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PlanetSquare/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 09:26 PM
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There's lots of things that we don't drop dead without but still need, like a balanced diet. You could theoretically live off nothing but instant ramen, but you probably wont be very healthy or happy. I think connection and intimacy is a need as we are social animals and while we wont just drop dead without it, we will be more likely to become depressed and have other mental and emotional issues arise. Sex is just one way to receive that connection and intimacy. Cuddling, sleeping next to a pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:39 PM
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Hey, you're valid. I often feel sort of left out during some of these discussions too because it's always so heteronormative. Glad you commented though, I appreciate seeing the queer perspective :) Interesting we both essentially said style as our number one thing that we look at. Must be part of the gay agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:13 PM
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I check out what people are wearing, and if it's convenient to do so I will give them a compliment and maybe start a small conversation if they seem to reciprocate, social media or numbers might be exchanged with the goal to befriend them and see if there's a connection for more. I don't really get out much so this seems to usually happen at my college or more rarely at the grocery store. Most people seem to just default into the same few clothing choices, jeans, t-shirt, hoodie, whatever stuff …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:07 PM
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Okay well I guess as a disclaimer, I'm not sexually attracted to men with rare exception. Though occasionally I do admire a male's appearance in a non-sexual way, my answer might not be very helpful if what you're looking for is what would instill visceral raw "take-me-now" kind of attraction in women. I'm pretty into aesthetic, fashion and beauty for the sake of it though so I felt like giving a detailed answer nontheless. Taller than average but not giant, 5'10 to maybe 6'2. (I also find short…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:36 AM
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I typed in average guy into google and just chose a random stock photo I've met a lot of guys who look similar to him in my classes and at work. When I think average btw, I don't think ugly, since a lot of people seem to interpret it that way. Average is just normal. Ordinary. Average guys, at least in my age group, seem to be about 5'10, give or take about 2 inches. Guys who are 5'7 or shorter, or 6'1 or taller seem to be more rare, at least where I live. They seem to dress pretty casually and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 08:13 PM
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There's a theory I heard that the real reason for that was to protect their assets before the stock market crashes. I thought that made more sense because they are both old and there was no cheating, their reason was that they can't grow together as a couple anymore which doesn't make any sense unless you think about how it's just a reason that they can tell the public while protecting both of their reputations since they are both involved in lots of different things where public opinion matters…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 06:34 PM
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As long as I was treated just as well as they would someone who was more their type, and was satisfied with having just me without feeling the desire to cheat with or leave me for someone who was more their, then yeah whatever. I'm fine with not being a 10 as long as they treat me no different than they would with a 10. Inevitably people grow old and will be objectively less beautiful so finding someone who loves me as a person instead of loving me for something that is subject to change would p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:17 PM
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Well you could say that about basically any beauty product.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 08:20 PM
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" it’s selfish to leave a fellow woman single. " Ladies, I have the perfect solution! Let's just date eachother 💞💞 /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:51 AM
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I've never thought of sex toys as empowering or of a woman who owns a dildo as an icon solely because she owns a dildo, but maybe that's just me. I also don't think having a fleshlight or whatever is inherently creepy. I don't really see much of a difference between just using your hand vs something that is designed to feel a bit more pleasurable in regards to it being lame or whatever. If you want one, get one, why does how its marketed change anything? I think it's sorta a private thing anyway…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:58 AM
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Laser hair removal overtime thins out the hair and makes it grow back slower. It doesn't permanently get rid of 100% of the hair but it can decrease it up to 85% after enough sessions. It's a lengthy and expensive process. You still have to shave after the treatments for a hairless look, just not as often. Women with very thick body hair that grows back very fast often think it's worth the money because with just shaving, they will get all prickly all over their arms and legs and get 5-o-clock s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 08:46 PM
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For context, I was raised religious, I knew I liked girls since I was a kid but always tried to repress those feelings. I thought I would eventually marry a man my parents approved of and start a family with him. I was ugly when I was a teenager, with the bad hair that was short, damaged, and frizzy, which was often eloquently described as "pube hair". I had very crooked teeth, overbite and recessed chin. Many people told me that I had an ugly face, some even told me I was the ugliest girl they …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 02:54 AM
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Yeah, feel free to disregard my comment. Basically every post on here is exclusively geared towards heterosexual relationships. I like to participate anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 07:58 PM
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I guess maybe I'm just not one of these "hot girls" but I actually very much so like the idea of someone caring about me, loving me more than anything and maybe even having an unhealthy obsession over me, like that's my fetish. Like Romeo and Juliet, they would rather die than to live without one another. That's so romantic to me. Of course I would want them to ask me about my day, and if it's going bad, for them to comfort me or do their best to make life a little less burdensome. I would do th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 11:30 PM
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Could become a world where men and women don't see any advantage of being with each other at all, and so men who take comfort in their video games and masturbation and women take comfort in companionship and cats. The gays remain unaffected.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:53 PM
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Seems like a bad deal for women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:19 PM
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Maybe they consider it sexist because women are the ones expected to give up their career to raise children, and they don't like being left behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:18 PM
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I've decided that I don't want any biological children and I'll just adopt or foster children when I'm like in my late 40's or 50's. The women in my family live long healthy lives up until their mid 90s, my maternal grandmother in her 70s is still as active and healthy as she always was despite not even working out or eating well, which I plan to do. So I'll already be established in a career, have accumulated plenty of wealth, and hopefully I will have been long married and I would have had the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:17 PM
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Some states and adoption agencies wont even let you adopt unless you're married. If I die before I make a will I'd rather have everything go to my life partner than my blood relatives or to the bank. It might just make sense financially. Less common nowadays, especially in the US, but to make alliances between families. My grandma was in an arranged marriage for this purpose. It seems more permanent than just a long-term relationship, you can still break up but it will be harder because of the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 09:00 AM
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I kind of have a hard time understanding what the redpill is in general. From what I understand Redpill ideology tells men that marriage is like the worst thing a man could ever do, women are hypergamous snakes that will rob you, so instead just focus hooking up with as many hot women as possible, getting rich, and swole as possible. But somehow when women absorb redpill ideology, it's suddenly about getting married and having children young, and basically becoming a tradwife. How are they both …
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/21 12:27 AM
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Having biological children is just sounding less and less appealing by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 12:01 AM
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I live in a nice area in northern California and most the women I see are fit/slim or at least in a healthy -weight range and attractive. Not just the young women either, even the moms and grannies I see at the grocery store are more often than not slim-figured and seem to put effort into their appearance with nicely groomed hair, and nice clothes. Back before corona, most of the people I would see around campus were all from what I could tell were also slim or normal-healthy weight. Overweight …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 09:56 PM
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So would abortion still be legal for those who didn't have a choice then? Like victims of sexual assault, and those who legally cannot consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:39 PM
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What do the guys get out of sex with older women if they don't enjoy it? It's not like she has to coerce him with money
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 01:14 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 10:28 PM
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What would be the female equivalent of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 10:19 PM
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Who brags about simping lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 09:58 PM
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When you said playful I thought golden retriever puppy fits all the criteria
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 09:52 PM
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I agree it does seem like people are unable to identify what normal weight it. I used to be underweight, lowest being 95lbs at 5'6ish, now I'm 130lbs, a healthy weight for my height and people still tell me I'm too skinny and need to gain weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 09:47 PM
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Nah, a 4/10 man has no chance with 8/10 girl, unless she has some really fucked up past Or he's rich
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 09:37 PM
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I get what you mean by admiring women with unique features. Actually I've recently actually been starting to find beauty in a lot of older women. I think I used to be terrified of aging because I believed the silly misogynic narrative that women become unattractive after, 45, 35, 25, 15, I don't know, the ages seem to get younger every time I hear it, and that a women's worth is only in her appearance. I remember turning 19 and feeling depressed because it meant I was one year closer inevitable …
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 09:25 PM
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I know this is probably pointless to say especially since you already had it "fixed", but I find it very attractive when ears stick out. I'm not sure why but I think it's really cute and endearing. I don't see it in adults very often since people often get it corrected especially when it's very pronounced, but whenever I do see someone with ears like that I can't help but smile. I want to tell them how much I like their ears but in the time it takes trying to figure out how to say that without s…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 07:47 PM
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I like makeup because it helps me achieve certain aesthetics. I'm a big fan of alternative fashion, and makeup really helps bring the look together. What is the e-girl style without thick eyeliner and excessive blush? I also often like to make it look like I have dark circles and make my lip color look a bit undead. I just like fashion and expressing myself. Though yeah I also want to be considered more attractive. I want people to think I'm like a 6 instead of a 5 and I like the compliments I g…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 07:22 PM
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Don't be embarrassed, young women are often more vulnerable to manipulation, that's why predators target them. It's not at all your fault that shitty men do shitty things. I'm glad that you can recognize it for what it is now though and hopefully save yourself from future heartache.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 03:38 AM
