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On his proposal: "He proposed to me at Minetta Tavern [in New York City], and he didn’t have a ring so I was like, 'Mmm, nah,'" Ratajkowski said. "And then he took the paper clip that the bill was paid with and made me a ring, which I actually thought was really romantic."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:11 PM
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Even outside work hours, Hannaford would field emails and take calls as her son, Ryan, climbed into her lap and tried to grab her phone. Her husband would plead with her to “get off the computer,” she said, teaching Ryan a trick to get her attention: When she wasn’t responding, her son would call her “Aimee” instead of “Mom.” (Hannaford’s husband declined to comment for this story.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 04:31 PM
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Your rationality and logic doesn't beat the oxytocin hit he is giving to her brain. Don't spend time with him, shut her down when she complains about him cause you don't want to hear about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:05 PM
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Cool Girls never get angry; they only smile in a chagrined, loving manner and let their men do whatever they want. Go ahead, shit on me, I don’t mind, I’m the Cool Girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:25 AM
8

Who pays for dates in your country? Men or women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:13 AM
29

A man knows almost right away if you are a woman he wants to marry. Otherwise, he is content to fuck you without any real commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 03:40 AM
73

It's the ultimate fantasy, isn't it? Showing all the women that he made it so they regret rejecting him. But we all know that if a wife/girlfriend stays with a poor man until he makes it, he will drop her in a heartbeat for a younger, prettier model. Men expect loyalty and a woman to always say yes when they show no loyalty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:16 AM
75

Lack of reply means no. Long story that is vaguely related but does not answer yes means no. Maybe: I do not want to tell you no means no. Even yes can mean no when they cancel on that day or don't show up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 07:42 PM
46

Some women just need validation from men all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 03:02 PM
3

If you feel like you're weak, block and delete. This person isn't treating you nicely, right? And you feel bad about all the interactions after, right? If you think you can't break up with him correctly, then don't. You only feel logical and rational when you're not with him, so prevent your oxytocin addicted self from staying with him when you have a clear head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:33 PM
62

This is life's way of seeing if you've learned anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 06:16 PM
70

That's exactly what he is saying. Don't you just enjoy a man who doesn't want to make choices and effort?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 06:14 PM
45

If a man cares about something, truly loves someone, he will be motivated believe you me. If he is not doing something for you, it's because he doesn't care. Don't explain it to him, he's not a stupid idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 05:33 PM
28

Emotional labour is a shit job that is really unappreciated. So easy to pretend incompetence to get out of doing labour and having responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 05:16 PM
347

Men want women who fuck like pornstars but are virgins. Men want a woman who is beautiful but doesn't know she is beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 05:04 PM
128

And she's actually leaving to get on a plane. Another comment on FDS said "when it's over for women, it's actually beginning of negotiations for men"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:57 PM
9

That girl is such a cool girl that she's practically an ice statue at a wedding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:58 PM
40

You sure showed this message that was mass sent to many women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:35 AM
12

The grammar and writing of that comment is so dense I don't know what he is trying to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 08:59 PM
11

Refrigerator mothers was an actual term in psychology made up by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 04:08 PM
30

There are men who kill women who outright reject them and say no to them, so there's that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 10:04 AM
98

Free sex is such an ego boost for a man. It raises his confidence while he looks for his true love which is not the woman who is chasing him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:59 AM
11

Do not justify argue defend explain. Block delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 01:18 AM
13

Fuckboy defense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:53 AM
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It's that stupid song Fuck you by Ceelo Green where he tries to shame his ex for choosing someone with means instead of being with his broke ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:48 PM
14

Fucking redpill mgtow incel idiot losers: Why didn't she just communicate with him? Why do violence to a perfectly rational man who is carrying a sign that says women deserve rape? I wish I was in that situation, since a woman hit first I would be totally justified to beat her down which is my fantasy: hitting women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:05 PM
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Just like the bible phrase: The meek will inherit the earth Also written by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:49 PM
16

missed to teach me: D- for grammer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:23 AM
15

No, women need to stay with shitty men, to make their lives better, to lift them up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:21 AM
74

