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RANTKristeninmyskin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:37 PM
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FOREVER GF TALESKristeninmyskin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:58 PM
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NAH, SISKristeninmyskin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:14 PM
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I’m sorry, but I laughed so much at this! I get that he was only six, but, Just the expectation that you just go through life doing nothing and an adult woman will take care of you. At least that’s my prediction - I hope I’m wrong!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 12:03 AM
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Saving this comment to show to my pick me friend for when she’s ready to hear it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 11:41 PM
48

Concern trolling! What a great name for it! I’ve only gotten one and I ignored it. Edit: I have had a plethora of new followers recently, concerning only because they seem to be bots (if I look at the profile, it’s an only fans looking clickbait). Not sure if there’s a scrote behind it, or there’s women out there trying to cast a wide net
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 03:10 AM
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woman up and leave his ass I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 08:38 PM
123

I am a bikini waxer by trade (high school guidance counselor did not prepare me for that!) and most of my clients do it for themselves. Any time they dare mention a man’s preference I say the same thing “If someone criticizes the moat, then they don’t get to visit the castle!” Never fails to get a laugh. For the pedantic out there, yes I do realize that hedge would make more sense than moat because it’s more bush-like, but moat trips off the tongue better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 08:10 PM
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I’m guessing she’s doing it to save time. But, I feel that I’d rather check out their profile for obvious red flags before getting on his radar by liking him only to realize that I’ve attracted the attention of a psycho!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 12:30 AM
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I’m sorry, but tell me why we can’t give all men vasectomies at puberty? They could be reversed upon completion of a comprehensive test covering financial culpability, emotional awareness, mental stability and proof that they would be a good father. In my fantasy, women rule the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 08:19 PM
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this is why I don’t take it seriously if men start flattering you - they know that women will take it to heart, and therefore be more pliable. That was the first thing I noticed, too! It’s like pre-love bombing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 10:56 PM
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I commented wondering why one would want to marry someone who doesn’t want to marry them. I added that his reasons of loving her were all about what she did for him, and that he doesn’t really love her! Not sure if she read them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 03:04 AM
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When I started reading your post, I thought this was going to go in a damsel in distress direction with a bunch of scrotes trying to rescue you. Which, while annoying and unpleasant, would have at least made sense to me. But yikes they were just predators!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 02:49 AM
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Beautifully put!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 12:12 AM
44

Winner, winner! Caught in the act and doubles down! Wasn’t me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 12:10 AM
18

Nobody r@pes like Gaston!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 04:17 PM
19

I liked Amy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 04:16 PM
25

Women are taught from a young age to be people men pleasers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 03:52 PM
55

A guy that states his preferences unasked (when they don’t match present company) is just begging to be told “Since we’re sharing, I prefer a man with a big d*ck/wallet/ full head of hair/ whatever this dude lacks”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 02:40 PM
19

I’ll take Things That Never Happened for $1,000, Alec!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 12:20 AM
9

Don’t forget that after a meal like this, all the women present are expected to clean up afterwards!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 06:57 PM
9

Wow! I always wondered how grooming began.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 06:22 PM
43

Translation: “He won’t cheat on you if you do this, this, and this…” LIES!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 07:36 AM
27

That’s right, let’s celebrate their mediocrity! When he takes out the trash, give him a cookie! When he mows the lawn, make him a sandwich! When he does the dishes in the sink (even though there’s still other dirty dishes on the stove), throw him a parade!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 01:23 AM
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And a proofreader!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 02:55 AM
30

Haven’t had woke bros texting me these kinds of things, but if they did it more than once a month, I’d be turned off. I’ve unfriended some Facebook people for posting that kind of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 05:51 AM
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Came here to say this. If I had a crazy ex, the last thing I would do is announce it right away. That’s a lie for a pick me to prove herself different. A weird variation of triangulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 11:43 PM
27

