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Plenty_good_stuff/r/askTRP23/03/21 11:16 PM
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Plenty_good_stuff/r/askTRP13/06/21 07:29 PM
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no hun, we know. the hunter knows his prey better than the prey knows itself.
/r/askTRP27/01/22 03:23 PM
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not really. men are mistaken when they are seeking partners and end up disappointed. women on the other hand are looking for a superior and a master (hypergamy). modern women's ego is what is preventing them from submitting. in that case they can either find a grown up man and have him call her mommy, or live alone.
/r/askTRP27/01/22 03:04 PM
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i wish you the best. keep moving forward. resilience is at the core of masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/21 11:44 AM
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i'd add a simple mental reframe that'll help a lot. You are the main character. She's a secondary, supporting character in your story. That is the role of the female.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 01:32 AM
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i disagree man. i used to think that way, trying to change my personality in order to engage women more. I call it clown game. I used to have a friend who was good at that and i didn't have much success with it. Things changed when i actually embraced who i am, a stoic, condescending, not very talkative, macho, misogynistic, borderline jerk. The difference though, i have a natural propensity to lead. Hell I once got a chick in a club by telling her that I'm a sultan and that she should obey me i…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 01:18 AM
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dudes that wait until they become are basically drawing a target on their backs for predatorial women. they're sitting ducks.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 01:02 AM
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that's deep man. but i understand your plight. I had the realization a while back that to be alpha i had to be myself. I was quite forced to do that because i literally developed health problems trying to accommodate a mould that was made for me. It's an identity crisis you are going through. I don't know if therapists are helpful but there has to be lots of continuous soul searching. And even if you figure out your path, there is going to be tons of external resistance (family, friends, exes, s…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 12:57 AM
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i agree, you are the point of origin and reality is a reflection of your inner world. google Steve Jobs and the reality distortion field. narcissists and cult leaders nail that.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 12:50 AM
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i'm not disputing your conclusion as it is wise. however what you should understand is that she was a firecracker waiting to explode. if you had the intention of wifing up this chick (or any chick for that matter) you have to keep her in a traditional frame (albeit a less restrictive one), and not "liberate her". liberating people seems to be a western obsession and it always backfires from the looks of it. in any case, you had no kids with her, hope she did not take any assets. you'll just have…
/r/askTRP25/06/21 09:54 PM
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people impose respect differently and the method you use depends on the context. some are vocal and call people out, some just have a detached aloof, condescending silence speak for them. In any case, they feel a hole in your frame and just like women they are shit testing you. bullies have bitchy/childish energy. as such treat them as if they were women or children. how would you respond then?
/r/askTRP25/06/21 03:38 PM
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i think guys should stop offering LTR or any form of commitment to women that don't qualify. relationship discussions are the prerogative of females. she should bring it up, she should lobby for it and she should go through the hoops to qualify for it. as for wifey, if she ain't virgin (plus a list of other very important qualities) then she's disqualified for being a wife. girls like that are for recreational use only, don't catch the feels.
/r/askTRP25/06/21 03:35 PM
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facts
/r/askTRP25/06/21 03:30 PM
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this lady sounds like a headache and like someone that is uncapable to submit to, respect or follow a man. not wife material, not LTR material. she can be liberated and empowered alone with her cats (and keep her last name). If she got booty potential, then he should downgrade her to plate status.
/r/askTRP25/06/21 03:29 PM
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yeah, sounds like she swallowed the feminist indoctrination pill.
/r/askTRP25/06/21 03:20 PM
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bro i knew where this was going when i read this "a way to get this girl out of her crazy & oppressive family". It tells me a lot about your mindset. Families are "crazy and oppressive" for this exact same reason. It's probably the most likely way to curb a women's hypergamous and slutty instincts. Then all you described is basically "pumping" the girl up. You're pumping her SMV, pumping her ego, pumping her options and lo' and behold, when you slip up and can no longer provide for her lifestyle…
/r/askTRP25/06/21 03:08 PM
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I'm a younger man and dated women above 30 and 35 (tight women of course). They are basically the same. I used to think that older women are more mature, and to some extent it is true. There are realizing that their SMV has decreased and thus try to make up for it in other areas, especially less drama. But essentially they are the same as their hotter, younger counterparts. Women mature faster than men, but their maturity is capped. It reaches16 years old or 18 years at most, and then it locks r…
/r/askTRP25/06/21 02:59 PM
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you care too much, and you apologized.
/r/askTRP25/06/21 02:53 PM
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buddy. again, i would love to agree with you, but i just know too much and i've witnessed too much. I've been constantly been hit on by married women. Just the other day I was flirting and exchanged numbers with a girl that had a boyfriend that came to pick her up after she was spending time with me. That muslim chick with the veil and the pious look, she's a freak selling purity. That innocent looking chick with the cute smile, she's been passed around. That girl that claims that she's a virgin…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:19 AM
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i would agree with you, but i won't. there are tons of conditions and externalities to be in place for a woman to be worthy of companionship and even then your game and frame have to be on point. It takes a village to raise a kid, and it takes that same village to keep a woman in check.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 01:32 AM
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that's normal in the beginning. A philosopher once said "the more i understand women, the less i respect them" to which i'd add "the less i respect them, the more success i have with them". sad, but hey
/r/askTRP20/06/21 01:28 AM
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i agree with that
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:57 PM
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actual advice, thx
/r/askTRP14/06/21 11:59 AM
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amen, but some folks still have problems accepting that
/r/askTRP29/05/21 11:12 PM
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All girls take work regardless of how they look. but hey, if you enjoy being ripped off financially, pay your way into pussy and be an obedient pet then go ahead, be my guest.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 11:11 PM
