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FDS MEMEStheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:42 PM
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FDS MEMEStheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:42 PM
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RANTtheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:24 PM
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LEVEL UPtheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 07:51 PM
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theghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:18 PM
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FDS MEMEStheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 09:37 PM
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#JustLVMThingstheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:53 AM
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RANTtheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 12:01 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYtheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 02:52 AM
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COUCH CREATUREStheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:12 AM
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STRATEGYtheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 03:46 AM
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DISCUSSIONtheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:49 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYtheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:03 AM
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#JustLVMThingstheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 12:36 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYtheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:19 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYtheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 07:22 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEtheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 07:30 PM
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theghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 04:13 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYtheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:30 PM
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theghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:36 PM
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theghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 02:11 AM
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DATING THEORYtheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 12:07 AM
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DISCUSSIONtheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:47 AM
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FDS HUMORtheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:43 PM
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COUCH CREATUREStheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:09 AM
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FDS HUMORtheghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:05 PM
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REMINDER 👑theghettogirl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:51 PM
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They need workers to fuel their machine. Which is why their is such a pushback when women decide not to/limit the amount of kids they have. They need workers, Soldiers, and people to buy their stuff. They can’t say they use the money from the young for social good, at least in America. The social security elders get is a joke and you have to be basically destitute to receive it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 03:23 AM
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TIL female birds have higher standards than some of my friends 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 12:04 AM
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100% this happened to me. He was hiding a whole other lifestyle though his working and since he was in it he made good money-enough to work part time and lie about working full hours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 06:36 AM
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The way a lot of men talk about vaginas makes me think they don’t like women that much. Have you ever heard gay men talk about dick? Way more enthusiasm and they put more effort into pleasuring their partners. A lot of straight men i know would proudly boast about not giving head to women?! Like are these men really straight?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:45 AM
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I have several of my family members married stoners and all they do is work enough to get by and get high-all while their wives do the cooking, cleaning,child rearing and even bring money home. I was almost married to a weed smoker/pill popper-its not worth being with them and suffering through their mental illness and abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:22 AM
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I just had horrible flashbacks and physically recoiled. Jesus this was hard to watch. I don’t date men anymore but still have date ptsd. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:58 AM
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Women’s lives matter! #WLM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 09:34 PM
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I’m aantinatalist personally and don’t want to deal with men any more than they do with me. Considering the state i see going on in the world now and possibly the future, I think it would be cruel to bring a child into this. My idea is to get rich enough to support either fostering or adopting children. Ive dated men and the problems men have nowadays are no small matter they either have addictions to things like alcohol,porn, video games, weed or they expect me to do everything for them like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:31 PM
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How are these women so blind?! Holy shit l this makes me so mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:57 PM
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The economy needs babies, the worlds wants us to get off its lawn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:12 AM
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The stds are more worrisome, those won’t go away even with a divorce
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:04 AM
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They use women as incubators and then throw them away. Watch for the signs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:03 AM
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All of this is spot on! “You’re fucking stupid Brad that’s hot “ I met someone who was hot and dumb it was endearing but it wasn’t for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:53 AM
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If i ever make enough money I’ll 100% do this. What a great idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:30 PM
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Not to mention the stds he picked up through the decades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:56 AM
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Not leading them on but not rejecting Them due to the fear of the reaction or possible retaliation, at least that’s how i was at that age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 11:18 PM
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They actually do, but the technology isn’t there yet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:43 AM
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Ask any veterinarian or anyone who works near veterinarians they'll tell you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 02:56 AM
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"... But what about men!" They don't think men get breast cancer too? Especially now with their sedentary lifestyles. Prostate & erectile dysfunction on the other hand...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 10:58 PM
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This. I had a male friend I used to hangout with, turns out he was talking bad about me to his homies. Next thing I know he handed out my number. His friends text me about wanting some Netflix and chill and nudes. Sent me the eggplants and everything. He may be nice to your face but you never know what he is talking to his other friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 10:57 PM
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Somebody call this boys mom, he's obviously lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:41 AM
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Love how his reaction to rejection proves he's trash anyway 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 02:44 AM
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Why isn't he blocked?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:25 PM
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Saving this to reread for later
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:56 PM
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Congratulations girl! ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 04:08 PM
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u/curiouscatnyc777 That's100% facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 03:49 AM
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Just leave. No explanation. No talking to. He's a grown ass man, and your safety is #1. A lot of women are murdered in the process of leaving their partners. The best thing to do is move only the most important stuff out-passport, drivers license, anything you actually need. Only if necessary, slowly move out the rest of the stuff if you really need it. Don't go back and try to explain he hurt you or keep contact with him OR his family and they'll try to convince you he changed or come back to h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 01:53 AM
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✊🏾♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 01:21 AM
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Lol girl same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 05:44 PM
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And men say golddiggers are bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 05:21 PM
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Just say no. Don't explain why-that just makes it easier for him to trick the next women. Say No. Block and delete if necessary. Don't explain or give excuses. Say no and leave it at that/on read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:54 PM
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Guys: She gotta be 36 24 36 thick thighs and a tiny waist and Dynamite tits long natural hair no strange colors, size 6 in shoes, her hands have to be small with plump lips wears makeup and works out , no fatties! Girls: No small dicks Guys: you selfish ho! I can't believe you would shame us like this! I hope you get r*ped and die!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:28 PM
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Like fine wine ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:34 AM
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I call it the Peter Pan syndrome-they hold on to childish things to their own detriment. They don't want to grow up or work on themselves, ever. They are looking for a mommy. You're their little Tinkerbell for a while until they lock you down. Then hell ensures. If you have kids you'll be the caption hook-always the bad guy to the kids and Dad is always the fun parent. Don't marry a Peter Pan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:17 AM
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That really how it be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 01:06 AM
