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TRIGGER WARNINGhoIds_up_spork/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 09:48 PM
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DISCUSSIONhoIds_up_spork/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 08:18 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEhoIds_up_spork/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 02:48 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?hoIds_up_spork/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 04:46 PM
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DISCUSSIONhoIds_up_spork/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:23 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGhoIds_up_spork/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 03:02 PM
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DUMP HIS ASShoIds_up_spork/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 06:51 PM
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LIES MEN TELLhoIds_up_spork/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:38 AM
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DUMP HIS ASShoIds_up_spork/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 08:04 PM
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NAH, SIShoIds_up_spork/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 05:16 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEhoIds_up_spork/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 02:21 AM
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DISCUSSIONhoIds_up_spork/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:03 PM
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#KickHimOut2020hoIds_up_spork/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 02:07 AM
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DUMP HIS ASShoIds_up_spork/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 07:52 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYhoIds_up_spork/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:43 PM
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DUMP HIS ASShoIds_up_spork/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 04:23 AM
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DUMP HIS ASShoIds_up_spork/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 04:41 AM
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DUMP HIS ASShoIds_up_spork/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 06:49 PM
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It can even be dangerous to tell an NVM you’re pregnant. I used to be into true crime and so many stories start off with “Pregnant woman goes off to meet up with her boyfriend who doesn’t want the baby” and she’s never seen alive again. It’s just not worth the risk imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 04:43 PM
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holy shit men are so fucking fragile. his loser friend didn’t get the job so he’s going to ruin this woman’s life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:34 PM
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I’m so sorry! I will be more cognizant of that going forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 11:40 PM
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Apparently even nunneries aren’t safe from male depravity! Nuns actually had their own MeToo movement - NunsToo. How sick is it that there’s literally nowhere we can fully escape from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 11:31 PM
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We find out this information in the comments/her post history: she’s 8 months pregnant he said he’s “not attracted to her anymore” he cheated on her he blamed said cheating on the lack of attraction Meanwhile this poor woman thinks the reason her husband is an abusive rapist is because she’s not communicating well enough. I’m sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 09:52 PM
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I've seen people call it kinkshaming to criticize real-life incest so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 09:58 PM
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Funny how common this mentality is. We all reject it at first because it's so painful to realize that 90% of men aren't worth marrying and procreating with, especially when we recognize LVM and NVM, but your life vastly improves once you start incorporating FDS principles in your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:19 PM
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I've seen women as young as 22-23 being referred to as "old and jealous" by men (who, of course, are significantly older than 22-23) for warning teen girls about groomers. "SeX PoSiTivITy" is allowing them to be more open with their pedophillia - even 20-somethings are "too old" for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:10 PM
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This is the thing MRAs never want to talk about - most men who are assaulted are assaulted by other men, most men/boys who are raped, are raped by other men, most men who are killed are killed by other men. They expend all their energy pretending to care about the 20% of men abused by women yet are completely dismissive (if not downright bigoted and homophobic) to higher number of men who are victimized by other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:04 AM
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literally every other female subreddit on the reddit has been colonized and ruined by men. men can post in everything from r/witchesvspatriarchy to r/askwomen to TwoX. this sub is the only non-private female sub that men can't post to, yet that drives them CRAZY. back when pinkpillfeminism was public i used to get emails from angry men all day asking why i didn't want debates or discussion..... i do, just not with men. we already have to deal with them shoving their unwanted opinions in every ot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:04 PM
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don't be a betty broderick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:19 PM
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honestly, i'm so worried for this new generation of young women. i'm still a young woman myself but i feel like there's been a huge cultural shift between when i graduated high school, in 2014, and when my sister graduated, in 2020. every time i'm on tik tok i see young women posting about how much they make on onlyfans and the comments are FULL of other young 14-17 year old just waiting until they're 18 because they see girls supposedly pulling in tens of thousands of dollars per month. that ap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:11 PM
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any woman who doubts the importance of FDS should just spend an hour or two browsing that sub. is that the future you want?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:50 PM
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he's 100% cheating. i do not believe that he's in an open relationship at all. and if he is, he's a spineless, pathetic piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:47 AM
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"your boyfriend doesn't let you have friends????"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:42 AM
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they just want to silence women. that's literally it. if they actually cared about "mEn's iSsUes" they'd be aiming most of their activism at other men, not women, since men are the biggest danger to and oppressor of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:31 PM
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when the roles are reversed: lol it's just dark humour learn to take a joke u femini b**
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:00 PM
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Reminds of that "I love my chubby wife" guy from a few years ago lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:39 PM
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black women always stand up and defend black men and what does it get us??? MURDER. i'm done caring about them. black lives matter really means "black male lives matter and black women are an afterthought". like all women, we're told to ignore the red flags and signs of abuse and when there is abuse we're discouraged from calling police because of racism (i've literally seen someone tweet exactly that). the life of an abusive black man apparently matters more than the life of an abused black wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:01 AM
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yeah, she took over zooey dechanel's quirky NLOG role lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 02:49 AM
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because deep down she knows it isn't right so she's trying to get people on reddit to tell her how amazing her husband is and how awesome she is for sticking by him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 05:55 PM
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also, just because he puts a ring on your finger doesn't mean he doesn't still think like this. some men have no issue marrying you, having kids with you, buying a house and two cars and a do, etc. but will still leave you the moment he meets someone he finds more intriguing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:33 PM
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They banned thefairersex which doesn't even allow people to comment!!! But TheRapePill and MGTOW are still up. I wish I could say I was shocked but....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:09 PM
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meanwhile, men think it's a misandrist hate crime if a woman doesn't disclose she has a kid before the first date. (but also, if she mentions that she has kids on her profile that means she's a karen mombie who thinks people care about her crotchfruit.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:22 PM
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some guy once asked me to go get polar pops (aka fountain soda) as a first date....... the AUDACITY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:39 AM
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disabled women and girls are even more likely to be raped and abused than non-disabled women/girls. the risk isn't worth it imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 04:21 PM
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lmao there was this pick me in one of my facebook groups who said that single moms couldn't call themselves "single moms" if the dads saw the kids every other weekend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:08 PM
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Think of how much courage it would have taken that woman to turn him down in public with people cheering him on and filming. She's a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 07:42 PM
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so he wasted 5 years of his ex's life? LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 11:56 PM
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yup. he's going to break up with her and go for a woman who's less successful and less ambitious because his current rich med school girlfriend hurts his ego
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 04:12 PM
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This man is a straight up pedophile. He's not even one of those misogynists that think women expire after 30 - he's primarily attracted to underage/barely legal girls. OP is still so young but she's not barely legal anymore and probably looks more like a woman than the teenager he met; mid 20s is generally where women begin losing their baby fat and other adolescent markers and start looking more grown. He's losing attraction and can't get it up for her anymore because he's a pedophile so he get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 04:00 PM
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the same people who use "free speech" to justify their shitty racist/homophobic/misogynistic takes also want this sub to be banned because it triggers them lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 01:08 AM
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let me guess, he's 22?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 01:06 AM
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i had a friend of my dads hit on me just after i told him that my dad died. i was 18 or 19 and he was in his 40s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 05:40 PM
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that's the thing with these old scrotes - you're not an actual person to them, you're a status symbol. he gets to brag to his friends that he's dating a hot 20-something. it doesn't matter if you have a PhD and rescue baby kittens as a hobby, you're his Sexy Young Thing™️ who reminds him of when he was 25 and actually hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 05:38 PM
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some scrote on reddit accused me of being JEALOUS because i said it was gross that a 23 year old was dating a 50 year old. yeah, i'm sooooo jealous of a woman my age spending her 20s with a man who's literally my dad's age. ok. they're so delusional lmaoooooo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 05:32 PM
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I grew up reading the the MK and Ashley books and watching the movies (Passport to Paris was my jam) and reruns of So Little Time so I have a spot for them. They've definitely seen some shit during their days in Hollywood. They've been horrifically abused and used for their fame, money, and beauty from a young age and have developed unhealthy coping mechanisms and mental illnesses as a result (anorexia, drug addiction, etc). It's not a coincidence that she's barely appeared in any movies once sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:21 PM
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men always say that they can't control their height therefore height preferences are evil yet women not being able to control their age doesn't stop men from complaining that 30+ women exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 02:54 PM
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and then men complain when women won't immediately disclose their entire sexual history. maybe more women would be comfortable being open if men didn't see it as an invitation to feel entitled to every single thing you've ever done with another man. it doesn't matter if you tried it and hated it or if you were pressured/coerced/raped. men's sense of masculinity is so fragile that you owe him every single sex act you've ever performed with another man otherwise he starts feeling weak and eMaScUaL…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 03:17 AM
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My mom is a social worker who specializes in geriatric patients and just last week she was telling me about all the men with MS and other degenerative diseases that abuse their wives and the nurses/PCAs. It's honestly disgusting. Their sense of masculinity is so weak because she wipes his ass so he has to take it out on her (his wife or carer) by doing things like shitting himself on purpose and smearing it, throwing tantrums whenever she touches him, sexually assaulting her by trying to trick h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 05:30 PM
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he'll cheat before the baby's even born, guaranteed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:37 PM
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I loooove setting my preferences to girls only on Tinder and vibing with a girl only to get blindsided by Polly Pickmeisha and her ugly Nigel 🤮 A lot of the time the girl's aren't even bi either so you'll just be fucking her smelly boyfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:35 PM
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yeah libfems have corrupted feminism to mean "any choice that makes a woman happy" when the actual point of feminism is to benefit women as a class. i really don't care if she flaunts her body but it's not feminist because it doesn't benefit any women but herself. MEN are the ones primarily benefitting. supporting women's education, healthcare, economic freedom, etc. benefits all women and that's what feminism is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:19 PM
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honestly i feel kind of sad for her. i can't imagine how hard aging must be when your claim to fame is being sexy. she's 29 which obviously isn't old but considering how ageist the media/modelling industry is she probably knows that they're already looking for the next sexy 20 year old to replace her. she dated him for four years from when she was about 22/ until when she was 26. it wouldn't surprise me if she settled with her current husband because she was having a quarter life crisis after th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:11 PM
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she's so annoying. i can't believe the media treats her like some expert on feminism when her "activism" is getting naked and dousing herself in spaghetti.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 12:39 PM
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it's okay- we've all been there. we all want to believe that the men we love aren't as shitty as they actually are. congrats on losing the deadweight 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 08:45 PM
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even if we were gold diggers (which you are absolutely right that FDS is not), is that honestly the worst kind of person you can be? men will use a woman's body, her youth, her uterus. her intelligence, etc. for decades and leave her heartbroken and destitute and that's perfectly ok but a woman using a man for money is the wooooorst thing ever?! some women dedicate their whole lives to their man only to have him cheat and leave when she gets pregnant or dares to age past 40. "it's just biology" …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 08:43 PM
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Meanwhile men will post "My wife just had a baby and she cries all the time and won't get out of bed. AITA for yelling at her for handing me the baby and running out of the house in tears????" and the comments will be YTA. (Yes, this was a semi-recent post on AITA).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 08:31 PM
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I regularly see posts in relationship subs where the woman is like "Am I abusive for wanting my boyfriend to brush his teeth more than twice month???" The first time I saw a post like that I was shocked. And then I kept seeing posts like that. There's also the women whose boyfriends/husbands don't wipe their asses and leave literal shit stains everywhere and they're like "What do I dooooo??" and asking how to CoMmUniCate to him that his shitstained boxers aren't very sexy. So many women are brai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:30 PM
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give it 5 years and they'll be posting in r/breakingmom crying about how he's addicted to camgirls and hasn't washed a dish in years that's the sad part- pickmeishas only hurt themselves and their children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 03:30 PM
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men literally get angry when women they aren't attracted to have the audacity to be attracted to them. i can't count the number of times i've seen/heard men complaining that all their matches are overweight, ugly, have kids, etc. like they didn't swipe right too 🙄 and then when you say that they reply "WeLL iF i DiDn'T sWiPe On EvEryOne i'D hAve No MaTchEs!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:00 AM
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he cheated on her a lot when they were younger. he apparently got caught cheating with a friend of kate's just last year! kate was a laughingstock in the british media (which is admittedly evil and insanely misogynistic) for the longest time because they dated for like 7 years with no ring ("waity katie")
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 05:16 PM
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one of my biggest regrets ever is encouraging my 16 year old friend to hook up with a 24 year old who was also a nurse at the hospital she volunteered at. it's been 6 years but i still think about it. looking back, she was traumatized at 13 when her mom died by suicide and he gave her attention and made her feel ~cool~ and special. she told us that they'd made out but hadn't had sex yet because she wasn't 18 and my one friend and i told her that AoC was actually 16 unless she was his direct repo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 02:55 AM
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and yet if a woman supports FDS because she doesn't want to mate with an asshole suddenly she's a misandrist and JuSt aS bAd As iNcELs who've literally murdered people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 10:41 PM
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Lol I had a scrote tell me a misogynistic joke about single moms and I was like, "My mom's a single mom....." and he got all awkward and tried to explain why it's different because she was a widow. It's almost like hating moms is less about "fathers rights" and more about men thinking women belong to the men we procreate with!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 05:03 PM
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I'm subbed to r/survivinginfidelity to remind myself that men ain't shit and just this morning there was a post from a woman who's 38 weeks pregnant and her husband was cheating and left her for the AP when she was 34 weeks. He didn't even respond to the sonogram she sent him at 36wks. I bet you that she never saw this coming and why would she? Women are taught that if we do things the "right" way - get married, have babies, and don't have super high standards because then you'll nEvEr FiNd a Ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:04 PM
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he didn't "realize" anything because it wasn't a mistake. he knew exactly what he was doing the whole time and just doesn't give a fuck about her feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 02:11 AM
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lol i wonder what all the dumb libfems who think sending incels to sw is a good idea think of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 10:19 PM
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Henry VIII is the definition of a past-his-prime scrote who thinks he's still attractive to teen girls and gets triggered when his child bride cheated with a hot guy in his 20s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 10:11 PM
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it's funny how men always claim that the richest women in the world only got that way because of daddy/ex hubby's money as if men don't do the same damn thing. most male billionaires aren't self made but of course they don't get ANY criticism for using daddy's money and daddy's connections to start a business 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:45 PM
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a few weeks ago this twitch streamer got roasted on reddit for asking her subscribers to join her patreon. all the comments were like "well when she turns 30 she'll be shocked when all her orbiters go away!!!!" turns out she was 29 lmao. they suddenly shifted the goal post to 35.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 04:54 AM
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Good point - you never see the reverse of this. "If she's washing the dishes I'm standing next to her drying. If she's scrubbing the washroom I'm vaccuuming the living room," etc. Men never have to prove anything even though they're the ones benefitting most from relationships/marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:42 PM
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Right? I hate men for blaming women for "pUtTiNg oUr PUsSieS oN a PedEsTal" when it was men that teach women from childhood that our sex appeal matters most. Girls can make more selling lewds/nudes in OnlyFans or even just streaming with their tits almost out than they can as a teacher, social worker, daycare worker, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:37 PM
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They don't even brag on behalf of themselves (bc most of them having nothing to brag about)- they brag on behalf of other men. For example, every time the UNWNT is mentioned in Reddit there are always at least half a dozen snarky bros reminding us that "they lost o a team of 14 year old boys!!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:32 PM
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that's why the whole "men are protectors" nonsense is bs. when men see a vulnerable women, they don't want to help her - they want to exploit her. pregnant women, girls with daddy issues, prostitutes, poor women and girls in third world countries. men only think about how he can use a situation to get his dick sucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 05:18 PM
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did he cOmMuNiCaTe to the woman that he didn't want to be beaten with a baseball bat??? it takes two!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:24 PM
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I read it in my uncles' Ghanaian accent because that's definitely something they'd say lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 05:10 PM
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men: take away women's rights men: give women back SOME rights men and pickmeishas: you should be GREATFUL!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 05:05 PM
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Yeah something is clearly wrong when you're going online for relationship advice. That means your gut knows something is wrong and you either don't want your friends to find out about his behaviour or your friends have found out about his behaviour and don't like him and you're trying to find someone who will lie to you and tell you he can change if you just cOmMuNiCaTe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:20 AM
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women are made to feel guilty if a guy pays for our $20 olive garden entrée and we don't suck his dick afterwards. LVM do not feel bad about using you for everything you have and then moving on to the next girl. that's why making the first move or doing the most in the relationship is almost always a mistake. don't ask him out, don't propose to him, don't give him wifey benefits when you're not even his girlfriend, etc. all you're doing is giving him the power; you never actually know if he real…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 01:54 AM
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also? we notice the way men treat us. men literally paid $35k for used bathwater from a pretty girl. do they honestly think belle believes they're paying her because of her personality? Grand Prix girls know they're hot, Hooters girls know they're hot, girls who notice that men are always super nice and helpful know they're hot, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 06:39 PM
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LOL I hope they keep mentioning it!! I found this place because someone called it a femin*zi sub and I feel like I'm definitely not the only one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 06:19 PM
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it's because the OP is an MRA fiction meant to rile up the "women bad" mob
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 05:41 PM
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he literally has the head as one of the easter island statues i-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 05:29 AM
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Yup, if you have to ask if he's an HVM or if you're confused, he probably isn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:39 PM
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Sadly, same happens r/bigboobproblems (and I assume r/smallboobproblems and r/mediumboobproblems, if it exists) 🙄 male degeneracy is universal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:28 PM
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they're disgusting. most of those photos are stolen too. there's another sub, i can't remember the name, where men post photos of groups of women and other men list them in the order they'd like to fuck. i wonder how many women unknowingly have male "friends" stealing their photos for other men to jack off to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 05:24 PM
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right? i'm done shedding tears over ugleoids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:49 PM
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I've witnessed men on reddit call Rihanna ugly because her forehead is too big and ScarJo ugly because her lips are asymmetrical. Men feel like it's their RIGHT to judge any woman's appearance; it doesn't matter how successful, talented, or beautiful it is they will nitpick and criticize every minute detail on her body. Meanwhile, some girl on Tinder likes tall guys and there are weekly posts on the frontpage talking about how awful height preferences are. Funny enough, where are the posts about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:54 PM
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reminds of when Kristen Stewart hadn't officially come out and there were literally photos of her making out and holding hands with Alicia Cargle (sp?) and all the tabloids were like "look at these gal pals!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 04:33 PM
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mEn ArE pRotEcTorS aNd ProViDeRs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 04:31 PM
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it's so sad the number of reddit posts with pregnant women or new moms where i can predict that their marriage will not end well (either divorce or she ends up beaten down and tired while her leech husband treats her like a maid and nanny)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 04:24 PM
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no wonder reddit loves him, LVM king
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 11:57 PM
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Didn't he lead her on, date her for 6 years, then dump her literally days before her wedding?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 11:20 PM
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People are saying that she and her new boyfriend were his first victims......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:56 PM
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Yes, I'm also 23 and my boyfriend is 25 and he always pays. He paid even when we were just friends and we met at 20 and 21.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:50 PM
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He's fucking psychotic lmao. He just convinced her (and the friends she sends the screenshot to) to screen all men under 6' because they'll go on crazy rampages like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:19 AM
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facts lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:36 PM
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As a Gemini, I now understand why everyone hates us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 04:32 PM
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true but imo the treatment of MILFs/cougars in fiction is actually an example of how female youth is valued so much. MILFs are always super attractive, but painted as wanting to recapture their youth (aka their 'peak') and they do this by seducing barely legal boys. If they have a daughter, they'll compete with her for male attention a la Mrs Robinson. MILFs are seen as fun to fuck for younger men, but not relationship material. Meanwhile, ""silver foxes"" are fully fleshed romantic and sexual b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 03:44 PM
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My brother is almost 4 years younger than me. He's 19 now and has kept pretty much the same friends since he was 5 years old and added a few along the years. They're all considered pretty popular/attractive among the girls in their age group (seriously, every time I go back to my hometown I have 18 year old girls who know my name and want to befriend me because "you're [brother's] sister"). I cannot imagine finding any one of them attractive!!!! They'll always be little boys to me. We got on a c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 03:10 PM
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holy shit, is this the same stoya that publicly outed james deen as a rapist and called the porn industry out on its continued support of known predators???? the same stoya who was bashed by libfems and pickme pornstars and defended by radfems and anti porn activists???? lol classic cockholmed libfem betrayal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 07:28 PM
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that's so true. if you have to resort to going after girls who are so drunk they can't stand up straight, how can you honestly say you're not a rapist? funny how men have sympathy for other men who get "scammed" by strippers (waaaaaah the women i wanted to exploit and objectify took my money!! 👶🏻) or e-girls yet they don't have any sympathy for women. super funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 07:19 PM
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I hate when they try to claim "BuT iF hE's DrUnK tOo DiDn'T tHeY rApE eAcH oThEr?????" first of all, men can hold their liquor better than women due to being bigger and heavier than us. i literally get tipsy after two drunks and full on giggly after 3..... my boyfriend is stone cold sober until at least 3 and he's a lightweight. same with other lightweight males i know. and usually the girl is literally incoherent/slurring and stumbling/leaning/lying on things the way you do when you get tied wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 05:27 PM
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men are truly disgusting. "muh dick" is always first and foremost in their thoughts. they don't care if you're in a relationship or half his age or studying at the library with headphones in, if you make his dick hard he feels entitled to ask you out because "why not". i remember i once talked about the time where i was studying for exams in the library and some scrote kept trying to talk to me even as i had headphones in, my laptop open, and was reading a textbook. i said how annoying it was th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:42 PM
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she's stupid too tbh. she's been dating him for a month and a half. she really thought that seeing her boyfriend of like two weeks during social distancing was essential? l
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 07:39 AM
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this sub literally would not exist if it wasn't for MGTOW, TRP, etc. we literally would not need FDS at all if men were decent people who weren't afraid to lie and manipulate women into sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 08:33 PM
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this is why sex positive feminism makes me sick. i'm so sorry, OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 08:30 PM
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Don't apologize to these pigs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 09:22 PM
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i mean, if you want people to lie to you and tell you that you can change his mind go to r/dating_advice. FDS is about telling women the truth - we are not here to coddle you and protect your feelings, read the handbook. a man paying for you dinner, holding your hand, and calling you "babe" or "sweetheart" means nothing if he hasn't explicitly expressed interest in commitment. yes, he's trash but honestly he was upfront about that right away and FDS is not about ignoring the signs and then cryin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 06:20 PM
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i mean, don't date a guy who openly says he doesn't want a relationship if you do want a relationship? read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 06:12 PM
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looks like prison food
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 08:56 PM
55

inciting brigades = telling women to leave their abusive deadbeat baby daddy.......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 08:51 PM
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who says he has to inquire? if your box of tampons is sitting in the washroom all he has to do is look. idk, when you care about someone and spend a lot of time with them you notice the little things and it stops being a big deal. i know my boyfriend's favourite toothpaste brand (arm & hammer) and deodorant (old spice) and his favourite brand of yogurt (skyr) and his favourite food to make while studying (mini pizzas) without him ever having to tell me. like, don't get me wrong it's certainly a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 01:05 AM
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It shouldn't even be a question!! My little sister had a tutoring job that made decent money ($20/h) but I ALWAYS pick up the tab when we go out because I'm older and make more money. He's fucking pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 11:37 PM
10

it's sad when you're listing all the reasons why he's trash and she's like "noooo he loves me!!!!" and then 2 weeks later she's back "oh he was trash".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 11:12 PM
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that's literally what i'm saying, bruh. a lot of LVM try to claim that they prefer drink dates to dinner dates because "dinner dates are so expensive when i don't even know if i'll get a second date" but 3 cocktails ends up being just as expensive as dinner and one cocktail because it's not about the expense - it's about the "return" on their investment (e.g. you're more likely to sleep with him after 3 cocktails so it's more worth it).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 10:48 PM
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the worst is when they claim a dude is high value because he bought them dinner or spent money on them. raise your fucking standards! that is literally the bare minimum! even my ex fwb who refused to commit to me paid for my dinners!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 10:04 PM
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The worst is when these women write paragraphs and paragraphs and then it comes out that they've been dating him for three months. I can at least understand why someone wouldn't want to give up on an LTR right away but come the fuck on!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 10:01 PM
6

Exactly! 3 cocktails each ends up being just as pricy as one drink and a main in most cases
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 09:31 PM
11

thanks, fixed! if men only had sex with people they respected most of them would be lifelong virgins
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:31 AM
18

My ex fwb's roommate had a friend who was pretty hot. Think rugged ginger scottish type- he was short but he didn't have any issue getting women. He had two gorgeous girls that he was leading on (one was a coworker of his at the bar we met at, the other was a classmate of mine) and he's alternate which one he'd invite to events/parties. Even so, he'd still hook up with girls that were much less conventionally attractive than his two girlfriends even as he led them on and used them. He just could…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:25 AM
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The fact that she asked him to pretend means that deep down she knows he's trash compared to her friend's bf and she's ashamed of him and doesn't want her friends seeing his true self. Her gut is telling her that this is an LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:07 AM
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she was the number 1 pornstar in the world because scrotes are depraved and they like watching "good girls" (aka mia in her hijab) get defiled, yet what did it get her?? every time i see her mentioned on reddit scrotes are complaining about how her boob job "ruined" her boobs. i'm glad mia and other ex porn stars are speaking out about the industry. libfems will still use mental gymnastics to call them swerfs though. edit: afaik, porn is the only form of """"entertainment""" where the entertaine…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 07:41 PM
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and they get less with every video they appear in. unless they're the 0.01% who becomes "famous" (e.g. asa akira)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 07:15 PM
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the sad thing is that they aren't even living the 50s life. a lot of them work full time and still do everything at home 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 09:26 PM
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I love Whitney!! Another talented woman whose live was ruined by an NVM, and the cycle sadly continued with your daughter. Which is why it's very important for moms of daughters to practice FDS - if not for you, for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 07:26 PM
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because men hit the wall at 25 lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 07:22 PM
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i love how men are simultaneously innocent little boys who just don't know better and need a kind, patient women to teach him basic human relationship skills but also the superior, smarter, rational gender that invented society or whatever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:50 AM
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during uni, the most well-known male feminist at my school turned out to be a serial rapist. he was on the executive teams of several leftist clubs on campus as well as the university undergraduate society. he even organized consent workshops for the froshies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:39 AM
45

