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| 35 | What are your thoughts on Cardi B & Meg thee Stallion’s WAP?She didn’t get a ring, she got a leech attached to her successful ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 12:57 PM |
| 4 | Q4All: How true is the idea that women give “bad” advice to their male Friends/family members?No, I am saying that people being against only gay couples for this reason doesn’t make sense. If their worry is them not having a mum and dad, then they should also be against single parents for the same reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/20 01:22 AM |
| 5 | Q4All: How true is the idea that women give “bad” advice to their male Friends/family members?This theory doesn’t hold water because then they would also be against single mums. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/20 11:54 PM |
| – | Cold approach on a girl shopping didn’t only just get me a date, but made her day. Keep trying guys. But always work on yourself 👌🏻This works if you’re hot. Edit: not criticising it. Please, if you’re a hot man, approach me at the supermarket. | /r/seduction | 06/08/20 02:26 PM |
| 34 | Never, ever settle for a scroteous LVM thinking he’ll stay loyal because you’re a literal goddess.Kevin Hart is like 3’ and thinks there’s enough of him to go around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Best books for men according to 56 blogs (see comments for the list)All of my ex boyfriend’s favourite books are in this list. | /r/seduction | 03/08/20 10:09 PM |
| 2 | You ladies inspired me and I whipped this piece up in less than 24 hours. If I want to, I will ✌️This is awesome!! I am just getting into embroidery and was looking for inspiration for my next piece - I think I just found it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 10:14 PM |
| 27 | You ladies inspired me and I whipped this piece up in less than 24 hours. If I want to, I will ✌️Damn this was eye-opening | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 10:13 PM |
| 15 | Unfortunately it's true for so many of usThe fuuuuuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 07:21 AM |
| 362 | Unfortunately it's true for so many of usThe sexualisation of young girls was so common when I as growing up 20 years ago that I simply wasn’t aware of the implications of an adult man grabbing me on the street to try to drag me into a hotel when I was 14. Or old men leering at me on the bus when I was 12. Or a rich dude pulling up beside me in a fancy car when I was 15 and inviting me inside. I just thought, “Ew!” But no one had told me these things were not just wrong and completely unacceptable, but also ILLEGAL. When I raise my dau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 10:00 PM |
| 86 | Unfortunately it's true for so many of usYou have absolutely hit the nail on the head. If everyone parented their boys like you do, we wouldn’t need to parent our women not to fear them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 09:54 PM |
| 27 | Why chase men when we can chase the bag instead?Three words: TREAT YO SELF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 04:36 PM |
| 7 | Something to send to the “Nice Guy”:The phrases “nice guy” “good guy” and “my ex was crazy” make my hair stand on end. My brain is like have we found... an incel in feminist sheeps clothing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, please help him understand why women get creeped out by [insert inherently creepy behavior]. It’s all so confusing for him.If looking and appreciating an attractive person is such a natural behaviour, how come men don’t notice women doing it to them? There are plenty of attractive men out there, the difference is that women do a quick double-take and go on with their lives, and they don’t make the man aware that he is being watched. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 02:28 PM |
| 14 | Pre-FDS me would have been chasing this loser LOL “ur really weird”Letting a man see me in a bikini in full daylight: has this man found my literal idea of hell as a first date? Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 07:30 PM |
| 9 | It’s not worth it in the long runI made a short lived attempt at online sex work, and even in just that one brief month, it made me so insecure. And it’s strange because on the one hand men are literally paying for the privilege of looking at you, but on the other hand you’re now examining your own bumhole in the mirror and wondering if you need plastic surgery because “it looks weird”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 03:02 PM |
| 28 | Jenna Jameson is recounting how she was groomed and trafficked into the sex industry and scrotes are having a meltdown in the comments. They’re always mad when the truth interrupts their fapping.Same girl, same. What the hell was I thinking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 10:22 AM |
| 16 | Yes. Yes. Yes.Holy shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 09:20 AM |
| 39 | Never settle for lessOr perhaps she doesn’t feel confident enough to be a bride after her accident? Something like this can seriously alter your life plans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 02:33 PM |
| 26 | Beware the male feministI think a lot of them GENUINELY believe they’re feminists. They believe proclaiming you’re something magically makes you it and you do not need to change absolutely anything about the way you act. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 03:06 AM |
| 157 | This is why I'm taking time to reevaluate my standards. In the past I've felt like I clung to the first guy that showed interest in me and it always went down hill the moment I asked anything of them.Another twist on this. Theres a popular comedy youtuber in my country whose whole schtick is making videos about “relationship problems” like hiding from your gf to hang out with the boys, your gf always nagging you, etc. And another male youtuber epically owned him by making a diss video called “I actually like my girlfriend and enjoy spending time with her”. It was great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Left on readIt depends on what it is. I was dating this asshole and he would leave me on read lots of times. If it was a meme or like something that didn’t need a response because the conversation was dying down, I didn’t mind. But sometimes I would send him an actual text like “Hey omg I’ve just seen Onward and it’s so good!” and he’d leave me on read. It made me feel awful. | /r/seduction | 04/04/20 12:28 AM |
| 25 | “Looking for it”He’s the kind of guy who supports feminism by empowering women to do BDSM porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 08:17 PM |
| 4 | We need to stop letting society pitch us against each other - we are stronger togetherIf a man tells me I’m not like other girls and means it as a compliment, the only logical conclusion for me is he doesn’t like all the other girls, so I steer clear of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 11:04 PM |
| 5 | We need to stop letting society pitch us against each other - we are stronger togetherYes! All those “who wore it better?” make me so mad! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 11:02 PM |
| 5 | We need to stop letting society pitch us against each other - we are stronger togetherThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 07:45 PM |
| 10 | We need to stop letting society pitch us against each other - we are stronger together“We can all be pretty, it’s not a competition” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 07:26 PM |
| 7 | We need to stop letting society pitch us against each other - we are stronger togetherMy grandmother does it to me, but I call her out on it and she’s toned it down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 06:55 PM |
| 10 | We need to stop letting society pitch us against each other - we are stronger togetherYes! I’m so glad your friend has found someone as supportive as you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 06:11 PM |
| 28 | We need to stop letting society pitch us against each other - we are stronger togetherSo simp is the derogatory term for HVM? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 06:07 PM |
| 44 | We need to stop letting society pitch us against each other - we are stronger togetherI read somewhere that a good compliment should be about something the person has control over: how they’ve done their hair, their shoes, their laugh... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 06:06 PM |
| 10 | We need to stop letting society pitch us against each other - we are stronger togetherWhat’s simp? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 05:14 PM |
| 100 | We need to stop letting society pitch us against each other - we are stronger togetherMy go-to answer when someone tells me I’m not like other girls is: “Why, what’s wrong with other girls?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 04:50 PM |