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It's the same thing really
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:25 PM
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Ever heard of a place called... America? It happens here too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:14 PM
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I always wondered what the cool girl male equivalent was-oh right he's always been labeled as "gay."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:10 PM
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Aye Aye 👮🏽‍♀️🎖️ Respect the sisters sacrifice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:09 PM
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I see so many of my sisters irl with this mindset and they get pumped and dumped or become suga/baby mommas. It's never worth it. One of my friends from highschool was like this and she's been dating since she was 13, she tells me all about her adventures. It's been 15+ men already and most of them she had sex with, I tried to tell her but she's set in her ways. All I can do is watch and learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:06 PM
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asking men to pay for dates and treat women right is a hAtE cRimE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:20 AM
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Mommy, Mommy, Mommy Cut the umbilical cord already!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:13 AM
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I hate the word. I don't like following specific subs because of that reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 11:04 PM
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this I can't read anymore it makes my blood pressure go up. I can't even imagine how she feels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:34 PM
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In one of her comments she mentioned they were trying for a baby. At the same time he was already cheating on her-while trying for a baby. Then she loses her son because of the stress he caused her and created. How on Earth do these people make excuses for his shitty behavior?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 01:17 AM
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The for the same reason you touch a sore tooth with your tongue-you can't help it sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:29 AM
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I take pictures of the person during the date and send them out. If he asks what I'm doing I just tell them "I'm bragging/letting my gf know how interesting/cute/nice whatever fits you are." Smart men don't need to ask what you're doing because they already know and are not insecure about themselves. Be as confident as the guy who sends you dick pics! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:45 PM
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Or do what I did and break up over the phone in a safe location. Lay low for a while and go with the "it's not me it's you" and act like your really heartbroken over it. When I say lay low I mean lay low, block him on all your socials but keep an eye on him to see if he found his next vict-girlfriend. If you live with him slowly most the most important is your things in a place he can't get to. If they are related to him or sympathize him in any way don't leave it at their house aka his momma, g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:40 PM
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Hot STDs! Get your hot fresh STDs here! Two for one! Get them now! While you still last!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:02 PM
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We are unionized! FDS is here to help!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:10 PM
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"men live longer because they don't worry about taking care of the household and kids while their wives to all the work. They just foff to Vegas or whatever country they can buy underage girls in and call it a business trip." I read between the lines-women are responsible and most men aren't. They don't care about leaving behind their children, which is why they do dumb things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:03 PM
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Keep talking about us! We're growing for a reason :-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:55 AM
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this my mother has a friend who was a single mother until she married a coworker. The man helped raise her baby and was a great father-until the daughter hit puberty. He tried to buy her sports cars, jewelry and new clothing in an effort to get her to sleep with him. She told her mom and they got divorced. You should make a separate post about that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:09 PM
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I figured out if I can't find someone who respects me I'd rather be alone. That doesn't mean I have to spend my life alone, it just means I'll be without a spouse. So I'll foster children, animals, have hobbies, take yoga, have a career and things to fill my life with happiness, fulfilment and love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:24 AM
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"your making it really hard to me to use you again. Don't you want my dick?" With his broke bum ass. Blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:26 AM
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The princess diaries Her friends disrespect her a lot She goes to a party and then the paparazzi follow her because he sold her out And other things I can't remember because I watched the movie so long ago...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:21 AM
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Part 1 https://youtu.be/fydUZgr22F4 Part 2 https://youtu.be/WpoeH_4pgWI
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:07 AM
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It's just like with cigarettes, they will defend porn until their last dying breath. It's a horrible addiction that starts at a young age. They just don't want to admit it has caused damage to their brains, body and relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 07:03 AM
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Keep talking sis! We are here for you either way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:36 AM
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They are butthurt, literally and figuratively. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:34 AM
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He's probably the reason she almost had a stroke in the first place. What's he for anyway?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:43 AM
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Those are the worst. They get off on the power they have and treat the women like shit. My mom worked in one for the summer and some old dude was trying to date her he was 40+ and she was barely twenty. My mom wasn't about it and told him to f off. Mf tried to follow her home but thankfully she could defend herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 12:16 AM
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A letter from a lawyer to his workplace might cool him down or make him madder. Either way, there should be consequences to his action.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:22 AM
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They get you when you are young and dumb with no life experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:09 AM
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👏🏽 this is why I own my own house No one is kicking me out to the streets again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:49 PM
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I know women like this in real life-gave up their very successful careers to be a mother and housewife and now resent the fact
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:41 PM
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Never mind the fact that a single mom doesn't impregnate herself. Where is the "fathers don't abandon your kids" tweet. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:31 PM
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They know we can just go to a clinic and get pregnant to have kids right? The minds of these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:21 AM
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You're mom too?! My mom also told me to never date a man who goes back to his mommas house after a GF dumps him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:10 AM
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Or buy a good vibrator! Guaranteed 100% STD and gaslighting free!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 09:05 PM
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"I really like you you're not like other girls!" I used to think that was a compliment back in my picMisha days. Now I know better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:42 PM
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I dated a guy like that! he went inside my house and told me how much it be worth if I sold it right now! Like yes motherfuker I know I bought it. He went inside my kitchen and told me I had expensive spoons, because he didn't know the word for silverware. Told me I had a nice car, and even bothered to ask if it was paid for. Later on he took me on a date which I paid for two. Only reason I went out with this m*********** is because a male friend told me that I should give him a chance because h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:40 PM
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I've done a few experiments over the years not on purpose but just my change of style and I've noticed that men treat me different depending on how I have my hair and makeup +clothing. Heavy makeup & alternative style really brings out the weirdos, especially back when I had really short hair think Emma Watson. Ace have a really Punk style so it probably had something to do with it. At the time my hair was dyed blond. I got invited to parties and clubs a lot (not really my thing) I was perceived…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:31 PM
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A man has to choose between three girlfriends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:08 PM
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If you're looking for a Friends with benefits don't look for an old man. honestly I'm a bit afraid that you didn't mention your age, did he the groom when you were 13 or 15? and say that " you are very mature for your age" and " you have qualities that other women don't have?" Or "I can't get along with women my age, they don't like the same things I do" My favorite one that uses that "I'm pretty much young at heart/spirit I'm only old in body" regardless it's never good to be friends with benef…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:58 PM
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🥳🎉🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:44 PM
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Oh! I thought there was an app telling you about accents. Thanks for the clear up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:36 AM
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There's a Google thing that tells you what accent someone is from? Please link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:17 AM
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Or they try to do this if you tell him you're not into casual dating they love bomb with the whole be my girlfriend please" (within the weeks of telling them) and if you say yes they use you and dump you in three months . Seen it happen to a couple of my girlfriends so y'all watch out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:09 PM
