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DISCUSSIONperhapsbutnottoday/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 10:42 AM
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I don't vouch for anything or anybody anymore. And I'm shocked at how his mind FLEW to raping beautiful women in Sci-Fi productions. I've NEVER watched got because I heard about the gratuitous sex scenes and I'm a fully fledged MCU, DC, Star Trek and LOTR fanatic because of story telling and eschewing sex scenes. Hell, we have to blast writers to give us love scenes or develop characters into 3D people. For shame, Jason momoa. For shame!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 11:06 AM
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This is why we need to vet viciously and hold off on the sex. Men send their representatives ahead of who they really are. This is why we block at the first sign of a red flag. His representative is his best face that he’s putting forward. If you accept that initial shoddy treatment from his best self when he’s trying to get you, you are signing up for a world of hurt when the real him shows up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 09:24 AM
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🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:00 AM
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Lesson learned,sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:06 PM
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The 2 fights that led to our break ups (breakup-makeup-breakup for good) were over him sleeping sweetly and soundly and gloating about it in the morning while I tossed and turned and only got into that weird 0500 sleep that’s typical of exhaustion. Turns out there was a framed photo of a girl under his bed. Ladies, trust your intuition, gut feeling whatever:our feminine energy does not lie. I got the feeling I was the side piece. You should have seen him wipe the frame ( I’d smashed the glass 🤷🏾…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:53 PM
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That’s how I felt: she’s giving the game away. But then again, this could be roasted over at the tinder forum with guys ranting about how they swipe left “whenever a girl is screaming about what she blocks good men over”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:13 PM
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More! We want more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:42 AM
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I could NEVER. I tell men straight up that I’m lazy, “vanilla” and what they call a pillow princess and I expect to climax. Set their expectations real low. Ofcourse you’ll have them saying try this, try that but FDS has taught me to reverse it to them. If they sheepishly turn down the dildo up THEIR ass or have never heard of doing a figure 8 or a vaginal orgasm, it shows me they were trying to impose kink-demeaning-sexual violence onto me. An FDS queen said “ if anything is pleasurable or bene…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:52 AM
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✅ thank you. I have the deleted reply in my previews/ notifications and it went something like “ lol I used to put in hours into getting my hair done before a date/ I don’t put in any effort at all”. I click through and it’s deleted. Oh well. My first and only thought was “ read the handbook”. I understand not all women like to groom/ doll up/ level . She could be a make up hating, crew cut wearing gal who rolls out of bed, into her sneakers for “ walking date” but the threat of rape, being kill…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:34 AM
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I need you to raise your standards a wee bit higher. Consider how much time and prep you put into a date. Now let me hear you call a man who asks for a walk date kind again! It’s a rip off. PUA push this psychology onto these guys that a walk creates or leap frogs intimacy and connection levels without him doing the most - like he should, like we teach. Tell him to take a long walk off a short pier!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:07 PM
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Men have shoulders too. You fellas can get your cathartic release crying on your home boy’s shoulders. Why does it HAVE TO BE A WOMAN?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:16 PM
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Thank you Mods, Strategists. I joined the sub last year and this sub was my mainstay almost as if I was already in lock down mode. I’m guilty of writing to ask for a flair because I didn’t want to seem like a troll or gulp, a man and I was replied and got the newbie flair. Insert happy dance here! New members do need to understand the participation qualifying them. Put in the work! This is a community. I was up flaired from newbie when another member came at me in the comments, she might have be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:03 PM
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Kind Admins, We love this space. It’s our safe space and identity and community. Kindly block any poly talk with no mercy. Thanks 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 12:16 PM
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Admins, some re-flairing please. Half the comments are 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:52 AM
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THIS! Sheer projection of how THEY would act is the explanation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 06:14 AM
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Where is the lie though? 🕵️‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:08 PM
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Was it Navarus?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 07:59 PM
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Means going halfsies or splitting the bill, 50-50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 08:04 AM
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I’m jealous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 07:59 AM
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I cackled!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 03:05 PM
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Great sex life means the high n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:05 AM
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🏅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 09:33 AM
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The long-winded AUDACITY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:41 PM
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It’s “ how dare you not try to be beautiful to me and think you should still love yourself” that makes them upset. Oh and they think fat women should either grovel at their feet and take any kind of man or get offended at “ landwhales” and “ham beasts” approaching them. Either or type of situation. They set themselves up to lose 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 10:15 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 04:32 PM
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I cringe to this day when I remember meeting a former consultant from my job. She was 50 at the time and was in the mall parking lot with a guy; talking about she’s going home -family home where she grew up and she was living there for a few weeks. I looked at the guy and asked “ is this your dad?” It was her boyfriend. The look that man gave me gives me strength to this day to ki ki whenever I read about women and the wall!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 09:40 AM
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I second this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 07:44 AM
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Downvoted and reported! Fuck off!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 09:07 AM
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Mods, I gotta hand it to you: YOU ARE ON THE BALL. I’ve received 3 or so “what a toxic sub!” And “ what about if men felt that way?” notifications and when I swipe to read them, THEYRE GONE! Scrotes, lurkers and pickmes triggered by my toilet comment up there,HEAR YE! Go be great on 19 November and every other day that celebrates men and patriarchy. You have your day, damn! let women have theirs. Fap, fart, limp dick and turn up your grossness to the nth degree. We don’t care. And I said what I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 10:53 PM
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What a travesty against TOILETS! I need one at least 3 times a day. I could NEVER say that about a man though. I will play my part on 19 November on behalf of the noble and indispensable TOILET!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:38 PM
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No shade at all, sis. They don’t wash their hands after toilet use in non- epidemic days and with macho attitudes the hand washing messages will not get through to them now because they don’t like learning even if it saves their lives. Let nature take its course!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 11:33 PM
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I never liked him, tbh and it’s weird because I didn’t know much about him except he’s South African. That told me ALL I needed to know. Then his uglass shoe box looking trucks came out a few months ago and I couldn’t get away from him; whether it was the jokes about it ( thank you kind redittors!) or the predictable weasly worship - there’s even mention of him in Star Trek Discovery putting him next to great scientists (but I’ll leave that for another sub) and I can’t seem to get away from him.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 10:23 AM
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...”uhh so you were a paid pick me?” Never said that 😳. I was just saying it is such a waste of time🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:04 PM
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Been there. It was her cheating husband. They mended and all of a sudden I’m the bad guy🤷🏾‍♀️ She had 2 more babies with him. I tried to start a e-commerce business with her but that was during their loved-up, we’re back together phase when he’d drive her to work, pick her up and she’s run every decision by him so she left me hanging... 2020 and he’s up to the same tricks and she reaches out to me. I gave her some tough love and reminded her she made me into a home wrecker when she got back with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 10:59 AM
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Dating a married man is not even low value, it’s negative value. No effort required at all because it’s some negative vLue man looking for validation and for you to be his therapist and cum dumpster. I don’t even see married men as men because they are not an option. There is no reason for any woman to do this to herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:50 AM
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How does a “dead bedroom” occur with a woman who had multiple partners/ “retired cc rider”🙄 and then married and not a “low n count” 🙄woman? Especially if both have made the men wait for sex... Are incels mad at the wait from the more active woman but making it a virtue in the less active one because of, oh I don’t know, projection?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 01:00 PM
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I really enjoyed your last post. Welcome back!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 07:58 PM
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I’m mortified. He’s demanding and entitled. Throwing shoes into the street because the house full of children he’s not raising isn’t squeaky clean or whatever is just being an asshole. I hope his kids see him for what he is and hate him. His wife is an exhausted, well trained pickme and she seems too far gone to rescue. Reading this, I don’t feel bad at all for dropping them at the first sign of disrespect!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:31 PM
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When I was a student I took a dishwasher job in a hotel and one of the chefs claimed me. He was a short, thin guy- nearly 5”6 with a mole that had hair sprouting out of it on his face. Beady eyes and a beak nose and pushing 50. The other guy was tall,average looks in his 20s. Laying claim to me like I would just go along with it when he’s short and UGLY ASF in a country run over by blonde 6 foot men ! I’m from a 3rd world country and in his ugly superiority complex thinking he thought I’d feel a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:55 AM
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That’s FDS style wisdom of what women in my home country say about men with and without money. The bottom line is all men are flawed so the saying is “better to cry over a relationship in a Benz than a hoopty” .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:45 AM
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Amazing, eerily insightful commentary! I hope this gets added to the wiki.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 08:51 AM
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And the obsession with Chad and the long line of women just dying to have sex with him ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 10:00 AM
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You’ve done it again,u/TheOGJammies! 💯👑🥇💅🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 09:51 AM
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Not sure about this. Grew up in a culture where men already seem repulsed by make up, calling it mess up. Now with social media, they’re competing about making jokes about make up; carrying wet wipes to a date or saying if a made up woman upsets you tell her to wash her face so you can “fight man to man” etc. They love to preach about how women should be natural and how mankind has domesticated drab, dusty donkeys but admire the beauty of zebras in the wild... and leave them there as a way of pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 08:01 AM
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When I was 15 a boy whose body I can best describe as an upright beetle, got a few sheets of paper out and got a few other unfortunate looking ones to rate the girls in our class: an impromptu, conscription class pageant. Some remarks I remember as they did their leery look around and surreptitious scoring: “ check her legs guys. Have you really looked at those legs?” “ no, I’m changing the score for this one!” He has not glowed up. He’s worse looking now. But I remember the entitlement at that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 10:50 AM
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I don’t know her but woman’s intuition and the thread that connects all women subconsciously and subatomicly tells me, and told me to tell you, SHE IS MISERABLE. She’s only trying to one up you by being the one he stayed with. Continue living your life. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 10:57 AM
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Yes. A clean house is ALWAYS a great debrief to a date. Especially a bad one. You really appreciate having your own space/ haven and see singleness as the blessing it is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:08 PM
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How do you know he doesn’t turn her on?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 07:30 PM
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If porn was empowering, a girl could stand up in class and say " i want to be a porn star!" on career day and she'd get the same nods of approval as nurse, astronaut, firefighter, lawyer responses. If porn was empowering to women, it would be included in the life skills curriculum. They used to teach us how to cross the street when I was growing up; literally a class of 2nd graders in reflective vests with 4 teachers at a traffic light, zebra crossing looking left, right and left again or the ot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 12:58 PM
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I hope so. u/TheOGJammies We have so much unlearning to do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:49 PM
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I will keep y’all busy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:18 PM
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This! 💯👑 I gotta hand it to the ladies who were replying her so kindly and gently; circling her back to more therapy. I read the post just 7 or so replies in and I felt my heart was beating IN MY MOUTH with each reply. I soooo wanted to refer her to the wiki on performative sex and kinks but I held back for gentler and more tactful members to jump in. “ I really like it if it’s done well” already too many conditions and demands that 95% of men are unwilling and unable to meet. Personally, I love…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:17 PM
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And by "women" they mean ONLY 7s and above.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 12:28 PM
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From holding down my vomit while I was lurking in anti FDS subs, I’ve discovered they hate us for apparently being red pill and then not taking up red pill ideas of “ just lift,bro”. Over and over, it’s FDS doesn’t tell women to improve themselves but to demand $700 dinners.” Why the fuck should we? Dick is abundant and low value. I’m not jumping rope for 30min or running a 10 minute mile because that would skew the market worse for them. We are actually being benevolent by not advocating that w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 01:50 PM
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You’ve put it mildly, kind Redditor. They’re OUTRAGED! We should be clamoring, accepting and complimenting them. When you come across the breed that blows a gasket that you will not put up with degrading things you let slide/ gritted your teeth through in the past eg. Cool girling, going Dutch anal, rough sex, emotional labour etc you will find they are doomed and dbr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 01:36 PM
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Truth well told! 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 12:38 PM
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Fuck off,Adam!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 12:10 PM
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Unacceptable! I’ve had fuckboys grab my hand and hold it in very public places ( where their potential other women could easily see us 🙄) and other mate guarding behavior. If a guy tried that with me, I would let him walk on ahead of me 30 feet (15 metres!) and walk back and out of there. The audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 11:40 AM
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It was the Wild West here for a few weeks. Combative pickmeshas extolling The virtues of swallowing cum and how to get into a trusting bdsm relationship where your male dom is bla bla bla. Cringey days with follow ups in inboxes. It sounds a bit dickish and dismissive when someone says “ read the sidebar/ have you read the wiki?”. They are the reason members who’ve been here a little longer ALWAYS talk about reading the wiki. After reading it for yourself ( devouring more like! A savory 2 hour r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 10:17 PM
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u/OGJammies, edit your post to add the excellent reply piece you did to the annoying pro-BDSM and cum swallowing posts we had just before Christmas. It was on performative sex. I think you should actually develop a ted talk on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 01:37 PM
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In my 40 years I didn’t know there was a men’s day. I can tell you it’s because I have no need, urge or desire to impose myself in any more business to do with men than I have had to already through patriarchy that makes it men’s day EVERY DAMMM DAY. They also don’t build up their own international day and choose to insert themselves where they are not wanted/ welcomed or celebrated like typical men 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 01:03 PM
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I had a feral LVM remind me I’d said only him and another lady who stays in the same housing complex were my friends when I told him I have friends from church. And the hairs on my body prickled as to why he would have that info on memory . And feel a need to throw it at me like an accusation of why was I getting more friends and not sticking to just the 2 of them. Then he punched his tv and broke his hand in a rage. And told me he passes by my apartment and sees the lights on when he’s outside …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 11:36 AM
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👆💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 10:26 AM
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Those jowls and droopy eyelids are TYPICAL for ...(gulp) 25
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 10:15 AM
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Maya Farrah Fowler is also a pickme. Sheldon having a girlfriend is an aberration; the writers basically placating nerdy incels. She’s more of a mother to him and has to negotiate and beg for him to do basic, entry level boyfriend things. I die a little when I watch her, especially when they began with Sheldon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:49 PM
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You’re right. She should have left it at asking the guy what he does. Broadcasting what she does is not helpful to the fella and is cringey approval/ brownie points seeking behavior that is TYPICAL of pickmeshas. Then the funny thing will be her inbox gets flooded by Reddit males and she calls them creepy when she’s put her life out there and is being PICKED. Silly girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:24 PM