| 13 | What are some signs he JUST WAS NOT THAT INTO YOU that you wish you would have seen as a Pickmeisha?I met this guy when I was visiting my best friend who lives abroad. We really hit it off so I visited a few more times (I visited my friend regularly, but I made my visits more frequent to see him). After 3 visits abroad in four months, I suddenly had an unexpected expense and could no longer afford to keep travelling. Not only did he not offer to come see me instead, when I suggested it he hit me with “We’ll see...” I live in a big tourist destination and flights are super cheap so it’s not lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 03:21 PM |
| 14 | Kristen Bell's husband says "America's sweetheart has some character defects" in a live interview with her... thoughts?This makes sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 05:49 PM |
| 13 | Kristen Bell's husband says "America's sweetheart has some character defects" in a live interview with her... thoughts?What’s hypergamy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 05:32 PM |
| 3 | I realised my budding relationship was going down an abusive path and broke it offI am not even giving him the chance to apologise. He’s going to remain blocked on my end. He made his bed now he’ll lie in it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 05:28 PM |
| 6 | I realised my budding relationship was going down an abusive path and broke it offThank you, it means so much to me :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 04:24 PM |
| 5 | I realised my budding relationship was going down an abusive path and broke it offYeah right. They think we were born yesterday | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 04:24 PM |
| 10 | I realised my budding relationship was going down an abusive path and broke it offHe has already unblocked me. His picture showed up again today. But he’s still blocked on my end so, tough shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 04:18 PM |
| 22 | I realised my budding relationship was going down an abusive path and broke it offThat would be hard to do since after he blocked me I also blocked him to make sure he could not come back. It was just so childish when he blocked me insteaf if having a conversation that I finally saw him for who he was like holy shit this man is 32. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 10:52 PM |
| 54 | I realised my budding relationship was going down an abusive path and broke it offI think the current coronavirus crisis provides a perfect example of this. If the government ordered a complete shutdown after one single death, people would think they’d lost their minds, even though all the experts who understand how viruses spread would have known it was the best thing to do. But we had to wait till there were hundreds of casualties before it was taken seriously. The fear of appearing crazy (even to ourselves) stops us from acting up on our instincts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:41 PM |
| 12 | "How dare you judge a man based on the restaurant he takes you to? You should be grateful even for McDonald's. He could be a doctor" or no sis, he probably is just a broke loser and offering to take you to a shitty place cause he can't do better.I don’t care if he’s broke or not. To me, the restaurant you pick for your first date is a preview of the kind of places you’ll be going as a couple during your potential future relationship. I once cancelled a first date because I had chosen a really nice restaurant/cocktail bar and the guy kept trying to convince me to have a beer at the pub instead. I have friends who would love that, but I ain’t one of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 06:27 PM |
| 10 | Always look for the positives - UK in lockdownI have seen men doing pull ups from a tree before. The gymbros are unstoppable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 11:39 AM |
| 37 | Always look for the positives - UK in lockdownYou can work out in a public park once a day in the UK - so now all the gym bros are gonna be in the wild | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 02:43 AM |
| 12 | I feel so proud!Honestly, the pick me part of myself wants to wait and see if he improves, but who am I kidding? We all know he won’t. The way we’ve left things works as closure if no one adds anything else, so I was hoping all the encouraging comments from the FDS ladies would keep me strong in seeing it as a breakup and not being tempted to text again. Didn’t think you were, I appreciate other points of view too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 10:28 PM |
| 18 | I feel so proud!Well you’re missing the whole story. Saying sweet things like the quarantine thing is something he always does, so that’s not new behaviour. It’s just a distraction tactic. When I said he made me feel bad sometimes I was referring to specific recent actions of his (which I didn’t get into in my post), and he didn’t address them, he just tried to sweeten me up with the spending time together stuff. It wasn’t my first time at this particular rodeo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 09:50 PM |
| 9 | I feel so proud!Desperate for what lol? I’m done with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 09:47 PM |
| 11 | I feel so proud!That is what I’m working towards! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 08:18 PM |
| 7 | I feel so proud!Yes!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 08:05 PM |
| 23 | I feel so proud!Absolutely! I can guarantee he hasn’t replied because he thinks I’m being “crazy” or something and he’s completely dismissed everything I said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 08:04 PM |
| 54 | I feel so proud!That’s exactly how I read it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 07:22 PM |
| 16 | My mom having a beautiful FDS moment (english is her second language :P )Hahaha go your mum! Donuts sound tempting though, I hope she went and bought herself some hahahaha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 09:09 AM |
| 7 | I have beenWas this all... the same man? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 11:47 PM |
| 3 | What do you think is the most common reason for why women wear makeup?Being able to rub my eyes once I stopped wearing make up was so liberating!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 03:35 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the most common reason for why women wear makeup?I think when I started as a teenager it was just because it was what everyone was doing. Then when I went through the thick of my teens and my sexual awakening it was to look better for men. Later, I just got used to the fact that I wore make up. It was routine. Put on clothes, shoes, make-up. I felt naked and ugly without it. A few months back I decided I wanted to sleep in as much as possible so I started leaving the house without it. At first I felt like I looked tired and I didn’t feel like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Men aren’t angry because they realized women want Chad. They’re angry because they realized they aren’t Chad.If I had a dollar for every time a man has tried to convince me that my standards are too high... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 03:11 PM |
| 53 | The bar is on the floor.The bar is on the floor... next to his bed, which is a bare mattress on the floor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 10:53 AM |
| 22 | Some quotes to practice, memorize, and repeat. Don't bow to the patriarchy, queens.“That’s completely inappropriate” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 05:22 PM |
| 10 | And that’s how you do itOkay so, maybe an unpopular opinion but, I would rather die than go to so much effor to ghost an ex. She literally changed her entire life over this man. Plus the fact that she did all this because it would hurt more than a normal breakup shows she is still letting him control her. She is still bothered about how he feels and what he thinks and making major life decisions with the only intent of causing a reaction in him. Why should she move, get a new job, leave her friends and family behind, c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 04:33 PM |
| 2 | I just had this exchange after telling a man us females don’t enjoy the “attention” we get. I’m fuming that these men exist.Yeah that was the one. The whole post was infuriating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 09:19 PM |
| 45 | I just had this exchange after telling a man us females don’t enjoy the “attention” we get. I’m fuming that these men exist.I wonder why he didn’t just pull out his weapon or call the police. Boom. Problem solved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 01:52 AM |
