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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | 😂😂 she got him goodShe needs to teach me how to be funny and snappy like that omf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 04:20 AM |
| 8 | Damn, men are lying on tinderI not only deleted my tinder to refrain from going back, but I did it for this exact thing. Since I had myself as “bisexual” and then “lesbian” on there, I still found myself with a plethora of catfish as well as men who have this narcissistic idea that their penis will turn me, completely. Tinder is a good app in idea, but action it is terrible. I can understand using photos from when you had blonde hair or you didn’t have this particular piercing, but drastic changes in how one looks is very d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 08:10 AM |
| 10 | I just cut things off permanently with a man who kept me on the line for over 2 years.Id say, “didn’t we know the same person?” But this shit is what a whopping chunk of what men do anyways. I’m so happy that you aren’t letting someone like that be a part of your life. You deserve a beautiful life around wonderful people that prove they’re worth it. Fuck that guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 01:26 AM |
| 13 | If you’re wondering why this sub is female only, you’re most likely part of the reason why (irrelevantly found on a post asking about disturbing, NSFW subreddits)I skimmed his profile. I know lmao. So you can imagine how annoyed I am with myself because I wasted energy to argue with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 05:51 PM |
| 62 | If you’re wondering why this sub is female only, you’re most likely part of the reason why (irrelevantly found on a post asking about disturbing, NSFW subreddits)Can we talk about the plethora of incel subs? Lmaoooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 08:09 AM |
| 49 | If you’re wondering why this sub is female only, you’re most likely part of the reason why (irrelevantly found on a post asking about disturbing, NSFW subreddits)To me, it’s like they only intrude because they don’t like it when women are feeling comfortable. They also want to feel validated and boost their egos. I’m sure they also think that their passion for women’s rights will make them significantly more attractive. Even though all they do is show that they are attempting to mansplain on women’s matters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 08:09 AM |
| 90 | If you’re wondering why this sub is female only, you’re most likely part of the reason why (irrelevantly found on a post asking about disturbing, NSFW subreddits)I am in a couple of inclusive subs, and they don’t dig as much into woman stuff as much as female-exclusive subs. It’s because they’re speaking to someone that cannot sympathize with them. They can empathize, but they’re still going to understand women in a different capacity. Their brains are not wired like a woman’s brain. And they don’t face the fear like say walking home alone. This is why it’s important to allow people facing the same adversity to have a safe space. It’s hard to trust someo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 08:06 AM |
| 61 | If you’re wondering why this sub is female only, you’re most likely part of the reason why (irrelevantly found on a post asking about disturbing, NSFW subreddits)Go check out my comment history and just watch the shitshow. He just claimed I wasn’t a feminist and he was even though he can’t respect women’s boundaries. It’s only okay to respect a woman’s boundaries as long as she’s not seeking advice about men apparently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 07:14 AM |
| 1 | My own twin is a LVMI don’t think he uses Reddit. But he certainly plays a lot of fortnite and CoD. But other social media platforms like twitter and tiktok may play a part. If he’s liking misogynist things on TikTok especially, his for you page will be riddled with his follows as well as new, sexist content. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 03:48 AM |
| 33 | This sub <3This sub creates powerful women. If you talked to me like seven months ago, You’d see I was a whipped, empty shell of a pickme. You’d see I really thought that I had to constantly be with someone despite how sad they made me. I cared more about pleasing a man who wouldn’t do the same for me. I’m so glad I’ve found this place when I was at a lower point in my life. 🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 06:55 PM |
| 20 | My own twin is a LVMI wish he could. The last time he did that, my brother screamed at him saying he doesn’t love him. My dad really does try. My brother acts like a troubled, twelve year old that you find on Dr. Phil. He’s the one convincing my mom to kick his mooching ass out. He tries to sit down to have heart to hearts, but my brother ignores him. My dad had a family meeting about some issues (particularly this one) two weeks ago. He was tearing up and explaining how he’s disappointed in my brother’s attitude a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 06:55 AM |
| 7 | My own twin is a LVMIt is not an excuse- it’s just a logical reason behind their thinking. It is possible to change their viewpoint. It is possible to change how they think. If women are able to take a step back and say, “Hey, I don’t think we are being treated right,” and work to change how we treat society and men, then it should work the other way. It starts simply as not encouraging Philip to pull that girl’s braids. To tell Bradley that purple nails look better than red. To tell Wesley that if Sarah checked “n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 03:37 AM |
| 11 | My own twin is a LVMI shouldn’t have been shocked he has these views, but it hits different when it is someone that you shared a womb with. Men have sisters yet still have only interest in themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 03:31 AM |
| 9 | My own twin is a LVMI can understand it takes a bit of time for guys to understand the huge impact of their words and actions. Boys do take longer to develop than girls. But I feel like they should still at least consider the feelings of a girl. Just a little bit. Just enough to understand that thinking a girl deserves assault is not okay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 02:45 AM |
| 20 | My own twin is a LVMI rather be a misandrist than to blame someone for being assaulted/abused. He disrespects my mom who has bent over backwards for him for years. He disrespected me knowing i just came out of an abusive relationship over five months ago, r*ped three years ago, and all the harassment in the middle. He knows this, but still has these claims. Why am I the pathetic misandrist when I’m going to school and working a job in public in which I’m learning more and more about how systematic misogyny is or ju… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 02:21 AM |
| 17 | My own twin is a LVMMy mom is a strong feminist. For the most part. She’s always taught us respect, consent, safe sex, empathy, hardwork, loyalty, etc. i do love my mom a lot. My dad does struggle with accepting that sexual assault is more than just r*ped. Over the years, he did to from an abusive misogynist to a caring father. He almost beat a predator’s ass for me, but ya know jail. He doesn’t tell us how to dress, he gives us privacy, he also always assures me that it’s not my fault if something happens to me. H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 02:15 AM |
| 17 | Stop Calling Men "HVM" after two or three datesFortunately for some people, it takes two, training days LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 10:05 PM |
| 24 | Stop Calling Men "HVM" after two or three datesI do think it’s as possible to see green flags in a man just as red flags early in any sort of relationship. While you may be seeing positive things, one must always be on the lookout. That constant focus on the good things could make you miss out on seeing tiny, red flags. I think this post is important to teach to especially, younger women. They constantly cherrypick for good things in men under this systematic belief that they HAVE to find love at a young age. When they drop their guard, then… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 10:04 PM |
| 24 | A cautionary tale of an “abuse victim” who was, in reality, a sexually abusive manipulator.If I recall the statistic accurately (it is rightfully a very low number) only about 3% of abuse/assault accusations are false. But the amount of people that disbelieve any accusation is honestly like 75% (not a real statistic, but one I learned from my own life lol). It’s hard for actual abuse/assault victims to be upfront because a lot of these instances are private. It becomes “he said, she said” even if this girl shows evidence of abuse. Like wtf! Also, we live in a society where men aren’t … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 08:38 PM |
| 10 | Support our sisters: who here has been the victim of “accidental” anal sex? I suspect it’s more common than we think.I’m sorry, but is objectifying you and disregarding your pain tolerance really worth going on a trip with him? I don’t think this is something to be proud of given the violation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 09:03 AM |
| 11 | Support our sisters: who here has been the victim of “accidental” anal sex? I suspect it’s more common than we think.I’m going to put this on a shirt. I’m so sick of men using that excuse. There is no way to mistake an asshole to a vagina. Maybe from the fact that a vagina literally has layers, a different texture, etc. a butthole feels so course and dry. The only way I can see the mistake is if a man is so so bad at pleasing women that he’s never felt a wet vagina | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 09:00 AM |
| 6 | Support our sisters: who here has been the victim of “accidental” anal sex? I suspect it’s more common than we think.Oh, so he r*ped you and attempted to gaslight you? Fucking typical of those pornfreaks. Good people that deserve to be in your life are the ones to do a doubletake and tell him that he’s a criminal. The people that side with him are either pickmeishas that project insecurities onto you or douchebags that would pull that same shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 08:57 AM |
| 13 | Support our sisters: who here has been the victim of “accidental” anal sex? I suspect it’s more common than we think.One or two fingers that are only a couple inches in is incomparable to a 5-7 inched penis with some girth going inside. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 08:55 AM |
| 9 | Support our sisters: who here has been the victim of “accidental” anal sex? I suspect it’s more common than we think.Unless an asshole secretes lube or some shit, you’ll know if your peepee is wandering near the dirt road. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 08:53 AM |
