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Thank you for the suggestions. I will look to watch these movies this weekend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:33 PM
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Love this! Thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:32 PM
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I am talking about the vulva (the external part), not the vaginal hole when I say the following: natural soap on the vulva is totally necessary. Please don't listen to people saying not to use soap on the outer area and near the lips. If you don't know which parts I'm talking about specifically, google the anatomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:24 PM
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He called you an insult and then pretended not to say that? SO he's essentially gaslighting you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:19 PM
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Change your number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 11:16 AM
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Honestly this should be the standard...... After FDS, it's basic a requirement for me now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 11:11 AM
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I don't even talk to them. I just run away or say that I'll call the cops. To them, this is "banter", play. The way a cat plays with it's prey a bit like a toy before it eats. I don't suggest anyone to antagonize these types of violent predators. Run. Call the cops. Get to safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:17 PM
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It seems like he tagged her in the post, and so she at least knows about this. I would love to know what she thinks before I say anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:26 AM
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The irony is that she is mature for her age, and he isn't. vomit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:58 PM
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I absolutely hate the condescending tone of this article. It ignores literal millennia of violence against women, lack of human rights, and lack of economic opportunity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 09:20 AM
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Are you the grey or the green?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 01:10 PM
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This is just sad. The brainwashing of women to aroused by their own degradation and destruction is devastating. We know behind this story there is a porn sick boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 01:39 PM
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I agree with this, as it relates to physical appearance. I can say "taking interest in your uniqueness" extends to other areas of your life, in that he should care about your unique tastes, personality traits, hobbies, etc... Also.... It's also a little bit of a hobby for me, I enjoy caring for it. I love that you've made taking care of your beauty a hobby. I'm trying to get there too where I just enjoy doing self-care rituals more, instead of feeling like I'm not worth that level of devotion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 10:47 AM
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If it's legal in your state, record with audio any more discussion you have with them. Don't ever be alone with any of them without a recording if it's allowed in your state. If you are fired (or want to quit that toxic environment), PM me, and I can try to help you get hired at my company. I work online, and my company is hiring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 10:36 AM
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There is no way to know if the uploading and sharing of the video was consensual. Some of those people are underage. The adds to watching any porn online contributes to child pornographers' income. Think about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 06:26 AM
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LOL! Okay it's time for me to log off Reddit. See y'all later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:48 AM
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Dear god.... but when you think about it, online porn is creating cuckolds out of several generations of males then. WOW. This comment explains a lot actually. Someone in another thread said it best, these males don't know how to do "masculine" tasks nor "feminine" tasks. They are utterly impotent. Eunuchs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 10:58 AM
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Honestly, that thread was a total mess, but I also came to the same conclusion. The audacity. The entitlement. It's so funny when they finally admit it. Yet, they're STILL angry that we won't give scrotes free handouts like our money, time, attention, body, support, and good fortune. Investing in oneself is more valuable and worthwhile now than ever before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 10:53 AM
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You don't know me at all and are trying to gaslight me because you don't like my opinion on a video? Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 01:01 PM
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I watched the whole thing, as I already said. You can't simply accept that I disagree about the quality of this video. I won't argue with you about it. I'm done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 12:58 PM
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That's not what he says at all, but let's agree to disagree about the quality of this video. I don't think telling men to do bare minimal compassion and self-responsibility is revolutionary. Saying this to a child? Sure. To an adult? Sad and implies a low standard to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 12:52 PM
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That may be true, but with the sheer number of narcissistic individuals and even narcissistic cultures, we have to be a bit more realistic. Us women don't owe our heart, honesty, and openness to anyone and especially not to men. We don't need to operate from a perspective that assumes without reason that the person before us is actually a fair, sane, whole, healed, mature person looking for a fair, balanced, mature relationship. It's takes a lot of time to know someone, and we should tread with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 12:47 PM
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I'm trying to listen to this, but around 8:00 he puts all the blame on "CoMuNiCaTiOn". I really can't take this kind of content seriously unless they acknowledge narcissistic personalities and Negative Value males. There's no amount of truth, honesty, and forgiveness worth sharing with a scrote who insists on making you the host to his ego supply. They are empty inside, and they know it. We all know this. Start acknowledging the truth DeVon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 12:33 PM
