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You aren't using wualification. Ask her wualifying questions why she should be good enough for you in a fun way. Game fundamentals 101! ☺️
/r/seduction12/11/16 09:28 PM
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She was just 15 at the time. She was just testing out how the world works and she loved flirting. So she had a guy where she did "direct" game with some guys and "indirect" game with you, see how effective it is. Nothing bad about it. You let her do it, becauee you didn't set limitations. But now you learned from that and you can really game women now. Don't take game too serious, then you can really run some awesome game.
/r/seduction12/11/16 08:53 PM
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Theoretically, never. If you follow up alpha fun messages, you can ask her on a date dozens of times without coming across as needy. The more often you ask, the more alpha you can also become, like this. "Clarissa bear, let's suck on an ice cream tomorrow. " "Clara clarissa, did you miss me ☺️🙈🙈" "Hey little one, are we going out tomorrow. I've been thinking about you all week! 😁" Clarissa gza, I'd probably have time for you on Friday if you are in need for a real man this week. 😁💪🏻💪🏻 Hello hell…
/r/seduction12/11/16 06:32 PM
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Carol was waiting all the time for you to be an alpha and grab her, she wouldn't have given a shit if she was dating someone else at the time. Props to her, she lived her life. Now, your turn to be an alpha and give women a fucking great time. 👍🏻💪🏻
/r/seduction12/11/16 06:16 PM
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2 times you asked only. I've chatted with hot girls where i have set up dates 10+ times before we finally met and fucked. Long term game my friend, just stay positively persistent and don't ever get pissed!
/r/seduction11/11/16 08:41 PM
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She is giving you all the signs and wants you to take her from her boyfriend. 60% of girls are in an unhappy relationship. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1282851/Six-10-couples-unhappy-relationship.html Be a man and help her out. :)
/r/seduction11/11/16 08:35 PM
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Banter and touch. Do KINO without expecting anything in return and stop the Kino after a few seconds. Touch her arm for 3 secs and then let go again. Hug her for 5 secs and let go. This already creates attraction in her, the magic of Kino. Once you've done this a few times, you will see iois and then you can escalate Kino more and start using normale game.
/r/seduction11/11/16 08:31 PM
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You dont need to be a nice guy or a bad guy. Both things don't work in isolation. You need to take the best of both worlds. Be a savage, alpha that is simply a good person, friendly, calibrated and knows how to lead women. It's not easy to get there, but this is our goal here.
/r/seduction10/11/16 09:50 PM
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Yes, but this sub is about self improvement, which doesn't include treating anyone like shit. However, you need to be alpha, leading, so that you can be nice to her. A good thing to say to her would be:" Yeah, I come from a good family, so I know how to treat people I don't care how all the other guys have treated you badly. " Note, this alone won't win her over for you. It only works if you are also alpha, leading and superior to her in a way or another.
/r/seduction10/11/16 09:48 PM
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Not showing interest only works when she is invested in you, has been thinking about you, is somewhat attracted to you. Showing disinterest upfront does absolutely nothing. It always needs to be paired with playfulness and some interest.
/r/seduction10/11/16 09:08 PM
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👍🏻👍🏻
/r/seduction10/11/16 07:16 PM
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No, it's not needy it's boss in that case. :)
/r/seduction10/11/16 07:15 PM
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Yep.
/r/seduction10/11/16 07:15 PM
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Acting like you don't care is a very passive skill. Your action should never be "not caring", not caring means that you never act negatively (pissed off, angry) if anything happens. If you consider yourself a valuable man and you like a girl, you push through every obstacle. However, you also check if there is investment/interest from the girl.
/r/seduction10/11/16 06:19 PM
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This is not true. Pre-selection is pretty much the strongest attraction factor as long as you don't flaunt it. You don't have to tell her that you are seeing other girls, but she will ask at some point. Then, you can say:"oh I'm not sure right now, I've only known you for 2 weeks now!" She will probably ask you, are you seeing someone else? "Yeah, right now I'm just going with the flow". Say it nice and respectfully and let her have to really work to find out. If you tell too much, yoi will come…
/r/seduction10/11/16 04:50 PM
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Have enough other attractive girls, so that you rather don't want to get more serious and she has to convince you. 👍🏻👍🏻
/r/seduction10/11/16 02:40 PM
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Excellent! Regarding the first girl, I would have said. Ah noo, look now we were so lucky too meet each other, we shouldn't let this opportunity slide. Women often throw obstacles in your way to see if you can make it happen, if you're man enough to pull through.
/r/seduction10/11/16 02:37 PM
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This is my main advice to you for your mindset. Expect a litlle from her, she has to impress you a little. Be the buyer, not the seller. You are the prize. Take this with a bit of humour. Don't try to sell yourself, make her sell herself in a subtle way. Women love it when a man has some standards. Don't make it too hard for her though. Keep it fun
/r/seduction10/11/16 02:34 PM
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Being aggressive is good if it comes from a place of value, honesty and goodness. If you can give her that, be all the way aggressive. Stay respectful of course.
/r/seduction10/11/16 01:40 PM
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Yes. Normally, I would say have a real conversation, but it's not really possible in a library. She knows this as well and for that reason, this approach is appropriate. Most women will recognize this and appreciate your direct approach. Maybe add in, hey I think you're cute, but I gotta run. Can I have your number. Lots of mystery as well! :D
/r/seduction10/11/16 01:38 PM
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She will probably bitch abiut your biundaries in the beginning, becauee it is new for her. Simply keep your frame and she will appreciate it, it will actually arouse her and make her more attracted to you that you have standard and are not a pushover anymore. Women are strange. 😄👍🏻
/r/seduction10/11/16 01:35 PM
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I'm not doing this. If we're just friends then we're just friends. I don't flirt with my female friends (except the ones who are supremely close and with whom it's obviously just a joke). I'm also not going to be hanging around secretly hoping we'll eventually date/fuck. This is your mistake. You need to be more savage, without being a dick or anything. I feel that this limitation of yours is stemming from the mindset that you don't want to develop feelings from flirting with friends. You need t…
/r/seduction09/11/16 11:29 PM
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Not about dating, too much pressure! It also seems as if you were, but weren't arousing her well enough. This is important, especially if she is so doubtful about everything because of her LTR. No girl will reject a stallion who can fuck her really well who can make a real connection with her without expecting anything in return and have her forget about her problems. But you weren't showing the stallion to her, you were too attached. Also, dont say "would you like" .., tell her "lets do". Women…
/r/seduction09/11/16 10:42 PM
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It's a good start if you're a beginner and you're scrambling of even saying anything. If you're somewhat advanced, say that the way she holds her handbag is very cute, so you had to talk to her. Tell her something specific about her is cute.
/r/seduction09/11/16 07:01 PM
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Qualification and then compliment her on things she has worked to get your validation for. 😉👍🏻
/r/seduction09/11/16 10:59 AM
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She is a bit weird. You can keep the fbw status up and running by being a bit persistent and organizing a meet up again. If she gives you resistance to meeting you again, say:" But also Lisa needs a real man to look after her a bit. ;)" This will give her some fantasies and you can meet her up again a few times with thay frame.
/r/seduction08/11/16 11:28 AM
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Then arrive 30 mins earlier and mingle: "Ahh a little early" they won't kick you out, or will they? Otherwise arrive 5 mins early, and chat with them directly, make it feel natural.
/r/seduction07/11/16 11:53 PM
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Then arrive 30 mins earlier and mingle: "Ahh a little early" they won't kick you out, or will they? Otherwise arrive 5 mins early, and chat with them directly, make it feel naturalx
/r/seduction07/11/16 11:53 PM
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It is the most important thing. Sex is 90% psychological, 10% physical. Read the sex god method. :)
/r/seduction07/11/16 11:24 PM
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No not about her LtR, about other things, small things. Keep it lighthearted.
/r/seduction07/11/16 04:33 PM
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Dont react to it, behave obliviously as if you're wondering why she bothers telling you this and that it doesn't concern you if other males are interested in her, because you feel safe. You can be upbeat like: "Um ok, well done I guess." 😄 If she asks you that it doesn't bother you at all, you can say: " Um no, you're an attractive girl, so guys will want to get in your pants obviously. " If she keeps asking if you're not afraid: " Um no, why would I be". Her: Well that I would like another guy.…
/r/seduction07/11/16 01:43 PM
