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2

Hey man - I’m temporarily in Vancouver. Happy to buy you the beer - I feel exactly same as you.
/r/MGTOW26/02/21 11:27 PM
5

Exactly.
/r/MGTOW26/02/21 11:18 PM
2

I guess he would leave that part out if he did... but he fell in love with his bird, haha. And I love it. I mean, to him, it offered more value than women.
/r/MGTOW26/02/21 08:13 AM
6

Tesla had a romantic relationship with a bird. Yes. Seriously. I think he was onto something.
/r/MGTOW26/02/21 03:13 AM
2

Also not huge on the genocide thing.
/r/MGTOW25/02/21 09:59 PM
1

Wow dude. Too real. Exactly.
/r/MGTOW25/02/21 09:58 PM
3

I laughed! That's funny, I'm going to use that.
/r/MGTOW25/02/21 06:14 PM
3

Absolutely. Unironically read the Bible - ancient stories exactly the same.
/r/MGTOW25/02/21 04:00 AM
50

Politicians and pedophilia. What do I win?
/r/MGTOW23/02/21 10:52 PM
2

Master and Commander. Watched it yesterday - amazing
/r/MGTOW23/02/21 03:12 AM
53

You aren't alone. You are going to find thousands and thousands of men going through the exact same thing. The saying we have: AWALT. All Women Are Like That. No exceptions. None. You will be shocked by the stories you read. Welcome brother. We love you.
/r/MGTOW18/02/21 12:39 AM
4

I think so too. I’m actually doing this. I’ll be back with results in 2 weeks
/r/MGTOW31/01/21 05:54 AM
16

Holy shit. New business idea. I’m gonna do that. I’m gonna make a scale for fatties literally with pictures of unicorns and ferries instead of numbers. This could go viral. I’m gonna put this on kickstarted mark my words.
/r/MGTOW30/01/21 09:23 PM
5

That’s a man, baby
/r/MGTOW09/01/21 07:25 PM
20

Funny. I was about to post literally the same thing. Projection.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/20 05:28 PM
2

Big Brother program! Help a young dude figure his life out.
/r/MGTOW12/12/20 05:30 PM
5

That’s because the media is corrupt. If I recall correctly she said it during the primaries. She said she wanted to create new opportunities and placements in higher education specifically for people of colors and women.
/r/MGTOW03/11/20 09:18 PM
1

If nothing else, we need to actually know where our taxes our going. If, we can decide as a society to add taxes for services that aren't getting covered, we can do that. But just think, you know how wealthy you'd be, if not for taxes? You'd be able to give TONS to charity (way more than yo do now), and other things you care about. Americans are also the most generous in the world - if this model were to work anywhere, it's here (unlike what retarded libs say). There's a reason libs want illegal…
/r/MGTOW03/11/20 03:47 AM
3

Now we're talking boys. This subreddit gets better and better.
/r/MGTOW03/11/20 03:46 AM
2

100%
/r/MGTOW24/10/20 05:49 PM
6

What city are you in? I’ll send food. I’m sure others would too
/r/MGTOW22/10/20 10:55 PM
22

I don't, I don't advocate violence. He's fucking retarded for staying, or even asking the question. The soy runs deep
/r/MGTOW21/10/20 11:31 PM
36

what a fucking cuck "HEY GUYS WHAT DO I DO IF MY WIFE ABUSES ME". What a loser.
/r/MGTOW21/10/20 09:39 PM
5

There's not even a computer in the picture!!!!!!!!!!
/r/MGTOW10/10/20 03:04 AM
2

Absolutely.
/r/MGTOW08/10/20 06:10 PM
5

Spineless and weak by design, I’ll remind you.
/r/MGTOW21/09/20 10:01 PM
11

Glad to hear that, sounds very nice.
/r/MGTOW11/09/20 03:47 AM
2

I thought it was funny too.
/r/MGTOW11/09/20 02:57 AM
50

If it's actually true, she's an exception to the rule. We can all accept that. I doubt it's true - but I have nothing else to go on.
/r/MGTOW10/09/20 09:58 PM
21

Don't say you're sorry to me. Don't say you're sorry to anyone, who doesn't deserve this. This is the internet, tell me to fuck off next time. But, honestly, it was meant as a suggestion. Break this up into paragraphs, and you'll get more people responding! God bless.
/r/MGTOW10/09/20 07:52 AM
27

Ok, I suspect you you have something powerful to say brother, welcome. But, this can't be read until you split it into paragraphs.
/r/MGTOW10/09/20 07:42 AM
7

I just want to commend you. God bless.
/r/MGTOW27/08/20 10:59 PM
4

Uhhhhh Literally the confederates WERE democrats - are you not aware of history? 1861–1933. After the election of Abraham Lincoln, Southern Democrats led the charge to secede from the Union and establish the Confederate States. The United States Congress was dominated by Republicans, save for Andrew Johnson of Tennessee, the only senator from a state in rebellion to reject secession.
/r/MGTOW19/08/20 07:59 AM
1

20? Lol
/r/MGTOW10/08/20 09:38 PM
6

They exist. Are few and far between.
/r/MGTOW31/07/20 05:43 PM
1

You're not alone.
/r/MGTOW23/07/20 11:37 PM
1

Yes.
/r/MGTOW23/07/20 11:36 PM
150

Pay attention to her headline: "I made a huge mistake and it hurts". She doesn't regret anything to do with the man, or relationship - shes hurt over NOT FUCKING HIM OVER. Like. She's hurt that she didn't get to divorce rape him. AWALT
/r/MGTOW23/07/20 10:24 PM
23

she's a beaut
/r/MGTOW09/07/20 11:15 PM
1

Yesterday, I got banned from a video game subreddit for asking "where do i buy that shirt", in a post about a t shirt someone made for the game.
/r/MGTOW09/07/20 06:10 AM
10

Fair enough. I understand.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/20 09:02 PM
1

Wonderful! She will treat you right.
/r/MGTOW20/06/20 07:28 PM
1

She's beautiful, what's her name?
/r/MGTOW20/06/20 06:49 PM
1

It's actually really good..
/r/MGTOW12/06/20 01:44 AM
5

Ok, lets take this a step further. Kmart will now call it's "smallest" clothing "beautiful-sized". I wonder what the libtards would do then.
/r/MGTOW10/06/20 04:01 PM
11

Here's my theory. These women know they are "ugly", but don't want to admit it. They use these piercings, and ugly haircuts, in order to pretend that they are "ugly on purpose", see? Instead of admitting they are actually ugly, and lowering their standards, they cling to the fashion trend, so they can claim they are "ugly" by design (they don't use the word ugly, but they say they are "fashionable" and "hip"). The reality is, they are just using these things to cling to a group that protects the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/20 08:53 PM
3

It’s 100% gone for me.
/r/MGTOW31/03/20 06:42 AM
24

I'll need more guesses to cover the 999999 genders
/r/MGTOW24/03/20 09:20 PM
3

AWALT
/r/MGTOW24/03/20 09:13 PM
3

I have had really good luck with Tinder in the past. I've met attractive (and yes, obviously crazy) women consistently, leading to same day lays, on a daily basis. In the last 6 months or so, something had completely gone wrong. It's not a mistake, it's Tinder hiding actual profiles and likes behind paywall. Your only chance of having your like appear, is actually a Super Like. I'm not suggesting you do, but today, a "super like" is equivalent to what a normal swipe was 6 months ago. Yes, it's d…
/r/MGTOW22/03/20 10:35 PM
2

Steal it. It’s more important to use it if you can’t afford it, than suffer. One day you can pay for it when you can afford.
/r/MGTOW19/03/20 07:32 AM
1

Ok. I fucking laughed.
/r/MGTOW18/03/20 12:01 AM
1

NO SUB HAS EVER BEEN UN-QUARANTINED
/r/MGTOW12/03/20 02:41 AM
1

The Higherside Chats
/r/MGTOW11/03/20 04:59 PM
2

Unique if nothing else! Never heard that before. Cool to hear a potential solution for sweet tooth. I seemed to grow out of it. Salty tooth tho......
/r/MGTOW06/03/20 02:16 AM
2

Hey man. You aren't alone. I mean that - not in a bullshit way, but it's actually refreshing to hear you talk about your experience. A lot of people talk about their "change in lifestyle" or "success", but never talk about the relapses. The reality. Life. Bad genetics. Other health issues... It took courage to share what you have - so you obviously care enough about yourself. You are never going to look like a superhero. Ok, phew we got that out of the way. You will always have some fat around y…
/r/MGTOW06/03/20 02:14 AM
1

I do too.
/r/MGTOW04/03/20 04:27 PM
1

Holy shit, you’re right.
/r/MGTOW04/03/20 04:26 PM
4

Indeed, you CAN reach high levels without supplements - just takes longer, and more work. The best thing you can do is to it naturally - but I wasn't patient enough, and I suspect most men aren't either. If you dedicate a full year to: proper diet (major changes), workout routine (2x per day), and proper rest, you CAN reach levels... in the real world, with work, and a 90% diet, it can be really hard. If you can do it, please, do it naturally. For otherwise healthy males, taking supplements isn'…
/r/MGTOW03/03/20 11:13 PM
2

Yes! It's basically a natural Viagra. Will increase blood flow.... many gains...
/r/MGTOW03/03/20 10:45 PM
2

Dude - great point. I forgot to add this to my post. Such a huge point that no doctor will ever tell you. Cortisol is definitely a major factor in men's depression. Such a great point. Good news is, can be fixed.
/r/MGTOW03/03/20 10:42 PM
2

Agreed, good point. I purposely left out details because the reasons/usage/outcome is different, but for me it was critical.
/r/MGTOW03/03/20 10:40 PM
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Different but same. Still check your blood. You can change your body now in ways you won’t when you’re older. Ask your parents for blood work. Maybe 100 bucks max. Your body should be full of growth hormone at your age. Best time in your life to be at the gym every day. You can recover 2x as fast as 30 year old. Take advantage of your body. Work out every day. You can literally decide the shape of your body for life. If your test is low we can look at your diet. Eat as much protein as you can (a…
/r/MGTOW03/03/20 09:42 PM
3

We can keep it legal and still help. I promise. Either here or DM. Ask and you shall receive. Real experience.
/r/MGTOW03/03/20 09:18 PM
2

You’re right. I wanted to keep more details on deprecate posts but hinted enough to start discussion. I have lots of things to say and advice on topic. Also Anavar. Anyone who wants to know more can provide.
/r/MGTOW03/03/20 09:15 PM
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Try to. If you fail that’s ok, and try again. Go as long as you can.
/r/MGTOW03/03/20 08:40 PM
1

DHEA and also D-Aspartic acid.
/r/MGTOW03/03/20 08:39 PM
4

2x to 3x too low.
/r/MGTOW03/03/20 08:06 PM
9

That’s basic stuff. We can get into: sarms, anabolics and steroids too.
/r/MGTOW03/03/20 08:03 PM
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Amazing post. 99% of mental health issues can be solved with testosterone. Im not diminishing issues - most people would be shocked. Average blood test is useless when it comes to reliable test level. You need to ask for an « enhanced panel » to get detailed test results. Make sure you ask your private lab (cheaper than going through your doctor). Men - tired? Unmotivated? Depressed? Sad? Lonely? Soft? Testosterone promotes healthy growth, impacting stamina, blood flow, metabolism, blood cells, …
/r/MGTOW03/03/20 07:05 PM
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I appreciate the conversation, and we can disagree in good faith. I suspect you've been misinformed about the Gallagher situation - I was too until I read more. This was a political hack job, based on Obamas highly criticized engagement rules. Gallagher posed with a pedophile rapist. I'm glad he killed the serial pedophile rapist - wasn't in good taste to take a photo, but the dude was trained to kill - and God bless him for killing such a terrible person. John McCain was a traitor to the United…
/r/MGTOW26/02/20 04:26 AM
4

Dont you mean xir?
/r/MGTOW25/02/20 11:28 PM
37

Think about it. Trump is the only rational male in the race.
/r/MGTOW25/02/20 11:25 PM
5

Same.
/r/MGTOW24/02/20 05:52 PM
3

Don't feel bad. At least you have morals. It's a matter of learning or not, which you did. Same here.
/r/MGTOW17/02/20 07:56 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction15/02/20 05:28 AM
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She's playing games. She wants to see if you're willing to play her game, to be with her. If you can contact her, she's still game. I hate that women do this, but I could almost write the same post you did. Has happened many times. They want to feel "needed", so will delete their social hoping you'll "jump throug hoops" to see them. It's bullshit, but it's some way for them to feel better about the experience, so she can tell her friends "hahaha i deleted his snaps, but he KEPT CHASING ME". That…
/r/seduction15/02/20 03:15 AM
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I love 1975. Really inspired me in a really important moment in my life. Felt like a gift from God, truly. Then I found out about the politics. Then he kept releasing political songs. It sucks. One of the songs on his last album was about a struggle with God, which I found very interesting. I find his hatred of Trump to be related to this struggle. He's obviously on the losing side. He's 100% SJW, and seems to be going against his same instinct, that he USED to sing about. It's so ironic, especi…
/r/MGTOW13/02/20 07:40 AM
2

Best advice, don’t worry about following specific protocol. Set aside 10 mins in the morning. No phone no sound no computer no tv. Silence. Sit. That’s it. Do that for a week then report back.
/r/MGTOW13/02/20 02:05 AM
1

He’s actually right. Bjj is the ultimate. You will suck. Badly. Best way to learn stoicism head on. Prepare to be humbled by smaller men. Lol.
/r/MGTOW13/02/20 02:04 AM
2

I do cardio on my "rest days". Not a good idea to do marathon or high stress, but I feel like it helps me overall.
/r/MGTOW13/02/20 02:01 AM
3

Inner game. Keep working in the gym, but it’s rare to get laid on looks alone. Even if you’re a 9/10, you still need game. Trust me. Next step is your inner game. For men, dating gets easier as you get older. We learn new things, become more interesting, make more money and become busier with jobs. This is attractive to women. Please don’t stress. You’re very young. Focus on your studies. Then hobbies. What are your passions?
/r/seduction13/02/20 01:58 AM
1