"not sure how I remembered you" is my favourite lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 02:17 AM
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thanks🎈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 09:43 PM
25

I didn't even make it that far. I stopped at "he's 8 years older than I am."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 08:07 PM
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it's all a bunch of made up Karen stories. most of them aren't even pretending to be realistic anymore but of course scrotes eat it up. they usually go something like - OP bought himself a switch, "Karen" asks him to give the switch to her autistic son, OP reacts politely and calmly, Karen hits the roof. they all have literally exactly the same plot/formula and it's the same nonsense that ruined r/choosingbeggars too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:07 PM
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Exactly! Bernie and his "bros" (including the pickme's like Briana Joy Harris and this woman) have been spewing misogynistic hate for months and they have the audacity to be shocked when Warren and Harris didn't endorse him? Bernie is the definition of male entitlement - walks out on his child, doesn't pay child support, sits on his ass for 30 years. Meanwhile, Warren is the one actually passing progressive policies and making a change and then bernie has the AUDACITY to hijack the progressive m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:06 AM
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The misogyny and racism from the Bernie fandom is truly disgusting. And then they wonder why Warren fans didn't immediately support his rape fantasist, heart-attack having, 80 year old ass. The world is so fucked up for women - imagine having to choose between three sexual deviants for the most powerful politician in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:25 AM
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exactly!! someone said he was hot before he got fat and i'm like this is hot?!?!?! that limp, greasy hair 🤮 the bar is on the floor for men i s2g.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:58 PM
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i honestly disagree. like, i'm not just saying this because i dislike him - i genuinely think he's ugly at worst and plain/average at best. even when i barely had any idea who he was (during the GotG days), i was so confused as to why people thought he was in the same tier as evans, hemsworth, or pine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:55 PM
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she's so much more attractive than him. even when he was "hot" (he never was but P and R fans were gassing him up). he became a sex symbol and starred in a Marvel movie and, in true LVM fashion, decided it was time to 'upgrade' and moved on with a Kennedy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 05:50 PM
136

Anna Faris is a lesson on why "giving the ugly guy a chance" is a mistake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 04:31 PM
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i honestly didn't even know he was an actor for the longest time. i knew he had a shitty podcast but i had zero clue they were even together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 03:23 PM
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they're so cringey with the "We're not like other celebrity couples!!!! We're ReLatAbLe!!!" shtick. The relationship version of NLOGs. Wouldn't surprise me if they came out as poly/open because they're just so enlightened and "real".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 03:08 PM
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lol she was a kid during the Lizzie days so they'd better think she's more beautiful now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 12:23 AM
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Men have always known what consent is. They just don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 12:22 AM
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the ooooonly exception i can see to that is if he's really into a specific plant/flower or gardening so you know he'll appreciate the gift. but sending flowers to most males is kinda weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:53 PM
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this picture is soooo cute!! BGM ✨💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 05:15 PM
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exactly! i'm tired of men and pickmeishas like OP acting like women hating men is eQuALLy BaD as men hating women. how many femcels or pinkpilled feminists of FDSers have gone on shooting sprees because they "hate men"? how many FDSers promote rape because we "hate men"? the worst we do on this sub is say mean shit about them. men that hate women literally want to rape and murder us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 01:40 PM
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I've literally never even heard of the Verge. Funny how they completely forgot our glowing review from the WSJ. But yeah, these two journals are obviously of equal calibre and deserve equal respect lmao. I mean, WSJ has only won a few dozen Pulitzers but the Verge has won some Webbies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 11:40 PM
22

cough Everlane
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:43 PM
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reddit is fully of black and white thinking like this. if you mention being used or cheated on by a guy, all the incels and incels in denial blame you for "going after men out of your league who had no reason to commit" as if ugleoids don't also cheat and use women too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 06:00 PM
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right?? where was this "shyness" when he was getting his dick sucked? when he was groping her boobs? please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:28 PM
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yup, and it's not just men. if you say you won't tolerate men that watch porn, 20 pickmeishas crawl out of the bushes to talk about how much they love porn, how they feel eMpOweReD when they watch porn with their boyfriends, how they're sooo cool for objectifying other women with him 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:13 PM
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i know what you mean but IMO it's more of a strategy/general relationship advice sub than a specific relationship advice sub like the ones mentioned above, if that makes sense. like those subs are all about relationships while this sub has relationship stuff too but also general women's empowerment, general dating strategies, discussions on avoiding LVMs, discussions on how to level up, etc. imo FDS is about more than relationships - it's about getting women to a place where they feel good enoug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:46 PM
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she's been lied to like all women have. she knows deep down in her gut that something isn't right (her post history is full of posts about this dude) but libfems and men have convinced women that it's not a "no" until a man literally says it's a no. so even though he's never taken her out, even though he's ghosted her, even though they never meet outside her apartment, he hasn't officially said he doesn't want to see her anymore so there's still a chance. there are people on the dating advice po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:04 PM
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This is why traditional dating advice is a scam for women. If she'd been on FDS, we would have pointed out the MANY red flags here (he never officially asked her out, he doesn't take her out on actual dates, they only go to her apartment, they text each other "paragraphs" yet he can't put in the effort to plan a date or even get food that's not fast food - i know we're quarantined right now but this began over a month ago) edit: not to mention it really shows how evil the libfem "empowerment" bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 03:54 PM
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all men had to do was move villages and they could start a new family with impunity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 02:04 PM
20

how is he even supposed to go down on you with that tiny baby mouth of his? the fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 02:03 PM
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tell him to hit the gym
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 01:58 PM
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seriously, that's trashy even at 21 but at least understandable but 30???? i can't stand 30 year old men who wanna relive their college frat days 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:34 AM
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alex and sofia are definitely lv pickmeishas. their whole schtick is just a more vulgar, "telling it like it is" version of the libfem "fucking 200 guys a day is empowering!!!" shtick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:32 AM
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Lol my ex didn't believe me when I mentioned being sexually harassed until a man literally groped me right in front of him during a night out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:16 AM
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and greasy, unwashed hair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 12:00 AM
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Oh, I'm sorry for assuming! I've only ever seen people say "added" when it's mutual (as opposed to "requested" when it's one sided). That's good to hear though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 03:23 PM
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Not to mention that she added him back even though she can SEE his wife and baby in the photo. Sorry OP but this is 100% attention seeking, LVW behaviour 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 03:07 PM
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i am telling you, i got hatfished by a balding 21 year old once!!! 21!!!!!! millennials and gen z are doomed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 03:54 AM
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men should be legally required to post photos of their hairlines before they're allowed to comment on women/dating/sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 01:10 AM
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They think it's "empowering" to make men horny. As if men couldn't jack off to a particularly juicy peach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 01:07 AM
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That sub was only created because men got triggered by this sub lmaoooo. The "rational, logical" gender in action.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 08:02 PM
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That's why I never believe male sob stories on the internet. They're all lying or twisting the situation for validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 06:12 PM
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from what it sounds like, they were coworkers too. op is pathetic and her husband is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 08:31 PM
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There was a post around Christmas telling RPW not to expect gifts or even a thank you for doing all the prep around the holidays!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 02:44 PM
26

lmao it's like an instant tell for us black/mixed girls tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 11:34 PM
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special kind of black lvm. obsessed with black women and our bodies/wombs. draws oversexualized art of us like the above.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 11:20 PM
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because this was made by a hotep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 10:56 PM
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honestly, it's pretty hard to even meet someone outside your SEC. online dating has changed that, but for in-person dating, it's almost impossible to stay out of your class since you generally go to school with people in the same SEC, make friends with them, network with them, etc. someone who goes from private school to an expensive top college to a great job won't really have much opportunity to interact with working class people outside of professional settings. out of the three guys i've bee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 04:22 PM
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exactly - these women aren't like the RPW who are fine with scraps. they saw how their dads provided for their moms/stepmoms and how their friends husbands provide for them and they still expect the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 04:17 PM
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yup. being the cool, low maintenance girlfriend may work at first but you'll eventually have to ask for more and he will resent that because he's so used to giving you little. it's super easy to be chill and low maintenance when it's just the two of you and picking up his laundry off the floor takes an extra 30 seconds. fast forward 10 years and two kids later when you have to do your laundry, your kids', and still pick his up off the floor, come back and tell me how chill you are. and standards…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 04:05 AM
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tbh i don't get the hype around chris hemsworth. liam is so much hotter. i also don't understand the hiddleston hype at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 07:29 PM
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yup. the men chasing russian tradwives never end up with the daughters of oil oligarchs or even middle class russian girls. same with the men chasing east asian/south east asian women. my ex fwb went to an international school in thailand with tons of wealthy thai families - not a single one of those girls ended up with a neckbeard scrote. only the poorest of poor women, who have no other options, resort to being a mail order bride. even so, poor women who can escape poverty via education choose…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 07:24 PM
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they always point to the henry cavill's and leo di caprio's (and honestly, leo is looking more bloated and doughy by the day 🤮) who are the top 1% of middle aged men. even then, current leo is nowhere near titanic era leo and current cavill is nowhere near tudors cavill. not to mention that male celebrities get botox/filler, have personal trainers, see a derm, and wear makeup. these dudes think cleaning ur ass in the shower is """"gay"""
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 07:21 PM
32

Yup, when you ask a guy out and make all the moves, you'll never actually know if he was genuinely interested in you or if he likes you because you like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 06:59 PM
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not delusional, pornsick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:19 PM
46

Exactly! I wouldn't show up on a first date with a guy I really liked wearing dirty sweatpants and a stained t-shirt because I want to make a good impression. Men are the same. They know the expectation is that they'll pay and they don't want to risk offending you if they're actually into you. Not just that, they'll like paying because they're trying their hardest to impress you because they're crazy about you. I'm like you - not an instagram model but generally pretty. I've literally had men I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:09 PM
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Lol he responded to me telling me that he hoped I was a 10/10 instagram model if I wanted guys to pay for things. Men like this don't realize that they're proving our point - he'd let the pickmeishas he dates pay, but he wouldn't expect a 10/10 to pay. In other words, he's okay with possibly offending women he isn't super attracted to and is only "meh" about but that 18 year old instagram model? She's getting dinner, drinks, and dessert and he'll still call her the next day. Congrats on proving …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:49 PM
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he 100% doesn't even have $124k in investments. all he has to do is right click to "inspect element" and he can turn his hundreds into hundreds of thousands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:24 PM
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I remember one post where the husband didn't work and the wife worked full time in a high stress job and she STILL cooked him dinner every night. She was all "the commute home is my time to decompress so I'm ready to greet him with a smile when I get home". She's an idiot. She honestly thinks she's winning over us because she has a """captain""" meanwhile her husband is laughing to himself because he stays home all day and isn't even responsible for dinner. 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 Not to mention that she can't ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:28 PM
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i honestly prefer the "dtf?" LVMs because at least they're straightforward about what they want and aren't trying to use flowery faux-intellectual language to manipulate you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:53 PM
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he probably thinks he's really smart ExPLoRiNg ThE aPPLiCaTiOn oF nOn-DuALiTy iN rEaL LiFe. this shit is fucking embarrassing if you're not a 19 year old philosophy major.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:11 PM
14

it's almost like the tabloids can be both misogynistic AND racist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:57 PM
35

Exactly! Men are the real wh*res. Most women, even promiscuous women, wouldn't sleep with ALL the men that want to fuck us because we'd literally have dozens of partners a day. Even a woman who's slept with 1000 men has turned down several more times that. Can't say the same about men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 09:06 PM
29

No man that sees escorts is ever high value 🤮
/r/askFDS20/03/20 09:05 PM
129

My mom is the definition of a HVW to me, as corny as it sounds. She could have lived a cushy life as a stay at home professor's wife but she went back to school once my sister got into kindergarten and got another degree. She commuted back and forth to a city two hours away for two years while my dad was a part time single dad. She's black and has always had to deal with microaggressions and condescension in our mostly white town (like constantly being told that she's "very articulate" - she has…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 01:45 PM
20

honestly, it's kind of pathetic. what are they, three years old???? who the fuck cares if you're bored. you're an ADULT. GROW THE FUCK UP!!!! my job is boring sometimes but i still do it because i'm an adult who does things she doesn't really want to do because i'm capable of seeing into the future. imagine being so selfish you risk your health and the health of everyone around you because you have no impulse control 🤡🤡🤡🤡 not to mention, the entitlement to think that whatever boring date they ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 03:39 AM
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even my ex fwb would pay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 03:26 AM
8

scrotes mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 06:12 PM
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he looks like the generic fat white guy with a beard that writes for buzzfeed or vice or something. guarantee that he had a man bun in 2014.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 02:08 PM
10

Seriously, I'm 5'2 and my TDEE is 1400 calories. Men can eat 500 more calories than that and STILL lose weight. Not to mention that it's easier for them to gain muscle. Men have ZERO excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 02:06 PM
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Also, men who think their big dick makes up their their ugly face and utter inability to fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:59 PM
12

Apparently DV reports have skyrocketed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:27 PM
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He doesn't give a fuck because he thinks she's going to clean it up like she always done. OP mentions that she previously had a "chore strike". For any women reading this, if you need to go on a fucking STRIKE to get your husband to do chores - LEAVE. Why the fuck are you letting your life partner treat you like an unappreciated employee? The sad thing is that OP posts on r/gendercritical and other radfem aligned subs. Even radfems can be pickmeishas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 03:17 AM
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Exactly! This is why we always say that being a single cat lady is better than ending up with an LVM. If she was single, she could have boarded her pets or hired a sitter for a small fee and come back to a clean house. Now she has to deal with a house that's a literal health hazard in the middle of a pandemic. He wasted multiple rolls of toilet paper because he was too lazy to clean up his piss while there are TP shortages everywhere. LVM are a negative to your life. Don't ever settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 02:53 AM
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they're always super holier than thou about it too 🙄 "PoLy iSn'T fOr EvEryOne BuT i ThiNk iT's SeLfiSH to GeT yOur NeeDs MeT bY oNe pErsOn"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 07:57 PM
7

KiNkShAMiNg iS JuSt As BaD aS hOmOpHoBia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 07:50 PM
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because we're their property. we're suppsed to say single and pine for them while they tell us to our faces how much better white/asian/latina women are. it's pretty funny because non-black guys have been way more understanding about things like protective styling than black men. i have one nigerian friend whose ex boyfriend called her hair nappy meanwhile her current boyfriend is chinese and he literally bought her silk pillowcases while he was visiting his grandparents in china because he didn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:07 AM
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They'll blame everything on racism while ignoring that black women face both racism AND sexism (including from our own 'brothers') yet we're more educated and succeeding while they continue to flop. They blame us for the "single mom crisis" but then attack us when we date decent nb guys or have basic requirements for black men we date like 1) be employed and 2) don't be a felon. Edit: I actually had 3 black guys berate me on the metro because they found out I'm halfrican but my boyfriend is whit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 11:17 PM
43

7:01 PM "wow guess I have to wait until 8 PM"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 11:15 PM
5

A girl I went to high school with is 37 weeks along with her first child (a rainbow baby). I have no clue how she isn't panicking right now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 11:14 PM
34

Seriously. I have no issue with women who manipulate men or gold diggers but that's not what FDS is about. We literally tell everyone to just block and delete instead of trying to talk to him or change his mind. If a man doesn't want commitment, we tell her to move on. If a man isn't able to plan a high quality date, we tell her to move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 11:12 PM
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Seriously! I'm turning 24 this year and if this is what men are going to look like in 3 short years I'm going full nun mode if my bf and I break up. I feel so sad for women in their 30s and older who are taking care of themselves yet 90% of their agemates look older than Methuselah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:23 PM
97

Have you seen Love is Blind? Most of the men are in their late 20s and early 30s yet pass for 40s. I was shocked!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:12 PM
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Yes, there was a recent post here where the poster indicated that her boyfriend asked for exclusivity from the beginning and already declared his love for her despite them only having spent a weekend together. She was saw it as a reason to trust him while everyone else was trying to point out what a huge red flag is. No HVM is going to want to be your boyfriend after a weekend. They vet women too and they also have options. Only desperate men who are trying to lock you down or abusive men who ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:18 PM
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Tbh men murder their girlfriends/wives when they stay, they murder their girlfriends/wives when they leave, and they also murder women they want to be their girlfriends/wives when she says no. Men are just violent. There are obviously ways to mitigate this slightly like u/TERFsareawesome said (based username btw💜), financial independence is vital but men have killed women for rejecting him politely or ignoring his advances. The only way women and children will stop being murdered by men is if th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:11 PM
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"Women don't want me. I could improve myself fo make myself desirable OR I could jack off to women being abused...... Pornhub it is!"
/r/askFDS16/03/20 02:55 AM
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My Chad cooked dinner and did all the dishes afterwards. I can't believe we chose Chad over some smelly ugleoid, we are sooo dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:47 AM
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This exactly. Stop drinking and stop dating until you accomplish the first. You're NOT going to attract HV men if you have a drinking problem, which is why you keep attracting LV men. Even more than attracting men, having a drinking problem is awful for you and your kid. Do it for your child if you can't do it for yourself. Being an alcoholic will fuck up your kid's life. Don't even THINK about dating until you're in recovery and have been sober for AT LEAST a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:33 AM
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Men commit 91% of murder suicides. It's just not worth it for me. I'm not going to die because my husband wants to and thinks I should go with him 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/askFDS16/03/20 12:03 AM
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23 and wouldn't even make eye contact with..... that. he should compensate me for the years of therapy i'm going to need after looking at this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:33 PM
65

top 20% of gross looking dudes, yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:20 PM
100

he looks like the michelin man's ugly brother..... the audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:19 PM
108

Imagine having to pay women to pretend to like you and thinking there's something wrong with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:20 PM
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Also: "YoU'Re JuSt aS BaD aS iNceLs" and "YoU mUsT Be FaT"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 03:58 PM
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I just read blood orange very recently actually!! I've gotten used to a lot of the surprise twists in these cases but this one had me SHOCKED. When she watched the video of the 'dead' woman and realized who it was......... damn. Her husband deserved much worse than what he got tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 04:31 AM
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Remember sis, if you have ANY issues with him in the first nine months BLOCK AND DELETE. *No second chances, don't give him a chance to ""explain"" because he'll just manipulate you into staying. This is the honeymoon period aka him on his best behaviour. If he's like this only a month in, imagine 15 years in when the NRE and butterflies are gone and you have to deal with the stresses of daily life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 04:05 AM
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Lol there was a post from r/sex that was crossposted in PPF a few days ago where a dude who married a beautiful trad Eastern European woman got mad that she didn't initiate sex enough (turns out he wanted to watch other men fuck her but that's not the point). A lot of the comments were from men who dated traditional/conservative women and were absolutely gobsmacked when she expected him to be a provider and pay for everything. That's why the men that claim they prefer Eastern European or (South-…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 04:02 AM
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you can't message people on tinder unless you swipe right 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 01:01 AM
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It's for rich LVM 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:57 AM
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Comments: jUSt tALk To HiM yup, because marriage counselling with an abusive, sexually sadistic rapist always ends well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:54 PM
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I'm so tired of ugleoids deflecting responsibility into "Chad". Go look at the records for DV arrests in your town and see how many of them look above average. Ugly men can be abusive, average men can be abusive. A lot of ugly men are insecure have something to prove too so they can be even more abusive than the hot guy who's beeb socialized normally and is used to female attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:44 PM
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Fuck him!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:38 PM
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Tbh we should be glad they straight up rejected us. A lot of men would say yes just for the sex and girlfriend benefits and we'd probably still be getting played today like so many girls in the relationship subs 🤡 I'm actually eternally grateful to him because he woke me up from my pickmeisha state while I was still young (almost 22) and without baggage. A lot of women don't get this life lesson until they're 30+, have kids, get married, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:45 AM
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Seriously, I'm so grateful that he didn't want to date me!!! If he had, I would have never started dating my current HV boyfriend. The funny thing is, it's almost like he knew I was moving on because as soon as I stopped giving a shit about him, he started doing all the cute relationshippy things I'd been begging for for two years. Too little too late though, I said yes to the man who made it clear from day 1 that he only has eyes for me and we've been happily together ever since :) I've written…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:38 AM
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Yeah, I never give men the benefit of the doubt but, like, there are whole countries shut down over this. Only one person has died in my country but mass is cancelled, schools/unis/daycares are closed, I'm working from home now, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:25 AM
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My ex fwb told me he didn't want to commit but I stuck around because I thought I could change his mind 🤡 I promised him threesomes and to set him up with my friends so he'd stay interested (this didnt end up happening thank god but still) 🤡🤡 I stayed even after he said he had feelings for another girl and wanted to date her even though he didn't want to date me 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:20 AM
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imagine how many of them are cops
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 09:12 PM
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they think they're hot shit and cheat constantly. STDs up the wazoo. a lot of them also use their fame to seduce LITERAL CHILDREN (12 year old groupies) and even the ones that dont usually turn a blind eye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:07 PM
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Yeah if he dates Sarah the relationship is almost certainly going to collapse. The feelings may still be there, but they're not 22 anymore. They won't be able to just restart the relationship like they took a break for 3 months because she was studying abroad in Italy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 06:50 PM
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based and terfpilled 👌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 06:03 PM
7