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It's an obstacle that she wants you to overcome. Jusy keep being playful, tease her a little, create attraction, tell her lets do this and that in a few days. :)
/r/seduction07/11/16 01:33 PM
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There is not much I think. But you just need to start very small and see if she likes it. If she doesn't, keep talking normally and try again a bit later. :)
/r/seduction07/11/16 01:32 PM
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Hey, really good. I would sexualize with push and pull much earlier. Give it to her but taking it away much earlier. This is a very safe way to escalate once she is in a good mood. Do it in a cute way: Oh if i knew you a bit longer, I would give you my blanket now and cuddle you for 5 mins. ;)
/r/seduction07/11/16 12:46 PM
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Arrive earlier and have a conversation, sheesh.
/r/seduction07/11/16 10:51 AM
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Her place! 👍🏻 Tell her that you live with your parents and that normally you'd invite her to your place but if she maybe has a better idea. A real man is comfortable with his situation, if it's ok for their age.
/r/seduction06/11/16 11:43 PM
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This advice works sometimes for newbies. However, instead of losing your fear of approaching women through her low value, domit through having a lot of value to offer. Hey, I'm really valuable and fun. Are you also fun. :)
/r/seduction06/11/16 10:32 PM
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Elbow, forearm, shoulder, lower back etc. Di carlo escalation ladder. :)
/r/seduction06/11/16 09:48 PM
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Elbow, forearm, shoulder, lower back etc. Di carlo escalation ladder. :)
/r/seduction06/11/16 09:48 PM
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Open her group of friends with a normal question, about a topic from the lecture if they know about this or that. This is also a qualifying question, so puts you in the seat of superiority a bit. ;) Then, ask them for their names and do some small talk, then say was nice talking, but you have to go now. ;) Then m, in the next lectures say hello to them and keep talking and then say lets go to lunch. :)
/r/seduction06/11/16 09:25 PM
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Just write her how it is going like you did in the old days and have an actual conversation. :) Then, at some points say, let's go do something later chat about the old days haha
/r/seduction06/11/16 08:37 PM
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It is easy to feel bad about "doing pickup", identifying with the stigma that's surrounded by it. This stigma is created by sex-negative and insecure women and men. You are a creep You condone rape You hate women You try to make women feel bad and trick them in order to sleep with you I fell for this as well, but you need to realize that none of the above points are true. You are not a creep by approaching strangers, women love being approached if you bring them value. You do not condone rape by…
/r/seduction06/11/16 08:32 PM
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Cocky is trying to impress someone, confidence is basically cockiness without trying to impress anyone. 😄
/r/seduction06/11/16 07:11 PM
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Cocky is trying to impress someone, confidence is basically cockiness without trying to impress anyone. 😄
/r/seduction06/11/16 07:11 PM
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You can also go another way when you see her and say: "Just gotta check how my most favourite taco girl is doing." with a smile. Takes away any awkwardness l, also hers, and states your intent.
/r/seduction06/11/16 05:27 PM
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Depends. I'd go for maintaining original plans and act as if nothing happened. Remember, her behaviour doesnt affect your positive mood! :)
/r/seduction06/11/16 05:11 PM
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No you are!
/r/seduction06/11/16 05:08 PM
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Talk slow and soft 90% of the time and loud 10% of the time. Make pauses 5% of the time. Make dramatic pauses 2% of the time, it can also be overly dramatic, so that she knows you're screwing with her. She'll probably hit you on your arm for fun. :)
/r/seduction06/11/16 03:20 PM
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The tone of your post is douchey, yet, what you are saying, is correct. :D
/r/seduction06/11/16 03:17 PM
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Yes send her a message, say hi and later say that she intimidated you quite a bit checking you out like that and that she is such a savage. Dont say that in the first messages, build some rapport and comfort first.
/r/seduction06/11/16 03:15 PM
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Be upbeat, positive. If you see her, act like nothing happened, do some small talk and getting the taco, just say: "I'm sorry for not havinn textes you for so long, hope you didn't miss me too much!" with a smirk. If you don't see her, don't force it and maybe text her some days later with something funny, such as how she is going and if she has missed you a little. ;) Just dont be pissed, insecure, butthurt. Maybe she had a mood swing or her uncle had to go to the hospital, her ex told her she …
/r/seduction06/11/16 03:12 PM
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You need to arouse her a lot better. Sexual ambiguity etc. and escalate more bolder. If she rejecte your kiss stay physical, hold her arm, grab her hip with a cheeky smile and let go again. See what her reaction is. If she doesn't like it ask her why she doesn't like it. She'll probably tell you she doesn't feel it. That means that you didn't make a good enough connection and you didnt give her good enough emotional spikes with push and pull.
/r/seduction06/11/16 03:04 PM
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How can you be so stupid
/r/seduction06/11/16 02:58 PM
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No actionable advice here, I see only complaining. She likes you a lot ok. She would fuck you, but only if you can arouse her a lot. She is waiting for you to escalate on her, like a man. Little example, last week, my friend was out with a girl. They got along really well and were holding hands. Then they had a moment and she said, I won't kiss you now. He just grabbed her and kissed her and she said, wow she really loved that. She is just waiting for you to escalate. However, you need to be a s…
/r/seduction06/11/16 08:42 AM
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😄👏🏼👏🏼
/r/seduction05/11/16 02:04 PM
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I'm not a dickbag, I'm the cutest, most friendly guy! 🙊👻 Being a really nice guy and combine it with classic pua techniques, is the best game.
/r/seduction05/11/16 10:29 AM
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This is the go to material for that. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=V9owHXPPe_Q
/r/seduction05/11/16 09:36 AM
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Excellently calibrated push and pull. But it sound like your pushes and pulls are too hard and not calibrated well, so you basically are too sexual in your pulls and too harsh in your pushes. You need to be cuter, lighter, more fun.
/r/seduction05/11/16 09:35 AM
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You can use triage also for other three category systems in a broader sense! 😉 The original meaning of triage is to divide patiens in three categories.
/r/seduction05/11/16 09:32 AM
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Not true, field tested, try it out. ;)
/r/seduction05/11/16 09:25 AM
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Yes. No reason against it if youre not exclusive.
/r/seduction04/11/16 10:36 PM
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Dont worry, you have a good foundation now for confidence. Just like working on your body, you now need to work on your mind and confidence and there will be results. :)
/r/seduction04/11/16 09:00 PM
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Everytime I approached a girl in a public place, everyone who saw me was impressed, because they would never know how to do it. :)
/r/seduction04/11/16 06:39 PM
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Blablabla, just confirm Sunday like you said:" Alrighty, Sunday works 4pm then, I will see youu! 😉" She is probably also a bit weird not sure what to do, so she isnt texting much.
/r/seduction04/11/16 03:50 PM
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Whatt, so you are saying you dont like mee? I'm high maintenance, so please some more attention and heart emojis pls!!
/r/seduction04/11/16 01:18 PM
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Too reactive.
/r/seduction04/11/16 01:16 PM
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Right now she's looking for all reasons not to sleep with you, because she has lots of options and is really screening you if you are outcome independent and easy going or if you get pissed quickly and are insecure. This will often take weeks to complete. But let time work for you and let her do her tricks. Furthermore, instead of telling her that you will make her wet, tell her that it's not good for you two to go that fast. You should take it slow. Let her chase you and tease her about it. but…
/r/seduction04/11/16 01:15 PM
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Hit her up, but make her horny instead through teasing etc. :)
/r/seduction03/11/16 11:20 PM
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Ok cool! :)Good to hear that you used qualification. Sometimes, it's just not meant to be. :)
/r/seduction03/11/16 10:00 PM
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Haha really good and not easy situations you had. However, it looks like you're always making the same mistake. Your trying to qualify yourself instead of her qualifying to you. In the future, when you chat her up ask her something about the situation or just say Hi and wait for her to say something. Be upbeat and friendly. Then ask her what she is doing , whats she doing in her life. Once, you find some things intereting, then you can tell her she is cute and that you like her and that you shou…
/r/seduction03/11/16 08:57 PM
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Dont agree with your points, except for the kino one maybe haha. Looking away from eye contact can also mean her being shy, her being awwakrd. Shit tests arent her being a bitch but her testing how a man behave when a girls behaves like a bitch, if he gets defensive, angry, quiet or if he can escalate upon it/can create attraction upon it.