What are your hobbies? When is the last time you did them? When is the last time you tried a new hobby.
/r/MGTOW12/02/20 07:21 AM
0

great post pede
/r/MGTOW12/02/20 12:46 AM
2

Anyone who is highly successful, has also been high unsuccessful. Please consider this in all aspects of your life. Everyone who is great, was once not great. One cannot achieve greatness any other way. Learn about stoicism, it will change your life. Thank the ancient Greeks.
/r/seduction04/02/20 07:52 PM
2

Want some tips? Couple small things to make this even better. First off, making a roast like this is super efficient and nutrient, good job. 1) Remove some of that white connective fat. It will kind of peel off, but it will make the texture so much better. 2) It's ok to roast the whole thing whole, but unless you're doing a 24 roast, or overnight, I'd suggest you cut it into 2-3 pieces, this allows more SEER and FLAVOR, more on that next... 3) Marinate the beef overnight. Put the beef (cut into …
/r/MGTOW04/02/20 06:17 PM
4

There are tons of alternatives. The issue is getting everyone in one place. There are probably 9-10 places that offer better communication features with active communities. Reddit became popular because of subreddits. It's hard to displace that, into another place. It will happen, just takes lots of time (10 years)
/r/MGTOW01/02/20 02:43 AM
2

3 comments, no replies. If you type "MGTOW" every post is shadwobanned on reddit.
/r/MGTOW31/01/20 09:28 PM
2

Yep.
/r/MGTOW31/01/20 09:00 PM
2

All of the best subs on reddit are quarantined.
/r/MGTOW31/01/20 08:55 PM
1

Say “i am interested in .....”. Literally just talk about your interests... I think your j in n the wrong place
/r/seduction28/01/20 07:05 AM
1

Touch him. Touch his shoulder. Kiss him on the cheek. Touch his hand.
/r/seduction26/01/20 11:19 PM
2

You are just getting started. Manning the fuck up is gonna take time. Dont' even talk to her. I don't hate strippers, I've dated strippers, so I get it.... But, that's going to be an impossible situation to fix. Find a girl that cares. Lower your standards, go to a bar.
/r/seduction26/01/20 05:02 AM
1

I didn’t say that to attack you. Don’t give her a ducking dime. She’s not your girlfriend. Leave. Now. Find a real girl. The end.
/r/seduction26/01/20 04:06 AM
3

This post better be a joke.
/r/seduction26/01/20 04:01 AM
2

You need to demonstrate you can compartmentalize, so remain absolutely professional. Not talking about previous encounter is good. You also need something to demonstrate that you are down, that includes logistics. Can you wear something that you know he'll notice? Lipstick color, specific heals, etc? "Get a drink?". Remain professional, but say that.
/r/seduction25/01/20 07:28 AM
2

Have a business card. On it write the hotel bar's name and a time. Wait for him at the bar. If things get good, you can get a room.
/r/seduction25/01/20 07:20 AM
3

Act COMPLETELY professional. He's wanting to create a separation between the two. When he sees that you're capable of doing the same, he'll gain respect. He wants to keep this casual, so indulge. After work, meet at the hotel, bar, etc..... wear special panties, or stockings for him (depending on what he's into). Make it clear that you will keep a discrete relationship. That will make him want you.
/r/seduction25/01/20 07:10 AM
2

Couldn't have said it better myself. Perfect post right here.
/r/seduction24/01/20 09:07 PM
1

Abstaining. I don't do it. I don't think it's a good idea, in the slightest. People always say to do it before to get rid of the "nerves", that might be true in situations where you are trying to be extra "laid back" and "aloof". There's honestly a strategy to the "aloof" protocol, but, IMO, I do too much of that anyway.
/r/seduction24/01/20 09:03 PM
1

Both photos are really bad. You’re a good looking guy and those photos are probably 2/10 on a good day. You need photos in the natural sunlight. Has to be taken outside, nice and bright. An effect happens when sun hits tour skin, a radiant glow occurs, it will always make you look better. Can you have a friend take pictures of you outside? Stand in front of a coffee shop, buy an ice cream and stand out front, playing sports, sitting on your motorcycle, etc. Get a friend to take pics of you outsi…
/r/seduction24/01/20 05:50 PM
1

Lighting. Share your photos and we can help.
/r/seduction24/01/20 05:42 PM
1

There isn’t one right answer but my personal belief is to abstain. I personally don’t follow the pre-date masterbation protocol. I try to go as long as possible without doing it.
/r/seduction24/01/20 05:28 PM
4

Haha it’s crude, but there is real wisdom on that nut (pardon the pun). The clarity after is a special moment. If you truly like or love someone it will obvious in that moment. If you don’t care about then, then that’s the truth. Only the most special people will you still interested during that rare moment of clarity.
/r/seduction24/01/20 07:57 AM
1

Perfect post.
/r/seduction17/01/20 08:08 PM
2

Just to be clear, women can read, and post here, etc. Equal opportunity. The difference is, your advice shouldn't be about "IM A FEMALE". No one who posts here has to say "GUYS, IM A DUDE, TRUST ME", but every female post, tends to be "LOOK AT ME, IM A FEMALE". I know lots of awesome females in the seduction communities. Effective communicators can appeal to all, and don't rely on their sex as a method of persuasion. I welcome men and women alike to post here, the difference is, don't expend you…
/r/seduction15/01/20 12:51 AM
2

And even then, the point is that the advice is USELESS to someone who is stuck. That advice literally means NOTHING to someone who is hopeless. That would be like saying "Be happy" to a depressed person, it's like, gee, thanks. Once the problems are fixed, the person has some experience, and they learn to accept failure, THEN the advice might start making sense. But the idea of giving that advice, as if it's a SOLUTION, is a huge problem.
/r/seduction14/01/20 09:36 PM
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This post might be the BEST example of how this community gets infected with trash. This is a SEDUCTION sub, not a RELATIONSHIP ADVICE sub. If you want relationship advice, sure, listen to women. When you want to learn about how to seduce a woman, that's what this sub is for. Women don't know what men go through to seduce them. Women want confidence. Women want someone funny. Women want someone good looking. Wow, amazing. The problem for men is, how can they do those things? That's the hard part…
/r/seduction14/01/20 09:34 PM
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Couldn't agree more. Bunch of idiots giving advice here, mostly clueless women. I have no idea why so many women have flocked here, but it's not organic. Many people have come here to try to "change" the movement, just so you all know. They are feminist groups who work together on message boards to try to change male "seduction", aka, turn males into cucks. Stop upvoting their trash. Women give terrible advice. PS. "Being Yourself" is the worst advice you can ever give a member of this community…
/r/seduction14/01/20 08:22 PM
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I personally have the opposite experience. Where I live the hottest girls only want casual sex. Relationships are the hardest to come by. It’s just based on personal anecdotes, but I had several women ghost me for NOT fucking them first night. Crazy works out here.
/r/seduction07/12/19 05:07 PM
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Agreed. Although, I'd like to add one thing... We are still lucky, to be able to get matches based on attractiveness - I don't want to make it seem like it's not an advantage, because it is. And I'd still rather get ugly matches, than none at all, just for ego sake. There's also something nice knowing, if you HAD to get laid, you could. It's so true though, about the supply/demand curve. The ugly women of the world have NEVER had it better. Never before in human history have ugly women had acces…
/r/seduction05/12/19 06:24 PM
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I agree with this. It's true, you WILL get more matches on Tinder if you're attractive. Also, even if you aren't attractive, good pictures can get you halfway there. Good lighting, angles, and activities. Yes, I can get a lot of matches, but then still have to game them, set up date, then go on the dates... and... man..... Tinder will kill your game. Tinder will get you used to going out with 4/10's, that you'd never approach in real life. Even girls with perfect profiles never look ANYTHING lik…
/r/seduction05/12/19 06:06 PM
2

Love your post. Speaks to the maturity of perspective with experience. Your story relates to many men. Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction04/12/19 08:04 PM
2

Let me give you some advice, that has done me well, and proven itself true over and over: Pay no attention to the garbage they say. You aren’t too white or too black for anything. That’s low iq terminology that we shouldn’t spend a split moment enduring. You a strong, confident, interesting man, with huge potential, and possibly even skills! Women, and men both make excuses for anything and none of it matters. Nose too big, legs too short, too many tattoos, glasses too big, hair too short, it’s …
/r/seduction16/11/19 01:02 AM
2

Thank fuck. Someone with more than a single brain cell in here. Reddit is so fucked.
/r/seduction15/11/19 06:44 AM
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Don't take women's advice on dating. This post is 100% retarded.
/r/seduction14/11/19 02:02 AM
3

That’s the best compliment you could have gotten. Stop thinking so hard. But. That’s a huge compliment. Now fucking act like it and stop being a bitch. Next text better be to ask her out with a concrete place and time. Dont fuck this up. « Ha, wait until you find out I’m more of a Jackie Chan type. Lets eat such I on Thursday I know this amazing place. 8:00. In? »
/r/seduction09/11/19 05:29 AM
1

How often do you lift weights in the gym?
/r/seduction31/10/19 09:10 PM
1

Yes. I want you to try to "chain" the conversations as I said above. Now that you've come more comfortable with approach questions, I want you to think about "chaining". What is "chaining"? When a girl says "I play volleyball" you say "Oh, speaking of volleyball... one time I was at the beach with friends, and bla bla bla bla bla".... or she says "I was travelling in Italy" you say "Speaking of Italy, my favorite type of pizza has PINEAPPLES on it, how do you feel about that". Whenever she says …
/r/seduction29/08/19 05:47 PM
2

I wouldn't say that. Just invite her out for a walk somewhere, then physically escalate while letting her talk about herself. Once, you set a time and a place, and ask if she wants to tag along. If she turns you down, you don't ask again - you walk away and start meeting other girls. If she comes back to you, it's up to you if you want to try again, or throw her away.
/r/seduction29/08/19 05:39 PM
1

Awesome. First, don't get hung up on a single person. Some will be receptive, some won't. Time to start changing up the questions! The trick now, is to make up your own question - then keep the conversation going. "Quick question, having an argument with my friend... which celebrity has the best 'dad bod'?" When they answer, keep the conversation going. Girls don't care about logical conversations - only men do. When she answers say "Oh, cool. What's your name?" She gives you her name... "What a…
/r/seduction29/08/19 05:19 PM
1

Start by asking men and women both the time. The trick is to do it the moment you leave your house. « Hi, do you know what time it is ». Do that 10 times a day then come back here for next steps.
/r/seduction22/08/19 05:56 AM
9

The Bible
/r/seduction12/08/19 07:47 PM
1

This is why she dumped you. You smell like desperation.
/r/seduction10/08/19 07:43 AM
1

"Why, are you going to call the police? "
/r/seduction27/07/19 06:43 PM
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I agree with this. Vegas is best with friends, as most women travel in groups as well. Best success I’ve had is merging out friend groups together at pool parties. After that you can set plans for the night. Day game is strong is Vegas, you can meet tons of people on the street, even if you’re alone. It’s super easy to spot tourists. If you’re in Vegas solo, the biggest problem is that you won’t be able to get into clubs - so my advice is to make sure you’re getting numbers during the day, it’s …
/r/seduction27/07/19 06:41 PM
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Nothing wrong with that man! You should be proud. Sounds like you had a great time.
/r/seduction20/07/19 03:33 PM
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Just remember that by the time she makes it to your city, she’ll have met even more men. It won’t be easier by waiting. I think you should aim to so something on the final night. Make it the “going away party”. As previous, tell her it’s a date and so something fun. Ok to talk about the future - tell her that you want something to remember about her. Good luck. I say trust your instincts and do what you can. Try to do more than wait a year (she won’t be single then)
/r/seduction19/07/19 05:29 AM
1

absolutely correct
/r/seduction19/07/19 02:35 AM
1

Good luck.
/r/seduction19/07/19 12:04 AM
2

Sometimes you gotta laugh. She wants to be a fwb with you. You know how hard some guys try to get this? She literally gave it to you on a silver platter. And you slapped it away. Lol She wants you to be a fuck buddy, and you’re out here trying to marry her.
/r/seduction18/07/19 11:49 PM
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First of all, baby steps. Make sure you spend time realizing that you've made a huge improvement. Next, there are so many variables. Some things you can change for your better, and some you can't. Don't get too disappointed. Some women will flake. That's just a fact, unfortunately. Nothing can be done for these. If she is highly attractive, she likely has 20+ men texting her all day long. With the hottest women, it takes a really special kind of approach, and luck, to work. Sometimes the best wa…
/r/seduction18/07/19 02:12 AM
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Dude, great job. Yes, you have figured it out. That's the best way to approach - you don't have to do everything in 1 step. You did great. She knows you are hitting on her. The only way things go south, is if you don't treat your meetups as "dates". When you go out together fulfill her expectations: touch her on her back, shoulders through the date. Flirt on the date. Tell her she's cute on the date. There ya go. You are doing great keep it up.
/r/seduction18/07/19 01:57 AM
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Real talk.
/r/seduction11/07/19 11:54 PM
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You need to play this cool as hell. Don't text them. If you want to keep this relationship going (as such), they need to know that you're a "cool guy". That means not talking to everyone that you're having 3sum with her. Not blasting social media with cringey shit that you're in love, not acting weird. If you can come off as the "cool guy to have a 3sum with once in a while" you need to just be the coolest motherfucker. Lay low right now - let them finish "testing your coolness". When they feel …
/r/seduction06/07/19 09:50 PM
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When it comes to women, it's their actions that matter, not the words. Women are more emotional creatures, thus their body language, and actions are the only things that matter. Words matter more for men. Actions speak louder than words. What are you looking for? You know the answer to that question. You're looking to have fun. You're looking to hangout with a cool person. You're looking to meet interesting people. When a woman asks "What are you looking for" you respond "I'm hoping to meet cool…
/r/seduction02/07/19 07:41 PM
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Just as a rule of thumb... stop talking to women about "WHAT ARE WE" - it's fucking stupid. Stop asking if you're her boyfriend. Stop asking her anything like that. It's just a label. Stop fixating on it. Just be the chill dude... let her make up the labels. Labels only matter to women. You're attitude is... "whatever". You're just a cool guy, with a cool friend. Nothing else matters. Stop asking women for validation.
/r/seduction02/07/19 07:28 PM
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Ok, we have more to fix... She called you a "friend" to shittest you. Who gives a shit? We can fuck our friends. She was testing you, and the fact that it hurt you means you failed. She was testing to see if you were "clingy". Next time a woman calls you just a "friend" you say "Awww, thanks 'lil sis" then pat her on her head like a child. Trust me. Don't let that shit affect you. One small thing - you can kiss her other places too - but if you're kissing her body, you already have greenlight to…
/r/seduction02/07/19 07:09 PM
2