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It's because they are intimated by your beauty, and instead of appreciating it, they would rather make you feel bad about yourself to "knock you down a few pegs" so you don't feel confident enough to have standards for yourself. It's just insecurity. I think they themselves believe that they aren't really good enough to be with a beautiful woman and the end up self sabotaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 03:23 AM
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I don't care if they are "the pretty one" as long as they don't treat me bad because I'm below them or something. I don't care if I'm "the pretty one" as long as they aren't constantly trying to neg me or put me down, taking their own insecurities out on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 08:00 PM
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Lesbians don't seem to have any issues finding mates, from what I've seen. It goes from 0 to LTR in like 2 dates. Can confirm, this happens a lot. Though the faster a relationship is established, usually the faster it bursts into flames.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 09:00 PM
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Yeah I've definitely experienced the "Two fish will just swim around avoiding each other" thing, especially when I was more socially anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 08:58 PM
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Does a bleeding mouth and drug fueled orgy with a bunch of zombies sound desirable to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 09:30 PM
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I usually don't get out much but every now and then I try to break out of my shell and get into more stuff. I had a few plans that were kinda ruined by the whole covid situation, for example I wanted to try going to a concert and travel up to Oregon for a weekend to attend this convention called Burning Cat and had bought the tickets but everything was canceled. I plan on trying again once things start opening back up. I want to travel and try new things and eat new foods and hear new music. I l…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 09:22 PM
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Maybe they just want a project to work on and think of these degenerates as broken people that they can fix. Similar to captain save a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 07:44 PM
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I agree there is no such thing as "you are so unattractive that you’ll have to date a single mother" but obviously there are people within the same league as them, like single fathers naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 05:59 AM
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Maybe I can't relate because all the girls I've been in an actual relationship with have been teenagers, but they still looked like themselves without the makeup and didn't have "horrible blotchy skin, dark bags under the eyes, canyons of fine lines and wrinkles", at most maybe they had a pimple here and there but you can see that even with the makeup on that it's not a smooth surface. Makeup also doesn't hide wrinkles if they have them, it just creases in the fine lines. It can sorta correct di…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 03:19 AM
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I was actually going to write this but had deleted it because I didn't think it was super relevant. Guess I'll write it again. I have seen tons of unbelievably beautiful goddess-tier women, just in my day to day. I see women more attractive than even most celebrities all the time, just about and living their life. Though have seen maybe a handful of legitimately beautiful men. I think that a beautiful man that causes a visceral reaction in women are fairly rare. I also think that men have a lowe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 02:47 AM
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I'm sorry that it was depressing for you to read. I don't entirely understand what was depressing about this though, could you explain? Also I'm not sure what you mean. You don't believe a guy can be in a single mother's league? Surely at least some guys would be, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 02:32 AM
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I've done it before when I was a teenager and would troll around on apps for fun. I would say the differences are less about being a man or a woman and more about how hot someone is. I bet Chris Hemsworth, Timothy Chamalate and even random young Chads on Tiktok that girls are currently drooling over would relate more to how you describe what a woman's dating life is like with the flood of dms and what not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 02:26 AM
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I think there are tons of reasons why a guy might be having issues finding a date. They might be overestimating their own smv/rmv and only going after girls way above their league. Maybe they go for women that would be about in their league but they turn them off because they are so obviously only settling for them because they can't get with the people they really want. An example would be I remember seeing this one post in r/niceguys or something like it where this one dude had gotten this wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 11:46 PM
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I always thought those college experiences only existed in movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 11:13 PM
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Do you also think fleshlights are pathetic?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:49 PM
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I think sex dolls could potentially appeal to impossible or illegal fetishes, since as far as I'm aware, they can be designed to look any sort of way. So for a few select people they might be a godsend. They could also potentially achieve a standard of beauty and perfection that no human being could feasibly reach, though there will always be people who have disdain for anything they deem as fake. I don't see sex dolls becoming popular for the average person, especially not any time soon. From w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:41 PM
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I definitely have felt that way for women and it's nearly crippling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:23 PM
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I don't hookup with guys but I think some guys get clingy/needy after even the most meaningless interaction. Some guys will interpret eye contact, small talk and common courtesy as sexual/romantic interest and will double down on their pursuit. I would probably be friends with guys more often if they didn't make it weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 05:49 AM
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I'd try to get rich as hell and in the mean time, get muscular/fit, learn how to sing and play an instrument like guitar or piano, wear really nice clothes of whatever aesthetic I can pull off the best depending on my face and body, get the most flattering haircut, do whatever I need to do to get perfectly straight white teeth, make sure to always smell amazing, and only go for girls below my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:31 AM
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I'm gonna genderswap this to fit my orientation Partner 1, would be a big tiddied goth gf who's funny, confident, flirty and gives me compliments. I would have a crush on her but know realistically a relationship wouldn't work out. I prefer monogamy. I could hypothetically be okay with polyamory if we were all in love with eachother but that's not the case in this hypothetical scenario. Basically they are allowed to cheat on me? What kinda simpcuck pickme shit is that? What other standards would…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:05 AM
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I don't think getting rid of my sex drive would impact my life too much, I already have it under complete control and I would be fine if I just spent the rest of my life with only solo relief. Sometimes I do it even if I'm not actually in the mood just because it's good to ease stress and give a little boost of dopamine to my brain. I think I'm on the asexual spectrum though, probably demisexual, but maybe I'm just super repressed from spending most of my life feeling guilty and ashamed for bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 09:01 PM
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When I turned 20, I didn't even get a cake, no presents, didn't really have friends at the time so even if I wanted to throw a small party there was nobody to invite anyways, not like my parents would have let me. The only thing I got for my birthday was my dad took me to the dentist. My parents told me that was adult life though it's not like they really acknowledged my birthday as a kid either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:46 PM
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I would watch it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:14 AM
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"Women can go marry eachother" I mean, if you insist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:15 AM
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I think being a guy would be nice as long as I can be tall and handsome. Im only 5'6 and I have a young face, small jaw, small bone structure, so transitioning into a guy now would just result in a skinny nerdy twink. I think I would be okay if I was born as a male I would be normie. I would probably be tall since my dad is 6'7 and my mom is 5'10, and if I still had a similar personality I would probably marry young to a nice girl and be a devote Catholic that goes to church every Sunday. I'd pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:02 AM
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Imagine being unable to fathom that someone can have issues outside of being fuckable or not. The women who are disabled, disfigured, living in impoverishment, starving, beaten, assaulted, abused, exploited, etc. Must not either exist or they have no right to be depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:32 AM
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I agree that the majority of girls around my age and younger are grossed out by 30 year old guys trying to hit on them. I am reminded of this post where some 31 year old guy tries to hit on a pretty 19 year old and they all roast him and call him R Kelly. Though there is some small fraction of girls who do like older guys. When I was living in Los Angeles I worked with two different girls who were dating much older guys for their money. One of the girls was 20 years old. I was the same age as he…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:22 PM
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To be fair, Just because the men are chasing doesn't mean the women want them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:26 PM
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This is the real reason less women are homeless. They just take shelter in their huuuge vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:21 PM
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I know right? Why wont they all just make up their minds like the monolith they are, it's like one woman says she has only been with her husband, while another woman says she has slept around with multiple men. How is that possible when all women are the same?? Obviously the "married" ones are lying lol, we all know that women have a N count of 100 different men by the time she is 18. And don't even get me started on if she says she's a lesbian. /s obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:17 PM
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This purge week seems a bit crazier than usual
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:11 PM
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Do you actually pull out a list of interview questions on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:14 PM
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I think it's that it looks imbalanced. They have skinny thighs but huge asses so it's not very proportionate. https://www.instagram.com/p/CJPln0kF4Yf/ She looks like she stuffed pillows in her pants her ass is so cartoonishly big while the rest of her is skinny. It would look better if it matched the rest of her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:36 AM
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Both of those girls have super nice bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:29 AM
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Wikipedia says shes 45
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:27 AM
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I prefer the either the Kristen Bell or Ronda Rousey body type, they are equally very attractive to me. I also like the Christina Hendricks bodytype but I think that is more of a gamble, with the other two body types I think there is less room for surprise and you will have a pretty good idea of what they will look like without clothes, but the more curvy body types usually don't look the same without their bras and waist-trainers and other shapwear that they might have on under their clothes. V…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:21 AM
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Maybe it's just projection. They have a lot of violent and hateful fantasies and assume that others feel that way as well but just aren't admitting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:41 AM
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Then what's the opposite of hate? Also indifference?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 09:02 PM
