validation, and her ability to rationalize obtaining it by any means necessary.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 06:46 PM
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but in the long term I'm not so sure. Unhappiness builds like compound interest. If you think you're unhappy now, wait until you're years down the line and realize you wasted your best years on a girl you're not actually going to spend your life with, while passing up all of those potentially better options. Throw some salt in the wound if you married her and let her take half your shit. Even worse if you knock her up and now owe her a cut of your future earnings, and the house...
/r/askTRP31/08/16 06:42 PM
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You seem like one of those guys who responds to a knock-knock joke with "door's open".
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 06:37 PM
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I'm sure I'm not your target, but holding someone's hand after a hi-5 to judge how receptive they are to physical contact seems incredibly awkward. Have you tried "sharing a secret"? Say "I want to tell you something". Lean in, hand on hip, pull them close, and whisper something random in their ear. "My beer is empty" or "does your friend always laugh that loud?" Doesn't matter what you say, what matters is how they react to you requesting their attention, touching them, getting close. If she st…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 06:29 PM
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Beer is made from hops, hops are a vegetable, so beer is a vegetable, right? Don't have to twist my arm to have all the vegetables I want.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 05:47 PM
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Trust is like an egg. You can't un-break it, you can't put it together. But, there's plenty of unbroken eggs out there, and new eggs are available every day. So,, yea, make your exit and find a new one.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 05:30 PM
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Stop looking like a nerd. We live in the real world, where you're judged by your appearance. Gain muscle. Have confident posture and body language. Dress the opposite of a nerd. Lose the glasses. Resist your urge to correct people. Play dumb, egg then on to tell you their retarded and incorrect understanding of things so you can laugh in your head about it. People love "teaching" others, and there's no way a nerd acts like that. People will actually like you more, even though you're secretly mak…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 05:25 PM
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See, you say that, but the 5/10 with a dog filter on her pic to hide her busted face didn't even think he's worth replying to, as she was chasing someone with an above average face and even better body.
/r/becomeaman31/08/16 01:07 PM
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For every girly song about standing under her window and professing your love, or wishing you treated her better, there's a "fuck a stripper on a mink rug song" for the guys. We like the idea of dating a stripper/pornstar, a sexual woman, they like the idea of dating something that makes them feel special with sappy lines and sweet gestures, an emotional and loving man. While the idea is appealing, the reality isn't. It's not what we actually want.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 12:54 PM
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You broke him as much as he allowed himself to be broken. Stay with him out of pity, or leave him and hope it's the trigger he needs to fix himself.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 12:45 PM
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Personally, I love cowgirl, and reverse cowgirl. Making her work for your pleasure doesn't change anything. Being on top doesn't change anything. You put her there, and she's only there until you decide she's going somewhere else. You're in control, you're dominating. You can grab her hair and pull her head back, pushing all the way into her. Or, grab her neck and pull her in to kiss. Grab her hips with both hands, lift her up and pound away from the bottom, or push her all the way down. Stick y…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 08:38 PM
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Don't pay her bills. Don't pay her debt. Don't pay off her car or buy her one. Don't buy her a house. Don't buy her designer shit. Don't give her an allowance. Generally, don't play Sugar Daddy Santa. It's really not a big deal to pay for dinner or some drinks, especially if it's reciprocated or she's just plain not in a position to cover it herself while it's inconsequential to you. Don't make it a pattern, you're not her meal ticket. Treating her to a fun time is one thing, supporting her is s…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 08:22 PM
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I work with her DON'T SHIT WHERE YOU EAT /thread
/r/askTRP30/08/16 08:13 PM
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Any specific things you think I should be looking out for? Just the normal shit. Things not adding up. Changes in behavior. Improving herself significantly out of the blue, especially if she plays it down or hides it. New clothing/pocketbook/jewelry. Refusing sex, stopping it early, or not making the opportunity are all giveaways too. Suddenly increasing sex, or doing new things, is another sign. Most days she'll come straight to my place from work, and leave literally at 2am giving her 4 hours …
/r/askTRP30/08/16 08:10 PM
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Next if she's not down to meet, ASAP isn't as much as an issue for me (within reason). I understand if a girl with a career doesn't want to meet on a weekday. I understand if the day/time I suggest doesn't work. We all have lives. I do have an issue with a girl enforcing some arbitrary waiting period. I do have an issue with outright refusal to meet. I do have an issue with being required to prove myself/pass a test in order to meet. I do have an issue with being required to communicate over the…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 08:03 PM
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Quick story, just for some context. Dated a HB9 for a while. Open as could be, no problem with me looking thru her phone. Turns out, she was just really good at deleting convos after they happen and didn't care if I looked because there was nothing to find. She said she had no interest in anyone else, and I believed it, because I saw her every night. Turns out, she was seeing other guys during the day while I was at work. Sometimes, when she refused sex and went home early because "she was tired…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:46 PM
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#1 rule right there. Never have a relationship with a liar. Shit doesn't change just because you're exclusive.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:39 PM
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I am told I look ugly when I don't shave. You'll soon learn that people place you into a box and will chastise you for climbing out. Positive or negative, once you don't fit the role they've assigned you, they'll shame you in some sort of way to get you back in line. Fuck it. Stop shaving. Grow a beard. See if it improves results with NEW people. I'm never shaving my beard, but I'll still ask their opinion for shits and giggles because it can be a decent opener in the right situation. Feel free …
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:25 PM
2

How do you respond to women who require a week or so to "get to know you" before a date or coming back to my place? I say "ok" and set up a meet with the next girl. If they get back and say they want to meet, cool. If not, cool too. Brad Pitt rule. She'd meet him today if she had the chance. The fact she won't see you at all is a strong indicator she's just not that interested. Don't waste your time.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:17 PM
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Glad you've learned enough to know the right answer. It's not always easy to see the big picture, let alone, understand the dynamics at play. Don't ever forget that people are self serving, not altruistic (with very few exceptions).
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:09 PM
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Why would she lie faced wiTh that proof that is impossible to deny? It's impossible to refute yet she cries, screams, fights The answer to that is incredibly simple... this chick is ... currently sitting in my living room She knows crying/screaming/fighting=win. So, she chose to win instead of lose. Why admit it and leave when you can deny it and carry on? This ain't rocket surgery. You don't have to be the sharpest crayon in the toolshed to figure it out.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:06 PM
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When you throw away garbage, do you dig back through the can to see if there's some Oreo crumbs left over for desert? Getting back with a girl you ditched is basically the same thing. You got rid of her for a reason. Just break it off. That simple.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 05:44 PM
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It's just a reality of society before second wave feminism. It was even worse pre-first wave. A HUGE part of second wave feminism was to get rid of domestic violence. In some areas, in some context, it was not only permitted but expected that a man would beat his wife. Your poor attempts at an insult are uncalled for, I'm just stating facts. Go take a history class.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 05:41 PM
1

Shes 32...and the count is at 23 (including me) To me..it just seems high and has put a knot in my stomache for some reason I know a few girls that blew that away their first semester at college. 23 is low, especially for a girl that's been sexually active for 15 years or so. As for the sex... I've plated/dated a few girls that were similar. Amazing pussy, hot, decent people, but just bad in bed. No adventure, no kinks, no skills, no endurance. Moral is, some girls are just bad, other girls just…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 05:15 PM
2

17 year old male in school, so it should be no surprise that your social media defines you. Go clean it up. Delete unflattering/uncool pictures. Untag yourself in dumb shit. Delete sappy posts, shares of relationship memes, that kind of bullshit. You know damn well any girl you approach is going to look you up on facebook/IG/SC and see what you're about, so send the right message. Upload the cool shit you do. Not doing cool shit? Better fucking start. Go ride a jetski, hug a tiger, take an ATV o…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 04:51 PM
3

Generally, that's only going to be met with resistance. People are hesitant to accept a new way of thinking. The pill usually only gets swallowed in one of two cases. They get burned by a girl and look for advice, finding RP thinking. They see your success, and their lack of success, and accept your advice. Other than that, chances are, they just think you're some sort of misogynist and dismiss your advice.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 04:30 PM
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True BP would just buy her things, carry her groceries, and cry himself to sleep every night wondering why girls only like assholes. And, of course, hop in the internet to share their relationship advice with others.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 04:07 PM
1

There's a lot of men in jail with nothing more than an accusation... Rationalization hamsters work overtime to justify the lack of evidence. You have to be a victim blamer in order to debate it, and victim blamers only make the victim look better. "Oh, she was so ashamed, so she didn't go to the hospital for treatment" "She was scared, so she didn't report it to anyone" "She only sent those messages about how good it was out of fear he would physically harm her" "She only signed that affadavit t…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 01:32 PM
2

You're joking, right? If not, you're in the wrong place. No sympathy here for bitches afraid of pussy...
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:28 PM
1

You'll spend years training before you start taking blows to the head. Don't worry about concussions, you won't even get rocked for years. Consider BJJ/Judo or similar if you're still scared. Most fights end up in a grapple or on the ground very quickly anyway, striking has limited use. BJJ is intensely useful.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:02 PM
3

Pump and dump. She's down. Might be the best pussy of your life. She might be nothing special with a dim future, doesn't mean she can't work a cock. Go find out and let us know.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 12:54 PM
2

For example, if you cold approach a girl and creep her out, Walk away. Laugh. Gonna creep one out now and again, nothing to gain from apologizing. Or what if you lose your frame? Apologizing won't fix it. Pull back, recollect, push back in. Maybe you were a huge dick, like you stood up a girl or called her fat, or any intentional act of dick moves, would that warrant an apology? Nope. You intended to be a dick. It was your goal. Fucking own up to it. Yes, she's fat. Yes, you stood her up. Deal w…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 12:51 PM
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Do I owe this girl something because we have had sex? Nope. Mutually beneficial. Neither owes the other anything. She always guilts me Well that fucking sucks. That's not worth dealing with IMO. Trust me, 100%, no doubt, that won't stop just because you give her commitment. In fact, it will get worse when she knows you're hooked. Probably the reason the other two fiance's backed out... Has had one other sexual partner and been engaged twice Math doesn't add up. Facts don't add up. Something ain'…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 12:43 PM
1

They did search the house, after the father's drunken call. They don't mention a warrant, so he probably consented to the search (FYI, don't let cops in your house, ever, unless they have a warrant.) They found the box, no jewelry. Enough to prove the package was sent and received, not enough to prove what was inside...
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 12:32 PM
1

You're funny. He'd slap her for me. So would her father. Shit was really different just a generation or two ago. Go talk to your grandfather.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 12:25 PM
5

"surveillance footage shows Hunt and her mother mailing a package at a UPS store in Florida on August 11. They told the clerk they were trying to send a laptop and antique plate, and were hoping to insure the package for the maximum $50,000. When they were told the insurance cost, they then dropped coverage to $3,000, the paper reports." To quote what you're referencing. The mother was merely with her. Never touched it, didn't pay. Didn't receive (it was addressed to the daughter). Complete plau…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 08:54 PM
2

If you think homos don't put up LMR, you're mistaken.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 08:47 PM
8

Highly unlikely to be settled, even more unlikely the drunk hick parents are the ones to foot that cost. In the event of a guilty judgement, if they are found to be culpable, they will be responsible for the restitution. Again, pretty darn unlikely. The facts of the case point to the girl stealing the stuff and then mailing it to herself. Even if the father is recorded saying he saw the stolen goods, it doesn't mean he's responsible for the crime, merely a witness. Chances are, even if listed as…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 08:42 PM
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People love telling others what to do, but when it's their life on the line, when they have to live with the consequences of the decision, their advice often changes. I'd bet most of the women defending her would be calling her a whore and trying to stone her in the street if they found out her sugar daddy was their husband. I bet they'd shame her publicly if they were in her peer group and found out that juicy tidbit of gossip. I bet those bluepillers would break up with her as soon as she reve…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 07:38 PM
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She should, but we live in the real world. She was charged with grand theft in October (months after the split and theft), but with no video evidence, no recording of the alleged phone call, no recovered goods, she's likely going to walk away scott free (pun intended). She'll never be charged over the accusation. Lets be real. She now has a civil suit for $4mm, to cover the $2.1mm she stole plus $1.9mm in damages (legal costs, reputation, etc.) She has $0 to her name. Win or lose, Mr. Betabux is…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 07:11 PM
18

You're not missing anything. It's "squeeeeee waaaaaahhhh whack whack whack squeeee waahhhhh blarbaaaaarbalalalarara" You know she was just making banshee noises while going full blown crazy mode.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 07:03 PM
5

Back in the day, you'd just slap some sense into the stupid bitch and everything would be fine. Other men would look at her single black eye and say "at least you didn't have to tell her twice!" Other women would comment "I hope you learned your lesson young lady!" Today, you so much as allow them to break their hand on your face, and you're going to jail for DA, facing a white knight army defending m'lady, while femnazi's troll you for years. Moral is, dodge and run. Literally, run away. Let he…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 06:58 PM
1

I never push the agenda, never correct others, never offer guidance. I never mention it. I never even admit it. I play dumb if it comes up. TRP, PUA, Game, whatever, I'm ignorant to all of it. When my friends come to me for advice, I take a page from Aristotle's teachings on logic. I ask questions I already know the answer to. I build a mutually agreed upon understanding of the situation, leading them to arrive at the solution I would have given.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:46 PM
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Read around, this question is common. Stop worrying about pleasing her. Worry about pleasing you. Find out what turns you on, (in real life not porn). Believe it or not, a girl sucking on my finger gets me hard faster than a blowjob. If she rubs her ass on my crotch, or bends over doggie style, I'm hard in a heartbeat. A lot of the "normal" stuff doesn't do anything for me (breathing in ear, kissing neck, licking nipples, etc). Find what it is, tell her to do it. As long as it's not too weird/gr…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:36 PM
3

Because after they said no sex i still would make out with them and make the foreplay a bit more intense I know that seems like the logical route, many guys would attempt the same. Reality is, all you've done is reward the behavior. She said "no", you got MORE interested, gave her MORE pleasure. Don't fall into that trap. Doing more of what you were doing isn't going to change her mind, and you've experienced that first hand. Part of abundance mentality is knowing when there's nothing to lose. T…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 04:55 PM
3

username is "drake", asking if he should apologize to the girl that cheated on him. This is a joke.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 04:34 PM
2

Why do they lose interest so quick? A thousand potential reasons, all under the umbrella of "she's not that into you". Without knowing more, it's hard to say why specifically. Generally, raise your SMV and it will overshadow your flaws. Given your story, it might very well be that they are not into you just because you are so concerned about losing them. Clinginess and desperation are huge turnoffs. You might be effectively shooting yourself in the foot, losing girls because you're afraid of los…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 04:27 PM
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This is entirely expected. Women crave validation. After divorce, her main source is no longer tied to her. She sees you ignoring her. You moved on. No more compliments, no more assurance, she's not even worth the time out of your day to have a conversation. This is the opposite of validation, it's proof she's not important, not special. It's killing her. So, she does what all women do in this situation, tries to get some validation. She'll throw things out with the hopes a discussion arises, pr…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 04:10 PM
2

At 17, you're still stuck in the highschool popularity contest and an entire school career of baggage. You could be the best guy in class, but girls will still see the boy that pooped his pants and cried about it in 2nd grade. In college, it starts over again with a blank slate. Little from highschool follows you. From the sounds of it, will be able to slay. By 21, no one remembers, every meet is a blank slate with no baggage. That's when TRP teachings really come into play. (You mention girls s…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 03:57 PM
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There's something you're not telling. You brought home 5 girls, 2x HB8's this weekend alone, got them in bed, naked, fingered them, and didn't fuck any of them? That's more than coincidence, something is up. Is your cock really weird? Obvious STD's? No condoms? Couldn't get it up? Do you look bad naked? Are you bad at foreplay (like, scraping their pussy with long nails)? Do you smell? Is your room disgusting? Did you say or do creepy shit, like "your skin is so smooth, I wish I could wear it to…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 03:49 PM
1

The bad side is their bodies don't look as good as when they were early 20's I live in a rich area, a big portion of cougars here are trophy wives just past their prime that were paid their severance so the guy can get something younger and hotter. Think of those girls on "Real Housewives of ___" shows.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 03:07 PM
1

It is that simple, stop making excuses for yourself and start making solutions. A big portion of my friend group is Indian/Pakistani. They get laid as much as the white guys, possibly, more. If you make a proper first impression, have good game, and are attractive, you'll get laid with girls that are interested in you. It's really that simple. Come off as a creep, overbearing, too forward, smell bad, look bad, and you're not getting laid regardless of your skin color.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:58 PM
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I'm guessing this girl is telling her where I'll be, she wants to see us together. Ask her, quietly and personally, if she knows your cockblock chick by name. "You know Stacy Blocker?" When she confirms, ask her if she's been inviting cockblock to places you'll be. "Have you been telling Stacy what parties we're going to? Where I'll be?" When she confirms, ask her if cockblock has been asking about you. "Has Stacy been asking you about me? Does she talk about me?" Around this point, she's going …
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:53 PM
1

TLDR; The bedroom dies because of the man, the woman assumes it's her, as the rationalization hamster won't let them stay with a man who can't satisfy them. They believe it must be their fault and their man must be great for tolerating it, no other man would (bunch of sex crazed pigs) thus justifying staying in the relationship. Female libido actually increases in their 20's and 30's, peaking somewhere in the late 30's/early 40's. (Men peak somewhere in their late teens/early 20's, which should …
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:27 PM
1

Higher SMV girls are receptive because that's how they get guys, you're a guy they want, and a guy they can get. Lower SMV girls are resentful, as they know they can't get you. You're not interested in them, because of their physical appearance, and they know that's the fact of the matter. No reason to be cute, to flirt, whatever, it's a waste of their time since they have no chance, and they're pissed off about it. Basically, you're a dangling carrot that they know they'll never get, so they've…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:01 PM
1

If it hurts while you're doing it, there's probably an issue. If you experience tearing, searing, stabbing pain, there's probably an issue. If redness or swelling happens, there's probably an issue. If it's just soreness, or burning, it's probably just normal. All those guys screaming "feel the burn" aren't kidding, your muscles burn when you hit the limit. If the discomfort increases with stretching, since you're stretching the affected muscle, and then is less severe after, 99% chance it's jus…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 01:54 PM
6

PUA is a bit like a textbook on the techniques of Michelangelo being sold to stick figure drawing amateurs with the promise that they too can be good enough to paint The Last Judgement. Sure, some of the stuff there will improve their results. They'll be better than before. They'll have knowledge of how to progress. Without a shit ton of practice, time, and some luck, they'll never get close to what they were promised. PUA is the same. It's targeted at guys starting at 0 and looking to get to 10…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 01:46 PM
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TL;DR: You're doing it right. She wants you. She wants you so much she can't even bring herself to be with another guy after you. She wants to lock you down, knows she can't, so she says she doesn't want a relationship right now, knowing pushing the subject will make you push her away. She's planting a seed and hoping it grows. Keep spinning the plate until it falls.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 01:35 PM
1

Being a leader/celebrity always raises your value. No one debates that. There are certain universal factors, no one debates that. There's more that goes into it, however. Doesn't matter how famous she is, you won't catch me fucking Rosie O'Donnell, just like you won't catch most women lining up to fuck Morgan Freeman or Drew Carey. Megan Fox? Brad Pitt in Fight Club? Well now, that's a different story. Even if they weren't celebrities, still top tier. Brad Pitt as he appeared in The Curious Case…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 01:01 PM
1

Own up to it, laugh it off, there's really nothing else you can do.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 07:00 PM
2

Gonna marry one? Ltr one? Ditch the other, go exclusive. If it comes up in the future, let her know why you chose her. Not the plan? Spin them both until it blows up. May never happen, may salvage one, may just have room for new plates. Nothing to be gained from addressing the issue before it's an issue.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 06:44 PM
1

I was just trying to get you to confirm you act on IOI's or the lack thereof. You did.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 04:39 PM
0

"If you think they look good now, you should see them on your floor" (adjust grammar as appropriate) Deliver with a smirk. Bold as fuck. They'll usually laugh, and if you're feeling cocky, throw I a "I bet yours look great in a pile too" If they say "never gonna happen" or similar, just come back with "so, my floor then?" If you crack/stutter/slur, you're done. This one needs a lot of confidence to be successful.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 04:34 PM
3

We have some groupies... It's amazing what a nice house, pool, fire pit, puppy, and handle of tequila can accomplish.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 04:25 PM
1

If it was a new girl, I'd do the same, which is why I mentioned she's a plate. She knows what's up, and not explicitly inviting her works as a gentle pull. No two situations are alike, context is very important.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 04:23 PM
4

I'd encourage you to start conversations with everyone. Not just hot girls, everyone. Kids. Grandparents. Random people you have no interest in. Standing in line? Talk to whoever is in front/behind. Telemarketer calls you? Have a convo and bullshit (waste their time like they waste yours). Learn how to say hello, open up and hold a conversation, get their name, make them smile, and make an exit before things get awkward. You'll get better at it. It will get less intimidating, and you'll be less …
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:38 PM
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"Anything you say may be used against you in a court of law" (part of the Miranda Warning when arrested) vs. "Anything you say may be used to prove your innocence or guilt" Outside of identifying yourself, shut the fuck up and get a lawyer. They only use your words against you...
/r/askTRP25/08/16 07:52 PM
14

"Turn over" or "come here" or "go there" or "get on top". Order them around, preferably, before they have a chance to speak. They love it, especially if you say it directly into their ear in a deep voice and move them into position. Play it like you're bored of that position and moving to the next one. Not far from the truth anyway. If you can, make it less obvious. Slow down before pulling out. Kiss their neck or whatever is in range, and move them to another position. Make the transition more …
/r/askTRP25/08/16 07:48 PM
1

If you approach a girl and she gives no IOI's, is cold to you, do you continue to build it up and escalate?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 07:34 PM
5

I deflect. Girl points at celebrity and asks "Am I that hot?" "She doesn't have an ass like yours" and smack her ass with a smirk. She gets the comfort/validation/attention she needs. You avoid rating her (lose-lose for you), entering frame (answering question directly), and get to smack an ass. Feel free to replace ass with whatever feature she knows you enjoy. Legs, tits, lack of gag reflex, whatever.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 07:31 PM
4

Text for logistics and a little bit of banter. The point of texting is to set up the in person meeting. Example from last night, because there's a severe lack of examples. This is a plate I haven't contacted, at all, in a few days. Wanted to see her, probably the only free chance this week, so I opened. Me: (sent pic of empty gym) I love having a gym to myself. Her: (immediate response) I was about to text you, lol Her: what are you doing later? Her: and I'm jealous of that empty gym Me: I'm fre…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 07:23 PM
1

If I go in, they get hooked. How do you know they're hooked if they never give an IOI? If I wait for IOIs, it takes a long while for one to show Do you mean to say that you approach a girl, with sexual conversation/flirtation/escalation, completely cold?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 06:36 PM
18

They all cook and clean if you play the game correctly.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 06:27 PM
1

Fun, or successful? I've noticed my success rate is massively higher when only approaching girls that give some sort of IOI verses true cold approaches. At this point, the fear is gone, which means part of the thrill of approach is gone. My fun comes from the success, or fucking with them for my own amusement.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 06:18 PM
16

Spent 7 years with bromates. One of us always had a girl willing to clean... Shit, sometimes we'd keep a girl around that should have been nexted just because she cleaned...
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 05:50 PM
1

Fair enough, best of luck approaching girls that don't give you any IOI's. I'd love to read a field report.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 05:45 PM
0

Use your fingers first. Use lube. Be gentle, go slow, put her in a position to be in control (doggie, cowgirl). You wouldn't run a marathon in new shoes, break her in before you go to town. Take it slow, work your way up, and don't be afraid to order her around. She'll do what you say.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 05:26 PM
1

Yes, now you see it my way. Chad gets his pick, and new ones constantly flow in to choose from. Never is he forced to crash a party, which in this analogy, it's pushing himself upon a girl who isn't interested.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 05:23 PM
1

She wanted a pump and dump, you were clingy, she made distance. Move on...
/r/askTRP25/08/16 05:20 PM
5

You switched from "invitation" for "permission". I'll put it this way. You want to go to a party. Chad gets 10 invites, and chooses the party he wants to attend. He doesn't worry about the parties he wasn't invited to. He doesn't ask if he's allowed to come to the ones he was invited to, permission is assumed. Beta/Nice Guy has 0 invites, so he asks everyone throwing a party if he can attend. That's begging. That's asking permission.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 03:57 PM
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"half and a month ago" "living in my place for two weeks" So, you knew this girl for a month before letting her move in? She's pushing for marriage after 2 weeks? If you bought milk the day she moved in, it's not expired yet. Do you not see how fucking insane that is?
/r/askTRP25/08/16 03:48 PM
1

Soft spoken implies a lack of confidence or authority, or the volume level (too quiet), it generally isn't used to describe someone who doesn't speak much. Sounds like your problem is with HOW you speak, not how MUCH you speak. Speak slowly when possible. Speak just a bit louder than those around you. Speak from the diaphragm, not the chest (there's various guides available on the internet that go over this in detail). Keep your head up, and make eye contact with as many people in the group as r…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 03:38 PM
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Way to take the ribbing like a champ. You're cool bro. Don't let a bitchy teenager get under your skin any more than a 4 year old that says "i hate you and you're a poopie head". You're bigger than that.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 03:24 PM
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Chad isn't begging for pussy. Chad isn't convincing girls that aren't interested. Chad isn't wasting his time on girls that won't put out. That's a huge sign of the blue pill/nice guy mentality. It's a huge turnoff. Chad is taking advantage of the pussy throwing itself at him. Chad takes his pick of interested girls. Chad knows an IOI is basically permission to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 03:20 PM
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With the high SMV males she's different. She's going to be straightforward with the Leonardo diCaprios because she knows that's her only chance. You think women aren't throwing guys like that IOI's all fucking day? You think they just sit there and ignore him, hoping he chooses them? You think he wastes his valuable time on a girl that clearly isn't interested? her opinion doesn't really matter. Even if it's no, an attractive guy can turn that around. Doesn't work like that in the real world. At…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 01:54 PM
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Would you like me to call the Wahhhhhmbulance? I think the number is 9-wah-wahhh. Seriously, stop whining on the internet, and stand your fucking ground. Let her cry, let her throw a tantrum, let her talk behind your back, let her complain to management, and let management decide whether to keep you or her. Don't engage, don't debate, don't antagonize, just do what the fuck you want and ignore her. If she's as shitty as you imply, and you're as valuable as you imply, it should be a simple decisi…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 01:44 PM
3

Moral is, she's staying with your pathetic ass out of pity. You're providing for her. She lives with you. You're spilling your guts out, telling her you love her, crying for her, begging her to come back. She knows if she wants to win an argument, get her way, or generally manipulate you into doing what she wants, all she has to do is take a drive and you'll call her crying and begging to come back. She has you wrapped around her finger. I bet she recently smacked into the wall, right? P.S. Don'…
/r/askTRP24/08/16 07:41 PM
3

Not eager at all. Never have. Probably never will. If I'm not happy, they're gone. You'd be shocked how easily women will agree to a non-exclusive relationship... Never had a shortage, never had an issue, I'd much prefer to just spin plates.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 03:10 PM
1

First week of college is like shooting fish in a barrel. Just go out to the popular spots and have fun. Talk to people. You can spot freshies, so target them and show them a good time, escalate, and take them home. This is easy mode. Easiest mode. Unless you're a well hung male model at a nymphomaniacs anonymous meeting, it can't get any easier.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 01:53 PM
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They act truthfully, but the words that fall out of their mouth don't carry much weight. They're telling the truth whenever their actions confirm their words. EX: She's standing over the stove and says "I'm making dinner".
/r/askTRP24/08/16 01:48 PM
1

Only problem I'm having is believing that it's actually real It's real. Your experiences have already confirmed that, and will continue to. There's a reason we refer to this as an "awakening", you wonder how the hell you never noticed it before because it's so damn obvious once you know what's happening. my fear of escalation. Fear goes away with familiarity and success. Get out there and take some steps, it just gets easier and more natural. That apprehension is what keeps the beta boys from su…
/r/askTRP24/08/16 12:52 PM
0

People who are lonely are people who are both bored and lacking connections to others. If you fill your time with productive or fun activities, you won't even have the time to worry about it. If you are capable of approaching new people, making new connections, and having a bunch of flings, you'll always have someone fun and interesting in your life. You'll never long for interaction, because you'll have it. Might you someday long for something more? Sure. It's possible. For me, it's been years …
/r/askTRP24/08/16 12:43 PM
6

All the emotional investment, and time, but none of the benefits. It's basically the male equivalent of being a sex slave...
/r/askTRP24/08/16 12:39 PM
8

