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FDS MEMESplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 02:02 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTEplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:14 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:42 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 09:48 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:35 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?plutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 08:59 AM
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plutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 06:33 PM
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#JustLVMThingsplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:42 AM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:29 AM
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How-To High Valueplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 10:36 AM
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SCROTES MADplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 06:17 AM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:42 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:53 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 10:48 AM
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FDS MEMESplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 09:03 AM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:38 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 10:18 AM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 03:54 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:42 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:53 AM
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DISCUSSIONplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 08:57 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 05:07 AM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶plutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 09:28 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?plutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 06:24 AM
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#JustLVMThingsplutunic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 01:42 PM
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"your short torso is a dealbreaker for me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:05 PM
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lemme guess... this guy is hideous and you're already way out of his league
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:14 AM
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lmaaooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 06:24 AM
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🤮 hope her life turns around in the next 5 or so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 08:07 PM
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HAHAHAHAH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 05:41 AM
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or good looking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 08:36 AM
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lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:43 PM
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I'm in my 30s, and looking at the men in my cohort/age range, you're not as young or attractive as you think lol. men are so weirdly deluded about their worth. once men hit 35, the odds of them having even one child drop dramatically for good reasons. stop stringing women barely out of college along, telling them they're sooo mature for putting up with your failure ass. it's like maybe 2-5% of men that can have this big of an age gap, still treat their partner with respect and not take advantage…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 06:15 AM
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short men are insane in the membrane
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:49 AM
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what blows my mind about it is how so many men act like this, and thus how many men don't deserve any partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:42 AM
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yikes. honestly in my experience, guys like this don't like GiRlY stuff around because they have a rotation of women coming in and out of their place. a guy I was dating flipped out about sunglasses ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:37 AM
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every time we have a tool to better understand relationship dynamics, LVM manipulate it to their advantage. disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:34 AM
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they wanna come along and jack off on your heart to show dominance aka ego stroke for how much they affected you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 10:25 AM
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anyone wanna tell her she was already doing more than him to begin with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 10:23 AM
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omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 07:25 AM
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come onnnnnnnnnnnnn we clearly need women-only sites, what the everloving FUCK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 07:16 PM
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he didn't like that they were living together unmarried but fucked a prostitute? ONE OF THESE THINGS IS NOT LIKE THE OTHERS ONE OF THESE THINGS JUST DOESN'T BELONG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 08:07 PM
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LMAO omg this is so true. i remember once, my ex sent me a picture of a meal with two plates and two portions for two people. i was like "who are you having dinner with?" and he said "what? i'm eating by myself." 🤣 i have some others, but this one for some reason is so unbelievably dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:24 AM
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i guess that's why they have studies pointing out that rich(er) people have less anxiety and instability in their lives, leading to more opportunities and contentment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 08:52 AM
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this! i was an avid OLD user on and off for 10 years, basically every guy i met on there was trash. then i met my Husband through a mutual friend/hobby when i wasn't even trying to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 10:45 AM
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this is true! and they may come back around to be your friend again. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 09:02 AM
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MOST WOMEN DON'T LIKE CASUAL SEX absolute mongs, thinking we have even close to the same views on sex 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:01 AM
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a guy who has a problem with this is a majoooooorrrr red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:59 AM
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y'know, people change friends on average every 7 years. idk how old you are, but changing friend groups around life events is common. there are so many people in the world that you'll find new activities and friends to preoccupy you during different times in your life. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:37 AM
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idek, if a man can't brush his teeth properly and regularly can he do much of anything else? this is the conclusion i came to/didn't bother negotiating on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 11:40 AM
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i love how you think 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 11:40 AM
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i remember one time i blocked a guy cos it was late at night and he sent me a selfie with a giant piece of food stuck in his teeth. YOU ARE IN BED. DID YOU NOT BRUSH YOUR TEETH? i didn't care, it was too big of a gross/dealbreaker and i just blocked him and moved along lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 07:17 PM
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ugh, what a dick. these types of videos + people pranking their partners with horrible shit... i will never understand. 😰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 07:09 PM
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i remember a time my ex was in and out of the picture, half a year (i know, i knowwww) into hot/colding me, leaving breadcrumbs but never committing to plans. when my Dad died suddenly of a heart attack, it was like a 50 gallon ice bucket was doused over my head. i stopped fucking around waiting for this absolute manchild, and started seriously dating and having high standards. i met my Husband within 6 months and the rest is history. don't be me though please, you don't need a tragic event to p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 07:08 PM
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men's arrogance alone always takes me out. thinks he's a 7 lmao, OP, what is he really? i trust your judgement...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 07:02 PM
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what would wealth wear to the wedding? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 08:28 AM
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same, may the Lord sideswipe them 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:36 PM
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so a million incels will kill themselves? that's a loss we can handle...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:22 PM
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thanks so much! those prostitution stats ... yeesh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:18 PM
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hot women are reserved for hot men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 08:54 PM
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i actually would like to know this stat if you have a source worth sharing pls. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 08:51 PM
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yep, thanks for mentioning this! it's called a prolapsed uterus and is no joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 08:48 PM
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it's all so tiresome...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 02:08 PM
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🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 02:08 PM
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what the fuck am I looking at
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 02:08 PM
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producing breast milk puts your hormones out of whack for at least a year. a side effect of breastfeeding is vaginal dryness, so your body can heal after the trauma/discourage you from getting pregnant so soon again. pregnancy hormones take 2 YEARS to even out/go back to a new normal. meanwhile, LV/NVM are pushing women to have sex after 6-8 weeks when women are breastfeeding every 3-4 hours, healing, and trying to bond with the babies they spent the better part of a year risking their lives to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 02:04 PM
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all the sacrifices women make and men are still up in here nickeling and diming us smh lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 07:50 AM
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i remember one time i was dating a guy and asked him to cover a gym membership fee (i think it was $50 or $60) and i'd pay him back. i wanted to sign up to go with him, but he didn't 'get' why i'd be upset he wouldn't lend me money i'd pay back in a month. i dumped his ass within a week, because after explaining how much it meant to me and how it wasn't that big of a deal (it's not like i was asking for hundreds or thousands), he was still unwilling to compromise or help. when your boyfriend's i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 07:48 AM
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cheaters have recidivism rates on par with pedophiles... so imma go with no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 07:41 AM
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vibrators are so much better sis, and they have them in a bunch of sizes. but lemme guess, he's insecure and controlling and also watches porn but doesn't want you exploring your own sexuality because then you might realize he's not pleasing you? dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 07:39 AM
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guess they're just gonna have to take the crushing loss on that one lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 07:37 AM
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the real real: ugly, poor men shouldn't be dating. 💁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 07:26 AM
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someone posted a picture of me on Instagram without consent... their process for removal was for me to 'prove' it was me by uploading a state issued ID. i did so, and they still wouldn't take it down. context? an ex was making fun of me and used an old photo to do so. NO BIG DEAL!!!! fuck these tech companies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 07:24 AM
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another good loophole! stay safe ladies. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:21 PM
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if it's too much trouble to clear geotag, you can simply open your image in an editor and resave as a different file type and it will erase the data.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:44 PM
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ouch, this one made me cringe so hard my eyes hurt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 09:57 PM
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ugh it is like that! we serve men enough lol, even an able bodied man in the best of situations accomplishes about half the housework his partner does. what is she gonna do when they're old? young, smart, beautiful women should not be making choices like this smh. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 11:57 AM
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in the 'developed' part of Western Europe, men on average are only doing ~1-10 hours more housework per week than in the rest of the West. the gap is bigger for 2nd/3rd world countries ofc (tend to be more patriarchal), but yeah, Sven, a few fucking hours every 7 days ain't gonna cut it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 09:59 AM
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pfft, why am i not surprised. glad his reputation preceded him and he's SOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 09:54 AM
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i feel like the only upside of this arrangement is that she could make a YouTube channel and get bank, which she could then spend on nurses/medical professionals to take care of him instead of doing it herself? lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 09:51 AM
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this and tbh she's super cute, i don't get why she couldn't try to find another tall/handsome/"Chad" if that's what she wanted? she just doomed her so life in so many ways, someone pls explain. 😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 09:51 AM
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girl WHAT? how does someone even think something like that!? is that what he was fired for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 05:15 PM
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i'm not a mod, i don't decide the content. why don't you take it up with them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:50 PM
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defo stay away, he sounds like a creep! it's usually dangerous or stupid to reengage with losers, i just wish we could do it to name and shame them. i'm fantasizing lol. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 01:56 PM
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"i could write you 100 pages (...)" proceeds to write one paragraph on a scrap of paper he tore out of your notebook without a care in the world. it would be funny to start @tagging men in this shit on sm. "found this letter from (ex)! so long ago!" LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 01:48 PM
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it has to do with men? and the incel/redpill community, which stalks and harasses our members? if news articles aren't welcome here, i'm sure the mods will start banning them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 10:33 AM
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agreed, i wish the death penalty was more liberal for men like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 06:54 AM
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well you'll be happy to hear that earlier this year, he plead guilty to second degree murder and will spend 25 years - life in jail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 06:49 AM
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i think the guy you're talking about posted them on Discord first? but nevertheless the picture of a woman he murdered because she had sex with someone else was spammed over and over again... other men sent the picture to her family members on social media before they even knew she was killed. it was absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 06:39 AM
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it definitely has, they're clicking between 4chan and pornhub. porn inflates their sense of sexual prowess because their mammalian brain probably 'thinks' they're having sex with women completely out of their league. when they try to talk to or date these women irl, they get rejected and get pissed off. then they go back to their porn addiction and writing misogynistic posts on 4chan... it's a vicious incel cycle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 06:29 AM
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you should tell him his future 🔮 getting cheated on by a much more accomplished, fed up woman who still does the majority of the chores and child rearing. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 08:41 PM
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oh wow, a man actually looking out for his daughter 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 03:24 PM
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lmfao block him! just make sure the next guy you date is tall and hot and post a picture of y'all together on sm. this loser will see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:22 PM
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funny and smart and adorable! great combination. :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:16 PM
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the thing i can't believe about it is that they make up new slang for old world perspectives and expect to talk a woman into settling down with them. women have evolved lmao. #bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 05:04 PM
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how is roping the other woman into the equation to do your dirty work not showing your hand? just stay out of their lives, let people fail on their own accord, and YOU can react by not participating, pulling away, telling them you need space, etc. you are way too involved and wanting to involve yourself further... it's not your place, nor is it healthy/helpful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 09:26 PM
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I agree, but men are more antisocial and selfish than women so we can't expect them to share our values. that's why I advocate for snooping so women can get their ducks in order and leave in a timely manner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:50 PM
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what happens when men chase mistresses is that they represent the 10-30% of what they don't get with their wives. when they jump ship, they're left with those few qualities, not realizing they were already getting most of their needs met by their wives. 😆 fuck em lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:07 PM
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ummm yeah, choking someone long enough can lead to brain damage and/or death. it's not a sexual thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:36 AM
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actually, a better strat is walking away and telling friends to hit you up when they get their shit together. someone in a 25+ year marriage is not very likely to get out, sorry to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:35 AM
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I chortled. I'm feeling so bad for women during this time though freal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 08:03 AM
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since people lost the art of shaming. #bringbackshaming it's an incredibly effective tool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 06:09 PM
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100000000 cumshots 🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 06:00 PM
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men could start with meditation, journaling, and genuinely caring about the people in their lives and make great strides too, but we're getting ahead of ourselves. 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 06:00 PM
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I don't fucking care. women have more problems and manage not to devolve into addiction, lethargy, failure, sociopathy or selfishness to get by.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:58 PM
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is a loser laughs at the idea of women doing better (than guys like him) shucks, who coulda seen this outcome coming?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 01:29 PM
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may FDS give you the insight and empowerment to do better 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 01:28 PM
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We GaVe YoU CiViLiZaTiOn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:19 PM
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man she's been taking on that stepmom role since she was 22 and this asshole STILL doesn't appreciate her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:18 PM
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i wouldn't trust a man with ears like that that to do anything but take me to the land of the fae.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:11 PM
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lmfao ice cold I've managed to never go dutch on a date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 06:35 AM
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the last night i was with one of my exes, he tried to break my neck and back. i never saw or spoke to him again. don't feel sorry that you couldn't do 'more'... you are alive and that's enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 08:35 PM
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that poor woman, RIP! i'm so glad your friend got away. just to put this into perspective, i was Googling under the News tab and came across this About 2,510,000 results (0.26 seconds) - husband murders wife it's a scary world out there. stay safe, y'all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 08:33 PM
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yeah, but not how they treat women, just being aware of it and joking that they want a mommy bang maid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 02:56 PM
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this mf'er really, literally, wanted a bang maid. i'm sure after you cleaned up his manbaby mess, he would have tried pivoting to fucking you, since you were already there after all. 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 09:32 AM
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men are egotistical and entitled enough to want to be your exception, but assume they're the only person in the world you'd make an exception for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 09:24 AM
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lmao yep. also not mentioned: how much more traditionally attractive/masculine the vikings were. taller, more muscular, probably overall better looking. British men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 04:53 PM
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he's a boil inside and out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 06:47 AM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 06:47 AM
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it's hard to believe that men are sociopathic liars just for their dicks, but here we are...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 06:42 AM
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I think this is a phase most women enter in their late 20s. 🙌 it's so liberating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 06:38 AM
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omg c'mon, what woman wants to date the equivalent of a 3 year old? ofc you want a partner you're proud of that you don't have to monitor or teach social skills to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 06:36 AM
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what an asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 06:35 AM
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😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 06:27 AM
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my husband makes me a big breakfast every Saturday morning, it's the best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 07:26 AM
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please do it! it's a message young women need to hear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:47 PM
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this is one of those lessons it takes women a long time to learn. HOW HE TREATED YOU IS HOW HE WILL TREAT OTHER WOMEN. don't think that a different woman will be brilliant or perfect enough to change him; she's just another partner that got caught in his web of bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:46 PM
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never trust a guy with downward slanting eyebrows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:43 PM
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i don't even know. :( i've stood up for myself this world over, and it does seem to enrage people (especially men), so this is probably something we inherently know is risky even before we do it. but we should fight that feeling within reason, imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 01:35 PM
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hope you've got good company to keep your mind off the sack of shit ❤️ mmmomg i would kill for some of that rn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:50 AM
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i hope someone takes a dump in his dresser someday even that would be less shitty than this, cos rape wouldn't be on the line. he's fetishizing her while staying in her house ffs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:41 AM
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i'm sorry to hear that, hopefully your husband dealt with it better than this woman! obviously people that truly love and care about you would never act like this. it's unreal what's normalized and put up with based on a family structure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:35 AM
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PoRnOgRaPhY iS nAtUrAl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 10:18 AM
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this is seriously distressing. in a way i'm glad the internet and forums/advice posts like this can highlight just how fucking terrible men can be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:14 AM
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can you imagine having to deal with a health scare like this... perhaps being stage 4 or 5, death bed tier problem and your husband of 10+ years being this much of a shitbag? hope she dumps him and tells his family members/mutual friends, etc. BRING BACK SHAMING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:13 AM
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'have you tried taking advantage of a woman for free?'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:17 AM
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if there's a huge age gap, yes it's very likely he's married
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:15 AM
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i had a male friend recently stop talking to me because i 'argued with him too much'. what's weird to me is that men expect women to not have personalities/wants/needs/opinions. any guy with that perspective is a dimwit that will have his ego crushed by women being people. fuck em.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:09 AM
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these are ideas i'd expect a teenage boy to think are good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:06 AM
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omg what the actual fuck? can nothing be done about this??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:58 AM
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sigh/always the same story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 11:48 AM
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is ur ex my ex jw, sounds exactly like my ex, who one time i caught using MY LAPTOP to hookup porn to our 50" tv when he thought i was napping. why isn't there a headache emoji?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:56 AM
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the craziest man i dated was 5'9" and had a barrel of fucking issues
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:56 AM
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this is probably the funniest tiktok i've ever seen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:54 AM
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i've noticed slightly taller than average women (5'5"-5'8") date guys around their height all the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:52 AM
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my dick is racist not me lmaooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:50 AM
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also probably ugly, OP please rate him on a 1-10 (i trust your judgment) to be doing/saying this shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:50 AM
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/u/pinkyberries has seen some shit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:06 AM
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they don't care about women's experiences. never hold men's sympathy/empathy to the same level as women, esp when it comes to their dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:04 AM
14

i think they think novelty works? only when you're not cheap asf, Brett.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:43 PM
10

his upper body looks bigger than my husband, who is over 200lbs lmao. there is no way. the photshopping is the most hilarious part to me omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:40 PM
31

mannnnnnn i wish i could message this guy, i'd be like "HOHOHO" and he'd go "???" "it's fucking santa bitch" then block/delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:37 PM
33

it only applies until the woman is conventionally good looking. do men have any moral standards whatsoever? beginning to think no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:36 PM
10

she's a swindler, but there's nothing worse than a traitor smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:34 PM
40

like there aren't homemade cookies and/or boxed cookies in every bakery, store, etc 🙄🙄 Wow a COOKIE for my PUSSY???!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:33 PM
15

i'm seriously still fuming thinking about it lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:30 PM
25

up up up you go, how a guy treats cooking and a kitchen says A LOT about him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:28 PM
68

well regardless of her going over there or not, you'd be amazed at where a man will try to drag you to have sex. their car, a fucking forest, on a picnic bench in the park... they are not picky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:26 PM
68

i once saw a guy on OLD that said he makes excellent homemade waffles. i was so mad working out the cost of flour, egg, milk etc and realizing that motherfucker wanted to spend 0.60c on two waffles and get laid!!!!!!!!!! the AUDACITY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:24 PM
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is this something i would happily do by myself or with my girlfriends? especially if you're paying for yourself, what the fuck is the point? sure, i don't mind cooking, netflix and chillin, going on a walk or hanging out somewhere with my girls. but i'd rather do something and make a memory, and in those cases i'm paying for it. so if a guy isn't leveling up your experiences, what the hell is the point in hanging out with him? you're risking your safety and well being, not to mention how much it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:21 PM
8

it's not us... it's unimaginative, stupid men. 😂 it is so common it's laughable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 06:57 PM
38

please do! my husband is so funny and quotable lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:09 AM
4

wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:50 AM
13

"go make some money, honey"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:45 AM
11

man this comment 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:42 AM
28

i seriously think we need to start DM'ing women, like, regularly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:41 AM
28

the weird part about this, after being on the internet for so long... there were always radfems around, but they wouldn't go into spaces where men were and argue with them until maybe the 2010s. as we all know, words and deeds are different. men formed the manosphere and every derivative that came from it, including shit like those memes you see reposted from 9gag/4chan, and all the fucking murders, rape and abuse that is caused by these sites! i'm GLAD that there are finally enough women on the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 08:37 PM
20

college is gonna be rough af for this one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 07:53 PM
20

anyone gonna be the bearer of bad news? delusion doesn't lead to happiness. oh and btw, if you peep her history, she's fucking 18 years old! too young to be jaded, would love to hear her thoughts about men once she graduates from college. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 07:53 PM
35

dump the man AND your therapist 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:34 PM
35

i don't think there's anything wrong with being bitter that you gave an ugly person a chance or 5 and they still fucking sucked lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 11:39 AM
12

lmaolmaolmaolmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 08:51 AM
10

men completely take us out of the picture when it comes to autonomy. the thought that women may not be interested in or reject them never crosses their minds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 02:26 PM
4

