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| 7 | He’s never going to change for you- The mentality of the LVMThank you for reminding us all sis ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:25 PM |
| 7 | He was being pushy, so I blocked him.Lol he tried it Glad you blocked his ass. Leave these losers sexless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 03:19 AM |
| 19 | PSA: Stop going on PPD. You have nothing to gainI never go on there but agree. Although, I like it because it gives fds more content. I usually just go on the manosphere to learn about their shady tactics and stupid games so I can warn the ladies here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 02:44 AM |
| 18 | Male “dating coaches” for womenI think the whole issue is...they're not a woman. They can only give us the male perspective. I think some of them mean well. I think some of them know they can capitalize and make money off of women, too. And some even make money off of the men like AMS. At the end of the day, they just want a loyal fanbase to make money off of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 12:51 AM |
| 5 | Myth: Beautiful Women Don’t Need A Dating StrategyThose women are just props for their ego, they'll monkey branch once they think they've found someone more attractive then do the same to her. I think what we women have to understand is women are disposable to some of these men. They aren't even viewed as human beings, just objects. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 10:35 PM |
| 63 | If the shoe was on the other foot, would your man be accepting of it?That's true. You make one mistake and they'll throw you out the door. If only women had that energy... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 10:06 AM |
| 20 | How are you ladies screening guys when there is a quarantine?Dating is completely off the table. Right now, IMHO, is NOT the right time to date unless you're looking for Netflix and chill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 07:21 AM |
| 3 | Just wanted to share some porn statistics. Majority of males watch porn, and girls never feel enough sexually for the boys. Also 88% of porn has violence. Relationships are fucked up...That's so true, I hate when they say that shit. They're so uneducated or being purposely deaf so they can place the blame on the woman instead of their shrimp dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 07:04 AM |
| 10 | Look out for what he says about your spendingIf it's YOUR money, he has no right to tell you what you should do with it. Period. If it's both of you, then both should come to an agreement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 07:02 AM |
| 51 | Myth: Beautiful Women Don’t Need A Dating StrategyAgreed. One of the things I hate so much on here is the fact people are putting physical attraction at the absolute top. Like, do you know that Adriana Lima was cheated on? Or do you see the way Melania Trump gets treated by her husband? Or the supposed way the most ig models get sent to Dubai to perform inhuman sex acts? Pretty women that get strung along for years being the forever gf. Yeah people are giving you a free pass for certain things, you may get certain privileges. But at the end of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 02:01 AM |
| 3 | "The male domestic abuser is a psychephile - a sexual offender."We need more articles like this. Thank you for posting btw ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 02:56 AM |
| 8 | How he sets you up, targets you, and grooms youLove it, need more reading material on this sub. Thanks for the info! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 02:07 AM |
| 11 | “I’m the coolest girl in the world got some spare cool-girl-validation-coins, Sir? 🥺”If the shoe was on the other foot, her man wouldn't be accepting of it. I guarantee it. She's a dumb pick me but I hope she wakes up soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 02:05 AM |
| 28 | Some FDS press again over on Unpopularopinion 🙄🙄🙄This shit gets annoying and whiny as fuck. Literally every single week they circlejerk this damn topic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 05:47 AM |
| 85 | Inside the mind of LVM.His ego made it all about him. A lot of these guys use the woman as a prop for their ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 05:46 AM |
| 19 | Victim of love bombingWell, the thing is, narcissists are VERY go get it, nothing to fear, very competitive. I've found they will try quickly to love bomb and isolate you away from other men. So, that could easily be mistaken for him wanting you badly... They put themselves in a leading position. So if you're like me, passive and receptive, codependent and needs to part of a duo, then you go together like black and white. But it's very unhealthy. Try to look up "why love bombing works on empaths" if you consider your… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Don't even know where to startGross wtf 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 11:15 PM |
| 38 | Are these men for real?Ego boost? He sounds like a cluster b personality disordered male, the commitment issues confirm that as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 04:31 AM |
| 10 | Men are co-opting FDS principles and it's concerningThis is the most effeminate shit a "straight" man could do. Every male in the animal kingdom seeks to impress the female, not the other way around. Peacocks have their plumage, mallards are brightly colored, lions have great manes, Betta fish are bright and they still fight each other over a female. Female is the prize, not the male. Our species is evolving in reverse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 03:53 AM |
| 34 | If lying to women is normal to you there’s something seriously wrong with you. If you brag about tricking women, you’re a disgusting excuse for a ‘man.’ You males need a life outside of porn and penis (LOPP).Sickening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 01:50 AM |
| 6 | The four stages of falling in love with a LVM 🤣I feel the clown part especially 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 01:48 AM |
| 5 | Apparently, men paying for women makes them escorts. Smh.The truth of this post .....I completely agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 01:45 AM |
| 7 | He'll pay for nudes, cam shows, twitch girls but doesn't want to pay for a proper dateI actually made this post because (long before fds) I met this guy at work. Seemed like a nice guy. Asked me to the movies (I don't do movies, that's not a proper date) I suggested elsewhere. Things didn't go as planned but I suspect he was hinting at me paying my share but he ultimately paid it all himself. Then I was searching through his social media, he has twitch girls on there. Don't know for a fact if he pays them but if he has the audacity to want to pay someone he doesn't even know mone… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 01:48 AM |
| 10 | This is a numbers game to men.Dead serious, I've seen some fugly men on my FB with decent looking baby mothers and they look like a toe. I can't believe some of these women sleep with them, idk how they get turned on by them 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Be the plate that smashedI think this thread may be one of the most important ones here on fds. This is wiki material not just from the op but the comments are 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 02:39 AM |
| 47 | Pandemic and old dates coming out of the wood workYes! Don't EVER allow old flames, exes, hookups, etc. Access back into your life. Not even under the guise of "friends". They just want to keep their foot in the door so they can use you whenever they want for whatever they need. Fuck that, block them and be DONE. Life is more peaceful that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 12:58 AM |
| 19 | This is a numbers game to men.Exactly!!! This should be pinned forever on this sub. Unpaid validation doesn't mean shit, not now or ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 12:38 AM |
| 79 | He'll pay for nudes, cam shows, twitch girls but doesn't want to pay for a proper dateThey want to get away with paying the least amount possible. They can miss me with that BS, nobody owes them shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 06:09 PM |
| 4 | I don’t trust men who glorify ‘low maintenance’ women who ‘don’t ask for much’. They just want a woman they can put in as little effort as possible for, who will be excited over the tiniest bare minimum things they do for her because she doesn’t know any better and doesn’t value herself enoughThe truth sis 👏👏👏 Having standards is the only way to go | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 06:04 PM |
| 42 | What’s with the obsession with splitting everything 50/50?I could never. The thing is the men advocating and agreeing with 50/50 are manipulative and leeches. In certain cases, I'm sure the woman is actually giving more than 50% They don't have the financial means, security, education or class to be a high value man. So they have to leech off and use a woman for her half. These men are greedy nowadays. They want sex fast, they want you to pay half, they expect you to be ok with being sexually abused, they expect you to be a mom, porn star, therapist wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Disgusting meme on the frontpage. Most commenters acting like this is the most normal and funniest shit. I'm scared for so many women out there. Stay safe, beware of red flags and learn some self defense techniques, it might sadly prove useful, "consent" or not.I see these kind of memes on FB all of the time. Some are even worse. Sad that we live in a day and age where this is widely socially acceptable and expected :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 05:41 PM |
| 3 | The lack of boundaries in today's society is concerning....You're ever so welcome 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 12:03 AM |
| 8 | The lack of boundaries in today's society is concerning....Ugh, so true. Perversion everywhere. No more time and place for it...it's shoved in your face whether you've asked for it or not. Poor children having to grow up confused, I was raised just before all of this madness started popping up. It's getting very ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 11:01 PM |
| 4 | The lack of boundaries in today's society is concerning....Agreed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 11:00 PM |
| 1 | The lack of boundaries in today's society is concerning....From what I've heard in some places 🤷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 10:59 PM |
| 9 | I hate porn and sex worker pickmeishasExactly. So many pickmeishas everywhere. They defend it like agent Smith from the matrix. It's become the "cool" thing, woke, open minded libfem garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 07:19 PM |
| 6 | I hate porn and sex worker pickmeishasI can't defend the stance that at this day and age, sex work is the only work available. At least in America. Men are responsible and so are a lot of the women that enter it in the first place. I'm blaming both, both are needed in cohesion in order to work. I have many posts dedicated to men and their depravity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 07:13 PM |
| 2 | I hate porn and sex worker pickmeishasYou make very good points and I totally agree! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 06:38 PM |
| 7 | Whose blocking and deleting game gotten better?No more clowns, bye bye 💁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Whose blocking and deleting game gotten better?So true 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 06:33 PM |
| 7 | I hate porn and sex worker pickmeishasWe can agree to disagree. Anyone that fuels that industry is no different in my eyes, sorry. I hope they wake up to this society's degradation though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 10:20 AM |
| 12 | Petition to shut down pornhub at almost 700,000, let’s get it to 1000000!Signed. Please take down that trash heap and take the others down with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 01:47 AM |
| 4 | Pornhub exploiting the COVID-19 crisis for PR and offering free premium memberships in order to further the destruction of the minds of the populaceThis is exactly what I was thinking. I love this post and someone needs to write an article on this topic so we can share it and make everyone more aware of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 12:00 AM |
| 23 | Why do some men seem to bond over how poorly they can treat women sexually/romantically?My theory is they live vicariously through eachother- LVM do, at least- because they're either misogynists or they've been hurt by women in their past. Especially if they actually like to be cruel, sadistic and have some sort of control over women. A good, decent, kind hearted man doesn't have this within him. The only ones that do have a seething rage for women or they're hurt. A lot of men don't have control over their lives, they lack it. So, one thing they can control is their treatment of w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 01:44 AM |
| 14 | I finally blocked a guy that's been trying to contact me over the years...Thank you ❤️ I definitely do see my worth now, I will never allow him access into my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 04:01 PM |
| 25 | Please think of your future children's lives...Exactly. Children are just innocent victims. They have the right to be their own person and not projections and punching bags for the parents. Even worse if both parents are disordered...nightmare in the making. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 08:31 PM |
| 4 | "I want to marry my best friend"...when the promise is the opposite of the actionLmfaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 04:43 PM |
| 11 | "I want to marry my best friend"...when the promise is the opposite of the actionExactly. But you can clearly see his actions and words weren't matching ...he was just saying and rushing things to get what he wants. Most of these dudes aren't interested in being an actual, true friend. They are interested in either sex or romance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 04:40 PM |
| 6 | This Hoover attempt can’t be sincere, right? Word jumble has me all kinds of confused...They're re-idealizing their old supply when they don't have current supply. After they're done getting supply from their ol' reliable supply, same shit is gonna happen again. It's predictable. Once they devalue you again, get ready for more abuse and to be discarded I grew up in a dysfunctional, narcissistic household. The amount of pain and anguish one has to go through...I was the scapegoat. My sibling is the Golden child. These narcs make horrible parents. You exist ONLY as an extension of TH… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 02:36 PM |
| 3 | This Hoover attempt can’t be sincere, right? Word jumble has me all kinds of confused...This person will NEVER change. It's just a cycle of abuse (of course he's going to pop back up- that's what narcs do) Cut him off EVERYTHING- or suffer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Don’t Compete With Other Girls For A ManIm glad you didn't allow yourself to be triangulated. I was once in your shoes desperate for the guy...it backfired. I should have walked away immediately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 03:54 PM |
| 10 | getting so tired of guys losing interest so quicklyI find this is common nowadays. The MAJORITY of these men do not want a loving relationship. And OLD is a hunting ground for free/cheap sex for these guys. They get one woman and BOOM, onto the next! The attention span for many men is super low. If they know they aren't gonna get sex from you, they just won't bother beyond a certain point. That's the culture. It's run through a bunch of women with no remorse or care, like an automaton. They are slaves to their primal desires. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 03:46 PM |
| 4 | Men who ask for commitment too early are as dangerous as those who refuse commitmentThis same exact shit happen to me...ladies you better listen up. Whether he wants commitment too early or no commitment at all...walk away. It's a headache no matter which way you put it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: Male sexual attention is not a compliment, and you should not make receiving it a priority.Hi OP, I agree with your message & gave you silver because I cant afford gold lol. But this message is super important. I would rather be respected than gawked and leered at and vying for male attention. Male attention is absolutely nothing special and is overly abundant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: Male sexual attention is not a compliment, and you should not make receiving it a priority.The truth of this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 03:05 PM |
| 4 | Reminder: Male sexual attention is not a compliment, and you should not make receiving it a priority.Hi OP, I agree with your message & gave you silver because I cant afford gold lol. But this message is super important. I would rather be respected than gawked and leered at and vying for male attention. Male attention is absolutely nothing special and is overly abundant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Husband has a porn collection of one of his studentsThis shit had me SHOOK. Like I don't even know how I would respond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 05:45 PM |
| 16 | Do you accept date offers for walk ?As a woman, no. I've invited a guy to hang out by a park near my house but only because he's not allowed to come to my place and we don't drive. And I told him we should meet in public first anyways. It's low effort and plus, it's easy access for a potential rapist, especially if the park is big and/or isolated. If you were in NYC and at Central Park, I would say yes but in most cases, no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Dont even trust compliments/flattery from menWell I don't really care, I'm not you, so think whatever you want 🤷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 03:51 PM |
| 8 | Dont even trust compliments/flattery from menYeah, that's straight up sociopathic. Definitely be on the lookout for that. They want someone they view as "easy prey", that's why I advise everyone to be confident, up their self esteem and self worth. Don't be afraid to defend yourself when some asshole negs or disrespects you. Make them feel like they can't fuck with you and they'll probably move on to someone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 04:40 AM |
| 24 | Dont even trust compliments/flattery from menIt's true. It's not only a business move but a lot of men tend to play up women's vanity and/or insecurity (via negging.) That's why I always say, you should think of yourself as beautiful & never take external validation or invalidation to heart. Because people have their own agendas. What someone sees as charming or nice can be low-key manipulation or something else. And sometimes these businesses give deals to keep customers coming back & loyal. Especially to women, be careful around salespeo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 12:00 AM |
| 42 | Dont even trust compliments/flattery from menRight? They ALWAYS have an agenda. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 09:05 PM |
| 25 | FDS is NOT and will NEVER BE anything like The RedPill or MGTOW, and we are NOT incels. They’re playing tiddly-winks and we’re playing expert level chess.Your comment is so precise. Men are honestly demonic in my eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 08:27 PM |
| 7 | I can't even. I'm good enough to fuck but not date wtfHonestly op, this dude is way too ugly and has a gigantic ego. I'm sure you are probably out of his league. They just want their cake & take no responsibility. I agree with every one of your comments as I feel that the only guys I get are like the guy you were talking too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 02:48 PM |
| 3 | I can't even. I'm good enough to fuck but not date wtfI agree with you and op. It feels hopeless. Like trying to find a needle in a haystack, they're all shitty :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 02:45 PM |
| 6 | I can't even. I'm good enough to fuck but not date wtfI'm in my 20s and I feel the EXACT same way you do. A good man doesn't exist in my world. I've only been treated like crap and find guys just like the guy in your messages all of the time. I'm so sick of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 02:44 PM |
| 32 | Is There A Way To Tell If A Guy Is Going To Pay Before Going On A Date?Omfg that is SO rude. This isn't even a dating matter, it's a common respect & courtesy matter. Honestly, I think you should have just left with whatever you ordered and told him off before you left. That's what I would have done. Or at the very least, just leave his stingy ass there. He can't afford at least a $5 coffee or something ? That's fucking rude. To answer your other question, I don't think anyone knows 100% whether the man will pay. Every guy that I've ever dated or spoken to on a rom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 11:47 PM |
| 32 | "Just Because He Chases You Doesn't Mean He Wants You !" So many truth bombs in this video!Freaking facts 💯 no lies told in your post. They will do anything for it but then don't care after | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 11:32 PM |
| 7 | Don't willingly choose a man that responds to being ignored!You're welcome! My sister is going through the same thing. The guy she's talking to doesn't reply or message for days but if he does, she replies immediately while he keeps her waiting for hours/days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 09:32 PM |
| 2 | How do you women feel about uncircumcised penises?Ive only had one uncircumcised guy my whole life and it was disgusting. The only Latino I've ever been with (I'm Hispanic myself) and I've only been with white men and all of them were circumsized which is definitely my preference. I've noticed none of the other guys I've been with EVER smelled bad except the uncircumsized guy. Uncut also looks very unattractive to me, reminds me of a dog's penis or something I would get my son circumsized. There's not a question about that. And I'm also America… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 11:29 PM |
| 21 | LVM - Customer StyleYou see the true nature of a man when you have to deal with the general pop, as in career wise. So many of them are married, old, taken and are the same. Rarely will any of them gush over their wife. It's always complain | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 01:21 AM |