Exactly what I've seen. 4:30AM-2:30PM we would work outside, 90F 90% humidity (I live on an island), loading the truck, unloading the truck, carrying packs of shingles up ladders, 1 portajohn for 6 dudes with hangover shits, the usual. Of course, the normal pranks/ribbing/name calling/insults/jokes flew around all day. Anyone that did construction knows how it is. Around noon, we'd send the girl out of her air conditioned trailer office to pick up lunch, and she'd come back bitching about how he…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 07:55 PM
95

Then I found the pill... I quit drinking. I started lifting and focusing on my classes. I spent more time with my family and hobbies... Now, I make decent money from a degree that is a good springboard into medical school, my ultimate goal. I have formed a black metal band, one of my dreams, and have excellent relationships in all aspects of my life. The naysayers think we're just the new version of pickup artists, manipulating women into sleeping with us. The truth is, we're just realists encou…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 06:42 PM
2

She's a friend of a highschool buddy's older sister. We met a few times at parties, always had fun, but both of us were with someone so nothing ever happened. Haven't seen her at all in ~3 years. We've both been focusing on our careers, but we ran into eachother the beginning of this summer and hit it off.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 05:53 PM
1

You don't have to be high energy to get girls. You can be mellow, attractive, fun, and confident, without being boisterous. But, admittedly, it does make things harder.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 05:15 PM
2

This is one of the most cringe worthy beta stories I've ever read. Start over. I don't mean with her, I mean with reading the sidebar. Success is the best revenge. Wave and smile as you walk by with more cash in your pocket, bigger muscles under your shirt, and a hotter girl on your arm.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 05:07 PM
3

I've met guys that have a poster/calendar/signed memorabilia/magazine clippings of my plate on their wall. It's a little weird. She's not a movie star, but she's well known. Make nothing of their status. Treat them like any other girl. They have no interest in fans, you instantly disqualify yourself. At the same time, never dismiss their accomplishments. Met her through social network, escalated like any other girl. Truly, nothing out of the ordinary, except for the occasional fan recognizing he…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 04:58 PM
2

This is in no way related to trp...
/r/askTRP23/08/16 04:28 PM
23

Ever hear of the middle east? Quite a few places where women can't leave the house unless the man escorts them.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 04:16 PM
3

It's not awkward if you don't make it awkward. Remember that everyone is out of their element, few have real friends there, and everyone is looking to have fun. Notice a spot by some girls in the dining hall? Ask if the seat is taken, sit down if it's not, start eating like they don't particularly matter and you just needed a place to sit. Engage in their conversation when appropriate, derail it, make some introductions, make them laugh, invite them to a party and get some numbers if it's all go…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 04:00 PM
2

Even a master has nowhere near a 100% success rate, even approaching girls 2-3 notches down on the SMV scale.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 03:40 PM
24

It's a basic shit test. The fact that you're asking about it, and she keeps re-using it, means you keep failing. How you handle it depends on you, but I usually stick with "Is this your way of trying to set up a threesome?" Said jokingly, of course. Then, when one of her attractive friends come up in conversation, casually mention that she's cute and give your girl a wink. Worse case scenario, she already mentally branch swung and it was over regardless. Best case scenario, threesome with her cu…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 03:35 PM
1

The numbers game is real. If 10% of the numbers you get turn into a meet, you're actually doing pretty damn well. A lot of people think that top tier guys can "pull any girl they want". Reality is, they can pull "a" girl they want, after approaching a bunch of other potentials that just didn't work out.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 03:21 PM
22

I've done construction, landscaping, roofing/siding, marine and automotive mechanic, and car detailing. Only girls in those industries are in the office answering phones. I know one girl who "works construction", road paving. She directs traffic and gets a nice tan while the men do the actual labor. Still repping the labor union any chance she gets and brags about how its not easy being on her feet all day...
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 02:51 PM
1

Oh, no, I was way outclassed by these guys. Damn near every girl I've met that said this was being approached by some high end guys, but ended up dating someone relatively average (but, with proper game and confidence). Generally speaking, you're right. Specifically, that's just not the case. They really seem to be oblivious to any approach that includes a compliment.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 12:42 PM
1

Avid cyclist, and of course I lift.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 12:36 PM
0

i understand where you're coming from, but there's nothing to gain here, nothing to win. She won't even understand the issue, I guarantee it. Taking it further is just going to create unnecessary tension in the social circle and possibly compromise op's frame if he loses his cool.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 06:58 PM
1

My thighs are huge, can't even pull up slim fit jeans. It's very common for guys with strength to not fit in skinny cut clothes. I gave mine away to friends. Easy remedy is to change your clothes. Consider trying something more along the lines of "modern fit" or "regular fit". A loose/relaxed/boot cut will be too loose for you.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 06:53 PM
2

Just look them head to toe and ask "are you a hoe?" Don't say a word. Don't move. Stare them down like they kicked your dog. Do the one finger "come here" motion, put an arm around their back, take back your hat. "Do that again and you're getting spanked" works surprisingly well. Decent chance they take it back right then and there, and you can just take them by the hand back to your place. (If they resist, just get a number and open like usual, because they still want you to slap their ass soon…
/r/askTRP22/08/16 06:47 PM
1

It seemed like she wanted to hold hands Link arms and lead her around, let her feel up your arms. Grab her around the waist, pull her close, and lead her around. Moral is, do it on your terms, and in a way where you're leading. I wanted to kiss her but I pussied out You play football? It's like throwing a hail mary on 4th down with 10 seconds on the clock. All or nothing, you're getting the TD or getting sacked/intercepted. Might as well try, because if you don't, the buzzer is sounding and you'…
/r/askTRP22/08/16 06:37 PM
1

Different women have different preferences. Some want a "bad boy player" in a tight shirt and snapback. Some want an "actual bad boy" in a walmart sweater and those knockoff Adidas with 5 stripes on the side. Some girls find ZFG to be sexy as hell, and wearing something like that can show that you really don't care. Some girls just want something different. When they're all in pastel button ups with the top two buttons open, and you're the only one different, guess who they're interested in? A l…
/r/askTRP22/08/16 06:20 PM
1

Approached, or properly approached? One of the hottest girls I ever dated said that guys don't approach her. My buddy landed a solid 9/10 recently, same thing. I called BS. Moral is, ALL guys they interact with were trying, but going about it all wrong. So wrong, she didn't even perceive it as an approach, just friendly guys being nice. "Oh, these guys just want to tell me how beautiful I am and buy me dinner, they don't want to date me". I guess I was the only guy that straight up said "let me …
/r/askTRP22/08/16 06:14 PM
1

Compliments, validation, should be earned. The fact that it wasn't given up easily makes the impact much stronger. A guy that tells her she's beautiful for no good reason is just another name on the orbiter list. You got her, at least partially, because you're not that guy. But, if you never give any validation, any comfort, any compliments, you are simply too much of an asshole. They need something, but nowhere near as much as most guys are programmed to give. EX: I took a plate out this weeken…
/r/askTRP22/08/16 06:06 PM
1

Avoid her like she has cooties. Go completely cold. Don't talk to her. Don't engage her. Don't follow her on social media. Don't be a whiny bitch about it, I.E. don't refuse to go places because she's there. Just avoid her as much as possible and ignore her when you can't. When she inevitably corners you and asks what the fuck is up, calmly tell her "I have nothing good to say to you, so I'm saying nothing." and shoo her away with your hand like the annoying child she is because she's not even w…
/r/askTRP22/08/16 05:42 PM
2

This tactic also works well for a girl who is only complimented about one thing. All around average girl with amazing tits will only ever hear about her tits. When you're the first guy to compliment her ass and legs and not just stare at her cleavage, you separate from the pack.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 05:10 PM
1

It gets very easy to truly not be jealous once you've been around the block a few times. Once you've had girls come and go, picked up new ones, and reinforced how temporary and replaceable it all is, you don't exactly care any more.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 12:39 PM
1

When the lip starts healing and regrowing, I bite it off again because its solid and looks terrible. I used to do that when I was a kid. Don't do that. Consciously don't allow yourself to do it. It might feel weird and look terrible, but that's just how it looks when healing. Leave it be, and the problem goes away. Other than that, doctor/therapist. It's anxiety related, like nail biting. Learning how to identify the anxiety and control the urge might take more than some strangers on the interne…
/r/askTRP22/08/16 12:37 PM
3

Ever consider reading or learning? How about socializing? Quick trip to a local bar for a whisky neat and some conversation? Do you live in a very clean house? Room for improvement? When is the last time you scrubbed behind the bowl, vacuumed under the couch, dusted over the doors, etc? Eventually you hit a point where that spare time is filled by plates. Until then, try to fill it with something productive, especially if it's something that benefits you in the long term (like reading).
/r/askTRP22/08/16 12:32 PM
1

Punch dad in the face. "I feel much better now" Go outside. Seriously though, get a job, save money, move out. This isn't a difficult concept.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 05:07 PM
1

The endgame is to have as much fun and happiness before you die. You only get one chance, don't fuck it up. What makes you happy? That's up to you. Some guys want a relationship, children, etc. Some guys just want to sample all the flavors. Some guys just enjoy the thrill. Regardless, you won't find what you're looking for if you're not out there searching. You have to approach, date, and fuck a lot of girls before you find one worthwhile. Otherwise, you can't tell. For all you know, the girl yo…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 04:13 PM
1

Give it in a flattering yet obscure unit of measurement. For instance, you're 16.25 hands tall, or 11 bananas, or 3.3x108 beard-seconds. (0.9 Fathoms, 0.97 Smoots, 3.61 cubits don't sound as impressive) If you insist on including it (I wouldn't), I'd make a joke. Vital Stats: Height: 16.25 hands Weight: 11.8 stone Blood volume: 39.8 gills. Total volume: 5,011 teaspoons Age: 147 dog years Income: 1.7 million baht
/r/askTRP19/08/16 04:01 PM
1

Most girls don't have much to offer besides their looks, pussy, and devotion. They don't have many friends, girls just don't seem to get along with each other for long. They'll have 1-3 best friends, but they'll hate at least one of them at any given time. Many don't have hobbies outside of drinking, dancing, and getting validation on social media. Can't tell you how many girls I've met that "love boats" but have never driven one and can't tie a fucking clove hitch. Many don't have aspirations. …
/r/askTRP19/08/16 02:48 PM
1

I'd like to give you a short story. I took my mom out to lunch at a nice restaurant one day, a work day, so I was in a suit and sort of on the clock. A guy a table or two over was clearly on a date, first date from the look of it. Also in a suit, also on his lunch break. His phone rang the whole time, and he'd stop conversation and answer. He was trying to sound important and powerful, putting on a bit of a show to impress this girl. Would hang up and complain about how much he's needed, how no …
/r/askTRP19/08/16 02:39 PM
1

Even if she's 1/1000, there's 320,000 of them in the US alone. There's at least a few thousand in your state (and this doesn't include tourists or travelling). I don't know about you, but there's no way I'm running through a few thousand girls any time soon, especially when there's other options that are acceptable. Don't forget, while you might be hunting for your Pikachu and know that you don't want Rattatas and Pidgeys, there's still dozens of varieties out there that might work out for you. …
/r/askTRP19/08/16 02:10 PM
2

I have a similar type, and you're right, they're generally in high demand. Tall/skinny/pretty is universally attractive. How do you visualize yourself as the prize? Easy. They have no clue they're a prize to you unless you tell them. Treat them like any other girl, and they'll treat you like the prize you are. Some of the stuff you prefer, they see as a defect. They're ashamed or embarrassed of their small tits, stick legs, moles, big ears, whatever. I can't tell you how many times the stuff I f…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 01:40 PM
1

Chat up girl 1 and ask about some nice spots. Chat up girl 2, invite her to a spot you just learned about. On that date, ask her for some other spots. Take girl 1 or 3 to one of those. Repeat. Before you know it, you'll have a ton of spots to go to, and never initiated a date you didn't lead.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 12:55 PM
1

Don't shit where you eat. That's especially true if you don't have the skillset to juggle girls and control the relationship. No FWB, no plates, never had a GF= you clearly lack the necessary skillset. You have to head problems off a mile in advance if you want to pull off a work fling, but with no experience, you won't see problems coming until it smacks you in the face. My $0.02, tell her you're going out with some friends, she should being some friends and meet up. Let one of your friends fuc…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 12:46 PM
1

No one loses chess after delivering a roundhouse kick to their opponent's face.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 12:40 PM
1

Best of luck. Remember, shit only happens if you make it happen, only you can determine how your life plays out. Don't expect anyone to help you.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 12:32 PM
6

What's the point of improving yourself if there's no return on the investment? Did you really gain skills, go to university, lift, and start a business, just for fun? Because you wanted the experience? Just because you found it more enjoyable to do than anything else in the world? Fuck no. You did it for the opportunities it opened. We're not improving ourselves to please women, we're improving ourselves to improve our lives overall and open new opportunities that were formerly closed.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 08:59 PM
1

There is only one type of person that becomes a sugar daddy, and OP fits the mold exactly. Financially successful, feels they deserve beautiful and young women, but do not have the physical attractiveness or game to get them naturally. They almost always rationalize it in some positive way, like it's preferable. They get their pick, they're in control, they're getting better girls than any man their age would be able to otherwise, etc. Truth is, we have our pick of a much broader group, we can h…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 08:16 PM
1

Thank you for confirming it was a misunderstanding.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 07:55 PM
2

Why do I know she will go back the day you break up? She's not sure she can control the next man as well as she controls you, so she'll put that little insurance policy back in place to protect herself. She hasn't said no to a for example a IUD in the future, She knows she's avoiding confrontation by leaving the option open. She's not agreeing, she's just not telling you "no" just yet.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 07:50 PM
2

He prefers being a sugar daddy to being alone, that's about it. You misunderstand/misquote what he said, which was in reply to me about 2 levels up. He believes women only fuck men so they can brag to their peers about how attractive or successful the guy they're fucking is and receive a social status boost. He never claimed to be attractive or successful, and even replied to your post confirming he is not young or attractive. BB through and through.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 07:45 PM
2

I think you misunderstand how sugar daddies work... They pay a girl a salary to pretend to be their GF, and perform those duties. The very definition of a BB; providing for a girl that doesn't want you, in exchange for duty sex. No AF, no one that can get girls on their own accord, would resort to this.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 07:08 PM
12

It's abundance mentality. If you're out to pick up girls, and a girl doesn't want to be picked up, just move on to the next one and don't waste your time. Worse case scenario, you saved time. Best case scenario, you display value, increase SMV, and she decides she does want to be picked up by you. Alternative is, stick around, creep her out, and guarantee that you waste time and ensure she doesn't want to be picked up.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 06:36 PM
2

You're purchasing her services, on mutually agreed upon terms, nothing more. She's a supplier, an independent contractor. You know, people you'd have a business partnership with. I know it inflates your ego to think you have some sort of control, but you don't. Men with money might do "quite well", but that doesn't mean "better than someone who can attract women". Real life has proven time and again that guys like me bring home the girls that guys like you buy drinks for all night. Guys like me …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 06:20 PM
3

To add to your example, dating a girl that cheated on her ex with you is a bit like adopting the dog the owner got rid of because it bit you.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 06:09 PM
11

She hasn't deleted her dating apps. In the one we met she has just hidden her profile pics but she connects almost everyday (I wonder why). (I deleted my profile). She's still on the prowl, you've gone beta and caught oneitis. If you swallowed the pill you should know that you should always keep other options open. She certainly is... Makes lots of cash, spent nothing on you for bday. Well, you know where her priorities lie. You're worth about 20 minutes of her wages... Shamed you over dinner se…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 06:07 PM
3

Guilt is normal. All decisions have repercussions. Is the joy you get from this relationship more than the guilt you experience? That's the true question.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:41 PM
5

Draw your line in the sand, it's your choice. Don't want to fuck girls with a bf? No biggie, millions of them are single. Don't want to fuck a friend of a friend? No biggie, millions more out there. Don't waste your time driving down streets you know are a dead end.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:36 PM
8

If you tell her, she'll know you're a liar that can't be trusted. She might think you're insecure. She might change how she perceives you. If you don't, nothing changes, and it seems like you don't want things to change. Decision is yours, but personally, I'd forget about it entirely.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:32 PM
5

It does. 100%. This is what we expect to happen, hypergamy at work, plain and simple. You ltr the exception to the rules. She's no exception, so treat her like every other girl. Enjoy your turn, pass her off to the next guy.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:25 PM
1

Don't confuse correlation for causality. A lot of Mensa members are socially inept nerds. A lot of socially inept nerds are not used to being touched, and thus, don't like it. For example, look at top tier video game players. They overwhelmingly don't like being touched. They too, overwhelmingly, are socially inept nerds. Being smart has nothing to do with enjoying being touched.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 04:41 PM
12

She's not LTR material. Plate at best. Cheaters are cheaters, whether YOU allow it to happen or not, SHE WAS WILLING. You should have just fucked her day one, as you planned, and plated her until shit went south. If she's local this summer, call her over and have some fun. If she's not, find some girls that are, and re-evaluate her next year.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 04:36 PM
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just do what you were doing before. You are uninterrupted by rejection. Bold that part, golden advice right there. I can't tell you how many times I've watched guys approach, fail, and then waste time and creep out the girl while trying to salvage it.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 04:18 PM
3

Go get a massage. I'm being totally serious. There's massage parlors all over the place. It's like $20-30/hour in my area, plus a tip (25-50% based on how well they do). Point is, you're going to be nearly naked in a strange place with a total stranger rubbing your entire body for an extended period of time. It feels great. It's relaxing. It helps you get over that apprehension of being touched. You'll soon associate touch with pleasure, comfort, relaxation. Having a random girl touch you actual…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 03:57 PM
1

My advice is to stick to a particular drink and pace yourself. I know for sure I can drink your average keg beer all day and night and never actually get drunk, but throw in a few shots, or smoke some weed, and I'm a mess. Pace yourself, stay in control. Don't be afraid to make a move, especially later in the night, especially if they "fall into your arms" or give you some other opening. Worse case scenario, you confirm you misread her signs before wasting any time on her. Best case, she's down.…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 03:30 PM
2

"Real man" only has one definition. It's always used to imply the same thing: The man their mom told them is out there. The man that will ignore all their issues and flaws and baggage and love them unconditionally. The man that will support them fully: financially, socially, personally. The man that is strong, sexy, smart, and funny. The man that won't cheat on them. Apply it to any situation, and those truths hold.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 03:20 PM
3

You're not the owner of the company, she's not your employee. You're engaging in mutually agreed upon transaction, you're far closer to business partners. Red pillers look down on transaction sex. We elevate sex based on attraction. We learn how to get women to want us for who and what we are. They are attracted to us. They want to have sex with us. You are seeking women that can tolerate sex with you in exchange for money and gifts. Prostitutes, essentially. Trust me, sex with someone who wants…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 03:09 PM
1

A 14 year old with their first post understands RP ideas better than 99% of the random adults that wander in here... You're on the right path bro. Observe reality, learn, and don't swallow the bullshit. Starting as young as you are means you'll be able to kick ass in high school and college. If I could go back in time, I'd give myself the same advice I'd give you: expect to find yourself desperate to move out around the time you graduate highschool. For one reason or another, you're going to cra…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 01:49 PM
1

What's right from our perspective is to move on with your life, improve yourself, find a better girl, and not to waste time with a girl that clearly is showing signs she is not attracted (regardless of your history, regardless of how bad your oneitis is). No one can make you do anything, if you're set on going against that advice, you'll find support elsewhere.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 12:51 PM
2

"Because this study used just one male and one female model, the results cannot be generalized to perceptions of different men and women without further research...it is not clear how generalizable our results are to other groups, situations, and geographical locations...this study examined perceptions at one point in time, " Their quote (page 6), not mine, although they hit all the points I would. A shit study is shit even if I don't have a better replacement. 1 male subject, 1 female subject, …
/r/askTRP18/08/16 12:48 PM
1

To be told to stop being an asshole and it's all my fault? Moral of the story is, you're a beta bitch with oneitis. You're dead set on being this girl's bitch for the rest of your life. No one here is going to help you accomplish that goal.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 08:25 PM
1

I say "no fat bitches", but I've matched with a fair amount of girls that are fat. Being willing to compromise or make an exception doesn't disprove the preference.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 08:15 PM
1

Do you expect to marry this girl? Spend your lives together, living happily ever after? Is that what you see in the future? Is this the woman you want to bear your children? Is her family the one you want to visit on Christmas? If so, hop on the relationships subreddit, because no one here can help with that endeavor. If not, stop wasting your time and move on.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 08:10 PM
0

That tattoo study is trash... Survey of 74 undergraduate students from a single university, an EXTREMELY narrow sample. They were shown A PHOTOGRAPH of a model and asked to rate it. Not a comparison, not a before and after, just a simple "rate this person". I contest a tattoo can raise your SMV. I contest it's a preferable attribute in the current market. I do not contest that everyone with a tattoo is higher SMV than everyone without one, and this study appears to confirm at least that. Also, k…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 08:04 PM
1

Which brings us back to the original point: "Simply put you cant work on your life and slay pussy when you're slaying imaginary dragons with your level 121 great sword of oblivion. These types of games are a huge time sink which needs to be spent elsewhere." You can say "it's about me", but trust me, you'd be much better off if you improved yourself rather than your ability to play a game. No one will know what LOL is in a few years. You'll be the equivalent of the world's best lawn dart player.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 07:51 PM
1

Even if she's the top 0.1%, the best girl out of a thousand, there's what, 33,000 girls as good or better in the US alone? You fucked up. Learn from your mistakes, don't make them again. Move on. If she wanted you, if she wanted to see you, if she wanted you in her life, you'd already be back in there. The fact that she's resisting every step of the way makes it clear that's not the case. Maybe she's reminiscing, maybe it's nostalgia, maybe she's reveling in the validation that can only come fro…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 07:44 PM
1

Agreed. How many girls have you encountered that perceived you, former pro gamer, as more valuable than your average college educated guy with muscles? You said it yourself, "Did it get me laid? Absolutely not." Even losers get laid. You spent 6 years lowering your value in the market.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 07:23 PM
4

Ever been on a dating app? Girls put what they're looking for. I've never once seen "clean shaven and tattoo free", have you? I've seen hundreds that say "beards and tattoos <3" Your target demographic, your local market, is surely different than the market on average. That's the reason I encourage basing your SMV on results and not some arbitrary guide written by god knows who on the internet.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 07:19 PM
3

The ones the market wants. More specifically, your target market. Go out and do some market research on your target demographic. Observe what works and what fails, refine from there. For example, the stuff that is in demand at a club where $30,000 drink tabs are common, isn't the same stuff that's in demand at a rave on the beach.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 06:43 PM
12

Market is saying that lean is better than fat, muscular is better than skinny, well dressed is better than poorly dressed, tall is better than short, rich is better than broke, smart is better than dumb, funny is better than boring, tan caucasians are better than pale caucasians, and caucasians in general are better than every other color, beards are better than an ugly face, tattoos are better than blank skin, confidence is better than meekness, smelling good is better than stinking. This isn't…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 06:31 PM
0

I'd agree, you did something difficult. But, I'd contest, difficult doesn't mean fruitful. Doesn't mean it's worth it. Value isn't perceived, it's concrete. We all have a worth, and yours would be higher if you pursued a more fruitful endeavor with the same effort and dedication that you did on some video game no one will remember the name of in a few years.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 06:26 PM
7

You played for 6 years, about the time it takes to get a Master's degree, while adding on 50-80lbs of muscle at the gym, setting yourself up for a lifetime of success. While doing that, you can enjoy fucking hundreds of girls and attend thousands of parties where you can refine your social skills and have a ton of fun. Even at minimum wage, that's a few hundred thousand dollars of earnings if you chose to work full time. Did you make a lot of money playing this game? Get sponsorships? Travel the…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 04:17 PM
1

If it bothers you, I'm happy to take her off your hands.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 03:56 PM
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TL:DR; How do I determine my SMV? Sexual Market Value. Market. Say it with me, MARKET. Your value is what the MARKET determines. Get out there and see what the market says. Pick up girls, we already know how to rate them. Your SMV is the average of the girls you close. The market has spoken.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 03:51 PM
1

Something about those shockwaves, the danger, the noise, that gets them all tingly. They instantly hold some sort of respect for someone that can easily do something they struggle and fail at. You get the opportunity to 100% lead them. You're comfortable and at ease, they're nervous as hell and out of their element. Plus, you get about a thousand chances to touch, get close, guide, etc. It's almost too easy. Just, you know, give them the safety talk before you go. They often treat it like a toy,…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 03:15 PM
1

Stop digging through the dump for the scraps of a meal you enjoyed, and go find yourself a new plate to enjoy. At the end of the day, who cares what shit is stuck to your trash at the landfill?
/r/askTRP17/08/16 03:05 PM
10

Approach like you can't lose, because you probably won't, college freshmen are easy for slightly older guys (if you look like a junior/senior, have a car, and can buy drugs/alcohol, they're all yours). Get her name. Ask some dumb questions (not about school). Tell her you're going to a party, ask her if she has plans. When she says no, get her number, invite her out, have some fun, take her home. If she says she doesn't like parties, tell her to come chill and have a few drinks on a different da…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 02:57 PM
2

"Why did you unfollow me on social media?" "You post stupid shit" Problem solved.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 02:53 PM
1

I feel like there is something wrong with me. It's called "being a bitch". You're afraid, plain and simple. I'm not a loser Evidence matters more than your personal perception. Evidence says you're a loser. Great, now that's out of the way, time to discuss fixing it. Stop being a bitch, and you won't be such a loser. Talk to everyone you encounter. Strike up conversations. Crack jokes, make sexual comments, cross those lines you've spent the past 24 years too afraid to cross. You can't stop fear…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 02:49 PM
6

TL;DR: "I'm a kissless virgin orbiter with oneitis, what should I do" You'll get the same advice as everyone else in this situation. Lift. Learn. Approach. Get numbers. Get dates. Escalate. Fuck. Don't waste time on girls that don't want you. This girl doesn't want you, she's keeping you around for validation and you've thoroughly confirmed your orbiter status multiple times. You're not a sexual prospect, or a potential mate.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 02:35 PM
1

Expressing my admiration for someone is the most difficult thing one can do IMO. Most people are pussies. Most people have problems showing affection, opening up, being vulnerable. That's what separates the confident no-fucks-given alphas from the "I care what you think" betas. You irrefutably proved to her which side you're on, while showing her you weren't really interested. Change your mindset. This only ends one of 4 ways. You show your affection, they reciprocate, you're good to go. Even if…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 01:23 PM
1

Why almost all women just look at my face and straight out ignore me ? Same reason they ignore the apple in the fridge and indulge in cheesecake. If you're not the best option available at the time, you're not even worth considering. If you find a girl with no other prospects, or a girl that wants what you've got, she'll of course follow through. We all do it. You know damn well if you got the number of a 8/10 and a 5/10, you'd be talking to the 8/10 and ignoring the 5.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 01:10 PM
4

You have a hobby? Go do that hobby, talk to other people doing the same thing. I mountainbike, you'd be shocked how many people are willing to meet up and go for a ride with a stranger just because the stranger asked them to. Ask them to show you local trails or whatever. Buy em a beer afterwards. As long as you're not a total weirdo, you just made a new friend. I shoot skeet, may not be much of an option in a city, but you never know which dude at the bar is traveling to the range every weekend…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 01:05 PM
2

Girls do 9-12 reps when they want to tone their thighs. You want to build muscle. Lower reps, higher weights, there's a reason 5x5 is so highly recommended.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 01:01 PM
1

"I see what you're doing here, you're just trying to make me jealous! Well it's not going to work, you'll never get in my pants!" Just make it into a big joke with him on the gay end of it. Chances are, the guy with the girl they want, laughing at them, implying they're gay, is enough to get them to break frame. If not, you're the funny guy and they're still the butt of your joke. A&A until they give up.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 12:46 PM
1

Nope, been like this since day one. That was sort of the whole point of Tinder: simple sign up, simple interface, powerful matching algorithm. Sounds like you've declined a point or two these past 2 years.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 12:36 PM
23

I do this all the time. I find it hilarious. Most guys aren't secure in their sexuality. It shuts them down hard to even imply doing something gay.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 08:34 PM
6

Average age of users here is 18-23, newly exposed to RP ideas. This generation does not read, does not study, does not learn, does not search. They ask questions and expect to be served with the answer. That's the moral of the story. They don't bother to see if it's a solution, they don't bother to see if another person asked the same question, they just ask and see what happens.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 08:23 PM
7

Being on a dating site doesn't affect SMV. When is the last time you met a hottie and asked her if she uses dating apps? I sure haven't, nor would I suddenly think she's less hot if she did. Doesn't matter how hot they are, validation is validation. Does she need it to get dates? Nope. Does she want it for validation? Yep. Does she occasionally want a free meal or trip somewhere without having to try? Yep. They're on there, trust me.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 08:15 PM
3