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I wouldn't say that libido is relevant, I think it's more about how it's handled. High libido women don't act like high libido men. I've met women who are horny 24/7 and even get off on a bit of exhibitionism and yet they never sent me any pictures of their body before their was some kind of relationship established and they knew that I would want it. Guys will just send dick pics as a hello. It must either lack of control or lack of shame and fear of consequence that makes men act the way they …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 08:29 PM
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I agree that male sexuality is seen as worth less than female sexuality, and I think its partly because women typically have a lot more self control over their sexuality, while men just run rampant like unhinged lust-filled beasts. I get males messaging me on here begging me for things like pictures of my feet and offering me 15, 50, 500 dollars for it. One male messaged me asking if he could "tribute" to me, which he explained was basically he would rub his scrotum and penis all over a photo of…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 09:11 PM
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I think of casual sex for a woman, especially with a man, as a form of self-harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 02:51 AM
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Why does her swim suit look photoshopped on? Something about the pattern looks so unnatural.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/20 06:44 AM
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I don't understand the appeal of casual sex in general. Why not just masturbate? Casual sex for a woman, especially with a male, seems more like self-harm. Likely you're not even going to orgasm, you're putting yourself at risk for unwanted pregnancy and disease, which males are more likely to transmit to a woman. Other men will consider you of lower value for every notch on your count. If it's done for validation, I would imagine your self esteem would be even lower after letting some male degr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:00 AM
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As long as they treat me well, what good is in comparing with what someone else got? It might have looked like they got the better deal on the surface, but obviously it wasn't a very happy relationship if there was cheating and abuse. People grow and change. Maybe before they used to be really insecure and thought that the only way to get someone to like them was draining their bank account for them, and now they have higher standards for how they should be treated in a relationship, which is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 02:36 AM
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Nobody is immune to aging. Nobody is immune to death. We all get old. We all die. There's no use really into trying to make it a competition of who gets there first, we're all gonna get there one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 11:38 PM
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I wonder what the attraction to that is. I think the biggest reason I like girls who look like that is because they are often at least bisexual so there's a chance they might like me too. I find all kinds of women beautiful but I especially like the ones who could theoretically return my feelings. Though I also just like how they look for the sake of it. I think a lot of the tomboyish girls I have seen are very charming and endearing, funny, laid-back, down to earth and are athletic and outdoors…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 09:45 AM
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The ONLY boys I like are cute feminine teenaged boys that I mistake for tomboyish lesbians, cute tran boys like Cavetown or Miles Mckenna, who I was a huge fan of before they transitioned and still found myself attracted to them after. I already had a small celerity crush on Elliot Page, I don't think them transitioning will change that. I also like occasional convincing cross dresser. I just like cuteness, youthfulness, femininity and maybe a little bit of androgyny. It's rare to see someone wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 11:18 PM
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I basically said that in the post but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 10:43 PM
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Some guys are just mad at women as a whole for having sex with people that aren't them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 04:46 AM
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I am neurodivergent and I think some of my views are too extreme even for the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 04:39 AM
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I love this thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 03:54 AM
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It's both nutrition and genetics. We are a little taller than we were in the 1950's, even though they had better nutrition than we do today.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 01:31 AM
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It was a funny joke as well, I'm just easily impressed when it comes to dancing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 01:28 AM
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she seems to defend women who don't look neotenic by claiming that girls who do have these features aren't normal and that they don't look like an adult woman should. I agree with you, it's not good to uplift one group of women by putting others down. It kind of reminded me of those "body positive" people who constantly bash women who are thin, even though many women are naturally thin and have a hard time gaining and maintaining weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 01:12 AM
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I don't know what's causing it but I have noticed while watching older movies that the youth from older generations did look a lot more mature. Even looking at old yearbooks to see what average teenagers look like, they have way sharper bone structure and more adult-like even though they are young. People even think that I look a lot younger than I am, I'm 22 and many people tell me that I look 14-16. It's probably genetic. My mom looks a lot younger than she is now, most people think she's in h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 01:03 AM
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Oh my gosh that was improve? That's awesome! He's so talented and flexible as well, the back bend and leg kick had me shook. I'm subscribing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 12:12 AM
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I think it's they take better care of themselves. From what I have noticed, a lot of straight males are scared about doing things that would objectively make them look better for fear of looking gay, even something as simple as using sunscreen to protect against sun damage. From what I have heard, a lot of straight guys don't wash their ass, don't moisturize, and use 1 bottle for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 11:39 PM
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Statistically men are more violent, more likely to abuse their own partners and children, more likely to straight up abandon their families all together so much so that it's a meme "just going out to get some milk, I'll be back". I wonder why the two women in your example are both single mothers. Men are more likely to sexually assault, mug people, molest children, even their own children. Father-daughter incest is reported to be the most common type of incest. Even compared to women abusers, me…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 11:18 PM
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When men en masse make career shifts into positions such as nursing, teaching, childcare, home health aide, social work, or literally any field that provides in-person, hands-on care for other humans; when men start providing all the hours and staffing at soup kitchens and homeless shelters and animal rescues and food pantries, you might have a case. Men are way more likely to be predatory and engage in sexual misconduct when they do go into those fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 10:26 PM
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A lot of gay men will wear them. A lot of straight women find gay men attractive so taking their beauty secrets might not be a bad idea
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 10:13 PM
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Women don’t wear heels to appear taller Many do actually. I've had friends who were insecure about their height and "stubby legs" so they would always wear heels to try to make their legs look longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 10:03 PM
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Only if they like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 09:40 PM
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I've been in love with multiple women that I have never had sex with. Actually every person I've ever romantically bonded to I had tender feeling for long before sex was even on the table. I don't know if the way I experience love is the same way others do though. I often feel an overwhelming loneliness, even when I'm around people. I don't feel like I connect with most people, and being around them can make me feel even more depressed. I Even if they like me and think I'm funny and I do genuine…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 02:11 AM
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I think I would rather have most people consider me cool, cute or pretty, not sexy. I developed earlier than my peers and it was a very uncomfortable time. Sometimes boys would make rude comments or say gross things to me, one girl started a rumor about me saying that I got implants even though we were 14, and even adult men would give me unwanted attention and it would make me feel bad about myself. I wasn't considered pretty but I was still sexualized, some people called me a butterface. Being…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 10:44 PM
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I've heard this directed at me a few times, in a few different ways, but it all means the same thing. "Living life on easy mode/tutorial mode" is just another version of "Check your privilege".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 09:54 PM
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I've never been in a relationship with a polar opposite history, I usually only like people who are also a but more reserved in that way. Though it has been somewhat of an issue because while I don't have much experience, it's still more than some of the people I've been interested in, they may have not shared a kiss with anyone before me, held hands or even hugged anyone that they weren't related to. So they are sometimes a little jealous and insecure, or ask me a lot of questions. I have also …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 03:41 AM
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Certainly not free from draining old balls. They are gonna be doing that whether they marry some rich guy or want to be a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 08:34 PM
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Maybe she didn't want to become a stay at home mother and preferred the freedom to do whatever she wanted whenever she wanted. Marriage isn't desirable for everyone, and though it can provide financial security I don't think it should be seen as an alternative to sex work, the sanctity of marriage has been tainted in the eyes of many from tales of divorce, cheating, beds devoid of passion, etc., but it's not just a career path you can pursue. Even if you are just in it for the profit, it seems l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 08:24 PM
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I imagine that trying to FWB yourself into a relationship would be just as ineffective as trying to friendzone yourself into a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:17 PM
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I guess that makes sense, like if you're going to just be pumped and dumped and called ugly to your face, at least it's with someone you find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:14 PM
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> I don't get it. I think they were trying to say that women aren't a monolith, different women want different thing, and even the same woman might want different things at different things at different times in her life. They also disagreed with the idea that most women choose narcissistic egotistic partners by bringing up the the rhetorical question "you'd describe the majority of married men to be narcissistic & egotic ?" Do you get it now?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 01:46 AM
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I don't think the average person would see a sex bot as an actual replacement for a real relationship. I think it could entirely replace sex dolls and also compete with the sex worker element but not casual sex. Part of the desire for sex comes from wanting to feel desired, to get attention, to feel wanted, to bring another person pleasure, to feel powerful, to feel in control, to feel dominant over another person and other feelings that I don't see how a moving sex doll could really satisfy. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 08:48 PM
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I lurk through there but a lot of it isn't applicable to me because I only date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 10:11 PM
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My parents were pretty homophobic, my mom would talk about how much she hated gays and that it was disgusting and against god and that they were going to hell. As a young kid I would say homophobic things too. I didn't really have a great understanding of what it meant to be gay, but if I saw a guy wearing pink for example, I would say that he's gay and that's gross and laugh, and my mom always thought it was really cute and funny when I would say stuff like that and give me more praise and atte…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 09:46 PM