Hell ya! Sounds good to me! It gets way easier! Men sometimes overthink things. When she gives you the signs, take action. I'm proud of you!
/r/seduction02/07/19 06:23 PM
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You talk to other girls.
/r/seduction02/07/19 05:22 AM
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Way easier sober. I don't drink anymore, except for special events. First, women won't notice your'e not drinking - you're the only one who would ever know. If you're self conscious about not having a drink - get a club soda w/ lime. If you tell the bartender you're a DD, 9/10 you'll get free cokes, or club sodas all night. Mental clarity makes things too easy.
/r/seduction02/07/19 05:19 AM
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Hell ya we do. I'm not trying to be mean to you! We all did this (multiple times) before. haha.
/r/seduction01/07/19 12:50 AM
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I travel there a few times a year.
/r/seduction30/06/19 11:24 PM
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Oh man, Austin has lots of fun stuff. My favorite thing to do is to go to the shooting range. It's a singular hobby so you can go on your own, but you'll soon find yourself with MANY new friends. I'd be happy to take you, if you don't own a firearm yet. Basketball is one of the greatest games to play, especially in the summer, there are courts EVERYWHERE. Before joining a league, I want you to buy a basketball, get some cheap basketball shoes ($40), and go shoot some hoops at a nearby outdoor co…
/r/seduction30/06/19 10:55 PM
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"I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi". It works in literally every single situation.
/r/seduction30/06/19 10:50 PM
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What sports do you like? What city are you near? I'm going to help you my man. You will NOT be the outcast and "weird guy". You're going to meet a bunch of dudes, who likely picked up the hobby in their 30's and 40's, who are in a similar situation to yourself. You need brotherhood.
/r/seduction30/06/19 10:48 PM
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You did everything wrong. Lessons to learn. First stop with the feminine shit. Be a humanist. All humans are equal, women are not better than men. Most women are boring (and most men too), so it's good you recognized this. She literally tried to get you drunk - that means she liked you. She brought you to her place - she wanted to have sex. You should have kissed her in the first 15 seconds, the fact you kissed everywhere else - makes no sense at all. You've really got to fix this. You absolutel…
/r/seduction30/06/19 10:06 PM
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You've done the hard part. Admitted your problems. Don't let the seduction community fool you - even experienced members aren't perfect all the time. There are guys here who suffer depression, disease, many things. Not every day is a good day. The question is - will you keep fighting? Will you keep trying? It's absolutely natural to be scared of change. Acknowledging it gives us a starting point. Therapy is never a bad idea. Do you have a good circle of friends? Do you have friends you can talk …
/r/seduction30/06/19 09:58 PM
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The beach is the best place ever for kino. When you get to the beach, start putting suntan lotion on. Then, after you've put a bit on your face and arms, ask her "Hey, can you put some on my back" - this will give her a good excuse. Then, after she puts some on you, you ask if she wants some on her back. This works every time. 100%.
/r/seduction30/06/19 09:53 PM
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I like this post. Additionally, for the OP, set your initial goals lower. Do 10 approaches starting tomorrow, just walk up to girls without the objective of getting their number. Your objective needs to simply tell them they are cute - then you can leave.
/r/seduction30/06/19 09:50 PM
1

True that.
/r/seduction30/06/19 09:42 PM
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Not pathetic at all - get that idea out of your head. Be fucking proud of yourself. You should be beyond happy. Don't punish yourself for feeling happy - you did great.
/r/seduction30/06/19 09:42 PM
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Sure thing. I gave a reply to another guy here: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/c6weoz/fake_friends_vs_alone_time/esdgsbx/
/r/seduction30/06/19 05:49 PM
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You're my hero. Philosophy in general, especially from ancient Greece are amazing. Plato is also amazing, if you get the chance.
/r/seduction30/06/19 05:49 PM
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Not many parties. Mostly smoked weed with my friends and played basketball. I dated a couple girls in college, but didn't know about pickup then. I used to wish I knew how to talk to girls better. I'm knowledgeable because after college I made a serious effort to improve my game. I did everything you can imagine. Read all the seduction books, and started field testing everything. After 1000 failed approaches, I finally got some success. Then, I was able to meet more girls than I knew what to do …
/r/seduction30/06/19 05:48 PM
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Always depends on the topic, but you can bring it up in multiple ways. If you're drinking with some other travelers, you can say how your ex-girlfriend said you were the best at giving head. When people ask your hobbies, you can say 'sex' with a straight face. You can ask women about the best sex they've ever had. If someone asks you the "best time you're ever had" you can talk about a particular sex act.
/r/seduction30/06/19 05:45 PM
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Nope, it won't make it or break it, but I've definitely fucked up by using too many. The best advice is just learn not to use them at all. They gain you nothing.
/r/seduction30/06/19 05:43 PM
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College - you should be worried about your GPA - but as long as it doesn't hurt your school, you should be as social as you can. Social skills will matter immensely in your professional life. For me, I wasn't that social. Had a couple of close friends and always hung out, but mostly worried about school. College should be a time of experimentation. But, not ever at the cost of your grades.
/r/seduction30/06/19 07:02 AM
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Errr, replace XXX with the name of a party on campus - meant it as a placeholder.
/r/seduction30/06/19 04:58 AM
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Yes. Reduce your goals, and reduce your outcome dependence. Your goal is no longer to get 10 girls numbers. Your goal is just to do something easier. Let's to go the WORST CASE SCENARIO. If you truly can't approach, let's start from Step #1. This step is what we'd teach COMPLETE incels. I want you to report back after trying this, ok? I think others can learn from you. Starting tomorrow: Leave your cellphone at home. Approach 10 PEOPLE (not just women). Ask each person "Hey, do you know what tim…
/r/seduction30/06/19 04:39 AM
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Yep. If you're own house isn't in order (have things you are proud of, have a nice house, car, etc) it can be hard for our confidence... You definitely could have said that. Or, you can take a step back, and try something easier. Your goal here isn't to get her number - if that's too scary. You need to set your goal lower. If you freeze, say something easier. "Hey, I think I recognize you from somewhere - do you swim at the pool? What's your name"
/r/seduction30/06/19 04:26 AM
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"Hey Jessica, I haven't seen you since highschool. What are you up to?" "Hey Jessica, I remember you from history class - what are you majoring in here?" "Hey Jessica - I thought you were going to go to Space Camp! Never knew you'd be here..." "Hey Jessica - what are you doing here, aren't you in grade 12?" "Hey Jessica - Didn't I see you at [INSERT SCHOOL PARTY NAME HERE] party last week??" "Hey Jessica - You look taller than I remember - did you have another growth spurt?"
/r/seduction30/06/19 04:24 AM
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8th grade is your time to fail. Just have fun, and try new things. When you are older, no one even remembers 8th grade. So enjoy your time now.
/r/seduction30/06/19 03:30 AM
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Great lines.
/r/seduction30/06/19 03:28 AM
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Random comment... I love the smell of sunscreen on a girl... reminds me of summertime.
/r/seduction30/06/19 03:27 AM
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Probably the case! But I'd say, fuck it, if it gives him confidence, go for it.
/r/seduction30/06/19 03:27 AM
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The questions always have a seed of truth, for me. It's boring for me to make shit up. I have a TON of interests, so there's no reason I can't come up with an authentic question. It also makes it feel so much more natural. To be honest, I'm not always in the mood to open lots of people - I'm human like anyone else. I have good days and bad days. Today, I got a fucking good pump at the gym, went swimming, sun was shining, and I wanted to go on the hunt for flowers... just felt like talking to eve…
/r/seduction30/06/19 03:25 AM
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"Wow, haven't seen you in forever... Mary right? (depends on how well you know her...). Where are you going to school?" - then she'll ask where you're going - so you get to tell her a cool story. Don't just say your school, talk about the crazy activities, and shit. or "Hey Mary! I can't remember the last time I saw you... what are you up to these days?" or "Mary! You look great - you must be having fun at school - where are you going?" or "I remember you from Art class! I never thought I'd see …
/r/seduction30/06/19 03:22 AM
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Your totally free to use whatever you want. I was legitimately walking around looking for flowers. I'm a pretty big dude, probably intimidating to some women. The first girl walked up to look at the same flowers I was looking at. I just said "Orange and blue, or blue and yellow?" - pertaining to the colors of flowers. Then she couldn't stop talking. I said "maybe you can give me a hand with arrangement". She picked out a flower pot that can hold multiple (like a window pottery). The next, was a …
/r/seduction30/06/19 03:16 AM
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Yes - of course be open. It's gonna take more work to get to sex - but those are your openers. If you can open sets like that, post back here that the sets worked... As far as sex is concerned, AFTER you do that... You have to set a time-constraint - you're travelling so, you're only gonna be in town for 1 day, 2 days, etc. Make it known. You also have to make it known you are DTF. How? Tell them you've got an awesome hotel, invite them to use your hottub. You gotta be the cool guy, who keeps a …
/r/seduction30/06/19 02:53 AM
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Well said. It's exactly like sales. Props.
/r/seduction30/06/19 02:51 AM
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Report back! It's gonna be fun as hell.
/r/seduction30/06/19 02:09 AM
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I have a mission for you, if you choose to accept it, ok? Starting tomorrow, I want you to approach 10 women a day. You say this: "Hey, what's your name?" then "I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi". I don't even care if you get their number. I just want you saying those 2 lines. You can respond with that line no matter what they say. Report back for phase 2 when you've done that for 3 days in a row.
/r/seduction30/06/19 02:08 AM
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Yes, when you go to hotels, and bars, tell people where you're from. When you're at the bar, talk to the bartender: "Hi, I'm Sam, I'm from Croatia. What cool stuff is there to do around here?". "Hey strangers, I'm John from Croatia, where are you guys from?" "Hi, I'm visiting for a week, do you guys know any cool tourist things to do"
/r/seduction30/06/19 02:07 AM
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Touching her body. You need to have her permission to touch her body before kiss. Eye contact. When you notice she enjoys you touching her, you need to start going for eye contact. If she holds eye contact with you, it will naturally go to a kiss. You'll see her eyes change.
/r/seduction30/06/19 02:06 AM
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Shit tests. If you're getting harassed all the time, you're gonna be more rude, turning people away. Natural human nature.
/r/seduction30/06/19 02:04 AM
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Not for me, that's for sure. But you do you bro. Not gonna hate on you for doing that. Girls do it, you can too... fuck it.
/r/seduction30/06/19 02:02 AM
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I just think of things that make myself laugh... All you have to do is be funny, and witty. Don't be unfunny and unwitty. Give me a scenario, I'll make up 4 or 5.
/r/seduction30/06/19 02:00 AM
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I like that.
/r/seduction30/06/19 01:56 AM
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Those are just random ideas, you should be able to come up with millions of these, it's the core concepts that matter, not the exact words
/r/seduction30/06/19 01:14 AM
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Absolutely - we don't fault the women at all! We do the same... I enjoy looking at women with better bodies. It doesn't mean women with better bodies are better people, better lovers, or better partners - but, given the choice if all else is equal, I'm taking the body, lol. That's why there's NOTHING WRONG with showing your body. If you bust your ass in the gym, and you're a cool dude, show that fucking body off. Be proud of your work, in all regards.
/r/seduction30/06/19 01:13 AM
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Stoicism is an ancient philosophy, from the Greeks... The concepts come from Socrates (heard of him?). Stoicism is about morals, philosophy, ethics, and thinking like a man (USING LOGIC AND REASON). The aim is for happiness and life fulfillment in your daily life. Enjoying every small thing, every moment for what it is. We do not get controlled by others. We don't allow others to control us. We understand our place and nature, and everything is relative to that. I don't know what your reading le…
/r/seduction30/06/19 01:09 AM
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Ya, I mean, some girls say dumb shit like that... but when it comes down to getting fucked - personalities aside - which are they choosing, if they both have equal personalities? What women say / what woman DO are 2 different things. How many times girls have told me. "OMG I NEVER DO THIS" or "I thought you were an asshole from your picture, but you're cool" - while I'm about to eat her out on the first meeting...
/r/seduction30/06/19 01:04 AM
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Are you feeling up her body yet? You have to make sure you've been running your hands down the sides of her body of course, before this is possible. You'll know, because her nipples will be hard. And like I said, before kissing - breathe on her neck. If she wants it, she'll push her neck into your lips. Then, you kiss her neck (nicely, not gross). Then, after she moans, you put your hand on her cheek, and kiss her on the lips softly - don't be fucking gross, dont shove you're tongue down her thr…
/r/seduction30/06/19 01:02 AM
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Ya, some people not into drugs so don't go there with her. Cooking, music - plants are excellent. Unrelated, but I just got back from the plant nursary at Home Depot - just literally walked around picking out flowers for my deck... 4 single girls, 2 lesbians and and then a shitload of couples. Easiest conversations you'll ever start. Cooking is so good. Especially after clubbing/partying/concert/whatever. "Hey, I'm staved.. I've got the AMAZING recipe, you won't believe it.." "You HAVE to try th…
/r/seduction30/06/19 01:00 AM
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Holy shit. You have a holy of grail of hobbies. I've got to go shopping now, but I'll give you some quick advice... BOXING. GYM. COOKING. TRAVELLING (international). CATS. You've literally listed the most attractive fucking hobbies a woman could want. You've got the fucking most important hobbies.... Every fucking woman wants a man with the hobbies you have. You need to start talking to women, and asking them about their hobbies - that gives you a reason to talk about yours. I'm getting wet just…
/r/seduction29/06/19 11:00 PM
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What are your hobbies? The reason you provide has to be related to something you're interested in.
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:58 PM
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Yes. Don't treat women better than you. Treat women like they are your BROS. If women say stupid shit - call them on it. If they do something nice, reward them. YOU NEED TO TEASE WOMEN. You need to treat women like they are your FRIEND, not lover. Tease women. Learn to APPROACH women. That means, walking up to them, and asking a question. Until you get comfortable with that, then we'll keep working. We'll work on Step #2 after you are able to approach 10 different girls in 1 night. All you have …
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:57 PM
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Dude - in India all that matters is your social status. Most Indian dudes aren't good looking. The ones that do well are well groomed, and have high social status. You can work on / fake your social status. There are a billion chicks for you to bang in India. I promise there's someone out there who looks less attractive than you, that you can fuck today. Imagine what will happen when you fix your lack of confidence. Wear clothes that are unlike the other Indians around you. Listen to unique musi…
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:49 PM
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haha, well said
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:46 PM
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Women need "plausible deniability". You MUST provide them a valid "excuse" to ever come home with you. We can talk about the psychology if you care, but the short of it, is that, you need to give her an "out". An excuse. You need a "story" that checks out with her friends. Also, logistics. 1 hour away by bus.... no way. Your logistics are broken. ESPECIALLY if she's 5 years older. The only way you can get laid like that, as far as logistics go, is, to have your own car. You can't be taking a bus…
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:45 PM
1