Let me get this straight: You wiped out every last dime of your savings, and just gave it to her, a plate, no strings attached? You continue to take a significant portion of all earnings, and just give it to her? (You imply you pay far more than half the mortgage.) While not busy earning money to give to her, you're busy improving/maintaining her property for her? Finally, you're not on any paperwork? You have no assets, no savings, no share of profit when it's sold? In exchange for mediocre wee…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 08:05 PM
1

Something to remember about introverts- social situations, even 1-on-1, are draining. It's draining to talk to anyone. It's refreshing to be alone. Chances are, she's not "lonely", she's enjoying the quiet. You being quiet is one less person she has to build up the energy to entertain. It's likely a relief. Moral is, play it like any other girl.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 07:06 PM
3

Generally speaking: If she offers an alternative date/time, she's just busy. Work it out. NBD. If she says she's busy and offers no alternative, she's saying "no", but trying to be nice about it. Soft next. (9/10, when she offers no alternative, I just say "ok cool have fun" and forget about it.)
/r/askTRP16/08/16 07:02 PM
67

$5,000 handbags are for the wannabes. She's the type to have the stuff that normal people can't even buy. I bet you a testicle she has a Birkin bag worth more than my car sitting in her closet.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 06:58 PM
12

Is this the part where we all chime in and confirm that dating sites won't let you see the top-tier users unless you're also top-tier? They give you an "internal score", based on who likes/passes on you, and only show matches in your range. No point in teasing a 2/10 neckbeard with a bunch of 8's and 9's they have no chance with, so they serve up the 1-3/10 crowd, the group they might actually be able to get. If all you're getting are 5's and 6's, spoiler alert, you are too.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 06:54 PM
2

I told myself I wouldn't ever drink again after an epic hangover 2 weeks ago (no food, no water, just day drinking in 90+deg heat). I made it like 3 days before drinking again. I felt guilty, a little ashamed, but it was great. Guilty is practically "naughty". Be her guilty pleasure, she's getting off on fucking a guy she promised herself she wouldn't.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 06:41 PM
1

"she can't" or "we can't"? If she can't, because she's on her period/uti/infection/whatever, she's just giving you the heads up because it's clear that you expect it. Deal with it how you choose (personally, I don't mind getting a BJ instead of sex every now and then...) Keep in mind, in this scenario, she knows damn well what the relationship is, and respects you enough to not waste your time. If "we can't", she's either unwilling, about to drop a bomb on you (pregnant, breaking up, recently ra…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 06:24 PM
8

Once in a while, I see a happy and married man. I ask "girlfriend, mistress, or both?" Usually, it's both. ("happily married" isn't the same thing as "happy and married")
/r/askTRP16/08/16 06:09 PM
1

To add on, I'd much rather have a threesome with the battery powered BF than the ex-BF. Some of the best sex I've ever had, a toy was in the mix.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:58 PM
1

If a girl claims not to fuck guys, and never masturbates, I next their lying ass on the spot. Bull fucking shit. If I found out my unicorn was spending time with her boyfriend with batteries while reading erotica instead of getting pounded out by every Chad that asks for her number, that's sort of the best case scenario.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:10 PM
2

It takes about 10 minutes for her to end up coming back to the restaurant so that we can go home. I would have been 10 minutes away by then. Bye Felicia. This is the part where you say she lives with you, it isn't that easy, blah blah blah, and I say "yes it fucking is that easy, it's actually easier than the bullshit you're dealing with". Kick her out, break it off, find yourself one that isn't crazy or a bitch.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:04 PM
1

Some girls are just more comfortable in a ball than sprawled out. If she's turning her back, making distance, putting up barriers (ex: pillows, pets, food), or seeking corners, it's a bad sign. If she's open to you, close, cuddly, she probably is just a girl that is more comfortable in a ball.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:00 PM
1

Still in the average ballpark, still enough to hit the g-spot, nothing much to worry about. Who you are, what you look like, your foreplay, the mood you can create, is what makes a girl want to have sex with you. A big dick might make that all ez-mode, but it doesn't mean you won't have girls dripping wet and begging for you if you play your cards right. I mean, after all, when is the last time you decided which girl you want to fuck based on how tight her pussy is? Were you less excited to fuck…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:56 PM
2

they haven't made effort to reschedule. They're cancelling. Anyone interested who has something come up will offer an alternative time. If they don't, it's because they're just making an excuse to cancel. The fact that they make the date in the first place implies that it's some sort of post-commitment change. They changed their mind for some reason. If you continue to text after the date is sent, you might be shooting yourself in the foot. If your online presence is off-putting (guarantee these…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:51 PM
1

56 hours. No more, no less. I set an alarm so I don't forget. /s On a real note, text her the next day or the day after, set a date for a day or two in the future, 3 tops. Anything more gives too many opportunities for something better to come along or for her to forget about you. Just don't text immediately, or start one of those 1000 message conversations prior to your first meet. Nothing kills the vibe like having nothing to talk about because you already did it all in texts.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:40 PM
3

IMO, if you get their number, that's your sign to make an exit. No reason to come back. On the first meet, coming back after an hour and a half of ignoring them and picking up where you left off, without being aware of who they are now talking to, what mood they're in, is a recipe for disaster. Re-open, give them the obvious opportunity to pick up where you left off, and see if that doesn't change your results. Might just be a simple case of context or coming on too strong.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:36 PM
4

You know which friends you can trust. You know the extent you can trust your girl. Your cousin knows this is within the limits. Wife isn't going to screw around at the fundraiser, and his friend isn't the type to betray him. Friend is no threat, there's no issue, nothing to be concerned about. I've done some stuff that would be WAY over the line if it wasn't pre-approved, but it's no biggie because we're all up-front about it. EX: Recently filled in at a couples massage because my buddy was stuc…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:32 PM
2

Not enough information to say. Got real numbers, they answered, so I'd assume your opening, appearance, and in-person presentation is acceptable. Perhaps it's coincidence? Any of them reschedule, or are they straight up cancellations? Are you texting them a lot? Not at all? Just a bit? How long of a time gap are you leaving before the date? A day or two? A week? (IMO, a day or two is a solid plan, a week or two leaves too much time for something better to come up.) You have sketchy social media …
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:16 PM
2

You have things a bit backwards. People don't flock to popular people with the hopes of engaging. Most people are perfectly happy not engaging others. Most people can't tell who is popular before they engage with them anyway. Popular people engage others. They create the flock. You're not being shut out of the club, you just have to create your own. That's what they're doing.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:00 PM
9

You forget how much attention this got the girl. She got out from his rules, and got a ton of attention she wasn't getting previously. It's sad, but it's that simple.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 12:51 PM
1

When it all comes together and you realize how to twist it to your advantage, it's hard to be bitter. It is the way it is. You'll go out in the world and see proof of what we discuss all around you. No longer is it a mystery why Girl X chose Guy Y, you'll be able to take one look and decipher the truth. Which means you can create your own truth. That day you finally put it all to work, finally use it successfully, and wake up next to some girl you only bagged because of what you've learned, a gi…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 12:30 PM
1

You probably have some sort of alpha widow on your hands. She's noticing you do the things that the guy that broke her heart did. She's attracted to you because of it (AWALT), but knows it's a sign that this will likely end the same way as the other. The "give me time" was a comfort and shit test. You comforted her, but failed the shit test, as letting her take time implies that you also want to "take this seriously", make it into a relationship. Figure out what you want, as she's clearly maneuv…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 12:26 PM
1

It works because it's douchey and unexpected (especially to a hot girl that thinks any man should be lucky just to have the opportunity to be bumped by her). It catches them off guard, puts them on defense, and they know they can't apologize their way out of it. You'd be shocked how many offer to "make it up to you" with their number or a drink. I say it "matter of fact", no anger or disgust, as if it's a life tip. Like "Don't stick your dick in a light socket" or "swim perpendicular to a rip ti…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 12:16 PM
3

That one degree of separation gives you the plausible deniability to keep the relationship drama out of your home life. If there's a line that shouldn't be crossed, that's where I'd draw it. Besides, play your cards right, you might get to bang a handful of her friends instead of just her.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 07:17 PM
5

Plates know there's other plates. You don't throw it in their face, you don't talk about it, but it's known they're not the only one. In those situations, it's dread. Even more so if she knows the girl is high value, or at least, higher value than she is. She'll throw a fit, but some radio silence will more than likely have her apologizing and trying harder than ever. Plated a girl by pretending to be gf/bf? Lied about seeing other people? Implied she's the only one? Implied it's exclusive? Well…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 07:14 PM
22

At bars they bump into you and still stand there expecting something but they don't initiate conversation. I get a lot of girls that happen to bump into me one way or another (multiple girls, every time I go out). Most of them look up and say "I'm sorry", the rest are silent. Not "excuse me" or "oops" or "watch where the fuck you're going asshole". Sorry, or just a meek look, is all they give. Didn't happen before I got hot. If I got bumped, it was because "I was in their way". No pausing. Never…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 07:07 PM
10

A big part of "don't shit where you eat" is to avoid the drama that comes from being stuck seeing your cum rag walking around on a daily basis. Random slut? Don't call, she's as good as gone. She's not going out of her way to get into your office or home. Gone is gone, problem solved, free to move on. Don't fuck your room mate. Don't fuck people you work with. IMO, a neighbor is close enough, especially if they don't seem to be the "drama free hookup" type. You already know that BF is going to b…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 06:46 PM
1

Noob gains are easy gains. You've doubled your strength in 2.5 months, congrats. Step up to 5x5's to help get over the plateau. Might have to go down in weight initially. Stick with it. This is when it gets tough, this is when the men are separated from the boys. Before you know it, you'll double your weights again.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 05:00 PM
-1

We are an extremely small sect of males. We're not even one thousandth of a percent of the world. To think this type of thinking has any effect on the large scale is laughable. How many guys have you seen out there with multiple kids, multiple baby mommas, who are beta bitches? I never have. They're always some sort of Chad. It's the alphas of the world out there spreading their seed. Just because we take advantage of it to get more girls doesn't mean there aren't 1000 times as many natural alph…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 04:38 PM
1

But muh wage gap! They cite that 77% figure from a 2003 Stanford research project. There's a reason they never cite sources, it doesn't say what they claim it says... Moral is, they compared ALL Full-Time workers (tax data from US Gov't), not position-to-position, or industry-to-industry. Nothing implies that equal positions don't get equal pay. They excluded non-full-time workers, and corrected wages for >40 hour workers. It's noted a few times that men work more hours, on average. The average …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 04:14 PM
2

Some girls just suck. Some girls you just won't click with. I met a HB8 on 4th of July that had a voice that grated my ears (think "The Nanny") and an attitude that turned me off in a second - sexy and she knew it, so she expected to be treated like a princess. Hot body, tan, nice face, clearly out for atention (dressed like a slut, took half of it off as soon as it got dark, made it clear she was so drunk someone has to take her home), but every word out of her mouth made me cringe. She had a l…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 03:07 PM
1

I shoot stuff. Shooting stuff is amazing therapy. Get a gun, go to a range, make things explode with your bullets. You won't give a fuck any more. When that's not an option, I just exhaust myself physically, whether at the gym or outside (running, biking, boxing, landscaping, whatever.) Hard to be stressed when you can't lift your arms.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:21 PM
1

Almost everytime i go out, a girl approaches me. Flirt, you dumbass. Recognize their interest, their signs, their body language. Realize what's going on. Be aware of it. When they approach, when they flirt, reciprocate. Before you know it, you'll just naturally flirt with girls giving you IOI's, whether they approached or not.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:17 PM
2

If I told you that you could lay in your room, play with your dick, and make hundreds of dollars a day, get free gifts, compliments, and have tons of girls want to fuck you, would you say no? How are these girls, so reliant on validation, supposed to resist? It's 2016, they can cam from a cellphone now. Every girl can do it if they want. Expect to find more and more doing it.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:03 PM
7

An example...last night she was the perfect slut in bed. If you were to use a text meme the next day what would it be? Maybe something to reward her good behavior? You reward good behavior quickly and personally. Give her extra attention. Give her compliments. Make her feel awesome for being awesome. Reinforce the good behavior. If you wait till the next day, it loses it's power. If it's just another text meme, it loses all impact. Be something she can't find in a picture on the internet.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 12:59 PM
1

Ignore the thought and put any safety in place I can. Most sexually active people are getting tested and at least somewhat aware of their situation, and most of those won't knowingly spread something. Look at it this way, you've eaten eggs, right? Eggs that came out of some chicken's shit covered cloaca? Handled by some Mexican workers that definitely didn't wash their hands after whacking off that morning or taking a shit, let alone, shoveling a half ton of chicken feces? Moral is, that bitch t…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 12:55 PM
0

Serious question though. This weekend's drunk hookup didn't shave, now I have some pube friction burn on the side of my shaft and a plate I haven't seen in days coming over tonight. Gotta perform, but it stings bad enough to kill an erection.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 12:43 PM
1

I've had a few girls threaten or hint at suicide over a breakup, or for doing something (like "I'll kill myself if you cheat and you'll know it was all your fault".) I've had a lot of friends experience it too. I've heard a lot of stories. It's very common. It's basically the nuclear option for girls that aren't ready to get knocked up. Never once have I heard a story of it happening. I haven't even seen a news article or an internet anecdote. Cut it off ASAP, radio silence, hard next, restraini…
/r/askTRP12/08/16 08:07 PM
1

Lower you standards. Raise your value. Improve your game. Be aware of signals (IOI), body language, flirting. Learn to recognize it. This isn't rocket science.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 07:53 PM
1

I'm sure she did. She's not much of a looker (even after losing some weight) and is around him 24/7. When she's not around, he knows exactly where she is, so he feels he can trust her. Moral is, he knows she's at the bar, he doesn't know she's sucking cock in the parking lot between drinks.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 07:50 PM
1

I don't understand this part. Is it in relation to the previous line, or the next one? In relation to "but it doesn't have to be every man for himself." Doesn't have to be, but it is, and that's all that matters. why the hell not. For the same reason girls won't fuck nice guys. That's just not the way things work.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 07:47 PM
1

Seeking validation from others is a bad thing. I don't care what it should be, what it can be, what it does or doesn't have to be. All I care about is what it actually is. Reality is, it's every man for themselves. Sure, we can all hold hands and sing kumbaya, but the reality is, that's never gonna happen.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 07:30 PM
1

We're all in this together is how I see it. You're wrong. Everyone is in it for themselves. Open your eyes. These people aren't randoms, they're my friends. They're not you, so they're "other people." My point still stands. You're fishing for validation from others, and that's pathetic. Rationalize it however you want, but that's the reality.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 07:10 PM
1

You're correct on all points. The stuff you learn here, the improvements you make, will increase the success ratio. Then again, the guy that closes 2% and approaches 100 girls, will have more success than the guy that closes 5% and approaches 20 girls. It's normal to feel something when you are "defeated", but the reality is, all they've done is prevent you from wasting your time. Laugh it off, get the next one's number, it not even worth dwelling on.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 06:47 PM
1

On your way out, find her, and tell her she should come grab coffee/dinner/drinks with you. "I'm going to XYZ bar tonight, you should stop by when you get off your shift, what's your number?" or something similar. Don't hover. Don't interrupt. Don't physically trap/block her. Don't make it awkward (smirk, and offer no resistance if she doesn't want to, just tell her to have a great night and go on your way). Don't explain, don't compliment, don't tell a story. Make it subtle, make it low key, ma…
/r/askTRP12/08/16 06:40 PM
1

It varies for everyone. It varies by geography. It varies by time of year. It varies by context. Bar/club, I don't even try for numbers, just trying to take them home. Heck, I don't even get their full name half the time. I'll get that afterwards if I want to see them again. Day game, non-drunk events, if 10% of opens turn into a date, I'd consider that to be successful. It's a game of numbers at some point. I've had nights where I approach 30 or 40 girls and strike out every time. I've had nigh…
/r/askTRP12/08/16 06:14 PM
1

It's great to be excited about what you're doing, what you're going to do, and what you've accomplished. Using those things to fish for validation from others is pretty pathetic. Do you, be awesome, don't expect anyone else to give a fuck. Generally speaking, no one cares about anyone but themselves.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 06:03 PM
1

Sounds like you spend a whole lot of time staring at other men's cocks... Just go on FetLife and find a girl to piss on you if you're so obsessed with it.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:44 PM
21

This is the part where we tell you not to stick your pen in company ink, not to shit where you eat, etc. You did this to yourself. You're putting the idea in her head, telling her you've already done these exciting and naughty things. There's no reason in the world you'd ever reveal that if you weren't trying to fuck her (in her mind, anyway). She's going to make advances, you're going to have to confront her and put her in her place. Don't let this shit get out of hand.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 01:28 PM
3

Personally, I think it usually looks silly. Begging for attention, flaunting, etc. Not to mention, as someone that's really into watches and knows way more than I should about metallurgy and gems, most of it is blatantly fake shit or cheap crap. Can't tell you how much knockoff stuff is floating around. I wear a watch, that's about it. I have expensive ones, but when I'm out gaming girls or having fun, a cheap one is on my wrist. I don't want to get a girl because there's a Rolex on my wrist and…
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:11 PM
2

There's no bigger validation for a girl than getting back a man she lost. Well, not actually dating, just getting him in that position. She had no intent to do anything with you, just was drunk and wanted the validation. In her mind, you've been looking for her replacement for months, and can't find one. She's so good, you can't do better, and you just confirmed that to her. She's so good, she replaced you easily. Further, now she put that thought in your head and is fucking with your game. This…
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:05 PM
2

Ex 1: saying "IDGAF" shows you give a fuck. Should have just shut up and been pleasantly surprised when she showed, rather than sending the message of "I'm an overly defensive asshole" Ex 2: "My phone works all night", then silence. De-legitimize the excuse. Make it a joke. Ex 3: Just wait a day or two and message her phone with specifics. If she says no, move on.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:01 PM
2

Mushroom Stamps for everyone!
/r/askTRP12/08/16 12:51 PM
1

G-spot orgasms. Tell her to do it. Find a girl that just does it. Nothing to do with the dick, unless it's too short to hit the g-spot. Personally, I've found a few girls that got ridiculously wet, like puddle on the sheets wet, but I haven't ever had a girl piss my bed like you'll see in all those weird fetish pornos you seem to be so fond of.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 12:50 PM
8

I had something similar happen. Slut I went to highschool with (true slut, kind of girl to suck off 3 guys at once) got fat near the end and stopped getting so much fun. She settled for some equally fat beta dude who has no friends, so he dedicates his life to her 24/7. He proposed, of course. My buddy saw her out at the bar, made some comment about how everyone is getting married, fat, and happy. She ended up texting him weight loss pictures, then gave some head in his truck next time they saw …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 12:46 PM
1

Sure. Heading out for the day, don't be surprised if I don't get back till tomorrow.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 08:49 PM
1

Many people are liars or wrong. It's piss. 100% piss. Bladder>urethra>your bed. Girl juice is just blood plasma. It comes from the vaginal walls, not a gland. Yes, you can get a girl super wet. Yes, good sex can make her even more wet. That fucking sprinkler you see squirting across the room from her pussy is pure pissing. Don't believe everything you read on Wikipedia...
/r/askTRP11/08/16 08:47 PM
-1

Happy relationship? Almost guaranteed to find one if you want one. Being that picky, standards that high? Good luck.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 08:39 PM
1

Nope. It's all "just in time". They warehouse everything. I just get invoiced for whatever they ship. If I sell 1 item, or 1000, doesn't matter. Just had a case where they shipped out the wrong item. They ate the whole cost of re-shipping the correct one and returning the wrong one. Very low risk to me.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 08:02 PM
5

Post college? Yes. Unless you're amazing in bed, or a 10/10 to her, you're not getting a girl that has spent the last decade denying every guy she's encountered.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 07:59 PM
3

I think you need a reality check... If they're the type to deny literally thousands of men, what makes you think you're the one they'd choose? I mean, are you a sex god? Ruler of a country? A celebrity? Rich beyond belief? 10/10 male model?
/r/askTRP11/08/16 07:50 PM
52

Family friend of mine was married with 3 kids. Lost his job over winter, hasn't found a new one. Between then and now, wife suddenly lost all the "baby weight" she's been carrying around for the past decade. Went from "I don't even know what phone I have" to having it glued to her hands 24/7. Guess who just got handed divorce paperwork?
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 07:37 PM
5

Haven't met a virgin since highschool. There's some low-count girls out there, but they're few and far between, and often have a low count for a reason...
/r/askTRP11/08/16 07:31 PM
2

I hope I'm not raining on your parade, but there's no such thing as "squirting". Those girls are just pissing while having an orgasm. Or, faking an orgasm. Either way. If you give a proper g-spot orgasm, the urge to piss can be intense, and some girls can't keep it in. Doggie style, pull their shoulders back so they're closer to vertical, you'll poke them in their g-spot. You can do it if you put a pillow under their hips in missionary position as well (you have to get your hips below theirs so …
/r/askTRP11/08/16 07:28 PM
1

I've never seen a cuck video in my life. I don't think that genre even existed when I was still watching porn... Believe it or not, some of us here get laid pretty regularly.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 06:28 PM
1

I'm in the same ballpark as you. Girls under about 5'4", I seem to run into issues. I've had quite a few make me stop when I change position and just go too deep. Tall girls, rarely have an issue. Some girls seem to just have more room regardless of height. Keep in mind, it's a "volume" not "length" issue. You might have more leeway with less girth. in interracial videos it never is Watch their hands, they'll put their palm on the guy's leg and set his depth. Some girls have the room for it all …
/r/askTRP11/08/16 06:05 PM
2

Never asked, never cared. I don't even bring it up jokingly. Question usually answers itself soon enough. Girls with low count will volunteer that, and it's usually pretty obvious by the way they act/perform that they haven't had a lot of men.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 05:52 PM
1

Want just to do what's right from my side and don't show beta features to her. That's the soft next that was suggested. No anger, no emotion, "ok, no problem" and then silence. She WILL reach back out if she wants to see you. She WILL reach back out if she was legitimately sick. You'll never hear from her again if she was just making an excuse. Nothing you say will make her want you, but you can certainly say something to drive her away, your best option is to just sit back and chase other girls…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 03:18 PM
2

You're above average. Nothing to worry about. Be careful with the short girls. 7.5 is enough to stab them in the cervix and have them make you stop (especially in certain positions, like when their ankles are on your shoulders and you're on top.)
/r/askTRP11/08/16 03:15 PM
1

I talk to anyone who catches my eye, anyone who looks halfway interesting, anyone who gives me an IOI and doesn't disgust me. Guy, girl, whatever. Flirt with basically every girl I meet, whether I have intentions to fuck or not. If it turns to a hookup, a date, a free drink, so be it. If not, oh well. The hotties are always in the mix, but in my area at least, they're very aware of guys that just approach the hot girls. It's a recipe for disaster unless you're top 1%. Have fun with everyone arou…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 03:10 PM
1

Hate? No, of course not. That's like hating a dog because they bark and chase sticks. Accept as a reality and do everything in my power to turn it in my favor? Absolutely.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 03:04 PM
3

In psychology, it's called "cognitive dissonance", two or more conflicting ideas competing in your head. People need a way to resolve this competition, so, they choose a side based on other factors (what others agree on, what agrees with what they've experienced, what agrees with what they accept as fact, what they've believed up to that point, aka "faith"). We're the people who are accepting what we see, what we experience, as truth. They're the ones accepting what they have been told, taught, …
/r/askTRP11/08/16 02:18 PM
2

"Don't go saying that to other girls who you like." She knows you like her. She likes you too. Set something up, strike while the iron is hot.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 02:08 PM
1

Setting it up is the biggest hassle. Maintenance is a cinch. Order processing is cake. Collecting the cash is basically automatic. Websites have a "Return Authorization" link. They give their info and order number, and the reason for return (size change, exchange, refund, etc). Sends an e-mail request to me, and I forward to the dropshipper, who takes care of it for me. Most I have to do is authorize the refund after the package is confirmed received. If it's an exchange, they handle everything …
/r/askTRP11/08/16 01:58 PM
1

You certainly can. I know I've been hired for just that in the past (sorry, but my hands are currently full). Keep in mind, even the easiest deployment from square one to working, will take about 20 hours. A fully custom site can easily suck up 1000 hours (hell, it took me 20 hours just to get the FedEx/UPS API integrated into my last site's checkout so I had accurate quotes, and I probably spent another 20 just taking the pictures, not counting the editing/naming/uploading/linking). 1000 hours=…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 06:58 PM
2

Initial investment is mostly my time. I have a wide set of skills, I can do everything from the coding to editing the pictures and designing the layout by myself. Not easy, not for everyone, took me about 15 years to get good enough to pull off sites by myself. Sites take me 200-1000 hours of time, depending on how far I'm going. I can bust one out in about 20-40 if I just re-skin a cart and drop in stock photos, but I've found that the custom photos and layout make a big difference in profitabi…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 06:48 PM
2

Research. That's the only real answer I can give. He tracked down some Chinese manufacturers that make what are essentially unbranded knockoffs. They engrave/sticker/etch/print his logo into the product, and ship it out. He literally has his own brands. If you're just starting, Alibaba/Aliexpress has a dropshipper category. Anything you want, from hair extensions, to cellphone cases, to jewelry is available. Many will brand/package it as you request. We know this is Chinese shit, it looks like i…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 05:51 PM
4

there is one girl I work with Don't shit where you eat/don't stick your pen in company ink This is Adult Life 101. Pay your bills, shower regularly, wear clean clothes, don't smoke meth, don't fuck coworkers.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 05:21 PM
7

A friend of mine is known to have a really small dick. He brags about how big it is any chance he gets. We all play along, and confirm how small we are (sarcastically). Occasionally, he gets drunk and naked. Everyone has seen what he's working with. He's proud as hell though. The reason I tell you this: no girl has broken his ego yet, none have slapped him with a reality check and informed him that he is, in fact, tiny. No girl has laughed in his face. No girl saw what he has and denied him. Sur…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 05:14 PM
4

Drop ship. Find an industry you know, find suppliers that drop ship, set up an account. Build a site that lists the products at MSRP or a competitive price. Do some SEO, get it listed on Google, and expand the brand. Orders come in, you e-mail the distributor, they ship it out white label, and send you tracking with their invoice. You forward tracking, pay their invoice, keep the difference. I have a few sites that cost me <$250/year to maintain, suck up ~2 hours a week in time, and profit $500-…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 04:56 PM
1

There's only one thing that matters in life. Happiness. Get as much happiness in before you die. If having sex with beautiful women makes you happy, well get out there and do it. IMO, the entire process around attraction/dating/sex (working out, socializing, improving myself, meeting people, seduction, success) brings me more happiness than something like collecting stamps or watching youtube videos ever could.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 02:47 PM
1

Fucking/casual sex isn't a relationship. It's a fling. It's a thing. It's fun. Nothing more. You're right, without having this in your life, you're missing out.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 01:59 PM
1

I can talk myself out of fights at this point, haven't had a real one in nearly a decade. I'm too old for that shit. Fought quite a bit in highschool. Got my ass kicked a few times (once very badly, 10v1, stole one of their girls...), kicked a few asses, I'm not afraid of a fight, but I'd avoid it if I can. 100% of the time, I carry a knife. Even in my swim trunks at a pool party, there's a knife on me. (I have one with a bottle opener.) Best advice I have for a fight is to wrap their hips, lift…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 01:01 PM
1

I'm not seeing how to do this in a way where I wont get fucked over for the rest of my life. Get a good lawyer. The best you can afford. An extra few thousand now is worth the tens of thousands you'll save over the next 17 years. Even better if you're in a position to take residential custody, as there's a decent chance that results in her paying you. Having a kid does nothing to your hookup game. That's especially true if she has the kid (even if it's just for the weekend, out of sight, out of …
/r/askTRP10/08/16 12:41 PM
1

Hows your demeanor? Do you have a quiet or high pitched voice? Does your walking stride leave you floating down the hall like a fairy? Do you have the posture of a teddy bear (shoulders forward, head down)? Are you afraid of stuff? It's amazing what just changing your body language can do. Cross your arms, lift your head, walk with your shoulders back. Speak from the diaphragm. Talk less. Don't giggle. Act like nothing bothers you.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 12:35 PM
3

Consider it a learning experience and move on. Social pressures mean that people accept more than you'd think. Ever watch a show like Impractical Jokers or even Jackass and see how far you can push a random person before they act out? Anyone who isn't disgusted/scared of you will let you have some contact. The awkwardness of stopping you, and the implications of that, is greater than the awkwardness of just letting it happen. Going for the kiss crossed a line, and she didn't allow it. Socially, …
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:53 PM
1