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This is why I never tell anyone I'm into games and anime. There's a lot of guys who think just because they game that they have other qualities I'm looking for in a relationship. I especially hate mothers that go "oh my son plays video games you should date him" no job, no education all he does is scratch his ass and watch p*** all day. don't get me wrong I love both of those things but I have things I want to do in life that doesn't include sitting in front of a computer or console all day. *ob…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:23 AM
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These are the type of men who think being nice is a personality trait. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 04:35 PM
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Centuries more like! We ain't doing that no more. If they want to be and stay married they better work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 07:33 PM
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"bangmaid" well put, I got to write this stuff down!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 03:46 AM
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The comments are a hoot, per Reddit usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 02:12 AM
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I used to be this dumb. I dated a guy and gave him wife privileges-brought him lunch for work and on Fridays occasionally would buy him a Burger so we could eat together (my lunch time was longer than his). Then when it was his turn to take me on a date-a burger place btw. He would play for his half and me mine. I didn't see anything wrong with that at the time. He did a lot of other ahole things (like pressure me to try anal). Eventually we broke it off because he wanted an open relationship, a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 03:51 AM
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I'm sorry I don't have time to be your: Mommy Therapist Maid Nurse Live in nanny Pornstar/Escort Flatmate Personal assistant Chef ATM- AT THE MOMENT, PAYING YOUR RENT, INSURANCE, FOOD AND DOING ALL THE HOUSEWORK. YOU ONLY GIVING 50 WHEN I'M DOING 💯. I rather be single than be used. Stay blessed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 03:38 AM
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You can also look up public records about their phone number. Check for their addresses and see how many people are listed there and what age-of course this only works if they own property. Another way is to set up dates on holidays, if they refuse or only take up a few minutes he's probably moving between relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 03:23 AM
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America, but there's a lot of reputable clinics outside the country. I might go elsewhere so you don't accidently cross wires, you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 08:27 PM
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I'm considering going to a clinic and vetting the donors. It's all very advanced nowadays, they do genetic testing for any health issues and you can pick out from a large pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:53 PM
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Lisa still with her abusive husband, my mom can't force her to report him. She doesn't talk to Lisa as much anymore because all she would talk about is her husband and my mom doesn't want to hear it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:45 PM
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That's a lot of words for "if you won't sacrifice everything to be with me when I put in half assed effort then I don't want you... but I do if you want to put out!" With some crumb of love bombs thrown in. Where do these guys learn to talk like this? YouTube lawyer school? They ain't being clever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:20 PM
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This is so true. The level of bull you need to put up with isn't worth being friends with a pickme. I remember my mom had a friend with an abusive husband and two kids. Her friend, let's call her Lisa said she wanted to get out of the relationship but wouldn't have anywhere to go if she left. My mom tells her different options, she didn't want to go to any women's shelter or get a lawyer so my mom calls in a favor. Lisa came over sobbing again, about how he bruised and beat her in front of the k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:06 PM
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I'm honestly considering this, I've seen to many real life examples on what settling gets you-3 kids absent husband with baby momma on the side while you work trying to keep everyone afloat while doing cooking & cleaning. All in the name of love. F that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:19 AM
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I'm not stringent about this-I'm more worried about the kind they watch or how frequently there watch it. It's an addiction for this generation of young men, along with video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:15 AM
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They probably could but lack the funding. They could 23&me it, or investigate & take it to court but that requires $$$.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:25 AM
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I wonder what kind? Was it a McDonalds or Burger King? Probably not either cuz he fo sho wasn't going to love it or have it his way 🤣 Wendy's that bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:20 AM
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Some of those comments are a rough read-endorsing pedophilia and saying it's not that bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:15 AM
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This is why I don't trust ninjas (esp. those missionaries) that day they travel for fun/faith, I know what's up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:12 AM
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🤣😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 08:14 PM
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That's actually a good way around getting banned, ha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 05:12 AM
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n o m o r e
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:36 AM
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✊🏾👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:23 AM
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I usually say elotes but people who don't know get confused. I want everyone to know how delicious it is, please try it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 01:34 AM
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It's called "corn in a cup" lots of different receipe. The basic one is putting grated cheese and butter inside and light salt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 01:17 AM
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Haha phone autocorrected porn. But yes, that buttery, salty, Mayo and cheese filled corn. In a cup, those that know, know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 12:33 AM
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Not exactly, but a lot of male friends I've had who were into anime/video games spent all their money and free time on that and corn. They were never interested in improving themselves as people and only cared about a nonexistent virtual reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:44 PM
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If he wanted to try he could watch YouTube. That's how I learned to change my oil. If I can learn to change oil any ninja can learn how to make spaghetti.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 05:21 PM
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Oh boy oh boy some of those profiles make for interesting literature! Careful who you swipe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 04:15 AM
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Men never know the fear of being trapped in a room with themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 05:17 PM
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Speaking of this, make sure you have a burner phone in case he takes away your first phone and you need to call for help. Even a cheap flip phone works!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 04:13 PM
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Because they always want to stick it in the butt and never give orgasms. Selfish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 02:47 AM
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I do not like any movies aimed towards women. They show that abusive, lazy, or antisocial behavior is a fixable trait, and women should give up everything-including financial stability and health in order to be with their "one true love." F that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 02:23 AM
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Aww geez women want fathers/boyfriend/husband's to help with the housework & kids while they both work at their full time jobs. The horror.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 02:20 AM
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Nothing really I could do-they got my parents permission. I always looked older so even in my preteens people thought I was 16-17, so I kinda get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:28 PM
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Don't go to male doctors or therapist if you can help it. When I was 13, I had really bad stomach pain. I was taken to the hospital and the doctor chalked it up to be me being pregnant. They did a virginity check and broke my hymen (very painful btw) in a room full of (male) doctors, nurses and my parents. Finally they did a scan and find out I had apendecities. They don't listen when you tell them. I almost died that day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:07 PM
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"good for you. You are simple minded" oh boy! I bet he's fun at parties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:03 PM
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I can't say who in case I ever get doxxed, but I know an assistant vet. They confided to me they wanted to quit the job because they saw so much animal abuse from owners. Vets work with a lot of sexually abused animals, guess who the primary sexual abusers are? Men. I'm not going to explicitly say what they told me, but mostly keep an eye on men who like big dogs. That's all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 08:26 AM
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Your trying to find any reason to stay. We don't do that here, your not getting respected or loved like you deserve, nether by your boyfriend or yourself. You need therapy more than you need that boyfriend. Marriage and kids isn't going to fix your relationships, it will make it worse. I don't want you to be in a bad situation, I've seen enough examples of where that leads. YOU need to love YOU. Right now, the way you are, you don't need a relationship with ANYBODY. You need councilling to work …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 05:17 AM
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I recently caught a cold and told my coworker I'll just be staying at home and sleeping it off this weekend. She said "oh no! I'm to busy to sleep all day! I got to go tomorrow the grocery store, cook, clean the house, pickup the grandchildren, pay the bills and wash the car." Me: isn't your husband retired? Doesn't he help you out? Her: pause. Yes. Well. Pause. He doesn't do it the way I like it. Me: oh I see, I get it. (Moves the conversation along.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 05:10 AM
33