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buddy, i said it 80% of men are beta or have severe beta traits. beta has nothing to do with your looks or status. beta or alpha is how you relate to the opposite gender as well as the characteristics you should have as a masculine man. i mean you're on TRP and don't even understand that yet?Did i say OP should stop pursuing women? We just advised him to be careful to not be classified as beta bucks by the woman. meaning he should not exhibit beta traits and behaviors (like simping, playing it s…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 10:40 PM
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buddy, bill gates is beta bucks, elon musk is beta bucks, almost all billionaires are beta bucks. most guys in my social circles, clients and associates are beta bucks. 99% of computer nerds an science nerds are beta bucks. simps that throw money at women for no reason and thinking that it will magically make them like them are beta bucks. beta bucks are 80% of male population regardless of income. betas don't stand a chance in the dating pool without a combination of cash and semi-decent looks,…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 09:52 PM
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high smv chicks are always seen with nerds and beta bucks. Evan Spiegel and Miranda Kerr is just one example.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 09:32 PM
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please read what i said well, i said a "quality sucker". it's a guy with money and status, but stupid and no game. hence a sucker. that would be the equivalent of beta bucks. only a beta bucks would fall for the "i'm not like that, let's take it slow" ploy. alpha bucks (yes i said bucks with "b") won't wait.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 03:34 PM
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yeah. it seems women are incapable of feeling compassion towards men, and if they do they lose respect and therefore attraction. you simply gotta win man. thanks
/r/askTRP29/05/21 11:42 AM
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make her believe that you are the highest status man she can obtain, and make her feel comfortable that you’re going to stick around and provide for her and her offspring. I disagree with the second part. comfort breeds contempt. it seems women are incapable of being content and the moment you lose your ability to get other pussy (or portray your ability to attract and exercise options) she loses respect, get sloppy, gets fat and simply becomes a pain in the ass. i think women are not really afr…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 11:38 AM
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it's about power
/r/askTRP29/05/21 11:20 AM
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she's still hung up on her ex. also why are you listening to her stories about her ex? are you her therapist?
/r/askTRP29/05/21 11:19 AM
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it can be one of two: low interest shit test (plausible deniability) if it's a shit test, escalate. if it's low interest, don't waste your time or part with your money. can't tell from here, but her general vibe and subtle cues when you were interacting would set up the tone of the interaction. what was the vibe like?
/r/askTRP29/05/21 11:12 AM
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are you talking about Karl Marx'?
/r/askTRP29/05/21 11:07 AM
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can you elaborate on your first paragraph "chasing-flow-state".
/r/askTRP29/05/21 11:05 AM
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just a few weeks ago this bitch at the gym, wasn't even that attractive but a good body and seemed easy. She had a chest tattoo (flag), i ask her about it, she starts feeling her self and says stupid shit like "well you know it's a personal matter". i look her in the eye, we freeze for a few seconds until my brain was able to compute "wow what a vain bitch, i can't believe she said that". Judging from her behavior i knew she found me attractive and the way i looked at her she realized she was be…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 10:44 AM
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the only compliment from a female that i actually remember was "thank you" after sex. can it be considered as a compliment? i think it does. women don't compliment verbally much. when they do compliment it is subtle or non-verbal (eyes widening, bigger smile, serving you, subtle nodes etc.)
/r/askTRP29/05/21 10:29 AM
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the only time when "sex is special" to a woman is when the woman is virgin. if she's been a hoe before and she's making you wait it's one of two things (or both): she doesn't find you that attractive she's using sex to leverage something from you your feelings are right
/r/askTRP29/05/21 10:18 AM
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keep spinning plates. tell her that you are. tell her also that sex matters to and that you aren't ready to be exclusive with her and see how she reacts.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 10:10 AM
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i beg to differ. some girls are covert hoes. they can play the prude and chaste masquerade to leverage whatever they want from you (here it's an LTR). what tells you about her history, what tells you about the other guys she's seeing (remember she always has dudes in the back burner).i get the fact they want a quality guy, however why would they make a quality guy wait if they had easy/quick sex with lesser guys. they're actually looking for a quality sucker.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 10:08 AM
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agree, the only girls in my opinion that can leverage sex as a bargaining tool are young virgins that want to lock you up in a marriage. i actually respect that. if a non-virgin is trying to withhold sex to squeeze an LTR out of me then she's a soft next. I might consider an LTR if she indeed has some qualities, but it's going to be a polygamous LTR (ie. i keep seeing plates on the side, she's committed). i'm tired of hoes acting virtuous.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 10:02 AM
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female nature is sexual. think about it. everything in a woman's life revolves around sex. specifically her sex. also although men have higher sex drives on average, women derive more pleasure from sex (many erogenous zones, multiple orgasms etc.). take away social conventions and women will revert to their primate nature which is open hypergamy (jumping on all the high value dicks she can find). so women are hoes by default. that being said all these women know deep down that being a hoe signif…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 09:56 AM
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same here. my hunting ground is usually the gym, especially since the covid measures where i live i was getting my social time only from the gym. what sucks though is that where i go the quality and quantity of women can be better.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 09:50 AM
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huh, i see the parallel. i'd just add that the female ego is fragile and requires external validation. also the reason that the reason they "always try to destroy their partner and if they accomplish it, they'll discard the guy like he never existed" is partially to test the solidity of their partner (females require a strong male) as well because as the weaker sex they enjoy having power/upper hand on men (even though they despise the man that falls for that).
/r/askTRP29/05/21 09:47 AM
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all girls are single and no girl is single
/r/askTRP29/05/21 09:33 AM
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read carefully what i wrote: "LTRs make no sense to me". I don't do LTRs, if i wanted to do an LTR i would just marry the chick. and if she ain't virgin and doesn't have the necessary qualities of a wife then she's just a concubine. And I don't expect high etiquette from a concubine. on the matter of disrespect thankfully i've never had that. women don't act up with me and if they do they're out. I might issue a warning the first time, the second time she's out.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 09:27 AM