| – | I'm starting to worry about the future of this subCalling out bad male behavior isn't bashing men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 12:54 AM |
| – | I'm starting to worry about the future of this subYou are 100% right. I'm honestly, kind of sick of the memes. I mean, CERTAIN images are ok. But they're very low effort compared to the strategies posted, the long posts that are very helpful, the psychological ones, etc. In tired of seeing memes being upvoted to have 1k likes while detailed and helpful posts barely have half of that. Even other subs always bring up the fact that fds' top posts are LITERALLY all memes...I get they're easy to look at but very low effort. This sub should be more i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 12:46 AM |
| 15 | Men act single even if they have a gf or are marriedI said that in the second paragraph. And nobody is forced to settle for shitty men but let's not pretend like the majority of men out there are hvm. I've seen men that show off their wife all over their social media but still add 100+ women and try to flirt with them on the down low to see which one takes the bait. Bad/inappropriate male behavior needs to be called out and shamed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 07:41 PM |
| 2 | They complain about women that try to look good, too!!!Wow, I'm pissed off for you. They think anything we do is for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 02:44 PM |
| 17 | How to tell if you are dating a douchbroI've been out with these types of guys before. They care more about the opinion of their friends than they do their own. Anyways, the other comments are on point. They're all usually fucking with different women in their friend group. And they refer to them in nasty, vulgar terms like hoes. All the guys I've been out with part of the douchebro clique, do drugs. Whether it be weed or E or worse. And if one of the friends don't like you? Forget it about. Be prepared to be talked shit about. And if… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 02:39 PM |
| 14 | I(25F) just want to know why he(29M) lost interest in me after a couple of monthsIdk I ask myself this question too but honestly, a lot of guys out there just don't want to settle down with one woman. That's something that's so rampant today. They always want to talk about how women "ride the CC" but they do same just reverse the gender. Even if they have a gf or a wife, they're still out there acting like they're single. I'm convinced that men never truly view themselves or give into commitment. They just have a woman at home that does everything for him and he's single the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 02:23 PM |
| 49 | The truerateme sub has a detailed section for women but not men...Me too. Idk some people are narcissistic fishing for compliments/supply/more clout, low self esteem, or just random people's opinions. Doesn't make sense to me either, one person might find me attractive and the other might not, that's life. We all have different tastes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 12:19 AM |
| 80 | Men love providingYour stepdad is a real man and I'm glad you got him in your life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 09:37 PM |
| 37 | Friendly reminder that men are on such a high horse when it comes to beauty that their opinion shouldn’t matter to youTrue they're hypocrites | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 08:56 PM |
| 42 | They complain about women that try to look good, too!!!Factssss 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:48 PM |
| 15 | Crusty Paul McKenna "It was time to stop dating hot women", marries loyal PA of 25 years, someone please inform her she's too good for him!Seriously!!! 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Many pickmeisha traits are nothing more than repackaged narcissism. Reject this in yourself before it is too late, and keep it gone.Freaking facts I felt your post 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Many pickmeisha traits are nothing more than repackaged narcissism. Reject this in yourself before it is too late, and keep it gone.Thank you OP, this post is super vital and important | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:46 PM |
| 4 | Many pickmeisha traits are nothing more than repackaged narcissism. Reject this in yourself before it is too late, and keep it gone.Thanks for typing it out I think I'm learning more about myself from the post & comments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:41 PM |
| 14 | Pornsick ex broke up with me. Reason #3: he didn’t want a LTR with no porn, no doggy style and no aggressive blowjobs.You didn't miss out on anything. Trust me. I'm glad you made this decision because in the long term, if you had put up with it, you'd be neglecting your own wants, needs, and feelings and you're going to feel like you betrayed yourself. He can either respect that or fuck off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:28 PM |
| 9 | Have you witnessed some couples of a HVM and LVW? In real life or in series, movies...I am guilty of this. I choose the shitty option over the better option because I feel like internally, I didn't deserve a decent guy. So I chose the shitty option because I didn't think of myself as worthy or good enough of a decent man. I feel like my whole life I was always anti-hypergamy or hypogamous (?) If that makes any sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:25 PM |
| 17 | To the lurking Scrotes:OMG this, preach sis 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:22 PM |
| 13 | Many pickmeisha traits are nothing more than repackaged narcissism. Reject this in yourself before it is too late, and keep it gone.Omg reading that is exactly what happened to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Don’t be a semen receptacle for dudes addicted to vidya.Yuck. These dudes don't deserve a female anywhere near them, how pathetic. This is why we all need to have high standards. Stop settling or thinking this shit is cute. It's not cute. You should be embarrassed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 03:54 PM |
| 77 | Good morning, beautiful! She isn’t everyones’ favorite, but she sure is on point! Tales from the Mortuary: by SheraSeven1Men are rules by their dick only. The Y chromosome was a mistake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 03:48 PM |
| 24 | Likes attract ?Not necessarily. You will attract someone with a corresponding pattern. Or you will attract people who complement your ego state transaction. Meaning if you are a people pleaser, you will attract and be receptive to people that are selfish and need to have their needs met. Until you heal yourself, you will continue these patterns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 08:18 AM |
| 10 | No, he wasn’t confused. He wasn’t unsure either...So, I have a question. Is future faking actually really a pua/rp tactic? Or is it legit narcissism? Because I've searched thru those places many times but never found anything like future faking until I met my most recent narc but it's possible he also could have been a pua/rp. Idk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 08:06 AM |
| 13 | Just because you look a certain way doesn't mean you deserve less!!!You live by external validation, you will die by external criticism. If the way you see yourself (many people have an unhealthy, skewed view thanks to this society, dysfunctional families and bullying) is negative, you are your own worst enemy. Nobody will ever be a bigger enemy to you than yourself. You are not this society. You are a human being with every right to view yourself as worthy, outside of the narrow box this society tries to program us to be in. I want you to watch this video, as i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Shows how stupid some men are in 2020America needs serious help. I keep seeing memes like this like a vagina doesn't magically become an outie vagina from sex. Women are born with innie/outie vaginas and they stay like that for life unless you get surgery. They literally have no idea how a vagina works aside from them sticking their dick in there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 04:06 AM |
| 34 | How much skin is too much skin?I don't show much or any because it's for a special occasion and they aren't anything special so... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:35 AM |
| 14 | A man that wants to commit WILL commit! Don't buy the bullshit about him being shy or "not ready yet". Men know they're supposed to be the pursuers - if he's not committing he's on the lookout for something better. OP learns the hard way, hopefully more sisters in r/dating_advice take to to heart.Or they're playing several women at once (rotation)andd each woman is eagerly waiting on him to commit....if only we could read minds and make a graphic of all the men currently doing this... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:50 AM |
| 29 | You need to know your weak spots in order to avoid themI agree, we should become of conscious of our weak spots and why we have them in the first place | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:48 AM |
| 40 | Can plastic surgery/injections be apart of leveling up??I really want you to watch this video- https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=rt4ebUV5z2Q It's called "why fake girls are magnets for fuckboys" using Kylie Jenner as an example. And she (shallon) makes many good points. I'm not one to tell you what to do. I would say if you're really insecure about something, and it would up your confidence, go for it. But basing too much of your self worth on your external appearance, it's gonna be REALLY easy for other people's opinions/comments to wear you down. Shall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:40 AM |
| 96 | Could not help myself, these LVM are so entertaining 😩😂The majority look as bad as this dude and want a supermodel truly this is 🤡🌍 Fucking ugly. gross 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 12:04 AM |
| 9 | Pornsick 42 year-old fuckboy from the past. Posts shit like this on his public IG all the time. Imagine being his girlfriend.I see this on my Facebook all of the time, it's not even teenagers posting this shit. It's all men 20+ and even 30+ and 40+ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 06:50 PM |
| 6 | Um, hard passThis. They wanna whore around until they're too fat, bald and uglier than before then they want to settle down with whoever sticks around for that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 04:50 PM |
| 13 | Woman breaks up with man because he wore jeans to a date - That's the spirit ladies, lmaoThere's no way this guy is 20... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 04:48 PM |
| 18 | Yep, OLD is literally just a free prostitution service for menYup, I said this before and I'll say it again- they want free or low cost prostitutes. You name it- going on a walk, coffee or drink date, cheap motel room, his car, his room, his friends place, etc. The less they have to invest, the less standards you have is a perfect recipe for a free or low cost prostitute | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 04:47 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on guys calling you pet names when they begin chats with you?They do that so they don't have to remember your name. They talk to many different women and call them all sweetie, hun, baby, babe, etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 06:48 PM |
| 4 | Interview With a SociopathYou're exactly right. The majority will never seek help because they don't think anything is wrong. Mine has bpd and she will never seek help, she only gets worse year after year. What can we do? Nothing. That's the sad reality of growing up in a dysfunctional family. You either get the same illness as your parent or you suffer at their hands and sever cords & heal from it. Personality disorders are so hard to treat because the people that have them refuse to seek help or they don't think anythi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:18 PM |
| 21 | LOLThe amount of hypocrisy on their behalf is shocking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 10:52 PM |
| 3 | If you're not compatible and you choose to overlook that, you're only hurting yourselfThat's not true for everyone, though. I hate football and couldn't stand a guy that lives and breathes it. Differences don't always work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 09:08 PM |
| 15 | To be "the prize" you've got to look goodI think being beautiful helps to an extent but the real people who benefit off of it are like naturally stunning and exotic looking people like Adriana Lima or Angelina Jolie. Or male models but they still have to keep up their body, they have to be pristine and stay in shape. Some people are only revered for their body aka Instagram booty builders like Jen selter. Your average pretty girl will benefit on a small scale but let's be honest, there's a lot of attractive women out there. It's all a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 08:24 PM |
| 6 | If you're not compatible and you choose to overlook that, you're only hurting yourselfAgreed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 05:12 PM |
| 12 | If you're not compatible and you choose to overlook that, you're only hurting yourselfYes, it's important to never sacrifice what makes us happy and our interests. Incompatibility is just that...you're not compatible. Just let it go... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 05:12 PM |
| 23 | Women, stop wasting years of your life begging and pleading with your partner to go to a doctor for his obvious issues. You are burning yourself out and it's not your responsibility.It's true. If they wanted to, they would. If not, just leave them be. You're not obligated to play the mother role for anyone except your own children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:34 PM |
| 5 | Don’t ever breed anyone who will blatantly undermine your contributions like this or who thinks $1300 a month is a significant amount 🤡You're right but I've made a thread about race before and people heard something completely different so I've been avoiding making any more race related threads | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Don’t ever breed anyone who will blatantly undermine your contributions like this or who thinks $1300 a month is a significant amount 🤡Idk I know it's going to be taken the wrong way because I made a thread based on race before and you can write about a topic and people will run and accuse you of racism (even though I am the race in speaking about). And people come at you in the comments plus idk how the mods are going to react | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 02:27 PM |
| 8 | Don’t ever breed anyone who will blatantly undermine your contributions like this or who thinks $1300 a month is a significant amount 🤡I dated a Hispanic guy whose father was a black Latino and I could tell he's more influenced by black (American) culture than Latino culture. And he had the same kind of mindset you're speaking about in your comment. So I think perhaps it's a cultural and societal thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 02:25 PM |
| 1 | FDS Rescue Mission: Woman is the third wheel in her bf's relationship with his dog.No one gets to tell me that, don't care if it's an unpopular opinion here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 12:25 PM |
| 1 | FDS Rescue Mission: Woman is the third wheel in her bf's relationship with his dog.Well, that's the way you feel and everyone has free will, we have a choice whether or not we choose to continue with people we are compatible with or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 10:42 PM |
| 2 | FDS Rescue Mission: Woman is the third wheel in her bf's relationship with his dog.I understand that but maybe that person just isn't a people person and neither am i. I believe animals are held to a higher regard than people, but I understand that it sucks. Sometimes you're just not compatible with certain people. And it's better off to separate from them than to try to make it work as you are only hurting yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 10:25 PM |
| 20 | List all of the copes LVM have about women...They never think that stare could be caused by depression too, when you look at depressed people, they usually have that 1000 yard stare look | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:51 PM |
| 11 | List all of the copes LVM have about women...You're right I didn't think of it tht way 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:43 PM |
| 12 | Do you judge a guy’s interest in you based on the type of date?He's stingy. And selfish, doesn't matter if he's a Dr or a millionaire. He has money to spend and if he doesn't want to spend it, then leave him. He's never going to change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Liberal Feminists really convinced an entire generation of women that BDSM and Sex work are “feminist & empowering” but demanding men pay for dates and carry more financial load is “setting us back”. 🤡They tried it, fds denied it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 07:47 PM |
| 16 | Do you judge a guy’s interest in you based on the type of date?Yeah, I do. But don't be fooled- an expensive date doesn't mean he's hvm But if it's some shit like movies or going out on a walk for the first couple of dates ..it's a no. We either change the plan or I refuse to go out with you. No one has ever asked me to coffee but I probably wouldn't go unless it's like a bistro type thing like with desserts. If it's like Starbucks or Dunkin donuts...no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 07:29 PM |
| 4 | FDS Rescue Mission: Woman is the third wheel in her bf's relationship with his dog.I love my dog and pets more than I could love any man. But if we were in a relationship, I'd still make time for him. But at the end of the day, I'd still choose my dog over him, sorry. The woman should just leave if he's not making for her, too. If he wanted to, he would but he doesn't want to so... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 07:27 PM |
| 122 | Don’t ever breed anyone who will blatantly undermine your contributions like this or who thinks $1300 a month is a significant amount 🤡I'm not black but I'm Latina and Hispanic men honestly are trash (my opinion) I Wish we could openly speak more about race specific issues here but I know for a fact it's going to be taken the wrong way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 07:09 PM |
| 41 | Don’t ever breed anyone who will blatantly undermine your contributions like this or who thinks $1300 a month is a significant amount 🤡Laziest most pathetic men in the entire history of mankind. They are the complete opposite of evolving. We are de-volving. They fail to fulfill their biological purpose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 07:08 PM |
| 20 | Newly trying out OLD again and I already feel regret deep in my bonesMaster gaslighter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 02:18 AM |
| 8 | [Discussion] what's your opinion on having male friends, even if you know they just want to fuck you?I don't care. That's just a fact of life, I wouldn't touch them with a ten foot pole. If they kept on begging and shit and I found it annoying, they're cut off. If they try to do something predatory, I'd never speak to them again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 01:12 AM |
| 42 | Yes they do...The minute you show COLDNESS.They do until they sleep with her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 09:50 PM |
| 7 | Be aware of men with a "magnetic pull"Observe him, I can see you already are catching on to him. That's a big part of it. These types will charm people but only certain ones are onto their devious ways. Think about anyone and everyone in your life that is like this. You'll be able to spot it easily | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 09:35 PM |
| 8 | Be aware of men with a "magnetic pull"Everything they say and spew out of their mouth is bullshit. They have a hidden agenda and someone will suffer because of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 09:33 PM |
| 24 | The new "Miss Germany" is a 35 year old woman and people lose their damn mindIt's always the fugliest ones with the highest standards. Out here looking like jabba the hut and the entitlement/audacity is appalling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 07:01 PM |
| 81 | The new "Miss Germany" is a 35 year old woman and people lose their damn mindWow, I can't believe 35 is considered old for a woman. Wtf. Sad & pathetic males, women don't exist solely for your pleasure or gaze. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 05:32 PM |
| 12 | Be aware of men with a "magnetic pull"Yup. They are highly evasive and superficial. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 05:09 PM |
| 10 | Is this weird for a guy to do?I did this before and the guy was shady but my sister is big time snitch. That's why I never allowed her or my mother to meet him. Anyways, I prefer to keep my love interests or bfs private from them. Not sure about your cousin but perhaps she just wants privacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 03:17 PM |
| 6 | Be aware of men with a "magnetic pull"Perfect. This is exactly how those men operate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:56 PM |
| 9 | Is he super charming? Red flagCompletely agreed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Men manipulate women through words:) It gets even crazier if you have ever watched the end of the movie, I didn't want to spoil it for anyone but it will make sense who he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Men manipulate women through wordsYou're welcome! I once fell for it too. And I realized I was self betraying self because I was listening to all of his promises but not looking at his actions and I felt like an idiot in the end. There's quite a lot of men out there that are gifted in seduction, glibness and charm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:24 PM |
| 18 | Y’all. The AUDACITY!!Yeah it's because they think we are prostitutes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 12:10 PM |
| 14 | Uhh I have a name- try USING it!!It's so redundant, like every guy literally says the same shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 04:26 AM |
| 7 | Crosspost from r/theredpillThat's the only time they'll actually do something about it, when reddit goes national because their platform allowed for them to have a safe space. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 03:27 AM |
| 2 | LVM in my area. Probably rates himself an 8/9THIS. Gross 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:51 AM |