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I was 8. I started puberty early and was a bit taller than most my peers so I did look a bit older, still obviously a child though. Might have been even younger than that though. When I was young, around 4-5 my family lived in a nature park in Colorado. Like I hand-fed wild foxes and deer (I wasn't supposed to though). There weren't really any backyards, houses were a bit far from each other with a lot of nature in between and there weren't any fences to separate one person land from the next. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 03:21 AM
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I can't speak for straight girls but strength isn't very high up on my list of turn ons. I mean, I have dated a really strong girl before and I loved it. She still looked soft, somewhat chubby, but she was insanely strong and athletic. I was very thin at the time, 95 lbs, and it was really sexy that she could effortlessly pick me up with one hand and sqaut down into a sitting position while still carrying me, or just pick me up and toss me around. I would always admire her strength and she would…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 10:00 PM
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I have done this to my coworkers at work just because I hate answering the phone and it makes me super anxious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 08:37 PM
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Lesbians do something like this too sometimes. I'm not sure if its testing for strength exactly but some women will ask lose-lose questions that lead to arguments or whatever. One girl I had a fling with for a while would do this often, quizzing me sometimes asking me the same questions over and over again on different days to see if my answer would change. I guess she always assumed I was lying even though I had never lied to her. Another girl I met online who would constantly try to get me int…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 08:34 PM
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I usually don't really like vaginal penetration for the most part. I prefer to receive oral over everything else, or just some good vibes to the clit if solo. Assplay is nice though, just requires more prep. At a certain angle, it's possible to have indirect stimulation to the g-spot and trigger a squirting orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 08:43 PM
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Are most men really like that? That's awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 08:02 PM
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I like receiving nudes. It's like enjoying any kind of erotica except this is a different kind of sexy because you actually knew the person and they are being explicit specifically for you, not the whole world. Sure I could look at nudes posted by random exhibitionists' on reddit and what not, and I do often enjoy admiring their beauty and sexuality, but there is an extra level of excitement when a woman sends me lewd pictures of videos of her. It's more intimate. I think part of the reason I li…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 07:56 PM
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I think even the average woman that you could see in a grocery store running errands even without makeup is still way more attractive than the average man, but I'm gay so I guess I'm biased. I disagree with the idea that 90% of a woman's physical attractiveness is in her makeup and her weight. I don't really understand the weight part, there isn't any particular weight that is beautiful, anything within the healthy range is attractive to me at least. I think in real life settings, makeup only re…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 10:32 AM
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Yeah within the lesbian community it's a running meme that lesbians move in insanely fast. I was talking with one lady got married to her wife after only week of knowing eachother and they have been together for 20 years. In my experience I could never relate to how some straight couples seem to struggle with commitment and titles and something as basic as saying that they love eachother despite having sex with each other. I think guys are more sexually driven and women tend to be more romantica…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 03:50 AM
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I'm not going to exclusively date anyone who can't run a 9 minute mile That's an oddly specific dating requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 09:42 PM
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Lesbian here, I would say most lesbians are more focused on establishing a committed relationship than having random hookups. For the most part, the only girls who have asked to hookup were just looking for someone to have a threesome with their boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 09:34 PM
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I think it's worse to be an overweight man than it is be an overweight woman. Women can store their fat in desirable places, like their ass and hips and maintain a shapely figure. Men seem to just store it in their gut, and that's not considered very attractive. Also, the more adipose tissue a person has, the more estrogen their bodies will produce, which is fine for a woman, but will be terrible for most men as it feminizes them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 09:15 PM
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That's a interesting point. Though legalizing it shouldn't neccesarily force them to have sex with someone they really don't want to have sex with. Businesses have the right to refuse service, strippers can decide that they don't want to preform private dances with certain individuals. Maybe they would work on commission instead of having an hourly wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 03:43 AM
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I think you explained it brilliantly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 03:37 AM
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You okay dude? Sounds like projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 07:36 AM
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I think prostitution should be legalized, we already have other forms of sex work such as porn, stripping, sugar babying? and camming legal. I think that it must be regulated though. The biggest problem I have with prostitution is how dangerous and sketchy it is. I think there could be a lot done to decrease the risks. Legalizing it would actually help those who are a victim of trafficking, because as it is, those who are victims will still be treated as criminals and will not be given the help …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 05:19 AM
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The woman had initiated the divorce, shocker. Her husband had cheated on her, but I don't know much else. She's a sex worker nowadays, does lewd cosplays, says she will kill herself when she hits 30 and can't make as much money anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 04:17 AM
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As a lesbian I can confirm that this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:50 PM
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I knew a girl who married at 20 to her highschool sweetheart, and they divorced in less than a year. I don't think anyone should get married before 25 because you're still developing until then. Though that doesn't mean you have to "sleep around" you can still be in a committed long term relationship, theres just no reason to become legally bound to someone before you're old enough to rent a car.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:44 PM
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I would love to be married one day. I hear from lesbians who have been together for a very long time and the idea of it just makes my heart flutter sometimes. The idea of having my future wife hold me in bed when I have to leave for work but she loves me and doesn't want me to go sounds so sweet, and a lot of lesbian couples experience this. Growing old together, finding comfort in each other even when the rest of the world is chaos, maybe raising children together, watching them grow into adult…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:37 PM
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Women get older and lose interest in sex why not go for a 35 year old, maybe a 30 year old? Why are old men always trying for “ barely legal” 18 year olds. That is interesting actually because apparently a women's sex drive is at it's highest around 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 08:42 PM
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Where do you take your dates bro? Chuck E. Cheese’s? okay but that was kind of funny
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 08:37 PM
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r/ihavesex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 08:33 PM
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enabling women to slut around See that's the thing, I don't see her enabling the behavior, she's literally explaining where that kind of behavior will get you. Single motherhood, being haunted with regret, and the risk of being raped or murdered when you do things like go to his house in the middle of the night. If you wanna debate about it more probably just DM me though, some of my opinions are likely not very appreciated nor welcome on this sub.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/20 08:22 PM
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Sounds like a recipe to get divorced or cheated on. Why would a 35 year old woman who is still hot who still has energy and probably the strongest libido she has had in her life, be satisfied with having a husband with limp dick and zero libido?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 07:50 PM
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What were those girls at your highschool like? In my experience everyone bullied those kinds of girls for being sluts and weird for dating a older guy, were usually trashy, mean, and from bad homes that didn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 07:36 PM
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Why do some of these guys have to make everything into a mathematical equation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 07:24 PM
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I still dislike my nose no matter how many people tell me it's fine. Wish I could just be at peace with it but I think I would feel much happier with a ski slope nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 02:25 AM
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I read through the screen shot and it seems to be advising that very things, to "not have sex with cheapskate pleasure seekers", like a cautionary tale. I interpret it as her having wisdom that was birthed from past mistakes, and her writing all of this to warn other women to not make those same mistakes that she did.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/20 12:45 AM
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Seriously? With what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 05:36 AM
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Possibly, but in my experience, every other time he comes up in conversation it's to bash his looks or his music.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 05:27 AM
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Ed Sheeran probably
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 01:05 AM
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Why? Wouldn't a former street hooker be even more likely to have some kind of STD?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/20 06:46 PM
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On the bright side, she is being completely truthful, so he can decide to just break if off instead of living a lie. He can find someone with a less promiscuous past, and her find someone who has similar values to her. They don't seem very compatible when it comes to morals, which is sad because he probably really loves her considering he was really trying to not be disgusted by her past and just get over it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/20 06:33 PM
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That sounds like erotica
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/20 06:26 PM
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I'm not usually into people who have even had ONS in the past, much less while trying to pursue something with me. Maybe there could be exceptions to this but the thought of it sounds unappealing. I guess they can do whatever they want, it's their body and their life but I don't think I would be interested in having a serious romantic relationship with that kind of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 05:42 AM
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Yeah height was a pretty big deal to me during that time in my life. Ever since I was a little kid, my mom was always making fun of short guys, and even ones of average heigh and she told me lots of stories about short ugly men who had simped for her all her life even after she got married to my dad, who is 6'7. My mom told me multiple times one of the major things she liked about my dad was that he was tall. When my friends describe what they like in a guy or what there ideal guy would be like,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 04:31 AM
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To be fair, Amy Schumer is 1 year away from being 40 years old, and compared to other people in her age group I would say she's only a bit below average. She could be a lot worse. She's overweight, has a pug like face and her reputation and the way she seems to carry herself makes her seem even less attractive but realistically she's not really THAT bad. She's kind of normal looking. You could see women who look like her everyday in a grocery store, so to say she's disgusting might be a bit hars…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 08:54 PM
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That's fair for you to think that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 08:35 PM
