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| 3 | Jobs that can be green flags?Oh I agree with you. I’m an idiot and read the post wrong lol. Freaking hate male teachers. Been harassed by them since 6th grade | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 07:54 PM |
| 6 | Jobs that can be green flags?Lol I’m an idiot and read “red flags” instead of green | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 07:53 PM |
| 16 | Jobs that can be green flags?Teachers....there’s a thread about why on this particular profession if you’d like more details. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 01:46 AM |
| 5 | How do you respond when a guy suggests an inconvenient date spot?I think that was fine. Let us know how it goes! Love field report updates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 01:44 AM |
| 35 | Man tries to normalize the fact LVM are opportunistic by calling it "human nature".“It’s not as common as you may think” well sir, field report says otherwise. Just look at relationship advice subreddits or the tales women say here and it proves otherwise. Men will say anything to sleep with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 12:05 AM |
| 55 | Daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men!!!!!Well it’s a statue. It’s based on a short story. But the tldr: man discovers he can walk through walls. Goes to doctor and get two pills. One for now one for later in the year. He goes around trolling everyone and starts seeing this married woman. He gets a headache one day and takes the wrong pill. It takes away his power and gets stuck in her garden wall while trying to get out. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Le_Passe-muraille | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 05:24 PM |
| 58 | Daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men!!!!!Lolol I love the story behind the man in the wall. He got stuck there after escaping a rendezvous with a married woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 05:21 PM |
| 16 | LVM asks for advice on suing his GFThrow the whole man out while you’re at it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 01:40 AM |
| 119 | LVM asks for advice on suing his GFI’m going to sue you then keep dating you! The delusion is REAL. I hope he does sue her so she can see his true colors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Please for the love of God don’t make excuses about fucking your toxic ex over $7 TV accounts 🙄All of these “hahaha omg I’m so imperfect and I do toxic shit hahaha” cool girl/not like the other girls memes have GOT TO GOOOOOO. I don’t care if they’re a jOkE. This is just another way of promoting making stupid decisions. Embrace that you’re acting like a loser and level up. Edit: rant wasn’t towards OP but towards the people that post stuff like this in a non ironic way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 06:01 AM |
| 45 | Another disappointmentGirl, this is his way of putting you down. He’s salty he thinks you laughed at him and rejected him. This is incredibly immature and you’re better off. There’s nothing wrong with the amount of sexual experience you have. Don’t let men shame you or call you a prude because you didn’t hop on their dick after the third date. He wants to date a stripper? Ok have fun. Byeeeee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 07:46 AM |
| 36 | "He's great in all these other places, but..."SAY IT LOUDER FOR PEOPLE IN THE BACK!!!!! “He’s great but he murders kittens on his spare time should I leave?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 07:27 AM |
| 14 | I really need some advice of if I'm overreacting.Um. Girl. Run, please. He’s not “sacrificing” anything by not jerking off to porn. You don’t owe him nudes. You don’t owe him shit when you’re on your period. In fact, you’re the one that’s owed! He should be making sure you’re ok and you’re comfortable. Not asking to have his stupid ass dick sucked. He gets mad at you for DAYS over not “pleasing” him sexually? That’s guilt tripping and manipulation. He talks about your mental health to his friends. That’s crossing boundaries. That’s your very p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 07:25 AM |
| 42 | No Contact Broken: Seething With RageDamn. That freaking sucks. But, think about it this way- if he’s soooooo in love, why is he reaching out to you? This dude seems like a mess that falls out of “love” as quickly as he falls in. I think you dodged a bullet and I know you know that. It’s ok to feel like shit but remember to get up and be the badass woman you know you can be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 06:31 AM |
| 30 | I’m feeling so ashamedDon’t be so hard on yourself. We have all been there and that’s why we gather here. To avoid getting fucked over or to help others not get fucked. Here’s what you need to do. Block and ghost this dude. There’s absolutely no point in remaining friends with someone that is not interested in you but you have feelings for. This will give you a sliver of hope. Everyday you’ll wonder if today’s the day he changes his mind. You need to get over him. Unlearn all the lies he told you. It doesn’t matter w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 06:57 AM |
| 130 | How to weed out LVMLet me tell you a story. When I was 18 I got my first boyfriend. I was madly in love. He worked a random ass job being the chat customer service guy at a wine/gift basket online store. He was always too broke to take me out, lived with 5 roommates in a beat up apartment, didn’t finish college and we always split things or I paid. I was ok with this because hey! we are young. I know what it’s like to be broke. We break up. Well, he breaks up with me. Moves back to his home state, gets a new gf, g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 06:46 AM |
| 51 | Why can't reddit stay on topic?checks user post history all comments are downvoted. Sucks to suck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 04:35 AM |
| 38 | Male-Centered Dating Advice Directed at Women - A CompilationAlmost lost all my Christmas appetite reading this. These are all the lies my mother told me. Retrain your brain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 09:07 PM |
| 21 | He wanted to pay but I paid my own foodI would cancel. If you’re not excited about the date and there’s nothing you’d like to watch, then do something else on your own. I personally wouldn’t see this man again. He put you on the spot instead on just taking care of the check. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 04:46 PM |
| 11 | Ladies, how do I get this HVM to lose a bit of weight?If you’re into fitness maybe start sharing that hobby with him. Maybe a partner work out class? Spark his interest in fitness. If you don’t see much of a response then sadly....I’d pull the plug. It’s great he’s a HVM but it’s sort of pointless if you’re not sexually attracted to him. You’re going to get a wandering eye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 04:42 PM |
| 9 | A message I received and its owner bahahahaI prefer neither. I like taller guys and average/big dicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 04:37 PM |
| 45 | He wanted to pay but I paid my own foodDid you do all the necessary sidebar reading? That’s the first place to get advice from. Also I think it’s important to have an opinion on a man being the provider as it’s a fundamental FDS belief. I recommend familiarizing yourself with all the ideology prior to implementing it so you don’t get yourself in confusing situations. Should you have let him pay? Yes. Are you too available? Yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 04:02 PM |
| 29 | What happens to PickMeisha when she tries to bag a HVMDid she send him 3 roses and a note that said “you’re worth waiting for”? 😂 it would be reddit full circle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 02:40 AM |
| 11 | Sis it's ok if you want your man to spend more on your ring than he does on a single $60 video game...This is why I love you guys. It’s been an internet trend recently to shame women wanting nice things and nice rings. Don’t be afraid of asking for what you want! You’re the one wearing it all day everyday. You should be happy with it. And if what you want is a 2 carat diamond then girl, go for it! Enough with letting men do less and less. As en ex luxury (Tiffany, Cartier, van cleef that kind of caliber) sales person, men will happily spend 6 figures on rings and jewelry. Don’t let anyone tell y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Not sure how to handle thisHe’s definitely not leaving his family.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 03:28 PM |