| 13 | I just had this exchange after telling a man us females don’t enjoy the “attention” we get. I’m fuming that these men exist.I wanted to burn it to the ground. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 01:51 AM |
| 31 | I just had this exchange after telling a man us females don’t enjoy the “attention” we get. I’m fuming that these men exist.My favourite is that to my comment he replied that he won’t die alone because he’s already getting laid. Lmaooo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 12:43 AM |
| 22 | I just had this exchange after telling a man us females don’t enjoy the “attention” we get. I’m fuming that these men exist.Men like him, I daresay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 12:05 AM |
| 5 | ShowerThought: Having a man is like owning a gun. In theory you have it for protection and to feel safe and confident, but statistically it’s actually more likely to kill you and someone you love than to be used against someone who is actually dangerous to you.Wow that is certainly an interesting take, I’m going to think about all the stuff you’ve said and reconsider my initial theory. [I’m aware this sounds sarcastic but I assure you it is not- I am genuinely open to other explanations] | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 12:23 AM |
| 25 | ShowerThought: Having a man is like owning a gun. In theory you have it for protection and to feel safe and confident, but statistically it’s actually more likely to kill you and someone you love than to be used against someone who is actually dangerous to you.Omg this is a big theory of mine! I was reflecting on how most women tend to be attracted to violence in some form (men bloody after a fight, scars, the violent killers in movies...), which is I believe a biological instinct from our prehistoric days when everything was out to kill us and we needed to rely on someone stronger to protect us. However, everything isn’t out to kill us anymore, and those violent men don’t have an outlet for their violence, so they unload it on the female partners the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 03:30 PM |
| 5 | FDS is NOT and will NEVER BE anything like The RedPill or MGTOW, and we are NOT incels. They’re playing tiddly-winks and we’re playing expert level chess.It’s funny to me when I get called a female incel because that’s literally the opposite of what we are. Their “celibacy” is involuntary because women wouldn’t touch them with a ten-foot pole, whereas we’re a) not celibate and b) actually turning down men voluntarily. Our issue isn’t that we don’t get any men, it’s that we get too many, and 99% of them suck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 02:58 AM |
| 16 | NO EXCUSES - Date Multiple Men Until Commitment is EstablishedI’m not great at multitasking so I usually like to focus on one thing at a time. However, after following advice from this sub, I have stopped seeing dates as these romantic potentially-meeting-the-love-of-my-life big life altering events, and now think of them as a job interview that I’m holding, and I think of the men as people who need to impress me, rather than the other way around. This year for the first time I started dating three men at once, and it wasn’t time consuming at all because I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 02:27 AM |
| 29 | To All Black FDSers: You are not crazy. The BS starts young!This is why we need to make sure we support ALL women, not just white women. We’re all sisters and we’re stronger together. We cannot let men belittle and humiliate some of us like that. When they insult a black girl, they insult all girls. Stand up for your fellow sisters always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 02:19 AM |
| 10 | You are a trainI love this! Gonna start thinking about it whenever I’m conflicted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 11:25 PM |
| 12 | When males give you the creep stare in public, don’t look away. Deliberately give them a complete face and body scan and sneer at them like you’re contemptuously noticing their presence long enough to memorize details about them for a future police sketch.I once was successful with a look of absolute disgust. An old man (grandad old) cat called me and my sister, and I couldn’t come up with a response in time, but the look of complete revulsion I gave him while I processed what had happened I think took him aback. I literally felt as if I had stepped on a pool of vomit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 04:45 PM |
| 17 | Since discovering this thread last week, I’ve gone on 2 first dates. Thanks to FDS I determined quickly that each were LVM. I felt confident leaving the date as soon as I realized their value. One date lasted 17 minutes. The other 50 minutes. My time is more precious than their ego. Thank you!!You can’t claim an animal but you can keep it in a cage apparently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 01:12 PM |
| 35 | When males give you the creep stare in public, don’t look away. Deliberately give them a complete face and body scan and sneer at them like you’re contemptuously noticing their presence long enough to memorize details about them for a future police sketch.I have tried doing this and unfortunately it backfired because he took it as me showing an interest in him and it encouraged him to engage with me more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 01:10 PM |
| 35 | Liberal Feminists really convinced an entire generation of women that casual sex was “empowering” and waiting until a relationship was old fashioned because they really thought the average man actually gave a fuck about their sexual pleasure.🤡Here’s another angle on that (that is equally fucked up): Every time I’ve had casual sex it wasn’t good because I was SOOOO focused on making sure the man had a good time that I completely forgot to worry about myself. Society has brainwashed us all into thinking our pleasure is secondary to a man’s, and we consequently neglect it for their sake. I have a female friend who doesn’t follow FDS, she’s at a stage in her life where she knows she’s gonna be moving overseas soon so she doesn’t want a r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 11:57 AM |
| 39 | FDS is now considered a controversial subreddit via WikipediaI think people miss the point that this is DATING advice. If your priority in life right now is to get your pussy licked, then by all means go have fun doing that, this sub just isn’t for you and that’s okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 02:42 AM |
| 5 | Shorcels can’t cope with FDS telling women to raise their standards. Reminder: these manlets think women actually fuck dogs (aka dogpilled) and openly hate and wish death upon us. Yet our sub is the problematic one?I’ve raised my standards so that their short asses can’t reach them 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 12:50 AM |
| 22 | What’s the best/highest effort first date you’ve ever been on?Omg A BINDER. I’m weak at the knees just reading about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 01:08 PM |
| 38 | What is the proper response for being asked out on a low effort 'date'?A man from Tinder and I had arranged to go on a date at a really nice place I had picked out. On the day of the date he suggested I meet him straight after work for a beer at a local bar since we both work around the same area. I said to him no, I had already planned a cute outfit for the place we were going to, and he had THE AUDACITY to point out he preferred girls in Vans than in heels. I happen to love wearing comfy footwear, but what I 250% don’t love is a man telling me how to dress. So I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 02:46 AM |
| 6 | Don't kneecap your sentences.And I would also add “and stuff”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Y’all making alt-accounts, DMing is, telling us how we’re wrong. But when did we ask? 🤨 We don’t want your input, we don’t want none of it. You guys are so salty and hurt cause we’re right.I’m 30 and I honestly have never felt/looked better. Finally discovered a sport I like so I’m in the best shape of my life, I can afford nice clothes and manicures, and I have finally gotten good at doing my make-up. This week I got hit on by several 18-20 year olds, as well as some older men up to mid-50s. Please explain to me again how my meat is expired. I got four generations of supermarket box wine tryina get a bite of this filet mignon 💁🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 12:42 AM |
| 52 | On Moving in with a BoyfriendI would add an extra detail. If you are moving in with a boyfriend, at least NEVER EVER move into a place he already rents/owns. You will never get over the feeling it’s “his” place, even if your name is on the lease. And if things go south, guess who’ll be asked to leave? You. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 12:12 AM |