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I agree 100%. Seriously who wouldn't be depressed under those condition, which are quite average for the modern mother, expected to work full time and be a housemaid, mommy, bangmaid to a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:44 PM
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How is it dismissive to acknowledge that environment can cause depression. Your assumption is dismissive and uninformed....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:57 PM
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I wonder about so-called "prenatal depression". It could be a catch-all term for women's emotional burdens during pregnancy. I don't doubt there could be chemical changes with hormones that could cause depression, but let's be real. What woman wouldn't be depressed if she was pregnant with the child of a scrote? I'd be depressed as hell too. The best thing we can do for ourselves is to never ever have sex with a scrote, let alone carry their children to full term. Don't be a sacrifice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:18 PM
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LOL! This is so accurate though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:13 PM
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We keep telling people to stop dating during this period, but they won't listen. If OLD was awful before, it will be worse now that a bunch of bored, porn sick males are looking for cheap entertainment online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 11:23 AM
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I 100% AGREE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:39 PM
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I 100% agree. I really dislike the "Male Depravity" tagged posts in general or anything similar. Like we know, and if anyone doesn't I really pray for them. Naivety about this particular topic is dangerous, but we don't need to see it every day or front page.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:37 PM
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Part of the reason they do this is to say "Well I told you so," when your rose-colored glasses fall off. See then they're not responsibile; you are. 🙃🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 11:15 PM
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If he has anger problems, whatever you do, do not meet him in person ever again. If you need to exchange items, drop them off at a police station or at his relatives house, with your own relative or friend to escort you. There are so many real stories of women being killed in these types of interactions with angry, controlling men. Breaking up with angry controlling men can be dangerous. Don't ever meet him or speak to him again. Go 100% no contact, and none of this will be an issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:29 PM
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First, realize that you do have the power to control the outcome of this. Why does he need to come to your house with the two of you alone? Why not meet in a public place to exchange items. If this is not about exchanging items, don't meet him at all ever again. Do you have a neighbor, relative, or someone who can be there with you? If not, call the police to escort him to get whatever he wants. You're not actually as helpless as you think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:14 PM
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Nope. You're really emotional and triggered about criticism to your faulty argument. If you want to argue about your post with me, PM me, but I won't respond to emotional rants of yours anymore. Good luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 12:22 PM
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You're triggered. Focus on helping yourself and accept criticisms to your faulty arguments. Good luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 11:47 AM
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My point is that you're being ignorant about the condition of women globally and human history to pretend that you don't know why women don't value themselves. That's not derailing. That's the point of this entire subreddit. You're being obtuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 08:34 AM
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This is a point about bodily autonomy and self-respect that is or isn't conditioned into certain populations.......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 04:36 PM
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This is a point about social conditioning, a point which went way over your head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:27 PM
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Of course you are free to do whatever you want regarding your body and healthcare choices, but I will have to respectfully disagree. I..... How can you "disagree" with what I choose to do with my healthcare? It's really not your place. You could have ended your comment there. I'm not reading the rest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:26 PM
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I swear this should be common knowledge though? Consider yourself blessed and privileged. There's no need to reiterate human history in which for more than a millennia girls, women, and children have been treated like chattel, and many women and children still are sex trafficked around the world. You were born knowing you had bodily autonomy? Consider yourself lucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 11:10 AM
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I have nothing to add as you put it so perfectly. I am glad you are safe. Thank goodness you saw the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 08:26 AM
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I know you have been deeply hurt in the past by infidelity, and I hate that I rubbed salt in the wounds. This part is so particularly pathetic and disgusting. This is why it's best to not mention your sexual or relationship past, especially if it involves abuse. Infidelity is abuse. A NVM or LVM will use this as an excuse to assault you worse than before. They think "Oh those other guys left a lasting mark by abusing you? I will leave my mark too!" They are No Value Male Scrotes! Instead of tryi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 08:19 AM
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I read "male gyno" and wanted to barf. When I get medical care, I only want women from the doctor down to the assistants and support staff. Males are sick and typically abuse women's healthcare spaces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 08:05 AM
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If it was me, he would have been blocked a long time ago. He wouldn't even have access to send me bullshit, let alone have the privilege to receive a reply with full sentences and punctuation. I simply don't have the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:43 AM