There's definitely some downvote brigade going around this subreddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 10:47 PM
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Yep, don't do things like wait for someone to text you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 08:05 PM
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In that case, a HVM will inform you of those situations. This doesn't apply to randos you meet on dating sites. How many men are you dating that get hit by cars or get their phone stolen that you have to make this three day rule?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 04:14 PM
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Here lies a woman who forgot her own boundaries and self respect. She is doomed forever unless she comes into the light of FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 03:59 PM
17

Where is a man going that prevents access to his phone for three whole days?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 03:37 PM
3

A Marriage Story had a take on mothers and fathers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:22 PM
19

Like a man not texting you for several days: red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:16 PM
97

K is my favourite letter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 01:53 PM
15

Everyone should read the gift of fear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 11:04 PM
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K
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 10:56 PM
6

Yep, diminishing yourself allows that man to treat you as a lower priority. A man will step up for a woman he truly wants. You're just a hole he uses for sex if you don't respect yourself and ask for what you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 10:10 PM
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K
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 09:22 PM
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You're giving a man chances when he doesn't deserve chances. Sorry that the truth hurts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 09:18 PM
15

Some women are going to make excuses and fantasize and defend men. I don't know why she is on FDS if she's going to do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 09:04 PM
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Men will write songs about how they would "jump on a grenade for ya" but how often is a grenade going to be thrown at you? There are no songs written by men about how they will pay down your school debt for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 08:01 PM
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If he's not initiating that means he doesn't like you and why would you spend brain power thinking about someone who doesn't like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:55 PM
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But wHaT iF sHE pUnCHed Me fIrSt = the incel fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:50 PM
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Men know almost immediately if you are the woman they want to marry. Men aren't going to turn down free sex from a pretty lady who probably cleans and cooks for him without much commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:48 PM
15

You miss the oxytocin. Now that you're in a detox, you got to get over your addiction, it will take some time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:41 PM
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Sometimes you have to touch the hot stove to understand why people tell you not to touch the hot stove. Don't waste your advice on someone who needs experience to be their teacher.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:29 PM
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He is mass-messaging every female profile he can find. Of course he didn't read your profile. He didn't even use your name which reminds me of the Destiny's child song Say my Name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:26 PM
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Men aren't too busy for someone they have feelings for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:24 PM
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3 days should make him dead to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:22 PM
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Men will say it's unfair that men get drafted and also say that women are too weak to qualify for military standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:21 PM
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Teach those abusive men who want negative attention like a dog. Ignore their behavior. Do not reinforce their thoughts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:18 AM
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Ask the hard questions. Don't ignore small things that a man can gaslight you about. Did he not pick up your call? Did he not text back in a timely manner? I saw a woman trying to call her boyfriend three times and him not picking up. When he makes you desperate, that should be a wake up call. Don't make excuses for him. If something feels wrong, it is. Listen to your feelings. And right now it's fucking quarantine time. He has no excuses. He has nothing pressing to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:09 AM
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Ladies, be smart. Make a separate account for FDS with no personal information. Incels target and kill women. Alek Minassian met Elliot Rodgers on Reddit There are men who, if motivated, will dox and maybe even ultimately kill you. This is not hyperbole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 01:17 AM
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She is a popular artist with millions, source on her being a golddigger?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 02:20 PM
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I have no clue...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:05 PM
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And every time you speak her name Does she know how you told me You'd hold me until you died Til you died, but you're still alive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 06:28 AM
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He's trying to give her commands to delete the video when he has no power there. Everyone read The Gift of Fear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 01:27 PM
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Oh shit, I was being too generous with regards to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 01:13 PM
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Just want to point out the worst comment in the thread: My son is special needs (physically, not mentally that we know of rn), and seeing moments like this make me hopeful about his future. This parent hopes their son finds a woman to be his caregiver for life and do the extra work that comes with being a partner for a disabled person. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 01:07 PM
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So many gems in that thread, here is what I mined: *It's really very simple: Someone who wants to spend time with you will make time for you. *If someone wants your time and truly is busy they will suggest a concrete date or time as a replacement like "this Friday at 7". *This is why I date multiple people until things get sexual with one of them. Saves me from investing more than I should. *Lies through ommission. I started directly asking people if they’re single if they don’t list it on their…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 10:33 AM
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As a previous FDS comment goes: Lord, give me the confidence and audacity of a mediocre man chasing a girl who is out of his league.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 08:47 AM
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The opposite of love isn't any other emotion, it's apathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 02:38 AM
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Born sexy yesterday trope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 11:43 PM
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No one is more attentive and nicer than a guy who hasn't fucked you yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 02:47 AM
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Men will even create narratives about real life women. You only have to look at how Carole Baskin was portrayed by interviewers. The interviewers told everyone else in the documentary that the documentary was about speculation that Carole killed her husband while telling Carole it was about tigers and their preservation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 05:42 PM
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It's like when two characters build attraction during a tv series and then they get married or become a couple and the ratings drop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 05:12 PM
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You called it, killed his ex-wife and her boyfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 08:46 PM
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He is not an idiot. He knows what he is doing. Because you let him behave badly, he does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 11:37 PM
10