Pretty much. Keep them on their toes. Switch it up. Have fun. If every Friday becomes "dinner and a movie night", she's bound to switch it up for "clubs with the girls and Chad" eventually.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:42 PM
4

I'll never be with someone who looks better then her, it's impossible. Bull fucking shit. If she wasted 4 years with you, in her prime, no way in hell she's the hottest girl on the planet. I don't mean that as an insult, just a reality check. Improve yourself, your options improve. You can get girls you had no chance with when you were with her. I guarantee there's better fucks. I guarantee there's girls that are more fun. I guarantee there's hotter girls. I guarantee there's a bunch out there t…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:35 PM
7

Not answering you directly, still sending snaps, she sees you as an orbiter. You're not worth interacting with, but she'd still like your validation. Move on.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:28 PM
1

Unfortunately, if you're someone who just doesn't take joy in anything the world has to offer, there is not much I can do to assist.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:23 PM
92

Google the guy's name. "Rugby star accused of rape left girl feeling she had been 'bucked and ..." "Professional rugby player Zach Kibirige accused of raping a woman ..." "Newcastle Falcons' Zach Kibirige 'raped girl he met on Tinder' court ..." "England rugby player Zach Kibirige 'raped a woman after they met on ..." "Rugby star accused of raping Tinder date says she was angry he - Mirror" "Newcastle Falcons rugby star Zach Kibirige 'raped woman several ..." These are the full headlines, nothin…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 04:20 PM
4

Don't forget "confirmation bias" and confusing correlation with causation. They go out expecting these things to work, and occasionally, they do. Confirmation bias makes them think it's a successful tactic. Reality may be that those successes were inevitable, but they scared off dozens of potentials that were on the fence. What they're doing might be the worse possible tactic, but it works here and there because ANYTHING they do would work. Correlation for causation is a similar line, just becau…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 03:55 PM
1

Is there nothing in life you enjoy? Does bringing home a hot girl put a smile on your face? Do you get happy when your paycheck hits your bank account? Do you feel joy when winning a sport/game/competition?
/r/askTRP09/08/16 03:34 PM
1

I'm not loud, I'm not hectic, I'm a pretty laid back and quiet guy. Many people with strong game are equally reserved, not everyone is a "peacock". I'm confident, I'm a smartass, and there's almost always a smile on my face. I'm always enjoying myself. That matters more than being loud and flashy. You're right, most people do nothing in their free time, I've talked with thousands of people I'd never want to hang out with in order to find a few that I want to be around. Moral is, you can't tell w…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 02:55 PM
2

No. Who cares? If it's not costing you time, money, or pussy, why does it matter?
/r/askTRP09/08/16 02:47 PM
1

I have a lot to do in my "free" time (hobbies, chores, etc). Reading gets scheduled in, just like everything else. I wouldn't get shit done if I didn't dedicate a time block to it.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 02:46 PM
1

The short answer is, no one is interested in anyone besides themselves, unless they're given a reason. So, provide a reason. Open a conversation. Form a connection. Tell some stories. Listen to theirs. Learn about them. It's far better than sitting around alone staring at your drink. You might learn something. You might land a client. You might land a date. You might get a hookup at a club, or a spa, or a new car. You might just waste some time and get some old guy to buy you a drink for making …
/r/askTRP09/08/16 02:09 PM
5

Going dark is the "hard next", where you don't respond, you totally ignore. That's a pretty shitty thing to do to a good woman, especially if you led them on to thinking you had a relationship. But, it's totally appropriate/necessary in certain situations. Soft next is where you just stop putting in the effort. You don't ignore her, you respond and chat and stay friendly. You don't reach out, you don't invite her places, you don't agree to meet. You just drift apart. At some point, she'll likely…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:46 PM
1

If you're a sex god, girls will flock to you on gossip alone. Clearly, that's not the case. I'm not saying you're bad in bed, I'm saying you're less than amazing. I'm not sure where you get this idea of being a clown, all you have to do is be a good enough person that people want to be around you. Be a decent and social human. Make people comfortable around you. Interact, have a good time, have some fun. I understand that is a challenge for you. I'd like to help more, but honestly, you send off …
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:40 PM
1

Don't worry about what other dudes are doing. Worry about you. Greek life is big on campus? Go pledge. Worth the few weeks of shitty life for a few years of fun. You're not in good shape? I know there's a gym on campus, and it's probably free or very cheap for students. Get your ass in there. You don't just show up to college with social status, it's earned. You haven't earned shit yet, but that doesn't mean you can't change that. You just have a delayed start, nbd.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:32 PM
6

That's the girl's way of saying "thanks, but no thanks". Just because she'll tolerate you touching her, doesn't mean she wants you. I'm assuming she didn't return the kino, right? On to the next girl, don't waste time on a girl that isn't interested.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:27 PM
1

Why women should fuck with me? Because there are dudes below my level getting fucked Logical fallacy right there. Those guys are clearly ABOVE your level if they're getting laid and you're not. Evidence matters more than your opinion. Take a good look in the mirror buddy. You think highly of yourself, but readily admit you don't care to converse with anyone, don't want to make others happy, and just want to walk up to girls and say "I like you, lets fuck" and have it work. World doesn't work tha…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:22 PM
1

What she means is "you could have texted me if you wanted to hear from me, you didn't, so I assumed you wanted nothing to do with me" Doesn't show anything, other than the fact that she's not interested enough in you to reach out or show up to a fucking date. Stop wasting your time. There's a reason you didn't bother contacting her for an entire month, don't make the same mistake.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:17 PM
2

after being with this woman for over 3 months...never discussed monogamy You facebook official? Meet eachother's parents? Shared "I love you's"? She move in? Are you financially interdependent? If yes, have a breakup talk. If not, just stop reaching out, just stop being available, drift away.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:13 PM
1

Unfortunately, you just have to step back and ensure you don't go down with them. Put up a wall, draw your line, and live your life the best you can. You can't change someone, they have to want to change themselves. Be there for him if he snaps out of it, but chances are, he never will.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:08 PM
10

I've roomed with women and it's always been some sort of issue. Then again, of the dozen or so guys I've roomed with over the years, there's always been some sort of issue.... Find someone who gives you the "I don't care what you do as long as you don't break anything or wake me up when I have work in the morning", and the place is kept clean. Outside of that, the rest is a crap shoot.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 12:44 PM
3

I'm born and raised in 'murica. It's just a fact, like how we're all fat.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 12:23 PM
1

If it's patchy, keep it shaved clean. If it's full, keep it trimmed and clean. If you don't want it, keep it shaved clean. Personally, I look like a mountain man (in a bad way) with a long beard. I shave the neck and cheeks, trim the rest to a 2, and enjoy something between "long stubble" and "full beard"
/r/askTRP08/08/16 07:11 PM
2

She just wants to google you, why so defensive? But, now that you started the game, you better win. Stick to your word, tell her at the date, or never, whatever. There's a few million more waiting to get swiped right.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 07:04 PM
2

Pre-nups aren't worth the paper they're printed on. Good lawyer can get them thrown out entirely. There's been a few high profile examples of it happening. Like this one posted here about a year ago. What's notable about that one is that not only did she win millions she wasn't entitled to, but she used the money to found a "divorce prep school" where she teaches other women how to divorce rape their man too. TL:DR; Rape is illegal, but there's still rapists. Pre-nup might put the law on your si…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 07:01 PM
-8

You're on the right continent, so you're doing better than most!
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 06:42 PM
9

90% of americans can't find Afghanistan on a map (Nat'l Geographic, May 2, 2006 survey). Not the globe, not a world map, just a map of Asia... Trust me, even if you exclude Alabama, most can't find Zimbabwe.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 06:13 PM
3

Pretty much, yes. Any opener is a good opener if they're attracted.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 05:46 PM
79

Don't forget there's a lot of Americans on this sub. Quite the assumption that they know where Zimbabwe is.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 04:56 PM
1

You'll pass 100 decent girls on the way to grab your morning bagel. No worries if you're not at the clubs if your day game is good. If you're a night owl, easy pickings if you run into girls on the way home from bars/clubs. Just ask where they're coming from or going.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 04:51 PM
5

"Giving" rights are easy, "taking" rights are damn near impossible. Today, women have been given the "right" to divorce (legally allowed to request it), the "right" to continue their lifestyle after the divorce (alimony/child support), and the "right" to continue to have access to what they had while married (50% of your shit). Taking that away is going to be a hell of a battle, drenched in "OMG misogynist pigs trying to suppress women's rights" from a very vocal feminist/SJW movement. They'll i…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 04:34 PM
10

You can just ride the wave, or you can take a risk knowing it's going to end soon regardless. "We can't keep doing this if you're catching feelings and want to be exclusive." That's it. Nothing more. Shut up and let her spin. Pretty effective over text. If you deliver it in-person, say it like you're disappointed it has to end. She might walk, but this at least has the chance of knocking her back in line.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 03:38 PM
1

Will you have fun? Yea. Will you smile? Yea. Will it bring your soul happiness and change your life? Nope. The fun I have with the girls I meet is totally worth it. The fun times make me happy, happier than I would have been sitting on the couch watching TV. The sex is just part of that, and by itself, doesn't mean much. When it comes to an actual relationship, that usually brings the opposite of happiness... The most down I've ever been, the most down I've seen friends, is when they're in a rel…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 03:30 PM
4

Im hanging out with them because I like them This is a "duh" statement. If you didn't like them, you wouldn't be hanging out with them, and they know it. This doesn't even register. I don't NEED them for sex. That fucking registers. That hits them like a ton of bricks. That's what is causing the change. They assumed "all this guy can think about is fucking this hot piece of ass" and you smack them with "I'm just hanging with you for fun". Reassuring them it's NBD, changing the subject, is just t…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 03:24 PM
9

When it's in your head that you're not whacking off and you'll only orgasm if you get laid, that's the motivation a lot of guys need to get out there and get laid. IMO, that's the biggest benefit, getting you horny and desperate enough to finally come out of your comfort zone.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 03:07 PM
3

NYC is full of hot women. You can swing around the whole city pretty quickly/easily, especially if you learn how to bike around. Subways can get you anywhere in a few minutes. Tens of thousands of new girls come and go every day. Other countries. Other states. Other towns and cities. Easy pickings. Swing by touristy locations (Times Square, the ferry to Statue of Liberty, Central Park, MSG) if you're looking to pick up a visitor for a ONS. I wanna know what there is to do Well, there's a ton of …
/r/askTRP08/08/16 02:56 PM
1

My dad told me that 3 times in my life, then again, we've only really had 3 discussions on the topic: When he divorced my mom. When he divorced my step mom. Before he proposed to #3. Do as he says, I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 02:52 PM
3

Real life example: Met a friend's new girl, I asked "well how did you guys meet?" She said "I was getting dinner, he just came up to me and my friend, sat down at the table, asked what we were doing tonight, invited me to a party, and asked for my number". Can you imagine some ugly guy going up to a table with two random pretty girls and sitting down? Creep-o-meter off the charts. "No touching" is a big one. When there's attraction, touching (kino) is expected and welcome. When there's no attrac…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 02:46 PM
1

I never deleted my account (I market on facebook and use it to manage multiple profiles), but I have stopped using it. No posts in over 2 years, only log on to check business stuff, 1-2x/month. I'm not a teenager, I'm not in college, the game changes drastically when you start getting older and social media in general is just a time waster. Unanticipated upside: 100% of everything tied to me in the past 2 years is girls uploading pictures with me and tagging me. Guys don't care, girls do it reli…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 02:33 PM
9

Reminds me of a recent shit show in my social group. Buddy was dating a hb8 from a rich family. He got bored of her, broke up, started dating other girls. She started seeing his best friend (broke ass low-grade Chad), on the low. Neither told him. Turns out, best friend never broke up with his GF when he started dating the new girl. Was juggling both, cheating on both, and they're both friends. About 6 months out, they happen to run into each other, and discover what's going on. Made a pact to s…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 01:53 PM
3

TL;DR: I have oneitis for my BPD ex, what do? Started thinking about how great it would've been if she didn't have as many red flags as she did This is the funniest, most direct example of rationalization I've ever heard. Moral is, she's not great, it wasn't great, you just wanted it to be great because you saw the potential if she was just a different, yet similar, person. Go find that different person, cuz this one is never going to change. Cut your losses, every day you spend obsessing over w…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 01:28 PM
1

No, that's just plain not true. Long distance swimming is the sport where men have the smallest advantage. Men hold all the long distance records (well, all that a viable candidate has tried for...). Men hold all the olympic swimming records. A male's advantage is down to only 5-6% in a 1500+ meter swim, but even at English Channel distances (3200 meters), men still win consistently and hold the records.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 01:17 PM
4

Depends, there's a fine line to be walked between "teasing" and "insulting". If they're laughing with you, you're probably on the right side of the line. Sure as hell works better than being the 90th guy that week to tell them they look beautiful... Kino can be playful, like an ass slap/grab, but mostly, you should be looking for intimacy. You want to break that physical barrier in a way that makes them comfortable, not intimidated or scared. It's one thing if you tuck into the slap-box position…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 12:58 PM
1

True, ended up in marketing. Tactic still works for high level mathematics. Knowing which formula to apply to what situation, learning the formulas through repetition and application, has a big advantage over the "read my flash cards 80 times" tactic.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 12:40 PM
2

6' white male with a beard and pretty blue eyes. Athletic body (was a lean 165, added on about 20lbs of muscle). Evidence says I'm somewhere around a 7-8/10.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 12:37 PM
14

At least you didn't knock her up and lock yourself into 18 years of legal battles and garnished wages... I'm sure you know, through a red-pill lens, you missed many warning signs. From what I see: She knew she could call on old reliable beta bux when the CC stopped spinning. She let you take care of her while she talked with her ex-alpha, and fucked you like a wild woman because she was thinking of him. She moved back to her sister's city to be with her ex-alpha. They decide to start a new life,…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 08:15 PM
41

When I was young, before RP existed (PUA was just gaining steam), I thought being a nice guy was a compliment. Nice is the opposite of shitty, right? Good is the opposite of bad? I'd meet girls, and in a short conversation, they had me pegged as a nice guy. A guy that's never getting in their pants. A guy that would buy drinks, give rides, shower compliments, defend honor, in exchange for a little flirting and attention. I even took girls home and made out, just to be told "You're too nice, I ca…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 07:47 PM
2

You're not even middle aged. Might as well enjoy the other half of your life if you fucked up the first half. Body is important for everyone. The discipline, the drive, the commitment, always has value. Get your ass to a gym, ASAP. Make it a routine. Don't make excuses, make it work. Balding? Fuck it. Shave. Porn addiction? Internet addiction? Cut it off. Literally cancel your internet/cable if you can. If that's not an option, restrict it. Delete your porn. Delete your porn. Delete your porn. R…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 06:55 PM
2

While some Sun Tzu and Machiavelli (The Prince) can provide general guidance, most people in a bind are looking for something specific. An adviser is more useful than a librarian. How good are you at leading a conversation? If you can ask the right questions, provide the right hypotheticals, you can lead him to the correct solution. When he looks for more, suggest some books. If you're not that good, offer a suggestion, and provide an explanation. Ensure you're addressing at least 2-3 steps in a…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 06:49 PM
2

Ignore her. Avoid her. Surround yourself with positive people. Every workplace has a bitch everyone else hates... Worse idea, file a complaint with HR. Continue to do so until one of you is let go or transferred. Or, worst idea of all, hit on her. Let her know how hot you get when she talks down to you. Call her mistress. Make it awkward as fuck.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 06:38 PM
8

TL;DR: Why does my lesbian friend act like every other woman in the world? Because AWALT.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 06:34 PM
5

I love me. Maybe it's being homeless. Maybe it's my shitty family. Maybe it's all the failed relationships. Maybe it's friends/family robbing me and lying to my face. Maybe it's all the let downs. For many years I've known that I'm the only one in the world I can rely on. I'm the only one I can trust. I'm the only one that won't hurt me. Girls, friends, family come and go, I'll be here from day one until I die. I'm all I need. Everything else is just a bonus.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 06:03 PM
3

That's true love. I have a '68 triple black coupe with a 289, restored to all original. She's in need of some TLC, haven't taken her out since last summer. Picked her up at a car show for half of what she's worth today.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 05:58 PM
2

Just an example of what not to do, I know you're not that dumb. Generally speaking, don't "support" her. Any necessary expense shouldn't be coming out of your pocket. IMO, buying a drink, paying for dinner, that's par for the course. If you can get away with less, great. If you need more, you're fucking something up. If you want to treat yourself (lingerie, bikini wax, nails, shoes, whatever your fetish is) go for it. That's your treat, not hers.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 05:48 PM
4

Ignore it until they bring it up. Decent chance they don't, for months, or ever (if they happen to be playing the same game). One of my plates is on like year five, we both know what's what, it happens. When they do push, just plainly state, "I'm not ready for a relationship". They'll ask why, you don't provide a reason. If they insist on exclusivity to continue, just state "I can't do that, but I don't want this to end". They'll walk, you'll soft next, they'll apologize and come back, or get re…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 05:10 PM
6

If you get the benefits, it's for you... You get extra special "thank you" sex and she's going to wear something sexy that you want to see her in? That's just you treating yourself. Just, you know, don't pay off her student loans or rent.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:52 PM
-2

Get tattoos, grow a beard, get swole.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:49 PM
2

Tight shorts are the best for tucking, and boobs can be bought. It may just be my area, but I can't recall seeing women doing what you describe. Its that, or they all just turn on their charm when they see me. Who knows.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 04:42 PM
1

Don't do this to your sister's friends, that probably won't end well. These were all randoms, and for the most part, haven't seen them again. Abundance mentality helps massively with not caring about a girl you're attracted to. That, and remembering that not caring gives you a better chance at success... I shouldn't have to say this, but in all cases, no attempt was made to hide what I was saying. I have a deep voice, it carries, other people heard. Most recent one: Girl asked me "what are you i…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 04:12 PM
2

It's going to be fun watching your former employee drag your "local official" through the mud when he realizes why he was fired. Dating a cheating whore, finding out who her side man is, and extorting his boss into firing him over her indiscretions doesn't look good a voting time. Doesn't look good for you either... Enjoy being cucked in your "open relationship" while she drains your bank account dry. You deserve it, fucking beta bitch.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 03:52 PM
1

A 5'9" asian female built like a man? That's a tranny... In my area, hard to find a masculine woman outside of fatties emulating the personality of those shitty comedians in the Ghostbusters movie. The girls I know who are badasses (EMT's, Cops, Army/Navy/Airforce) are still feminine in their off time. The girls at the gym who are working out and getting muscular are all super feminine (think bikini model with a 6-pack, not a body builder).
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 03:20 PM
1

Of course there's a middle ground. Of course there's people on both extremes. You want a bunch of teenage girls screaming your name at a concert, or a bunch of groupies screaming your name in the dressing room?
/r/askTRP04/08/16 02:42 PM
3

click here for the challenges
/r/askTRP04/08/16 02:37 PM
2

Hate to say it, but the problem is likely with you. She's the only one you've been with, and it's been 6 years. Likely, you figured out what worked on her (and you) and haven't changed much. Dug yourself into a rut. Is your foreplay so good she begs for it? Soaks through her clothes? Have you done it in random spots (the kitchen, on the couch, in the car)? Do you throw her around? Flip her over for doggie when you're bored of missionary? Do you ask her? Does she make the move? She tells me she l…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 02:35 PM
1

maybe it is a lost opportunity to communicate high value through showing parts of my lifestyle?! You can show pictures in person. You can tell stories. You can take people with you. If your lifestyle is really something that shows high value, you can't hide it, there's many ways to show it. Social media is a way to fake it. No one uses it for any other reason. It's just there to show the "highlight reel" of your life and get validation. Eventually you reach a point in your life where you don't w…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 02:25 PM
17

I rarely compliment a 8+. In my experience, everyone compliments them, so to just have a conversation with them like a normal human being separates you from all the guys falling over themselves to open with a pretty girl. If I do compliment, it's framed as an "I like___". EX: "I like that dress on you" not "you look gorgeous in that dress". I always try to avoid mentioning something they got, rather than earned. I'll compliment their dancing, their dog, their clothing, their jewelry, their car. …
/r/askTRP04/08/16 02:15 PM
6

How isn't this abundantly clear? Spend all your fucks on yourself. Give a fuck about your appearance. Your health. Your kids. Your home and car. Your career. Your hobbies. That's your life, that's what you care about, that's what matters, that's what will be there when today's girl disappears tomorrow. Don't give a fuck about what Cindy said to Stacy. Don't give a fuck about which bitch didn't compliment her new haircut at work. Don't give a fuck about her problems. Don't give a fuck about "sayi…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 02:00 PM
1

Take your time, don't cram, you just stop retaining it after a while. I'd read for 20-30 minutes, take a short break. Punch the bag, grab a snack, check messages, take a piss, whatever, then hop back in. Tried to do it at a time where there wasn't much else to do, like the lull between the last class and dinner time. 2-3 hours of reading like this retains more knowledge than cramming overnight in the library while you're half asleep and strung out on coffee and adderall. Discuss it. Visit a stud…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 01:33 PM
6

A girl showed me a picture of her kid (single mom=pass, so I especially DGAF), I said "aww, it must be hard raising a special needs child". This was years ago, she still hits me up. Took home a model one night. Approached, got her name, and just said "whens the last time you did a line off a guy's cock?" Turns out, never, but she was down, and we both thought the bar we were at was lame. I did some lines off her tits, she did some off my dick, it was a good night. Protip, don't use a razor blade…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 01:27 PM
2

As you learn the properties of magnetism or induction, you'll learn how devices that make use of those properties function. For example, a generator, electric motor, or the "Lenz Effect" (induced current when dropping a magnet down a copper pipe that resists gravity). Once you can picture how it's put to use, what it does, it's far easier to understand how it all functions (for example, knowing which direction the field lines travel). The idea is, relate the theoretical knowledge to something co…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 12:34 PM
1

That's what alts/throwaways are for. This stuff is so polarizing, it's much better kept under wrap.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 07:29 PM
2

Validation, time, orgasms, you give her plenty in return. If she's from a rich family, buying you expensive gifts is no bigger deal than cooking you a meal or giving a back rub. It's just normal for her. Stop worrying.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 06:51 PM
4

Ignore. If they call you a "red piller", just look confused. You've never heard that term before in your life. You have no clue what they're talking about. The more they bicker among themselves, the more they keep trying the same stupid shit that "should work" but just plain doesn't, the easier life is for the rest of us.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 06:22 PM
3

So, she doesn't want you for your money. She showers you in gifts. She doesn't complain or mention when you don't return the favor. What's the problem? Enjoy your sugar momma while you can. Learn a thing or two from her family while you have the chance.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 06:13 PM
6

No, school isn't where you eat. It's not paying your bills. You won't get fired when HR finds out you're fucking fellow students. Have at it bro. I mean, unless you're a professor and she's a student, you didn't clarify that part...
/r/askTRP03/08/16 04:54 PM
6

You'll get out what you put in. I encourage you, participate, even if you're the only one to do so. Consider it a private tutor with an audience if you have to. I know I had a few classes where I was literally the only person to participate. If you're in college now, I'm sure you've noticed, students are quiet. They participate at the bare minimum level. Don't be like them, get something more out of it. You're not there to keep the chair warm.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 04:22 PM
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You forgot the most important part of learning (aka, increasing intelligence through gaining knowledge): Put it to fucking use. Discuss it. Debate it. Practice it. My college career was eye opening. 99% of kids wanted to text in class, half pay attention while copying notes, skim the chapter so they can find the answers for homework, take the test, and go party. They'd then cram for midterms/finals, take the test, and go party. I'd see kids in the library all night, 10-20 hour study binges. Noth…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 02:57 PM
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So, she cheated on you with her coworker, while living with you? You do realize in all likelihood she was with that guy for those 6 months where she was unhappy with you, right? He didn't want her, she didn't want him, they wanted the kinky, sneaky, cheating, pen in company ink, thrill sex. Once the thrill was gone, it was over. That reality just smacked her in the face, she just realized what happened. IMO, ignore. Don't answer. Delete, block, move on. Even if she's 1 in a thousand, there's a f…
/r/askTRP03/08/16 01:56 PM
2

2012, 8-2 for the teenage U17 boys: http://forums.bigsoccer.com/threads/uswnt-vs-u-17-usmnt.1939180/ , before the USWNT went on to win gold at the 2012 olympics in London.. Discussion in that thread is a nice read, few comments about how the world's top women are about on par with the U13 boys... 5-1 for the u15's :https://andagain.websitetoolbox.com/post/uswnt-no-match-for-so-cal-boys-odp-3256939
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 12:35 PM
1

The question was how many dates do you lose from willing girls when you provide little to no information. That's the amount of girls that would say no, and only agree after more info. According to you, it's "very little". In my experience, it's "none". Offset that with the simple question "how many girls would meet, but change their mind after extensive texting?" Might be "very little", might be "a few", but I guarantee you it's a very real number that isn't zero. I'd rather close two easy girls…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 08:11 PM
5

Don't forget "playing the 'which girl's hair is this?' game". When a girl grabs onto my biceps as I'm fucking her in missionary. I noticed a big bruise on the inside of my bicep this morning. Took me a minute to remember last night's girl squeezed the shit out of my arm when she came. I got a big smile on my face as I thought about how I earned it. I totally agree, the little things in life are what makes it all worthwhile.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 07:36 PM
1

Serious question: How many girls did you ask for a meet, get denied, and then obtain a meet after continuing to text them? I've never had it happen. Not once that I can remember. I'm 100% convinced that a girl willing to meet, will meet whether or not you text game her. I'm 100% convinced that a girl that doesn't want to meet won't change her mind just because of text game. Might as well skip the bullshit, save the time, and push for a meet early. I used to think like you, until I ran the experi…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 07:02 PM
1

Earn a hot bitch, is the point I'm getting at... Might mean you have to confront some uncomfortable truths, but it's better than a lifetime of hambeasts.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 06:22 PM
1

I'd feel better if you ended your dry streak with a hot girl instead of a dusty old hambeast. I don't care if you say I'm right. All these 20-somethings in my bed are proof.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 05:59 PM
1

You're wrong.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 05:34 PM
2

Cut the bullshit and just answer. She's moving on soon unless you commit, it's that simple. "I don't want this to end, I like being with you, but I'm not ready to settle down". Honest, succinct, impossible to misunderstand. She's either fine with it (but, she'll branch swing soon, you'll be a booty call when she breaks up or strikes out), done with it (you saved time) or she gives the "commitment or nothing" ultimatum (and again, you saved time).
/r/askTRP02/08/16 05:32 PM
2

From that answer, you don't have a six pack either...
/r/askTRP02/08/16 05:16 PM
4

Leave, don't touch them, don't even grab their wrists or push them. Never get married. Advice from my dad, as I picked him up from a long weekend in jail after grabbing my step moms wrist to stop her punching (he worked overtime, she didn't believe it). She didn't have a mark, he was missing a tooth and bloody. He left, immediately. He's the man, so he went to jail. Arrested him at my grandma's place. Confiscated all his guns. She drained all the bank accounts and maxed out the cards that weeken…
/r/askTRP02/08/16 05:15 PM
3

I can tell a thong from panties from nothing. I can tell a b cup from a c cup from some padded a's in a push up. Trust me, they can tell abs from a gut through a shirt.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:58 PM
3

Alone doesn't mean solitude, it means non-committed. Hang out with friends. Pick up hobbies. Improve yourself. Meet new people. Take home girls. Plate a few, simultaneously. If one proves themselves to be relationship worthy, over the course of months, consider taking that step. Personally, I don't even consider a relationship until she's been around for 6 months.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:55 PM
4

She's not interested, stop wasting your time being her drama generator.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:51 PM
1

The girl I had the longest relationship with (wanted to get married, wrote me sappy love notes, said I was the best she ever had, so lucky, etc...), cheated on me while I was at college. I broke it off instantly, she never even tried to contact me. I lost a ton of weight my last year. Next time she saw me (50lbs lighter), was at the finish line of a local charity 5k, where I beat her entire family (parents, aunts, uncles, cousins, all into running). She was instantly interested in me again. No l…
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:30 PM
1

She wanted me to figure out all of the things that need done, and devise my own method of task management. There's the real problem. Beta bitch never took the lead, never got shit done, waited for wifey to tell him what to do. At least towards the end he realized it's not the glass, it's him being a shitty male that got him divorced. Unfortunately, he hasn't realized that fucking up a marriage doesn't qualify him to give advice on marriage...
/r/askTRP02/08/16 03:32 PM
1

Is this the only girl it's happened with, the only girl you've seduced, or just what you go through every time? Only girl- you have oneitis. Go seduce a few more. Go through every time- you're just not a ONS guy. Spin some plates, keep it going, don't commit to LTR at least for 4-6 months.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 03:17 PM
6