BuT mEn DoN't GeT wItH wOmEn BeCaUsE oF mOnEy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 02:25 PM
13

they met in law school... he was always gonna leave her. this is just his latest excuse for doing so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 02:24 PM
5

lol it's OK girl, i can't crochet/sew/stitch for shit, my husband has steady hands for that kind of stuff. there's some things we can do and some things we can't!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:13 AM
16

most studies and estimates put the range at ~80-90% male on male, aka vast majority
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:09 AM
16

because life is HARD WORK :(:((:( women don't understand how HARD I WORK :(:(;8
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:07 AM
5

and thank god for that! imo a lot of recent societal trends have been aided and abetted by internet culture, but it's important to remind ourselves it's not always as impactful as it seems. small groups tend to whine the loudest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 08:00 AM
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fair enough. i looked back into your history because i thought you may have written about your job and was curious. 🤷 even a broken clock is right twice a day comes to mind here. just because she's a shitshow personally, doesn't mean she can't offer advice, insight, or feedback for what other women are going through. we have the ability to vet her because she's a YouTuber putting out content regularly. how many of us have 100s hours of content accessible online? we'd ALL go through this process …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:57 AM
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good point! also: everyone loves and appreciates baked goods, it's a bit of a lost art (i think the quarantine will help this in a way, like cooking!). when i bake, i will take one serving of whatever it is and share the rest with friends, coworkers, family members, etc. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:16 AM
3

haaaaaaaaaa/😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:12 AM
15

what's funny about this is that men flock to the advice subreddits to derail actual discussion and change societal standards by upvoting/downvoting each other's bullshit. if you played out this scenario in a group irl, you might get one person that would side with this guy and go 'idk maybe she should have warned him before she did it, i can see why he'd be upset.' everyone would then remind that person that you can't body police your partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:12 AM
8

is this a ploy for more clientele? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:07 AM
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and BAKE, there's nothing more fulfilling than baking tbh! as long as you keep the dry stuff and wet stuff separate until the last moment, you won't mess it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:03 AM
7

someone who looks on Tumblr for trends and then uses them to manipulate grown women with, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:01 AM
12

there's really no way to prove that you are or aren't a clinical psychologist, many people have feigned professions online to win an argument. your profile has a post mentioning that you teach English and that makes me pretty suspicious. everyone has experience with narcissists and gaslighting. i'm just here to remind you that it is idiotic to think someone disagreeing with you is gaslighting. Shallon's channel has turned into an armchair psychologist's dream, but celebrities don't need to be pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:59 AM
16

this is what happens when we give psychological tools/reflections to idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:31 AM
5

nobody is 100% right or 100% noteworthy all the time. point me to someone historical that wasn't human in this manner, a shining, perfect beacon of piety, and i'll hear you out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:30 AM
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This insistence on being dragged down and derailed by literally every petty internet slight has to be the most obnoxious Gen Z habit ever. agreed, call me old but i'm over it. dissecting things people said 10 fucking years ago is time consuming and irrelevant. i know y'all are young, imagine someone digging up dumb shit you said as a 10 year old and thinking it has anything to do with you as a person now? trying to piously take down people is hypocrisy at its finest; it's not valiant. we're all …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:28 AM
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yes! https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3136178/ https://www.sleepfoundation.org/articles/do-women-need-more-sleep-men / https://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/active/mens-health/11699193/Why-are-men-so-much-better-at-sleeping-than-women.html https://www.hindawi.com/journals/jnme/2011/391809/ https://www.nature.com/articles/ejcn2013287 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/9277385
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 07:11 PM
5

pathetic, typical manipulation tactic to shift blame. dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 08:19 AM
12

it sounds like he recognizes his friends are better off than him in certain ways, and wants to deter you from finding out just how much so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 08:18 AM
9

totally, this is why ime it's a huge redflag when a guy is super into social media. this demonstrates that he's extroverted (more likely to cheat), insecure (more likely to cheat), needs an audience (more likely to cheat), and needs to have constant socialization/interaction (more likely to cheat).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 08:15 AM
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this is why, like OLD, i decided to stop dating dudes that were into SM. there are a surprising amount of them, and then you don't have to worry about cheating, jerking off to pictures, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 08:14 AM
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would consider this a massive redflag. i've dated guys that were supportive of my interests and ones that weren't - lemme tell ya, the former it turned out had more respect and care for me than the latter. you can do better, OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 08:12 AM
4

MoC lol! i approve!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 08:08 AM
43

an interesting, oft overlooked fact is that men have more energy than women. it's called testosterone. if anyone has the vigor for a second shift, it's men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 08:02 AM
14

and the thing with laundry is that it's one of the easier chores where you can put on music, a podcast, a tv show in the background and you're done before you know it, smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 07:55 AM
17

here's a hot take: you're too poor to date. you should up your game if you can't afford to court a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 07:49 AM
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you would not believe how common this is 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 07:43 AM
42

seems like something a man would do tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:46 AM
6

hard agree on the misogyny just being more hidden.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 11:12 AM
11

i have a lot of experience dating Northern European men. basically, they have similar mindsets to other European men and expect you to go 50/50 on everything while doing 90% of childcare. the difference is they won't explain this to you, they are passive aggressive about the mindset, and they are emotional voids. ugh. like they have feelings but pretend they don't (because they're sooo evolved and RaTiOnAl 🙄) and this was so much more annoying for me than dating brusque Americans. paternal leave…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 11:11 AM
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oh, i hope you don't think i was advocating for only dating within your race, i'm aware of how disgusting MoC can be towards women of their own race! i totally agree that WoC should aim higher and be with any man that is worthy of them regardless of race. i'm just trying to warn WoC that white guys are secretly (or not so secretly) just as likely to treat them badly and like a prop to their lives/wokeness/sexual fetishes. i've seen it play out soooo many times. thanks for providing context for y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 11:05 AM
5

lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 09:35 AM
9

yep, this is the trend. i've seen lots of WoC posting on the advice subreddits about this phenomenon... or the guy does introduce her to his family, who then treats her like shit and she doesn't know what to do. uhhh leave his ass and stop dating white guys?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:35 AM
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in my experience, a lot of white guys that date outside of their race do it as an ExpErImEnT/experience, they never actually want to settle down with WoC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:26 AM
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haha! i'm white, but i feel so sorry for my WoC girlfriends dating these white guys, they are ALWAYS creeps. probably 1% of white guys can have a relationship with a WoC and treat her like a real person without fetishization. it's not even worth it to try finding them imo, the numbers are just not on y'alls side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:25 AM
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raise your standards, and you raise the standards of the people that support and promote your life. do you want to be surrounded by fuckheads? Reddit is full of these types. sometimes i read a comment or post and the ugliness of the person's soul resonates through the screen i stg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:20 AM
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we need to think of a new "jUsT ComMuNiCaTe WiTh HiM" clapback. maybe we can all start leaving a comment like "just leave him".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:19 AM
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i'm beginning to think most Redditors/avid Reddit users are extremely poor and/or do not have contact with normal people irl. lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:16 AM
21

what the actual fuck are they talking about? women are statistically more likely to deal with depression and mental illness during their lifetimes than men. more than half this list is "not having sex" using different terms and words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:15 AM
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women: ask men for one ring worth thousands that's supposed to last decades, as a representation of his love and care, and as a MARK/piece of jewelry she's supposed to wear day in and out to represent her dedication to him/their marriage. wants it to be beautiful, timeless, and durable/"expensive". men: MATERIALISTIC WHORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! a fun experiment to do with these types is ask them to do the math. let's say you get a $5000 ring (the average price in America), divided by how many days …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:07 AM
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he's fetishizing you for your race.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 12:15 PM
23

how fucking ugly do you have to be to be this much of an entitled psychopath!??!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 07:04 AM
13

oh i missed that detail he's a righteous dickhead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 10:34 AM
19

the jar post... what the actual fuck. he couldn't set up some shelves or something for her to store them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 09:11 AM
23

she's having a slew of orgasms that he never gave her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 08:16 AM
5

lmaoooooooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 08:15 AM
34

this motherfucker is worried about his mediocre dick after his wife has spent nearly half a century with him #icant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 09:57 AM
23

vaginas age, just like the rest of the human body. discoloration/pigmentation darkening is a normal sign of this. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 09:44 AM
15

lmaooooo sammmeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:32 PM
3

wait do i have to be nice to be here? 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 09:10 AM
30

men: fuck yo 3 physical standards also men: have at least 5
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 08:06 PM
21

it's a good barometer, because who the fuck lies about their height? it's either a sign of a complete moron or psycho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 08:06 PM
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the difference of course is that she could lose weight... he can never lose the bitterness of being a manlet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 08:04 PM
23

OLD apps need to detect these bot apps and PERMANENTLY BAN the men that use them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 08:03 PM
24

why do i love these posts? schadenfreude?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:22 AM
24

oh he is, his friends are dicks too. i used to hang out with them often when i first moved to our city, but our friendship has faded because they're all kinda horrible. she's a classic pickmeisha too, hate to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 08:23 AM
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it's one of the best predictors of a man caring, yes. that's why it's a quick and easy way to weed out LVM. those types will never wanna invest in you and/or see the value in making you happy or spoiling you. my husband is about to drop several hundred dollars on a new phone for me because the one i'm using now sucks. can i afford to get it for myself? of course, but he loves the feeling of providing for me. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:22 AM
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very cool! i had a couple of years like this in my late 20s and so have several of my girlfriends. they became amazing people and left behind the husk of themselves that a LVM shaped with their sociopathy. proud of you! get it girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:17 AM
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i'm married now, but my strategy has been to level up and find a better partner every time i break up with someone. i never found myself looking back missing a guy thinking "oh nooo what have i done? i am dating a guy with a bigger dick and a better career who actually gives a fuck about me. :(:(:(" if you find a more compatible person and refuse to settle, this is the winning strategy. you'll avoid going back to losers because you'll be with someone that treats you so well that you won't want t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:15 AM
3

damn, that fake plant analogy is spot on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:00 AM
3

these guys are lying, once you start probing they always end up with asshole beliefs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 07:45 PM
35

5'8" anime loving InTelLeCtuAl LMAOOoooooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 07:45 PM
30

you also don't have to explain shit to them, just fkn GHOST that mf'er
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 07:36 PM
35

ABSOLUTE MONG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 09:51 AM
37

you wanna see into the pits of hell... look into "reviews" Johns have left prostitutes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:38 PM
10

his name should have been an indication of where this was headed...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:31 PM
68

"don't hold his diseased personality against him, there's still good in that blackened soul!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:29 PM
55

it's much easier to convince someone one-on-one without stupid ass naysayers interjecting anyhow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:24 PM
41

🏆 you killed it sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:21 PM
6

tfw have rarely met an ugly dude who also happens to be a decent human they usually use their ugliness as a shield/excuse to be a POS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:51 AM
19

tell her sis, especially if she's young. my God she lives with the guy and pays half the rent and he's still talking to another woman?! she needs a wake-up call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:08 AM
12

not even worth 2
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:06 AM
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age: 41 status: never married skinny-fat manchild, entitled, does not clean up after himself relationship history: gaslighting any woman on his level that tried to seriously date him, cheating in his younger days job: $20 hour, never managed to work his way up the ladder SIGN ME UP 😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:05 AM
11

this got me to chortle into my coffee 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:00 AM
13

this, there is most definitely a biological component to male violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:56 AM
3

lmfao absolute unit of a loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:39 AM
3

*extremely Michael Scott voice* I DECLARE PORNOGRAPHYYYYY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:38 AM
55

totally, there's not much worse than being around people 60s-80s that spent the last 30-50 years fermenting in mutual hatred
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:37 PM
77

parenting time with dads 🔼 + cheating rate 🔽 + men's selfishness exposed 🔼 = divorce & breakup rate 🔼❗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:28 PM
12

agreed, he may get in, he may get out if he listens to any of your advice, you should tell him to see a therapist to work through any issues he has
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 01:39 PM
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hvm ↓ ↓ ↓ ↓ ↓ ↓ ↓ /-/-/-/-/-/-/-/-/-/-/-/-/-/-/-/-/ here's that bar you were looking for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 01:38 PM
35

every once in a while there's a post on /r/relationships where a guy is taking credit for things his wife does. it's hilariously pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 01:34 PM
21

LMAO i agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 01:29 PM
7

you may have! i saw it get posted in one of the psychology related subreddits again, it made me chuckle again too, so i reposted. lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 01:29 PM
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men are fundamentally competitive, yes, even with their spouses. they are threatened by the idea of their partner 'beating' them. eta: it's hard for men to see their partner as a teammate; they will ALWAYS see themselves, alone, FIRST. they will try to outcompete (even secretly) their wives for recognition, respect, and success. if this weren't true, why would men leave their wives/partners when they become more well-to-do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 12:34 PM
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men know women with options are never really theirs, is my guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 11:13 AM
103

yup, and do the majority of child rearing and chores too! SOUNDS SO FULFILLING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 08:45 AM
23

it sounds like you were hoping for the best. trying to look at the situation objectively is a skill you should learn. if i can give you some advice, it would be this: imagine your friend is telling you this story and gives you just the facts. (1) met this guy, he seemed awesome (2) we had amazing chemistry on ONE date (3) contact was lost, and now i'm confused does this sound like a man gearing up for commitment, or one using power plays to trick a woman into casual sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 07:42 AM
5

girlllllllll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 07:29 AM
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could it be because they no longer hold the majority purse strings/financial control? or they worry their wives will leave them for higher earners? that they feel emasculated? whatever the insinuation: it's not a good prognosis for men's fragile egos #nomorebangmaidmommies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 07:19 AM
18

also this girl in 2-3 years: realizes he's watching camgirls, realizes he subscribes to onlyfans accounts, realizes he's stalking her friends/family members and saving their pictures to jerk off to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 07:16 AM
22

can't stop laughing lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 08:30 AM
18

this sounds like a more believable explanation for how he got rich, and/or how he may have been killed/disappeared than his wife he met at a gas stop (who was probably a young prostitute at the time) feeding him to tigers 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 08:27 AM
12

i agree, i didn't see any signs of deception when she explained what happened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 08:26 AM
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it'd be a shame if... sips tea... someone doxxed him and sent this message to his employer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 08:14 AM
40

guys who say they have big dicks almost exclusively have the most unsatisfying foreplay and/or mediocre ones smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 08:13 AM
3

OP, you were probably always out of his league
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 08:47 AM
5

hmmmmmm, but also in an alternate universe, it would have to be written by a woman for that to happen 🤔🤔🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 03:57 PM
19

this guy looks like he jerks off to the idea of having sex with Summer from Rick and Morty hard pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 06:50 AM
34

for real! he emailed me recently and i was like looolololol (no response), this is how i know he's balding, cos i checked his sm 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 02:04 PM
39

these are the same guys that think sex is free and every woman is a prostitute hiding in regular clothes, so honestly, fuck them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 01:58 PM
82

yep, one guy i was into messaged me from Bangkok and was like "guess what i'm up to ;)" and i said "ruining any chance we have at getting together?" back in the day, you could email whatsapp conversations to yourself without opening them, so after a few days of him spamming the SHIT out of me, i read it and cackled. he flipped the fuck out and sent me like 50 messages about how i ruined his vacation, how could i do this to him, we 'weren't really together' anyway etc. i responded a month later a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 01:55 PM
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this is a fantastic image! being with a prostitute has always been a dealbreaker of mine, and a few men have gotten upset about it. sorry, i don't think sex is a commodity, and imo there are ZERO good reasons to resort to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 01:15 PM
20

jesus every time this happens, TELL ALL THESE WOMEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 07:35 AM
8

agreed, looks like they just want the subreddit to focus on venting yeah, cos a space to unload about your problems is the way to fix them 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:52 AM
15

love is HARD it's covered in literal PISS and SHIT you would not understand how MUCH i LOVE my HUSBAND and LIFE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:51 AM
3

this is SUCH a good tip that would have helped me years ago. i hope some women see this and heed the warning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:18 AM
8

this is one of the saddest, sickest stories i've ever read about. if there was any justice in this world, the men would be summarily executed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 09:53 AM
14

COULDN'T BE ME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 09:42 AM
11

OP you are beautiful! your dog is handsome too. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 08:28 AM
13

stereotypes aren't cynical 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:21 PM
29

if you want a vision of the future, imagine a LVM photoshopping you onto an AI pornset - forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 08:19 PM
9

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G8C6ww87Lqs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:46 PM
11

gets rid of other man THIS WILL MAKE HER LOYAL TO ME, SHE WILL HAVE NO OTHER CHOICE lmaoooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 08:46 AM
43

the real redpill is that most men become abusive when given this much power over a person. 💊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 12:49 PM
22

it's dehumanization. it allows them to categorize women (ever heard of the term AWALT, aka all women are like that?) so they can be lazy and continue refusing to see us as separate humans that have our own goals/understanding/experiences of the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 12:48 PM
38

these men don't deserve subservience and wouldn't know how to keep their wives/children content under their version of the patriarchy even if they had willing participants. what's telling to me is that women, when given the chance, are bowing out of this style of marriage en masse. it worked when women were FORCED, but now that societal standards have changed, the majority of women do not find fulfillment or enjoyment in this relationship model. instead of looking at trends, these men project th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 12:45 PM
14

he's 43 and lives in a van? i may be more understanding if he was half that age and trying it out for NeW eXpErIeNcEs because he's young or something, this is just gross. lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 09:44 AM
22

asshole. i will never understand people that care about a petty amount of money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:23 AM
5