| 21 | Support our sisters: who here has been the victim of “accidental” anal sex? I suspect it’s more common than we think.When I lost my virginity, it wasn’t a special time. I was actually r*ped in my ass. I thought I was losing my virginity to a special guy I cared about. It didn’t matter we weren’t dating. He always seemed cordial, spunky, etc. but I was fooled. We were doing the deed in his brother’s car and he kept asking to put it in. I kept saying no. I just lost my virginity for god’s sake so why would I want anal?! He still did it anyways. I kept saying stop and that it hurt. He refused to stop, finished in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 08:52 AM |
| 5 | When an LVM is your therapistI rarely see male therapists recommended in my area. Which I’m glad. Here’s the thing about knowledge. Anyone of any gender can learn science or math. Anyone can learn that “depression is this” or “the hippocampus works like this”. This is concrete science. But women have the special ability to go behind black and white and explore the emotions beyond the facts. They go deeper into psychology than any man can dream of. Their knowledge is only what is written in a textbook. My old therapist immen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:12 AM |
| 5 | Why do men think this shit is okay?Tell him he’s the type of man that likes to cry about how shitty women are on 4chan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 08:56 AM |
| 5 | When an LVM is your therapistGuess what therapist? OP IS a queen. No matter how licensed they are, it is much more comforting to go to a therapist of the same gender. No matter the degrees, no man will ever be able to understand how emotionally intelligent women are. The feminist theory in philosophy pretty much says, “Yeah! Scientifically, our brains are wired to be more emotional. But guess what? That shifts our moral compass to be better as well as makes us more empathetic to others. Acknowledge it as a strength that we … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 08:15 AM |
| 16 | She had 2 babies.I consider this assault. Consent is literally in a spectrum. Can just consent to nothing. You can consent up to kissing, up to cuddling, up to second base, up to sex, up to butt stuff if you’re feeling it. The line is placed down the minute one partner says no to it or even decides to stop during it. Pregnancy is part of that consent ladder. Unless she specifically tells you she wants a child, you are to use precaution. If an accident happens, let her decide on what to do, next. If you are attem… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 07:18 PM |
| 47 | She had 2 babies.And they’re so good at gaslighting that it’s literally their niche. My old friend was getting hit, r*ped, called so many slurs with her husband. He was so bad that she couldn’t even pick out her own clothes to wear. I said something one day. I said, “do YOU know you’re being abused?” She told me, “I do, but I love him. I’m the only one that can take it.” Two years later, she’s still putting up with it. With how her father or men have treated her, she believes that it’s okay. She is a firm believ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 07:13 PM |
| 9 | She had 2 babies.What... what did he expect when you have two, small kids? What I’m concerned about is having to infer that he originally expected the woman to take care of the kids while he probably went off to the bar with his “work friends”. The one not making time is him!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Purple pill debate pickmeisha mod bans me for standing up against a wife beater wtf.Did he just really... just compare abusing his wife to her not being compliant? That comment he just said screams he could potentially hurt her to the verge of death or even kill her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 08:36 AM |
| 46 | Keep an eye on r/seduction the "pick up artist" subreddit. You need to know the new "tricks" they plot to manipulate women.That was probably the cringiest pickup story I’ve ever read. “Yeah... I know I treated you like shit and I could totally bang these hot chicks over you, but I’m desperate since porn just doesn’t do it for me. Do you want to come back to my room for two minutes and three seconds of disappointment?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 05:47 AM |
| 52 | Keep an eye on r/seduction the "pick up artist" subreddit. You need to know the new "tricks" they plot to manipulate women.That’s why you see men on social media that always talk about their attraction to girls with unresolved mental issues. They say, “Oh I’m just attracted to the aesthetic” or “they always come to me!” No, they don’t. LVM come to them. LVM manipulate them by cherry picking some quality that they don’t really care about just to make those girls more vulnerable. They know there’s some void that girl wants filled and by god will they squeeze into that void like a damn magic trick. If that girl even fi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 05:44 AM |
| 27 | Keep an eye on r/seduction the "pick up artist" subreddit. You need to know the new "tricks" they plot to manipulate women.I took a quick scroll and I’m like 82% sure it’s just some incels that base their “advice” not on experience and success, but on stereotypes they conjure in their mind. “Wanna come to my house for a first date?” “You actually have to come out of your mom’s basement and pick me up, first.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 05:39 AM |
| 18 | LVMs standards for women vs pickmeishas standards for menHe’s the same man to tell women to shave their hoo-hahs, but yet he can’t shave the pubes on his face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 05:34 AM |
| 9 | Don't send nudes. EVER.Hence why I agree with this wholeheartedly. It’s not empowering at all when you’re really just giving a dude free bullets for a gun he’s gonna shoot you with. And the Subaru part btw? Nice touch 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 04:51 PM |
| 16 | Don't send nudes. EVER.It’d be empowering if guys weren’t so obsessed with control and objectifying women. They oversexualize even someone in a spacesuit. But I wish sixteen year old me knew this since I had mine leaked before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 03:54 PM |
| 6 | "but I love him..." is never an excuse to settle for garbageYou damn right I am. A lot of help came from this sub. I hope that if this girl comes to her senses that she knows she can seek out this sub to help her on her journey. From the looks of it, it may take a while as what she said about her boyfriend is so explicitly abusive, but decisions and self worth are so clouded at these young ages with all these toxic expectations that have been drilled into our heads since children. With the societal expectation that a woman HAS to have children no matter … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 05:57 AM |
| 15 | "but I love him..." is never an excuse to settle for garbageThat’s hella more accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 05:31 AM |
| 8 | Imagine being in a relationship with this guy 💩“For wanting to find you attractive”. “It’s gay”. Okay okay, so are we throwing away that you’re suppose to love, encourage, and see your partner as beautiful 24/7? It is not an obligation for us to be made up and sexy every second! I’m going to bed to sleep. You’re going to bed to sleep. We are not going to bed to solely just have sex. And way to throw some homophobia in there. That is stereotypical as hell. I guess you can’t expect much from a pig that already thinks his girlfriend has to be l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 03:17 AM |
| 14 | "but I love him..." is never an excuse to settle for garbageLiterally me months ago. I used the “but, mom, I love him!” So many times after so many days where I’d come home with dead and puffy, red eyes. Just waiting for my hell to be over. She knocked some good, ole sense into me. I do think this girl will find her way out. I sure did. One day, she will wake up and realize that this man isn’t her only shot at love. At that, it’s better to have no shot at all than to be stuck living in purgatory with a man that uses you as a personal servant. The world i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 03:12 AM |
| 13 | "but I love him..." is never an excuse to settle for garbageSo this man just broadly admitted that when he decides he wants kids, he will do whatever it takes to get his way. He just admitted there is a good chance he’ll poke holes in condoms, ejaculate inside of her (with or without her knowing), prevent her from any means of termination whether its Plan B or an abortion, and pretty much going as far as to r*pe her. You may love him, but he doesn’t love you. And if he so-call “loves you”, he just loves his build-a-woman fantasy of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 03:07 AM |
| 6 | "but I love him..." is never an excuse to settle for garbageWhat was the original ending going to be? Lol, that movie definitely isn’t my favorite Disney Princess movie, anyways | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 03:04 AM |
| 6 | Riddle me thisI do don’t I? And I have a wonderful partner that shows me I know better. I really appreciate you guys for listening to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:44 AM |
| 4 | Riddle me thisI agree. She use to be so strong and so independent no matter who locked arms with her. I wish I could see her eyes again. She’s staying because of a child she’s bringing into the world. She’s told me horror stories of black eyes and bruises and police calls, but yet she’s stuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:22 AM |
| 17 | Riddle me thisI have a reputation. I’ve always had a hard time saying no or cutting toxic people out of my life. Well I definitely don’t now lmaoooo. Nonetheless, I always was one of those tomboys. I usually had guy friends. I was first touched inappropriately at eleven years old by my childhood friend at the same age. Then it went to catcalling. Then to being leered by old dudes at Buffalo Wild Wings. Then it’s the random D-pics on Kik. Then sexual assault at 15, r*pe at 17, the story I said at 19, stalking … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:21 AM |
| 3 | Riddle me thisI don’t want to believe that. I really don’t. My ex was apparently this quiet guy that never really talked to girls. I was his first, legit relationship. But if that’s how he’s going to treat his first girlfriend, he definitely has hella learning to do. Nonetheless I don’t doubt he has talked to other women. So, I do wonder if he has scared women off with his actions/words. He currently has found himself a woman he’s going on dates with. We know I’m categorized as the psycho ex. Hopefully that a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:14 AM |
| 7 | Riddle me thisHence why I regret even staying with that LVM shithead longer than I should. I told my girlfriend about this repressed memory (as well as my abuse since this is my first relationship after my ex) and she responded that I never deserved that. She said she’d beat both of their asses. It’s so hard for me to accept that I deserve this. I’ve been so beaten down by the patriarchy that it feels so new that someone would actually respond to me like a human being. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:11 AM |