That's really creepy. Jesus the minds of these people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 05:02 AM
13

Absolutely. The best move is to move on. "Thank you, next."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 04:48 AM
27

How many hours does his day have??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 01:23 AM
16

When you tell them to break up with their abusive bf they do. Then when they get get together again he tryna fight you because you got between "their" relationship. I'm just trying to say it doesn't always work. I tried to tell em' but they always tell me they ride n die no matter what. They loyal for no reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 11:02 PM
42

Beware of pickmeishas, they will ruin you in their search for dick. They will undermine you no matter what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 10:35 PM
55

That's what inspired me to post this. Jesus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 10:02 PM
1

I'm not conflating, it's literally separate people. You have either a relationship (exclusive or otherwise) with one or have sex with the other. (Obviously not at the same time, or whatever your roll is) Have a relationship. Or have casual sex. Not the same or with the same people. It's the "don't put your eggs in one basket, principle. Diversify."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 07:17 PM
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That's the point. Have your fun but know if he isn't into you, you won't change his mind . If he is into you, you won't have to chase him like a dog to a bone. Have sex causally=don't expect serious relationship. Don't give him girlfriend or wife privileges, get yours and get out. Don't listen to his problems or cook him meals or meet his family and all that other stuff FDS=for serious relationship. Your vetting his actual interest to see if he's just sweet talking to get in your pants or if he'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:37 PM
12

My cousin got broken up with after her boyfriend finished dental school. He couldn't deal with her cancer apparently, even when she paid for everything. So no, dump his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:13 PM
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I doubt it's about being a virgin until marriage It's more about men who have relations with you early in don't see you as wife material, have casual sex is you want but don't tell anybody. Keep it classy you know? If you want to make sure you don't get into an abusive financial, emotional, and physical relationship long term then FDS is for you. Of course there are some sociopaths who do the right thing until they don't but even they have their tells.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:11 PM
16

The rule of the fight club is: don't talk about the fight club. Don't explain, just do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:07 PM
1

Don't worry about your virginity, I wish I was still a virgin. I lost mine at 14 to someone who promised me love and marriage. Worst 2 minutes of my life. Ninjas lie. He ignored me afterwards. Don't do it until you feel comfortable, learn to love yourself above all else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:33 PM
1

Don't worry about your virginity, I wish I was still a virgin. I lost mine at 14 to someone who promised me love and marriage. Worst 2 minutes of my life. Ninjas lie. He ignored me afterwards. Don't do it until you feel comfortable, learn to love yourself above all else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:33 PM
1

Don't worry about your virginity, I wish I was still a virgin. I lost mine at 14 to someone who promised me love and marriage. Worst 2 minutes of my life. Ninjas lie. He ignored me afterwards. Don't do it until you feel comfortable, learn to love yourself above all else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:30 PM
1

Don't worry about your virginity, I wish I was still a virgin. I lost mine at 14 to someone who promised me love and marriage. Worst 2 minutes of my life. Ninjas lie. He ignored me afterwards. Don't do it until you feel comfortable, learn to love yourself above all else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:30 PM
1

Don't worry about your virginity, I wish I was still a virgin. I lost mine at 14 to someone who promised me love and marriage. Worst 2 minutes of my life. Ninjas lie. He ignored me afterwards. Don't do it until you feel comfortable, learn to love yourself above all else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:30 PM
1

Don't worry about your virginity, I wish I was still a virgin. I lost mine at 14 to someone who promised me love and marriage. Worst 2 minutes of my life. Ninjas lie. He ignored me afterwards. Don't do it until you feel comfortable, learn yourself above all else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:29 PM
1