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A Queen is born! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 11:44 AM
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Dog whistle. 💯 That’s the word I was looking for. If he’s real, this is waaaaay beyond sad, pathetic and entitled. But it does sound like a troll. I really hope it is. Other wise dude has been sold a shoddy bill of goods. Hes actually mediocre and a failure to thrive. He’s 40 and SHOULD be in a great, expensive house. He’s old enough and hasn’t been investing in other things like, oh, a relationship, raising children and LIFE! I expect him to own an apartment block, frankly . This is also why we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 11:41 AM
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Jason Momoas attraction factor is he’s not in a dad bod, unlike most men his age. He’s also in an age-appropriate relationship and doing age appropriate things like raising 3 children and working on staying where he is with that one woman. I’ve heard Lisa is also older than him. For me, he’s like guys like Will Smith, Denzel Washington and for a time brad Pitt: older guys with looks and resources but not out doing jerk things- looking at you Leo di Caprihoe. Women are attracted to men who seem s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:12 AM
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She should listen to her dad. I swear outside of this sub and 2 others, the other advice subs are people who keep Reddit open on their work computer for reading up on some poor schmuck’s heartbreak or dead bedroom while in between replying to emails or grasping for the right word for the proposal they’re drafting: entertainment to make the 9 to 5 go faster. They are setting her up for an update post next week just so they can read how he ghosted her and she’s now on Prozac in between their meeti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:09 PM
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I read the whole write up and I enjoyed the various takes on sex dolls, women’s allyship/ labour in men’s movements and the trans movement. It was astute to go through how incels think or become incels and their bipolar thinking concerning women’s sexuality. The sex doll part got me thinking and I might be in the minority: I’m one of those who can’t wait for the sex dolls with these “hydraulic vaginas” are on the market. Males love to threaten us into accepting shoddy treatment from them by sayi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:52 PM
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Gonna start using it too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 01:11 PM
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We are not in the business of dating and relationships to make men grateful. They have to qualify and that hurts! FDS is newish to Reddit and still small but growing. In real life, we haven’t hit a dent on the surface but the PARANOIA of males ( they’re NOT men!) makes it sound like we are on every street corner recruiting or like Facebook. Still far from that because Reddit is not everyone’s cup of tea unlike other media where you can go live/ stream/ post pics etc. You have to read here; peopl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:34 PM
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You seem to have hit the jackpot.🙄 So happy and liberated and answering the door for pussy delivery and he posts a CMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 10:21 AM
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Sis, you can never under post that FDS tenet. We need it as a daily reminder. It’s sooo funny- A few guys blew their gaskets at PPD and one started a thread calling FDS a circlejerk group demanding $700 dinners and not discussing how to be attractive to men. The mods there have tried to limit anti FDS rants but seems every guy there needs to shame our “proper date not coffee/ man pays, duh” standards like punching a clock at a job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 11:25 PM
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Sir, wash your beard. Then shave it off and grow your hair. Then try again with the misogyny but far away from here! Pfffft !!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 11:15 PM
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Say circlejerk ONE 👏 MORE 👏 TIME👏 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 10:40 PM
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💯👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:40 PM
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I read your messages. You were calm and rational. The misanthrope who tried to go back and forth with you was a blubbering emotional baby. I would enjoy and our community would benefit more from your argumentation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:24 PM
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I can’t stand how she’s become a pickmesha and LVM meme farm; “ if gorgeous rich Beyoncé can be cheated on by ugly , old jay z and stay wtf do you, with 3 panties and a bad hair cut think you are to demand a good man?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 01:20 PM
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I gotta agree. I don’t even like melania but her reply is something to live by. “Would he have married me if I wasn’t beautiful?” Ladies, even if you don’t have a billion dollars for surgeries, chefs and trainers at your disposal like melania, you do spend time and resources priming what nature gave you. And men do struggle to treat women they aren’t attracted to as people. So don’t be shamed for expecting a man to bring something to you not just his dick in his hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 01:14 PM
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I am part of this amazing community and movement! I’m sooo proud. Congratulations 🎉🎈🍾 and ONWARDS Queens 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 09:18 PM
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I’m petty. I ignore if I can’t cross the street.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 09:44 PM
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Good reasoning here. Hence the demand for women to do it for them because we’ve been banding together and fighting for ourselves since time began.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 07:29 PM
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More like jealous projection on their part. Because since a compliment = sexual interest, they think we’re gonna pair off and licky licky when we go to the bathroom together. They’re thinking we’re being fake, like them, to get sex. Notice all the “women go to the bathroom together and stay gone for long” jokes men make all the time?They’re grounded in their real, sick FOMO and fake compliments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 06:37 PM
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This! That’s it and that’s ALL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 06:32 PM
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I know I should look out for women more but I always feel relief when I witness some guy giving a very transparent creepy compliment to a woman. I think “ phew! better her than me” I think that it’s someone else’s burden to bear and do the wearying dance of being gracious but not trying to encourage him so he doesn’t get ideas but so he also doesn’t turn into a nice guy. The only reason men insist we enjoy their compliments is because they conflate them with sexual interest. And since sex is the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 06:30 PM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:14 PM
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Are you me?! And then this person accused me of down voting her. I read and re-read my post and hers, where I virtually agreed with her and wondered what ?! Can you tell in a sub with 50k+ people who downvoted you anyway? I wished her good day and blocked. Then I thanked every god I could name that I’m not a mod or strategist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:13 PM
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🥇💯 And by the way, 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:08 PM
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Oh, if only the would!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 10:25 AM
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Hello! I grew up using kgs and grammes si I know to divide by 2. 20kg is not a BIT. It is SIGNIFICANT or MAJOR. It is 4 dress sizes! I would ghost🤷🏾‍♀️ The audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 12:09 PM
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Absolutely. Porn which degrades women for men’s pleasure shows the hate is well spread. Teen and MILF are the top searches. 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 11:26 AM
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I had one. Do not advise it. In my country, doctors will not do it if you haven’t had a child. Because higher uterus rejections and the increased pain at insertion cramps, discharge , weird cycles. I guess they reason someone whose been to the labour ward will tolerate these much more 🤷🏾‍♀️ If you must, get an arm implant or go old school- the pill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 11:22 AM
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Kind request to the mods: please add to the side bar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 08:01 PM
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You feel like shit because you are a decent human being, sis. LVM or not, you did invest yourself into a real relationship with him where you did a LOT of giving. Like those before me, you need to channel this generosity into your own life. Take it minute by minute if you have to. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:47 PM
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I see what you did there! 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 05:31 PM
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Good gawd! What just happened here?! I did not report you ! I was AGREEING with you that your words sum up why this sub is hated. That’s why I called them “ fighting words”. You write that and they’re triggered ready to fight you. Have a good day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 05:05 PM
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Stays on their minds. Mods there had to put a suspension on FDS mentions just before Christmas and there was outrage! 😂 But after finding out it’s an extension or feeder for trp, it all makes sense now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:36 PM
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The most “ harm” done here is blocking and deleting if vet, vet, vet! failed somehow. Objective refusal to engage is at worst apathy not hatred or violence. Scrotes mad cause we are saying “ no, not here. Goodbye!” 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:30 PM
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But she’s fine “cool girling” it, taking food out of her children’s mouths to go Dutch with a guy and downplaying the well meaning advice from contributors 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:31 PM
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I hear you! I always interpret it to be audacity and entitlement. And if I somehow get a discussion going with him, I expect him to prove himself twice as much. I usually end up blocking them because they always end up more effort than they are worth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 01:27 PM
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I needed this post and I’m glad it’s in the side bar now 😊 Try not to be the first black woman he has dated. Especially if you don’t have the patience to dismantle any stereotypes or biases he will have. Find out if he has black friends. Or hobbies and interests that make him ethnic-adjacent. Blues music, some hip hop artists, travel to non-white/European places ( not Thailand!) even salsa dancing. Never accept a private date. That is relationship stuff after you have had the talk. Let me cook f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 01:07 PM
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I had a guy say both. Hates his white women and found black pussy better. Was detailed about the latter and I’m glad I don’t remember them but the shock stands one year later. We did not go further. He was in drug rehab, was proud he did not work and gamed the government benefits system. I came to this country that makes foreigners suffer and prints it in your ID card that if you apply for benefits you will be deported. I work hard and I’m independent and his work ethic killed any interest immed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 12:37 PM
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You said “ If ur not for us as a man then don’t date us and we’ll find someone else. That simple.” Fighting words, sis. These words are what the hatred is all about! That we are happy not to be considered or consider and are even trying not to cater to men or do backflips to get men, any men and all but but have the unmitigated gall and the brazen audacity to expect we will get who we want and are not fazed by who we don’t want and we set barriers to clear those we don’t want. Go to the nearest …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 11:20 AM
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Girl, I had to laugh out loud at that . The mods at purple pill are harassed daily about FDS and had to put a suspension on FDS rants a few weeks ago. And it’s men and women in that sub who keep FDS on their mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 11:05 AM
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You analyzed this sucker to shreds! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 10:58 AM
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You’re like me! I get a silly happy smile when I read about FDS; regardless of the content. Waves are being made. They have a gazillion subs where their shit is valued, celebrated and worth its weight in gold. GO THERE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 10:51 AM
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Yessss 👑💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 10:47 AM
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Honey, tables turn and the world goes crazy. The rabbit has grabbed the shot gun from the hunter is where all this paranoia is coming from. I wish , for them, that we preached LVM should be shot or poisoned at their bad dates . This would at least give them grounds to be mad, but we don’t : again and again we say block and delete. This is after he has somehow escaped VET, VET,VET! We don’t want anything to do with LVM and we are happy for them to exist over there 👉 ( looking at you RPW, makeupwh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 10:28 AM
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“Ok, I’m sorry” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 05:55 PM
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I don’t know who this man is. And I agree with the part of me that doesn’t want to. He ain’t shit! That’s all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 02:19 PM
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I’m sensitive and intuitive and I struggle with the box 3 where people know about me and I don’t perceive enough about myself. This bothers me because when people are asked for feedback and I intuit they are holding back or just being extra, I would discard the feedback. And maybe miss out on some growth. I wish people didn’t have so much power over me with their knowledge... of me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:47 PM
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This is so smart and so true. Thanks for pointing this out. And according to their own shit logic, 6s and 7s throw themselves at Chad not men of their equal attractiveness. He has been abusing women they’d rate lower than 6 and he ain’t Chad because that guy isn’t asking for advice for more women but for more hours of the day to go through them all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 12:48 PM
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Higher up, higher up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 12:41 PM
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I’d LOVE to tell a guy “ that will be great information for a woman who loves you!” The audacity! Yeah and I bet they’ll squirm if countered with Gifts or Acts of Service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 12:35 PM
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This... makes me want his address . So I can pull up... But YOU are in the good space you belong now. Keep on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 12:01 PM
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I second this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 10:56 PM
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A forever girlfriend trying to raise an army of equally miserable women who won’t quit relationships when they should. Way to ruin a good book by associating it with holding on to a LVM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 10:49 PM
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👑💯🔥💅🏾 Tell me she’s here , tell me she’s one of us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 07:49 PM
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Girl, I dunno why I’m being down voted but I will say it another way. If Diddy and his boy then Future are the manifestation of thinking like a man and whatever, it ain’t worth it. They are rich LVM and nothing amplifies a quality or vice like money!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 07:31 PM
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Deborah cooper tore into him. She actually got a pdf if the book and she was unimpressed! Me, I just watch the person and their actions. You can tell a looooooot about a tree from its fruit 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 07:28 PM
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😂 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:53 PM
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😂 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:52 PM
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👑 I believe this belongs to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 03:03 PM
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Yes she is! Diddys son Then Diddy Now Future. It’s NOT looking good. Maybe that’s how a man “thinks”. But definitely not how a lady acts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 03:01 PM
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Steve is probably at best a shrewd businessman. He is not HVM. The treatment of his 2 ex wives will make the hairs on your body stand and your stomach drop. He met current wife while still married. Her husband , drug dealer, was in jail. He has been a child support nightmare in purple pimp suits. His step daughter Laurie has been bouncing off LVM rapper dicks including pdiddy and his son. Ok she’s an adult I get it. But he raised her. Are these the tactics in his book that ordinary women should …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 02:58 PM
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He destroyed SOOOOO many manosphere dogmas they still haven’t recovered from that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 01:00 PM
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He’s at an age where other single guys with just 1/100 of his worth would call women his own age bitter, jaded hags etc because these women would see through his bullshit and call him out on it. Look at old ass George Clooney marrying a woman in her 30s and despicable Italian playboy uncle Leonardo changing 25 year olds. I don’t know much about Keanu, which is another plus I guess but when I stand him next to these fellas or Charlie Sheen, (I know, I know , anyone is HVM next to him) I would ven…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 12:00 PM
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There it is! Thank you 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:55 AM
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He should not expect me to be on the pill or something and try to have unprotected sex with me. That just means he’s dangerous, cavalier and entitled. He should carry condoms at all times and have them at home. I will do the same. I’m not interested in his n count and I’m not going to ask. I do expect to orgasm. At the same time, what worked with the others was for them. He needs to learn what I like. If he had sex on a trapeze or some woman somersaulted onto his dick, good. Doesn’t mean he shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 10:59 AM
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I’m sharing my own observations and experience and of expat women in a country we stand out like a sore thumb. Not about arguing against anyone. Thank you for sharing your own observations about all this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 09:50 AM
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I don’t know if it’s worth it and I doubt he would be high value because rubs the list of qualities someone posted here about HVM . Men also are set in their ways and prideful/ego in intimate relationships and that doesn’t lend well to teaching. The double don’t know is a subtle/ obvious thing. It’s the guy who vehemently says he doesn’t see color and everyone is the same and equal to him. That’s usually a lie and you always cringe a little when you hear that. I’ve got a background in criminolog…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:44 AM
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Ah, the triple vetting struggle... You have to vet for compatibility You have to vet for HVM qualities You have to vet for fetishing and racism. The first 2 are easy because men are men. The last one, not so easy. It’s general guidelines/ red flags then the exhausting, potentially crazy-making case-by-case things. “Is he trying to tick off something on a list?” “ Am I being too sensitive?” “Is he like this with women of his own ethnicity?” “Why me? Does he think I’ll be easy/pliable/ grateful?” …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 09:54 PM