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Okay but there are also plenty of lesbians who genuinely enjoy assplay?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 04:47 AM
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I agree that I was at the time, 100% it was wrong of me to do many of the things I did. I can't change that about me though, it's something that I did and have to live with, but I have grown since then and confidently say I wouldn't ever treat someone the way my younger self would have. This was 4 years ago, I was still a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 04:43 AM
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Lots of women enjoy anal though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 03:18 AM
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Mixed Race & Bisexual. Ah yes the two defining personality traits
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 11:06 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean by that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 11:03 PM
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Yes and no. It is pretty funny in a way, I was laughing with them. I think the only time it's really bothered me was when they started adding it to their own private collection of funny stories to tell and would bring it up to get a laugh. It's like the feeling you get when you tell a joke and nobody laughs but then someone repeats what you said and everyone laughs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 11:03 PM
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I mean I guess I assume that people who are very ugly probably are virgins, and I'm genuinely surprised a lot of the time when they aren't, but I can't tell other than just judging someone by how attractive they are. People can be virgins for a number of reasons, a lot of people are because they want to be, like for religion or moral reason or maybe they just have high standards and haven't found anyone they liked yet, or are asexual and just don't have the desire to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:54 PM
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I don't feel sexual attraction for males, no matter how good looking they are. I used to date guys though, when I was younger I was planning on eventually marrying a guy, and was going to wait until marriage to have sex and start a family. I knew that I liked girls but I didn't think I could ever act on it. I used to be pretty religious and I didn't want to be disowned by my homophobic family. My type in guys was probably more strict than straight girls. 6 feet and up, not too much older, cute f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:49 PM
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Good luck with that I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:11 PM
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I guess my life is a dark comedy. One thing my friends thought was hilarious was when I turned 20, I had no friends at the time, no plans for celebration for my birthday. My parents didn't get me anything except my dad took me to a dentist appointment. ha-ha-ha, classic comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:10 PM
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You can do that now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:05 PM
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Why would you be awful just because your a male
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 09:41 PM
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I mean only 1 of them is an incel. my middle brother is more like a normie. I=
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 09:27 PM
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Well I am the only girl of 3 brothers so I actually have a pretty good idea of what it would be like for me if I was a boy. My oldest brother is a Chad, 6'2, defined jaw, hunter eyes, naturally athletic, played football in highschool, and was offered scholarships to play in college, was a boxer for a while. He has been struggling with mental illness since he was a teenager, doctors don't really give a shit and they can't even figure out if it's schizophrenia, bipolar or something else. My parent…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 07:50 PM
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16 is a woman’s prime? I've seen 12-13 being considered prime marriageable age because it is before she has had the chance to fuck Chad, but has started puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 10:44 PM
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No I don't really care if he wants to get to know me better as a person or not. Of course he does. So what? I'm not going to be interested in him so his feelings towards me one way or another are irrelevant if not annoying. Also those are just words, so what if someone just tells me that? There's no way to know if they mean it or not. From what I understand, men will go through all kinds of lengths and jump through all kinds of hoops and make a complete ass out of themselves to get what they wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 09:42 PM
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I think they would also have to be desirable themselves for it to work. Nobody really cares about the sexual preferences of someone they would never want to sleep with in the first place right? Part of the neckbeard meme is demanding a perfect 10/10 petite young virgin who will mommy him and have kinky sex with him everyday despite the neckbeard having very little redeeming qualities and generally being repulsive to most women to begin with. Desirable people have room to be desirable, and there …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 07:08 PM
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Is there really any such thing as an unfuckable woman though? She's always gonna be fuckable to somebody out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:32 AM
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Men are the first ones who would shoot that down. true, a lot of guys wont even wash their ass because they think it will make them gay
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:17 AM
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Could be projection and insecurity. Like when you see a group of people laughing, if you're insecure, assume everything is about you, and take things personally, you will probably assume that you must be the reason they are laughing, and when you try to rationalize why they might be laughing at you, you will connect it to something about yourself that you are insecure about "it's because I'm [ugly; short; fat; non-white; poor; whatever else]".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 12:32 AM
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if a guy doesn’t have hobbies, he’s probably playing video games and watching tv/sports Aren't those hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 10:27 PM
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Not to mention neither video games or streaming are great one on one time. I disagree, it can be pretty fun to play video games with someone, even if you're not much of a gamer. It really just depends on the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 10:26 PM
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You could enjoy drawing and be terrible at it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 10:16 PM
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tl;dr Either I like the person or I don't. Them getting hobbies or not having hobbies isn't going to change that. I wouldn't care if someone I was interested in had their own set of hobbies or not. I think it's more important that they are willing to participate in my hobbies than them having their own honestly. I like to paint, so having them be willing to paint with me from time to time would be really awesome. If they have hobbies that I'm not into though, like I don't know, rock collecting?,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 09:07 PM
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I guess they mean that there's only a small amount of women to choose from that they are attracted to, and those women are usually picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 01:24 AM
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In my experience with a creep at the workplace, he still didn't get fired even though multiple girls including myself had complained about harrassment. They don't always fire the guy. Sometimes they don't do anything at all beyond maybe asking him nicely not to do it anymore. The only time I ever knew of a time where the guy got fired was a guy who used to work at my current workplace, I never worked with him because I started working here way after he got fired, but i did meet him because he ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 02:50 AM
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I don't feel pressure from society to get married necessarily, it's just something that I want to have at some point. I think it's because my parents are married and though they have issues, my dad is madly in love with my mom and there is nothing she could ever do to make him stop loving her, and I would like to find someone who loves me that much too. I don't think I want biological children just because I don't want to go through pregnancy and giving birth but I would love to have a family on…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 08:21 PM
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I like how you articulated the power imbalance thing. I feel the same way but wasn't sure how to organize the thoughts into words.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 07:05 AM
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I don't feel particularly betrayed. I think people are more accepting of LGBTQ relationships now and that's cool for me. I like that as a woman I have options in life, I can vote, don't have to get married to a man, don't have to have children, I can get a job and support myself, etc. Feminism has a lot of baggage and bad connotations so I don't personally identify with the movement but I do appreciate that overall, at least in a legal sense, men and women are equal and I have just as many right…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:28 AM
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I've never had casual sex before so I don't really know much about the lifestyle or what goes into it and if my younger brother went to me for advice on how to get casual sex I would tell him that I don't really know, but would probably give him some basic advice like, wear protection, be clean, maybe shower before and after a hookup, know your own boundaries and respect others, consent is an enthusiastic yes, don't try to fuck random drunk girls because that can count as sexual assault and they…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 05:52 PM
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What if their father is an evil man who wishes to exploit them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:17 PM
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i mean theres some variance for men too. Some people like big buff guys, some like skinny twinks, some like guys with dad bods.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 04:18 AM
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Maybe they just need to invest in some better sex toys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 05:59 PM
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I always thought that the need for sex could just as easily be quenched by masturbating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 05:49 PM
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I would say women are raised to be better at understanding their emotions and therefore better at regulating them. Men are raised to bottle up their "unmanly" emotions and often express it more violently. Personally I often feel an overwhelming sense of loneliness and lack of intimacy and sometimes distracting myself with hobbies just isn't enough, but I'm also not a femcel, I just have a hard time connecting with people emotionally and many of my relationships are very intense but short-lived, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 05:43 PM
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I've told people I've been in relationships my fantasies and as far as I'm aware hasn't been an issue, though they also had no problem with porn in general. Though different strokes for different folks. Not a big deal for me, but it could be for someone else, and I can understand the argument, though I think it could be a problem when you're even policing the IMAGINATION of your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 05:25 PM
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I used to think that guys who grew up with a sister make better friends because they are used to being around women, but honestly it only makes a minor difference. They might be less "scared" of talking to women, but they get just as weird if not worse as if they have a bad relationship with their mother and sister, they likely think the worst of women in general. I would agree with the sexual frustration thing, but it's like at some point ever guy becomes that way, if they don't just come out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 05:21 PM
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I would like to live in that world very much so. I don't even wanna wear a bikini to the beach, instead wearing diving suits, because I don't want the male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 11:51 PM
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It's not unusual to fantasize about other people while in a committed relationship, and it doesn't really mean much. It's even common for people to fantasize while having sex with their partner apparently. I wouldn't consider it cheating. Cheating is about breaking trust, and is more about your actions than your mind just wandering. Porn could potentially be cheating if it was established that porn wasn't to be used, but it's because there was a break in trust and established rules of the relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 11:26 PM
2