I love Karin Slaughter! Her books are the perfect mix of pro woman and southern culture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:41 PM
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I don't know a single woman that hasn't been groped on public transport.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:18 PM
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Men: rape and murder women on public transport, at gyms, in school, etc Women; forced to go to women's only gyms or buses because we don't want to be raped and/or murdered in public Men: REEEEEEE FEMALE PRIVILEGE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:15 PM
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This is why you should never believe men when they claim they only hate "modern feminism" or "western feminism". Edit: Men have ALWAYS fought against women's rights since the beginning. The only reason women got the vote when they did was because of WWI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:55 PM
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but remember, women who allow men to pay for dates are the gold diggers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 01:36 PM
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"People" I wonder what chromosomes all those "people" have
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 01:34 PM
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i'm literally imagining his flabby beer gut on top of some poor woman during sex and i dont think im going to eat today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 12:40 PM
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Exactly! I was a dancer for a long tome and my sister is a gymnast so I'm super defensive about those sports and similar, like cheer and tumbling, since they're always being shat on by men and Cool Girls. Cheerleader hate is almost always misogynistic. I said what I said 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:55 AM
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Also, he doesn't just put in perfunctory effort - he actually tries. For example, instead of a bouquet of roses, a blank Hallmark card, and some generic Lindt or Godiva chocolates for Valentine's day, he'll put in the effort of ordering calla lilies because he knows they're your favourite flower, he'll take you to the world chocolate festival to try some expensive bougie indie chocolates and buy you your favourite one, he'll write you a love note because he knows that you keep all your letters. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:50 AM
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Cheerleader hate is so boring, especially from adults who are a decade out of high school. I had a lot of friends that did All Star Cheer, and even one that went to Worlds on my country's national team. It's such a hardcore sport (has a higher injury rate than high school football) and most cheerleaders are actually fucking ripped/toned. Not to mention that cheerleaders come in a variety of sizes- obviously, they all have low body fat percentages, but they're also not all super thin size 0s (my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:33 AM
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I don't think it has to be either or. In a world where men weren't pieces of shit, I'd say go ahead and be generous right away! But the issue with LVM is that they take, take, take. To protect yourself, wait to see if they deserve your generosity and kindness. Once they've proved themselves (after AT LEAST four months of committed dating and HV behaviour), then you can start giving them little treats and gifts. Nothing too expensive but just little things they might like or something based off a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:22 AM
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Tbh that's what I realized about HVM. They want to treat you. My boyfriend literally sat me down at the beginning of the relationship when I tried to go dutch and told me that he wanted to pay and knew I wasn't a gold digger. Good men want to take care of their girlfriends and wives. He won't let you pay the same way he won't let you mow the lawn if he has nothing else to do. He wants to make you happy and make your life easier. Even my ex fwb that refused to commit to me paid most of the time. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:11 AM
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Regarding 2- What I'm trying to say is, if a man told me he was booking a hotel to visit me, I'd assume we weren't sleeping together, because otherwise why book the hotel? The fact that he's mentioned multiple times that he doesn't want sex is suspicious to me because a genuine man would have just bought a hotel room for 1 and wouldn't have brought up the no sex thing more than once. Like, imagine if a friend from out of town was coming to visit you and they said they were booking a hotel. And t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:05 AM
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It's a red flag that he asked for exclusivity before even meeting. No high value man would ever ever do this. It's a red flag that he brought up not wanting sex multiple times. Him getting a hotel room would have been a clear enough hint. I think he doth protest too much. It's a red flag that he's spent $200 in shoes before he's even met you. Edit: OP, for FDS to succeed, you have to be willing to walk away at the first red flag. It's not about "things plotting out perfectly", it's about getting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 01:54 AM
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i mean, you can go ahead but i guarantee it won't end well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 01:47 AM
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This whole situation seems super messy from both parties. Have you read the handbook?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 01:24 AM
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To be 120-130 as a man he's either super short or a total beanpole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 11:45 PM
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I guarantee he's texting those "snobby cheerleaders" anyway. Whenever a man makes a big deal about how you're so much hotter than another women or another group of women, that's his guilty subconscious speaking out. There's a difference between "there's no woman I'd rather date than you" and "you're so much hotter than the snobby 100 lb blonde cheerleaders with 28G boobs and 22" waists"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 11:44 PM
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of course, there's one scrote claiming that middle aged sperm is totally not degraded at all lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:53 PM
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it's so sad. OP says that she's not a newbie but there were sooooo many red flags in the relationship, even before the fuckery her boyfriend pulled today, that I feel like you mods need to have FDS Remedial classes or something for these poor recovering pickmeishas :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:50 PM
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OP should file for divorce and get her child supported now before his other baby mamas do 🤷🏼‍♀️ It's all about his ego. What's so special about his seed that he feels like his existing children aren't enough? Is he Genghis Khan? I guarantee that he has never accomplished anything extraordinary in his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:48 PM
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I've actually been working on a post about this since the messy post this morning about the woman whose LDR boyfriend didn't want to see her. She kept saying that he loved her and they had an emotional connection, yet at the end of the day when she called him out they broke up. Women need to stop falling for male lies and we need to stop giving men the benefit of the doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:45 PM
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He's fucking other women with her permission and she's there wondering if she's crazy. The other moms will be able to pursue child support since this wasn't done through a bank. It doesn't matter if they signed a contract or agreement since the courts only care about the child's best interest. The parents cannot sign away the kid's right to be financially secure. The only exception is if any of these women are married, in which case the husband is the presumptive father. Also, in many places, to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:36 PM
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THIS IS WHY WE ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS BLOCK AND DELETE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:04 PM
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HVM are sooooo rare!! It's not hard to find wealthy, hot guys with big dicks, but their personalities are almost always negative value. I've been dating my boyfriend for 14 months and I'm STILL waiting for him to do something LV. Even when you think you have a HV man, he can flip 5, 15, 25 years later and you'll be shocked. You never really know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 09:36 PM
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I always walk away after the first red flag, especially early in the relationship. With a man that's truly in love with you, this would have never come up because he would be HAPPY to see more of you. If it's early in the relationship and he's already okay with not seeing you much, that says everything you need to know about the depth of his feelings for you. It's not like you saw him 6 days this week and he wants to spend 1 day with his friends. Please, next time, immediately cut a man off the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 09:33 PM
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Honestly, I feel like people shouldn't bother with FDS unless they're okay ending up alone. I'm perfectly happy with staying single if my boyfriend and I break up and I can't find a man that meets my standards. "Settling" creates resentment and I'm perfectly happy with myself. Not to mention that wealth, looks, and/or social standing do not make someone high value. In fact, it's often the opposite since those men are so used to being gassed up. As long as the guy has a decent job where he can pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 09:24 PM
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she's sooooo embarrassing. and then she acts so shocked and offended when barnett calls her out in the wedding dress episode!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 08:19 PM
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i actually think that this sub is full of pickmes who are here because they they want to use what they think are FDS tactics to get LVM to stick around. IMO the most important aspect of FDS is being okay with being single. you CANNOT succeed at FDS unless you're fine with ending up alone. you have to be okay with walking away at the first red flag because it only ever gets worse. i totally agree too. they don't understand that the point of FDS is to AVOID LVMs, not to play games with them thinki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 06:51 PM
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Exactly! So many women fall for words, "Well, he says he loves me," meanwhile his actions say that he doesn't really care. Him telling you he loves you means jack shit if he's taking you for granted or treating you like shit. You can literally tell anybody you love them, it takes zero effort. You know how many drunk girls in club bathrooms I've declared my love for or who declared my love for me yet I've never seen them again? Showing someone you love them takes effort and dedication and it's no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 06:22 PM
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I don't think she's with him just for money, but a lot of newbies on this sub put up with lots of shit from men they think are "HV" because they have good jobs and are attractive and pay for dinner. If OP's local pickings are as awful as she says they are (and I believe her), she's more likely to look past red flags since this guy is probably the only suitable man she's met in months. Meanwhile, someone who lives in a city has less incentive to put up with his shit because there are thousands of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:52 PM
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most men are wonderful until they're not and i'm not trying to say you're a gold digger (i actually wouldn't have a problem with you using men for money as i consider it reparations for a milennia of misogyny), but you're ignoring the red flags because he has X, Y, and Z good attributes but none of that makes up for LV behaviour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:43 PM
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she's going to put up with soooo much bullshit from him because he's hot and makes six figures lmao also, she thinks that she has the power here, meanwhile if he's as smart as he says she is, he'll realize that he has the upper hand. saying "i'll see other men then!!!" to your boyfriend because he did something shitty reeks of insecurity (since a secure person would either be honest about how shitty his behaviour was or just block and delete without resorting to mind games). it actually reads as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:38 PM
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I'm saying this as someone who was formerly LD with my HV boyfriend. Still a red flag. And as someone whose parents were long distance for 4 years in the 90s. Still. A. Red. Flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:37 PM
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Also, it's a huge red flag that they've only spent one weekend together yet are "exclusive". But I'm sure this will end well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:23 PM
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i think "you shouldn't have to beg your boyfriend to spend time with you" is good advice 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:13 PM
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seriously it's embarrassing. imagine having to tell your boyfriend that you're seeing other men to get him to pay attention to you and still thinking you should be in that relationship. OP, you should not have to beg your boyfriend to spend time with you. you deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:10 PM
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Why do newbies come here and then ignore the advice they receive? 🤡 This is the beginning of the relationship and you're long distance - he should be DYING to spend more time with you in any way. The fact that he can take or leave your dates says everything about how serious he is with you. Would you put up with this from a local guy? You're lying to yourself that this man is HV because he's makes money and is attractive, yet, like you said, he sees you as a weekly obligation. Telling a man that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:04 PM
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Woman is missing, possibly dead or in trouble. Man only cares that she makes his pp hard. And then they expect us to care about their "issues"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:49 PM
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Literally every woman that gets treated like shit by the same man again and again thinks he's changed. The exception is if he was LV as a teen/early 20s and it's been several years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 12:03 AM
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It's even worse than that. They use photos of hot guys to prove that...... hot guys get more attention than ugly guys when OLD. Wow, who would have known that people on Tinder, a photo based dating app, would chose matches based on attractiveness! Incels are so smart!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 11:58 PM
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more like the motion of the puddle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 09:21 PM
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This is the real reason incels and RP types don't want women with any relationship experience. Because women who've dated a decent guy in the past have standards and they know what's normal in a relationship. They have to bring down "simps" so eventually the simps stop simping and treat women worse and women have to lower our standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:58 PM
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Everyone knows that men's feelings being hurt matter more than women being murdered, obviously!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:47 PM
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Even staying in a gated place with security guards isn't enough to protect women from male evil. Carla Stefaniak was raped and murdered by a security guard at her gated Airbnb. She'd been travelling with her SIL as a 36th birthday gift to herself but the SIL's flight took off the night before Carla's was scheduled (they lived in different cities). She rented the place for ONE NIGHT planning to stay there for less than 12 hours and the piece of shit fucking killed her. She even texted someone abo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:31 PM
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Seriously! Every time I see a relationships post about a woman who's unsatisfied with a man with a small dick, all the comments are like "he can use his hands and mouth" and it's like....... at that point, I might as well date another women. We smell better, are better at sex, and she won't murder me for saying no. Or just stay single and use a dildo. Plus you know Mr Micropeen will throw a fit if you use a dildo or ask him to use a strapon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:33 PM
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These posts are my favourite kind of posts because almost every comment always gets immediately downvoted by triggered lurkers lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:30 PM
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seriously i'd be embarrassed to even bring up a $12 debt....... like, congrats on telling on yourself 🤡 like, even when i was in uni and all the guys i dated were broke, none of them (not even the ones i later realized were LV) were petty enough to nickel and dime me over $12
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:23 PM
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testerical
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:21 PM
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Mark is liked in this sub? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:20 PM
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Also, to expand on your first point a lot of "false accusations" are real rapes where the woman lied about the situation leading to the rape but not the rape itself. I read this in a John Douglas book, or another one of the FBI former profilers. A teen girl claimed that she was followed and raped by a guy she met at a public event. The cops didn't think her story lined up and it eventually came out that she went with him to smoke weed. The rape actually happened, but she was worried about what h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:53 PM
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Exactly! Only 12% of custody cases even make it in front of a judge. 51% of custody cases are consented to by both parents without a judge, an additional 38% are uncontested (meaning that one party filed for custody and the other party neither consented to the agreement nor contested it. 9/10 men who say they were screwed over by the court are LYING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:47 PM
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mark was a pick me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:34 PM
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Same! I had a guy who'd make fun of me whenever I mentioned something I was into or initiated so I stopped and then he complained that I wasn't initiating anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:43 PM
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i feel like everyone who goes on reality tv these days is using it to become an influencer tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 12:12 PM
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damn, you didn't have to come for carrie's edges like this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 03:22 AM
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Men should be legally required to post photos of their abs, hairline, and jawline before they are allowed to criticize any woman's appearance. (In before the triggered lurkers go "iF ThE GeNdeRs WerE RevErsed aNd a MaN aSkEd WoMeN tO pOsT hEr BoObs-" congrats on almost getting the point)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 10:02 PM
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"This man I've been on one date seems like a HVM. He fucked my sister, took my dog to the shelter, and burned down my house but he took me to a 5 star restaurant and paid for everything!! Am I winning or what, ladies?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 09:35 PM
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totally understandable. even with FDS and vetting processes, marriage and kids is still a huge risk to women. for example, my boyfriend fits every metric of HV. however, we're also 23 and 25 with no kids and barely any responsibilities. it's pretty easy to be HV now, but you never truly know about a man until you put him under prolonged stress. i've seen men abandon their pregnant wives (during planned pregnancies!!!) because they suddenly decided that "this wasn't what they want" even when they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 07:31 PM
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yeah, in a world where men weren't shit i'd have no issue with proposing, but marriage is already so much of a risk for women (even men who do propose don't always actually love the woman they're proposing to) that i just want to find any way to minimize the risk. i really hope things work out for your friends!! 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 07:12 PM
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i'd never take the risk of proposing to a man. many men have no issue with staying with a woman he's not that into for years or even decades because it means he's guaranteed regular sex and food. it's not a feminist thing or me saying that i don't think women can initiate; i just don't think it's worth the risk of getting cheated on and dumped when he finds someone he actually wants to marry and then sitting there like a clown while the guy who you had to propose to gladly proposes to another wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 07:00 PM
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Women NEVER get to use our relationship history as a justification. Look at how men treat single moms or girls with daddy issues. They just call it "baggage" and use you for sex. It's okay for men to be "emotionally unavailable" and "not ready for a relationship" because their college girlfriend cheated on them when they were 19, yet a woman saying "I'm wary about men because I've been abused/raped by men in the past," is an evil femin*zi misandrist 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 03:27 PM
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Right? I literally have several men that would give up their left nut for me to even acknowledge them. Am I supposed to be hurt if some bitter dude on Reddit says no one wants me when all my real life experiences say the exact opposite? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 01:13 PM
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it's because of the whole book/tv/movie trope of the brooding asshole who secretly loves the good girl but can't say it for whatever reason. she's probably convinced herself that he's "scared" to say it because "he's been hurt before" 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 01:11 PM
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FWIW I've noticed LVMs advising each other to choose walk in the park dates because they're free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 10:03 PM
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men aren't stupid. you're right - he knows exactly what he's doing and he's trying to keep her insecure. think of how she feels when she walks into his room and sees 5 cumsocks (🤮) on the floor when they haven't had sex in weeks. that's him telling her "look at me getting off to other women who aren't you."cumbrains aren't even human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:41 PM
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Literally nothing sounds less appealing as a first date than going lingerie shopping with a scrote I don't know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:38 PM
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Seriously, newbies need to learn that the reason we require men pay for dates isn't because we can't afford our own food, it's because we're assessing how much effort they're putting into courting us. It's only ONE part of the FDS vetting process and, frankly, a small part at that. It's more of a screening tool to weed out LVM than a tool to suss out HVM. A LOT of LVM will pay for dates, that's nothing special- it's the bare minimum. A man that won't pay to take you out is an automatic next but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 06:26 PM
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Yeah I'm not a libfem but Roxane Gay is one of my favourite writers :) I actually wanted to see her last year but the tickets literally sold out in seconds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 06:23 PM
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I have 30 😭 Idek where they came from
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:04 PM
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what, you don't remember when an FDSer murdered her boyfriend and his young children because he didn't give her money? don't you know that we're evil gold diggers who are JuSt aS BaD?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:02 PM
37

this one makes even less sense because you can literally set your filters so that nobody over 29 can even see you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:25 AM
17

Yup. He really thought I was gonna fall for it 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 09:53 PM
37

really going is own way by cohabiting with a woman, paying for her expenses, eating the food she cooks, sleeping on the bed she made 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:36 PM
54

Having to make all the first steps is a "you'll do for now"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:34 PM
42

I remember I met this cute guy once and he asked me to go to an arcade on a first date. I agreed, and then before the first date he texted me and was like "Hey, why don't we make the arcade the second date and have a cuddle date first?" Even at 19 I wasn't that stupid plus having a cuddle date with someone I don't even know sounds gross and creepy. It's men pretending they want intimacy/romance when they actually want sex. It's even more disgusting than the "dtf?" men because at least the latter…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 06:56 PM
46

Yup. I was in a facebook group for people new to the city I live in. A woman posted in the group last week saying she was new to town and looking for new friends and I commented saying (verbatim), "Hi! Welcome to [city]. I'm 23 too and would love to hang ☺️". My messages blew up and I had random men friend requesting me for days. Note that I was commenting on someone else's post. Men are like bedbugs. They never come in 1s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 05:18 AM
24

Yup, and it's the same with messaging them first or asking them out. It isn't a feminist thing or a gold digger thing - it's literally just been my experience (and evidently the experience of many many other women) that men who you have to ask out or who go 50/50 just aren't as interested as men who ask you out or insist on paying. A guy that really likes you and is hell-bent on impressing you will not allow you to pay because he wants to show that he can take care of you. He wants to do everyth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 04:29 AM
134

Why do men think that their sexual pickup lines are so funny? Like, what's OP even supposed to say to this, "Wow, you want to fuck me? Yay!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 04:14 AM
35

This post is amazing. I'm so tired of going to non-FDS dating/r'ship subs seeing women post about massive red flags a few weeks in or even a few months in. It's because they're all sick with oneitis. Like the woman a few days ago who asked if it was weird that the man she's been on three dates with slept over at his "ex" wife's. She then proceeded to defend him and said that she wasn't going to dump him. The sad thing is that she was almost 50 yet still hasn't learned. Three dates in is literall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 09:41 PM
26

Exactly. For example, the draft (which was started by MEN). Their response is always "WoMen ShOuLd Be DraFted ToO" instead of ending the draft once and for all. Men will literally vote against their best interests if it means they get to "own" women and feminists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 08:40 PM
7

💜💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 07:57 PM
29

The second person I ever had sex with started choking me randomly (the first guy was vanilla so I didn't even know this was a thing). He literally tried to gag me with his dick too - to the point where he moved us to the washroom during the bj in case I threw up. Men are evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 06:59 PM
4

it must be sad to live like this tbh :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 06:13 PM
5

robert blake, oj......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 06:12 PM
14

Especially now with tech jobs. I know 21-25 year olds making hundreds of thousands of dollars (with stock options!) working for Facebook, Google, Snapchat, etc. Women don't need to make the choice between "wealthy but gross older man" and "poor but cute guy my age" anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 06:10 PM
5

haha i remember crying on my 20th birthday because i felt so old! the three birthday after that were great but 20 was tough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 04:56 AM
68

Even before FDS this movie made me laugh because GG's love interest is an asshole and also ugly af yet was still hooking up with tons of gorgeous women lmao. I can barely stand to watch male-directed romantic movies these days because it's all male fantasies and male wank material. I actually made an active choice to avoid movies where the male lead is a lot less attractive than the female lead. If they're both average or ugly, fine. If the girl is average or ugly (which has never happened yet b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 04:54 AM
27

Joe Biden is a sexual predator himself so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:33 PM
35

Even the Jonas brothers had purity rings!! Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:32 PM
16

This is why it drives me up the wall when they say that this sub or PPF is exactly as bad as MGTOW/TRP/incels. Men truly believe that a bunch of women being mean to them on the internet is just as bad as subreddits that have literally spawned multiple rapists and murderers who have actually raped and/or murdered people in real life. I wish the worst of misogyny was some men calling me names.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:21 PM
46

Yeah, exactly - they dont understand the visceral fear that women have when men start getting creepy. They'd see women getting hundreds of "Anal?" "Dtf", and other low quality sexual come-ons and they think of this as privilege because they are incapable of empathy. They imagine themselves, as men who don't get any attention at all, having hundreds of girls expressing sexual interest. They don't have to worry about pregnancy, they're less likely to catch STDs, they don't have to worry about meet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 08:59 PM
5

Isn't the National Enquirer literally a fake tabloid??? Like the Onion????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:24 PM
7

he's been dating her since she was 22
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:23 PM
64

yup. funny how he fucked the one he describes as the least attractive yet "wasn't feeling" the hot 23 year old lmaooo okay pal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:12 PM
94

i feel so sad for her. she was definitely scammed. OP, if you're reading this i'll tell you how it's gonna end if you agree to this: you'll move in, make your boyfriend your landlord, raise your kids, and one day he's going to find another woman he likes and he will kick you out of the house and move his new girlfriend in without a THOUGHT to you. if he's a lawyer he damn well knows how these situations end for women like you. NO DECENT GUY would impregnate you and have you pay costs for his hou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:05 AM
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Great point! I think we put too much emphasis on instant insanely high chemistry, a "spark", a connection, etc. after the first few days. Superficial charm is a symptom of multiple mental illnesses/personality disorders and allowing yourself to call it a "connection" when you've literally been in contact with him for an hour is crazy. It's easy to look at LVM like the one poor OP had to deal with and feel lucky, because these are the ones dumb enough to show off their red flags right away, but t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:50 PM
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yup. OP, honestly just leave next time. if he's walking up to order before and isn't even willing to grab you a coffee, literally just get up, grab your shit, and block him before you've even left starbucks. he ordered from not one but TWO places and couldn't even get you a fountain drink? THE FUCKING AUDACITY. I would never do this to someone I actually wanted to date or even a friend. I'd even feel embarrassed to do this with a coworker 😭 Not even offering?????? On the other hand, always make …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:23 PM
21

She's going to end up hating herself. Even if daddy is able to hide his bigotry, her black friends will definitely feel it when they come into the house, any black boyfriends would also be on the receiving end, may may end up too insecure to embrace anything too "african" less she lose her place in her parents eyes. additionally, what if they end up adopting/having a white baby (or a baby of another race her dad prefers). he may turn to full on abuse once she's no longer "needed".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:20 PM
28

it's so pathetic 40 year old men pretend to be so enthralled and impressed with everything i say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:07 PM
3

Seriously wtf??? Bar hopping dates were for when I was 19 lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:24 PM
23

Exactly! Men always put themselves and their dicks over women and their comfort. The fact that they've had multiple conversations about how gross age gaps should have been a huge clue that OP would never date a man old enough to be her dad. Like even if he didnt mean to start liking her, why admit it when he knows she's disgusted about older men dating young women? It's because he was banking on the 0.1% chance that she says yes. Never mind that none of their history would indicate that she's in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:16 PM
87

44 year old men don't want to be friends with 22 year old women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:40 PM
11

it's always really sad because guys will literally ignore the girl throwing themselves at him to chase another girl who doesn't give a shit what he thinks. they only ever choose the pick me's when the girl they actually want is unavailable got the moment (and the "choosing" of the pick me is only temporary because as soon as aloof girl or another cool girl piques his interest, he's gone). i've both been the pathetic pick me (i've talked about my ex fwb extensively on here) and watched other girl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 07:15 PM
72

Exactly! Even the men that say they'd prefer a bare-faced girl in a T shirt and jeans to a beat-faced girl in a short skirt and heels would still expect T-shirt girl to shave, stay fit, and be naturally pretty with a clear complexion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:30 PM
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the funny thing is that men also hate actual low maintenance women. if a woman doesn't shave, doesn't care about looking pretty for men, doesn't care about staying fit/thin, wears only plain clothes, men say that she's gross and "doesn't take care of herself". even naturally gorgeous women still have to do a lot of upkeep to maintain their conventional attractiveness. i've seen men tear gorgeous women apart because she has some armpit hair. men want you to do all the plucking, threading, shaving…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:32 PM
90

Right?? I'm so fucking tired of men causing problems and then getting angry and calling it "special treatment" when we have to create workarounds to solve these problems. The main reason women's only train cars and women's only gyms exist is because of male harassment and abuse. I had a guy spread his jacket on his lap and grope me under it while we were sitting on the subway. Just the other day, I was harassed by three men again on the metro. Every other friend of mine has a similar story, and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:25 PM
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That's why I always recommend against it. Libfems come here or complain on other subs that we're conservative or antifeminist because we always say to let the men make the first move. For me, it has nothing to do with feminism or "equality" or "sexual empowerment". Even before FDS I always noticed that when I started conversations with guys on Tinder they'd always peter out or never reply, even when I was objectively more attractive than them. Even scrotes on r/Tinder have said that they're auto…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:03 PM
61

aS a LaWyEr To Be,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 11:38 PM
16

Exactly - all you're going to get is LVMs who think throwing a few pennies at you means you have to do what they want. Not to mention that there are no real sugar daddies on the website (the ratio of real to fake is probably 10000:1) since most of the men heard about it through a rag like DailyMail and use it to find and manipulate young, vulnerable college girls and young women. ANY man that would sign up to a sugar baby site is an exploiter of women and a misogynist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:44 PM
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The biggest lie women are told is that men mean well but just don'f know better. This isn't something that "just happened". He either doesn't care because he's planning on trading OP in for another woman or he's trying to keep her poor and isolated so she can't leave. Note that women who don't pay for dates are gold diggers but nobody is calling this guy a gold digger. Hmmmm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 11:00 PM
14

C) all of the above
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:15 PM
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Exactly! He's not even one of the LVMs that is honest about buying a cheap ring or refuses to buy a ring at all. I'd rather deal with them, honestly, than someone that is willing to lie and manipulate my feelings. He didn't just put the Amazon ring in a cheap box or on her dessert at dinner - he went out of his way to find a Tiffany's box because he knew she'd feel more special compared to, say. Zales.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:17 PM
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That's what I was thinking. What was he going to say in 6 months when the ring has turned black and OP's finger has turned green? Fake jewellery might look real to the untrained eye (and often not even then) when it's new, but can you imagine the ring 1 year in? 5 years in? I won't even go higher than that because the ring literally wont last that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:15 PM
45

Lmao my jaw DROPPED when I saw the age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 05:25 PM
15

seriously aren't there like a million other examples of comedians who didn't, you know, die by suicide????????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:54 AM
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r/lesbiandatingstrategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 12:10 AM
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Isn't it crazy that whenever you perform a sex act for the first time you owe it to a man you haven't even met yet to also perform that sex act to/with them? Misogyny is a helluva drug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:46 PM
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harvey is 100% a scapegoat. all of hollywood gets to point at him as the bad guy even as other known predators are still being praised and celebrated. look at how he and kevin spacey were treated vs, say, james franco and louis ck. this way they get to pretend they care about accountability; sacrifice 2 rapists to protect hundreds more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:38 PM
7

Take this* to heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:39 AM
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sexual entitlement in boys starts so early. my sister had a classmate in grade 7 that got suspended for watching hentai in class and taking upskirt photos of girls. he was 12/13.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:41 PM
20

men are truly evil. it's not enough that he raped and murdered her. he had to ruin her reputation and put her on trial for her own fucking murder!! after all, you can't rape a sl*t, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:38 PM
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crazy coincidence i just finished an audiobook about the bouvier sisters!! i am SHOCKED. ari was a hoe who hooked up with lee radziwill so he could get access to jackie! apparently jfk and rfk hated him too. i felt so bad for maria callas and was contemplating posting about her here. imagine being the mistress for TEN years only for him to marry his ex girlfriend's famous sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:36 PM
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i literally just choken. men aren't human. edit: lmao, i meant choked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:33 PM
10

it's even worse when they've only been on a few dates or been official for a month or two. i can see how hard it is to realize that your long-term boyfriend is an asshole. but ONE MONTH IN, come fucking on!!!!! there's a man openly telling you he's trash a few weeks in and then you're just going to ignore the red flags until five years after marriage and a baby guess what he's cheating and you're so fucking shocked 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:29 PM
13

sugar baby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:58 PM
14

My favourites are the obvious male trolls hopping in here like "Hello, fellow gold diggers! I, a totally legitimate female, would like tips on how best to manipulate men and gold dig! Don't you hate the manlets????"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:10 PM
4

yup. i call bull fucking shit on a professionally trained chef who charges only $7.5/meal. i'm pretty sure that also includes the cost of materials/food too so even bigger bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 10:10 PM
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Honestly it's kind of pathetic. I had some sympathy going in because I thought he was at least a boyfriend but it's been THREE dates. Does she even know his middle name yet? For fuck's sake, she should use some common sense. If you're already feeling antsy about his ex three dates in it's time to cut him loose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 09:53 PM
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I've mentioned this here before but I knew a guy that had THREE kids by the time he was 21. He was ugly af too and had a shitty job so I don't even understand how he was able to win not one but three women who were out of his league!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 09:49 PM
4

That's super cool! I worked as an event coordinator for a museum association one summer and I've always been a heritage nerd so I'm looking at master's in either tourism/culture or public history or museumology or similar. Do you mind telling me which school you're attending? (via PM obviously because lurking men)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 09:46 PM
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He's also scamming his ex tbh. $150 for a month's work of meal prep for a trained chef?? Like maybe, maybe he'd be less of a piece of shit if he paid her market price (not even tbh- there are thousands of chefs out there that aren't your ex girlfriend, he could have asked her for a referral) but the wife is right to be suspicious because what woman would add that much extra work to her day for a measly $150
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 09:41 PM
29

he's not even willing to pay for it lmao ("no sb")
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 09:37 PM
23

Most men are incapable of empathy and can't see past their dicks. They don't care that their baby mama is spending a lot more than $400 on the child and that she also loses free time, dating opportunities, career trajectory, etc. My favourite is when I see men complaining that their ex spent $50 on her nails or something and they start foaming at the mouth with "We ShOuLd HaVe MaNdAToRy ReCeiPts fOr ChiLd suPPoRt," like yeah bruh, go ahead. And when it turns out that daycare, babysitters, clothe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:54 PM
47