/r/seduction03/11/16 08:50 PM
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You did everything well, but I believe 2 crucial things that you missed: Qualification. Ask her why she is studying law, medicine, if she is a good student, what her hobbies are, if she's a good volleyball player. Showing her some real alphaness once or twice, being loud, making a huge push only to then resolve it saying it was a joke and hugging her telling her she is cute. Was my hunch correct? p.s. you dont have to "pass" any of the shittest. You can pour her tea in and do everything for her,…
/r/seduction03/11/16 08:12 PM
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Try qualification, p&p next time. Practice is king! ;)
/r/seduction03/11/16 04:01 PM
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25% is quite good then, but there's room for improvement. Are you using qualification, p&p, small,specific compliments well? This is pretty much my golden triage for a cold approach. :)
/r/seduction03/11/16 03:59 PM
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Say: "So everyone tells me your my bae. Whats up with that! " and pretend like she is your gf for fun. Tell her she is your gf now for today. Keep it super fun, this will help get rid of any insecurity, awkwardness. Then if she enjoys it, you can hold hands, kiss, make out etc. Women love a good role play, because it's not actually serious. :)
/r/seduction03/11/16 02:09 PM
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Because you could maintain a conversation, which is good, but you didn't create attraction or arousal. Next time, try qualification, show a little interest sexually and push and pull. 😉
/r/seduction03/11/16 02:06 PM
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I think Manson's way works really well, if you have a lot of experience, some status, financial security. You can just tell a girl whats up and lead the way. If you dont have all those things, and there is not so much intersting stuff about you (e.g. yoi are "just" a college student instead of a known artist) you need to be able to create interest, mystery, make the girl chase you. However, if you are a known artist, if you have status, money, and you are trying to add mystery, interet, it will …
/r/seduction03/11/16 02:04 PM
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Agree with all, except 4. If you know how to approach well, and make use of qualification, small compliments and some subtle push&pull, you can get 75% number closing rate, cold approach with no prior interest from the gyirl. Source me.
/r/seduction03/11/16 01:55 PM
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Maybe they are doing a polygamous relationship, which includes you as a secondary. That means, you can hang out with them if you want and have sex, but dont have much responsibilities. This also doesn't include guy on guy action normally, so I would try it out. Pretty interesting experience.
/r/seduction02/11/16 08:22 PM
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Maybe onset of depression, because you completely left your functioning social circle, friends and life? Go travel, sitting at home during gap year is not what gap year is for. 😉
/r/seduction02/11/16 08:20 PM
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Women always say they don't want to have sex. Just make out with her and say, oh we shouldnt do this. Finger her, then stop and say, we should take it slow. Let her suck your cock make her horny. Then she will want you inside of her. This is how she wants to be seduced. Make her so horny that you deserve sex, becauee of your skills. Women dont want to have sex with a man who cant make her horny. They want to have sex with a man, who can make her want to have sex, despite all the objections she g…
/r/seduction02/11/16 08:18 PM
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Sounds a lot like confirmation bias. Also, the sample size is really small. It could have been that you were pushy instead of having her convince you to have sex or 1 million other mistakes, or it could have been the dick picks. But saying it was the dick picks doesnt make sense. Again, confirmation bias.
/r/seduction02/11/16 08:14 PM
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Clickbait much? These are some pretty fundamental concepts in pickup. Not saying that the post is bad, it is a good reminder, however, title clickbait.
/r/seduction02/11/16 07:43 PM
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Um, the biggest puas, are all definitely NOT on the upper scale of looks. Mystery, neil strauss, rsdtyler all look weird and not good. Looks do matter, by they are one out of dozens of factors, so no point to worry about it.
/r/seduction02/11/16 02:53 PM
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Just tell her: "I always see you walking by, so what's your name. I'm kurocks! 😄" Very easy, light, fun. After she tells you her name, ask qualifying questions. If she says something fun, tell her: "Haha, you're cute! Lets do something sometime." She'll say:" Haha ok, like what" and you can say :" Ah dunno, we'll figure something out, whats ur number." Something along those lines. 😉
/r/seduction02/11/16 02:45 PM
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Just giving him your number is suboptimal, it makes it a bit awkward. Instead make it feel natural. Strike up a conversation with him after class, ask him something about the lecture, add him on facebook. This is really not so hard. Then, chat some more, go out with him, drinks, sex if you like him. You want him to work a bit to get you.
/r/seduction02/11/16 02:41 PM
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It's simple. If you have a lot of status, you dont need to do any game and get laid constantly. More so, if you have a lot of status, you cannot do much game, because it will seem weird and game-y. If you have little status, you need to have better game. The less status you have, the better game you need. The more status you have, the less game you need and the less game you are allowed to do.
/r/seduction02/11/16 09:41 AM
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Not good, even girls that are playing with the thought of a fbw, will turn it down once they are offered it. She first needs to like you and probably have sex with you and know that you are valuable enough , because you satisfy her sexual needs so well, that you dont also have to give her provider qualities as well in an exclusive relationship. For that reason, screening upfront doesnt make sense, she first needs to know your sexual qualities. Before that, 9 out of 10 girls who would have been u…
/r/seduction01/11/16 06:10 PM
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So what is the alternative. You loving her and her loving you, but you not taking it further?
/r/seduction01/11/16 03:33 PM
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Saying to take things slow, is almost the most powerful thing you can say to arouse a woman. It creates huge comfort in her and she needs to chase you, she needs to behave well to convince you, she needs to work for sex. Always say that you want to take things slow.
/r/seduction01/11/16 03:28 PM
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It's good that you do care about not spreading infections mindlessly. I can suggest you two options: 1: You can take Aciclovir for a few days, which prevents you from shedding the virus during that time. Not a long term solution though. 2: Just do nice things with her, cuddle, and make her so horny that she doesnt care about it. Horniness is just so much stronger in women than in men. When a woman is horny and if she likes you, she doesnt give a shit, but you have to get her there. Finger her, l…
/r/seduction01/11/16 10:30 AM
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Because you are really engaging with the girls you are not interested in, having actual conversations, giving her value, teasing her a little, joking, however, without flirting at all. This is part of "no game" and is very attractive to women, because she doesnt know if you even like her. Talk to the hottest girl you know normally, dont be afraid to have an actual conversation with her, tease, but dont flirt. This is very powerful. Once she starts showing more and more iois, you can start normal…
/r/seduction01/11/16 10:22 AM
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Yes, and you can do that without being a douche. If you're nice to her she won't feel bad about seeing you, maybe she'll even bring over a friend next time, because you're so uncomplicated. 😉 You can even apologize to her, for being a douche, and you didn't mean it and you think she is a really cute girl, while still maintaining the fbw status. It's just better. Been there, done that. The girl was a lot more open to me after telling her that I appreciated her, but that I just wasn't looking for …
/r/seduction01/11/16 10:16 AM
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You get LMR, because you're either not alpha enough or too alpha with too little comfort. It looks like the former because they tell you, you are too young. Try more alpha, fun, leading, but with more comfort as well next time.
/r/seduction31/10/16 10:36 PM
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No this sucks. 😄 Women chose the good bad boy over the asshole http://www.introvertedbadass.com/how-to-be-the-good-bad-boy/
/r/seduction31/10/16 10:33 PM
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Haha thx 😉
/r/seduction31/10/16 09:48 AM
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You have 2 options as a girl: Make him chase you. Make him hot, get naked touch his D, let him touch your P. If you're a good cock sucker, give him a taste of that good soft tongue action. But when it comes to sex, give him some classic LMR. Tell him, you're not sure etc., you know what I mean. Then ask him, what he's looking for and that you're not looking just for sex. Go see him and ask him what he's looking for and that you're not looking for sex. Number 1. sounds like more fun, but is also …
/r/seduction30/10/16 10:23 PM
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How does it work, I mean if you ask a girl for netflix and chill she knows whats up. Is that something that you ask 10 girls and 1 says yes? 😄
/r/seduction30/10/16 10:06 PM
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She really likes you, esecially because you have huge pre-selection by her 2 gfs. Tell her to study again at her house and seduce her while studying to sex. She will love it. 😊👍🏻
/r/seduction30/10/16 11:27 AM
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Most welcome. :)
/r/seduction29/10/16 10:47 PM
1