'i was trying to build back my stamina by fucking another woman don't u understand :(:(:( its abt my health. also fuck ur pets' lmao, i loveeeeeeee seeing these kind of pathetic lowlife messages jfc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:20 AM
31

that's not at all what i meant. rather, that regardless of your disabilities, you should aim for as healthy as a body as you can so your mind can function at its highest capacity. that may include small things like eating better, going for walks, etc. do what you feel you can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 02:35 PM
12

big ups, this is what i was getting at!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 09:16 AM
5

another trend i've noticed is insecure guys having failure friends so they get to be the 'big man in town'. girl, RUN. these types encourage each other's shitty behavior and the Turd King will roll around like a pig in shit thinking he's got a leg up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 08:13 AM
3

yesssssss stop trying to PARSE OUT immoral/shitty behavior. just go!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 08:10 AM
5

i seriously only see this attitude on the internet. everyone i know irl knows what they're doing, and doesn't get confused by a person showing a lack of care/compassion/skill. someone may be immature, but ultimately most people know what's expected of them and are simply rejecting prosocial norms if they don't follow through. #nobenefitofthedoubt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 08:08 AM
3

why would you take words from a loser seriously? would you believe the conclusions of a study that wasn't conducted by a scientist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 08:05 AM
14

ita, i wish there was less manipulation around the idea that like-attracts-like, aka you get what you give. statistically, most people settle for someone on the same level of good looking and are perfectly fine with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 08:02 AM
41

my ugly exes were mad that i snagged a guy on my level attractiveness wise. considering he doesn't have baggage around being short/bald/having a small dick/ugly, he also doesn't have an attitudinal problem or shitty personality. one of my exes tried to 'neg' me about my Husband, who's like (on a guy 1-10 scale) 2-3 points better looking than him. i was like "i guess you don't realize how ugly you are, huh? sad." LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 08:00 AM
21

DID U BROWSE AMAZON'S LINGERIE SECTION WITH HIM AND ASK WHAT OUTFIT WOULD TURN HIM ON??? NO???? THEN U DESERVE THIS C O M M U N I C A T E
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 07:54 AM
14

it's super obvious when a guy is not emotionally invested, but women are taught/encouraged to ignore these signs and keep puttering along like they're investing in someone who will eventually care. girl. he won't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 07:52 AM
28

lmfao these fucking random men that want us to do the emotional labor of a dEbAtE iN gOoD FaItH (aka you change your mind, i won't change mine) has me fucking rolling. even if you paid me irl, i wouldn't talk to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 07:49 AM
24

good lord, these men are pathetic, disgusting predators. wassamatta, angry women have our own space to talk about men's pitfalls? why don't you do something useful with the quarantine? here's some suggestions: start journaling, meditating, learn a language, STOP YOURSELF FROM REACHING OUT TO YOUR EXES, volunteer to buy groceries for the elderly, donate $, food, or blood, help out your close friends or family in need (babysit, cook meals, take their garbage out, etc). hope that helps!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 07:47 AM
262

omg this image hurts my soul & every woman's soul i've ever known. this reminds me of all the screenshots/copy pasted messages from my gfs i used to get "why does he not care". aggghhh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 01:51 PM
11

hard times... man's first thought is "how can i force women to have sex with me?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 08:11 AM
44

27? you're still young. take a few years to yourself, get centered, focus on work, your friends, family, hobbies... then find someone that doesn't figure out your birthday after 10 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 08:23 PM
24

facts stick to the wall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:55 PM
26

just remember to DM women who are on the right track and being told otherwise by predators and losers on Reddit 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:37 PM
35

these are very, very young people :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 12:37 PM
82

it's telling that when women do the math on this, men get mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:16 AM
12

this is it, he wants to appear like he's single to other women (who lbr prob aren't that interested in him anyway)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:13 AM
5

lmao i know i'm callous, but i've gotten a slew of contact from these types and i just laugh and gotta say: NOT TODAY, SATAN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:10 AM
3

lmaooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 07:28 AM
10

i stupidly thought there might be an accidentally insightful piece of advice here. there wasn't one, lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 07:27 AM
46

RAPE WORM, KILL ME NOW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 06:41 PM
11

i feel like this is my personal hellscape, my eyes and brain are melting out of my body rn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 06:40 PM
47

💯, women need to protect themselves from this kind of treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 04:01 PM
44

statistically, it's not common for people to marry outside of their socioeconomic class, so rich people marry other rich people. people in different socioeconomic classes also have higher divorce rates. this guy is a moron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:47 PM
50

"MY DICK" ISN'T AN ARGUMENT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:20 PM
24

bEiNg HuRt MaKeS mE fEeL lOvEd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 01:04 PM
108

divorce rates are gonna go up, and that's a good thing. many women and children will be able to escape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 01:01 PM
19

absolute fucking trash, glad you're rid of him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 08:28 PM
14

i'm sure there's a category for that on pornhub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 06:09 PM
48

people are dying and the terminally ill are suffering because they lack health care and/or meds. but as long as men's pEePeEs can still get hard, they will sexualize anything. https://i.imgur.com/Fm8NH9J.gif
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:57 AM
4

I SET 🔥 TO THE 🌧️, WATCHED IT POUR AS IT TOUCHED YOUR FACEeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:54 AM
3

hahhaahahahah tbh burn mf'ers, burn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:29 AM
5

i love it when you guys confront these losers with their post history 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 08:56 AM
26

a solid idea, men never seem to consider the woman they're interested in fucking would have 0 interest in them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 08:43 AM
10

he doesn't offer anything but delusion, like a lot of men in his 'predicament' (being worthless).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 08:41 AM
6

they're mad that they can't manipulate/psychologically fuck with us, trick us by lying about their emotions/love bombing, or straight up get us into bed early on anymore. IT'S WORKING. SPREAD THE WORD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 08:40 AM
4

ahhhh, the type that shares all your friends/family members photos, follows their insta stories and jerks off, thinking he got one up on all y'all. 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 08:39 AM
8

i've dated hot guys and i've dated rich guys: neither of them had a problem with paying for a majority of things. HMMMMMM looks like this guy is probably neither.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 08:38 AM
16

you upset his peepee! SHAME ON YOU!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:12 PM
91

"will die for affection"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:08 PM
46

don't they have 4chan, where they can misinterpret reality and statistics with millions of other loser men? they should go there instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:58 PM
41

they're not just dumb, they're also trying to dissuade other women from finding FDS. DM other women the link here, y'all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:57 PM
40

i burst out laughing thinking about how mad men are about this, lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:56 PM
9

it is absolutely a significant gap, it's just a shame most women don't realize this until we're the older person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:43 PM
10

imo, guys that are still this young are only looking for the 'thrill' of dating an older woman for the experience and are less likely to commit in the long run. i wouldn't expect marriage or children out of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:29 PM
17

of course, it's not like i came up with the word 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:04 PM
3

lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 07:17 AM
20

I also say super rude one liners and block lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:49 AM
114

let's never try to convince them otherwise. these chucklefucks are removing themselves from the gene pool and don't even realize it, good riddance!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:36 AM
5

#castratemenagain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 08:34 AM
1

sounds cute, thanks for the recommendation, i will check it out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 12:15 PM
8

i use Snapchat because i think the filters are funny. i haven't had Facebook since the early 2010s, same with Instagram. tiktok and the like... i'm too old for. i was never a big SM person though, i value my privacy and always preferred anonymous forums on the internet. 😇 life without SM and people snooping/judging/comparing is freeing. the people in my life only know the important things i tell them about, and i don't have irrelevant losers trying to poke around for dirt they can report on to t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 09:22 PM
44

this guy sounds like an ugly loser. i'm sure if he worked on himself and was less of either of those things, more people would want to be around him. i see plenty of average guys with decent personalities that manage to have social bonds. men need to maintain their connections instead of being entitled to them. expecting others to givegivegive without giving much in return is not a solution to the AlOnEnEsS of manhood. i think an attitudinal change about this predisposition would do a helluva lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 08:26 AM
4

men think they're invincible lmao, tale as old as time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 07:07 AM
33

i've been seeing the same trend in the last couple of years. porn has truly rot their brains. these are the same types that think at 40-50 their sperm is rockin' and rollin', and they'll convince a woman this young to become their personal slave. all i can say is https://i.imgur.com/114H1F6.gif
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:18 PM
44

lmaoooo 👑 i wanna see more posts like this, y'all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:13 PM
21

well these two have the misfortune of being in the public eye. bringing it down a notch to normalcy, this would be like an ex commenting snidely on a picture of you and your boyfriend on SM. everyone would think he was a pathetic manbaby and hate him, rightfully so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:12 PM
45

i seriously heard a man calling 20 "the wall" earlier this week. i had to do a double fucking take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:09 PM
4

"sounds fun!" block lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 02:37 PM
6

we all hate it. the audacity is amazing, tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 02:34 PM
6

agreed, solid 4. how the fuck did they double this guy's actual attractiveness score? i am dumbfounded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 02:33 PM
43

we're changing norms. they're threatened they can't treat women like delivery services that take themselves out, and/or burden us with more responsibility than we've already taken on to equalize men's failure. who the fuck takes feedback, complaints or whatever from LOSERS seriously?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:37 PM
15

hmmm taking the opinions of men who have never found any woman to love, respect or care for seriously? nah imma pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:35 PM
7

that's because that's all he wrote, in between, "but my dick is conflicted, but my dick is conflicted, but my dick is conflicted"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:06 AM
31

STOP WRITING PARAGRAPHS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:02 AM
25

you look fantastic! get it girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 09:09 PM
14

~L E G A C Y~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 04:20 PM
25

porn addict. dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 07:28 AM
89

every time one of my exes talked about a girl being "obsessed" with or "stalking" them, it's just in reference to sending emotionally taxing messages. GIRL STOP. imagine reading what you said 5 years from now, are you gonna be proud of how you handled things? love yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 02:42 PM
39

y'all we gotta watch our backs 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 02:10 PM
55

"i will workout at 7pm" *watches clock hit 7pm* "huh that's some shit"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 10:11 PM
15

ENTJ - an extroverted, opinionated nightmare https://media.giphy.com/media/l41m4sZ3LlhPu8P0Q/giphy.gif
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 11:14 AM
13

i would block this guy for saying lol too much and being a straight up dumbass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:33 AM
15

she's doing too well in life to put up with this sack of a manchild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:31 AM
6

there's lots of young women in FDS, and i highly doubt even one of them would date this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:23 AM
3

a good personality would be the first step towards these honest attempts though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:04 PM
10

absolutely not, when a man shows you who he is, LEAVE. and BLOCK. DO NOT GIVE SECOND CHANCES, or an opportunity to explain. he will gaslight, lie, and undermine your efforts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 08:39 AM
5

a piece of shit man doing his part to create more single moms. classic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 09:12 AM
37

they always slip back, this is why we advocate for blocking, moving along, and NOT committing too fast. date multiple men for months. do not have sex. you guys need to read the sidebar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 03:49 PM
7

as expected, the comments on that post are no better. barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 03:45 PM
212

mentioning something sexual early on in conversation block, always
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 11:57 AM
5

once you realize they don't see women as people, their views and degenerate downward spirals make total sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 11:38 AM
6

these men whine more than they think women do jfc, no wonder no women want them. YOUR PERSONALITY SUCKS, THAT'S THE FUNDAMENTAL PROBLEM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 11:14 AM
4

idk what comments of mine have gotten more DMs lately, the anti porn or anti small peen ones all i know is, i'm forever laughing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 11:05 AM
13

women: pls don't rape us, kill us, or use/abuse us - maybe there's a better way??? men: HERETICAL, SUBMIT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:58 AM
3

they want to live through "Chads", i cannot stop fucking laughing, this is some sinisterly pathetic shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:50 AM
5

#bringthisback
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:49 AM
20

this would be such a good flair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:27 AM
7

this thread is sending me lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 07:54 AM
24

i'm sure my n-count is 1/5th of this guy's attempt to cope with his size
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 10:50 PM
46

yep, doesn't change mine, or other women's, minds lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 10:26 PM
160

this comment already got me a DM saying "whore" lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 09:37 PM
168

i love big dicks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 09:03 PM
11

any WHIFF of sexual innuendo and you should be o u t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 08:57 PM
29

they're trying to gage how much they can get out of you before they even know you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 08:56 PM
26

it takes a special mind to make hideous and stupid jewelry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 08:45 PM
4

oh i read your comment right, my point is that if you're going to have casual sex with a lot of men, the least you can do is get something out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 09:04 AM
13

oh yes, that too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 08:52 AM
62

men age like an inflating balloon... puffy faces, big bellies they can barely walk around, and then they really stop caring and wear the ugliest clothes imaginable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 08:44 AM
60

and jerkoff to random women on Insta, DM them, save pictures of the women who are your friends/family members, etc. tottttttttally normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 08:42 AM
9

we're already ashes by then, dust in the wind!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 08:41 AM
8

she wasn't a prostitute, she wasn't even getting paid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:53 AM
8

just so y'all know, i got 4 pathetic DMs from mens rights types ranging from raging to trying to elicit sympathy for their porn addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:51 AM
9

remember how pissed off men got when this article came out? lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:21 PM
23

i mentioned this in a comment a while back, but one of my gf's parents divorced. her Dad stole family heirlooms/jewelry from her Mom and used it to manipulate her back into the marriage. they've been together 30+ years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:15 PM
18

lmao that last bit about 'just being bored'. men are as emotionally dull as an unsharpened pencil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:12 PM
8

this is sad. :( i'm hoping you're on the younger side so you don't make this mistake again in your future. many women keep assuming the best of men well into adulthood. break the cycle girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 12:52 PM
61

JUST TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT AND HE'LL STOP TAKING ADVANTAGE OF YOU
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:36 AM
17

ahahah oh man, we've all been there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:28 AM
30

women can absolutely be friends with men, because we don't have the desire or endgoal of trying to fuck them. this is not a two way street however, men cannot be friends with women. if a man is trying to be your friend, he WILL try to have sex with you at some point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:28 AM
34

what the actual fuck, prostitution rings in hospitals. i'm shook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:18 AM
26

might as well be 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 03:08 PM
268

-- Jeff: an emotionally stunted, porn addicted, failure of a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 11:56 AM
5

i don't think i'm in a position to give advice, unfortunately. 😕 i don't know what strategy would help you find a worthwhile partner, it does seem particularly rough out there for disabled women. what i do know is that men are not good partners to ill women or those that need longterm help or care. women with disabilities are more likely to be taken advantage of financially (if they receive any money from the gov't or disability, for instance), and have a higher rate of domestic abuse and sexual…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 10:53 AM
7

i hope your door also had a lock!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 10:48 AM
4

post was deleted, here's a functional link: https://snew.notabug.io/r/relationship_advice/comments/ffkvd1/my_husband_has_sex_with_stuffed_animals_and_i/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=usertext&utm_name=FemaleDatingStrategy&utm_content=t1_fjzdrlc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 09:45 AM
3

https://i.imgur.com/ReVQhHW.gif
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 09:42 AM
23

always trust your gut! our ancestors helped us hone one for situations like these. i'm glad yours got you away from this loser. just to give you an idea of what could have happened... i shared an Airbnb with a man in his 40s; i'd just moved to a new city and was looking for an apartment, so this was an inbetween phase. he seemed nice enough, i made the mistake of having ONE conversation with him... he was a born again Christian. i guess after he cheated on his wife and got addicted to porn, that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 09:34 AM
12

WOW i feel sorry for her, wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 09:28 AM
3

LMFAO SAME, FUCKING SHAMELESS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 09:28 AM
18

pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 08:57 AM
12

someone needs to make a post in /r/askwomen asking this same question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 08:57 AM
8

thanks for posting this. imo, two types of people are NOT in a headspace for dating until they help themselves: the mentally ill and economically desolate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 08:52 AM
8

this is why my Husband is such a catch in my eyes, he works diligently, has natural leadership abilities and will easily move up wherever he works because he's a likable, ambitious worker. thank f- i don't have to worry about that, working HARD should be the one quality we are guaranteed in a husband! and yet here we are... with a generation of failures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 08:22 PM
19

one of my classic favs. they literally could not answer a simple question, lmfao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:02 AM
17

I'm wheezing lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 06:55 AM
2

omg this is the perfect term
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 06:53 AM
9

won't move because of his MuMmY. i could be a bit more understanding if they had a solid base of multiple people around, grandparents, cousins, aunts and uncles etc, but even then how often are women moving for their Husband's careers/upward mobility? and this little shit won't do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 10:13 AM
7

we truly live in bizarro world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 08:01 AM
19

imagine thinking women marrying downwards is sideways? lmfao. imagine thinking women only fuck, date, or marry Chads? lmfao. imagine thinking there's only a 20% bump because of women in the workforce? lmfao. imagine thinking 80% of housework and childrearing isn't STILL done by women while we work fulltime? lmfao. imagine thinking men offer just as much as they used to? lmfao. what is this guy's outlook based on besides delusion and inflation/misrepresentation of actual statistics? guaranteed he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 07:58 AM
13

shitty men removing themselves from society. OH NO PLEASE COME BACK, PLEASE, WE NEED YOU!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 07:51 AM
7

yep. 7 years of life experience is A LOT at that age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 07:42 AM
26

this, and you're a decent age to date guys in their mid 20s who will be working on their career and maybe have something to offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 07:34 AM
13

that, and women give way more thoughtful, unique compliments in my experience. when a man compliments you he might as well be saying "you please my dick, m'lady."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 07:25 AM
2

tyvm!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 07:19 AM
18

vaginas aren't complicated, men are uncomplicated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 07:19 AM
36

men don't have an inherent desire or need to be terrified of women, that's why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 07:17 PM
2

😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:14 PM
1

i don't get this mindset. women are better at creating boundaries and rules to follow, not to mention upholding them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 11:12 AM
47

save your love and affection for the women in your life- they need it more, and will actually appreciate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 10:37 AM
8

he was definitely saying this. if you are confused or someone's behavior seems contradictory, it's a no/no-go, just move along quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 10:35 AM
5

especially a first date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:48 AM
39

it means he's gonna spend your relationship nickeling and diming you, screwing you out of your own money, and complaining you don't do enough for him while you're paying more than half the bills and doing more than half the chores. does this sound like it's worth pursuing now? when guys say stuff like this, it's a redflag. poor guys/broke guys aren't in a place to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:22 AM
37

"my dick" isn't an argument.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:53 PM
28

I've noticed that the women that do stuff like this tend to be more attractive than the guy they're keeping on the hook. they use them as backup bfs, for attention, or getting advice on their actual relationship. aka what like 70-80% of men are doing at any given time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:50 PM
10

LMAO ALL OF HIS LIFE COPE POSTING I AM DEAD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:12 AM
12

truly a moron of his generation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:00 AM
13

flashback to an ex taking me to Panera and getting me a fucking DVD that was like $15 for one of my birthdays smdh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:20 PM
20

ouch girl did you just call out all 58k of us?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:50 PM
25

shout out to male bees for self eliminating with testicle explosion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:02 PM
36

i remember this dawning on me and then i realized i could date good looking guys WITH good personalities. it was an agonize saver.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 07:49 PM
17

pathetic and gross, aka most men in a nutshell. lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 07:49 PM
24

i am so, so sorry you experienced that. :( it's sick that we live in a world where you can't be safe enough in a relationship to share that with your partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:36 AM
15

back in my early 20s, i lived with one of my bf's friends who was a massive stoner. he would leave resin (which is basically burned weed, blackened, sticky af) all over the kitchen sink EVERY DAY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:10 AM
13

https://media.giphy.com/media/3FBwwRCNTSa52/giphy.gif
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:08 AM
56

men are forever cope posting about how depraved they are vs women. there is no comparison. the thing that men will never understand is being in a compromising situation with someone much larger than them. the best you do is ask "how do you think you'd fare in a fight with a guy who has 30-100lbs on you?" if they're honest they'll say they'd get their asses stomped... ask how women are supposed to cope when men physically force themselves on us. the power differential makes women utterly hopeless…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:01 AM
8

LMAO it's always funny to insult idiotic men tbh, they are so sensitive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:52 AM
4

but y'all have probably had kids, marriages, or LTRs. the best way to suss out this type of guy is if he's like 35+ and hasn't been previously married, engaged, or already had his own children. if he says he's been single for more than 3 years, he's been fucking around for that long. be VERY wary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:49 AM
27

because they want sex, not love. and they think sex is a commodity, so they depersonalize you to get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:46 AM
16

this post is excellent. i just wanted to add to it by linking to a study they did recently confirming what we already know: men lie and manipulate us to get sex. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0022103119302756?dgcid=author whereas women prefer genuine partners that care about them: https://www.brunel.ac.uk/news-and-events/news/articles/He-seems-up-for-it-Women-don%27t-fancy-easy-to-seduce-men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:15 AM
15

living with women is so much better in a majority of ways. it can be fun! be sure to properly vet HVW too though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 07:19 AM
7

damn, wish i had gold to give you, OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:07 PM
30

never forget what men are capable of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:53 AM
40

imagine putting this much time and energy into trying to please someone that puts 10% of the energy you do into every other shared part of your lives. from the comment section: You deserve a raise. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:39 AM
10

men will do anything to put as little time or effort into interacting with other people. it's true that they're not naturally prosocial like women. flip this idea on its head: imagine only thinking about yourself ALL THE TIME and only making decisions with yourself in mind FIRST. that to me sounds exhausting too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 08:43 AM
2

same. sometimes the guy talks them out of it, one of them had two bouts of chlamydia before she stopped having sex with random guys, and the other drinks and acts super reckless. i'm kind of phasing them out at this point because i think they're too old (late 20s) to be this careless about their own health and well being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:53 PM
5

it seriously is, i've tried explaining the dangers to no avail. they don't love themselves enough. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:26 PM
15

if anyone is reading this and wants to know how to block PMs from these assholes, please check out a post i made a month ago detailing how to do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 09:55 AM
14

buy yourself gold on your other account ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 09:53 AM
24

this is what happened to twox, ultimately when people get into a space and it grows exponentially, quality declines because posts default to the lowest common denominator. that's why posts on twox are breakups, my boyfriend/husband did x posts, sexual harassment/rape, abortion, women's rights, etc. it gets boring and repetitive. idk how to avoid this curse other than have super strict moderation, and/or curtail spam by making themed posts, which is a bitch to keep up with in the long run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 09:50 AM
36

the only unconditional love that exists is between parent and child. relationships, friendships, even familial ties, are earned and then MAINTAINED. anyone telling you different is a con artist trying to fuck with you, or they're a naive dumbass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:07 PM
22

lmao these guys sound like ugly losers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:04 PM
43

i've had girlfriends that do this. super risky behavior tbh. some of them even have sex, without a condom, with a guy they've known for hours. it is so reckless smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:02 PM
54

"hello madam, i will be spending $2 max." what do these idiots think they're offering? we are women: we get to choose who mates in this world and who doesn't. YOU need to impress US.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:02 PM
26

honestly? a "lol" "nice try" or "do i look like a prostitute?" ought to do it. shame and block, move along quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:00 PM
12

i've spent thousands of hours in gyms, and can count on one hand the number of times i've seen women walk up to men. the majority of them were talking to their boyfriends/husbands, who they went to the gym with. i also go to the gym with my husband, which is a solid barrier to other men lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:56 PM
4

joined, see y'all there :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 09:18 AM
15

this is the way to get the ball rolling!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 09:17 AM
27

i'm kinda wondering how she fell for a $6 ring in the first place? a horrifying story, nonetheless. there are a couple of things men have no excuse to get wrong, and an engagement ring is one of them. it's not that difficult to propose in a unique way to your partner and relationship with a ring worth a few thousand dollars so she can wear it for a presumably long time. i guffawed that he put it in a bloody Tiffany Ring box too, what a POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:56 PM
45

translator "you are so sexy" you're out of my league "you seem like a lot of fun" for me to fuck, without commitment or with as little effort on my part as possible, of course! "you are actually happy" i'm shallow and stupid enough to mistake a positive attitude for a "drama free" relationship "i'm kinda going through some things" i've been cheating/binge drinking/lost my job/anything that would make me completely undateable for 99% of women, but i'm hoping YOU'RE dumb or naive enough to respond…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:53 PM
8

like ~30% of women only have one sexual partner in their lives. what the fuck are these idiots talking about? lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 10:15 AM
7

this guy looks like an uglier British version of Stefan from The Vampire Diaries #pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 09:22 AM
48

tldr: this guy is a loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 09:09 AM
12

my only go to is making out and getting grabby (if things are at that stage), or getting on top when he's hard and shifting around against him to feel how big he is. imo there's nothin' wrong with making out once you're several dates in, you can try this move then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:50 PM
10

thanks for addressing these comments, it's obvious they're out of place here and it may be a coordinated effort to derail
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 09:56 AM
15

massive red flag. cooking is a skill, an easy one to learn at that, it shows a healthy lifestyle. lbr do you wanna be with a man that doesn't cook? imagine how that would pan out in the long run if you want kids, don't feel like cooking, or need to rely on him in any way, shape or form. "i can just order takeout". not every time, you can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:44 AM
9

nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:53 PM
18

no man pursuing a woman half his age is gonna be HV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:09 AM
51

nope. just make a new account. you don't have that much karma anyway girl. make a list of your favorite subreddits to readd them, and try to change details when you do post so he doesn't piece together who you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 09:03 AM
13

ultimately it's because they know jerking off curves their dicks and they're lowkey mad women know it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:38 AM
53

don't forget to shame them on the way out, y'all. you don't owe much of an explanation, a simple "you watching pornography/following women on Instagram/etc disgusts me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:35 AM
78

but seriously sis, i'd consider switching usernames. he's gonna keep stalking you and keep reading your comments, you won't be able to post about what you want here/freewheel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:34 AM
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IMAGINE GETTING ADVICE ON HOW TO DATE MEN FROM A FUCKING LOSER LMFAO FUCK OFF ADAM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:33 AM
13

what's weird about these types is that in spite of what they look like, they never apply the same logic to themselves and aim for women completely out of their leagues. then they're shocked these women standards that eliminate them immediately from even being looked at, let alone given an opportunity to date them. it's hilarious every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:26 AM
18

are vegetables healthy? what a fucking KNOB. it amazes me what women put up with!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 07:38 AM
34

a good vibrator is $70-100, be kind to yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:55 PM
5

this guy probably Googled "mental illness irresponsibility" LMFAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:48 PM
3

weird, i call out men no matter what day of the year it is lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:37 PM
6

quoting Future the rapper and deadbeat dad? LMAO aight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:28 PM
11

I HAVE ADHD AND I CAN'T REMEMBER THINGS!!!!! get a fucking notes app and write shit down, jfc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:27 PM
5

women, generally speaking, do not upset the balance and stability of their marriage by being homemakers for short periods of time (say, when the kids are young) like men do. i would be really interested in more studies about this dynamic so we can find out why that is. but it's more beneficial for children to have their mothers around often during formative years than their fathers. that we do know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 11:07 AM
1

he can still be trying to undermine your relationship while he's in one of his own. just because he has a girlfriend, it doesn't mean their relationship is stable, loving, or that he's loyal to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 10:17 AM
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they also have higher divorce rates! https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-3710922/The-REAL-reason-modern-marriages-end-Women-likely-divorce-stay-home-dads-fail-live-breadwinner-stereotype.html men are NOT meant to be homemakers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:29 PM
25

this is why i advocate for snooping. guys that act like this are almost always bragging to their friends about it in txts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 11:41 AM
16

tttthiiiiiiiiiis he's angling to undermine your relationship. block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 11:39 AM
10

(suckling thumb sounds) 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 11:36 AM
5

fair enough, i was definitely thinking older as i am older myself! there is nothing wrong with less than 10 ofc, i just think most men by the time they're reaching their late 20s/early 30s+ have bedded around 10-20 women, assuming they have sex for the first time around 17 (America's average). imo women should stick with men who have similar values, so number of sexual partners would fall in line with that. after digging into this a bit, i found this fairly interesting study.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 08:01 PM
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for men, their sense of self is so wrapped up in their sense of "prowess"/sexuality these days that i fear this has become more normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:46 PM
6

you can ask questions. many guys will answer even when you don't, or you could always lie. i asked my Husband for example... if he'd used dating apps (no/good sign), if he'd had one night stands (a couple), how many relationships he's had (more relationships than ONS), and if he could ballpark his overall number for me. those questions ought to get the ball rolling, and you'd be surprised how many men are willing to talk about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:45 PM
6

10-20 women is reasonable. once you get beyond that number, you get guys burning out every relationship or acting entitled ime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:43 PM
5

something like 30% of men don't cheat, which means there's lots of em (numbers wise)!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:42 PM
1

ita, this is a relationship based subreddit. you have the rest of Reddit to talk about how cool you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:36 PM
1

ita, this is a relationship based subreddit. you have the rest of Reddit to talk about how cool you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:35 PM
17

her Husband: RoLlErCoAsTeR oF EmOtIoNs also her Husband: MUH DICK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:34 PM
17

actually, i think we should, but not for the reason you think. we should do it because it encourages bad behavior from men, that again, effects the MAJORITY of women. you are essentially "what about the men'sing" women here... hope you realize that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 11:20 AM
22

the exception is not the rule. can we stop pretending it is, to make the 10% of women feel better?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 10:21 AM
27

this was so heartwarming, thank you for sharing it and writing their story so eloquently! i'm sure they'd be pleased if they read it. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:21 PM
75

"women don't really love men unless they let us abuse them" is what this dickhead is saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 09:45 PM
19

even if you get married to a guy, it doesn't guarantee he's gonna be a faithful, good partner for all time. never compromise on your own future goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 11:00 AM
37

that wish post was W I L D.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 10:54 AM
20

cuteeee, who wouldn't love that? there are ways to enjoy the day without the romance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:50 PM
8

there's nothing wrong with that, imo women should have it in the ubiquitous internet age. my Husband and i have an open phone policy. i basically said "btw i hate having a password on my phone so there isn't one, just so you know" and he went "me neither" and has never had one. he doesn't use SM (anymore, i convinced him FB was evil 😈) and never used dating apps. i wish more women had the luck of running into those types of men, because i swear dating apps are like 98% men with mental and behavi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:49 PM
16

ime men that are resistant to you touching their phone or knowing their password are not, in fact, trustworthy. ideally you will choose a guy you trust and won't have to snoop on, but the option should be open to you. and if it isn't, or he suddenly starts locking his phone/taking calls/texting/SM outside of the house, using his phone often, etc, you already know what's up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:37 PM
20

cheating is genetic. i've been cheated on a couple times and found that there's a "type" of guy that cheats. here's some red flags to look out for: (1) his sense of self comes from others/he's insecure (2) he has pornography habits, ESPECIALLY ones where he interacts with other women (massage parlors, cam girls, prostitutes, Reddit, you name it) (3) if you meet him on OLD, he has multiple dating profiles across other apps or sites (4) he's addicted to SM and uses it to stalk his exes, saves pict…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:32 PM
30

i guess they expect women to drop off the kids with their (probably) worthless Dads so they can stick it in? 🙄 they seem to forget the fact that 70% of women initiate divorce, leading anyone with a brain to believe that men are the problem most of the time...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:19 PM
46

back in the day, my girlfriends and i would gift each other chocolates/sweets/flowers, it was the best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:18 PM
42

y u no love 45 year old dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 01:46 PM
24

the worthwhile ones are ~3-7% of the male population. this still leaves us hundreds of millions of men globally, which imo is a fairly generous number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 01:37 PM
23

they've also done studies that show masturbation degrades sperm quality. why do you think clinics tell men not to jerk off for a week or two for IVF?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:11 AM
13

LMAO why is this killing me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:10 AM
5

oh i love her! didn't know she had a podcast, thanks. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 08:34 PM
18

the world male population would plunge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 08:31 PM
2

damn, that's some typical HS bullshit. watching people cope on SM saddens me. people with the worst relationships want to declare things publicly and 'set the record straight' like their private lives aren't swamps of depravity. the funny part of course is that everyone knows it, so idk who they think they're fooling. 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 03:31 PM
1

no problem! i also have highly functional mentally ill friends who manage to get by (mostly with the aid of medication and counseling). i definitely meant mentally ill types that are untreated, self destructive, and generally wreak havoc on everyone's lives around them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 02:54 PM
16

yassssss ladies, this is incredible! Congrats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 12:25 PM
41

MAN, i can tell he tabbed out from 4Chan into writing this shitshow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 12:24 PM
128

well i for one can't wait for the Men's Ban Parade
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 12:22 PM
15

men are pathetic man babies. ALWAYS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 11:58 AM
4

senility leading to delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 11:57 AM
14

*poses for friend's artistic endeavors on Insta* mODEl BaBy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 11:55 AM
7

what a boss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 11:50 AM
26

my Husband and i have been talking about this a lot lately. men that manage to have girlfriends/partners: serial killers, pedophiles, abusers, people with severe mental illness like Schizophrenia and Biopolar Disorder, the fattest and ugliest of people so the types that can't find someone on their level? it's because that's not the level they're looking at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 06:56 PM
21

i feel like a good rule of thumb is that if a guy can't do the most basic of men's tasks: be a provider- he should absolutely not enter into a relationship. men can learn how to please a woman and become affectionate. but having the character to be a hard worker and sacrifice for your partner and family when necessary is FUNDAMENTAL to manhood. please someone show me all the men who are not providers but manage to be good partners. 🙄 in every relationship i've heard about that has this dynamic, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 06:53 PM
63

it's a combination of a crush (because other coworkers tend to notice it) + emotional affair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 06:44 PM
105

if my Husband asked me to do this, i'd buy him a pretty little black thong and ask him to wear it first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 09:08 PM
25

💁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 08:48 PM
33

it's not surprising that men who overvalue themselves overvalue the status of men in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 08:47 PM
1

i don't blame you! men are still men and we should all be cautious of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 09:08 AM
6

yes haha, thanks for the correction! i had a guy friend who went to law school and left his girlfriend of 4 years like 6mo after he graduated...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 06:55 PM
23

Law school? sorry, she's probably a Bob the Builder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:56 PM
35

cringe, nothing worse than a LVM you can't get away from because you live with or nearby him. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:53 PM
6

for those interested in the deleted comments: https://snew.notabug.io/r/legaladvice/comments/ey5b1m/the_photographer_who_took_my_senior_portraits/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 10:26 AM
27

yikes, i wouldn't even befriend a woman that acts like this tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:51 AM
29

only ~7-10% of women enjoy and have regular casual sex. ~2-5% of them can have orgasms with strangers. so yeah, like 90% of women don't get anything from it whatsoever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:48 AM
18

anyone remember Omegle? i found it in my early 20s and killed time with people across the world learning about new cultures, ideas, etc. it was exactly what i was looking for- random, fun conversations that could be anonymous and end quickly if you didn't jive with someone. within a couple months, it filled with men trying to sext teenagers, and then they added the cam feature which made a bunch of people like me leave. i was so sad to lose that site. fun fact: back in the day, OKCupid also had …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:44 AM
34

i wanna say these guys have no idea how attractive men can be, but i'm beginning to think most men on Reddit are just bitter ugly losers? i have seen hot guys posted from time to time, but they're maybe 1-3% of posts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:33 AM
14

don't worry, I did! I left and never spoke to him again. he wrote me a long email saying something like "omg I'm so sorry idek what happened". welp, Fred, you're an abusive piece of shit... that's what happened. what was so scary about this situation is that there were no warning signs. he was HVM... kind, generous, educated, and then one day he snapped. of all my exes, I would have said he's least likely to be abusive, and yet here I am 7 years later still shook by what he did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:04 AM
181

