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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | Example of a High Value Man (HVM) characteristic found on TumblrIt’s true. When my husband and I kiss, I will open my eyes and he’ll just be staring at me. At first, it used to weird me out, and he said he just loves to look at me. He’s always watching me, and honestly that’s the kind of energy I was missing before. When someone just loves & adores you, you will know! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 09:06 AM |
| 10 | After so many toxic/one-sided relationships in the past, do you feel like a "bad girlfriend" when you finally are in a healthy relationship?It took me months to realize that I learned that love felt dull if it wasn’t chaotic, and after a few months of “dull” love - I realized that it was steady and calm like the peaceful ocean waves and once I realized it wasn’t like before, I let my guard down somewhat and over time, the “dull” is now the love of my life and my husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 09:00 AM |
| 7 | Men who won't move over for women. What do you do?You keep fucking walking straight and make him move. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:49 AM |
| 13 | They try to invalidate grown women because impressing us is harder 🤷🏻♀️It’s true, my ex was 37 and so emotionally immature and co-dependent. He made six figures, but was insanely cheap. I meet a guy in January and he makes 2/3 of what I earn, and shares his resources with me freely, and is building me a house right now (remodeling my house for me & paying for it). The right person, who loves & wants you, will do anything to keep you. I’ll never not believe it after experiencing it first hand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:46 AM |
| 10 | The FWB I Pretended Wasn't Complete Garbage 🤡Oh god, not the 3-in-1 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 07:42 AM |
| 3 | Dear Reddit LibFems: Nobody died and made your self important asses the gatekeepers of feminism. We're not "fake feminists" because you don't agree with us, nor are you as inclusive and non-judgmental of women's choices as you pretend you are.most of the “feminists” are fake ass wypipo white supremacist sympathizers. 👋🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 07:32 AM |
| 29 | Red flag: Comments about your health/weight/size/diet/exerciseThis really hit me. My ex was ALWAYS occupied with my weight. Always suggesting to diet or work out. His comments made me feel worthless and ugly. I gained even more weight, because I kept being reminded by him about my weight. One time, I was like eating healthy for ME. I was doing great, 2 weeks in, and I decided to have a scoop or low carb ice cream. My ex comes in and FREAKS out on me. “Why are you doing that? You were doing so good.” I screamed at him. I was like “that is how you give peopl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 07:35 AM |
| 2 | A man who tells me when to stop and continue talking.That’s called boundaries! Keep it up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Idk, thought this belonged hereAwww. I love this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 07:17 AM |
| 22 | So many men say they want a smart woman...I’ve always advocated on behalf of black lives matter, ever since I was a young child (always a social justice advocate even as a kid). My LVM ex and I went on a hike a couple of years ago, and I was talking about this article I read about how mortgages, especially unregulated mortgage practices, such as variable interest rates were more highly practiced in communities in the south, and more frequently were predatory towards African-Americans. His fragile ego couldn’t handle that systematic raci… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 07:55 AM |
| 5 | The concept of surprise proposals gets weaponized by LVM and used to keep women on the hookMy ex proposed to me once, asked me to sell my house, “move in with me, let’s give this a real go.” I said no, and he used it against me after that, so I broke up with him. Good riddance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 11:37 AM |
| 4 | There is nothing wrong with wanting to get married: why it makes sense50/50 Luck and Hard Work. I bought my house at 21, BS in Econ and Math, MBA and then worked in active money management for several years learning how to trade in the markets and manage my portfolio. Get bored w that. Become a pilot. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 05:57 AM |
| 18 | There is nothing wrong with wanting to get married: why it makes senseI absolutely agree with you. I’m 30 with real assets and this point, being married is an actual financial and potential emotional liability to me right now. I love the freedom that I have. Do I get lonely? Sure, but I have friends, hobbies, dogs. I think honestly marriage is in reality a way to keep women from reaching a state of self-actualization IMO. Thank you for sharing, sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 05:54 AM |
