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Would love to know too! Congrats on living your best life for yourself !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 01:58 AM
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How you felt is enough to cut things off, sometimes we let it pass thinking we are exaggerating, and then become uneasy with ourselves, glad you dodged a bullet sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 07:42 PM
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“They want to convince us it is a jealousy thing when it is really a lack of respect issue.” Oh.my.god. This so much. They try pass their disrespect as us being jealous. No shit you telling me about those things is going to rub me the wrong way even when I’m confident in myself. Thank you for putting this into words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 11:38 PM
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Hi, I would like some advise please. So last week the building next to mine exploded, it was a big and very ugly incident and even made the news. Luckily I’m fine and my apartment just needed minor repairs (still scary af) Here is where I need your advice, a guy I was dating last November (4 dates) texted me to ask if I was ok, after hearing the news. I went full NC when at the time he told me he wasn’t the kind of guy to have a relationship, but still wanted to see me, but was scared of Covid a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 04:37 PM
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I’m so sorry 😞 Went through something similar myself. I feel like these kind of men who act HV are cowards, but keep the HVM act to feel like they did the right thing (when in reality they are just lying to your face) this means that they aren’t really HV, because it was all a facade to hide their cowardliness, and wasn’t genuine, it was all for themselves and to not feel like they are jerks (even tho they are) Sending love you way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 04:11 PM
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Rooting for you !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 04:04 PM
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Like I don’t even understand how this can be a fetish, hair, something that is super normal ???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:05 PM
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Yes indeed, not even worth another reply
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:52 AM
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I had already shared this and got no awards lol 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:10 AM
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Him doing all of these things with someone else means that he registered those things in his mind and knew that they would make you happy, so he deliberately chose not to do the with you because he didn’t think you were worth the effort. Who would like to be with something (yeah, someTHING) like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:47 PM
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I understand where you're coming from, but in that case the date is over at that very moment he says he wants to split it. Besides, you're the prize, so he should pay since he asked you out, and you need to believe it. You can either ignore the check (demonstrates you're used to the man paying) or you can flash a smile and say "thank you, they food was delicious" when the waiter puts down the check, again, you're showing that you're used to being treated. If he brings up the 50/50 after that, I'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:53 AM
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it’s just not a sign that we can get closer. wow I love this! Their actions are a reflection of them (being cheap in this case) and not a reflection of you ("I don't deserve to be paid for" NOOO we do)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:44 AM
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“Forces him to get to know and like you as a person, bot a sex object” THIS. It’s so annoying that we need to teach them how to treat us. Thanks so much for expanding on this, and I hope you find a man worthy of you and your time (not that you need one)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:37 PM
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Wow thank you very much for sharing, specially because it is indeed a personal question, I will take some tips from you, I hadn’t considered the test results for kissing but you are on to something. I think I’m going to keep it cutesy and wholesome until exclusivity is set. I didn’t completely understand the not giving them any liberties until being exclusive, like they are not allowed to play any moves before exclusivity ? Because in that case I believe that would even make them want you more h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:50 AM
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You go sis like seriously that’s the smart way to do it. I have a question, I’m all for taking it slow and will follow the (at least) 3 months rule, but I have little experience with relationships, so I’d like to know how far you should go even with kissing and making out, or when is dry-jumping and that kind of physical touch ok?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:53 PM
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I think that men have been so scared to realize that they are so dumb to control their own impulses and how they can go crazy for a woman and how to them that is losing power that they invented the patriarchy to “protect” themselves from us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:39 PM
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So true. It still bewilders me how men can go dumb for a pretty face tho, like wars been fought for women (still I don’t mean to say their attention is the prize) To expand on your point, it just came back to me how back in school the (conventionally) pretty girls were the popular ones BECAUSE of this male attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:37 PM
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The second tweet says: “First ask yourselves why women don’t have any power (and hence why we seek to empower ourselves), after ask yourselves if we don’t have the power, then who has it. When you get there evaluate if it’s good for men to determine what does and what doesn’t empower women”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:56 PM
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ok, now, the other side of the coin, what would you think about a guy who does nice things for you and tells you "I'm not usually like this" (paying for your meals, opening doors). It rubs me the wrong way because I feel like it's not their nature to do it (or like they know it's something nice to do but still usually choose not to do those things)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 04:35 AM
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It does look cute💕came here to say that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:28 AM
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His reaction just goes on to prove that he didn’t think of you as being that special and didn’t mind losing you when he shot his shot, bulled dodged, good job sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:33 PM
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Could you please elaborate on your reasoning ? Mid 20s here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:24 PM
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This is the sweetest 🥺❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:51 PM
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It amazes me how they all give you this same scripted response, no matter where they are from
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:36 AM
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I’m curious at what would be the HVM way to end a relationship? Sometimes it just doesn’t click on either end (of course, this is a clear example of a LVM)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:33 AM
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True. Should we just walk away? I wouldn’t like to ask only to have him ask me to be his gf just to string me along, cos you know, if you ask you give them the chance to do that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 09:32 PM
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This is super interesting! Thanks for sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:45 PM
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I don’t get it, could you explain ? Hehe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:17 PM
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checking this threat now lol how do you "date for fun"? like how far do you go with guys? I'm at a stage where my only goal is not a relationship (would be nice yo have it if everything is right and I find someone worthwhile) but I'd still like to date, BUT not be treated as an option. Sorry if this is confusing, I've never really dated, thanks for any advise!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 11:43 PM
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good for you and for setting those standards high! best of luck and happiness to you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:38 AM
