Ladies, I need your advice. I’ve been reading the FDS handbook and it all makes a perfect sense. I’d love to start applying these to my life in general and dating life in particular. But I’m struggling with finding a way of getting over my recent breakup not only because I’m feeling very disappointed in how I handled things and how insecure I was (something I’m working on with my therapist), but the guy is also my coworker. And is best friends with my boss, so I will see him around. I know I might feel very strong when that happens and be able to fake the HVW attitude. But I might also get emotional and feel ashamed of myself because I gave in too quickly, made all the stupid mistakes and the guy probably sees me as pickmeisha which sucks - because I know it wouldn’t be unfounded. I did think we were having fun and that he treated me well, but my standards were low. He was paying for me on dates initially, then we would split and then he stopped paying for me all together (right before breakup). I do love and respect myself but damn do I need to level up.... Any advice on how to recover from this and start gaining queenfidence so I don’t give the guy another chance to look down on me, in the office? Would really appreciate some practical advice/strategy.