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I just find it strange that she started following me on Instagram a week after I got her "I'll let you know" text. Like something tells me she wants me to reach out, and I will but to let her know that none of that was her fault. Would you suggest asking her out first and then if she says no to explain what happened? Or should I just be straight up and text her what happened?
/r/seduction15/03/19 03:27 PM
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I'm reading Models by Mark Manson and my therapist has also suggested this approach. I'll hit her up this weekend.
/r/seduction15/03/19 04:46 AM
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I don't necessarily want to be with her, but I do enjoy her company. I don't want anything serious with anyone right now tbh
/r/seduction15/03/19 04:45 AM
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I'm just confused because of the random Instagram follow after a week of not hitting me up.
/r/seduction15/03/19 03:10 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction15/03/19 03:09 AM
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Working on it but I want to keep fucking this one also.
/r/seduction15/03/19 02:42 AM
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I just told you. Deal with it by taking action and doing something fun.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:46 PM
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Don't sit there and be her fucking therapist. If you're in a LTR then it's different but whatever you do, do not try to solve her problems. If you haven't been dating a chick for very long then you need to suggest something fun to do. Be spontaneous and tell her some shit like it's a surprise. Instead of worrying about her problems she'll wonder about what the surprise is.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:41 PM
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No it's not that she's not responding. She just hasn't initiated texts all week. It's just weird since the last 2 weeks it's been every day.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:06 AM
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Yeah I'm aware of this, and I'm not going to sit around asking why. I figure the best thing to do is give her space and update her next week on my situation.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 03:32 PM
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Yeah I'm working on that. I know this is a product of me not seeing other chicks but I've used my free time in the last 3 weeks to see her. I plan to contact her next just to let her know I can't make it next weekend.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 03:12 PM
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Well the reason I would contact her is to tell her I can't make it next weekend. I figured I'd just send her a message her Monday saying "Hey, good morning. Hope you have a great day. I'll give you a call tonight". And then go on to explain how I can't make it this weekend on the phone. Ideally, I'll ask her if she's available the following weekend. If she says no, I'll just respond with "No worries, when you're free let me know and we'll plan something"
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:12 AM
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Don't you think she would be turned off if she texts me a day or two before and I mention I've known I won't be able to make it?
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:50 AM
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Sometimes she'll be sitting down or a few feet away from me and she'll say "kiss me". I'm not sure if these are tests too? I don't want to flat out reject her and send the wrong message but I do think she subtly wants me to give into her demands.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 07:17 PM
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She's said it before. Like on our second date she stopped and I kept walking. She would say shit like "wait for me" as she was texting on her phone. It was her birthday so she was getting flooded with messages from her family. She brings it up a lot though. I suspect she brought it up after sex because we had been drinking and talking. She'll also say shit like "kiss me" when she's a few feet from me. I'm not sure if these are shit tests as well, but I don't know how to handle this without flat …
/r/askTRP28/11/18 04:58 PM
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It's going to keep coming up and I want to keep fucking. Plus if this happens with another chick, I want to be able to handle it properly.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 12:31 AM
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It's a possibility but I made sure to polarize her as soon as I could. She started being more receptive after she asked me why I got her number. I told her "I think you're cute and I like going out with cute girls". I even suggested we go out for coffee and she was all about it.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 05:43 AM
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One example I can give is when a girl literally told my friend she was into me. I talked to her a little bit, and she was following me around. I tried to dance with her and she pulled away completely while we were at the club. I pulled back and I was new at the time so I kind of just ignored her. Even at the end of the night she somehow manages to get my number from someone. She texts me, and I tell her we should go out. Flakes the next week. Should I still continue to pursue after a girl flakes…
/r/askTRP28/12/17 08:58 PM
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What do you mean by pull back? How would I go about pulling back while still maintaining her interest?
/r/askTRP28/12/17 08:53 PM
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Yeah but even with texting it's so weird. The girl will be really into me and then I ask when she's available to go out and it's suddenly like the lights went out. I had a girl I met the other day that would not stop texting me. She texts me at 1:30am asking what I was doing. I didn't respond as I was sleeping. A few days later I text her around 9pm asking if she wants to hang out. She sounded really uncomfortable telling me it was late and then deletes me off Snapchat.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 08:52 PM
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I just ordered it. It seems a lot of people are recommending that I read it. Not sure why this is the case if it's mostly biographical.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 09:17 PM
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So I see "The Game" and "Rules of The Game" on Amazon. Are these both the same. I see that the writer is the same, but I want to make sure I'm getting the right book. I read somewhere that these techniques are "outdated".. I don't know what the fuck that means but I think it's worth a read.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 11:43 PM
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Is there a good place to start learning PUA?
/r/askTRP20/12/17 11:32 PM
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So where can I start learning about this stuff? Is there a good reference point?