| 25 | There is nothing wrong with wanting to get married: why it makes senseI do agree with you to an extent. I have always made way more than my partners. I’m a six-figure wage earner and own my house, my car is paid off, etc. If I ever get married, my intent is to absolutely get a pre-nuptial agreement. And honestly at this point, I’m absolutely okay with not being married at the moment and even into my immediate future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 07:46 PM |
| 17 | That should go really well.🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮 Why do they look so deformed and ugly?! Holy hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 12:34 AM |
| 12 | Dating American menI actually think men in the UK are the worst. But overall, there are shitty men everywhere and lots of them are on OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 06:17 AM |
| 48 | REMINDER: NO CUFFING POST COVIDI saw this and started cackling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: Men Who Want You, Will Do Anything to See YouI mean who know what happens, but when you stick to who you are, you will eventually find someone worthy of you. Wishing you luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: Men Who Want You, Will Do Anything to See YouOuch, sorry that happened to you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: Men Who Want You, Will Do Anything to See YouWe fly together at the same pilot training place, and that’s how we met. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Reminder: Men Who Want You, Will Do Anything to See YouThank you! My current mindset and self-love is really in large part due to standing of the shoulder of the giants of this subreddit! Couldn’t have learned or done this without FDS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: Men Who Want You, Will Do Anything to See YouI don’t have Instagram, but here are some books I’ve read that have really helped me a lot: Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller I Thought It Was Just Me (But It Isn’t) by Brene Brown Childhood Disrupted by Donna Jackson Nakazawa Codependent No More by Melody Beattie The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman The Life-Changing Power of Gratitude by Marc Reklau No Hard Feelings by Liz Fosslien & Mollie West Duffy 30 Days: Change Your Habits, Change Your Life by Marc Reklau YouTube Channels I Watch… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 07:54 PM |
| 6 | Reminder: Men Who Want You, Will Do Anything to See YouThat’s the kind of stuff that we at FDS are here for! Congrats! And yes, I agree, hopefully someone wakes up from my post that there is more and better out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: Men Who Want You, Will Do Anything to See YouYes!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 04:46 PM |
| 8 | Reminder: Men Who Want You, Will Do Anything to See YouI get it, please feel free to use anything I wrote above as a reminder to NOT return to men who do not value you. You deserve better, sis! Sending you love and hugs from a distance for you and your pet that just passed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: Men Who Want You, Will Do Anything to See YouHell yes! Please use whatever you need to level up! Supporting you from a distance! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 04:42 PM |
| 9 | Reminder: Men Who Want You, Will Do Anything to See YouOh yeah! I actually think these are deep rooted in women who are insecure and why we resorted to pickmeisha ways. Self-love will set us all free! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 04:39 PM |
| 6 | Reminder: Men Who Want You, Will Do Anything to See You✈️✈️✈️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 04:38 PM |
| 23 | Reminder: Men Who Want You, Will Do Anything to See YouYes, exactly! One thing we discussed during my therapy sessions was the idea of “just because something could’ve been different, doesn’t mean it would be better.” I try to always remember that and to practice grace; grace towards myself, my healing, and my growth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 04:38 PM |
| 8 | Reminder: Men Who Want You, Will Do Anything to See YouYes, exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 04:36 PM |
| 13 | Reminder: Men Who Want You, Will Do Anything to See YouYes! I do believe there are good men out there, and I totally get it. It’s been over a year of me trying to change my ways, just stick with it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 04:36 PM |
| 9 | Reminder: Men Who Want You, Will Do Anything to See YouYou got this, sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 04:36 PM |