| 6 | LVM in my area. Probably rates himself an 8/9The audacity 🤣🤣 If I looked like that as a man, I would hide in the house forever. Yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:51 AM |
| 14 | The bar is SO LOW. Literally it’s national news that a guy was honest with a woman he was dating by telling her he wasn’t ready to be exclusive. Do you want a f@cking medal?Ugh, I don't even know what to say anymore tbh this is pathetic and nothing less than. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:42 AM |
| 19 | Men manipulate women through wordsThis scene is from the movie The Devil's Advocate. You can see Al Pacino carefully and tactfully seducing Charlize Theron's character through her vanity and insecurity. All he had to do was enter her mind through words alone. And truthfully, a lot of men do this but some are very skilled at it (highly charming, seductive). That's why you can never trust their words alone, as you never know their intentions. Whether it be to flatter you or to neg you. You have to be VERY secure within yourself an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Triangulation is a big, red flagYeah I like to fuck with dudes that do this. Triangulation, once you pick up on it, can be quite funny to throw back in their face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Triangulation is a big, red flagLMFAO that's awesome! I also did something similar when he brought up some chick and said to him- "well she probably likes you" and he all of a sudden backpedals saying "oh, no, no, no". Lmao I will drag that ass. I knew he was triangulating me and I decided to fuck with him like you did with that guy 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 08:41 PM |
| 5 | Triangulation is a big, red flagIt's also called divide and conquer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 02:34 PM |
| 10 | Triangulation is a big, red flagIt's not really a tactic, it's usually part of a cluster B personality disorder and a majority are unaware they are doing it. People who have a split in their thinking (black versus white) borderline, narcissist, etc do this without being aware of it Used as a tactic, it must have been taught by someone or something externally aka pickup artistry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 02:34 AM |
| 20 | Triangulation is a big, red flagYou're welcome and glad you can see her behavior is abnormal. Probably has mental issues you're not aware about. People like this can be very cruel and evil | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 07:54 PM |
| 4 | This dude has a file called “Face for jerking off” AND is so proud to share it with one of the women he added in there.That's fucking gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 07:51 PM |
| 16 | Triangulation is a big, red flagHe sounds like a narcissist, glad you're rid of his ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 07:35 PM |
| 17 | Triangulation is a big, red flagVery true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 07:30 PM |
| 66 | Triangulation is a big, red flagYessss, it's so effective. That's why they keep repeating the same pattern. He gets two women to go head to head, compete for his love/attention while he's the one masterminding the whole thing. Instead of focusing on the one manipulating the entire thing, the women direct the hatred towards each other. Husband/wife vs "the other woman". Bf/gf vs "the female friend", etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 07:29 PM |
| 27 | When you find out he follows Instagram PornographyFacts. My ex narc follows local strippers & nasty looking "exotic dancers". Super trashy. At least you found out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Most of the guys in your inbox are looking for sexHe's triangulating you and your cousin to get into your pants by using flattery & comparison. He sounds like a narc. And a gigantic piece of shit. Good that you blocked him, he doesn't deserve anybody. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 02:51 PM |
| 37 | Ladies, Change Your Focus. FDS is NOT About Getting the Guy.Thank you 👏👏👏 This needs to be put on the wiki | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Let's play a game! ☆ Describe your exes in 10 words or fewer ☆Same here, I'd use the same words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 02:02 AM |
| 14 | Guy "assigns" me to someone elseMaybe he thought about it afterwards and found it awkward if you brought it up or he brought it up. I wouldn't take it personally, the implications make it awkward and may not have thought about it until afterwards. I don't think it has much to do with your looks or you, yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 02:01 AM |
| 11 | But I was the better girl?I heard from someone that a man can have steak, lobster & caviar at home but still crave a McFlurry from McDonald's. That isn't to excuse their behavior but that goes to show you, some guys are better off with the cheap stuff (since they're low value and cheap themselves). Let him be and find someone that's on your wavelength. I struggle with the same thing "why am I not good enough"? Truth is, you may have been too good. We can get taken for granted sometimes. My last ex was finally the one I f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 01:56 AM |
| 66 | Men who walk in front of their partnersThe exact person who I thought of as soon as I read this You can be infinitely beautiful. The man will still not treat you with respect. A man treating you well is mostly not depending on you. How he treats you is a reflection of himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 01:52 AM |
| 40 | Men who walk in front of their partnersMost infamous person that does this exact thing: Donald Trump to his wife, Melania. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 01:51 AM |
| 12 | Let's play a game! ☆ Describe your exes in 10 words or fewer ☆Narcissist, trashy, ghetto, low class, broke, manipulative, nasty, sweaty, pornsick 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to "Whaaaaat how are you single? You're so beautiful"?I just say thank you but no one is appealing to me so I just stay to myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Guy I've been speaking to starting to send "good morning" textsThat could be true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Guy I've been speaking to starting to send "good morning" textsNo, I've only ever met one guy from the internet and was a psychopath | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:13 PM |
| 6 | Guy I've been speaking to starting to send "good morning" textsI mean, I could just always not reply back. Just trying not to get emotionally invested when most of these guys out here do this on rotation to many women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:54 PM |
| 28 | Guy I've been speaking to starting to send "good morning" textsThat always seems to happen with these guys, they do that every morning and night and then they slow fade you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:53 PM |
| 8 | We’re going out for Saturday night drinks and out of nowhere he says ‘my flat mate is really sexy’ I go back home. My friend says I overreacted and I should be coolerThat's dead wrong and I'm sure he's not stupid, he knew it was a fucked up thing to say. Sounds like he was triangulating you but most importantly, he disrespected you. You absolutely did the right thing, dump his ass on the spot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:28 PM |
| 10 | Seeking advice: how can you test whether a guy is with you just for your looks?Everytime I hear this I always think of the madonna-whore complex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 05:33 AM |
| 9 | Why don’t men approach me?Definitely something to be aware of. Person A can get approached multiple times but 90% is absolute trash versus person B can attract maybe 1 or 2 people, but will be higher quality than person A's suitors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 05:19 AM |
| 22 | Seeking advice: how can you test whether a guy is with you just for your looks?They only want to sleep with you. 2. You're nothing more to them than narcissistic supply aka you provide them ego strokes by proxy. 3. He makes no attempts to get to know you, he only sees you as a physical object. 4. These types of guys will always move on to younger/attractive women. 5. He doesn't see you as a person- just an object. 6. These types of guys get bored easily and look for variety, they don't care about women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:35 AM |
| 39 | Disgusting.That's a shame. I feel really bad for her. Why are there so many stories about men getting married in such a short time after being with their ex gf for YEARS. Or stories like this where the next one gets pregnant immediately? Reminds me of Jeannie Mai and her ex husband Freddie. Men have no heart. They feel no empathy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 12:56 AM |
| 7 | They really lack self awareness....at my (male dominated) jobThat's good to know! Unfortunately, this is just a temp gig that I am currently doing as I am working off the books. So no HR to report to. But that is definitely helpful in future situations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 12:53 AM |
| 12 | They really lack self awareness....at my (male dominated) jobTrue. I wish I could post their pics, you'd vomit and recoil in disgust. And look at the women they're criticizing, LMFAO. Those women would never give you the time of day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 12:14 AM |
| 26 | They really lack self awareness....at my (male dominated) jobThat's true. It's disgusting. I don't think women are like that, at least not nearly as much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 10:32 PM |
| 4 | You can't change someone: why vetting is your superpowerThank you. I say this all of the time. You cannot mold yourself into an LVMs dream girl you can only remove them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 07:09 PM |
| 15 | Do you ever wonder if it would have worked out if you weren’t a pickmeisha?Yes, I do But I came to terms with the fact that he was NEVER going to be a provider type, going on nice dates type, or non dusty type of guy. And even if he was, I could still do better. He's not even educated, doesn't make lots of money, etc. We as women have to be hypergamous and my low self worth made me settle for someone shitty. I was a pickmeisha for someone that was literally below everyone I had gone out with in the past. Only pick me & dusty go together. Dusty & hvm will try to turn he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 05:00 AM |
| 34 | “Because my ego tells me I deserve to be but I can’t be bothered to put any work into making this sustainable”And they say WE are the ones leading them on... First, they invite the woman out to eat or an activity. Then they have the nerve to not want to pay or complain somehow we're "using them". Then the cherry on the top is the bullshit "let's see where this goes/not looking for anything serious/I'm just a waste of time/dead end." I have more respect for someone that just says that shit up front. But they won't go that route because they think we are gonna whore ourselves out for a fucking meal...lmao… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 10:37 PM |
| 3 | What’s your strategy when dudes just drop their # in convo?Ignore it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 03:28 AM |
| 21 | NEVER give a LVM fuckboy WIFE privileges. Anything that comes too easy is not valued.I can't even deal with how horrible this guy is. I wish I was one of coworkers, I would have embarrassed his ass in front of everyone for doing that to his GF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 03:55 AM |
| 15 | Is it common for women to date men they are not attracted to?There's only so many attractive men, unfortunately. Most guys don't care about their appearance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:45 AM |
| 77 | NEVER give a LVM fuckboy WIFE privileges. Anything that comes too easy is not valued.I hope this woman finds this sub. That is so fucked up. This guy didn't give a shit about her in any sort of way, not just the cooking part. You are literally making fun of your own GIRLFRIEND. Who looks like the douchebag here ? It's not your GF hun, it's you. If I was one of his co-workers I would have called him out. How dare you disrespect the woman making your food and sleeping with you. The fuck is wrong with men like this ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:41 AM |
| 49 | So this happened...Good. Now if they could only BAN that creepy, rapist/predator sub The Red Pill, everything would be A LOT better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 10:14 PM |
| 3 | “I didn’t ask for anything and he STILL didn’t want me!”.. And why it never pays to be a pick me.Oh I know. I didn't want a relationship with the guy I was talking about. It was strictly a fantasy type of thing, he was the one leading me on for no reason about him wanting more. And yes, I totally agree. If I wanted the guy I was talking for a relationship, I would have NEVER slept with him but like I said, he is full of hot air and can't provide anything other than hot air & bullshit, even if he wanted to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 08:56 PM |
| 3 | “I didn’t ask for anything and he STILL didn’t want me!”.. And why it never pays to be a pick me.Something similar happened to me. I was talking to a guy and he was blowing up my phone every day. And we decided to meet up but the context was we were supposed to be in a sub/Dom thing (this was before fds) and then he said he wanted more then he basically said he didn't. Ok, but why waste my time ? I was stupid to let him lead everything. I think your friend slept with him too early. I slept with mine because that's what we agreed upon but tbh you can give a guy sex and he still won't be sati… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 08:45 PM |
| 18 | Post your list of physical no-go's in men (Straight up honest thread)Beer belly is one of the biggest turn offs ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 07:16 PM |
| 11 | Post your list of physical no-go's in men (Straight up honest thread)Bald men. Older than 5 years above me. I have racial preferences that I will not state but there's that. Really thin or really fat guys. Scraggly beard and moustache. Men shorter than me. Guys that smell like B.O. and have dandruff and look oily/greasy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 07:16 PM |
| 1 | All the relationship subs are FULL of these types!!True that happened to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 04:37 AM |
| 67 | This is why we need to have high standards and vet vet vet! LVM value their dicks over human decency 👏🏾Too many women not making these dudes wait and settling for next to nothing is also breeding entitlement in these losers. Sex isn't even beneficial to us most of the time. Stop sleeping with these low value parasites. Love yourself. You don't cater to a man, a man caters to you. Edit: thank you for my first gold on FDS ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 01:30 AM |
| 7 | All the relationship subs are FULL of these types!!Thats the thing with these men, they always think they can do better. Prettier, smarter, more submissive, thinner, etc. They don't have anything to offer either wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 12:38 AM |
| 82 | This CAN NOT be real.That's really sad. This poor woman, I feel so sorry for her. Reminds me of my dad when my mom needed his help. She is definitely in an abusive relationship where she can have nothing for herself and has to give her husband everything. I really hope she has the strength within herself to wake up and leave him. She deserves way better. I even want to help her just based on what she wrote. Her husband is a piece of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 11:25 PM |
| 11 | Very important for those that don't feel "good enough"Agreed :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Very important for those that don't feel "good enough"Its sad, I hope everyone that's never felt good enough sees this. Break away from this pattern. I decided to share this because it's such a vital piece of information. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 10:29 PM |
| 85 | I guess it's better to be cheated on, pickmeisha 🤷I don't really care too much about Beyonce/the Beyonce part, it's just funny how the pick me saying anyone that's single is a "lonely hoe" but playing it off like Beyonce is somehow better off because she has a man but yet is still being cheated on and he made her look stupid in front of the whole world. Like in this woman's brain, being single is worse than being with a cheating husband | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 10:27 PM |
| 97 | Have you ever noticed men will date literally *anyone* once they decide they want a relationship?Yup, they do the exact thing they accuse us of. They use their youth to play women, fuck them over in every way, and when they're finally ready to settle down when they're half bald, fat and have nothing going on in life, they settle down with whoever is around | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 09:42 PM |
| 76 | Have you ever noticed men will date literally *anyone* once they decide they want a relationship?This follows the theory that they will whore themselves out until they decide they're "ready". After they've had their fun, they'll settle down with whoever. I don't think men marry the one they love, they just marry the one who is around when he is ready | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 09:40 PM |
| 39 | Do LVM change for the “right” women?It's not the woman. It's the man himself. The man has to change, and that goes for anyone. A drug addict, an alcoholic, etc. No matter who comes by to support them, ultimately, the decision is theirs and theirs alone. You can be the best, most supportive woman on Earth but the man still is who he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 09:37 PM |
| 42 | LVM really think this. The audacity!This shit hit me hard. Literally the majority of them are just like this. Complain about a couple of meals like they're feeding into the jackpot for sex. This whole generation is nothing but a joke. Very few are real men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Pickmeisha’s dream guy be likeOp, this is the freaking truth. My last narc was EXACTLY like this no car, spends money on weed, TRIED to get me to do 50/50 after he was the one who wanted to pay at first. And we had to walk lol. So cringy. Another stereotype which is actually true is a cracked phone screen....that is like the ultimate sign of these lvm leeches/parasites Until I came to FDS, I never realized how much I lowered my standards. I guess I made an excuse for him because I myself don't have much going on right now. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 05:55 PM |
| 32 | Are ugly people even attracted to each other?The general population is not very attractive. Everyone thinks they're a 7 on a ten scale. No, most people are a 5 and there's nothing wrong with that. There's nothing wrong with being ugly or average. I find your post extremely ridiculous. Not everyone thinks they are entitled to an upgrade. Most people are bland, plain, boring, average, etc. Hotness usually comes with a bunch of extra bells and whistles like makeup, extensions, hair dye, fancy clothes. Anyone can do that. Anyone can choose to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 01:12 AM |
| 7 | Sex isn’t worth it for womenThissssssssss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 11:49 PM |
| 19 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”I think something like this could be real. I would hope it's not but these guys love to inflict damage upon women that are clearly doing nothing else but trying to screen men for being low value and not rising up to her standards. As if that was a bad thing. You did absolutely not harm her in the long run, keep your group of useless, worthless scumbags away from her. The irony is he was trying to teach her to be a "better person" by trying to put her "in her place" but came off like the shitty o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 11:47 PM |
| 4 | How much does race play a role in your dating life?It doesn't really effect me. People will sometimes comment that I am ethnically ambiguous and it gets brought up a lot but my race doesn't really matter. I don't like dating my own race. I am a minority. And I prefer to date outside of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 10:16 PM |
| 28 | What are your thoughts on PIA?Not even for marriage, no way. A rectum and anus is for expelling waste not for some XY's dick to tear apart for his pleasure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 04:39 AM |
| 16 | Comedy hour: How has karma treated your LVM ex?Thank you hun ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 04:21 AM |
| 24 | Comedy hour: How has karma treated your LVM ex?First one- He went bald, I think he is almost completely bald now and he's not even 30. He's in his late 20s. He lives with a pickmeisha gf that pays the rent. And he is a drug fiend, went from fat (big & TALL) to super skinny from what I heard. This guy was the most brutal guy in high school. Going around bullying people for no reason, making fun of them, fighting people, history of cruelty to animals, cheated on almost every GF he had, etc. He has a LOT of demons and bad karma. I suspect he is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 03:51 AM |
| 4 | What kind of men prefer low maintenance women versus a high maintenance woman?True, I agree. And I think this is the most common pairing anyway with an lvm & what they look for the most in a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 11:47 PM |
| 6 | Does anyone else notice how some guys whine about how women aren’t “traditional ladies” these days yet they expect women to pay at least half for everything and to take care of THEM?Basically, a parasite | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 08:55 PM |
| 8 | You cant change him100% the truth sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 08:44 PM |
| 78 | Dudes who complain about women with fake butts/boobs don’t seem to realize they’re not the target audienceThat is true. But any average dude from the general population think ANYTHING a woman does is solely for them. A woman can't wear a dress, makeup, heels, change her hair color, lose weight, etc without them loudly exclaiming from the rooftops it's for male attention. They always want to put their two cents and no one gives a fuck about their opinion. It's not like Kim k would give you two seconds of her day. They just hate women out their league. That woman is LEAGUES richer, more attractive, fa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 08:40 PM |