Thinking there's a deeper reason behind men's actions gives women false hope. Women stay in bad relationships because they read too much into men's actions. It is better to say harsh words of advice than to mollycoddle people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 10:50 PM
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Somehow, roaches always come out of hiding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 10:36 PM
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On youtube, there's this debate between Bill Nye and and the President of the Creationist museum, Ken Ham. Ken Ham admits beforehand that nothing Bill Nye says will sway his beliefs. That debate was pointless if neither side will concede.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:23 AM
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Twilight and 50 Shades of Grey are also not fucking comparable to porn. Even women got on the hating fiction for women bandwagon for these book series. The same people who would defend the violence of GTA wanted to police fantasy for women. Women are not going to be blindly influenced into bad relationships because of fiction. That's stupid and trying to cause moral panic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:41 PM
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This man is going to kill women and girls when society returns from Covid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:57 PM
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But don't you know that men are stupid idiots that women have to teach to have manners? He didn't know that he had to show basic human decency to another person! He was just a fucking neanderthal that doesn't even belong in a society but was tamed by a woman! Women need to show infinite patience and compassion forever because that's how culture portrays women. It's her fault for his lack of actions because women are responsible for men's actions towards them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:44 PM
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Yeah, she really owned that guy... by giving him female attention and effort and giving him the idea that maybe he should lie to women about his intentions so he can sleep with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:28 PM
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No kidding, if I wanted to be on r/relationships, I would be on it not FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:22 PM
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Dax Shepard is an ass, his movie that he wrote flopped and his wife has had hit after hit. All he has is a tiny podcast. Probably he feel emasculated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 05:31 PM
9

Joe is not credible at all, but people are believing him because they are sympathetic to him even though he preys on barely legal men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 10:00 PM
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but the toilet is a complete deal breaker for me at this point. However, if I were to be in a long term relationship with Darren It's not a dealbreaker to you obviously if you're still questioning and pondering this quandary. So, you should date him, put up with his behavior for several years, find out in addition to his terrible cleaning habits he is also horrible at adulting in other stupid ways that you find annoying and then dump him. Or, you could discard the notion that you have to teach a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:36 PM
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Love kernels
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 10:22 PM
25