"hey babe remember my dick?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 11:45 PM
280

did he delete his message from October? what a 🤡 men so rarely take responsibility for their abusive horseshit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 11:45 PM
25

for every inch over 6'0", add 5 names to the list of women men cheat on their wives with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 11:43 PM
46

not to mention if you go on too many rounds of antibiotics, they become ineffective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 12:17 PM
76

i bet! medicine is such a rough field for women to be in, so thank you for helping women through agonizing times. i feel so sorry for PP moms. why don't they teach actual health (eg dating and relatin') in HS instead of just sexual health? that's only one component of a relationship. mandatory compassion/empathy classes and emotional coping strategies for young boys would be sooo helpful. how many men are just selfish manbabies at heart? seems like 90%+
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:51 AM
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30% of men in America pay zero/N O T H I N G in child support. child support statistics are bleak af and will give you hemorrhoids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:41 AM
68

wow, i can't even imagine working a job like that. it must be beautifully soul crushing most days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:37 AM
10

she's probably young, naive, and is just now realizing in her early 20s she's wasting her time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:10 AM
11

why do men always project their fantasy of using and abusing people onto us? women aren't men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:07 AM
14

damn girl, CALL THEM OUT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:06 AM
49

AHAHAH I HAVE USED THIS IN AN ARGUMENT WITH A MAN BACK IN THE DAY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:05 AM
19

i love a classic "lol" and block or "OK" and block. 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:05 AM
10

lmao he thinks love is only expressed once you've spent half your life with someone? i would dump his ass for bein' DUMB.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:04 AM
10

my girlfriends have told me about these guys that only message them after like, 10pm. https://i.imgur.com/uWnxLqJ.jpg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:01 AM
2

disgusting, i wouldn't let ANY man talk to me like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:00 AM
6

his anxiety is that it's her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 09:55 PM
5

that makes it so much sadder. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 09:54 PM
114

mentioned it once, drunk, 4 years ago... $200-$300 ring nearly a decade wasted on this guy already IS SHE LOOKING FOR A DIRECTION TO RUN IN BECAUSE I HAVE A FEW SUGGESTIONS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 11:36 AM
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oH nO a FaT nEcKbEaRd Is MaD wOmEn DoN'T wAnT tO bE uSeD aNd AbUsEd!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 11:34 AM
6

NO! omg haha that is so much worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 07:29 PM
31

i would've just sent a picture of a glass of water on my kitchen counter 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:38 PM
47

the designated pump and dump girl, tbh. many such cases.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 09:43 AM
19

my Husband brought me roses the other day because i had a headache! ffs, i feel so sorry for most women. men's behavior is abysmal, and they all cajole each other to expect more and more from women while giving less and less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 07:21 AM
4

i wish i could post the photo, but obviously that would doxx him. let's just say after he cheated on me, my girlfriends and i got quite the laugh out of it. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:11 PM
9

same, somehow my Dad gave me more useful advice than my Mom, smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:48 AM
19

this is why i keep trying to get my GFs off dating apps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:45 AM
14

is his sense of humor important when he's fat, ugly, AND old? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:44 AM
14

the only thing i can think of is getting a hot male friend to help you that he doesn't know (maybe you can borrow a friend of a friend?) just have him there, explain NOTHING. lmfao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:42 AM
51

he only admitted it after we parted ways. this is the same guy that emailed me a picture of himself crying around Christmas the first year i spent it with my Husband instead of him. 😂 i upgraded in every way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:40 AM
9

i make my Husband clean the bathroom, i don't do destruction. 💁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:33 AM
38

oh damn your shitty exbf from HS also posted you to 4chan?! mine posted a selfie I'd only sent him, kindof making a kissy face and leaning forward (clothed ofc). and was like "what do you guys think? hot or nah?" I was 18 at the time, jfc. hope these two chuds are still single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:25 AM
73

my ex thought he could do better too. guess who's still spamming my inbox and DMs 4 years later after I've gotten married? 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:16 AM
13

😆😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:15 AM
14

yeah, it's a shame his personality is a garbage bin, what a weird thing to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:50 PM
37

is this guy over 40? "hot vanilla" sounds like an ugly old man to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:39 PM
4

oh yeah, that psychopathic motherfucker! i will NEVER understand men that want to leave their families, but instead of just moving on and trying to be a good Father to the children they already have/give their ex wife a chance at finding a new partner, they want a clean slate and murder their whole family. fuck these men. i'm so glad he got caught.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 08:37 AM
18

ita, tell EVERYONE. he cheats? tell his friends and family members (when asked why you dumped him). he says/does degrading shit, derides women, confides in you he's RP, we need to start warning each other about shitty men. if you see a guy in class that you used to date who's a POS talking to another girl, pull her aside and tell her. for the first while, you will probably meet women who don't trust or believe you, but this is about the greater good of creating trust between women and changing s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 08:26 AM
20

my Hubs and i were talking about this the other day. he commented that one of the biggest problems of men no longer socializing constructively (outside of drinking, playing video games, etc), is that men used to bully each other into being better. the art of manhood has been lost on these Peter Pan fucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 08:24 AM
8

this ending is perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 08:17 AM
2

i got a nice PM from a guy who did this, it was heartening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 08:11 AM
10

they're basically looking for a woman with the intellectual and emotional capacity of an 8 year old. if you have your own identity, wants, thoughts, needs, goals, they are threatened af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 08:06 AM
10

i always insist on keeping my headphones in and pretending i'm incapable of taking them out, lmao. if they keep pushing, i will say (with headphones still on) YEAH I'M NOT INTERESTED IN TALKING/I'M BUSY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 08:05 AM
9

😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 08:46 PM
3

let these bitter babies think there is one though, it's hilarious 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 08:34 PM
65

ia, i think one of the biggest "blackpills" women can swallow is that men will do ANYTHING for sex. they will cheat, lie, steal, drug you, lead you on, and just generally use and abuse women without an ounce of remorse. one of my friend's parents just divorced in their 60s. they had a business together for 20 years, raised four (now grown) children together, their lives were enmeshed. he serially cheated on her throughout their dating period, marriage, pregnancies, etc, with at least twenty wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 08:24 PM
3

i feel like these men don't even run into HVM in their lifetimes. otherwise how could they be so willfully obtuse of what we expect and deserve from real men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 08:11 PM
10

friendly reminder: women are leading men in education and income, so maybe men should work on adapting themselves to the year 2020 instead of raging at women for being more successful in the dusty corners of the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 08:09 PM
11

is the first guy 19? lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 10:44 AM
25

you have to be unapologetic and willing to walk... they will chase you. if they don't, they weren't willing to compromise anyway. but if you set the terms and go "but i don't need you to Wife me up" and are willing to ✌️ out, he may entertain your perspective and come after you once he's had time to think about it. imo the guy who laughed is not a good candidate for this strategy, but you could try it! men don't have as many options as women. when men mock you or do something negative, you withd…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 03:08 PM
22

ahhhhhhhhhhhh, the agony of being a 2 in both looks and spirit. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:49 AM
8

what a fun post! not shocked his little babyman brain couldn't help but be humiliated that she wrote about what a POS Husband and Father he is though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:44 AM
7

she was annoying because she was rude asf to people without cause
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:22 AM
3

lmfao i can see how ugly he is in his thumbnail. things this guy doesn't deserve: hot, young virgins
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:20 AM
235

don't fall for the sunk cost fallacy, girl. you are still so young! you could easily find a guy and spend several years with him before marriage, if that's what you need to feel secure. but tbh any guy that wants to marry you will do so ASAP... a guy that's spent nearly 10 years hmm'ing and huh'ing about it is never gonna drop on one knee, i'm sorry to say. i have this funny video of my ex reading laws on marriage in his country (he was a foreigner) and trying to go OoOOhHhh It'S sO hArD, LoOk w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:14 AM
12

samesieeessss ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 09:14 PM
9

most men have no idea what other men are like around women. i'm really glad my Dad warned me many times, and gave me FDS-approved approaches/tools to avoid these doorknobs. unfortunately a lot of women miss out on that perspective. :( all we can try to do is spread awareness and help one another, and it sounds like you have good girls in your life that do so!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 02:02 PM
45

i'm gonna say it, i think certain names are death throes. i've never met a HVM named Mark 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 08:52 AM
61

i have said "don't fucking look at me" before to men with women on their arms, lmao. they are SHOOK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 08:48 AM
8

LMFAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 08:45 AM
11

i have this distinct memory of my first year in College, my girlfriends and i managed to get into a club even though we were 18 (our fake IDs weren't great, they just wanted young bodies in there). one of my friends was literally being dragged off the dance floor by a 40 year old guy intending to take her home, and the four of us physically tore her away from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 08:38 AM
20

Two thirds said what they wanted most from their partner was acknowledgement of the work they do, such as a 'good job' every now and then. oh christ almighty you're not gonna get a pat on the head for doing 1/3rd of the work women do thanklessly lol. what in the actual fuck makes men think their partners should be thanking them for being responsible adults? this isn't grade school. there aren't stickers for being a Grade A partner, your life just functions efficiently and fairly when you're a HV…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 08:30 AM
17

Socialist and Fascist men are one and the same i stg. would recommend staying away from "political" types as they tend to be huge douchenozzles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 09:18 AM
10

👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 09:16 AM
6

LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 09:16 AM
7

this one hurts my soul 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:20 PM
12

looooool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:41 AM
25

women compliment in a realistic way, men prop each other's delusions up. i've seen it a million times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:41 AM
11

but with a dog, you get unconditional love and support...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:40 AM
14

does he not realize you weren't taking yourself out to dinner because you could do that any old damn time, without having to deal with LVM to boot? jfc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:36 AM
3

"gross" or "inappropriate" and then block. these little boys need to learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:26 AM
16

they both sound like shitshows tbh, just because you've known someone a long time, doesn't mean they're a good person/friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:25 AM
6

i remember one time a guy was lovebombing me and i was like wtf? i flipped the script, told him i was falling in love with him and just blocked him, never speaking to him again. lmfao one of my funnier/more insane strategies. stage 5 Narcissist would NOT back off though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:22 AM
12

omgggg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:12 AM
63

lmao, if only all men's profiles were written by exes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 10:11 AM
28

i'm only one episode into his new documentary series, but everyone neeeeeeds to watch it. it's clear his family's entire existence functions around him, he doesn't spend much time with his kids and only cares about his career, it's SHOCKING. here's an IMDB link about it. supposedly they also cover how he cheated on his second wife (that he cheated on his first wife with) while she was pregnant and past homophobic comments he's made. he's a mess of a man tbh idk why he gets any hall passes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 06:55 PM
5

omggggg, you poor thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 06:34 PM
5

oh sorry girl, i looked back in the posts but somehow missed yours! i cannot believe the level men go to for simple head pats. WOW YOU WENT GROCERY SHOPPING? LEMME SPEND 5 HOURS BAKING YOU A PIE BABE, I AM SOOO PROUD OF YOU!* *i blame men's mothers for this childish mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 06:33 PM
5

this is totally possible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 06:30 PM
34

men need constant reassurance when they do more than they want to. it took me some time to shake my Husband out of this mindset, but if he does do something big or time consuming, i do thank him because it's beyond what i expect. no woman should pat men on their little heads when they do basic chores though. 🤣 they are so weak lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:33 AM
70

the men obsessed with carrying on their legacy are the least likely to be good fathers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:28 AM
172

after i complimented a guy's unique shirt at a party (i was in my mid 20s and never made the mistake again) "sweetie, i'm married." he was bald, fat, 40, and 5'7".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:27 AM
17

LMFAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:25 AM
63

lmao YES he is for real, choking on my coffee goddamn, men expect cookies for the most basic of tasks. YOU ARE NOT A CHILD. THERE ARE NO MORE STICKERS TO EARN, CONNOR.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:19 AM
15

imagine making yourself available to these types of violent psychopaths and sticking up for them? like girl what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:14 AM
2

take it as an insult, just next em, or you can get sassy in a message ("do i look like the type of girl that eats Fajitas at Chili's?") and then next them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:11 AM
5

get inspired! ruin men 🌈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:08 AM
3

crowns made of 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:04 AM
52

he totally understands her point about how men need to do more chores, it's not really worth thanking him for. b-b-but her pickmeisha friends said i did a good job :(:(:( where's my bone for doing what's baseline expected of me in a relationship??? what's the point if people who aren't my partner don't notice and stroke my ego? amirite losers of Reddit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:03 AM
23

MEN WILL LITERALLY DO ANYTHING TO DIP THA DIQ OMG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:59 PM
2

we were both way too old for this 🃏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:30 PM
5

i understand what you're saying... i've also sent the screenshots. i think maybe 30% of the women don't know, and who knows how many of them would dump the guy if they did? but i still think it is worth setting the precedent for, if only to deter some men from trying it in the first place. imagine if men's association with Tinder wasn't SEX but being CAUGHT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 12:58 PM
6

ofc I didn't tell him, I had that exact same thought about helping the next woman out. 😂 idk, and I'm not sure it will ever get better. at least SM is exposing these losers/users. I think more women need to step up and send screenshots to their partners when they discover these guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 12:24 PM
1

saucy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:46 AM
2

i totally agree. i went back and forth letting them in and out of my life, slowly but surely loosening their grip every time i did so (eg going 2 years without speaking, then 5). my life is serene without them in it. one of my closest friends was shocked the last time i went back to my family and said "i figured you'd stopped talking to them completely years ago." that really put things in perspective and made me make the final decision. no matter who the person is, some things are not worth for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:38 AM
7

damn girl, i am married and not even my Husband could drag my ass out for a 8mi hike in freezing rain! sounds like you found a good one! congrats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:33 AM
11

it is so incredibly sad how common this experience is for young women. i'm glad you were at least able to tell the other women in his life what he was doing! oink oink. 🐷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:19 AM
16

defensiveness is the first sign of a liar. there was a poll from 2015 when Tinder first took off asking HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS of people how many of them were married... it was 30% lol/🤮 indeed. nobody's coming for your trashheap, pickmeisha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:16 AM
21

let's get /u/throway_gf out of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 07:49 AM
8

I feel sorry for escorts but something has to take these chucklefucks out of the dating pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 07:44 AM
15

well and truly, makes me laugh thinking about years later. he also amazingly wanted me to commit to only dating him before we met! LMFAO. entitled little shitbag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 07:42 AM
76

i was talking to this guy on Snapchat and told him i only wanted a LTR. i asked if he was seeing anyone? "no of course not." he was dumb enough to share his location with me, and spent several nights a week at two places that weren't his. LMAO did he even know his location was on?! probably not. absolute mong, that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 09:46 PM
14

nothing an ugly man could do would offend me tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:54 PM
22

write posts on /r/relationships about how they're soooo lonely and their peepees ouchies :(:(:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:54 PM
16

it's just a projection of failure, the majority of men aren't having regular sex these days. if they met a woman they MIGHT end up having sex with and end up liking her enough to wait a few more months, what's the big deal?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:53 PM
2

love yourself :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:52 AM
1

lmao np, get some sleep girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:47 AM
2

what about my comment? i'm a size 2, i'd say that's small already. i'm commenting on how small the guy must be, but for him it's a choice out of childishness and assumed helplessness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:36 AM
5

pffffft I've known lots of women from NJ and y'all are awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 10:25 AM
9

I'm a product of a narcissistic mother and alcoholic father family. I realized my life with better off without them in it and have cut off my family so many times. after being called "worthless" a few years ago and having my mother lie about my life and my best friend doing me dirty (sweetest woman ever!), I'm done. I also noticed as time went on it was better for me to tell people I simply don't have a family than explain the nuances of being scapegoated. lucky people with loving families just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 10:15 AM
81

I fucking lllllivvvveeee for Reddit posts where men get exposed by their gfs/wives like this. my absolute favorite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 10:04 AM
8

you must navigate to their profile and click the +trust button in the top right corner. i linked an image in my comment to what that looks like here. hope that helps!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 08:56 PM
27

(1) Navigate to the blocked section on your Preferences tab, direct link here. (2) Under the header Messaging preferences it will say Show private messages from, select Only trusted users. (3) If you would like to PM someone, you can simply go to their user profile and add them to your +trust list. Here, I'm using our lovely /u/NecessaryCook as a screenshot in my example. https://imgur.com/WASfApe Happy blocking ladies! Enjoy the rest of your Monday. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 08:48 PM
1

sorry girl, all you can do is sort em and dump em quickly, MOVE ON
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 05:30 PM
4

even IF they manage to net a younger woman at 40, the divorce rates are so high. 20 years apart - 95% chance of divorce 10 years apart - 39% more likely to get divorced 5 years apart - 18% end up divorced 1 year - 3%, HMM WONDER WHY THAT IS the average age gap in a marriage is 2 years for good reasons 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 04:50 PM
5

and their own level of delusion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 04:45 PM
26

wow, i'm 5'6" and this guy only weighs 10lbs more than me, wtf? this is so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 04:36 PM
94

HOW DARE YOU QUESTION MY DISGUSTINGNESS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 02:34 PM
6

I've dated men 20-60 and it doesn't matter what generation they are, men have same attitudes backed with more or less money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 12:55 PM
24

gonna say something controversial because I know the stats of Redditors. most Redditors are College aged, and make 30k a year. when you take into consideration the socioeconomic class of the men's rights subreddits + age, their outlook and bitterness about being too poor to afford a relationship makes sense. I don't think Reddit is a good representation of HVM because there's so few of them here. the majority of pictures I've seen of men across this site, they're overall less attractive than ave…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 09:21 AM
15

disappointment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 09:56 PM
13

weird, a lot of the synonyms he used to describe Meghan much more poignantly describe men 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 09:52 PM
23

LMFAO WHY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 09:49 PM
18

HAHAHH WHAT THE FUCK I CANT STOP LAUGHING OMG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 09:48 PM
11

this is a good strategy, because negotiating with men is impossible. they will always see corrections as nagging or insulting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:50 PM
2

thatta girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:49 PM
52

she's just a beautiful woman on the internet, no different than a Twitch streamer: Rachel knows who butters her bread
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 11:40 AM
34

