Tips on avoiding oneitis with a girl you don't know well/haven't hung out with?

galactic_fury · 2016-10-16T06:28:11+00:00

yummbeary · 2016-10-16T08:26:27+00:00

Talk to other girls, that you know, you've actually met.

PlayLikeNeverB4 · 2016-10-16T14:54:15+00:00

It usually happens when you don't know well enough to see her flaws. You instead create a perfect image of her in your head that is never true.

very_crazy_idiot · 2016-10-16T06:12:50+00:00

This video is all you need. Seriously. Watch it several times if you need to.

leprogrammist · 2016-10-16T21:51:45+00:00

The mind cannot forget. However you can distract yourself or reframe. Physical avoidance aka distance. Or only invite girls you are not overly attracted to who are still attractive. The more you invest the more it will hurt finally when you lose. Heartbreaks are unavoidable imho. At least for a couple of times.

Title	Tips on avoiding oneitis with a girl you don't know well/haven't hung out with?
Author	throwrfv
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	October 16, 2016 2:06 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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