Makes sense, but a woman wants a man who can arouse her and who is very valuable. To get that across in a subtle way, is not easy. f If you can do that very well, meaning you have excellent game and can arouse her quickly, you can do that in 5 mins. If you are not that valuable and your game is not as strong, it takes longer.
/r/seduction29/10/16 02:54 PM
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Too long and not exciting to a woman. Hey, I just saw you on Tinder. Why you on there, you're way too cute with your insert small compliment. 😁 Then you need to banter back and forth and once you feel like you have a connection suggest a meet. This is how you do it.
/r/seduction29/10/16 02:51 PM
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No that one's too dark. Keep it light and giddy. :) Report back with results!
/r/seduction29/10/16 12:40 PM
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If she's already into you, the likelihood of increasing thag feeling with more text is below 10%. Thus, dont text and meet up. Maybe do one funny line but then directly take action. Women dont like it when the guy takes ages to take action. Tell her:" Lets go ... this week. 😁" When she likes it, ask her when she's free and set a time and date.
/r/seduction29/10/16 12:19 PM
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Hm, It looks like you need to tune up the alphaness somewhat. I made this little escalation ladder for you, which communicates to her instincts. That way, it's easier for her to break out of the professionalism and to see you not only as her student but as a male. The thing is dont overdo it, otherwise her professionalism will kick back in and block everything off. You want to be subtle with these. However, firstly you want to establish some superiority. A good and subtle way to do this is to sa…
/r/seduction29/10/16 12:15 PM
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She wanted to see if by rejcting you, you will become insecure or if you'll keep gaming her like a real man! Women are like that.
/r/seduction29/10/16 11:18 AM
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Oh, I just needed more attention from you Clarissa(or whatever her name is). I'm high maintenance you know 😁 Then afterwards you can keep playing the attention card, she needs to take you out, impress you, buy you gifts. Basically, you behave like a woman that wants to be chased, in a joking way of course. Perfect. 😉
/r/seduction29/10/16 11:16 AM
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Really likes it. There are some small exceptions, however, that are useful to know in specific situations. In some instances gossiping over an annoying person can create rapport with a girl. You can only do that very sparingly though. Example: Muttering "Seriously" when the annoying person was annoying just now while making brief eye contact with your girl. When she agrees and starte gossiping a little, you can add your 2 cents but then say "ok, enough gossiping now!" Will put you in the positio…
/r/seduction29/10/16 09:51 AM
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QUA-LI-FI-CA-TION my friend. The second sentence should already be a qualifying question, you can even open with that. Hey, you look like from around here. Do you know your way around here. Whats the best bar here. No that one is not so good I have to tell you. This one is much better. Lets go there What do you do, why. Why did you study medicine, why do you want to be a doctor. Do you wanna help people, or are you interested in the medical part. Why do you play volley ball, are you like a balls…
/r/seduction26/10/16 08:23 PM
1

