ricemilkfoam Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	If your partner cries and makes a big self pity fuss every time you call him out on his shit, he's already worthless This is some sage wisdom and it’s so true. He was specifically like this when it came to conflict. His parents are a couple that “never fought” because they’d just bottle up their issues and never bring them up, so when he was with me, no matter how calmly or compassionately I tried to communicate with him, he viewed it as our relationship not working and he’d retaliate because of it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/20 11:47 PM
7	If your partner cries and makes a big self pity fuss every time you call him out on his shit, he's already worthless Every apology my ex gave me came after I apologized to him first. What kills me is that he lived on the idea that he was such a sweet and caring boyfriend, “not like the other boyfriends” if you will, but whenever I’d point out that he wasn’t, he simply would shut down and couldn’t handle me challenging his view of himself. It’s important for us to recognize abuse in all forms. I bought into his nonsense for so long, but my therapist helped me realize what he was doing to me was emotional abuse.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/20 06:24 PM
7	I matched with this total train wreck of a man on OLD. Not only is he broke AF, but admits to using his ex gf to get a free place to stay and making it sounds like he is doing her a favor. All this within an hour of matching. WTactualF Genuinely curious what a farm murder is.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/20 06:09 PM
3	Compromising vs Settling In my last relationship, we didn’t have sex until 4 months in. This wasn’t because I was following a rule; it was due to medical reasons. But going through that put a lot of things in perspective for me. He asked me to be his girlfriend before we had sex, and we had a great relationship where I knew he cared about me well in advance. However, I didn’t get to find out until much later that we weren’t sexually compatible. For me, sex and sexually compatibility are very important to me, so I have n…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/20 04:26 AM
30	He doesn't have time = he doesn't want to make time You deserve so much better! Seriously, we’re all stuck at home and even those of us that are able to work from home have never had so much free time. Unless he’s a healthcare professional or an essential employee at a grocery store or something, there is no excuse why he can’t have virtual dates with you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/20 12:03 AM
107	He doesn't have time = he doesn't want to make time I started seeing someone before lockdown too. We went on maybe 4 or 5 dates? Sis, that boy calls me every single day while we’re in quarantine. I haven’t seen him in person in about 3 weeks, but we have FaceTime and Netflix dates multiple times per week, we read things together, and he’s even teaching me how to speak Spanish. It took me a very long time to realize this, but if a man wants to be with you, he’ll do everything in his power to show you that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/20 11:56 PM
19	[QUESTION] What's it like dating a HVM? I’d tell my ex in 5,000 different ways that hydrangeas are my favorite and he never once would get them for me. No more LVM 2020.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/20 03:41 PM
4	What is the proper response for being asked out on a low effort 'date'? I cackled.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/02/20 07:33 AM
6	There are always more men I’m going to sound conceited as hell, but none of my exes have done better than me. I can’t say the same about myself. They get better in each new relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/02/20 06:35 AM
6	As a female... I’m not familiar. Yikes.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/20 04:10 PM
137	As a female... Literally no woman has ever said “as a female.” 100% that’s a dude.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/20 12:00 PM