What country?
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:40 PM
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You're wrong. Women will never THROW THEMSELVES ON YOU. Even if you are Brad Pitt, it still requires game. Get this rotten idea out of your head. It's broken, and I can tell it has destroyed you. It's not about "BEING ATTRACTIVE ENOUGH FOR A WOMAN" FUCK THAT SHIT MINDSET. How do you even know that? Have women rejected you - and told you that? If you are "good looking" do you think women magically appear? Fuck that noise. I know naturally good looking guys, with ugly personalities - who couldn't …
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:39 PM
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I can tell you have low-confidence. Most of us here had the same problem. You aren't alone. If you really want to get into this topic of "attractiveness" - PM me a picture of yourself (blur your eyes or whatever). I'll give you brutally honest feedback.
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:36 PM
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Appreciate your honesty. Not sure if you're quite grasping what I'm saying. I know your self-confidence is broken. Your self-confidence is MUCH MUCH lower than it HAS to be. The language you use says a lot about you. The language you use here makes it obvious. Women are hearing you use this type of language too. I don't like how you talk about yourself. You act as if women are better then you. It's subtle, but it's obvious in the language you use. I'm not suggesting you are going to be able to d…
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:34 PM
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Probably not. Or, she'll text you with some emotional nonsense, expecting you to act the same way you've been acting. There's literally nothing you can do at this point. If she DOES text you back (I'm guessing... probably 10-20% chance max), you've to ignore her emotional trash. 1 more place and time, and that's it. There is NO action for you to take now.
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:25 PM
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One of my favorite things to do is do a BBQ in the park. Buy some charcoal, and meat, and do a picnic. Most parks have those charcoal BBQ grills. It's extremely fun (ask people to bring different stuff), and you can invite a shitload of people. Get drunk and bbq meat in the park. Pick a day with good weather.
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:14 PM
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Fair enough. My advice is purely results driven. We're in the game of getting laid, and this method is tried and tested.
/r/seduction29/06/19 09:52 PM
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You did good... since you know she's looking for a place, and doesn't have a friend group - move away from the topic of her housing situation.... What you need to text is: "Hey, since you don't have a place to cook yet, I'm making ribs on Thursday. Come on by to hangout at 8." Boom.
/r/seduction29/06/19 09:50 PM
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Look into "stoicism". I'll recommend books if you want to hear more. It will save your life.
/r/seduction29/06/19 09:45 PM
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Good reply.
/r/seduction29/06/19 09:41 PM
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All good tips. Just a quick note for club game: If you're grinding with a chick - yes you do have green light to kiss (as you said)... but... I'd suggest, instead of going right for kiss, breath your hot breath on her neck. This really drives women crazy. After enough hot breath on her neck, she'll drive her neck into your lips. Just fucking trust me on this. Then you kiss her lightly - don't fucking make out with her neck. The trick is, you're trying to tease her with her neck kiss... THEN you …
/r/seduction29/06/19 09:36 PM
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You're probably right. She is probably dating someone else, or her attraction dropped. Also - she might be on her period. I think you did some things well. You kept texting for logistics, you set a place and time. You kept it casual. You had a nice event set up, with low investment, nice. Can I give you a critique? When she said: "i'm at work barfing... bla bla bla"... your response was bad. Next time, just say: "Take care" Don't ever say "TEXT ME BACK WHEN YOU WANT TO SEE ME AGAIN". That's real…
/r/seduction29/06/19 09:32 PM
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No, because it's not a cheat day.
/r/seduction29/06/19 09:23 PM
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The bar is one of the most sexual places. You just have to be willing to make sexual comments if they come to your mind - don't silence yourself. You know how, when you're hanging with your guy friends, and you see a hot girl? You say "Damn, look at that ass?" or "I'd love to hit that from the back..." etc etc... All you have to do is, use the same instincts, but tweak it towards her. If you see something about her body you say something. Let me give you an example. Assuming you're talking about…
/r/seduction29/06/19 09:19 PM
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Good for you man. Working on body language is a HUGE part of game, and the club is by far the hardest (and best) place to work on it. You're definitely "lifting heavy" by working out body language at the club.
/r/seduction29/06/19 09:14 PM
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Women have certain standards - they mostly relate to their primal instincts. Women want a protector, someone who makes them laugh, an someone who is confident enough to be their partner. I hate what you said. Your goal shouldn't be to "meet a woman's standards". Fuck that shit. You aren't jumping hoops for ANYONE. Your job isn't to DO HER BIDDING. Fuck that mindset. Your job is to be the best you can be... FOR YOURSELF. You want to be the most interesting, amazing person for YOUR OWN SAKE - not …
/r/seduction29/06/19 09:13 PM
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Of course every woman is different, and it varies. But, I will say, men are a lot more OBJECTIVE when it comes to attractiveness. Women are much more emotional creatures - they want a man that makes them feel some kind of way. That's why comedy, intellect and cunning will go the furthest for a man. Don't get me wrong, looks help - but it's not the whole ballgame. If you're asking women to date you on your looks - you're right - that won't work. Yes, there are some men out there that are so hot, …
/r/seduction29/06/19 09:10 PM
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The pain of missing opportunities from women, because of his own (fixable) mistakes. You can't force your friend to learn - that's up to him. Gotta learn to know the signals to look for, what body language to see - and also when to shut up.
/r/seduction29/06/19 09:04 PM
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Don't take my word for it - ask a group of girls sometime. It's actually a great opener at a bar.. "Hey, quick question girls, which celebrity do you think has the best dadbod". It's fun. I had one girl tell me "Mike Tyson". Figure that out.
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:53 PM
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I hate social media. I think it's terrible. I don't use it. But, to be fair, most people here probably use it. I only pickup girls in real life. Social media is literally putting you in a pool with other losers who live their lives online. Sure, you can try lines online... but... not for me. Just way too much work, with way too little reward. Communication should be used to set up dates. How about not using lines? Post this: "Hey, my friends and I are gonna be grilling at the beach on Friday - b…
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:51 PM
2