It sounds like your health is currently more important than approaching women. You can still approah girls, but make your main priority your health, not the girls. ;)
/r/seduction26/10/16 07:01 PM
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Dont think of what to talk about. You can talk about the most mundane thing, it's HOW you talk. Your conversation should also consist of around 30% qualification in the beginning at least. Your entire conversation can also be qualification, when you ask her about her life and why she does this and that. Then escalate as follows: Normal conversation with qualification. Make her laugh, push and pull! Kino Eye Contact Sexual ambiguity, using the words thick, strong etc. in normal words and see how …
/r/seduction26/10/16 07:00 PM
1

If it's longer than 5h, youre not good enough at either building comfort or attraction or the logistics are not right.
/r/seduction24/10/16 12:32 PM
1

Play around with it. Say if its her fantasy seducing a gay guy. if she has ever sucked the dick of a gay guy, if she can teach you because you've never been with a girl 😉
/r/seduction24/10/16 12:30 PM
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Not good advice here. There are three options: Say she should fuck him. Why she would fuck him, let her convince you why she wants to fuck him. How she would fuck him, what she would do with his cock. If she will give him a sloppy blowjob or an innocent one. Your girl sounds like she's sexually very confident and wants someone who is not uncomfortable with sex. If you lead her well and ask her all these questions, it will be an amazing fantasy that you build for her. Funnily enough, even though …
/r/seduction24/10/16 10:41 AM
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Haha awesome. Tell her that you didnt want to tell her but she took your virginity and then talk about it. Talk about your insecurity and how you didnt know what to do her and there. Do not say how hot you found her. It will be an experience to her and will leave a fun impression in her mind instead of awkward. Furthermore, keep chatting to her as a friend and learn from her, get to know her friends. It's completely ok if you put her in the teachers role and yourself in the students one. This is…
/r/seduction21/10/16 11:49 PM
0

Approach less, 20/month instead 100/month. and focus on inner game and improving your life in general.
/r/seduction21/10/16 06:38 PM
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Babysteps. Normal conversation Kino Sexual ambiguity, using the words thick, strong etc. in normal words and see how she reacts If yes, escalate More Kino, more escalation The final stage is to tell her that she'd really want your cock in her mouth right now if you habe established superiority and comfort This can happen all in 5 minutes or in 5h depening on the girl and your game. 💪🏻👍🏻👍🏻😊
/r/seduction21/10/16 06:36 PM
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If you can be boring and still get laid, its because you let the girls chase you and your presence and game is strong enough to do less game. So, if your game is good, you can let the girls invest more and let them entertain you. If. :)
/r/seduction21/10/16 07:48 AM
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This wont change with you having more muscle. You might be even less confident because you will have all that muscle but will still feel insecure. That doesnt mean that working out and muscle is bad. You just seem to overestimate its impact.
/r/seduction21/10/16 07:47 AM
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Dont ask for hookup, ask to do something together and seduce her again. 😉
/r/seduction21/10/16 07:45 AM
1