| 20 | Do not take him to your favorite restuarant/dessert place/park..etcI have a “first date” spot that I go to with all my first dates. I like it because I know the layout, I like the vibe, the drinks and the food, I can easily get home from there, and if I ever bump into a former flame there I will be on a date with a hottie so I’ll come out victorious from the encounter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 10:10 PM |
| 58 | Why FDS incites male rage.I got a man message me about how FDS was recruiting young naive girls and poisoning their minds. LMAOOOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 10:06 PM |
| 28 | Y’all making alt-accounts, DMing is, telling us how we’re wrong. But when did we ask? 🤨 We don’t want your input, we don’t want none of it. You guys are so salty and hurt cause we’re right.I had a man message me last week to say I was expired rotting meat because I was 30 and that men age like fine wine. I would LOVE to meet this man in person and have his fine wine stand next to my rotten meat LMAO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Next time a man asks why FDS isn’t getting banned but redpill and MGTOW are... this message I got last night is why.Yep, right away. Deleted his profile now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 03:44 PM |
| 121 | What I’ve been saying!Omg if I had a dollar for every time a man has randomly tried to put a finger up my bum I would be able to retire early. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 01:17 AM |
| 139 | What I’ve been saying!I dated this guy who was into BDSM and would keep referring to the sex we had as vanilla sex. I don’t know why but it really rubbed me the wrong way (pun intended). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 01:12 AM |
| 15 | Some random man just messaged me asking me to be his sugar baby....I could have been the trendiest lady on the bus!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 07:58 PM |
| 13 | Some random man just messaged me asking me to be his sugar baby....Hahahaha omg i wish i could turn back time and reply with that before id blocked him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 07:56 PM |
| 161 | This is why EVERY woman needs FDSHe certainly knew how to sustain the life of the mold lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 04:33 PM |
| 74 | This is why EVERY woman needs FDSDear god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 03:59 PM |
| 22 | I don’t know why Pickmeishas bother bragging about their husbands like I can’t date him too.Whenever I talk about my standards and what I bring to the table that entitles me to have those standards on literally any other subreddit, I get inundated with men saying “oooh if you’re so pretty and nice then where’s your boyfriend?” And I’m like, buried under a huge pile of useless low value dumbasses like yourselves so it’s taking me forever to find him, thank you for asking! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 03:47 PM |
| 390 | This is why EVERY woman needs FDSI’ve been guilty of this. Stayed over at a guy’s house and he had a towel-shaped mold stain on the back of his door. I could actually smell the mold from the bed. I went and bought cleaning supplies, some hangers because all his clothes were everywhere, and a towel for myself. I normally wouldn’t have done this, but I was visiting him in another continent for two weeks, and I couldn’t afford a hotel. I cleaned and tidied everything, but when he thanked me I made it clear to him I had only done t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 03:43 PM |
| 3 | How do I “break up” with a HVM I have no chemistry with?Update: used this and it worked! He said he wished me all the best. Phew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 03:34 PM |
| 2 | How do I “break up” with a HVM I have no chemistry with?Thank you! Yes, I definitely want to be polite and kind because he’s honestly very nice. He took me on lovely dates to eat delicious food, always walked me home, and we laughed a lot. It’s just the vibe was definitely more friendly than romantic, but I think he might make another woman a great partner some day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 11:13 PM |
| 2 | How do I “break up” with a HVM I have no chemistry with?Thank you! Might just copy this word for word lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 11:10 PM |
| 57 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Why are you shocked at how terrible males are? 😦It’s insane. And the worst part is they wrote it as her genuinely being with him because she loves him and not for security. But that ridiculous male fantasy crumbles when they see who Sofia Vergara is really married to IRL. And I think that’s what pisses scrotes off, they have been sold this lie that they deserve incredible women without they themselves having anything to offer, and when they are faced with reality it makes them angry and they lash out at the women because they feel they’re act… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 05:55 PM |
| 88 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Why are you shocked at how terrible males are? 😦Also, Hollywood. Look at the husband they gave Sofia Vergara on Modern Family. SOFIA VERGARA!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 04:01 PM |
| 4 | Leveling up, I guessNothing like the glow up after getting rid of a dead weight! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:11 PM |
| 36 | I'm trying to read The New Rules but sis... The mysogyny...You may take my freedom, but you will NEVER TAKE MY EYEBROWS!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 07:47 PM |
| 11 | I can’t stop but cringe when I see a man shaming a woman for not being a virginAlso, virginity is a stupid pointless concept used by men to assign value and control women. When I have children I will talk to them about “experimenting with sex” and “intercourse”, but the word virgin will be banned from my household. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 12:28 AM |
| 44 | Who ages like milk, again? Gwen Stefani vs Blake SheltonI’d be pissed off if I took such good care of my appearance and was fucking banging after 20 years and my SO looked like a potato I accidentally microwaved for too long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 08:16 PM |
| 299 | A demisexual is defined as “a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone.” Thanks to Porn, the description of a normal healthy sexual bond is now a fringe sexual orientation instead of a given.I am attracted to lots of men, but would I have sex with them? Probably not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 08:14 PM |
| 39 | The cockacity!!!!“I’m sorry I shouldn’t have said anything.” This one’s the most passive aggressive and I hate it so much. He upsets you, you confront him about it, and instead of apologising for the behaviour/words that hurt you, he apologises for speaking, thinking he has tricked you into believing he’s apologised since he technically said the word “sorry,” but at the same time conveying the veiled threat that he won’t be communicating with you anymore if you get upset at what he says or does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 06:43 PM |
| 4 | Idk if this was shared here before butIt’s happened to me twice to go over to stay at a grown ass man’s house (I was visiting them, so they definitely knew I was coming well in advance) and when I get there the entire place is a mess. Dirty dishes, unmade bed, clothes everywhere... Not cleaning your house before you have guests over is like not showering after the gym when you know you’re gonna have sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 03:30 PM |
| 3 | LOL some lurker decided to sexualize my dog after I posted on here saying how happy I was that I adopted her. Talk about projection!I hope you reported this too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 03:09 PM |
| 27 | I've been in a relationship with my (26f) boyfriend (31m) for seven years. I am the definition of a forever girlfriend.It sucks but you have to break your own heart here, on your own terms, before he breaks it for you in a much more painful way. Your boyfriend clearly doesn’t want to get married (at least to you), and at this point even if he proposed it would only be because it’s what you want - not what he wants. And you deserve a man who proposes to you because every time he looks at you he thinks WIFE! and buys a ring and carries it around for weeks in his pocket trying to find the perfect moment to give it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 01:52 PM |
| 17 | I got a dog and it’s cured my Pickme-itisI don’t even want to know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 01:24 PM |