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i had friends like that years ago. they all had one thing in common: they play the numbers game. they simply hit on/interact with a large pool of women. requires time and effort. and you know what, it gets easier afterwards.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:19 AM
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buddy i'd advise against it. but every man is different. i did it before, although i got the experience i felt bad about it. i'd rather channel that energy towards something else and deal with the girls i am actually attracted to. self-esteem is important. self-esteem
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:16 AM
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it does. i actually got physically ill working an office job (also the modern office is infested with women). it's not a healthy environment for a man.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:11 AM
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don't sweat it. if you want to be quiet, be quiet. it's women that are giggly and super talkative.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:08 AM
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you mess up at point number 4. you are afraid to "risk losing her". it is a risk you have to take. if she's ok you got a girl. if she says no, then you take the rejection like a man, walk away and try again with a different chick. don't play it safe.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:04 AM
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disagree. if you want to punish these women you reduce them to plate status, if it's too bad, you cut them off. and in my opinion why do you want to pursue and LTR with a "modern woman"? LTRs make no sense to me. she's either a wife or a concubine. and what makes her eligible for wife status is her chastity/virginity. so if she's not a virgin she's immediately categorized as "for fun/for practice only".
/r/askTRP29/05/21 01:52 AM
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it's not excusable. it's just not worth the hassle. i'd rather live a peaceful mentally healthy and fulfilled life than to go about trying to reprogram every female i come across.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 01:49 AM
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man at this point you're hopeless, you're a glass is half empty guy, i can't help you, believe whatever you want
/r/askTRP17/05/21 02:13 PM
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i don't know where you get these figures but it's BS. women dig older men and men dig younger women. I've been around the world and even where I am (low divorce rates) most long term couples/marriages have a large age difference. Hell my parents have 10 years between them.You're very blue pill, that's blue pill programming you're spouting here.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 02:12 PM
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buddy you want women who are significantly younger. are you serious? women depreciate with time. you really want high mileage, high entitlement bitch?
/r/askTRP17/05/21 01:56 PM
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i agree, however i'd add that you know you've got the girl when she is willing (often subconsciously) to serve you. if a girl you're smashing or have yet to smash, or feels a certain way for you is going out of her way to do little things for you. you know you're in the right position/frame.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 01:50 PM
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i gotta give you a salute for that. it's not just external perceived value (although it helps), it's about perceived subjective value. most men go through the self-improvement route (and they should) especially to fix their lives and get to a point where they can interact with a chick with confidence. but that's only the first hump. all their work is for the girl and not for their self. hence they still pedestalize her. That's not how nature intended it. I'd say that the last stage of red pill i…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 01:46 PM
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can't really tell you for sure. you just require some internal work. it's easier if you got your life together and some accomplishments, working on your skills, fitness, money etc. it also helps a tons if you have an unshakable sense of self. how to become unshakable? well it's like a muscle, life and people will test you and every time you come back you come back tougher. read a bit about stoicism and practice the "don't complain, don't explain" adage. character is built.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 01:30 PM
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instead of flexing your chivalry on me stick to the question will you
/r/askTRP17/05/21 01:26 PM
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oh my god, a white knight!
/r/askTRP17/05/21 01:24 PM
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well that's a simple issue. women are inferior to men and are basically over grown children. as such i don't expect any rationality, accountability or any form of intelligence besides the sufficient amount of intelligence to assist a man in his purpose. That being said due to their inferiority both physical and mental they did evolve defense mechanisms in the form of cunning and deception. For women lying and manipulating is the same as a cat using its claws or a dog using its canines. they don'…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 01:21 AM
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Amen
/r/askTRP17/05/21 12:31 AM
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most girls are too pride and too smart to be friendzoned or remain in the friendzone. it's simp losers smh that keep themselves there. Most women you either softly reject or deny relationship status simply move on and avoid dealing with you and the emotions you bring up.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 12:30 AM
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articulate
/r/askTRP17/05/21 12:27 AM
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you got that right about the modern day feminised office. it's the main reason i quit office jobs and started working for myself. It's hard, still learning, but slowly getting there.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 12:19 AM
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buddy you hit the nail on the head. The problem is globalized, even in my part of the world. I thought the west was fucked, but i notice the same shit here. it's hypergamy on steroids. Attention seeking is on all time high and thirsty simps are fueling it. Seriously, i notice the same thing, real buffy alpha are complaining. Guys in porsches are complaining. Decent guys too that would have been wifed up years ago are complaining. And you're right, normally there should be a crazy violent correct…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 12:14 AM
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i don't get it. they are feminine but average. man you have issues with your frame. these type of chicks revere masculine energy, build it. grow hard.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 12:06 AM
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buddy the way you assert assertiveness with women and men is totally different. Women will generally reward you for being supper assertive however with men you have to exercise leadership in a more diplomatic fashion. Especially if you have other alphas in the group, unless you are okay turning the interaction into a dog fight. betas on the other hand will just build up resentment and wait for the moment where they can backstab you.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 12:02 AM
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I agree with the rest of the comments. some women are either only used to BP guys or are what i call "covert hoes". Some are just naive and inexperienced, however they are far from stupid and the female firmware is the same across all cultures and ethnicities. You have to be careful with these and read through them. If they are indeed what they portray (inexperienced, genuinely shy etc.) then you have to purposely tone down your jerk game. It can be hard if you're the masculine type and you're u…