| 9 | Riddle me thisSo America is not that far off from Latin America. Nice. Patriarchy has also taught men to be deaf to what a woman has to say. It has taught to be apathetic to the struggles of a woman. And it’s hard for us to show just how awful sexual assault and victim shaming is when we ourselves would rarely cross that territory. The amount of men actually harassed/assaulted by women is so small, that my knowledge of that minuscule statistic of male assault comes from online. The only stories I’ve heard of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:09 AM |
| 8 | Riddle me thisThank you for this article! It’ll really help me be more enlightened to this situation <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:00 AM |
| 11 | Riddle me thisShe’s doing that rn sadly with her own self. She’s in a not so great relationship currently and she’s sticking because of that. It does suck because she taught me the exact opposite. But all I hope is one day she’ll open her eyes to the same advice she gave all of us, her friends from her heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 07:59 AM |
| 3 | A pet peeve of mineI’m only worried that I may see him again since maybe he didn’t hear what restaurant i worked at correctly. Hopefully if that day ever comes, he 200% took the obvious hint laid out in front of him that just because I’m nice, doesn’t mean I’m a straight, single woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 07:16 PM |
| 8 | A pet peeve of mineI get men have a difficult time processing friendliness, but there are certain situations where I cannot fathom how it’s remotely possible to misinterpret motives. Not even just between one boy and one girl, but how a group of boys interpret a relationship outside of the conversation. For two years, the boys at my high school believed my gay friend who was very OPEN about being gay was with me. How that was interpreted as a relationship, I don’t even know. Honestly, I shouldn’t even need to pull… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Is shoving your girlfriend physical abuse?I mentioned that abuse at any stage always says it can and will get worse. Same with assault. Same exact thing. Maybe we should all be only a BIT relieved that there wasn’t penetration. But guess what we get to do with this shit experience, anyways? We have to make sure to resolve it so a woman does not end up eventually rped anyways. If he’s willing to pull down the shirts of women and then we already got this incompetent police system, you know damn well this perpetrator is a rpist. He ignored… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Is shoving your girlfriend physical abuse?That’s a pro gamer move. But your ex sounds like a damn child. You know, it really hits you like a ton of bricks when things you’ve repressed suddenly flood out of the back of your mind. But it’s important these stuff come to light as they make it easier to move on. They remind you that you’re leaving a dark place and to keep going. I actually had an epiphany myself, too. I was talking to my mom and she was asking me why I left my ex with her at a restaurant. I ran out crying that day. I couldn’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Is shoving your girlfriend physical abuse?Abuse comes in steps. It’s a staircase. No matter how many steps you go up, it’s leading to a floor of abuse. No step changes what floor you are going to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 09:42 AM |
| 5 | Is shoving your girlfriend physical abuse?He says she got a fresh bruise from something else? Yeah, it sure fits when the bruises match where you laid hands on her, Bradley. The escalation part is scary. Him saying that that’s not abuse only screams that he will show her his definition of abuse. I’m worried that he’ll try to come after her now in order to escalate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 09:38 AM |
| 3 | Is shoving your girlfriend physical abuse?It always leave room to let you know that it will get worse. Just knowing you’re around someone with the potential to do worse is enough to leave. I rather hear someone tell me, “I got out before he could do worse damage than what was done” rather than someone tell me they got out as they’re covered with bruises and blood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Is shoving your girlfriend physical abuse?Is he really trying to say it’s not that bad. Yeah, he’s right it could be worse. But he’s also saying he can do worse. And that he will do worse. “Simple” things like grabbing or pushing are always red flags. He sees being physical as a way to break your will. To tell you that you cannot fight him so you as might as well submit to him. And if you try to stand your ground, he’s going to establish “dominance” in even more depraved ways. He believes instilling fear by telling you that there can be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 09:34 AM |
| 18 | What it really means when they say they "hate too much makeup"Natural face is beautiful. Made up face is beautiful. It’s all about what one feels makes them the most confident. He had no reason to tell you that. I mean I cake on dark makeup for my aesthetic, but I don’t want to talk or be around people that expect me to make up my face for them. He found himself a girl that luckily makes up her face just the way he wants to. Why couldn’t he compliment your skin? A lot of people would kill for skin they don’t need to conceal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 07:31 PM |
| 50 | What it really means when they say they "hate too much makeup"Remember these same dudes that say that will then make comments on how the girl that doesn’t wear makeup needs more makeup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 04:54 PM |
| 4 | Listen up ButtercupCash for weed 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 07:26 AM |
| 33 | Amen.Ahhhh everyday, this sub makes me more and more comfortable of accepting I don’t need someone to make me happy. It makes it so much easier to handle my current relationship tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 08:48 PM |
| 21 | Listen up ButtercupGee I hope so lmao. I’ll share | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 08:49 AM |
| 46 | Listen up ButtercupWhat do you think he’d put in the bag when I tell him my favorite color is green 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 06:27 AM |
| 3 | I don’t want to, but I am really starting to hate men.This is why I’m sticking to women. But whomever I’m dating, I have learned to not sign up that I’ll be marrying them. I’ve learned to keep an exit door open. Even if I don’t end up using it, it still retains my independence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 02:46 AM |
| 3 | I don’t want to, but I am really starting to hate men.We are officially making your partner the poster child of a HVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 11:06 PM |
| 39 | I don’t want to, but I am really starting to hate men.I don’t want to be a misandrist, but it’s so hard not to when it’s just women trying to progress for equality and the amount of men that actually are awesome and want to support us is so marginalized. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 11:05 PM |
| 15 | I don’t want to, but I am really starting to hate men.Oh you are so right. I have been through so much trauma with men and I’m only twenty. I was already struggling with how I feel sexually about men, but boy did my ex LVM make sure that I lose full attraction to men. Maybe it’s my hormones and character settling down since I’m older, but I can’t say that manipulation and trauma had nothing to do with it. Finding men is like the lottery. You know you have a shot at 1m, but the chances are so low that you decide to settle for that $10 scratchoff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 11:04 PM |
| 12 | I don’t want to, but I am really starting to hate men.Women are super amazing because we can go our whole life without depending on a man. Whereas a man needs someone to get his rocks off (or he thinks) and needs someone to “do all the housework”. Ironically they’re the ones that whine, “You need me!” When he can’t get his ass off the couch to grab his beer. I’m young, but there are many girls I know who’ve already settled down. I’ve seen some of those girls with bruises, who wear damn parkas at some point to cover up. They have these dead eyes and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 11:01 PM |
| 53 | Lisa Bonet (51) and Jason Momoa (40) together for 14 years. He said he’s been in love with her since he was 8 years old.They look like gods sitting on Olympus. Well gods without all the mythological drama lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 06:41 PM |
| 7 | Pickmeisha gets owned! [From r/technicallythetruth]Here’s a good piece of information that was taught to me by my professor. We were reading Matrimony which is a feminist work about why women shouldn’t marry. Anyways, some student asked why women take the husband’s last names. So my teacher explains that women taking last names was not meant to be a symbol of unity as much as it meant that the woman is now “owned” by her man. It was really a symbol of a family giving off their daughter to be claimed as property. When she takes his last name, it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 02:27 AM |
| 25 | If guys have anything, it’s unearned confidence. Ladies, build up your self esteem!It’s only men who really talk about how great having a big dick is. But they don’t realize that too big of a dick makes it uncomfortable for a woman to want to have it inside of her. So when they flaunt about having big penises, it’s really more of a competition between men instead of a way to attract a woman lmao. All in all, men care more about big dicks than women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 07:59 AM |
| 9 | If guys have anything, it’s unearned confidence. Ladies, build up your self esteem!I bet he works as a cook at Denny’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 07:57 AM |
| 2 | Translations for Common Red-Flag Phrases?Apparently it’s okay for him as long as he’s telling others not to. Smh follow your own rules, men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 09:02 PM |
| 17 | Piece of shit boyfriend shares his girlfriend's nudes with his FATHER - father comments on how "hot and wet" she isUgh, we all need a good hug from one another after seeing this vile shit. It isn’t rocket science to know that even without the disgusting comments the father made, he definitely used those photos. I can only imagine what could’ve happened if this behavior continued. There’s only so much time before he attempts to lay a finger on her. I’m curious if he’s made any hints over those three years about this thing he shares with his son. This sub is perfect for women. If we go on any other sub to prot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 04:37 AM |