I absolutely believe that Johnny Depp traumatized Amber in one or more ways and that I would hit him, too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 11:41 PM
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Never heard of the show but, I will forever call the Bachelor the Pick Me Olympics, so thank you for that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 02:37 AM
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I follow her on tik tok! I haven’t watched any of her latest videos, most of them involve her cutting down scrotes to size!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 04:50 AM
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Like the other commenter, when I was young, I was so much more optimistic! Now, in my early 40’s I’m trying to accept the fact that I might never actually find the man I’m hoping for, and that my friends, family and pets will be enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:44 PM
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Regarding number 2; Why don’t those two women still living with their exes, leave them and move in together?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 03:32 AM
74

Came for the drama, stayed for the crown!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:13 AM
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And now that you have his address, you can send him a glitter bomb!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 07:36 PM
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Bad publicity is still publicity! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 12:52 AM
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So, we’re all just going to ignore the fact that they’ve been together for five years before the proposal? If they were both still in med school, I can understand him not wanting to get married right away. But I see no problem with a long engagement. He’s the asshole, for not considering her preferences and when he discovers her preferences, for completely ignoring them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 07:03 AM
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Tell your friends and family members to set you up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:00 AM
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I really hope he didn’t follow you and see where you live!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 08:16 AM
5

Oh, he’s long past reality!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:19 AM
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My wife said I never listen to her. I thought, that’s a strange way to start a conversation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 06:30 AM
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I can quote this without even clicking that link! Step 1. Trap your princess!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 03:58 AM
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slow whistle That’s pretty old to still not be able to talk to women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 11:33 PM
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It was the veggies line that killed me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 06:07 PM
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This is a great example of why women should learn some basic car skills. I have jumper cables, but have never had to jump on my own. I have had to change a few tires by myself, not a problem! It’s also good for safety to be self reliant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:34 PM
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So happy you escaped! Also, not sure if you dated him from age 18-21 or 2018-2021 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:56 PM
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Well, someone’s going to die a virgin!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:51 PM
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It begs the question are there less teenage fathers because teenage boys are better at using birth control or because most sperm doners responsible for impregnating teenagers are older men who take advantage of naive young girls?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 11:36 PM
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Right? This guy is shit and so are his friends!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:56 PM
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I’m praying that the horse dewormer kills him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:14 PM
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This needs the FDS Humor flair!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:57 PM
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It just kept getting worse! I hope it was fiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:54 PM
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Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:02 PM
5

Tell me you’re a pick me without telling me you’re a pick me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:43 AM
7

Foot rub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:43 AM
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As disturbing as the porn was, I was almost as concerned at the frequency of their workouts! 4-5x a day?! Surely that was supposed to be week? I’d be exhausted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:35 AM
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Not going to lie, I laughed when I read about those!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:52 AM
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I had the same thought! I remember that post! Maybe when these women are all widows they can do something similar!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:48 AM
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Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 08:35 PM
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I use my main account because I don’t know how to make a throwaway!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:28 PM
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Lol!😂 Which, ironically are not the size that was promised, so WHERE’S YOUR LOGIC NOW?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:26 PM
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It’s extra creepy that he started talking about an ‘older guy’ she probably knew! Shudder!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:18 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:49 PM
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Oh, to read that roast of a text!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 12:00 AM
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“Now, why would I want a 7/10 for a boyfriend?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 11:34 PM
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Can you PM her? That’s how I tell them about FDS if I think they’ll Listen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 01:00 AM
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When he said “Who you gonna dominate - a chihuahua?”, I laughed. When he said “5 dasko fans!”, I roared! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 04:34 AM
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Y’all can be up next! I don’t….I don’t want to be next if that’s the prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 04:21 AM
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Maybe she swore not to get it filled until she got the ring!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 04:20 AM
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I couldn’t read past: When a man has an affair, he is made to feel victimized instead of noble for choosing to stay with his wife barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 01:47 PM
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“But, I’m a nice guy!” The classic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 07:49 PM
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They’re talking about hypothetical girlfriends, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:40 PM
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Yeah, why the hell did that last longer than a day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 10:52 PM
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Scrotlantis! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 05:05 AM
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Ah, yes. The part about satisfying men was particularly phony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 05:03 AM
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That class should be mandatory for all high school girls!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:25 AM
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Bad therapist! BAD!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:20 AM
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And look at the time! He’s bothering her at 11:30 at night!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:42 AM
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That’s when you say “My aunt would just love you, can I set you up with her?” Especially if he’s the same age as you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:35 AM
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That’s when you turn and and say “I just have to compliment you! Your style, your hair, how you did your makeup - You’re just so lovely and put together! Oh, is this your father?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:20 PM
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Oh, no! Oh, no! Oh, no no, no, no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:10 AM
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Yep! Ask for separate checks and GTFO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:04 AM
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I like this one the best! I’ve also heard from here “something real”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 05:21 AM
7