I'm such a whore Big fantasy for a lot of girls, nothing gets them going like knowing they're being a slut. 99% of the time, they are actually a whore, and love it. Go get tested bro.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 03:13 PM
5

AMEN. I haven't had one ask for or imply exclusivity in like half a decade. It's clear what's going on.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 03:10 PM
13

Mindset (Outcome independence, specifically) helps me massively. I'm not picking them up, I'm not running game, I'm having a fun conversation to entertain myself. Once those other elements are removed, it's far less intimidating, you're just shooting the shit and having fun. IDGAF if I get their number, IDGAF if they want me, IDGAF if they walk off, IDGAF if I offend them or piss them off, anything positive is just a bonus to my entertainment, and I'll entertain myself no matter what they do. If…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 03:06 PM
1

I was probably your age the last time I asked permission for something. Just make the move and do it, she'll say no if she's not down, she'll stop you one way or another. It avoids her LMR and slut-defense, because "it just sorta happened". Of course, no means no, stop means stop, don't force it. There's a fine line to be walked.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 02:44 PM
15

TL:DR; Braasch destroyed them, back-to-back, half drunk and smoking cigarettes, after playing a game of golf. Doubted they could beat any man in the top 500. Reminds me of how the US woman's national soccer team was destroyed 8-2 by the under 17 boys team. (The USWNT went on to win gold at the olympics, 3 months later, they were the top female team at the time) And, more recently, the USWNT lost 5-1 to a under-15 regional boys team... Boys that aren't old enough for a learner's permit, that aren…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 02:29 PM
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How many dudes were included in your sample?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 02:03 PM
2

Sometimes it's just going to take time, or a little bit of pulling back so she is willing to pull you closer. Maybe she's just waiting to hear "I love you" because she thinks that's how it's supposed to be. Maybe she's waiting for something romantic. Sometimes, it's just a mental block, and getting her to want it badly is the key. In my book, that's just LMR. I've had success with finger fucking in that scenario. Basically, just put your hand in your crotch, palm out, and fuck her with a finger …
/r/askTRP02/08/16 01:52 PM
1

Depends, you think she's a sure-thing 1-night close, or do you think you need to set the stage? If it's clear she just wants to fuck, text her in a day or two and invite her out for the weekend. Towards the end of the night, get her alone (grabbing something to eat works well), and then take her home. Bonus points if you coordinate picking her up or meeting at your place, basically guarantees her going home with you. If you think she's not a first-night hookup type, give her a "hey (girl name) i…
/r/askTRP01/08/16 06:47 PM
1

Not sure what you've been reading, but that's not the case. Look at it this way, you're out fishing, and hook a nice fish. Would you put more bait on the hook before you reel it in? Shit no. That's fucking stupid. It's already hooked. Bait won't make that fish bigger or better. Bait won't keep it on the hook. When it's in the boat, when you see what you've landed, that's when you think "I might need some better bait to catch the fish I actually want". That's what girls do. They're fishing for me…
/r/askTRP01/08/16 06:25 PM
2

Ditch her and date one that is working out. You can try dread, but that's more likely to make her cry into a pint of ben and jerry's while posting vague statuses on facebook. You can try negging/insults, but again, just as likely to make her deepthroat a tube of cookie dough rather than fix the problem. You can straight up ask/tell, or invite her to come with you, but that won't last long. She's doing it for you, not her, so she'll soon lose the motivation. When she does decide it's time to go t…
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:46 PM
2

You give entirely too many fucks. What's it matter if she hangs with orbiters?
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:11 PM
3

Just DM "can't invite you if I don't have your number" She'll give you her number. Take it from there. IMO, ignoring and waiting for her to happen to come out as part of your group leaves too many variables.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:07 PM
13

You're better off with guys. Everyone I know who had mixed room mates in college had major issues. Not just with other girls, but life in general. It's not so easy to run game when a girl is around. They don't get it. They aren't in "wingman mode" when they see you with a girl, especially if they catch feelings, which they are likely to. Nothing drives a girl crazy like a high SMV guy parading around girls and not showing them attention. Decent chance they sabotage you, decent chance they throw …
/r/askTRP01/08/16 03:40 PM
2

Sometimes, the best guidance you can give is a firm slap in the face.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 02:42 PM
1

"Can't, going out with some friends.../already got plans" "Have fun, maybe I'll hit you up next time I have a free night" Shows her not coming doesn't bother you, you're not desperate. Implies you have other alternatives. Implies you are not easily available and she should take what she can get if she wants to see you. Silence at least until after the date you would have seen her.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 02:10 PM
2

Being called a player is basically your invitation to play them. You're not phony, you're not fake, you're playing the game and they know it, because they are too. Takes one to know one. Own it, agree, or crack a joke. "Are you a scorekeeper? I could use some help."
/r/askTRP01/08/16 01:59 PM
3

Girls aren't made of glass. I give the same firm shake I give to anyone else. A surprising amount of girls say something along the lines of "oh, a firm handshake, I like it, most guys are afraid..." Eye contact and a smile is important as well. I usually confirm their name while shaking (often, it's an introduction.)
/r/askTRP01/08/16 01:52 PM
1

I'm here to help, I just don't sugar coat shit. "I sell drugs, what do you want?" can come off as try hard, bragging, or even just creepy, depending on the tone and delivery. It also implies you'll give her what she wants, as you have ready access. Anyone that deals is using, so you answered her question without knowing. "What are you looking for" or "what do you need?" puts it all on her. You never said you were involved in drugs. You never said you had them. You never implied you'd give them t…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 01:04 PM
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Ever see those cartoons where a kid sits on his friends shoulders and tries to pass as an adult? This reads a lot like that. when my beer was finished I slowly got a little bit closer and heard the girl say to one pf here friends: 'step by step.' They're making fun of you for being too afraid to approach. They're toying with you, and you can't even see it. Approach when you get an IOI, don't linger. 'your waiting for her, so sweet' Focusing on one person is a no-no. Even if she's the best you've…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 06:12 PM
5

Bleu de Chanel Polo Black or Blue Armani Code Michael Kors for Men Chrome by Azzaro These aren't cheap for the most part. Believe it or not, good old fashioned (and cheap) Old Spice Classic splash (not spray) gets a lot of compliments. If you're going to the mall, ignore the department store, find the cologne kiosk. Or, visit a flea market. Flash cash, buy more than one bottle, and haggle. A big bottle of Armani Code is like $110 retail, got the guy to throw in a free bottle of Chrome (~$30), an…
/r/askTRP29/07/16 02:04 PM
3

I'm guessing you just factually stated "I'd be pretty annoyed" and then shut up, giving her an awkward silence to reconsider her options. If so, good job, frame kept. If you got emotional, begged, pleaded, bargained, yelled, whined, or generally acted like a 3 year old that didn't get the toy he wanted, yea, you broke frame.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 12:41 PM
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she slept with one of her guy friends after telling me she was saving herself for marriage before having sex Wait, so you started dating a girl that wouldn't fuck you, she fucked some random dude, you found out, and you stayed with her? Dude, you should have kicked her to the curb a long time ago...
/r/askTRP29/07/16 12:37 PM
7

If you can fit in her pants, don't get in her pants. If she's smaller than you around the middle, fair game. Nothing wrong with taking home a chunky girl, especially to end a dry spell. Just, you know, leave the land whales where you found them.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 12:32 PM
1

I feel like that term was created especially for her. All girls have one. Once you know what it is, you'll notice it all the time. Look back through past events (even friends and family) with the red-pill context. You'll soon start to connect the dots and realize what really happened, and it will make it easier to spot what is going on with any new relationships.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 12:28 PM
1

You get used to it, conditioned even. Soon, you seriously just won't give a shit. It's funny. You'll laugh it off and genuinely not care. They're not rejecting you, they're eliminating themselves from the pool of candidates. The less time you waste on the girls that aren't down, the more time you can spend on the girls that want what you've got.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 08:05 PM
2

First step is accepting the shit you've been told about the way things should be is just pure shit. Things are the way they are, regardless of how it "should be". There's only one reality, and once you accept that, you can begin to control it. Check the comprehensive guide for a jumpoff point. This is a path, not a destination. Feel free to ask for guidance, but it sounds like your first few steps are already in the right direction.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 07:22 PM
3

Hop on the main sub and read the sidebar. It won't take long. Read some of the top stories. Learn to recognize the world for the way it really is. Find yourself. Get back into your hobbies. Get back into your social life. Get back into fitness. Continue your education/reading. Improve yourself, make yourself happy, learn to validate yourself. Make time for yourself. Whether it's a fishing trip, kayaking, biking, hiking, whatever. Get some alone time, clear your head, relax. This transition SHOUL…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 07:03 PM
1

You can't always get exactly what you want. But, you can always get something you want. Rejection is part of the game. A big part of it. Most approaches are failures. I've been rejected 5 times before I finish my first beer. Oh well, there's still 50 more to try before I move to the next bar. Abundance mentality helps, but realizing you can't be everyone's cup of tea helps as well. EX: I won't fuck hoodrat girls. They can have a nice face, great tits, a fat ass, and throw themselves at me, and I…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 06:43 PM
2

"That's not true, I'll have to find my pants first"
/r/askTRP28/07/16 06:31 PM
2

Sugar withdrawals shouldn't happen if you continue to take in carbs. Complex carbs are broken into glucose, and run through the same metabolic processes as simple sugars. If anything, you should experience a lack of sugar-related swings as complex carbs avoid the sudden surge, and crash, simple sugars can create and give a steady supply of energy. If you get your total daily carb intake under ~50g/day, your body will transition into ketosis in a few days (2-5, depending on variables), during whi…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 06:16 PM
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What do you gain from debating the geezer? She going to let you put it in her ass? Is it making you money? Will your 6 pack emerge after all that talking? Uh, nope. You're just going to piss off grandpa, piss off the girl, and waste your time, while also getting destroyed. Know what you can do? "You owe me a BJ every time I keep my mouth shut instead of debating him." Catch her eye and hold up a finger, then 2, then 3, every time you don't debate. Decent chance she bends over backwards to keep y…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 03:53 PM
1

"If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell." That's no metaphor. This is in the middle of the Sermon on the Mount. This is where "turn the other cheek" comes from. This is where "love your enemies and …
/r/askTRP28/07/16 03:44 PM
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Struggling with porn addiction? You're supposed to cut off your hand and gouge out your eyes. Matthew 5:27-31. New testament, no Jewish excuse there... Do you see my point of you picking and choosing the passages that fit your agenda? Cognitive dissonance is a bitch, huh?
/r/askTRP28/07/16 03:11 PM
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as a Christian I'm not into the Idea of premarital sex You going to take her to her father's doorstep and have the men of the village stone her to death when you find out she's not a virgin? (Deuteronomy 22:21) You think we should kill anyone that commits adultery (Deuteronomy 22:22)? By proxy, should we kill any woman that gets a divorce, and anyone who remarries, since that too is adultery? (Matthew 5:32) No, you're going to pick and choose whichever passage fits your agenda and treat it like …
/r/askTRP28/07/16 02:39 PM
1

Part of being alpha is learning to go your own way, with the confidence that can only come from full satisfaction and control of your life. You can control how others see you. You can control your body. You can control your emotions. You can control what you do with your time. You can control everything if you just take a moment to think about how to do it. Physical appearance matters, it's just reality, regardless of how things "should be". Improve your appearance, improve your life, it's fortu…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 02:24 PM
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There's nothing wrong with female friends. There's an issue with being friendzoned or becoming an orbiter. There's an issue with wasting your time hanging around a girl you want that doesn't want anything to do with you. My female friends are some of the best wingmen I have ever met.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 02:03 PM
1

In the US, casual kissing/cheek kisses are very regional. Might be totally normal in one social circle or town, and completely strange just a few minutes down the road or in a different social group. The area I'm in, the social circles I run in, it's incredibly common. Girls that know you pretty much greet you with their lips puckered and cheek turned. Their mom, your grandma, children, everyone does it. You can instantly spot the guys that are uncomfortable with it. It's a dead giveaway of a be…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 01:02 PM
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There's a few billion more out there, I'm sure a few of them will tolerate your shit. Better yet, stop being shitty, and take your pick. Go improve your life. Find meaning. Don't make a girl the center of your life and 24/7 entertainment. They're an enjoyable addition, not an essential one, and certainly not an irreplaceable one.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 12:55 PM
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To outsiders, everyone looks the same. To insiders, there's a million differences that are spotted, and are desirable or undesirable. Totally possible that among peers, you're only a 5. Among foreigners, you might be a 7 or 8. SMV is always contextual, and seeking different nationalities often results in skewed value. Your situation can also change your value, a visitor is obviously a short term fling, no commitment. In your homeland, there's the possibility for people in their social group to f…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 12:47 PM
1

When I'm not with the girl I love, minutes seem like hours. Your oneitis made me vomit in my mouth a little bit. How do I become self-assured with my relationships? You have other options. Many other options. You additionally have the knowledge that you can create new options out of thin fucking air just by opening with whatever girl catches your interest. They're all replaceable. There's billions of them to choose from. You don't cry about dropping a cheerio on the ground, because you know ther…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 06:47 PM
3

TL;DR: Logistics matter. If you don't have a simple way of getting from the meeting location to the fucking location, you're probably not fucking.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 06:39 PM
1

if more people don't get unplugged, our culture becomes weak and prone to falling Sperm is cheap. The strong spread their seed. There's always someone to pick up the slack. The more incels there are in the world, the more cock hungry women there are. If you need proof of this, just look at the rise of "multiple partner families". At this point, in the US, a quarter of women with more than one child, also have more than one father of those children... 59% of black women with 2+ kids, have 2+ fath…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:03 PM
2

They just intimidated you into leaving. Like an alpha lion pushing the betas off a kill, you just solidified your place in the pecking order by rolling over and giving up as soon as they approached. Frame smashed, for her, and anyone else that saw. The "isn't it cute how hard they try?" line can work, but stick around and see if she blows them off. Worth the extra few seconds to not lose out on the work you already did. Making it into a joke is always good. Sexual is even better. Ask her "is thi…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 02:34 PM
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Usually when im on dates like this, we're both drunk af Stop getting drunk as fuck. If I'm out drinking with the intention of getting laid, I'm only having a few drinks. Might be a nice transition to cut down on the alcohol intake before going full sober. Whats a good way to make the somber me as fearless as the drunk me? Just remember that she'll stop you when you go too far. Find the limit. Can you feel up her leg? Can you grab her ass? Can you get a kiss? Make out? Feel her up? Hands under cl…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 01:14 PM
2

I was 285lbs in high school. I was never a full blown loser (I was getting laid with some pretty girls, even then), but I certainly wasn't anywhere near as socially competent as I am now, let alone, an alpha. I lost about 120lbs over a few years, grew a beard, got rid of the glasses, started dressing well, and found alpha style thinking back when PUA was still cool. I've packed on another 20lbs of muscle, and keep refining my skills. Improve a little bit every day, and you'll make a huge change …
/r/askTRP27/07/16 01:02 PM
1

we watch movies and cuddle There's a thousand opportunities to escalate if you're already cuddling. Grab her butt, rub her leg, brush the hair out of her face and kiss her, whatever. Not even trying sends a strong signal that you're not a sexual option. It's likely to increase resistance the next time you see her and try to escalate, since the precedent was already set. she told a mutual friend she feels comfortable with me She likes you. She wants to see you again. She doesn't feel threatened b…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 12:48 PM
2

Don't white knight the rest of us bro. No one likes a cockblock.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 12:39 PM
2

He receives her emotional vomit, he is the tampon, regardless of how much soaks in or runs off. Women talk about everything in their life. They discuss every issue. Doesn't matter if it's brain cancer or their pinky toe being sore because those cute shoes are too tight, they'll fucking talk for hours.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 06:06 PM
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You're not a bitch, you're just bored. Make some new guy friends, even if they only fill a certain role. Drinking buddies. Hockey buddies. Philosophical buddies. It's rare to find someone that can keep you entertained on all levels, so recognize the limitations and make the best of it. Don't be pissed off when your redneck bow hunter buddy can't discuss Nietzsche. Fuck videogames. Basically just masturbation. You're better off putting that time somewhere else. Explore some new hobbies. You hunt,…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 05:59 PM
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Cater to your audience. Use descriptive language. Be animated, both physically and vocally. Engage all of them. Ask questions, ask for opinions. Look around, make eye contact, don't leave anyone out. Men want details and facts. They want you to paint them a picture. Women want emotions. They want to know how you felt. A little gossip and conversation never hurt. Mixed crowd? Integrate both. EX: You went skydiving. You'd tell the guys about where it was, who you went with, how high you jumped fro…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 05:49 PM
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Women talk about problems, men solve problems. We've accepted this as fact. I'd presume this is a case where she had decided against talking about problems with the other women available (for whatever reason, hates them all, afraid of backlash, etc) and has instead chosen to lay all her issues on the emotional tampon that signed a marriage certificate with her name on it.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 05:43 PM
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Haven't you read the sidebar in the main sub yet? Women work on emotion, not logic. It's what she feels that defines how she sees the world, the facts she knows. Not evidence, not reason.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:56 PM
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Lets compare this to cars, because I like analogies. You're wondering why some small, cheap, underpowered Honda Civic is beating you, in your fancy Porsche, around the track. Ever consider that maybe, there's something more than meets the eye? Low key turbo kit for instance? Equivalent to being great in bed, sharing hobbies, great cook, etc? Ever consider that maybe, he's a better driver than you are? Maybe his game is superior to yours (and from the story, that's probably the case). Ever consid…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:45 PM
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Girls ask directions, men refer to maps. Girls solve problems by talking about them, men solve problems by fucking fixing the problem. You can give an address for her to GPS. You can give the general area (The end of Route 92). You can be a smart ass. You can just offer to show her. Ball is in your court, play it how you prefer.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:15 PM
2

Everyone in the gym is far ahead of everyone on the couch. Your form will improve, so long as you're willing to take advice from those who know better. Your strength and conditioning will only get better. Don't let bullshit get in your way. Don't make excuses, make solutions.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 03:08 PM
3

People who don't spend time bettering themselves, who aren't out forming social bonds, have a tendency to become internet trolls. Of all the options this world presents, they've chosen trolling as the best path to happiness.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:03 PM
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A couple days before the date, she texted me explaining she was really sorry but she had way too much work to do that weekend. Flakes text last minute and say they're not coming. Flakes stand you up with no notice. Shitty women do it continuously. Interested girls that respect you don't do that, they give you a few days heads up and offer a time that works. She's never been on a date with you, she owes you nothing, yet she still gave that consideration and respect. IMO, you over reacted and just…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:58 PM
2

If it looks, smells, feels or sounds like something weird or that's not supposed to be there then it's probably not right. Aint easy for a virgin. Yes, I was joking about the 2 condoms, but I forget some people don't know any better...
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:34 PM
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AWESOME, I LOVE YOU OP! More bar-crawling college aged girls for the rest of us! Enjoy chasing the girls we won't waste our time on!
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 02:16 PM
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Are you sure these girls aren't thinking "that guy must give 0 fucks if he wears something that fucking stupid and looks confident in it?" I hide wealth as much as I can. Usually just led to girls that wanted me to pay for shit and made it difficult to close. I love watches, I'm always noticing what guys are wearing. Can't tell you how many times the guy with the $40k gold Rolex/AP/Hublot bought drinks for the girl that went home with a guy in sneakers and a t-shirt.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 02:12 PM
1

Are your mates fuckups? People you want out of your life? People holding you down? If so, jump ship, make some new mates. If not, don't burn that bridge, stay loyal and network outside of practice. There's pre/post game time, there's observation time, there's time on the sidelines. Be friendly, have fun, it's just intramural after all.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 01:37 PM
1

No-fap doesn't mean no sex... Hit up some past lays. Go hunting for some new ones. Get the fuck out there.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 01:35 PM
2

From a guy that was a fat 12 year old: The mom is the issue, not the kid. 100% of the time, the parent is the cause, enabler, and roadblock from success. Speak with the mom, one on one. Explain how fucking horrible processed sugar is (HFCS is horrible, literature everywhere on it if you want a print out for her). Explain how much sugar is in candy, cookies, soda, chocolate milk, etc. Explain what it does to the liver, how easily it turns to fat, how much it messes with hormones in pubescent chil…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 01:32 PM
2

Approach other girls. You should never have only one girl you're talking to. You shouldn't even have only one girl you're seeing. The reason you care so much is because you don't have anything else to care about.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 01:26 PM
1

I'm guessing this is a gym you attend, not work at, because you must know by now not to stick your pen in company ink. Step 1: Talk to them. Get their name. Make a joke. "What name do I yell when I start drowning?" Play it by ear. No insults (EX: You sure you can pull me out of the pool?) Step 2: Talk to them some more next time you see them. Say hello, good morning, whatever is appropriate, and use their name. Using their name is vital. If they use yours, they cared enough to remember it. If th…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 01:21 PM
2

how long would you recommend I hold out till I contact her again. Until she contacts you. If she doesn't, you blew it. Focus your efforts elsewhere.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 01:08 PM
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"Dude, her Instagram name is 'dumb underscore bitch x o x o'. Why are you so mad?" Or my personal favorite, just don't get in that situation. Nothing to be gained. Name caller got knocked out on camera and bounced his head off concrete, buddy got rocked, white knight got arrested. No one closed a new girl. Doesn't sound like how I want my night to end.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 01:00 PM
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TL;DR: Wear a condom. Wear two if she tells you not to. Avoid girls with yellow eyes (jaundice from hepatitis). Avoid girls with sores/scabs/scratching on their genitals or mouth (herpes/syphilis/scabies/crabs). See a doctor if you get a sore on your junk or mouth, likely treatable (except herpes). See a doctor if it burns when you pee (chlamydia/gonorrhea), probably treatable. See a doctor and get a test regularly even if none of the above are true, because you're often asymptomatic and detecti…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 12:48 PM
1

If he's your employee, it's your duty to step in and avoid any sexual harassment lawsuits if he's crossing a line with clients (even if they enjoy it). Otherwise, ain't your problem unless she's calling for help.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 12:24 PM
1

Finding, attracting, and closing a girl is thrilling and enjoyable. Not many things in this world that top it. Even if you suck in bed, even if she doesn't orgasm, the accomplishment is fucking awesome. Few things will boost your confidence like earning the close. Calling a number, handing over the agreed upon sum for the agreed upon services is a bit like buying yourself a 1st place trophy. You got the prize, but it's meaningless without being earned. Look through life with the RP mentality. Sp…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 08:27 PM
1

Sometimes, that HB10 is just cruising for someone to fuck right that second, and you happen to be the acceptable candidate that starts chatting her up. It happens, not often, but it just happens. Everyone here says texting is for logistics, and they're not lying. The more you talk through text, the more resistance they get towards seeing you IRL, and the more difficult it gets to close. It's surprising what dread game can do. Texting back the next day? Texting over and over even though she's not…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 07:57 PM
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If they're not fucking me for my perceived experience, why are they fucking me? Validation. If some good looking guy with his shit together wants them, they must be worth something. If she can make you hard, if she can make you cum, if she's hot enough to pursue, she must be sexy. Don't forget it's fun, enjoyable, and they don't know what they're missing unless they try. Even if you disappoint them, they'll probably still come back for the validation a spank bank footage. If not, +1 to experienc…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 07:38 PM
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Men that do this are broken. They require external validation. They have to feel wanted, and more importantly, needed, in order to feel happy. Usually, there's a big trigger that slaps them in the face and reminds them they're not needed, or wanted. In fact, they're easily replaceable. Ex wife left? Common trigger right there. Ignoring the reminder of his worthlessness, aka, the child with the ex? Also pretty common in these situations. That kid ain't providing him with any validation. After the…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 05:39 PM
1

TRP benefits you, being a jerk doesn't. Do you think cancelling last minute and pissing her off will make her less of a bitch? Will it make her put out sooner? Will it make her like you more? Or did it just make her think "fuck this guy"? You really think she did her hair, shaved her snatch, put on perfume, and is going to let it go to waste?
/r/askTRP25/07/16 04:01 PM
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not getting hard properly You're scared. Might be easier with a girl you're not intimidated by. seeing zero reaction from her You ever see a cashier get excited to bag groceries? It's her job to let you fuck her. Most of them can't even enjoy it anymore. unable to keep any sort of rhythm, pathetic 'pounding', unable to physically move her at all. Take control. Her on top, or doggie. Grab her hips. Get it in with short strokes, stroke longer until you get a reaction. Ive always had anxiety going …
/r/askTRP25/07/16 03:10 PM
2

No one you meet knows your past. Every new person you meet is a baggage-free relationship. Don't let old shit get in the way of new fun, they sure as hell aren't. Lift. Workout. Run. Physical release helps massively with stress and anxiety. Be careful with strong lifts if you've got physical issues. Consult a doctor/physiotherapist/highly trained trainer. Without knowing the severity/extent of your issues, it's hard to make a recommendation. As for your voice, learn to speak from the diaphragm a…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 03:00 PM
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You don't take people out of the matrix, they take themselves out, just to discover there's a whole community a step ahead of them. With mass media, social media, and cultural pressure pushing the opposite direction, more and more people are being raised "plugged in". The more of them that don't see how things really are, the bigger advantage the rest of us have in life.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 01:42 PM
1

Go by your nickname. You're in a fraternity, I know you have a nickname. Even if it's just your drunk alter-ego name. Whatever. Let them put 2+2 together the next morning. Take off the Rolex. You can have it, you can wear it, just not while picking up girls. (I have one too, it stays home while I'm out running game, it makes closing more difficult, trust me). Car isn't such an issue, not like you're driving them around or picking them up. If you are, take an uber. Sorry, the sorrorisluts already…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 01:01 PM
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Intro>fuck>become FB/FWB/Plate>stick around a few months and prove they're worthy>Consider LTR My experience with conservative girls is that they're more effort than they're worth in the beginning, leave you for the cock carousel about a year after you introduce them to what they've been missing, and they start having freaky slutty sex (but not with you). In the meantime, you have to deal with conservative parents meddling in everything. I next virgins at this point, won't even waste my time.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 12:55 PM
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Go to a wine tasting/tour if there's vineyards in your area. Check higher end bars and clubs. In fact, try anywhere in the real world. "Girls that guys want, don't need tinder".
/r/askTRP23/07/16 04:59 PM
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If some girl says "you're not that tall" you say "I am laying down". Or, agree and amplify with a "I'm a midget on stilts under these pants". They're shit testing because you're their radar. If you weren't, they wouldn't bother. Make a joke, deflect, make it a little sexual. If they smile, you're golden.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 04:55 PM
1

In general, guys get girls on their level to two levels down. If your game is really good, or there's something special about you, you can go up a notch or two. If you're a 3, you're fair game for the 1s and 2s. Go lift. Lose weight. Talk to everyone you see. Improve yourself in every way. It won't change overnight, but a year or two down the line, the only thing you'll think is "why the fuck didn't I do this sooner?"
/r/askTRP23/07/16 04:49 PM
2

Hang out with friends, invite the plate over after. Bringing plates around friends is just asking for awkward moments and other issues.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 06:42 PM
14

“I’m going to suggest that you cannot believe his testimony, that Gray was an “active contributor,” the Crown told the court. “Package it up and throw it out the window. Ururyar was angry, and Gray was drunk enough to make some bad decisions, but that is not the same as consenting, the Crown said.” That sort of sums up how these things go. No one debates they had consensual sex prior. No one debates that sex was on the table that night. No one debates she went home with him of her own free will.…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 06:21 PM
1

I figured you tried dread long ago, jumped to conclusions. The whole point is to make her think she just found your magic button. If you can control yourself for everything else, but the thought of busting in her mouth makes you lose control, it must be something special. Rewarding her after reinforces how much you enjoy it. All the sudden, when she wants some attention, when she thinks you're mad, when she feels shitty about herself, she'll be letting you bust in her mouth. Won't be every night…
/r/askTRP22/07/16 06:02 PM
7

I was totally expecting this to end with "then my mom got scared, and said 'You're moving with your auntie and uncle in Bel-Air"
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 05:45 PM
0

Pulling out when you're about to cum, jumping on her chest, and busting in her mouth, is an asshole and rapey move. No debate there. That crosses a line. Not warning her you're about to bust while getting head/69ing, giving her the chance to see how much you enjoy it, is nowhere near as douchey. You didn't force her, you didn't sneak attack, you just thought you could control it but failed. Sorry babe, it felt so good.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 05:38 PM
2

Reading body language is essential, and becomes second nature after a while. Easy thing to look for: open vs. closed. Receptive people open up and move in. They expose their chest and face, nothing in the way. They turn their body (knees, feet, hips, chest, face) towards the point of interest (hopefully, that's you). They lean in. Their eyes open wider, their head picks up, they clear hair from their face. Arms are generally wide, you'll see the palms of their hands. Eyes are mostly directed at …
/r/askTRP22/07/16 05:30 PM
1

