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RantPodonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men14/02/26 10:57 PM
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Dealing with the Ex / STBXPodonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 06:34 PM
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Living SituationsPodonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men24/12/25 01:47 AM
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RantPodonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men30/12/25 11:26 PM
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CourtPodonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men04/01/26 05:12 AM
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RantPodonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men23/03/26 03:56 AM
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RantPodonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men07/01/26 11:13 PM
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Podonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 09:29 PM
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Podonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men14/01/26 01:06 AM
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Living SituationsPodonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men17/12/25 01:28 AM
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RantPodonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 03:36 AM
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RantPodonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men15/01/26 11:15 PM
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Dating After DivorcePodonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men26/12/25 08:28 PM
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RantPodonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men24/12/25 08:48 PM
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Living SituationsPodonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men06/04/26 07:09 PM
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RantPodonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 08:17 PM
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Dealing with the Ex / STBXPodonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 10:55 PM
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Dealing with the Ex / STBXPodonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men03/01/26 02:47 AM
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Living SituationsPodonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men29/12/25 12:55 AM
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Podonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men08/03/26 09:18 PM
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Podonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men17/01/26 04:50 AM
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Podonkeyfkr/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 07:46 AM
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This. All day long.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/26 01:25 AM
1

Think I'm gonna treat myself to a large cup of coffee and a nice walk. It's so beautiful outside.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/26 01:18 AM
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😁
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/26 12:36 AM
2

Yup. Nothing makes you forget how shitty your life is like a nice, disturbing horror film. 👍
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/26 12:30 AM
3

Undertone.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/26 12:26 AM
3

Now you hide until your days with the kid and let your lawyer deal with her.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/26 11:32 PM
1