144K subscribers we'll be taking dem subscribers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 11:39 AM
5

my husband doesn't use porn (he stopped shortly before meeting me), and had never heard of Reddit before I told him what it was. imo, maybe 2% of the men that use this site are HVM, and if I were still dating, I would cut off guys that post here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 11:36 PM
14

lmao i love y'all so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:48 AM
42

i remember doing this when i was younger, which is to say, when i was naive and trying to be a "cool girl". do not encourage men to disrespect you by disengaging with you during a sex act, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:42 AM
8

just wanna add an obvious tell to the list: talks about other men's accomplishments as if they're his own/talks about men in a historical context to 'prove' that men are better than women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:36 AM
27

i had an abortion after my ex raped me and came inside of me, knowing i was not on BC/without my stated permission. i will never regret the choice i made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:32 AM
8

this guy thinks he deserves more than he offers, if that's not the joke then i don't get it 💁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:30 AM
22

"i want to use you without you getting upset about it"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 12:22 PM
11

I had a guy that begged me for my number for like 2 weeks. that alone gave me super bad vibes and I blocked him. guys that want to assert themselves like this are NOT good men or good partners, I guarantee it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:14 AM
10

I want a petition going to make /r/deadbedrooms couple posts ONLY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:00 PM
6

might go on a DD if it was MY friend and an outdoor activity where we could split up (eg a theme park). otherwise, no, entertaining three people on a date is usually kinda shitty and chaotic unless you know everyone well ime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:24 PM
15

the STDs rates of seniors alone gets my noggin joggin...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:09 PM
24

typical. the younger a man is, the less empathy they have, as a general rule.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:06 PM
9

oh barf, I always forget about fast food because I don't eat it. don't worry, heart disease is on his horizon in 15 years. bullet dodged!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:13 AM
15

he literally said "I'm a good cook", I knew I wasn't gonna go over to his place but just out of curiosity I went "oh? and what would you make me?" when he said waffles I wrote LMFAO and blocked him. bitch, I've got flour, eggs and water at home. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:12 AM
11

people should start promoting this on sites were there are predominantly young women like Tumblr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:57 AM
14

I had a guy ask me to come over so we could make waffles and "hang out". he lived like 60 miles away, lmfao. never blocked a LVM faster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:55 AM
23

this is a good rule! I went on a COFFEE DATE once (never again lol), the chat went OK, I told him by the end of it that we had things in common but that I wasn't physically attracted to him in person. the jackass tried to kiss me for going 20m out of my way to meet him for a $2.35 cup of coffee I paid for myself after lying to me about his height by 5 inches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:53 AM
26

but then they'd have to see women as people ☹️☹️☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:49 AM
20

do their mommies food prep for them, or do they just live off pizza and toaster's strudel?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:48 AM
15

this guy isn't gonna have one kid, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:39 AM
11

i've had a few friends that left the LDS church, shit is wild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:06 PM
14

my Husband is really into cults in the same way i'm into True Crime. we've been having lots of discussions lately about cults and what makes them so dysfunctional (proximity is the biggest culprit imo), and specifically how men take advantage of women in cults. it's either top-down (cult leader has sex with all the women), or creates an environment like the Amish community where there's an incest problem. we're not made to live in communities with other people so closely imo. especially when the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:04 PM
9

all iterations of the Manosphere as it used to be known were predicated on the idea of using, abusing and disposing of women. there is no equivalent Men's version of FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 10:46 AM
12

her career has also been taking off as of late!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 10:26 AM
162

these instincts are specifically meant for our children, family members, and close friends. idk wtf men think they even bring to the table anymore?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 10:30 PM
91

what the fuck, just when i think i've SEEN IT ALL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 09:01 PM
5

this makes total sense. i haven't read Dworkin in like 10 years so i'll go back and read Intercourse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 07:14 PM
11

wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:45 AM
16

i totally support women snooping and creeping, since more than half of men/a majority of them in fact end up cheating in LTRs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:41 AM
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lmfao he's saying secluded like that means you were UnToUcHeD and he used to jerkoff to the idea of your PuRiTy. now you're glowed up, so he can do it without feeling guilty/bad. 🤮 i stg there needs to be a SM site that's only for women, so we can post bikini pics, etc, without the fear of men's depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:40 AM
4

i've dated some German men... dated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:33 AM
12

to me this is a massive red flag, it's like saying "yup just here for my dick hbu"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:31 AM
5

when men say Drama Queen, you yell standards! DRAMA QUEEN STANDARDS DRAMA QUEEN STANDARDS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:30 AM
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menalwayslie.jpg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:26 AM
6

be wary of ANYONE that pushes for personal information: last name, phone number, home address super early on, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:25 AM
23

you need to tell your cousin's Husband chocolate, wine and a couple hours of company doesn't make you someone's prostitute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:25 AM
13

or an uglier Elon Musk jfc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:17 AM
38

apparently the rate of women who have children that aren't their partner's is ~5-10%. for men that admit they've had children with multiple partners that number is around ~8-10%. i came across this study claiming that 36% of men have more than FOUR children with multiple women! if you take into consideration men's rate of cheating, this also means that men are much, much, much more likely to have illegitimate children outside of their partner/marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:15 AM
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they have almost 1000 men pathetic enough to stalk, harass, and target us. never underestimate men's ability to project women's standards as a personal attack. this is like stealing our "No Boys Allowed" sign and sticking it on their house of abusive horrors. jfc these people are not only unhinged, but deluded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:04 PM
21

radical thoughts and opinions: ugly people should settle and/or have less dating options, psychopathic people (eg these types that want to abuse women and think they can trick us into thinking it's love/affection) should have NO dating options, poor men should not date until they step up their monetary game LMFAO @ 10 YEAR OLD HONDA ACCORD THOUGH, DAMN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:00 PM
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i think it will take less time for smart women to suss out they're hiding their inner loser/hatred of women. there's so many ways to gage these guys real thoughts, feelings and beliefs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:58 PM
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🤨 they're too ugly and/or poor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:57 PM
16

tfw you've gotta tell women you're a deadbeat Dad https://i.imgur.com/ChDwRMn.gif guys i was reading stats, and 65% of women in a divorce get fucking NOTHING from men in terms of child support, n o t h i n g. these same idiots whine and complain that 35% of men are taken to court and forced to pay to raise their own children. the solution is obviously we should let men continue to check out of the consequences for their choices. divorce rape amirite, i want to sign away parental rights, HOW DARE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:49 PM
13

i can't believe any of these men have convinced themselves they have the character to be a boyfriend, let alone Husband or FATHER my god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:40 PM
18

Most of the time she would stop after she cums and not allow me to finish. Not even wanna do a hand job, blow job or lay up with me while I finished myself. you mean like 90% of what sex is like with men? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:39 PM
2

you're in the right place, i'd just recommend reading the sidebar, reading posts and commenting before jumping in so hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 09:12 AM
5

I've had to change usernames several times over the years because I've been a mod in controversial subreddits that these creeps have tried to doxx.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:51 AM
2

bby I love astrology but FDS is not the place for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:47 AM
7

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:43 AM
57

learn not to be a sociopath/be empathetic instead of listening to your genitals? idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:42 AM
37

well, male predation is biology 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:40 AM
13

this is absolutely horrifying wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 06:26 PM
5

maybe you're a Bugatti. ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:02 AM
35

young men are disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:01 AM
71

before i met one of my boyfriends, i was talking to this guy through OLD. we didn't even meet up, just sent some snaps and chatted fairly often. when i made things official with my ex, i told him "hey you've been cool and i enjoy talking to you, but now i have a boyfriend and he prob wouldn't be happy i'm still talking to guys i met on dating apps, so take care and good luck out there!" i deleted him from Snapchat, not realizing i should have blocked him because he proceeded to call me like 20x …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:00 AM
78

a guy can marry you, cheat on you the whole time, make you have his children, build a home and life with you, spend decades with you and still not love you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 07:52 AM
12

~60-70% of men cheat in marriage, what is this fuckwit talking about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 07:34 AM
58

if you haven't already, check out the documentary An Open Secret :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 09:45 PM
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there are so many parents that put their kids into Hollywood and allow them to be abused like this, it's sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 09:45 PM
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what's sad to me is she thinks this is normal. where are her fucking parents?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 09:22 PM
30

be as ruthless with your friendships as you are with men, i promise it will make your life more fulfilling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 08:33 AM
2

happy to help!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 08:23 AM
3

once you change your settings, if you look at someone's profile, there should be a +trust by their username. so basically it's someone YOU want to DM with for whatever reason/you decide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 08:14 AM
36

damn girl, you deserve a man on your level!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 08:03 AM
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imma say it: his mummy suggested it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 08:02 AM
83

so he's clinically obese and his fat folds on his thighs cover up parts of his body he's too lazy to properly clean. absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 07:58 AM
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for anyone that wants to do it, go to https://www.reddit.com/prefs/blocked and under Show private messages from, select only trusted users.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 09:14 PM
36

lmaoooo savage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 02:49 PM
73

when i tell women not to bother dating guys with small dicks, it's not because WOMEN mind, it's because having a small dick warps men's perception and makes them douchenozzles. don't even bother, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 09:50 AM
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what's toxic about it is that men literally don't see women as people. anytime someone advocates for women as people, they're threatened by the idea of women having standards that cut them out. cue harassment, stalking, threatening, etc, those women. there's a reason only 40% of men used to pass on their genes, and i'm glad that we're going back to that model because men these days ain't shit. i have a feeling state enforced monogamy is to blame. if LVM were preoccupied warring or building infra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 09:40 AM
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y'know what? in a way, i'm over here like WWIII 🙌 #draftdraftbaby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 09:33 AM
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i went in there and argued my heart out with stupid ass men, shutting them all up in the end. lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 10:05 AM
13

they're sex/relationship tourists, so of course they're predators. idc i still watch this trashheap lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 09:59 AM
38

it's funny because men have better quality lives when they're married, but their ball-brains somehow convince them that playing the field/lack of fulfillment is the way forward. truly fucking stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 09:58 AM
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disgusting. my Husband and i recently dropped a mutual friend because he was getting into furry shit. don't put up with depravity, and don't subject your life to someone who's this fucked up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 09:55 AM
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one time this guy i was seeing tried to convince me we could have fun in his car. yeah, he was in his late 30s and i ghosted him after that and he spammed me with angry messages LMFAO. LIKE. DAMN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 09:50 AM
2

married and doesn't even want to treat his beautiful, hardworking (probably ex) wife! SMGDH!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 09:49 AM
3

your approach makes sense, i've encountered the same attitude from hideous men. when i was in College, i rejected a 4 and he made my first year there a living hell by stalking me, spamming my AIM (lol showing my age), and telling everyone i was a cunt. all because i went on a date with him and friendzoned him nicely. another part of the problem is we know that men can't rate themselves honestly. when you're a 3 who thinks he's a 5 or a 5 that thinks he's a 7 and then you approach women several p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 09:46 AM
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but girl, settling for a 6 or 7 makes them SUCH good people! lmao seriously, these "logicians" need to look at the actual numbers. you are so right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 08:12 PM
15

they want the money, the mommy, the maid, the whore and their partners to still do the vast majority of emotional labor and chores/childrearing. they are spoiled babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 07:29 PM
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the term fiance/e is transitional, meaning neither girlfriend/boyfriend nor wife/husband. i don't know why anyone would be wanna stuck in that phase for more than a year or two.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 07:25 PM
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this is true, there can be more dignity in prostitution than casual sex. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:11 PM
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Casual sex is NOT for average men and below and never was. this is the crux of the problem; convincing (the majority of men) that they should be settling for someone on their level. they want to "settle" for women that are a 7, not realizing those women are aiming for 7-8s. the other part of the problem is convincing them not to hate and/or kill women because they're below average and angry about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:09 PM
6

what a nightmare. go on a trip with your girlfriends instead, OP. at least it would guarantee a good time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 04:05 PM
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if men went on less dates, they would have more money for quality dates with women they actually like. but instead, their strategy is to spray and pray and hope women have sex with them for the smallest monetary investment. STOP TREATING WOMEN LIKE PROSTITUTES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 01:57 PM
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don't even fuck LVM tbh, you're better than that sis. get a vibrator if you're sexually frustrated and look for another FWB if that's what you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 09:34 AM
8

idk girl, men are masters at making us second guess ourselves!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 07:40 AM
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whenever a man requests you to join him, he should pay. if he doesn't understand why, frame it to him like this: "if i pay for myself, why wouldn't i just (eat here/travel here/whatever it is) alone?" if he doesn't understand that, #bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 07:30 AM
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yikes yikes yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 10:03 PM
31

this is one of the biggest lies they tell us! of COURSE their sperm ages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:41 PM
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if they're so horrified, hopefully their girlfriends just end up dumping their pathetic asses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:25 PM
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i can't even tell you how many women i've known that this has happened to, where they find out their boyfriend is still on OLD, talking to exes, setting up dates behind their back. damn, the label means nothing to some men and it's horrifying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 09:02 AM
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and it's also the world's biggest Male Ego Plantation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 08:53 AM
8

new Whatsapp status!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 08:52 AM
15

like half of all people using OLD are just using it for an ego/confidence boost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 11:11 PM
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i had a married friend join Tinder at her Husband's insistence to sEe WhAt wOuLd hApPen (hoping he'd get laid or convince her to have a threesome, surely). he got ZERO MATCHES, meanwhile dudes were trying to get her attention left and right. he was so fucking mad. but i think there's something to the theory that once they start doing better, even if you supported or helped them, you're a reminder of their past. they associate you with how much they sucked, and now that they're better they someho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 11:10 PM
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this also happened to me, he cheated on me with some 20 year old and now he's balding, chubby and single LMFAO. the last time i emailed him i wrote "i saw a junkie in Berlin that looks exactly like you." there's something about being savage to exes that is so, so appealing to me lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 11:06 PM
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i have this exact same problem, the best option Gmail has is sending messages to spam where you still see them. how the fuck does the biggest email provider in the WORLD not have a real blocking option?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 08:56 PM
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100% a man, women may be cruel towards each other but we don't say shit like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 08:03 AM
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especially since good looking men are so much more secure and nicer. tall guys make better money and have people doing them more favors, too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 08:00 AM
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one of my exes is dating a girl in her mid 20s while he's about to round out his mid 30s. he doesn't look good for his age, it's so funny how young and fresh she looks while he deteriorates beside her in pictures. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 07:53 AM
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travel (imo don't go abroad with a boyfriend, save those experiences for your husband), try to have a relationship with his family, go on his arm as a guest to a wedding, let him question the people in my life's place, compromise on my progress (job, friends, whatever is going on for me personally). I had an ex that deliberately got in the way and complained about me working out. I invited him along and refused to compromise, it was one of the things we broke up over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 07:32 AM
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I would literally rather clean my whole house top to bottom than wash another dish. my husband does like 80% of the dishes and I do 80% of the cooking, which works for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 07:27 AM
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these are heartening statistics, it seems like the Boomer Generation had a higher failure rate for marriage, probably because norms (eg getting married younger and without higher education) were more common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 08:36 PM
10

I'll bring some of my girlfriends with me to celebrate 🍾🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 12:10 PM
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LMFAO OMG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 10:49 AM
7

here's some strategies i've used. delete his number and block it, there are apps where you won't even get a notification and messages/calls are automatically deleted name him something insulting (my ex was "chucklefuck" lol) hand your phone to a friend if one is around and you're tempted do something else whenever he calls/texts. literally, see it as a notification to work out, call a friend, go for a walk, listen to music, or leave your house read books about boundaries, self respect, and movin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 02:56 PM
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wow, that makes sense. it just blows my mind what some women put up with! we need more women here at FDS, and/or running seminars on how women can get the most of our relationships and properly vet men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 12:37 PM
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i have a friend, who, in her early 20s, dated a guy who would ONLY have sex with her outside. HOW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 12:29 PM
5

these guys complain about women's shit tests, but their hypocrisy and in-congruent arguments are so pathetic lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 09:53 AM
8

the FDS rule of dating smarter, not harder, would work for these guys. perhaps they don't make enough money to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:53 AM
16

💯 women can be platonic friends with men, men cannot be platonic friends with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:51 AM
8

lmao right? "women don't like attractive men. you are sooo handsome sweetie, don't worry!" - men's mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 08:43 AM
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back in the day before it became taboo, i once changed my relationship status to single on Facebook and the dick brigade showed up. i deleted every guy that liked the post. 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:40 AM
15