/r/askTRP16/05/21 11:58 PM
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You should have everything, max out all your stats. However you should also know that you have something most people don't and cannot buy even with billions of dollar. self-assurance and contentment.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 11:53 PM
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she's not your wife, mother of your children or anyone worth any real damn to your life. don't get attached, she's had guys before you, she'll have other dudes after you. she's a public good and not private property. value her accordingly.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 11:51 PM
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"the more i understand women, the less i find them worthy of respect" - some philosopher who's name i forgot. it's nothing new, we are witnessing female nature unhinged without the veil or constraints of society, norms, religion, morality and value systems. They are showing you their real worth (yet some simps will end up driving their price up). Take them for what they are and when you are ready to settle try to find a virgin from a conservative background.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 11:47 PM
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you're giving away too much validation. the thrill is gone. calibrate it like in a video game so that they keep seeking for more and more of your validation.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 11:44 PM
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don't try to reform a hoe. a hoe is a hoe is a hoe. take her for what she is. you're taking a hoe seriously and that is your mistake. you're not her dad, brother or guardian. you're just a dude she's messing with. plate her, have fun, don't get attached but definitely, definitely don't LTR or worse wife up. She belongs to the streets.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 11:39 PM
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don't say anything, get busy. she'll make her own movies in her head.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 11:26 PM
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block
/r/askTRP16/05/21 11:23 PM
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the purpose of self-awareness and meditation is confronting these negative emotions and uprooting them.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 11:20 PM
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social media is bullshit.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 11:17 PM
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just reply "yes.."
/r/askTRP16/05/21 11:16 PM
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what makes a woman valuable is lack of experience, what makes a man valuable is wealth of experience.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 11:14 PM
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Buddy, get this firmly into your head "women are inferior to men, men are superior to women, always has been, always will be".Basta, if you need more reinforcing read Schopenhauer's essay "On Women". Modern women by default enter any interaction with any man from a higher vantage point, blame the fucking simps and beta fools. If your frame is solid even under testing/pressure, she'll either cave in and submit or walk away.This landed me women significantly higher in the looks scale, socio-econom…
/r/askTRP16/05/21 11:12 PM
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yup, modern narcissism. it reeks. blame the simps and social media validation. you handled it well.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 11:03 PM
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your boundaries are weak. if she confronts you verbally is because you set the template for it before. she should respect you and know better than to confront you. she doesn't fear or respect you enough. in any case you should move on and if she confronts you tell her that you don't argue, especially not with women. save your energy. move on.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 04:32 PM
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yeah peace of mind and cooperation are woth a ton.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:09 PM
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i guess you are right.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:09 PM
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man, back in the day when your woman was being disrespectful you could just give her a good ol' spanking and call it a day. you can't do that nowadays. the only way for you to punish a woman, or warn her is to withdraw and ignore. It doesn't look weak. on the contrary it's says you're above the situation and you won't scoop to her level. be stoic. frankly speaking the way you are attached is because of your scarcity mindset. your power is in walking away and replacing her. if she doesn't comply …
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:06 PM
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i have to agree to that. I don't waste, time or energy anymore. if she doesn't have that type of sweet character that I like, i just move on. it's tiring playing game of thrones.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 11:21 PM
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well what's the point then. i got better things to do than constantly discipline an overgrown teenager. that's why now if i the girl even thinks of trying some shit I just bounce, don't answer, ignore, ghost, move on or next.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 11:19 PM
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women need boundaries. if you give them a finger they take the whole hand.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 11:16 PM
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buddy, you're mad at a dog for barking. you have to realize that women are not your peers. they are your inferiors. if they do stupid, immature shit it's because it is in their nature. use that precious energy for other things. work, work out, meditate or swim in cold water. you have attachment issues and it's not healthy. life is temporary. You don't have to go on righting every wrong, preaching and moralizing. You're not Jesus. You're just a man. live and let die.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 11:12 PM
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you got that right.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 09:39 PM
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yup, they don't proclaim it aloud, but you can still get a hint when your read their comments.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 05:14 PM
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i agree with that. however i still don't understand the exact mechanism that goes in their mind. it just seems that a switch gets turned on in their head when they know you're getting pussy from elsewhere. what do you think it is?
/r/askTRP24/03/21 05:13 PM
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that is true. i've dated older women than me and some of them really behave like 16 year olds. honestly all it takes to get a quality guy is to look good, stop with the games, submit and follow the lead. go figure
/r/askTRP24/03/21 05:09 PM
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that last sentence struck a chord. i've seen many women try to "play" an alpha only to notice that she doesn't have the skills to handle him. she'd rather enjoy the company of a beta who'll do shit for her and love her "just the way she is".
/r/askTRP24/03/21 05:07 PM
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dang, hit it on the nail. that explains the "happily married" women that still flirt with you. they're looking for a new thrill.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 05:05 PM
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detach. great chemistry means nothing. she has great chemistry with tons of dudes. focus on your life, purpose and date other chicks. occasionally you may drop her a text and make plans. detach from the outcome, treat her as "just a number".
/r/askTRP24/03/21 02:04 AM
1