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And if you give them a taste of their own "honest medicine" they will cry foul and probably do everything they can to get revenge against you. Meanwhile, you're told to just get over it when they do it. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 11:05 AM
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It's pretty clear that they meant that any person of any sex with any body type can have an eating disorder. There are many athletes, even Olympians with eating disorders. You seemed to take that point as a personal attack about feminism which is strange.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 08:42 AM
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Huh? We must always be willing to enforce our boundaries. The difference between a HVM and an L(N)VM is the reaction to someone enforcing boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 12:11 PM
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But see this is why I don't do OLD. The bar is so low, it's in Hell at this point. A simple, non-predatory, non-porn-sick, normal introductory message from a complete stranger, who wants access to the most intimate parts of your being, should not be praiseworthy. It should be the norm. It IS the norm. Yet, OLD makes you feel like decency is scarce, making the collective standard drop, making your standard drop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 12:22 PM
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Try 50 Shades of Grey Greedy Girl Rabbit Vibe. Rechargeable. Powerful. Thank me later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 07:51 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/6ohvm9/me_30_f_with_my_40_m_7_yrs_prenupmarriage_issue/ In this one, OP posted that this gem of a husband was already divorced before and supposedly "the other woman cheated". Hmmm. Me thinks that's a lie that husband made for image management. If he really had been cheated on and devastated, he'd never joking talk about cheating on his second wife, now would he? Op is a Pickmeisha, and she is damn near a lost cause. She's been posting about this t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 07:46 AM
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How much money do you want to bet that he is also porn sick?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 07:30 AM
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Powerful quote from the video at 8:09 " You need to know that backing yourself, does NOT mean lecturing or prescribing to people and trying to get them to “get it”. You can’t make other people “get” anything. The more you try to get people to “get you” the less they will. Only you can “get you”. Then healthy people will follow. "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 12:25 PM
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Lol I can't take his toddler voice seriously. At all. It's funny to see that those PUA idiots are always bald, wimpy, weak scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 01:19 AM
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I would love to date a gamer who games at my level and style. I just don't think it's fair to trash someone for gaming, when people "waste time" doing plenty of pointless tasks during the day. I am not talking about gaming addicts though. Addicts are not date-able nor HVM, no matter what the addiction is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:31 PM
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A lot of people on this sub trash gamers, totally forgetting that many women love gaming. There are more women and ethnically-diverse, game creators now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:15 PM
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If you don't see your space, mind, body, time, and attention as a privilege, then none of this FDS strategy and truth makes sense. Once you realize this truth, the rest is so easy to apply, and the collective conscience is raised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:03 AM
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Can you consider that it's also redirecting women away from focusing on their well-being? Why give scrotes a soapbox? Why even gives posts like this linked below space, attention, and a pedestal?: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFDS/comments/fia7ax/why_do_women_ask_other_women_for_advice_on_men/ Why are we teaching abusers how to hide in plain sight better? https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFDS/comments/fi067p/i_feel_like_i_am_an_hvm_but_i_have_been_on_a/ My point is that if they are HVM, they will be inc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 07:27 AM
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Bettering oneself starts from within. I highly doubt any of the lurkers will change from pressure from the outside. I just realize that I'm better off focusing on my own well-being instead of being a free teacher and psychologist to grown men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 07:22 AM
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Giiirl.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 05:41 PM
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It is disappointing because it feels like we must always make space for men, even though the reverse is hardly reciprocated. Answering male questions instead of focusing on oneself is an FDS way to thrive? Can you really make progress if you're always wondering what the abuser thinks and does?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 01:25 PM
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Is there any chance of having an FDS_Advice subreddit, for women who want FDS relationship advice? I think higher level members should be the only ones allowed to give comments (mods, FDS disciples, and strategists, for example). What do you think? I think FDS_advice could be more women-centric and also educational for any lurkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 12:07 PM
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Unfortunately I don't give a crap what those male lurkers think. If they don't know, they should educate themselves instead of wasting our time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:28 AM
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The same men who cry about "privacy" are typically only crying about their own right to privately keep nudes of unsuspecting women or to privately cheat on their wives/girlfriends. That is not a valid plea for privacy because it directly involves harming someone else in a sometimes criminal, illegal, or contract-defying way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 12:16 PM
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I agree. I think the details of this sound a bit like LVM fantasy too. There is too much tension and the story is long with excessive details, even details that could be identifying for both parties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 12:14 PM
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There really should be an FDS_advice subreddit. This could be a good space for all the newbies and generally confused women like the one in the OP. The only people allowed to give advice would be high ranking members of FDS main subreddit, like disciples, strategists, and mods for example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 12:13 PM
