If guys have anything, it’s unearned confidence. Ladies, build up your self esteem!

PossibleCook · 2020-01-04T05:12:56+00:00

Lol I remember a dude who has like that, but more overweight and balding and one day he sent me a picture of him naked in his messy room. He looked like he just woke up, the rest of his hair on head looked very awkward and he also looked like he didn't wash for days.. 'And he was like "tell me I'm handsome I know you like it"... And while I am not the kind degrade others bodies, I was still blunt with him because I thought the arrogance was too much.

Even when I told I didn't like his pic, he was like "I don't see why you don't like it"...

Some men really lack self awareness. They probably have a mental disease or sthg cuz the narcissism is mind blowing.

SimpleSyrups · 2020-01-04T04:36:08+00:00

I’m attempting to come up with a mental picture of a woman desperate enough to go for this. It’s difficult.

airhostess_inthe60s · 2020-01-04T05:05:17+00:00

Oh My!! * Fans self * Where can I get in touch with this fine specimen of a man?

dopesoaprope · 2020-01-04T04:29:55+00:00

His shower rod is missing the rod part?

I feel like there's a joke to be made here.

EDIT: Just got a message mansplaining what a towel bar is, because I mistakenly said "shower rod." He included a couple jokes, though. WHAT A NICE GUY lol

jewdy09 · 2020-01-04T05:33:24+00:00

Ladies, how many of you truly enjoy a huge dick? I prefer an average to above average dick.

120492ksj · 2020-01-04T06:59:05+00:00

Where do they even get this kind of confidence

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2020-01-04T07:28:33+00:00

It's almost like for every unit of unnecessary and undeserved female insecurity, there's an equal and opposite unit of unearned male confidence and entitlement.

Like vampires...

Scotsburd · 2020-01-04T08:19:45+00:00

He's way too young to feel proud of that Dad bod. Lay off the booze and eat some vegetables Jay.

SslimReaperr · 2020-01-04T06:15:12+00:00

Okay but why is this? Like why are ugly, fat, unsuccessful men SO confident??? Who let them get this way?

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2020-01-04T08:09:12+00:00

The way their pea-brain works is just baffling!

Knowing he is completely and totally out of shape and deciding to post a SHIRTLESS profile pic. The audacity! What exactly is he advertising? Stomach flab and Twinkie fingers?

Who would even touch his dirty limp pant worm with a ten foot pole? 🤢 🤮

sparkles_goldentail · 2020-01-04T05:33:51+00:00

Sies🤮 men can be so yuck🤢

OsamaBenLadle · 2020-01-04T07:57:31+00:00

I bet he works as a cook at Denny’s.

perhapsbutnottoday · 2020-01-04T11:18:28+00:00

Dad bod and dirty mirror clearly visible. Do I dare take him up so I end up on antibiotics for what's not seen (but can be smelled from the picture)? Not on your Nelly!

szsunshine · 2020-01-04T14:36:12+00:00

Is he over-confident or as women are we under-confident? (Body wise - I’m more repulsed by his messy and in need of repair bathroom than I am by his body).

I’m in better shape than that guy, but would never post like that because of the extra weight (“I’m too faaaaaat!”) and lack of muscle tone that I have. However, if a woman with a similar BMI to that guy posted a shot and “come and get it” caption (in a clean bathroom), I’d applaud her for being body positive. Of course there are men who would shame a body positive woman for her excess weight, but a quality man would not. If he were high value and her weight didn’t suit him, he’d just move on. Any negative men she could ignore and allow the trash to sort itself out.

(PS: I am married so don’t use dating apps and am clueless about whether he is violating “norms” of these sites.....I’m just commenting on his weight and confidence).

aclumsygirl · 2020-01-04T15:28:47+00:00

I'm literally repulsed by this guy's dirty, flabby body. It's fucking gross. I work out hard, eat clean and take care of myself. I wouldn't even want this guy delivering my food 🤮

Ms_Tilly · 2020-01-04T15:39:00+00:00

Oh my god that mirror🤢 This looks like 9/10 profiles on dating apps and yet they wonder why they don't get matches or messages

2020-01-05T04:56:18+00:00

Title	If guys have anything, it’s unearned confidence. Ladies, build up your self esteem!
Author	rainbowcatsurprise
Upvotes	135
Comments	50
Date	January 4, 2020 3:55 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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