| 16 | Piece of shit boyfriend shares his girlfriend's nudes with his FATHER - father comments on how "hot and wet" she isI wish I charged the bastard that did that to me. Revenge porn is awful. Whether it’s the whole internet that sees it or just a select group of people, it still comes back to how disturbed and disrespectful a boy is to flaunt your nudes like that’s HIS BODY. I really hope that woman gets the justice she deserves. And this nude showing shit is so normalized. I’ve seen guys keep their gf’s nudes on a screensaver thinking, “I’m complimenting her by showing her gorgeous, totally-not-sexualized body … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 04:07 AM |
| 14 | Piece of shit boyfriend shares his girlfriend's nudes with his FATHER - father comments on how "hot and wet" she isA man would go as far as to stalk, beat, or kill a woman. It’s not about equivalent consequence, it’s about going the level above to really “establish dominance”. Whereas a woman would attempt to keep consequences as minimal as possible to try and be a kind, human being. As much as I have respect for trying to live a non violent life, I don’t think men deserve that when they’ll just go above and beyond. Even when a woman tries to reduce consequence for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 04:00 AM |
| 15 | Piece of shit boyfriend shares his girlfriend's nudes with his FATHER - father comments on how "hot and wet" she isThat’s why she’s most likely being called a bunch of rude things in those comments for being understandably upset. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 03:57 AM |
| 28 | Piece of shit boyfriend shares his girlfriend's nudes with his FATHER - father comments on how "hot and wet" she isFrom experience, after a man makes you feel bad and doesn’t recognize why that hurts you, it’s going to happen again. And again. And again. They’re not sorry. They’re only sorry because you called them out and they don’t want to lose a “useful object”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 03:56 AM |
| 14 | Piece of shit boyfriend shares his girlfriend's nudes with his FATHER - father comments on how "hot and wet" she isOh yeah, because he feels remorse means he shouldn’t have punishment. That’s very fair considering her privacy was exposed to his father no less. And that father is enabling this behavior as well as probably saving that for his spank bank. Yeah... a sorry is just going to cut it. He totally feels bad for his actions, but not because he was caught or anything! He was probably going to stop being a douchebag sometime soon, but now that woman has lost a great guy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 03:54 AM |
| 15 | Piece of shit boyfriend shares his girlfriend's nudes with his FATHER - father comments on how "hot and wet" she isRight now, I’m trying to be as mild mannered as possible because I’m pretty sure if I expose my outrage, it’ll be blown up more than needed. And it’s very hard to have control when you want to cut the thumbs off of two, disgusting pigs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 03:52 AM |
| 32 | And this ladies, is why we don’t have sex with men who haven’t earned it.Oh yeah. For most of the consensual partners I’ve had, I wish I never slept with them. I’d prefer dying a Virgin than to experience how a man really treats a woman. You’re doing yourself a favor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 02:02 AM |
| 47 | And this ladies, is why we don’t have sex with men who haven’t earned it.And to try and say because she gives good head as some way to lessen the impact is so stupid. Yeah, that’s the kind of compliment women want 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 01:56 AM |
| 19 | And this ladies, is why we don’t have sex with men who haven’t earned it.Ya know, you can practice this depravity BEFORE sleeping with her. Smh it’s still dishonest to not lay out your intentions before getting with someone. The nerve of man. That’s it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 01:55 AM |
| 7 | ''Women lose value once they turn 30'' --menThey lose value because that’s when they have confidence and a great amount of independence. It’s not that they lose value to themselves; they lose value to solely the dude that can’t use them. Is that really a loss? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Have you noticed that 99% of bad drivers are men?In Memphis/Mississippi area, we have had so many shootings happen on the roads because of raging men. There is a cop car every, four miles. And it’s hard not to get road rage because people drive so poorly here! The same men that pull a gun out are the same dudes that almost hit your car when passing lanes. I knew a dude who’s three friends got arrested for shooting at a guy and his twelve year old son. They were tailgating as well as changing lanes with no blinkers. They would swerve towards th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 09:15 AM |
| 4 | Have you noticed that 99% of bad drivers are men?Oof, here’s the worst drivers of the south lmao. 1) Frat boys who’s lawyer daddy bought them a Mustang with way too loud subwoofers and completely tinted windows. They like to ride your ass and honk at you if your car can’t speed up enough right when the light turns green. 2) white boys that enjoy drinking bud light while driving their dad’s fixed up Toyota truck that also ride your ass on 60 MPH country roads and throwing shit at your car. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 09:11 AM |
| 7 | Have you noticed that 99% of bad drivers are men?Dudes are the ones that go, “I drink and drive, I’m a pro.” Okay, did you want an award for “future manslaughter charges”? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 09:08 AM |
| 3 | Have you noticed that 99% of bad drivers are men?Look, I can’t say I’m a good driver either. But my brother has gotten into hella car issues. Minor usually, but way too often more than me. And whenever he gets called out for having a little scuffle with his car, he immediately hits my parents with, “But ____ gets into more wrecks than me!” Yeah, but only one of mine was my fault | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 09:06 AM |
| 6 | Translations for Common Red-Flag Phrases?Lmaoooo seen that one. “I treat everyone at work like my sisters!” Yet... you flirted with your underaged “sister”. 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 09:02 AM |
| 11 | Translations for Common Red-Flag Phrases?-Every married dude on Tinder out of town for business. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 09:01 AM |
| 11 | Translations for Common Red-Flag Phrases?I stick with making sex jokes with my female friends. It really sucks because it’s not even a handful for me of dudes who can keep these jokes in context. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 09:00 AM |
| 14 | Translations for Common Red-Flag Phrases?All my exes are psycho: I can’t find the reason why they all seem to not like me. Wanna chill?: I am going to make moves on you. Unemployed/in between jobs/self employed: self explainable. I’m a feminist: I’m saying that so you think I seem empathetic. Really, pay for your own food and I won’t pressure sex on you. texts spread out once a few hours or days: I only want you when it’s convenient. I think women already have rights: I <3 mansplaining. You’ll never find a guy like me: maybe this’ll ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 08:58 AM |
| 1 | To the trashcan he goes@myoldbabysitter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 05:04 AM |
| 20 | Daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men!!!!!I had to do this actually to a Pickmeisha who called me a man hater for not allowing myself to be sexually harassed by a LVM lmaoooo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 09:06 PM |
| 13 | Prove yourself for the King, peasant!He copied and pasted that question so he can sort out the answers that benefit him the most lmao. New year, new scum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 08:20 AM |
| 3 | Talk Therapy: tales of your pickmeisha pastI cringe at a lot of pickme traps I’ve fallen in, but I’m glad to say I was never interested in Ben Shapiro. That mean just screams at his opponents that they’re wrong until they’re done talking to thar man child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Talk Therapy: tales of your pickmeisha pastNah, I don’t think we can shoot you. We are in this therapy session for a reason lol. When I was younger, I was so involved with privileged, misogynistic propaganda because it was in these edgy, meme formats. I get memes are humorous, but I have seen in myself and others that the messages of these darker memes eventually are ingrained into your views. I use to say that women are crazy because of how much they lie about rpe. I had friends that were assaulted. I was assaulted my first time when I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Talk Therapy: tales of your pickmeisha pastAlright, let’s buckle in, girls. I have dependency issues. It wasn’t until a couple of months ago that I started using positive ways to fix them. I used my ex boyfriend as a safety net because I wasn’t quite ready to leave him even though he hurt me. I wrapped him around my finger while attempting to rebound so I can fall back to him if I fail. I knew I had to stop, but i couldn’t. I had him think I was going to stay even though towards me, he’s done some gross shit. He gave me an ultimatum to b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 09:33 AM |
| 68 | When they want to commit to you they willThese are the same guys that’ll come back a month later and ask if you “wanna chill”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 11:43 PM |
| 42 | When they want to commit to you they willAt least they’re telling me that I shouldn’t waste time on them so there’s something good that comes out of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 11:43 PM |
| 3 | 90 Day Fiance fans: Cole on the new season is the DEFINITION of a low-value male.Imma be real, that show is just disgusting and selfish as hell. From the LVM to the pickmes. It makes a good watch, though lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 09:07 AM |
| 24 | He has literally no reason not to text you back.This wasn’t a guy I was interested in romantically, but we were cool. We sent memes to each other. However when he became aware that I have found myself with a lovely woman, he stopped messaging me. For weeks. Not that it upset me because frankly I accept he’s just a horndog if he’s “busy”. He just messaged me today, and I gave him no satisfaction. I figure it was to see if I was done with my girlfriend. WHICH I AM NOT LMAO! But guys do that when they have options and they pick an option. And tb… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Block and delete LVM 🗑To me, it all comes down to those ideas of “she’s playing hard to get” and “you just have to try harder to get that girl”. Stop teaching boys that rom com bullshit and at least shit like this wouldn’t be as normalized | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 02:54 PM |
