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| 12 | On average women paid $499.96 for a date and men paid $861.29 in 2019.Considering the recent discussions they don’t need bear spray, but man spray instead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Decided to play around w/ my FWB’s tinder…Why keep swiping after like 20 matches? Either talk to them or unmatch. Or just be more selective with your swipes if you get hundreds with your current approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 11:26 AM |
| 8 | Decided to play around w/ my FWB’s tinder…Why did she swipe right on them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 11:23 AM |
| 28 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it?Kind reminder to sort by controversial for the real answers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 09:20 AM |
| 4 | Why should men still be the ones to pursue?This is becoming a meme a this point. Woman moment: gets rejected once, never tries again. Imagine if men did that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 06:41 AM |
| 6 | “Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountabledggL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 07:47 AM |
| 4 | Men only have other men to blame for the difficulty of dating appsIn order to get through profiles faster Why does she need to do that? Why not go through less profiles more carefully? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 07:37 AM |
| 10 | Girls are actually bad at communicating their feelings.r/BoneAppleTea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 09:56 AM |
| 3 | Nice Guys also dont say what they mean.Freudian slip right there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/19 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, why don’t you ask men out as much as men ask women out?The only real answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/19 12:03 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, why don’t you ask men out as much as men ask women out?The only real answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/19 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Men orbiting women on social media and on internet in general is actually NOT a male-specific thingExactly. If you look at it that way, having a penis is not a male-specific thing either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/19 06:58 PM |
| 1 | IllimitableMan is completely wrong. A loser man in his 50s is not better off than a loser woman in her 50sMoaning Myrtle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/19 11:11 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: Those of you who use dating apps, how many matches do you have?Pig woman tinder experiment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 08:57 AM |
| 0 | Twenty eight year old virginThis is the laziest question I have ever seen on reedit. Congrats! Maybe that tells you something. | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 06:48 AM |
| 5 | Do Single Women Seek Attached Men?I did not receive attention when I was single. I do not receive attention now that I have a girlfriend. When we are out, people mostly stare at her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 06:05 AM |
| 3 | Having a hard time interpreting a passage from Models.I dunno this whole thing seems creepy, That's the whole point. After you do it, you will realize that it's not creepy. | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 09:24 AM |
| 2 | (discussion) Why is there almost no ACTUAL advice for women on "how to girl" like there is for men?That's exactly how women feel when guys approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 08:37 AM |
| 2 | What should I respond when to this?And why the fuck are people upvoting these posts? | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 07:33 PM |
| 0 | A girl grabbed my phone and put her number in it.You forgot rule 2 | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 12:51 PM |
| 9 | What does the sex/dating life of the average man look like?Any average man can get a gf easily provided he doesn’t outright act like a straight up autistic incel This is just like that stupid advice that keeps getting passed around: "just take a shower". Those people actually assume that the average male does not shower and that's the cause why they can't get a girlfriend. Do you think the average male acts like an autistic incel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 08:18 PM |
| 14 | Boyfriend says he never wants to get married??-[if I'm being completely honest] the looming thought that he could just pick up and leave at any moment. Maybe my view is skewed on this because my parents are divorced, but how does a marriage prevent this? And if it does, is it ok for you if the only things that keep him near you are his laziness to fill out the paperwork and losing half of his assets? My brother was also married because there were some benefits that he took advantage of (free housing). As soon as those advantages were no l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/05/19 11:57 AM |
| 8 | Girl I asked to hangout suggested doing it with the groupYou're in denial. You know she is not attracted. You can try something, but it's just for practice since she will 100% reject you. | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 09:38 AM |
| 18 | 30 First Date Conversation Starters That Will Kick Awkwardness In The ButtNumber 7 will SHOCK you! | /r/seduction | 24/12/18 05:33 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when a girl starts pulling away?She probably met someone. Always mirror her level of investment. | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 12:39 PM |
| 36 | Girl said 'maybe''Maybe' means 'no'. | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Think I've found a unicorn...There are no unicorns. Be careful. | /r/seduction | 02/12/18 10:41 AM |
| 0 | STOP Dressing Like Sh*t30 seconds in, you didn't say anything. Plus you are trying too hard to talk like a black person. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 10:16 AM |