Don't worry about your virginity, I wish I was still a virgin. I lost mine at 14 to someone who promised me love and marriage. Worst 2 minutes of my life. Ninjas lie. He ignored me afterwards. Don't do it until you feel comfortable, learn yourself above all else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:29 PM
1

I lost my virginity at 14 to a guy who promised me love. Don't do it sis, do it for you and no one else! Keep leveling up and hold your head up high!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:23 PM
1

I lost my virginity at 14 to a guy who promised me love. Don't do it sis, do it for you and no one else! Keep leveling up and hold your head up high!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:23 PM
1

I lost my virginity at 14 to a guy who promised me love. Don't do it sis, do it for you and no one else! Keep leveling up and hold your head up high!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:23 PM
2

I lost my virginity at 14 to a guy who promised me love. Don't do it sis, do it for you and no one else! Keep leveling up and hold your head up high!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:23 PM
2

So proud of you queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:19 PM
2

So proud of you queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:19 PM
2

I'm so happy for you queen! You are warning your crown back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:19 PM
5

I'm so happy for you queen! You are warning your crown back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:18 PM
21

Thank you for your service!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 05:45 PM
8

Yes, some accents are kryptonite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 02:40 AM
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A person at my work is currently dating an older co-worker. She's 19 and he's 38. She said something that made everyone go "sskkuurryrt" on them brakes. Coworker"so how old is he again?" 19yr old: he's in his thirties! I'm not telling you exactly how old! Coworker: that's a quite a years difference 19yr old: it's not that bad! I mean even 14 and 15 year olds are dating men who are 40 and 50! We all kinda stopped and looked at her to see if she was joking. Nothing, bone dry serious. One of my mal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 11:29 PM
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I knew a guy who had a fetish for this sort of thing-being humiliated and beat on. He also preferred white women with shaved heads. It was an interesting conversation to say the least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 01:15 AM
9

Someone call his mom, this poor boy is lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 01:45 AM
16

My former friend:"Send me $20 for this dlc game I want" (sends him money) (he spends it) "it's not what I wanted, send your money back ☹️" He was two years older than me and jobless. I'm so embarrassed looking back now, additionally he creeped me out later asking me if I used birth control out of nowhere. The things I did just to have friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 02:31 PM
19

Jesus, his mom I'm sorry wife needs to implement a sticker system on the wall in the kitchen so her little tyke can see he's doing a good job for momma erm wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 02:01 PM
11

Amen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 01:54 PM
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When I was dumb enough to say I'm not really interested in a date and asked him to drop me off at my house he locked the doors to his car and didn't let me out until I agreed to date him. I paid for my food with cash so there wasn't a record of me being at a specific location. He kept driving around, and I was in his car until around 12 pm, I couldn't jump out because he got in the highway with high speeds. He ignored me when I asked him to drop me off several times and kept rambling. My phone w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 02:10 AM
13

More than normal, it's even encouraged. I had a Philippina friend who told me her relatives heavily encouraged her to get married to a tourist at 13. Thankfully her parents weren't POS and decided they rather work hard and move to America. She's now working at a hospital making good money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 01:58 AM
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I've had the same suspicions! Some of the language used resembles male writing. I don't know how to describe it. Glad I'm not the only one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:38 AM
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Keep a bank account he can't access. Make it isn't at the same bank your combined accounts is at, because banks will merge the accounts or accidently give info to your so. In certain countries your legal spouse has access to your other bank account. You can make a clause that no one can take out an x amount of money unless you're present & with a password. Always have f off money. Never co-sign, always have YOUR name on the mortgage or car you want to buy. Never do business together or leave you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 01:49 AM
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Welcome to the sisterhood. May your walk be confident, speech be righteous and eyeliner be true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 01:19 AM
12

You done played yourselves. I've learned is, wait. They usually say what's on their mind sooner or later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:38 AM
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Probably a family friend or was close enough to her family enough to groom her +such as church functions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:39 AM
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In cases like these that I've seen in real life, the older man is usually a family friend who groomed them from age 12. They usually use words like "she's so mature for her age, this was all her idea, she's NoT LiKE oTHer gIRls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:00 AM
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That's going to be a no from me dawg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:18 AM
5

Praise Gaia! May her goddess light guide your path! You know what? Sounds pretty good. I'm going to do it ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 04:50 PM
5

Yeah, I think I'm going to end up doing something like that. Praise the goddess or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 04:32 PM
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Yeah but the way they phrase it is makes me scared of how some men really view us. Just walking holes. If I still believed in God I'd really pray for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 09:35 AM
12

Yeah, I mean I don't 100% agree with everything but most of the posts here are about having boundaries and not being used by your partner. We have legit terrible stories about men stalking, harassing, and threating to mutilate or kill us. Most of what I read on the other male related forums is about how women aren't sucking them off enough, what corn to fap to, or how they are tired of providing for their family. I get there is legit horrible POS women, but there are signs for that too! Poverty …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 09:13 AM
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I remember overhearing this somewhere. A guy would give a really cheap promise ring to all his girlfriends, meet her parents and do all the pre engagement stuff. He would keep her around as long as he could (postponing the wedding, making excuses, etc..) until she put her foot down. Then he makes up some bs excuse and dumps her. He does this to every girlfriend. Don't get played, love bombing is real and if it's so much to soon something is up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 05:46 AM
8