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I love this advice, and I agree with it 100%. I love dating around. It keeps your imagination open for meeting the one for you. Never close off your options. We women are blessed to have many options, and this is the greatest power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:34 PM
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Lack. Of. Empathy. It is what they cannot imagine to give but what they expect from every woman they encounter in real life. There's also a lack of critical thinking from that population, but that's just another point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 06:31 PM
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I'm even kinkier: I want to be treated kindly during sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 09:51 PM
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I would volunteer to mod that sub. There's something quite satisfying about banning scrotes and hurting their little egos I reckon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 08:53 AM
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Maybe it was reported by scrotes. That sub had moderators. So it really doesn't make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:52 PM
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I suggest to make a new one. Titled it AIWAA, instead of having the word "asshole" in the name. I don't know why it supposedly broke "reddit rules", yet r/gonewild and all the other porn sub reddits which may or may not contain minors are alive and well. Go figure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:49 PM
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Huh? You just know certain scrotes on reddit attacked that forum. They have a strong interest in not being outed. That's why they hate this subreddit so much because every single day, women are waking up to their bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:43 PM
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The problem is that you are not the teacher of grown men. It is not your duty, nor responsibility. Actually such a service should be compensated, never ever free for men. If he is a grown adult and can't self-reflect, your little message with not change him. He needs to do the inner work. The work can never happen from the outside. If you want to guide someone to do inner work, become a therapist and get paid adequately for your services. No more handouts to these emotional vampires who just tak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:21 AM
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Good for you!! The truth is that they know what they're doing. They know it's wrong. They know it's inconsiderate. Never ever give them the benefit of the doubt. And if they are old enough to buy drinks and they don't know better, they are as dumb as a sack of bricks and have no home training, education, or class. Either way, dump them. Block and delete. RUN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:18 AM
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I've noticed that the men who stoop to this level are disproportionately short. I'm talking shorter than 6 ft almost always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:10 AM
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Some really *do* want to be treated this way. It's a new "kink". He's also probably wearing a diaper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 07:24 PM
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I definitely agree that policies like women's access to healthcare are more supported by liberal and Democratic politicians. Yet, Elizabeth Warren also supports the trans agenda that harms women in many ways. I am hoping for a Democratic conservative candidate personally. A lot of the Democrats are adopting what they think is trending in libfem politics, but libfem is awful in the long-run for women. I actually feel conservative compared to what is trending in libfem politics these days because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 12:27 PM
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Thank you for posting this. It's interesting to see that it's predominantly southern states that have identified this issue. It's like the so-called "liberal" states don't actually give a damn about the rights of girls and women who are often trafficked into porn or coerced to fulfill rape scenes that their male "partners" (read: non-paying Johns) have seen in porn. Interesting. This is why I'm starting to move away from the liberal political agenda. Elizabeth Warren is a perfect example of libe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 10:25 AM
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Lmao! Sis, whet? Where did you get this information? I know he has admitted to dogging a woman out in his younger years, but I also had a suspicion that he knows so much about shitty men because he could secretly be one. I never put it past men to do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 11:23 AM
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I teared up reading this story. Wow. I am so glad you have this support from your stepfather and your mother. It's really beautiful to have and to hear about. Thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 09:13 AM
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I am tempted to blame mothers, but if you ask "where are their fathers?" you will get the answer. A woman can only teach a boy/man so much. Men need to learn from their fathers and great grandfathers how to be masculine and how to provide for a family or community.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:25 PM
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Yep. I've seen a girl where her boyfriend is jobless, not in school, an "aspiring actor". Meanwhile she is in school, though without a job. Their respective mothers are paying the bills, of course. The guy is 30. He has the nerve to openly brag about staring at other women in front of his girlfriend. It's his "right" and "is natural", he says. Meanwhile his mother is coaching her 30 y.o. son's girlfriend on how to cook his favorite meals. It's sick! This guy has the maturity of a damn toddler. Y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:53 AM
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There is something to be said about latin cultures with the mammoni mentality for sure. It's a recipe for disaster. The older Italian men still follow FDS principles (60+). It's the age group between 18-45 that women have to worry about, which is likely why the birth rate in Italy is so low. These males are not providers, IMO. They can't hustle and find jobs. They expect their longtime girlfriends to live with them and even have babies without marriage these days. They are entitled to husband pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:42 AM
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Wow thanks for sharing this video! It was really interesting to hear the Russian women's perspective. The man interviewing them is ridiculous and sounds gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:21 AM