| 22 | I graduated from university today! :)Congratunations!!!! Killing it 💃🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 04:05 PM |
| 37 | Proud to be a Judge Judy ass bitch 😚OUCH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 01:40 PM |
| 3 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”She’s not real, he told me he made the story up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 01:39 PM |
| 19 | Look at your girlfriendHahahahahahahaahahaha omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 12:28 PM |
| 28 | "I'm looking for a woman who will clean my house, cook for me, and pay the bills. No gold diggers."Hahahaahha omg this looks hilarious BUT HEAR ME OUT. Imagine all the buttcracks we would not have to see if men who bend down frequently wore these lolllll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 12:22 PM |
| 28 | Someone needs to hear this... Oh and that woman’s husband is NOT your soulmate 😂. Level up.I need to get this through my thick skull | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 12:21 PM |
| 11 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”Yeah exactly. Plus FDS is really not that big a movement. Only members and incels know about it, and since I’m not dating other women guess which one that would make him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 01:11 AM |
| 8 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”Yes, I kinda want to find that poor girl and take her under my wing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 01:05 AM |
| 15 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”Oh, shoot sorry! I should have posted there, my bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 12:16 AM |
| 17 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”She might not have been FDS. In his message he told me she was a student like him who suggested going on a date to a restaurant where main dishes were $60 each, and he “put her in her place” by telling her he’s a broke student and if she wants someone who can afford that she’s gonna end up being treated like a prostitute by older men (and that’s when she cried). So she might have just simply been an 18 year old girl who wanted to feel more grown up going to a fancy restaurant for the first time … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 12:15 AM |
| 24 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”Holy fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 12:12 AM |
| 40 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”I also got a message about how feminists promote domestic violence. HOW THEFUCK jfnsnsbdksldjf I have no words. I’m not gonna lie, my soul feels tired. Millennia of abuse and they still can’t fucking let us be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 12:11 AM |
| 42 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”Omg finally I have a name for my coworker. The other day at lunch we mentioned feminism and he sighed audibly and left the room. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 11:46 PM |
| 42 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”He’s an 18 year old boy. Bless him for thinking he can be an intellectual match for full grown women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 11:42 PM |
| 41 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”Funny how they keep insisting we hate men despite us being nothing but polite to them, even when god knows they don’t deserve it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 11:41 PM |
| 20 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”What’s MGTOW? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 11:35 PM |
| 27 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”Like word for word? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 11:34 PM |
| 34 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”IF YOU ARE THE GIRL IN THIS STORY, COME FORWARD! We’ve got you girl :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 11:26 PM |
| 96 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”I just checked his profile, and he seems obsessed with FDS. All his posts are against this sub, and the ones that are not are about his foreskin (and I mean his literal foreskin, I shit you not.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Are you all getting bombarded with messages from absolute GOBLINS on OLD?Do it! I’m never rude because I don’t need that kind of energy in my life, so I just thank them for their message and ask the question. If you do do it, let us know what they reply! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Before you say yesNah, I can afford not to stay at hostels so I don’t see why I would. I’ll live a little in the jacuzzi of my nice hotel thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 02:23 PM |
| 8 | Before you say yesA guy I dated would not text me for a couple days when we argued on something and then come back as if nothing had happened, and yep, he was a gaslighting piece of shit. Never again. If you don’t text me back, next time you try to text me you’ll find you can’t because you’re blocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 10:14 PM |
| 10 | Before you say yesNah I’m way too old to be staying at hostels. If I can’t afford a nice hotel then I can’t afford to travel. I’d rather do less trips but enjoy them more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 05:13 PM |
| 13 | Before you say yesHonestly if it had just been the KitKat I would have been happy because he was such a good person, but he was also a bit boring so I broke it off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 04:07 PM |
| 6 | Before you say yesUgh!! That’s so annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 03:56 PM |
| 25 | Once you defeat all the Pickmeishas, you have to battle the Queen.Yikes. Just... yikes. Sadly for her, this kind of talk is prime predator bait, so she’ll likely end up with a cheating, emotionally distant and controlling douchebag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 03:15 PM |
| 14 | Before you say yesBut I want to stay at super fancy hotels :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 02:53 PM |
| 42 | Before you say yesYes! Definitely have an argument. No matter how well you get on, there will come a point when you WILL have an argument, and it’s essential that your ways of dealing with it are compatible. I have abandonment issues stemming from my childhood, and the worst thing you can do to me is ignore me or shut me out. So a person who deals with an argument with silence would not be a good match for me. I work well with people who prefer to sit down and talk things over until we’ve reached a solution. Wher… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 02:49 PM |
| 34 | Before you say yesMy ex was a great guy (the only good man I’ve ever dated), but sometimes when we were travelling he’d randomly get cranky. It took me a while to work out it was because he was hungry, and after that I would carry KitKats in my bag and when I noticed he was starting to get cranky I’d hand him one and boom! Lovely again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 02:44 PM |
| 21 | Before you say yesIs there a cheap version of this? Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 02:41 PM |
| 6 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?He can blame her while there’s shit running down his legs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 03:48 AM |
| 3 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?I feel you, and I hope with all my heart you meet a sexy HV stranger through work and you fall madly in love and leave your current husband and you never have to speak to a LV male again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 03:47 AM |
| 28 | Are you all getting bombarded with messages from absolute GOBLINS on OLD?No, I just think that what that means is probably that 90% of men are gross. You focus on that top 10%. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 03:34 AM |
| 7 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?Good for you!! Mari Andrew has a comic on her instagram exactly about how when we tell men they have upset us they get extremely upset about having upset us and now we have to comfort them. It reminds me of a post I saw recently from a woman who had been raped and her boyfriend wouldn’t stop crying and being angry and upset so now on top of surviving rape she had to comfort her own boyfriend about it. Fuck that noise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 03:32 AM |
| 7 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?Amen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 03:28 AM |
| 10 | Are you all getting bombarded with messages from absolute GOBLINS on OLD?I genuinely sometimes feel like the “hey” messages I get from these extremely LVM are the online equivalent of catcalling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 03:27 AM |