Whenever I find myself sad or mad about a situation, it's usually because of my own actions. Should I have paid more attention to red flags? Did I push down my own feelings? Did I say yes when I really meant no? The world will always encroach on your boundaries. People will always encroach on your boundaries. You have to protect your own feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 08:57 PM
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Men characterize good sex as in having orgasmed, women characterize good sex as in didn't hurt. That's how low the bar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 03:40 PM
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I think we all have to thank a higher power that we don't live in China where they call older single women "leftover women". They have a lack of women in China due to female babies being killed off in the one child policy years and they try to shame the single ones to get into the dating pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 04:21 PM
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See how he responds to the word no. A HVM respects the word no. And LVM continues to push and will even actually freak out hearing the word no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 04:01 PM
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Aw, he's trying to play wingman for men he doesn't know and increase the pool of ready vaginas with women who he can scare into lowering their standards for unwashed manchildren. Women are fine being alone. Alone is better than being with LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:56 PM
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Your friend is irrational and thinking with her emotions if she wants to see her boyfriend in person during quarantine like he needs to test his love for her. Jesus Christ. People are dying out there, but no your friend's love is more important. Why is this even a question. Why does this kind of selfish thinking exist. Your context adds nothing of value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:39 PM
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It's hard, isn't it? Because you can see the potential in an LVM but all he sees you for is easy sex. Don't treat potential as if it's reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 01:53 PM
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An FDS post said it best: I don't like Chikfila, but if they were giving it away, I would stand in a line for that. Men will take the free sex, they don't care what person is attached to that vagina. If he doesn't have to do any work or show commitment at any stage, you'll never know his true feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 01:35 PM
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This meme is about entitled older men who think they can pull in younger women. The entitlement is the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 02:55 PM
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A blowjob is the most selfless, degrading, tiring, unappreciated service that will wreck your jaw and deplete you that ever existed. When most women do it, it is not reciprocated and men just roll over and fall asleep. Whenever a "woman" on the internet claims that they love it and would do it forever if they could, that's just a man trying to influence and shame women for not doing it and hating the work of a blowjob. "Why don't you love doing it? You're just doing it wrong if you're not gettin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 02:42 PM
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77 year old Harrison Ford's recent movie just flopped, that should tell you about the appeal of elderly men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 01:13 PM
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Do not ask or agree to meet up with other FDS women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 01:03 PM
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Men like a challenge. Men like winning sex from a woman. That's why they like banter and playfulness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 12:08 PM
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After years and years of red pill and mgtow and now incels, there was a need for this subreddit with this type of moderation and rules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:38 PM
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We get the love we think we deserve. She must truly hate herself. There are people that you can just pay to cuddle you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:24 PM
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See every single conversation about female genital mutilation. That's like center square on reddit bingo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 02:17 PM
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DURING QUARANTINE, DON'T DATE. STOP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 02:12 PM
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There's no equivalent for men, is there? A man you would fuck but not marry?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 12:25 PM
10

If a man loves you, you'll know. If he doesn't, you'll just be confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 11:19 AM
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No kidding men know what to fucking do. Men just don't do it so women have to work harder. It's that strategy where you pretend to be incompetent so the other person thinks you're stupid and does it for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 10:55 AM
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You can't see the end of the storm because right now you're in the storm. When it's bad like this, you can't even remember what it's like to even be happy. But you have to trust that the storm will pass. There will be sunny days again. Lessons have to hurt so you learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 10:51 AM
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Hila is such an LVW trash enabler.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 10:40 AM
6

Sour grapes. I stop engaging with stupid shit, control my own actions and deserve everything. I am glad I am not dating guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 10:32 AM
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Yep, you don't need the last word. Grow and mature by simply not engaging that person any more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 10:23 AM
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A long time ago, there was this show on TLC called 'While you were out'. The premise of the show was that a person set up a surprise room decoration for a family member, sending them on a tiny vacation while the room was being done. It was mostly episodes of wives doing renovations for their husbands. Women are thankful and care for others. Men don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 10:15 AM
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Less vagina out there for men. But what if you could have been a mommy to some incel who will now go on a mass shooting? Why won't you think of the men you could have served? Don't you know that behind every great man, there's a woman who has done the behind the scenes work of making him great?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 10:04 AM
10

Someone who is perfectly physically/mentally capable of running to the pharmacy for a box of sanitary pads but won't because he is obsessed with his new Xbox Live game?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 02:59 AM
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Healthcare has one of the highest if not the highest rates of violence in the workplace, you have to be strong to help lift clients and patients, you're telling people what to do all the time. Women's work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 10:37 AM
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He had it coming, he had it coming. He only had himself to blame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 10:26 AM
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Men already have parents and actual teachers. If they didn't learn when they were young you think you're going to teach a grown man to brush his teeth? Eat a variety of food not just tendies every day? Look after finances? You think you can teach a man to respect your boundaries during sex when he is stronger than you and pretends not to understand the word no? Men aren't stupid. They just pretend to be ignorant so they can gave a excuse not to be a caring human being. Men can look after themsel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:55 PM
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LVM don't have empathy or shame for the person that a vagina is attached to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 08:57 AM
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Skinner box. A rat is more likely to push a lever for food if the food is random than if it is a steady flow. Randomized attention is very effective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 04:21 AM
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Yeah, don't teach men anything that they can use against other women. Gaining internet points just to show you owned a man so badly at conversation means nothing. Ghost them, block them is how you own them, that hurts worse than a negative response. Wondering when a conversation has gone wrong. Just look at r/tinder for examples of men sending shitty responses to own women. Do you want to be like them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 11:31 AM
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Did you block him so you don't even give him the satisfaction of knowing you read his texts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:53 PM
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Hm, after you told him you wanted a relationship he became more distant, you're making excuses for him, he's not replying to texts in a timely manner and doesn't stay over after sex? He is a total LVM. You don't train men to see you as a HVW. You don't train men to be HVM. Read He's just not that into you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 04:42 PM
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for women who want to read more about triangulation and cluster b
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 03:55 PM
8