Wouldn’t a busier trail be safer than a remote hike with no one around to hear you call for help?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 08:08 PM
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Yeah, she should have quoted Leap Year! Not that I’m promoting proposing to a man!! Wrong, wrong, wrong! To be a fly on the wall when this woman proposes to her LONGTIME bf and he says no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:23 PM
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I want him to stop whining so I’ll hook him up. “Here! I found another Pickmeisha to bang you while we’re on vacation!” Good grief, what’s next “If she’s a little resistant, just slip one of these into her drink!” ?!?! I wonder if this is how those women end up helping men in their human trafficking ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:55 PM
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I know this isn’t necessarily a focus of FDS, but I really think it’s important enough to have in our handbook. We are pro helping women escape bad relationships and they need to know how and believe that they can! Mods, please make this happen!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:02 AM
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I’m so glad! I was really looking forward to seeing this sequel and then some corona happened. I’m going to watch it today!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:25 PM
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It would be like He’s Just Not That Into You, but better because the women in the audience would recognize themselves and come running to FDS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:59 PM
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Wait, wait, wait! I think I figured it out! I reread it and I think he should have phrased it differently. I’ll use a colon instead of the hyphen for clarification. Beef: End the feud with my sister It’s still a stupid way to put it. Well, he’s all kinds of stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:59 AM
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Yeah, food with absolutely no salt would be gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:59 AM
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The tissue bloating did it for me! Can’t even proof read his own proposal. Also, what the hell is beef-end?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:58 AM
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“I wasn’t watching them, but I noticed that they….”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 09:10 PM
2

Oooh! This, I like!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:56 PM
5

This. A man with a bank account worth bragging about never would. And they would also never be worried about someone marrying them just for their money. If a man said this to me, I would drop dead from laughing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 07:18 PM
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Now, that is embarazzing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 07:11 PM
11

Remember: Nothing says “Good job!” like a pat on the butt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 07:01 PM
10

If he wanted to, he would Louder for the women in the back! If he wanted to, he would!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:57 PM
28

Yep. She is right to lose faith in him - he’s a literal loser!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:26 PM
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Yeah, he may as well buy some scratchers from the liquor store - might have better luck, honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:25 PM
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You sound hysterical! I’m going to lock you up and shock you before you start thinking for yourself! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 02:37 PM
3

Lol! Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 04:05 AM
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I’m very glad she’s working on her exit strategy! You’re a great friend, OP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 05:14 AM
8

😂lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 04:18 AM
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crabs in the bucket mentality Exactly this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:34 PM
42

LVM’s last desperate grasp for holding onto the idea that they are the prize!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 07:34 PM
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Well, I’ve been looking for a way to meet more HVW friends, so I appreciate knowing this! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:53 PM
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Unbelievable. If anything, sex offenders should get longer, stronger sentences!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:50 PM
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We all have a society of duty to be ruthlessly Intolerant of bad behavior from men. Getting this printed on a T-shirt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:05 AM
11

Yes. This poor girl is his barista at his regular Starbucks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:37 AM
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Saved!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 11:47 PM
36