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A bit of both. If it’s someone from real life like work I’m reluctant to add them because I delete and block with the quickness and people act butt hurt when they find out. I also try to avoid lurky turkeys who don’t engage with the media but just...lurk. Men also get weird in the inbox/ dms and that can complicate real life because...they act butt hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 09:34 PM
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There’s enough venom to go around. Chad can also be trained to say “ be gone, thot!” in the same breath a woman is told to close her legs. Ijs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 08:19 PM
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You need a new boyfriend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 03:35 PM
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Why don’t I hear anyone telling Chad to turn these hordes of women away the same way I keep hearing women being harassed for sleeping with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 01:45 PM
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Oh I read the book . Twice. I’m gonna give it another go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 09:40 AM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 03:48 PM
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I read it here, I think, that if you say you’re looking for LTR or more they do that boyfriend morphing thing because they think a woman looking for that won’t date/ sex around ON THEM while they do what they like on your time. They want to secure your faithfulness for as little in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:55 PM
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Not me! By year 2 from first date, we should be married. I ask questions, I observe and listen to my gut and I do not budge from knowing that “men know” when they meet a woman if they’ll wife up or not. If towards 9 months we are not talking serious things, I will bounce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:38 PM
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💯 Might have to fight you for this one! 😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:17 PM
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Yes to Phil Dunphy even his dad as the older HVM who married a woman his own age after Phil’s mom died. Edit: we are talking about characters right? I dunno anything about the dudes in real life 😂🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:16 PM
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Wow! If I had gold... 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 09:20 AM
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Yes! And they won’t even offer to pay. Me, I’d probably exaggerate my fertility and say I’m high estrogen or my family has easy conception or something to scare the guy into always wrapping it up! I can’t with these guys!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 09:18 AM
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I loved the wording of “ feminist utopia”! There is a double standard that follows women into their intimate and home lives despite feminism winning in bringing equality to public spheres of life. I guess that’s why damaged men will rant about the state protecting women more and that alimony and custody are “divorce rape” because the state enforces that they take care of their children and exes. We all know left alone they would not and the 27% default rate of child support shouldn’t be seen lig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 09:14 AM
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Well done! Don’t back track. He ain’t shit! And keep that 👑 on when you block him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 05:16 AM
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💯 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 05:11 AM
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This! Give compliments to EACH OTHER. Where do women fit in the mix? Women self soothe and if we value compliments it’s from OTHER WOMEN. Because they mean something and aren’t for doing basic things like wearing a short dress or spiky heels which men love to compliment women for. They need to form their own communities to soothe each others ego. Oh, like their rateme subs where they give each other 6s for greasy helmet heads and neck beards. Women 👏🏾want 👏🏾no 👏🏾part 👏🏾of 👏🏾this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 05:09 AM
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I might be an outlier here. But WHY do women keep posting there?! And they’re ALWAYS beautiful. Never rated higher than a 6 by men on Reddit! I’d rather ask to be rated by the mean girls in high school or a ward of comatose patients because I don’t know, they don’t hate women or feel entitled to them. Isn’t there a safe and fair sub for women who feel the need to be rated by strangers on the internet? Maybe open a dating profile 🤷🏾‍♀️ I hate to see women get vulnerable just to be teared down ( b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:25 AM
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You are welcome. In these cases it’s people who have been together since the woman was a teen, with 2 or so children already teenagers; the eternal girlfriend is often devoted and clearly someone who has shaped herself in this guy’s image. Like a tongue stud to lick the asshole’s peen with enhanced sensation. Now I counter by telling the guys how lucky they are to have their women even though the predictable reply is scornful laughter, denials “ no I’m not, she is”/ I want someone new now. I’m g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:07 PM
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I would agree and say it’s normal if innocent labels didn’t get embarrassing reactions. I mean every now and then I’ve witnessed someone refer to some guy’s girlfriend as “your wife” and the guy would double up laughing or violently deny that said woman was his wife. Ok sir, maybe marriage is just a piece of paper and you don’t need a title to be committed. Why are you responding to an innocent wrong label so viscerally? It did not reflect those paperless commitment ideals. Just say “she’s my gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:16 PM
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I tried to imagine how a man might want to manipulate such information and I saw an LVM trying to burden a woman with the contraception responsibility. He might even suggest or bully you into sterilization so he can raw dog you. I agree with keeping that choice to yourself because a scrote might try to weaponize it to his benefit. And we are NOT here for that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:10 AM
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💯 🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 10:16 AM
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Peep the innocent victim backpedal ploy when she says “What?” As if he asked her for something mundane and she cursed his mother. Dude, you want her body! And you’ve been a stranger for months . The casualness! The entitlement! The audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 09:54 AM
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It’s the Netherlands. Where eternal girlfriends happen much more than wives. I have only seen 2 small bridal shoppes in my city and the dresses also share space with ball gowns so it’s not a purely bridal shoppe like you’d have David’s with consultants in black , racks and racks of gowns and space to drink champagne with your entourage as you change into 12 dresses. There was a hat shoppe in my city. You know, royal wedding Princess Diana type of things. Also went out of business. By and large t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 09:48 AM
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It is. She starts all “ you are the only man for me...” His name is Martin 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 09:39 AM
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Gonna start a GoFundMe soon. Mgtow needs expert cartography and GPS charting done ASAP so they can find their fucking way from us and just beat it for good. They keep getting lost and locate themselves here, lurking for hate fodder. Maybe they should just change their subs name to : mgtow_to FDS or mgtowtolurk Or mgtow_never It’s getting tiresome and boring now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 06:33 AM
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They never left 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 06:22 AM
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Probably that a man loves her. A WHITE man of title, means and pedigree not a Joe Schmoe punching a clock to slave away in a cubicle. Mgtow, pillers also rate black women as undesirable. So she snagging a prince royally fucks with their already warped value system/ rank of women. He positively makes their rancid blood boil. Harry is Chadly and he gives pillers a cluster fuck they can’t explain away because Meghan is not their book/ comic book/ anime Stacey .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 06:21 AM
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I thought they were going their own way?! Is it men go their own way ...to women who couldn’t care less about them? They do way too much looking back over their shoulders for people supposed to be GOING somewhere!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 06:15 AM
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It is actually a good book. It’s giving them good advice. Women do not always climax from penetration but almost always do from oral sex which is better stimulation of the clitoris than penis-in-vagina sex. They DO need to suck it up because sex is meant to be pleasurable for both parties. Most men are lousy lovers on a good day. Nowadays with men carrying porn sickness that prevents them from getting or sustaining a viable erection, cunnilingus is the bare minimum they should do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 10:36 AM
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💯 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 10:18 AM
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Gimme your phone, baby...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 10:03 AM
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Aw, shucks I’m speechless. Glad I could serve you! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:06 AM
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I can believe that! When men got cut they became more careless and criminal. There was even some buyer’s remorse. They wanted their foreskins back because they claimed they’d lost sensation. I don’t know where they thought they’d get foreskins from but it’s their problem. If they didn’t fight condom use or shower before sex or MONOGAMY with one faithful partner, they could have kept their skins 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 11:17 PM
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I was on the copper IUD for a year. I was pressured by former mother-in-law to use it as it’s non hormonal. She said the only disadvantage was heavy periods and she offered to buy pads for me and sisters-in-law, who was her daughter, and coyly refused. I was a newly married and new mother trying to build bridges with mother in law , and an effing people-pleasing pickmesha so I agreed. Cold speculum being cranked to open my uterus, looking up at the ceiling willing it to end, the cramps afterward…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 10:55 PM
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It’s women who need to wash their stinky vaginas. Men are fine. /s You should hear them. I remember ex mother in law talking to ex hubs like a mommy cooing to her teething, crying baby about “if you’re going to bed at night, don’t abuse your partner by not showering”; instead of talking to him like a grown man. Have an ex who had disgusting B.O, used to sweat onto me during sex 🤮decide to go for circumcision but the excitement for him was around not having to worry about washing his dong more of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:26 PM
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I felt this so personally. I hate him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:07 PM
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This is why the pill was pushed onto women yet they had been developing it for men: the side effects were too much for the pee pee carriers, they said. It’s the reverse in real life. And also why vasectomies and even circumcision have to be couched in macho terms. I know even women will have violent reactions to the mention of male circumcision ( gosh ,I had to teach the keypad to spell that out) but hear me out. In some countries where HIV/AIDS has been a scourge, some research pushed that ther…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 01:25 PM
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Cobras too. Yes, those vicious, angry unreasonable venomous snakes . One bite and you die painfully within hours. Yet some “nice guy” throws racial epithets and insults just because you won’t do a coffee date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 10:22 AM
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Following the “ safe option” threads and the outrage men have for being considered that. And now this. Simply: ok average guy, you don’t wanna be considered a “safe option” so what qualities do you have that immediately make a woman want to jump your bones? I’m reading deflection as the question is turned around to what average women bring too or rambling lists of LTR/ marriage qualities that take time to discern. Someone said “potential” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:37 PM
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👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 12:51 PM
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That’s a good therapist. I think she summed up my life too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 10:58 AM
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Curvy? I am. And that made sense. My waist never left high school. I’ll always be a 4 but my hips are an 8 or a 10. Breast will also vary between 34A and 36C. I hate going shopping. It’s a full day event. I have to take 4 sizes into the changing room.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 09:51 AM
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I like what you said there. A man needs to have Stand Alone good qualities. When women pick men we are not going to an assembly line but we see they are individuals. The comparison thing he’s on about makes him seem insecure, shallow and in a never-ending dick measuring contest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 09:45 AM
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Here’s a hug and a fist bump from me. You writing is so heartfelt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 09:02 AM
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It’s safer to work minimum wage flipping burgers! Honest work, your dignity , self respect and anonymity . She feeds into their stereotypes of women being lazy and only good for pandering to men and their abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 06:39 PM
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😂💯 Because it’s over before it can start!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:12 PM
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What a prize!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:09 PM
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Should he do it unprompted or he needs to give me a heads up? Had a guy make a photo of us his Facebook profile once. Fortunately, we are not friends and people have to ask my permission to tag me and you can’t find me Unless we have mutual friends. When he told me he thought I’d be pleased too. The Audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 11:07 AM
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Scrotes mad, pickmesha sad. Cause FDS bad. We don’t give a fuck! 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 10:20 AM
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🥇 Wow! Are you ME?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:47 AM
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I have no words for the outrage, the stupidity! I hope they NEVER break up. Or he dies. She has created a monster I don’t wish unleashed on another woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:45 AM
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You need a hug! 🤗 You’ve beaten yourself up enough already and being here ( and sharing) means you’re not about that life any more. You are worth more. When you feel the shame come through tell yourself” I am not her anymore. I love me and I am the prize.” Keep the jerk blocked on everything and execute FDS and the leveling up strategy. You got this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:33 AM
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Is this his BEST picture? And his best effort is a neggy rant with an offer for dinner? No sir, you’re on your own here. Like you should be!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 12:53 PM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 10:45 PM
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Effort AND boredom! Nah, I’m good 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 10:38 PM
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💯Her Username checks outYes I almost typed “mene mene tekel uparsin”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 10:06 PM
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Seconded!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 09:01 PM
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Yup. He wants her younger, MAYBE with one kid of her own tops and he doesn’t want any more children. Might even tell her to get her tubes tied. He is NOT checking for a woman with an equal number of kids. I pity the pickme who falls for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:29 PM
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🗣💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:14 PM
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No. Not a mod ( yet 😉). But I live for a good take down!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 05:28 PM
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Hey fellow Fishes! I’m a swimming away type: just block on everything and act oblivious when they find me. I block co-workers on Facebook and be the first one to say hi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 04:04 PM
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Don’t play with the 2 fishes: a guppy and a shark combo during the week and a goldfish and a jellyfish on Sundays and holidays. But it’s ok, keep thinking we’re doormats and nice people 👿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 04:00 PM
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And men are supposed to be “logical” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:57 PM
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Just mosey on down to the Tinder sub, if you will. Search “algorithm”in their search bar. You’ll find: delete your profile and reboot, change your city, swipe left 3 times then swipe right, get professional photos, “be attractive and don’t be unattractive” etc because men are trying to game the system. Why? They are CONVINCED Tinder is hiding 9s and 10s from them and sending them ugly, fat , old average women /single mothers instead of their carefully weighted and calculated attraction match. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:46 PM
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That Goodyear tire on his waist could be contributing to the bright future of kids on a school bus in Biloxi, Mississippi or something . Now who do I have to stab, beat or kill here to get some eye bleach? Unsee. Please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:53 PM
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There’s a steady stream of men/ boys going to those advice subs seeking comfort after “ told my crush how I feel. She rejected me. She acts like nothing has changed./ She won’t talk to me anymore. I don’t want to talk to her anymore” The crush is rarely a woman they met a few months ago and has been exchanging lingering looks with, but a “friend” who even shares her dating issues with him. You know who they always make the villain right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:49 PM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:39 PM
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And they STILL get played. Smdh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:38 PM
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I wish you had tagged me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:37 PM
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Do we even talk about Chad and Stacy here?! The fuck! HVW,HVM LVW and LVM is our terminology. We are not youth-obsessed either. We are value obsessed. Teenagers, virgins, lifting, that’s all manosphere obsession and classic Redpill 101. Pick a discourse please- we can’t be youth-obsessed and bitter, post wall hags who live with ten cats at the same time . And this place is FAR from an echo chamber. We👏🏾check👏🏾each👏🏾other👏🏾 around here. No pickme, racist, doormat,porn supporter will post drivel a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:36 PM
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There was a post a few days ago that went into detail about how men with money act and it confirmed to me yet again that men’s value does not increase with age and men KNOW IT. The poster said watch how men with money treat waiters, how they act impatient at the airport and how they treat YOUNGER MEN. She said the waiters and the impatience at the airport reminds them of how or who they were when they didn’t have money. The young men, ah well, even if you have money and a guy is younger than you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:15 PM
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Ah! It gave me LIFE 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 09:29 AM
2