Never hurts.
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:39 PM
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Over texting - Holy that just makes all of this worse -- There are certain conversations you can NEVER EVER EVER have over text. Texts are used to SET UP DATES. Save your "deep" conversations for real life. Texting is about MYSTERY. It's the driver for setting up interactions. If she said that to me over text, I simply wouldn't reply. I'd just leave it for 4-5 hours, then eventually just set up a time/place to meet. Ignore it completely. Never use emojis as a man - that's a pretty universal rule…
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:38 PM
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Ah. Ok. She says: "We are friends, right?" You say: "Ya, we're best friends! You are just like my little sister" - then you need to pinch her lightly, or push her lightly, or tickle her.... you literally need to treat her like "just a friend" or a "little sister" the physical contact after the line is necessary. Do you understand how this works? She's testing you, so you're replying with an EXTREME version of it... taking the friendship, into the opposite type of relationship - she is used to gu…
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:30 PM
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Nice, that's a good response, haha. Great example of a shittest. She doesn't want to know the real number - she wants to know that YOU'RE A COOL, SMOOTH GUY. Honestly, most women WANT an experienced men. When women are surveyed, they prefer men to have MORE sexual experience than them. They just don't want to hear about it. Your job is to be the silent assassin - don't tell her specifics about other girls - she's just asking if you're confident sexually. You passed.
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:26 PM
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I replied to the other comment.
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:23 PM
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Cool man - you aren't alone - we all fucked up like this (many times) in the past, so welcome to the club, it gets better from here. At this point - even though you didn't ask, there's only one way back in.... You need to basically just delete her contact from your phone. We do this just to help you get her out of your mind, and prevent you from texting her randomly. That's basically your only chance. If she misses you enough, she might text in a month or two - at that time, it will show up as a…
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:22 PM
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Ok. I'm doing this to help you, ok? Not attacking you. You did everything wrong. The good news is that we learn from our failures, not our successes. You're going to get better from this. When you said "friend zone... bla bla", you just failed her shit test - you showed that you were OVER INVESTED IN HER. She's not your fucking girlfriend, so don't use language like "friend zone" that's really beta. Then you said "trust me with secrets... bla bla". Fucking gross. Men show by doing. You show your…
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:17 PM
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Agreed, you did well OP. Women are like magnets, if you're mood is right, you're like a huge (hard) metalic rock. Women want to be around good vibes. You showed that off - how? Because you showed CONFIDENCE. You were listening to music YOU LIKED, and enjoyed it BECAUSE YOU WANTED TO. Women can feel that shit. The trick is, don't change this too much. You just want to allow women to vibe with you. It's not about one-liners. It's not about a trick, it's about keeping that vibe congruent. You want …
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:09 PM
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Everything is based on context. If you want real examples - give us a context? The ways to be sexual vary, depending on the context - where, and what you're doing. Besides what you say, it's also how you say it. You need to talk about sexual topics with a straight face. No giggling. No apologizing. You've got to show that you are confident talking matter-of-factly about sex.
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:06 PM
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"Girl of your dreams" - don't say shit like that. NO girl is girl of your dreams, unless you are dating her, and get to know her. How can anyone be your dreamgirl, without knowing her intimately? Get this notion out of your head. Meet more people.
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:04 PM
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She just shit-tested you. When a girl says "Hey, we're friends, right?" You say: "Awww, you're just like my little sister, aren't you cute". That's it. She's testing you to see if you can be cool around women, or you're just looking to pump and dump. Belittle her question, because it's retarded. She's testing your social skills.
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:03 PM
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Yep. Also to clarify, when women say they like "Dadbods" - they think a "dadbod" is Brad Pitt. When they think someone is "jacked" they think The Rock. Women are retarded on this.
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:01 PM
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DING DING DING. Women are retarded with pickup advice. You are 100% right. If you've got a good body, and show it, I promise you, you will increase your matches. You're literally doing all your hard-work for your body a disservice. You spend so much time in the gym - you better fucking show it off.
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:00 PM
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Never ask a girl about pickup. That's like asking a fish on how to catch them. If you want to catch fish - you ask the fishermen, right? The fish will always tell you that they can't be tricked. Women don't think the same way they do. If a woman says "Oh I don't like gym pictures" it really means nothing. Next thing you know, she'll be banging Chad the next day - why? She'll say "Oh, well, I didn't like his gym picture, but I really needed cock". Who gives a shit what she says? All of this comes…
/r/seduction29/06/19 06:58 PM
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I hear ya. I've always played sports, so for me, size has never been the issue - I have the opposite problem you do. I usually need to cut weight. I also hear what you're saying - we all ego lift sometimes, I'm guilty of it too. Sometimes I lift too much, when I should be recovering, hard to set your ego aside sometimes and lower the weights. I just did my first gym session back from the hospital. Starting with low weights - it's hard. For someone like you, you'd want to focus mostly on your mea…
/r/seduction29/06/19 06:06 PM
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That's fair. For me it's everything. Depression creeps in. Self confidence nose dives. When I'm not in shape, I don't enjoy sex. I don't like myself. For me, the gym, and sports are the root of all my confidence.
/r/seduction29/06/19 06:00 PM
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It's impossible to get better without first feeling the pain. I hope he's feeling it now.
/r/seduction29/06/19 05:58 AM
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Very well said. It all comes down to boundaries. It look me 25 years to learn that.
/r/seduction29/06/19 04:39 AM
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You're right. I just updated my comment. Upvoted you too. My sister was scammed for over $20,000 of her student loan money from emails pretending to come from her school. This hits close to home for me.
/r/seduction29/06/19 03:22 AM
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It's good to be nice. The problem is confusing niceness for being a "nice guy". Many guys think that if they are "nice" to a woman they deserve sex, a relationship, or companionship - this is not true. It's why beta males fail at life. A nice guy treats all people fairly, and chooses where to spend his affection. Do you give equal affection to your friends and strangers? Of course not. You are kind to strangers, but you don't do them as many favors as your friends - right? Don't reward people fo…
/r/seduction29/06/19 03:00 AM
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What school did you attend? All school related notices are sent via an intranet system, and can be verified as official. Did you go to community college?
/r/seduction29/06/19 02:42 AM
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You're the kind of guy who responds to African Kings asking for your bank account number. That email looks shady as hell. No signature. No letterhead. Poorly written. LEGAL NOTICES ARE NOT SENT BY EMAIL. You'd have to be an absolute idiot to listen to this. What's your email address? I've got a great business opportunity - if you don't reply, you're going to jail.
/r/seduction29/06/19 02:35 AM
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Ya, I was just kinda joking around :) There's probably a funny way to bring it up actually! Definitely interesting. Just don't want to KEEP talking about it, like you want her to just address the issue, then move onto something else - nothing wrong with your job - just want to know there's WAY MORE about you than just your job.
/r/seduction29/06/19 02:26 AM
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Not this time ;) Do not talk about pest control. lol.
/r/seduction29/06/19 01:39 AM
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Stop texting her. Keep working out. Meet other girls. Either: a) she hits you up out of the blue (not likely) b) she never messages you again (most likely) Meet other girls. It's the only solution. NEXT.
/r/seduction29/06/19 01:15 AM
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Sorry bud, you guys weren't dating.... Move on, next. You're obsessing over one girl - this will never work. Of course it fucking bugs you. Go meet other women. And keep doing it until the pain goes away. That's the only cure.
/r/seduction29/06/19 01:14 AM
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She's not better than you because she's more attractive than you. It's OK if she's more attractive than you. What else do you bring to the table? Because you better be bringing SOMETHING to the table. She's more attractive than you. What are you better at than her? You better showcase it. Are you funny? Are you smart? Are you experience? Are you interesting? You better fucking bring what you provide. She's bringing her blue eyes. Here's the secret: Women care less about looks than men do. Wow, s…
/r/seduction29/06/19 01:12 AM
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Only right answer.
/r/seduction29/06/19 01:10 AM
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Going to the gym improves your mental, as well as the physical. Without going to the gym, pickup is about 10x harder. If anyone here is serious about making a change, you go to the gym. And by the way, I appreciate that reply - so we have a chance to talk about it. I never once mentioned that he had to be a body builder. Don't have to lift a specific amount of weight. Don't have to follow any particular program. But if you aren't going to the gym regularly, doing SOMETHING to improve your self-c…
/r/seduction29/06/19 12:46 AM
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ABSOLUTELY NOT. Get that mindset out of your head. 50 years old wouldn't be too old. GET STARTED TODAY. GO TO THE GYM TODAY.
/r/seduction29/06/19 12:05 AM
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You're right on everything you said. Giving girls your number is retarded. Another tip to OP: Stop "waiting around for a reply" - that's really disgusting behavior. Trust me, she doesn't think for 5 seconds about you after the conversation is over. Women talk to SO MANY MEN, they literally don't even CONSIDER you for more than 5 seconds. The fact that you are still thinking about her, waiting on her every breath, is quite frankly, pathetic. (This is something we were all guilty of at once! Tryin…
/r/seduction29/06/19 12:04 AM
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Exactly. When you are talking to women, SO WHAT. You have every right to talk to whoever you want. You're not asking women to be your BOYFRIEND are you? You don't approach women saying "HI WOMAN, WILL YOU BE MY BOYFRIEND". Get over this mindset. You're just approaching women, and having conversations. Women swing from branch to branch. Hot women are NEVER single. Ever. Your job is to have fun conversation with people, and stop fucking expecting women to BECOME YOUR GIRLFRIEND in a 5 minute inter…
/r/seduction29/06/19 12:01 AM
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DO NOT RESPOND. DO NOT GO. Do you understand? You are in NO LEGAL OBLIGATION. If you respond, or show up, you now have a legal obligation and you're giving consent to the premise. You never received an email. Do you understand? It must have went to spam. You never respond. You never read it. You show up to nothing. Understood? Edit: As ramakt pointed out below - if you go to some sort of school that sends official notices in this way - contact the AUSA. I assumed you are American. In American an…
/r/seduction28/06/19 11:57 PM
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If you have any chance, you better not count on doing the same shit. If that's what she wanted, you'd be dating already. You're in a terrible situation. You basically did everything wrong. So we're not really starting from a good spot. Also, your new information basically changes everything, so I have no idea what you were even talking about, basically everything you said prior doesn't make sense with the new context. What is the city you're visiting? What is it known for? Are there any events? …
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:25 AM
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Can't say I've ever tried that... You should do some experiments and report back. You might bet the first seduction guy to study this. LOL.
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:11 AM
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Ya, that's fine.
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:10 AM
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Women want mystery. Good job.
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:10 AM
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Ok. Still, you should set the place and time immediately, just as a reference point. It can change if necessary later, but it's good to get this stuff in stone. Otherwise, you are just like another flake.
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:04 AM
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Good tips. Always use exaggeration in flirting with girls when they shittest.
/r/seduction28/06/19 05:17 AM
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Knee surgery, hockey injury. Rehab time! Basically the reason I've been reading seddit last few days.
/r/seduction28/06/19 05:13 AM
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No, you're the best. <3. This is my last day in hospital - so I can't wait to get home, but will be less reddit time.
/r/seduction28/06/19 05:11 AM
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Ah ok. I don't know too much about it specifically, once been once. Beautiful women though, and beautiful city!
/r/seduction28/06/19 03:49 AM
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What city are you in?
/r/seduction28/06/19 03:45 AM
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Concerts. Summertime has festivals and activites in every city. Participate. Farmers market / night market - this is the secret gem... Learn to play pool, pool halls are always open late Standup comedy
/r/seduction28/06/19 03:40 AM
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By the way dude, I wasn't attacking you! I just wanted to set this dude straight. I appreciate your viewpoint!
/r/seduction28/06/19 03:37 AM
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I've got lots of friends that have the same issue. You are 100% right. Shave it, keep the beard if you have one!
/r/seduction28/06/19 03:26 AM
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"What do you do for fun" "What are you doing this weekend" "What did you do last weekend" "If money and time were no issue, where would you go, and what would you do"
/r/seduction28/06/19 03:19 AM
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Just speaking harsh truths. The sooner he learns, the sooner he wins.
/r/seduction28/06/19 12:32 AM
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lol, sweet. But don't say "nevermind"... you (and we all) still have a lot to learn. Just because you score once, doesn't mean it's over. Just have a think about that. Continue to try to improve...
/r/seduction28/06/19 12:11 AM
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Agreed. Actually, hanging out with her friends is one of the best things you can do. You bring your friends too. That's what you're supposed to do. Do not show up alone, if she's bringing friends. PLAY IT FUCKING COOL. She's testing your social proof - she probably thinks your a loner, and she's testing you. Don't act fucking jealous. Stop fucking texting back and forth. Set a place and time. Tell HER HOW IT IS. "Sounds good, I'm bringing some friends, will see you on Thursday.. " That's IT. Fuc…
/r/seduction28/06/19 12:10 AM
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I personally disagree. I see lots of wrong moves. I'm shocked she ever replied.... Ignoring everything you did wrong (to the OP) (lots) in the past, let's deal with the closer stuff..... "Yes I'm free, I would love to see you again". She literally just asked you to take her out. What did you do? Nothing. You said "OK - SOUNDS GOOD" like a fucking retard (sorry, harsh truth). When a woman says "Yes, I'm free", you fucking say "I'll see you at 8, at XXXX place." That's fucking IT. Stop fucking aro…
/r/seduction28/06/19 12:08 AM
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There are several factors you need. 1) Never, ever use selfies. As the other poster said... 2) HIGH QUALITY photos. They must be high resolution. 3) You must look better in the photos than you do in real life. That means good lighting, good clothing, but still natural looking (NO CRAZY FILTERS) 4) Make sure you've got 1 picture with friends - to show you aren't a complete loser 5) You need a photo doing a crazy sport or something that will beg her to ask a question.
/r/seduction28/06/19 12:04 AM
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Like I've said before - Instagram game is a whole different beast. I do not recommend it to anyone trying to improve. Yes, you can do well on there, but unless you've got shirtless pics on your profile, a huge following, or your contacting people you already know, it's basically a waste of time. Better spent cold approaching IMO.
/r/seduction28/06/19 12:02 AM
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Are you going to the gym yet?
/r/seduction28/06/19 12:01 AM
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Extremely important. Failure is also ok - so please don't beat yourself up. Your objective is to LEARN - numbers are just byproducts.
/r/seduction28/06/19 12:01 AM
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Just because you're intelligence doesn't mean you have to talk about boring shit - get that idea out of your head. Science, technology and history are topics EVERYONE likes. Everyone has a phone. Everyone likes thinking about space, everyone studies some kind of history... If your opinion is that these topics are boring - it means you need to refine your skills on these subjects. Being intelligence, means knowing how to talk to people intelligent. You are talking about things that are exciting. …
/r/seduction28/06/19 12:00 AM
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Good job man. Now, if you keep doing that, you're gonna see so many changes. You'll stop apologizing, you'll just be talking to everyone because it's fun, and your anxiety will drop. Keep it up, we're proud of you!
/r/seduction27/06/19 11:58 PM
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we're right here...
/r/seduction27/06/19 06:19 PM
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Fucking' right. One of the tricks I learned about pickup... I have to start my day by talking to EVERYONE. If you just wait until you see a pretty girl, you'll 100% fail. You really have to consider talking to people a "muscle" that you have to workout in the morning. Then, when evening comes, it will be 100000 times easier to approach. Trust me. Please, keep this part of your daily habit. Notice how much better you feel?
/r/seduction27/06/19 06:11 PM
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Good start. Got some tips to help you though. Do not focus just on attractive women. You need to say "good morning" to elderly people, guys, everyone see? Another tip, you have to do it the MOMENT you leave the house. Every minute that passes makes it expotentially harder. Trust me. Here's you goal for tomorrow, ok? As soon as you leave the house - and walk into work/etc... You say "Good morning" to literally the first person you see. I promise you'll see the difference. Ok?
/r/seduction27/06/19 06:42 AM
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This is his list, not mine: 1) Concerts/festivals. 2) Grocery store 3) Yoga / Gym 4) Do your own thing / house party, etc Agree with it tho, those are all good.
/r/seduction27/06/19 06:35 AM
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Start vaping. Get one of those juuls. And start carrying around those breath strips. Trust me. Breath strips.
/r/seduction27/06/19 06:33 AM
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They are absolutely not dead, lol. More alive in this modern age than ever. Not every woman is down for them. And the timing is not right. How do you get them? 1) Gotta target women that are dtf. What does that mean? Women that are shaved, clean, have good makeup - women have to feel sexy to be willing to have sex. 2) Timing has to be right. She can't be on her period, and she can't have schedule conflicts (school, family, etc). 3) Logistics. You need your own place, obviously. 4) You. You gotta…
/r/seduction27/06/19 06:33 AM
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Go to the gym. Now.
/r/seduction27/06/19 06:30 AM
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All good stuff. Here's a trick: use the previous topic to chain onto the next one. It's called "topic chaining" or "linking". Ex: "Hey you look cute, etc etc..." "What are you up to?" - "shopping" "Speaking of shopping, I'm buying stuff for my mom..." "What are you doing this weekend?" "Sailing" - "Oh speaking of sailing, i have this crazy story, I fell off a boat last summer, and almost died" Gotta just talk about semi-related topics. Women don't think linearly like men. Like, you can say ANYTH…
/r/seduction27/06/19 06:29 AM
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You can only work on these things if your mental health is actually good. Do you love yourself? Do you love your body? How's your inner monologue - are you negative or positive?
/r/seduction27/06/19 06:24 AM
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So many factors. Some women are just looking for one night stands. Not much you can do. Really hot women have 1000's of alphas and betas chasing them all the time. Sometimes, no matter what you do, even a beta can beat you out, because they will shower money on them. You have to decide if you want to compete like that. Like the other poster said, maybe you fucked up. You really gotta chill with chicks like these. Invite them to the beach with your friends... Brazilian chicks? better believe it. …
/r/seduction27/06/19 06:22 AM
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Agreed. Very good.
/r/seduction27/06/19 06:19 AM
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None of what you just said is true. Even if you lose your virginity, you're still going to be a beta soyboy, with that shitty attitude. The important thing is fixing your confidence, so you can get laid hundreds of times, and be a cool person... getting laid once doesn't matter. You've got major confidence issues - probably for lots of reasons. Talk to any guy here, and they all were losers in highschool. Welcome to the club. By the way, as women get older they are FAR FAR FAR EASIER to seduce. …
/r/seduction27/06/19 04:36 AM
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Say "hi, I'm going to X place for lunch, you coming?" that's it.
/r/seduction27/06/19 04:31 AM
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None of this is true. You don't need to get laid before you finish highschool. Don't get me wrong, I wish I did, but I didn't. And I'm glad I didn't, because I had a lot to learn. Stop worrying about this...
/r/seduction27/06/19 04:30 AM
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Glad to share. Once you have game, these problems become highly visible. You'll do just fine. I think tinder/etc attract certain type of people, and women have a ton of selection (even more than usual). The outcome is quite as expected. Good luck!
/r/seduction27/06/19 04:04 AM
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Very easy. They are fine with Americans, just don't be a retard (this advice applies to visiting ANY country, not just France). You'll do perfectly fine. France still has feminine women, so IMO it's much easier than America. Most women really love to be approached there.
/r/seduction27/06/19 03:20 AM
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Different stokes for different folks. What are your goals? Every guy has different goals. Some guys like it, some don't. If you're into it, and she's into it.. nothing wrong with that at all. That might not be for you, and that's ok! Part of learning pickup is getting over anxiety with women. Once you do that, you enter phase 2, which means defining those relationship goals. I don't think it's possible for guys to do that until they learn how to approach and get numbers. It sounds like you've ma…
/r/seduction27/06/19 03:18 AM
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It's 100% still active, but it has matured. Most guys, once they become proficient get long term girlfriends, or relax their approach, as they've achieved their goals: approaching women becomes easy. The communities are as healthy as ever. There was a post from a few days ago about getting wingmen in your city, look for it.
/r/seduction27/06/19 03:15 AM
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100% fake. Everyone look at his post history. He posts the same shit over and over and over and over and over. He is completely full of shit.
/r/seduction27/06/19 01:04 AM
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That's a good move. The skin care shit isn't for me, and probably went a bit to feminin for my taste at the end, but it's a good opener. Asking chicks for things in Target is better. Target always has better women than Walmart, that's for sure.
/r/seduction27/06/19 01:01 AM
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In my opinion, if you're in the coffee shop you're fair game. If I want to be alone, I don't go to public places, lol. Now, the exception are those who are REALLY hiding... hoodie up, headphones in, scowl on the face - don't approach those. But I think it's all good man. Fuck them, if they don't want to be around people, they shouldn't choose to ... be around people. For me, I just approach those without headphones. But, for the ones that look too good, walk up, and motion pulling your headphone…
/r/seduction26/06/19 10:32 PM
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Are you working on your posture in the gym? It's possible to correct this posture by re-working muscles to fix your neutral position. It's not easy, but possible. More than happy to help, if you want to send a pic (blur your shit out)...
/r/seduction26/06/19 10:30 PM
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At least that's an easier problem to solve. I just got a MCL repaired, and a torn ACL, along with floating knee cap. I'm laying in a hospital bed. When I get back into the gym, I'll be starting from scratch on my lower body. The good news is that I can start upper body training in 3 months, but my lower body won't be ready for another 6. I'm literally going to have to start my squats, and my deadlifts with bar weight only (35 lbs). And slowly work myself up to 135 over a couple of months. Before…
/r/seduction26/06/19 09:27 PM
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Love the Picard reference, right on the money. In seduction, sometimes there is nothing you can do. Your story sounds very familiar. Very mature viewpoint. Good to realize that sometimes you can't push a boulder uphill. Boundaries, well said. Jealousy, especially when it comes to dating, is a key aspect of seduction. I've never met a girl who doesn't use some aspect of jealousy: ignoring your texts, bringing up exes to test you, comparing you to other guys, etc etc. I've never met a girl that do…
/r/seduction26/06/19 04:35 AM
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Nope. Then she either says: a) "Why?" or b) "Samantha" Then you respond: "Because I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi" or "Hi Samantha, I thought you were cute and I wanted to say hi". Then you say: "What are you up to right now?" She says: "Shopping" You say: "Ah, speaking of shopping, I'm picking out a gift for my sister. I'm looking for a little bla bla bla". Want come help me? (you are attempting an insta date). If she rejects, you ask for her number. If she rejects your number, wis…
/r/seduction26/06/19 02:05 AM
2