Yeah, you can keep that luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 11:45 PM
6

Wait till he sees the boyfriend application I’d send him! Height: Penis length: Girth: How well do you cook? How often do you clean the whole house? The kitchen? The bathroom? Please attach bank statements, investment statements, 401K information, health insurance card, clean bill of health with no STDs, references from at least three ex girlfriends supporting your sexual ability, lack of toxicity and manipulation and absence of crazy relatives. And of course, pictures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:41 PM
10

Alternatively, say no because they shouldn’t be asking a woman for money!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:10 PM
21

“How can I cOmUNicAte with him? Non verbally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:07 PM
14

More likely this NVM would probably get paid off to eff off!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:04 PM
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Yeah, she doesn’t need friends like him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:41 PM
3

Yeah, I’m gonna need something non consumable, like jewelry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 04:49 PM
4

Yeah, why do people do that?! Here’s a head start to being a pick me! must please the man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 04:48 PM
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Quick, lemme get a finger cot! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:53 PM
10

Some say he’s still practicing for his learner’s permit to this day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:44 PM
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He wouldn’t use soap?!?!The dollar store sells detergent!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:42 PM
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I’m glad it was recorded, too! Now we all know to be on the lookout for Tad the Rapist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:50 PM
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“I live with six huge, scary overprotective brothers, now STFU!!” Actually, that’s not a great answer. We shouldn’t have to invent men to protect us from these sex pests (who will respect a fictional male in our life rather than our own boundaries)! Maybe a better response is “Why would you ask me that?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:44 PM
21

Even the name of the channel is cringe. Pro Male Vendetta. Pathetic and lame!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 01:46 AM
1

Right? I have got to prioritize reading this and several other books from the list that I’ve been meaning to get to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 08:30 PM
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Also, too many will fuck up by sending an unsolicited dic pic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:41 AM
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I feel like a good fake insecurity would be an opposite to the truth. What if I told them I felt so skinny and scrawny when I was younger when the truth was I was on the chubby side. Would I smile too much as they tried to neg me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:45 AM
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I heard of people that keep lists in their phone so they can add to it whenever the person they’re with makes an offhand comment about something they like!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:29 AM
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I’m single because I have incredibly high standards!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:24 AM
1

Well, I’m filing this one away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:23 AM
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You know what? I’m gonna say it: this is so important that we should add it to the handbook. Or at least that Saturday summary of relevant posts of the week! MODS!!! Please make this happen. Also, you might see a politically correct mask slip as he makes racist observations about other drivers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 10:49 PM
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This is so horrifying to hear!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 10:45 PM
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Lemme guess, he tried to say it was your fault for distracting him! SMH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 06:35 PM
3

Are you talking about the POOpourie spray that you spritz on the toilet water before you go? I’m glad you laughed in his face!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 06:17 AM
3

Yikes! I’m giving you an award to give your comment more visibility!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:46 AM
4

I always DM those women about FDS! I don’t want to be harassed by a bunch of defensive scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:00 AM
6

Does baldness need to be fixed? I’m looking at Dwayne Johnson and Jason Statham. Vin diesel and Bruce Willis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 04:46 AM
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I love your username! I like butterflies, but be careful….they’re a gateway bug!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 04:42 AM
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Ooh! Get some aloe for that burn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:33 PM
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I strongly suggest to avoid straight men as ‘friends’. This reminds me of a ‘gay’ friend of my friend from high school. I came home for the summer from college to find her hanging out all the time with this outrageous, flamboyant guy. All well and good except he would do things like grab her boobs and they were both like “It’s fine because he’s gay!” A few years later I heard he married a woman. What a phony!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:18 PM
6

Hahaha! YES!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:11 PM
3

Thanks for the link! Unfortunately, it made me to irritated to finish it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:09 PM
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You’re a single woman so you’re seen as taking away from this couple who wants to start a family Boy, you hit the nail on the head!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:04 AM
7