female desire, women actually get turned on by feeling inferior. I thank God everyday for making me a man.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 01:40 AM
7

touché i may say. never thought of that angle
/r/askTRP24/03/21 01:35 AM
1

Good boy. Keep going. If you are too intimidating for some girls, then allow yoursemf to smile more and be more gentle with the frail ones.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:31 PM
1

SMV + status + frame + experience + environment (country, social circles, lifestyle etc.)
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:28 PM
1

I used to feel pity for women for the fact that they are women. Now i feel grateful to have been born a man. Really think about it.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:25 PM
1

Women actually realise what they are doing. Although minimally, as self-awareness is not a general trait shared amongst the female populace. You're in the transistion phase where you are clearly aware of female tactics (subconcious tactics) at manipulating and extracting benefits from men, with minimal investment. You are still angry though and think you can change them. You can't. That behaviour is hard wired through evolution and social conditionning through the ages. You should accept them fo…
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:20 PM
1

Disagree, n-count matter. Especially for LTR. Women nowadays are second hand cars, some second hand cars are better than others.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:12 PM
1

Those are subconscious tests. I swear to God i thought they did those consciously but they do not, the smartest ones are sort of aware of what they are doing (or maybe they know and just pretend) The way i interpret it is as a subconscious sorting system. If you pass it you get listed on the potential fuck list, if not well you're classified as a simp or tool and she'll use you.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 06:01 PM
1

As a man it's up to you to lead the interaction/relationship. Only like 1% of the girls have the courage/balls to initiate with a man. Let's not even talk about game, as most women have absolutely no skill in getting a man. So don't count on it. Just make sure your approach is casual and outcome independent (direct or indirect doesn't matter, choose the one that fits the context), you're not a got damn clown or entertainer and you don't have to run a stand up routine to impress her, you're just …
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:40 PM
2

Red flag
/r/askTRP22/01/21 12:25 PM
2

That last part cracked me up
/r/askTRP22/01/21 01:27 AM
1

You need solo time. Try meditating. I'm not advising becoming a monk but you seem to have an external locus of control. Not cool to have as a man. You need to be more grounded within yourself. Your issue is clearly internal as you seem to have a good grip on the external matters. Study spirituality, philosophy and stoicism. Even art. Connect with the real you.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 01:16 AM
2

Being a man involves taking responsibility. Both when things go well and when there is a screw up. The only thing you can do depending on the situation is to apologize sincerely, fix the problem to the best of your ability (or compensate etc.) And most importantly, don't do it again.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 01:10 AM
1

Don't do pick up lines. Actually don't think of the pick up frame. You are only approaching a pretty stranger that happens to have tits and a vagina. Just have a regular conversation, if you connect and can flirt then everything else flows smoothly.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 01:01 AM
2

There is always a correction in the markets. The severity of the correction often matches the severity of the imbalance. In any case like all fads it'll pass.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 12:58 AM
1

Try meditating. Also lots of exercise, the kind of exercise that gets you deep in your head and helps you work out some shit (like distance running etc.) It's just a phase and with healthu activity it'll pass.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 12:55 AM
2

Lame
/r/askTRP22/01/21 12:52 AM
2

There is a role that you can play with the younger girls and that is of Dom or Daddy. You don't have to play at the same level as your peers or lower your level to accomodate some girls. Take the dominant role, the leadership role with them and don't be afraid to set the tone. Otherwise you can do what i did and date older women. Yet young pussy is better. As for haters, seriously fuck them. It took me a while to realise and accept it but we are not meant to be friends with everybody on this ear…
/r/askTRP22/01/21 12:50 AM
1

Everyone has some level of insecurity. Women just seem to have "wiggly egos": they inflate easily but also deflate easily.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 12:35 AM
1

I think you got it right. That's probably the only way you can apprach relationships with women from a position of power.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 04:33 PM
1

I like that. I'll also add be smart (or don't be stupid), make money and keep it.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 04:31 PM
1

For me ot was those "innocent looking" girls. Now each time i meet one i have to repeat this mantra "she is innocent looking not innocent".
/r/askTRP20/01/21 04:29 PM
1

Chewing gum works real well, and breathing from the nose. All you need.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 04:19 PM
1

I feel the same way. Lots of quality guys settling up with subpar women and its horrendous to watch. However i learnt these guys are only good on paper. If you look past that you see that there are major flaws in their inner game. But i know how you feel, you see these guys, tall, good looks, intelligence, money, buffed physique, good social circle and all around quality, dating and simping to these mediocre bitches or even above average and they got them hanging by the noose with their booty. I…
/r/askTRP20/01/21 04:11 PM
1

I guess you are right. I like this type of girls, they are refreshing, they might seem like not the quickest but are relatively low drama and are not constantly shit testing you at every occasion. You can actually soften your game and like you said focus on building rapport.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 06:43 PM
2

I guess you are right and that is what i am doing. I guess what i am looking for is a "mindset shift". For example i found out that this type of girls have low initiative and are afraid of taking risks, hence i have to make almost all of the work. Also that "negging" is not a good strategy with them. I am already perceived as intimidating and dominant so i should be "gentler" and even compliment them from time to time. Stuff along these lines.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:53 AM
1

Nah not really. I was used to massive bitches. I am still learning to pull the shy ones and I like it.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:48 AM
1

Hah this reminded me of myself. The reason for that is that almost everyone in my family is a massive jerk and i have dated some bitchy women that could handle this type of banter. The women who can handle this type of stuff are rare and quite honestly really annoying over time. So when i tried to switch over to the gentler women i encountered the same problem. I'm actually still learning to calibrate myself to the girl i'm interacting with not to intimidate her too much or outright throw someth…
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:25 AM
2