🗣💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:14 PM
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👑 Point blank period!💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:51 AM
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I was rooting for him too. Then I read the convo again. A few times. I get that he thought you and him are a done deal by the “ dinner was set in stone” and that he didn’t think he needed to confirm. What?! If you still want him, Ignore his texts. Only take calls. I don’t think he’s worth the effort and training though. I think it takes more effort to text than call because you have to type and think and do grammar and check for ambiguity and snarky meanings etc. He’s broken his commitment to a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:42 AM
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Do you use the microphone to type/ dictate your posts on relationships and dating subs ? Or generally? There’s been a lot of conversations around search engines using the microphone to Er, get a better ear on how consumers think and present ads along with what they have , erm, heard. With all these damn websites immediately dropping cookie consent click ins as soon as you land on their page, and the instinctive human nature to “consent” just so you can access the site, we’ve also opened ourselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:09 AM
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Made me think a bit. If a man expects it or demands it for him, it’s performative and not liberating for a woman And If it’s sexually liberating, men would not allow women to do it. THEY would want it for themselves. How many guys do you see rioting to ch0*e on a dick? Or fighting off hordes of other guys to cunnilingus a woman to orgasm? When was the last time you heard of a guy telling another guy to cam girl for gay men or to go turn tricks, for men, by the corner? It’s women who are supposed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 02:05 AM
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Not my proudest moment:It was the first time I started a conversation with “Fuck you!” And I’ve lived a LOOOOOONG life! Kinksters and their entitlement, especially pickmesha ones are poisoning the last few sane spaces women have and I am so relieved the strategists have addressed this once and for all. It’s a slippery slope we don’t need. What I love about this sub is we’re purists: “Dick is abundant and low value..”That guides us. The minute a dick is bringing you pain or humiliation, you’re no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:34 AM
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I think you and I were harassed by the same raving, lunatic of a sexual pickmesha who decided to become demented in my inbox. She’d been bragging about eating di*ks and swallowing even before she had watched porn and went on a rant...about the word pickmesha! I was bored so I back and forthed with her a bit then I got REALLY bored and blocked her mid-rant. Come back and she had deleted herself from the thread or ( rubs hands in devilish glee) she’d been removed. Whatever! This strategy bulletin …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:02 AM
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Correlation and causation together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 10:43 AM
2