You have to have a little funeral in your head and your soul for that old life, old her and that old you. They're dead and gone. The sooner you find your peace with it, forgive everyone involved and learn to let go, the sooner you can start enjoying simple things. I've been mostly alone (but not lonely) on and off my whole life since I was a kid. Grew up dirt poor. Get back to simplicity. Ride your bike, go get a cup of coffee, go running, catch a random movie, go for long walks, read interestin…
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/26 07:15 AM
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Just like physical death wipes away life. But, did you enjoy any of those years? That's the question.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/26 08:12 PM
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I'm tired of living in fkng purgatory until this shit works itself out. It's only just begun though. The whole thing just makes me despise relationships. Like, what's the point if it all turns to shit anyway?
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/26 07:13 PM
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Everyone has flaws. Let her try and work on hers, then see what happens.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/26 06:48 PM
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Have a little, imaginary funeral in your head for that old life and the truth that it was a lie. If there's somewhere you can go that reminds you of all that, go there, dump all your regrets, lay to rest the good and bad memories, reminisce, cry, laugh, leave some flowers. Then the next day, things should start to improve once you've buried your pain.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/26 03:24 AM
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She tricked you with lies and bs. Just consider that and focus on a better future for yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/26 08:18 PM
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Get a new one. They're a dime a dozen.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/26 04:28 PM
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They're psychopaths dude. It's never going to make sense.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/26 08:26 PM
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At least she left. I'll trade ya.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/26 10:43 PM
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Sir, this is a Wendy's...
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/26 04:03 AM
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What "bad" photos could there be of being an active father? Taking a break on the couch to catch your breath?
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/26 12:34 PM
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It's just, people are full of shit these days, man. Women think they're gold if they're anywhere near attractive cause they have 10 apps that can get them 12 men every weekend. Meanwhile, men have to forage like fkn raccoons for scraps, garbage and leftovers. The easiest way out is to find happiness with yourself and if someone authentic finds you, great. If they don't, great. Fuck it either way, cause they'll probably turn on you in 5 years anyway when they get bored or want 3 shit guy rotation…
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/26 06:40 AM
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Yes. They'll probably read about marriage like we read about middle age torture methods. "Wow, gruesome! Glad those barbarous days are over..."
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/26 05:13 AM
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Same. I'm done putting my fate in the hands of closet psychopaths. Thanks, but no thanks.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/26 09:51 PM
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The best revenge is living a good life while she fades away into your past.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/26 04:39 AM
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Yup. At least you've realized the ugly truth now and you're still young. Starting over at 50+ is a social and financial death sentence. For me anyway.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/26 03:16 AM
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Next generation of lonely, old, cat ladies.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/26 07:59 PM
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Cause this society is shit. The people are shit. It's up to us to make better people. They will inherit the earth when everything else dries up and blows away, just like the lies.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/26 06:42 PM
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That person I thought I knew is long dead and gone. On a daily basis, I acknowledge that and the fact that there was nothing else I could've done anyway. Now it's starting to fade away. For me anyway. Also, there's the future to look forward to. Just simple things the kids and I enjoy.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/26 05:31 AM
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🤛
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/26 12:40 AM
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Congratulations. You're now immune to women's bullshit.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/26 12:24 AM
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What eventually happened to her, if I may ask?
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/26 09:28 PM
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Women don't have love. They have dopamine hits.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/26 06:07 PM
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They only "love" when it's convenient to them. That shit ain't love.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/26 11:38 PM
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The only women I'll deal with will be on screens, where I'm safe from their bullshit.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/26 05:49 PM
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I hate how there's no way back, once you realize nobody gives a shit about anything. It's like, why is humanity even here? It's all bullshit, greed, selfishness, TikTok, phones, lies and fuckin starbucks. Fuck this place.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/26 05:47 PM
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There's adoption.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 11:19 PM
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I can't even look at people anymore. Lost my faith in humanity.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 10:00 PM
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Block da bish.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/26 03:04 PM
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Those kinds of people just end up aging and dying alone. Hard to feel bad about it.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/26 11:41 PM
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At least you're 26 and not 46. 50 is like a death sentence for me around here for socializing and shit. Head up, eyes forward lad!
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 04:15 AM
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Yeah, you don't know how many families you just blew up this weekend. Fuck that mine field.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/26 08:34 PM
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Me too! Left out the part where I lost my hair, social skills and crisp gait, but pretty close! 👌
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/26 08:25 PM
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Cause swimming with sharks is fun!
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/26 08:23 PM
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No me! This shit is like mouse traps. The mice never learn. 🫠
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/26 08:15 PM
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They're only as useful as their fake beauty products and 3 layers of fuck me pants holding their bodies together allow them to be. I'm sorry. That was mean.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/26 08:06 PM
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I'm lazy. What did he say?
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/26 07:53 PM
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Fook em. When they end up miserable, lonely cat ladies and wonder why, don't look at me. Go on a cruise or something! 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/26 07:48 PM
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Everyone stay single. Let em fix their own shit. Problem solved.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/26 01:04 AM
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Do it now while you can still care for yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/26 12:08 AM
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Same. If I didn't mean shit to someone I had the American dream with for a decade, why would anyone else treat me better than a caged dog? Think I'm good. Everyone else, good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/26 07:38 PM
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I've basically been on ice for 12 years, so I feel like captain America, but with no point, aside from babysitting.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/26 04:08 PM
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Volunteer work is probably as far as I'll go.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/26 11:30 PM
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Teach them to "hit it and quit it". Or else wind up like grandpa over there. Broke and fuckin ruined.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/26 11:26 PM
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"My name's Buck and I came here to fuck." That's it. That's my line.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/26 11:25 PM
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Yeah, my stbx was like that. Then she got bored. Especially with kids she didn't really want.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/26 11:23 PM
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I don't know if I'll ever bother dating again, but I'm struggling to see the point if it all just winds up in the trash anyway eventually.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/26 11:21 PM
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I think I'd rather play with a gun with a 75% chance of backfiring on me. At least that's manageable.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/26 11:16 PM
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The problem is, they can change their minds on a dime and you'll never know until it's too late because they are very good at masking their intentions. When or if it happens, it's your dime.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/26 11:12 PM
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Just something I kinda noticed the other day...
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/26 11:06 PM
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Trade ya. This one won't leave.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/26 05:23 PM
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They all have main character syndrome. It's all about them and fuck the whole family, until divorce, when they need they need their "good mommy" masks again to get more shit they want that they don't deserve.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/26 05:16 PM
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Wish they'd all just stay single. Do that shit on your own time and own dime, crazy bish.
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/26 12:28 AM
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What did they lie about?
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/26 12:13 AM
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I only come out if the kids are there or she's gone. I live like a refugee and it sucks.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/26 09:55 PM
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Books, bike riding, running, random reddit videos, walks at the park, gym, vicariously living through other people's joy. I just kind of consider that old self as deceased, so now I'm starting to break free mentally and emotionally. I can even laugh again.
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/26 09:03 PM
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I don't have anything but reddit. Easy mode. ☺️
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/26 12:35 AM
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They never change. Make a good exit strategy now. Document everything you can and prepare to defend your life with the kids like it's the Alamo. Stay at least two steps ahead of her. Good luck and God's speed man.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/26 08:39 PM
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Document, photograph everything and see if you can sue her ass. This can't be legal.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/26 05:02 AM
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After I discovered she was cheating for 2 years, I soon discovered that she also has developed cancer. So, it happens.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/26 03:05 AM
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Good. AP can deal with her stupid ass and her cancer too. Perfect for eachother!
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 03:29 PM
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Apologize, never. She couldn't even apologize for losing my mail. They simply just don't gaf about anyone else.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 02:49 PM
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They're psychopaths. A side-effect of their disgusting selfishness is making the whole family feel worthless. Do your best to free yourself from the chains of their nonsense.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/26 08:32 PM
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Alright!
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/26 05:32 AM
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So I'd get half of her 401k and she'd get half of my pokemon cards?
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/26 05:20 AM
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I have one and have filed already. Just wanna make sure I have my ducks in a row.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/26 05:18 AM
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Delete the binch from your life.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/26 07:45 PM
1