| 2 | TedxTalk spreading Pickmeisha Finance “Theory”I usually enjoy them, but this was SOOOOO fucking hard to watch. Even the beginning, “I promise men used to like me.” Girl wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 04:44 AM |
| 3 | I don't know if this info is verified or not, but if it is, this is why hypergamy is important! 😖Yes, girl! I have friends who’ve been fucked over in divorces. Love is cool, but my money and assets are mine and that’s non-negotiable. I make over six figures, and I doubt my partner will ever be able to match my financial trajectory. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 08:56 PM |
| 5 | I don't know if this info is verified or not, but if it is, this is why hypergamy is important! 😖ALWAYS GET A PRENUP. I own my home, my car and have savings. I am not fucking around with my money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 05:36 PM |
| 10 | Just A Reminder: Men Ain’t ShitYeah, maybe, but yes, super insulting and good riddance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 09:20 PM |
| 6 | Just A Reminder: Men Ain’t ShitWe met before the pandemic, but I agree with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one who is weirder out by this?That really hit me. Now that I think about it, every time I cried or was sad, an ex would console me by trying to have sex with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Do men really like smart and intelligent women?I have my Masters in Economics and had a man literally send me a Wikipedia link to enlighten me on “business cycles” and told me that not a lot of Economics departments or programs teach this. I said, yeah, learned it on day one, and it’s the most basic idea besides Supply and Demand. Literally cannot with these idiots anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 06:15 AM |
| 8 | Had to make thisO M F G. This is everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 11:12 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on this?Look up: compulsory heterosexuality. It’s a thing. I’ve been talking about it a lot in therapy recently and why I’m just not attracted to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Anybody else SCREAMING at the screen during the Bachelor finale??FOR REAL. I’m a pilot, and at least I’m smart and interesting. Honestly it’s very irritating. I’ve heard from other pilots that he’s terrible to work with and they’re really upset he’s on the bachelor. My male friends are whining, because they think he’s ruining what being a pilot is for them lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 01:29 AM |
| 13 | Anybody else SCREAMING at the screen during the Bachelor finale??IVE BEEN WAITING TO TALK ABOUT THIS TRASH SHOW. How in the fuck are 30 women fighting over a mediocre dude with a flat personality and ass?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 05:03 PM |
| 5 | FDS is NOT and will NEVER BE anything like The RedPill or MGTOW, and we are NOT incels. They’re playing tiddly-winks and we’re playing expert level chess.Right? I later parted ways with him and you know what?! He’s respected my decision, didn’t call me a bitch, he doesn’t bother me, and it’s been totally fine. Real men that are high-value RESPECT women and their autonomy. Which is exactly what this guy has done. Of all the men I’ve dated, he’s been the ONLY HVM. Everyone else is low-hanging fruit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 11:34 PM |
| 21 | FDS is NOT and will NEVER BE anything like The RedPill or MGTOW, and we are NOT incels. They’re playing tiddly-winks and we’re playing expert level chess.I told a guy I was dating about FDS; he told me that he later went onto Reddit and browsed through the content. He said, “wow, glad women are finally standing up for themselves and they’re not wrong about how low effort and value a vast majority of men are.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 11:57 PM |
| 1 | L O V E 💓 Y O U R S E L F 2020Lol! Stay that way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 09:25 PM |
| -3 | L O V E 💓 Y O U R S E L F 2020You’re legit a troll. Your user “Luvmyvulvaxoxo” but somehow feels comfortable body shaming a woman based on a tattoo. Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 01:11 PM |
| 9 | L O V E 💓 Y O U R S E L F 2020Her body, her rules - and if you think self-pleasure is “trashy” then you need to re-think what FDS means. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 04:24 AM |
| 17 | L O V E 💓 Y O U R S E L F 2020I would say: “to each it’s own”. We all have different ideas of beauty, but I don’t agree with calling a woman’s tattoo trashy simply because it’s not your aesthetic. Lift your sisters up 2020! My mantra with this sub is: take what resonates and leave the rest. I like tattoos and have tattoos. I’m sorry that’s been your experience. We need to do better and be more supportive of each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 04:18 AM |