Going up a notch or two is possible, but not easy. Don't expect to go up 3 or 4 notches, a 6/10 isn't going to get a 10/10 unless there's something really special (like a foot long dong or an 8 digit bank account). Confidence, confidence, confidence. Entertain her, make her have fun. The best luck I've had is when I'm having a ton of fun and she's bored. Might just not be having fun at a party, might have been ditched, might just be in a bad mood, maybe her friend is too drunk, whatever. If you …
/r/askTRP22/07/16 03:28 PM
2

Sounds like you've already vetted the candidate better than most. Can she turn around and fuck you? Take half your shit, the kid, and part of your earnings? Yea, totally possible. Can you live a RP marriage, keep control of the wife and kid, and live a happy and successful life? Again, totally possible.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 03:09 PM
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They know there's a way out. They know there's alternatives. They know how they'll end up. They've chosen that path. They've accepted it. It's what they want. Be a shining beacon for RP. Live your life in a way that makes them want to emulate you. Show them what they're missing, and maybe they'll decide that the path they chose isn't the right one.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 03:05 PM
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No one here is going to talk you off the cliff. You're a full grown man. You've experienced many girls. You know the value of a good woman. You know what you want. You know what it means to your life. You know the risks and the rewards. If this is the path you want your life to follow, no one is going to stop you. It's 100% natural and normal to reach a point in your life where it's time to pass down your genes. If you were some kid that only experienced 3 girls, some RP guy getting pushed aroun…
/r/askTRP22/07/16 03:01 PM
3

The confidence to approach is something most struggle with. If you're new, it doesn't matter if you're fucking up, being able to approach in the first place sets you far ahead of most. Desperate guys cling. They beg. They plead. They bargain. They make deals. They persist after being told no. They make whiney facebook posts when denied. They cry about it. Don't be that guy. Do you just go around, opening conversations, and offering worthy girls the chance to enjoy your company? They say no, and …
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:54 PM
2

The best part was that I became an instant alpha to those people who doubted me Dating a model (or at least a model-tier girl) is some serious and undeniable social proof. One of the best examples of RP vs. BP I know of. All that stuff on the inside that BP's have been trained to think is supposed to matter- your confidence, speech, work ethic, stoicism, can't instantly give or prove alpha status. Use it to bring home a model, and everyone accepts your status.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:43 PM
1

I've only asked out about five or six girls so far in my life, all rejects Five or six strikeouts is like the first hour at the bar. No one gets 100% of the girls they try for, not even close. Even top tier guys may only take home 5-10% of the girls they try for, if they're lucky. The more girls you talk to, the more conversations you have, the better you'll get at it, the less nervous you'll be. Abundance mentality is important, there's tons of girls out there. If you strike out with one, move …
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:36 PM
1

There will be other girls. There will be other pics. If having these in your life makes you pause from moving on, just get rid of them and move on to the next.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 01:42 PM
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Embrace it, girls don't get wet over soft hands...
/r/askTRP22/07/16 01:36 PM
5

Let her suck your fingers while you're fucking her, about to finish. Let her associate sucking on things with satisfying you. Surprise her one night, 69 her, and go to town. Bust without notice. Play it off as unexpected, and amazing. She take in in stride? Reward her. Tell her how good it felt, how hot it was, how sexy she is, whatever. You know what she wants to hear after a year and a half. She freak the fuck out? Get pissed? Call you an asshole? Swing and a miss, might be time to next.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 01:12 PM
3

I've just always twisted it into an ego boost. You're going to get attention. You're going to get stares, compliments, covert and overt attempts at getting her attention, all sorts of silly shit. Great. They're jealous, envious, you're capable of what they're not. Every stare might as well be a thumbs up and "You fucking rock, dude! You're living my dream!" Every girl that wonders what makes you so special will still wonder that after you break up, again, take it as an ego boost, your SMV just g…
/r/askTRP22/07/16 01:03 PM
3

That question is sure to dry up pussies, it reeks of insecurity, regardless of your rationale for asking. I don't bring up their past partners, their count, etc. I don't particularly care. If an LTR is to happen, and I require exclusivity, past performance is no guarantee of the future. It's not like asking makes any difference, outside of messing up your chances with potentially viable partners.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 12:38 PM
1

Simple. Stop ditching the old ones. Fit the "maybe" between your "sure things". Make it a rule. Strike out with what you have? New girl's turn.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 10:04 PM
7

Think of it like food. Those easy girls, right place right time? Basically unattended leftovers in the fridge. Not great, not bad, satisfy a need, but you're sure anyone and everyone already had their pick and your getting scraps. The ones that take work? The ones you have to hunt and prove yourself to? Their ones you earn? Those are a nice home cooked meal. Have your fill, leave the leftovers for someone else. The top tier women? The "un-fuckables". That's dinner at a fancy restaurant with a ye…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 10:01 PM
8

High value girls don't necessarily have a high count. Low value girls are a dime a dozen, regardless of count. Nothing satisfies a high value male like his own, personal, high value female that's only a freak for him.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 09:53 PM
1

Sounds like you're rationalizing settling for what you have, with the hopes of changing him. News flash, people only change when they want to, not anyone else. You can get an old alpha back, but you better bring your A game for the rest of your life if you plan on keeping him.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 09:51 PM
1

"Extended drought" There's your problem. You fall off and need a step to get back on the horse, so you bend over a fat girl and hop on. Imo, what they say never matters. Banging a 9 that didn't give me a compliment is a bigger ego boost than a 3/10 that tells me I'm sexy. 3/10 days that shit to everyone, 9/10 isn't letting the trash smash in the first place.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 09:48 PM
1

Oneitis doesn't mean there's only one, it means you obsess over one. Clearly, you have oneitis, over and over. Whatever is new and shiny gives you oneitis. Once you accept this, you can begin to address it.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 09:43 PM
3

It works great. Please do it. Makes it easier for the rest of us when you're disgusting them and we're not
/r/askTRP21/07/16 09:40 PM
1

Find a better alpha that outshines the old ones. That's pretty much it... Can't turn a beta to an alpha, let alone, one alpha enough to make you forget about the old ones.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 09:32 PM
3

The only thing you can do after being dumb enough to stick your dick in crazy is to stop it as soon as you can. Now. Literally right now. Right this fucking second, end it, and don't look back no matter what.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 07:12 PM
5

You just got catfished. Are you retarded, or just desperate?
/r/askTRP21/07/16 06:40 PM
4

Hey, hey, hey, now. That was one brag story. Get your shit straight.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 06:32 PM
8

Never had a girl say anything negative about the evidence other girls leave around. Most don't say anything at all, even if they clearly notice. Panties between the bed and walls? Hair that isn't theirs? Earrings, hair ties, and socks under the sheets? Scratches/hickies/friction burn they didn't give? Extra phone charger next to the bed (that's clearly not for me)? Not a problem. They see, they know, they don't give a fuck. If anything, it helps...
/r/askTRP21/07/16 06:16 PM
2

Yes, it does. Doesn't matter how you open, if they're interested, they respond. If not, they ignore. I do it, you do too. Just the way it is... (2 plates I have right now were opened with a "hey what's up" on tinder. Not my only successes, not by a long shot.)
/r/askTRP21/07/16 05:31 PM
21

It's impossible to share success stories without sounding like bragging. Some of it is so crazy, so easy, it's unbelievable to those that haven't experienced it. Doing coke off the head cheerleaders tits? Kicking her friend down the stairs because she wouldn't leave? Getting robbed by a townie, leading to getting a hb9 sleeping on the couch into your bed because she didn't feel safe downstairs? Shit, that happened in a single weekend...
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 05:27 PM
2

Say anything, they'll answer if they're interested and ignore otherwise. "Hey" or "hey whats up" are about all I bother with, unless there's something in their picture begging for a comment.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 04:38 PM
1

Hold your drink in your left hand, so you don't offer a cold and wet shake. Leave the straw/stirrer at the bar, one less thing in the way. Introduce yourself to people. Introduce them to other people you've already met. Make a little group that has you at the center, since you introduced them all. Have business cards ready. I usually bring 20-30. If you don't have a business or job, make them for yourself. It's called a "contact card". Feel free to list some of your attributes, like degrees, cer…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 04:32 PM
3

You're a superior in a startup family run business? So, you're the entitled son working at their parent's business that thinks you can get away with anything? You do realize any of these girls can destroy the business with a sexual harassment suit, right? Even just the sexual conversations you mentioned are the basis for a suit. You might see it as qualifying or giving IOI's, she's going to claim she had to play along with your advances out of fear of losing her job. Knock it the fuck off. Act l…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 04:19 PM
1

I once mockingly asked a friend who insists on always shaving before a date "Where do you stop? Back of the balls? Your asshole? Belly button? Belt line?" Without hesitation, he said "Knees to ears bro. It's all gotta go." Do whatever you want. All that matters is that you're happy with it. Personally, I buzz my body hair, just enough to keep it in check. It's all there, just trimmed a bit.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 03:21 PM
2

The difference between observing your surroundings and looking like you're lost is speed and expression. Look concerned? Moving fast? Non-commanding posture? Head and eyes darting around? You look lost, you're trying to find something, frantically. Look amused or bored? Pissed off even? In no rush? Commanding and confident posture? Surveying the world around you like a king looks over his kingdom? That's a whole different story. Savor the world around you. You wouldn't gulp fine whiskey like a s…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 03:03 PM
1

Cousin's brother is engaged to a girl He's not backing down now, he's in too deep. You'll get him when it falls through or they divorce. Until then, he sees no point. In his mind, he did the right thing, his life is perfect. He found a good girl and put a ring on her finger. In his eyes, you're the idiot who can't land a proper woman...
/r/askTRP21/07/16 02:50 PM
2

Your body doesn't just grow, you make it grow. It'll make your head look less big as well. Lift heavy, eat enough to support muscle growth. Protein is your friend, 1g/lb or 2g/kg (however you choose to weigh yourself). You'll never grow if you don't take in enough to support the growth, that's what tons of people mess up. Soft voice? Learn to speak from your diaphragm. Google is your friend, tons of tutorials/exercises to do. Grow a beard if you can. You don't need to look like a lumberjack, but…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 02:42 PM
8

You're able to have an LTR with any woman that doesn't suck and isn't fucked up. Meet them, screen them, date those that pass. Evaluate them, promote if appropriate. Never dive in assuming an LTR will come of it. That's many steps away. While we're on the subject of not assuming: Pussy might be tighter than a cheerio. Who knows if she's been doing kegels for 8 years and denying sex? Who knows if they only did it once a month? Who knows if he had a micropenis? Who says she's emotionally invested?…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 02:18 PM
11

Part of the reason those tactics work is because it's not how people naturally approach conversation. People want to talk about themselves. They want to share. Conversations quickly become two or more parties waiting for their turn to say what they wanted to say. Flipping that, pulling info, making the other person the center, gives you the control of the conversation and makes them feel special because it's different than the norm.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 02:11 PM
6

Dating for 6 months. Never fucked. Won't sleep with you, says you're not serious yet, even though you speak with her parents. Needs to be with you more than a year for it to be serious in her book. Slept with 5 guys in 3 years, while also dating a bunch of weird guys in the middle. Math ain't adding up bro. Trickle truth is a bitch, there's more she's hiding. Sounds like you're her beta bux.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 02:07 PM
2

Ever hear the term "echo chamber"? It's very common for people with a certain viewpoint to band together and essentially feed off of each other and support each other. People just love being told they're right, what better way to accomplish that than to surround yourself with people who agree with your view?
/r/askTRP21/07/16 02:00 PM
1

The Galaxy S7 has a feature that prevents the screen from turning on when in a dark place, like a pocket. If a girl fucked you over, you'd ditch her and find a new one, wouldn't you?
/r/askTRP21/07/16 01:11 PM
1

My fraternity had a half dozen guys who came to college late for whatever reason (EX: military first, college second). They pledged at 24-28, status of freshman through junior. We had quite a few guys that were pre-doctorate or going for masters that were in the same age group and in for years. Being the older guy is an advantage all around...
/r/askTRP21/07/16 01:02 PM
1

I've just got to accept that EVERYTHNG must be tried on/ fitted Doesn't matter what your body type is, that's the difference between just dressing and dressing well. I've seen shirts the same size from the same company wear very differently because it's a different cut. Polos, for example. Might find it in Classic, Modern, Fitted, Slim, and Custom cuts. I look good in a fitted or modern, but classic is too baggy at the bottom and slim is too tight at the top. Custom has shorter sleeves so my lon…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 12:47 PM
1

You can give all the fucks you want in private. Whine to your guy friends if you have to. The concept is "Outcome Independence". You don't give a fuck about what they're doing, as if it doesn't affect you (even if it does). The issue with genuinely giving a fuck with anything involving a girl is that you've shown concern, emotion. You're no longer a stoic rock they can cling to, you're getting thrown around in the sea of emotion with them. That's especially true when it's something as minor as b…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 12:39 PM
2

Giving less of a fuck is better than giving a full fuck. Sometimes you just need someone on the outside to point out the obvious. You can't see the full picture when you're part of it.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 08:33 PM
1

But whats the difference between xbox all day and face buried in phone on fakebook Girls rationalize their decision any way they have to. She wants to leave. She's not happy. Tingles are gone. What do you point the finger at? Her poor skills at choosing a partner? Her shitty self esteem keeping her with the shitty partner? Of course not, that would mean she's partially to blame. Must be the video games. Not her fault that way.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 08:29 PM
2

Take the pussy off a pedestal. Go talk to them. Not hit on. Not flirt. Not close. Not land a date. Fucking talk to them like a human. Just talk. TV. Movies. Class assignments. Local gossip. How excited you are to get a license. Who's having a party. Ask them where they got their necklace. Crack a joke. Whatever. Talk to girls you don't want. Talk to girls you know you can't ever get. Know you're not getting a number, a date, or a fuck. Just talk to them for the sake of practicing talking. When y…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 08:10 PM
2

Going no-contact only works if you've already fucked them, and they still want you. You never fucked her. She doesn't want you. No wonder it didn't make any difference. You don't matter to her beyond an orbiter giving validation. She'd have a harder time replacing a tire on her car than finding a new orbiter. Go lift. Go learn. Go read. Go improve yourself. Meet new people. Form new relationships. Get laid. Your happiness will overshadow missing her faster than anything else. Time doesn't heal w…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 08:06 PM
5

"We can reschedule, but I'll need a doctor's note" If you play the asshole card, "ew, don't come near me". You're not getting any pussy if you catch a summer flu. Not worth it. Find another girl that wants some sushi. If she's interested, she'll get back to you when she feels better, no big deal. If this is her shitty way to back out and save face, again, no big deal. You don't break frame, you don't waste your time. Say it's cool if she's not feeling well and to let me know how she feels later.…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 07:55 PM
2

I just flipped my shit and said wtf are you doing. Frame broken. What's her motive to tell me? Shit test. Wanted to see how you react. You failed. (Good response is "lol, he sounds desperate" or "is this how you propose a 3some" or "he's cute, what's his number?" or basically anything that shows you DGAF about his pathetic attempt and don't feel threatened.) What's my next move? Sell your company, worry about girls later. You're not marrying this one, and there's plenty more out there. Hotter, y…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 07:42 PM
1

You swallow the red pill when you realize that the way the world works, as told to you by parents/teachers/disney/etc isn't the way the world actually works. Read the sidebar and come to accept the truth. You're young, your best years are yet to come. Lay the foundation now before it's too late. Medication can't fix the root cause of your issues, only you can. That's why that shit isn't working. You're not chemically imbalanced, your life just fucking sucks. Make it suck less and you won't be so…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 07:35 PM
0

Go do something else. Maybe it's time to finally pay that utility bill. Laundry folded? Did you fix that lightbulb? Take out the trash? Kill that boss in a video game? Time for a sandwich? Are you actually going to sleep? Turn your back. Make distance. Cuddle a pillow. If you have a pet, even better, let out an "at least you love me" as you cuddle them. If it becomes a pattern, next.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 07:17 PM
2

Record her hurting herself. Narrate, as if it's the hundredth time you've seen it and just gave up trying to fix it. "Here's this crazy bitch hitting herself in the head again. Gonna blame it on me. Just recording it so I don't end up in jail. I know she's going to say I beat her because we're breaking up and doesn't want me to leave." Save it to the cloud for when she inevitably smashes your phone/PC/etc. Bet you a beer she breaks one of those. Get out of there as fast as possible. Get rid of h…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 07:11 PM
4

You're single now. Don't worry about the child you used to date, her parents will pick her up from daycare. Soft next, don't reply until she apologizes for her toddler tantrum. Promote her back to plate if she does, just ignore if she doesn't. P.S. Next time, don't lie, don't hide, don't apologize. Own it. It'll save you some time.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 07:03 PM
3

I concur, clear comfort test. Since it's a LTR, just confirm you wont get bored. If it was anything else "not if you keep me entertained"
/r/askTRP20/07/16 06:57 PM
3

They're slowly growing. Third time they're both capitalized. After that, an O gets thrown in. Before you know it, (oYo)~~<==8
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 06:37 PM
3

When it comes to IOI's, all women are basically the same. Doesn't matter what she looks like, where she comes from, she's going to give the same IOI's. No IOI's? She's just not interested. No tingles. You're not "missing them", they're not "more subtle", they're just not there. Cheeky is great, best tactic IMO. Don't change that. Refine it. If I was to give any advice, surprise her. Do/say/ask something unexpected. Make her stop in her tracks, snap out of the monotony. Remember, making her exper…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 06:19 PM
3

I promise you, just doing it and seeing that no harm comes (and, they actually enjoy it) will be the biggest help towards overcoming the fear of doing it. After a while, it just becomes natural, and that's when it becomes effective. For instance, in any noisy environment, if I can't hear a girl well, I dip my ear towards their mouth and put my hand on their hip/waist and pull them close enough to hear. It's a totally natural move, not aggressive or scary at all, but that contact and intimacy you…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 06:02 PM
3

You're afraid to touch girls because you've been conditioned to believe that it's wrong, inappropriate, etc. Reality is, they don't give a fuck, they actually enjoy it. Are you offended when some girl pulls you close for a picture? Do you freak out about harassment if she kisses your cheek while snapping a selfie? Fuck no, you smile. Just do it. Nothing bad is going to happen if you put your arm around a girl for a picture and actually touch her hip instead of hovering. Nothing bad is going to h…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 04:37 PM
2

There must be a knack to it That's what we refer to as "game". Finding that special balance between interest and aloofness, asshole and caring, blatant and covert, that gives girls the tingles. How do you generally approach these hot petite girls you want to fuck? Joke? Observation? Ask their opinion? Just start talking? Introduction? Buy them a drink? Throw spitballs down whatever cleavage they have? Gawk for half an hour and stammer out a "hello"? Tell them they're beautiful? When does it usua…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 04:18 PM
5

If you're having success with other girls, but not the ones that you really want, chances are that you're falling into orbiter behavior around them. Compliments, fawning over them, too much attention in general, being too nice, etc. You actually care, you're not outcome independent, you're losing abundance mentality. Game them like a big girl you're half interested in. DGAF.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 03:33 PM
2

Military doesn't just guarantee training and certification because you're there long enough, you have to pass the tests and prove yourself every step of the way. From what I gather, he was given the opportunity, but was cut for whatever reason. Can't be a pilot, so he tried to do something else, couldn't get re-designated, so they put him in reserves. Sucks, but now he has the free time to do basically whatever he wants outside of the military, only having to report periodically for PT/service.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 03:27 PM
3

I heard you're allowed to strangle hookers to death if you sit on the senate. But, you can't send them dick pics. That's a no-no.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 01:59 PM
2

If you're an autistic loser that gets crapped on, your height isn't the problem...
/r/askTRP20/07/16 01:57 PM
2

She is a family oriented person, good with my family, is almost always available to have sex and gives me a lot of attention. Works dead end job, only interested in TV and Movies. Are girls like this rare? Nope. Not at all. Most girls are like that... She was my first serious girlfriend. For all you know, this girl fucking sucks and you only think she's great because you have no point of reference for comparison.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 01:53 PM
0

Peter Dinklage gets laid. You can too. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Never going to have any success if you don't try.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 01:46 PM
5

You know they do that regardless, right? I had 3 girls offer to cook me dinner on Sunday. Had to turn them all down, already had a different girl in the kitchen making something (and that girl brought beer and did the dishes)... None of them got oily backrubs or jacuzzi cuddles. No gifts. No leather biker jacket. No music playlist. No dark wallpaper. No pina coladas.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 01:04 PM
1

Ditch her now before you wake up and think "where did half my shit go?" Her personality is one of a steamroller, she's just going to move forward and take what she wants until she's stopped by an immovable object. She's used to getting a pussy pass. At this point, staying at your place for a few days has already turned to her living at your place permanently while you support her and housekeep. Her complaints, her emotional manipulation, are just her way of maneuvering to get more from you. Befo…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 12:46 PM
4

Being with a "everyman nerd" raises her market value in her industry. She's hotter than ever to these nerds because she's dating one of them. They have hope that they can be next. That guy isn't spinning plates or landing hotties every week. They're in a mutually beneficial business relationship.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 12:36 PM
1

Yes, a few times. You ever hear those stories of a couple having a fight, the girl going out with friends, and the girl hooking up with some random guy? Be that random guy. How do you find that girl? You talk to everybody, which you should be doing anyway.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 12:25 PM
2

I'm trying to have sex with a hot girl I respect that you say "a" hot girl, and not "this" hot girl. So, go find "a" hot girl to have sex with, because "this" hot girl likely isn't going to fuck you. Take it as a lesson, do better next time. Don't lose sleep over it, we all strike out. We all fuck up. Luckily, there's a few billion more out there that you haven't fucked it up with yet.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 08:37 PM
2

Use smartass to your advantage. If you're entertaining yourself and getting an emotional response out of her (positive or negative), you're on the right path.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 08:04 PM
2

Sometimes you just need to see things from another perspective. Glad I could help. Now go put some girls on probation.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 08:02 PM
3

The answer is to hit the sidebar. Learn from your mistakes, move on to the next one, and don't do everything wrong this time. If you say "I still really want to fuck her, how do I save this", we're just going to say "you have oneitis". Fuck it, the world is full of hot girls. There's always another one to practice on.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 07:58 PM
2

Set her up to pull the age card again That's the part you only do in person. Don't bait it in a message. Good chance you just remind her and she stops answering. In person, not answering back isn't exactly an option.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 07:42 PM
2

Oh no, not at all. I'm pointing out that they look way cooler than someone like me does, at least on social media. I find it hilarious that even the most desperate girls run for the hills once they see behind the facade. It's incredible.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 07:31 PM
2

Keep up the good work, congrats on swallowing the red pill and accepting that the world really is the way it is, regardless of what Disney movies and your mommy told you. Everyone judges you. They judge your appearance. Your body. Your clothes. The way you talk. Your responses. No one is nice. Once you accept that, you can begin to control it. You can improve your appearance, your social interactions, your confidence, and begin to twist it all to your favor.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 07:21 PM
3

I've had a lot longer than 5 years to see where it goes. Nothing has changed in their lives, except they keep on accepting fatter and fatter single moms. A few are now marrying the same fat girl they've been dating on and off since high school, as they've accepted they'll never do better. It's clear what trajectory they're on. I'm so thankful I never fell into that. My life improves every day.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 06:56 PM
1

"Not a jacuzzi! The fireman made me promise after they got me out of the last one."
/r/askTRP19/07/16 06:28 PM
7

Regardless of your feelings, saying that you don't want a relationship or marriage, you're against it, effectively disqualifies you from most women. Even if they're looking for hookups, they need the plausible deniability and motivation that the potential for a relationship creates. Would you take a job if they told you "We'll probably fire you in a week, and there's no chance of ever getting a promotion or raise"? What if they said "You're hired, but on probation. Prove yourself, and you can ea…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 06:25 PM
6

Oh yes. Lived it first hand. Former room mate abused it to the fullest. Looks like the coolest guy in the world on Facebook. He lands fat single moms like you wouldn't believe. They stick around for a week, tops, before they catch on. Occasionally lands a hottie, but they're out just as fast. He loves to brag about how he gets tons of girls. We usually counter with "it's not fair to go by weight, you get a ton every 3rd or 4th girl, it takes us like 15 or 20".
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 06:02 PM
2

Don't worry about me. Self made, self supporting, very comfortable. Don't plan on kids, don't plan on marrying, just spinning plates and enjoying life to the fullest. Not settling down unless a unicorn sits on my face and deepthroats me.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 05:38 PM
0

How to increase your income: Write a useless book and get schmucks to buy it by telling them it will increase their income. Whatever you do, don't actuall use your own advice in the shitty book, and get convicted of tax fraud. "In 2009, Peter Hendrickson was convicted of filing multiple false income tax returns, including the 2002 and 2003 returns that he filed jointly with his wife. The tax returns at issue were based on the false and frivolous tax theories that Peter Hendrickson promoted in hi…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 04:31 PM
3

Your true friends, true supporters, will encourage you to better yourself. I guarantee that. The people who want you in their lives for what you can provide them will always want you to stay in your spot.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 04:13 PM
10

$7.50/hour, 160 hour/month, $1,200/month. $12,000 for a used 22ft cabin cruiser, about $180/month for a 60-month loan. Leaves $1,000/month to cover gas, dock slip, $400/month Mustang GT payment, etc. I'm really not making this up. They're up to their eyeballs in debt, (Often, more than annual salary, thanks to cosigning parents) but can afford to make the payments since they don't have any other expenses. They eat mom's food, use her laundry, internet, heat, electricity, etc. Hop on social media…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 04:03 PM
13

Shit no, and it's not the life I'm living. A lot of my highschool friends, guys that were alpha teenagers, just never changed while the world around them moved on. Many of them have gone incel around 30. Girls their age won't waste their time with a loser, their game doesn't work anymore. Younger girls think they're creepy. They eventually settle for a former GF, generally one that was knocked up by another loser, or an older woman. My 31 year old ex-roomate was recently dating an older woman. H…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 03:58 PM
11

Your thinking is flawed. These guys will never be beta bucks, they won't make money, they won't know how. Income is lower than ever for the next generation, guess what that means? More children, earlier. I'm not saying they're Chad, I'm saying they can get themselves laid with a 3/10 and pump out a half dozen welfare check recipients before the higher income kids get their college degree. The reason we have such big income disparity in our country is because low-income people have so many fuckin…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 03:44 PM
9

I know quite a few of them. Heck, some of them are pushing 30 year old virgin status and have blatantly said they've given up and accepted they'll never get laid. For every one of them, there's 2 or 3 that just never grew up, never decided to take on responsibility, and use living at home as an enabler to live a party boy lifestyle. They rub their new toys and cars in my face, crack jokes about "you say you make all this money but drive an Acura". I don't bother explaining how my property tax al…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 03:36 PM
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Didn't notice that caveat in your post. Doesn't matter if they're a failure later in life, my point is, they are out pumping babies into 20-something women while those of us who are "successful" are too busy working, improving, and gaming to be passing on our genes or getting roped into marriage. The failures living with their parents are the ones passing on their genes. Tons of studies support this, it's not just my perception. It's been this way FOREVER. 1945 Social Security office report, che…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 03:17 PM
7

Accept it, own it, it's part of you. Once you accept that it did happen, you can't go back in time and change it, you'll have an easier time dealing with the fallout. Confidence is key. Accepting yourself, loving yourself, is a vital step towards true confidence.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 03:01 PM
48

These guys are often the most attractive, contrary to your assumption. Tons of free time to work out, pursue hobbies, perfect their game, chase women. Can stay out late any night they want. Can go to the beach in the middle of the day if they want. Lost a job? So what? Not losing your place, not going hungry, just gotta listen to mom yell a few times a day until you find a new grill to stand over and flip burgers. Access to all the luxuries Mom and Dad can afford, and simply present it as their …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 02:54 PM
44

Your problems sound like they stem from being ashamed. You feel shame because you did some gay stuff. It's "wrong". You think people care and will think less of you, thus, you should be embarrassed. It's 2016, no one fucking cares if you did some homo shit in highschool. You tried to figure out who you are, that's what everyone does at that age. You found out you're not gay, not even bi. Lesson learned. Question answered. Problem solved. Move on.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 02:36 PM
2

You'll just meet people with the same values as you over time. It's incredibly common for friends to place you in a "box", you fill a certain role in their life. When you change, you no longer fill that role, and they do whatever they can to put you back in your spot. They see any change as a negative. If they're not with you, they're against you, don't be afraid to focus on yourself and let them whine behind your back.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 02:27 PM
2