Use weeknights and get a babysitter. Do you have any family nearby?
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/26 06:52 PM
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Well, let's say I'm healthy and I haven't been screwing anyone else. If I have proof of her adultery and affair, she's the obvious culprit.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/26 03:39 AM
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Hell yeah.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 09:30 PM
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She said her therapist told her I'm a narcissist. That's all I needed to know. Bonkers ass b%$#es.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 09:58 AM
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Can they use the photo?
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 08:00 AM
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It's not, thank god.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 07:59 AM
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That's brilliant.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 07:53 AM
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She's got a head start on her next failed relationship. These chicks are unpleasable.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/26 04:30 AM
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Paramedic. Ironically, saving other's lives while destroying mine and the kid's lives.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/26 02:04 AM
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And when there's children involved, they pretend that they love them and that they come first. Yeah right. Liars, cheaters and thieves care about no one but themselves. They're like cheap, amazon crap from China. Look like fun, packaging covered with fake smiles, poorly made, a dime a dozen, big waste of money and time.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/26 01:56 AM
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When she says she's "done", it's usually cause the other dude wants to take it up a notch.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/25 11:54 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/25 11:42 PM
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Hell yeah.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/25 11:41 PM
1

Oh wow. Yeah, it ain't easy. That's for sure.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/25 02:16 AM
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Usually it's cause we have kids. Without the kids, I would've been long gone.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/25 02:07 AM
1

I'm having the same problem. My stbxw gas been gradually turning me into a bitter hermit. Ridiculous expectations from her and nothing but closed doors, disrespect and the silence of her on her fkng phone.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/25 01:04 AM
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We've both filed and our finances are separate, so that should help. Yes, I will do that.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 08:05 PM
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Absolutely. Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 07:07 PM
2

Yeah, I've been slowly coming to terms fully with it. Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 07:07 PM
3

Yes. She's been lying, cheating and stealing from me for years, which is basically doing that to the kids by default. This was the last straw.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 06:53 PM
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Yes it does. We've known about it for years and every time I tried to get her to see some clarity or reason with her, she's pretty much told me to kick rocks.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 06:52 PM
1

Damn, all these chicks seem to be cut from the same mold. Wtf is going on out there?
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/25 02:19 AM
1

Yeah, it's miserable. I can't even be in the same room with this chick. She's revolting and disgusts me.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/25 01:45 AM
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Oh good. She's saving you tons of wasted time, effort and resources. Lucky.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/25 10:37 PM
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I tried. There's no movies I wanba see, gym is closed and I'm so tired. I just wanna lay here and read you guy's stories so I don't feel so alone.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/25 08:58 PM
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Once she says that, she's probably already been seeing someone for awhile.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/25 10:32 PM
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That's awesome man. I hope I can find that someday.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/25 10:28 PM
1

Go out and party, dude. Every bar is full of friends for the night.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/25 02:46 AM
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You have to realize, that nothing will ever be good enough for these kinds of people. You could give them a fairytale dream life and they'll toss it all over their shoulder like garbage. It's just a matter of time.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 11:31 PM
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Yeah, Idk if they're ever going to have a house again. I certainly can't pay for one myself. Sad.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 01:08 AM
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Yeah. Way I see it, if I can't even trust the mother of my children when I've provided a nice house, financial stability, basically the American dream life, then I can't trust anyone at all. Ever again.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 12:52 AM
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Yes.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 11:53 PM
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10 years seems to be the magic number they openly stop giving a fuck. Throw the whole family out with the bathwater cause they're all of a sudden a new kind of horny in their late 30s. No, you don't exist to them. You're the red tape holding them back from exciting flings and affairs. Whoo-hoo! Party time!
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 09:01 AM
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Idk why, but they can't stand us speaking out our needs. Which usually means, there's someone else. Which usually means, it's been happening for awhile. They always get what they want, impulsively, without concern or consideration for the rest of the family. 5 years of your deprivation = 2 months of hers. But you'll never know until she blows up on you, after it's too late, cause they expect you to read their minds. If I was you, I'd just play it cool and wait for her to slip up and quietly gath…
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 08:31 AM
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There is no love out there. Only convenience.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/25 01:06 AM
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Do not make eye contact. Do not engage.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/25 12:36 AM
1

Yes. They're not marrying you, They're marrying your benefits.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 09:33 PM
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What I don't understand is, why don't they just fkng stay single? That's exactly the life they end up wanting anyway. It's all just so stupid, wasteful and baffling.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 03:32 AM
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You have to forgive her and yourself. You have to come to terms with the fact that that life and who you were is a past life. It's over. Those people are dead and gone. Mourne, poor out a beer, say farewell. And when you're ready, it's time to rejoice. Revel in your rebirth, for you are the clay AND the sculptor. Now, we dance!
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/25 06:25 AM
1

Wouldn't risk catching something nasty this late in the game. Nawm sayin?
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/25 05:00 AM
1

One more for tha road.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/25 04:45 AM
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No kids, no house = get out now, while you can.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/25 10:04 PM
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Document everything. Screenshots, archived text convos, voice recordings, log book. She's giving you ammo and shooting herself in the foot at the same time.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/25 08:41 PM
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This society has become an insane asylum and every marriage should come with a health warning like a pack of cigarettes, but bigger.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/25 01:02 AM
1

Easier, cheaper and you won't help cause someone else's divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/25 09:26 PM
5

They all turn into nutter butters anyway. Just a matter of time. Best to just not marry period.
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/25 06:20 PM
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