| 9 | “No” could actually mean “more wine”? GTFOHOr... here’s a great idea. This is a Nobel-peace-prize-winning idea. You accept she said no because you shouldn’t be looking at a woman slowly to have sex with. You let her approach YOU asking for sex. Let’s be real, I know a dude immediately wants to sleep with me, but I don’t go into a date automatically wanting to do my date. Guess what? If you respect her and just wait until she’s ready, you’ll eventually most likely get laid instead of being blocked with no chance at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 02:48 AM |
| 25 | The first dateWe have number five right fucking here. If he don’t text back to make sure you’re home or at least try to continue the conversation, you know where his priorities are. I’d expect a text first tbh unless I’m specifically told, “Lmk when you’re home safe.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 02:43 AM |
| 8 | The first dateI personally see both sides of number 4. My preference is to pay for my own self on a first date because I rather waste my own money on a good/bad date instead of having some dude pester saying I owe him. But I also see him paying as showing the lengths he’d go for you and to ultimately show it he’s a gentleman. Him paying doesn’t always means he sees some obligation. It’s just that my experiences mostly lead to me telling a guy off because he sees that said obligation. If it’s a good date, I ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 02:42 AM |
| 34 | The first dateAs much as we can discuss 1, 2, and 4, number 3 to me is the most important lesson to take out of this. Men use alcohol as a way to loosen up a girl. Plus, alcohol makes things look “better” or at least that’s what a LVM thinks. It’s this vital step to making yourself available to what he wants. Also, alcohol is not even risky for that. Men can put drugs in it or say the “she was drunk so she consented” excuse if something so vile goes down. It is incredibly sad how vital #3 is in this set of ru… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 02:37 AM |
| 52 | Block and delete LVM 🗑Had a dude do this from Tinder ofc (we went to Snapchat kinda shortly though) after we matched like twenty minutes before. He wanted my ass to come see him and “chill” at 2AM. I done had to block his ass after spamming me “wanna chill uwu” when I said the big “N O”. He would then superlike me on Tinder to get my attention, so I kept getting his account banned on there lmao. Ironically, we ended up having the same class together and he’d try talking to me to ask if “I wanna chill”. SON! HOW MANY … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 10:08 PM |
| 20 | Depraved man sends extremely racist and abusive porn to girl he’s only been seeing a few weeks. She wants to know if she’s “reading too far into it” 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️Red flags can pop up anytime in a relationship. Why the hell would a representation of violence be different seeing eight months into a relationship rather than two months into it? That specific, porn “company” (i guess) is not even BDSM. The name itself is disgustingly racist. An older, white guy spitting on, insulting, and overpowering a black woman is blatantly racist and sexist. There’s a) a woman is not allowed to be satisfied or vocal in the bedroom and b) a POC is suppose to submit to wha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 09:07 AM |
| 27 | Depraved man sends extremely racist and abusive porn to girl he’s only been seeing a few weeks. She wants to know if she’s “reading too far into it” 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️Oh my god.. a two in one. A racist and a misogynist. I hope you’re on here because you need to leave that dude. He sent you videos of dehumanization fantasies. He obviously does not see you equal to him. Domination is one thing, but this is so screwed up! Ugh the fact he’d rather send her porn than actual talk about sec like normal adults is disturbing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 09:00 AM |
| 11 | LVM like this are so exhausting. I don’t care if you have a ‘high sex drive’, if you don’t respect my boundaries then you can go.He can call me any sort of misogynistic slur after I shut his ass down. No matter how much he downplays it as a joke, that’s not what my peers are gonna see. Especially when the namecalling exposes him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 03:00 AM |
| 14 | LVM like this are so exhausting. I don’t care if you have a ‘high sex drive’, if you don’t respect my boundaries then you can go.I love how they attempt to throw in a “haha” or “lol” to try to pass it off as nonchalant or “non sexual”. “Yeah I have a high sex drive haha. It’s all about compatibility haha. Is this working? Does it make me look like less of a gross pervert than I really am haha?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 02:59 AM |
| 55 | LVM like this are so exhausting. I don’t care if you have a ‘high sex drive’, if you don’t respect my boundaries then you can go.High sex drive is also code for “I have no hobbies or talents outside of masturbation. I’m going to try and manipulate you ASAP so you don’t figure out I’m as entertaining and compatible as a sack of flour.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 02:56 AM |
| 24 | LVM like this are so exhausting. I don’t care if you have a ‘high sex drive’, if you don’t respect my boundaries then you can go.Wanna know how to figure out compatibility, LVM? Oh I dunno, maybe by stop thinking about porn for once and talk to someone like a normal human being. How the hell is someone gonna figure out compatibility by 22 seconds of strained groans and disappointment? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 02:54 AM |
| 24 | LVM like this are so exhausting. I don’t care if you have a ‘high sex drive’, if you don’t respect my boundaries then you can go.How did you meet this dude in the first place? He sounds like he sits at a local bookstore for three hours leering at any girl that walks near him. He sounds like he’s been kicked out of one for that, too 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 02:53 AM |
| 41 | LVM like this are so exhausting. I don’t care if you have a ‘high sex drive’, if you don’t respect my boundaries then you can go.No, did you hear him. He clearly doesn’t see sex as a priority. He just has a high sex drive that he is innocently repeating to OP. He’s totally not trying to pressure her or anything 😧 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 02:51 AM |
| 46 | LVM like this are so exhausting. I don’t care if you have a ‘high sex drive’, if you don’t respect my boundaries then you can go.Fortunately for me, my high sex drive is cured by a night to myself and a vibrator. I’ll literally marry a sex toy before I marry a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 02:50 AM |
| 9 | LVM like this are so exhausting. I don’t care if you have a ‘high sex drive’, if you don’t respect my boundaries then you can go.“Yeah haha okay I’m not really that into immediate sex, but I do have a high sex drive hahahaha (please sleep with me because I’m desperate and have no respect for women. Did I manipulate you enough to think I’m HVM?)” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 02:49 AM |
| 5 | Bingo!I got seventeen, I am happy to say I’ve dodged a fair amount of fuckboys... not enough though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 08:25 AM |
| 5 | Remember ladies, he can genuinely be in love with you, but still treat you like shit. They’re not mutually exclusive concepts.To my ex boyfriend... if you’re reading this please for the love of god read this post. Recognize what I went through instead of what only you went through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 07:16 AM |
| 2 | I told my bf that he has never gave me an orgasm; UploadYou are a queen! He don’t deserve you if he’s a liar and negs you like that <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 07:36 PM |
| 16 | Man threatens to murder his own sister if she grows up to be promiscuous. THIS IS WHY YOU DONT TELL MEN JACKSHIT ABOUT YOUR SEXUAL HISTORY.I hope this finds its way back to his parents | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 05:46 AM |
| 15 | Addressing the Myth: Unattractive men make better partners than attractive guysWhat they also forget is that beauty is subjective. Someone may see a vase and think it’s the most gorgeous vase in the world while another may think it’s just an average vase or uglier. Yes, it’s possible that a man is just able to aesthetically please more women/men than another guy. But they use that as weak ammo in order to convince a girl that they are too shallow and they must settle down with an “ugly” man. Looks aren’t everything, but personality is many things. Your attractiveness so to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 10:55 PM |
| 35 | It really do be like that...Yet these are the dudes that have nothing to offer by age nineteen 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 04:25 PM |
| 53 | This type of energyWhat a queen for going against expectations and thinking about herself and her needs <333 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 12:16 AM |
| 23 | “Nudes?” He asked hopefullyThat was the best response that someone could ever give to a creep. I applaud this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 08:44 PM |
| 2 | 17 year old girl upset people are shaming her relationship with a 61 year old man. I Severely hope this is a troll.I find it disrespectful, but I’m sympathetic to her statement. I didn’t know either until I was forcibly pulled away from that creepzoid. What makes me sad is that since my traumas at 17, that I’ve devoted my life to see girls safe from rapists and predators. Sometimes I forget that I cannot save everyone. But I’ll try. And I sincerely hope that all of us here will eventually knock the common sense into her head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 04:19 AM |
| 2 | 17 year old girl upset people are shaming her relationship with a 61 year old man. I Severely hope this is a troll.That’s EXACTLY what I said when everyone I cared about told me what I just told this child. And I said almost exactly what she said. But guess what? Three years later and I’ve accepted what happened. I really hope that comic comes to her senses soon. She’s in more danger than I was in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 04:17 AM |
| 2 | 17 year old girl upset people are shaming her relationship with a 61 year old man. I Severely hope this is a troll.No you ain’t. You wouldn’t know it just like I didn’t know it. It’s discrete and strategic. This comment exactly tells me you’re amidst of being groomed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 04:15 AM |