Men always complain about "spermjacking" but in the vast majority of those cases they are just being irresponsible with contraception and then they're so shocked when they actually conceive. I remember one commenter on Reddit talking about how he used to hook up with a Catholic girl and stealthed her one night. If she'd gotten pregnant and refused to have an abortion because (because, you know, Catholic) I bet that same motherfucker would be crying on Reddit about gold diggers and """financial a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:15 PM
13

Yup, even if you take it correctly there is still a margin of error. A brand in Canada actually had to recall thousands of pills because some of them were broken/partially gone so the dose wouldn't be enough to actually prevent pregnancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:24 PM
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And for all the lurking pickmeisha thinking "Well, I asked my boyfriend out and we're still dating," remember that most men are starved for female attention and would say yes to pretty much any woman he was vaguely attracted to. Just because a guy is willing to date you doesn't mean he wants to date you. It's like, if I'm starving and craving pizza but only burgers are available I'll eat a burger instead even though pizza is what I really want. The consequence of being the woman settled for is t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:11 PM
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men are fucking clowns. they'll ask a ONS or FWB if she's on bc, choose to believe her even though he knows nothing about her because he wants to hit it raw, and then when she gets pregnant he starts crying about being trapped or tricked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:54 PM
9

facts lmao. all men should be forced to pay up for wasting our time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:50 AM
4

Also, please stop asking us about FDS modding decisions on PPF. The subs are sisters and obviously share a lot of the userbase/some mods, but we are not the same. If you have an issue with FDS modding, message the FDS mods. They are guaranteed to see it that way and the irrelevant questions just clog up the mod queue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:38 AM
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Any woman who doesn't prioritize men and their cocks 24/7 must be EviL FaT uGLy FeMinAziS That their mail order brides actually love them That gold diggers want their broke asses Conversely, that having money makes them high value That the high school crush who rejected them will end up sad and lonely at 35 while he'll be "slaying" with 20 year olds because MiD 30s PoWeR FLiP That red pill ideology is anything other than a cope for men who can't get women unless they resort to either going to th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:31 AM
87

literally me with my ex fwb. i even said i'd wingman him to my girl friends/acquaintances. i never actually did but the fact that i was willing to....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:25 AM
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I agree with most of what you're saying but I don't think it's necessarily pick me though. I think a lot of women do this out of fear, rather than niceness. We all know how unpredictable and violent many men become when they're rejected by men, and I know that I've personally used "nicer" language to reject a scrote so he didn't go all Elliott Rodger. I love being mean to men when I know it's safer (e.g. online, in groups, in public, when i'm with my boyfriend) but will always err on the side of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:50 PM
43

$5 mil to a billionaire is literally pennies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:30 PM
33

Sex work is the one issue where libfems only care about the most privileged opinions. They'll say "listen to sex workers" but the moment a SW or ex SW talks about the rape, drugging, trafficking, abuse in the industry suddenly they're evil SWERF and TERFs and conservative prudes trying to control women. Like, yeah, of course the girl making $500 a week from selling feet pics to creepy men she doesn't have to interact with finds it empowering. It's like going to a sweatshop and only talking to th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:25 PM
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99% of male feminists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:08 PM
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I'm so also tired of men acting like being a gold digger is the worst you can do. I have ZERO sympathy for men who are "victims" of gold diggers unless they're literally mentally disabled or have dementia. Men can use women for years for sex, companionship, as a maid, as a free chef, as an incubator and that's all great! Men can marry a woman at 25 and leave her broke and destitute at 45 because he decided he wants a 22 year old and that's totally fine. Men can literally go to other countries to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:51 AM
6

he literally looks like jabba the hutt's ugly brother lmao the audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:44 AM
6

I remember this one case where the husband shot his daughters while they were on the phone with their mother (his ex wife). She literally heard her 9 year old daughter beg for her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:18 AM
5

they'll bring up one example of a woman murdering her husband and be like "SeE, wOmEn Do iT tOo!" even husbands are 4x as likely to murder their wives than be murdered by their wives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:12 AM
20

See, to me, with online dating it just wouldn't be worth it. If you tell him "I'm looking for X, Y, Z", men will pretend to be that just so they can pump and dump you. Obviously your situation was a little different because you knew him beforehand and knew that he wasn't trying to pump and dump and was just shy. However, like you said, when it's pure online dating you never know. If you go on Tinder and say you're looking for an LTR, LVMs masquerading as HVM will lie and say that that's what the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:19 AM
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literally the worst of both conservatism and progressivism but packaged as "eMpOwEriNg"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:09 AM
5

It's not always acting. I don't want to link porn on this sub obviously but google "Efukt meltdown compliation" (trigger warnings for porn, sexual assault, honestly just don't watch this if you don't want to cry). It's literally women crying and breaking down while/after filming porn only to have those disgusting subhuman pigs upload their breakdowns onto the internet for even more men to jack off to. I saw the original link on Reddit a few years ago and people men were LAUGHING about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:03 AM
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Exactly- I actually fear it would lead to MORE rape and sexual assault because they'd be able to act out all of their scary fantasies on the doll and eventually the doll wouldn't be enough for them. A lot of rapists start off with smaller crimes like peeping or stealing underwear and then escalate once the thrill wears off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:56 AM
39

"men are protectors"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:50 PM
54

No script. Next time a man asks you out for a low effort date or to netflix and chill just block and delete without a word. Great job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:03 PM
11

exactly! it's literally been YEARS. she's not even relevant anymore. move on! edit: also, men who are obsessed with amy schumer or lena dunham.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 09:42 PM
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Tbh you can tell how misogynistic a man is by how he reacts when he's angry at a woman or when he dislikes her. For example, I don't like Hillary Clinton. I think she's a fake feminist and a shitty person for helping to rehabilitate her rapist husband's image. HOWEVER, any guy who is 1) obsessed with her (especially now, in 2020) and 2) calls her a b-tch, c-nt, etc. is an automatic next. No man that isn't misogynistic would use those words to describe a woman. Ever. Sometimes I see women whose b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 08:28 PM
34

Tbh NEVER MARRY/DATE AN ATHLETE You're already most likely to be murdered by your husband or boyfriend, and if they play a contact sport (especially professionally) he 100% has CTE/brain damage. An already abusive man + sport = bad situation. Another sick Chris Benoit. The worst thing is that people are going to use CTE to defend/justify his actions they way they did with Benoit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:37 PM
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she's literally been into him since she was 12 i used to follow her when she was 19-21isj and she and justin remind me of me and my ex fwb so much. she'd always post "best friend" posts/memes but it was super obvious that she was crazy about him but he pretty much just saw her as a fuck. imo she thought if she didn't lock him down right then he would have moved on, which is probably right tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:53 PM
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honestly, this may make me sound like a horrible person but i always take celebrity disease revelations with a grain of salt. ever since gigi hadid's fake hashimoto's to cover up her insane weight loss, i've been of the opinion that celebrities pretend to have diseases whenever people start questioning their weight/drug addiction/etc. it's like the 50s when teen girls would "go visit their aunts" for 9 months and when she came back suddenly her parents would have "had a new baby".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:48 PM
29

madonna/wh*re complex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 07:39 PM
94

everything Red Pillers and MGTOW claim about women is a projection. they're the ones who lose value after 30. their sperm degrades, their hairline starts crawling back, and most of them literally can't get it up. most 40 year old men have NOTHING to offer women in their teens or 20s. most of them don't even have anything to offer women in their 30s-50s. they call 30+ women "entitled" because they tend to have higher standards than younger women and they don't meet them. a 20 year old won't care …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:46 PM
16

Jobless yet wants a woman with a job who will also do all the cooking and childcare 🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:40 PM
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I'm sure he'd be happy with her sharing a room with her male best friend lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 03:23 PM
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exactly! whenever this topic (boyfriends/husbands not doing any of the housework) comes up in relationship subs all the comments are like "make a chore wheel!!!" im sorry is he TWELVE?! does he need a chore wheel to know when to fill his gas when his tank is running empty? how the fuck do you get to adulthood and not knowing that you should do laundry when the laundry basket is full, you should do the dishes when they fill up the sink, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 01:51 AM
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he's cheated on her multiple times and she's still sitting there like "i trust him", i- she's calling herself INSECURE because she's worried that her serial cheating husband might be a cheater! i-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:58 PM
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Hailey's been a pickme for Justin forever. I used to follow her waaaay back in 2014-2015 and she'd always post these photos/videos with "her best friend" justin meanwhile he was still publicly chasing Selena. One year Jelena was broken up and Justin and Hailey spent Christmas and new years together and posted a photo of them making out on insta. Justin then started mooning after Selena again (and also random women like Sofia Richie, Chantel Jeffries, and Kourtney Kardashian) and she unfollowed h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:24 PM
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What's high value about calling a random woman ugly on a date? You made a good choice. Remember for the future - just because I guy makes money and pays for dates does NOT mean he is HV. If he works in consulting then he literally has more money than he needs. It's just pennies to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:17 PM
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Glad you're upgrading 💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 12:18 AM
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Not unless OP wants to come back here crying after he finds a girl he actually wants to date and ghosts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:44 PM
30

even having kids via sperm donor is a much more attractive option that procreating with an LVM. at least in that case you're not taking care of an extra adult baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:36 PM
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I was going to say. Miami weekend with the boys? He's cheating You're only 21. You have too much life ahead of you to waste with this loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:27 PM
52

it also screams immature to me. it reminds me of when i was 13 and thought sarcasm was the pinnacle of humour. grow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:46 AM
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There are soooo many pick mes in the sub now; probably because it grew so fast. Literally half the questions from newbies are "Is this [obviously low value male] a HVM???" It's one thing to be a newbie who still has questions but so many of them haven't even skimmed through the guide and it's so obvious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 08:30 PM
22

ScarJo is a ""feminist"" that supports Woody Allen, sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:31 PM
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it's so sad. he cheated on her while she had TWO babies (likely when she was pregnant too) and she's still concerned with how sad he is about having dumped his mistress (if he even did) HE is the one that should be grovelling and begging her for forgiveness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:28 PM
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it works on pickmeishas with low self esteem. RP and PUA "tricks" are literally all about targeting women with insecurities or low self esteen who don't realize that they deserve better than his crusty ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 11:16 PM
12

actually tho lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 11:08 PM
13

he's definitely gaslighting her. lots of people support women having children via sperm donor; doesn't mean we want our boyfriends to be the sperm donors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:47 PM
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he's shocked that you're not a fan of him fathering a child with other women? is he stupid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:55 PM
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yeah, he has access to guns and has threatened to kill her already. this isn't just a "tell him to fuck off and block him" situation. he WILL try to kill her and potentially the kids when she tries to leave. she needs to plan this very very carefully and, if push comes to shove, prepare to leave immediately with nothing but the kids and their essential documents
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:52 PM
53

Men: if the genders were reversed he would be in jail!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:12 PM
9

for sure! plus it's dangerous to assume that all rapists are socially awkward creepy incels. look at all the frat boys, politicians, celebs, and athletes who turned out to be rapists. a LOT of rapists are charming and good with women (ted bundy, anyone?) so it's always important to be vigilant - the clean cut, all american athlete and successful banker is just as likely (if not moreso) to be a rapist as the NEET neckbeard hanging in his mom's basement, but if you only focus on the obvious bad gu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:18 AM
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right??? he's literally MORE likely to cheat when you're pregnant but good luck sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:52 AM
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if they'd shut down incels/MGTOW/TRP down ages ago, it would have saved the world from hundreds of rapes and several mass murders Edit: not to mention the DV caused by these type of men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:51 AM
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That's why the fact that men are freaking out about this makes me laugh so hard. It's too hard to get grocery store flowers and a dollar store card?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:50 AM
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A lot of men have issues with their moms, wives, gfs, and they work out their violence and hatred through assaulting other women too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:48 AM
10

which is exactly why i have zero sympathy for men and their dating issues they have no issue minimizing our issues all the time, yet we're supposed to feel bad for them????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 10:20 PM
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Also, when Miranda's back cracked in the washroom and she asked Carrie to come help and she sent Aidan. I'd literally die if my best friend's boyfriend had to help carry my naked body from the bedroom floor like????? She didn't even tell her!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 10:08 PM
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that attitude is so prevalent on reddit and so annoying. whenever a woman talks about being treated badly in a dating sub, all the men come out of the woodwork with "maybe he won't commit because he's too attractive for you", "maybe you got pumped and dumped because you chose chad over the nice guy" as if ugly men, short men, fat men, don't also treat women like shit. i used to have a male friend that was ugly but charismatic- ALL of his girlfriends were extremely beautiful yet he still cheated …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 10:06 PM
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Tinder doesn't even ban literal sex offenders so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 09:04 PM
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exactly! men are literally constantly judging us on your fuckability. literally any post by a woman that features a photo will have some man (usually many) discussing whether or not she makes his dick hard. they think every woman that exists exists for male consumption so they legitimately get angry if she's unattractive or attractive but makes herself less attractive. men can have a grocery list of "preferences" about women meanwhile women mention one thing and we're evil and shallow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 08:42 PM
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Carrie is the worst friend tbh. Remember when she asked Charlotte to sell her ring to pay for her apartment even as she openly spends her rent money on shoes. It's ironic that Charlotte was the boy crazy one when Carrie was was the LVW and biggest pick me of the group edit: speaking of charlotte's ring.... charlotte's marriage is what happens when you propose to a man tbb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 08:34 PM
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haha I'm also obsessed with my boyfriend's giant hands 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 08:32 PM
10

it's soooo embarrassing, especially when they're with their wives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 08:25 PM
37

Ostracizing the people trying to cure coronavirus 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 08:25 PM
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yup, the thing that turned me off about short guys was 1) the insecurity and 2) the anger towards women whose preferences don't include them. i used to not have a height preference at all but i literally developed one out of spite every time a triggered male posted on r/tinder or r/short about how women were evil wh-res for rejecting them. men can say they "prefer" 16 year old swedish blondes with giant T&A and a tiny waist and it's ok because "biologeeeee". men can literally tell us that we bec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 08:23 PM
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Elle Woods taught me to never give ugleoids a chance tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:39 PM
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the thing is..... he'd probably lie. most men aren't going to straight up tell you that they're going to use you for sex. but men don't spend money on expensive dinners and plane tickets with a woman if they don't want sex. i'm not even necessarily worried that he wants sex (even HVMs want sex right away), what worries me is that he won't take no for an answer. or that he'll hold the plane tickets over your head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:27 PM
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It's a huge red flag and OP put herself in a horrible situation by relying on him for shelter and transportation. Travelling to meet a guy in another country is always dangerous but having your own Airbnb, so you don't feel pressured into sex, and your own plane ticket, so you can leave whenever you want/he can't prevent you from saying are VITAL to staying safe. I really hope she doesn't go- I'm already so stressed for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:10 PM
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read my recent post about why it's dumb and dangerous to call a guy HVM after "a few days" of knowing each other You don't know ANYTHING about him after a few days. He took you to a few restaurants and nice hotels? So what; it's so easy to be charming and "HV" when you only have to do it for a week or two. He could be married, he could have HIV, he could be a sociopath - NEVER EVER EVER rely on a man you don't know to keep you safe. Never rely on a man you don't know to prevent you from being ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:00 PM
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there was a recent discussion about this on pinkpillfeminism; it's super obvious that 99.99% of men [who haven't been assaulted] don't give a fuck about male rape victims until it's time to promote their "feminists bad!" agenda
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:25 PM
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Remember that it's a woman standing up for this boy and MEN minimizing his struggles. Meanwhile, men on reddit don't do jack shit to call out their friends on perpetuating rape culture- they just "iF tHe GenDerS wEre reVerSed" everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 01:43 PM
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men are so cliche too "b- but my young, hot, childless, carefree coworker UNDERSTANDS me!!! i've never felt this way before! i was literally forced to marry my wife at gunpoint! i was happy, but i wasn't tRuLy HaPpy the way i am when i'm getting drunk with my coworker! holding my wife's hair as she pukes and changing our baby's diapers isn't as fun." a tale as old as time 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:51 AM
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some of the most ardent anti porn and anti sex work activists are former sex workers themselves i think it's very telling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:20 AM
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Yes, I truly loved it!! IMO it's a cautionary tale to young women that things aren't always what they seem. It's obviously played out to the extreme, but how often do we see the 20 year old mistress thinking that her 35 year old married boyfriend's wife is a frigid b-tch who doesn't appreciate him. meanwhile, she's the one that built him and she's the one living her day to day life with him. and many mistresses find out that they were very wrong once they become wife #2 and have responsibility a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:00 AM
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she's spend 3 years of college in an LDR with a loser :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 11:19 PM
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I don't even bother with those posts tbh. Some women are so deep in pickmeisha land there is no hope for them until they get pumped and dumped or left at the altar or cheated on and suddenly they understand. She's blinded by her desperation to get married (her ex wasted 6 years of her life and now is spending another year with this guy- guarantee she's desperate from a ring from ANYONE). You're absolutely right that it comes off as needy and sad. It definitely reads as "got played by my ex so I'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 08:59 PM
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not to mention that many of those women he's jacking off to are being, trafficked and exploited, and even the ones that willingly appear in porn are often lied to about what they'll do so they're literally raped and coerced on scene (the producers threaten to withhold their money/sue them if they don't fulfil their contractual obligations), and even with amateur porn you never know if something is revenge porn, CP, or was filmed without consent. no thx!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 08:56 PM
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SHOW US YOUR HAIRLINE, RICHARD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 08:26 PM
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it's the HV/LV version of dunning-kruger. the lower value he is, the higher value he thinks he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 07:51 PM
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why is it always negative value losers assuming that they're HV lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 07:49 PM
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it's propaganda by ugly men (specifically, the weinstein type of ugly man that runs hollywood) that good looking men are always jerks and ugly men treat women right. if you look at DV mugshots, the men range from attractive to ugly- from incel speak, you'd think all wife beaters would be chiseled blonde 6'2 Chads. ugly men in Hollywood use movies and media to work out whatever trauma they had in high school, which is why in a story where an ugly nerd and a hot jock both like the pretty girl, he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 01:30 PM
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Have y'all read The Wives by Tarryn Fisher? The main character is the ULTIMATE pick me!!!! Great book on how being the "cool girl" with a narcissistic LVM can ruin your life. I also recommend The Wife Between Us and The Last Mrs Parrish as more female-led thrillers on how being a pickme can backfire. We should start a book club!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:35 PM
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Same. I had a male friend who went to Cuba with another friend over New Years and when he came back he told me about the cute girl he made out wth and how he couldn't fuck her because he gave our other friend all of his XL condoms. He legitimately looked disappointed when I said, "Cool."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:04 PM
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Bring up controversial people/celebs/politicians or watch shows about women/LGBT people. Also, watch him for when he's mad/annoyed. it's easy for men to say they respect women or poc or lgbt people when they're talking about "one of the good ones", but do they call hillary clinton a c-nt? MLK is okay (now that he's dead and can't fight anymore) but is a black guy that cuts him off in traffic a n-gger? Gay dudes who look masculine and like sports are okay but is a gay dude that's visibly flamboya…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 10:33 PM
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That's the thing- even if this WAS a woman, no one actually practicing FDS could call her a HVW. Shitting on "her" ex's new girlfriend for no reason is literally the misogynistic pickme behaviour that we call out here ALL THE TIME. If you put innocent women down to uplift yourself for male approval, you're not high value. Can't expect the dumb scrotes that post these things to understand the nuance of FDS tho though. They're too busy REEEE'ing over FDS being anti men that they don't notice that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 10:09 PM
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Just be on the lookout for any story that looks like an incel revenge fantasy (on this sub and the rest of Reddit) - 100% chance it's fake. Pretty girl dumps/cheats on nice but poor/ugly dude for Chad. Some time later, Chad turns out to be not so good and pretty girl wants to go back to nice guy but he's already moved on to nice girl. So boring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 10:05 PM
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They post here pretty regularly and it's always obvious because they have such a..... male way of writing In this post OP claims to be a middle aged man Nobody who's not male would think this behaviour would be FDS approved. Only a scrote who thinks we're "evil gold diggers" who "OnLy wAnT ChaD REEEEEEEE" would post this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 09:59 PM
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Trolling male
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 09:55 PM
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I see so many stories about women who grit their teeth and "give" their man anal for a "special treat" on his birthday or anniversaries, etc. It's so sad. Only an evil person could get off to someone who is clearly not into a sex act and only doing it to please you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 07:21 PM
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the last three photos made me laugh so hard. grandpa got cash lmaooooo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 06:52 PM
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Yup, any rational anti-porn, anti-sex work leftists have been silenced by mainstream fauxminist media (Buzzfeed, Vice, Jezebel) which is pro-kink, "sex positive" (as long as it means always say yes to sex), pro-porn, and pro BDSM so the only mainstream news that is anti-porn, anti-BDSM, anti-"it's empowering to be used for sex by every male that asks" is conservative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 06:51 PM
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it doesn't help that other women (pick mes and so-called "feminists") are encouraging this too. they're bot even telling them to suck it up- they're telling young girls to do degrading/dangerous sex acts and LIKE it because it's ""empowering"" and people wonder why gen Z is becoming conservative. when one side is telling you "being anally gangbanged by random men 5x a week is EmPoWeRiNg and you're a bigot (KiNkShAmiNg) if you disagree" and radfems/anti porn fems are being censored and silenced b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 06:08 PM
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seriously on tinder i saw men posing in high end/lux/rare cars, men posting photos of just their wrists draped in expensive watches, and even just their bank account balance. even at 18-20 i automatically assumed all of these men were either broke or creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:49 PM
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right?? idk why men like to pretend women are always at each other's throats when history is FULL of minor squabbles between men starting wars. pick up pretty much any history book ever and it'll have men killing each other over minor things. they've never had to band together as a gender the way we do because they've never been oppressed. men of the same race, class, religion, nationality etc. have had to ban together but there's never been any "all male" solidarity. most male friendships are s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:47 PM
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Right?? It allows him to call himself the victim to his friends and future partners and actually believe it. He won't feel mad or sad or hurt that you're cussing him out; he'll be happy that he still has so much power over you that he can evoke this emotion. Also, people talk and if you have a social group/classmates/coworkers in common he may use this to ruin your relationships with them. Always ignore* and if that's impossible act detached but polite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:14 PM
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Very true. How many men are out there complimenting 70 year old women? Visibly disabled women? Women they don't want to fuck? They see the conventionally attractive 13-35 year old girls and women getting compliments *from boys and men who are trying to get with them) yet they ignore the masses of women who aren't being complimented
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 03:47 PM
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the funny thing is that when women compliment each other men claim we're lying because, you know, we're all catty and secretly hate each other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 01:44 PM
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it's such a faux-intimate thing to say. almost like the opposite of negging. he creates a faux sense of intimacy by saying something "vulnerable" to her and she thinks awwwww, he really likes me! which means that she'll be satisfied for a bit and won't ask for more commitment or labels. so basically, he gets to keep using her for sex while pick me OP is starstruck about being "sexually exclusive" (even though..... they're not exclusive).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 10:58 PM
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imagine believing a guy that won't even ask you to be official is only talking to over after over a year 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 10:34 PM
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he'll tell her that he jacks off to her photos but he won't ask her to be his gf. and she acts like she's winning. sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 10:15 PM
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men will literally murder you for laughing at his dick and they still wanna say that they're the rational sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 09:03 PM
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yeah come the fuck on. how does "she" not know what low value behaviour is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 02:57 PM
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lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:07 AM
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it's because calling it a date comes with expectations and they'd rather try to pump and dump while spending as little $ as possible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 11:41 PM
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i'm 23 and the thought of dating an 18 year old makes me nauseous. imo 18-22 is your second infancy- i literally do not recognize my 18 year old self. edit: also, the power imbalance between an 18 year old and a 23 year old is HUGE. there was a reason frosh leaders and RAs (3rd/4th years) weren't allowed to hook up with froshies when i was at school
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 07:53 PM
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imagine calling yourself a heterosexual male when you're unable to get it up for a real live woman who wants to have sex with you because your dick is too broken from watching other men fuck women on a screen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 07:47 PM
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yes when i was 18 even 20 year olds were too old for me haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 07:40 PM
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joke topics men think are funny: domestic violence against women, rape (against women), murder (against women), pedophilia (against girls) jokes men think are hate crimes: tweeting "men are trash" on twitter, saying you don't want a guy who's 5'6 with a tiny dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 07:05 PM
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a retired drug dealer is not hv
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 07:01 PM
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not porn sick: men only lasting 30 seconds before their ED sets in from too much porn use "porn sick": expecting men to be able to fuck long enough for you to cum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 06:45 PM
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Yup, even smart gold diggers and extremely wealthy women aren't financially dependant on their husbands. Look at all the Real Housewives selling luxury handbags, hair products, clothes, makeup, Bethenny Frankel's "skinny girl" vodka, Lisa Vanderpump's clothes, etc. They all have some sort of side hustle and their own source of income.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:10 PM
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he's dumb af too..... the money is for a medical condition that will get more expensive as he gets older and maybe inhibit his ability to work, forcing him to retire early (how many medical conditions gotten get better/easier/cheaper to manage with age?). he's gonna spend it on a fuck pad tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 11:34 PM
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the difference between men and women is that men blame others for their insecurities and women blame themselves. he's insecure about being too broke to afford a decent date, likely also feels rejected by her (he thought she was a gold digger after date 1 yet chose to go on date 2?) so now he's lashing out to make himself feel better. sorry but $30 is a very reasonable amount to spend on a date. at pretty much every non-fast food (but not high end) restaurant i've been to, wine/cocktails are $9-1…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 11:29 PM
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fucking gold digging piece of shit used his wife for her insurance and as soon as he gets some money suddenly he's "tired of the game"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 11:09 PM
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$40 worth of food is an appetizer and a main LMAO. she asked for his cashapp (in other words, she wanted to pay him back), paid for half the dinner, and went out with him again. if he's so destitute he's ordering $8 worth of food, he should stop dating since he clearly needs to divert his funds to better purposes. why would she want to "finesse" the pockets of someone crying about a $30 dinner? lmao i remember in high school paying for friends' birthday dinners that cost more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:48 PM
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Men either message "hey", some crude sexual joke, or some shitty pun he saw somewhere on Reddit 😴😴😴😴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:43 PM
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reddit loves being obtuse like that; apparently men can do anything to women and as long as she hasn't cOmMuNiCaTed her feelings first it's ok i've seen posts like "my boyfriend had sex with me when i was asleep and i feel uncomfortable and violated" and all the comments will be like "well how was he supposed to know he shouldn't rape you when you were unconscious? you didn't talk to him about it; maybe try communicating with him?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:44 PM
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right??? it's so jarring to see 40 year old men getting more excited about video games or star wars than even 14 year old boys. my god, grow some balls and grow the fuck up already!! coomers is a misogynistic/racist hellhole, but one thing they actually got right is the nintendo switch face ("soyface"). it's literally what your average video game loving redditor looks like. 30+ year old men are in arrested development these days - millennial women are out-earning them, out-graduating them, and i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:40 PM
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it's literally so cringey. like, they call themselves adults yet act like 12 year old boys with their first Xboxes. video games didn't make me hate video games, gamers did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:13 PM
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exactly!! why does OP need to "communicate" that she wants to spend time with her partner while he eats the dinner that SHE cooked instead of choosing a bunch of pixels on the screen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:48 PM
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literally children. it's so fucking embarrassing and pathetic. i will never date a man who regularly games. EVER. "waaaaaaah i don't get to save my game" holy shit maybe grow up????? it's a fucking video game. literally every time i see a woman in a relationship with a "gamer", she's 100% just his mom that he also has sex with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:45 PM
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I love how the top comment is from someone who had the same issue with his MOM when he was 15. He is literally a child. And men really want to convince us that marriage is a scam for them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 03:53 PM
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This story is an unfortunate example of why we don't support age gaps. A 40 year old male has had twice as much time to learn how to manipulate and abuse women compared to a man her age. Plus there is ALWAYS a power imbalance in favour of the older person. I'm 23 and sometimes I still find it awkward calling adults by their first names because I'm so used to Mrs. This or Professor That.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:57 PM
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lol that was me. i dated a french boy and all his friends hated me because i wasn't fluent enough but they'd only ever speak french around me. my ex would get mad when i didn't want to hang out with his friends and his friends constantly tried to break us up so he could date another francophone (i had one friend say i wasn't one of them and it was super confusing bc he was adopted from taiwan so you'd THINK he'd be the most understanding one but w/e). he'd also text his friends whenever we were …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:34 PM
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exactly! plus it's pretty easy to pick up the cheque and be on your best behaviour for a few hours once or twice a week. IMO you can never truly if a man is "HV" until you've seen him stressed, you've seen him angry at you, you've seen him angry at another woman, you've had an extended hardship/illness, and you've seen him with his friends/peers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 08:54 PM
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i just made basically the same post!! somehow i missed yours until now but i 100% agree. a man buying you dinner and taking you to a nice place doesn't make him a HVM. not even if he also buys you a bouquet of your favourite flowers and high end chocolates. the worst sociopaths and narcissists are charming and can keep a mask on for months, even years. even your average semi-intelligent LVM can fake being a HVM for a while. getting all doe eyed about your new HVM two hours after your first date …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 08:34 PM
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if i died while my brother's wife was pregnant i'd definitely want him to be with her, tbh. it's not even a question. i'm already dead, it's not like i'm going to be at the funeral. depending on your religious beliefs, i'm either chilling with jesus and in eternal bliss, chilling with satan and clearly have more important issues than my funeral, or my consciousness literally doesn't exist anymore and i don't even know there's a funeral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 08:23 PM
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stop dating and work on your mental health because this WILL keep happening if you continue trying to date/get a FWB in your current mental state. men can smell insecurity, which is why you keep running into shitty men who want to use you. work on yourself (get a hobby, STOP dating/fwb, level up in your career/education, etc) because when you have high self confidence and high self esteem, you won't give a fuck if 10 guys reject you because you know you have many more options. also, stop dating …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 07:49 PM
137

