FDS is NOT and will NEVER BE anything like The RedPill or MGTOW, and we are NOT incels. They’re playing tiddly-winks and we’re playing expert level chess.

After months and months of trying and failing to get men to grasp what FDS is, I’ve come to the conclusion that it’s impossible.

I know, I know, it was probably crazy to ever presume they could, but I wanted to try for my own understanding of where the gaps were coming from.

What I’ve found, from now months of discussion, is that the actual experience of being a woman is so vastly different from what men imagine, assume or project that it’s like that it’s quite literally impossible for them to grasp. Womanhood is apparently all mimosas and ponies and sexual attention and vagina hats and scamming men for money in their minds. They can’t identify with us on any level.

This is why their attempts to compare FDS to RedPill or MGTOW or incels always fall laughably short and are viscerally insulting.

They don’t understand the vastly different stakes, the much higher risks, the much lower rewards, the devastating consequences of failure, and the infinitely higher strategic difficulty.

Picking the father of our future children will effect our entire immediate lives, our children’s lives, as well as our family for generations to come. This is the major leagues of relationship skills. Men have no ability to conceptualize tomorrow, much less that far into the future.

RedPill is about getting some drunk low self esteem girls to have sex with you, which is Hi-ho cherry-oh level strategic skills. The Red Pill is kindergarten, FDS is college level calculus.

MGTOW is a bunch of little boys who lost a couple of matches taking their board game and storming off; FDS is evolving the game all together.

Incels want teacher to come along and force everyone to win equal times or they’ll destroy all the pieces to the game so nobody can play. FDS is that teacher telling them they need to practice and get better or try a different game.

Yet, these men manage to fill tomes of content listening to themselves blather on endlessly about the nature of women while actually saying very little and getting it consistently wrong.

We communicate in memes and short form discussions because Women who participate in FDS can intuit most of our ideas very easily - there is a worldwide shared understanding of what womanhood means in relation to men.

So in conclusion, talking to most men and especially the manosphere about gender relations is literally like trying to reason with children. Hence the loud and vitriolic internet tantrums we’ve been getting since FDS’ meteoric rise to Reddit fame.

It’s been wild ride, y’all.