It is AWALT as women operate on the same fundamental software called "female nature". The only thing is that social expectations, class expectations and religious framing prevent many women from indulging in their natural "bitchy and promiscious" inclinations. That being said a lot does happen in the downlow and a slut or hoe will indulge in her trade/favorite past time undercover in a manner that will not bring harm to her reputation. It's all about appearances. I think the same phenomenon exis…
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:04 AM
1

Well once you get passed that obviously?
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:01 AM
1

Sounds like a control game.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:41 PM
1

Actually it is as simple as control. Red blooded men rebel. They have values, principles and some type of honor to live by. Sheep not really. You need a majority of docile sheep of you want to keep the virtuous cycle of "work, consume and pay your taxes". Or rather "work for me, buy my shit and pay me your taxes".
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:32 PM
1

It deflates thzor efo. But surprisingly they recover kind of quickly. It's healthy for them.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:14 PM
1

Oh boy. Just from reading the title all the enlightened gentlemen of asktrp shouted in unison: "NEXT!".
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:12 PM
1

Not sure about the culture of where you're from. But from where i am girls do that because either: Don't want to cross into "slut territory" (as if they haven't already). So that's a good middle ground for her. Trying to extract something from you by using sex (or the promise hereof) for it. Could be control, gifts, validation etc. without giving up the actual pussy. Or she just is genuinely not ready. In any case diversify your portfolio
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:01 PM
1

That cracked me up. Us heathens are resourceful though.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 12:21 PM
1

Man i thought type a) has been eradicated from the european continent. When i'd like to settle down i'll head to Poland then. The only issue is that i'm not christian. Would her parents start a crusade?
/r/askTRP24/11/20 07:15 PM
1

You should say no in the coolest, chillest manner possible. If she decides to do it regardless, then tell her we're done. There is tremendous power in being able to just walk away.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 05:15 PM
1

They're not really your friends. Maybe just people you hang out with.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 05:11 PM
1

Club scene was never my thing. But i got "lucky" a few times when i went there with my then buddies. I noticed i did something. I just never engaged in the dancing part. I remember once there was this chick i was flirting with and wanted me to pay for her drinks and dance with. Needless to say she was surrounded with guys and one of them was an acquaintance and frankly was more handsome and experienced then me. He was fliritng with her heavy right in front of me and the bitch even had the nerve …
/r/askTRP20/11/20 05:00 PM
1

Yeah the best way yoi can tell if a woman digs you is by how frequently and deeply she looks at you with those puppy eyes.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 08:19 PM
1

I have to agree to that. Something switched in my mind when i finally accepted that men are superior to women. Would you seriously give that many fucks about an inferior who's only real assets are fast depreciating looks and a cunning ability to manipulate weak men. Nah, I didn't think so.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 08:16 PM
1

Going to the gym taught me consistency. The one value i was missing all along. So it did bleed into other aspects of my life. Don't neglect the other aspects though. (mind, body, money, social life, girls, creativity and God/spirituality).
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:00 PM
1

Chewing gum. I'm not kidding
/r/askTRP18/11/20 09:52 PM
2

In the town i'm in now there aren't many places to go out to. Often times i just hang out in that dense area where there are a lot of coffee shops, restaurants, bars and stores. People usually like to walk and interact. Lots of girls. I like hanging there in the evening before heading home and either strike up a conversation with some chicks or they do the same. Just have a casual conversation, no need to make it an "approach", if the convo is good it usually leads to a number. Thus the best way…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 09:45 PM
1

Man I think you're over thinking. It'll appear. And those truisms are dangerous and false. Population follows a normal distribution. Few are truly good, few are scumbags and most are around the mean. The same applies to income/wealth. There are good people at every level and i am fortunate to have met truly good people on the right side of the bell curve. I won't let a few rotten eggs destroy the image of everybody. So out with those truisms.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 11:49 AM
0

I'm still climbing the pyramid, but i know that once i'm at that level my real purpose would appear. In what shape or form? Maybe Helping others, perfecting an art/craft, writing, leaving a legacy, God/spirituality or becoming like these old school savant aristocrats from the renaissance era.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 12:05 AM
2

Yeah, thought about the same. It seems women are always looking to make you a servant. The funny part is that if she succeeds in doing so she won and if she won she loses interest in you. On the other side if you say no, she respects you and therefore sees you as a worthy mate (or potential mate depending on where you stand). The irrationality for me though is that they are replaceable, and if she tries to control you indifinetaly she risks to be replaced by a man that values himself. Hence that…
/r/askTRP14/11/20 05:12 PM
3

Shit tests are an ego thing. The ones that don't shit test either: - perceive your SMV to be greatly higher than theirs. - have low self esteem or are on the shy side. Girls that do shit tests after shit tests when they shouldn't are just basket cases though.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 05:07 PM
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Disagree. Had girls that got converted with some good old negging or deflecting in response to their shit tests. The ones that don't shit test have a perceived SMV lower than yours or are horny and desperate.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 05:04 PM
1

Some TRPer said something that is relevant to this situation. The opposite of loving is not hating. It's ignoring. Or something along these lines. It's true, not caring means the other person really does not exist for you. That's why some bitches would do anything to rile some emotion out of you even if you are that chauvinistic, misogynistic jerk. It' better than being ignored.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:58 PM
7

Trump is the lord of narcissits. The reason he won 2016 is mostly because you had a bitter sociopathic bitch going against him.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:37 PM
2

Yes. Especially if you work for yourself. If you do you have to be able to fish with a big net and multiply your opportunities. If you work in sales too, it's all about how you connect and to whom you connect. If you are an employee it is advisable, you need a network to expand your opportunities and also social skills to climb into managerial positions. People hire people they like and know first. Many hires are through refferrals and recommendations. The best ones at least. Finally if you do a…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:20 PM
2