More like your arms aren’t free to fend off an attack!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:19 PM
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When her friends are buying dresses for the dance and she wanders off on her own to go to the bookstore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:18 PM
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You know, I wonder if they see us as more vulnerable when our hands are busy holding groceries!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:23 PM
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This comment needs to be higher, that’s why I’m giving it an award! If it would threaten a man, it sure as hell would threaten a woman! People make fun of Twilight, but that scene with a group of four men herding a teenage girl into a dark alley is creepy and accurate as fuck! But, everyone just kind of glosses over that because her vampire boyfriend shows up and everything turns out ok!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:18 PM
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More women should have pitbulls! I never once felt unsafe when I was walking ours as a teen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:10 PM
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My pick me friend suffers from numbers 5 and 6. Maybe I can get her to read this. A combination of low self esteem and a lifetime of patriarchal brainwashing has her accepting crumbs and thinking she likes kink. She dates online during a pandemic! At least a couple of the guys have paid for her dinners at some expensive places. Which, as she told me about the dates, she probably chased away by acting shocked about that. I know I can’t help her until she’s ready.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 11:36 PM
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Wah! WAH! WAH! 😭 You hurt my feelings! My murdering you is justified! However is he still single?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:49 PM
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I wish there were magic phrases for things like this. Different anecdotes you could share for every situation (abuser, LVM leech, Pickmeisha) and the fog would clear, and you would be able to see the gears turning in the woman’s head, and finally there’d be an aha moment and you’d know your work was done. And you could grab your umbrella and carpetbag and float off to help another woman in need of emancipating! That would definitely deserve to be in the handbook!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:18 PM
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Big clown energy! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:13 PM
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She’s NTA, but she’s a clown for staying with him. Her fears are perfectly valid. It’s not a question of if an emergency happens and he won’t be helping her, it’s a question of when and how bad it’s going to be! Is she really willing to risk her child’s safety? She would be better off as a single parent then with this loser who is most certainly endangering her child!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:11 PM
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Is it also possible that it’s (partly) projection? Men are such habitual liars that they can’t imagine that the woman is telling the truth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:08 PM
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Is it too late for her to get an annulment I wonder? Even if *that could work things out, why The hell would she want to? Edit: I meant *they
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:16 AM
3

WTF?!?! How? Groosss!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:40 AM
7

Dude lady, that Lume lotion has been a game changer for me! It stinks to high heaven when first applied, but after a half hour or so, kinda goes away. And the lady parts have no odor!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:38 AM
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“He had a bad day!” /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:56 AM
30

Mmmm, a tapeworm wouldn’t stop him from ordering pizza for his children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:21 AM
27

I think you’re wrong. This is not about food. This is about his failure to provide for his family, his neglect of his children, his hatred for his wife, and his (I can’t think of the word for it) creating an excuse to make it his wife’s fault. If they bought more food, he would eat or ruin that too. This is about power or control or something else like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:20 AM
14

You’re absolutely right, I’m sure! She made no mention at all of any of his contributions or even positive qualities. P.S. I love your username!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:16 AM
46

Your comment reminded me that she didn’t mention a single good quality about him! This woman is screaming for our help!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:47 AM
0

I was saying exactly what you said, only I got downvoted first it. Scrotes, perhaps?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:50 AM
15

That’s right! As recent as the 1970’s I believe, a woman couldn’t even have a credit card in her own name!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:16 PM
8

Right, if the engagement is broken, a lot of states declare it the man’s property as a conditional gift. In the case of a divorce, it’s the woman’s property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:13 PM
11

I heard if the engagement is broken, the man has a legal right it, but I’m not an expert or any kind of authority. Also, it depends on the laws where you live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:52 PM
1

This. ⬆️ Any man who is relying on peer pressure has something wrong with him and should not get a yes. I have no problem saying no and looking like a bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:54 AM
4

Boy, shouldn’t this be our anthem!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:37 AM
28