Ask her some interesting questions about art. First, ask a lighter question about art, then start qualifying her about art she has made. Be interested and ask questions about her art. Then, ask why she isn't making art anymore and why and that she should definitely make her own art again. That way, you have an actual interesting conversation, came from a place of value and you taught her something. After that, you can try to escalate slowly with eye contact and maybe Kino and see how she respond…
/r/seduction21/10/16 07:44 AM
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Awesome, awesome, awesome. Those things were top notch: Telling her that she looked you up. This makes you the prize her the chaser. Perfect. Showing her the magic trick. Girls love, love that. She is now thinking about you day and night. Now, you can wait for another few days and if nothing comes from her even better. This allows you to reslly lead. Women often become really passive to see if the guy is serious and how he handles the passiveness (does he become needy etc.) If this happens, you …
/r/seduction19/10/16 09:11 PM
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What I can say is that, you want to go with indirect openers. More specifically, ask her if you can take turns on the machine, because if you say shes cute or make a compliment, it will come off as weird most of the time. Then strike up a conversation, qualify her and then you can get her number!
/r/seduction19/10/16 08:06 AM
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I see I see, sounds a bit weird though. If you have value to give, give value. If you are not sure that you have value to give, you ask for permission first. Give value loud and proud, IF have value to give. Maybe give a small and relevant excerpt of the link and then the link. That wouldnt make it spammy, but boss. :)
/r/seduction18/10/16 11:50 AM
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Had this happen to me before. Just state your intent saying:" Ah, I really want you for myself tomorrow ;)" She'll appreciate your honesty and if she isn't interested sexually, she will let you know as well. Win-Win.
/r/seduction18/10/16 08:47 AM
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She might think, it's awkward if you ask her out "officially". That's why I suggest you do it either casually, so that she doesnt think it's an official date or you need to do it jokingly, "Careful, careful girl. If we keep having so much fun, I'll have to ask you out/I'll take you for a walk in the city! " This also gets her fantasy going, because you didn't ask her fully out, she still has to do some of the work to make the date.
/r/seduction18/10/16 07:32 AM
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Dont ask him if he wants the links, just post it. 😄
/r/seduction18/10/16 07:28 AM
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wtf, why did it get downvoted to hell. I said what the second highest comment said. This is a really good tease, not too cocky, not too boring. You need to say it confidently of course, not with a twitchy face.??
/r/seduction17/10/16 07:55 AM
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Haha she negged you! Now you need to sleep with her to get your validation back. It was a good neg though, without assholhery or negativity even. 🙈🙈
/r/seduction16/10/16 08:51 PM
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Maternal isn't the right word, she just cares for you. Cares for you as a person. That means she likes you. Great basis for starting something with her .👍🏻😄
/r/seduction16/10/16 08:48 PM
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You need to push back a little next time. Oh we should take it a bit slow, its going a bit fast!😊 Read the Sex God Method, it explains how to talk to a girl during seduction.
/r/seduction16/10/16 08:05 PM
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Tease her, but in a friendly way, for example: Tell her you like her, when she does something funny or cute: " haha, i think i like you :)", but then say that you shouldnt flirt so much in mma class and that you should keep it professional. Take it from there 😉 Edit: Keep iT professional
/r/seduction16/10/16 07:57 PM
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Talk to other girls, that you know, you've actually met.
/r/seduction16/10/16 08:26 AM
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Just say hi to her and say something like: "So I feel like there is quite a connection between us hm (..pause, maybe ahe she says yes or smiles now, wait if she does that, but maybe she doesnt), so I have been thinking maybe we should get a coffee somewhere else.
/r/seduction16/10/16 08:09 AM
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P&P is good for daygame and night game, not so much for social circle, including work. If you are working at a bar however or something similar, you can do a lighter version of it. "haha, i like you" "ah you're cute" (when she says something cute) (pull), "can you stop being so cute please!" (push). Like I said, only use use light versions. If she reacts positively, you can escalate the p&p. :)
/r/seduction15/10/16 10:55 PM
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Turn up the push and pull, stronger pull "oh damn I think I really, reallly like you" and stronger push "but we cant be together, you're probably too much trouble for me, I'm more of a shy guy" They love that shit. 😄 Club game is quite the opposite to social circle, where you're rather laid back and friendly. However, in club game, there really is negging, huge cockiness, maybe even douchbagginess, asshole for fun. Those behaviours would destroy your social circle game, but they are required in …
/r/seduction15/10/16 10:33 PM
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Stay after the lesson and see if you can fuck her in the classroom. 😄. Maybe with some light Kino and some light flirting, you will see pretty fast how she responds. The situation teacher/student is very hot for a woman already, so you have built a lot of attraction already, now just need to escalate!
/r/seduction15/10/16 11:51 AM
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Of course you should, if you dont get a no, she is interested but tentative 😉
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:03 AM
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No problem. Regarding, it not being a good idea getting intimate while drunk if you like each other, not true at all. Just go for it, enjoy the moment, no one cares. 🙈 Regarding, she probably flaked because she felt insecure, because you felt insecure about the whole interaction. If you ask her out without insecurity, she will be much more comfortable. You didn't lead well enough. If you were sure that night to take her home, you would have succeeded. Your game is really good with her, you just …
/r/seduction13/10/16 08:48 PM
1

You can also be creepy if you're handsome. Then you'll be like the kidnapper from Taken who is 28y old, seducing girls at the airport to the party, but actually kidnapping them. You're less likely to be creepy, but if you're doing it wrong you can still be creepy quickly.
/r/seduction13/10/16 07:32 AM
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Now you have a hot friend who has 5 other, probably even hotter friends. Befriend her, hang out with her and get to know her friends. Social circle game my friend.
/r/seduction13/10/16 07:08 AM
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Haha ok, then call her. Try a couple of times. When she picks up be upbeat positive and if she asks why have you been calling me all the time if she's annoyed say: "Ahh, I need to check on my cute M&M partner in crime hahaa! What are you up to." and take it from there. She'll have forgotten everything after 5 seconds. Report back to us with results pls! :)
/r/seduction12/10/16 09:34 PM
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Women will never talk to you first, maybe once in a blue moon. If you say what's going on with a smirk, you take the lead of the "game" and put them in the qualifying position. They need to come up with something interesting and you can keep qualifying them after, making you the prize. :)
/r/seduction12/10/16 03:30 PM
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Simply ignore the last text, no need to lie. Just try again, most girls give you a chance again, also they sometimes forget.
/r/seduction12/10/16 01:51 PM
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I think this is a bit silly, not alpha enough. It sounds like you're not clear about your intentions and then it's clear that she doesnt comply. What about using some kind of cavemen style when she feels like fizzling out, going all in instead of lukewarm reaching out. : "Mhmm Anna, I want to meet you, because your tiger eyes are so sexy!!" (insert own callback humour compliment) If she still doesnt like it use some cocky/sexualization:"But then you'll never have me caress/slap your tiger ass!
/r/seduction11/10/16 10:15 PM
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This is a whole chapter for itself, google some material online, but teasing her, not giving her attention all the time is a good start.
/r/seduction11/10/16 09:26 PM
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Make her chase you, tease her a little, give her not as much attention anymore,wait 3 h to respond once or twice. 👍🏻👍🏻😄
/r/seduction11/10/16 07:06 PM
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I've been thinking about this. So there was a study with 3,000 couples and 60% of the couples were unhappy with their relationship. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1282851/Six-10-couples-unhappy-relationship.html So, in 60% of the cases, getting with a girl in a relationship is the thing to do. This way, you give her alternatives, make it easier for her to break up, even though you might not be the guy she will be together with subsequently. You prevent her from wasting years in a relati…
/r/seduction11/10/16 07:02 PM
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This is how we do, report back with the results. ;)
/r/seduction11/10/16 06:28 PM
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You're not allowed to complain before youve done 100 approaches. ;) Cold approaching is inherently creepy and it takes some good framing to make it a positive experience. But every girl dreams of a guy noticing her randomly and sweeping her of her feet, if he has good game. ;)
/r/seduction11/10/16 05:49 PM
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Dont wait for the next party. Get her number facebook whatever, say Kayyyyylaa and tell her to go somewhere. She already let you know she wants to sleep with you, so be a man, lead and close the deal. ;)
/r/seduction11/10/16 05:46 PM
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It sounds like she already has all the validation she wants. Make her chase you a little bit, tease her. It should be pretty easy because she alrdy likes you.
/r/seduction11/10/16 05:35 PM
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Yes, that's because you're not in your 40s. If you're in your 30s, 20s, then cheekiness is even mandatory. For guys in their 40, it is out of place because at that age, it is low value to a girl if a 47u old guy needs to be cocky. At this point, they expect him to be able to impress with his experience, maturity, because if he cant, whats the point of dating an "old guy".
/r/seduction11/10/16 05:31 PM
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What you're considering a "fuck it" text is a text that is good game, calibrated and alpha. You cant extrapolate that to all guys that when they think "fuck it", they should send the text. This will be bad more often than it will be good, so not good advice.
/r/seduction11/10/16 05:27 PM
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So you're telling at the 19y olds who have no game and are not getting any girls to send exactly what they are thinking? The thing is their texts really suck. The thing is that you already have good game and are probably alpha, so any time you think fuck it, the text is already good. Not the case with guys with bad game, where they are too needy or behave like an idiot. Fuck it texts might be ok 10% of the time, but fuck up the whole interaction with the girl 90% of the time.
/r/seduction11/10/16 05:25 PM
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The difference of your game to game of guusy in their 20s is that you need to be less direct. This means that you can't walk up to a 20y old and tell her she's cute or make her a compliment, as the current stigma is that old guys hitting on young girls are creeps. You can still open hot 20y olds though. To do this, indirect openers are your strategy. Ask her about the time, directions. But as soon as you're being a bit cheeky already, they will block off pretty fast. What you need to do is QUALI…
/r/seduction11/10/16 02:50 PM
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You could have said: "So what's going. :)" with a smirk on your face. Puts them into having to say something now and you can start qualifying them what they're doing here, why, and how is the high point of their evening talking to you now. ;) You don't have to say something cool, you're the prize, they have to say something cool.
/r/seduction11/10/16 11:21 AM
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So if you say that you miss her, because you feel like it, you should just send it. If you say that she is so beautiful, or that she better come see you or else you will slap her butt even though she is a shy girl and you have little comfort with her, you should just send it. You can't just break the rules that seduction is based on, just because fuck it. You need to think about what you're writing and if it fits the current situation. Fuck it, has very little effect on getting girls, writing th…
/r/seduction11/10/16 09:35 AM
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Then you are not playing the game. You need to have the patience to play the game. Your game is already good in person, but you need to keep persisting through text. My game is really strong, I've had 100+ dates. However, sometimes I still need to text a girl for a whole week, write 100s of text message to her, be funny, teasing, qualifying, build enough comfort to set up a date. Sometimes, I only have to write 10 msgs, sometimes 100s. This is the game. :)
/r/seduction11/10/16 08:32 AM
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All you said there is wrong. Girls behave like this to see if you really mean it and if you behcome butthurt fast, because they cant stand that. You should have said something like: "Busy? But then you can't meet your most favourite photo both guy, quite a dilemma!"
/r/seduction10/10/16 11:12 PM
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Haha ok, I have been there too when I was starting out. Then, you have an inner game issue. This means, get an education, get a mission, work out, get a social circle, a cool hobby, build yourself intellectually, build a life that you like. This will take several years, so put your focus now on inner game instead of outer game. You can still start some outer game again after a couple of months, but start slowly.
/r/seduction09/10/16 02:00 PM
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You're wrong, the law says otherwise if you read my above excerpt.
/r/seduction09/10/16 11:14 AM
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Why is it illegal? Under the Texas penal code, it is a crime to intercept or record any “wire, oral, or electronic communication” unless one party to the conversation consents. Interestingly enough, this includes you if you are a party to the conversation and the one doing the recording.
/r/seduction09/10/16 10:32 AM
1