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how did that go? sounds adorable <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 10:23 PM
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but that it's our job to do so girl, like i kind of knew it but you putting it into these exact words blew my mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 09:59 PM
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right, also making it sound as if "true love" changed him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:44 PM
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and even harder to see them move on in less than a month's time, and finding out bc he has the audacity to posts pictures with the next girl (i know, i know, block and delete). In hindsight it makes sense that he's poop, but it's so hard to come to this conclusion, especially when they normally behave so gentlemanly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:28 PM
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smh, seems like guys will never mature ughhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:59 AM
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How old is this guy?!? It's not okay at any age to be like this, it's so foolish, I can't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:54 PM
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Advise on this, fds strategists?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 10:44 AM
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Clearly a lame excuse, I don’t understand why people would want to date around thinking they are missing out? Like if you’re not sure about the person simply don’t begin a relationship, seems common sense to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:32 PM
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my ex just reached me a week ago, he sent a photo and said "this reminded me of you hahaha" just made me super mad and upset. I'm not completely over all of it because he started banishing from the relationship and it was me who had to break it up because it was just too hurtful. this was last summer but he got into a new relationship pretty much instantly (don't know exactly but he went out with this girl like within a month after we broke up) cherry on top? his profile picture is him and the n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:17 AM
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Pretty much on the same boat, curios about any advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 04:39 AM
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Could you please expand on this? I still need to gather the courage to delete from my friends... I muted him so I don’t see anything but he still can see my profile and even sees my stories (just because he can, I don’t think he does it bc he’s interested) but like idk if blocking will make me seem spiteful or as if I care too much? And a part of me thinks that if he sees how well I’m doing then he may regret things, or at least think how he fucked up (I know I don’t have anything to prove to hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 06:54 PM
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I guess it applies not during the stages of dating, but more long term or when already in a committed relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 05:27 PM
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What about this feeling of feeling replaced ? Like he started seeing this girl shortly (couple weeks) after we broke up and they are now in a relationship. I know it’s not about him, but I want to learn how to navigate this. I don’t have anything against this girl because I don’t really know how things unfolded on his side (although I suspect he was interested in her while we were still a couple and that’s why he started to drift away from me, not replying, not acknowledging my ways of telling h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 05:52 AM
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It bums me how he may become better for the next woman, like, it’s not fair them treating you badly, you not standing him being disrespectful, but how he may treat his next gf better. Like why some people have to be doing wrong to others?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:17 PM
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Thank you x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:16 PM
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Does this mean a LVM can become a HVM? I also believe everyone can change, but what about the “don’t settle for potential” then ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:50 PM
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It’s been 6 months for me and I still feel that way, like I still like him physically, even tho my head knows he did me wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 10:31 PM
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Exactly, they offer friendship as a consolation prize, and to make it seem like they are a “good guy”. It pisses me off because it’s like they don’t realize all the bad and hit they’ve done, it’s as if everything’s is fine. My ex offered to be friends, and when I asked him if that meant to be friends on Facebook he said that I shouldn’t overthink it, like??? I already have friends. Also I don’t want him telling him about his new girls. This guy even told me not to wait for him, but that maybe in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 01:09 AM
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I’m 26 and have only dated once, and am by no means experienced. I haven’t lived through the “normal” phases of dating, having sex, etc by this age, and I really feel like I’m at a disadvantage, and how it’s “unfair” that guys I will date in the future will be very much experienced in this area, honestly, it makes me also a little jealous, them having experience with other people, while I’m a clean slate. I feel like I can never measure up to a memory and that I won’t be as good as their next on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 07:59 PM
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Thank you again! 💕 I hadn’t seen it that way but you’re so right. He just texted and immediately deleted the message (after months of no contact). Even tho his profile pic is with the current girl, like??? lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 11:32 PM
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Thank you so much, I guess I’m just looking for some reassurance I did the “right” thing... Gotta say he’s already with someone else so... I want to learn to own my decision and accept that it’s over. It still hurts a little. It’s just that the whole “it wasn’t meant to be” is hard for me to believe, and I feel it’s unfair that he’s moved on and supposedly happy, and that now this girl is his girlfriend and being treated nicely (I have nothing against the girl). I guess I want to be sure that he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:09 PM
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Thank you sis! I’ll try this out and I’ll be looking forward to your complete post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 03:47 PM
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Thank you sis, I’m saving this. I hope o can reach your level and that in the future, I can see this guy just as something that happened. Thing is he started to drift apart (we had dates for 5 months + known each other for 2 months) when I went on a exchange to another continent for school. We had talked about going long distance and he even said he would visit me. Everything about him seemed to be HVM. I kept in touch during the exchange, calling him, sending letters, texting, sending him a gif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 03:45 PM
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How can we reach that point? Been struggling for 6 months, I’ve cut off contact but we still follow each other on insta and are friends on fb (although I’ve muted him on both). He seems to be in a relationship know, and even tho mentally I know I shouldn’t want him back, I still miss him and think of him. I really don’t know what to do from here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 07:32 PM
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How did you get over him losing interest and then going to another girl? I could use some of your hindsight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 07:16 PM
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Lol i want to feel the same “WTF” way 😂 you’re right, maybe when I date again. It’s so sad tho, to forget about someone you loved. It stings me that he has forgotten about me as if we never happened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 05:04 PM
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Agreed. I’m afraid of only burying my leftover feeling and “not caring” only for them to pop up again in a couple months or when I’m in a new relationship. I want to be over him in a way that I find him underwhelming, not just shutting him down off my mind because I cannot have him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 03:45 PM
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Exactly, also how he’s complimenting her on HIS terms, making things about him ughh. Way to go OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 03:49 PM
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