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Hmmm with the mammoni culture in Italy, I don't think they believe in FDS collectively. Italian women do practice hypergamy often openly, but they also are into Pick Me culture too. A lot of grown Italian men (age 30+) have Peter Pan syndrome and are treated like babies by their mothers. Women in Italy either drink the mammoni culture cool-aid as Pick Mes, use hypergamy openly, or don't date at all. My experience with east Asians is that they for sure 100% believe in FDS principles. I have a fri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:39 AM
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Cheaters cheat. Of course people have physical preferences, but we're talking about a LVM if he can gaslight you into a relationship only to say you're not good enough for him , while also feeling entitled to the benefits of being with you. It's a subtle cue to make you do the pick me dance. That sounds like a cheater, LVM, and/or a narc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:01 AM
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Sis, we're not writing paragraphs anymore in 2020. Block and Delete. It's a lifestyle. It's a philosophy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:13 PM
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When you wrote "devil dick" I screamed. Can we call the opposite "shrimp dick"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 10:25 AM
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And this is how they ruin our careers. I experienced the worst sexual harassment and mobbing of my life when I moved to my current country. I was the youngest person and only woman on a team of 30+ men, average age was 45. It was hell on Earth. I did report it, but what's the point? The psychological abuse is not fucking worth it. I pray for that girl because what he is doing is mobbing, and it's abuse. It's evil. It's intentional. He and the others will do everything they can to push her out, c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:04 AM
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May I ask then, what is a healthy level of sexual interest from a guy? Now we have to be suspect about the men who want to wait for sex too.... Ugh, this is why I'm not even dating anymore. I am just going to let Mr. Right fall in my lap through divine intervention, god's will, whatever you want to call it. I can't take the bullshit and fuckery anymore. I don't have the strategy nor energy to filter out and sift through brigades of limp dick. I refuse to do OLD for this exact reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 12:29 AM
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Damn, woman. I like your style. I feel like I need to sign up for a seminar of yours. I could listen to you explain strategy all day. I am taking notes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:03 PM
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I clicked on that link about the limp dick condition, and I want to vomit. Eeeeew!! If they break their own dicks, they won't be able to procreate. A win for society, I say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:56 PM
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It doesn't work that way in your little brain. For the rest of us, we judge art starting with who created it and why. Get lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:55 PM
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The fact that he's sexualizing his own daughter's vagina..... I wish you'd expose who this is. He is "Christian" too *vomit*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:18 AM
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The artist does not separate themselves from their art. So why would any smart person do such? If you want to support pedos and rapists, go right ahead. We won't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:58 AM
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Does anyone else think that the premise of this show is disappointing? It commodifies wives and mothers. Just swap them out like a pair of shoes. Yet, it also acknowledges how women are actually the heads of the household in terms of setting the standard, finances, and culture but without the respect they'd have for doing the exact same work if they were men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:53 PM
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I really hate having to explain the obvious here. I'm not going to argue about it. Only a doctor who has done a medical examination can know if a patient is eligible for non-emergency surgeries by examining medical history, blood work, etc. Asking for anecdotal experiences is different than literally asking a group of strangers online "should I do this non-emergency surgery?". It's immature at best and possibly psychologically disturbed at worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:32 PM
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Do you guys think I should do this? You are too immature to do this if you think reddit is better than going to a medical doctor with this question. Go to a doctor, also a psychiatrist if necessary. Is abstinence not an option for you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:06 PM
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I think that either males or Pick Mes are writing these articles. Some of the stuff there is so gross and cringey. This is why I am grateful everyday that FDS exists. There is a lot of anti-women propaganda out there right now, but people are starting to wake up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:37 AM
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Are you kidding? Yes we should judge something by who created it. I personally won't watch content made by Hollywood rapists and pedophiles. They always put their sick subliminal messages and dehumanizing undertones in there. People should judge content starting with who created it, taking note of what agenda and mindset this person has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:35 PM
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Lol and don't forget the "PoRn iS EmPoWeRiNg" folks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:37 PM
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This is why you should always be willing and able to leave. I don't care if he shows his true colors one week after the wedding or after 30 years. Be ready to get what's yours and go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:11 AM
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Liberal feminism is why women think doing degrading, self-deprecating, dangerous, and disgusting sex acts to get attention from males is "empowering". They have literally drank the misogynist's cool-aid. When their lives blow up from this bullshit "empowerment" they will crawl back to FDS with their white flag. Don't mind them Jammies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:00 AM
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Lawrence is a handsome man for his age! I am so happy for them. He is really the definition of a good man. He knew what he wanted and went for it with no hesitation. I am so glad she is finally getting treated like she deserves. That vacation in Hawaii looks amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:38 PM