your honor, it was HORIZONAL it was obviously asking for it. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 05:37 AM
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Even America doesn't negotiate with terrorists. Land of the free bitch, now feel free to leave me alone. 🇺🇸🗽🦅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 05:06 AM
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I wonder how he treats kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 03:54 AM
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Like for real. I have Marlyin Monroe poster in my room for pure aesthetics. Some male friend has the balls to tell me what I could put up in my room "oh you should have so and so because she's a better human" ninja I put whatever the fuck I want on my walls. I didn't say shit about all the anime Lolita's and shitty garage bands had in his wall. Guess who ain't friends?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 03:49 AM
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Copy & Pasted from the post You're right, and if you put the money into yourself, women will be more attracted to you and since hookups are free, it will be cheaper than a prostitute. Prostitutes are just the shortcut to sex, its definitely a better option than getting cucked in the dating game but an even better option is to improve yourself and be patient and then once you can reap the rewards of your hard work, you will be able to have as much free sex as you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 03:31 AM
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Copy & pasted from the post Been doing this for a while.... non-pro to pro prostitutes. USA - 80 to 300 bucks. South America - 25 to 60 bucks. Thailand - 40 to 80 bucks. Germany - 50 to 100 bucks. They even have fuck clubs. 100 bucks get you unlimited fucks for 24 hrs. Amsterdam - 200 to 300 bucks Ukraine - 40 to 60 bucks Philippines- 20 to 70 bucks Venezuela - 5 bucks Don’t know how some of the guys quoting 200+ bucks. Unless you are choosing the most expensive escort services. When I fly into …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 03:02 AM
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Copy & pasted from the post whores are as follows, if you want a quality under age 30 whore. about $100-$200/hr in asia and about $200-$500/hr in Europe and $50-$150/hr for Mexico/South America. now i don't know how much a wife costs. when i dated women, i was never lose or tight with money. i'd buy them food sometimes but i was never a beta ATM. i've had friends tell me they were happy to pay $500,000 in a divorce settlement because he meant he was away from his wife. I understood why he was ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 03:01 AM
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Copy & pasted from the post Depends on the gf's and your hobbies and how frequently you're doing them and covering them. If you do a lot of hiking and camping, it's going to pan out in your favor via up front one time costs of tents and stuff. If you go out a lot to eat to nicer places and you're constantly picking up the bill, covering groceries if you live together, etc. you'll probably come ahead with the escort. Problem is you can get sex 2-3 times a week with the gf but with the escort you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 02:59 AM
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Just some comments below
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 02:59 AM
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Some men only see girlfriends as maids/sextoys. You are watered down to the sum of your parts. This is what some men see relationships as, and if you let yourself you can get caught up with one of these men. Be careful, and I hope all of you end up in respectful loving relationships. 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 02:55 AM
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Oh sorry! Yeah 🎣 is a fish on a fishing pole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 10:27 PM
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Yeah, they forget. Some guy from highschool thought I forgot when his birthday was. He invited me over for a birthday party at his place (not on his birthday btw). I lived close enough so I drove by and didn't see any guests. I went to McDonald's and waited another hour and drove by again. Nothing. I was getting suspicious so I texted him "yo wassup how's the party?" Him: pretty cool, Jamie is here you should hurry up and come." I text Jamie (because I know his car and we talked before) "yo wher…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 10:00 PM
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He was giving him the "eyes" ya know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 09:54 PM
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Man has sex with stuffed animals at Target and puts it back on display
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 08:44 PM
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man has sex with a pile of leaves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 08:41 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/epux91/most_lvm_dating_strategy_warning_once_seen_cannot/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 08:36 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/eocoqy/the_gift_of_fear_keeping_yourself_safe/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 08:35 PM
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"she's crazy!" (Never gives any specific examples or makes everything about him)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 08:02 PM
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Basically she says she likes working hard towards her goals and he replies he really likes that about her. Then proceeded to fish for a compliment or put her in an awkward spot by asking if she liked anything about him. Strange question if your barely dating/texting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 07:53 AM
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Beautiful line, I'd put it on a mug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:26 AM
11

I feel he just mirrors whoever is around him. Largely male audience of course, but he has brought in some interesting guests to his show. It's mostly a coin toss in the quality, I usually just skip if I don't like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 02:04 AM
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I read what you wrote and something seems a little off. I think you need to step out of the game for a bit and work on yourself. There's a lot of negative energy coming from that...I think you should hold off and go to therapy. I get not wanting to have a lvm as a husband, but I feel you're in danger of being codependent if you ever did get in a relationship. Love yourself first before all else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 12:18 AM
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"he said he will not be reaching out again" That tells you everything right there. YOU aren't a priority and seeing you is always going to be second to his wants and needs. You just on dial in case his plans change. Real men don't play those games. LVM do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 12:07 AM
6

Having standards and more importantly, boundaries. You don't play with your bounties, there are there for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 12:02 AM
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Yeah, they always blame the other women but never want to blame the man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 12:01 AM
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Ninjas don't get arrested until they kill you. My auntie & , her ex husband was passing through the border and my auntie tried to say to border patrol they he beat her and is trying to kill her. He told them she was drinking and fell down. They let him pass. The only thing that saved her is that he stopped at a gas station and two women saw her and said something to the attendant. The attendence called the cops. Meanwhile she escaped the car but he was trying to beat her into it. The cops came a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 10:08 PM
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Sneaky, bump in the night, attack when you least expect it. Pretend to be other people. Look for your weaknesses.Work under the guise of their Lord, penis. the Ninja
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:02 PM
15

For real! I got done dirty like that too! My rule is: if yo mama has to ask me out for you, my answer is automatically no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:47 PM
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Don't ask out a guy on a date you'll end up being his momma/sex dispenser. Ninjas don't know how to act right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:45 PM
6