| 3 | 17 year old girl upset people are shaming her relationship with a 61 year old man. I Severely hope this is a troll.I thought the sub would be for LEGAL age gaps. Not for pedophiles to try and justify sick behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 02:25 AM |
| 3 | 17 year old girl upset people are shaming her relationship with a 61 year old man. I Severely hope this is a troll.I had a groomed relationship with my 25 year old boss. Which I bring up quite often so young girls can learn to understand that 17 is not the age of an adult. You’re getting close, but 17-20 is honestly when things suddenly change in adulthood. At least that’s what I’ve learned so far. 16-17 and 25 is only 8-9 years compared to the gap of 17 and 61. But that’s still 8-9 years of experience and maturity that pedo should’ve had over me. He’s used that gap to manipulate me so he can fulfill a sick … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 02:17 AM |
| 62 | Man wastes 6 years of a woman's life in a "situationship", wants to know how to string her along some more while fucking other women. Daily reminder NOT to waste time in "situationships" and LET THIS BE A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO FUCKING SHIT FROM THESE MEN!!!!I had to wash my eyes reading his comments. This man said that he’d feel so awful if she went and had sex with another guy. BOY YOU’RE LITERALLY HAVING SEX WITH OTHER GIRLS! The double standards hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 01:01 AM |
| 13 | r/unpopularopinion: The sub-reddits 'Female Dating Strategy' & 'Gender Critical' make legitimate points & their members come closer to understanding males than any other group of women I've ever seen haveLVM are oblivious that they hold us to no humane standard. They think as long as they’re not slapped with “incel” that they’re not misogynists. But you don’t need to be MGTOW to be a piece of shit. Incels just happen to straight up say they’re misogynists whereas LVM sugarcoat it by saying “well uhhh duh a woman is supposed to do this for me or she is a uhhhh”. I can’t believe it’s taken so long for a dude to finally come to understand why we’d huddle into groups. And incels are the scariest. My… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 04:38 AM |
| 13 | r/unpopularopinion: The sub-reddits 'Female Dating Strategy' & 'Gender Critical' make legitimate points & their members come closer to understanding males than any other group of women I've ever seen haveYou know how many things I’ve read on how men are scared when they catch their girlfriend on FDS? This is a refresher. Someone finally understands what this sub are really meant for instead of immediately deeming this sub has hateful. This is not about hating men, it’s about calling out bullshit and helping one another be at their best, empowering self. I got mad respect for this dude ngl. Because the minute a dude figures out this is a female safe space, he starts crying and getting pissed beca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 04:31 AM |
| 6 | Women according to LVMWhat does LVM mean? I definitely know it’s not a good thing. Anyways, do I win since I’ve been called all of those? I feel like I should win a prize lmao. The descriptions of those slurs really make the slurs seem like compliments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 12:20 AM |
| 33 | Great apology, that's real learning to do better.And I’m another person that’s gonna say the same thing. The trick is for these unicorn hunters is that they put the girl in the first three photos. Sometimes, both partners are out in the open, but it’s usually not the case. Then they make a long ass bio where you do a word search to find... you guessed it! “Young couple looking for a third!” I get that tinder is used for multiple things, but just be open if that’s what you’re looking for. I don’t have a problem with couples that straight up sho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 05:31 PM |
| 29 | Great apology, that's real learning to do better.My cycle literally goes to have it set on just women, then I run out of matches because the south doesn’t have a lot of LGBT community. Next, I set it to men and women hoping maybe this time a dude rubbing money on his face in one pic isn’t superliking me. Then I delete tinder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 05:18 PM |
| 48 | Great apology, that's real learning to do better.Wanna know whats basic? I dunno if it’s a cultural thing, but I see a bunch of white boys that sit on the hood of their mustang wearing the same, red windbreaker, a champion beanie, baggy jeans, Jordans flipping off the camera with a blunt in their mouth. The next picture is them with their ex girlfriend with her face scribbled out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 05:15 PM |
| 36 | Great apology, that's real learning to do better.Oh you know their not. They can objectify women all they want as they do, but the minute we call them out... “Oh, but I’m such a good guy! And you’re a T t A c K i N g me!!!! You’re such a [insert slur here]!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 05:13 PM |
| 31 | Great apology, that's real learning to do better.It also doesn’t help seeing all the profiles meant for threesomes and the dudes that have gross bios that sexualize women. I’ve seen things ranging from “only looking for girls who [insert sexual expectations]” to “my wife doesn’t pleasure me enough, let’s meet in secret insert cropped photos of nothing, but a borderline-naked and faceless guy”. Nonetheless I don’t think it’s appropriate for her father to step into her love life. He’s got this expectation that she needs to be involved with a man… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 05:10 PM |
| 19 | WHAT 👏THE👏FUCK!! Wife walks in on husband Jerking off to pictures of their 13yo Daughter!!It was so hard for me to upvote this. This was just absolutely disturbing. I uhhh kinda am considering bringing back castration. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 08:35 AM |
| 14 | Is The Story of Adam and Eve the first example of mansplaining?This idea of bloodline existed in 13th century up until monarchy was not a secular form of government. And I’m pretty sure some people still believe in that, today. They could try to mansplain everything, but if a woman tries to explain, they throw the evidence on god. I don’t know how it’s possible to dispute that women are the ones to give birth to men. Every species. Every devolution. All the way until we were genderless bacteria. No male has ever carried bloodlines in their uterus. Because t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 07:54 AM |
| 3 | Stop playing the “nice guy”!Oh, I don’t. Trust me, if my friend didn’t say, “Hey, just let ____ and I deal with this”, my ass would’ve screamed at him. I’ve been keeping my lips tightly shut so I don’t explode on him. Though, at least my aggressive, facial expressions and hostility got the message across. She ended up talking to him, but I don’t think it was a good idea to talk to him like a puppy that tore up a cushion. That’s why I wanted to be the one to say it. But I rather not meddle which sucks since I feel like this… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 12:55 AM |
| 4 | Stop playing the “nice guy”!She knows. We are gonna have a tough time since we all work together. And it’s a small restaurant, so it’s really unavoidable. I am waiting for her to give me the go ahead to confront him because I don’t want to do that with her approval. But when I do, I swear I am grabbing him by his damn ear and scream at him. This is seriously unacceptable behavior. And because he sees us women as vulnerable, now my group is going to have to come up with a game plan to protect her at work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 07:59 PM |
| 25 | The fact that I'm still having these conversations with my girlfriends in the year of our lord 2019 is a fucking nightmare. You don't owe ANYBODY, ANYTHING. You NEVER have sex out of pity or obligation or coersion. I don't care if he gave you a kidney, you say thanks and keep trucking. The fuck.I hate that women believe that they owe anyone anything. If he offers to pay for you, that’s on him. He’s screwed up to use “kindness” or free meals or gifts as bait. If he’s being nice to you, that shouldn’t be bait either. He should be nice to prove to you he’s an actual, good person and a good partner. Not someone to solely sleep with. Niceness is a basic trait that any human should have. It shouldn’t even be associated with sex in any way, whatsoever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 09:04 AM |
| 10 | This last line speaks to my soul after my last post 🙌🏻 I don’t have to look pretty or smile for youWe wouldn’t have any hospital bills to pay because we’d all die of alcohol poisoning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 03:53 AM |
| 22 | This last line speaks to my soul after my last post 🙌🏻 I don’t have to look pretty or smile for youWhy do they act like they deserved to be smiled at lmao? I don’t smile because even something as innocent as that is apparently enough to “lead a guy on”, nowadays. A. Smile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 02:05 AM |
| 53 | This last line speaks to my soul after my last post 🙌🏻 I don’t have to look pretty or smile for youLet’s take a shot every time a dude has said, “you’d look so much prettier if you smiled.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 12:48 AM |
| 21 | This last line speaks to my soul after my last post 🙌🏻 I don’t have to look pretty or smile for youWhen I put makeup on, it’s for my own self. I do not wear makeup for people to ogle at me. I just like the confidence I give to myself and nothing less. But it took me until I was nineteen to realize that it is not a law to go out with no makeup. Tbh if that’s all someone is looking for, you wearing makeup, they ain’t worth the time 💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 12:47 AM |
| 5 | Man thinks women are just as violent as men but too weak to commit harm and too stupid to use weapons. The whole thread is tiring. Don't date men who believe this kind of shit.I dunno about the weapons, Chief. I know how to use pepper spray. And I assume that man barely scraped through life without getting maced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 12:33 AM |
| 5 | Today marks a year since I blocked my poisonous ex.Isn’t it such a great feeling?! I wouldn’t say he’s my ex, but there was still a toxic relationship. When I first blocked him, I really had withdrawals on the first couple of weeks. Not so much of professing love, but hitting him with a bunch of “and another thing!” But it felt freeing finally feeling so free after being chained in some dark jail. It really reminded me how strong I’ve gotten. I know you’re feeling it and I’m so proud. These actions we take are one step closer to shutting down to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 08:48 AM |