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Thank you for posting this. It's a really interesting episode. When he says that he "can't remember" it's a lie to avoid accountability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:28 PM
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I am sending big hugs and so much support your way. I hope you get the peace and resolution that you deserve. Thank you for sharing this message. I hear it loud and clear. There are so many of us here who share eerily similar stories about being with abusive people. You are not alone. We believe you. We know you are speaking truth. This post will help so many realize their truth too. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:23 AM
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Dear god. This is horrifying. I don't recommend OLD to anyone. It is totally unnatural. It puts vulnerable women in contact with males that they would never ever meet, know, or see in real life. The amount of trash that someone must sift through on OLD is unreal. You haven't met these people in real life because they don't belong in your real life. Forcing connections like this is the perfect way to meet psychopaths, criminals, and cluster Bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 10:21 AM
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LMAO! Drag him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 03:22 PM
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But why do y'all even entertain them? I'm seriously just asking. I encourage women not to do this. Protect your mind, eyes, and ears from abuse. This is not cute nor funny. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 11:03 AM
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The last guy I dated was in a wheelchair, and 90% of the time, would wheel way ahead of me. Sis, even in a wheelchair? Lord....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 09:28 AM
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She can use Google translate. Please share FDS with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:22 PM
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*hugs* Don't worry it takes time to first uncondition ourselves away from self-sacrifice and condition ourselves towards self-love, self-respect, and self-preservation, putting our own needs first. You did the right thing. His reaction showed that he really doesn't give a damn how you feel. I am ready Lundy Bancroft's Why Does He Do That?, and it explains so much about these types of males. Bancroft says something all of them have is: they don't care how you feel. As soon as they show this chara…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:28 PM
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Honestly I extend this logic to male "friends" and acquaintances (if you still are optimistic enough to keep those around). Men have such little emotional self-regulation that they seek favors, warmth, and comfort--not reciprocated, of course-- from all women around them, the woman cashier at the grocery store, their female medical practitioners, their female family members, their female teachers. Any and all women are expected to dole out sweetness, kindness, generosity, empathy, advice, motiva…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:53 AM
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Thank goodness! I am glad you spoke up and set your boundaries. I hope all is well and that you are healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 07:33 AM
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If this is how he is after a week. Can you imagine a month, a year in? After marriage? After kids? He sounds porn sick too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 05:19 PM
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Look around your city and community. What do the HVM in that area do for Valentine's Day? Don't use the old trope that German guys are emotionless as an excuse for him. What do your HVW friends do on Valentine's Day? It is predominantly a recognized holiday in the western world. The first sign that he's not acting right is that you are confused. He would have told you weeks ago if he really wasn't into Valentine's Day. In any case, the main thing to focus on is what do YOU want on Valentine's Da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 03:07 PM
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One of the things I love most about FDS is that it supports women uplifting each other against abuse and devaluing. That's why so many scrotes are scared! "They" are used to dividing women and turning women against each other. When we are united, we are unstoppable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 12:57 PM
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I am so, so proud of you! Thank you for sharing the podcast information. I will definitely check it out. This is a beautiful and liberating place to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 11:22 AM
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Nope. They are still together. There are a lot of weird things about this guy and this couple, including them pressuring their young son to transition to female for social media attention. This is Union's step-son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 10:06 AM
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"You deserve everything in the world and I probably can't give it to you but I damn sure will try." I can't offer anything of value to your life, but I still feel entitled to your time and energy. Please pay attention to me. I need supply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:11 AM
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LOL! I immediately thought of Joe on the series "You".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 08:20 AM
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This was really good dialogue. So thanks for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 09:21 PM
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This honestly makes me feel more empowered to dump and shame scrotes who use porn. They actually know that it's depraved, but they're hoping that we won't realize it and act on it. It's time to start acting on their depravity, just like you did. Kick them out. Dump them. Run. Divorce them. Shame them. Stay away from them. Don't support their businesses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:56 PM
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Males are getting addicted to porn by age 12? What in the hell? The world needs FDS now more than ever. The next generation of girls need to know to run from these depraved boys. Also, perhaps I'd report that child to the teacher, principle, or even child protective services. You are doing a wonderful job as a mother by keeping communication open with your child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 11:46 AM