"Hi, what's your name". Even FOBs will know this sentence. Can't get simpler than that.
/r/seduction26/06/19 01:50 AM
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Please report back after 3 weeks. I promise you'll be a different person. Other people here (and me too!) need to hear from you. Ok?
/r/seduction26/06/19 01:33 AM
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Fucking right you do, because your a normal male. Ignore her for a while, that's your only chance. If she ever gets her attitude right and texts you something sweet, then you reward her. You have to train her like a child. Not all women are children, but many are (many men are too)
/r/seduction26/06/19 01:31 AM
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Ding ding ding. Nothing she says regarding a boyfriend matters. Her actions are all that matters. Women say all kinds of retarded shit (so do men btw). Exactly as you stated, I completely ignore the topic, completely ignore it alltogether.
/r/seduction26/06/19 01:28 AM
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This is a major limiting factor for men, let me be a voice of re-assurance, ok? Even if you don't notice a physical difference after a few WEEKS, I PROMISE you your confidence will sky rocket. After 3 weeks, you WILL see a small improvement. After 3 months, you'll be starting the "noob gains" - the first time you start working out, you basically get a free "boost", you'll gain fastest in this period more than any other. After 6 months, your friends and family will all comment on how different yo…
/r/seduction26/06/19 01:27 AM
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Yes, I feel like LTR become harder.
/r/seduction26/06/19 01:24 AM
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Agreed, but I think it's also a mistake not to remember our own perspectives when starting out. It seems SO simple to us now, but it really isn't. Starting is so hard, when you no inner-game, yet, the only way to grow it is by having external success, it's a very chicken and the egg problem without perspective. I try to encourage beginners with actual strategies, instead of bullshit tactics. Go to the gym. Learn to talk to strangers - ask people for the time... work your way up, etc..
/r/seduction26/06/19 01:16 AM
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Never reward bad behavior. Have some self respect. If a chick treats you like shit after you approach, you dont' reward bad behavior. She's acting like a child? Treat her like a child. Bad attitude = no dessert. Ok? You better have some self-respect. Invite someone that wants to spend time with you.
/r/seduction26/06/19 01:11 AM
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Oh man, well said. I absolutely LOVE that approach. Grocery shopping is one of the best first dates ever. Absolutely no commitment or tryharding. That's really good stuff... Women love to play "house" so walking around, making up "meals" and having her run around finding ingredients is great. You can talk about EVERYTHING that you see, it's like an amusement park of conversation. Just amazing, good tip. Completely agreed, when women try too hard (usually only up to 8/10 max) its a turn off. Make…
/r/seduction26/06/19 01:02 AM
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Glad to hear it. We're not done yet orangebubble. There's 6 more steps, don't you fucking ghost on us. And if anything is not working - that's part of the experiment, we have contingency plans for each step. It's important you try as stated, then report back. I'm gonna get him blasting so many loads on your face, you're gonna be drowning in it.
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:54 AM
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Yes, I made another post about jealousy, I think it addresses this point... maybe you can take a read if you want. Everyone is different and has different thresholds. The key is consistency and establishing a boundary with your significant other. Personally, I've struggled with jealousy when I was younger, and I faked not caring about it... until... I legitimately can't get jealous anymore, it has it's pros and cons, I'm not telling you to be like me. For some people, flirting is NOT ok. For oth…
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:53 AM
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Thanks for the kind reply. I'm just a dude like everyone else, who has learned some hard lessons. I enjoy hearing the experience of others, it makes all of us better. This is what the seduction community SHOULD be about. Being honest with yourself, and what you're looking for is very difficult in this world. Societal pressures, parental pressures, etc, make it very difficult for you to peruse relationships on your own terms. So I think it's something most guys struggle with - I sure do. Absolute…
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:50 AM
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Exactly. And also doing activities YOU want to do ANYWAY. The worst thing a guy can do is set up these "dates" that depend on her coming. Fuck that horse shit. You should be setting up dates YOU want to do. Go Karting! nice - if she doesn't show up - who cares you still get to go Go Karting. Meet at the pub? Sure, if she doesn't show up, im getting drunk anyway... Pool hall? Who cares if she shows, I'm playing pool anyway. This is a major gamechanger in dating.
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:48 AM
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Well put. I think this comes down to being honest with your relationship goals. What are you truly looking for. Sometimes FWB is what you want. But you should know exactly what you're getting into. A lesson we all learn, lol. Falling in love with slut.. hah.
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:46 AM
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First, congrats on the move. Texas is fucking awesome. New change for both of you to start over, see this as a blessing. Enjoy the adventure... ok? It's not scary, it's exciting. You and him against the world, ok? I'm not saying you make him ashamed at a high level, a lot of this stuff is subconscious. There's a reason he's jerking off - don't worry - every single guy ever, in a relationship does this. I usually lie about it, because most girls don't want to hear that. Again, he's ashamed about …
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:45 AM
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Read my other reply. Lot's to talk about, lot's of ideas. We're not jumping to clinical issues until we absolutely have to. Don't worry. There are solutions...
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:18 AM
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Ok, let's keep going. I wonder how he feels about his own body? I personally don't enjoy sex unless I'm in good shape. Going to the gym, even if it doesn't make a physical difference right away, will affect his hormonal balance - yes - maybe he has a hormonal issue - but we dont' start by jumping to drugs right away - we start by working out. Maybe you can figure out a physical activity (sport, gym, etc), that he might want to do - and you can encourage it. It's also cool if you say that his bod…
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:16 AM
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Here's a newsflash: Hot girls are never single. They go from boyfriend to boyfriend. They are never truly single. The sooner you realize this, the sooner everything makes sense. I'm not saying it's a good thing. I'm not saying that doesn't make her a slut. But that's what they do. Imagine getting 99 dick picks a day, from every guy you know, without asking for them, every dude begging to buy her dinner. You're either willing to play this game, or you're not. But yes, she probably felt guilty. Ar…
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:58 PM
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Let's have a conversation, there's a lot that can be done... I'm not a doctor. I'm just a dude who's been in a situation where I wasn't excited by my GF anymore. The issue turned out to be depression. I'm giving this advice in a particular way, because you posted in /seduction, you didn't post in /menshealth, or whatever, you posted this in /seduction, so understand that point of view... First, you definitely need to stop feeling guilty, that's first. You should only feel guilty if you take acti…
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:50 PM
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It's ok for you to fantasize about sex with other guys, as long as you aren't having sex with other guys (unless he's into that).... Have you asked him what turns him on? Have you asked him what positions he likes? What kind of porn does he watch? Every guy jerks off... don't punish him for jerking off, try to find out what he likes to jerk off too and join in...
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:35 PM
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Hell ya brother! Blowjobs are good too, but trying to make that your goal, only makes it harder (IMO). You're an inspiration. Genuinely enjoying being masculine, and allowing a woman to be feminine is one of the sexiest things in the world. She will feel that.
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:30 PM
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Exactly man, you're already ahead of the curve. Too many people get into this trying to use "tricks" or be "sleezy". Just being friendly, with a nice warm smile... that's the best approach in the WORLD. Notice how many people wanted to talk to you? Also there's nothing wrong with those instant dates! Those don't always need a kiss close, sometimes it's just fun to enjoy the company of a woman for a couple hours with no expectations - will do wonders for your confidence around women. Can't wait t…
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:25 PM
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That's excellent.
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:24 PM
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No idea who this guy is but... I love the grocery store line...... "Get anything good?" that's actually genius... gonna try this.
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:23 PM
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Great job. You've already done the hardest part. Don't stop now.. proud of you.
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:21 PM
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Well said. Abundance mentality is so underrated. It changes everything.
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:19 PM
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Thanks for the details! It's really good to hear from others. Very common story! I feel I went through similar things, and probably many guys here. It's one of the reasons why I always yell at people to GET TO THE GYM. Because when I'm at my worst, it's the HARDEST and MOST IMPORTANT thing to do. One of the greatest gestures in pickup, I believe is tough love - FORCE these guys to go to the gym - there's no fucking shortcut for it... I started writing notes to myself, about how I feel when I'm a…
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:15 PM
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Good discussion. Jealousy is so hard. I've become a master at this though, I never show my jealousy ever. I faked it for so long, I'm a stone cold killer now. There's literally nothing she can say to actually make me jealous now. For better or worse (yes, there is also a downside to being like this...). Keep in mind, if she's fucking around on you, it's due to OTHER issues: sexual dissatisfaction, lack of emotional connection, lack of time together, lack of attention, lack of communication, etc,…
/r/seduction25/06/19 10:55 PM
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Oh ya, good point. You should pick a day that's 2 days in advance. 1 day is too short of notice. 2 is usually perfect. If she says shes busy that day, immediately pick another day. Never suggest a 3rd time. If she rejects the second day, then it's off the table. Also ya - you gotta feel the vibe. If you REALLY think she's down to bone right this second - you should TOTALLY do it "come right now". You're right. All depends on the setting.
/r/seduction25/06/19 10:48 PM
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This can work, but honestly it can be better. When you say "come show me", it requires 2 or 3 follow up texts, it gives her too much time to think.... that's not good. Better to say. "I'm going to be at the poolhall at 9 on Thursday, come along". She will figure it out. Edit: I think you're right, but keeping my comment for people to read into. It depends on if you really think conditions are right at the very moment. In my personal experience, most girls need at least a day to "get ready" to ha…
/r/seduction25/06/19 10:39 PM
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I'd love to hear from everyone else, these are just my personal experiences... lots to learn yet.
/r/seduction25/06/19 10:38 PM
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That's absolutely right. Place and time. She can come along if she wants.
/r/seduction25/06/19 10:12 PM
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Say "Obviously". Then do not dwell on it, or talk about it any more. Play it cool, as if it's expected like "Duhhh. no shit I should see you naked you moron". Then give her a place and time to meet "I'm going to be at X pub at 8pm on Friday, tag along". Boom. Then have a few drinks then uber back to your place. If she comes to the pub, she already assumes your taking her back to your place. DO NOT ASK HER to take uber with you. Just order one. Bam.
/r/seduction25/06/19 10:10 PM
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Not bashing you, do whatever you want, but unless you've got a good body, and shirtless pics on your profile, instagram is a waste of time.
/r/seduction25/06/19 10:08 PM
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Nah I think that's a perfectly valid thing to say. Don't have to suck everyones cock, its just calling people names that's a turn off. Having honest reflections isn't bad at all.
/r/seduction25/06/19 10:01 PM
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The downside of having your own business. Probably speaks a lot to my personality, I love to work. Ironic as well, because I've gotten laid more times than I can count, because they find "driven", workaholic men sexy. Probably because I don't use social media, text excessively, or have a lot of time to fuck around. But ya, thanks for the reply.
/r/seduction25/06/19 09:57 PM
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I'd love to hear your thoughts too, on what you think it takes... I'm here to learn like everyone else.
/r/seduction25/06/19 09:46 PM
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I'm definitely not a shining example of perfect relationships, but I've had a few... I'm sure there are better people at long relationships - but I'm pretty good at getting into them, especially when I don't want them... But here are some tips (some that I struggle with too): Continue to seduce her in the relationship. That means continuing to use push-pull, take her on dates, flirt, and tease her. Continue treating her like your dating - that's essential. This can be very hard after a year or t…
/r/seduction25/06/19 09:26 PM
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That's so absolutely important, great tip. Never, ever ever shittalk an ex. That's the worst you can do. In fact, don't EVER ask a girl about her ex. There's literally nowhere good it can go. Seriously, there's no benefit, ever. And ya, a good social skill is never shit talk ANYONE, people will regard you MUCH more highly. It's very similar to when you're watching people interact with waitresses. People who treat waitresses like shit, are shitty people, always. If you always talk shit about peop…
/r/seduction25/06/19 09:17 PM
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This type of question, like most relationship questions a girl asks are "qualifiers". They are trying to find out if your dating material. Also referred to as disqualifiers. They are looking for ways to possibly disqualify you. Yes, being honest is good, but the main objective is to not fuck yourself over on these questions. She's basically just testing you. You wouldn't want to say "because my dick gets soft in bed". Insta block on that one. You'd say "We grew apart and our interests were too d…
/r/seduction25/06/19 08:34 PM
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I hear ya, depression is a bitch. The first day is 100% the hardest, I still fight depression. The greatest irony of course, is that working out is literally the cure for depression, but starting is so fucking hard sometimes. Here's what I'm telling you. Stop thinking about how you're gonna suck at the gym. Stop thinking about how your weak. Stop thinking about what excercises you know how to do. That stuff doesn't matter. My goal for you is.. LITERALLY just go to the gym. I don't even care if y…
/r/seduction25/06/19 08:30 PM
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Ya exactly. It should also give you a hint that your initial invite probably wasn't smooth enough. It's not a big deal, but you could have probably fixed the initial invite so this never, ever comes up. I just assume girls are coming over, and don't even address it. Personally, I invite girls to come play basketball, tennis, or go swimming at my house. I don't even mention my house - but I always take them back there after they suck at sports (95% of women suck at sports). I just assume they are…
/r/seduction25/06/19 08:27 PM
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Inner game is about self-confidence. Thus, are you willing to have a confident conversation, or are you saying things you think she wants to hear? The trick is to be willing to have conversations with her (and also with your friends) and be brutally honest. If you have your own opininos MAN THE FUCK UP AND SAY THEM. Don't be a people pleaser. Self-confidence is being willing to speak your truth, regardless if she likes it or not. That's real inner game. And women find it sexy as hell. Have your …
