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I know. And most of the time it's this same old "see how bad women are! this is my justification for being an equally shitty human being" pseudo-philosophical bullshit. But every now and then someone has a valid point. Someone who is actually looking for the "positive identity for men" mentioned in the sidebar, instead of balm for a wounded ego and permission to be a douchebag. I just try to do my part to point out which is which.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 05:52 PM
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At some point you'll realize that this doesn't make yourself more interesting or attractive. All it does is quickly determine whether is a girl is insecure and/or slutty enough to have sex with a douchebag. And if that's all you want, then great! But if not, this tactic--like many others discussed here on TRP--can be counterproductive. There's a fine line between assertiveness and douchebaggery. Lower quality girls can't always tell the difference. But the high quality girls can, and like the fo…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 06:12 PM
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If they make you feel more confident, and that confidence carries through to your interactions with girls, then go for it. While it's true that every girl's crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man, clothes don't really matter all that much as long as you're not slovenly. If other people in your social circle wear them then it's fine.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 10:49 PM
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Is vanity an evolutionary mental device? Quite possibly.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 06:37 PM
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Your username earns an upvote for being particularly creepy in this subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 10:23 PM
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Stop the presses! The sex with the most self-interest in selecting quality mating partners (due to the biological burden of pregnancy and the social expectations of child raising) is--gasp!--more selective! I can't wait to see how the perpetually wounded TRP subpopulation spins this into the usual "See? Women are whores!"
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 08:40 PM
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You'll probably be a good dad. And a good dad does occasionally melt for his baby girl. :)
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 06:39 PM
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Yeah, a man saying that you should treat women like children because men are always right does seem a bit...childish.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 04:33 AM
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If the man is constantly having to pass shit tests with the person he married, then he didn't have his eyes open, which was option B. Or he knew full well she was a bitch who would make his life hell and married her anyway, in which case he's a moron, so maybe there's an option C.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 02:05 AM
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Well, I did say your relationship had to be solid. That involves years of work, but perhaps more importantly, requires picking the right woman in the first place. It's a good question: how many divorces happen because one or both parties weren't willing to put the effort into maintaining a salvageable relationship, and how many of them were effectively doomed from the beginning because one or both parties didn't have their eyes open and married the wrong person? More of the former than the latte…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 12:12 AM
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Much better comparison.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 07:38 PM
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There's some definite confusion and conflation going on in that thread, and in this sub. The top comment is all about how treating women like children makes them unhappy! That treating her like an adult, and getting her to act like one, is what leads to success. But sure, I get it. My point is that there's a different balance of dominance and affection you show a toddler vs a woman. To address OP's examples in that thread: If a woman is getting hysterical because she needs to eat, she's more lik…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 07:30 PM
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Fair enough. I'd extend evolutionary biology a bit more explicitly than OP did, and clarify one point: girls with daddy issues are looking for someone to be a parent to them. Better-adjusted women are, quite rationally, looking for someone to be a parent for their (future) children. But showing a woman you will be a good father doesn't mean treating them like a child. There is certainly some overlap, but they're not as equivalent as OP seems to think.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 07:00 PM
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As someone married with kids, and old enough to be many RedPillers' father, I'd say there's some truth to this. As usual, however, it's more complicated than we'd like. Many women do want their man to a dominant authority figure, but you can't actually treat most of them like children. There's a lot more subtlety that goes into being dominant without being quite so obvious that you're dominant. At its extreme, this ends up be the egalitarianship that some women say they want. Generally, however,…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 06:41 PM
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modern women think SOME modern women think. If deluding yourself that all women subscribe to a top-secret feminist conspiracy newsletter makes you feel better about your past or current failures, then great. But it's not going to help you with the future at all.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 10:00 PM
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To be fair, that's a completely leading setup. It is literally asking how to substitute for a pussy; it is not a general question about relationship satisfaction. If he had asked "How would you keep your man if you went blind", the answers would have been more focused on non-sexual possibilities. It's not that there is zero truth in what OP (or O'neal) is saying--but don't be so immature and petty as to think that it's the truth.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 07:10 AM
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almost all girls are impure Danger Will Robinson! If you're looking for "purity" then you're the one who needs to change, because you're the one who's messed up. Life is not pure, and neither are you. and purely biologically rational (chasing the best looking richest dude and looking to tie him down) Women are hypergamous, but that just means you need to improve yourself. Learn how to be that step up on the socioeconomic ladder for the women you want. And honestly, this isn't as hard as it might…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 12:23 AM
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