| 25 | Not sure how to handle thisI would be straight up. “You have a child and a gf and you live with both. Hard pass”. He’s insane to even expect you to get into his messy drama. You’re going to have to be direct with this one. Even if you have to keep it professional for the organizations sake. “I do not entertain men with girlfriends and I would appreciate if we could keep our relationship strictly professional (or as acquaintances or whatever fits this situation). This is the last time I want to have this conversation.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 03:21 PM |
| 75 | Can you relate to Pickmeishas anymore?I find my friendships have suffered slightly. That’s why I spend a lot of time on here. Although I’m married, I love to encourage women to get ahead and love talking to like minded individuals. I find the “intimacy” in friendships is kind of gone as I don’t sympathize with their situations anymore. One of my closest friends has been with her bf six years, live together and no engagement on the horizon. She lost her job and health insurance and he won’t add her on his because it’s “too expensive”… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 09:06 PM |
| 26 | Reminder that men are sexually attracted to a tree so it doesn’t mean shit of some fuckboy tells you you’re hot too.I’m sure she knows it’s a joke however, the point still stands. Men will fuck anything. From my experience irl and reddit men have fucked: rotten banana peels, gotten a toilet plunger (used one) up their asshole, the one moldy coconut, other friend’s used pocket pussy, stuck their dicks in questionable glory holes, animals, and I could keep going but I’ve made my point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 05:56 PM |
| 41 | AITA for publicly humiliating a guy who sent me an unsolicited picture of his junk and getting him fired?Ugghhhhhhhhhh “worship my stallion cock” WHYYYYYYY are men like this?!?!?! Dicks are so fucking ugly yet men love to show them off as if they were cute puppies women wanted to pet. Keep that dirty dick in your pants sir! Survey says you don’t even know how to wash it. Plus she’s a lesbian! NOT INTO DICK. The fact he even implied a threesome is beyond disrespectful. Fuck those people that texted her saying she ruined it. No, Mr. Dick in a Box ruined it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 05:47 PM |
| 10 | Is this lovebombing and should he be tossed?Ugh I cringed so hard reading this. This guy doesn’t know you. Which means he acts this way to any attractive woman that will give him the time of day. He can’t compliment your brain because his own brain cannot even process anything. Don’t be so hard on yourself. You’re not a dumb bitch for making out with a hottie at a bar. However, you might be if you engage further or even get in a relationship with this dude. Healthy relationships form slower because both parties want to make sure you’re ri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 05:38 PM |
| 12 | How would you describe this woman?In the trash. That’s where you put them. Messy af! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 05:19 PM |
| 32 | Now women have to allow our bf/husband to sleep with prostitutes too, to meet his "needs"Oh well now if you mention STDs you’re shaming the people that have them. You can’t win arguments against these people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 05:16 PM |
| 25 | This queen just took out the trashNICE FOR WHATTTTTT?! To inflate LVM’s ego like this?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 02:27 AM |
| 64 | The ultimate question on the minds of most men is.....BUHHT WUT ABUHT MUHHH DICKK? WAHWAH!“It’s a biological necessity” “it’s a right”. You have the right to cut if off, so 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 02:23 AM |
| 7 | hmmmmmWhere’s the lie though.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 06:23 AM |
| 24 | I’m curious what’s everyone’s thoughts on cohabitation?I think it could work if the circumstances are right. I moved in with my husband early on when we were dating BUT we were crystal clear with our expectations for the relationship and each other. We knew we were going to get married and planned our time and finances accordingly. For example, we had a financial plan to afford our new furniture, engagement ring and wedding since we weren’t getting any help from parents. When I moved in I had something realistic to look forward to and knew that if x… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 06:21 AM |
| 23 | Why are you sending him flowers? If he likes you he’ll come to you.This should be the response when any woman asks “should I text him?” or does anything cringe like send 3 roses lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 04:21 AM |
| 56 | Found a man who respects me and takes me to actual dates, like really fancy ones.. But“Let’s meet a little later so we have time to freshen up.” Sometimes when saying things that could be taken the wrong way, it’s good to say “we” as it implies it’s something that you’re both doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 03:51 AM |
| 7 | Pickmeisha Sends Bouquet of Roses to Workplace of a Guy Who’s Unsure About Dating Her. Includes Note Saying He’s “Worth Waiting For” 🤢When they go to advice subs AFTER they’ve done whatever it is they’re asking about. I think this Pickmeisha just wanted some sweet sweet Karma and some praise for her “I’m not like the other girls”. So much cringe lol. Also she posted an update. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 04:16 AM |
| 75 | Pickmeisha Sends Bouquet of Roses to Workplace of a Guy Who’s Unsure About Dating Her. Includes Note Saying He’s “Worth Waiting For” 🤢Oh no!!!!! NINE MONTHS?!???? A human baby was conceived and born in that time. The earth is 3/4 done spinning around the Sun and he is still unsure about you?!?!?! Girlfriend, your three roses aren’t doing shit. Might as well have flushed that money down the toilet. Low value me are NEVER worth waiting for. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 03:35 PM |
| 21 | I don't understand what went wrong?2 Things for future reference: Texting/online talking without any actual plans to meet up IRL creates false intimacy. He maybe talking to you and maybe 10 other women. It’s so easy to just text and requires very little effort. It’s cool to get to know each other a bit before going on a date but don’t spend your time focusing on that type of communication if there aren’t any solid plans. Closure isn’t a real thing. Nothing went wrong and you didn’t do anything wrong. It just didn’t work out. Clos… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 07:36 AM |
| 5 | Curious on how you would have done it?I wouldn’t date this guy. Saying the comment about the drink shows that he’s insecure. Sure, it may have sounded like a cheeky joke but remember that 50% of what people say “joking” is what they actually mean. Some men like to act like HVM to lure you in and get laid. It’s nice he paid for everything but at the end of the day, he low key expected you to go home with him. An insecure man that is already implying sex on the first date is a LVM and you should pass. *the paying part is just a filter… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 07:22 AM |
| 3 | Had a weird third date..Agreed ^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 05:40 AM |
| 4 | Had a weird third date..I personally wouldn’t text. Like you said, he’s just going to give you a disappointing answer. What is he going to say? I would just let him be the one pursuing. This is a moment of testing boundaries. Don’t show him you’re overly pressed by his lack of communication. Entertain yourself with something else in the mean time. He’s not the only thing you have going on and this is what your silence shows. If he wants something with you he has to be consistent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 05:37 AM |
| 8 | Had a weird third date..This is what I was thinking too. I don’t think he was ready to be in your home and he wanted to respect boundaries. He probably felt nervous but came through because he likes you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 09:29 PM |
| 49 | 31 Yr Old Man Harasses 19 Year Old Girls at A Birthday Party. Gets outraged when they call him “R.Kelly” and tell him to take a hike. Is further humiliated when they start singing the “Remix To Ignition” to his face and cackling loudly. These Queens 😭🙌One of my all time AITA faves. So good!!!!! 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 09:25 PM |