| 10 | Does anyone else notice how some guys whine about how women aren’t “traditional ladies” these days yet they expect women to pay at least half for everything and to take care of THEM?Yes! They think they're clever when they say that. They don't have the financial means and can't afford a woman to be a certain level of submissive for them. That's the truth. They want a submissive wife/GF but they themselves are anti-masculine. They expect the woman to work and serve them at the same time. What a laugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Don't let flattery/their compliments get to youThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 03:01 AM |
| 4 | because of the internet (OLD, twitter, insta, reddit etc) there is this unnatural cultural crossover where even the most lovely and self-respecting women are interacting with the actual most repulsive men when WE WERE NOT MEANT TO CROSS PATHS.I didn't even need to read your post, your headline is so true, it hurts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 02:56 AM |
| 4 | Do not let men lovebomb you.It doesn't work because you have to outright FIRMLY say no, and usually if it doesn't work then, they don't respect boundaries or your wishes. Theyre trying to force you to cave into their desires/wants/wishes. Don't validate them. You can't break your composure just like they aren't breaking theirs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 02:20 AM |
| 5 | Don't let flattery/their compliments get to you100% agreed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 01:51 AM |
| 4 | I’m still angry with myselfMe too, girl. I'm angry with myself. I'm angry at him. I'm angry at the memory. IDK if I can give you any advice but you are not alone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 01:38 AM |
| 115 | Keep an eye on r/seduction the "pick up artist" subreddit. You need to know the new "tricks" they plot to manipulate women.THIS. I wish FDS had more posts in the wiki exposing their pua tactics and keep it updated as they discover newer tactics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 01:28 AM |
| 15 | Don't let flattery/their compliments get to youYes, there is a reason why they hook you in making you feel like the most special person ever. I'm always suspicious of these kinds of people. I've seen them work their terror on other people. It's crazy how easy it is for them to come off as charming then turn into Jekyll/hyde | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 01:26 AM |
| 6 | Do not let men lovebomb you.How to stop their lovebombing- Ignore, put them on mute/silence, block/delete, and in person act cold and don't even acknowledge their existent (when they talk to you, don't even look them in the eye when you talk back) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 01:21 AM |
| 80 | LVMThis is the freaking truth. The majority of them aren't even 30 and they're already starting to look like the right side 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 05:09 PM |
| 31 | I don’t know about you, but I’m proud knowing I’m not being used as anyone’s “plate”.This is the truth!!! They can't think that far. In their minds, even the shitty ones that willingly lead women on and destroy them are ok and women are "at fault" for falling for them. No accountability for the men. It's damned if you do, damned if you don't. And the way they shit on single mothers (I'm not one) but 90% of the time, the deadbeat dad is the one that walks away. I've seen it happen to a few close friends of mine. The mother tries the hardest she can to take care of her kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 05:58 AM |
| 51 | I don’t know about you, but I’m proud knowing I’m not being used as anyone’s “plate”.I do and it's all FDS, single mother hatred, madonna-whore complex, narcissists that view everything in black & white, Megan markle haters, etc. Its just for a laugh though. You'd think men that went their own way would stay there and get a hooker and shut the fuck up. A minority there seem to be actual mgtow that don't want a woman in their life but don't hate on them. Too bad the majority are misogynistic crybabies bitching and moaning about women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 04:02 AM |
| 59 | I don’t know about you, but I’m proud knowing I’m not being used as anyone’s “plate”.I honestly have more respect for an actual mgtow that just opted out for XYZ reason and dont spew hate on women. Rp is worse though because their tactics are a serious grey area of being a predator and rapist. Their tactics should be considered criminal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 03:59 AM |
| 39 | If men don’t like bitches then why do they only go for women who aren’t super into them? Why do they lose interest when a woman expresses love?Exactly. It's their ego/self esteem that needs to know they can have your approval/validation. If they dont get it, they keep chasing you. If they do get it, their mission is completed. It also sounds to me like these types of guys have an attachment that ISNT secure aka anxious/fearful/avoidant attachment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 03:56 AM |
| 163 | I don’t know about you, but I’m proud knowing I’m not being used as anyone’s “plate”.That entire sub is obsessed with us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 02:48 AM |
| 70 | If men don’t like bitches then why do they only go for women who aren’t super into them? Why do they lose interest when a woman expresses love?Because they're chasing validation and once they get it, they get bored. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 01:33 AM |
| 37 | Found on MGTOW regarding the post in FDS cautioning to never send nudes.That sub is obsessed with us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 01:32 AM |
| 40 | LVM really be wanting you to humiliate yourself proving you're "special" enough to treat with basic respectMost pathetic generation of men in the entire history of humanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 10:52 PM |
| 17 | is it about the woman or the timing when a man decides to marry?A man can't go ahead and marry any woman without her permission so he may have found the one for him, but what if she doesnt feel the same? I'm sure MANY women that men found to be "the one" have rejected them. Not a lot of men marry the one they wanted to marry. And neither do a lot of women. Some people just settle at a certain point in their life. And lots of men have someone that got away and some just settled. They have their fuckboy years and settle when they're old, fat, bald and used up.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 12:41 AM |
| 6 | One piece of dating advice you'd give your younger self and why?Oh my God so much... You chase after men because you have a fearful attachment style. And that would have put an end to chasing men that are distant and unworthy. The man does not lead the pace, you do. He can't have sex or a commitment without your acceptance. I inevitable will attract narcissists and will choose them too because of my family. So be careful I got taken advantage of so many times due to family history and upbringing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 04:35 PM |
| 8 | Good looking guys are fuckboys ?Yes, they are. And so are average and ugly men. It's just the good looking ones get away with it more. The average and ugly ones have to coerce and manipulate to do it. The attractive ones have women throwing themselves at them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 04:32 PM |
| 20 | i got rid of a narcissistic ratThats awesome, that guy sounds like a creep and hugely conflicted. I am ALWAYS suspicious when a guy talks to me all sweet in my dm's but then has misogynistic and overly sexual shit on his page. That is a HUGE red flag because that's often his REAL personality/thoughts. So you did the right thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 06:16 AM |
| 62 | Fills you with hope, doesn’t it? 🙄If only all of them that thought this way would stick to that, stop bothering regular women and go marry a hooker. No one cares and no one would miss you, either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 02:26 AM |
| 10 | What are your thoughts on guys who put you on a pedestal?I feel like this mainly applies to guys in the friend zone because they keep chasing your validation while also having an idealized view, or placing you on a pedestal As soon as you give a guy a chance, they don't need that validation or you do something bad/wrong in their eyes and they start to devalue you. Even saying yes to a date is enough validation. Better to just keep them in your friendzone. It seems like guys have more of an emotional connection to a girl they've been friends with versu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 01:29 AM |
| 9 | Ladies do u have a high body count?Nope. I've only let 2 men inside my body and I still got called a whore and body shamed (I got called insecure, too) And it's not my business how many people other women sleep with. I'm just saying, that I wouldn't personally sleep with many men. They are undeserving of it and the few times I had sex they weren't even special, I barely benefitted from it and it's super overrated. I'm super distrustful of them and their agenda. Sexual freedom is a lie for us women. There are way more cons. We get… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 07:11 PM |
| 27 | Anyone else attract emotionally distant/unavailable men?I guess you're right but it kind of hurts knowing they had an ex GF that he was capable of being protective over, emotional with and loved meanwhile you get the short end of the stick and he's a wall or the more you try to get close, the further away he goes. Because I'm not usually a pick me in most situations except maybe this one. And I always ask myself...he could be open with XYZ...but not me ? What am I doing wrong ? What did she inspire in him that I don't? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 12:37 AM |
| 51 | What FOO (family of origin) issue created your current and/or former pickmeisha behavior?This is a really good discussion thread. There's a lot but it basically comes down to- family breeding future victims of abuse because they are not aware of their own psychology and refuse to look within themselves. Narcissistic, dysfunctional families having a child they project all the bad on to avoid their pain AKA the scapegoat. A golden child to project all of the good and extension of themselves. The constant berating, abuse, push pull, neglect, everything is what makes us have shitty low … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 12:31 AM |
| 10 | Can’t get over himI feel like I can kind of relate as mine was a narc lvm. And men are very emotionally distant with me, like even the ones that approached me and tried to court me. None of them were nurturing, warm or emotionally close. And yes, I know you're saying a narc isn't like that and I think that's just his mask. But I think I'm having hard time getting over it not only because of revenge feelings but he offered something that nobody else did. And maybe you're going through something similar. Like you s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 05:40 AM |
| 7 | Do you all think that dating apps attract more messed-up men?Yes and social media in general. I will never, ever resort to meeting a romantic prospect online. If rather do it the old fashioned way. Waaaay too many creeps and men looking for sex. Not that it isn't like that irl. But I found that at the very least, they can't gain your trust like they can online. The first and only guy I have ever met online gained my trust and aside from being a creepy ass misogynistic, baiter and predator, I came to the conclusion if I had met him IRL, I would have stayed… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 03:34 AM |
| 20 | Friendly reminder not to date pornsick menAt that point, it's just gay. That is a closeted homosexual male. I'm convinced some of these men hate women so much and want to destroy us so badly that the just have homosexual undertones in everything they do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 09:51 PM |
| 10 | A blazing red flag I overlookedDo it girl Don't ignore or overlook red flags. Especially a screaming red flag like this one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 09:46 PM |
| 9 | A blazing red flag I overlookedSucks but you can see who they follow at the very least | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 09:44 PM |
| 5 | A blazing red flag I overlookedHonestly, I have no idea. I also remembered that he had liked a page called "cute teens" but when I clicked it, it was a page full of stupid memes. I got the impression he's one of those guys that like petite or small women. I'm average height. Like what would be the purpose of hunting for these supposed "hoes" for you to exploit ? I was exploited by him (made to do degrading shit like typical porn style stuff) Under the guise of us keeping everything between just him and I. Everything we did, I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 09:43 PM |
| 15 | The difference between cheating men and cheating womenSounds kind of like the madonna whore complex Edit: I kind of have to disagree that the other woman is always "ugly." In some cases that may be true but ultimately, I think a lot of it is the madonna whore complex. It goes along with what you're saying about the sexual part. They are seeking a side woman to have sex with. He has a split in his mind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 08:23 PM |
| 10 | The difference between cheating men and cheating womenI'm just going to chime in with the madonna whore complex. You can search it up on Google. A lot of men are narcissistic and seek other women for pleasure while the wife/gf is the madonna in his eyes. Doesn't excuse it but it makes logical sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 08:04 PM |
| 27 | Reddit: home of the most disgusting porn and menNasty. I despise reddit except for subs like this one. I remember jailbait and there's a new one, too. I forget what it's called but it's for "young looking" pornstars. The whole rape kink sub and such...oh my God I feel sick to my stomach. The fact these people are out there creeps me out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 09:39 PM |
| 25 | Reddit: home of the most disgusting porn and menThis is where these sadists gather. What you're seeing are some of the most depraved individuals on the surface web. Imagine what it must be like on the deep/dark web. Porn is normalizing all of it, too. The more addicted they get, the more depraved content out there. I'm seeing this new class of taboo stuff on some of the popular porn sites that's making it seem more realistic, instead of the old, corny, badly written ones. Like dad having sex with daughter forced, crying and without pleasure. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 09:36 PM |
| 5 | Why don't Men Realize that Not Caring about Women's Sexual Pleasure will Cause Women not to want Sex with them?Exactly. You cant force someone uncaring to care. They might half ass it for some pussy or just do the same thing over again. Some women just don't have any limits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 09:25 PM |
| 26 | Literally ewMoney doesn't change lvm Keanu is rich and hvm So is obama | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 07:57 PM |
| 23 | LADIES - KEEP YOUR STANDARDS HIGH AND NEVER FEEL BAD ABOUT IT. READ: HOW MEN TREAT WOMEN THEY FIND UNF*CKABLE.I think hvm act the same towards women they don't find attractive (nice, at least) but lvm will ignore them or talk about them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 07:45 PM |
| 7 | Don't be his (lvm) favorite & what you aren't seeing...The main dudes that do this let's be honest, they have no life. Probably sits around on reddit, other sites, tinder, fb, if. Has a shitty job, unemployed, works under the table, random jobs, etc. Aka too much time in their hands. And I agree, I have hundreds of friend requests and don't talk to any of them except when I'm bored or I'm at work or school and need someone to talk to out of boredom. I don't take any of them serious. I pretty much only do irl approaches. Online ? Nah, those are the o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 07:33 PM |
| 15 | How to Join /r/DarkTriadWomenFight fire with fire 🤷 Not all women are dark triad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 07:26 PM |
| 21 | How to Join /r/DarkTriadWomenI don't get why people are down voting this. If it's not your cup of tea, then don't join. Hence why it's called "dark triad." Not all women are dark triad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 07:26 PM |
| 28 | “I don’t chase women, women chase me”Yuck. Effeminate and entitled low value trash. The only women attracted to that are pickmeishas. If they stopped tolerating these dusties, they would stop acting like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 06:32 PM |
| 2 | And Women are only CONSIDERED for the lucky position of his concubine IF she's slim, looks good, and takes care of his whole life.... SO DEAL WITH ITI didn't get to see the previous comment, I wonder what they said lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 06:24 PM |
| 22 | How much does appearance matter to hvm?I think it only matters to the extent of them personally finding you attractive. I've dated men that weren't my type and would probably be considered average but as long as they weren't grossly hideous, I was ok. I don't need anyone else validating my taste in men. I feel like some men are attracted to fat/chunky/unconventionally attractive women but it's their friends that are ragging on them for it (despite looking like ugly trolls themselves, most of the time) I like what I like, fuck other p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 04:55 PM |
| 30 | Why don't Men Realize that Not Caring about Women's Sexual Pleasure will Cause Women not to want Sex with them?Probably not attractive enough to get many women, they have to use coercion and manipulation tactics to get women to sleep with them because they don't attract women out of their own free will | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 04:36 PM |
| 36 | Why don't Men Realize that Not Caring about Women's Sexual Pleasure will Cause Women not to want Sex with them?Not really because he can just go find someone that will accept his behavior. The thing is, these dudes really don't care. Unless he has no other options. But it's dependent on the man. And women need to and have to stop tolerating this behavior from them. If he leaves, let him go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 04:11 PM |
| 57 | Literally ewObama is super high value, Trump is narcissistic lvm garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:33 PM |
| 91 | Literally ewNo matter how beautiful, rich, skinny or young you look, a LVM will always be an lvm. So many women here think that if they were stunningly beautiful that men would never cheat on them or treat them like crap. Here's proof that's absolutely not true. These guys will take the most beautiful women and treat them like they aren't even human. Look at the difference between Trump (a highly narcissistic lvm) and Obama (super HVM man) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:32 PM |
| 140 | Why don't Men Realize that Not Caring about Women's Sexual Pleasure will Cause Women not to want Sex with them?You can't expect people with little emotional intelligence, empathy or goodness to care about the feelings or needs/wants of another, including orgasm. These men will use, discard and treat women like shit. The issue was never the woman. It's that they are inherently selfish. You cant expect selflessness from someone that's self centered. If they suck at sex and can't make a woman cum, who cares amirite? They had sex! In their mind, women are just warm bodies to be use without reciprocation. The… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:27 PM |
| 46 | And Women are only CONSIDERED for the lucky position of his concubine IF she's slim, looks good, and takes care of his whole life.... SO DEAL WITH ITWith all brutal honesty, I don't care. Men do need to provide something, that's literally why they exist. To provide and protect, if they can't do either, they've failed as men. And men are the ones that often can't love unconditionally. I've heard all the nightmare stories of men leaving when their wife is sick. But the wife sticks around to help her husband. If you can't provide, you are not a man. Point blank. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:20 PM |
| 58 | AW SNAP! Who’d we trigger today?!! [Mildly Trending] /r/FemaleDatingStrategy - Female dating strategy (+391 subscribers today; 184% trend score)We have been popular on mgtow lately, search by new and look at how much they're talking about us lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 07:02 AM |
| 2 | All men are cheatersI kind of agree but I also agree with the comments. So there's truth to your post but also in the comments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 06:14 AM |
| 53 | This dick ain’t free booThis is the second post I've seen of this nature. What the hell ? Honestly, I'm sorry to say this, but this is a result of low standards set forth by women. Sex benefits men more than it benefits us. We are not built like men in that regard. Now they think of conning the very pick me's (super low self esteem) into treating them like the prizes and the king. Dude, do you not realize there's a sea of men out there ? And I bet some women will actually give into this just to not be alone. What a sha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 06:12 AM |
| 21 | Whats the point in liking a man if he's going to like multiple women at the same time?I had this meme but don't have it anymore it says something along the line of a man can be attracted to 4 different women and they can all be completely different at one time. And out of four men, women all probably find just one attractive. It's because women, by nature, have to be more selective. I think most women can agree they find the exact same type of guy attractive. While men will say 4 out 5 women they find attractive for different reasons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 12:56 AM |
| 32 | [Discussion] What are some indicators that reveal they person you're interacting with buy into the red pill?They neg you, they're up in everybody's inbox on Facebook and OLD, they have a known reputation of being a womanizer, that's just some of the main ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 12:52 AM |