A woman who asked a short man if he had any taller friends who were cute would be called every name in the book. A short man (specifically, the type of short men on r/tinder) who'd just got rejected for his height would automatically respond with the old "weight?" question
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:20 PM
48

Same! I'm playing Rumors right now :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 07:36 PM
132

it's super annoying because the average man is bigger and stronger than the average women. men loooove talking about superior they are to us in terms of strength until a 100 lb woman taps a 200 lb man and suddenly it's "equal rights equal lefts HurR DuRr". he doesn't actually see you as a threat the way you see him as a threat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 04:07 PM
36

my mom got followed by a deranged septagenerian scrote a few weeks ago!! she actually had to drive past the place she was planning on stopping at because she was so nervous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 02:51 PM
34

They don't do anything to help around the house, make her do all the childcare, make her responsible for buying everyone's birthday cards and remembering all their appointments, etc. even though they both work full time so she literally has a double work day and is too tired to want sex. Bonus if he washes dishes twice a week and considers his contribution equal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 09:16 PM
5

his definition of a HVW is a woman that's young and uneducated. young and uneducated women can be HV (my grandma left school at 13 and has a variety of businesses and even has free/cheap housing for women and children), but he sounds like a predator who wants to take advantage of women he thinks any man that has a job is automatically HV. he's too dumb to realize no one here is looking for a man like him so it doesn't matter what he thinks. it's like a vegan going to the steakhouse and listing w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 08:23 PM
14

"Please don't get educated and have a career because I won't be able to manipulate, financially abuse, and force you to stay if you have your own money!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 07:43 PM
13

I love how they always assume they they're the men we go for lmao. Trust me, no man that stalks female subs and DMs them with unsolicited advice is high value. None of us are crying because we're going to miss out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 07:42 PM
58

I haven't laughed this hard in ages. RPW is the same ideology where a woman who works full time with an unemployed/retired husband still has to make him dinner after working full time at a high stress job. RPW is the same ideology that told women to not expect a gift or even a thank you for doing all the prep work for Christmas. I can't even take RPW seriously lmao. It's literally the worst of patriarchy and liberal feminism - still expected to work full time or you're a leech, yet you're still …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:42 PM
119

Women being hurt by men is literally used against us to invalidate anything we do or say ("who hurt you?", "daddy issues"). If you say "I've been abused by men so I'm going to avoid them" you're a crazy femin-zi b-tch. Meanwhile, if you're a man who's been hurt by a woman you're perfectly justified in being paranoid and abusive because your middle school girlfriend kissed another guy after the homecoming dance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:20 PM
19

when men get hurt by women it's justification for every bad thing he'll ever do to other women. edit: i've literally seen people defending serial killer edmund kemper because his mom was abusive - never mind the teenagers and college students he murdered and defiled...... when women get hurt by men we're made fun of and used ("daddy issues") and called paranoid and crazy when we try to protect ourselves from being hurt again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 04:04 PM
49

100% he's a family friend or teacher that started grooming her as a child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 01:29 PM
215

also, stop giving men specific information on what youre looking for. if he asks, say something generic like "someone who makes me laugh". NEVER give him specific advice on how to pretend to be the perfect man so he can pump and dump you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:37 PM
32

she's been with him since she was 13. more than half her life. not to mention that he's been raping and abusing her for years. i'm pretty sure every FDSer thought "leave" when they saw "boyfriend of 16 years" and it got even WORSE with the rape, but she's been beaten down so much and for so long that her first thought it how do I fix him? i wish she was my friend so i could help her escape. imagine sleeping on the floor for three years because otherwise your boyfriend would rape you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:57 PM
19

yup, being flaky is super low value behaviour because it indicates that they don't consider your time as important as theirs. she cancels multiple times yet she gets angry when he goes out with a woman that does make time for him. i can't STAND flakes in friendships and relationships. they always seem to be the most entitled too and get angry when you're the one that cancels for once. also, it's really annoying when people who clearly don't have time to date try to date people and constantly can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:59 PM
31

I next any man who cancels on me more than once, especially when you haven't even met yet. IMO it was tacky to post the stories of him out with another girl but I'd definitely tell an FDSer or my sister to block and delete a guy who's cancelled on her 3-4 times. Either she's too busy to date or she just wasn't that into him. Either way, no loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:19 PM
12

if you're in your early/mid 20s the average height for a guy our age is about 5'11 or so, especially if he grew up middle class or higher. there is NOTHING WRONG with wanting an average height male. it's just biology after all - tall men generally make better protectors, tall also means they had good nutrition growing up (malnutrition leads to bad quality sperm), also being tall is a sign of adulthood/sexual maturity. anytime someone tries to bully you for your preference tell them it's jUsT biO…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 12:32 AM
96

your mom rocks!!! my mom is starting a PhD program this year at the age of 47 :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 07:41 PM
18

yup, even if by some miracle you get him to "commit" he'll always have one foot out the door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 07:40 PM
90

right, like who the fuck cares? people can't control age, race, bone structure, nationality, any diseases they may have, etc. does that mean men are bigots for not wanting to date 80 year old women? or that it makes to a terrible person to only want to date people who speak english/chinese/whatever your native language is? funny enough i've NEVER seen people with actual disabilities getting as triggered about dating standards as crusty 5'8 incels on reddit not to mention that there are a lot of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 07:13 PM
21

that's why I always tell my friends to next a man if they're less than a year into a relationship and having problems. this is literally supposed to be the honeymoon period, the time when you're supposed to love the smell of their farts. if your relationship is already struggling less than a year in (seriously one woman in one of my facebook groups has been seeing a couple's counsellor for weeks with her boyfriend of FOUR months), just leave- it's not worth it. if it's hard in the time of the re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 01:07 AM
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This is why FWB is a scam for women. Women take on the majority of the risk (STDs, pregnancies, physical danger) yet men are the ones that cum every time and unlike a bf they aren't even motivated to improve their sexual ability because you're literally just a series of holes to them. I've had so many friends complain that their FWB won't go down on them, doesn't make then orgasm, etc. and I'm like ok then WHY is he still your FWB? he's not actually a friend you can count on unless his dick is g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 01:02 AM
25

my 4 year old cousin is more intelligent and articulate. she can lie better too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 12:50 AM
56

it's sad because several white women have also told me that black men do the same with black women to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 08:43 PM
36

they don't give a fuck about health. jennifer lawrence and gigi hadid talk about eating pizza and they're quirky and relatable. chrissy metz does it and she's promoting obesity. i have friends that smoke, friends that do cocaine, i used to get crazy drunk when i was in uni - no man has EVER turned us down because our habits were "unhealthy"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 08:42 PM
64

i'm mixed Ghanaian/white but I generally pass for white/white ~exotic~ (black people clock me more often than whites, interestingly enough). I've noticed that with white men especially, they'll start shit talking white girls when they realize I'm not white. i've written about it on GC before and i find it frankly weird and annoying. like, a lot of my friends and half my family are those white women you think are dumb wh-res but ok......... i've also had men of multiple races/ethnicities (white, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 08:30 PM
90

it's funny because i've literally seen 14-15 year old boys saving their allowances to take girls out on real dates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 08:15 PM
60

if the photo was of a fat girl eating they'd go after her for "promoting obesity". i remember there was a gilette ad on facebook featuring a fat women and all the comments were going at them for promoting obesity....... um no, it's called capitalism- they just want fat women'z $$$$
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 08:11 PM
2

I have a thigh gap because I'm pretty sure I'm bowlegged lol. It's pretty weird bc none of my gp's have ever brought it up and I've never had any issues walking, but a few years ago I realized that everyone else's knees touched and mine just..... didn't. So my legs never touch at all, even when I was at the mid/high end of a healthy BMI a few years ago. The good thing is that I never have to worry about chafing but now I'm kinda worried I'll end up with arthritis when I get older though :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 05:35 PM
24

pro sex work and sex positive until the sex worker refuses to let everyone use her.........
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:19 AM
70

some men even had the audacity to pretend that them beating their unwashed, smegma-covered dicks to her was some sort of brave tribute to her. august ames' story makes me so sad. ironic that she was driven to suicide by the very crowd that is pro sex worker and "sex positive". it's almost like they're only "pro" sex worker when the sex worker parrots whatever Happy Hooker©️ eMpoWeRmEnT fantasy they want to spread. asa akira says that being anally gangbanged is fun and empowering? LISTEN TO SEX W…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 03:55 AM
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Yup. I'll never compliment a male that isn't my boyfriend or relative because they all assume that any compliment means you're flirtjng and dtf. Men can compliment each other :) Also, there are so many issues affecting women and girls around the world that I literally don't have the time or emotional energy to care about male suicides. Men don't pretend to care about all or even most issues affecting women OR men (the only issues men care about are the issues that affect them- e.g. poor men care…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 03:50 AM
5

Wolf of Wall Street
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:07 PM
33

Her father literally called the paps so they could get pictures of him looking sad while googling Meghan's name to keep up the whole "Meghan is an evil shrew who turned her back on her working class upbringing!!!!" narrative. They should be fucking GRATEFUL that Meghan gave them careers. They'd literally be unknown trailer trash if she hadn't started dating Harry. If Meghan died tomorrow, as soon as the news cycle moved on they'd be back to being the unknown losers that they are. Meghan's sister…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 10:14 PM
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Her family is evil, aside from her mom. Constantly complaining that Meghan doesn't confide in them, Meghan doesn't invite them to the wedding, Meghan does this and that, when THEY are the ones who go running to tabloids whenever she does anything. I can't fucking stand them. They're all disgusting leeches who love complaining about her because DailyMail probably tosses them a tenner for every "Meghan is a diva" thinkpiece they choose to participate in. OF COURSE Meghan doesn't want her attention…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 09:51 PM
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Also, it'll just reflect badly on OP. He can easily claim that she's clingy and crazy and just making shit up and most people would believe him. If some guy I'd dated for 3 months came at me with the "well you're bad at sex!" thing I'd think it was pathetic. If I'm so bad at sex, what does it say about YOU that you stuck around for so long? No one will think "oh yeah he definitely has ED and is bad at sex"; they'll just see OP as the crazy ex. The original post was good because it was a clear an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 07:33 PM
20

Psychology, Philosophy, Finance. The unholy trinity for narcissistic men everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 06:35 PM
10

Ugh I remember people in season one calling Beck a b!tch because she didn't love Joe and was a normal, flawed, imperfect 20 something. It always starts like "Well I'm not justifying what Joe did to Beck but-" and they justify their like for Joe because he only kills "bad" people. They whitewashed him A LOT for the show. They gave him Paco and his mom in s1 and the Ellie/Delilah/Henderson storyline in s2 to make him seem like a good person, never-mind that he murdered Benji and Peach in cold bloo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 06:34 PM
19

People call everything ghosting tbh. In one of my facebook groups, there was this pickme that came crying that she'd been ghosted because the guy she went on two dates with's grandfather died and he didn't feel up to dating. I usually hate defending scrotes but he literally SAID "I'm not in the place for dating" but she called it ghosting because ??????? And then she got mad, faked a mental breakdown, and ragequit the group when everyone in the group told her that 1) she was overreacting and 2) …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 06:25 PM
9

I'm currently listening to the Bling Ring audiobook and it's actually pretty pinkpilled/FDS-adjacent. The author (Nancy Jo Sales) talks about celebrity/starlet culture and the impact of porn on young tween and teen girls. She raised some really good points as to how the stars/actors/models of today are so over-sexualized and pornified compared to today. Compare the average 20 or 30 something star from the 60-70s (Diana Ross, Janice Joplin, Aretha, etc.) to the ones from the 90s or later and it's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 06:20 PM
5

omg thank u for r/illegallysmolcats
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:20 PM
26

Same. He also does the dishes.......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 01:33 PM
56

I'd love an MGTOW movement that was actually about going their own way. In theory, it was supposed to be about what you said (improving your life without women) but those men have been pushed out and the movement is filled with incels-in-denial and abusers now. RP are definitely rapists though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:02 AM
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being a mgtow is even a bigger joke than being a redpiller or incel tbh. they're all misogynist scum, but at least rp and incels don't pretend to not be obsessed with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 03:19 AM
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I literally witnessed this with my ex fwb who I've talked about here before. When I was into him, I was the "crazy" girl and clingy. He literally told all his friends that I was madly in love with him and he didn't know how to let me down gently. Meanwhile, he'd been calling me his girlfriend (I never called him my bf) and introducing me to his family. He's constantly complain about no girl wanting him and I'd be like "I want you" and he'd be like "Anyway, it's sad that no one wants me...." (hyp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 02:16 AM
24

Her is such a pinkpilled movie!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 01:27 AM
45

she paid off his card and he's gonna use that money to buy some other girl dinner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 01:25 AM
18

I think part of it is that men aren't socialized to take care of children women are. From infancy, girls are given dolls to take care of and men are given things to do (e.g. trucks, legos, train sets). I don't think most men actually want children - I think they just have children to continue their genes and as a "checklist" for the stage of life they're in. Therefore, when their family life is shattered they don't really know what to do with the kids even if they love them. Have you noticed tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 12:07 AM
30

men like this don't see their wives/girlfriends like actual people - they're just shiny accessories and status symbols. that's why many men will refuse to date a woman they're attracted to if his friends don't find her attractive. heck, even closet gay/bi men do this - they'll be married to a woman and fucking a man/TiM on the side. anyway, scrotes like OP get a girlfriend who is clearly out of his league and he starts feeling cocky like he can do better so he dumps her and then comes back cryin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 10:55 PM
70

And then men have the audacity to complain about custody battles and "muh father's rights". FIRST OF ALL, men don't even bother fighting for custody in the majority of those cases. Something like HALF of all custody battles are decided without even the help of a mediator. In other words, HALF of non-custodial single fathers CHOSE to walk away from kids. And not to mention the custodial "weekend dads" who chose (again, without the court or a mediator) to see their kid only one or two weekends a m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 07:14 PM
12

IME being a FWB means being the backup fuck. He'll still go out with his friends and try to get some (and never invite you) but you'll get a 2am text when he realizes that none of the girls he bought drinks for at the club are going to fuck him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 02:47 PM
8

somebody get this man a bra!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 02:40 PM
25

My boyfriend - Has good hygiene. I knew the bar was on the fucking floor for men when I felt his wet hands after he came back from the washroom and was actually impressed that he washed his hands, but alas. He showers, has a nice haircut, takes good care of himself, and does not have a beard (he has stubble tho which shows off his jawline and looks scruffy and hot af). - He's sooooo nice!!!!! Even when we have disagreements (we've never actually had a fight), he's never raised his voice or yelle…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:48 AM
5

thanks, girl 💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 03:59 AM
5

lol i remember i used to go to this bar that was almost EXCLUSIVELY 18-19 year olds (seriously, went back there a few months ago at 22 and felt old af). we even found it creepy when guys in their mid-late 20s showed up. this is a student club!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 01:33 AM
13

My boyfriend and I had our anniversary last weekend and I love him soooo much!!!!! He bought me several gifts that were based on our inside jokes and even wrote me a card even though he is NOT a writer at all. The fact that he hates shopping yet managed to get me three gifts (each with a little note containing a clue about what it is) that he knew I'd love and not just the stereotypical "heart necklace and roses" that low effort men would get (negative value men wouldn't even get you a gift) mak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 11:42 PM
32

Literally every time some manlet or pick me cries about height requirements my preferences get taller. Men can feel comfortable calling Rihanna ugly because "her forehead is big" meanwhile, women asking for a man that's slightly above average height (and yes, for you triggered shortcels lurking- within the age range and socioeconomic class i date 6' is maybe an inch above average) makes them the devil because "yOu cAn cOnTrOl yOuR wEiGhT bUt yOu CaN't CoNtRoL yOur HeiGht" as if that matters. You…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:20 PM
78

men always give other men the benefit of the doubt. a woman could walk by them, clothes ripped and torn, face black and bruised, saying that some weirdo attempted to attack/rape her and men will literally jump on ANY excuse to defend him. "maybe he's just shy and not good with women", "did you do something to piss him off?" literally. i once saw a video on r/publicfreakout of a man beating the shit out of a woman and the scrotes in the comments were saying shit like "maybe he just found out that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:34 PM
45

all french boys are fuck boys tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:30 PM
29

Fucking pathetic. I just hope neither of them have any young sisters, cousins, nieces, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:30 PM
40

"do u want to play 20 questions? haha"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:19 AM
69

Bancroft and De Becker are two of the very few men who are honest about the true nature of males. John Douglas (former FBI profiler and the inspiration for Mindhinter) and Rob Ressler (former FBI profiler specializing in crimes against children) are two more. Read books by these four men if you want a male perspective on the depths of male evil and depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:17 AM
55

IMO he sounds high value because a low value male would have continued stringing you along and future faking just to get his dick wet. He respected you enough to be honest about it not working. If you were able to attract one HVM, you'll be able to attract more, girl. Chin up 💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:12 AM
53

if he was an actual celebrity i'd at least understand where his ego comes from but literally WHO IS HE???? why does every below average man with a guitar think that he's special? BTS also played 40 shows last year and over a million fans came to see them? how many people came to see dipshit Dan play? also, dating a professional musician pretty much guarantees he's going to cheat - at least date an actual musician so you get some of the perks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 07:30 PM
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that's why a lot of men start with small fuck ups. women have been socialized to be kind and forgiving to men and we're constantly being gaslighted (including by other women) when we won't put up with bullshit. it'll start with things like not picking up his laundry and you don't want to be the "crazy nag" that left him over something that small, and it slowly escalates until he thinks he has you tripped (marriage/kids) and he can finally let his truly lazy low value self out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 05:46 PM
11

it's literally always been obvious that harry's never been keen on being a royal. he has no chance of ever ruling anyway (the only way it would ever happen would be if the queen, charles, and william died while george was still a minor and harry became his guardian/regent- still not king). the way the press treated his mother was evil and now he's seeing them do the same thing to his wife (with some racism added to the typical misogyny). the backlash to the move is literally proving H&M's point …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 07:32 AM
14

many women start family planning as early as their early 20s (teens if they're religious/conservative) to ensure they have children at the best time. they plan when they want to get married, how long they want to be married before trying for kids, how many kids they want and how far apart, etc. meanwhile 45 year old men wake up one day, watch pursuit of happyness on tv and decide they want a family now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 07:21 AM
51

yes! i'm 23 and thought brad was ugly af and never got the hype until i saw the episode of friends he was in. i also never got the hype around clooney.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 05:47 AM
50

she's acting like he's so brave for staying in bed with the puppy while she wakes up early to cook him breakfast lmao..........
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:37 AM
4

Well if she's a stripper, he was still getting sexual gratification from spending money on her and having her dance on him. Very different situation than paying to see a beautiful, fully clothed girl eat dinner and not give him any sort of sexual satisfaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 07:45 PM
19

Sugaring IS escorting. You're going to get hurt if you walk in all doe-eyed thinking that sleazy old fucks will pay you for "companionship". "Companionship" = sex. "Fun" = sex. If men are paying for you, they WILL expect sex. Think of how many men expect you to put out when they buy you a 2 for $20 Applebees meal- sugar daddies are just like that but worse! Additionally, Sugar babies who claim that they're being paid huge amounts and not fucking the daddies are LYING. It's just less embarrassing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 07:11 PM
39

I recently read a book about GI Brides (e.g. British women marrying American soldiers who were stationed in the UK during the war) and literally all the women were seeing multiple men, writing letters to others, going to restaurants and parties to meet men, etc. Even the 50s slang "going steady" supports this. Before the 50s, men and women would date casually until he proposed. Since premarital sex and cohabitation were frowned upon, men would have to buy the "cow" because they weren't getting m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 06:41 PM
14

i'm in my early 20s so any man that is more than 5 years older than me that shows interest is automatically LV for me. only a creep would be interested in a girl a 7+ years younger (obviously age gaps matter less as you age)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 06:28 PM
8

So fucking pathetic. We'll see if she's still the cool girlfriend when he asked for a blowie for changing their baby's diaper after she woke up 3 times that night to feed it. Also, she's fucking delusional for thinking it's "not a long term solution". She's already conditioned his negative value ass to associate chores with bjs- he's going to get resentful and sulky when she stops. In fact, they're both extremely low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:52 PM
35

men can cum fucking a mcchicken. test drive what, the drive thru?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:39 PM
24

the bar is so low for men that the r/sex OP gets turned on by her fwb showering. the absolute state of scrotes in 2020! lmao hygiene isn't "sexy"; it's fucking mandatory for any functional adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:37 PM
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yup, OP thinks that sending this letter will give her the power in this 'relationship'. it's the fuckbuddy equivalent of "i'm not fired, i quit!" but he will not fall for it. you know what would really give you (OP) the power in this relationship? by not giving a fuck. treat him like you'd treat a family member you dislike but have to be polite to. nobody writes letters about a situation they don't care about. just writing the letter proves you care. the false bravado ("the sex wasn't that great…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:20 AM
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don't give him the letter u less you want to take a huge L, please. i literally feel embarrassed reading it. i guarantee he will laugh at you and use it to prove you're the crazy girl who's obsessed with him ("we just fucked once or twice and now she's calling herself my wife, bro, she's crazy"). you're not going to make him understand or make your 'friendship' go back to what it was beforehand. please, you deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:32 AM
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a lot of the before and after makeup photos (e.g. the pornstars one that was popular a few years ago) are very misleading because of this reason exactly. sure, the contouring and highlighting can slim down your face/nose and give you cheekbones handcrafted by michaelangelo for the Gram, but you're only looking at a 2D picture taking at a certain angle under certain lighting (not to mention, facetune and filters are rampant). contouring (in the amount that is required to actually make your bone s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 09:28 PM
35

imagine being this jealous of the attention your wife and newborn are getting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 09:05 PM
30

fucking pathetic. she's not even arguing "women shouldn't rely on men because we should be financially independent enough to take care of ourselves", which is at least a respectable belief, but "women shouldn't rely on men for money because male feelings"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:09 PM
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and the fact that women are the ones that bear children and deal with the majority of childcare even in double income households and the fact that women do more housework than men even in double income households so even if both parties are working the standard 40h/wk, the wife works more hours in terms of child rearing and housework.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:08 PM
71

this is why "Hollywood ugly" is a beautiful woman with glasses and a ponytail
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:04 PM
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I noticed this when I went from auburn/brunette hair back to blonde. I'd been dyeing my hair brown since I was 14 but I recently decided to go back to my natural colour because I didn't want to keep dyeing my hair. I still got attention before, but long blonde hair is SUCH a halo. I don't even know why I was so shocked but men have literally run to me to help if I looked lost or confused. Back when I was a brunette, men would be so confused when I told them I dyed my hair. I had one ex legitimat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:01 PM
54

he's not even hot???????? like this would obviously still be shitty, low value behaviour even if he was chris hemsworth, but does he really think any woman is going to be crying because they missed out on him???? the audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 06:31 PM
97

went from being a deadbeat dad and has-been to being a Stunning and Brave™️ Woman of the Year©️ who still manages to be a homophobic piece of shit despite appropriating the word "lesbian" for himself 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 06:10 PM
27

tbh i didn't really realize how creepy surrogacy was until i saw kim k repeatedly use black women and their bodies to carry her children (the karjenners are the rl versions of get out). there's something disgusting about being so rich you can literally rent women's bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:25 PM
8

yup it's very important for FDSers to know that rich != high value. as long as he isn't broke and has enough to afford his normal lifestyle, wealth doesn't determine value. thinking otherwise will just lead to being pumped and dumped by investment bankers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 05:52 PM
68

it's because all men are insecure and competitive. they're scared that another guy you fucked in the past was better/bigger/thicker and obviously the more sexual partners you have the more the odds increase that he isn't the biggest you've ever had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 01:48 PM
15

