Link to op: https://archive.is/65hbu

Summary: OP uses his fiances laptop and stumbles on her diary where she explicitly states "Sex with by fiance is a chore".

Body:

I kept reading here's a summary: Greg is her ex and he's kind of a loser these days doing coke and hanging out with felons who get him in trouble but she writes about when they dated and how fun it all was. She writes about being younger and freer and then she starts talking about what it was like to have sex with him and how good it was because she was never stressed out like she is these days and how she loved sneaking out in the middle of the night to go to his place and have to have quiet sex because roommates. She says she wishes she could recreate those feelings that car sex and quiet bathroom sex at a party gave her.

She "loves" her fiance, but she is simply alpha-widowed and it isnt much OP can do to change that, if he only knew what we do.

She said, "I am now a respectable contributing member of society and I guess that means I should have respectable vanilla missionary sex for the next 30 years and wear practical shoes and get a practical haircut. This wouldn't be so bad if sex with Joey didn't make me feel the opposite of alive. Sex now is like a chore.

"sex makes me feel opposite of alive. Sex now is like a chore." I mean it doesnt get any clearer than that, straight from the horses mouth, even with RP-lingo: "chore-sex".

I'm Joey. And this honestly made me feel an inch big. We have talked openly about sex and we used to be more adventurous but these days I initiate all the time and suggest kinkier (not illegal) ideas and she shoots them down because she's too tired and stressed. When we do have sex its good for me and I thought good for her although it can be pretty routine.

He tried "talking" with her about adventurous sex and she "is too tired". I would imagine he is also asking for permission to kiss her...

Any comments left pointing out that she settled for him and that what little sex they have now is most certainly is going to die out after the marriage gets downvoted to oblivion.

Lessons learnt:

  • Dont date alpha-widowed women (unless your top-tier alpha I guess?)
  • EDIT: A lot of people keeps posting that they did come back from chores-sex so Ill leave this edit here, There is no coming back from chore-sex, you already placed in her beta-file.
  • Women dont want to have to tell you how to turn them on, it defeats the purpose of being a man (she doesnt need to tell a dildo anything to get her off but she is still looking for a man).