| 10 | OkCupid experiment proves men don't mind dating sociopathsI've made several accounts before yearssss ago with different women of different races, weights, attractiveness and they ALL got a ton of messages. I was on POF and by the end of 1 month, I got like 800 matches (men that clicked yes on me) and a shitload of messages. Men will just hit up whoever, it's a numbers game to them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 10:44 PM |
| 17 | I found this sub in the middle of dating a LVM. Now I realized I should've listen to y'all back then.That's what sadly happens when you drop your standards. Honestly, he wasn't good enough for you but probably thought you were a catch because you obviously have WAAAY more going on for you than he does. It sounds like maybe your self esteem needed to be worked on. That's the main issue I see when women go below their league/worth, they end up with deadbeats, alcoholics, drug addicts, losers, momma's boys, gamers, etc. Those guys low-key resent women they know are better off than them. Or are loo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 10:41 PM |
| 36 | Low effortSavage. I love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 10:36 PM |
| 65 | I finally visited The Red Pill subreddit.It's basically the manual of how to be a creepy predator and lure women with their manipulation tactics and bullshit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:26 AM |
| 3 | “Suspended Billing” RageSo are mine, I guess we probably attract them due to that reason | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:09 AM |
| 3 | “Suspended Billing” RageIt's scary and yes, they must be clones. You were very good at spotting it, too. Because when I initially read OP's story, I didn't catch it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:04 AM |
| 5 | “Suspended Billing” RageI agree with geisha, he does indeed, sound like a narcissist. And I didn't catch it at first when I read your story, so she was good at spotting it. The intensity of his first approach and how quick it was going does sound like love bombing. The phone seems like a power move, to control you or perhaps he didn't care that you saw he was going in another date and possibly planned for that to happen. He had you meet his family, you were intimate with him, everything went by so fast. He discarded yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:00 AM |
| 9 | “Suspended Billing” RageI went through the exact same thing. They don't make logical sense. And the way they ALL act the same is crazy. It's like they all follow the same exact script. The love bomb, the idealization, devaluation, discard and even the mark afterwards is totally freaking true. The mirroring of other person's personality. Weird Even the whole finding new supply and honeymoon stage is insane. I wonder what makes them all follow the same damn script. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 03:42 AM |
| 35 | And he was doing so well until this point.I swear to God, the majority of them are like this. It's like they wait days on end to pull this question and by then, you've wasted so much time. Like....why would you think that's an ok thing to say ? But the way he phrased it left me baffled, what the fuck ?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 03:40 AM |
| 32 | Men are "visual creatures"...but also blind?Surprisingly, it's other women that complain the most about makeup. The only differences I've noticed (as in change of attention) is blonde hair is waaay more attention calling than just brunette hair. I had blonde highlights and people noticed me more. And I went from a curvy (but 10, 15 pounds overweight but still had a nice body shape with a large chest) I've noticed men really fetishized me and desired me sexually. My chest/body really drew a lot of attention, some good and some bad. People … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 08:14 PM |
| 45 | For me it was also self esteem too, #youthI did this due to low self esteem and a lack of quality options at the time. Due my mental illness, I was isolating myself. So any half decent guy looked "good" But they ended up being the same garbage regardless. Some of those below average "nice guys" are really just trying to sleep with women, too. That's a stereotype I fell for. I guess it just all came down to 2 things: low self esteem and scarcity mindset. That's a dangerous combination because it makes you more vulnerable to saying yes to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 08:06 PM |
| 10 | Should I be worried that my (F27) boyfriend (M28) has a female best friend that he texts more than me?Awesome advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 05:40 PM |
| 4 | (rant) some of these guys are really hurt over a few bucksI've never been in that situation but I would just excuse myself if I felt that coming and dip lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 05:31 PM |
| 35 | PSA: Control your alcohol.I agree with you except in my case, they'd try to get me high to me make more susceptible to their advances. These men are predators. They will try to subdue you to make you more inclined to do what they want and they know full well what they're diing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 11:36 AM |
| 28 | Lovely guy doesn't blame his gf for her getting raped. Oh wait no he does. And then dumps her when she needs him most. And lies about the reason of the dumping... woah. Just woah.I really can't with people like this. What if that was your daughter ? Would you also blame her ? People make mistakes and you as a human being place the priority of you "being right" over your gf's safety shows that you don't deserve her in any way, or any woman for that matter. In his mind, it's justified that she was raped because "she didn't listen to him". Ugh, I seriously hope karma gets his ass one day when he's down and at his most vulnerable. This shit us straight up evil. Raped by a ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 11:33 AM |
| 8 | (rant) some of these guys are really hurt over a few bucksYeah, they have no business dating/hooking up if they're broke and can't offer shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 11:08 AM |
| 5 | (rant) some of these guys are really hurt over a few bucksThis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 11:06 AM |
| 9 | (rant) some of these guys are really hurt over a few bucksLMFAO it's like they need the money more than we do. But I don't buy into it (literally) their broke asses can't afford to date or pay for something, they get no attention from me. And I don't do casual hookups so nobody is getting free anything from me, especially not access to my body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 11:05 AM |
| 9 | (rant) some of these guys are really hurt over a few bucksI can't relate, I have never paid 50/50 or for anything on a date. I always make sure I ask who is paying, if they ever said 50/50, I go ghost. But I've never ran into that problem. I just made this post because I know there's men out there reading this that shouldn't be dating and should be getting their shit together (not crying, bitching and moaning) as men and act like real men. Even the lvm I did meet in the past would pay for at least SOMETHING. Me? Never. I think there was only one time w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 10:58 AM |
| 13 | (rant) some of these guys are really hurt over a few bucksHe's compensating me for my time. You do you but that's my personal rule. You ask me out, you're paying whether I end up liking you or not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 05:10 AM |
| 27 | (rant) some of these guys are really hurt over a few bucksAgreed. They really get hurt because their shitty job doesn't pay them well enough to afford that $10 glass of Chardonnay. That's probably their budget for weed or cigs or something non useful/trashy instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 01:08 AM |
| 6 | Men can't rely on their money and status anymoreSome of these men really got it like that and aren't hurt over money because they make lots of it and don't care But a lot of them are hurt over $40 bucks because that shit burns a hole through their pocket. They can't spend it on weed and alcohol which they'd choose over treating a woman out on yet...a mediocre "date" if you could even call it that lmfao. Everything they do is substandard and reflects so badly on them. The way they dress, the way they act, the way they speak, their mediocre and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 12:37 AM |
| 20 | This made me giggleCute :3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 09:35 PM |
| 66 | When Men Say They Love WomenLove to them is transactional and not true love. They can only think of the benefits, not us as human beings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 08:43 PM |
| 6 | Do guys suggest fwb to girls who they think above their league or high quality ?I've seen some plain Jane, average women get posted all over social media with her boyfriend telling the world how much he loves her. And some conventionally attractive, half naked, dolled up women perpetually single and/or a single mom. Or used for sex. So it's highly dependent on the man. If the man is high value, he's going to treat her like a queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 07:58 PM |
| 4 | When they want you past their prime...lmfaoThey don't even have to hit 30...they're hitting it at 25 sometimes even earlier 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 07:49 PM |
| 7 | Men can't rely on their money and status anymoreIt doesn't matter, those jobs hardly raise their status. Women are acheiving more status in their careers just by the title alone. A female doctor or lawyer isn't going to want to be with some construction worker or truck driver. They make money doing that but their status is mediocre and they aren't making as much as the above. And they find that threatening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 07:39 PM |
| 7 | Man reveals LVM tactic of stringing women along for yearsPlease make the post, this problem is a rampant one and it's been happening to many women on here. The amount it goes on, it's ridiculous how many of us have gotten hooked in by a liar and con artist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 05:16 PM |
| 10 | Men can't rely on their money and status anymoreThey're trying to impress women, especially young women by being mediocre. Little do they realize how repellant they are, in actuality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 05:13 PM |
| 15 | Man reveals LVM tactic of stringing women along for yearsI wasn't a virgin but still was naive with men. All it takes is being single for a very long time. I'm not very religious but I don't believe sex should be given to just any man. It's becoming more and more common for these guys to fake everything, even being a hvm for sex. I was strung along once, too. The lengths these guys will go for their ego and to get sex from a woman is insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 10:15 AM |
| 10 | Man reveals LVM tactic of stringing women along for yearsExactly and they probably they are. They hate virgins and they hate whores, they're all the same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 10:10 AM |
| 10 | Should I lose my v card already??You aren't alone. I feel like this story is becoming all too common on here. Like, what goes through a guys mind when they do something like that ? IDK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 10:06 AM |
| 17 | When they want you past their prime...lmfaoOh my God, it's true They're not even 30 yet and look terrible!!! Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 09:58 AM |
| 10 | Should I lose my v card already??You have to think about the outcome of your decisions. What if the guy ends up playing you? You have to be ok with that. You might end up with feelings. Make a list of prod and cons. If you can't handle the cons, I would wait until I were more mature and could handle it. You're still young, there's no rush to do anything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 07:10 AM |
| 14 | Man reveals LVM tactic of stringing women along for yearsI'm horrified for that poor woman, too. What an extreme betrayal of trust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 07:06 AM |
| 21 | Man reveals LVM tactic of stringing women along for yearsThanks for clarifying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 05:47 AM |
| 13 | Do guys suggest fwb to girls who they think above their league or high quality ?I agree. And if he wants to "lock one woman down", it's only so other men don't get at her and he tries to isolate her. You can get a commitment from a man and still be treated like shit and abused, no matter how good you look. And you can still get cheated on while he messes around with his harem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 05:11 AM |
| 57 | When they want you past their prime...lmfaoExactly, even people that bullied you send you friend requests and try to talk to you. Nope, blocked 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 05:04 AM |
| 4 | Can a guy be HVM if he still lives with his mom?In my honest opinion, no. He should be independent at least with a roommate. Mommy? No way..there's definitely something wrong there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 04:11 AM |
| 38 | Do guys suggest fwb to girls who they think above their league or high quality ?No, they try it with anyone. If they can get free sex from any woman, above or below his league, why wouldn't he want that? Most guys don't want commitment when they can have a harem of women at their fingertips. If he can pull multiple women, you better believe he isn't going to want to be tied down. I'm more inclined to believe men that can't find more than 1 woman are more likely to want a relationship. If it happens to be a model, and he can't normally pull a model,.then yeah I think he woul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 04:05 AM |
| 55 | LVM will claim that gender roles don’t exist when they absolutely do: Tinder exchangeHe really just called you bro... I would have blocked him on the spot, I'm not your bro | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 04:03 AM |
| 8 | They Always Come BackThey could also potentially be narcissists. Narcissists run out of supply and go back to an old supply when they have no other options available. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 04:01 AM |
| 41 | Thank you fairy godmother 😌He can pretend to like you too, love bombing is something to watch out for | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 03:58 AM |
| 8 | Before you’re tempted to sleep with someone of low value- think on thisDo some of y'all really be reading the same post and come up with these ridiculous conclusions and get offended by imagined things ? I'm just being honest here You DO exchange energy. And if someone god forbid gets raped or abused, that person is stealing their energy. It's wrong. Sex is a big thing. It shouldn't be treated nonchalantly and looked at as just a "dick or a vagina." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 03:55 AM |
| 5 | Before you’re tempted to sleep with someone of low value- think on thisI agree 100% And I'm against anything casual. I believe we do transfer energy when we sleep with someone. And a lot of people ignore it and don't want to believe it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 03:48 AM |
| 49 | Beware of bearded men: exhibit 268Lmfaooo even worse when the receding chin has a receding hairline to match 😂🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 05:23 AM |
| 4 | A traumatic “relationship” has made me lose any hope for future love.I mean, I don't blame you. I just think he's gonna probably destroy himself in the end anyways. He has herpes and he's an alcoholic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 01:12 AM |
| 11 | A traumatic “relationship” has made me lose any hope for future love.Hey hun. First of all, I'm sorry this nightmare happened to you. It must be very hard to go through. I went through something maybe not as severe but a little similar. And I can relate to the feeling of wanting revenge. And I can understand your feelings of wanting revenge, too. I can't judge you for feeling that way. Honestly, if I were in your position, I don't even know what I would do with how angry I'd be. I would say just talk to a professional about it. Herpes is serious and devastating b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Is it a red flag when a man says he likes the book Lolita?That's a big, huge red flag. No doubt about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Successful attractive men are more likely to have a superiority complex than successful attractive women.That's fine too, if he's attractive, it's a plus. But all I'm saying is that looks will fade. People gain weight, etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 09:20 PM |
| 36 | Found one MDS is just how to play FDS to their advantageExactly the same garbage. Manipulation and pulling strings to get pussy. Instead of devoting time into something more worthwhile like I dunno...a good career, a great job, their own business. Theyre out there chasing pussy that's gonna get them nowhere at the end of the day. These guys really lack any value. They have no ambition to do anything except be a useless, worthless scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 09:16 PM |
| 45 | Found one MDS is just how to play FDS to their advantageI'm fucking dead at this comment LMFAO. They're crying & bitching over a tiny amount of money, it's because they don't have any. Men that really have the $$$ don't give a fuck because they know they'll make it right back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 09:14 PM |
| 10 | Successful attractive men are more likely to have a superiority complex than successful attractive women.Right? Looks will fade but an intelligent man with great accomplishments is significantly more high value in my eyes than a guy that just "looks good." I'm not looking to sleep with any men casually though. I understand there are women out there that do the whole fwb or casual sex thing. That's not what I'm into. So perhaps looks goes more into doing that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 09:09 PM |
| 8 | Successful attractive men are more likely to have a superiority complex than successful attractive women.Hot men get away with so much more crap just because they're "hot", hot doesn't equal high value. Average doesn't equal low value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 09:07 PM |
| 23 | Successful attractive men are more likely to have a superiority complex than successful attractive women.I don't care how "attractive" he is, I don't do the whole halo effect thing. Attractive men don't get special treatment from me. Too many people let them get away with bloody murder just because they look good, low value is low value. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 09:05 PM |
| 23 | STRAIGHT 👏🏼 MEN 👏🏼 AREN’T 👏🏼 YOUR 👏🏼 FRIENDS 👏🏼They're all waiting for a time when you're down emotionally to pull their little stunt AKA make a move on you. Opportunists and snakes. Keep your scrote friends at arms length. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 09:03 PM |
| 26 | Don’t forget, your sexuality terrifies LVMMost of them have a small or skinny dick anyways 🤷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 04:29 PM |
| 7 | Seriously tho, how is it that MGTOW, redpill etc haven't been banned?Doesn't make it any less true 🤷 It's a reality of life, more often than not, they end up like the parent. Not wanting to see this as the most likely outcome is ignorance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 04:39 AM |
| 30 | SeXuAl eMpOwErmeNt vs Sexual Empowerment, and why this sub does not support BDSM, Abuse Kink, and Performative SexualityYup. Mine was a narcissist too. They get supply from the act and making their victims do humilating things and they will up the ante constantly and push your boundaries too. Then shame you for doing it wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 01:59 AM |
| 28 | SeXuAl eMpOwErmeNt vs Sexual Empowerment, and why this sub does not support BDSM, Abuse Kink, and Performative SexualityIt's probably her own subconscious trying to rationalize or justify it. She probably feels wrong about it low-key and is looking for approval from other women to make it seem OK in her mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 01:56 AM |
| 19 | SeXuAl eMpOwErmeNt vs Sexual Empowerment, and why this sub does not support BDSM, Abuse Kink, and Performative SexualityUgh, sexual pickmeishas are some of the worst pickme's. Like, you are literally selling your soul and degrading yourself and are ok with it. Wtf. Some of the dumbest bitches in existence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 01:55 AM |
| 24 | Women Overtake Men as Majority of U.S. WorkforceCongrats to all women and finding financial freedom but don't allow these dudes to shack up with you. Prenup if you have a good career and job. And don't bob the build them up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 01:33 AM |
| 18 | Male friendship? The value of supply and demand and how men try to create false scarcityYour post is on point 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 01:32 AM |
| 14 | Seriously tho, how is it that MGTOW, redpill etc haven't been banned?Exactly. They are being hooked in quite young. It's like popping out clones especially if one of those scrotes breed. They don't breed noble men, they breed more degenerate scrotes with a penchant for being a low life scumbag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 01:19 AM |
| 22 | Seriously tho, how is it that MGTOW, redpill etc haven't been banned?It's ok to admit it because they do it intentionally. I've had some try to get me drunk and / or high just to make me more susceptible towards their advances. They know exactly what they're doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 01:15 AM |
| 32 | Seriously tho, how is it that MGTOW, redpill etc haven't been banned?I know, it's fucking disgusting. It should really be illegal to share information like that tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 01:11 AM |
| 76 | Seriously tho, how is it that MGTOW, redpill etc haven't been banned?I wish I knew the answer but I agree with you wholeheartedly. Fds and those subs have NOTHING in common. FDS is disarming their tactics, exposing them and proving a lot of what they say isn't true (wall, Chad/beta/alpha/theta/gamma LMFAO) I just look at it this way, those guys are representative of the biggest male abusers you've ever met. Every narcissist, every molestor, every predator, every entitled male is what I envision when I think of personifying them and imagining them as a person. No … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 01:01 AM |