| 22 | How do you guys go about birth control and contraceptives?Condoms. Always. Unless you’re in a LTR. *if you’re on any other birth control method for other health reasons, obviously keep using them AND use condoms. The amount of STDs out there is insane. In terms of enforcing, condoms on or no sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 06:21 AM |
| 106 | I saw this on Facebook, and it makes me upset. These dudes are literally relying on a woman being broken to even stand a chance with her.That’s part of their strategy and it has always been. We figure out a way to avoid such bullshit on this sub yet we are the hateful ones lol. Men need to admit they hate themselves so much they need to put women down in order to feel “worthy”. Bunch of losers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 12:28 AM |
| 42 | r/unpopularopinion: The sub-reddits 'Female Dating Strategy' & 'Gender Critical' make legitimate points & their members come closer to understanding males than any other group of women I've ever seen haveRight. It’s a women only space because I don’t give a fuck about what men have to say. I’m also not interested in changing my view or performing the emotional labor of explaining FDS to stupid ass men. If that makes it an “eChO cHaMbEr”. Cool. Don’t care. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 07:43 PM |
| 10 | This guy kissed me but he warned me he has a complicated thing going on-do I even text backJust cut him off. There’s nothing there. You said it your self “expressed sort of interest”. Interest is not sort of. It’s not maybes. It’s either he likes you or he doesn’t. I’ve said this many times “you can be the juiciest peach but there’s always someone that doesn’t like peaches.” It has nothing to do with you. Cut contact so you don’t get sucked back in and spend time on yourself and men that do show interest and are worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 07:39 PM |
| 61 | r/unpopularopinion: The sub-reddits 'Female Dating Strategy' & 'Gender Critical' make legitimate points & their members come closer to understanding males than any other group of women I've ever seen haveWhere are the upvotes?! Where’s the goldddd?! Oh that’s right, those are for woman hating or racist posts. 👍🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 05:53 PM |
| 52 | What's the most hilariously stupid thing a guy has done on a date with you and how did you react versus how do you wish you'd reacted?When I was younger and very naive, I went on a date to this dingy dive bar that was next to his work because he had no car and was trying to hide that fact. Back then, Netflix and chill was not a thing. During our date he kept talking about the walking dead and how it was such a great show. He asked if I wanted to go over to his place and watch the walking dead. Obviously now I know what that meant but I genuinely thought we were going to watch TWD....So we go to back to his place and he starts … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 07:20 AM |
| 13 | What to do when a friend doesn’t see her value?I joined this sub because I have the same problem with a friend. However, when you look at someone through rose colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags. Your friend doesn’t want to listen, she doesn’t truly want your input. In her head, she and this man will run off into the sunset and he will be the perfect boyfriend. Once she snaps out of it and sees that it will NOT happen, only then will she be ready for the truth. Nobody wants to hear the significant other is trash, even if … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 03:32 AM |
| 18 | Friendly reminder of FDS basicsThis reminder was most definitely needed. Now that this sub is getting more subs (yay!) we need everyone to be on the same page about what FDS is about. Please fully read the side bar before asking if you should ghost your bum ass boyfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 08:42 PM |
| 31 | Ghosting after a first date?Just block. See the “nice for what” flair. Spare yourself the trouble. Time is the most valuable thing you have so don’t waste it on scum. You got better things to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 07:42 AM |
| 6 | Friends f*** with no worriesOnce you’re in a committed long term relationship but that’s just my point of view. I don’t think you’re being irrational with your preferences. I’m married and still prefer condoms to avoid “the mess”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 04:43 AM |
| 16 | Friends f*** with no worriesYeah pregnancy and STIs what about having the warm cum of some dude you hardly know inside you? 🤢I don’t do great with bodily fluids so girl there’s no hump to get over. Keep using condoms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 04:21 AM |
| 34 | Dating Report - W/E 1st Dec, 2019Yes!!! This is great. Please keep updating us. We know FDS works but this will show other ladies how it works. And you’re right. No to the dude living at home and Melbourne has great food idk what that dude is on about. 👎🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 06:29 AM |
| 7 | Cleveland Steamer Friday. One Night Only.Bro, you’re a 16 year old druggie so nobody cares what a low value bogan has to say 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 05:27 AM |
| 6 | Dude asking for my height and tells me to keep the heals on with him because he is 6 foot tall LmaolHe looks like he Facetuned his biceps... 🐱🐟 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 04:57 AM |
| 42 | Men inflating their value, expect women to lower theirsPersonality does not put a roof over people’s head or food on the table. He’s just dead weight expecting to tag along a woman who has her shit together. Being trash is not a personality trait. 💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 03:42 AM |
| 12 | Cleveland Steamer Friday. One Night Only.Mansplainers be like... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 03:48 PM |
| 27 | How to respond to a co-worker that ghosted youIndifference. Just don’t respond and when you see him, treat him like you would any coworker. I was in the exact same situation as you a few years back. Don’t let him see you sweat. Just be chill and show him you don’t give a fuck about him or his existence. He’s just there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 05:22 AM |
| 12 | Genius comes up with brilliant strategy to reduce rapes by making it legal.No thanks, I’m keeping my bobs and vegana away from you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 04:46 AM |
| 33 | "Even if we all became 8's, women would want 9's" Are you kidding me? Men aren't even 5's is the problem.I think we should build an arc for when the great flood of loser men’s tears floods the earth...because at this rate...it may be soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 04:45 AM |
| 98 | Stop telling men about your birth controlAbsolutely!!!! Condoms EVERYTIME. The amount of dirty dick out there is astounding. Men truly don’t give a fuck. They’ll fuck anything. I heard a “joke” from a comedian that described how he fucked a rotting banana peel....let that sink in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 08:50 PM |
| 46 | Take your ‘smiling’ catcalls and shove it!I bet he will think twice before asking any woman to smile! Seriously though, what’s with the smile thing? The female security guard at my old job got that all the time. Women are not here to make you feel warm and welcome with our smiles. Idk who the fuck you are. You are not entitled to a smile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 04:00 PM |
| 18 | Men who double downCuffing season is more like clown season....so you’re right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 03:55 PM |
| 28 | FDSing since 2010 ✌🏻“You’re right. I have no game” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 01:59 AM |
| 18 | My fetlife page says I don’t want to talk to trump supporters or men over 38. I get these messages daily. They always block me before I can even respond 😂From table to Pacific Ocean, how salty are you bro? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 01:29 AM |
| 14 | Nope... no red flags here at all... 😒🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 04:32 AM |
| 68 | Wife makes hubby center of her universe. Gives up friends, moves for his career, doesn't work, becomes SAHM. Hubbs wants to abandon her & child to "sleep with as many women as possible", is already cheating. DON'T MAKE A MAN THE CENTER OF YOUR UNIVERSE! AND DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!You know what, I hope no woman sleeps with him. He doesn’t deserve jack shit. Always stay one step ahead and have a plan B, C, D, E. ect. Build your career and your own money for when he gives you the boot you’re ready. Or even god forbid something happens and he dies you’re left with nothing. My mom always said to have a savings account for yourself in case of emergencies. She’s absolutely right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 10:57 PM |