| 7 | L O V E 💓 Y O U R S E L F 2020LMAO. Literally! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 03:39 AM |
| 5 | L O V E 💓 Y O U R S E L F 2020Credit: https://www.reddit.com/r/tattoos/comments/erl316/done_by_emily_olsen_at_desert_rose_tattoo/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 03:13 AM |
| 26 | Gratitude Adjustment: Hello, 2020! ✌🏽Yes! His name is: blcksmth (I follow him on Facebook)! He posts some great stuff, and one of the few men I can agree with. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 10:46 PM |
| 1 | How to motivate yourself to lose weight?The best way, is to just start! Start by going on a walk, etc; focus on ONE thing that you can execute well for the next 30 days (cutting out sugar/alcohol, etc), whatever that looks like to you and then keep going! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 11:05 PM |
| 10 | “Sir, this is a Wendy’s.” This sub was created to help empower women and mangry Redditors call for it to be banned. Meanwhile, dorky “dark triads” like this openly monetize and plug their shitty ebooks and seminars in the Manosphere and subs like TRP to spread misogynistic filth.Holy fuck “good looking” be subjective for sureeeeeee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 06:40 PM |
| 6 | The shit 'nice guys' pull when you tell them you only value you them as a friendMen are literally their own worse enemies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Statements for Women to Start Saying to MenYes!!!!! I’ll talk to my mod friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 01:05 AM |
| 5 | Statements for Women to Start Saying to MenLOVE THESE! Almost makes me think we should create a “Statements” thread for the sidebar. Thanks for your input! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Statements for Women to Start Saying to MenGood one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Good Morning to Everyone Except FuckBoys!This is a design artist: Blcksmth; he does these balloon quotes, which I adore. But yes, the credit of that quote is: Irina Dunn! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 09:22 PM |
| 1 | How to train WomenI hear you - I think it’s a cultural shift that will need to take place, which is happening right now. Girls are told that men will save you and complete you - versus how boys are taught that men should find their other half. It’s so deep-rooted into our society, layered and nuanced in ways we won’t ever be able to consciously comprehend. I’ve never liked assholes, I’ve always liked sweet, quiet guys - but even those guys can be disappointing and have problematic/toxic behaviors. My asian mother… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 12:26 AM |
| 2 | How to train WomenNo empathy = sociopathy or sociopathic tendencies - this can even be thru narcissism, etc. When you actively try to manipulate, coerce and consciously (mentally + emotionally) break someone down - uhh, yeah you’re a fucking sociopath. These “cheap tricks” are on the Domestic Violence spectrum. I know many women who have had been caught up with men like this, and I also work with DV survivors - DV & Abuse is more than just physical. It can be emotional and mental, all of which this guys twisted “… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 10:36 AM |
| 38 | No, men do not age like fine wine.True, I’m 30 going on 31, and look early 20’s. The men I see on OLD are “32” looking 52. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 12:54 PM |
| 30 | How to train WomenJesus that’s abusive - I’m glad I’ve never interacted with one of these sociopaths. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 12:51 PM |
| 9 | Reminder that these are the Red Pill "alphas" RP-Women call "captains"Omg who tf wants them?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 10:52 PM |
| 6 | A Man who Wants a woman Makes an effort. Texting is the lowest of efforts. A Man Not texting You is making LESS than the LOWEST of efforts.Yeah, I agree - I do believe in the mantra "take what sticks and leave the rest" - we all have to do what is right for us, but still acknowledge the core tenants of FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/19 11:58 PM |
| 4 | A Man who Wants a woman Makes an effort. Texting is the lowest of efforts. A Man Not texting You is making LESS than the LOWEST of efforts.I am with you sister. I only use text for logistical purposes. I am very busy, and work in the community relations field, so I really do not want to talk on the cell phone that I talked on all day with after work with a stranger. Everyone is different though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/19 11:44 PM |
| 1 | A Man who Wants a woman Makes an effort. Texting is the lowest of efforts. A Man Not texting You is making LESS than the LOWEST of efforts.Same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/19 08:52 PM |
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