| 3 | STOP Dressing Like Sh*tDamn, good thing you censored the title, my virgin ears would've been scarred for life. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 10:09 AM |
| 6 | Dating show blew my mind. How to not be boring?Are you really jumping to conclusions from a Twitch stream? Their main focus is entertainment. Of course they are going to keep the autistic (in an entertaining way) guys on. If these girls would honestly have to choose they wouldn't even touch the "entertaining" guy. Plus it's different being entertaining on stream (nerves might kick in) vs IRL. | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 08:22 PM |
| 247 | My experience with Tinder dating and creating an engaging bio.Most guys are stuck at the getting matches step. | /r/seduction | 04/11/18 10:37 AM |
| 4 | (26, m) I've never been on a date and no woman has ever been interested in me, is it because of my looks? (pics included) Looking for honest feedbackYou keep posting about your looks, man. What answer are you looking for? Are you just trolling? | /r/seduction | 04/11/18 09:24 AM |
| 16 | “Let’s have a threesome with your boyfriend”r/BoneAppleTea | /r/seduction | 04/11/18 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Am I bothering women?Yeah, I guess the only solution is to work on your image so you get more of them. Not sure how many IOIs good looking dudes get, but probably more than that. | /r/seduction | 26/10/18 06:17 AM |
| 19 | Am I bothering women?I have the same problem. This never-ending stream of articles about how men are creeps doesn't help either. | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 06:16 PM |
| 16 | Am I bothering women?Women WANT men they are attracted to. | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 06:13 PM |
| 33 | What to talk about with girls that have literally no interestsWhy would you want to attract such girls? | /r/seduction | 17/10/18 07:02 AM |
| 1 | This is the best time to approach a girlIf random women smile at you, I'm pretty sure you'll do fine without any advice. | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Where to find a good man??r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/18 05:54 PM |
| 2 | FR: 1st time ever approaching like this - Success - Mind OPENEDExcept when the guy is unattractive. | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Is it not normal / detrimental that I never 'chase' women?Yes, but the woman in your example is already in a losing position. It's her fault that by 30 she didn't cash in on her advantage. | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 01:01 PM |
| 68 | Is it not normal / detrimental that I never 'chase' women?This topic is really interesting for me because I am the same as OP. I guess my ego is too big and it makes me feel like a beggar if I chase. I initiate a discussion at most 2 times in row, after that it’s one the other person. Some would say this is “beta” behaviour because you are not going after what you want. But I don’t really want a woman that needs to be “chased”. Never ever in my life “chasing” ever worked. The girls that were into me made it really easy, they didn’t play games. If you n… | /r/seduction | 05/07/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | The power of eye contact!Or maybe you're just sexy? | /r/seduction | 10/06/18 08:12 PM |
| 4 | Woman have more sexual freedom than men have ever hadWhy do you say that? Are they really? Don't they generally have way easier lives than men? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 07:45 PM |
| 4 | I offer to pay and end up paying a lot (go figure...)If A pays for B's meal then B is superior to A, not submissive. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/18 11:07 AM |
| 14 | Why Are Hot Girls Hard To Pick Up? It's Not What You Think..Well, if a hot woman has low self-esteem then I'm fucked. | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 08:53 AM |
| 6 | All you have to do is tryWhy would you buy a girl a drink? | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 09:30 PM |
| 4 | I’m deleting tinder, instagram, bumble etc off my phone for good and learning how to actually socialize with peopleOnly taking cold showers for over a year. Believe me, it doesn't give you superpowers. | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 06:40 AM |
| 4 | I’m deleting tinder, instagram, bumble etc off my phone for good and learning how to actually socialize with peopleYeah, in my experience Toastmasters is filled with fake people. Improv classes are so much better! | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 06:27 AM |
| 1 | I don’t get how 9 and 10 year old kids have better social skills and are less awkward than me in social situations...Kids are treated way differently. When a kid messed up socially everyone brushes it off (“he’s just a kid”), but when an adult messes up he may be labeled as a creep, pedophile, publicly humiliated, fired from job. | /r/seduction | 17/01/18 10:11 AM |
| 2 | If you feel inadequate because of luck of success with womenThese types of comments are cancer. He says later that you get a high from it and then it passes. But you were too cool to read that. | /r/seduction | 06/01/18 03:28 PM |
| 5 | I my hairline bad on the side and how can I look better?Dude, your appearance is fine. From your responses in this thread you seem autistic. I think that affects your success the most. | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 10:07 AM |
| 1 | I just dont get it.Stop smoking. | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 08:38 AM |
| 1 | price of a pu - some random thoughtsDude... | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 08:04 AM |
| 5 | Need advice: good looking guy with ZERO self-confidence with women... if they find you attractive. | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 05:19 PM |