"be a happy slave"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 07:59 AM
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and/or the same men that justify it by saying the majority of women don't have orgasms so 'what they want doesn't matter'. ...anything they can do to unperson us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 12:52 PM
3

thanks for the links!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 12:28 PM
9

a guy that wants you to 'do something' for him when it's not in your best interests is NOT a guy that's gonna be a good boyfriend. his attitude is toxic and entitled. my MIL bought me a pair of nice earrings the first year my Husband and i were together, and y'know what she said? "/u/plutunic, if you don't like them, i have the receipt and you can return them for something you do like." all jewelry should be gifted like this imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 09:11 AM
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you need to look at men's circumstances and behavior rather than what they tell or reassure you of. words are valueless unless they demonstrate or back up what he's DOING. you can find a man who treats you well, is thoughtful, caring, has savings, doesn't live at home, is closer to you, and most importantly, wants a future will you and is making steps towards that. don't settle for potential. i know these are hard words to hear, but you're 29 and if you're serious about marriage, a family, etc, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:58 AM
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yikes, all of these should be red flags for even DATING a guy in the first place. don't date fixer uppers, or guys you have to "wait" for because of their circumstances. especially in your late 20s!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:23 AM
6

novelty and opportunity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:08 AM
6

someone linked a Crazy Ex Girlfriend video the other week, and i've been binging the show since then. it's amazing and y'all should watch it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 10:29 PM
2

i hope you reported him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 07:54 PM
5

whispering right in front of you is next level creepy. were you supposed to be impressed? Like, dude I don't give you any space in my brain rent-free. Please forget everything about me. i have said this to guys before including this one, unfortunately they don't listen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 07:53 PM
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he is scary! i contemplated contacting the popo (or maybe his family?) from another country, but i ultimately owe him nothing and don't need to get involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 07:52 PM
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men can be absolutely terrifying! when he first emailed me he was visiting his brother in a city i used to live in, so i gave him ideas for fun activities he could do with his nieces and nephews. his emails escalated from there, it was like a go ahead that i was talking to him as though he were any other person... ugh. another one of my exes knew i was traveling alone in a nearby country and offered to fly out and meet up. he has a girlfriend of 3 years and i'm married, so i asked what either of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:38 AM
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yes, and probably single for at least 10 years. he was legitimately pissed off to find out i got married at the tender age of 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:27 AM
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i guess he thought some Dr. Seuss tier message would guilt me into responding 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:26 AM
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well he doesn't have any other way to contact me! lol, i live on an entirely different continent. it just blows my mind how persistently insane he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:24 AM
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he emailed me out of the blue a few years ago and i stupidly responded, thinking "oh 15 years have passed so we can be polite now/wonder what he's up to." he then fowarded me emails from HS and i realized he was completely unhinged, so i told him to fuck off and have been ignoring him ever since. i guess this is his new pathetic attempt at baiting me into a response? MERRY CHRISTMAS, I'M A PSYCHO lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:23 AM
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losers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 08:35 AM
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I've been saying for half my life not even to bother dating guys that play videogames. I've seen too many posts from naive women that date, marry and then have these loser's kids. guess who's on the relationship subreddits complaining he'd rather play videogames than help raise their kids 1-3 years later? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 08:34 AM
24

yikes, even boys are delusional little cringe monsters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 08:57 PM
11

lame but unsurprising. here's the post if anyone wants to read it. https://snew.notabug.io/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/eexatn/are_normal_men_actually_trying_to_be_attractive/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 07:13 PM
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some response ideas: "imagine still being a kissless virgin at 27" "your Christmas looks really lonely from here. there are suicide hotlines for that." "what on Earth makes you think you're gonna have children?" blockblockblock!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 09:37 AM
9

hahah wow good one! I know we've never met but your opening line about "muh dick" really got me 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 09:01 AM
10

every time their teeth get kicked in for platforming this shit, they just delete it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 12:49 AM
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poor girl. these people need therapy, not pornography or, worse yet, bringing this trauma back into their lives in order to "confront" it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:03 PM
4

lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:22 PM
17

another response could be "sure! my going rate for dog sitting is $100/day"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:11 PM
46

is it sadistic of me to say i secretly love this time of year? my Husband's heard the nitty gritty about my shitty exes, and we loooooove laughing at their messages together. 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:06 PM
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"here's something that mostly benefits me. wait, why aren't you happy? :("
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:02 PM
53

if he really cared about her doing the painstaking vacuuming, why couldn't he buy this as a "here you go sweetie" gift ANY OTHER TIME DURING THE YEAR?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:01 PM
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also a possibility: don't have sex with a woman you wouldn't be willing to knock up RADICAL I KNOW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:00 PM
6

good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 11:59 AM
42

I'm married, I still don't pay on dates. I put my money towards other things that benefit our home, and from time to time I buy my husband gifts. men should ALWAYS court/treat women, yes even if you're married!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 09:39 AM
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when you stay friends with an ex, you're essentially filling the emotional gaps in-between relationships. it's comfortable and familiar so you keep doing it until a partner that's good enough to occupy your time comes along. anyway, there is basically no benefit to staying friends with an ex unless y'all have a kid together or something. I'd recommend just blocking him and cutting him off at this point. in a way your situation is worse because he still gets you to act as his girlfriend in public…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 09:36 AM
13

the ugliest men inside and out always have the highest standards for themselves. it blows my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 09:28 AM
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this is what you get when you fuck men you don't know... they don't care about your well being at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 09:15 AM
25

add political science majors to the list
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 09:08 AM
30

a guy that poses like that eats out most days a week, goes to the gym every day, and occasionally goes for drinks with his boys. not to mention if he actually likes you, yeah he'd take you out on dates. when guys act like this, i wish women would be more forward. "what makes you think I'm a prostitute?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 09:05 AM
30

a guy who's nearly entering middle age would say shit like this 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 09:01 AM
56

has sex with you ... 'guess we're not compatible after all' lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 09:00 AM
22

39 years old "I'm ready to start a family now"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:58 AM
14

the blowing a kiss emoji is fuckboi certified
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:55 AM
29

by the time men hit 35, their sperm quality starts declining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 07:09 PM
19

challenging him and questioning his bullshit. it's abusive dontcha know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 07:04 PM
14

ita men that ask these kind of questions are up to no good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 07:04 PM
15

I'm so proud of you for getting out! there may be resources (support groups or temporary housing) in your home country or even in his if you wanna stay. I've been in your exact same position before so feel free to PM me if you need support. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 06:58 PM
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so he tried to physically assault you because you told him he's too selfish to be good in bed? RUN and don't look back. do you have someone to stay with once you get back into town (if you have to?) is staying with your sister an option longterm?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 04:50 PM
14

lmao, they think that we read these stories and are impressed. we're disgusted and/or rolling our eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 04:48 PM
14

you can't fix this situation with THIS guy, but why would you want to? he's scummy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 04:46 PM
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same, all of my exes have 'entertained' the MQ (Marriage Question). that her boyfriend of half a decade actively avoids it should give her real pause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 04:43 PM
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that is exactly it. i've had friends that go over to a guy's place to clean for him when they don't live together. it's... crazy lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 04:42 PM
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you'd think people would read the Wiki instead of the memes, which don't represent all 40k members views. i upvote tons of memes and comments that are savage or hilarious even if i don't necessarily agree with them. but yeah, i suppose reading all the misogynistic takes from other men on FDS can rot a person's perspective. 🤷 it just amazes me that FDS is getting banned and excluded from Reddit. oh sure, we can debate the legitimacy of raping and abusing women and impregnating teenagers, but wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 01:25 PM
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this cop out always amounts to that old saying "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" but babe, why do we have to get married when i PROMISE to love you LIKE you're my wife? it ignores the social and legal ramifications and protections for women and children. men have all the incentive in the world to talk women out of the law holding them accountable. i can't blame her boyfriend for taking advantage of a woman that says she doesn't even need an engagement ring though. as a man wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 01:21 PM
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angry young man detected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 12:52 PM
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there's a handbook for guys avoiding marriage, her post hits like 90% of the lame excuses they give.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 11:09 AM
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lmfao i got banned from /r/relationships for linking this! fun exchange, looks like these morons didn't bother reading the Wiki. yeah, women having self respect and wanting a decent man in their lives is totally the same thing as men killing women for not fucking them. You've been permanently banned from participating in r/relationships subreddit message via /r/relationships sent 20 minutes ago You have been permanently banned from participating in r/relationships. You can still view and subscri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 11:04 AM
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subjective and/or personal anecdotes are not statistics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 11:02 AM
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ah jeez, the post itself is Pickmeisha Hell. if a guy is not ENTHUSIASTICALLY SUPER EXCITED to marry you, fantasizing about it, planning, etc, he doesn't want you to be his wife. ORIGINAL POST SINCE THE SALTY MODS DELETED IT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 10:24 AM
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thank you! reading about this has me feeling so horrified and sad for women of those times. i can't imagine their level of desperation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 09:30 AM
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omg, i've never heard of this. is there a book/article i can read about this? ETA: i found this and this article as an overview for anyone interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 09:18 AM
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one of my girlfriends has low self esteem, she's the kinda woman that has risky sex without protection with guys she doesn't know. she's had TWO bouts of Chlamydia from two different guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 09:14 AM
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OK so by that logic, having sex without some sort of monetary exchange is rape. ...these fucking idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 09:06 AM
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i've dated men in the 500k - millionaire range. guess what they didn't do? spend time on forums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 09:05 AM
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is this one in the Wiki? as a woman that's lived in several different countries and met countless (potential) predators, it's such great advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 09:02 AM
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this is why SAHM's should handle the purse strings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 09:00 AM
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i've known a lot of women that do it to save on housing costs and it's like... girl, this is what housemates are for lol. you do so much more for a man than you'd ever do in a situation where you just have housemates!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 08:57 AM
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i moved in with my Husband early on too, but we talked for half a year beforehand and i moved countries for him. we agreed to discuss setting a date for marriage around the year mark and got married after 15mo altogether. know your timeline!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 08:55 AM
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this, make sure you are engaged at the absolute least before cohabitating, if you want marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 08:48 AM
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yeah but how many of them, like 10%? would you drink a glass of water if there was a 10% chance someone else's blood was in it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 08:39 AM
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awwwwww this makes me happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 08:37 AM
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he doesn't care about you or your friends right to autonomy. DUMP HIM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 08:34 AM
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DUMP HIM. this is not normal behavior. you shouldn't have to look at your family members or friends and know that your boyfriend has demeaned them (and disrespected you) by doing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 08:34 AM
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"you won't engage with me sexually or reassure me about my dick? beepboop, goodbye f-e-m-a-l-e"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:01 PM
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imagine being A HUNDRED FUCKING YEARS OLD, everything you would have seen in such a time... and your concern in the last years of your life is your dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 08:58 PM
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so a solid 4 lmfaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:16 PM
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🤣💯 buncha fuckups and losers lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:12 PM
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IT'S THE MOST WONDERFUL TIME OF THE YEAR the only thing my exes can do is email me now that they're blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:11 PM
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lmao his lady friend had your BACK!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:56 AM
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one of my exes was a solid 4. I let him waste nearly 4 years of my life into my late 20s, and then he cheated on me with some 20 year old girl. btw, we're both 8s and I don't even know how it happened. the lie that women are too shallow to date hideous men is so pernicious. I can't think of one girlfriend of mine throughout my life that hasn't, and their exes still ended up being scumbags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:53 AM
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my husband's work ethic is one of the reasons I love and admire him so much. don't settle for personality, settle for values.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:48 AM
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men really think we're out here hoping to love them unconditionally like their MOMMIES. grow up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:38 AM
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this article pissed off sooo many men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:38 AM
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all this over $100, and she's already made the mistake of bearing one of his children. sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:35 AM
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considering she was an immigrant and her only other family member around was her sister, that played a huge role. i'm not entirely sure she put two and two together, she was way too busy working long shifts and taking care of the kids to notice he wasn't around. her Husband's MOMMY was around for help, her sister like i mentioned, and then me. she gave him freedom and that enabled his behavior too. i knew he was cheating when he told me a story about his ex wife and averted his eyes showing sign…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 08:20 PM
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i've dated a range of heights, from 5'8" - 6'5", i'm 5'6" and a size 4 for reference. if i had to rank the guys by best personality, the taller but not giant, so 5'11" - 6'1" being the sweet spot ones were confident with the nicest personalities. short guys cheated and their insecurities leaked into everrrrrything, tall guys were expectant and too used to attention from women. it's been said on FDS before: being tall isn't a personality lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:42 PM
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but unfortunately not the norm. :( ita that there's two types, it's just a shame women have to deal with the angry, bitter ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:38 PM
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yes! i asked my Husband and said "you don't have to ruin the whole surprise though" and he just answered point blank. if a guy is shy or has a smaller than average penis, in my experience he won't be forth coming. if he brushes you off by saying something like 'why don't you come see it for yourself right now', i wouldn't bother taking the risk tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:36 PM
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once you're getting to the point where you want to get sexual with a guy, i don't think there's anything wrong with asking. the alternative is NOT asking, he whips it out, you're totally unprepared and it's awful for both of you. sure you might have to endure a dick pic, but you can probably deter it by saying something cliche like "i just want an idea of what i'm dealing with. ;)" t. size queen strategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:21 PM
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defensiveness is the first sign of unhappiness. i spent a month at an AirBnB one time, and my hostess was the most lovely person i've met. she went out of her way to help me out in an area i wasn't familiar with, was overly friendly and helpful, she folded my laundry and acted kinda like a Mom (sorry but even grown women like this lol). i helped out with her kids while i was there, cleaned dishes, tidied up and tried to be a thoughtful house guest. she was a professional cook and prepared a beau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:10 PM
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the three insecure types to avoid: (1) short men (2) men with small dicks (3) the mentally ill; depressed or anxious guys, and dark triad (Narcissism, ASPD and Machiavellian) types if you don't mind dating shorter men, date average height men, 5'5" - 6ft depending on country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:02 PM
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marriage isn't about the fairytale, or finding a guy that believes in it as firmly as you do... the only unconditional love that exists is between parent and child. it's about hedging your bets, hoping for the best but preparing for the worst (human nature, and worse than that, men's true nature).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 05:54 PM
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and you were smart to do so!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 05:53 PM
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"So many men act like a girlfriend is just something they deserve, but have no concept of how they might improve the life of the women they’re with. I remember, when I was breaking up with one of my exes years ago, he listed all the ways I made his life better when trying to convince me not to go. And I asked him, “but how do you think you make my life better?” and he was taken aback. “I don’t know,” he said. He’d never thought about it." I ASKED MY EX THIS QUESTION, HE ALSO HAD NO ANSWER jfc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 05:12 PM
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sending flowers to a man is not quirky or cute, she humiliated him and reduced her chances from 5% to 0.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 05:03 PM
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i also had a small wedding that cost $1000, not including the rings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 04:41 PM
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this is an excellent infographic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 03:03 PM
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ngl if i've waited 3 days for a response, i've blocked and moved along. being busy a couple days in a row? alright. but i'm not your "Tuesday Fuck". 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 03:02 PM
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there is no turning this specific situation around, he will just continue using you for his sexual conquest. next time: DON'T GO TO A GUY'S HOUSE. wait 2-3 months and go on several dates before doing anything sexual with a guy. the guys that are just tryna get in a quick bang will select themselves out of your dating pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 03:00 PM
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your perspective doesn't sound realistic, but i wish you the best of luck in finding a guy that respects you enough to stay with you for decades without legal backing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 12:03 PM
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if you're rejecting what little protection women have fought tooth and nail for legally, idk what to tell you. being with a HVM is not going to guarantee he doesn't leave you, cheat on you, or change for the worse. divorce laws will even the playing field in terms of assets (prenups help, but don't cover everything) and any sacrifices you made (eg children) to your career during the marriage. nobody said you have to have a lavish wedding or expensive lawyer to sort all this stuff out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 09:59 AM
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THEY DON'T SEE WOMEN AS PEOPLE once you accept that premise, their perspective makes sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 09:51 AM
5

he's just not that into you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 09:26 AM
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this was my strat, and i have to say it's worked well. "anal?" - "sure, let me grab my strap on." but seriously I don't do anal lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 09:10 AM
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marriage is your right to legal protection if your relationship turns sideways. think of it this way: why has there been so much of a pushback from millennial men against marriage in the last 10 years or so? it's almost like the law is functioning as it should, by protecting women and children. it's not perfect of course, but you will have more rights and a better outcome if things go south, by being married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 09:06 AM
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i think they got married a few years after this incident, in my country it's common to stay in a relationship for nearly a decade and then marry your HS or college sweetheart with lots of cheating inbetween. smdh men in their late 20s to early 30s are like fresh demon spawn, 25-35 when they get their first whiff of cash and stability it makes them scumbags that think they can do fuck around and do shit like what happened to your poor friend. the only response is to call them out! she's being way…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 10:38 PM
7

i know this face well, it is the face i make first thing every morning upon waking up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 10:25 PM
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i mean if you respond at all (which i have from time to time, 'cause i'm an uber bish lol) say something super demeaning like "knock knock" - "who's there" - "a poor person that thinks pussy is free" and then block and delete him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 10:24 PM
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a guy from high school that i hadn't seen in 10 years emailed me out of the blue several years ago. i was in a large metropolitan city a couple of hours away from a smaller city he lived in. we exchanged messages back and forth, it was one of those rare times i was single so i was dating and enjoying the city i'd newly moved to, and told him briefly about how weird the dating world was (serial monogamist). he explained that he was still with his college girlfriend, they were rounding out 8 years…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 10:21 PM
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https://media.giphy.com/media/Gf7SbQ53IATHW/giphy.gif
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 10:11 PM
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if he's over 25 and feeling like this, he probably isn't going to get better and you would save yourself a lot of time and heartache walking away now before you get more attached.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 03:26 PM
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if you're gonna pay for your own meal, why don't you take yourself out or go to dinner with your girls? 🙄 why in the fuck would you go out of your way to apply makeup ($) and wear an outfit ($) plus the cost of getting there ($), worth more than the meal obviously, just to pay for yourself? men can be petty cheapskates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 11:45 AM
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i dated older men in my late 20s, but it's not the same. here's what i've noticed about people with a 10 year (man in 30s, women in 20s) age gap. (1) the man is stunted emotionally and financially. he didn't get a proper education, is working poor, and/or does not have much dating experience. (2) because of his pitfalls, he expects (not wrongfully!) that a younger woman will have lower standards. she's surrounded by guys her age who are struggling, but it's more of a life stage thing than a fail…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 08:49 AM
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Celine Dion might have had better luck, but lbr her Husband knew her as a teenager and likely just groomed her so early on in her life that it made all the difference. same can be said of Beyonce, she met JayZ for the first time at 16!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 08:18 AM
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by this logic, it also weeds out the guys that compulsively date and want to spend the least amount of money possible. if men weren't trying to fuck every woman they take out, they wouldn't blow so much money and would have more to put towards someone they actually liked. if a guy is squeamish about $150-200/date, he's either poor, or does not seriously want to date you. imo, him plying her with drinks after OP insisted she didn't want one was the real red flag that he was gonna pull this stunt.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 08:14 AM
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brb imma crashtest dummy now 🏎️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 08:00 AM
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✋🏼 cause men are weak
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 07:57 AM
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once guys are taller than 6'2", imo they have way too much casual sex and women throwing themselves at them to be decent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 07:56 AM
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'why won't you let me fuck you, bitch?' this is insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 07:52 AM
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girl u dumb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:00 PM
2

omg, thank you for bringing this back into my life 🤣😍🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 05:03 PM
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get some beauty sleep! goodnight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:44 AM
2