Fuck outta here, Harry! Please 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:26 PM
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Girl, you spoke to my heart. I love all those things. I’ve been wondering what to do for MY BIRTHDAY next month. 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:25 PM
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Queen things!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:23 PM
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I might be an outlier here but... I’d rather hug them because I hate TOUCHING MEN’S HANDS. They don’t wash their hands and touch all sorts of disgusting things. At least my clothes are a buffer. Just thinking about skin-to-skin contact with a strange man makes my skin crawl 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:02 PM
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She can have him! There’s no way I’m gonna be thinking of “respecting “ a cheater. Oh, sir you WILL hear about yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 05:37 PM
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I’m glad you have started to take back your power and to heal yourself. This is something you will have to be very deliberate and selfish about because you are WORTH IT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 02:26 PM
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I hear you there. Even in these liberated days, women are still interested and invested in making their relationships work; sometimes to the point of self-sacrifice or becoming a step ford wife. I always tell myself “ he’s not telling us the full story” and I always want to ask him “ what did you do to create such a monster?” But they can have their echo chamber. It’s not gonna get them laid. Jerks don’t get sex.🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 01:50 PM
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🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 01:37 PM
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Pickmelyn Pinkmenetta Pickmeette Pickmeline Do you feel better? Don’t call women “females”. We are women. When you say female you have to finish it off by adding the type of animal you are referring to. Female camel? Ostrich ? Spitting cobra? LVM always refer to women as females; as if women are any and all animals and not women with distinct identity, purpose and agency. Or maybe the more stinging “bitches”. You don’t even have to like this sub or other women to call us women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 04:35 PM
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He gets what he gets. I LOVE a good blindsided blocking too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 03:43 PM
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If it’s a real post ( doubt it) he’s a deeply unhappy person. The divorce won’t make him happy. He’s gonna try to be in her life still. I was married and had a dead bedroom from communication issues, living with his parents and him being a mommas boy. Women don’t just let that shit happen. We’re trained to “make the marriage work, keep him happy” from the day they put dollies in our arms. It reads more like a “ just lift, bro” honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 03:39 PM
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I learned very early in the game that if a man doesn’t initiate the oral game by going down on me, I will never put pressure on myself to suck him off. No exceptions. Not afraid to lose a guy over that. I also had a 8 year marriage to a man who was a champion cunninguser so I would rather not be savaged or half 6 tentative licks then he goes for penetration. If a guy can’t or won’t do it, ok,GREAT even. But it means I’m not choking on stinking precum and having his hands on my head “ guiding me”…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 03:08 PM
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Asked a man I was seeing ( being breadcrumbed by is the truth) to be my boyfriend . This was via text. I meant I needed him to stand in some capacity for some benefits I was applying for where the funders looked at partnered women better than single ones. The verbal gymnastics this man played verses the weak /porn sick sex game he had still amazes me. Said the spiel of how he “really liked me and enjoyed the sex but was not yet in love with me.” I told him hold up! And take a deep breath that’s …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 01:39 PM
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I might need to watch this Bachelorette thing. Did you notice anything from the men’s commentary? It’s another reason I’m glad she booted him off the show. They will learn how to treat you from the excuses you make for bad behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 01:22 PM
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You hit the nail on the head. TRP thinks in terms of what a 20 something, frat guy is like but men age , lose T and are certainly not a homogeneous entity. Their theorists have failed to cast for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:32 AM
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🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:25 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:25 AM
2