| 5 | Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me.R/iamverysmart | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Spot on advice from a 10/10 babe's dating profile on what guys do that turn her offNo woman is hot enough to be this crazy, stay away. | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Women are as nervous as men are or sometimes moreBut why? They know the guy likes them. And even if something goes wrong, there's the next ones lines up. Reminds me of a time a hot girl was really shy about going up the stage to do a really easy thing. I never understood why, because she could've done anything and people would've cheered for her because she is hot. | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Women are as nervous as men are or sometimes moreWhat are they nervous about? | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 09:45 AM |
| 1 | If you're a girl who likes a guy, ask him out. Please!I don't actually beg, it just feels like it. I guess a lot of us are logical thinkers and need a rational explanation (maybe that's the mistake). If she has 10 dudes hitting on her, she doesn't need me. You said 2 things that to me seem like are conflicting: "They don't need to talk to you" vs. "we are all humans who like social interactions, romance and sex". I understand what you are saying and it sounds like good advice, but I'm in a battle against myself right now. Thanks for the input! | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 09:26 AM |
| 2 | If you're a girl who likes a guy, ask him out. Please!This is a big problem of mine. Girls don't need me and this makes me feel like a beggar asking for pussy. Any way to solve this mindset? | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 08:59 PM |
| 9 | If you're a girl who likes a guy, ask him out. Please!Even if that were true, don't they have a much higher success rate? | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 06:35 AM |
| 1 | I just turned 20. About to finish my sophomore year in college. Virgin. Haven't kissed or had a girlfriend. A perspective from a lurker for years here. What am I doing wrong.Have fun and work on your goals. The rest will follow. So while working on your hobbies the girls will just magically appear? | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 11:12 PM |
| 3 | I just turned 20. About to finish my sophomore year in college. Virgin. Haven't kissed or had a girlfriend. A perspective from a lurker for years here. What am I doing wrong.Create the life you want and enjoy the hell out of it. People will want to be a part of that. I think you may have some specific "life" in mind when saying this. Because someone might enjoy their life, but that does not necessarily mean others will want to join in. | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 10:14 PM |
| 2 | I just turned 20. About to finish my sophomore year in college. Virgin. Haven't kissed or had a girlfriend. A perspective from a lurker for years here. What am I doing wrong.Is the girls' attractiveness that big of a factor? I'm kind of skeptic on this. The less attractive girls have lots of options too. | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 10:07 PM |
| 2 | I just turned 20. About to finish my sophomore year in college. Virgin. Haven't kissed or had a girlfriend. A perspective from a lurker for years here. What am I doing wrong.Does that realistically happen though? | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Going to a bar alone to hook up with guys? Advice?It's so easy for women to get laid, it's not even funny. | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 09:06 AM |
| 26 | Gentlemen, Learn To DanceI get that girls like dancing dudes, but I just don't enjoy dancing. I love singing and playing instruments, but dancing does not give me the same feeling. | /r/seduction | 30/03/17 09:38 PM |
| 9 | I want to keep things in the friend-zone with this girl.Yeah, can I get some advice on how to get rejected by women? | /r/seduction | 28/03/17 09:14 AM |
| 1 | I (21F) want to escalate kino. Is playing footsie juvenile?Can someone explain their downvote? I'm genuinely curious. | /r/seduction | 06/03/17 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Approaching question.These kinds of questions make seduction look bad. It's like having a naked girl in your bed and asking "should I put my penis inside her? Nah, that's too needy. I should neg her now". Don't give so many fucks and just do whatever you (really) want. | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 09:11 AM |
| 3 | Women who crave attentionSo all of them are hoes? | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Guys from seddit, that transformed from shy/socially awkward to getting laid regularly: What was your "click" moment, i.e. the moment/realisation that changed you or resonated with you the most?She may be on your side if she likes you. How often does that happen? I wouldn't say "usually". | /r/seduction | 06/02/17 12:32 AM |
| 1 | [FR] New cityOnce inside the guy I came Use commas, dude. | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 04:46 PM |
| 3 | So a girl actually checked me out today..Be more aware of your surroundings to see if people are looking at you? | /r/seduction | 17/01/17 08:18 AM |
| 1 | What Would Jill Do (WWJD)The Brad Pitt rule. Google it. | /r/seduction | 04/01/17 09:20 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Progress and small victories.I'm honestly happy for you, good job! I need to do the same. If you are an analytical person (like me - and probably the majority on this sub) then analyze this too. Actually look into the law and what is considered rape. I didn't do this myself, but I think it's only rape if she obviously wants to stop and you keep pushing. Just tell her to let you know if she is not comfortable. By the way, were you alone at the club or with friends? | /r/seduction | 02/01/17 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Concerned about lack of experience and maintaining confidence.I always felt a little out of place because I experienced everything 2-3 years later than everyone. It's true that no one cares, but I cared. It's a battle between logic and emotions that I too am having. And it doesn't change anything because not being a virgin doesn't make me feel better when I'm lonely. | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Concerned about lack of experience and maintaining confidence.Dude, no one cares about your virginity. Nothing will change after you lose it. There are lots of people who lost it around your age. Late bloomer life feelsbadman | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 12:03 AM |
