I have been talking for about a week to someone smart and interesting. He asked me out last weekend for either coffee or drinks. I declined, and said i don't do those.

We continue to talk this week. He asks me out again and here is his message, verbatim:

"since you don't do coffee or drinks, how about dessert? Something low key so we can kick each other's tires and escape if we hate each other's guts".

I replied "That is very low effort from the start, and suggests that we aren't looking for the same thing. Thanks for chatting, and good luck. ".

I sent it, and ended up unmatching him before he could reply. ON the hand, i wanted to call him out on this bullshit, but again, I"m not a teacher here.