My mom is showing up in 5 minutes. Get your shit and get out
/r/askTRP12/11/20 12:02 AM
0

Jesus don't worry about these insecure fucks. Even if you were below her in a socio-economic fashion she'd still marry if you have your shit together. Women don't marry for socio-economic reasons anymore. Especially not in the West. It's all about the tingles now. Which takes marriage out of the equation, regardless of her status. You can't turn a hoe into a house wife. And especially not a western one. If OP wanted a wife i'd suggest he finds one in a more trad/con/religious country/society whe…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 11:59 PM
1

Man you're giving "boyfriend" vibes. Would be worse if you were giving "husband" vibes. Also you treat women like people. Like you try to befriend them and be nice and shit. Put this in your head as it helped me too. They are hoes. Don't relate to them as a person that happens to have a vagina, but rather a vagina that happens to be attached to a person. Is it demeaning, degrading etc. Hell yes it is, this what they want and they'll thank you for treating them like the little whores they are. Do…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:23 PM
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Well what i see here is strange. Her Dad is high value but she's in a FWB arrangement. What this says to me is that her dad is high value but she isn't. Hence you don't have to worry about her dad. Seems to me all these thoughts is you trying to replace her dad and you shouldn't worry about that unless you want to marry her. For your purposes (fwb) that is not needed. Trying to impress the dad was from a time where women were guarded and in no way you would get into that pussy on his watch unles…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:18 PM
1

I see where you're coming from. I'm more of an extraverted introvert or introverted extrovert. I am perfectly fine being by myself and my conversations are usually deep. I used to be foolish before and felt like i needed to entertain. I stopped doing that and stopped trying to be somebody i don't care to be. As a result? Mich, much more interest. Girls always give me that "who are yoi, talk to me please look"and i had a few actually ask me why i sit by myself and if i don't get bored. Which i do…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 01:30 AM
1

Investopedia.com Any and everything related to money you need is on there.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 01:18 AM
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That whores are whores, not really people. If you treat them like people they reward you by not giving you pussy. If you treat them like the piece of shit whores they are, they give you pussy, respect you even more and (can you believe it) perhaps even love you.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 01:06 AM
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Haha, that's the most epic comment on /asktrp. I stuggled with the same issue, i even had a cutie once call me "husband material". Truly felt insulted. He's right OP, you're not their boyfriend, not their friend and not their husband. You need to be their lover (classy term) or their certified pussy smasher. The frame has to be set up in your mind and those are the vibes they need to pick up from you right from the beginning.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:20 PM
3

Doesn't matter. Wheter she's a 9 or a 5 they operate with the same OS in the background. You'd have more chances with that 8 if you were treating her like 6. Girls smell desperation.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:00 PM
1

Bro, don't be her parachute.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:51 PM
1

She tried to control you. You shouldn't have carried her stuff. You could've either dropped her then and there or declined and negged gently.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:48 PM
2

Well maybe create a more special position for them. Instead of "plates" they're "concubines".
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:35 PM
2

You're missing the invisible hand of the market and equilibrium point. The pendulum always swings back.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 01:51 AM
1

I'll add mental fitness. You need to work that brain if you want to develop your cash and social opportunities.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 01:47 AM
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My hat off to the gentleman. Praise aside, i remember a past plate that was all SJW on me and even bragged about her butch lesbian friends, feminism and all that bullshit. I just remember i told her that feminism is for women that don't have a man, and that they forget about it the moment they meet one. Lo and behold we fuck that night and the feminist even cooks me breakfast next morning. Long live the patriarchy.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 01:21 AM
1

Bro i need some readings on this topoc from Gnostic sources. It s fascinating. What do you suggest?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 11:21 PM
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Bro, i missed two golden opportunities like that. I wish i had the skills and mindset then and also not have been caught off guard. When both the girls are cute, means they expect something to go down, either one, or the other or both. If one is cute and the other is significantly less, then the latter is there to survail and cockblock if necessary.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 07:19 PM
1

Bro, you did yourself a favor. I wish all women came with a "dossier" with their past sexual history. That way you can easily and clear headidly judge her and choose which position to put her in. That position is "NON LTR". Please do us red pill readers all a favor and don't become a simp that falls in love, girlfriend up or even worse wife up a slut. These women serve a certain purpose in society and it is the purpose of dousing your dick, having fun, plating and moving on. Do society a favor a…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:55 PM
0

Both man. Compartimentalize your "game sessions". Like your gym hour, have a game hour.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 05:32 PM
3

Man you're hitting the nail on the head. I've always struggled with my intimidating, dominant side. Especially with the more submissive/shy chicks which are my favorite. It's annoying because the level of interest is high but they don't know how to react to you or entertain you and some just shut off and run away. Those that can handle you are on the bitchy side and i am tired of those. I want those that i actually enjoy, my polar opposites. What do you think is to be done? Lead as the OP said. …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/20 11:41 PM
2

I'm not sure about height, but i'm definitely sure about intimidation. I'm not short and definitely not tall and even a couple of years back before i started lifting people in general and women in particular called me intimidating and often struggled to tone it down. And seriously i am not sure about that statistic, i've met and been acquainted with many top dogs in business and society, some are very tall and some are pretty short. The one that comes to mind right now is this gentleman that i s…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/20 11:34 PM
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Bro, you're close to moksha. Great read.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/20 01:10 AM
1