| 6 | A good 30 sec video that shows how to handle yourself when asking out womenA common advice here is the exact opposite, to not give her an easy way out. | /r/seduction | 23/11/16 10:13 AM |
| 2 | My FIRST EVER APPROACH!!!!! Some advice?You got out of your comfort zone so that's a success. Doesn't matter what happened. | /r/seduction | 18/11/16 12:31 PM |
| 5 | I have absolutely no idea why I don't talk to girls I'm interested in.Read No More Mr. Nice Guy | /r/seduction | 18/11/16 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Older girl-younger guy how to escalateJust tell her your age, wtf? She will find out anyway. | /r/seduction | 12/11/16 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Need Help Analyzing my Field Report - hopefully you can learn from my mistakes tooI am in no position to give advice, but here it goes. When was the first time you saw a sign of disinterest? When she said she had to be home before 11 and then pulling away her hand. What happened before that? You talked about "hooking up, sex, drugs". Before this happened there was "A lot of ‘cheeky smiling’ going on". So my guess is that your views didn't match very well on those topics. But then again... I might be way off. | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Need Help Analyzing my Field Report - hopefully you can learn from my mistakes tooThey way you described it was like it was a lot of hard work and you didn't get your deserved prize. But I'm happy I was wrong. I was asking because I went on some dates with girls that didn't seem that into me. I don't understand why a girl would go on a date with a guy if she isn't interested. And yeah, those dates were cringy and depressing. | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Need Help Analyzing my Field Report - hopefully you can learn from my mistakes tooDid you have a good time on this date? | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 12:51 PM |
| 1 | How to be an awesome wingman?I'm no expert by any means, but I think "picking up girls for him" is one of the worst things you can do to him. | /r/seduction | 08/11/16 09:12 AM |
| 6 | 3 TIPS for Standing Out On Tinder (...and get actual dates)I know, fam. It was sarcasm. Isn't "be yourself" a meme on this sub already? | /r/seduction | 07/11/16 09:51 PM |
| 8 | 3 TIPS for Standing Out On Tinder (...and get actual dates)Best dating advice: just be yourself! | /r/seduction | 07/11/16 07:28 PM |
| 2 | You aren't bothering anyone when you approach and here's whyI have some questions about approaching women on the street. If the woman will not make eye contact, do you not approach? I find it very hard to approach in this case. Are they just too shy to make eye contact or thinking about other things? (as opposed to trying to avoid being approached). As a general rule, if she's minding her own bussiness and not even noticing you, should you still stop her and try to have a conversation? If you two pass by each other and she makes eye contact, you only hav… | /r/seduction | 05/11/16 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Interesting Situation, how do I approach?If she thought you were a fuckboy she wouldn't have spent all that time talking to you. Unless you didn't express interest and she sees you as a friend. Only one way to find out. | /r/seduction | 05/11/16 10:17 AM |
| 1 | The Direct Approach WorksI'm happy for you that it worked and that you were excited. But the last part of your is exactly what I'm talking about. I'm just saying you should have worded it better. Have more responsability when giving advice, someone might just follow it. And don't be so negative, I (and lots of people here) have good intentions. I mean, I never cold approached a girl so you're already way ahead of me. Have an awesome day because you tried, even if it didn't work out! | /r/seduction | 29/10/16 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Weird to call a random girl prettyWhy are you here? Self pity is not going to help. | /r/seduction | 28/10/16 08:14 AM |
| 1 | The Direct Approach WorksSo basically you're giving advice about your approach that worked 100% of the time out of 1 try. Not saying there isn't any truth to this, but I find it a little odd. | /r/seduction | 28/10/16 07:22 AM |
| 1 | The Direct Approach WorksHow many girls did you get rejected by before this one? | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Question about being polarising!I have this problem too! I think people find me boring because I don't have controversial or very strong opinions. | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 07:32 AM |
| 2 | Tips on avoiding oneitis with a girl you don't know well/haven't hung out with?It usually happens when you don't know well enough to see her flaws. You instead create a perfect image of her in your head that is never true. | /r/seduction | 16/10/16 02:54 PM |
| 23 | Approached a girl earlier and she responded with "did you just assume my sexuality"?The correct response was: "No, I assumed you were sane" | /r/seduction | 10/10/16 04:30 PM |
| 1 | I can't flirt, talk to, or even approach girls I like.Basing major life decisions on a fantasy idea you have in your head that somehow things will be different in Germany is a bad idea in my opinion. And there probably are non-dumb girls, you just have to find them. I was kinda like you in high school. What I regret is not being open-minded about people. Try to express real interest in getting to know them and after getting through the bullshit they may have something more interesting under the surface. Being interested in history doesn't make you … | /r/seduction | 30/09/16 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Didnt even try...It's just a "thank you" post. | /r/seduction | 23/12/15 11:18 AM |
| -2 | Experiment: How Much You Can Improve Your Looks In 6 MonthsThis is really cool! I wanted to do something similar like finding out the percentage of women that are attracted to me. Has anyone done that? | /r/seduction | 03/08/15 02:44 PM |
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