Well I'm a lesbian but I wouldn't have any issue with whatever sex toys my partner had, wouldn't be something I would consider when thinking about marrying them or not. The only sex toy I could imagine having an issue with would maybe be a sex doll meant to look like a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 11:20 PM
1

I like a 50/50 arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 11:08 PM
1

> Has anyone here felt depressed, anxious, unwanted or had some significant amount of problems that were fixed by entering a relationship? "Fixed"? Not me. Though I will say that feeling loved makes it a little bit better. Having something to look forward to a build up towards is always nice, but that doesn't have to be achieved through being in a relationship, it can be any long-term goal. Affection, desire and falling in love can feel like a drug. It's addictive and for a moment it makes me fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 10:59 PM
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I have 3 brothers and was very close with my younger brother before I moved out, but other than that I haven't really been able to form a close platonic friendship with a guy. I used to try befriending guys but it usually doesn't end well. More often times than not they get weird and start trying to pressure me into a relationship. I'm convinced that for the most part, guys don't really talk to girls that they aren't sexually attracted to unless they are forced to. Guys only offer friendship to …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 10:41 PM
1

I can see the argument that them not ever posting about you might mean that they are trying to seem single on their social media, but it's not like just because they post about you that they wont cheat on you or flirt with other girls. They can lie and say that you're in an open relationship, or say that they are planning on leaving you anyways, or whatever other excuse they might give a girl to make her not care about the fact that he tags you in posts. I knew a guy that had his girlfriend's in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 10:25 PM
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I'm assuming what they mean by "inherently male trait" is something that's inherent to males. Like part of their natural instincts, the way their brain is wired, they way they evolved, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 09:08 PM
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I never thought of stalking as inherently a masculine trait, but I could see how the same predatory behaviors might have been originally been put in men as hunters, but instead of the instinct being directed at obtaining food, it's being directed at obtaining a sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 09:05 PM
2