If you're ugly or unattractive (slob, fat, etc), you better be rich and/or powerful. You can be an ugly alpha, you can have power, be a fun time, and get laid with hot women. It's totally possible. I see it all the time (especially in my area, where these guys have 2 pools on their yacht, one on either side of the helipad). It's far easier to be attractive. Even a rich and funny guy with the gift of gab and a yacht the size of an office building will struggle to get as many hot girls as a male u…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 01:32 PM
3

Take her home late, in the dark. Escalate before you even get inside. Pin her against the door, make out, get your hand up her skirt, etc. Take her right to the bed or couch and finish. Don't turn on lights. Don't give her a chance to even look around. Pick her up by the ass and carry her if you have to. If you invite her inside and let her look around, give a tour, etc. it's all over. She's thinking about your stuff, not your cock. Even if she sees how nice it is on her way out, even if she wan…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 01:25 PM
1

"I don't have big hips, I just wrapped my cock around so I don't step on it" On the dressing side, find pants that are tighter through the hips and looser in the thighs/legs to help even out your silhouette. For jeans, look at "relaxed fit" cuts. Nothing skinny, nothing tapered, generally speaking. For dress pants, avoid flat front, go pleated. Any good men's shop and/or tailor can help find what you need, very common. Sometimes, you're better off going a size up and tailoring the waist back dow…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 01:17 PM
4

Once is chance. Twice is coincidence. Three times is a pattern. She's flirting. Don't stick your pen in company ink, especially not an old post-wall hb6 that also owns the place. Unless, you know, you plan on divorcing her and having 1/4 the company...
/r/askTRP19/07/16 12:55 PM
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An LTR with your friend/acquaintance/family/coworker, or with some random beta bitch that can't satisfy her? If I know the dude, I don't fuck his girl. When they break up, I ask permission. If he says no, fuck it, few billion more out there. Better than losing a friend or having them show up to my house crying about her and trying to rearrange my face with a tire iron. Some random beta bitch's girl? Escalate. Get her alone and say "I know you're only flirting with me so much because your guy can…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 12:51 PM
1

Don't think of it as small talk, think of it as socialization practice. Going to the gym isn't fun. Reaching your goals, setting new PR's, getting strong, looking good, gaining confidence, improving your life, is the fun part. Socializing may not be fun to you, but learning to read people, engage them, make them smile, make them like you, entertain them, etc. is the fun part (especially when it leads to getting a number or a girl in bed).
/r/askTRP19/07/16 12:40 PM
1

Framed it that way for a reason. He feels guilty. He cares. This isn't just the best thing for him, but for her as well. Should feel guilty about staying, not leaving. We know women only want to swing to better partners, and from OP's story, that aint happening. She knows it. She's not going anywhere on her own. We can point out the way things should be, but this is TRP, we only acknowledge how things actually are.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 12:37 PM
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You wasted 3 years of her life already. You're doing her a disservice, you're preventing her from finding a man that wants her. You really think she's going to be less devastated the longer you wait? Her clock is ticking. You just pulled her off the market for her prime years. You said so yourself. Every day you let it go on is doing more harm than good. Just get it the fuck over with and stop wasting everyone's time.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 08:25 PM
20

Life is a journey, and you can choose your path. If you choose to live your life in your bedroom, enjoying TV and video games and porn, where does that land you 20 years down the line? If you choose to live your life working out, meeting people, forming relationships, bonding, fucking, dating, going out, where does that land you in a few decades? The point is, in all likelihood, you'll be sad and alone before long, and stay that way in a spiral of depression, if you choose to forego the outside …
/r/askTRP18/07/16 08:19 PM
1

You're thoroughly fucked up bro. I'm nowhere near skilled or knowledgeable to un-fuck you. Seek some professional help if you're truly this socially inept and scared of having a relationship with the opposite sex.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 07:35 PM
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Obvious troll is obvious.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 05:39 PM
30

"I'm nice to all the pretty girls". Smirk and walk away. I think we've all gotten a similar line before. It's sort of inevitable.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 05:29 PM
2

Put out and not gain 500 pounds. That's fucking it. In the US, more than 40% of women are obese. and nearly 60% are at least overweight. Moral is, there's only two things they have to do, and a huge portion of them fuck that up anyway.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 04:01 PM
1

I do have goals and I work on them furiously...I don't have plenty of time I wait for my phone to ring. I check if she's online. I'm getting sick on the idea that someone else fucks her. Those two statements are incongruous. If you're that busy, that focused on goals, with so little time you can't game other girls, you can't possibly have the time to stalk this girl and think about which Chad she's fucking all day. Go game other girls. Go improve yourself. When you don't have free time to just s…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 03:34 PM
1

The biggest benefit of social media is letting it hold back the competition. They're too busy sitting on the couch liking pictures of girls they're too afraid to talk to in real life to get in the way of my efforts. I spend the time most people use to browse FB/SC/Twitter/etc. to make money, talk to people, go to the gym, get chores done, and enjoy my hobbies.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 03:28 PM
1

You say that as if teenagers don't know the difference between a friend, relationship, and hookup. If you make it clear you're dating around, they either accept it or leave it. You set yourself up as "not dating anyone", she's going to hold that reference point. May not be an official relationship, but it's at least exclusive dating. If you start dating someone else, well, expect her to react like a teenager that just learned they BF is cheating on them.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 03:24 PM
0

You fell in love with a married coworker because she's an exceptionally friendly and sociable person? That's all I got from reading this. She's not fucking. She's not harassing. She's not giving out her number, or blowjobs, or anything. She's interested in people, makes them feel good about themselves, does nice things like make a cake on their birthday. You say she's "manipulating everyone to be friends with her", is she a huge cunt putting on a show? Ever cross your mind she might just be real…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 03:18 PM
1

When you said "straddling the line", I assumed you were already mulling the status. I don't even consider their status until they bring it up, the inevitable "what are we?" question. I don't state my intentions early on, they generally know what's up just by the way our interactions go. A ONS knows she's not getting a date, I don't even have her number. A FB knows what's going on when I only call at 2AM and never take her out. A plate knows I'm not taking her out for drinks just because I want a…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 03:04 PM
2

People generally want someone 2 levels higher than they are. Girls can often get guys 2+ levels higher. Just the way it is... Men generally can't. Getting someone on your level, to 2 levels lower, is pretty normal. Going 2 levels up is rare. What this basically means is that if you're a 5/10, the best you're going to get is another 5/10, but 3's and 4's are going to be your sweet spot. If you're chasing 6's and 7's, don't expect them to settle, better believe there's some male 8's and 9's showin…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 02:45 PM
1

You don't enter with the intention of turning them into a plate or LTR, you enter with an open mind to see what they are worthy of. Enjoy your time with her. Have fun. All you know right now is she's tolerable to be around and hot enough to be fuckable. You still have no clue if she's plate material, let alone, relationship material. I understand you texted her extensively and spent time together, but trust me, you have no clue who she is yet. The determination doesn't come from advice here, it …
/r/askTRP18/07/16 02:32 PM
1

Q1. Talk to everyone. Strike up conversation everywhere. Go to a restaurant with a bar for lunch, alone. Shoot the shit with whoever is there. Introduce yourself, get their name. Ask what they do. Comment on the news. The weather. Sports. Beer (I've met quite a few enthusiasts). Their watch. Ask about their meal. Crack a joke or two. Keep it light, don't bother them, read their body language, leave them alone if they're just trying to eat their meal in peace. In line at the supermarket? Waiting …
/r/askTRP18/07/16 01:54 PM
2

When women don't get outside validation, they rationalize their lifetime of validation as if it's still in effect. You know that woman in her 30's isn't getting proposals right now, that was when she was a hot 20 something. I've had women tell me "If I was your age, we'd be fucking in the car right now". Friends' moms. Older ladies at the bar. Etc. In their mind, they're still hot enough to get me, just the age in the way. I've seen quite a few talk about how clingy a certain guy is, how despera…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 01:45 PM
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Female management is going to be a nightmare. Just saying... Don't let them in to your private life, they will pry, you'll have to deflect. Some of them will make sexual comments or moves, it may even be as innocuous as asking for your help moving a heavy box (that happens to be in a spot where they can check out your ass). Ignore it, don't ever reciprocate, don't ever advance, sexual harassment only goes one way in the real world... Don't stick your pen in company ink, nor the daughter/niece/au…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 01:31 PM
1

Glad you followed some advice and made sure to escalate early and make your intentions clear. Out of orbit. She was telling me how our next date would involve sitting at her place watching a movie over wine. Generally speaking, when she starts making plans, you're entering her frame, she's taking control. she was future-focused and said future included me That's a sign of LTR seeking behavior. She's testing you for a relationship, and you didn't resist. If you plan on plating her, not having a r…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 01:21 PM
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Fair enough, I'll put away my crystal ball and refer him to a psychic for assistance. Or is a clairvoyant more appropriate for the situation? I presume getting the brother to a mind reader will be more hassle than it's worth, but I might have to consult my fortune teller on that one.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 07:28 PM
1

It might be the content. It might be delivery. It might be your tone. It might be your body language. It's very hard to say without seeing what's happening. But, to experience it so clearly in two different venues, two completely different contexts, it's clear there's some sort of persistent problem.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 07:09 PM
1

Sounds like you let the first date go on long enough for the spark to burn out. There a reason so many advise a short first meet, hour or so tops, drinks or lunch. She might legitimately be too busy to get to you. More likely, she's moved on and ghosted you.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 06:57 PM
1

Sounds like you're annoying people. Trying too hard perhaps? Too persistent? Too concerned with others and not about yourself? Sounds like you aren't gross or ugly, so it's likely the way you come off that's making others uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 06:52 PM
1

Ignore him. Consider it stoicism training. If he's dumb enough to push to violence, and you have the control, just deflect/pull an arm across, take his back, and lock in a rear naked choke. Let go 3-4 seconds after he goes limp, ignore the tap out. Sends a message that won't be misinterpreted.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 06:13 PM
1

That's pretty much the start and end of it. She gets half your shit. She gets the kids. She gets a percentage of your income going forward to cover the kids. You basically have to start your life over. I know a lot of divorced guys that went from BMW's, boats, and big houses to a studio apartment in a basement.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 06:07 PM
2

Congrats on swallowing the pill. Why are you so distant until we have sex then you're happy/open again? Sounds like you're swinging too far, making it too obvious. Shave down both sides if possible, don't open up so much after sex, don't close her off so hard in the off time. Find that balance. no marriage unless prenup FYI, prenup doesn't mean shit, there's some horror stories here of them being thrown out. She's going to agree to it sooner or later, and you're going to be put in the position o…
/r/askTRP15/07/16 06:03 PM
1

I'm prepared to let her go/return her to plate status if she doesn't come clean either. I'm not putting up with this b.s. Are you moving out, or is she? You mention she's your roommate, and you have feelings for her. You really prepared to watch her ride the cock carousel, in your shared residence, rubbing it in your face, while you still have feelings for her? Didn't think so, one of you needs to get out. Don't shit where you eat, fucking roommates/tenants is generally a bad idea for the same r…
/r/askTRP15/07/16 05:50 PM
1

Of course. If she's putting out, it's low-effort, and she's cute enough to get you hard, why not fill in the gaps and get in some practice? Always seems like they're willing to go the extra mile as well.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 05:38 PM
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Reads like unicorn vomit, with all the content of a queef. Post wall hag trying to justify why men should settle for her/her peers so she doesn't feel like the worthless meat bag she is. Nothing more.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 05:04 PM
2

If she is bailing, ignoring her wouldn't change her mind, asking won't change her mind. You're not breaking frame to confirm the meeting and prevent yourself from wasting your valuable time. You've already been texting her beyond setting plans anyway... Just send a simple "still on for tonight" the morning of. No response? That's a "no". Ignore and move on. She says yes? Great. Go get em. She says "no" or gives some excuse? Reply with "great" or "ok cool" and nothing else, for at least a few day…
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:56 PM
3

Is he physically assaulting you? If yes, press charges. If no, ignore him. Cut him out of your life. Move out if you have to. He's a bitch. He won't do shit. Certainly won't kill you...
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:25 PM
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You paint a picture of an orbiter. You've been texting her, not talking to her, although you have class with her and must see her in person regularly. You escalate with flirty texts, not in-person flirtation, kino, kissing, etc. You don't mention ever going on a date, taking her out, meeting up, etc. You don't mention even trying. She was receptive because they all girls love risk-free validation. She changed her whatsapp picture because she felt like it, or her bf said to. Nothing to do with yo…
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:18 PM
4

You're not the only one she's dating. When the more ones with higher SMV than you are filling her time, she's not thinking about you, she's not texting you. She's busy making them happy. When they're busy with their other plates, she's getting ignored, so she's turning her attention to you. Take what you can get, when you can get it. Remember to always have alternatives on deck for when she's off with Mr. Thundercock.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:10 PM
1

In the words of the wise Akon, "Doesn't matter, had sex". Congrats, you have a FB. Plates have to be spun. Are you spinning her? Is she spinning you? Not from the sounds of it. No effort beyond a "come over" text. Enjoy it while it lasts.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 01:08 PM
0

I see you don't work the gentleman angle.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 08:26 PM
3

Just don't go around doing it to every fucking girl in the bar lol The opportunity will only present itself a handful of times per night. If you're lucky, and the bartender likes you, maybe 3 or 4 times. Still, low cost/low effort/high success compared to a lot of others I've tried.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 12:31 PM
1

Totally true. In their eyes, staying those extra two hours at the bar gaming a girl is worth more than getting to work the next day. It's worth more than avoiding a DUI. It's worth more than their future.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 08:57 PM
1

Throwaway is because my main is prominent and I'm not trying to get doxxed... Damn near everyone here uses an alt. Don't forget to update us on your date.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 08:53 PM
3

Ask any 30 year old that had to move back in with their parents if all the parties and pussy was worth it. They'll all say yes, totally worth it. By 40, that tune changes. Reality smacks them in the face by then. Takes a while for them to realize they missed out on an entire life of fun and success in order to indulge in a decade of decadence.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 08:47 PM
3

Anything is possible. Might get both, might get one, might have it blow up in your face. Friend sounds like she already wants you, and knows your reputation. Probably a simple 1-date close. Set it up discreetly, like it's a secret meetup. Don't let the plate know anything. If the friend brings up the plate, "I don't tell plate name everything I do, do you?" Plate will see the "lack of interest" as you devote less time to her, and try harder for fear of losing you. (If not, fuck it, she's pulling…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 08:37 PM
1

Thanks for the laugh. Best of luck on your date.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 08:19 PM
0

Don't worry about me.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 07:50 PM
2

"If you're happy and you know it, touch her butt *clap clap*" On a serious note, the biggest part is recognizing opportunities and taking them. She's showing you a picture of her dog on her phone? Don't grab the phone, grab her hand holding the phone and pull it where you can see. Can you put your arm around her? Do it. Does she lean into you or lean forward/away? (Positive vs. negative response). If positive, escalate, turn your legs into hers. Lightly grab her leg to get her attention. Does sh…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 06:40 PM
1

Stop trying to use big words if you don't fully understand them, it doesn't make you look good. Self-aggrandizement is what you were looking for. I'm here to help, not sugar coat shit and tell you it's all going to be ok. Hard truths have the strongest impact. You dug a deep hole, it's going to be hard if not impossible to get back out. You're "friend" material in her mind. You said you were. You acted like it. It was the entire pretext for meeting. You even told her you're not dating. You backe…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 06:33 PM
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This is going to be fun to see played out in court. Women trying to prove men catcalled them or approached, just because they're a woman. Men trying to prove they did it because they're an attractive person and wouldn't approach an ugly woman. Nothing to do with gender, everything to do with looking good. Throw in the old "you could have had a cock under that skirt and I still would have said that", and your bases are covered. Attractive people aren't a protected class. Problem solved.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 05:56 PM
1

Let me know if I fucked up Did you fuck her? If you didn't, you fucked up. It's that simple.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 05:47 PM
1

You quoted my answer. Be forward. Make moves. Run solid game. Leave no question as to your motivations. You already shot yourself in the foot. If you want to plate her, pull off the game you do with all your other plates, but to perfection. If you don't have game, if you don't have other plates, good fucking luck getting out of orbit. P.S. That's not an ad hominem attack, it's an assumption based on the facts you've provided. Feel free to confirm or deny.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 05:43 PM
1

Are you trying to say you wouldn't want to be told if your partner was being unfaithful? Thanks for the laugh. No relationships here. It's assumed they're all fucking around, I know I am. Revealing to him that you were fucking his girl is generally just a way to have a beta with his feelings hurt to throw a punch at you, or show up to your door with a loaded gun. Not going to end pretty. And, again, what the fuck do you care if beta bitch is dating a whore? Not your problem, worry about yourself…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 05:36 PM
1

Another TRP troll emerges from under his bridge.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 03:32 PM
2

arguably doing the right thing It's the wrong thing, regardless of how much you argue the point. You look like a douchebag when you stir shit out of spite. No matter what. Why would her family seek retribution? They're going to stand behind their baby girl. They're going to protect her. You're the homewrecker that tried to break up her loving relationship and is now dragging her, and her whole family, through the mud because you couldn't get what you want. There's three sides to every story: you…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 03:30 PM
0

What do you gain? Is it making you money? Is it getting you laid? Is it just stirring shit and wasting your time? Inspiring her and her family to seek retribution? Digging your skeletons out of the closet? Slinging mud on your name? Contacting your plates/family and letting them know what scum you are? Your boss? Your grandma? Go spend those 5 minutes approaching new girls. It's a better investment, and less likely to ruin your life.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 02:45 PM
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What do you have to lose? You didn't chase. You didn't beg. You didn't bargain. SHE came back to YOU. She entered your frame, she's chasing you. You played the dread game properly. I guarantee if you kept trying, added/messenged her on social media, talked to her friends, etc. that she would double down and never give you the time of day. The fact that you just stepped back like it was her loss is what worked for you. Text her tomorrow, meet up for some coffee/drinks. Or, invite her to a party a…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 02:18 PM
3

Seeing as we've exchanged nearly 1,000 SMS's this week That's like 200x more than you need to set up logistics. Shall I bluntly tell her that "I'd like a make out partner"? Is this your first date ever? You had 1000 texts with her and you don't know what each other are looking for? I have a strict "looking for friends" only policy on my okcupid profile Good luck getting this to go somewhere. Between your profile, your texting, and your mentality (this sounds like oneitis), it seems like you're a…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 02:12 PM
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I call this one girl "Bubbles". She blows cum bubbles instead of swallowing. It's her thing, I don't judge. Another is "Bubba". She ate a shit ton of cocktail shrimp at a party when we first met. Forest Gump, "Bubba Gump Shrimp". Get it? One is "cookie monster". She ate an entire fucking box of chocolate chip cookies by herself, one at a time, sneaking them when no one was looking. Back and forth all night. "Chan" earned her name after a buddy commented she has the body of a 12 year old asian bo…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 02:01 PM
0

Sounds like someone is struggling. What are you having trouble with? Approaches? Dates? Closing? Money has nothing to do with it. Most here make it a point to hide wealth. Can't remember anyone encouraging it to be shown. I have no clue what percentage spin multiple plates, but it's really not that hard. If you can close one girl a month, and keep them on the hook for 2-3 months, you should have 2-3 plates at any given time. Come on, it's not that hard to manage one non-ONS close per month. Men …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 01:39 PM
2

I'm encouraging you not to miss opportunities for practice. You can certainly still approach potential girls, just ALSO approach everyone else you get the chance to. Your ratio of attempts:closes will improve as you improve your conversational skills. You'll only get better at it. Doesn't mean you wont find success right now. A broken clock is still right twice a day. Even if you suck, even if you botch it, you'll still get lucky here and there. I guarantee you won't get lucky if you don't try i…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 01:08 PM
1

Did you know it's Fashion Week in NYC right now? Want to guess what kind of places the models go after the runway events? Want to guess where all the hot, young, rich, daughters spend daddy's money? Post wall hags are hunting whales at country clubs or drowning their sorrows at dives.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 01:02 PM
1

Hit it on the nose brother. Upscale bars are my type of spot, rooftops and waterfronts. At the local hole-in-the-wall, most of this doesn't apply.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 12:54 PM
2

Not at all. Grown up frat boy. It's not all paddles and beer bongs, we learn some social tips as well. Again, I'm not writing this to apply to a dive bar in Alabama. Come to a charity event in NYC, show up to an exclusive club in LA, and these tips are far more applicable.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 12:53 PM
2

Bar napkins are the tiny square ones. You wrap it around the bottom, it's almost entirely hidden by your hand. I frequent a lot of cocktail hours/mixers/business/charity events, it's a very common thing to see.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 12:50 PM
1

In a bar, I lead by the hand, only real way through a crowd. Outside, linked arms, it keeps them very close. Far less awkward (especially when drunk) than an arm around the waist.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 12:45 PM
1

"Virgin cocktails" Bartenders all know what it means. They'll make you whatever drink you want and just leave out the alcohol. Virgin Mojito is my go-to (I love the taste), or, just a club with lime.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 12:36 PM
1

Many times I'm out, I'm not actually drinking. Virgin drinks are your friend. A virgin mojito still tastes great and no one will know the difference.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 12:34 PM
5

Most of this advice was learned in fraternity life. Part of our mission was to "appear well in any company".
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 12:31 PM
10

She says "thanks", you say "I accept tips, phone numbers preferred". It's an easy opener. It's a low-effort close. You can play it however you prefer. You're still getting your drink before the rest of the crowd anyway.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 12:29 PM
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I'm in New York. Everyone I know does cheek kisses. From great grandmas to babies. My friend's girlfriends, their moms, business associates, college friends I haven't seen in years, everyone gets a kiss on the cheek. It's very common, at least here. I guess it's worth mentioning, I'm not ugly or creepy. I've seen them deny ugly/creepy guys who try.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 08:52 PM
5

Guidelines, not rules. Please keep in mind, my area is full of higher end bars. If you're visiting more casual places, it's less of an issue. If you're going to places with a dress code, the hat shouldn't come. I'm sure you'd agree, a baseball hat is almost always in bad taste out at a bar or club.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 08:35 PM
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More importantly, being the only person in the group to extend a warm and dry handshake sets you apart in a positive way. Also avoids the awkward "switch hands and wipe it on my pants" move when you meet someone. No one looks good doing that.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 08:28 PM
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These are guidelines, not rules. Nothing here disqualifies you, I never even implied that. Don't mistake success for perfection. Just because you got laid, doesn't mean you didn't miss other opportunities, doesn't mean there isn't room for improvement. I'm sure there's a girl that will go home with your real alpha friend after he pounds on the bar, throws napkins, cracks racist jokes, talks about how much he hates Bernie, and bathed in Axe body spray. Can you accept that maybe the HB9 was turned…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 08:24 PM
18

I'm talking about Mystery style peacocking. Over the top stuff. Eyeliner and fuzzy hats with 30 bracelets and painted nails. Super flashy jewelry. I'm sure you'd agree, that's dead in today's game. Still, I see it happen here and there. Setting yourself apart with some style, some accessories, some quality stuff, is always a good idea. Conor McGregor is a good example of "modern peacocking" if you ask me. Sounds like you already have that box checked off.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 07:43 PM
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Good point, I'll add that on.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 07:04 PM
0

I'm in the US, a cheek kiss is standard unless it's a 100% cold meet (aka, a pickup). If I know their name, or at least get introduced, it's a cheek kiss. Interested or not, regardless of age. Bonus points for a hand on the hip, pulling them in.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 05:36 PM
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Blowjobs and anal are sodomy and illegal in some places (even between consenting adults). Public sex is illegal. Pretty sure putting a cellphone in her pussy and calling it so it vibrates is illegal as well (well, at least a violation of the T&C/EULA). Some people are no fun at all...
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 04:15 PM
3

I worked a minimum of 12 hour days, 7 days a week, and still went to the gym, still went out, still had hobbies, still did side work. Count your blessings. Get to the gym. Earn some more energy. Guess what I do now? 9-5 office job. I can't believe how much free time I have! I run a company on the side, go to the gym, play sports, go out with friends, etc. Count your blessings, get off your ass, stop bitching and complaining and making excuses, start getting shit done. I want to create my own... …
/r/askTRP12/07/16 03:59 PM
2

how will I know when and where to approach a woman? If you're interested, approach. Strike up a conversation. If they don't suck, and seem interested in you, get their number. Doesn't matter when or where. Sidewalk, restaurant, bar, club, car show, in the park playing frisbee, wherever. Then, just set up a meeting. Coffee, drinks, something casual. If she's single and looking for a relationship? If you get her number, she's available. That simple. If you don't, no biggie, there's a few billion l…
/r/askTRP12/07/16 03:48 PM
1

How do I gain respect from other men? Men respect those who respect themselves. Who set goals and achieve them. Who treat others with respect. Who have confidence and pride in themselves. Set some goals for yourself (whether physical, like hitting a certain weight in the gym, educational, professional, relationships, etc). Make a plan to achieve it, follow through. Learn to take pride in what you're capable of, hold your head high, look men in the eyes and shake their hand firmly. Learn to move …
/r/askTRP12/07/16 01:13 PM
2

Here I am, trying to summon the courage to hit on random girls Well there's your fuckin problem. You're trying to hit on girls, instead of opening a conversation and then flirting a bit. Go talk to people. ANYONE. Grandparents. Guys. Kids. Cashiers. Janitors. Strike up conversations everywhere. Use anything. News, directions, their shoes/clothes/phone, an event, etc. Learn how to start and hold a human conversation. You know who I talked to yesterday? My landscapers. The garbage men. Some random…
/r/askTRP12/07/16 01:02 PM
1

Sounds like she wants commitment. She knows that if she can get you to chase her, to "prove yourself" to her, that's more likely. Don't address it, ignore it, set up another meeting. Beware, she will bring it up and pry for an answer during your next meeting. Don't validate her, don't say something like "oh, no, I don't want to stop us, I enjoy this". Say something along the lines of "You'll know when it's over" or "I'll tell you when we're done". Answers the question so she's off your back. Put…
/r/askTRP12/07/16 12:36 PM
3

You're right, no debate there. You break the silence because silence is uncomfortable for you. Silence is uncomfortable for everyone, never forget that, use it as a tool.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 12:28 PM
2

Tell her you don't like it. She's going to do what she wants sooner or later regardless of what you say. If you don't like her after that, move on, 3,500,000,000-1.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 08:10 PM
1

Work with what you've got. If you can grow enough to have a properly styled beard (even if it's a chinstrap or goatee), go ahead and rock it. If it's patchy or incomplete, I'd vote to stay clean shaven until it comes in more fully. Patchy is never a good look.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 08:08 PM
1

Ever occur to you there's some real down broads that are also hot? Did it cross your mind that maybe, it's more enjoyable to fuck a girl you find attractive? Did you ever think that the thrill of approaching and closing a hottie is better than a zero-effort 3/10 with a great personality? Did you stop and take a second to notice I've repeatedly said "value" and not "cost"? You're so hung up on the pricetag of things you completely ignore my point that certain things are better than others. When i…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 07:51 PM
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I see you're stuck in your mindset. Enjoy having shitty things and ugly women. I'll be over here, enjoying the finer things. Notice I say "enjoying", not "flashing". Even people that know me, don't know what I have. It's solely for my enjoyment.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 07:42 PM
1

"when you have it they all want it so never let them know you have it" Grandpa has the right idea, you seem to misunderstand him. He's not saying to never have anything nice, he's saying don't go bragging about what you have.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 07:29 PM
1

You forget this is TRP. We don't own, we don't maintain, we just enjoy our turn and send it on to the next guy. I'm just taking her for a proverbial joyride around the block. So, to re-frame the question: Would you rather drive a Civic or a Rolls for the weekend, knowing it's free to you and you don't have to fix the damage? What about next weekend? You going after the Lambo or the Chevy Cobalt? You want a Taurus or a Ferrari?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 07:19 PM
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He said more valuable, not more expensive. The quality of a Rolls is undeniably better. It offers more in a very real sense. The features, the room, the fit and finish, the design, the power, the engineering, the customization. Price be damned, it's better, it has more value. You may prefer big booty latinas to rail thin blonde supermodels, but you can't deny the supermodels are hot, you can't deny that in the real world, they're going to be thought of as hotter by the majority.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 07:10 PM
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Bitches love drama. Duh.... P.S. Stop giving a fuck, especially when it's a girl you're not in a relationship with, not fucking, not even friends with, that you already decided to next.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 07:06 PM
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This is just a rant, no question at all...
/r/askTRP11/07/16 06:31 PM
1