| 2 | I have faced my predator today.I hope that girl gets away. He very much terrorized me and I wouldn’t wish his abuse on anyone. But I’m a bit positive that his family is having a nice, big “discussion” about him. I can thank my phenomenal friends for making sure his experience at my restaurant was uncomfortable and daunting as it can be. It was painful dealing with that, but with my friends there for emotional support and a whole gender behind me, I think I’ll be just fine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 08:38 AM |
| 4 | I have faced my predator today.I wish I could personally beat them up. But I can’t. I guess I should just beat up the pedophile lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 07:06 AM |
| 7 | I have faced my predator today.Thank you so much for the warning. I can’t fathom that this is an issue upon this sub. And I’m glad I can help prevent it as well as inspire other women <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 05:16 AM |
| 8 | I have faced my predator today.I edited the backstory as well as kept my introduction vague. Is there anything else I need to change? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 04:51 AM |
| 13 | I have faced my predator today.Oh my god. I never thought of that! That’s even more disgusting that they’d use a safe space sub for that. I’ll edit my post so those gross, POSs don’t use it. Thank you for letting me know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 04:48 AM |
| 25 | ‘Tis the season🎄It’s such a dumb attempt too. “Oh, after gaslighting and manipulating me, you’re back?” The “hope all is well” is just some half assed code for “I really hope your life is shit so you feel dependent to rebuild a relationship with me that I’ll eventually tarnish... like i did three times before that.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 08:02 AM |
| 26 | ‘Tis the season🎄That’s what I learned. A part of me believe this douche had a good heart. Eventually looking forward, but not responding allowed me to reflect. It helped me realize that what he was doing was toxic. The only thing I enjoyed was the attention. That even if we didn’t talk for months and despite the “distress I put him through”, he was thinking of me. Accepting that part helped me become stronger and recognize weakness. I remember the last I talked to him, he blamed me for his mental health. He was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 07:59 AM |
| 17 | ‘Tis the season🎄I’ve dealt with that for a couple years. This dude would dump me when I wouldn’t give him sex or became emotionally dependent. I became dependent with his meaningless “you can tell me anything”. He’d discard me, pop back up demanding I be his girlfriend. And then drop me after I found out he wanted a few girlfriends at the same time. I was nothing more than an option. As long as I let him gaslight me, he stayed. Whenever I called him out, he’d say “I have depression and I’m sad. You make my life… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 07:43 AM |
| 49 | ‘Tis the season🎄They do that to only try to reel you back into sexual favors. I have had a dude block me multiple times and leave me in distress. He pulled that same shit with me. I ended up not giving him what he wants so he occasionally grovels. These are the same men that claim women are TOO emotional and dependent... yet their dependent on finding someone to manipulate and use until they find the closest dumpster to throw us in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 07:08 AM |
| 9 | If a man doesn’t understand the discomfort of anal, then it’s a blessing he’s a tool enough to leave her.I’m in a red state, too. After my experience, he told all of my high school how a senior willingly got fucked in her ass. It was awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 06:39 AM |
| 6 | If a man doesn’t understand the discomfort of anal, then it’s a blessing he’s a tool enough to leave her.I send positive vibes to your friend. Anal rape is awful... but it unfortunately sounds like I was spared. That it could be worse. And this asshole gets a slap on the wrist. Did he even pay medical bills or did he just walk off and text his friends some bullshit like “This (insert misogynistic slur here) let me fuck her ass” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 05:51 AM |
| 9 | If a man doesn’t understand the discomfort of anal, then it’s a blessing he’s a tool enough to leave her.Well, she seems prone to miscarriages. Even if it sucks to mourn the loss of something that you WANT to bring to life, it seems like a blessing in this case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 04:28 AM |
| 9 | If a man doesn’t understand the discomfort of anal, then it’s a blessing he’s a tool enough to leave her.Maybe he can finally experience the hardcore expectations of women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 03:27 AM |
| 17 | If a man doesn’t understand the discomfort of anal, then it’s a blessing he’s a tool enough to leave her.Nothing is wrong with it. Being a little bitch and not respecting boundaries is what’s wrong with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 03:04 AM |
| 15 | If a man doesn’t understand the discomfort of anal, then it’s a blessing he’s a tool enough to leave her.I’m glad that this experience has led me to understand feminism at its fullest capacity and that I can use it to spread the word of equality and ending rape culture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 02:45 AM |
| 8 | If a man doesn’t understand the discomfort of anal, then it’s a blessing he’s a tool enough to leave her.Yep. I was pansexual before but I’m not pansexual-men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 02:43 AM |
| 25 | If a man doesn’t understand the discomfort of anal, then it’s a blessing he’s a tool enough to leave her.I had an ex boyfriend that I have discussed anal with. Even if trauma came from anal for me, I saw it as empowering because I was not going to let that experience ruin what I did somewhat enjoy. But anal never happened for him because it was just more comfortable for me to perform it on my own time, at my own pace, on a silicon penis that doesn’t have a man attached to it. I’ve found joy when I’ve done it where I’ve had control. Men seem to immediately want to dig in there and treat it as haphaz… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 10:57 PM |
| 46 | If a man doesn’t understand the discomfort of anal, then it’s a blessing he’s a tool enough to leave her.It could be a troll, but sadly I’ve met many men that actually would pull that shit. Hence my comment where I mentioned I was assaulted in that area. I’ve seen it first hand at the brunt of being a woman. And if I have had that experience as well as have to throw many men off of me in my past because they kept pushing anal, I would say this is 85% real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 10:48 PM |
| 52 | If a man doesn’t understand the discomfort of anal, then it’s a blessing he’s a tool enough to leave her.Exactly! That all reverts back to the f’ed up porn industry where they embellish it to make it look like the girl enjoys it solely for the man to be pleased. Anal also looks a lot less painful in porn than it actually is in reality. It really is based off of being ultra subservient to men. Yes, some women like anal or it plays a big part if they’re into BDSM. But a man should still consider a woman as her own person that willingly wants to engage in that act. Consent makes sex hotter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 10:46 PM |
| 48 | If a man doesn’t understand the discomfort of anal, then it’s a blessing he’s a tool enough to leave her.There was a guy in the comments of r/insanepeoplequora (where I found the post) defending that scum of a man. Apparently society favors women even though rape culture tells me otherwise. What really sting is today is the three year anniversary of when I got r*ped... anally. You can imagine how bad I went off on that misogynistic douche. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 10:36 PM |
| 29 | But FDS is the worst sub on Reddit...?I love how there are dudes that cry about how "misandrist" this sub is, yet makes sexist, objectifying lists like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 11:10 PM |
| 8 | Pro tip: it’s usually AFTER you’ve moved on/cut him offA woman shouldn’t be obligated to give all of these things. It’s one thing in a serious partnership to give support, but it’s a two way street. Just because you show support doesn’t mean there is no potential that everything is all snuggles and rainbows. These can be used as manipulation tactics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 02:35 AM |
| 9 | FactsThey use the “we can smoke” card with me. It’s worked a couple times, but I won’t make that mistake, ever again. Of course I never fell for the “lets drink” card. But I love how their first instinct is to loosen you up. Of course, I’ve asked for dates like that. And it’s such a huge risk to take even if I’ve developed trust over talking. It’s a dangerous world for a woman 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 07:20 AM |
| 12 | This is the story behind every online profile saying "Im done with cheating and lying women. Im not buying you dinner. You need to act like a lady to be treated like one!"I guess if he’s trying to pay for sex through food, I can really just charge him for other, wholesome activities like a GOOD CONVERSATION! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Update: I rejected him harshly after he’s been harassing my coworkers and me at our job. He did not take it well. Can you see why him claiming to be a nice guy is ironic?He’s been long fired, fortunately. But now he’s too scared to come back since he decided last weekend would be the perfect time to pick out options. You explained his manipulation tactics very well. I’ve seen it too often in men and tbh it’s not even a good tactic. Who would fall for it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 07:16 AM |
| 36 | This is the story behind every online profile saying "Im done with cheating and lying women. Im not buying you dinner. You need to act like a lady to be treated like one!"Oh same here. Because apparently now we can be desensitized and talk about our rape stories like it’s nothing. And of course we are the sluts for being raped. I was wearing a pizza uniform how was that asking for sex?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 07:15 AM |
| 11 | This is the story behind every online profile saying "Im done with cheating and lying women. Im not buying you dinner. You need to act like a lady to be treated like one!"His mom is conditioned by not only toxic masculinity/femininity, but by severe mother syndrome. I mean that in that this mother plays this “perfect” world in which her son can’t do anything wrong. It’s a protection tactic that keeps her stuck in these conforming, gender roles. It wouldn’t be my choice to cheat, but it is an “eye for an eye”. If a man can cheat and get away with it, why can’t a woman if she’s returning the favor? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 07:14 AM |