Most people in a college classroom seem pretty introverted in general and don't really talk to anyone anyways. If we need to interact like as part of a group project and the guys seem a bit non-talkative, I don't assume that he's hateful or resentful or anything, I just assume he's a bit shy. It can take a bit to get them to actually talk with the rest of the group and they seem to be the least enthusiastic about getting the project done, but the shy guys usually warm up eventually and it's all …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 08:45 PM
3

Any straight guy that's not related to you who compliments your appearance is probably hitting on you in a passive way, testing the waters to see if you reciprocate at all, or at the very least finds you physically attractive. Men don't usually just hand out free compliments to women they aren't interested in. The words he used to comment on your body, "cute" and "tiny" are sexual, at least coming from someone who admittedly is attracted to young women, I'd be willing to bet that "cute" and "tin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 08:00 PM
1

So they made the same mistake over 100 times?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/20 07:27 PM
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they wanted to be considered the "fun girlfriend." So yeah, the goal for most is to get a relationship, not just get laid. Which brings me back to wondering how people are figuring that women have triple digits N counts
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/20 06:26 PM
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In my experience, the girls I know would only have sex within a long-term relationship, though I would agree that the people they pair up with would be normie-tier. What kind of people do you hang out with? Are they they party-type? Do they drink often? Do they do drugs? Are they sex workers? Do they have an onlyfans account? Where do you meet these kinds of women? I'm trying to paint a picture in my mind for why my experiences with women vary so wildly from all the people who have such promiscu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/20 06:21 PM
2

I'm guessing that only applies to Chads otherwise there would be no incels.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/20 09:34 PM
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But it's not like girls have sex with every single person who shows interest in them, wth. Sure it could be "easy" to simply get laid but don't most girls want a relationship, not just meaningless sex? Maybe it's because I hang around mostly geeky types but many of my friends are 19-22 and still virgins. They aren't conventionally hot for the most part though so maybe that's a factor.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/20 09:24 PM
1

I once met an overweight black woman in her 30s going through early menopause who was 5'2 and she would constantly turn down the man in love with her because he was only ~5'6 and was balding.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 05:05 PM
2

Back when I a teenager and still in denial about my sexuality I only wanted to go on dates with guys 6 feet and up. I wasn't even attracted to them either way, but it was more about having something that I thought other women wanted. I thought it made me more desirable by having the attention of someone who's conventionally desirable and I wanted other girls to think highly of me. I went on dates with shorter less handsome guys too but they were the ones who were calling it a date, I just consid…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 04:53 PM
1

I try to give my younger brother advise because I'm worried he will become an incel but he doesn't listen to me or respect anything I say so I can't get through to him. I also don't have anything against males who struggle with the opposite sex unless they are one of the types to try to tell me stuff like "I'm not like the other guys, give me a chance" or "lesbians are the reasons incels exist" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 04:42 PM
1

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 04:17 PM
7

Is she a literal prostitute?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/20 03:56 AM
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I have a hard time imagining how that's even possible unless maybe she was a prostitute and how she didn't completely lose track 11 is already a lot, how do you manage to get into the triple digits?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/20 03:52 AM
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I agree that prostitution should be regulated as well as legalized. With stripping, there are body guards that will kick a guy out if he's seen messing with money or trying to touch the girls. There isn't really that kind of protection for prostitutes though. And maybe I don't know enough about porn, but I was under the impression that the guys were usually tall, physically fit, muscular with big dicks. I've watched a few videos where pornstars talk about their experiences on-set and many of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 03:09 AM
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Pornstars are at least having sex with decent looking people who are good at what they do and are screened for STDs. Prostituting isn't regulated in the same way and there's really nothing you can do about it if the costumer decides to not pay you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 01:01 AM
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Maybe she doesn't want a monogamous relationship with someone she doesn't love, and just sees prostitution as a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 12:57 AM
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I believe in you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 12:38 AM
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Well for me and my zoomer friends, it's not unusual to be living with family that support you while you're in college. One of my friends even gets an allowance for extra spending money. It might be a class difference as well as a generation difference. My friends come from mostly upper middle class homes. Being married with kids, living in a trailer in your late teens doesn't really sound desirable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 06:38 PM
1

Some guys will offer to treat you to give extra incentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:15 AM
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Ok boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:06 AM
2

Well I wouldn't say "usually". Many of my friends are shocked when I tell them because they have literally never been approached by a woman before. When women also approach me it's usually a lot more subtle than when men do it. It's hard to tell if they are flirting or just being friendly, like one time I was at Starbucks waiting to meet up with a friend who was a bit lost so I had been waiting for a while. A woman who had been sitting alone for a bit had randomly decided to approach me and star…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:03 AM
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I did a few times when I was 18-19, though it wasn't exactly like going on dates with people from dating apps for the free food. I was still living at home and didn't have a job, so if I ever wanted something I would have to ask my parents, and there were usually conditions on things, like if I wanted a video game they would wait and see if I got A's in my classes. My parents also were sort of over protective over me so I would have never been allowed to go on a date with some random guy even if…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 08:34 PM
1

I don't think I'm "very" attractive, but lot of people ask me how and why I'm still single. There are many reasons. -I'm autistic. -I don't like men so my dating pool is cut drastically. -Many people are interested in me but it's rare for me to actually like someone back. I only start developing feelings for someone after we become close friends and by then I'm usually too worried to ruin the friendship to confess my feelings to them. -I look straight to a lot of people -Women don't approach me …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 06:58 PM
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I tend to fall for asexual people so I don't really mind or expect much in return, sometimes I'm just happy to have a person trust me enough to try to experience that sort of thing with me even I don't technically get much or anything in return. I sort of get what you mean when you say "otherwise it'll be all about her and I'll feel neglected and unloved". Ideally I would like to find someone who's also generous lover and wants to please me but I can still forgive them for being a bit of a pillo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 09:20 PM
1

I don't mind people simply finding me attractive. I feel flattered by genuine compliments. I don't even mind it too much when a guy around my age tries to respectfully hit on me, even though I'm not interested It felt degrading when men much older than me would catcall me when I was 14-17. It made me feel like there was something wrong with me, like maybe I looked old and they mistook me for someone their own age because I couldn't imagine why an adult would try to give that kind of attention to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 12:12 AM
3

Well this is going to be from my perspective as a women who dates women but... ​ Forgivable: -Being slightly chubby or underweight. -Having less than perfect skin. I don't really mind some acne, dark circles or stretch marks. -Having an overly promiscuous past, though it's not my preference -In a dead-end job with no plan or desire to ever do more -Mental illness as long as they are in therapy/on meds or willing to take the steps to pursue the help they need -Pillow princesses -Insecurity and se…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 08:45 PM
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Why does that only seem to apply to criminal bosses, aggressive businessmen, and 'bad boy' archetypes but can't apply to social outcast nerds that suddenly have a huge crush on the woman? I would say it depends? I would agree that bad-boy archetypes seem more popular but I remember seeing lots of rom-coms growing up where the love interest was a nerd, at least in a hollywood sense where it was a conventionally attractive guy who wears glasses and might be a bit more socially awkward. The Peter P…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 07:12 PM
2

Okay so I'm a lesbian but I do completely understand why women enjoy fantasizing about the "hot-headed, handsy and violent" man. I think that it's more about being desired on a primal level. To be craved by someone in an almost animalistic fashion, and it's not because this guy is just horny or a degenerate, it's because you're special. There's just something about you that absolutely intoxicates him, and while maybe usually he's cold and brooding and sorta distant from people, you spark somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 06:31 PM
1

I was referring to the self proclaimed hunters
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 08:57 AM
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I was just meming
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 08:55 AM
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I'm sure they don't see one night stands as an expression of tender feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 08:25 AM
0

Unless they are admitting that their dating strategy is predatory in nature
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 08:17 AM
4

No obviously he has met every woman on the planet and can confidently say now that all women do is lie and eat hot chip
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 08:15 AM
1

Makes me think of r/AreTheStraightsOK
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:31 AM
1

I've met guys who would lie about their height, like saying they are 5'10 but when we meet in person they are actually my height (I'm 5'6). Seemed like a stupid thing to lie about especially since a person would be able to tell if you ever meet eachother in person? Was friends with a guy who had lied about having a sports car and he doesn't even have his drivers license, which made a lot of sense when I eventually found out because there were lots of plot holes for lack of a better word. This gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:19 AM
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Well I'm a lesbian but I would say it depends? I do find myself imagining myself as the woman when I watch porn and I do often seek out videos that has a women that looks similar to me to help aid my imagination, though I don't always do this. I also enjoy just admiring the beauty of other women and I enjoy solo and straight porn because I like seeing the women get pleasured and the way their bodies move and the faces they make, their voices, etc. I also enjoy reading porn occasionally and I wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 06:34 AM
1