Depends on your goals and what you want. I've seen long term partnerships that have lasted longer than most marriages. The point is to find someone that respects you and values you. Not someone who thinks "hurr hurr make me a sandwich" is a valid way to treat someone Basically, be with someone that makes you happy and treats you with respect long term (not just after when he gets what he wants). Not someone who is nice as long as you put out or look young and pretty, and just nods away until you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:14 AM
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He can keep his worm to himself. Remember ladies, repeat after me "I ain't yo mama!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:11 AM
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"WOMEN won't be a free prostitute for me! She wants me to show commitment and stability! All I want is to get my worm wet" 1 I can feel the race fetish from this article from three feet away 2 women don't want to meet up with a foreigner who is probably just trying to duck. In a lot of cultures abortion is a big taboo and you can be disinherited or worse if your found pregnant before marriage 3 he's being really creepy towards any women he meets 4 didn't understand the local dating culture, wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:10 AM
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I'm going to go ahead and say I don't know the situation. All I'm going to say about this is women should always make sure to be independent financially and emotionally in order not to be caught up in situations like these. I remember when my parents were broke they stayed with my dad's brother. He was really nice and I remember his wife being a c-nt. She locked the doors and didn't let us back into the house until my dad got home from work. She stole my mom's jewelry and always took any cash sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:54 AM
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I ain't yo mama! Sing it loud and proud ladies! I ain't yo mama boy I ain't ya Mama!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:06 AM
5

Drop male friends, I've learned they have much lower standards than women when it comes to dating. They will risk their safety for a quick hookup. Or take other men's side and put you in a bad spot. Don't feel bad, sounds like you avoided a very dangerous situation. Remember that trafficking and murder rape is a very real thing. Especially if you live in a big city with interconnected highways. The guilt gets less over time. Your safety is #1 priority, always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:02 AM
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Send him the 🎣 emoji. People say women are insecure Jesus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:56 AM
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🇨🇳 couldn't find a bigger redder one either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:54 AM
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The point isn't that he is paying for the date. The point is that he's making an effort to impress her as a potential lifetime partner. Someone who just wants a quick hookup isn't wasting their energy and dime on something that isn't long term (unless they are very wealthy). Look at it this way Would you put new tires on a rental car? Or completely remodel a house your renting for free? My guess is no, because you don't have an investment in it. It makes no sense. You won't invest emotional or e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 02:32 AM
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Safety #1 I think we should make a thread on safety tips
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 02:26 AM
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He acts like gay men using women as breeding sows/beards ain't a thing. 🙄 How many of them "find themselves" after they daddy die and they pop out a few kids with a straight women. Naw playa I won't fall for it. I ain't a walking womb on legs for nobody. You suck d!ck that ok but don't trick women into believing your available because you want kids or need to please your family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:17 AM
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Try really hard to seem like a good and trustworthy person. This works on traffickers too, they make a lot of effort the first time to gain your trust, eg overly nice give you gifts and rides get you to be vulnerable without revealing anything about themselves basically love bombing. Once they have you they trap you into a feeling of obligation so you can be coherced into things you don't want to do. Eg go on a date or go to a party where you don't know anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:14 PM
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Off the top of my head LVM Are narcissistic, never want to hear about you and your needs Never find time to meet you at YOUR convenience, it's always at a time/location best for them Treat/talk about women as commodities like parts on the meat market (some are clever and don't do it in front of you) Make you pay for $h!t all the time, even when they invited you out first to a "special restaurant" (aka a cheap burger joint they make up some story about) Try and get you to co-sign on expensive thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:05 PM
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I would set up a date to see what happens. Sometimes you just want to set stuff on fire ya know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:52 PM
4

Well, damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:58 AM
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I'm sad to say I had an "ah ha!" moment when I saw it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:54 AM
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Don't have kids with em'! Jesus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:53 AM
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Jesus, face on thousand yard stare. Smile or something man. He probably has like 4 kids and a wife too! 😂 Especially if he is a truck driver
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:15 AM
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I want to be surprised but I can't anymore. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:09 AM
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I'd just take his money. Make sure everything in your name or no dice. Make him spend $$, but I'm ghetto like that. Old crusty as mf, I'd charge that ninja just for talking to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 03:38 AM
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Who knows? 🤷🏻‍♀️ It's sunny in Philadelphia is a good show tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:54 AM
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They are trying out the D.E.N.N.I.S system Dennis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:05 AM
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My ex asked for my email address (that I primary use for my job). He said "I can't reach you anytime without it" (duh that's the point) "just contact me through FB"I said, he got upset but I was already planning how to get rid of him, he did a lot of LVM stuff. Thankfully I never gave me any other avenues to track me because he blew up my phone with threats as soon as I broke up with him ( over the phone in a safe location)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 01:49 AM
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I went on a date with a guy I told I don't drink any alcohol. Ninja tried to be slick by ordering a coffee alcohol drink (basically coffee with alcohol and whipped cream on top) I told him no I knew it had alcohol in it, I'll just drink the water. Ninja got upset. This was back in my "give him a chance" phase, I told him I didn't want to date him. Later since he was my ride he asked my again as he dropped me off in a really scary forceful way, I told him I'd think about it and ran away. Never sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 01:21 AM
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Don't do it ladies! My cousin got engaged to the love of her life, ninja was gay af but she was blind to love. Come to find out he sucked off my gay friend and this other big black dude at a club. I had to tell my cousin because we had video evidence and everything. Shit crushed her. Gay men do you dirty, same as straight men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 06:29 PM
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FDS: R.E.S.P.E.C.T PUA: hOw dO I gET mY wORm WeT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 02:30 AM
7