Lets see a man read a victim impact statement about forgiving a woman about falsely accusing him of rape and see how many fun comments there are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:57 PM
20

The gift of fear Everyone read it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:51 PM
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No woman is too far gone that they can't change their ways if they really want to. You've taken away the right message: if a guy wants you, he will put effort in. If you're putting more effort than him, there's no future with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 07:57 PM
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I'll admit that it doesn't work for everyone. This is your own admission. In the book He's just not that into you the authors make this lesson clear: Don't listen to exceptions. Don't listen to outliers. You have a FWB that doesn't cause you emotional trauma and only adds good things to your life? Great! And I am sure there are women who proposed to men and they lived happily ever after. FDS does not need a guide telling women how to have casual relationships as if all women just need to do ever…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 04:13 PM
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Ultimate truth. When I found out my ex had no tp, I bought a 24 pack for him. IT WAS FUCKING EASY TO BUY TOILET PAPER. His priority was buying imaginary points for his game. If a guy cares about someone or something, he'll put effort in believe you me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:32 PM
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What is a dumb woman, in your opinion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 07:37 PM
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Men expect women to give up boundaries for them, but give up none of their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:50 PM
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The dogs bark but the caravan moves on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 04:46 PM
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This is fake. Has any man ever bragged about a woman proposing to him? The shame and humiliation would just kill him. Hint: this account posted to twoxchromosomes. It didn't post to a male oriented subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 08:01 PM
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One day I will replace you with someone who I will actually say I love you to. Fucking Star Wars with: Leia- I love you Han Solo- I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 07:31 PM
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I like how the prosecutors went "nope, death is too good for you. You think about what you did for the rest of your life in a tiny cell with nothing to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 04:14 PM
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Do men even know the definition of emotional work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:20 PM
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It's funny. FDS is a reaction to the stupid, inconsiderate, traumatic shit that men put you through. I think only when you have been hurt in this way will your eyes open to FDS. There's a comment on Reddit that I think about often: you can do no harm to anyone and bad things will still happen to you. Protecting yourself is a number one priority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 04:52 PM
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And a woman has never wounded 413 people and killed 58 people in one incident.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 07:50 PM
13

Sorry that the world is fucking shit for you right now. I've been there, it's the worst when a man thinks you're just a warm hole for him to stick his dick into. You can survive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:19 AM
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R/sex in a nutshell. Does anyone else get pleasure from giving blowjobs to men without any expectation of reciprocation? Just giving the blowjob, wrecking your jaw, working for thirty minutes while he edges to make himself last longer is just the definition of what female pleasure is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 08:16 PM
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They even made an episode trying to justify the reason Marge was with Homer, like she actually enjoyed his shitty shenanigans and not because she got knocked up by him and never went to college and had zero marketable skills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:32 PM
356

Reminds me of a Simpsons episode where Ned Flanders hired a skywriter to write a message to Maude for Valentine's and Homer and other husbands tried to sabotage it because they had forgotten and didn't put in any effort and their wives were mad. The episode ended with the husbands messing with the plane so that the pilot made a star instead of a message and all the wives thought it was a personalized message for each of them and forgave their husbands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:33 PM
4

detachable vagina
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 07:52 PM
38

Men protect other men. Men give other men the benefit of the doubt. In this case, your male friend was being a wingman for a guy he didn't even know. It's the brotherhood of men. Reminds me of when a wife asked a chrome forum about her husband's browser history and men covered for her husband
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 10:04 AM
15

Make an account only for this subreddit, get it verified. It's worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 05:18 PM
65