I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 05:52 AM
1

What could she even do to raise her value?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/20 08:52 PM
1

I would want to get married because I want a family, and I would want to make sure my wife and children will still be okay if I die unexpectedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 05:41 PM
1

all this does is remove omegas and low end orbiters/betas. That's what I thought too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 05:07 PM
2

Alright well my answer was in the minority, so I want to explain my stance a bit more. I'm a woman and I think futuristic sex robots would be a good idea. I'm also a lesbian, so the idea that men wont be interested in me anymore is actually a positive. If it became mainstream enough I would imagine that men who simply want sex would not bother me anymore, and instead if a coworker or classmate tries to form a friendship with me, it might actually be for friendship instead of a convoluted plan to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 05:04 PM
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Showering everyday can be bad for your skin. I imagine that guys sweat more though so maybe it's more necessary. If you haven't done any physical labor, it's not hot out, and you still feel clean and smell good it's fine to go up to three days without showering. I don't think there is a universal rule on it though, we all have different body chemistry and different lifestyles and live in different areas, like if you live in a place with a lot of pollution maybe you need to shower more so that yo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/20 04:04 PM
2

It's like she's literally going out of her way to sound unappealing, are you sure this isn't a troll? Why would an actual human being even say "sometimes I forget to put deodorant on"? Is it supposed to be charming? Is it a disclaimer in case she smells bad on a future date?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/20 03:55 PM
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I'm guessing she's trying to say that she doesn't slut around ANYMORE, and now that she's pregnant she's trying to find a provider since she probably doesn't even know the name of the man who got her pregnant.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/20 03:42 PM
1

Why would you want it to give birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 11:59 PM
8

In the other videos of her she apparently cheated on her ex husband while he was deployed in Afghanistan for 7 months. She was a stripper when they met so I'm not sure what he expected.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/20 08:43 PM
1

Yeah I guess there was just no winning there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:14 PM
1

Who cares about "if". Don't get up on hypothetical like that. You're not Chad, get over it and craft up a game plan instead of wallowing in envy self-pity and over not being Chad. Maybe it wouldn't have mattered if you were Chad, maybe not, only Chad really knows. Focus on yourself, not what other people might or might not get. And I mean obviously you wanted what she was bringing to the table because you pursued her, so obviously you didn't really care that she had a lame job, a kid, and no hom…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:05 AM
1

Hey, there is this saying, I think it goes "You could be the juiciest peach in the world, but some people just don't like peaches". Typically it's not advised to hit on people at their place of work because they are required to be friendly and encouraged to make small talk with costumers. She might have just felt pressured into giving you her number but not actually have been interested, I've been in those shoes. I would say don't obsess over rejection, just move on. Shes not the only attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:37 PM
1

The question is, do these women now need to lower the bar? I would say so yeah. From my understanding, nobody really wants to get into a relationship with someone who has children unless maybe they already have children as well, or are fine with raising someone else's children. I think women with children have a lot smaller dating pool even if they are hot. For me, I actually really like children, and I want to have a family. I don't care if they are biologically mine or not, and in fact I would…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:28 PM
0

Every trans women I've ever met was unattractive and bitter that nobody wanted to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:03 PM
1

Well I'm a lesbian and I'm not sure how attractive I am, I kinda get mixed reviews. I would say I'm maybe a 7 on a good day. I put effort in being attractive on the inside and the outside. I'm 21 and a college student, and don't really make much money as I only work part time for minimum wage. Nobody really cares about how much money I make though. I think my league is basically average to maybe a little above average, so like 5's and 6's since those are usually the girls who pursue me. I could …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:52 PM
3

So you value clothes and money that much? You have essentially bought your own happiness? Do you think you will regret it in the future? Are you going to continue this line of work for as long as you can? Do you see yourself ever settling down and finding someone to share your life with?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:46 PM
4

Are you worried about STDs/STIs? Do you use protection for vaginal and anal sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:41 PM
2

Do they wear protection?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:10 PM
1

So you do this full-time now? Also did this help with your depression then? Do you enjoy your new life?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:09 PM
4

Aggressive unanswered mating calls and declaration of territory?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:04 PM
1

Oh so you're a student? How did you get into sex work?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:02 PM
2

This made me chuckle
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:44 PM
2

Do you have any other skills other than sex work, or is this all you can do?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:42 PM
1

I think that helps it look so grotesque despite being such a simple drawing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:37 PM
1

I don't see a problem with having an attraction. 16 is a bit young, but they are old enough to consent same as an 18 year old, and it's legal where you are. You're only 4 years older so it's not *that* weird anyways. It can become weirder as you get older though because it could be easier to use the fact that their brains are less developed to your advantage and there might be an unbalanced power dynamic and manipulate them. Though usually girls are grossed out by creepy old guys that try to hit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:11 PM
1

It looks like it could be his mom or something though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:07 AM
1

Maybe if I'm successful enough I'll even have a vacation home on the side, if ya know what I mean ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) Sledding in the snow with all my future grandchildren.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:02 AM
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Some people could consider me cute. I'm a lesbian though so I'll just describe what I like in a girl: Someone I can be myself around. I like to joke around a lot, so someone that has a similar sense of humor is something I'm really attracted to. Someone who is sure of themselves. I don't like it if they are constantly "testing" me one way or another. I do not want to have to go through mental gymnastics. I just want to be able to unwind and have a good laugh. I don't wanna have to feel like I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:51 AM
1

I would say it's average?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:24 AM
1

I want a gothic mansion in the middle of the woods, probably in Oregon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:22 AM
2

ok boomer /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:18 AM
1

Yeah but I'm an autist if that explains anything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:01 AM
1

He looks so miserable :C
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:29 AM
3

I don't even do drugs and I feel the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:48 AM
1

I think its the change in beauty standards. What's considered beautiful today might have been plain or even ugly to them and vice versa. They didn't wear as much makeup, plastic surgery was less prevalent as well. People are also usually more attracted to what is familiar to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:23 AM
1

I actually relate to this ad. I used to be 95 lbs, and I'm 5'6 and everyone thought I was too skinny. Now I'm 115, my face is rounder with fuller cheeks, and my body is still looks very thin but it is more filled out and healthy looking and people find me more attractive. From what I can tell, people are attracted to those within a healthy BMI range for the most part, and it's not good to be too heavy or too thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:12 AM
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I'm a woman and in my experiences, guys are usually actually a lot neater and keep their rooms really tidy, and the women I've known usually have messy rooms unless they are expecting company. I think it's partly because women just have a lot more stuff, so clothes that the woman wore for a minute before decided to chance into a different outfit might be all over the place, and all the beauty products like perfumes, lotions, makeup, might be all cluttered near a mirror. Also girls usually have m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:54 AM
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Yep. I surely did. And? Well I don't think you can really act like it was in the past, that you've grown and aren't that person anymore when it was only a few months ago. It's not impossible for you to grow as a person, but even if you did, it doesn't wash it away that anyone can see your tits with a simple click. ​ Why did you bother to go through my profile tho? Because you were being called out for being a hypocrite and I wanted to see for myself. It only takes less than a minute to scroll th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:12 AM
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Actually you added a lot a fluff that is irrelevant to the argument. The argument being made was that it is hypocritical to consider a man of low value for promiscuous behavior when you wouldn't deem yourself or other women as low value for promiscuous behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:57 PM
1

I once sought validation from men, realized they weren’t worth it and grew up. Okay out of curiosity I went to your profile, and you literally posted your tits to r/saggy a few months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:51 PM
5

On behalf of all lesbians, hard pass.
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