PittHarman Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
40	Distilled male reality in the US	Red Pill Theory	PittHarman	/r/TheRedPill	01/10/13 05:38 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	I've been dubbed King of All Betas, teach me. Silly Grammar Nazi. I am neither a cave man nor Jesus Christ so don't address me as such. As I replied, my posts are simple and clear. Simply consider it a poem in the flavor of an Ezra Pound Canto, without the intellect or madness.	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/14 08:48 PM
1	I've been dubbed King of All Betas, teach me. I also never said women should stay in their place. Women should, however, own the place they choose to be in.	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/14 08:41 PM
1	I've been dubbed King of All Betas, teach me. I'm not a cave man. I prefer my message to be concise and clear, nothing extraneous. Consider it a poem. A tiny clear vision. Like an Ezra Pound Canto without the intellect or madness.	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/14 08:34 PM
55	I've been dubbed King of All Betas, teach me. With respect I add this. When you "laying down the law" your really setting rules and boundaries for your life. Its not about her. Your saying that you will not tolerate anyone disrespecting you. Anyone who does will be ejected, disciplined etc. Your not controlling other people, your controlling what you let in your life. You allowed your wife to disrespect you, now simply un-allow it.	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/14 05:02 PM
-4	I've been dubbed King of All Betas, teach me. Let this sink in. This is your life, this may very well be your last day. No one gives a shit about you. Including kids I am very sorry to say. If you think they do then ask for money from them or something that is unpleasant but will benefit only you. You come first in your life. If you don't then you are letting someone else and their desires come first. Why not you?	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/14 04:52 PM
2	It's not cheating and here's why... A sexless spouse is cheating their partner out of sex. So since I think cheating = reneging on an agreement, stepping out on a sexless spouse is not cheating. She was the one cheating me out of sex. Therefore that is what cheating is.	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/14 02:31 PM
0	Distilled male reality in the US I wanted to add another aspect to it. I believe equality is based on equal application of a countries laws. The heterosexual man is labelled rapist The homosexual man is also wrong but less than the heterosexual.Its mentioned but no one comes up with any links showing the law is enforced in this case. The lesbian gets a complete pass. Which is exactly my point. Its the heterosexual man that is being singled out as less equal than the others. It has nothing to do with the alpha or beta stuff. Its…	/r/TheRedPill	02/10/13 04:35 AM
1	Distilled male reality in the US But would the homosexual man be prosecuted as vigorously as the heterosexual man? The lesbian woman gets a pass though. To me the flawed logic behind an unequal justice system harkens back to that which supported the oppression of black people in the old south. I was mistaken then. Its not slavery, just oppression.	/r/TheRedPill	01/10/13 11:42 PM
0	Distilled male reality in the US This little thought project is posted under RedPill Theory. Its not a description of an actual evening. That would be posted under the field report tab. Its like a schematic drawing in a way. Perhaps by letting my little ditty bounce around for awhile we can uncover some basic truth-lettes that we don't see or misunderstandings that we think we do. Or just call me a asshole.	/r/TheRedPill	01/10/13 11:35 PM
2	This Woman Can't Get Married Until She Makes Her Boyfriend 300 Sandwiches My very humble prediction is that he never sees Sandwich 301.	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/13 03:13 PM
1	Becoming the renaissance man. I'm going to. I could never get why this "revenge" book resonated with me so much, when I have to be the happiest divorced guy there is. Even the mediator said that I seemed to be enjoying the process. Nice clear insight, thank you.	/r/TheRedPill	23/08/13 06:33 PM
3	Becoming the renaissance man. I enjoyed the post, but he does not have a son and never desires to leave with Mercedes. That's the movie, the book has a much different ending. Much darker and much colder. Its also much more illustrative of your points. I do think you've nailed the revenge aspect. I admit to thinking Dantes a bit weak for his mercy at the end. How blind was I when I read it? Your post is right. He was really getting revenge on his old "blue pill" life. His actions toward Mercedes seemed brutal to me at the tim…	/r/TheRedPill	23/08/13 05:31 PM
0	Society defines Masculinity as how useful a man is to women A person (man or woman) is valued by what he/she can provide to others. That's it. Individuals may value themselves however they like. When there is a balance between the two viewpoints then life is easy. These days there is a huge dichotomy between the two and society is anything but tranquil. For some reason society is trying to mesh the two. Feminine feelings and desires are being assessed a value on par and superior to the value given to masculinity's greater utility. Since utility trumps fe…	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/13 08:54 PM
12	Divorced & Red Pill - Need Advice These were my standards Why are you talking to me like that? I'm not your husband. We're not having a half divorce. Even the bullshit stops. etc etc. You don't need to take any crap, not that you ever did. Your kids will get estranged for awhile but the crazy bullshit will drive them crazy when she turns it on them. My kids are coming back to me as mom goes goofier with time, about 4 years here. What is it about "No further contact" is it that you don't understand.(My personal favorite)	/r/TheRedPill	01/08/13 12:36 AM
2	Bachelorhood and Its Discontents--some nice quotes in here Thank you for this.	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/13 02:45 PM