/r/seduction25/06/19 08:25 PM
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Ok, it starts now. GO TO THE FUCKING GYM YOU CUCK.
/r/seduction25/06/19 08:20 PM
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Exactly. She's basically telling you to be smooth, and don't be so obvious about it. Girls always need an excuse, even if it's a bad one to come over. Your job is to be SMOOTH, and don't dwell on the topic, act like you do this all the time, and be straight and direct. "Dinner is at 6, I'm making amazing tacos. You're bringing the wine right?". Confidence the whole way through. Your job is to make her feel normal in the interaction.
/r/seduction25/06/19 08:18 PM
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So true. I think many of us who get good at pickup, end up in relationships, and those relationships often fail for lots of reasons. Above post is so correct, relationship game is a whole nother thing.... It can be fixed though, but not everyone's goals are the same, and that's ok.
/r/seduction25/06/19 08:12 PM
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Should have said "Soyboy beta virgin", hits harder.
/r/seduction25/06/19 08:09 PM
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This is an excellent drill, and anyone who has issues with approaches should start with this. Not only is it good for confidence building conversation, but it forces you to actually PAY ATTENTION to the people you are talking to. It's really good.
/r/seduction25/06/19 08:07 PM
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Step #2: This time, we're approaching females only. 10 approaches a day, consisting of; "Hey, what's your name?" ...(her response basically doesn't matter, she will either say "why?" or "Mary")... then you say "I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi". That's it. Don't tie yourself to outcome... but you'll notice some of these girls will want to keep talking, and you'll probably fuck it up. But that's ok, that's when we learn step #3. But first we must be confident doing 10 approaches a day…
/r/seduction25/06/19 08:02 PM
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Basically issues related to your self-image, self-esteem, ego and self-worth. Many of us when we are starting, actually hate ourselves. I know I did. I hated how I looked, I always talked negatively to myself in my own head, and put other people before me in all cases. It's really important to think about your mental state. Do you love yourself? Your internal dialog - is it negative or positive? Do you have a positive body image? Is your ego too big? Is your ego too small? Are you scared to expr…
/r/seduction25/06/19 07:58 PM
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Yep. The more you watch people - the losers sitting around looking at their phones, missing opportunities in life. Women are losers too, it's not just men. But the highest class. 9/10, 10/10 men and women, keep their heads out of their phones. You'll start to notice this trend now that you're thinking about it. Nothing worse than seeing people's faces burried in their phones, too scared to talk to strangers. Instead, make smalltalk with strangers. I actually leave my phone at home now when I go …
/r/seduction25/06/19 07:55 PM
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By the way, I enjoy the discourse. I upvote you because I like your perspective, you forced me to expand. I get frustrated when the OP asks something, then never returns to have a dialog. I need to know if he can get to step #1: admit his problems.
/r/seduction25/06/19 12:43 PM
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I like the idea of marriage. Gave up on an amazing women over this. In fact, gave up on multiple, but one that was very serious. I'd be lying to say I don't think about turning back time sometimes.. but then I come to my senses, and become honest with myself and who I am. I'm currently not capable of marriage. I travel every month for work. I have too many interests and hobbies. I get bored of women, and desire having sex with more women. I won't need to lambaste myself for how I am, but I need …
/r/seduction25/06/19 05:20 AM
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You should be setting the date ASAP, because you're busy, and your calendar fills up fast. Tomorrow, set the time and place. Then, the day before the date, send a text with a joke like "Will see you tomorrow @ 8, quick question though, I was told XXX was a nude restaurant?"
/r/seduction25/06/19 04:53 AM
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Good post. You can only get better. The root of seduction is to improve yourself. Depression is no joke, the good news is that there are ways to manage it.
/r/seduction25/06/19 04:49 AM
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I agree with you on that actually. By blocking and deleting though, it forces you to move on, regardless of who's fault it was. Well said.
/r/seduction25/06/19 04:48 AM
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I personally don't use social media, at all. I have a fake facebook for doing work related stuff, and I have a Twitter that I haven't posted to in 2 years. To each their own. I know lots of guys that get laid from Instagram, but IMO it's terrible. Bunch of cucks trying to get girls attention. I get girls phone numbers, not instagram profiles. I also don't live my life online, I think it's really sad. I'm too busy doing stuff in real life (well, unlike now I suppose, until I'm healed).
/r/seduction25/06/19 04:42 AM
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That's not what I said though. I do appreciate the conversation. The first step is in feeling the pain. I didn't tell him to "just get over it lol". But no one is going to feel sorry for him, and he needs to learn that. The first step is to understand that the confidence you'll need will come from within. There is no magic bullet. And the first step is to embrace the feeling. Yes. They are laughing at you. What are you gonna do about it? If the OP replies, I'll write an essay on the tips to go a…
/r/seduction25/06/19 04:20 AM
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Yes, I have a company. I work on machine learning on contract for a large tech company. I lost my virginity when I was 20.
/r/seduction25/06/19 04:11 AM
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Ya well those guys are dumb. Reading is always cool, and the most interesting people on the planet are well read. However, you should only do it because you're chasing your own interests. Read what YOU want to read. Learn topics YOU want to learn. But I have the strong opinion that if you think reading is stupid, you're probably stupid. One of the hardest habits to quit is TV. But I can't encourage it enough. I watch a few things, like Game of Thrones, and a couple things, but make it a point no…
/r/seduction25/06/19 04:10 AM
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Yes, I'm in my early 30's now. Have done a lot of very unique things. Started as a beta virgin, and learned... a lot to change. Tennis is awesome. I used to box competitively, but ruined my shoulder, tennis worked really well for my rehab.
/r/seduction25/06/19 04:05 AM
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That's right. You should be willing to change your mind, but don't waver in the wind. It's also nice, because it will force you to become a learned man. Read books about topics you are interested in.. doesn't even have to be a lot... just a couple of topics. I like reading about religion, about computer science and history. I have opinions about all of these things. You're going to notice though, that most people around you are boring...
/r/seduction25/06/19 04:05 AM
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If your worried about offending someone you don't even know - that just signals that you are over invested, right? It's one of the "pickup hacks". By using this method, you are communicating that you are not invested in her at all. That's attractive. Abundance mindset. The reason why the Giraff one works (or gorilla, peacock, iguana, etc.. doesn't matter), is because it's stupid to be offended by it? She might say "Why do you think i have a long neck?" It's kind of fucking funny. Like, the reaso…
/r/seduction25/06/19 04:01 AM
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Not anymore. Played college hockey, just play men's league now on a couple teams. But I also play tennis, swimming, mountain biking, and running/hiking. Looks like it will be about a year off from hockey, but should be back doing at least upper body work in 2-3 months.
/r/seduction25/06/19 04:00 AM
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Absolutely that makes you a cooler person/more attractive. Being able to have your own opinions, that you know other people disagree with, but you are willing to say, makes you a confident person. Only losers have the same opinions as everyone else. It's why it's important to stop watching TV, and such. These things are designed to formulate the way you think. Boring. The best people I know have unique life experiences, and have unique opinions. You should be able to speak confidently about your…
/r/seduction25/06/19 03:58 AM
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I want your tip.
/r/seduction25/06/19 03:55 AM
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That's great man. I like your approach. 15 people to say good morning to is perfect. I started with doing "do you know what time it is" and it was a game changer. You've already done the hard part by making your plan, now just do it. Leave your phone at home (trust me) and walk around and meet that goal. Once you can do this easily, come back for step 2.
/r/seduction25/06/19 03:51 AM
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My best tip is, make sure you're saying shit that amuses YOU. That was a big secret for me. For the majority of my early dating life, I'd try to do/say things that I thought SHE wanted to hear. That's so backwards. I laugh when I say shit like that, so I send it. I think it's funny to say: "Hey, I'm buying some clothes right now, and just saw a perfect dress for you", then I'd attach a picture of an XXXXXL dress or something. Works every time, they will text back "haha, I'm not that fat" or some…
/r/seduction25/06/19 03:44 AM
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Hey dude, i love your biceps
/r/seduction25/06/19 03:40 AM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction25/06/19 03:40 AM
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I like this comment.
/r/seduction25/06/19 03:40 AM
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Seriously. What an asshole. If you read between the lines - he is blaming his own shitty personality on his height, just to avoid admitting his own failure. He has a fragile ego, he needs to fix.
/r/seduction25/06/19 03:39 AM
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I just got a surgery for a torn MCL, so I'm now officially in recovery, sitting in a bed online... can't wait till I can play sports again...
/r/seduction25/06/19 03:38 AM
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That was a random example, but yes, that's pretty much the kind of stuff I do. Always gotta open with something funny. Never ever ever ever open with: "HI, IM GREG, THE GUY THAT WAS AT THE MALL". Fucking boring. Always start with something engaging, she has to respond... And never more than 3 texts before setting up a time and place. Never fucking ASK - You're going to a place no matter what, you're giving her the place and time, and she can tag along. That's how it should pretty much always wor…
/r/seduction25/06/19 03:36 AM
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Meh it's all good, to each his own. I like hearing other people's opinions.
/r/seduction25/06/19 03:34 AM
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And dude, I'm not fucking perfect. At all. I'm not better than anyone. But I've been through it fucking all. And I've had success. I struggle every day. I went through a period called "Brutal Honesty". It changed my life. It meant telling the ABSOLUTE honesty in every situation to everyone. That includes saying things, lying includes also not saying anything. It taught me a lot. Insecurity comes from within. We all have it. You are gonna make a fucking huge turnaround. The first step is acknowle…
/r/seduction25/06/19 03:26 AM
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How? The dude has internal issues, as we all did when we started. How does one fix their mental? Part of it is working on confidence, and not being emotional to other's opinions of you. Having success can solve this issue, success can come from: your job, your body, and your mental state. If the OP isn't working out, he needs to start. If the OP has issues talking to strangers, he has to start approaching strangers, and learning to have conversations. etc etc. Why fucking coddle him? We want pro…
/r/seduction25/06/19 03:24 AM
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Lack of masculinity in today's world. I'm coming from a place of compassion. I was once a beta virgin too. No point in sugar coating this shit. The sooner it can be acknowledged, the sooner we can save this man.
/r/seduction25/06/19 03:21 AM
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Block her, delete her move on. None of this bullshit. If she wants you, she'll make herself known. Period, no exception.
/r/seduction25/06/19 02:34 AM
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You've lost tons of opportunities. Once you learn that women want sex as much/more than you... When a girl says "let's fuck", you respond "I'll be home at 8, see you then". That's it. The "Beta" reply is not taking action when she says that. The other beta action is to play it off like a joke. Don't. You say when you're gonna be at home (never NOW), and you say it straight.
/r/seduction25/06/19 02:31 AM
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If you don't learn how to make her cum, it's over for you. Have you ever asked her what turns her on?
/r/seduction25/06/19 02:08 AM
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No point in sugarcoating this. Yes she's probably sexually unsatisfied. Fucking man up. Take control in bed. Ask her to bend over for you. Take control and tell her to flip, lie on her side, etc. It's very easy...
/r/seduction25/06/19 02:08 AM
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The best way to get good at conversations, is to have a lot of shitty conversations. How? Approach people and have shitty conversations. Stop measuring yourself by the outcome. Step #1: Approach 10 people, and ask the time. That's it. Males and females both. Just literally, approach 10 people a day, and ask the time. That's it. "hey, do you know what time it is?". Until you can do that comfortably, then keep trying. Come back when you're ready for step 2.
/r/seduction25/06/19 02:06 AM
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Exactly. She doesn't care about the answer, she wants an excuse to talk about herself, and to scout you as a potential mate. She doesn't want you to say "Last week I fucked 4 chicks" or "My last relationship lasted 24 hours". She is trying to evaluate you as a potential mate - are you capable of having a relationship or are you a psycopath.
/r/seduction25/06/19 02:00 AM
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And that changes now, right? Go to the fucking gym.
/r/seduction25/06/19 01:52 AM
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Good. Use it as motivation to lift more weight. Have you been to the gym yet today?
/r/seduction25/06/19 01:47 AM
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You talk about what gets your attention. Why are you approaching? Are you approaching because she's a bag of flesh? Why did you notice her? A clip in her hair? Ugly ass shoes? Weird style? Cool earrings? Ugly tattoo? Strange body language? Bring up the reason that she caught your eye, and don't dwell on it - use it just to say hi, then move the fuck on and ask her name.
/r/seduction25/06/19 01:46 AM
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Ok, you're right. You are too good looking, and too tall to meet a woman. You are destined to die alone, because you've got a better body, and are better looking than Brad Pitt. Men feel very sorry for you. You are doomed to die alone, because you're TOO charming. We are all praying for you.
/r/seduction25/06/19 01:02 AM
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So true... As men, we tend to be logical creatures, women; emotional. Thus, we crave to EXPLAIN every interaction that we can't understand: "women can sense this that bla bla". I think you're 100% right. They can't sense shit. We get so caught up trying to logically rationalize everything. The vast majority of women don't spend a fucking braincell on your interaction. You can approach women all day - and as soon as that interaction over, 99% of those women will never even THINK about that intera…
/r/seduction25/06/19 01:01 AM
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What a horseshit mindset. No one will fuck you because your tall or short. The fact that you are talking like your height has ANYTHING to do with you getting fucked, is, well, fucked. You gotta fix your shit. Stop blaming your fucking height - it has nothing to do with it. You sound like the kind of person who will blame any failure he has on some physical attribute. Disgusting. Stop scapegoating your problems. We both know your problems are with your personality. Fix your inner game. You know h…
/r/seduction25/06/19 12:56 AM
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The problem isn't girls laughing at you... pretend they are. Who fucking gives a shit? The problem is giving a fuck about what they think. So, go on thinking they are laughing at you - so fucking what? fix your internal issues.
/r/seduction25/06/19 12:51 AM
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Say "hey, I'm at the zoo and just saw a giraff that looks like you", she'll respond with something stupid. Then say "Hey I'm going to this new micropub on Friday @ 8, feel free to come along."
/r/seduction25/06/19 12:48 AM
2