| 102 | In today’s episode of #KickHimOut2020Man basically wants his fiancé to mother a child that’s not biologically hers without any rights. A child he conceived with a hookup buddy....who was on the pill but failed. Yes OP and his fiancé have an open relationship but he still chose his pleasure over his fiancés safety by not using a condom. He could’ve contracted an STD and passed it to his fiancé. Men are truly disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 07:04 AM |
| 11 | Another reason why men are the worst. What would you ladies do if your partner finds you repulsive and doesn't wanna have sex with youUsual basement dwelling troll. Bet he’s never seen a vulva IRL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 04:59 AM |
| 36 | I shy away from teachers and “soccer coaches”Let me tell you my experience with teachers and why this post is absolutely correct. 5th-6th grade: Gym teacher would single out my best friend and I and constantly tell us in front of the whole class how beautiful we were. He would call us little Ms. Universe. At the time it felt great! An adult man admiring my prepubescent self? It’s actually disgusting. He got fired and didn’t come back. Rumor on the street he was messing around with an underaged girl. (My school was k-12 so this girl was a H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 04:08 PM |
| 15 | The lowest of the low: Op's therapist is lovebombing her and she is too gaslit to see whats happeningUhhhhhh this is so wrong on all fucking levels. I didn’t even read the comments because the post was enough. This man is taking advantage of her AND getting paid for it. Get the fuck out of here. Men have no shame and no integrity. They think with their crusty, New York street dildo dicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 05:42 AM |
| 17 | I’ll motivate you by looking pretty and give you the pleasure of being seen with me. I’ll leave the rest, bye!She’s like those little aliens in toy story waiting for the claw. https://imgur.com/a/aW4KGTE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 05:18 AM |
| 33 | the reason men(in general/on average) get less emotional support is because they are more selfishThis reminds me of the classic “I hang out with men more because they’re less drama” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 07:40 AM |
| 38 | the reason men(in general/on average) get less emotional support is because they are more selfish“Hey, if you were emotionally available you’d get support when it was your turn” Men: emotional support is useless. Men need to grow a pair. - one of the comments on that thread summarized. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 07:30 AM |
| 10 | And yet 50% of the “people” who don’t give a fuck about male depression are MEN but all you see in the comments are women getting blamed for supporting each other and not also upholding the emotional needs of men (which is also a laughable lie)In today’s episode of “but men have problems too 😭” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 03:46 AM |
| 46 | If he doesnt use condoms, dump himABSOLUTELY 10000000%!!!!!! Girl, you don’t know where that dick has been. Would you put in a dildo you found on the streets in NYC? Probably not. So don’t put that dirty dick in you raw. OP, no judgment. We’ve all been there. Just trying to prevent more of us from being there 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 03:17 PM |
| 53 | Man admits the intent behind coffee/drinks datesThese are bottom of the barrel men. It’s so funny they’re so pressed with our practices. When in reality, they would be blocked/ghosted after a short conversation. They wouldn’t even make it to the “cOfFee dAtE”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 03:13 PM |
| 22 | Who’s Boyfriend is this?Wowowowowow. Wow. No words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 06:24 AM |
| 31 | This is a tinder date and he suggests I book and he pays me half. Why the heck would I pay half. This is not a relationship! Haha how would you nicely say no boy you are paying. He is cuteSecond chance for what? to disappoint? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 12:05 AM |
| 67 | Women who hold anti-feminist attitudes tend to fake orgasms more frequently, study findsSucks to suck I guess. Imagine prioritizing a mans ego over your own pleasure. Imagine being a real life pocket pussy for a man. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 11:32 PM |
| 22 | Settle a myth for me, fellow actual womenI mean, I guess yes to both? Yes it’s a real thing and yes it’s peeing (or kinda 😂). The fluid comes from the urethra as well and it has similar components to urine. I’ve squirted. It’s not a myth BUT it’s not as common or as easy to achieve as these porn sick limp dick men claim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 11:30 PM |
| 18 | Does this present any red flags?The *your situation made my eyes bleed. No thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 10:56 PM |
| 12 | What happens if you marry a low quality man.Girl, I’d be putting his ass on the spot so fast! I’m hosting a party and guests are complaining about the cleanliness? “Hey! [Useless Husband] see! I’m not the only clean one. Maybe you could pick up some tips from [commenting guest].” He will never get it. She will divorce him and he still won’t get it. There are no kids so run while it’s safe to do so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 10:55 PM |
| 81 | Girls need to be taught this from such an early ageYes! This is so important!!!! I sort of feel the same way. When my mom found out I was sexually active at 18 I definitely got shamed. I wish it was more open for young women to talk about sex. You often see those parents being overly protective of their daughters while encouraging their sons to be as active as possible you for “experience”. God forbid their “little girl” enjoys sex. Mean time there’s so sexual intelligence (in the context of emotional intelligence). It would’ve been great to hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 10:50 PM |
| 30 | Levelling up after reading FDSThese men are getting lazier and lazier by the day 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 10:44 PM |
| 14 | I need y’all to shame me. Cuss me ou till I get my head straight.I think it’s because you told your brain you were in a honeymoon (doing couple things). Brains don’t like contradictions therefore you’re “feeling” feelings because that’s the natural part of “honeymoons”. Idk if this is making sense but your feelings are fake. I’ve been there. It’s infatuation because you had a nice time and naturally you are craving more. It’s just an illusion. Block and delete girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 03:27 AM |
| 82 | Recently moved and downloaded Tinder (it’s since been deleted but I have so many of these lol)Toni, get a pocket pussy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 04:06 AM |
| 66 | This is why we make them wait. Eventually even the most cleverly contrived mask will fall off. My name isn’t Sheby.Shelby?! Boy bye. You can bounce on your cock up and down out of here. https://imgur.com/a/DAPQcmB | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 01:54 AM |
| 15 | POS red pill dude pm’d meHonestly, I don’t even open them. Any time I spend on these men is time I could be using for something useful. I don’t want to give them anything. That’s what they live for female attention- good or bad. Starve the cancer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 06:29 AM |
| 48 | An update from the man who found his girlfriends FDS account. (Did we figure out who the lucky lady was??😂))I am convinced this is a shit post. He makes “8 times” what she makes yet she also works full time. This means she would earn roughly 20k a year based on a $10 an hour average so he would make roughly around $160k.- “I make so much money” He said he made sure she “wasn’t a gold digger”. How? Wouldn’t someone that’s savvy on gold digging know how prenups work? He mentions how he dated a few gold diggers in the past so wouldn’t someone concerned about finances date someone who earns closer to what… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 06:14 AM |