0	Is Zen the ultimate Red Pill? Please add my very own creative thought. If you want to grow flowers you have to poop in the garden.	/r/TheRedPill	21/07/13 06:54 PM
6	How do you replace the feeling of being cared for? Why replace it? It wasn't real. That fantasy is like a huge rock your carrying around, just drop it. (Thanks Buddha)	/r/TheRedPill	21/07/13 02:29 PM
1	Why "puerarchy"? {Only -- and I do mean only -- by a small group of people, about whose opinions you claim to not care. Not "society."} This comment seems irrelevant. I think you did not read my comment. It was an explanation of a reason for the "puer" in Puerarchy. I have no reliable estimate as to whether its a small group or a large one. I doubt if you do either. I believe, and its only a belief, that you pull that statement out of your ass. {A leader serves others. That will never change.} Do you have a refe…	/r/TheRedPill	16/07/13 04:41 PM
0	Why "puerarchy"? The name is appropriate if you consider how the meaning behind the words "boy" and "man" have been subtly changed. Its mind control at its best IMO. A "Man" was forceful, independent and responsible TO society. That is now the meaning of "boy." A "Man" now is to be told what to do by a feminized society, dependent on the good will of society for his very freedom and is responsible FOR the laziest most unproductive members. Changing the meaning of words is an effective cultural meme resulting in …	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/13 02:10 PM
10	Things that high value men never say Please don't go I can change	/r/TheRedPill	13/07/13 04:17 AM
5	Women ask for favors and offer nothing in return Why should a woman offer anything in return? If a man does not value himself enough to require her to do things for him then what is the problem? Jealousy at her finding a selfless sap? If someone offered you $1000 for nothing why turn it down? a Man's time is the most valuable thing he has, if your giving it away why get angry at someone taking what is freely being given? Its up to the individual to determine if he is the dollar store or Sack's Fifth Avenue. The same things are basically offere…	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 07:14 PM
0	Reminder: we're still very much the underdogs. The world is harsh. It always has been. It was all so easy after the second world war that men and society became weak and spoiled. IMHO, the growth in the red pill community is more like a gathering of similar souls that existed in similar numbers all along. The internet makes it possible for the 2 guys in a small northern minnesota town to join a few more from London and on and on. Your right, its not a way to change the society but more a fellowship of kindred souls. I also believe that the a…	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 07:01 PM
3	What career do you have, what did you have to do to get it and do you enjoy it/find it fulfilling? Dentist I absolutely loved it as I recently retired. The schooling is horrendously expensive now although state schools are less expensive and the military is offering full ride scholarships in return for four years of service. A great deal as far as I am concerned. It is the best profession for me because it allows as much freedom as you can handle. There are jobs privately(No Freedom) State Jobs(Great money and benefits but less freedom) Private practices that can be tailored to any degree of …	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 06:32 PM
1	Do you still like women? Why would you cry in front of your girlfriend? She does not want another brother, cousin , dad or uncle. she already has some or all of those, along with many gay friends and friend-zoned males. She wants a lover and a mate, even if only temporary. If you want to walk the path of a male lover to a woman then do it. Don't step into a boxing ring in a tuxedo hoping to talk it out with your opponent. No matter your intentions he is looking for something different from your boxing time together and …	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 02:24 AM
1	Do you still like women? I wish I could be as succinct as you. Thats it exactly. I have boundaries, which allow me to have an open heart. Since when does a woman have some right to disrespect a man? I don't care what place in the financial hierarch he is at for the moment. If a woman wants to love me then wonderful, for as long as she feels it. If a woman wants to sell me love in return for the right to disrespect me in any way, then I will move on to another one (or be alone) immediately. In my world we all are on a lo…	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 01:40 AM
12	Do you still like women? I love women. I just don't rely on them. Their like soft, pleasant animals I can have sex with. They smell good and are complementary in many ways. Like a wild animal though they respond to the smell of fear. Its inborn. The rule I have told every woman I have dated is this. We last together as long as you want it to last. You tell me its over when there is one bad word, one complaint, one insult. Basically No crying, groaning, pissing and moaning insulting, swearing, embarrassing, humiliating y…	/r/TheRedPill	09/07/13 04:52 PM
-1	Staying alpha during extended illness. This is so timely for me. I have surgery monday and wondering what to do in the downtime. I'm going to learn to say "I'm so fucking sick I'm going to puke." in Italian. Then, "Get in bed, I haven't had your pussy in a month." for after. Many Thanks	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/13 04:08 PM
5	Divorce, Custody, Child Support, and Alimony in Denmark I replied to the person who posted the first comment. Normally I don't reply to posts but the pain in the first commenter hit me. now I don't know if I'm really blue pill, gamma sigma, doofus or what. I do know that my father raised me with what's now called the red pill to life and women. I admit to being a blue pill AFC when it comes to my children. Anon, I went through the same thing as you. Happiness does come but you need to see things clearly, which amazingly helps to fix things. A tornado…	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/13 10:21 PM