Hi guys, im new here and I want to share my most recent experience to listen to some opinion on what i should do, here it goes:
So i met this girl at a friends house on friday 12th, i got to talk to her most of the night, share some drinks and weed, i offered her a drive home which was really close, when i get to her home to drop her, i grab her and make out with her, for a few minutes, she then asks for my number. The next day i invite her to one of my friends party so i pick her up and makeout with her and arrive at the party, there we had some intense make out sessions which led me to have sex with her in my car later that night. After that, on saturday i got to see her everyday from sunday to thursday, as she was hospitalized for some infection, and the hospital she stayed at was a 3 minute walk from my home. I brought her ice cream everyday and cuddled with her and watched movies, had some deep and intense talks which got me to believe this was going serious instead of just another random fling. She got out of the hospital this friday, we were meant to see eachother but she was feeling kind of tired so we didnt meet. On saturday i invited her to a party at one of my friends house, she came by herself, when she came she greeted me like she didn’t know me, didn’t want to talk to me for a good 2 hours and instead went to talk to everyone at the party but me ( she knew some of the people). 2 hours pass and i go to the bathroom same time she goes, she grabs me there and we have sex in the bathroom for a good 40 minutes, i offered her a drive home after that and she agreed, but then preferred to have a drive home with one of her friends. On sunday we text, we were supposed to meet at an event that she invited me, in the morning, which i could not go as i was hungover, i offered her to have dinner with me, which she replied she would let me know as she had some things to do and didnt know if she could. she never replied.
I texted her on tuesday telling her that i wanted to see her on wednesday for dinner, she said she couldn’t, and offered me to have lunch instead, i told her that i couldnt due to my job. So then i asked her when was she available to meet again? She said she didnt know. I called her on wednesday and she didnt pick up, i texted her to see if she wanted to meet a few minutes as i was close to where she works. She said she didnt want to, i asked her why? She just said she didnt want to. I then asked her if she was mad because I didn’t go to her event, which was pretty important for her, to which she replied with a voice message saying that she wasn’t mad. She just doesnt feel like hanging out with me at the moment, she really liked hanging out with me last week but shes not into it right now. I replied, “cool atleast i know ure not mad” and left it like that.
Now i dont know what to do or think, its kind of weird cus before sunday we texted eachother everyday for hours and saw eachother, she was always eager to see me, now shes very distant. Now, i dont get attached to easily, but the experience that we had in the hospital, all the deep talk and the cuddling made me believe that she wanted something serious.
Ive been talking and hanging out with other girls, but i like her best. And i would like to stop fooling around and maybe have something more serious with her.
So should i wait for her to text me again, even if it takes days? Should i forget about her? Maybe she just wanted to have sex and nothing else?
I appreciate the feedback.
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