| 12 | Pickmeishas take note, although I doubt this person is capable of loving anyone. Note how he even expects the one he "loves" to take care of him physically and mentally EVERY DAY. I expect any man I date to add to my already full life and that's why I'm always single. I haven't found one yet.What a clown, this is anything but a real man. This person is a joke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 10:02 PM |
| 28 | Daily reminder if no one knows you’re together, you’re 110% single and free to act single.This is true but don't forget he can be show you everywhere on social media but still be acting single. So be careful. See it all the time on FB. So and so is in a relationship with _______ but hitting up everybody's inbox and looking half naked pics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 10:00 PM |
| 51 | Yes, this is directed at you 👀 Block him, sis.This is called orbiting and these guys will just waste your time. They know what they're doing is trying to stay in your mind. Just delete & block | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 09:59 PM |
| 26 | Too soon for him to invest and commit, but not too soon for him to try to have sex with you? 🤔 Funny how that worksFucking facts 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 09:58 PM |
| 110 | Take the psychoanalysis and sign reading to another sub. It’s simple!He could also be talking to like, 5 other women and playing them all 🤷 To some men, it's a numbers game. He don't care about any women in his roster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 09:57 PM |
| 4 | I think my mum and this sub might have saved me from something possibly quite sinister.Thank you hun. Stay safe, don't care what these guys say or think, your safety is more important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 09:56 PM |
| 27 | SeXuAl eMpOwErmeNt vs Sexual Empowerment, and why this sub does not support BDSM, Abuse Kink, and Performative Sexuality100% agreed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 09:54 PM |
| 51 | SeXuAl eMpOwErmeNt vs Sexual Empowerment, and why this sub does not support BDSM, Abuse Kink, and Performative SexualityI really hate sexual pickmeishas. A lot of these guys masquerade as dom's but are in actually, abusers and misogynists. So glad the sub is finally putting these pick me's out and no longer tolerating it Stuff that they say is embarrassing af. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 09:52 PM |
| 45 | SeXuAl eMpOwErmeNt vs Sexual Empowerment, and why this sub does not support BDSM, Abuse Kink, and Performative SexualityI am so glad this post was made. I was abused my whole so I was made to believe that BDSM was supposed to be "empowering" or "healing." No, the one and ONLY time I've done it and it was by someone who was low-key abusive, porn sick, addicted and obviously a misogynist on some level. Pretty sure he got off on my humiliation and degradation. It's hard to believe any man that practices it, isn't a misogynist or has a serious porn issues (addiction, misogyny) Probably an unpopular opinion too but I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 09:46 PM |
| 24 | I think my mum and this sub might have saved me from something possibly quite sinister.Never push away that intuition woman...that is your best defense against these creeps/predators. Thank God you decided not to go, your mother could have been right. Sadly, I was on the opposite side of the coin. I didn't listen to my intuition. I got taken advantage of. It was set up in a somewhat similar situation like yours but more complicated. And I warn and urge you and any other woman, listen to your gut instinct. Don't overlook red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 04:52 PM |
| 6 | (Opinion) Men take more from women than women take from menThey expect us to be a free therapist and mommy but they wouldn't do the same for us...fuck that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Beware men of low socioeconomic status😭😭😭😂😂😂 Still begging for my approval? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 06:49 AM |
| 3 | Beware men of low socioeconomic statusThank you for sharing your experience. I knew my post wasn't going to be popular because people were going to dismiss it and not like what I had to say. But I took the risk because hey...it's my upbringing. The whole ride or die mentality is very real and super toxic. I've gone to better school, better areas and I would never wanna go back to that social class. At least not when looking for a man or hvm But dismissing a subject as "classiest, racist, etc" some people are just looking for somethi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 06:29 AM |
| 3 | Beware men of low socioeconomic statusI mean, that's great and I'm happy you found an exception but my opinion still stands. I do not, personally, wish to go back down to that group of LVM. We have had completely different experiences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Beware men of low socioeconomic statusLiterally have never heard anyone else here talk about "class" except for maybe not dating a guy that's broke. Anyways, who wants to go down in status? You should want better for yourself. That's not to say everyone from a low S.E.S is inherently poor or awful. But I know what I'm talking about, I grew up in that area. And racism, I haven't heard FDS talking about race AT ALL. Ghetto/acting low class is something any person of any race can be. Same thing with being well mannered. You have to be … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 06:19 AM |
| 15 | High School Football player kills his pregnant girlfriend bec she didn’t get an abortion. #1 comment on Reddit? “I tHiNk mEn sHoUld be aBle to LegalLy Abort.” Honestly the scrotes are selfish and depraved beyond comprehension.It's trash tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 04:23 AM |
| 36 | Sometimes I wonder how the hell some men are so confident hitting on HVW while being low value af.They LOVE the conquest, they think they better they do (looks wise, status wise, manipulation wise) the more they are "worthy." But it's pure ego. That's all they feed into. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 04:18 AM |
| 6 | Beware men of low socioeconomic statusI've said what I had to say, that's my final comment here and I stand by it 100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Beware men of low socioeconomic statusThat's a long way of saying, you aren't doing what I want you to do. Girl, I suggest you go cry elsewhere and stop looking for stuff to be offended by. This is the internet, people say stuff you don't agree with or don't like. Just move along | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 03:45 AM |
| 3 | Beware men of low socioeconomic statusI said in the next paragraph, there are some that don't want to be like the people they grew up around | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 03:16 AM |
| 6 | Beware men of low socioeconomic statusSorry but this is my honest opinion, if the mods want to lock or delete it, that's fine by me. If people want to see race, that's on them. Any race can be any of the above, it's not limited to just a couple. You can be white, Asian, Hispanic, Arab or black and be any of the above. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 03:14 AM |
| 8 | Beware men of low socioeconomic statusTrue. I'm middle class now (made it outta there) and I prefer to not go back down. Too many LVM outnumber the HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 02:25 AM |
| 7 | Beware men of low socioeconomic statusI grew up in that environment...you can't buy class. Once they're ratchet and ghetto, it stays with them for life. That's what made them...well...them. The rare ones that make it out and become decent people are ok, I think they understand and look at the others and don't want to be like them. I'm sure you have experienced the other side, I grew up around the other side of the spectrum and I generally stay away from those types of people, given my experience. If you set your standards for them t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 02:24 AM |
| 109 | Seen on FB. My LVM ex used to make me give him my card/cash so he could look like he was paying for our date.Oh my God I was just thinking about this meme today 😂 The ultimate dusty, can't pay for shit stance. I could never...and I'm sorry your loser ex did that to you. You deserve waaaay better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 01:45 AM |
| 51 | High School Football player kills his pregnant girlfriend bec she didn’t get an abortion. #1 comment on Reddit? “I tHiNk mEn sHoUld be aBle to LegalLy Abort.” Honestly the scrotes are selfish and depraved beyond comprehension.He looks like sideshow bob and men should have absolutely NO authority or business in women's pregnancy, bodies or abortion. Fugly guy, I hope he gets prison for life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 01:43 AM |
| 2 | I don’t want to, but I am really starting to hate men.Idk if you meant me or the person above me lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 01:13 AM |
| 10 | (Opinion) Men take more from women than women take from menFactssss 50/50 but yet we still have to do most of the work...fuck that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 10:35 PM |
| 22 | I don’t want to, but I am really starting to hate men.They certainly do bond over the degradation and humiliation of women especially with porn making it seem ok in recent years. I am disgusted when I read the shit on Reddit. They all have become sadistic and they ENJOY the pain the inflict. Until they face the same fate, they won't know what it feels like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 08:22 PM |
| 56 | Beat it, loserYuck. So gross I can't even look at this picture without visceral revulsion. The cigarettes and bum ass appearance is enough to make me gag 🤢 Not to mention the hatfish and 5'o clock beard shadow. I can smell this picture. Throw the whole guy away 😷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 07:56 PM |
| 48 | I don’t want to, but I am really starting to hate men.Exactly, they're looking for free prostitutes. At the expense of our bodies, our time, our heart, our soul, they leave a trail of women they intentionally hurt and inflict pain upon. That is their calling in life- to exploit. To exploit because they can't behave or control their desires. Their desire to fuck is #1 top priority and fuck women's emotions, right ? It's like we don't even register as human beings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 07:53 PM |
| 24 | LVM traps 25 y/o with baby. Gets mad when she resists motherhood.Lvm don't use condoms on purpose because they like the thrill of getting the woman pregnant, at least on some level. Otherwise, they'd use protection to prevent it. Some of them are literally subconsciously looking for a baby momma. It's to trap the woman with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 06:32 PM |
| 17 | They did this to themselvesI 100% agree, they made their bed and they must lay in it But this shit gets me heated, I wish we had a sub to also expose all of their PUA/RP/seduction tactics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 06:19 PM |
| 10 | Men who string women along for sex are a special kind of evil.Lmfao. It's their ego, the conquest and the desire to get YOU to want him as more than sex. That way he can add the emotional bond (that women get tied to) so that you won't leave him. They play the game also to re enter your life when they're you know...bored...horny...in need of company. As another thread said, they don't only use us for sex. But company, support, emotional support, for conversation, money, a place to stay, when they're lonely, etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 05:43 PM |
| 18 | Men who string women along for sex are a special kind of evil.I don't remember where I saw it but it was in the manosphere they were talking about how it's easier to sleep with women that state they "are looking for an LTR, no hookups!" And they basically did it for their ego. Also, you hit the nail on the head. They don't like women that sleep with lots of men so go figure ...they sleep with women that want an LTR. The irony is what kills me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 05:40 PM |
| 110 | I don’t want to, but I am really starting to hate men.I don't want this to go for (reflect) the rest of the sub, because we all have different experiences with men, but I am a misandrist. I'm not openly vocal about it, but it's definitely there when I have to interact with men. And that's after a lifetime of dealing with them. Most of them have no morals. They molest their own family members, they prey upon their female friends (opportunists) they force themselves upon women, they manipulate, con and exploit women that have done nothing to them. So… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Men who string women along for sex are a special kind of evil.That's literally what I just said and half my threads are on this very subject | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 03:37 PM |
| 112 | Why does it seem like men always dislike their girlfriends or wives friends?Because we are all bullshit detectors. This sub exposes men constantly just like a good female friend would. And look at all of the hate we receive by these dudes lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Men who stick around and take you on fun and lavish experiences, but still don’t want a relationship?Friend zone him but only if you don't ha e no feelings, no hugs or kisses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 11:25 PM |
| 38 | Men who string women along for sex are a special kind of evil.Um, when did I say they were desirable ? Considering the amount of pick me women out there (desperate for a man) it's not so hard for SOME guys to take one, shack up like a hobosexual and manipulate her into letting him stay while having sex with her. They have more options now, any option to them is better than no option. That's why I said it's easy for them to at least find ONE woman, desirability is moot when youre able to run game at least on one unsuspecting victim | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 10:15 PM |
| 212 | Men who string women along for sex are a special kind of evil.Girl, there are so many subs on Reddit dedicate to that very subject. How to manipulate, con and sneak your way into a woman's heart and mind just so you can get some pussy. Why should we feel bad from friendzoning them ? Why should we feel bad for having standards ? Or asking them to pay? Play these fuckers like a game. Never let them sleep with you. Use their own ego and hubris against them. Nowadays, they'll fake whole relationships to get sex. It's sick. They have every type of social media … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 06:58 PM |
| 7 | I find it really disappointing that this sub is so hated on RedditYeah.. We don't do 50/50 here so not sure if you're in the right sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 05:21 PM |
| 4 | Millions of sperm to one egg...That's even better lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 03:49 PM |
| 31 | I find it really disappointing that this sub is so hated on RedditOnce a pick me gets a man, it's like their whole world changes they're stupid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:24 AM |
| 4 | I hate the belief/saying that there's "someone for everyone"Facts, truthfully, a large percentage will never pass on their genes or settle down. Evolution/biology takes care of them anyways | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:03 AM |
| 26 | I find it really disappointing that this sub is so hated on RedditAct holier than thou if that makes you feel better, why don't you go join their spaces if you don't feel comfortable in this one ? I'm sure they'd love a pick me on their side...that is if they don't throw you out first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:01 AM |
| 23 | I find it really disappointing that this sub is so hated on RedditYou have a problem with that but not the 728273737382 misogynistic and pro manipulation toxic subs created by men...please go cry us a river | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 07:56 AM |
| 46 | I find it really disappointing that this sub is so hated on RedditIt's like when they hire a woman at their male dominated job that they're convinced got there because of her gender. We are that woman. Fuck them 🖕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 06:24 AM |
| 241 | I find it really disappointing that this sub is so hated on RedditTBH fuck this entire website. This whole website is filled with low-key pedophiles, ephebophiles, weebs, wanna be "chads", pity party incels, holier than thou pseudo intellectuals, men that think we care if they exit the gene pool, conniving sorry excuses for the XY chromosome that can't get pussy without trickery, and men that upvote anything with boobs and a vagina. And pick me women, both feminist and traditional. You couldn't pay me to care about any of the above listed. I'm just here for th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Giving up sorryGreat advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 01:10 AM |
| 36 | Millions of sperm to one egg...Because it would cause them to actually become men of value (to compete) but they can't so they have to con, manipulate and bullshit their way into our pants and hearts. Even biology reflects that we shouldn't give most of them a chance lol. Women are meant to be selective and most men will never pass their genes on...oh well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 11:56 PM |
| 17 | Porn sickness tells: Early male pattern baldingIm shocked by how many of us here have encounter the same type of man appearance wise...like we may be into something here... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 11:50 PM |
| 10 | Porn sickness tells: Early male pattern baldingIt really is and on top of that, they're still in their 20s so they're gonna crash and burn earlier than other scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 11:49 PM |
| 26 | Texting causes fake sense of intimacyI know it's like they copy & paste it then send it to there contact list and wait to see who responds. Then they send all the game & bullshit to all the women responding and get them emotionally invested so they can have sex. Yuck, so low value, I can't even... Then women ask the questions like why did he back/pull away...sis, it's what you ARENT seeing you should be worried about. That's why you don't reciprocate until you vet him (IRL to see if he's serious) and investing in you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 11:40 PM |
| 8 | Porn sickness tells: Early male pattern baldingI think we may have found the ultimate fuckboy (in appearance) lolol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 11:36 PM |
| 7 | Porn sickness tells: Early male pattern baldingLMFAO if we did, fuck that guy 😂 Or maybe those types of guys are just shitty all around...makes sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 11:32 PM |
| 13 | First of all, get into this tea. All of Britain is mad 😭, but can someone explain to me why Megan is so hated?I always thought he was the black sheep of his family and always wanted to branch off to do something else. So this is prob better for him, he prob doesn't care too much about being a royal and his wife helped him with that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 11:24 PM |
| 17 | FDS queens who use OLD--how long do you entertain texting before moving on?Not long. It causes fake emotional intimacy. He can gain your trust easily by sending you GoOD MorNinG BeaUtiFuL every day and night and he's probably sending the same corny ass message to 5 other women. Or he's a ain't shit dude and has too much time in his hands AKA no job or shitty job and spends all day texting like a teenager. Another Hallmark of an LVM. A man should have a good job, along with actual hobbies (aka not porn and video games or getting drunk and high) Don't entertain it or use… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 11:00 PM |
| 72 | Giving up sorryI have a friend that would be considered ugly...like receding chin, big hook nose, sparse eyebrows and she barely takes showers and she's let be honest...ugly. and she's been engaged 3 times!!! Hasn't been single since we're 16! Me and my friends have ALWAYS been bewildered by her. It's not all about looks. She was openly romantic, empathic and cared a lot about the guys she was with. And I could tell guys DID see something in her. Not just sex but a connection. Her first fiancee was literally c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 10:41 PM |
| 21 | Porn sickness tells: Early male pattern baldingLol computer screen 😂 That must be it...jerking off is making them bald | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 10:35 PM |
| 11 | Porn sickness tells: Early male pattern baldingYeah idk why they tend to be on the chubby side maybe the high T has something to do with it ? Their craving for sex makes them do irrational things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 09:56 PM |
| 11 | Porn sickness tells: Early male pattern baldingLMAO I'm so dead 💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 09:54 PM |
| 17 | Porn sickness tells: Early male pattern baldingIDK if it's just me but along with balding they usually have a beard anf they're usually kind of chubby or fat lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 09:39 PM |
| 37 | Porn sickness tells: Early male pattern baldingMy last dusty/lvm is balding and he's in his early 20s lol and he has chest hair and a beard. Can't wait til the day he's finally bald. And he has a HIGH libido so this post is on point! Nothing but the truth 🤣😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 09:38 PM |
| 10 | Men always act like men aren’t all sexually opportunistic trash except when they’re trying to explain why it’s your fault you got raped then it’s all “well what did you think was going to happen?!”.I think they do befriend women they don't find attractive, as well. They just probably either won't orbit openly or are more secretive about it. Biology dictates men to mainly be attracted to many types of women (it's just not "socially acceptable" for them to say they find the plain Jane or unattractive girl...alluring) maybe not always but in some cases, yes. But scrotes know what they are doing ladies, they're waiting for someone in your life to slip up so they can play the White Knight and g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 10:24 AM |
| 18 | Do you believe you are what you attract??You have to look at it (reframe it) from a different angle: Fuckboys will go for almost about any woman. So if they're approaching you, they're approaching most women around you. Whether it be the conquest, whether they consider you practice or to feed their fragile ego, that's what they do. That is in their nature. They need to feed their ego in order to feel safe. Sometimes it's not even about the sex, it's just the conquest and manipulation tactics to get better and better. You need to raise … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 05:26 AM |