| 67 | The topic was period sex is better than regular sex...what is the top commenter trying to do? is this pick-me behavior at it’s core?Ahhh yessss gurl suck that dick while your uterus is exploding, your back is breaking and you got the period poops. Good for you! Priorities ladies. 💁🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 02:54 AM |
| 9 | This is from a story a woman told about being in an abusive relationship. Remember that if you have to justify yourself by "not being like other girls" youre probably being manipulated“I’m not like the other girls” well sis, it doesn’t matter because you’re getting played like the other girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 06:16 AM |
| 53 | I bet he thought he really got me typing out this word soup. Just say you want a FWB and go.my freak: Even though I don’t claim you in public you better not sleep with anyone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 06:14 AM |
| 16 | I bet he thought he really got me typing out this word soup. Just say you want a FWB and go.Men are treating dating like women are sample ladies at Costco... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 06:13 AM |
| 33 | For all the people scared to ask ‘what are you looking for?’ - just rip off the band aid ASAP and get the truth. Get comfortable asking difficult questions and weed out incompatible suitors early.I think this is great. Asking clarifying questions makes them uncomfortable saying what they truly want to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 08:21 PM |
| 13 | For all the people scared to ask ‘what are you looking for?’ - just rip off the band aid ASAP and get the truth. Get comfortable asking difficult questions and weed out incompatible suitors early.Good ol’ sandwich method. These men are pro 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 08:18 PM |
| 7 | When your "friend" of 6 years turns out to be a niceguyI’d ghost. He’s not your friend. He’s just sticking around waiting for you to give in to something more. Get guy friends that add value to your life and respect you in a non romantic way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 07:23 AM |
| 20 | Well, I got playedDon’t compare your life to other people’s lives. I know it’s hard but everyone posts on social media the good things or in person they just share the good news. It may seem like the grass is greener but that’s not usually the case. You have a lot of potential left in you. Look at you leveling up and being smarter! You got this! Good on for standing up for yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 05:36 PM |
| 19 | The lack of self awareness and entitlement is hilariousWow. That was a lot. “Why can’t I find someone that does something simple. Work 40 hours a week and comes home to me”. Wants to be a literal waste of space yet expects women to date him. HARD PASS. https://imgur.com/a/JRJp1bB “WOMEN MUST DATE ME EVEN THOUGH I WILL NOT PUT ANY EFFORT” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 01:33 AM |
| 11 | Hey guys - if you have to go down on her for an hour, you’re doing it wrongI used to fake it so it would be over sooner 😂 changed partners and don’t need to do that anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 06:02 PM |
| 33 | FoR tHe LaSt TiMe: THIS IS NOT A FEMCEL SUB, it’s LITERALLY A DATING SUBI love how he’s using FDS as a punchline. “It’s a femcel sub” is overused, inaccurate and just not funny. Thanks for the free promo though. 💁🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 08:42 AM |
| 3 | I moved across the country and joined Bumble BFF to find friends. My settings are for girl friends only -_- I swear no place is safe! Look at this dude....😂 facts! I don’t think he was having luck on regular Bumble so he had to invade the BFF section | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 07:08 AM |
| 18 | I swear. 🙄This should be the standard response to idiot men that like to talk crap about this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 07:19 AM |
| 25 | Here's Muh Dick. 53? Please.FOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!-> thats ew in Spanish. I’m so grossed out my brain didn’t even translate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 06:28 AM |
| 20 | Pretty sure bitches (oops I mean blokes) like these are the reason we need this sub.Anytime someone starts by saying how nice/great they are is because they’re about to tell you how much of a piece of poop they actually are. It shows the delusion and denial to take responsibility for their actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 12:32 AM |
| 7 | Online Dating be like 💁🏻♀️😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 11:14 PM |
| 5 | Online Dating be like 💁🏻♀️Yeah I’m sure it’s a joke 🤞🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 10:46 PM |
| 13 | I have no idea why I keep this guy aroundI would cut him loose. I don’t have a ton of male friends but the ones that I do have are great guys- to everyone. Not just woman they are trying to get with. By remaining friends with this guy you’re sort of validating his actions and who he is as a person. It shows him “I can be this horrible around women and they will still be around.” Yes he hasn’t been an asshole to you but he clearly doesn’t respect women in general. Surround yourself with great people that inspire you to grow and you insp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 05:42 PM |
| 25 | i would change eat ass to eat pussyNot gonna lie... the crossfitters part got me 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 09:12 AM |
| 7 | I'm trying OLD again. This is an old one that still makes me chuckle. I saved literally hundreds. OLD is WHACK haha.Online Dating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 05:35 AM |
| 23 | WTF... There’s a sub on reddit where men fantasize about about past rapes and sexual assaults they commitedThat’s actually a very good point and something I hadn’t thought about. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 05:26 AM |
| 23 | I'm trying OLD again. This is an old one that still makes me chuckle. I saved literally hundreds. OLD is WHACK haha.You know let me tell you an unrelated story: When I was in college, my friends and I were talking about our fuckboy problems. Coincidentally they were all named Mike. The Mike i was talking about was this married dude that kept trying to get in my pants. We vowed to never date a Mike but guess what! I broke the pact for some average, beer bellied Mike. He was the biggest fuckboy I’ve ever encountered. I see that nothing has changed in the Mike world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 04:26 AM |
| 31 | WTF... There’s a sub on reddit where men fantasize about about past rapes and sexual assaults they commitedI clicked and that shit is FUCKED. UP. If I see one more male redditor claim that rape is not a thing and that men get raped too can kindly fuck off to this sub. I don’t see any women saying any of this vile shit. Even women that have been screwed over by men many times. They are sick, sick bastards that I hope get chemically castrated. Trigger warning if anyone is curious as to the depravity going on. https://m.imgur.com/a/uz1N682 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 04:21 AM |
| 7 | WOMEN ARE NOT REHABILITATION CENTERSLeft swipe! Left swipe! https://giphy.com/gifs/animation-tinder-grindr-3o6Zti2oZxXnyb8Wnm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 01:05 AM |
| 12 | no it’s not funnyHAHAHAHA SO QUIRKY! SO FUNNY! LOLZ /s 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 09:31 PM |
| 38 | Young Men Perfectly Happy Being Useless Perpetual ChildrenThis is all fine with me. You want to avoid commitment and be a child? Go for it! However, when you can’t find women to date you, when you’re not getting promoted and the younger guy that put in the effort did, or you can’t afford a house: don’t complain. Don’t call women gold diggers when you can’t measure up and don’t blame society. You don’t have to work yourself to death, you don’t have to have an expensive weddings. These are all choices. You can still contribute to society without jerking … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 07:16 PM |
| 5 | 27 Signs of a Toxic RelationshipYeah I think that one is one of the most common ones. You see it all over Reddit when women make posts asking for advice. “He’s such a great guy! He insert something horrible he did but it’s only because he’s: stressed, rough childhood, pressure from school/work, bad temper, that’s just how he is.” I’ve been guilty of doing this too. If someone shows you their true colors, believe them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 05:15 PM |