What exactly are you asking? Not everyone wants an emotional connection, and that's ok. What are you asking? Do what makes you happy - what are you looking for?
/r/seduction25/06/19 12:46 AM
5

Stop comparing yourself to others. No wonder your friends get dates - you have a shitty fucking attitude. If you think girls will fuck you because you're tall, then you're completely fucked. Your friends sounds way cooler than you. How does your body look? What's your BMI?
/r/seduction25/06/19 12:44 AM
3

Yep, I hear you. Once in a while I find myself installing the app, getting validation by going on terrible dates, then deleting the app again. All of the 9/10, 10/10 girls I've been with have been from IRL pickup. PS: Thinking about this anymore, about where my urge comes from to install the app - it's usually when I have a lull in work, or recovering from an injury, etc... when I have too much free time. Which of course is ironic, because you'd never be able to meet a quality girl in real life …
/r/seduction25/06/19 12:42 AM
2

Do not text her again under any circumstance. She's 100% talking/fucking other guys. Don't worry about it. Move on, and assume she's not interested. If she gets back, great. If not, who cares. The only possibility you have, is for her to get jealous of you moving onto other things/girls.
/r/seduction25/06/19 12:12 AM
1

Just to add to that... if you're not her type, the only thing that can help is lucky timing - there's nothing you can do about it.
/r/seduction25/06/19 12:10 AM
1

Gym. Today. Right now. Stop making excuses. You've got a long road ahead, but if you do this, you will come out ahead. Coming from a fellow ADHD'er. And yes, your ADHD has a lot to do with your introversion, among other things. Gym. Right now. Report back.
/r/seduction24/06/19 11:32 PM
3

Good tips.
/r/seduction24/06/19 11:27 PM
2

FYI, recruiters are literally paid to flirt with you. Everything with a recruiter is fake, even if they are nice. It doesn't mean they are bad people, but they are literally recruiters because they are good at flirting - and likely do it without "trying". When you call her out on flirting, she will literally be shocked and say "Oh, wow, I wasn't flirting, this is just how I am", and she's actually being honest. It doesn't mean that you can't win her over - but, recruiters are a special breed. Do…
/r/seduction24/06/19 11:25 PM
4

To be honest with you, online dating sucks, especially for people who do better in real life. It's a lot harder to show off your body, or show off your personality online. I'd strongly suggest deleting those apps - unless you want 6/10's. Most dating apps are just 4/10 - 6/10 max. Girls who are 9/10 online get millions of message, and they delete the app every time they meet someone. Just stick to pickup in real life.
/r/seduction24/06/19 11:18 PM
1

Inner game. Self esteem. You need to work on yourself majorly, because you can't attract women. Go to the gym right now. Then report back. Stop making excuses. Go right now.
/r/seduction24/06/19 10:52 PM
0

Don't keep talking about anime. I personally would never mention it, but if you do, do not keep talking about it. Move the conversation into a meetup. Make sure you first bring up another thing, so you don't seem like a complete single interest nerd. "Hey, I'm going horseback riding on Sunday with some friends, feel free to come join". Replace horseback riding with whatever your doing. Do not just keep talking about anime...
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:12 PM
2

Depends on where his depression comes from. For a lot of shy virgins, shooting guns can provide a feeling of empowerment that can be just the thing for many people. But point taken, it's not for everyone. Always be safe kids
/r/seduction23/06/19 03:50 PM
5

Point taken, but nothing brings me out of sadness more than shooting guns. It's not for everyone, but nothing makes me feel better. Then again, I've spent my life shooting and hunting, so it's not for everyone. In my experience, I've taught many people to shoot, and nothing can transform someone more than shooting, in my personal experience. Archery too. Edit: I'd also like to say, as someone who has gone through a transformation, if you wanted to kill yourself, it's not hard to do. Owning a gun…
/r/seduction23/06/19 03:48 PM
1

Point taken, but I'd like to mention: Rodgers was a psychopath. Owning guns does not making one. But I understand what you're saying.
/r/seduction23/06/19 03:47 PM
0

I believe it, cucks everywhere. Definitely don't feel better though.
/r/seduction23/06/19 02:18 AM
5

Fair enough. I am too though (SF), and OP, if you're reading, I'll take you shooting any time... rifle, shotgun, handgun, whatever you want.
/r/seduction23/06/19 02:13 AM
7

Really good point. Cooking is something EVERY person needs to know how to do. Guitar, or any other instrument is great. Rock climbing is amazing because you can do it alone - the amount of chicks at rock climbing is absolutely mind blowing... Completely agreed with you. Stop playing video games and anime, well said. That passive shit will destroy you.
/r/seduction23/06/19 01:04 AM
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This is the right suggestion, /endthread. If you're looking for what else to do, there are tons of hobbies. Take up shooting guns, or fishing. Good hobbies you can do yourself, and you'll meet tons of people doing it.
/r/seduction23/06/19 12:54 AM
9

At lab you say "Let's get a drink after lab". If he declines, he's not interested.
/r/seduction22/06/19 01:40 AM
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Did she say, or do something to earn a compliment? Or did you give her a compliment, without even knowing about her? PS. I think you're the best looking guy I've ever seen. You're so handsome.
/r/seduction06/06/19 07:09 AM
1

You need to work on your grammar, it's no wonder. What the fuck kind of title is that, and what kind of stupid screenshot is that?
/r/seduction05/06/19 02:18 AM
3

No. For women it’s a sign of submission. Men shouldn’t submit to other men, unless it’s by choice.
/r/seduction21/04/19 12:16 AM
5

This is a 100% effective way to learn this. This affects many people, and most never correct it. People will literally think less of you (at the very least subconviously) when you look away while talking to them. Think about it. All day you have people thinking in their head "what a creepy guy, he keeps looking away from me when talking". You have to change your frame, because people DO think you're a creep when you look away. Its not weird to look people in the eyes, you need to retrain yoursel…
/r/seduction20/04/19 08:12 PM
1

Stop feeling sorry yourself, it's repulsive.
/r/seduction07/02/19 09:51 PM
1

Good insights.
/r/seduction02/02/19 10:26 PM
14

You're not actually down and out, just need to tweak your mentality, IMO. Why are you trying to restrict her fun? She will most certainly seek someone who is more fun. Let her go out - make sure that YOU are doing something fun too! You're setting all these rules, and she knows you're going to be sitting home alone, while she's out having fun. You need to go out and do something with your friends, and she has to know that. Yes, she's going to go out with her girlfriends and get fucked up - and y…
/r/seduction01/02/19 11:10 PM
18

LOL she’s gonna dump you because if your stupid rules.
/r/seduction01/02/19 10:38 PM
1

It looks fake bro. Use zoomed out shot, still showing your body. It’s more believable
/r/seduction07/01/19 12:00 AM
2

She wants to fuck another hot dude, but doesn't want to hurt your feelings. I bet the other guy is more alpha than you. Go work out, and move on. If you want to get her back - you have to ignore her, and work out and attract other girls.
/r/seduction21/12/18 04:02 AM
2

You are. Consider it therapy. Go work out right now.
/r/seduction21/12/18 03:58 AM
2

This post is way too long considering the details. Move the fuck on. You’re doing this to yourself.
/r/seduction21/12/18 03:22 AM
1

You’re right. I guess I was just curious if you knew a blind guy with bad grooming, I just never thought of that
/r/seduction09/12/18 09:50 PM
57

This is actually a really funny prank. As far as seduction, goes to show how important body language is! Most people try to say too much (in clubs or in groups). Body language and confidence is more than 50% of the interaction.
/r/seduction09/12/18 08:27 PM
7

I'm not offended or anything - I'd laugh if the joke were somewhat true, just seems like you don't know any blind people? Most of the ones I know are as well groomed as I am...
/r/seduction09/12/18 08:26 PM
2

Your first photo should be you looking your best, in GOOD LIGHTING, and nice clothing. You don't need to show your tits, but it's a good idea to show the shape of your body. I have 0.01 seconds to think if I'd fuck you or not before I swipe. Show the contour of your body. Tip (this is subjective, so feel free to disregard): Get a skirt or sundress from your summer clothing (it's ok, photo doesn't need to be winter or Christmas theme). Show bare legs, skirts are cute. Wear a form fitting top if i…
/r/seduction01/12/18 12:06 AM
4

You're a really good poster! Nice. Let's get married. Again, more honesty, since you're here. Men don't read the profiles, just look at pics - and to be honest most girls don't read men's profiles until AFTER a match. Matches are always done based on pictures alone - since guys have to swipe about 200+ profiles to even get a single match. Guys don't read your profile until AFTER the match, and that's an absolute fact. You could put anything in it, and men won't read it until after. I'd only focu…
/r/seduction30/11/18 11:46 PM
3

Good question. I'd hope not, but I have friends with kids, and I know for sure they aren't looking for a woman with kids. They are on the app to fuck younger girls. But, who knows, maybe not all men are the same!
/r/seduction30/11/18 11:08 PM
5

Hi there. You sound nice. I'll give you some honest feedback though. Men in the 26-50 range of high status won't be dating 30 year old women with kids. Men on dating sites will generally be looking for a woman without baggage, who's down to meetup. I'm willing to bet if men spent the time to get to know you, you could win them over - but that's now how tinder, bumble, etc work - unfortunately. You're best bet is to meet more people in real life, and less online. Just being honest. For 99% of men…
/r/seduction30/11/18 10:22 PM
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Sounds like you have a shitty personality. You are demeaning your friend in the first sentence - what does that say about your character? Girls probably picked up on this. Keep making fun of your overweight friend with man boobs, instead of focus on what makes him charming. Saying things like "notches in the belt", I can tell you're a nerd. It's called sex. I bet you aren't sexual with females at all, thus they don't like you. If you are afraid to talk about sex online, imagine trying to talk ab…
/r/seduction25/11/18 09:35 PM
4

Ya, I'm not bashing, I fuck up all the time too, just trying to give you a perspective. I've been with girls like this. It just seems so obvious to me that she wanted you to be cocky with her and go for it. If you manage to see her again, you should be funny and be cocky when you escalate.
/r/seduction07/11/18 05:38 AM
1

You didn't flirt with her, willing to bet. You didn't act confident and play cocky getting a kiss, did you?
/r/seduction07/11/18 05:11 AM
1

Lots of nonsense here. Question is what you're trying to do, are you trying to hook up with chicks on tinder, or more? If you're looking to hookup, first, good for you. She straight up told you how to fuck her and you ignored it. She wants you to be cocky / loud / obnoxious - she wants a playboy. If you want to fuck her, you have to act in person like you do in text. It sounds like she liked you because that's how you text - but you didn't deliver in person. She straight up told you - if you act…
/r/seduction07/11/18 04:57 AM
1

Here's a tip for you. Girls are used to getting compliments all the time. You are not used to getting compliments ever. The reason why you are hung up on this is because you're putting too much weight on your compliment. Now, you don't need to be giving her compliment, she doesn't deserve much compliment until you actually get to know her. The only things you should be concerned with complimenting her on would be her outfit, or something basic that anyone can see, don't go further than that. You…
/r/seduction06/11/18 08:26 PM
1

Depends on the compliment. I agree that you should be careful with compliments, but it doesn't mean don't use any. For example, you need some reason to tell go up to her, so something about her must have attracted you. Saying "Hi, I think you're cute, what's your name" is probably the best approach. Cute is a very light compliment, but honest, and doesn't put her on a pedastal.
/r/seduction06/11/18 08:24 PM
0

As a confident man, you are confident in silence. Learn to embrace it, and don't let it get to you. If you can learn to not be awkward, and sit there, she will talk. Just by locking eyes with her - she will fill the space with talking, not you. She's the female, females will talk forever given the opportunity.
/r/seduction10/10/18 10:37 PM
1

She's not interested in you - unless you've done something to display your value as a partner. If you do nothing, then you're right, it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. She will never be interested in you, unless you make yourself interesting. Instead of being defeated that she's not interested in you - why don't you actually try to be interesting, and let her decide? Literally asking her what her Starbucks order is would be interesting enough to get a number.
/r/seduction10/10/18 10:25 PM
1

Seriously. And even then, if a girl is asking you about video games then she likes you, especially if it's happening all the time. I've never once had a hot girl ask me what video games I play, and I'm good looking. So the fact she's saying that means she already likes you - if you can't fuck her, then you're retarded.
/r/seduction10/10/18 10:24 PM
1

You did literally every single thing wrong. It's not even possible to critique this, you didn't even make an attempt at all, this doesn't belong in /seduction. This post should be posted in TwoXChromosones. If this post isn't a troll... She was waiting for you to ask her out - stop listening to girl's answers literally, because they don't mean them like that. Don't ever start a conversation with your bullshit passive aggressive attitude - it really stinks "BAAAAAAAAAAAA IT SOUNDS LIKE YOUR UNSUN…
/r/seduction10/10/18 10:02 PM
1

Good stuff! Keep going. I blow up sets all the time, but at least it will bring you back to normal.
/r/seduction08/07/18 10:37 PM
1

You break out if the slump by approaching tons of girls. Simple Go approach 10 girls tomorrow. Then report back.
/r/seduction08/07/18 05:27 AM
3

Dude, chin up. That's an ATTRACTION if you treat it like one. Seriously, you have such a good tool with that to use as an opener or build attraction. No girl will be turned off by that - they only will if you are showing low confidence. Carry yourself with high confidence, when women see the scar, they will be thinking about the mysteries about you. Hold you frame! Get laid because of your scar! Girls will think that's hot as fuck!
/r/seduction03/04/18 06:43 PM
1

Maybe you missed my point. It’s not about bowling. The point is to set a date and time. You are saying that you are doing X at Y time, and asking her if she wants to “tag along” this is key. You are not outcome dependent on her decision, your plans are already made, and she respects that.
/r/seduction04/02/18 02:15 AM
2

Wrong. You need to go do something fun, ask her to join if she's feeling like it. You need to be so much more assertive. "Had fun last night, I enjoyed getting to know you. I'm going bowling on Tuesday at 6, are you going to come along?" I guarantee you that's better. If she says "I'm busy that day" then you can change the convo - but never ever lead a conversation with any doubt. Always assume a close in ever conversation. This will help you not just in your romantic life, but your professional…
/r/seduction03/02/18 10:25 PM
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It's really simple, don't spend a lot of time over analyzing or attributing pseudo science to why this is the case. Clicking "like" online, is literally the lowest form communication that exists. If you are one of those guys, you are proving your social status as being an online loser just like all the others showing attention to a girl, that never reciprocates. Men (and women) who value themselves, are more selective with their praise. A high value man won't shower praise, unless the other pers…
/r/seduction22/03/14 09:39 PM
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