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:24 AM
3

Muahahahahahaaaaaaa 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 03:09 PM
5

👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 03:08 PM
5

This needs to be HIGHER UP! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 01:30 PM
4

You READ them! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 01:24 PM
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Heard! At the cellular level👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 01:07 PM
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Upvote for using "sies"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 11:22 AM
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Dad bod and dirty mirror clearly visible. Do I dare take him up so I end up on antibiotics for what's not seen (but can be smelled from the picture)? Not on your Nelly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 11:18 AM
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😂👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 09:26 AM
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Glad to hear this! 👑 Clarity is the best gift we can give ourselves in such times. This is YOUR safe space. We are all rooting for you.💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:12 PM
1

I don’t compete. It creates resentment in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 03:36 PM
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I agree. He is a clusterfuck compulsive Romeo, divorcing , rebounding and bouncing back into women’s lives all at the same time. You are the lucky one, I think. His ex wife married him and will have scars for years cause of that, new girlfriend from the party is being used as a crutch but you had actually gone no contact/ walked away from him and were doing well. White, seething rage cools down. Hopefully into a cold, clinical dispassionate distance. Help yourself by repairing the breech: how di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 03:31 PM
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We might have dated the same fella. Calling me goddess and demanding to eat me. He spoiled it for other guys. I miss that Gemini! The smart ones know some women will put up with a lot from them /they’ll be difficult to dump if they eat it well even if their sex isnt even half as good. They also know not to make women sensitive about their vaginas. And to approach any issues gently and with tact even if they’re scummy players. But porn sickness is a helluva drug. Smdh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 03:18 PM
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And this is the same type fella who doesn’t shower before bed, doesn’t wash his ass and demands that you swallow for your “good sex life”. But I’m just a bitter FDS woman ,huh 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 03:08 PM
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Ladies, LOCK DOWN your Facebook and if possible don’t use your real names. It says the picture is from her Facebook! A lot of us in customer service/ retail/ hospitality have to wear name badges and these incels can locate us and harass / stalk our social media. You can’t even do your job without catching a stalker!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 03:04 PM
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Good going,Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 02:58 PM
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Sis, if he doesn’t have a vagina of his own or isn’t trained ( medical school) to treat one, he has NO BUSINESS telling you it’s condition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 02:54 PM
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💯 We are WOMEN dammit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 02:51 PM
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This is shocking and sad. Hydroquinone is a dangerous substance a board certified dermatologist should prescribe. You can’t pay me to touch a bottle of that shit. Women are DYING for men’s pleasure! The depravity 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 02:50 PM
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Saw her on the Graham Norton show a few weeks ago. She’s gorgeous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 12:56 PM
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Check in please. Do you mean a terminal illness?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 10:57 AM
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So at 24 you’re this wise crone that can see the end from the beginning and he’s??? WTF! I hope in some socially awkward way he thought he was showing you deference and consideration but my first feeling was I hope she put distance between her and him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 08:02 AM
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I don’t know what she’s attracted to. She didn’t mention black men I don’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:52 PM
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I’m not a cat person but to be fair, the men who talk to me about being anti-cat mention allergies. That’s reasonable. Anything else, give him a side eye and then block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:34 PM
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Yesssss To the double takes and IRL approaching! Some women complain men don’t approach irl anymore and they stick to old. Not me. It’s tall, attractive white men not my ethnicity. I would get it and maybe expect it if the post was written by an incel not a woman . Men already rate us in leagues and numbers, don’t need a woman who doesn’t walk in our reality helping them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:31 PM
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You’re right. OP inserted dark women in HER argument; it wasn’t the man’s line of argument. You are a Queen. Live your truth and don’t deny them your grace and beauty. And continue the bratty and petty counters to low value, racist, body shaming trash. I live for them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:22 PM
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You see where he told on himself? Believing the racist tropes about black men being hung like horses or whatever. He probably thinks vaginas are stretched by sex and other inselesque junk. Ofcourse YOU weren’t attracted to him but he was to you. He had no need or reason to tell you all that unless he was seeking validation. They don’t seek that from women they do not see as women. Pay him dust!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:05 PM
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Kindred spirit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:55 PM
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Low calorie racist word salad. Who needs insels when you have this? OP ain’t slick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:50 PM
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If you are beautiful or decent looking, whatever race you are, he was seeking your validation. His seeking you out to tell you this does not make sense if he doesn’t view you as a woman and an attractive one. They don’t care for women’s consideration if they don’t see them as women. Men tell in themselves all the time. Continue to do you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:45 PM
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While some realism ( and cynicism) is healthy, men being men will still have preferences. It’s a double edged sword cutting both ways. Vet till you find your type. I’m in Europe, tall white guy central and they stay wifing up dark women with the typical curvy shapes. I wish I could get darker 🤷🏾‍♀️ but I’ll give a hard pass to getting bigger because I get chest pains past 65kg/130 pounds. Let’s send out abundance vibrations 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:40 PM
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I have to stop you there,sis. This is low value thinking. Men are men. Let’s take our space. And vet them with no mercy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:31 PM
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I see it too. Not attractive or High Value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:25 PM
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I’m 40 Age range I’m attracted to is 28 to well preserved and healthy 50 Not really I hang around 17 -55 year olds. I work in a university town Do you mean the youngest guy I was attracted to and did something with? I was 36 and he was 25
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 08:47 PM
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Thank you for sharing. I hope this served as a cautionary tale to us and especially young women about why old farts will target women in their 20s. For all of us: Anthony reminds us that LVM will push or break boundaries. The young woman had put it in inky pixels that she didn’t want men past a certain age but boom! He breaks through that anyway. This shows arrogance and entitlement old geezers have. He’s convinced that the young lady will be bowled over by his middle aged magic or she won’t put…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 01:53 PM
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Happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:13 AM
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Yup, the 2 men I messed with in the last year were on the 2 sites I was on. Late 30s and early 40s guys and the younger one never married or had kids. Got me really jaded. They read well on paper and tick off the initial boxes that would draw a woman in; height, build, own home, good looking that kind of thing . But after dealing with them for a bit a lift goes off: “ they are still single for a very good reason”. They’re trash. Trash looking for sex on as many platforms as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:12 AM
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Here’s hoping you learn the “Quality over Quantity” lesson soon,ma’am. Like...Really soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:26 AM
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Bye, raw dogging neckbeard! Is that the BEST photo you have of yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:12 AM
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He said/texted actually “I really like you and I enjoy having sex with you but I’m not in love with you” I didn’t know whether to laugh or cry because it was in plain sight that he thought he could breadcrumb me with hopes of what could be. Even the remnants of pickme DNA in me said “Nah,sis. He’s trying to game you.” He is blocked everywhere. He will need Yankee Doodle Pigeon to contact me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:02 AM
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Username:Executive TinderDouche Yes, I sent you a Superlike and we matched. I’ll lull you into a false sense of security by acting like I’m a sensitive, charming guy and hands-on dad involved in my children’s hobbies. I’ll send “good morning”messages and even “ Happy Easter”. Our first 2 dates will be good and days apart and after we have sex the next week I’ll update my Tinder profile with my vacation photos. There’s more! The sex will be a bore and a chore. First time I’ll cum in less than 2 m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 11:48 AM
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I dated him too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 11:28 AM
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Just truth here. I’m 40. Moved 4 years ago to Europe to do another advanced degree and relocate. Live in a large , international university city. I get called 28 on a bad day, 23 on a good one. Worked with a bunch of students who circulated a rumor that I was a teen mom when they found out I had a 10 year old. And girl, if another 22-30 year old boy comes peacocking at me.... Saying all this to say: Fooey! The wall does not exist for women. I would have hit it and burnt a hole in it. I had aller…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 02:43 PM
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This is gonna be interesting. Coming back later
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 02:11 PM
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Tall, lanky ginger with a man bun. Different race . I’ve heard gingers aren’t attractive and that’s the only reason I put him here. I loved his look. The lanky Snoop Dogg body type has been my hardwired ,A1 preferred look . Soft-spoken but a beast in bed. Could cunnilingus for hours. Our first time in private, 3 sessions and explosive orgasms, I had to link hands with him and push against him or I’d would have flailed all over like a deflated balloon. He just eagerly dived into it, almost demand…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:25 AM
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I left that sub today. Totally unrelated issue about are Transwomen women. Just so you know, I think not. Im a feminist and I know there’s all kinds I’m not sure that sub has my kind of feminism .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 11:32 PM
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There it is! Told it to argue its case and that was that. Dumbass been spamming us. We don’t type facts just to click clack our manicures on a keyboard. We research these things and ask intelligent questions. Our strategy isn’t hags harping about men who don’t want them; it’s maximizing our gains in HVMs and minimizing the very appearance of LVMs in our lives. We are deliberate in this! Avoidants and Anxious attachment theory is well researched psychology not a digest of truth or dare fart chall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 10:40 PM
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It’s changed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 10:00 PM
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This is good advice. Thank you. I’m gonna marinade on you people start showing who they are after 2 months . I had a 7 day probation period on Tinder and every guy I matched with would mention the ticking clock and how it was already day 2 or whatever. If I go back to OLD I might not mention it this time around and just be stealthy. Some dingus came to my inbox,btw. Alleging HVM don’t exist and if they do they’re Avoidants. When I asked it why, it just loled and slithered back to the pit of hell…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 09:58 PM
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Bro, those guys are your line brothers. You didn’t lock it down; you don’t get to call anyone a stranger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 09:32 PM
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💯 Now to change her flair...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 08:25 PM
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Is there a quick way to identify the type of attachment style a man has before going through 2-6 months of highs, it dies and then you meet up on another platform? Especially identifying those pesky Avoidants. Yup, I think I’m the anxious type because I will not jockey to be the one or compete. I remove myself. It’s bad enough that LVM pollute the OLD scene now add Avoidants being the majority in the mix and we’re up shit creek without a paddle. Why do the find OLD so attractive anyway? For Anxi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 10:39 AM
10

“ Because they have nothing to lose”. Dude, I’m drowning!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 09:09 AM
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Louder, for the lurkers, pickmes and just because I said so!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 08:10 AM
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Had an “aha” moment when I read philosophy major after the paragraph you said he didn’t mention your intelligence. He’s doing some practicum or applied theory on you. And it’s working. There’s a reason philosophy majors / backgrounds are despised in developing countries. They masterminded policies to divide, oppress and suppress people in colonial times and new dictatorships in post-independence. I despise this guy for using negging that went to college on you. And then he violates your boundari…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 10:30 PM
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Oh here we go again with the “sexual compatibility” blah blah blah, I have a high sex drive. Whatever. Are you any good at giving me orgasms though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 08:05 PM
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Queen, the last sentence 💯 Too many of these people read just to argue and not to comprehend. They shouldn’t even bother. Lurkers, Some LVM just finished a marathon gang-bang pornsturbation session needs you to make him a sandwich and sir,there’s a pickme you left on read waiting for you to reply “K” so she can say she has a man. Please leave us here and go there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 07:44 PM
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Because we’re not 14. We just say ugly 😂 Lurkers, hear this: lurk properly. Have you read the wiki? So your larping can be, oh I don’t know, less obvious and stupid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 06:41 PM
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A mistake is leaving his toe nail clippings on the carpet or locking himself out of his car at the gas station NOT cheating AND gaslighting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 06:15 PM
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He treated you like a guy or an invisible entity. Do not accept this behavior. I’ve been on both sides. During my separation, ex hubs and I met somewhere to talk. In comes a woman, much older and divorced who had already turned him down for being too young and broke ( still married to me too) and that maybe they could be friends instead. We were actually walk-in our and met her by the door as she was leaving as well. He lights up, gets all chatty and deep in convo with her; she was talking while…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 06:03 PM
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I loved how the agony aunt told him to go to more funerals...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 05:34 PM
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Word!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 01:54 PM
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The bullet points helped me too. I was raised by 2 virgo parents. They wanted spartan, stoic , humble simplicity in us children. Quick to criticise, slow to congratulate, in fact expecting us to do well and good without reinforcing it. That breeds insecure, validation seeking people pleasing behavior like pickmeism. Breadcrumbing, negging , ghosting behavior is rationalized in a “relationship” . Never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 11:39 PM
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You said SYCHRONICITY and I had to send you finger snaps ! I love it! When the student is ready, the master will appear”. Your healing journey has begun. Get it, girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 11:33 PM
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This is one of those moments I thank my star sign, or growing up in the 3rd world or something for not having any interest in Star Wars installments. The Carrie Fisher tragedy cemented it for me. I’m saving my sanity and dollars on this one. And if I see one more baby Yoda 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 07:27 PM
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Just block him. He has no right of access to you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 08:28 AM
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I’m black. I have not listened to lemonade because I feel Beyoncé is overexposed and I can’t get a break from her. Also there are enough artists who use their private lives as album fodder- Mary j blige and Taylor Swift as examples. Now Adele is divorcing so look out! I’ve also casually observed her since destinys child and her/ Matthew’s treatment of the original 2 others and then Michelle. I’ve come to a place of deep despising of Beyoncé. The beehive’s neurotic stanning just confirms I’m on t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 01:53 PM
2

A picture of him mate guarding Aaliyah has surfaced. They were together at some time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 01:46 PM
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You make a great point about the whole secrecy of the relationship. She even “ there I go with my big mouth” when she outted they were married on some interview. She is a pick me. The worst kind: a beautiful, rich one who has the option to walk away unlike the opposite of women stuck to husband’s income , scared to go to the women’s shelter and apply for welfare. JayZ is ugly! He’s a mediocre, braggart opportunist. He’s been a paedophile boyfriend to other artists like the late Aliyah and foxy b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 01:44 PM
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🥇 Savage!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 12:21 PM
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Ha, gimme a foot massage then. And I better enjoy it. That’s your love language spoken fluently, isn’t it? Unless ...you only speak the basic jibberish dialect of smashing uglies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 12:20 PM
3