Well yeah, it's the man's fault for what he did/does in this situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 05:17 PM
322

women think that a boyfriend or husband has been vetted, and therefore valuable, but really their long suffering girlfriend/wife has been putting up with the man's behavior. Blondie did Brunette a massive favor by taking that guy cause Brunette would have been loyal to the end and putting up with that guy's shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 04:47 PM
12

Don't fall prey to sunk cost fallacy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:02 PM
76

She thought that the more money, time and effort she put into him would cause him to reciprocate and love her. She thought he wasn't dating anyone else. She thought he had good qualities when she was only projecting her own good qualities on to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:14 PM
13

I say you the bestest Lean in for a big kiss put his favorite perfume on Go play your video game It's you, it's you, it's all for you Everything I do I tell you all the time Heaven is a place on earth where you Tell me all the things you want to do -A sad Pickmeisha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:55 PM
44

Can confirm that I don't feel hungry anymore after what I let an LVM do to me. Went down a size in pants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:38 PM
6

You have to be careful if this woman is not FDS. If she is a LVW, she will stand by her man no matter what evidence you throw at her, you could have pictures of him fucking two women and a newspaper with today's date, she would block it out of her mind, especially since he proposed after eight years. That's a long investment from her and a lot of sunk cost that she's not getting back. She'll blame you for leading him astray and possibly come after you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:25 PM
20

The term is 'crabs in a bucket', when one member of the group can escape a situation, the other members of the group try to drag that member down again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:53 PM
5

Lessons like this have to hurt or people don't learn! You are a stronger person for having experienced doing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:46 PM
12

Thanks :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 07:13 AM
21

Ah, the George Costanza method from the Seinfeld episode The Opposite. Fail in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 06:04 AM
25

Yep. When I dated my ex, he had a messy place and I cleaned up a bit. One day, it was clean and there was cologne in the bathroom. That's when I knew he was dating someone who he would later introduce as his girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 06:00 AM
9

Even if you think autistic guys and guys with extreme social anxiety can be legit shy guys, they wouldn't be HVM. Any guy who doesn't approach is not worth the investment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:12 PM
55

'He should go to the doctor cause that sounds like depression' NO SHIT HE SHOULD GO TO THE DOCTOR, did you not pay attention to the whole post? She said that he's not showering, he isn't going to work, he wallows around in his own filth, whats she supposed to do? Drag his ass against his will to his appointments which she would have to set up for him? Build him up and spoon feed him until he's better and leaves her for another woman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:34 PM
94

Yep, even if the woman puts 'I discussed with him' or 'I tried to talk to him' the advice givers ignore it or go YOU DIDN'T TALK TO HIM CORRECTLY IN A WAY HE WOULD UNDERSTAND
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:41 PM
37

for all her troubles he slept with one of her assistants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:24 PM
32

Are there any studies on how long a marriage lasts when a woman proposes vs a man proposes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:12 PM
0

I agree. I saw this happen to ShitRedditSays, there was momentum in the subreddit growing and then the mods started cracking down on members and now the subreddit is barely relevant anymore. TheDonald, Redpill, and MGTOW don't attack their own members. The left always attacks itself, that's why it has so much division and can never be a cohesive whole that defeats the altright.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:10 PM
8

Should she show him any sign of weakness, yes he will abuse her, emotionally and physically. She was the cool girl for him, she let him move them to another state, she gave him money for him and his sister to buy a bar, and he cheated on her. He took her and her money and time and love for granted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:27 PM
59

Because her original plan was to frame him for her murder and commit suicide, but during his interview, he was too good at lying that she fell for him. And the lovesick guy was so controlling that she started to remember all the good things about Nick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:58 AM
144

Sitcom wives are the worst. And they are written by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:32 PM
10

Let's all give men the benefit of the doubt when they are punching walls and catcalling women until women are raped and or killed and then it is the women's fault because the women didn't protect themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 10:50 PM
238

Women, it's your fault if you got raped and you should protect yourselves from rapists! no, not like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:29 PM
5

Yep, trolling and doxing can be expected to rise once those types of people start noticing and becoming offended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 07:46 PM
14

Yep, Steve Job's daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 03:55 PM
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