| 48 | Boy, BYE!!!Where was this sub when I was 18? 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 05:34 AM |
| 8 | FDS is Phasing Out Femcel LanguageAhem, it’s the Stinky balled Couch Creature Repellent. On a serious note, I don’t think I can look at angry reddit men the same thanks to that meme 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 10:26 PM |
| 6 | Came across this gem today. My age-range setting is 23-27, not “aging like grade c dairy products”This. Has. Me. WEAAKKKKKK! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 10:03 PM |
| 8 | No, men do not age like fine wine.I was thinking the teeth too! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | I(21F) can't decide if my bf(28M) is showing red flags or if I'm being too insecureI don’t :/ all my experience has been from therapy, dating fuckboys + failing and my husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 10:02 PM |
| 11 | Ladies, a word of cautionI agree with this 100%! Maybe we can move the triggered men posts to FDS Superfans? I love to see some salty men but I also want to make sure the ladies that come for this sub for dating advice are able to access that info easily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 10:00 PM |
| 26 | Does anyone else think that shows like the Bachelor are absolutely disgusting?I may be a minority here so I’ll welcome the downvotes lol but I enjoy the bachelor/bachelorette. I like observing the dynamics and most of them go on the show for exposure. Once you’re on the bachelor you can be on different shows like Bachelor in Paradise which can further your “career”. I’m married which means I can’t date (it’s cool, I don’t want to anyways!) so I kind of live through them if that makes sense. I like seeing the male/female interactions and the same sex interactions when comp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 06:15 PM |
| 180 | Came across this gem today. My age-range setting is 23-27, not “aging like grade c dairy products”Hey Todd, what do you have to offer besides your grandiose sense of self? Because all I read on that bio is “me me me me, women hurt me, me me me”. What’s that smell, though? Is it blue cheese? No. It’s Todd. Because despite wanting young, thin women he’s aged like shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:42 AM |
| 74 | You could have just said I looked nice if you wanted my attention, but please proceed with the negging and see where that gets you.“Idk why is your game so wack that you can’t even slide into a woman’s DMs properly?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:34 AM |
| 122 | No, men do not age like fine wine.This concept that men age better is hysterical! Men lose their hair, get guts, their ears get hairy, somehow develop toe fungus (I mean look at some middle aged men in sandals...enough said) yet WE are the ones that look bad?! Sorry but my full set of hair disagrees. Even if genes are not in a woman’s favor, it is way easier to defy aging through creams, hair dye, make up, even plastic surgery! Once men turn into Shrek, THAT’S IT! They’re forever trolls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:32 AM |
| 20 | I(21F) can't decide if my bf(28M) is showing red flags or if I'm being too insecureI think those are 100% red flags. The coming you keep is very telling and his friends sound...kind of gross. 28 is a little too old to be into the party scenes and clubbing. Like it was mentioned above, is IS very strange he is not dating someone his age. Seven years may not sound like a big difference but, right now you’re in different stages in your lives. You’re so young and have so many different things to experience. He on the other hand is close to 30 and it doesn’t sound like he has his s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:26 AM |
| 39 | This child wants haters to come here and troll our sub, queens... (didn’t hide his username on purpose lol)These men are all so boring. No wonder they’re single. They’re not even creative. Oh no! Shitposting?! The horror! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 04:42 AM |
| 43 | Yet another man “accidentally” anally raping his girlfriend. Ladies, this shit is NOT AN ACCIDENT.This is straight up rape. She said no THREE TIMES!!!!! He KNEW she didn’t want it but kept going until he finished. He’s fucking terrible man. Men have assholes too and I think it’s so bizarre that they can’t empathize with something going up it. Hope she dumps him. Like right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 03:21 AM |
| 16 | He Only Wants Couch Dates with Her, But She Found Two Movie Tickets StubsShe posted a update in the comments. She said something to him and he said something along the lines of: “I wanted to go to the movies I don’t always want to be on the couch. Go out with your friends enjoy” and she says she didn’t respond. Hope she ghosts him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 06:24 PM |
| 6 | What do you do when you've been made uncomfortable at a barMAKE A SCENE! Expose these assholes. They rely on exactly that to keep doing what you’re doing: that you’re going to keep it cool. Fuck that, I’ll let everybody know that you’re a piece of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 04:52 PM |
| 30 | Man is in love with his best friend who married her boyfriend recently. He wants what he can't haveLol I love how he thinks he will ruin a healthy relationship by confessing his love. No. They’re just going to keep moving on their lives happily ever after and not even think of you. This guy just wasted 7 years of his life and sounds pretty pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 04:17 PM |
| 8 | Mentally ill, incel harasser. Please don’t respond to him! Just block. He’s very lonely and becomes fixated on women quickly. He’s been stalking me.🤢🤢🤢 girl I hope you’re not next... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 04:13 PM |
| 46 | LAOP is a Mid 20s man who wants to know if it's legal to fuck 16 year old girl in New Hampshire.As someone who was groomed at 17 by a “mid 20s so it’s not too ehhhh” dude, fuck this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 07:04 AM |
| 66 | Boyfriend keeps “Accidentally” Anally Raping His Girlfriend and She Doesn’t Know What To DoThe fact she said she knows it’s an accident is wild to me. Another red flag is that she ends up consoling him. She’s fucking traumatized and has to console another asshole instead of her own. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 07:03 AM |
| 6 | Older man (50) admits that it's hard for him to find women who want a relationship, was dumped by a woman who "wants to focus on herself and kids".It’s only a matter of time. 🤞🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 08:08 PM |
| 10 | Older man (50) admits that it's hard for him to find women who want a relationship, was dumped by a woman who "wants to focus on herself and kids".They’re the scum of reddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Older man (50) admits that it's hard for him to find women who want a relationship, was dumped by a woman who "wants to focus on herself and kids".I guess I didn’t mean low value. I thought about it after I posted it I’ll do an edit. But the sentiment is the same. You can be high value but that doesn’t matter if the other person is not having it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 07:49 PM |
| 7 | Older man (50) admits that it's hard for him to find women who want a relationship, was dumped by a woman who "wants to focus on herself and kids".If anything I think this shows the importance of FDS. He is a high value man in my eyes but is wasting his efforts on women that are not interested*. You can be all that and a bag of chips but it doesn’t matter if your efforts are wasted on people not on your level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 07:46 PM |
| 30 | Just got banned from r/askfeminists for making a compliment on this sub when someone created a post asking others their opinion about this sub. Pathetic! 🙄That’s interesting! We are often referred as an “echo chamber” because we don’t allow men and pick mes (and frankly, because FDS is not for debate here) yet they block you for not agreeing with their opinion. Who’s the echo chamber now? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Why you should let him pay for dates: the power of cognitive dissonanceThis is sticky material! Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 04:57 PM |
| 36 | Rude moid calls me a bitch because I can't decipher his typo. This is dating in 2019.Fuck off, James. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 06:37 AM |