| 45 | Men always act like men aren’t all sexually opportunistic trash except when they’re trying to explain why it’s your fault you got raped then it’s all “well what did you think was going to happen?!”.They know it, just they think we'll buy it. They tell us stuff that gaslights us en Masse. You can never count in them to be honest. Most of our scrotes friends are waiting for an opportunity of weakness for them to try to put the moves on us. They are waiting for the day (like an orbiter) when we are vulnerable to their bullshitting because they know they would never have a chance at any other time. They're oppourtunists with an agenda. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 05:20 AM |
| 2 | An excerpt from "Men don't love women like you" (read)Probably the name of the book. But that's at your own discretion if you choose to follow the authors advice. (But he does talk about some things similar to FDS like having high self esteem and not taking shit from men) I just wanted to share insight about LVM and their tactics (how to mess with their massive ego). Best course of action is to recognize that's a lvm and block/delete. but still very informative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 03:40 AM |
| 9 | An excerpt from "Men don't love women like you" (read)This is a page from Men Don't Love Women Like You by GL Lambert. It's a pretty good read to get into the minds and M.O. of LVM. No HVM would act the way the author describes in the book. But he definitely gives you A LOT of insight into the way these dudes operate. And I was shocked. I definitely recommend it. I wish I would have read it before I met the final dusty/lvm I had the misfortune of meeting. It goes along with the "mask/representative" act I always talk about in my threads The best ad… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 02:43 AM |
| 3 | LVM now targeting high value women..That's not what was meant. What was meant was they think they're the (passive) feminine force. They want to be taken care of and treated like the prize. That's not masculine behavior ..that's entitlement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 12:46 AM |
| 7 | LVM now targeting high value women..No one, not even hvw are omnipotent or omniescent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 07:14 AM |
| 4 | Games men play: Rapo (explains their shitty behavior)That's men for you. There's nightmare fuel on here talking about the forever GF and being in a relationship for 5+ year's with no rings. Basically wasting time. They intend on going nowhere. A lot of men are honestly just a waste of time. They think the woman they're with is good enough for the time being. And maybe they'll meet "the one", the woman they are with is referred to as a "placeholder" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Games men play: Rapo (explains their shitty behavior)No, it's called Transactional Analysis and there's a book written by Dr Eric Berne. It analyzes transactions between people and different ego States and games that people get drawn into. It's interesting, you should look it up. It's helpful in any interaction with just just about anybody. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 01:34 AM |
| 9 | Some redpiller sent me this DM after my last post. He talks about his totally real, definitely not made-up wife as though she's a dog 🤢Lmfaoooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 09:30 PM |
| 40 | Some redpiller sent me this DM after my last post. He talks about his totally real, definitely not made-up wife as though she's a dog 🤢And if the woman ends up being exactly what he describes (AKA a slave) he ends up getting bored of her and not respecting her. Then off to the next one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 09:26 PM |
| 14 | Some redpiller sent me this DM after my last post. He talks about his totally real, definitely not made-up wife as though she's a dog 🤢This shit is a joke, I'm amazed how creative they are at bullshitting and fantasizing about this 🤣🤣🤣 They really believe their own delusions. If he were truly doing any of that, why is he writing it out to someone he doesn't know in the interest wtf 😭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 09:25 PM |
| 4 | They have no problem paying cam girls, twitch girls or other women onlineSounds like they're fueling their pornography addiction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 08:13 PM |
| 2 | They have no problem paying cam girls, twitch girls or other women onlineThat's to true, they cater to their fantasy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 05:46 PM |
| 15 | They have no problem paying cam girls, twitch girls or other women onlineTBH I don't really care what they want or not. I'm not going to be a pick me or learn from girls that they'd probably disrespect in person too if they had a chance to. And I wasn't speaking about myself personally but since FDS always has a millions screenshots of men refusing to put in any effort, I thought I'd remind everyone here they'd be more than willing to pay for nudes and stuff like that than a meal at a restaurant. Girl, I would never go out with a guy that couldn't take me out to a ni… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 05:36 PM |
| 41 | YOU are the one who sets the pace. Ignore pushy/aggressive/over-eager LVM and fuckboys.This happened to me right before I became aware of FDS. Thank you for the post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 11:23 AM |
| 20 | Games men play: Rapo (explains their shitty behavior)Ego is something so strong and vile in these guys.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 11:17 AM |
| 22 | Games men play: Rapo (explains their shitty behavior)There's also rapo level 3- "Level 3 male Rapo, like its female equivalent, ends in suicide or the courtroom. The sucker is lured into a relationship with the player, much like Level 2, but for an extended period of time and with an added possessiveness on his part (which encourages possessiveness on her part). When she makes moves to get out of the relationship, he pulls her back in until he knows he has her. Satisfied with the results of his mindgame, he pulls off the mask and reveals to her th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 07:29 AM |
| 19 | Games men play: Rapo (explains their shitty behavior)There needs to be an updated (more modern ) transactional analysis book that's why the info there isn't updated to today (technological advances like cellphone & social media) but the point still stands Yes they target hvw after using up pickmeisha, then use up the hvm. They are monkey branching to reap more benefits and rewards. They have no morals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 07:24 AM |
| 14 | You want me to stay loyal to you when we’re just TALKING to each other? That’s cute! 😂That's literally how they think I'm regards to everything dealing with us. It's damned if you do, damned if you don't. Or like the madonna-whore complex (black & white thinking) they push for negative or bad behavior and get surprised when they get it. Then they hate you for it and try to justify their hate. There's probably a term for this out there and I have to go figure it out lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 06:20 AM |
| 23 | Your male friends aren't your friendsThey'll jump at an opportunity to sleep with you especially when you're emotionally down. Like if you need support, something in their feeble cumbrain tells them it's the perfect time to get some pussy from you. Don't trust your scrote friends. Maintain them at arm's length and watch your back around them. They're sneaky, conniving and are opportunists hanging around for a shot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 06:14 AM |
| 24 | Theory: most men can’t handle casual sex.I always thought about this. They love to loom the relationship crap over heads and be the "gatekeepers" to commitment. Until YOU friend zone their ass and tell them you want nothing serious. In their mind, there must be something wrong with them lol. A woman has an endless supply of suitors, validation and resources, for the most part. A man...not so much. It's rare. And they hate and despise us for that and being able to obtain sex & resources so easily, if we want (hence the body count shamin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 06:07 AM |
| 21 | If he doesn't respect your boundaries, show him the door. He's going to keep testing you to see where your limit is. He needs to respect you. TAKE NO SHIT!No more negging, no more of his begging, no more pushing your boundaries, you and only you can control the limit. He's going to try to push you. Don't let him. Respect yourself and make him respect you. If he doesn't, he can't come at you a certain type of way, kick his ass to the curb. He doesn't need to be in your life. Don't allow him access to come back in. BLOCK AND DELETE HIM. You aren't a puppet here to play with for his convenience 💁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 06:02 AM |
| 8 | They have no problem paying cam girls, twitch girls or other women onlineI've direct people here, as well. And that's great! I wanna be so untouchable that they can no longer come at me or approach me like they used to. Like a complete ice queen, I want them to know they could never even talk to me a certain way. Time to block out the dusties and low hanging fruit from now on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 05:52 AM |
| 9 | They have no problem paying cam girls, twitch girls or other women onlineYessssss! We need every woman out there to join us in order for that to happen though The bar is set so low that women are chasing, women are getting pumped and dumped by complete losers, they put no effort into us, some women are paying for their own damn wedding rings...wtf. nah, sis. You are the prize, he's just a contender. That's biology and evolution. It is a FACT that all of the females in the animal kingdom have the males compete for her and chase after her, not the other way around. Stu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 05:39 AM |
| 11 | They have no problem paying cam girls, twitch girls or other women onlineKeep your standards high, girl. His bag is YOUR bag ;) Just remember this post- they have NO issue paying for nudes and random women for existing. He should be worshipping and paying you for your time and presence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 05:24 AM |
| 22 | They have no problem paying cam girls, twitch girls or other women onlineI don't think it's the looks necessarily either. I've seen some of those girls online from everything from below average to attractive and they all get worshipped, regardless. And I've seen attractive and average women get treated like crap in real life. They just think they have a chance over a screen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 05:13 AM |
| 17 | They have no problem paying cam girls, twitch girls or other women onlineThat is so true, they make no sense lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 05:10 AM |
| 9 | They have no problem paying cam girls, twitch girls or other women onlineFacts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 01:45 AM |
| 61 | See this ladies?I have no words for this except utter scum... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 01:38 AM |
| 18 | Men who justify their double standards with "finding sex is easy for women, but requires tons of work from men, so women with a high body count are bad but men admirable":Thank you for typing this out. Men that have to manipulate and use like that don't have very many quality options to start with. That's why they have to resort to shit like that. Women don't chase after them. There's a certain type of man women will chase after but it's never 90% of men. Those types of men will never amount to anything since their focus is their dick and only their dick. Nothing else matters | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 01:20 AM |
| 8 | LVM WILL monkey branch- don't become a victim!Awww I'm sorry but that's their modus operandi, they leave once they have used the woman up. It's sad but they're leeches and ticks. Remove them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 01:13 AM |
| 37 | They have no problem paying cam girls, twitch girls or other women onlineMe too, it's like, why do you bother approaching a woman not through a screen? I hope they stay in their little bubble of blowing money on chicks that don't want them. The irony is appalling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 01:07 AM |
| 55 | They have no problem paying cam girls, twitch girls or other women onlineThen why bother asking me/other women out then lol Why not just go for those girls IRL? Too scared to approach? Might as well just love those women through a screen and stop pursuing women IRL altogether since we are all 7/10 and can't make his pp hard :'( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 01:00 AM |
| 51 | Woman raises half a million from charity by sending nudes. The power of p*ssySomeone make it make sense 🤦 Random woman selling nudes/playing video games= lots of $$$ and validation/worship. Potential GF or wife or lady he's in interested in irl = SHE'S USING ME FOR MY MONEY!!!1!!!11!!! GOLD DIGGING WHORE!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 12:57 AM |
| 52 | OMG why is it so hard to find a decent guy? What is it with toxic men.They aren't the nice person who you think they are, that's their "representative", the real person is underneath that. Click on my username and search through my threads if you want to learn more about that subject. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 12:55 AM |
| 109 | Woman raises half a million from charity by sending nudes. The power of p*ssyThey'll gladly pay for nudes but how dare we have standards and expect them to pay for a meal or date...if they ain't paying, they're useless. Men are supposed to provide and this is proof of it. Don't be dumb ladies, his bag is your bag (in the words of Shera7) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 12:46 AM |
| 19 | LVM WILL monkey branch- don't become a victim!That's true but the thing is, they leave when pickmeisha already fulfilled her purpose aka building him up and supporting him. He will never reach hvm status but a woman can build him up enough to get better than he was previously. Aka of he's a bum and she pays for his rent or car (then cheats on her and picks up other women), he's better off than before. It's a transaction, not love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 12:28 AM |
| 13 | LVM WILL monkey branch- don't become a victim!:( at least you have a chance to not allow that to happen again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 09:51 PM |
| 27 | LVM WILL monkey branch- don't become a victim!Because to them, they can always "do better" until their ass ends up alone. And some narcissists do it for the chase/hunt or to secure (secondary, tertiary) supply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 09:51 PM |
| 7 | Super pickmeisha splits the cost of her engagement ring 🤦🏻♀️Ugh, this is so pathetic and cringeworthy MY GOD. You are the prize, woman. The man should be working his off of to prove to you and show you that he should be the one worthy of YOU. Not the other way around Even in the animal kingdom, all the males do the chasing and the females are the prize! What the fuck. Our generation stands no chance thanks to women like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 09:47 PM |
| 15 | LVM disguised as HVMOne of the threads I made was based on this. You have to look at him objectively, as a person. Does he have his shit together? Does he have ambition? Is he independent? Does he take responsibility? They are all hallmarks of an adult. He will have graduated or have skills in something. He will have a decent job (not some shitty temp job), he will prove his stability by maintaining and holding down anything adult in his life, Inc relationships and his job. Basically, he's mentally healthy. He's no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 09:05 PM |
| 12 | How do men know if you are the right girl / "the one" after a few dates / very little time?Everything just "clicks" I know because I've experienced it before. It's a mixture of common interests and just getting along like how you'd get along with a friend, except there's something you can't quite put your finger on plus you add chemistry to the mix and you've got someone that could be the one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 04:24 AM |
| 3 | Watch out for contradictory behaviorI would just pay attention to something that sounds "off" coming from him, don't shrug it off. Your subconscious might catch it but sometimes we want to rationalize it away. (Including negging) See how they act around other people, especially their friends or family. If he's acting weird with you around them, that's a problem. Of he acts distant or disinterested, etc. He will ask a lot of intimate questions way too soon, of course the infamous questions like how did your exes treat you, if you w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 10:38 PM |
| 33 | Why are standards of pickmeisha friend so low?I feel like pick mes might be codependent and will do anything to keep a man. So that they won't leave. Sometimes the attitude is just passed on particularly if their mom or women in their families are like that or if the men encourage it. Sometimes it's patriarchal religion and the brainwashing that accompanies it. Telling us all women are bad, that we started the "downfall" of man, all useless archetypes and not true. It disconnects us as humans Maybe it's just low self worth and poor self est… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 12:23 PM |
| 7 | To the women that find themselves chasing after men...I wish you the best. Your story touched me. I know the familiar feeling of chasing after my dad, knowing he never bonded with my sibling and I in an emotional way. And I also chased after men that were emotionally distant or walked away. Never again. The best thing we can do is recognise it and stop the chase. They are dysfunctional and there's nothing wrong with us, we just want love from someone no capable of meeting our needs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 05:58 AM |
| 59 | Don't tell them what you like EVER let them show you and DECIDE for yourself"Just be yourself" And maybe they'll expose the piece of crap they are, maybe not. You just have to keep track of behavior that seems contradictory. That's his shadow side, it's often more honest than his "representative" or the side you see when you first meet him. People are at their best behavior then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 01:05 AM |
| 281 | Don't tell them what you like EVER let them show you and DECIDE for yourselfSo true. They'll develop a false persona based on what you say to get what they want. Sick manipulation. Same thing with abuse...NEVER reveal past abuse, otherwise they might do the same to you or throw it in your face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 10:53 PM |
| 12 | Just so you ladies are aware....These are probably the same guys telling all the women they aren't ready for a relationship...think about it. Why would they be loyal to just one, if they have an entire lineup of women they can hit up when it's convenient for them ? Also a good reason TO BLOCK. And delete and not allow them back in your life. #cutofftheirsupply | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 09:56 PM |
| 5 | How fancy should a first date be?With a friend- Applebee's, fast food, local deli store, etc. (Never for a date) With a date- bistro, casual restaurant, etc. Maybe fancy if that's his thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 09:42 PM |
| 9 | DON’T EVER LET HIM STRING YOU ALONG. EVER! Wilmer Valderrama is engaged to Amanda Pacheco after less than a year of dating. Demi Lovato’s fans are spiraling due to him never proposing to her during the course of their six-year relationship.The issue is, some of them don't know the value or meaning of commitment. To them, it's just another thing that benefits them. Anyways, agree to disagree. It's still highly suspect and suspicious to me to get married after such a short time. The same way it would be a red flag if a man wanted to rush into a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 09:38 PM |
| 3 | In my experience, the worst men I’ve ever had the displeasure of engaging with did not have sisters. What are y’alls experience with this?I wish I had a brother :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 03:28 PM |
| 3 | In my experience, the worst men I’ve ever had the displeasure of engaging with did not have sisters. What are y’alls experience with this?I kind of agree. The ideal men that were HV had an older sister and they were the younger brother. I found them to be more attentive, caring and providers BUT... The guy I go screwed over the most with had 3 other sisters and he was second to last in birth order. But he said growing up, he never got along with them. I guess he was the one left out and he had some issues with his mom. So that's a definite no for next time. Guys with only brothers or mainly brothers are trash, though. In my experi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 03:27 PM |
| 14 | DON’T EVER LET HIM STRING YOU ALONG. EVER! Wilmer Valderrama is engaged to Amanda Pacheco after less than a year of dating. Demi Lovato’s fans are spiraling due to him never proposing to her during the course of their six-year relationship.Does anyone feel like some men do this just to spite their ex GF? IDK if I fully believe the whole "proposal" thing after less than a year...sounds like BS to me. I'm sure it happens and in some cases it ok...but it just sounds suspicious and I never fully buy it .. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 03:24 PM |
| 34 | what do you think of female friends?He's usually in the friend zone and it doesn't matter if you tell him or not, he's definitely in the friend zone. And is usually an orbiter AKA he hangs around her hoping for a chance one day. I would just break up with him if he was that close. Chances are, if your intuition or gut is getting a strong pull towards him being too close, he probably is. Don't put up with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Guys that were former ugly ducklings/fat or "incel"I think it's fixable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 03:52 PM |