You're older than me, nice to meet you. Fuck. Haha! 😄😄
/r/seduction09/10/16 10:31 AM
1

Ask her about the videogames and defend your point of view really strong, involve her in a conversation and have her defend her standpoint, critisize her. Research the pros of videogames of course, better than TV, good for cognitive skills etc. Hot women are nit used to being disagreed with. However, if someone does in a classy way, and challenges her, they are getting horny. Stay friendly, fun of course during the argumennt.
/r/seduction09/10/16 10:27 AM
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It could be that you are only nice, but not assertive, exciting, a bit cocky. Mix in some assertiveness, slight cockiness in your next sets, tease the girls in a charming way and see the results. 👍🏻👍🏻 You can still be nice, but you need to mix in the above.
/r/seduction09/10/16 10:14 AM
1

Hey, are you a new mod? I've seen you more often over the last couple of days and just wanted to say that the advice you give is really good! 😊👍🏻
/r/seduction08/10/16 09:50 PM
1

Um, you need to walk up to a woman and talk to her, a woman will never walk up to you and start a conversation.
/r/seduction08/10/16 09:37 PM
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This works through implicity. Use words that can be used ij a sexual context in non-sexual contexts. Hey, do you want a thick Kiwi? Um, I gues haha. I know you'd like that. Eh, what do you mean? Nothing, just that you like a good Kiwi, a girl with class deserves a good Kiwi for sure. As yiu can see, this includes a bit of escalation, and works well with playing really innocent. Make it clear that you're being playful of course.
/r/seduction08/10/16 09:35 PM
1

You also dont HAVE to bring it up if you can build sexual tension well. This works throuhg good KINO, eye contact and pauses, try it out.
/r/seduction08/10/16 09:32 PM
1

Haha, sounds like a plan! 😄👍🏻👍🏻
/r/seduction08/10/16 07:17 PM
1

I mostly agree, however, girls can be smitten and swoon over a guy, only by his appeareance and seeing him once. Much less frequently than men though.
/r/seduction08/10/16 07:04 PM
1

You seem to worry about one very little aspect of game - polarizing. This won't get you anywhere. Women dont care about what you write, but how you are. So stop beating around the bush, have a small conversation with them, tease them a little and tell them that maybe we should go eat an ice cream this week with a little smirk on your face.
/r/seduction08/10/16 07:01 PM
1

Yes, night game is the complete opposite of day game pretty much. 😄 While in day game, you need to be friendly, non-threatening and the max you do is a bit of teasing, in night game you can pull all the rsd, pua shit and neg frequently. So yes, different games.
/r/seduction08/10/16 06:57 PM
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Redpill is focused so much on not taking shit from a woman, all women are the same, all women look for status, only look out for their own good and will cheat as soon as she meets a more alpha man, only fuck the alpha males. Sometimes, these concepts apply, however, they are 10 times less important to game than redpill wants to have it and there severly confirmation bias in all those concepts. Furthermore, those mindsets create so little attraction and pale in comparison with being playful, funn…
/r/seduction06/10/16 11:09 PM
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I tried redpill and the results are just a lot worse than seddit. The only things that are useful in redpill are in seduction as well. The other stuff will make your game really bad, not fun to be around, hard to talk to, women will feel that something is off about you in a nutshell.
/r/seduction06/10/16 04:56 PM
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Dude, let go of all the negativity that comes from her. This is standard for a woman to do, to see if you still can make it happen. Just tell her to meet up and if she asks why, say because you're bad 😁. Women do love the bad boy at times. :) And keep that frame, but actually stay really nice, but make her horny, say you shouldn't do this, but then still do it, push and pull. She's yours.
/r/seduction06/10/16 09:02 AM
1

She's telling you to seduce her so that she can let go of her bf. Keep it fun, tell her to meet. Maybe she will change her mind so if she flakes stop all contact.
/r/seduction05/10/16 07:22 PM
1