| 25 | Man strings along GF for 8 years, she gets a boob job, and now he's questioning if she's LTR material. Another forever GF gets her time wastedI find it very interesting that a man that likes to buy fake brand name things (always look at post history!) is upset that his girlfriend wants to get fake boobs. She wants to get fake boobs so she can feel good about her body and herself. So shirts fit the way she wants them to without having to get a special bra. She wants to wear a bikini with pride and no want her boobs to look funny in pics. He wants to buy fake shit because a. He’s too cheap to buy the real thing or b. Can’t afford it and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 07:42 PM |
| 41 | A man who shames your vagina does not deserve to keep seeing itThat’s just low. Is this a tactic of “your vulva is so gross only I would fuck it so don’t ever leave me”? Because I cannot fathom insulting a partner this way and thinking is funny. It seems more of a manipulation technique and borderline abusive. I hope she dumped him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 05:16 PM |
| 22 | I fucking love this sub,it has made some moids stalk me online and they are the first ones who downvote my comments and threadsYeah because you have the best Reddit username. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 02:55 AM |
| 45 | Asshole waits an entire decade to embarrass a girl from HS ... AFTER HE FUCKED HER“Was I an asshole here?” No, you’re not an asshole. You’re the whole turd. Of course the girl shouldn’t have bullied him. But this guy peaked in in high school and it shows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Another reason Why Liberal Feminism Is Not compatible with FDSThat’s still not a good enough argument to change my mind though. I understand that we are from different cultures and I think that’s rad and I totally respect it. The part where I can’t get on board is opening the gates for anyone that identifies as a woman to be considered a woman. It’s not just rape that I am concerned about. I mentioned rape as an example because it’s been around as long as trans and prostitution. So my argument there is just because something has been around since the begin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 04:29 AM |
| 5 | Another reason Why Liberal Feminism Is Not compatible with FDSDon’t even bother with this one. It’s not that deep because rape and sexual assault don’t exist in her culture. It’s a myth. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 03:29 AM |
| 11 | Another reason Why Liberal Feminism Is Not compatible with FDSGirl bye. 🤡 That’s great that rape and sexual assault didn’t exist in your culture! Your personal experience is not the majority and doesn’t invalidate other people’s opinions and experiences. If it’s not that “tHaT dEeP” why the hell did you click on a thread about radfem? You can see your way out and don’t let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya! 👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 03:26 AM |
| 15 | Another reason Why Liberal Feminism Is Not compatible with FDSYeah no. Just because ancient civilizations had “up to 5 genders” or people identifying as female has been around for a long time doesn’t mean we have to accept the current trans agenda. Rape and murder have been around for ages so that’s not a very good argument. I would even argue that it is more acceptable now to be trans than it was before so it’s certainly neither taboo nor forbidden. And yes, people will go back to not giving a fuck once female spaces stop being invaded and people’s speech… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 01:58 AM |
| 37 | Every single time a post like this gets hundreds of upvotes and gold. But asking men out is shooting ourselves in the foot.Of course they’re going to say go for it! These men want to put in the least amount of effort possible and reap maximum benefits. It’s a win win for them. If they reject the woman then they get their ego stroked, if they say yes, they’ll probably get sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 12:52 AM |
| 18 | Another reason Why Liberal Feminism Is Not compatible with FDSThat’s my main problem with liberal feminism: you can’t say shit or “yOuR’e a BiGoT”. No. Call it how it is. I’m as liberal as it gets with everything else in life except feminism. They don’t listen or understand anything and just repeat the same regurgitated arguments and buzzwords. I’d have a lot of money if I got a nickel for every time a libfem said: bigot, transphobic, oppressed POC (which omg I’m not against obviously but hate that they’re used to push trans agenda), TERF, inclusive/exclus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to be a feminist and still manage to apply concepts of FDS into our lives or is this more of a sub for conservative women?Um. What. I don’t see where anybody here is conservative. At all. This is not the RedPill, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 11:29 PM |
| 18 | What happens when you date a porn addict. Don’t do it ladies!Yep yep! Poor girl. Imagine investing 5 years into a relationship with someone that needs to jack off to porn every night AND have sex with other people. That must be brutal. Hope she finds this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 04:00 PM |
| 18 | I am so sick of this shit - a guy I knew from youth club when I was 15 has randomly popped up to ‘chat’ five years laterNeedy much? So what if you were ignoring him, you don’t owe him anything. It’s not like he’s someone you’re seeing or even a friend. Just some random lurker that suddenly remembers you exist and wants to shoot their shot. Thank u, next. 💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 03:14 PM |
| 6 | Don’t call me your “cariño”Yaaaas! Puerto Rican here. Teach this mofo a lesson 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 06:50 AM |
| 33 | Do women honestly enjoy sex with men?Yes. Sex is great! It’s something that gets better with practice. Remember that the vagina works best when you’re fully relaxed and lubricated so don’t expect to shove things in there if you’re not “in the zone” lol. I find sex with a close partner better since I can communicate freely about what I like and vice versa. That’s what makes it good. Yes just vaginal penetration on its own is pretty bland but the guy should be stimulating other areas as well. Which areas? Well, depends on what you li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 05:14 AM |
| 25 | Men who I am attracted to never seem to be interested in dating me.. 22f.I think you’re being too harsh on yourself. You’re very young and it’s ok to make dating mistakes at your age. This is your time to learn! Don’t sulk on what happened, it’s already done. I wouldn’t share nudes with anybody that’s not worthy of my naked/semi naked body. Don’t give this scrub the satisfaction. Your body is a temple and only share it with the right guy. If you delete him on social media, that’s it. It’s final. No adding again because then you look a little cray following and unfoll… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 01:11 AM |
| 12 | I feel so concerned now when i see stuff like thisSome women want to put on a show for their boyfriends. “Look at me! Look how sexy and woke I am! I’m not the jealous type at all”. They’ll do anything to retain their porn sick, limp dick man. The ultimate Pick Me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 03:56 PM |
| 4 | STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR HIM!Sticky! Sticky! Sticky!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 01:08 AM |
| 6 | I’m overthinkingHe seems to be pretty into you and genuinely disappointed you’re moving. I agree with the other girls though. It’s not like he ghosted you for days then wrote you back it was only an hour. Plus he said he was with friends. He was trying to balance time with his friends and texting you as well. I’m normally team girls but I’m team dude on this one. He seems to really like you so try to chill a little and just enjoy what you two have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 12:52 AM |
| 23 | Hey ladies I need some advice! Guy blocked me after we hung outIt’s nothing you did wrong. Maybe he wasn’t feeling it as much as you were. And that’s totally ok! You can be the juiciest of peaches but there’s someone out there that doesn’t like peaches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 12:42 AM |
| 11 | Stop being cheap with your loveBUT I LOVE HIM! So I’m going to post here and complain, waste y’all’s time because I will completely ignore the advice given (that I asked for) 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 09:19 PM |