Deadass got the same message too! What is this fuckery?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 11:57 AM
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You just reminded me of Diahann Carroll and Phylicia Rashad. And Cicely Tyson just turned 95. We need more of them and less bare-ass-at-a-football game and twerking Lizzo. Or basketball “wives”. Our PR machine is broken and shambolic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 11:38 AM
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Shook my head all the while as I read this. Sad really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 11:18 AM
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And THAT is why there’s unbelievable amounts of hate and surveillance towards this sub. How dare those bitter, insufferable FDS hags REMOVE THEMSELVES from pandering to men and demanding BETTER! If we 1) included men 2) swapped recipes to tighten vaginas or drinking vinegar to fit into frilly pink dresses, no one would be butt hurt or cross post to ridicule us. They’re mad we open our own eyes and of others and walk ( ok mostly disappear in a cloud of smoke) away. We can’t live or be unless we’r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 10:27 AM
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Get it,sis! 🥇 The trash took itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 09:06 AM
3

Wow I’m waiting...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 10:34 PM
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This here 🥇 FDS prevents getting into a shitty deal from jump. It’s a qualifier. We are qualitative around these parts. Vetting is our game. Men are creatures of habit and once they’ve gotten into their rotten groove of rotating you with 4 other women and making plans with you when 1-3 bail/ ignore , that’s what they want and it stays that way. They are not on board with your new way of thinking because it means they have to (gulp) deliver, have integrity, treat you decently and maybe even make …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 07:28 PM
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Healthy men would like women not to be doing any lifting kind. His strong woman is one he puts through the wringer with fuckery she’s supposed to smile-cook-clean and fuck through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 07:15 PM
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My FDS learner mind’s first thought was “ this is an in-person question”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 07:12 PM
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🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 07:08 PM
8

I’m thinking of moving there September. I have 2 witnesses already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 05:30 PM
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Wow I made it to 10min when she started plugging the movie that’s pro free speech. I deserve a damn cookie for watching that much. Yes. She is a pick me. A judgemental, daft pick me. But maybe tell me something y’all. Do women where you are from start acting like they’re better than single unattached women, giving relationship advice, lecturing about how not to stay single whenever they get engaged? Because this happens a lot where I’m from. Some girl gets a $25 engagement ring and a wedding dat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 05:29 PM
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Yes you can do damage control against any further damage to YOURSELF. He is damaged beyond repair,sis. He sees you, a beautiful, loving human being as a F in his MFM fantasy. He will only use you for as long as you present yourself and he has a fantasy to act out on you. Start with blocking and deleting on everything. Mourn what you had as if he died and act accordingly. I wish I could tell you there’s hope with him. Actually no I don’t, I wish I could mildly inconvenience him somehow. I’m pisse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 04:35 PM
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I’m glad you are feeling better. Ahhh I had a feeling you were in my neck of the woods. This expensive, wet and rainy lowland country. Germany is better. A few months or a year off your target is way better than living minute to minute in an unfulfilling relationship and home life has a nasty way of creeping into our work or study life. As for him, Bel de politie, aub. Do it for your petty fellow expat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 04:27 PM
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It’s well written, research and experience that forms our dating strategy. Please read it. It’s just a few hours long. It will resonate and shock you, depending on where you are right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 04:17 PM
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A Queen has awoken... I’m grateful for a chance to guide and support you in this. The update(s) will not only help you vent but you’ll get feedback and confirm to you and silent others that you are worth it. We are more connected than you know! You do realize that he’s suffered the greater loss, right? He had an adoring, smart pretty girlfriend who was undemanding of him in bed and he was just coasting along in his entitlement and mediocrity that he was shocked you’d expect an orgasm from sex wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 04:09 PM
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Please stop. You are now hurting yourself. You realize that he doesn’t want you or like you and went to therapy to heal and you are getting yourself in line for worse treatment. Please sub to r/limerence and r/no contact to help you further. Have you read the group wiki on here? Please do so again. Dick is abundant and low value and you are the prize. There’s gonna be good advice here that’s gonna seem so hard to carry out and painful. It’s all well meaning. Please take it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 03:43 PM
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The same way you didn’t know he’s a woman hater is probably the same energy you should extend to the OP rather than assume she scraped the picture from somewhere and posted for his casual bashing here and then chide her. Extend the same grace. Nothing anti-FDS in asking but that is not all you did. Btw, I’m not a Newbie anymore. I’m a Disciple. 💅🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 03:35 PM
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Maybe I need help with my hormone levels or something. But I’ve NEVER had a guy talk, tickle, pay or otherwise stimulate me to the point of demanding a dick pick from him. Next to a guy turning violent/insulting after rejection, a dick pic is one of my serious OLD fears .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 03:21 PM
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First of all, I have no problem. My flair might say I’m a newbie to this sub, but that does not mean I haven’t read up on lead RPillers,MGTOWERs and PUA. I’m new here not to Matt Forney and his arguments. You were the one who was unaware and almost sounded like you were defending him; as if OP mindlessly found a fat man pic and copy pastad the DRIVEL HE PEDDLES onto a random fat dad who minds his business somewhere. Not so. That is why I said be fair, meaning act like a woman who has not encount…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 03:02 PM
1

🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:34 PM
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No negativity being projected on to him. Just look at him and be fair. Not even going to ask you to think like someone who discovered FDS today. What right does he have, in fairness, to demand that type of woman when he looks like this? Looks ARE part of being LVM. Men have just one hormone to contend with in their bodies: testosterone. It’s responsible for making men active, aggressive and muscular. He has not used it at all to his advantage. He doesn’t have the 2 women’s hormones playing seesa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 12:42 PM
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Oh Queen! 💯 You know we’re gonna need the update right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 12:02 PM
12

You react with a clinical and abrupt cutting him off. It is not normal. He’s disgusting, depraved and delusional!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 11:40 AM
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Gonna jump in the deep end here... Don’t forget Johnny depp. I’m miffed Dior made him their eau sauvage man. To be fair, I never got him but now it’s worse. And I love brooding, dark looks on a man.,Every time I see the billboard I think he needs a haircut, a 20 minute shower and to lock himself in a closet immediately after. But then I read this and I see the conspiracy. He’s pushing 50 ( or older?) and they’re trying to cram that sexy older man, fine wine ish down our throats. It’s not working…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 11:38 AM
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Sir, I said good day! Yessssss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 10:38 AM
14

I’m surprised he KNOWS the word aloof!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 10:29 AM
3

I have an iPhone 6 something that demands to be plugged in to instal some update at 2am every other week. This guy remembers interfaces from 2013?!?!?!?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 10:14 AM
5

Just die, grampa. Damn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 10:11 AM
3

I honor your resolve. And a world class grovel is the least he owes you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:40 PM
12

Higher up, higher up!💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 11:42 AM
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🥇🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 11:40 AM
4

This! This is why men have NO excuse not to bring A1 oral game and have progressively improving fingering skills. It could save their relationships, or keep them in one. I think I had a guy the size if my pinky or index finger. I will never know because we had sex in the dark and I never saw his naked frontal. Sex 5 times over 7 month period. He had a cast on one leg for 2 months and begged off sex because he got circumcised during his healing period and the last 2 months I was out of the countr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 06:58 AM
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Men are men. Ugly and awkward men too. Don’t settle or feel pity for an ugly man despite his initial charm and chivalry . Had one dare to tell me I wasn’t putting in as much effort to stay in touch. I thought “what the hell? What gives you the audacity to count and to expect me to chase you?” I was offended he wanted me to chase him, 13 years my senior, man boobs and ugly and I also thought he was acting entitled like he’s a 7 and up. But I learnt my lesson. It all comes from men’s entitlement a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 08:55 PM
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Take him at his word. If you stick around he has nothing to lose and nothing to prove because he’s been honest about his intentions. And you will hate yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 04:02 PM
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🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 03:59 PM
2

Tried to follow their reasoning. The HEADACHE I got!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 01:58 PM
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Thank you for your courage and your vulnerability entrusting us with the progress that you’ve made to become your best self and your healthiest self. It’s very high value to see where you like and not get defensive about it but to be very vicious and deliberating about how to get out of the trap and the rut that you found yourself in. I wish you well in your journey. Please continue to update us on your progress, it’ll also help you with accountability and strengthen and encourage other women wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 01:30 PM
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Your power is in realizing you are worth more. And it’s so awesome that you’ve awoken it. Drink it in and get drunk off it. The best is yet to come and continue employing FDS with your new guy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 01:07 PM
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My disvirginer ( can’t call it deflowering cause it was raped) tried to shame me for wanting to have sex more often. Said “ are you trying to catch up?” . To him? A “32” year old man who never gave me an orgasm? I would never want to catch up to mediocrity! Edited: Rapey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 12:40 PM
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Yeah, yes and Amen. Die Mad and Die Soon. PLEASE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 12:36 PM
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Thank you for your contribution. I thought a few times before adding that criterion because I knew it would be controversial but I decided to include it to get people talking and examining their own experiences with men like that. The 3 men I refer to in my own experience, which led me to this conclusion, were compulsive Romeos and are all in their second marriages before 35. All three take on responsibilities of paying college tuitions for cousins and half siblings, even living with them , stra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 06:55 PM
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There’s no real easy way to explain it without seeming a bit insensitive. But what I’ve discovered from experience, is men who haven’t met their dad have trouble modeling the higher qualities is expected in an HVM. They also seem to have chips on their shoulders. it’s hard being in a relationship with a man who doesn’t know how he’s supposed to present himself and at the same time be the HVW. You can end up having to raise him or play mommy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 04:46 PM
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has children below the age of 10 never travelled outside of his country -short -gut/ beer belly. For what? You have one hormone that keeps you active, I have 2 fighting for dominance every 14 days -his shoes, nails and smell are ugly and dirty, long and dirty, ripe and dirty in that order mama’s boy hates his mama never met his dad works in the same circles or industry. And ditto to all the previous posters!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 02:35 PM
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Don’t forget to light fragrant candles or wax burners during this time. Phone off too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 07:25 PM
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You read my life history there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 07:06 PM
10

I hear you, I see me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 07:03 PM
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My parents came up middle class from poor backgrounds by doing well in school. Had the four of us. And we are not ugly to look at. Here comes the guilt or trying to be humble despite doing better than their relatives, which they projected onto us. Growing up we were sheltered/ overprotected. And normal things other teenagers did like getting a fun hairdo or clothes shopping for the vacation we’re frowned upon by the parents. “ dad says girls who get x hair do are show offs, said my mom to me one…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 07:02 PM
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A hobosexual AND LVM! Why won’t men pick just one struggle?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 06:10 PM
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Manipulating straight up. You can’t meet after he does his zip by mom and pops party?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 01:39 PM
14