I've seen multiple posts at the top of r/all with males just watching porn in public. But it's "funny" because "haha grandpa can't realize how to look up porn on his own phone" and not "grandpa is jacking off 20 feet from where 5 year olds are reading Clifford the Big Red Dog"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 12:12 AM
63

The worst LVW are the ones that choose men over women, especially their own blood. I've heard the "my mom's boyfriend made sexual advances towards me and my mom didn't believe me/called me a whre." so many times it's disgusting. Those women are NO better than negative value males because they're pimping out their own friends, sisters, and literal daughters to men. My younger sister knows a girl who got sexually abused by her stepdad, mom kicked her out because she didn't believe my sister's frie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 12:00 AM
61

but he gets to buy ViDeO gAmEs!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:52 PM
99

imagine posting this tweet thinking it's funny or eMpoWeRiNg...........
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:51 PM
86

omg i knew this guy from high school who had THREE kids by the time he was 21. BY THREE DIFFERENT WOMEN!!!!! the weird thing is he was ugly af, pretty dumb, and a line cook so how did he keep getting these girls????????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 06:20 PM
4

going on the biggest loser is literally the WORST way to lose weight ever. it should be considered abuse and literally promotes eating disorders/overexercising. it's soooo unrealistic to the average person's life (waking up at 6am for a three hour workout, having multiple multi-hour workouts per day, having a personal trainer and personal chef) and, like you said, doesn't do ANY psychological work at all as to why the contestants had gained weight in the first place. for example, a lot of victim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 05:32 PM
22

Yeah, imo it's more insecurity than actual attractiveness that causes girls to be pick mes. Girls who are treated badly based on their appearance are more likely to be insecure and base their worth on make approval. That doesn't mean that all fat/ugly girls are pick mes or that all pick mes are ugly/fat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 04:02 PM
7

they were definitely still together lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 03:16 PM
57

men literally beat their wives and children because their favourite team lost a game. but yup, women are the emotional, irrational sex. during the last world cup, they LITERALLY had to have a campaign in england telling men not to abuse their wives if england lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:40 PM
13

I had a guy invite me to McDonalds at 2am (which...... LOL) and his girlfriend was literally in his profile picture!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:21 AM
12

all the MGTOW and pick me's making hate videos about us are just giving the sub free publicity lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 01:21 AM
4

Same with me but with Ghanaian men. My mom has a blog on Ghanaian politics/feminism (she's a lawyer and social worker) but she hired a guy for the tech stuff so sometimes you'll see a post telling women (and young people in general) not to get married and then scroll down a little further and the scrote wrote something about how women depreciate with value. I can code now tho so we don't need him anymore :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 01:10 AM
19

I had a guy Superlike me, send me a message, send a follow up "????" no more than 20 minutes later. At this point I'd obviously lost all interest in him but I wanted to see if he'd do anything else. He sent another angry text in French basically asking why I was on the app if I wasn't going to answer and then he unmatched a few hours later. From when he swiped to when he unmatched was at most 6-8 hours. Men be desperate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 09:00 PM
28

Seriously I'm sure there are some sugar babies that'd do this *if he was also buying her whatever the fuck she wants. Escorts too. Meanwhile his 40 year old ass wants a 20 year old to slobber all over for free. What would she get out of this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 07:18 PM
50

report him. AoC is 18 in california.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 07:15 PM
30

sounds like an easy way to unknowingly walk around with cum in your hair but ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:06 PM
17

people always criticize r/relationships for pulling the break up card too often, but i think that if you're at the point where you're asking for relationship advice from strangers on the internet something is very rotten in the state of denmark. i've seen multiple posts from young women asking them how to tell their boyfriend that he has to wipe after he shits and i'm just like...... REALLY?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 04:38 AM
32

I fucking hate men like this. I used to get "you look like trouble" on Tinder a lot, I'm still not even sure what it means??????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 05:53 PM
181

Yup. Coupled pick me's will always be like "Well I asked my husband out and we're happy!" Well most guys struggle to get ANY female attention. Unless he's Chris Hemsworth, he doesn't have women throwing themselves at him ever. If you had no shoes and someone offered you Nikes, would you turn then down because you prefer Yeezys? Or would you settle for the Nikes until you were able to get the shoes you really want?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 05:49 PM
49

Well she's a SAHM with a new baby. Abusers love trapping women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 05:41 PM
43

Yeah, it's totally a coincidence that he pissed on the floor right after having a huge fight with OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 03:38 PM
10

plus at the end of the day they still get your $2k. i bet they're banking on outrage sales to mainstream libfem/lefty media outlets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 03:23 PM
25

the second leading cause of death for pregnant women (after car crashes) is homicide by their boyfriend/husband. men are "protectors" what a joke! so many of them see a woman at her most vulnerable, literally depending on him to do his biological imperative and provide for his child, and they use this time to escalate abuse or even resort to murder! i'm childfree and have no plans to have children but the whole idea of abusing or killing your pregnant spouse....... it's fuckimg abhorrent and bey…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 11:33 PM
38

I think that's why this "type" of LVM go after younger women and women that are less affluent. They know that the starry-eyed 18 year old's romantic experience with men consists of going on chaperoned dates to Appleby's and getting groped by drunken frat boys at parties held in sticky basements so she's going to be impressed if he buys her a few $150 dinners or that heart-shaped Tiffany necklace. $150 a few times a month is NOTHING for these men, but those girls forget that so they assume that h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 11:03 PM
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Yup! A lot of men assume that having money makes them high value, don't make the same mistake. First of all, men with money are nothing special. Go to pretty much any of the upscale bars in any city's financial district/downtown and you won't be able to walk to the washroom without running into five investment bankers, three lawyers, and seven "senior vice presidents". Huge salary also means that he likely wields a lot of power at his job and isn't used to hearing the word "no"; a lot of low val…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 10:28 PM
41

I heard really good things about Watt after the Hurricane Harvey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 10:17 PM
7

It's 100% a scrote trying to get us to say "no! make your daughter dump her 16 yo crush for being ugly!" so he can ran back to mainstream reddit with proof of how evil we are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 07:55 PM
13

That kind of attitude is so common, especially on Reddit. There'll be scrotes genuinely proud that they'd choose a "6/7 with a good personality over a mean 9/10". Uh, someone considered a 6-7 is a very attractive, especially if you consider the fact that human attractiveness falls on a distribution curve which means that far less people are 6s than 5s and even less people are 7s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 07:53 PM
69

Every creepy old fuck preying on 20 something woman always thinks that they actually like him for his looks/personality. Of course your 20 year old wife is "scheming"!! Why else would she put up with his wrinkly balls and erectile dysfunction? The ONLY thing 40+ men have to offer young women is their wallets or citizenship. A 25 year old guy looks better, fucks better, he'll actually live to see the kids graduate high school, he's young enough to coach the kids during sports, and a lot of the ti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 07:25 PM
47

Men consider any situation that isn't "random man jumps out of the alley and forces himself on you" as a fake situation. For what they don't classify as fake, they just blame the victims for being within 60 ft of a strange man (but also you're a paranoid feminzi if you *do avoid strange men).They don't see anything wrong with getting a girl blackout drunk to have sex with her, or pestering her for sex so she finally says yes once after saying no 50 times, or having her agree to sex and then 'acc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:55 PM
4

yeah, i understand why fds generally advises not moving in before marriage, but i think moving in after getting engaged is very important because it'll give you a better view of whether your future husband will expect you to clean up after him and do all the chores, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 10:53 PM
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yeah, from what i'm seeing, OP met him once, almost a year ago and he's high value because..... he didn't grope you? nah, sis. keep improving yourself and if he decides he wants to be with you, he knows where to find you. in the meantime, date other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:04 PM
21

look at him straining so hard to make his muscles pop lmao. any harder and they'll explode. he's the personification of the "buff jacking off arm, skinny right arm" meme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 07:57 PM
53

women everywhere are deleting their social media so they don't miss out on this king lmaooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 02:42 PM
20

stop texting him sis he doesn't give a fuck about how his actions made you feel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 05:01 AM
16

It's for fame. Before she got pregnant she was constantly talking about how she hated growing up in the spotlight and how she would never do that, but once her child was born and she realized that Stormi was a huge cash cow (all of Kylie's most liked posts are photos of Stormi) suddenly all the talk about letting her kids grow up normal is gone and Stormi is always on her instagram, always in videos, etc. The KarJenners are fucking pathetic. Multimillionaires worth hundreds of millions yet they'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 03:46 AM
28

I mean, Khloe started dating Tristan while he was expecting a baby with his ex. Kim was sending Kanye nudes while he was with Amber and they were fucking while she was with Kris. Travis was dating one of Kylie's good friends (Justine Skye) when she started fucking with him. Extremely low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 02:07 AM
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yup. he won't have to worry about his license if nobody ever finds op's body. they'll literally be within spitting distance of the pacific ocean and unless op is trained in navigation/geography, she'll have no clue whether he's actually flying to sf or flying over the ocean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 06:40 PM
3

listen, maybe i'm just paranoid af but i recently read a book about a doctor who was also a hobby pilot who murdered his wife and dumped her body in the ocean from his plane. imo second date is too soon to be trapped in a metal cage flying hundreds, if not thousands, of miles away from the police or anybody who can help you. but i hope all goes well because if he's not a creep it'd be bomb af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 06:13 PM
20

limp dicked loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 03:08 PM
46

some libfem called me ableist for saying the same thing. liberal feminism is a trip lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 03:07 PM
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Seriously when I saw the post in the morning so many comments were like "So you'll teach your daughter to hit boys???" as if the boy didn't hurt her first. Men think it's dOmEsTiC viOLenCe against males when a woman finally snaps and hits back after she's been hit one too many times then they turn on you and gaslight you and try to make you seem like the crazy abuser. Men on Reddit love watching other men beat the shit out of women and even girls with just the slightest provocation. Subs like r/…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 03:19 AM
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lmao all it says about him is that what he did was worse than infidelity or addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 04:52 PM
25

he's stalking her.......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 04:51 PM
15

seriously wtf????? evil?????? holy overreacting fragile male batman.......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 11:41 PM
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the sad thing is that deep down, she knows he's gonna say no. otherwise why post it on reddit? she should just save herself the heartache and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 08:47 PM
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Seriously! And Owen has never made Teddy a priority. He chose Beth, Cristina, and Amelia over Teddy and the only reason he even went after Teddy in the first place was because AMELIA told him to and AMELIA dumped him. Tom was so sweet to her and didn't deserve this. They added that bit about Teddy having a friend that died on 9/11 so Owen would seem like a better person but he's still the piece of shit that married Cristina when she was mentally unstable, screamed at her saying that she killed t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 06:57 PM
11

Oh, I just thought of one for those of us who are still watching Grey's! Teddy has sadly become a pick me. She and another character, Owen, were supposed to have been best friends in medical school and joined the army together. When she was introduced in s6, there was some UST between them, but Owen was also interested in another woman (Cristina). It's actually pretty fucked up, looking back - Owen got his female best friend/crush hired specifically to mentor his girlfriend! He then tries to get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 05:45 PM
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SATC raised a whole generation of pick me's (gen X) who are now raising the current generation of pick me's (milennials/gen Z) yet it's touted as pro woman/feminist/eMpOweRiNg. we played ourselves 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 05:33 PM
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they literally had to give Carrie the worst boyfriends in season 6 (Jack who was jealous of Carrie and the Russian who physically abused Carrie) to make Big seem like a desirable option lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 05:22 PM
33

Honestly, I loved the Twilight books when I first read them at 12-13, but now that I'm 23 and it's so bizarre??? Like if I was an ageless 100 year old vampire, the LAST thing I'd want to do is go back to high school! I actually had a lot of fun in high school but uni was a million times better (especially if you have endless amounts of money). Or, maybe just get a job????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 05:07 PM
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She cheated on a HVM (Aidan) with a man that didn't even want to introduce her to his mother after a year of dating! A man that claimed he never wanted to get married and then got married to Bridget Moynahan after like 6 months. She and Big deserve each other tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 05:05 PM
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yeah, it's easy to be the cool girl when you're a carefree 20 year old that can do 6 shots in a row without puking and party all night because you don't have class until noon, but once real adult life and real adult responsibilities come, it's just not sustainable anymore. men seem to always be so shocked when the fun 20 year old they started dating becomes responsible and "naggy" after buying a house, having kids, getting a full time job, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 08:36 PM
22

i feel bad for you if you're so desperate for men that rejecting the creeps will mean you're lonely 🤷🏼‍♀️ can't relate :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 03:59 AM
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Exactly! Especially knowing OP would be excited about it being an engagement ring. What kind of sick, twisted person thinks it's a "harmless joke" to destroy someone's self confidence and self esteem on Christmas of all days!! This isn't even a normal "we've been together for years and he still hasn't proposed yet" story- this is him straight up telling her that he doesn't care about her, that dashing her hopes for the future is a "harmless joke" to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 07:26 PM
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it's so sad. i went through OP's post history and most of her comments are helping people in unhealthy relationships. she seems like such a kind, empathetic person and it's so sad that she can't see that her relationship is just as toxic and unhealthy as some of the ones she's trying to rescue other people from. he apparently has a drinking problem, doesn't stick up for her, can't take criticism, and now this. OP you deserve so much more!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 07:10 PM
22

One of the teachers at my high school apparently used to date her and he never let anyone forget it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 03:52 PM
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my favourite is the pick me tbat got triggered and defensive when you stated easily verifiable stats about male violence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 02:19 AM
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The venn diagram between men who upvoted that post and men who support "financial abortions" is a circle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 01:05 AM
15

people keep asking for specific receipts on why jaxn is so bad and he keeps responding with vague nonsensical shit like "he tells women that they aren't accountable for their actions". if he's so bad, you should be able to provide direct links and timestamps, no vagueness or generally "he sucks :(". 100% OP is a low value loser who's mad that men like Jaxn are helping women realize that he's a low value loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:42 PM
22

eh, that depends. up until very recently i barely had a credit history (23f) so even though i was responsible, no one is going to rent an apartment to a 19 year old with no history. even now that i have a full time well-paying job, my landlord was super reluctant to rent me my apartment (even after getting references and seeing my bank statement/paystubs) until i indicated that my mom was willing to be my guarantor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:34 PM
10

Yess! My sister and I are both mixed and neither of us have any issue with getting male attention. I pass for white, but she doesn't and she still constantly has men checking her out and asking her out in out rural, hick-filled hometown. One even nearly crashed his car to double back and hit on her and then nearly crashed it again trying to speed away when she said she was only 17 lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:20 PM
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She should aim her vitriol at the people who tell women to "just give him a chance". The people who tell women to ignore the red flags because they're almost 30 and no one will love them once they're not in their 20s anymore. If women were taught to have high standards and not compromise them for anyone, this would be less of an issue. Women should also be taught that it's okay to look out for themselves first and leave a relationship if their husband isn't pulling his weight. I guarantee OP and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 07:00 PM
30

Paid sites attract wealthy LVM who think their money makes them high value
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 05:49 AM
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conversly, his photos are all with women who are being paid to hang out with him. hooters girls, carnival girls, grand prix girls, bottle girls, etc. he's trying to fake being a heavily pursued HVM by pretending those women are genuine friends/lovers instead of women who are being paid to take photos with creeps like him all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 12:24 AM
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shitty photos or no photos but claiming that they're "above average". shut up, you're ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 10:56 PM
9

Just you? You're obviously a sex negative prude! I'm a sex posi feminist and my man has me and four women with low self esteem I procured for him from Tinder that he can use anytime he wants. Monogamy is so boring and vanilla!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 11:40 PM
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it's because they think you can't rape her if you never asked her to say yes or no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 07:37 PM
13

Right???????? Like, I get that not everyone cares about having perfect straight white teeth but there's a huge spectrum between that and black nubs. The thought of kissing them and feeling my tongue touch their nub has me gagging. I have to go brush my teeth now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 05:22 PM
11

HOW DOES SOMEONE LET THEIR TEETH GET LIKE THAT?????? Unless he's homeless, in which case he shouldn't be dating anyway. Oh my God????????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 05:17 PM
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She was very intelligent and could had had a superstar consulting career of her own but she put her goals on the backburner for him. I thought MGTOW disliked career women and loved women who supported their husbands' hopes and dreams? 🤔 She left her high flying NYC job to move to Seattle and help her husband start an online bookstore. Literally nothing about her screams gold digger. Can you imagine the hate she'd be getting if she was the one that cheated?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 05:08 PM
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He wants her to go to his hotel to fuck, leave, and come back the next morning to fuck again. THE AUDACITY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 01:21 PM
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I've never watched TWD but I felt the same way about Chuck from GG (ironically played by real-life alleged rapist Ed Westwick). In the first episode, he attempts to rape both Jenny and Serena and it's heavily implied in the first 3-4 episodes that he's a serial rapist. But then they pair him off with Blair so suddenly that's all brushed under the rug, Serena sees him as a brother, and even Dan and Jenny are okay with him. Whenever the attempted rapes are mentioned, it's immediately handwaved awa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 01:20 PM
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He's 'committed' to both of you, but who's the hospital going to let make his medical decisions if he gets into an accident? Who is automatically entitled to half his assets vs who has to be manually written into the will? Who gets the tax benefits from being with him? Who automatically gets to share in his retirement funds? Who is automatically put on his health insurance? None of the LeGaL pRotEctiOns Of A SpOuSe WiThoUt BeiNg mArRied are an actual equivalent substitute for marriage, otherwise…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 12:04 AM
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Lmao they're cheaters. They cheat with their man when he's in another relationship (Khloe when Third Trimester Thompson was with Jordy Craig, Kylie* with Travis when he was dating her friend Justine Skye, Kim with Ye when he was with her friend Amber) and then have the audacity to act like the wronged party when he inevitably cheats on them too. Can't stand them. Especially Khloe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 11:56 PM
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"it's eMpoWeriNg to not have the vote because I suck my husband's dick twice a day so I have the power in the relationship and thus, his vote is actually mine!" "it's EmPoWeriNg to not be able to own my own bank account because that means my husband has to give me money! I have the power, teehee!" Libfem logic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 05:58 PM
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i used to think this too. and even when i started becoming a GCfem/radfem, i thought liberal feminism was just mildly annoying but ultimately harmless. but it's so insidious and dangerous for girls and young women. they are being taught the same patriarchal bullshit as previous generations but under the guise of empowerment. teen girls getting strangled and thinking it's part of a normal sexual experience, girls being taught that six inch heels and makeup are "empowering", girls as young as 10 h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 05:56 PM
15

i'm so tired of the "terfs aren't feminists" nonsense. lmao do they think suffragettes believed that tRaNs wOmEn ArE wOmEn? do they think second wavers who were fighting for birth control and abortion would agree with their derailing of "nOt aLL WoMeN hAvE vAginAs" nonsense? THEY are the ones who hijacked feminism to make it all about men and their dicks "girldicks".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 05:44 PM
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it's honestly pretty funny. they claim we're bitter because we CaN'T FiNd a MaN but even many of the (straight/bi) ~evil man hating feminazis~ have had husbands. whenever i've particularly hurt a man's feelings on PPF, they always spout off about how i must be a fat blue haired feminist. meanwhile, those legendary fat blue haired feminists still get more right swipes in a day than he does in a week 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 05:19 PM
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that is why you should never propose to a man. because if he's this in love with you, you won't have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 03:21 AM
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which is why it's a RED FLAG when your man starts following random girls on IG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 08:21 PM
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based comment. her original comments were hurtful, harmful, and fear mongering nonsense. there may be some users in this sub who've had to have late term abortions and spreading bullshit like they only get abortions because "they're mad that it's a boy when it's a girl" just continues to add to the stigmatization and pain of these women. my boyfriend does research in the field of teratology (aka fetal developmental issues) and he also works in the NICU. i'd like to see OP say something so callou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:47 PM
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I actually agree with the fact that she's grown a lot in the last year or so! I also really dig her interview about feeling the pressure to stay skinny because I remember in 2014ish she was the ultimate tall girl thinspo and anyone saying she was unhealthily thin got called out for body shaming. I couldn't stand 2014-2016 Taylor and her fauxminist "girl gang" but I can actually get behind current Taylor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:14 PM
10