Well of yoi were seriously just playong woth her then that's fine. However i don't sense the you were just playing with her vibe from you, more like you really wanted her. As for your verbal exchange, be careful, some chicks can't handle negs too well. You have to reinforce the fact that yoi were playing (without apologizing). Leave hard negs to chicks with real thick skins.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 12:42 AM
2

I think the world functions partly because we are selfish. Selfishness is the selfpreservation instinct, sometimes pushed to the extreme. A good example of functionning selfishness: In a business transaction everyone wants to maximize their benefit. However for the seller to sell (and make money) he needs to price the goods in a manner that would benefit the buyer, as well as produce a good that satisfies the buyer's needs primarily (in other words cater to his customer's selfishness). The buyer…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 12:24 AM
1

Yes. Some girls are really insecure/nervous and would disqualify themselves instead of risking rejection.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 12:16 AM
2

I had a girl once tell me that some girls find me intimidating. There is a reason most people date within their own socioeconomic bubble. She could be disqualifying herself to protect her ego, who knows. Second, you are still into her. Your new frame, status should give you more options and you are still clinging to subpar pussy. Move on, if she chases then good, otherwise you have other, better options.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 06:40 PM
3

I disagree. You should talk about past dates. But with moderation. You need the hamster on your side by injecting some doses of preselection and jealousy. Don't brag too much though.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 06:34 PM
3

Yup same thing. For some reason even your parents can't appreciate you being on your path and can't resist the urge to shit test you.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 06:31 PM
1

I noticed that too. If you have a boy, past a certain age (7 or 12 max), yoi should distance him more from his mother and have him spend much more time with his father. Women don't know how to raise men, they can only raise kids
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 07:50 PM
1

A former acquaintance of mine admitted to have been dating a psycho before. He told me something was really off with that woman and when he hinted at probably breaking up with her she pulled a kitchen knife and put under his throat and told him if he left her she'd kill him. The guy was genuine scared when he was telling me that. He then told me he recomforted her and told her he'd never do that. Then when they were sleeping he picked up his shit and left without waking her up. Yeah careful
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 07:33 PM
2

Well you do have to train your eye contact. Try to not break it off. But don't stare for too long or too intently.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:54 PM
2

What do you mean by stacking?
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:47 PM
1

Who says i ain't
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:43 PM
0

Bro you sound sour. It's all a game. Why not play ad learn.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:42 PM
1

This suggestion is actually smart. Does make sense.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:42 PM
1

I'd like to agree, however i noticed that the girl is often times interested but i kind of get bored. As if the conversation is boring. It's like i care enough about her body, energy and features to walk up to her and start chatting up/commenting etc. but as a person she is just not that interesting. Few girls are really interesting or have interesting lives, and i definitely am not an entertainer to do all the work, used to do that as a kid and stopped and i am getting hugely more IOIs as a res…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 11:45 PM
2

Man, it's the exact opposite for me. The physical attraction is there but no or little connection. How do you do?
/r/askTRP21/10/20 11:38 PM
1

You miss the point. People who give good avice to others is specifically because they are not living that other person's life. They are detached and have an outside perspective, therefore their judgement is more accurate. In business there is a whole big bucks industry called "consulting" where a company's management bring outside council to solve a problem they are having. They actually pay big bucks for that advice. Now why would the ceo of fortune 500 company alo.g with his army of managers o…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 05:17 PM
1

I find the best protection against the friendzone is actually have a traditional mindset of "men and women are not supposed to be friends". So if you can't be friends and are attracted to each other, then the only solution is foe you to be lovers.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 05:00 PM
1

Lol i prefer quality to quantity. Although quality and quantity is preferable. That part about a 9 having a worse personality is bullshit, they're much more chill than their jealous, insecure and arrogant counterparts in the 6-7 range. The latter get hit on way too much that they actually believe they have more value than they actually do. These normies need to be negged hard and early on.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/20 01:15 AM
1

I've been dating this lady for a while now. Clearly at the time any lameass would've tought she's too much for him. She's hot, comes from a rich family, has a prestigious job with high networth people and was also older than me. Seriously her suitors were sharp guys in $5000 suits, porsches and rolexes and here i am pulling her in front of all their angry asses in my jeans and citizen watch. And you know what she told me: men are intimidated by her and that all her life they lied to her about ca…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/20 01:03 AM
1

I agree. You need to be mentally prepared to seize opportunities. I can relate to so many missed opportunites and often times in that moment i know i am letting them slip. Why didn't i act? I didn't know what to do, i wasn't ready. It's also why i believe that high performers drill in every part of their practice so much that they unconsciously act on the spot. Consciously acting in the heat of the moment is not a given. What is a given is unonsciously reacting in the heat of the moment. That is…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 06:38 PM
1

A line has to be drawn though. If i see a ring, a kid that could be hers or a "boyfriend" that she is holding hands publicly with then i back off. Not worth the risk or the moral conundrum. That being said any fair looking girl you got on your radar will have competitors.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 06:28 PM
1

This is a trick i found to use the brain'ss risk/rewards mechanisms to my advantage. I set basic targets (sometimes daily) and i bet money on them. Not tons but just a bit. An example. I wanted to start approaching women consistently. I couldn't motivate and focus my mind to do it. And since the brain is more motivated by the fear of loss than the desire for a reward i decided to hack it. How? Well if i don't approach at least one worthy girl today or at least have one quality interacrtion in th…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 05:46 PM
1

Really? Men want more permissive societies? I think you need some coffee
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 01:44 AM
0

Oh boy. All the conclusions are wrong. Still i aknowledge the work, progress and sincerity.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 01:17 AM
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