I’ve been using Paula’s Choice products since I was 19 and I’ll be 42 this month. I still have people guess I’m in my 20’s. I’m an esthetician by trade, but I’m only waxing, not skin care at the moment. I’ve also been single most of my life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:27 PM
3

Women should take at least a year to decide, but supposedly men know pretty quickly... and treat you accordingly. I think a couple that got together while still in school might wait until they save both graduated and that’s okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:20 AM
21

He looks like the nerd who stole Woody..... but with less cheese dust on his fingers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:42 PM
36

Is it possible that his wife is imaginary? Because maybe he’s so invested in a fantasy that he believes it’s real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:38 PM
63

Boys will be boys sums it up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:34 AM
13

And then she added a crown like the queen that she is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:56 PM
19

Hey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:04 PM
6

Washboard abs Wednesday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:14 AM
28

She’s in a vulnerable position and ripe for the picking! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:00 AM
21

Male friends = opportunistic sharks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:16 PM
13

It never occurred to me that there were teen centered subs! Those poor girls, getting DMs from icky basement dwellers and neckbeards!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:34 AM
57

And sometimes with a creepy shiver!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:25 AM
99

Or push some poor science focused, shy kid into every sport he likes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:24 AM
7

Like we’re interested in what he has to say in our cozy, safe, protected space where we plot to take over the world! Sorry, got carried away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:23 AM
26

Right? I was thinking “When is it ever?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:13 AM
81

Actually, I agree with that last one: “Don’t make him clean up if he doesn’t like it “ Just leave his ass! Don’t waste time and energy trying to change people. They’ll just resent you and neither of you will be happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:01 PM
23

He’s aiming!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:48 PM
8

Wait - what’s the grenade method?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:13 PM
17

I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:26 PM
64

Laughs in cat lady!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:22 AM
61

Also, complete authority over the remote control!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:22 AM
3

Technically, if he talks about himself the whole time, you can be like “Well, you never asked me what I do for a living! I’m a therapist, that will be $150.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:36 AM
3

Hey! Hey, hey, hey! Don’t be dissing the DVDs like that! They have value to somebody! The Scrotes don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:33 AM
6

Oooh! This point being made!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:29 AM
5

I know this field....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:29 AM
28

I hope she left him for good! How devastating to know that the man you wanted to marry thinks that shit like this is funny!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:24 AM
2

Aww! If only there was a socially acceptable way to spend one on one time with a woman that simultaneously made her aware of your feelings and helped you make a good impression! Caveman:”Uh, let’s go to a pub”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:57 PM
7

This reminds me of the time I was criticizing some random sagging pants dude walking by, and the girl I was with goes “I like it! It identifies them as a douchebag, so I know too avoid them!” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:19 PM
6

Rapists lives DON’T matter!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:25 PM
2

Try Everything by Shakira. It makes me feel inspired to go after what I want and not be discouraged by the possibility of failure! Also, TIL I have a song I’ve dedicated to myself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:01 PM
105

Or sleeps in a nest. I’m still not over that one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:06 PM
4

Forgive yourself! The past is done. Love yourself, you’re doing the best you can!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:33 PM
18

I’ve had women ask me to reach something off the top shelves before. I’m always happy to do that, even though I’m only 5’7”!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:47 AM
217

For most of history men were encouraged & sanctioned ..... to use violence against women. Does everyone know the origins of the phrase ‘rule of thumb’? It was legal for a man to beat his wife so long as the stick was no wider than his thumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:33 PM
3

Imagine how fast he would have s$it his pants if he came over and saw flowers (that you had bought for yourself) sitting there! Who bought her those, he’d wonder...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:44 AM
144

“Women can’t drive” Lol! Ask the insurance companies why they charge women less!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:23 PM
46

If a man is suggesting 50/50, he’s referring to finances; splitting the check, paying half of the rent, groceries, etc. If a woman mentions it, she needs him to do more around the house, help with kids, deal with the mental load/emotional labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:52 PM
3