Sad but true 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 02:25 AM
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Some bank manager came up to me while I was depositing money. Ninja told me he was single, single, as in, twice divorced with three kids. I told him sorry, I'm married to my career right now. Men be straight 🤡.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 02:23 AM
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This is why I'm a non-believer. The majority of religions are for the benefit of men only, and the sacrifice women face to be part of it isn't worth it to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 02:20 AM
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My rule is: If I don't like him or never want to see him again I pay for my half. So he doesn't have reason to continue bothering me. If I really like him I let him pay for the date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 02:17 AM
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@traditsh is right. You are the 5 friends you hang out with. I dated someone who seemed good on paper, had a good personality, career, house and no kids. His friends were into doing drugs & partying. A lot of them were high functioning. I told him before I dated him I'm very straight edge. He had a little habit too! I broke up with him via Skype because he called high outta his mind (not to obvious but I know the signs). He said he'll quit! Told me to stop being so boring since he only did a few…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:42 PM
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You are doing a good thing, by reporting him you are preventing him from further victimizing other people. This will show up in his job background check and he won't get a position if power over people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 10:45 PM
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I don't think religion has anything to do with it. It's just them and their disgusting thoughts. Most religions favor men anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 10:37 PM
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True! I asked out a guy and he said yes, but I ended up doing all the work in the relationship. When I confronted him he said "wEll YOu aSkEd mE oUT" 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 10:14 PM
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Don't show your hand! He's going to be more careful from now on! You should just tell him you ain't about it and don't explain why. Gauge your interest for low level sh!t, girl no. I done been there and done that! You end up giving him a bj and then he never calls you back. Men wait as long as they have to in order to take advantage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 08:22 PM
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It's a type of piercing that goes on your lower lip. snake bite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:29 PM
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Don't forget the snake bites! And garage done tattoo! God I was so dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 05:55 AM
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flashbacks to past self (barf)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 04:00 AM
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FIRST DATE? Nope. First date of always in public for both of y'all safety. You go on his turf anything can happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 12:25 AM
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Straight up. Monkeys and all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 09:26 PM
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Got ghosted after hanging out a couple times. He slid in to my dms a couple months later talking about how he got busy and went on vacation. Wanted to see if I wanted to hook up. Yeah son, it's 100 years to late for those games. I ain't about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 04:58 PM
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Stay safe ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 04:03 PM
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My mother once saw a place well known for being a prostitute district. She asked her dad how to prevent from becoming that, he replied "place a price so high on yourself that no one can afford you."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 03:57 PM
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I wonder if I should make a separate thread on the "insider" stuff that goes on in these "empowering" industries. It'll open a lot of women's eyes to the dangers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 03:54 PM
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Giant snake, birthday cake, large fries, chocolate shake!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 05:17 AM
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All valid points! It's hard to stop the cycle of poverty with limited options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 04:58 AM
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I don't know how recent info I can get, since she cut off all ties with that life back then. The only person I know she still talks to is now a prostitute since she aged out of the industry and never made it up, the other women I remember is now dead (lung cancer due to cigarettes). I'll see if I can get her to tell me more... Honestly I'm a bit scared because her family was formally of high social standing. If I get around to it, I'll not mention names for safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 02:17 AM
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My mother was an up and coming singer and model. She did it for fun because she was very pretty and her dad had the money to let her do it. She became very popular and was almost going to record and sell her music. What people didn't know is her dad was her manager. One day she told me her dad made her pack up and leave a hotel in the middle of the night. He sold the tour bus, let the band members cancel their contract with a promise of not telling anyone where they went. They took several diffe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 01:25 AM
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Not normal. She's being predatory. She might be looking to pimp you later or something worse. Don't do it queen! Edit: Quicktip from your local ghetto girl here. If someone is being too nice to you from the get go-they want something. You'll feel it in your gut when someone is being overly nice. Eventually they show you their true colors. BLOCK THESE PEOPLE FROM YOUR LIFE NOW! Run!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 12:07 AM
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Forced Teaming. This is when a person implies that they have something in common with their chosen victim, acting as if they have a shared predicament when that isn't really true. Speaking in "we" terms is a mark of this, i.e. "We don't need to talk outside... Let's go in." Charm and Niceness. This is being polite and friendly to a chosen victim in order to manipulate him or her by disarming their mistrust. Too many details. If a person is lying they will add excessive details to make themselves…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:51 PM
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Thank you! I'm glad I found this group, for a long time people would tell me I'm crazy or I need to lower my expectations. It's a relief to be validated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:25 PM
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I call it being Cuckoed. They look for a stable nest to deposit their jobless, porn addlled, drug addicted sons. They want their youth back so they try to take yours! When I was more naive I said to myself "maybe I need to give him a chance." So I did. I found it he was jobless, bipolar, used expensive drugs for his seizers, missing his back teeth, no education. Worst part of all of that was he steered the conversation towards sexual and asked if I used birth control outta nowhere! Then when I s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 04:29 PM
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Not once but TWICE two different coworkers tried to set me up with their low value sons. They get really upset when you decline the offer acting like they don't know why you are letting a "nice young man go."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 08:58 AM
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I could honestly. Too many pickmeishas or dumb women in my life messing with my head since puberty. Oh you married but he wants to have some on the side because you ride and die? Being extra sl'tty or prude to seem valuable to men. Oh you pay for everything but he wants to pretend he the man when the bill comes. Women being pit against each other when we should be supportive. Co workers family and friends asking why you ain't married with kids. (B!tch I'm broke, trying to live my best life!) I'v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 05:43 AM
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Thanks! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 02:09 AM
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I'm so glad I found y'all! I thought I was crazy for the longest time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:54 AM
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You did the right thing! How many women have been raped and murdered or kept in a dungeon for the depraved "better half." Often we are gaslighted for playing safe or going against our social conditioning in order to get out of creepy situations. I recommend. The Gift of Fear Book by Gavin de Becker My safety is priority, NOT other peoples feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:16 AM
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Another thing they do is add as many females to their friend list so they can be creepy and snoop. They hope that by posting enough bathroom selfies at the gym some % might be interested. If they are even slightly clever they hide their friends list, but it's easy to tell with the strangely off female/male likes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:10 AM
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Men want women to rely on them so they can leverage their stability for sex. This means any food, housing, economic, and emotional support a man provides you can and will be used against you. This is why women must work hard to establish their own avenues of wealth and education including learning to self love in order to be free from the eventual exploitation of men. Keep improving yourself Queens and don't settle! 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 07:28 PM
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I got so confused from some guy friends who asked to hang out. I thought we were hanging out! It was apparently a date, I set it straight. Now, I don't have any male friends due to me claryfing from the get go "I like you as a friend only."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 03:32 AM
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