Just read their thread. Sad. Mad we hold solidarity and call each other sis and queen. Said it’s cringey. It’s simple: women are bitter and incel-ish the moment they gather to counter systematic attacks and being preyed on for sex. We become hags that were “ fuckzoned by Chad” for demanding respect. Pffft! They should extend their moratorium for good. We will keep our safe space here and they can do whatever it is they do over there. I know they’ll be lurking though....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 12:36 PM
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Agreed! And type out that dissertation, little by little please. Will devour it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 12:09 PM
14

He says “ you’re beautiful” expecting you to melt. You say “ I know. And today’s my off day” and shrug your shoulders or “yeah. You’re lucky”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 12:06 PM
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You are doing God’s work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 11:35 AM
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Thank you for your contribution. But you cannot guarantee nothing nor this being a tall tale. It was 2 girls, physio and occupational therapy. Dorm mate was doing the one girl’s hair, the girl who told it. An unexcitable, sensible girl who had come from a girls high school. She even said the words boy said as he fingered the cadaver but I’ve forgotten them. They had a sexual context. This was in 1999. I’m glad you take your dissection sessions with academic zeal and respect for the subject. I ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:22 AM
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So glad I didn’t even know about blue pill AND their sub. But I bet you anything theyre lurkey turkeys over here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 10:36 PM
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Take baby steps, ok You found this sub for a reason: you are ready to put in the work. We are all learning here after being burnt. Some of us virgins before marriage, some of us were pickmeishas, some of us even tried to be the cool girl that went with the flow. That’s what makes this sub a treasure. I’m proud of you. Articulating yourself so well in English, going to school to work in a demanding field and for realizing you’ve been sold a shitty bill of goods . Now to turn that angst into somet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 10:33 PM
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It is disrespectful. He couldn’t wait till oh, NOT the day you come back from hospital after a bad accident that could have killed you and the baby? Does Jaegermeister or Coors only hit the spot in a bar and can’t be drunk at home? Nah. I get it too. It’s “ here, now you’re home, so I’m good to do what I want. I won’t be seen as a jackass if I go drinking with my bros now instead of while your injured and in hospital.” Men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 03:41 PM
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You ain’t never lied!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 03:21 PM
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Edit * male not make students
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 12:51 PM
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He’s a non-factor. Unavailable, dodgy and you don’t do platonic friends. Rise above!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 11:47 AM
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I will never forget my first year in college when I discovered medical students routinely learn on cadavers. All the dentistry, physiotherapy, medicine, nursing, occupational therapy had 2?or 3 common courses in first year. What stands out even more in my memory is being told make students would unashamedly finger female cadavers during group work. Even as dead bodies, donated to science we are not safe, dignified or protected. I’m so glad I’m alive at this moment in history where more girls and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 11:28 AM
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That’s why a block on everything is so EMPOWERING. It’s reminding him of this truth. And that he will never again have what limited access he had to you in the first place, because you let him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 10:23 AM
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For Fucks sake, no male human over 25 should spray Axe deodorant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 04:26 PM
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Why go back to lurking though? I appreciate your contribution. I do see the sacrificing those Disney princess made for their men. Look at Tiana kissing a frog and Ariel losing her voice. There’s a LOT to be gleaned from Disney princesses, whole PhD theses and just because one woman sees your view differently doesn’t mean you should deny the world of your contribution. These characters are not linear so there isnt just one aspect of FDS they teach and you did not oversimplify them. Elsa, in the m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 04:16 PM
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The nerve!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 02:11 PM
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🥇🥈🥉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 11:55 AM
1

Fist bump! The nerve of this man child. This will be my approach from now on. Confront and dump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 12:32 AM
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You hit the nail on the head! Spent their younger years probably stringing women along, raw sexing by the dozens and now wants to use a younger woman to tick off a box. Nope! Younger women, if you have to breed do it with a man your age who is treating having children as a priority. Imagine being in your 30s getting your 13 year daughter aspirin and a heating pad for her period pains and having to make sure her 59 year old dad has taken his blood pressure, gout and arthritis medicine within a sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 09:45 PM
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I think Tinder is like a rite of passage in OLD. Every woman should go through it. Some of the things taught here will only make sense when you have had to try them out. Incrementally, you will learn to weed out LVM without getting involved with them. Swipe right on the ones that attract you. Then go through their profiles implementing FDS viciously. Empty profiles, dad bods,boring write ups, fuckboy photo angles etc. Unmatching, left swiping train your mind rejecting LVM behavior in the early s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 08:56 PM
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Said a random pornsick , death gripped man 25+ “Play with it a little . Get me hard.” Nah, sir. That’s how you this problem in the first place. Not my monkeys, not my circus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 08:30 PM
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How do you deal with this? Obviously not gonna comfort him so do you agree he’s an ass/ jerk and tell him how lucky he is? Because they think when they say this they’re absolved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 06:15 PM
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I can 99% predict a profile is blank just by the picture. I wish there was a betting league somewhere, I'd be banned. I'm mutant level 5 at this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 05:06 PM
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Updates his OLD profile after a date with you. He’s the one who thinks he can do better. Help him. Block and delete!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 09:10 AM
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Goes back to the research that someone posted here earlier. Men have unrealistic standards for their looks. If he describes himself as average, he’s hideous. So if I’m generous, this “ridiculously good looking” man could be above average. He would need a full glam team to give him a hair cut, beard shaping and a conceited, coked-up Vogue or Harpers Bazaar level photographer with a foot-long $5000 lens and 14 photo lights that take a union member electrician 6 hours to set up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 06:42 PM
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Oh poor baby is BUTT HURT ha ha ha. And it’s you womenz who do wrong all the time. Men are really disposable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 04:25 PM
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Men are disposable. In this case , the trash took itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 09:21 AM
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Fist bump and my best wishes to you for your recovery and leveling up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 09:06 AM
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Sis, I read the comments. They’re not in recovery, they’re missionaries!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 06:51 AM
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This! Thank you. Quibbling over the word “ dispose” is not HVW behavior. If you compare the feeling these women who’ve gone through fights with uncaring exes who were cold to them and my girl had to beg for “ basic human kindness” and the other writes about not wanting to be with a man she has to “ change and direct” you’d see semantics don’t matter when you just need to throw the whole man away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 06:46 AM
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I’ve ignored/ not even opened “ it’s a nice rainy afternoon. Do you want to make love? It’s the perfect weather for that” text messages before hoping it would send clues. But alas, you have to be brutal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 04:23 AM
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You can begin again, sis. Now you will guard your worth and not let a man who can’t walk his talk waste your time. I tell myself I’ve paid dues and I’m getting mine. It feels so good to stand up for yourself and demand better. And to be in a position to receive better when it comes 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 10:26 PM
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We ghost and block readily. This is our strategy. We trust our instincts and intuition. Dick is low value and in (annoying) abundance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 05:43 PM
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Sis, a few months ago a man from back home showed his ass on Facebook. He went live complaining that it was Sunday and his wife’s day off from work but she’d gotten up and went to church and now it’s midday. This was a dig that on her day off instead of being home cooking a greasy breakfast for his hangover with a dash of mediocre morning sex, she was being selfish by attending to her spiritual needs / doing what SHE wanted. He went to the fridge and there were Tupperware dishes. One was full of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 05:38 PM
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Thank you for this detailed, niche post. Got me thinking and checking myself. Thankfully I’m in Europe and the FOB men from my country are 1 in 100k and the larger number of these men are from another part of Africa that I would not touch even if I was still in the motherland. Before coming here, I told myself and family echoed this, that I can’t be moving 20k miles for “more of the same”. That firmly brother zoned men from the continent and left me to deal with the shenanigans from these tall W…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 05:02 PM
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“Polite over safe”. Resonates!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 04:45 PM
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You mean it didn’t work, right? Sis, I’m gonna sound mean but what did you expect? FDS is not a magic wand but a strategy to guide you through the pitfalls of LVM and women accepting their offerings of turds as if they’re Tiffany diamonds. A broad strategy; there will be variables like mental health and outliers like men who don’t require use of the strategy for them to deliver and men you don’t even want to use it on. This man’s mental health is HIS and his responsibility. FDS teaches us to loo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 05:48 PM
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No sis, just no. You have a LOT of reading to do. Go to the pinned post asap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 08:43 AM
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This is why I block on everything. Leaving no chances. I have to. I’m a sucker for love and an empath. I’d rather hurt like hell for a while than deal with trying to ignore the low effort attempts. I have to tell myself “ girl, he dead!” They have to send me snail mail maybe if they want to reach out. Or bump into me but good luck with that cause I have RBF to the gawds and my ignore game is Olympic level. Enough! Just die mofos!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 08:21 AM
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I enjoyed the details and information. I’m 40 next year and I remembered so much of my teens just reading this. You need to chime in more on the discussions we have here. The divide between the 60+ women who didn’t have pornified sickos to contend with and just dreaded a course of anti biotics vs what tweens and women up to 50 deal with is staggering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 09:40 AM
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Had a casual thing with a man in his 40s. I suspect he had a line up of women. Our first time he asks me if I wanted a condom or I was on birth control. Condom for 500,Alex. He came in 30 pumps tops, after he’d asked me not to move a few times. Second time, after necking for 20 or so minutes, he pumped and pumped and I got BORED 😑. Tells me “I can go on forever”. You know I would have rationalized it and tried to make it work if Tinder hadn’t sent me a ping that he’d updated his profile a few da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 08:03 PM
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Hugs,Queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 10:10 AM
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I saw myself in you. It’s something I needed to ask myself too. Blocked a man in October after he’d been ghosting me and turning up to arrange a date or shag on the very day. I hate that I “ played it cool” , didn’t ask him why he’d done that the first time ( after he’d updated his Tinder profile) and I should have blocked him the first time. Damn his sex was trash too. Never again. And certainly not you too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 12:34 AM
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I didn’t want to be mean but eff it: Girl, do you love yourself?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 01:43 PM
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Anyone notice how he keeps tabs on the sub AND members?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 12:03 PM
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Barf!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 11:59 AM
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I come from a culture that trains/initiates young women with “bed dancing” or waist and pelvis motions or twerking for marriage. Men either go crazy for initiated women or hate them because we can tell faster than an untrained woman that the sex is wack. I live in Europe and I swore to myself I would not unleash any of my moves until a man proposes to me, gives me a ring and sets a date. Also, because sex is largely uninspiring unless it’s oral, so my moves have no match. Men learn their moves f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 11:41 AM
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No, sir. Infact, NEVER!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 09:55 AM
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Anyone in Europe or Benelux know phone apps we can use here? Google voice numbers only work for the U.S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 12:09 AM
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Are you in the Netherlands?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 11:10 AM
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