Sure, there are definitely women that do that but it's in the very very small minority for several reasons. First of all, you can't have an abortion that late without the consent of an OBGYN. I live in a country where abortion is literally legal until you give birth, yet the "latest" abortion 3 clinic allowed was 24 weeks (23 wks 6 days), 2 with cut offs of 22 weeks. A few more had cut offs of 20 weeks. The most limt by far was 12/13 weeks (aka end of first trimester). So even if we WANT to get …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:53 PM
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outside of places like china or india, very few women are aborting babies because it's a boy instead of a girl and that's a very dangerous rumour to spread. 92% of abortions happen within the first trimester. no woman is letting a baby grow inside her for 6 months and suddenly deciding "nah". it's expensive and most doctors won't even touch you post 20 wks. what's much more common is that they find out the baby has a medical condition that is incompatible with life, like microcephaly (where the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:31 PM
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Imagine not knowing the difference between not wanting to undergo an invasive medical procedure and not wanting to spend money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:24 PM
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i'm sorry thatt my disdain for peterson offends you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 04:10 PM
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lol my godfather was actually a colleague (he hated academia because of assholes like Peterson and quit to work with the government) of his but please tell me how you know more about him than someone who literally taught at U of T with him and currently works for the Ministry of the Environment yet thinks JP is full of shit. When my godfather, who actually does have a PhD in something environment related and literally helps the Minister of the Environment write laws, says that a Psychology profe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 03:54 PM
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Peterson is a narcissistic asshole that thinks he's an expert on climate change just because he knows Psychology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 01:34 PM
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Maybe I'm biased because I'm mixed with a white bf, but I've seen so many black woman/non black man IR couples lately! One of my best friends is dating a cute Chinese guy, another is dating a Persian dude, two are dating white guys, and another is dating a Russian/Senegalese mixed guy. They're all black/mixed too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 02:59 AM
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Beyonce's "feminism" is as shallow, capitalistic, and male-serving as the typical mainstream libfem bs that's been blowing up in the last 10 years. I remember when she first performed Flawless at an award show right after her self-titled album came out and everyone on Tumblr was freakinggggg out because we were just moving past the era of female celebrities saying "I'm not a feminist because I don't hate men!" Beyonce's feminism was revolutionary for Milennials/Gen Z (speaking as someone born in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 10:54 PM
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I had one guy who claimed he was a Chad with a 40s MILF sugar mama tell me he couldn't wait until Sharia Law was implemented in the West. Yes, because Chads have nothing better to do than stalk and harass women on Reddit. Real Chad behaviour 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 09:15 PM
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Exactly! It wouldn't be an accepted treatment for emotional or physical abuse, so what makes it okay for sexual abuse?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 08:25 PM
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I think that it's a trauma response for a lot of women. They've been abused, assaulted, or raped in the past, so getting heavily into kink gives them a sense of power because this time they are choosing to be degraded. It's the equivalent of giving your money away so no one can rob you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 08:21 PM
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I hadn't discovered FDS when I started dating my now boyfriend but I unknowingly used a lot of tactics that would be considered FDS now. With my ex fwb who never committed, I chased him, I was the one that started all of our DTR talks, I was the one who constantly tried to be the Cool Girl so he'd pick me. As soon as I got over him and stopped texting, started seeing other men (aka the man who is now my boyfriend), stopped caring, suddenly he was all over it. It'd be funny if it wasn't so sad. W…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 07:18 PM
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In some cultures, men are entitled to get a second wife if their first wife is unable to bear children. There was a case in Canada a few years ago where a Muslim man's second wife, her son, and her husband murdered his original infertile wife and his daughters (with the second wife) as part of an honour killing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 02:23 PM
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her other posts indicate that he wasn't even her boyfriend at all and they weren't exclusive. like you said, sounds like they were fwb and she was pretending to be okay with it because she thought she was his "best" girl, only to find out that he had an actual girlfriend he made it official with. she's not mad because lhe's cheating - she's mad because she wasn't the one he chose in the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 12:03 AM
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I hope he sees this post and knows that he's a loser :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:24 PM
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"no woman has ever done that before" yet he still chose his ex girlfriends while he's not not sure about OP 🤔🤔🤔 edit: omg I just went through OP's post history and this girl is getting playyyyed. He refuses to commit yet gets angry when she dates around. He told her that they were "just friends" and he was "getting to know her" after EIGHT MONTHS!!!!!! She literally posted last week about him saying he wasn't ready for a relationship and she's still holding on. This is so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 02:04 AM
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he's "happy" but did he ask her to be his gf yet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 02:02 AM
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I love that my boyfriend is successful, tall, and attractive because I know he could get pretty much any woman he wanted and he's not just settling for me. I remember once when he came over while we were just friends. As soon as he left, my roommates all started freaking out, "Why aren't you with him???? He's so hot!!!!" He's literally a 10/10 in every field yet he was the one that heavily pursued me, he asked me out, he pays for everything, he always makes time for me, etc. Never settling again…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 08:45 PM
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knowingly helping someone cheat is low value pick me behaviour. it's frankly pathetic. like, i literally feel second hand embarrassment whenever i see or hear a girl talking about knowingly being a side chick. why would you announce to the world that you have no respect for yourself? that you're happy to get scraps? low value men would fuck a mcchicken if they were horny, you're not special just because you make his dick hard. a lot of those girls have very low self esteem (especially when it co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 08:32 PM
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yeah i agree, a lot of tall guys think that JUST being tall is enough. like, bruh, 1/6 guys are 6'+. that number increases when you take into account that younger guys are taller than older men (i'm early 20s so i only date younger men) and that men who didn't grow up poor/malnourished tend to be taller than guys who did (i only date upper middle class guys)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:55 PM
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i love the angry scrotes downvoting 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:40 PM
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yup, the attitude of short guys turned me off more than the height ever did. so many short dudes think women shouldnt be allowed to have standards but it's ok for them to have standards because "you can help your weight but you can't help your height!!!" on my other account, i brought up that a lot of thin/fit girls, including myself, like tall guys and one scrote literally replied with "then we'd ask if she had big boobs and a small waist or a fat ass. it's not actually about her weight- it's a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:35 PM
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go to the washroom to "freshen up" and have your bff/sis call you with a "family emergency" and then leave and block him before your uber arrives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:27 PM
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every time i think male degeneracy has reached its peak they find a new way to surprise me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 04:06 PM
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it's literally only in the last decade or so that "coffee dates" have become a mainstream thing for potential romantic partners. watch any movie or show from the 50-90s. "date" means dinner, sometimes dinner and a movie, sometimes dinner and 'parking' in a car. coffee dates are an invention for broke bros so they only have to spend $5 to get rejected. the only time "coffee" comes up in traditional dates was when one party was looking for an excuse to invite the other to their apartment AFTER the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 01:45 PM
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i think another red flag is if he's extremely passive. if he never gets angry or annoyed in situations where a normal person would, he could just be holding all of his anger inside. one day he could snap and suddenly he's the next chris watts. it doesn't even have to mean anger directed at you. if he doesn't show any annoyance at all about a shitty boss or work situation or a rude neighbour, keep an eye on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 05:40 PM
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i wrote about why here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 05:00 PM
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poor bigoted has kids no degree married/separated/divorced virgin/no relationship experience recently broke up watches porn/follows "titty streamers"/follows IG models/loves hentai has bigger tits than i do (and im a 28H) small dick won't go down on me short calls women he doesn't like karens, cnts, btches idolizes elon musk plays video games works in finance or investment banking is a cop/military/any job where he carries a weapon more than 1 year younger or 5 years older favourite movie is fig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 03:50 PM
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no. the difference between mentally ill men and mentally ill women is that mentally ill women usually only hurt themselves, but mentally ill men are more likely to hurt others. protect yourself, sis. not to mention that it's fucking heart-wrenching to be responsible for someone's mental health. my ex was suicidal and i wanted to help him so bad but loving him wouldn't make him not want to kill himself. imagine thinking he's finally killed himself every time he hasn't replied to a text in a while…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 02:26 PM
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she proposed to him (trey) and he replied with "alrighty" lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 02:08 PM
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yes, maybe for a while but a leopard never changes its spots. flaky men are generally immature and demanding. either she's going to get sick of him or she's going to have to baby him to get anything done (like those men who expect their wives to write christmas cards to HIS family) and he'll start resenting her and calling her a "nag" and latch on to another carefree, fun girl to manipulate :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 12:46 AM
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it's more of a scenario of him dropping whatever plans to make the girl he really likes happy. He may have asked OP out when the other girl mentioned that she had plans for that day, but if dream girl suddenly becomes free he'll ditch OP right away. sure, he'd rather sleep with both of them, but if he had to choose he'd pick his dream girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 12:32 AM
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ironic since she also beat up several of the strippers that offset cheated with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 08:52 PM
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lol he took her skating at rockerfeller and then to magnolia bakery and he thinks that's special? that's literally the cliché NYC christmas date. i don't even live in the US and i've done the NYC christmas rockerfeller-and-magnolia date with two different men lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 04:12 PM
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if a guy flakes on you, he's just not that into you. don't even bother questioning him or asking for an explanation or, worse, setting up another date. just block and move on. he might be seeing another girl or be so pornsick he'd rather stay home and jack off to porn than spend a night with you. you should be thankful that these guys showed their red flags early on so you didn't have to find out weeks, months, or even years later how much of a loser he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 04:07 PM
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The fact that this sub blew up so fast is proof that women are sick and tired of low value scrotes. That's also why the LVMs on RP, PPD, MGTOW, and pretty much every male sub on reddit are so nervous and triggered rn. They know we're realizing our power and they're trying any means to stop other women from realizing theirs too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 04:59 AM
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I just showed this to my 17 year old sister and she laughed and called him a loser. Can't say I disagree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 10:57 PM
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Yup, it's just biology. Like those male birds that need to dance for the females of their species to see if the female finds them worthy to mate with. Pretty much every species has some kind of mating ritual where the males compete with other males for the right to have a female companion and/or breed. It is only low value human males that get offended when we ask them to follow the laws of nature 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 01:44 PM
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yup i went to a veeeery liberal uni and it's steeped in libfem bs. i'm 23 and up until maybe 2 years ago i fully fed into the choice fem "empowerment" nonsense. ironically, i have TRAs to thank for making me GC which eventually led me to full radical feminism. i have a younger sister who's almost 18 and i really worry about her. when she was in grade 7 or 8, one of the boys in class was caught taking upskirt photos of girls. a fucking 12 year old!!!!!!! growing up in the late 2000s/early 2010s w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 06:38 AM
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imo liberal feminism is even scarier than tradcons/rpw because it's the exact same internalized misogyny as the latter but packaged as "empowering" so younger left-leaning girls and women fall for its bullshit. a lot of women know that rp ideology is bullshit, even when it's rpw, but they identify as feminist or liberal/leftist in some way so they are more likely to go along with what popular/famous libfems say is empowering or fun or woke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 06:14 AM
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The same men that get annoyed at "nagging" are also invariably shocked when his partner gets tired if "nagging" and either checks out of the relationship (dead bedroom) or dumps him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 09:02 PM
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yup, one thing men have over women is the audacity to be total shit but still feel entitled to a good job. every month, one of our practice managers sends us a list of 5-7 "gold star reports" one some of the craziest findings. for November, we had one guy that was sued by the SEC for insider trading, another who was charged with tax evasion and violating the policies of his country's securities commission, and much more. yet these men willingly chose to be headhunted by some of the top recruitin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 06:08 PM
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lmao he's in for a rude awakening once he realized that he paid thousands of dollars for a degree that isn't worth the paper it's written on lmao duh, how else will she let you know that she's better than you though??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 05:48 PM
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MBAs are literally worthless now. Unless you go to a good school, they're a dime in a dozen and don't command nearly as much respect as they used to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 05:39 PM
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Lmao I actually work in risk & compliance and my job is literally to do due diligence for our clients and ensure that the people they hire aren't barred from trading by the SEC, etc. Part of it is also verifying their education and it's fucking scary how many CEOs and other senior executives legitimately lie about their degrees. We had one guy that faked having a PhD in biology (the school confirmed that he diploma he provided us was fraudulent) and had been working for a DECADE at universities …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 05:38 PM
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my ex fwb's friends all think i'm a crazy btch because he told them i was obsessively in love with him and thought we were in a relationship. *he was the one calling me his girlfriend and introducing me to his parents and talking about us being married lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 04:56 PM
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Male "post partum depression" is literally just being mad that they have to compete with a baby for their wife's attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 04:34 PM
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That's literally what always happens with men. Woman posts "my husband cheats constantly and never helps around the house" and scrotes will be like "mAyBe hE'S DePreSsEd! MeN gEt PoSt ParTuM ToO!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 04:11 PM
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She started a nonprofit that provides microloans for women in developing countries back when we were in school and she met her current boyfriend through the nonprofit. Very HVM for a very HVW!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 03:16 AM
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Men uses woman for sex and it's "nobody owes you anything" and "it's your fault for chasing Chads".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 02:50 AM
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In fact, I'd argue that the majority of men in certain fields are low value. Last Friday when the mods allowed scrotes to comment, one of the dudes talked about being high value and working in Finance and it literally made me laugh because 100% of Finance dudes are low value. Most of them are just grown up frat boy rapists who think they're hot shit because they make money. I actually used to be a Finance + Econ major at one of the best schools in the country and one of the reasons I eventually …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 01:50 AM
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it's because a hot guy that gets rejected knows he has other options. to an unattractive dude, you may be the first woman who's shown him attention in months. who knows when the next unwitting woman will come by?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 05:54 PM
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The quote I really love about this is, "Right-wing men want women to be private property and left-wing men want women to be public property."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 02:22 AM
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I guarantee she thought he was her boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 01:30 AM
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DICK IS ABUNDANT AND LOW VALUE EXAMPLE #881734
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 09:55 PM
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You can always tell when it's a MGTOW because they're so obvious about it- their stories always have to include everything. Nice guy that treats OP like gold? Works with underprivileged/delinquent youth at an alternative high school to reform the education system instead of taking a high paying corporate job? Mention of below average dick? New guy is rich, gorgeous, giant dicked, and willing to buy plane tickets willy nilly? It's literally just the "shallow woman leaves her nice boyfriend for ri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 04:25 AM
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victim mentality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 04:02 AM
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Lol the stupid scrote that wrote this post was expecting us to tell OP to choose B so he could go back to his equally pathetic MGTOW friends with "proof" that we're all gold digging wh*res. So boring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 03:34 AM
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All the stupid scrotes in the comments "iT hAPpEnS tO gUys ToO" ffs let women vent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 12:27 AM
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Also, the dudes that get angry at the mere existence of this sub always try to say shit like, "You guys will end up alone!" as if that's the worst thing in the world for a woman. But honestly, yes, being alone IS better than ending up with an awful man. The while point of the question was to make men think about what they really have to offer. Men are supposed to be providers, yet they still expect their women to pay for half or sometimes ALL of their expenses. Men are supposed to be protectors,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 09:06 PM
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You're not our SO..... Do you not see the difference between asking a bunch of strangers this question and having to ask your boyfriend? Also, quit the fucking martyr act. Nobody asked you to stalk this sub or participate in this thread. If you're so offended by this question, you could have just scrolled by. Instead you made a brand new account because you were too much of a coward to use your normal account. Just say you have nothing to offer and go 🤷🏼‍♀️ And your rAtiOnAl aNswEr doesn't even …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 08:38 PM
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having standards for your partner is normal and healthy 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 08:25 PM
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Omg one scrote says he's going to take his date to Applebees. Bruh, if a girl agrees to Applebees she clearly doesn't visit this sub 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 06:38 PM
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The "witches" in r/witchesvspatriarchy are all trans "women" and their handmaidens lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 06:36 PM
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Literally! I've seen ONE hot guy [that wasn't my boyfriend] in the last month. No wonder super models date down! I live in a city of 6 million. The dusty scrotes complain that all the girls in the city are stuck up and high maintenance (even as they try to get with us)...... nah bruh, you're just disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 02:51 PM
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then i'd ditch the dude and become friends with her lmao even if she has no sexual interest in him, that won't stop him from masturbating to pictures of her or having a secret crush on her and gaslighting you when you notice because "she's a lesbian, why are you so jealous?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 12:04 AM
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Honestly, I just feel sad for them (until they start attacking other women for having higher standards - then I stop feeling as sad). The men they love will never respect them. You could be a conservative christian tradwife and he'll cheat with a stripper. You could pay his way through law school and he'll use his new lawyer income to woo a cute 21 year old paralegal. You could be the low maintenance Cool Girl and he'll swoon over a girl who's been Rouge at Sephora for the last 5 years. What the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 11:10 PM
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Yeah this was 2 years ago and I was a lot more meek back then. If it happened today I wouldn't even hesitate to tell her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 09:54 PM
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No :( I was still a Cool Girl/pick me back then and I'd previously had a bad experience after telling a girl her boyfriend was a cheating POS. Luckily, she wised up really soon after and they broke up less than two months after this incident. Somehow he managed to find another gf though and they've been together since. I hope he's grown up and stopped cheating but we all know he hasn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 09:30 PM
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right?? it's not women buying me free drinks or offering to buy me whatever i want if i go out with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 09:02 PM
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biology is wonderful 🍾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 08:52 PM
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99% of guys with female best friends have inappropriate relationships with them. Either she's his ex or they've fucked before or he has/had an unreciprocated crush on her or she had a crush on him and will get all territorial when you come into the picture. And A LOT of men will literally jack off to pictures of their female friends (sometimes even YOUR female friends or your fucking sister!!!!!) there are tons of examples of it on r/relationships. Even outside of relationships, men on reddit re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 08:10 PM
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I don't mind if a guy is casual friends or in a mixed gender friend group, but a female best friend is an automatic NEXT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 07:55 PM
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The bar is so low for men. I remember my dad had all the school moms practically in love with him because he was pretty much the only guy that regularly volunteered at the school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 05:07 PM
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Also, I realized I was pretty when I noticed men going out of their way to be nice to me and give me free shit. I remember I was in a shared Lyft and the driver was so nice and chatty and then two other girls got in and he was like -_- and then he APOLOGIZED to me after they got out (how DARE they have the audacity to use a shared Lyft!) and got really nice to me again after they left. Men constantly reinforce beauty standards by treating pretty women a certain way and punishing women that don't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 01:52 PM
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I mean, most people abide by the idea that you are the company you keep. I wouldn't date a guy who's friends with cheaters or abusers or douchebags or fuckboys because it means he accepts that behaviour, even tacitly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 02:36 AM
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The flip side is when the older party gets jealous and controlling about their younger partner wanting to do "young person" things. They've already been there done that so they don't want to go to another music festival or backpack through Europe and often they'll try to convince you that you're lesser/immature for wanting to have these age appropriate experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 06:10 PM
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I went to school with OHL players (including one that was projected to get picked first in his year; he actually got picked fourth). They're all cheaters and they all have STDs. Their hair is disgusting too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 01:36 AM
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idk it's showing up as removed and then the comment replying to yours is deleted and your (i assume?) comment replying to that is also removed edit: plus i don't think the pedo mods would have the balls to give you a removal reason. "removed for not supporting pedophilia" is a hard sell, even for reddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 01:02 AM
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it won't show up as removed for you because you're the person who wrote it but it does for me if you wanna double check log out or click the link in incognito
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 12:58 AM
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it was removed by mods. fucking disgusting pedos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 10:05 PM
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And yes, misogyny is everywhere but I'm fucking GLAD I grew up in North America vs my mother's native Ghana. My mom does a lot of outreach there now and some of the things she tells me make me sick. And Ghana is far from the worst country when it comes to human rights. Islam is oppressive to women like every other patriarchal religion. Funny how "feminists" can criticize the pedophilia and misogyny in Christianity (as they should) but throw Muslim women and girls under the bus to defend misogyni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 07:14 PM
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how is it interpreted when Mohammed himself was a pedophile?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 07:10 PM
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HVM love paying. I'm not even joking. I used to feel bad about my boyfriend paying when we first started dating until he literally sat me down and said "I want to pay." I bought concert tickets to a show I wanted to see and my boyfriend literally tried to Venmo the price of his ticket. Another time, we went to one of those high end restaurants with tiny entrees and I still felt hungry after I finished my main dish. He literally passed me the menu and said, "Order something else." Even before we …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 01:20 AM
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where's his hairline?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 12:48 AM
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Why men love bitches
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:02 PM
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it's because religion is a patriarchal tool meant to oppress and control women. OP's husband has no incentive to change or be a decent guy because he knows OP won't leave him no matter what. religions that do openly give women more power and freedom and mocked and derided and seen as less legitimate than patriarchal religions. Edit: Even Christians that hate Muslims, for example, still see Islam as a more legitimate religion than Wicca or Astrology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:11 PM
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religion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:01 PM
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she's also very religious and refuses to divorce him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:00 PM
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it's because male friendships are much shallower than female friendships so while a woman would have talked through this with her friends, men pretty much focus on sex/girls/sports and any emotional talk is "gay". that's why so many men completely rely on their gf's/wives for emotional support and why they're more likely to off themselves when the relationship fails
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:31 PM
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as if he can compete with a 22 year old hottie who can fuck 5x a night and has a full head of hair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 09:07 PM
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judging by his hairline you wouldn't have to worry about it for long 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:19 PM
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i'm so tired of fucking middle aged men acting like they're 18. "i want to sow my wild oats!! maybe i'll want kids someday!" shut the fuck up, you degenerate. your oats have been SOWN, they've been harvested, and they were turned into oatmeal 10 years ago. you're an ADULT. not even a young adult anymore and you haven't been for 15 years. if this was about not having a career, everyone would be open to calling this guy the loser yet when it comes to starting a family men can dither until they're …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:13 PM
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he's literally saying that he doesn't date older women because they have higher standards. imagine telling on yourself like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:10 PM
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they have weak chins and no jawline
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 04:28 PM
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It's a thing that incels do. It's called "Chadfishing". They basically get profiles of hot guys, make them do/say super shitty things, and use the fact that women still like and message their profiles as proof that women are evil wh**es who only care about looks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 02:22 PM
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Ted Bundy was considered all of those too, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 04:39 AM
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being a fuckboy is the opposite of high value......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 04:04 AM
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guaranteed a less educated guy would end up resenting you for being more educated anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 03:50 AM
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it's because he knows that being tall is a bonus but he has nothing else to offer. it's funny too because 6' is tall but it's not THAT tall for him to be cocky like this. the average height is already 5'10 and increasing with every generation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 03:01 AM
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It's definitely true. I spent two years pining over a guy like this who wasn't over his ex and he treated me like shit the entire time. I finally said fuck it, stopped caring and started seeing my now-bf and all of a sudden he started putting in effort. For example, it was a tradition of ours to watch Black Mirror together starting from when we first met in late 2016. In December 2017, he was annoyed when I asked him to wait until I was back in town (a week) so we could watch it together. He sig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 01:07 AM
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the pick me part is that she's still trying so hard to be with this guy even as she knows he loves someone else. she's happy being second place for now because she knows that first place is out of the picture. if she posted here, we'd be telling her to leave and find someone who isn't still hung up on his ex. i don't think anyone here is making fun of her (at least i hope it), i personally just feel so sad for her because i've been in her place before and it's just not worth the stress and anxie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 11:53 PM
35

they dated for ONE YEAR, she CHEATED, and he was still obsessed with her for the next 7 years. he has every reason to dislike his ex or at least be over her but he's not. there's no hope for OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 11:48 PM
70

oh, honey. i almost want to hug her because i was this dumb and delusional at 20.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 11:09 PM
6

tbh I don't know about older women being better in bed specifically but I know that I'm better at sex now at 23 than when I first had sex at 19 just because I wanted to be "porn perfect" back then instead of focusing on sex that was actually good. i used to do things and try positions i had no interest in or straight up didn't feel good because pornsick men thought it was sexy and i wanted to be the Cool Girl. i've talked about it with other women who agree - i think younger women are generally …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 09:34 PM
19

Sis..... that's when you just block without even replying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 11:13 PM
120

Men are so fucking funny. They have the audacity to think they can be picky when they're lucky to have a 5% match rate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 11:10 PM
7

Knowingly sleeping with someone in a relationship is the most pathetic pick me thing I can imagine. Like, embarrassingly pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 04:42 PM
7

Two husbands would suck but two hu$band$ might be ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 03:59 AM
17

Stubble is my favourite. Enough hair that they don't look prepubescent but not too much that it hides their features or looks like Hagrid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 01:43 AM
33

NEVER date a man with a beard unless you see him clean-shaven first. Scrotes use beards to hide their weak chins and shitty jawlines but claim they're growing them because they're "manly".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 01:37 AM
7

I once made an anonymous facebook account and pretended to be French (we lived in a French speaking city) to tell a girl her boyfriend was cheating. She got mad at me but dumped him lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 08:34 PM
46

$50 it's an undergrad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 06:20 PM
79

Yup. She's buying his excuse that it's "something he's been looking forward to his whole life" yet he never proposed in the FIVE years they were together? She can come up with whatever excuses about a PhD she wants but it's all bullshit. My dad married my mom while he was doing his PhD and my mom was finishing her master's. Same with their closest friends/my godparents- still got married while they were in grad school. And several of my dad's PhD candidates got married and had babies while finis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 06:01 PM
11

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 12:38 AM
24

Men like that think washing your ass or using soap is gay so when they see women hugging each other, being affectionate, confiding in each other, they assume that it has to be sexual. Most men only share their emotions with their girlfriends and wives. Male friendships are generally much shallower than female friendships - just "banter" and playing video games/getting beer/watching or playing whatever sport together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 06:58 PM
13

Literally every single men's issue (the ones MRAs complain about anyway) is men's fault. How many women were in politics or military when the draft came about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 01:25 AM
42

More like "real pedo but too scared of prison"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 01:24 AM
4

Khloe met Tristan while he was attending Kevin Hart's wedding with a pregnant Jordy. She's a pick me to the core and the only reason she's not still with him was because the whole cheating scandal backfired on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 01:21 AM
24

Yeah I think my biggest issue with her is that she let hate ruin her life, Dan and Linda's lives, and the lives of her innocent children. I definitely don't think that she's a role model for this sub to emulate - if Betty had been my friend, I would have told her to take the money, leave town, and live her life- use the money to get a degree or travel, take care of the kids. Plus I also don't think her actions during the divorce were acceptable by any means. She'd call D & L's voicemails saying …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 12:36 AM
33

ah, yes, because physical abuse is the only kind of abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 07:50 PM
37

killing a rapist is ok but not killing an abuser? i think they're equal in weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 07:42 PM
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i don't think dan or linda deserved to die, but i'm certainly not going to shed a tear for them; i feel bad for the children- what i dislike about betty is that she let her hatred of dan and linda get in the way of taking care of her children, which is super sad for the kids. linda is hardly innocent when she knew dan was married and still carried on with him. dan gave her a limitless credit card, condo, and car while he was still married to betty. linda fucking BROKE INTO BETTY'S HOUSE to steal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 06:53 PM
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she was mentally ill, but i think that most of it was caused by her POS husband. when she accused him of having an affair with the woman he was actually having an affair with, he gaslit her and called her crazy. men drive us crazy and then end up shocked when we actually become crazy. i know we're not supposed to speak ill of the dead, but dan broderick was a shallow asshole who wanted to "upgrade" because his middle-aged wife didnt fit into his hotshot california dream. he even terminated one o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 06:23 PM
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Two words for you: Betty Broderick. Paid for her husband to go through med AND law school and as soon as he becomes wealthy he starts cheating with a 21 year old who he then married. Betty went Rambo and murdered both of them in their beds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 05:55 PM
22

usually both if we're being honest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 05:39 PM
12

Yeah, we all joke about preteen/teen girls not having an "awkward phase" anymore, but it's fucking shocking when my sister's 15-17 year old girl friends look older than me (23). Every day, I go on Instagram and see girls that are as young as 10 wearing tons of makeup and putting on seductive poses. You can't even criticize this because libfems accuse you of "sexualizing minors"..... um maybe it's the person that put a toddler in heels and fishnets that's sexualizing a minor but ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 02:16 AM
4

My sister was born in 2002 and when she was in grade 7 or 8, one of the boys in her class was caught taking "upskirt" photos of girls. I was born in 1996 and I remember the playboy bunny/bunny ears being super popular when I was in elementary school (especially grades 5-8). I barely knew what sex was, but I knew about playboy bunnies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 02:09 AM
61

honestly the hottest thing ever is when I'm kissing my bf and I can feel him getting hard. don't want any cooked spaghetti cock 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 01:49 AM
6

usually the men that can't get it up are the kind that HATE when their partners have orgasms in any way that doesn't involve their dicks (e.g. vibrators, masturbation, oral) because it reminds them of how inadequate they are. worm-dicked losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 03:51 AM
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Seriously, the first year of a relationship is supposed to be full of the hottest, craziest, most passionate sex of the relationship. If you have a dead bedroom "a few months in" it's doomed. Leave him and his wet spaghetti dick and find yourself a real man, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 01:55 AM
7

Think Spanish or Italian. Literally Casanova (look him up, he was real)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 01:52 AM
16

Not just accept- they'll justify it. "Maybe he's depressed", "men get post partum too" (lmaooo!) Women have our emotions weaponized against us while men's emotions are used to excuse their shitty behaviour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 01:49 AM
13

Delusional scrote 😂 fight who? all the girls who unmatched him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 01:46 AM
21

marriage is a scam for most women anyway. it's male propaganda that marriage should be the be all and end all in marriage. studies have shown that single women are happier than married women and married men are happier than unmarried men. why do you think the suicide rate is so high for divorced/single middle aged men? they want to scare us into lowering our standards so we'll settle for them, but dying alone surrounded by your cats is a MUCH better future than being a married to a shitty guy. g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 04:41 PM
7