| 6 | A little rant bout my bfSometimes love is not enough. I know it’s hard but you need to set yourself free. It’s ok to be there for a partner, to comfort them and be their rock. But we should all be in charge of our own happiness. We should be in charge of regulating our own emotions and we cannot put that burden on other people. If you really want to make this work, your boyfriend needs to seek help. Like right now. I don’t want to be like “leave his ass” because he’s a human being that’s clearly struggling and that suc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 07:18 PM |
| 18 | Grown Ass Man, 37, harasses 20 year old musician neighbor for a date. She turns him down, so naturally, he wants to know if it’s okay to call the cops on her when she practices now.This dude really got under my skin. He spends TWO months harassing this girl where she lives then gets butthurt because she turned him down and called him creepy. News flash asshole, you ARE creepy. And huge man child. Hope she does get evicted and has to move so she doesn’t have to be neighbors with this turd. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 07:45 AM |
| 11 | Help shedding the guilt of moving on?I dunno. That FWB doesn’t sound like a friend at all. I would just move on because I wouldn’t want to stroke some guy that’s not treating me how I want him to’s ego. He served his purpose in your life, he gave you some bomb dick. Great! Now time to move on. Hope this new guy treats you right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 02:57 AM |
| 8 | I don’t think this is what they wanted 😂 *laughs in irony*Well I’m glad you’re here then :) please keep us posted on how everything changes once you implement FDS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 02:23 AM |
| 18 | I don’t think this is what they wanted 😂 *laughs in irony*How come?! BOTH? Who are these lucky ass guys that get your company AND free food? I just looked at your post history and you’re so freaking cute!!!! (I worry men are masking as women on here so I randomly look on people’s profiles) I will say maybe create an alternate profile for here and delete your activity here. I wouldn’t want these creepy asshole lurkers knowing what you look like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 02:13 AM |
| 21 | My date: Goldie Hawn & Kate Hudson are MONSTERS! Oddest negging and "the wall" nonsense.Lol Goldie Hawn would not have even given this scrub the time of day in her “prime”. Kate Hudson wouldn’t either now so idk why it matters to him so much. He reeks of insecurity and inferiority complex. This dude peaked in college and I’m sure is still reminiscing when he was doing keg stands... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 01:13 AM |
| 42 | "How does a girl go from chasing me to moving on after 2 months??" She levels up, that's how. Notice how he didn't give a fuck about her until after she went No Contact and moved on. He ADMITS he only wants her when she's not available. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!!!The trash took itself out. Who would want to deal with this mess of a dude? Good for her for moving on. This guy sounds like a major loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 10:45 PM |
| 124 | The only way to respond to unsolicited dick pics!!For real. This mf crop circling his dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 10:30 PM |
| 34 | I don’t think this is what they wanted 😂 *laughs in irony*Yeah! I was like SEE! Some men actually have no problem with this. That’s the men women on here are looking for. Nobody is trying to get free dinners just for fun. Our time is more valuable than a 2 for $20 at chilis with some scrub. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 09:26 PM |
| 34 | The fate of women who "forgive" a cheating partner. They ALWAYS cheat again, and again, and again.... It ALWAYS plays out like this.21 years and they were never married!!!! This is all so wild. 21 years down the drain and she gets nothing financially :( what a piece of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 08:36 PM |
| 5 | FemaleDatingStrategy in SpanishSpanish speaking gal here! 🙋🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 08:38 PM |
| 18 | If you ever feel awkward and forget why the man should be PAYING on dates:Right. Say it louder lol. It’s not about a “sugar daddy”. That’s what most people get twisted on this sub. Paying for dates is NOT being a sugar daddy. Sugar daddy: spends THOUSANDS on a girl HE IS NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH. He spends the money for the companionship and the illusion of a relationship. They’re well aware this is not a real committed relationship. They want it that way so they can reap benefits and the temporary feeling of a girlfriend or get the company of a woman on demand in e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 05:04 PM |
| 5 | Where can FDS members debate the haters ?One the things in life you’ll never get back is time. So don’t waste it on people that are not willing to hear you and understand where you’re coming from. You can tell facts until you’re blue in the face but you’re not going to change their minds. And that’s fine! Just ignore them. I already think they’re getting way too much attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 07:04 AM |
| 25 | With husbands like this, who needs enemies (or husbands). Heartbreaking read, may be triggering.What a disgusting piece of shit. Yet WE are the assholes for trying to avoid men like these. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 10:59 PM |
| 6 | How do you view a guy hanging out with a female friend early dating?I would keep doing everything you’re doing. But I wouldn’t ask or give the friend situation any attention. By bringing it up to you maybe that’s what he wants? But if you show him it bothers you it automatically gives him the upper hand. Just keep doing you and your own thing. I wouldn’t assume either. You’re a catch and this girl is no competition for you. If you’re already sexually active with this guy, make sure you’re using condoms as there’s a possibility he may also be intimate with other … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 05:14 AM |
| 3 | Join the OFFICIAL r/FemaleDatingStrategy Chat Room!Cool. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 04:10 AM |
| 3 | Join the OFFICIAL r/FemaleDatingStrategy Chat Room!I joined but I’m muted. Is it because my account is new? 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 04:02 AM |
| 25 | How do you feel about incel subreddits using this subreddit to validate women are deceiving and only care about money?Wow a bunch of involuntarily celibate dudes calling us gold diggers?! Oh no! How will I sleep at night?! Cuddled next to my husband that’s how. Incels could never imagine what that is. 💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 12:37 AM |
| 20 | How can I get over a bum-ass guy?What would I tell my 18 year old self when I was in your shoes? Stop creating fan clubs for Trash Trevor. This only encourages their behavior further. They thrive on attention as it gives them validation. Cut off the attention and it will cut off the oxygen supply. Get a new hobby or pursue a passion. What’s something you’ve always wanted to do but never have done? Anything you’d like to learn? The busier you stay the less time you have to think about Trash Trevor. By either learning a new skill… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 12:22 AM |
| 4 | Frothing Misogynists Post Screencap Mocking "Choosing Beggar" Girl. 30k+ Upvotes. The Actual Girl Turns Up to Confirm IT'S A FUCKING JOKE.Morons. Morons everywhere. If they can’t understand sarcasm and jokes, it’s no surprise they can’t understand this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 12:10 AM |
| 6 | How old are you guys?28 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 11:40 PM |
| 24 | "Worthless unemployed misogynistic male who is almost 50 seeking women in their 30s to "start a family with", wants to leave his menopausal GF for them." I hope women in their 30s destroy his pathetic ego. Please also NEVER allow yourselves to fall for a dude like this.A man on the brink of bankruptcy wants to start a new family. Ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 05:24 PM |
| 12 | This one was a charmerOk whatever you say cum shooter. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Asking for a friend...really!Yeah I guess you're right. It just sucks because she's such a smart girl but you are all right. Can't save someone that doesn't want to be saved... :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 02:04 AM |
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