Make a follow up post in 2 months with the results. 👍🏻
/r/seduction05/10/16 06:52 PM
2

Your looks have potential. You could look like Mark Ruffalo, but right now you look like Raj from Big Bang theory. Work out, wear some suits, look more badass (while still not taking yourself too serious) and take some better pictures.👍🏻
/r/seduction05/10/16 01:45 PM
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Not really, a little teasing is absolutely required, women expect if from you if they are supposed to give you their number. This is not being an asshole at all.
/r/seduction05/10/16 01:42 PM
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Makes you sound butthurt, reactive and decreases your value. Sounds like redpill.
/r/seduction03/10/16 06:08 PM
1

You did ok, if you're not jealous, she might think she's lower value than you and make her chase you, possibly. You can also ask her the next time of you should help her if she's too nervous to seduce her crush. This will definitely increase your value without you being an asshole, so she will still like you. 😉
/r/seduction03/10/16 06:06 PM
1

Qualification my friend. :) Ask her what she does here in the city or what brings her here. Whenever she says lawyer, doctor, etc, you can ask her, ahh, so are you a good lawyer, doctor etc., can i trust you when i need legal help! with a smirk on your face. That whole thing has to be fun Then you tease her if she also has hobbies and why she does that hobby, all in a qualifying frame. You need to learn banter, how to make her laugh, tease her(dont neg). At the same time, it helps being a bit co…
/r/seduction03/10/16 05:59 PM
1

You can say, ah we can just meet like that and run really good game at her and make her horny. Only works, if you have strong game though 😄
/r/seduction03/10/16 05:45 PM
1

Great, and don't be afraid to escalate if you like her, step by step. Girls expect you to, and they really appreciate it if you do it a bit smooth. 😉
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:27 AM
1

Agreed, but most of the time, it takes around a week, from a girl to snag a date. They're all kind of busy and if you keep pushing to hard for tomorrow, can come off as pushy. But props to OP to get the date tomorrow, please report back with results. 😊 👍🏻
/r/seduction02/10/16 08:25 AM
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Good advice, but ask her out in the next 3 days, otherwise ot will fizzle out. hey, lets get some ice cream next week 😉 should do the trick, the lighter the suggestion the better. Keep it simple. On the date, try to find out about her, and don't qualify yourself all the time. You're the buyer, not the seller 😉
/r/seduction01/10/16 08:08 PM
1

Do you mean when they gave you a look and smile in passing in public places? I find that hard to believe. How did it happen what did she say. Encounters, where she was already talking to you in a store etc. don't count. From my approx. 300 encounters on the street, a random girl giving me a look and smile in passing in public places, never walked up to me and started a conversation.
/r/seduction01/10/16 06:17 PM
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I disagree with this. A girl will never walk up to you by herself, too much chance od rejection awkwardness. It has never happened all the ~300 times a girl look/smiled at me, so the chance is probably below 1% and several hundred encounters is a good sample size. So, why don't you just walk over to any girl that looks at you and ask her, hey what's up. You don't literally need to approach any girl If she's not your type at all. Also, it doesn't have to be a date, just a friendly conversation an…
/r/seduction01/10/16 01:50 PM
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Difficult situation, I think in order to handle it, you need to tell both girls that you are dating them. I think one of them will ask you about it and at that point, I would get the other one in and talk to them both at the same time. This could go like this: "Look I just want to let you guys both know that I have also been seeing the other girl, just that you are informed, because I don't want to play any tricks behind your backs." I think they both will be a bit intrigued, but also a bit angr…
/r/seduction30/09/16 03:34 PM
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Ok 😅
/r/seduction28/09/16 10:02 PM
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Um no, also not my field report!
/r/seduction28/09/16 10:02 PM
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Hm, I don't see that one working as a tease, too strong. She won't feel insecure, but so many guys have given her a corny line to the favt that she is a model, where she had to laugh awkwardly to play nice. Maybe if he has bantered with her for 10 minutes then yes. It's still quite a reactive comeback though, what is she supposed to say? "Before haha?"...awkward, this is too often a dead end. Qualifying her gives you a lot more opportunites. Are you a good model, how do I know you're a good mode…
/r/seduction28/09/16 07:16 PM
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This is a "neg" old school game style, which are corny make you sound like an idiot more often than not. Also, this one is too literal, as if you were waiting for the audience to laugh. There are much better responses than this.
/r/seduction28/09/16 06:49 PM
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No worries, report back with results pls! 😊
/r/seduction28/09/16 05:10 PM
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Alright, go for it. I think you can't really lose then. If you go for it, and she feels weird about it, which she probably will, you can just maintain a slightly cocky/teasing attitude and not become insecure or embarassed. Once she notices that you are not uncomfortable but comfortable, she will become comfortable.
/r/seduction28/09/16 03:20 PM
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Ok, but if you have not made a move in several weeks/months, you should warm her up a little bit with some teasing. When she does some teasing back then you can transition into flirting and then making a move is just natural. Dont make making a move a big deal either, it should just go with the flow.
/r/seduction28/09/16 02:00 PM
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No, I'm a guy with a few years in pu/seduction. The concept I'm talking about is investment. You always want a girl to invest in you and not be the one investing all the time. Regarding your friendzone question, you can potentially not make a move on a girl for years and keep her in the "does he like me" zone while still maintaining attraction. For this however, you need to keep on teasing her, be a bit cocky while being nice and hanging out with her. If you are good however, at one point she wi…
/r/seduction28/09/16 01:02 PM
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In this case, her having to work for him to make a move was stronger than him not making a move. In her mind, he wasn't really interested at first, but the conversation etc. made him interested. Make the girl work for you! 😉
/r/seduction28/09/16 12:18 PM
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On blowjob in the park? This is a field report that outlines it quite well haha. Got a blowjob in the middle of a public park yesterday on this chicks lunch/dinner break (which she was late returning from). Matched this chick on tinder, I say my usual crazy stuff to get the spark in the conversation and make it in fun and interesting she's loving it. Eventually tells me works dragging on and whatnot. Asked each other what the other did for work blablabla. So I travel to different construction si…
/r/seduction28/09/16 11:58 AM
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Very good job for approaching her. I saw you did not do several things which are absolutely crucial to get a solid number. Qualification: So what do you do? I'm a model. Ah really, so are you a good model. - The point is, let her qualify in a fun way. You can use this structure for anything, are you a good lawyer, nurse, doctor etc. Tease her a little bit. This can start from the qualification question above. Small, specific, personal compliment instead of huge all-encompassing compliment. Sayin…
/r/seduction27/09/16 10:50 PM
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