It's okay for girls do the first move

1,923 points299 commentssubmitted by andrefoxd to r/dating_adviceEvery single time a post like this gets hundreds of upvotes and gold. But asking men out is shooting ourselves in the foot.

Ok, I'm posting this because I saw the other day a post saying that "guys HAVE to do the first move".

Just want to point that this is based on nothing and when two people like each other doesn't matter who makes the first move.

Girl, if you want to believe that the guy HAVE to make the first move it's okay, but keep in mind that this is based on nothing but a pressure that society put on us.