| 11 | This is the story behind every online profile saying "Im done with cheating and lying women. Im not buying you dinner. You need to act like a lady to be treated like one!"Oh yeah that’s because “we belong in the kitchen”. Oooh I like that phrase! Apparently gander aren’t suppose to get what’s “good” in this world. I just don’t get the crazy amount of hypocrisy in men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 07:11 AM |
| 56 | This is the story behind every online profile saying "Im done with cheating and lying women. Im not buying you dinner. You need to act like a lady to be treated like one!"I know a girl that’s in an abusive relationship. Dude cheated on her throughout their relationship as well as slept with six girls when they had a break. Besides the cheating in the relationship, no big deal that he had sex while broken up. However, my old friend allegedly gave a blowjob (she never did) to some dude while they were broken up. He actually rehashed this months after it happened. He took videos he recorded of them without her consent and posted it on adult websites. There are men l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 03:45 AM |
| 45 | This is the story behind every online profile saying "Im done with cheating and lying women. Im not buying you dinner. You need to act like a lady to be treated like one!"And then he gets into a relationship and shows that new girl who really fucked who up 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 03:41 AM |
| 107 | This is the story behind every online profile saying "Im done with cheating and lying women. Im not buying you dinner. You need to act like a lady to be treated like one!"Lmao they say women are emotional, but we don’t spend years after high school crying about the girl that broke up with them over text. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 03:40 AM |
| 47 | This is the story behind every online profile saying "Im done with cheating and lying women. Im not buying you dinner. You need to act like a lady to be treated like one!"I don’t mind paying for my dinner as long as it means you don’t see it as an obligation for sex. But I hope they don’t see dinner as an obligation to listen to them whine about their psycho ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Update: I rejected him harshly after he’s been harassing my coworkers and me at our job. He did not take it well. Can you see why him claiming to be a nice guy is ironic?Oh I did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 12:57 AM |
| 10 | FactsAnd the men who understand this and taught themselves to understand why we are fearful are sensible. But the ones that do this whole “I’m not going to hurt you. I’m not like all men” will make me think they’re just saying that to put on a façade. Prove it to me that you’re a good person. But understand why I am hesitant and defensive for my well being. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 07:17 PM |
| 6 | FactsI’ve felt it with only a couple girls and that is because it’s just straight up rare. We all have bad apples, but sometimes there are just certain baskets will a LOT of bad apples (males). We need them to learn how to control sexuality. We are civilized. I’ve been threatened for not giving my body before. But I never was even worried about being in a locker room or something with some other girl. I’m not scared she’d use that moment to take advantage of me in ANY way! But if I was even right out… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 06:02 PM |
| 141 | FactsAnd speaking of that, a girl tweeted that her friend went on a Tinder date. Dude wanted to go hiking, but she sensibly insisted they meet in a public place. She immediately senses bad vibes so she blocks his number after the date. The dude was arrested a month later for killing a girl in the woods. Yeah, that’s apparently less insane than a woman crying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 05:24 PM |
| 22 | FactsExactly! I’ve gotten emotional and a lot of that emotional stress comes from working. A couple years ago, there was a guy at an old job that got fired. Even if his firing was because of his racism, he always crept upon girls there. Found your number, sent inappropriate photos, the whole spiel. When he got fired, I was startled for weeks that he was coming back to hurt us. He use to gloat that he had a gun in his car. It shouldn’t be my first guess that someone would hurt us over being fired or b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 05:22 PM |
| 17 | FactsI guess it’s emotional to get defensive if a dude is impeding sex on you, constantly. I am less worried about a woman r*ping or killing me than a man. Plus, the “psychotic ex” stories those actually psychotic dudes spit out are embellished so bad that the truth is too deep to dig out, sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 05:19 PM |
| 6 | Update: I rejected him harshly after he’s been harassing my coworkers and me at our job. He did not take it well. Can you see why him claiming to be a nice guy is ironic?Welp, he cant fuck up my coworker and I’s lives now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 01:03 AM |
| 5 | Update: I rejected him harshly after he’s been harassing my coworkers and me at our job. He did not take it well. Can you see why him claiming to be a nice guy is ironic?Oh that’s true. He could’ve seen my name on the app we use for scheduling. Either way, that’s a big yikes from me, dawg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 01:03 AM |
| 11 | Update: I rejected him harshly after he’s been harassing my coworkers and me at our job. He did not take it well. Can you see why him claiming to be a nice guy is ironic?Oh, he’s on there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 12:53 AM |
| 19 | Update: I rejected him harshly after he’s been harassing my coworkers and me at our job. He did not take it well. Can you see why him claiming to be a nice guy is ironic?It’s Facebook. He found my Facebook without knowing my last name. I also have a very common name so that’s just even weirder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 12:30 AM |
| 19 | Update: I rejected him harshly after he’s been harassing my coworkers and me at our job. He did not take it well. Can you see why him claiming to be a nice guy is ironic?The nice guy part always gets me rolling on any rejection I do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 12:29 AM |
| 18 | Is this male dating strategy? He use to work with me and got fired. He came back to look for girls to hit on. I’m the third coworker and he doesn’t even know my last name!Update: Will post screenshots on here. I learned that he has also hit on my underaged friend. He has done this before, but he continues to harass us. He kept coming to my job and watching us at the bar making us all highly uncomfortable. After I had to explain this article, he went off on me. I called him desperate and said he doesn't meet my standards. He proceeded to send me intense, text message chains calling me misogynistic remarks as well as saying he is a "good man". He kept saying I was … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 09:46 PM |
| 24 | Ladies...Don’t do wifey shit because we are going to break down gender norms. Men and women can do both wifey and hubby shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 07:48 PM |
| 38 | Is this male dating strategy? He use to work with me and got fired. He came back to look for girls to hit on. I’m the third coworker and he doesn’t even know my last name!Sadly I just got a reply where he was dumbfounded by my response. “What’s this lol?” That’s it, men’s iq are in the negatives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 07:45 PM |
| 8 | Being HonestI made a post on here yesterday talking about staying independent. When I get on the dating scene, I pay for my own food and do whatever I can to have an emergency exit. I want someone to exceed my expectations. I don’t go into anything expecting a happily ever after. All of us are worth more than a paid meal or half assed compliments usually meant to get us in the sack. If a man truly wanted you, they’d go at the pace you set and the boundaries placed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Don’t you just love how people like to think we’re larping men, 40+ loners or extremely unattractive?I kind of meant it more like someone who is objectified and seen as a pleasurable object to masturbate to. Or someone you just really want to have sex with and that’s it. I wish I could explain it better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 01:35 AM |
| 10 | Don’t you just love how people like to think we’re larping men, 40+ loners or extremely unattractive?My vibrator does more than a penis. I’m just fine using it and watching a movie. Multitasker. I know what it’s like to have sex cloud judgement, but why does anyone want to live like that? I find it fulfilling to write or to post memes more than to need to find a spank bank. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 09:25 PM |
| 8 | Don’t you just love how people like to think we’re larping men, 40+ loners or extremely unattractive?They think that and then dismiss stories told on here where we get hit on by men who obviously think we are extremely attractive. They just don’t want to accept that they need to make changes to their personality so they project it onto us. It’s literally like many posts on r/niceguys. Dude calls a girl hot and desperately begs she come and give him a little something-something. She rejects (politely) or says she has a boyfriend. Then he proceeds to change his mind and call her an ugly whore. I’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 09:22 PM |
| 11 | Came across this gem today. My age-range setting is 23-27, not “aging like grade c dairy products”Did this man just say he looked younger than his age? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 09:05 PM |
| 8 | Do not let loneliness impede your judgementI like this so much. I don’t hate men, but I hate the conditioning and expectations of us. I hate that they can have expectations of us and be valid, but our expectations aren’t valid. I’m so proud of myself for retaining my independence, learning these new resources, and accepting that I do not need to be someone else’s tool for desire. That’s why I found it important to say “expect to end the date single” instead of coming in desperate and with low expectations. We don’t need a relationship to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 09:04 PM |
| 3 | How to touch a woman's boobsWell if some random ass creep walks up to me to even claim he’s not a creep knowing he’s going to invade my boundaries... yeah. I’d do something. Trust me, you’d rather have a restraining order rather than being tased or pepper sprayed. Let me tell you that I got range on my Mace | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 02:00 PM |
| 1 | How to touch a woman's boobsAre you asking to be peppersprayed??? | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 01:58 PM |
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