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Do not second guess yourself whatsoever! Your inner warnings signals went off loudly for a damn good reason. His behavior freaks your out because it is creepy and depraved. I think you may be wondering if you will meet an actual good guy, wondering if maybe you can settle with a pornsick pervert. The answer is YES you will meet an actual good, healthy man because they exist, and NO it will never be worth it to settle for a pornsicko. The emotional distress this is already causing you is enough t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:44 AM
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Your post got brigaded by a bunch of pornsick psychopaths. Don't worry. They are impotent and intimidated. They can only hide in the shadows with their depravity. They know they would be jailed or killed in some states for their behavior. They are the bottom of the barrel. It just shows you what mentality porn is really about. It just shows you that porn is not some benign thing. It is attracting degenerates, and it's training them to be impotent, violent, pedo, psychopaths. If I see that a guy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:07 AM
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Thank you! I also notice patterns looking back on porn sickos I've met. I can say 100% of the bald ones were sickos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 07:00 PM
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I should have known because he had the porn sickness tell: early male pattern balding. Can we talk about this? I didn't know it causes balding too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:17 PM
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For him to be looking at that before the date is so utterly disgusting. You did well by just walking out. These "men" don't bond. None of the time you waste on them is sacred or meaningful to them. In fact, I think he was love-bombing you with all of his seemingly generous favors. I would bet he has even more skeletons in his closets, and you just found one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:01 PM
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This is why I recently cut off all male "friends". If they are not using you for free therapy--of which they have neither the maturity, empathy, nor self-reflection to reciprocate-- they want sex. I actually feel sorry for those women (read: pickmeisha, cool girls) who claim they just can't seem to get along with other women and girls because their female peers are "oh so jealous of them".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 10:14 AM
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It’s sad that something like not wearing makeup is an act of rebellion but we should never have been pressured to wear it in the first place. Check out who profits from the makeup industry. I always wonder why supposedly pro-women circles never address this issue about makeup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 05:32 PM
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This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 04:39 PM
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I love this subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 04:37 PM
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And yet the only time in my life I've ever caught an STD it was from a "monogamous" husband who turned out not to be as monogamous as I was. Exactly. Sleeping with multiple partners = increased risk of STIs. Condoms don't prevent against diseases transmitted from skin to skin contact, like HPV. Plus, are people using condoms for oral sex? Dental dams? You can get many STIs from kissing. HPV, gonorrhea, and chlamydia can also appear in the throat. Who wants to get tested multiple times a year? Wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 04:33 PM
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This sounds good in theory, but with the reality of incurable STIs like HPV, HSV 1 and 2, HIV, and others, I don't think increasing my exposure to disease is worth an orgasm. Monogamy is really important for sexual health. I also think HVM don't want to risk getting diseases either. HPV causes cancer, and most clinics are not testing men for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 11:18 AM
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The fix? Dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 06:04 AM
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Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 10:38 AM
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Thank you for this. It's very well written. Personally, I hate OLD. It's full of perverts. I get approached by men in person almost daily. So I really just need to decide if I want to be receptive or not. Usually I don't want anyone flirting with me when I go about my day, but some days, I actively decide that I am open to it. I don't have to change anything really. I just make more eye contact and men feel much more inclined to approach me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 08:28 PM
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Even if he does know her, he deserves to get beaten much worse for doing that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 07:46 AM
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Lol I love this little drawing. My ex husband skipped off to do god knows what, and I filled for divorce on his ass and walked away. I went 100% no contact, no social media, nothing. Four months later when we had to meet for the court appointment, he was crying like a little baby! In front of everyone. The real tea is that he only feels sorry for himself. He doesn't feel sorry for how he treated you or for what he did that caused you harm. He feels sorry for himself that consequences have arrive…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 07:37 AM
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Tell him "I want to get to know you." It's the truth. If he asks for specifics, say that it's better to take your time, get to know each other, and see where it goes. Give boundaries on this answer because some men will find out what you want to hear and say exactly that just to get sex and/or control. You may even accidentally cue to an insecurity you have when saying what you want. Never ever tell them what you're looking for. If he wants something ( a relationship, a friendship, a date), let …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 07:58 PM
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•The date is HIS interview and HIS time to be a pickme. “Pickme, I will be a good provider! Pickme, I will support you in all aspects of your life! Pickme, I will never be an emotionally abusive asshat to you! Pickme, I will listen intently to your goals, dreams and opinions” I caution anyone reading this to watch out for love bombing. Don't tell him what you're looking for. Let him show you who he is. He should want to be chosen, but pickme men are usually covert narcs looking for a new host. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 05:23 PM
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I have so many memories of my 5th grade art teacher playing Enya constantly!!! I used to paint really well back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:09 AM