| 3 | Are you all getting bombarded with messages from absolute GOBLINS on OLD?No worries :) If you want a tip, the compliment I get most often from men is about my smile. I have some photos where I think I look so pretty, but they all seem to respond to the one of me smiling big. You’re more beautiful than you think. 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 03:22 AM |
| 8 | Are you all getting bombarded with messages from absolute GOBLINS on OLD?I wasn’t complaining about just their looks though. It’s the fact we had absolutely nothing in common, and the age difference was enormous in many cases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 03:03 AM |
| 33 | Are you all getting bombarded with messages from absolute GOBLINS on OLD?Except that when HVW have to “nope, next” HUNDREDS of times, and it’s taking time out of their lives and it’s outrageous, sometimes they get burnt out and want to vent. Plus, I believe it’s not just “men shooting their shot too high”, I think it’s a symptom of the kind of mysoginistic society we live in, where men have been led to believe by the media that no matter how unattractive, unpleasant and unemployed they are, they deserve a hot wife (The Simpsons, Family Guy, Modern Family, Married wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 02:39 AM |
| 39 | Are you all getting bombarded with messages from absolute GOBLINS on OLD?That’s because the problem is not the technology, it’s the users. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Well Tweet Tweety twit bitchThis made me giggle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 02:24 AM |
| 1 | LVMs standards for women vs pickmeishas standards for menThis reminds me of an article posted by OKcupid where they said that men overestimated they were by like 40% and women only 17% I think (don’t quote me on that). But basically men messaged women that were WAY out of their league, whereas women were more realistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 02:12 AM |
| 7 | LVMs standards for women vs pickmeishas standards for menThe neckbeard gave me chills | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 02:10 AM |
| 2 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?I’m so glad there’s a happy ending to this story! That description had me gagging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 01:51 AM |
| 4 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?We all have, it’s great to have you on board! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 01:49 AM |
| 2 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?Holy shit hahahahahaha a grown man had an emotional tantrum because your hair was a bit darker lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 01:48 AM |
| 3 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?Thefuck?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 01:48 AM |
| 5 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?Oh no :( I’m glad this was so long ago, and I hope your life is easier now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 01:47 AM |
| 7 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?Oh. My. God. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 01:46 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on “low/high maintenance men”?I’ve always dated super easy going and laid back men because I’m a bit high strung and like to be in control of things, so it worked out well for me. Except eventually, deciding the small fun stuff like restaurants and movies would soon turn into having to organise everything because if I left it to him it would not get done on time and I would have to deal with the consequences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 07:20 PM |
| 7 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?Congratulations on winning the 50’s Pickmeisha achievement! Hahahaha 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 05:53 PM |
| 12 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?It will never cease to amaze me how these absolute zeroes think they deserve not one but multiple women. Thank god you got out of that situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Don't send nudes. EVER.Fuck I think that’s worse. Messaging apps should come with an “erase message and receiver’s memory of it” button. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 05:48 PM |
| 11 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?I hope he was undiagnosed lactose intollerant and your cookies gave him diarrhea. He didn’t deserve to enjoy them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 05:46 PM |
| 17 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?Oh babe, hahahahahah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 03:59 PM |
| 25 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?You just described my birthday two years ago word for word. My birthday was 5 days before his too, and despite announcing I had something really cool for him, he had nothing for me. He kept saying he was gonna get round to it but never did. We ended up breaking up 3 months later for unrelated reasons, but stayed friends. But plot twist!!! For christmas a few months after we broke up I asked him to buy me an iPhone and he did. And I got him a kit-kat. So I feel like I was vindicated. Two years la… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 03:57 PM |
| 23 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?Yikes. You dodged a bullet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 02:25 PM |
| 15 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?Oh no! Did you get your money back? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 02:24 PM |
| 6 | What a high value male looks like in everyday lifeMy grandpa used to wake up early and bring my granny breakfast in bed every single day until he became ill in his 80s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 11:01 AM |
| 12 | Thoughts on “low/high maintenance men”?Yes. I have always wanted to be in control but I think that stemmed from a place of insecurity. I’m learning to let go more lately and I have been pleasantly surprised. A guy took me on a date at a crazy golf cocktail bar and I was taken aback at first but I went for it and it was the best first date I’ve ever been on. It’s nice to let someone else take responsibility for ensuring that everybody’s having fun, tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 03:23 PM |
| 30 | Don't send nudes. EVER.I only realised when I woke up in the morning and I couldn’t delete it. There was only 2 guys in the group thankfully. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 02:52 PM |
| 32 | Thoughts on “low/high maintenance men”?I’ve had an instance of the opposite for a first date: We had agreed to meet at my favourite cocktail bar for a drink on a weeknight, and a few hours before he started saying since my work is close to his house why don’t we just get a beer after I get off and then we can go to the cocktail place if I want. I said to him I didn’t dress for a date this morning when I left for work because I was counting on being able to go home and shower first. He replied that he much preferred girls in Vans than… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 12:31 PM |
| 186 | Don't send nudes. EVER.One time I was sending a guy a photo of my ass and I instead sent it to my work group chat (luckily it was the one for my work friends, but still - they didn’t let me live it down) LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES GIRLS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 11:56 AM |
| 48 | LVMs be like:“Immediate want to have sex with him” The comment section is literally the opposite of this subreddit. One of the women said her man “didn’t stink”. Is the bar really THAT low?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 11:04 AM |
| 12 | guys are learning astrology to try to get laidOmg I almost spit my drink at that plot twist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 07:47 PM |
| 10 | What if the sex is bad?Well yes but what if it’s not he’s bad at sex it’s that his penis is too small or too huge for me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 02:17 PM |
| 11 | What if the sex is bad?Hahaha yes. You’re right, I am going to keep seeing other people until it’s time for sexy times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 02:16 PM |
| 16 | What if the sex is bad?Yes, this is the answer I was looking for! Thank you! The thing I’m most worried about is size (too small or too big) and/or weird fetishes. Technique you can modify so it’s less important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 02:15 PM |