| 30 | What are the jobs you consider a red flag? Why?Truck driver/Uber driver because they let just anyone be an Uber driver and there's been too many reports of harassment and trying to pick up women. And truck driver because they work long hours, never home, and there's been a high percentage of serial killers that were truck drivers. Law enforcement/military/security because they have major control issues, they are on an ego trip and they get away with a lot thanks to their buddies. These guys are insane. Definitely stay away from them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 03:49 PM |
| 9 | Guys that were former ugly ducklings/fat or "incel"I knew they'd do something like that. And it's sad. Because the thing is, a lot of the time the transformation is not just skin deep. There's also old insecurities that are still there that haven't been dealt with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 04:55 AM |
| 30 | Guys with relationship memes all over their social media..thoughts?Their whole timeline will be full of relationship memes but they're toxic af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 02:13 AM |
| 9 | Guys with relationship memes all over their social media..thoughts?Maybe it's my news feed and all ages from 18 to older men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 02:10 AM |
| 12 | Guys that were former ugly ducklings/fat or "incel"That's fine if you disagree. I knew my post was going to be controversial especially since it could cause a lot of people to not want to look into themselves and that could be triggering. But my point still stands and I don't believe all ugly guys have a chip on their shoulder, likewise, I don't believe all ascended ugly ducklings do either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 01:10 AM |
| 14 | Guys that were former ugly ducklings/fat or "incel"Yeah, I said in the last paragraph that not all of them are operating under toxic patterns or changed for the worse. It's a case by case basis. It's just something to be more aware of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 12:28 AM |
| 35 | ALWAYS TRUST YOUR INTUITION.Girl, never tell him what you already know or suspect. Something deep down inside is telling you this man wasn't honest from the beginning. If anything, that may have set the stage for him going after her. I know because it happened to me. But screw him, he's probably gonna end up doing the same thing to her. Always trust your gut. Sometimes, it really hurts though. But it's the closest thing we have to telepathy. Some men we will have gut instinct after gut instinct because they were dishonest,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 02:34 AM |
| 38 | Men that will bring up other womenHe was triangulating you. Possible narcissist. Or part of the manosphere. (Rp, mgtow, etc) If he brings up other women, not gonna lie, I like to make jokes hinting about it -although I don't stick around. I say, "well, you must be in the friend zone or something" or "well, maybe she likes you" and that shuts them up. I'll be damned if some asshole tries to triangulate me versus other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 02:27 AM |
| 11 | Unpaid ValidationLook up Shera7 on YouTube and she talks about the whole unpaid validation subject | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 07:32 PM |
| 26 | We are leaving these men on read in 2020.Fucking facts!!!!! I don't even open the message anymore, IDC and they still send 37274473883 more that I will never open. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 06:51 PM |
| 33 | Woman spends 15 years helping depressed husband recover. He's better now and found a new woman to talk to online. Don't try to fix broken men.Don't be bob the builder Don't be his therapist Don't become his mother Don't give into unpaid validation (compliments, sweet talk, blah blah blah bullshit) Don't give him anything free, unless he's doing the same for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 06:01 PM |
| 3 | I thought I was over my pickmeisha tendencies but went right back to acting a fool.On the off chance you're real...not gonna lie something similar happened to me. And it's very complicated (this was pre FDS) I've had a history of being put in somewhat dangerous situations like yourself. I can tell you right now, you have very poor boundaries (not your fault)and are perhaps uncomfortable saying no like I was. I freeze and don't know what to do so I just kind of let the man take over. And the dude you were with sounds like a predator. He keeps pushing like a child that doesn't g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 07:54 AM |
| 11 | I thought I was over my pickmeisha tendencies but went right back to acting a fool.I was with you up until I heard the phrase "broke my frame" and I've literally never heard anyone use that phrase outside of redpill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 07:42 AM |
| 9 | How to stop thinking that guys will act right if they are really into you?It all has to do with their perception. I was always assumed to be a whore or slut because I had a very shapely body with a large chest. You may not be XYZ but if THEY perceive you as XYZ, it's game over. That's the role you're going to play for them. You cant take in the projective identification. Just because someone labels you a whore doesn't mean you are one. Only you know your true self! Hope I was of some help | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 12:43 AM |
| 10 | How to stop thinking that guys will act right if they are really into you?I also forgot to tell you, if you don't feel like you deserve it, you have low self worth and low self value. And you need to work on that. Pickmeisha places others before herself. In this case, any men regardless of how shitty they may be. I'm curious if there was an event in your past where you felt like another girl was getting more attention or love versus you (perhaps a friend, your sibling, a rival or schoolmate)...that may be an unhealed part of yourself that you need to work on. It's cal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 12:39 AM |
| 14 | How to stop thinking that guys will act right if they are really into you?I really want you to click my username and find the thread with the "not all commitment is good commitment". Really, you don't know the reason why they act like that with one and not the other. It doesn't all have to do with attraction. Perhaps it has something to do with looking like their ex, or you remind them of someone else, the other person may be their "type", maybe they're not actually searching for anyone. The unicorn is an elusive and often, losing game. People ALWAYS think they can "d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 12:25 AM |
| 49 | Dating multiple men — should they knowNo, keep your scrotation private and don't add ANY lvm to it, EVER. Tell them all your exes treated you like a queen, never tell them how many men you've had sex with and never reveal any past abuse. They'll use it against you and will see you in a different light, even if you were raped. Men are sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 07:31 PM |
| 13 | PickMes really wanna try and bring other women down with their bullshit. “His rent” like she doesn’t even live with her man.That woman is joke and sadly, I don't this is sarcasm. A bunch of guys make these statuses on FB and in comes hordes of pick mes to defend their man/agree with what he says. It's sad, women have lowered their standards to keep ANYTHING with a penis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 07:30 PM |
| 16 | Can LVM act like a HVM around a woman they like?100% agreed. It's definitely a mask/an act. That's what we also have to watch out for. Men that like you enough to act HVM but are really lvm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 03:24 PM |
| 2 | You will never get commitment or someone faithful out of certain men (Not all commitment is good commitment)Agreed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 03:05 PM |
| 39 | "It's hard for men cause they are the ones who have to always face rejection"I felt this post...it pisses me off all the many times I was led on and emotionally invested my time into dead ends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 02:58 PM |
| 5 | If he's not interested, will he act like a LVM? Opinions?Good point, I was mainly talking about the second one. But if anyone wants to discuss the rest, that's fine. And also, I think the person was trying to say...do all men (lvm, hvm) act like a low value male towards women they're NOT interested in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 02:55 PM |
| 9 | Men openly discussing false stereotypes they have about attractive women. Stay woke!I had some respect for the guys that said they treated both equally. Some of those douchebags can be really cruel just because they don't find a woman attractive. I'm never mean to an ugly guy just because he's ugly. I would treat both with respect, so long as they deserve it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 01:50 PM |
| 9 | Is it ever okay to date a project?Perfect, that's exactly what they'll do. They'll leave you once they've acheived their goals. Don't do it!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 12:09 PM |
| 16 | One of the things you should look out for when vetting a guyWhatever you do, never tell them that you're worried about their friend. Because they won't stop being friends with her. But it's dependent on the woman, too. Some women get really jealous that their male friend is no longer doing their bidding so they try to keep him around orbiting her. Some women will side with the gf because she either A. Understands or B. Knows the guy is a piece of crap deep down. And what your bf did was sick, you should have dumped him. How would he like it if you did th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 12:07 PM |
| 56 | Reminder to not date guys below your league just because they MAY be nice. They will neg you and shatter your confidence out ouf their own insecurities. TAKE NO SHIT.This shit makes me sick. That's why I always tell women the best defense is a hard exterior, a stern vocal tone ("NO") and high self esteem would shut this shit right down. Men are still doing this at this day and age ? C'mon... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 11:36 AM |
| 19 | One of the things you should look out for when vetting a guyFemale friends are always a red flag to me. It's not like he can't have any but sometimes you gotta watch because most of the time, they're in the friendzone. And someone else brought up the point that since that's his friend or bff, he's most likely going to talk about your relationship with her because...that's his friend. So that person might know stuff you don't want them to know. And the abuse stuff is unhealed trauma and issues. And they prob will end up what they were made into unless the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 11:31 AM |
| 9 | Is it ever okay to date a project?Probably not. I think shera would still consider that to be a "Bob the builder" chick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 11:25 AM |
| 1 | What's the FDS equivalent of a "Plate"?The only thing I advise you of is don't do it to a guy that's actual high value...I would do that as a test for LVM but like I said before, there's no point because they offer very little to nothing except for stringing them along for the fuck of it... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 12:21 AM |
| 16 | You will never get commitment or someone faithful out of certain men (Not all commitment is good commitment)They really aren't as much as they think they are. Tell them you're not looking for anything at all or friendzone them...and boom...all of a sudden you've snatched the power right out of their hands. Any man that did want to commit early was gigantic red flag, most guys these days don't want to commit, anyways. They have too many options on tinder, online, etc. And exactly, commitment out of a garbage can is still trash. It means absolutely nothing. And also ..who would ever want a commitment fr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 12:14 AM |
| 45 | Daily pep talk: YOU ARE THE COMPANY YOU KEEP. Protect your PEACE.I agree 100% I also no longer will entertain or keep the company of men around me (as friends) that are LVM. And I refuse to enable it. Too much toxicity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 12:07 AM |
| 7 | Boyfriend doesn’t introduce me to anyoneI think the most common situation would be that he's hiding it so he can appear to be single. Either way, cut him loose. You'll thank yourself later. Have respect for yourself, girl, you're worth so much more. The reasons why he kept it a secret doesn't matter as much as your self worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 10:40 PM |
| 17 | You will never get commitment or someone faithful out of certain men (Not all commitment is good commitment)I have a different point of view, I do not believe these men can change their stripes. No woman will change them. The change has to be within themselves. And if they were to somehow change, they'd have to do serious inner work and perhaps therapy. If they change depending on the woman, that to me, seems like he's changing his façade to suit her for the time being (either because it's convenient or there's something he's taking advantage of) until he reverts back to his old ways. A snake is still… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 10:28 PM |
| 11 | What's the FDS equivalent of a "Plate"?I think perhaps...rotation ? They keep these guys on rotation but there's really no point of keeping LVM on rotation, we should all collectively watch them wither away and die from lack of attention & sex by deleting and blocking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 10:08 PM |
| 5 | What's the FDS equivalent of a "Plate"?What are reasons they will not commit to the "plate". Lol scumbags gonna scumbag. Thank God the day someone made FDS, we needed an opposition to balance out all of that garbage on reddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Men who think like this are the same ones who don’t even have money to even take care of themselves.It sucks but there are really men out there like that though. And it's true, they probably can't even spend money on themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 11:40 AM |
| 4 | Why do some women draw people to them, while others don't?I had a question similar to yours but instead of drawing men in, it's keeping them. I don't know how women are getting commitment so easily and staying with men past a couple of months ? I draw men in (not a huge amount but enough to at least draw a couple in) but the majority don't want anything serious. Is this just a modern epidemic or just me ? Idk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 04:17 PM |
| 16 | Stay mad, lurkers 💅I bet this will strike a chord within them. It's a cope lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 08:58 PM |
| 22 | Why does society think it's more shameful to be a single woman, than a woman in a shitty, one way relationship?Yessssssss. And your sis is totally right. That's exactly why I started this thread to open up this discussion. That we sacrifice our own thoughts, feelings and wants to the desires of patriarchal society. And it's very powerful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 06:26 PM |
| 16 | Why does society think it's more shameful to be a single woman, than a woman in a shitty, one way relationship?Ugh so true :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 06:00 PM |
| 13 | Only abusers pick pickmes. If you had an abusive father, your mom was/is a pickme.My father was abusive. He was very controlling, demanding, distant, physically punished me & my sibling, very patriarchal My mother was caring, empathetic and was doting towards me and my sibling. When we were kids. But she was a recent immigrant to this country, we all were. And she was heavily isolated without any family here. And these were the pre internet and resources days. They're not together anymore but her current bf of almost 10 years isn't physically abusive but refuses to leave her.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 05:58 PM |
| 15 | Everytime you say "yes" when you really want to say "NO", you are self betraying yourselfI feel the exact same way. At least now you are aware of it, so you can pay attention to your own needs and wants to prevent self betrayal in the future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 04:19 PM |
| 53 | Why does it sound so relatable???😂 thé majority of us have been there right?Yes omg. I cringe when I think about this now. I think a lot of it stems from the lack of quality options nowadays. So many women are not used to being treated well AT ALL. Usually we are the ones playing mommy and catering to them. So when we find a guy that does something nice for us, it's like a needle in a haystack. When it should be the norm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 03:12 PM |
| 5 | Did Beyoncé become a pickmeisha by staying with Jay Z? Your thoughts?I agree, she can pretty much have any man on the planet and you make excellent points in your first paragraph. I think she may be trying to resolve or mend her issues by going a different route than her parents. She's even compared her husband to her father a couple of times. And she's known him since she was a teenager I think ...17 or 18? They've been together for most of her life at this point. He's a lot older than she is. Of course, none of this excuses his behavior but it's sad. She has ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 12:42 AM |
| 14 | Did Beyoncé become a pickmeisha by staying with Jay Z? Your thoughts?I think she subconsciously follows the pattern her parents had gone through. I think her dad cheated on her mom and had a child with the other woman. Perhaps she is somewhat knowingly following the same pattern. And she is very powerful, she knows that. If it weren't for her, I don't think jay-z would have been relevant for as long he was relevant. She's a big part of the power couple they became. I think deep down inside she really wanted what every woman wants, a good relationship and someone … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 09:44 PM |
| 12 | Comments say she should join him 😂#dumphisass2020Guys like this have ZERO business dating, pathetic man child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Does FDS really work?I think this sub is an awakening for a lot of women including pick me's, women with low self esteem/ low self worth, women that have been exploited by men (abusers, manipulators, red pill, seducers, time wasters, pick up artists, mentally ill dudes), women that continuously attract or unconsciously choose low value men, including patterns from their own family (shitty father, brother or pick me mother) It's revolutionary. I think with all of the toxic male subs, we needed to counteract all of th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 09:02 PM |
| 18 | Is it just me , or does she sound like a pick me?Women (and men) that suggest being single is the worst thing possible for a woman are idiots. That's why you see so many of them putting up with an abusive, useless man, being a pick me for them and never thinking of themselves. For them, it's better to be with a man (however shitty) than to be single or alone. And we all know how society reacts to single women..."she's going to be a cat lady!" Blah, blah, blah. I'd rather be single and happy than taken, used and abused for a man that isn't wort… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 05:53 PM |
| 26 | No longer entertaining losers!That's great! Me too. I've changed the way I interact with them. I don't even bother to open messages, let them soak in their regret. A lot of these dudes just want to keep their foot in the door because they want access to you whenever it's convenient to them. Whether their plan A fell through, or they're scarce on women to play around with, when they're bored or horny, etc. Glad you didn't even give him the time of day. That's the energy all women need to have instead of dealing with these los… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 07:30 AM |
| 11 | Why Doesn’t FDS Focus on Improving Physical Appearance? Do Looks Matter For Attracting a High Value Man?You should do it for yourself. Not for a man. I'm saying this because we often put them as the first thought before ourselves. Always keep yourself as the number one priority over a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 04:10 PM |
| 14 | So the LVM who ghosted me 3 months ago just sent this. Not that he cares, but I’m still living my best life. Chat declined.Possible narcissist or cluster B looking to orbit you and/or wants easy access to you. Block and delete!!! All women need to collectively start ghosting them back so they stop their BS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 04:04 PM |
| 12 | Just your friendly neighborhood reminder, men don’t just want sex. They want to consume your soul too!Shit makes my blood boil 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 11:23 AM |
| 30 | Just your friendly neighborhood reminder, men don’t just want sex. They want to consume your soul too!Same here. I don't even respond to messages, texts or offers IRL anymore. They've left me worse off emotionally, too. Their intent was to basically waste time and they all led to dead ends or somehow destroying me in one way or another (introduced me to drugs, alcohol, or just straight out emotional abuse) They literally DO want to destroy us or drag us to their level. If I interact with them as anything more than friends, I know I'm pretty much setting myself up for disappointment and destructi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 11:20 AM |
| 6 | Addressing the Myth: Unattractive men make better partners than attractive guysUnattractive is subjective but a lot of men have low self esteem and society has primed them into thinking that every guy deserves a beautiful/hot woman. The average woman doesn't even register in their mind. And their ego can't handle someone reflecting back someone in their league. But if they DO get someone attractive, that's an ego boost to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 03:39 AM |
| 8 | The two types of LVMThe second type to me sounds like a narcissist. The reason they do this is because they do not view you as a person. They view you as a supply. A supply to their ego or their low self esteem. (Wow, I can get this women so I must be at her league or above her league! Or like an ugly/average guy with a nice sports car) Or they do it to impress their friends/social circle/social media. (If she's highly desired, perhaps has a job like a model or is popular) But they do not care about you. They care … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 03:24 AM |
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