/r/askTRP20/12/17 11:32 PM
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When you are pursuing your mission a few things will happen.. You'll gain self-confidence, happiness, struggle, self-esteem, growth.. all sorts of shit. These are the things that women are attracted to. If you're just pursuing a mission for the sake of getting girls, it's not going to work. Fake does not fucking work. Get something your passionate about.. I don't care if you have a passion for sculpting dildos, if that's your passion go fucking do it. If you need validation from women, you are n…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 03:19 PM
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As soon as I start talking about myself I can literally feel the sexual attraction going away. I always assumed less is more when it comes to girls.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 04:40 AM
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I really don't understand how to have conversations with them. I can talk all day with dudes but dumb chicks with no hobbies? How the fuck do you guys do it?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 01:42 AM
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I plan to try. It's mostly for work so I won't have as much time but will definitely spend some time going out. Id like to hit her up when I get back but will probably give it some time. Will try to hang out with other girls when I get back first
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 08:12 PM
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I'm aware of that now. I'm wondering if I should actually hit her up when I get back though? I do want her but I don't want to come off as needy.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 05:37 PM
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To NEXT or not to NEXT? So met a girl online, we got coffee and hit it off. She invites me over one night and we make out pretty hard on her bed. I go to take off her bra twice and she says no both times and that she doesn't want to. I say cool, and we get some drinks in us and continue making out. I end up staying the night at her place without fucking her (she ends up taking her bra off before we sleep and now I realize she was probably signaling me to go for it). Yes, I know I should've just …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 04:55 AM
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Had a date planned for yesterday and she supposedly had something come up with her roommate. She asked if I was free tomorrow, and I gave her a time and a place. She texts me at noon today asking me to change locations to a place that's more convenient to her but across town for me. I stood my ground and told her it was out of the way and that I liked the drinks at the place we had originally planned for. She didn't respond, but I feel I did the right thing but not letting her decide. Plus, we a…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 04:41 AM
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I've tried psychiatrists multiple before but I was never able to tell them anything and ended up just ignoring sessions and stopped seeing them. You didn't actually try it then. You just went to a Psychiatrist. They need to be able to understand what's going on in your head in order for them to help you.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 04:29 AM
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How exactly did you end up getting her to come back to your place? You didn't elaborate on that portion and I think it's important.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 04:39 AM
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My goal is to be the type of person I've always wanted to be. Giving less fucks, and focusing on goals. I know in turn that will also help me get laid more. Yes I would love to get laid more. In most social situations, I tend to lead the group of people I'm with. I like to be the center of attention, talking loud and making people laugh Because of this, I'm great at initial attraction with women but I somehow always end up fucking it up. They lose attraction before I can fuck them. I want that t…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 12:58 AM
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You sound like you're on the right track and doing so much better than me dude. Keep up the good work, it's inspirational.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 08:35 PM
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I'm learning to go into a situation not expecting to get laid but just reading the girl in general. In the past, I would always go in with the mindset "I need to fuck this girl" and it never worked. Now I go in "I need to be able to read this girl".
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 05:49 AM
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The problem is so will she.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 05:47 AM
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I won't lie... It definitely helps. I mean most of the girls in my life were always ones that approached me, which is why I never learned to approach. I figure it's time to just start going after what I want instead of waiting for it to come to me.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 03:43 AM
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The guy that gives the least amount of fucks
/r/seduction30/08/17 10:49 PM
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I've started doing this recently. It's almost like the articles that are posted up in TRP are exactly where I'm at in life. I can tell everyone right now, I've dealt with Clinical Depression for 10 years, and NOTHING has worked better than becoming more mindful. I've learned that thoughts are just thoughts and learning to let them go takes time. Fuck, I still have some bad flare ups, but you know what? I fucking smile now. That's right, I fucking smile when bad shit happens. Maybe something bad …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 10:24 PM
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Well it wasn't necessarily to get just HER attention but I'll admit she played a big role in it. My initial thought was actually that I shouldn't be trying to make ONE girl jealous so I should've just gone with my gut. Made a mistake, but I'll learn from it.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 02:43 PM
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I've had this problem recently. I am almost done with the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and even after reading TRP I feel like I've lost a sense of who I am. Maybe it's the reality of finally seeing what the world is like and the way I used to think just isn't going to for ME. My brain feels like it's being pulled in a million different directions of what I should do and how I should act. Maybe I'm just adjusting to this new reality.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 10:27 PM
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Honestly my strategy was just to show her I'm hanging out with other girls. Posting pictures on fb / instagram etc. I don't like texting for other than logistics and she doesn't have much activity on fb for me to be teasing her on it.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 04:50 PM
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If you like one of them, then go for it. If not, befriend them, go out with them, and meet other women. Bitches love seeing dudes with multiple women.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 03:37 PM
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So I stayed the night at this Church girls house. We didn't fuck, but we made out (I went for it, but she stopped me twice). I should've left once I realized I wasn't going to fuck her, but I stayed anyway. The next weekend I ask her if she's doing anything Friday night, tells me she's already made plans. She asks me if I'm free any other day this weekend and I told her maybe Saturday night. Never got a response. Would still like to see her but how should I proceed? I ended up hanging out with s…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 03:34 PM
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Who said I was playing hard? I was actually busy and the second night she invited me over and I went.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 11:34 PM
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Im not driving 5 hours to potentially fuck a girl. Now how about instead of insulting me you help me on my issue? edit: spelling
/r/askTRP17/08/17 11:33 PM
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