| 10 | What if the sex is bad?Well I wasn’t quite talking about technique, more like... the penis situation. It’s happened to me before that a guy I was dating was very small and it literally didn’t feel like anything when he was inside me. We did other stuff, of course, but I don’t want to live my whole life...unfulfilled | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 02:12 PM |
| 13 | What if the sex is bad?I’m sure it wasn’t your intention but your comment comes across as a bit judgy. I usually talk to men for several weeks before meeting, so it doesn’t feel like I’m sleeping with a stranger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 02:11 PM |
| 29 | With men, you must be prepared to walk away the *first* time they fuck upTHIS!! In my entire life, I have overlooked so many red, orange, yellow and neon flags you’d think I was colourblind. And every single time, those flags were a symptom of something much bigger. Why is it that we’re unable to run away when we hear the leaves rustling, we have to be halfway in the lion’s mouth for us to spring into action? The ONLY time in my life where forgiving a fuck-up was worth it was with my ex H. He was 21 and I was 25, and he had never dated a girl before. At the time he w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Use this as a reply if an ex tries to text you“You do not spark joy”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 02:01 PM |
| 19 | “She is crazy!!” is any man’s favorite description of a woman he used to date 🙄This is the biggest red flag for me. If a man says his ex was crazy, I automatically start reevaluating his character and everything he’s told me about himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 10:07 PM |
| 33 | How could I have been so blind??YES! Everything you just said is exactly how it happened. Thank you so much for your words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 07:49 PM |
| 17 | Whole lot of unfaithful husbands and dads with secret children being outed lately due to ancestry DNA tests taken by their kids. I see a new one of these every day.All infidely talks aside. It is true that the police can track crimes by using the DNA you’ve provided. If anyone you share a blood relation with has taken one of those and you commit a crime they gotcha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Live your lives with the confidence of a LVM who writes “in town till friday” on his dating profile.Omg can you imagine if you went on a date with some guy who was only in town for a few days and then you see him a couple weeks later out shopping with his mum hahahaha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 10:36 PM |
| 84 | SeXuAl eMpOwErmeNt vs Sexual Empowerment, and why this sub does not support BDSM, Abuse Kink, and Performative SexualityWow. This has given me SO much to think about. I am an avid feminist, but for a while now something’s not been sitting right with me. We’re “taking back ownership of our sexuality”, and yet somehow, it seems to be in ways that are appealing to the male gaze. Even as we fight for our rights, we’re told we have to be the better person and take the high road. Why though?? We’ve been oppressed for literally millenia, and we still are. It’s time instead of thinking of how to keep the peace and keep e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Live your lives with the confidence of a LVM who writes “in town till friday” on his dating profile.Married broke manboi (TM) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 11:30 PM |
| 33 | Live your lives with the confidence of a LVM who writes “in town till friday” on his dating profile.Broke boi (TM) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 05:57 PM |
| 7 | Grown adult man won’t wash his penis and balls because he thinks it’s “gay”. 🤮This can’t be true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 10:19 AM |
| 4 | Idk who needs this reminder today but you don’t need to check if you “won” the breakupWhat a piece of useless trash. Plus, don’t they know every break up inspires us to improve ourselves so we literally keep getting hotter and wiser? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 09:12 AM |
| 3 | REMINDER: Every time you don’t text him, every time you don’t check his social media, is an act of self-love.It was a GODSEND when they removed the activity page. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 09:10 AM |
| 19 | A real conversation I have literally just hadAnd cutie!! I can feel my ovaries recoiling and my vagina growing teeth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 08:34 AM |
| 106 | A real conversation I have literally just hadI think I must have swiped on accident because I do not even remember seeing that torso and suddenly it had messaged me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 01:03 AM |
| 79 | A real conversation I have literally just hadYes, I was trying to be sarcastic but he didn’t get it. He literally replied asking me for my Snapchat. Gonna make myself clear now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 12:31 AM |
| 3 | REMINDER: Every time you don’t text him, every time you don’t check his social media, is an act of self-love.Yes, I’m loving this energy!!! (( fistpump )) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 12:09 AM |
| 9 | Don’t be ashamed to tell him your dietary needs when having dinnerThis is exactly why I ALWAYS pick the location for a first date. There’s a chance I might not like the dude, so I wanna make sure I at least enjoy the drinks, food and atmosphere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 11:25 PM |
| 1 | I think I found a HVM but I’m not catching feelingsSo far, every man I have ever been in a relationship with there has been a spark after a first date. So I think I know you’re right. I am going to give this one more date because I have nothing to lose and no other plans this weekend and I do have a lot of fun with him, but I’m pretty sure I will have to call it quits after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 11:04 PM |
| 14 | Idk who needs this reminder today but you don’t need to check if you “won” the breakupI am so guilty of this. Except my MO is to unfollow them so I can’t see how they’re doing, but allow them to keep following me so they can see how my life gets progressively more fabulous. Except so far it hasn’t and one of my exes is married and the other two in relationships while I’m single sooooo :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 10:57 PM |
| 4 | REMINDER: Every time you don’t text him, every time you don’t check his social media, is an act of self-love.Yes! It helps to think about it rationally. What would be the outcome of me checking his instagram/initiating a conversation? Best case scenario you find out absolutely nothing and you waste your time, worst case scenario he humiliates you by ignoring you or being cruel. Literally NOTHING to gain. Stay strong!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 10:53 PM |
| 5 | REMINDER: Every time you don’t text him, every time you don’t check his social media, is an act of self-love.Wow I am kind of impressed haha. But yeah, I think I have an obsessive personality and while I have never gone that far, I have definitely refreshed the same app dozens of times in a day and stared at the “online” status hoping for it to turn into “typing...” It is so draining and so harmful to your mental health to allow someone WHO ISN’T EVEN THINKING ABOUT YOU to occupy so much of your mental space! Better nip it in the bud. Besides, the time you spend obsessing is time you could be meeting s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 09:49 PM |
| 1 | I think I found a HVM but I’m not catching feelingsWell yes, that’s why I am concerned. He does make me laugh a lot, but if he doesn’t text me for a few days I don’t even notice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 09:41 PM |
| 1 | What's dating culture like outside of the USA?Oh my God those are horrifying!!! My worst one was when I was 15 I was walking down the beachwalk and a man grabbed me by the waist and try to drag me into a hotel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 07:17 PM |
| 11 | REMINDER: Every time you don’t text him, every time you don’t check his social media, is an act of self-love.I know! So sad lol. Detective Pickmeisha over here analysing how he posted a wrestling meme 7 mins ago 🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 07:15 PM |
| 4 | REMINDER: Every time you don’t text him, every time you don’t check his social media, is an act of self-love.I’ve done a variation of this before. “I won’t look today, I just need to get through one day.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 07:13 PM |
| 2 | What's dating culture like outside of the USA?I haven’t felt that, but I think that’s because I grew up around it and have learned to be so firm in my rejection that it leaves no room for negotiation. One time we were dancing at the club and this guy kept poking his head in our circle trying to introduce himself and my friend was having none of it and she put her whole open palm hand on his face and pushed it away. It was glorious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 07:11 PM |