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Same.... I feel like I'm their mommies, and it's a huge turn off. He has to at least be my equal. I was pursued by a guy who was pretending to be 21, but he really looked 19/20. I am mid twenties, but it still felt weird. He has to at least pay his own bills without his mommy's help, so that is about 24+ minimum for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:31 AM
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I had the exact same experience. They are sociopaths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:12 AM
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Thanks for sharing. I agree and am now focusing on finding female teachers only. The "guru" model never sat well with me either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 12:57 PM
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Fair enough. It's meant to focus on bodily autonomy and consent, which I think can fit into this subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 12:55 PM
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I see what you mean. Though I believe that having a sister and actually being close to that sister are not the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 10:29 AM
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Hot where? I can land a plane on his forehead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 10:07 AM
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Getting married to soon isn't a good thing with covert narcs out there. Once codependence is healed, it's not a matter of if they like you, but if you like them. There's no way to know someone's character in a short time. It's love bombing or desperate codependence to believe so. Also George Clooney was a player for decades, likely cheated on his first wife, now got wife number two pregnant in a few years. They are already living apart. Covert abusers use the "fairytale" future-faking to snag a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 10:59 PM
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I read a little bit in the subreddit that this is cross posted to r/loveafterporn I feel so sad after what I read in there. Women don't speak up about how uncomfortable it makes them that their partner is aroused by torture, coercion, abuse, and sexual violence. That their depraved addition (porn) is seen as something they mustn't "judge". How disconnected one must be to detach from their natural disgust at their partner's porn depravity. I can't wait until the collective consciousness raises so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 07:20 PM
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Bingo! An entire generation of males are porn sick and think violence is "sexy". Chocking, slapping, spitting, torturing, humiliating is "sexy" to a huge chunk of men. It's scary, and I really pray for young women are girls out there, especially those who don't know the truth. It not surprising males would take something so beautiful and turn it into another sick weapon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 04:04 PM
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Yeah, I wouldn't include all engineers I didn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 03:44 PM
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See the qualification. Civil and especially environmental are quite different. It also depends on which country you are discussing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 03:04 PM
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It may depend on the country, but engineers can sometimes think they are gods. They "create everything", see. They are the only creatives that create things worth any validation or merit. Also, they are Oh So Smart. They know everything, and so an engineer that specializes in, say, air compressors, is such a genius that he knows about engineering, say, airplanes and rockets too. He knows how to build everything important to society because he is an engineer. Your tiny little degree is nothing to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 03:01 PM
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I think porn has really done a number on society. After dealing with so much abuse from men, I feel sick when I think about sex. I used to be quite a sensuous person. Now I feel disgusted when I think about having sex with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 02:57 PM
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Is it just me or are those guy's eyes super creepy? Morgan sounds so desperate, like a good new target. The guy seems like a covert narc. I've never heard of this show. So is it the point that couples go on here to start an open relationship? What the actual fuck? There is so much love bombing in this. This is soooooooo creepy. Society is so trash for promoting this codependent crap. Why would any woman want a man who overlaps his relationships? Why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 02:45 PM
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Military. Law Enforcement. Lawyers. Mechanical/Material Science/Computer Science Engineers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 02:37 PM
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That's a good point. Honestly, I wouldn't be too quick to say those other guys are "great" either. Op basically orchestrated the entire thing. I would say OP is the one deserving of praise for doing what's right. Too often we project our own good morals onto others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 12:13 PM
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they will accept advances from the above described men because of their sweeteness and naivety and their non-confrontational personality. This part here seems to imply there is a lack of agency in choosing to just walk away and deescalate a potentially dangerous situation. It almost sounds like you are implying it's always wrong not to confront these types of people, and I just want to point out that this is not true. Those girls/women who you think can't stand up for themselves by making a diff…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 05:49 PM
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I hear you on this, but instead of shaming meek girls, we should empower them. Some women say nothing because their safety is at risk for calling out these entitled pervs. I live in a country where I am harassed every single day, propositioned for sex by perverts constantly. If I were to be confrontational with these idiots every single time: 1) It would negatively impact my health by raising my blood pressure, 2) Some of these freaks could actually be psychopaths or narcissists and try to harm …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 12:55 PM
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I am so, so proud of you. *hugs* Please take care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 12:45 PM
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My first time in this sub, and I think I stumbled upon the Garden of Eden. This was articulated so perfectly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 12:01 PM
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