Yup. My boyfriend tried to venmo me $11 once because I paid for our pitcher (the place was cash only and he didn't have cash) and he felt bad that I had to pay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 01:22 AM
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Male attention is worthless, remember that. You can get on Tinder and have more matches in 20 minutes than most dudes get in a year. Never let a man convince you that you should settle because no one will want you. (And even if no one does want you, being single is better than being a bangmommy to an overgrown toddler)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 01:20 AM
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if he isn't embarrassed by having his MOTHER clean up for him there's zero hope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 11:06 PM
21

goals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 08:34 PM
17

honestly, the whole "how tall are you?" "how much do you weigh?" is just a synonym of how insecure and fragile the male ego is. they're triggered that their manlet status is unattractive so they lash out. height is objective - 6'4 is 6'4. weight is NOT objective. my friend and I are both size 0/2, yet she's very thin and i'm thin but with big boobs and hips. i had another friend who was 107 lbs and 4'10 and she was a little chubby while i was thinner than her at 5'2 and 115 because i'm pretty su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 06:02 PM
7

manlets BTFO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 05:58 PM
2

practice for what? you'd literally never deal with this nonsense with an HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 05:54 PM
3

military and cops. god complexes yet higher rates of rape and DV. not to mention all the psychos that join so they can legally murder people and be called a hero for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 05:53 PM
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IMO it's a balance. The man should make enough money to support his lifestyle (whether that lifestyle is working class, middle class, wealthy, etc) but more money != HVM, especially since money can be used as a weapon to financially abuse someone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 01:48 AM
6

Yup, my friend dated a 30 year old when we were 20 and he'd get so paranoid and angry when we'd go clubbing or to frat parties. How dare we young people act young! Like, bruh, date a woman YOUR AGE so you don't have to worry about that! Like everything incels say, it's just projection. No one wants them at any age so they have to point the finger at "older women" (note that the age at which women hit the wall has been constantly lowering too- from 35 to 30 to 27 to 25 and I've even seen pedos sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 05:06 PM
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yeah I'm sorry but I have very little sympathy for older adults (30+) dating very young adults (18-22) and then being surprised when their younger partner gets resentful about having lost out on their youth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 04:06 PM
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I would not date a guy with a female BFF. People can call me insecure or jealous or whatever. Like, I'm sure there are guys with non-jealous platonic female friends but I already have enough romantic prospects that why would I even bother sorting through men to find which ones have appropriate relationships with their girl BFFs when I can avoid all that drama with 100% certainty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 03:30 AM
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mEn AgE liKe wiNe MiD 30s PoWeR fLiP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 06:42 PM
113

And if we say yes and we do get raped it's "Why would she take a drink from a stranger???"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 01:37 PM
61

Male humour is generally crude and sophomoric. Funny that many of them claim that women aren't funny when their entire repertoire consists of dick jokes, sex jokes, and jokes about women They're not even original too, just look at the men on Reddit- they're still using the same "anne frankly" and broken arms jokes that they were making in 2014.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 03:00 AM
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they're mad that teen girls would choose JB or BTS over their receding hairlines and beer guts. the fact that girls and young women like baby faced heartthrobs threatens their whole worldview.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 01:53 PM
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seriously my best friend from high school studied computer engineering at a top school that is heavily recruited by silicon valley (she's interned at uber and currently works at google, just to give some more context) - $300k is what many software engineers are making five years out of undergrad. might as well date a 27-30 year old who is actually a 7-8 and doesnt have the baggage of an ex wife and multiple young children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 10:34 PM
16

Yes! I constantly have to police my body to make sure people don't get the 'wrong idea' about me because women with big boobs aren’t people – we’re just b-mbos and fuckdolls for public consumption, right? I graduated from uni last summer and when I was job hunting, sometimes it would take me hours to find clothes that were just right. Too tight and you’re a sl-t and people accuse you of fucking your way into the job. Too loose and you’re frumpy or sloppy. Things that look wholesome and stylish o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 08:31 PM
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most men are lucky to get five tinder matches in a week (three are bots). remember this when angry scrotes say that nobody wants an FDSer. i get more random men sliding into my DMs in a day than these losers do in a week, despite me posting photos/stories with my bf and never interacting with them. does FDS lower the number of men that will date you? absolutely, and that's a great thing because it's LVMs, users, and abusers that are being scared off. we don't need the extra attention the way men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 07:03 PM
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men complain about fat girls lying about their weight on dating but so many men are straight up delusional about being fat. a fat woman KNOWS that she's fat. she might pretend that she isn't online but she knows. fat men, by contrast, think that their 30 mins of lifting per week means that BMI is invalid and their 50 lbs of excess weight is "mostly muscle".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 06:56 PM
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They're all over Tinder too. You'll think you're swiping/chatting with a girl and then suddenly she pulls out the "I have a boyfriend teehee" and it turns out she wants you to enact some 'lesbian' porno fantasy for him 🙄 A lot of rapists/serial killers also used a woman to make themselves seem less threatening (Paul Bernardo and Karla Homolka, for example, or Fred and Rose West)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 04:13 PM
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I was on r/askwomen once and the question had something to do with men ogling women in public. This annoying cool girl starts blathering on about how she's bi and therefore LOVES objectifying women with her husband, including an example if where she pointed out a woman's giant boobs for her and her husband to giggle at. As a busty girl the comment basically made me see red. Women don't exist to be objectified, and it's not any ~cooler~ or more progressive when another woman does it. In fact, it'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 02:27 PM
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See, what you're talking about is what sex positivity SHOULD be. The issue is that the movement has been hijacked by pornsick men and libfems to promote dangerous sex acts and prostitution. I used to consider myself sex positive because my definition of it was very much like yours. I stopped associating with sex positive feminists though when I realized that the majority of them supported rape and abuse as 'empowering' and they attacked anyone who spoke out about it. I've been called a prude, bo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 11:56 PM
53

I'll also gaslight you when you inevitably develop feelings for me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 08:14 PM
59

They hate gold diggers but ALL incel/RP/mgtow strategy is literally just "wait until your mid 30s when you have enough money so women won't ignore you anymore".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 12:31 AM
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It was sooooo funny. A guy tried to tell me that women were more shallow than men because men don't care how much money they make. The study we were talking about said that women wanted their men to make at least $40K. $40K is PENNIES in pretty much any large city and only middle class in rural areas. I know people who are still in school who make more per annum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 05:42 PM
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You know it's fucked when even most of the RP guys are calling OP an asshole (of course, I only skimmed the first few top comments)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 10:02 PM
20

Every day you're still talking to him is another day you're developing feelings for him, even if your rational brain KNOWS he's never going to be the one. Part of you will constantly be hoping it'll be like the movies where he'll wake up and see that you're the one he wants to be with. Except it won't happen that day. If you don't leave him now, he'll find someone else that he actually wants to be official with and he'll dump you and it'll hurt so much more that you weren't enough. Would you rat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 02:35 PM
12

Did he ever reply?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 07:28 PM
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I love his pathetic attempt at negging lmao ("You like me and I'm undecided about you"). Last I checked, I don't beg for 'dates' for people I'm undecided on. Also, the fact that he expects YOU to drive to HIM is a red flag. He probably chose that specific coffee spot because it's close to his apartment that way he can quickly segue a coffee date into a fuck and chuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 07:14 PM
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The gap between 16 and 21 is probably one of the biggest gaps you go through besides infancy and puberty. I'm 23 right now and I wouldn't date an 18 or 19 year old if you paid me, much less a 16 year old. I remember when I was 21 there was this cute 18 turning 19 year old I was vibing with........ until he asked me how to pay rent. I consider the late teen/early adult years a second infancy, as it's the first time many of us left our parents houses, got jobs for real expenses (and not just to ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 02:16 PM
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It's the same reason LVM post photos with Hooters Girls/strippers/carnival girls on Tinder. They're hoping that it screams "Look at all the hot women that like me!!" so those women artificially inflate their value but considering they're all being paid to take photos with crusty pieces of smegma like him it ends up being more like "Look at all the hot women I can get to tolerate my presence when they're being paid!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 03:52 PM
12

Another "MGTOW" who "goes his own way" by attempting to date women. Should be MFTOW (Men Forced Their Own Way).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 03:48 PM
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Right? Women get shit on when they use the "I have a boyfriend" excuse right away because we're stuck up and presumptuous but we also get shit on when we let any amount of time pass before telling him we're not interested/have a boyfriend because we're 'leading him on'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 03:47 PM
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Men know right away if they want to date you. Even if he does say yes, the fact that you pretty much had to force him into it means that he's just not that into you. He may date you, sure, but he'll always be on the lookout for a "better" (in his opinion) girl who wants him. Trust me. I played this game for almost two years. He'd constantly say that he wasn't ready for a relationship and like a cuck I believed him because he was ~hurt~ that his ex cheated on him. Then his childhood crush admitte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 05:34 PM
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Oh man it took everything I had not to tell her directly to go fuck herself for supporting child exploitation..... Like this isn't even typical pick me shit. It's fucking criminal. I hope they both get arrested - him for life, her for however long it takes for it to sink in that a man that watches child porn is a piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 04:21 PM
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DO NOT GET MARRIED YOUNG. No matter how in love you are, it can wait. If true love is forever then it won't make a difference if you get married at 27 instead of 20.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 03:39 PM
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Honestly, fuck her for wanting to stay with her pedophile boyfriend. More importantly, fuck pedophiles. I really hope she doesn't have children with him because we all know he's gonna molest them. How fucking disgusting. Also, your boyfriend jerking off to watersports is bizarre. Your boyfriend jerking off to child porn is beyond repugnant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 03:35 PM
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I got downvoted on the Tinder sub for saying that men should have good photos because "hurr durr men don't take photos with their friends like women do" as if that's a fucking excuse. If you don't want to have photos, stop using a photo based dating app. Also, all you have to do is have a friend take a few shots of you- you can even change outfits to pretend that the photos were taken at different times. There is NO excuse for webcam selfies, under-the-blanket selfies, dirty bathroom selfies, or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 12:00 AM
13

Some of them are rape victims who like consensual violent sex because it allows them to reclaim what happened to them. It'd be like if someone who was robbed gave away the rest of her money so no one could ever rob her again. Others are pick mes/liberal feminists/sex positive femimists who think it's empowering for whatever reason. Still others are, like you said, women who wouldn't naturally be into this but are being encouraged into it by sex positive feminists and pornsick moids. I can't tell…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 05:45 PM
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Lmao my original comment was so accurate. I think that it's disgusting the way they try to pretend that kinkshaming is the same as homophobia. I equally and proudly shame gay AND straight (and bi) people with fucked up kinks and I'm not fucking ashamed of it. They commandeered the old gay rights mantra of "what happens in the bedroom is none of your business" (which was supposed to be about healthy consenting relationships between adults) and made it so anyone who questions any kink is a bigot. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 05:11 PM
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We all shame people's sexual preferences, genius. Unless you're telling me that you support pedophiles or rapists or necrophiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 05:09 PM
4

I feel so bad for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 05:03 PM
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Cool. So what if I consented to being thrown down the stairs by my boyfriend? Are you okay with that? What makes the bedroom so sacred that society's morals don't apply there, please tell us :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 05:02 PM
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just because you get off on it doesn't mean it's good or healthy lmao. why do people think that you can't criticize anything that makes you orgasm?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 04:59 PM
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It's an analogy. We wouldn't be okay with an abuse victim asking her current partner to punch her in the face to reclaim her trauma, so why does nobody bat an eyelash about why rape victims want to reclaim their trauma by asking their partners to simulate raping them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 04:58 PM
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Cool, so if my boyfriends punched me in the past, it's totally okay for me to ask my current boyfriend to punch me in a "safe and consensual" manner! And anybody who thinks consensual punches to the face are wrong is punchshaming and anti feminist 😡!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 04:52 PM
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I fucking LOVE kink shaming and I can and do do it all the time. I think that it's disgusting the way they try to pretend that kinkshaming is the same as homophobia. I equally and proudly shame gay AND straight (and bi) people with fucked up kinks and I'm not fucking ashamed of it. They commandeered the old gay rights mantra of "what happens in the bedroom is none of your business" (which was supposed to be about healthy consenting relationships between adults) and made it so anyone who question…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 04:28 PM
3

How am I being a pick me if I'm saying that real men are violent, please explain? Last comment you were saying I hated all men and was bitter towards them (with some condescending nonsense about "when you get a boyfriend") and now I'm a pick me? Lemme guess, by next comment I'll be a RPW, right? And again, I've already done the weeding out part. I'm already IN a relationship. I also have good relationships with my dad and brother, several uncles, and some male friends. That doesn't change my opi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 04:07 AM
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Omg. What I'm trying to say is that they're BOTH real men. I have a boyfriend who does of the above, and he's a real man. And Ted Bundy was also a real man. Stop "no true Scotsman"ing male behaviour. Real men rape, real men love their wives, real men murder, real men buy me my favourite food and feed it to me in bed when they're sick. Stop classifying every man whose behaviour you don't agree with as "not a real man".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 03:41 AM
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"Real men" abuse others all the time. Do you think people with penises who abuse others are robots or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 03:33 AM
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So it's a no then...... Yeah I do and it's pretty stupid. Yes, weak men hurt women, I'm not denying that. But they're not always weak because they're unmasculine, they're weak because they're TOO masculine. They have an idea of what masculinity and men look like and react violently and explosively when you challenge their masculinity. It's why John List murdered his family after he lost his job and could no longer be the provider, it's why incels go on shooting sprees when they can't get women (…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 03:04 AM
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Do you even understand what toxic masculinity is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 02:56 AM
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This is a pick me free zone, sweetie :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 02:37 AM
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When will people read a fucking paper and realize that masculinity and toxic masculinity are not the same thong ffs 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 02:21 AM
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the former!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 11:03 PM
11

Cheating isn't high value. It's selfish and shitty. At least have the decency to ask for an open/poly relationship or even just be honest and be like "I want to fuck Brad." Cheating is for cowards who want their cake and to eat it too. They want the fun person on the side, who usually isn't relationship material or doesn't want a relationship with the cheater, while maintaining their safe, steady relationship so they don't look shitty to other people. It's also pretty childish. I get hit on all …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 09:15 PM
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because the whole world caters to men so when someone doesn't, it's seen as a personal insult/attack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 09:14 PM
7

He's so insecure too. He's saying that Russell is "less of a man" because Ciara isn't afraid to mention her exes to him while Future banned Ciara from ever speaking her exes' names. It couldn't be that Russell is secure in their relationship and knows he has nothing to worry about while Future tried to make her forget her exes because he was worried she'd realize that he aint shit and go back to one of them! Nope, Future is not jealous and insecure at allllll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 09:05 PM
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Future is such a loser lmao!! He thought he "won" when he and Ci broke up but then he literally lost his shit when Ciara upgraded to a high value man. This dusty scrote CHEATED on Ciara, Ciara remained unbothered and ditched his STD-riddled ass and found a man who appreciated her, and now he's whining to tabloids and having more kids by women he's gonna cheat on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 08:01 PM
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Lol that reminds me of this guy I talked to on Tinder last year. He give me his number and I texted him. He replied with "Kim?" My name is NOT Kim. My name isn't even CLOSE to Kim. I didn't respond. He then replied with my real name, and I still didn't respond. He then reached out again and I STILL didn't respond. Also, I was friends with my now-boyfriend at the time and sent him the exchange as a "men 🙄" thing so we could laugh about it (I didn't have feelings for him at the time) and he later …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 07:54 PM
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Tbh I think it would be smarter to have a prenup that has a clause that he has to provide for you and the children in the case of a divorce. Prenups don't just mean "everyone keeps their money". I've heard too many stories of men literally quitting high paying jobs and working under the table and even giving up their drivers licenses just to avoid paying child support. Val Kilmer and Dennis Rodman are just two examples of wealthy men who REFUSED to pay child support and the court eventually had …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 04:11 PM
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That's the funny part. The men that are constantly talking about family values and saying they want pious traditional virgins are the first ones to get caught cheating with escorts and strippers and other women who don't fit the tradwife mold. It's the whole Madonna/wh*re thing. They want a pretty tradwife to bear his children and bring to office parties, and then they want a young, sexy minx to fuck in hotel rooms and buy gifts for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 03:59 PM
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Read The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 03:55 PM
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Same. Or the fear that the kid will have a major disability and I'll be taking care of them the rest of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 03:51 PM
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Women get blamed when we "give a guy a chance" despite our misgivings and he does something to us. We also get blamed and called paranoid when we follow our intuition and don't give him a chance. If we say that we have a bad feeling about a guy but can't fully articulate it, we're "just calling him creepy because he's ugly" or "accusing him of crimes without any proof". Meanwhile, he hurts us and it's "Why did she trust him?" "Why would she go there with him?" Fuck his feelings!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 12:22 AM
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upvotes from lazy men who want to put in less effort than they already do. most men these days don't want to pay, they can't even make us orgasm, and now they're so degenerate they can't even bother saying "hey, do you want to go to x restaurant on friday at 8?"???? i bet in a few years we'll be seeing "don't be afraid to propose first, ladies!" as men and men expand even less effort into relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 12:17 AM
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Exactly! Literally no feminist should support the draft for men or women because we believe in bodily autonomy. Those men don't want the draft abolished either; they just want women to die too. And you're right that it was a male president, primarily male congress, and male military that supported it. I once had a guy say that women did less than men in WWII because we didn't fight. Of course, he conveniently forgot that women WANTED to fight, that they WANTED to be on the front lines but it was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 06:16 PM
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Yess!!! And then they try to debate or fall back on the "I tHoUgHt FeMinIsM wAs abOuT eQuAliTy". Not anymore, you dusty scrote! Feminists TRIED appeasing men. We told them time and time again how feminism would benefit men, and they were still against it. They even hate liberal feminists, who support porn and prostitution and think anal and BDSM are empowering. Literally all things most of these men agree with yet they still hate feminism because it's primarily about women. I remember I commente…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 05:43 PM
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Literally tho ONS with a hot guy > a lifetime of servitude with an entitled ugly dude who jerks off to teenagers and expects u to work full time while taking care of all household responsibilities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 02:35 PM
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Men call us weak and emotional yet they're the ones throwing tantrums and organizing brigades because there are maybe 3 subs on this entire website that aren't centred on them and their limp dicks. I mod r/pinkpillfeminism and we get shitty messages/posts/comments from men all the time, it's so fucking annoying. When one of us mows down two dozen people in a van or shoots frat boys because they won't fuck us or beheads a 17 year old e-boy and then send videos of us masturbating to the photos of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 02:18 PM
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Sexism for men is women being mean to them. Or not catering to them. I wish incels and men in general were only "mean" to us, instead of advocating for our murders, for child molestation and rape, for abuse, etc. The idiot moids lurking here can shut the fuck up until FDS has a body count like incels do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 02:15 PM
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George Clooeney, the perennial bachelor and the example all RP use when claiming that men age like wine, married a high value career woman in her 40s too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 12:38 PM
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tbh that might be the exact reason she prefers guy friends. pick me's generally have very low self esteem (hence their lack of standards) therefore being the only girl in a group of guys allows her to be the cool girl and "almost gf" to every guy in the group. as much as they may claim she's "one of the guys", the men will treat her differently than they treat the actual guys. she gets to feel desirable and have a group of usually low-value men be lowkey obsessed with her. she might claim to not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 11:57 PM
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Men will say that they're morally superior to women because they don't care about her career/education or lack thereof and then a few years later you see their pathetic whining asses on Reddit complaining about "divorce r*pe" and alimony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 09:05 PM
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anybody who isn't into anal or poly relationships is considered a boring prude these days thanks to sex positive "feminism"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 11:35 PM
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Omg somehow your situation is even worse than straight going dutch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 05:26 PM
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Yes. Imo the most important rule of FDS should be that no matter how many vacations he pays for, how big your ring is, or how much he says he loves you never, ever, ever fully rely on a man and his income. ALWAYS have a savings account with at least a few months worth of expenses so that if he literally threw you out tonight you'd be okay. My parents were pretty happy but my dad literally dropped dead one day in his early 40s. My dad made six figures and we lived in a small town so we could have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 09:26 PM
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I honestly believe that most men are hebephiles, if not straight up pedos. The way culture sexualizes underage girls and female celebrities says it all. The fact that it was public knowledge that Britney Spears was a virgin at 17 is fucking proof that our society is fucked up. Yeah, there's the Jonas brothers with their purity rings but the difference is that their whole shtick was wholesome Christian Disney singers. Meanwhile, Britney was openly sexual/sexualized while also being a pure virgin …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 08:32 PM
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not to mention, the hot 40+ men were usually much hotter at 25. the men who age like wine are just attractive young men aging into attractive middle aged man. some fugly balding-at-20 5'5 incel isn't going to become Clooney at 40 lmao. The "mid 30s power flip" is code for "have enough money that women can look past the fact that you're shorter than her 10 year old niece and your tits are bigger than hers".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 08:09 PM
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seriously I've seen MULTIPLE posts on r/relationships where a woman is questioning what to do about her boyfriend who refuses to brush his teeth. The first time, I thought it was a weird fluke. The second time, I thought it was a coincidence. The third time, I nearly passed out. This is about way more than going dutch on dates; women have such low self esteem (or have bought into unconditional love) so much that they ask for ways to "work past" the fact that their 30 year old boyfriend doesn't b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 08:06 PM
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Also, I don't understand the mentality of us trying to "trick" men into relationships. I don't want to be with any man I have to trick and after I realized my worth and started using FDS (although I didn't know about this sub at the time), I don't. I used to pretend to pretend to be the cool girl who loved going dutch and laughing at misogynistic jokes. I used to pretend to care when my ex told me about PUBG or modding his Clash of Clans group meanwhile he'd openly sigh and roll his eyes wheneve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 07:55 PM
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they are captains. captains of the titanic lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 06:19 PM
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nah we're clearly missing out!! all these pornsick losers with ED and rape fantasies are soOoOooO high quality. how will we survive without such alphas??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 06:15 PM
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I love when they'll say we'll end up single like it's an insult. I'd much rather be single than be in a relationship with a man who jerks off to teenagers on Instagram or makes me pay the bills. It's men that can't handle being single, hence the higher marriage satisfaction stats for men. Being a single cat lady spinster sounds much better than being some low value man's bangmaid and domestic slave, doing all the cooking and cleaning while working full time and also doing the majority of the chi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 05:43 PM
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exactly! in nature, male animals bring gifts and/or food to female animals if they want to mate. or they have bright colours to attract female attention. or they fight/compete with other males in front of the female to prove their dominance. there are even those birds where the male has to dance for the female to impress her and she decides whether he's worth mating with. incels are literally dumber than birds, spiders, peacocks, pufferfish, etc. because male animals are smart enough to know tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 03:28 PM
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Sis I was in the same situation! We were "just friends" even though I met his family and he talked about us being married. He'd even called me his girlfriend before when I made a joke about us being best friend. I finally woke up to his bullshit, upgraded to my current boyfriend, and it's like he knew. I didn't tell him when I started seeing my now boyfriend but suddenly he was texting every day, calling me beautiful, saying he'd miss me when he was going on a boys trip, finally buying hockey ti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 03:15 PM
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exactly!! these fucking losers love playing the victim "waaaaah women don't like me!!! it's because i'm ugly and depressed" nah, ugly and depressed men are in fulfilling relationships all the time and some of them even have their girlfriends paying for their shit. those men may be low value, sure, but incels are even worse- they have no value to society and degrade the human race. an ugly guy that is normal can get a girlfriend; an ugly guy who openly praises rape and supports terrorists and wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 02:44 PM
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when the e-girl (bianca something) got murdered and nearly beheaded in the summer, these same men were making jokes like "thot destroyed" and saying that she deserved to die because she was a camgirl. i wouldn't spit on an incel if it was on fire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 03:59 AM
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male entitlement is incels expecting us to be all boo hoo and "understanding" of their issues when they regularly say say that we have no value, that female depression is a joke, that we deserve to be raped and murdered, etc. we're soooo evil for not being understanding to those poor wannabe rapist incels! edit: also if they're fucking incels, why do they care what female DATING strategy is about? they already know it's over for them so idk why they're so worked up. they were incel losers before…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 02:54 AM
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imagine if men had the energy to post these rants about MGTOW/incel/RP subs, which have lead to real-life terrorist attacks, murders, and violence against women. meanwhile men get offended at this sub because we won't suck their crusty cocks. this sub wouldn't exist if men weren't largely trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 02:50 AM
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exactly! we're always be gold digging whores no matter what. if we date an ugly guy or a poor guy, according to them, it's only because of money. i remember this chubby dude posted a photo with his cute blonde girlfriend and all the men in the comments were saying that she was only after him for money. appeasing incels and misogynists will never work because they will never see us as human. who cares what they think?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 01:31 AM
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A man doesn't have to be Bill Gates to be high value. He just has to improve your life in every way vs being single. If a guy is making you poorer, less happy, more stressed, more insecure, etc. he's not worth keeping in your life. A rich man who makes you go 50/50 is much worse than an average guy who takes you out but not to super nice places. The way I imagine it is: would I be happy if there were more men like him in the world? I love my boyfriend and I honestly think he's a total sweetheart…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 12:44 AM
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women should be pursued and men should be the pursuers. it's just common sense and biology- women are the gatekeepers of the human race. if every woman collectively stopped fucking blond men or collectively aborted the children of blonde men, for example, the number of blondes in the world would lower. if we only fucked men with blue eyes, the percentage of people with blue eyes would increase. therefore, women should be very discerning about the quality of man you let into your bed and into you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 10:48 PM
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I'm so glad you're in a good relationship now! It's like night and day ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 09:40 PM
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DAE women bad??? [3 platinum, 25 gold, 73 silver] +10.9k
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 03:32 PM
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it doesn't even matter if 3" is average. why should we settle for average men when the average man is a loser?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 01:15 PM
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In a relationship!:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 01:10 PM
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honestly all the men getting offended that women have standards for once make me into the height thing even more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 03:52 AM
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honestly i find that short men/ugly men/disabled men/poor men/etc are often even worse than "regular men" just because they have this sense of bitterness and powerlessness in society (whether it be due to their height or disability or weight or whatever). unlike women with these issues, who mainly internalize them and harm ourselves, men turn the violence outward. so while, say, a short man doesn't have the balls to cuss out his boss who made a snide short joke at monday morning's meeting, he do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 03:47 AM
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The third one is so true. Men are taught to go after the girl. If a guy is into you, you'll know. Lazy men love spouting nonsense about "message him first!" or "ask him out" but usually they mean Margot Robbie should message him first or ask him out. Despite what they may say, guys don't really believe that any girl is out of their league. That's why even the most unwashed neckbeard still messages Belle Delphine asking for freebies or a hookup. Hollywood movies are full of beautiful 20 something…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 03:02 AM
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