You should find a job regardless, financial independence is an important step towards total independence. Consider a physical labor job if you have no experience. They pay halfway decently, you'll get a shit ton more activity in your life, and some of that stuff is handy to learn later in life (ex. knowing how to do your own siding, knowing how to fix a wall, knowing how to operate tools/machinery).
/r/askTRP11/07/16 04:31 PM
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IMO, it's one of the biggest things in sending the message of confidence and control, but many guys that fake it crack when confronted. Bouncers are good practice, if you can keep posture, eye contact, and conversation in their presence, you can do it anywhere (plus, they're far more likely to not bust your balls). You know you're doing it right if they call you "sir".
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:29 PM
2

Learn how to speak with your diaphragm, not your chest. Puff out your gut to draw in air, clench to push it out. Your voice will naturally get louder, project, and deepen. Here's a nice article and some exercises on the topic, and a second, for some more info
/r/askTRP11/07/16 04:06 PM
2

Lots of gyms take cash, just find one that has pre-paid membership. Probably, a local one, not a chain. My local gym does $99/3 months, pre-paid, no contract. You can do bodyweight exercise. You can run. You can download those BeachBody DVD's (everything from Insanity workout to hip-hop dancing. If you're in your room 23 hours a day, I know you know how to pirate shit.) You really don't need a gym, I lost damn near all my weight in my living room for free. You can eat healthy if you're willing t…
/r/askTRP11/07/16 04:00 PM
1

Coming up with puns/lines/jokes/flirts is a cornerstone of having game. Giving you lines would defeat the purpose. But, off the top of my head: "Mind if I swing through?" "I love meeting girls on the web" "Have you met Peter? He's pretty swell. You should give him a call -xxx-xxxx" "Do you prefer missionary, doggie, or spidey style?"
/r/askTRP11/07/16 03:50 PM
1

Pretty much. Women are used to being approached. Put them in a situation where they essentially "have their pick" and you find that all women pick the best guys. Women don't approach guys, so rotating them breaks this mindset. They're more receptive to the men, and feel the need to prove themselves and show value. Leads to better conversation all around, better chances for everyone, and the girl's selections are more varied. If you want some proof, here's a nice article and experiment.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 03:42 PM
1

Whatever you wear, wear it well, that matters more. Clean. Not wrinkled. Not faded/destroyed. Properly fit. Appropriate for the context. After that, it's whatever you prefer. Nothing wrong with switching up the style, especially if it fits the context.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 02:28 PM
1

Questions are a tool. A very useful one in the right context. One little question can inspire an entire conversation. It shouldn't be "21 questions", it should be a springboard. Asking their favorite meal to cook might bring up the story of how they learned to cook it. Family recipe, grandma's secret. Memories of preparing it. Disasters. Tales of cooking classes. Etc. Before you know it, you've qualified them, and opened a path for more conversation.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 02:22 PM
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Make friends with the organizer. Convince them that the men should stay and the women rotate. Instantly raises the chances of success for everyone involved, you included. Lean back, don't hunch forward, they'll lean in naturally. Go slow, no rush. Don't ask anything important, make it all a joke. You don't care how old they are. Where they went to school. Where they work. Do they have a dog or cat? Do they dress them in clothes? Like a pink tutu or little yellow rain jacket? Say it with a smirk,…
/r/askTRP11/07/16 01:56 PM
1

You dictate time and terms. She counter-offers if she's interested but your offer doesn't work. She tells you she's too busy/"will try"/has to check/doesn't know/will get back to you if she's not interested. IMO, if you've spent weeks trying to meet up, and she can't pull it off, you're nowhere near a priority in her life.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 01:46 PM
1

something about me is making me repulsive. I don't know what it is...It must be my mind, which in turn affects my whole demeanor diagnosed with Asperger's Sorry bro, but that makes it really hard to form social connections with other people. Even on the mild side of the spectrum, where people don't really notice, there's still something "off" during social interactions. Running game, spinning plates, forming relationships, etc. is going to be difficult. If you're as good looking as you say, lear…
/r/askTRP11/07/16 01:35 PM
1

Qualifying questions should be loaded, but you shouldn't give the opportunity to mirror you. You don't ask if they cook, you ask "what's your favorite meal to cook?". Don't tell her you love tacos. You don't ask if they like dancing, you ask "what's your favorite music to dance to?". Don't admit you don't dance. You don't ask if they have a job, you ask "where do you work?" You don't ask if they're active and play sports, you ask "what sports do you play?" You don't ask if they have a college de…
/r/askTRP11/07/16 01:24 PM
1

"because she's an attractive woman in today's society who shouldn't automatically be rewarded" If she provided great service, she fucking earned a tip. If she had everything given to her, are you really stupid enough to think she'd be serving assholes like you for a living?
/r/askTRP11/07/16 01:15 PM
1

She kept doing it, throwing dozens of punches. Once is a dick move. Twice deserves a warning that you would have knocked her dumb ass out already if she was a man. Third time is when you just fucking leave. Not a word. Not a glance. Grab your shit, stand up, walk out. Fuck the bill, fuck desert, fuck the drink in your glass.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 01:13 PM
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As a salesman, I can't tell you how powerful silence is, when used properly. Explain the product, the benefits, the price, and then just stop. They're thinking. They're mulling their options. They're in their own head and you're not disturbing them. They reach a conclusion and realize you haven't prompted them for an answer. You're not bugging them. Holy shit, have you just changed the dynamic. You're not desperate or hungry for a sale, you just educated them. They ALWAYS break the silence, they…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 12:59 PM
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More than just moving slowly, move with purpose, authority. Good posture, head up, no hesitation or second guessing. Hold your path, hold your ground. All the sudden, you'll notice most people bumping into you or standing in your way apologize. Not in a "you've intimidated me" way, but a "I respect you" kind of way. If you're used to being the guy getting bumped into without so much as having them look at you, the change is incredible. In conversation, pause before you respond. Not long, about h…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 12:49 PM
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Any person on this subreddit who claims that he has attracted every woman he has ever met is lying through his teeth. I've been here a while, and don't recall anyone claiming a 100% close rate. What people need to learn is that they are looking to attract one subset of women. The hot ones? I get what you're trying to say, but the thing is, the teachings here make you more attractive to damn near every woman in the world. The confidence to approach and converse without fear or intimidation. Succe…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 12:35 PM
1

When the river runs red, play in the mud. Or put down a towel (take the tampon out first...) Or blowjobs. Thank her for the heads up so you didn't make too much of a mess.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 12:41 PM
3

They think it will get them laid, that's the only reason. Why? In their mind, all men are pigs after sex and they just separated themselves from all other men by posting that, so girls will flock to them. Reality is, best case scenario, they're now an emotional tampon. Worse case scenario, they look like a total beta bitch.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 12:37 PM
11

Girls are bitches to each other. Men provide validation. So, some girls chose to avoid the bitching and just get validation.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 12:31 PM
2

Wow, some one has some anger issues. When this little asshole has me thrown in jail for assault and his family sues me for everything I worked a lifetime to earn, guess who still comes out on top... Just not worth it bro. I watch this guy continue to be a failure while I succeed every way possible. That's the best revenge.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 12:29 PM
2

I have something to lose, he doesn't. I cried about it while balls deep in his girl, and wiped my tears on her tits. idgaf, not my first fight, not the first one I lost either
/r/askTRP09/07/16 01:21 PM
2

Truth. The betas bank on it as if it can happen.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 01:17 PM
2

Should I come slap you in the face with a printout of the sidebar? Yes, AWALT. They crave attention, they crave validation. They NEED IT TO SURVIVE. That's the sole purpose of orbiters, to float around a girl and provide her with compliments and shit she wants/needs so she feels good about herself, without getting anything in return. Girls measure their worth by how many guys are wrapped around their finger. Their "pissing contests" consist of what compliments they've gotten, how many likes they…
/r/askTRP08/07/16 06:21 PM
2

Have you asked her out? Have you pursued anyone else? Have you at least lost your virginity? Are you obsessing over her, staring at her in class, reading and liking every facebook post and snapchat?
/r/askTRP08/07/16 05:48 PM
1

Swallowing the red pill is akin to realizing you're a drug addict. Even if everyone else around you sees it, even if they all encourage/force/demand you get help, it's all for nothing if the person doesn't realize it, if they don't want to change. What do you do? Show your dad the truth through your life. Walk the RP path, reap the benefits, and when he asks, be straight with him. Don't lecture. Don't preach. Don't teach. Just exist and hope he finally realizes just how great life can be when no…
/r/askTRP08/07/16 05:47 PM
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Plausible deniability/shit test/beta repellent/slut armor, especially when in an online dating profile. If she's actually looking for friends, she'd just hop on facebook and look at "people you may know". Remain unfazed. Trust me, they're fucking lying. Meet under the pretext of friends. Coffee or something else neutral. Treat it like any other first date. Run game. From square one, run game. Kiss her on the cheek, don't shake her hand. Sit next to her, not across the table, etc. Be charming. Go…
/r/askTRP08/07/16 05:43 PM
2

Just Google "model name Wishlist" Camgirl, model, ig hoe, escort, porn star, whatever. They all have one. Some are crazy, $3k shoes, range rovers, etc. That don't usually publicize it, videos are hard to find
/r/askTRP08/07/16 05:02 PM
2

Get outside and meet some people. Start conversations. It's so natural for people to just avoid contact with others. Train yourself to talk to basically anyone you encounter, even if it's just "beautiful day out, don't you think?" or "does this street lead to the park?" Literally anything, ask questions, be friendly. Foreign language? Learn how to say "I'm still learning _" / "how do you say _?" / "where is ___" in that language. Practice on anyone you end up next to. Waiting to cross a street? …
/r/askTRP08/07/16 02:18 PM
1

I never tell anyone my results, I see no point It's called "making conversation". It's a relevant topic among students at the time grades come out. I Especially see no point in even talking about collage with girls I just wan to sleep with. You're not getting laid if you can't get them to engage in conversation. I recognize your username. Not to be that asshole, but you post some cringy failures here time and again. It usually seems related to your ability to hold a conversation, although you cl…
/r/askTRP08/07/16 02:08 PM
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I had a guy ask me over facebook if I was seeing his girl, and I confirmed. Like "Sorry to break it to you, she ain't loyal." He said something like "aight cool thanks" and that was that, or so I thought. Later that week, he and 10 of his friends jumped me while I was out for a run. The pussy didn't even hit me. Squared up, said he wanted to fight me over her, I agreed (wasn't much of an option at that point), and his friend elbowed me in the back of the head while the other guys jumped in. I ci…
/r/askTRP08/07/16 01:26 PM
5

It's your stereotypical "good guy" blue-pill conditioning. They see themselves as the knight in shining armor that rescues the damsel in distress, who then throws herself at him and they live happily ever after. If you ask me, the "covert contract" these guys have in their head is fucking creepy. At least running game it's clear to both parties exactly what is intended. No games, no bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 01:04 PM
1

Most people are terrified to death of approaching someone and being shot down. If you act like most people, expect to be treated like most people.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 12:51 PM
2

Idiots are the ones who stick to "what they know is right" even when smacked in the face with evidence. Now that it's pointed out, I know you see what was really going on. You'll learn over time how to read these situations while they're happening. Learn from it and move on.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 12:50 PM
2

I get how you made that assumption, but the reality is a bit different. Not a childhood friend, just some random girl who wouldn't give me the time of day in highschool but we knew who each other were. I was fat in highschool and dropped weight in college and she suddenly wanted to hang out. I never said or implied I was buying her a damn thing. She invited me to come shopping, not vice-versa. She saw me drop a few thousand on myself, as I needed a whole new wardrobe (including business wear for…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 12:39 PM
7

There's so many desperate guys out there that fall for this that girls will always have a huge pool of guys tripping over themselves to do whatever task they ask.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 07:13 PM
3

From the sounds of it, you shot yourself in the foot from the beginning and then kept shooting. Didn't close when you saw her outside of class, in fact, you never closed. You're no threat, you're no potential hookup, you're just a friendly guy now. She got your number, for a completely unrelated reason. You went along with that reason, and again, did nothing outside of that context. You're confirmed to just be a friend. You see this girl on a near daily basis and don't talk to her? Never advance…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 07:06 PM
1

Goes on a scale of 1-10 and she's not a dude. If you have something more appropriate, I'm all ears.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 06:48 PM
3

She loves the validation and attention your lavishing her with. She loves that you flirt with her. She loves that it's clear you want her. She loves knowing she's in control and gets to deny you over and over and you'll come crawling back because you want her so bad. She loves knowing she can get you to leave a girl you're flirting with, a girl you might actually have a chance with, just by flipping her hair or whatever move it is she does to get your attention. She loves that she can control yo…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 06:32 PM
5

They only bring that stuff up because they fear being slut shamed, have to rationalize themselves as not being a slut. Call them out on it. Get a rise out of them. Then, placate them. What do you say to a girl who feels really slutty for sleeping with you on the first date? "You're my little slut" "I have never done this before" "Won't be your last first time with me" or "you know you loved it" Then, placate: "It's our little secret, I don't kiss and tell" or "What we do is between us" or "Sluts…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 05:57 PM
6

I've never gotten along with a girl like I have with her Sounds like there is a lot more talking than doing. She insisted on paying for my stuff on several occasions. Now she "doesn't owe you anything". She won't feel any obligation. She's in control. She initiates the majority of PDA. Always touchy, sitting on my lap, being cute and whatever. She asks me to hang out, she initiates way more texting than I do. Bummed out when I almost flaked out on her. Sounds like she's giving just enough attent…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 04:35 PM
1

They don't give a fuck. If anything, it's a boost to SMV. You're sexually active. You're in demand. You're safe. Only time it's a problem is if you lied to her and said you're not seeing anyone and she's the only girl in your life. I have an iPhone charger next to my bed. I'm an android user (so there's 2 android chargers...) You really think they don't see that and instantly realize what's up?
/r/askTRP07/07/16 04:28 PM
1

HB3 is generous, I'd say she's a 2 if you factor in her personality/attitude/skills/intelligence. She's a very unpleasant person to be around. She's got a face like this and one of those bodies where her gut sticks out further than her tits, and her fupa sticks out further than her gut...
/r/askTRP07/07/16 03:59 PM
1

Girls that believe in "finding the right guy I can connect with" or "one true love" bs. All girls say they believe that. They say it's what they're looking for. As we know, actions speak louder than words. Others are SJWs/chicks who get triggered easily and will shut a good alpha down for escalating (at all). Those are just horrible people. They don't want a beta, just like a beta doesn't want to support a post-wall slut with kids from previous hookups, but they dig themselves into that hole and…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 03:01 PM
1

never burn bridges Words to live by, in damn near every context.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 02:50 PM
2

Is that from the same guy that invented the screen door for submarines?
/r/askTRP07/07/16 02:48 PM
9

Bars close at 4AM in my area: Happy hour (5-9PM) is always easy to meet people and get numbers. You're "just waiting for a friend to get off work...must be stuck in traffic", but I've never even had it come up. Generally speaking, pretty high quality prospects (girls with educations and jobs). Can hold a conversation, can actually have some interaction. 10PM-12AM is the prime window for club pickups around me. If you're a dancer and planning on just getting on the floor and escalating a girl, th…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 02:40 PM
2

I've got a friend that does that too. He has a GF (a HB3, he's a 300lb neckbeard) but follows this one girl around like a puppy. Claims "she's like a sister", but it's clear he's playing nice guy and hoping she falls for him. Does anything she asks. Pays for anything she needs (dropped phone-he bought her a new one after she cried about it). She plays him to the fullest, giving just enough affection to keep him hooked. White knights this girl like you wouldn't believe. Always there to defend her…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 02:00 PM
2

So, suggest to watch something on cable or Netflix. Tell her to make herself comfortable and put on something to watch (she won't be able to choose...) while you grab something to snack on. Come back with simple snack and whatever alcohol she drinks (3 dates, you should know by now). Wherever she chose to make herself comfortable, sit right next to her. Hand her a drink, take the remote, and choose something. You're already next to her, you already have some contact, escalate from there.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 01:51 PM
5

Essentially, you "soft next" them. Don't reach out for contact, don't invite them places, just pull back. They get the hint sooner or later. If they do reach out, if they do invite you, be friendly and keep it short, but refuse it. Even if it's "I think XYZ is that same day, I have to check, I'll get back to you" and then just don't get back to them. If they confront you on it, you "just forgot". They assume you're busy, or a flake, or whatever. Not an asshole.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 01:40 PM
1

Good to hear. Sticking to your guns in that situation isn't easy for most. When a girl tells me she wants to go out to dinner, date, etc. and I'm amenable to it, my go-to line is "where are you taking me?". Instantly, it's "I don't know, uhhh, where do you want to go?" It's like its hardwired into their brain to never decide. They get their "date", I get a free meal/drinks at a place of my choosing.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 01:35 PM
6

If you're near vegas/LA/Miami/NYC, there's some high-end (read pornstars/models) escorts available. I mean, "companions", that are willing to "spend some time with you" in exchange for a "donation"... There's some available basically everywhere. Even nebraska. www.eros.com
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 01:06 PM
1

Yea man, she's certainly maneuvering for a relationship. I read the FR, seems like you played your cards well (made her reward you for doing what she wanted). Be careful as you walk the line between fuckboy hookup and plate. She's going to see the "upgrade" as a step towards relationship. She's pointing out the change to see how you respond, hoping you validate that you're looking for more than her hole. Expect her to bend over backwards to make you happy, get you "hooked", and then start making…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 12:52 PM
3

Her talking about dating other guys just makes me want to run a mile, I don't know why women do this! They're shit testing you while proving value. Haven't you read the sidebar in TRP yet? Alphas DGAF. It's assumed that any girl worth pursuing is being pursued by others. They know it's just their turn with her. They're just there to enjoy everything they can, while they can, knowing it's temporary and there will be many more out there to enjoy when this ride ends. Betas are the ones concerned wi…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 12:41 PM
1

Quite the opposite, we're here to improve ourselves, to reach our full potential. It's not about putting others down, it's about pulling ourselves up in a way that makes others naturally gravitate towards us. A rambling story of failure doesn't contribute much to the cause, other than provide another example of what not to do/ just how bad you can be. If you had character and self respect, you wouldn't have spent a year of your life trying to steal your only friend's girlfriend. That's pretty fu…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 12:32 PM
2

4-5 hours is prime for a weekend hookup. Have her come after work on a Friday. Do the logistics, get a train schedule or send her mapquest directions. She'll get there just in time to meet you, hit up a bar, get some drinks, and take her home. Do something fun on Saturday, (it's summer, there's fairs and events going on everywhere). End it with a "date" (you gotta eat) and then take her home for some fun. You can do it on your terms, not saying you have to buy her dinner, you can just as easily …
/r/askTRP06/07/16 08:10 PM
1

If your game is on point, yea, go bang one out tonight after she picks up the box of her shit. The faster you move on, the sooner you can start enjoying life on your terms again. If you're rusty after being in an LTR for so long, or you're still emotionally stuck on her, I suggest you clear your head and focus on yourself for a bit. Get her shit out of your life, wipe away reminders (figuratively and literally, clean the house, spring cleaning style), start with a clean palate. Move furniture, m…
/r/askTRP06/07/16 07:55 PM
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Doing what she asks- entering her frame. Giving her what she wants on your terms- keeping frame. How's that work? "What are you treating me to?" She wants a movie? You'll go along, if she's paying and it's a movie you wanted to see anyway. You'll cuddle in the chair, you'll do the whole date thing, you'll enjoy yourself, but it's clear it's her taking you out, not vice-versa. She's proving herself, not the other way around. Suddenly, she's pulled right back into your frame, or is forced to put h…
/r/askTRP06/07/16 07:41 PM
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Thanks for the laugh. Did the mods delete your post, or did you?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 07:18 PM
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You're spot on. That's a textbook line in this scenario. I promise you, that's literally all it is. She will re-write history in her mind to justify what she's doing. Girls can't ever be "the bad guy", they can't live with themselves. They NEED to rationalize their decision in a way where they're innocent, protecting themselves, doing the right thing, even if it means ignoring reality and creating one from scratch. TRP is full of examples of this, yours is one of many. Learn from the experience …
/r/askTRP06/07/16 07:11 PM
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Rationalization is a bitch. Girls find/make/warp/imagine a scenario where they're not the one to blame. They're innocent, it's all your fault. Reality is, she checked out, she moved on, she doesn't really have a good reason for it other than the tingle is gone (and girls need a reason, like I said before). She'd be a cold hearted bitch to leave you just for that, so that can't be her reality. Her reality is that she's given you opportunities to make her want to stay, and you have failed. Thus, s…
/r/askTRP06/07/16 07:06 PM
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I think you misunderstand what it means to "steal a girlfriend". We usually mean "I fucked her and she left him for me". She held your hand under a blanket while watching a movie once? Never left him? He was fucking her while you were her emotional tampon? For a year? R sounds beta, but a whole lot less beta than you. You sound like a savant, not a bad boy. Maybe R let it go on so long because he felt bad for you?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 06:54 PM
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Can you imagine if instead of "nice guy TM"s being a thing, sexless orbiters got approval for their behavior and society coddled and backed them up, and their only issue was girls mysteriously never being attracted to them sexually? We call those "white knights". Society as a whole may not support them, but then again, society as a whole certainly doesn't support land whales. There's still the groups that stroke their ego and say they're doing the right thing.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 06:46 PM
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Sounds like a serial monogamist fishing for her next LTR. Qualifying you by asking about other dates, making sure you won't be boring. Mentioning how single she is with the hopes you'll fix that problem (she knows men love giving solutions to problems). She took you home, insisted on coming in and seeing your apartment, after a great time together, not a first date either, and you didn't fuck her? Am I missing something here, or did you really have a girl insist on taking you home, coming inside…
/r/askTRP06/07/16 06:17 PM
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Are you in a different town, or a different country? Hop on a train and go bang this girl. Or, tell her to hop on a train/taxi/bus/whatever. Responding doesn't kill the attraction, especially if you answer positively. If you really care, just give her something like "Good, but I'd be doing better if your nose was in my belly button".
/r/askTRP06/07/16 06:07 PM
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When a girl starts making plans without you in them (like checking a house, for themselves, without telling you), she's already broken up with you. She's checked out of the relationship. When she hangs out with her partying cheater of a friend, you already know it's because she wants that life as well. Your only chance to save face is to make it official before she does. Just be glad you didn't waste too much time and resources on her. Pack her shit, get it out, and tell her it's just not workin…
/r/askTRP06/07/16 05:57 PM
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I'd agree 100%. The mission, the "get off your ass and do what you KNOW is the right thing to do, without having to ASK" is something girls love. I've done a shit ton of charity work in my years, girls don't give two fucks about it (I don't mean I work in a soup kitchen, I've been on the board of directors for 6 different major charities and participated in far more.)
/r/askTRP06/07/16 04:32 PM
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Girls don't shit test if they don't care, if they're not interested. Generally speaking, it's a good thing. Only a problem if you can't back up your image. You show up in biker boots and a leather jacket and admit you don't have a motorcycle? Good luck.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 04:25 PM
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I come from a similar background, always had money. Truly, never helped when it came to girls. At this point, I can't remember the last girl I picked up where I even mentioned what I have or showed it in any way. I can remember quite a few that I "stole" from some guy bragging about his watch/car/jewelry/income that just plain weren't reading body language or passing tests.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 04:07 PM
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I pull the "I'm broke this week" test as well if I'm suspicious. They give themselves away quickly. I'm pretty good about hiding it and noticing their tests. I don't wear nice stuff on first dates or while prospecting (I dress well, but I'm wearing a Seiko, not a Rolex, $15 aviators, not Ray Bans). If they change when they find out, they get dropped pretty quickly. Luckily, I've found a few that just don't seem to care. Before I swallowed the pill, I used to feel like I NEEDED that stuff to get …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 03:51 PM
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I usually just walk away. I took one up on the offer a while back because I needed clothes and didn't want to go alone, and she had good fashion sense. (She knew me from highschool, knew my family.) Tried some stuff on, took her advice, ended up dropping quite a bit on myself. She asked to go to VS on the way out, I obliged. She kept pulling stuff out and asking if I liked it, "yea, you should get that" or "you have to try that on first". She modeled some lingerie for me, ended up with a huge pi…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 03:30 PM
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I don't post most of my life on social media just because of this phenomenon. It's incredible how quickly a girl changes when she sees dollar signs. Conversations quickly go from what we do, what we enjoy, to what I have and what they want... It's amazing how many girls invite you to come shopping after they find out you're well off.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 02:06 PM
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Who needs a rite of passage? What is this, Babylonia? Go train some martial arts, BJJ is a good idea because it's actually very useful in a real fight, and one of the few martial arts you can practice with full force and speed. Spar. You might win, you'll probably lose a lot more, but do it with honor and everyone will respect you regardless. I promise you won't be ostracized or made fun of. In fact, quite the opposite, you'll be welcomed and helped so long as you're trying your hardest. Don't b…
/r/askTRP06/07/16 01:52 PM
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Go get tattoos. Obviously, from a good artist, and work that reflects your lifestyle. Kills two birds with one stone. Helps you get rid of that reminder, and girls love tattoos.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 01:41 PM
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Depends on the context. Bar pickup/ONS? Not getting mentioned, they know what's up. I don't even get their number or full name most of the time... Lunch/dinner dates? Online dating? I don't bring it up, I just push to meet. They always make a point of asking/mentioning, I say something along the lines of "I'm dating around, trying to find the right girl." Makes it clear there's other girls in the picture. Makes it clear they have a shot at locking you down if they're "the right girl", which gene…
/r/askTRP06/07/16 01:07 PM
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This is my throwaway account which I use to relieve my negativity with stupid rants and all my radical opinions The fact that you have this in the first place is a sign. Most people don't rant. Most people don't need to relieve negativity. Most people don't have radical opinions they need to share. Being poor is no excuse. I've been homeless, life isn't always easy. Doesn't mean you cant get outside and run, do pushups, etc. I'm sure you have libraries in your area, you can always read, learn, a…
/r/askTRP06/07/16 12:52 PM
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The guys pulling a sale a week are the top of the game, no debate there. Your "burger flipper" type of person will never be able to do it. Point is, it's possible, and lucrative. In my area, closings boomed this year. Was just speaking to a broker going to 3 closings this week, about to make ~$20k in commissions. One of my clients specializes in high-end houses. She closed one last month for a $50k commission. She gets 3-4 sales per year and lives pretty comfortably.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 12:45 PM
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The guys pulling a sale a week are the top of the game, no debate there. Your "burger flipper" type of person will never be able to do it. Point is, it's possible, and lucrative. In my area, closings boomed this year. Was just speaking to a broker going to 3 closings this week, about to make ~$20k in commissions. One of my clients specializes in high-end houses. She closed one last month for a $50k commission. She gets 3-4 sales per year and lives pretty comfortably.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 12:45 PM
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Glad I could help you see it from the other side. In my experience, the way this is repaired is by backing off a bit. Do your job, do it well, and just be a good person. You'll edge back in (especially if this guy is a superior and all he hears/sees are good things). Buying him a beer or a bottle of his favorite liquor next time you're on shore won't hurt either. I guarantee you if you cling onto this guy, try to make it up, etc. he's just going to get sick of you. Don't apologize. Don't bring i…
/r/askTRP06/07/16 12:37 PM
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Adult onset autism/aspergers is a thing. You're not describing depression. You're not describing mania/MD/BPD. You're not describing anxiety. You are describing Autism spectrum disorders Cant control your emotions or influence your mood. Being "in your head". Disconnected from feelings. Can't hold a conversation or articulate thoughts. Obsessed with video games, particularly one, *(PES in your case, sounds stupid, I know, but it's a sign). Lack of empathy (clear from your comments to be potentia…
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:19 PM
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You can spin plates till you die. Doesn't matter how old you get, there's always younger women. You may not be landing 20-something HB8's when you're 87 and in a nursing home, but there's going to be some hot 65 year olds ready for action. One of my plates was a nurse at an elderly home. She quit after she was instructed to assist some 80-somethings have sex when they got too old and decrepit to do it themselves. (Like, help guide his cock in.) Point is, you'll be fucking literally until you're …
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:03 PM
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You asked her to stop. If you just stopped, she'd stop too to see why. It would also reinforce that YOU are important to YOU, she's secondary. If she kept going, fuck it, you know where she's headed. I bet you threw that can away, like she instructed, instead of balancing it on her head or dropping it in her lap, didn't you? Her showering affection after pissing you off is just a female's way of controlling you. She knows it'll stop you. She knows it works. You allow it to work. We both know it …
/r/askTRP05/07/16 03:52 PM
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Ever smoke weed with friends? It gets passed around. Sometimes, it comes back for another round. Generally, you're not the first or last to hit it, and often, you're not the only one currently hitting it. Think that affects how high you get? Girls are the same. You're not the first, not the last, but that makes no difference for how much fun you can have while it's your turn.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 03:03 PM
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