women do more within marriages than they ever have historically, between keeping fulltime jobs and still doing the majority of child rearing and chores. men have REFUSED to adapt to women's progress and help us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:42 AM
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this is so spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:41 AM
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but girl, if you get the right sex toy it's not so bad. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:40 AM
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i'm glad you appreciate my first joke of the day, it's 10:30am and i'm just suckin' down some coffee. 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:39 AM
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this is it. WE DON'T NEED MEN ANYMORE, SO WHY WOULD WE SETTLE FOR MEDIOCRE ONES? most men don't deserve partners at all, let alone attractive women of good character. all it took was 100 years for women to catch up and go "yeah this doesn't work for me lol bye bitch." someone posted an article from Canada about Boomer women that had already been married with grown up children dating after their Husbands died. guess what? they didn't want to live with their partners anymore. golly gee, i wonder w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:34 AM
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From personal experience, some of the men who turned out to be fuckboys weren’t even on my radar that they would do that, and that’s how I got blindsided. I truly thought we were friends. if we're going by the beta/alpha scale, it's often Omegas that become fuckboys. why? they have the confidence of the alpha without the moral compass of one. they're more attractive than average so they can pull attractive women, they can be charismatic and convincing too, but these are the guys that are willful…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:24 AM
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i tease my Husband like this all the time. it's the sassy version of check yourself before you wreck yourself, like you said it's a skill where you toe the line between nastiness and idk "being a bitch"? teasing is a soft form of bullying and that's why it works on men, they constantly bully each other to keep their pecking order. it's in their socialization to take you seriously when you do this, even if you are just a woman. :P negging people irl is too risky imo, i am completely risk averse w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:14 AM
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but deep down, most women are just so so SICK of men's shit. Even the women who don't act like it. Even the women who pretend that everything is good. Most women have had extremely similar experiences with men's bullshit - so much so that when we share our stories with each other, we all nod. Have you ever noticed that? No woman ever seems overly surprised to hear about a man's depravity. Because we have ALL been there: cheated on, gaslighted, fucked over, used for sex, lied to, raped, molested,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:07 AM
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gettit girl! have fun and good luck out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:02 AM
11

this place is like the opposite of incel forums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 08:57 AM
11

like guys that fetishize certain races of women? i've been meaning to write a post about that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 08:57 AM
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these men don't deserve love, care or partnership.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 05:26 AM
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they're mad a space exists for women, by women, without their bullshit takes lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 04:51 AM
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👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 10:42 PM
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THE W-A-L-L doesn't exist for Shiva, this woman is gorgeous, good for them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 05:48 PM
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LMFAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 02:41 PM
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it isn't, but it would be a red flag if he, for instance, complained about his nieces and nephews doing normal kid stuff, didn't show interest in their development or teach them new skills, avoided them, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 01:55 PM
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imo a good test is to wait long times in between responses because insecure, clingy and obsessive men always out themselves when you don't play by their timeline. it's an easy way to weed out psychos i swear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 10:10 AM
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this 4 pretending to be a woman online: C'MON, GIVE MEDIOCRE GUYS A CHANCE this 4 on OLD: only swipes right on 7+
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 10:09 AM
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this comment is so obviously a man, i've never, ever heard my girlfriends say this when we complained about our options. "just lower your standards!" is not something women advocate for, because we know it's shitty advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 10:07 AM
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LOL you should set a minimum threshold of attractiveness before dating, and imo it should be whatever level of attractiveness you are. once i started doing this, i started dating hot guys with shitty personalities instead of ugly guys with shitty personalities, and further weeded out from there. why even compromise?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 10:04 AM
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the responses, esp on PPD, are enraging. how can they be this dense?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 10:01 AM
24

tis the season to go fuck yourself, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 09:59 AM
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what was his dad like raising him? do either of y'all have nieces or nephews so you can see how he acts around kids? even how he treats a pet will give you some indication of his level of attentiveness and care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 09:58 AM
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my Husband has this theory that you can see it in a man's physical shape - slouched, skinny, weak, hear it in their voice (which often sounds whiny or high pitched if they're addicted to porn), and general outlook (think incel tier guys). men with higher testosterone usually have more muscle mass, they're confident, and don't blame women for their failures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 09:54 AM
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better logic would be women who are 5'5" dating men who are 6ft, since they're 2 inches taller than the average American woman, and 6ft is 2 inches taller than the average American man. 🤷 these women need bumper stickers that say Do it for the Patriarchy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 09:36 AM
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i've had arguments where i correct men and say things like "oh, so (insert specific person/group of men here) did this thing, not you." and they're like "???? no but they represent us" NO THEY DON'T. YOU'RE NOT THEM. lol jfc. if any dude takes on the accomplishments of other men as a reflection of his own worth, run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 09:26 AM
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here's what's appropriate to talk about on a FIRST date: hobbies, long-term goals, your work history, funny stories, maybe a bit (without shit talking) about your last relationship inappropriate: your hangups, baggage, who you're currently arguing with (we don't know you, why should we care?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 05:48 PM
23

for some reason the thin facial hair styles freak me out. there's something inherently greasy and gross about it, maybe too many villains in movies had the style in the 90s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 11:47 AM
11

i'm not a big Ariana fan, but can't deny this bop. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kHLHSlExFis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 08:23 AM
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is anything more disgusting than a dirty man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 08:19 AM
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my Husband and i were apart for a couple of months due to work, and i asked him to grow a mustache just to see what it would look like. the important part is that i was physically away from him during this time and it was hilarious lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 08:17 AM
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it's funny because many of the grooming habits can be outsourced if they're willing to pay. facials, hair cuts, waxing, a stylist, etc. you can do maintenance like cutting your nails and trimming your pubes... but i'm getting ahead of myself. men, "emasculating" themselves to be considerate? nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 08:15 AM
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idk if it was a comment or screenshot, but the funniest thing I've read on FDS was a woman that said a guy rubbed her clit over her pants for like 30 seconds and then said, "gotcha, didn't I?" omfg I'm just dying into my cup of coffee again. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 07:45 AM
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now show us this schmuck's mediocre face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 07:41 AM
13

i remember one time, i found a woman's shirt in my exes bed. he still wouldn't cop to what happened, 'oh that's been there for months, it must have been exgf's shirt.' OH REALLY? IS THAT WHY I NEVER FOUND IT UNTIL THAT VERY DAY? lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 08:43 AM
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"i don't fuck guys for sharing a shitty $20 bottle of wine. why don't you get a hooker if that's how much you want to spend?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 08:32 AM
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they're sad they've lost control over women's reproduction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:11 PM
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they often think that peak fertility is when women are teenagers, but they have a high infant mortality rate. it's actually ~20-25, which is in line with full physical and brain development.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:10 PM
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Stefan Molyneux is one of the saddest sacks on the internet. the man has a beautiful, accomplished wife (she's a Psychiatrist i think) and a young daughter, but he still hates women with a burning passion. i'd suggest anyone interested in this guy go down his cult rabbithole. a good term to look into is defoo'ing, here's a podcast with former young adults talking about getting dragged into his mommy issues, which he's openly discussed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 10:32 AM
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it's actually right in line with women's egg quality depletion, at age 35!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 10:27 AM
2

I tried befriending an interesting, intelligent man my husband knows. for some reason he got to thinking I love hearing his rants about topics I'm not into. I mentioned that an actor we both know got cast in a movie franchise we both like, and he wrote "uhhuh" and went back to pontificating. like jfc. PS basically all men are like this, even if they know they can't fuck you they want you to fill a void of listening to their shit or being sympathetic while they offer NOTHING in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 08:07 AM
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it's probably OK if you started dating young, but ime people that end up in these situations then reach their late 20s and panic thinking they missed out by not dating casually. hopefully this doesn't happen to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 12:54 PM
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HELLO M'LADY I OWN ONE $1000 SUIT THAT ENTITLES ME TO SAYING YOU AREN'T AS ATTRACTIVE AS YOU THINK seriously, avoid guys that pose like this in their photos, they always think they're better than they are. there are ways to show off you're white collar/upperclass without posting pictures like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 12:51 PM
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i am legit lmfao'ing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 12:02 PM
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Josh Bowman is boyishly handsome, haha. i agree that Sebastian Stan is more attractive though, i always thought of Chris Evans as the kinda hot of your first crush: generic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 10:34 AM
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this guy reminds me of when Jenny Slate talked about her (simple bae) ex Chris Evans "He's like primary colors. He has beautiful, big, strong emotions, and he's really sure of them. It's just wonderful to be around. His heart is probably golden-colored, if you could paint it." bless. lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 10:20 AM
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they're attracted to the infantilization dynamic, or at the very least, BDSM/domination. usually a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 10:14 AM
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basically a "go ahead and find someone you think is better" pass. if you're at the point of making that decision, just break up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 10:12 AM
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men don't understand or respect the amount of responsibility, time and care it takes to love one woman properly. i've been skeptical of the polyamory community because i assumed the types of men that would think 'i can fix my problems by fucking someone else' weren't shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 10:11 AM
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also avoid guys with smaller than average dicks. I managed to fall for one of these types once, he hit all the other boxes: tall, handsome face, lawyer, etc. but his dick made him into an insecure POS that used and disposed of women like you would not believe. just... don't even bother. you won't be satisfied and he's too bitter to love properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 09:25 AM
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holy shit this post is savage, but probably my favorite on FDS so far. thank you for succinctly explaining the root of the problem with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 08:58 AM
12

this may sound judgmental, but this is why i think it's important to have friends in a similar headspace. of course there's nothing wrong with having activity partners, especially if you're doing something positive like physical activity, pursuing a hobby you love (something artistic?), or learning a new skill... but having friends around with less responsibility, in completely different phases of their lives or looking for different outcomes usually imbues grass is greener thinking. it may even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 08:50 AM
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in my experience men who are 35+ who have never been married or had kids are massive red flags. they have spent the last 15+ of their lives wining and dining women so of course he knows what he's doing. if i were to date a man who's almost 40 i'd rather date a divorced guy, maybe even one with a kid or two.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 08:45 AM
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i don't understand women that are engaged for long periods of time, or periods as long as a relationship, like years. if someone's engaged for more than 2 years with no particular end date for marriage in sight, things usually crash and burn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 08:40 AM
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wow this is exactly it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 08:38 AM
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i'm guessing because his roommate was getting laid? what the actual fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 08:37 AM
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for Lauren specifically, her audience is like 95% men drooling over her. one of them probably DM'ed her to whine about FDS because he's a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 08:36 AM
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men seriously think that because they talked to you years ago, they've already played the 'emotional support role' to net pussy if you're bored, lonely, or pathetic enough. this is why they keep women on the backburner and come back around. sadly, men do this because some women do end up having sex with these losers when they're in a bad headspace. but mostly they do it because they're entitled little cum-for-brains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 08:35 AM
15

there's only two responses: block, or 'lol' and then block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 09:19 PM
31

when a guy invites you over, it's IMPLICIT THAT HE WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU. if you DO NOT want to have sex with a guy, DO NOT GO OVER TO HIS PLACE, OR ANYWHERE, ALONE WITH HIM. also don't bother fucking cheapskates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 09:14 PM
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so he's your friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 09:13 PM
7

yes omg tell em sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 07:39 PM
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i'm posting this for the male lurkers that underestimate just how prevalent abuse is within women's relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 03:58 PM
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yes, don't bother! you are better off learning some strategies for when you're mature enough to date, my advice for that is 20+/once you're in college or the work force. get your life set up first and you can focus on boys later, they will always be around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 11:11 AM
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why doesn't he just get an escort, to ensure he gets something out of the date then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 11:07 AM
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🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 10:50 AM
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he said he didn’t want to do that bc he’d have to share profits. Christ, lol. i stg you can't help these men because their perception of the world and themselves within it is so closed off. When it comes to women, his fear is that he’d have to be responsible and answer to a woman and he doesn’t want to do that. this is the part that freaks me out. they hold onto the illusion of an amazing woman and intrinsically know who she is, they can identify her and are drawn to them, but think there's a wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 09:56 AM
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i think you're really touching upon a phenomenon here with the level of delusion that reaches almost narcissistic highs. guys like your brother could be HVMs, by acknowledging and accepting their place in this world and not getting angry about it and taking it out on women. but that would be hard, it would require self awareness and conscientiousness and i think most men are just too lazy to bother with all this self work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:06 PM
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entitlement + low EQ + not understanding that pornography doesn't equate to reality + being unsocialized + not seeing women as people gosh there's so many reasons, basically they're entitled brats though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:03 PM
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unfortunately you have to lmao i'm sorry girl. there were several excellent posts on what makes a guy HVM and what redflags to look out for this week. everyone in FDS is so thorough and helpful. :) https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/e6sxgs/red_flags_signs_a_man_should_be_cut_off/ https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dp7lkc/what_is_a_high_value_man_hvm_what_traits_should/ https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/e449ua/stop_reading_mixed_signals…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:59 PM
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i also think men hone in on topics like history, politics and anything intellectual to demonstrate their values and shield their emotions. those conversations can be interesting, but i wish (good) men had actual connections with each other because i think it's important for their EQ and development. taking on the burden of emotional labor is another form of women's subjugation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:49 PM
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they also demonstrate it in the way that they treat you like shit, eg, gaslighting, being passive aggressive, controlling, and so on. a good question to ask is what he thinks about counseling and if he's ever had any. that will tell you A LOT about his character imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:46 PM
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there are a shitton of women here that already have good relationships and want to pass along our experiences and wisdom to help other women, myself included. i love this subreddit because it's like an advocacy group for women that want real love, real commitment, and real respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:44 PM
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there are a shitton of women here that already have good relationships and want to pass along our experiences and wisdom to help other women, myself included. i love this subreddit because it's like an advocacy group for women that want real love, real commitment, and real respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:43 PM
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how is wanting to date quality men the same thing as men that angrily and bitterly check out of the dating world, and then post strategies for how to use and abuse women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:42 PM
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you'd be surprised how much you can see without adding people, especially if you navigate and can find friends/family members/tagged posts. some guys have information or posts public, and pictures and tags will give you an idea of who's who and where they spend their time. there's also the Posts tab on Facebook, which shows public posts and photos with names that you search for. i don't use FB but i had a burner account for vetting guys through SM before i met up with them. some women think they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:39 PM
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LVM always lie! this is why i advocate for women using as much information as they can get their hands on before committing to a date. social media posts are a goldmine. you can look at the quality of their clothing, their friends, where they hang out, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:36 AM
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makes $12 an hour girl, you deserve better, this guy doesn't make enough money to date anyone. of course he's gonna be insecure and think women are using him. 🙄 i can't even imagine how pitiful his texts were lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:22 AM
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hello i am here to argue lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:14 AM
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you are too sweet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:12 AM
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they're so needy. i was on OLD a couple of years ago and this one guy i hadn't even met was like 'yeah i'm only interested in dating one person at a time, so if you can't give me that we're not gonna work out.' he wanted me to take out his competition for him. i looked at his SM and lo and behold, he followed countless other women in our city, aka fuckboy with entitlement issues. i told him to fuck off!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:05 AM
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this. plus most people don't need porn within a relationship? isn't the whole idea that porn is like fast food where you gorge yourself because you're lonely/single, and then once you find a partner, you finally see the rabbithole of spiraling perversion as pathetic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 09:56 AM
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underrated insights 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:55 AM
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omg yes, men that dismiss your experiences and take a total strangers side just because he has a dick infuriate me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:53 AM
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gorgeous! my Husband gets me a new bouquet every 2-3 weeks because I told him how much I love having flowers in our home. 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:45 AM
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it's funny because these women are in as much of a phase as the types of guys that suck their youth out from every orifice. the difference is, the men are too arrogant to realize they'll be the ones moving on before they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:22 PM
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just to clarify, this is the boyfriend i had before i met my now Husband. but yeah, one of the sexiest things you can do as a man is DO SHIT TO SHOW YOU CARE. you wanna make a woman wet? plan things, put in effort, surprise her, impress her. FDS advocates for courting because it's fun and a solid way to build a connection organically while you get to know each other. there isn't as much damage this way if things move slowly or you don't have sex early on, because you have an emotional connection…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:19 PM
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the only time it's cool is when you're getting paid or lavished in gifts to bother, which is how 95% of these age gap relationships function. these men are too poor to even offer that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:11 PM
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which we do, in this day and age. it's funny how women adapted to being more like men by having careers and bringing in the bacon, but men still aint shit and are checked out dads. not being the primary breadwinners AND not raising their kids WHILE getting all the benefits of having a partner that financially contributes. can it be any more bloody obvious why 70-80% of divorces are initiated by women? you are essentially playing two roles with a manbaby on your hip that never weans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:09 PM
10

what's that thing these dorks say? IT'S ALL SO TIRESOME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:07 PM
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this is good advice! make them come to you, ladies. i was talking to a guy through OLD shortly before i met my (ex) boyfriend. we added each other on Snapchat, bantered and clearly had similar life goals, but he just would.not.make.time to date me. he lived an hour away... the guy that became my boyfriend lived 45 minutes away and happily made the drive countless times. we talked for ~2.5 weeks, and in the interest of keeping things honest i told him i'd met someone who actually wanted to date m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:02 PM
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this is an incredible clip, thank you for sharing it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 06:49 PM
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your instincts are spot on lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 06:46 PM
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he's good looking, but has super feminine features and a receding hairline. give me a guy with a strong browline!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 06:45 PM
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beards are an absolute dealbreaker for me. how ugly can your face be that you want to hide half of it? my Husband's jawline is fire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 04:59 PM
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is there anything men's egos don't completely derail, obfuscate or lie to them about? jfc this is pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 02:39 PM
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i stg his haircut is a red flag in and of itself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 12:53 PM
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...i feel like this guy isn't attractive enough to be this much of a piece of shit? someone reverse image search his face and tell his poor wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 12:53 PM
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dating really young yeah, but she's 30 now lol...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:55 AM
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cringe. like trying to negotiate with a bloody teenager.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 01:21 PM
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i treat it like television, you wanna game for 30m-hour a day? OK. but it seems to be hard for guys not to get sucked in because it activates all the same feel-good-do-nothing hormones porn does. i consider it a red flag if a guy mentions it as an interest or spends more than a few hours a week gaming. i can't tell you how many posts i've read on the advice subs with men well into their 30s who have children they neglect for this shit. why women are shocked by their behavior when they were big g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 01:19 PM
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guys can we please get this to the top lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 11:27 PM
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fair enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 02:32 PM
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shaming tactics are useful though? if the subreddit has a certain tone and expectations for beliefs and behavior, can you think of a better model to reinforce this that doesn't include members calling out new users?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 01:57 PM
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this is true, but frankly it's also biological. if anyone has to stay home with the kids, women are gonna be better equipped to do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 10:35 AM
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all these historical references they're making is sending me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 10:09 AM
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😂🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 10:02 AM
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lmfao Geneva Convention violations 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 09:59 AM
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fun fact: women hate house husbands lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 11:51 PM
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