| 12 | REMINDER: Every time you don’t text him, every time you don’t check his social media, is an act of self-love.I haven’t gone as far as blocking, but since my profile and their profiles are usually private, once you hit the unfollow button they’re gone. It feels so cathartic to finally close that door forever. No fuss, no scene, no announcement. Just quietly one day, byeeee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 04:24 PM |
| 7 | REMINDER: Every time you don’t text him, every time you don’t check his social media, is an act of self-love.YES, GIRL! Proud of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 04:20 PM |
| 4 | What's dating culture like outside of the USA?Ha, I wish that surprised me but sadly I have much worse experiences than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 04:20 PM |
| 11 | REMINDER: Every time you don’t text him, every time you don’t check his social media, is an act of self-love.I have trained myself to say a mantra every time I’m tempted. I’ll just go, “I am loving myself by not looking at it.” I think for me, realising that not doing it was as powerful as an act of self love is really what gave me the strength. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 04:19 PM |
| 14 | REMINDER: Every time you don’t text him, every time you don’t check his social media, is an act of self-love.This was what I was doing until recently lol. I didn’t even have him on Facebook but I would check his profile several times a day like a total creep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 04:16 PM |
| 2 | I think I found a HVM but I’m not catching feelingsOh, thank you! I will see if Amazon have it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 01:48 PM |
| 8 | What's dating culture like outside of the USA?Yes! I have never gone to dinner on a first date I find that so awkward. Usually I will go to upscale cocktail bars. Last month a guy took me to a bar/crazy golf and I was put off because I had never done an activity date before, but it turned out to be really fun! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 01:42 PM |
| 8 | What's dating culture like outside of the USA?Representing Spain! I think dating here is too casual. Spain is a very laid back country and the dating culture reflects this. It’s very common for first dates to be just meeting up for a beer, casual wear, and splitting the bill or taking turns paying for rounds is the norm. I have spent most of my adult life living and working in the UK and I don’t subscribe to Spain’s attitude towards dating at all. I like to dress up for a first date, be taken to a nice place, have the man pay. It should fee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 01:39 PM |
| 2 | I think I found a HVM but I’m not catching feelingsI might go back on Tinder and find a second man to date. Normally I do one at a time but with this I feel like I have the time and energy to see someone else as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 08:57 AM |
| 6 | I think I found a HVM but I’m not catching feelingsIt’s not the fact that I don’t find him attractive, which I do, he’s handsome. It’s more that I don’t think he’s flirty with me? Which is weird considering we’re going on dates. But when we hang out it feels like it’s purely platonic. Usually on a date a guy will do stuff like gently touch your arm, or brush his hand against yours when passing you a drink, or kinda linger with his eyes on your mouth a bit longer than usual, stuff like that. But this guy doesn’t. I think that’s what I’m missing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 08:54 AM |
| 14 | I think I found a HVM but I’m not catching feelingsNo, he just told me “I think I might be getting the flu” and I offered to reschedule but he said no because it was literally his last night before flying home for the holidays. He was a bit sniffly but not in a gross way lol. I genuinely think this guy doesn’t have a scheming bone in his body, | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 01:18 AM |
| 62 | I think I found a HVM but I’m not catching feelingsOh my god I think you have hit the nail in the head. My brain is so stupid that it thinks not scary = not exciting. What my insecure and Pickmeisha side wants is a bad boy and drama and big gestures, but what I NEED is a stable, reliable and consistently kind man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Please tell me there are men out there with more emotional maturity than a three year old and that I’ve just been unlucky?You live and learn haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 03:23 PM |
| 38 | Please tell me there are men out there with more emotional maturity than a three year old and that I’ve just been unlucky?I thought I’d met one, but syke! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 01:21 PM |
| 6 | Can I stop and say I love how supportive we are towards each other?Yes!! The world is so hellbent on setting us against eachother, it’s nice that we are taking back the power that community gives us. This sub has given me the strength to not feel bad for demanding that my standards are met. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 01:19 PM |
| 18 | JUST👏🏼SAY👏🏼NO👏🏼TO👏🏼TACO👏🏼BELL👏🏼 😂Fast food chains stop being acceptable for dates past the age of 16, chains in general stop being acceptable after uni. Do your research and find a cute bar or restaurant and call ahead to book a table, bonus points for saying it’s a special occasion and asking for a cosy spot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 10:42 PM |
| 33 | r/AITA: Her Brother got a woman pregnant, then blocked her and refused to help pay for the abortion. His sister KICKED HIS DEADBEAT ASS THE FUCK OUT OF HER HOUSE for the audacity. Imagine if all women held their male relatives this accountable?🙌👑One time I was buying some snacks from a corner shop at 3 am. As I was paying, a man walked in and started hitting on me, calling me prettty, telling me to smile, asking me if I wanted to go dance with him. I kept my eyes down and didn’t reply as I didn’t want to make him angry, but the shopkeeper was not having none of it!!! He told him to stop bothering me, refused to sell him anything, and made him leave. I was so grateful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 12:21 PM |
| 31 | r/AITA: Her Brother got a woman pregnant, then blocked her and refused to help pay for the abortion. His sister KICKED HIS DEADBEAT ASS THE FUCK OUT OF HER HOUSE for the audacity. Imagine if all women held their male relatives this accountable?🙌👑Imagine if all MEN held their relatives accountable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 11:59 AM |
| 14 | 😝What country do you live in? I was in a similar situation and I got then taken down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 08:34 AM |
| 18 | Came across this gem today. My age-range setting is 23-27, not “aging like grade c dairy products”Too bad, this guy’s not interested. Hahahaha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 04:37 PM |
| 10 | Came across this gem today. My age-range setting is 23-27, not “aging like grade c dairy products”Well there’s more features, you can recover matches you accidentally swiped left on and other stuff. Not quite sure. I don’t know any women who have it but you’ll occasionally see men without their age and distance so you know they do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 04:13 PM |
| 36 | Came across this gem today. My age-range setting is 23-27, not “aging like grade c dairy products”My sister recently came across a really hot guy whose bio said not to message him unless you had a thigh gap, so... nobody’s safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 04:07 PM |
| 14 | Came across this gem today. My age-range setting is 23-27, not “aging like grade c dairy products”Yeah, if you pay for premium. I think that’s unethical tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 04:05 PM |
| 1 | [REQUEST] Help me find a creep?Could you redirect me to the correct sub please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 02:45 PM |
| 78 | I don’t think this is what they wanted 😂 *laughs in irony*I have yet to taste the meal worth more than shaving your legs to spend a few hours sat across a virtual stranger, repeatedly saying “oh wow” to his lame college days anecdotes. If I was after free food I’d go visit my grandma | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 02:57 AM |
| 6 | Put them above everything elseI’m curious is this a metaphor or do you mean it quite literally? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/19 03:10 AM |
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