Anybody else catch that they have been together two years and he hasn’t made her cum?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:11 PM
3

I hate that phrase! A waxer by trade, I hear it on an almost daily bases. I could never explain why I didn’t like it, but now I can!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:04 AM
37

I hope his next girl (a Pickmeisha, no doubt) gives him pinkeye!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:04 PM
1

This is god to hear, I hope it’s true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:11 PM
2

😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:52 PM
1

I like your current one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:42 PM
2

Thank you! While I appreciated the example, I had no idea who these people were!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:36 PM
6

I thought we all agreed to set Chris Brown on fire! The fact that he still walks free and has fans makes my blood boil! I’m so glad Rhianna escaped him and seems to be trying to stay single. Is she single? I hope so, because she needs no man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:30 PM
1

Communicate with your ACTIONS!! After all, they speak louder than words!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:24 PM
46

That’s why I couldn’t even decipher that Neanderthal’s gibberish!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:09 PM
3

Lol! That jumped out at me, too! Except mine was the less funny thought “Is that homeless man copping a feel?!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:51 AM
5

She needs our help so bad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:08 AM
6

🙌👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:35 PM
18

“You’re too tall!” You’re too short Blame God
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:20 PM
6

I use milk instead of water if it’s creamer, like Mac and cheese!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:07 PM
24

I drizzle water over food before reheating it in the microwave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:20 PM
6

Yep! Money (enough to support my modest lifestyle), free time, and all the sleep!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:42 PM
5

Well, it does. That’s why I’m not smiling - I saw them coming! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 10:55 PM
52

Exactly! He Wants To do all these things. But, he doesn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 09:38 PM
3

Frankly, I think this deserves the humor flair! I hope she didn’t go through with it, he’s obviously low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:00 PM
3

Is this the inspiration for the movie Colette (Keira Knightly)? Or is this such a common thing that it could have been about a dozen different authors?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:08 PM
2

Date at a bar?! That he forgot about?! Then he tried to get you to go to his apartment?! The bar is literally in hell!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:42 PM
5

Washing hands? That’s nothing! What about washing your face? I’m only 5’7” and find that annoying and painful on the back if I’m rinsing off a persistent face mask!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:22 AM
26

All forms of birth control would be free!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:30 AM
8

I heard somewhere (probably Reddit) about women somewhere in Asia who are wearing pins to defend themselves against men groping them in public transit. Apparently, the amount of men who do this there is out of control because there are no consequences to their actions and no way to even catch them because it’s so crowded!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:56 AM
3

Username checks out! Seriously, not a bad idea to give every man a vasectomy at age 14 and if they decide they want to have children, they have to pass a test. Or a series of tests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:40 AM
2

What they said! It’s basically causing a woman to compete with another woman who often isn’t even in the picture! “You would look prettier with that woman’s breasts!” “My ex used to make my lunch everyday!” “My new secretary has red hair, she’s so pretty! Have you ever dyed your hair?” Negging is backhanded complements. “That’s a nice shirt, does it come in your size?” “Those are nice earrings, my grandmother used to wear costume jewelry, too!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:54 AM
1

You are a surgeon! In this safe space, we do not differentiate genders because it shouldn’t be necessary. Imagine if we went around saying things like ‘my male tax attorney’ ‘the male baker’ ‘a male lifeguard’! Actually, I want to start saying this so people stop saying things like ‘female bartender’ ‘female trainer’!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:44 AM
3

What really frosts my cookies is how they’re trying to normalize this! A few years ago, there was a commercial for a root touch up spray where this exact scenario was depicted. The guy was asking her to send a selfie and she was worried about her roots so she uses the product and send him some pictures and then he asked her for more!! Found it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:19 AM
12

Triangulating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:16 PM
44

Be funny if you stood up and grabbed your purse and when he asked where you’re going, tell him “Calm down!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:47 PM
30

Eating his leftovers? Which were probably paid for another pick me he’s dating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:29 PM
26

True! Because if you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:08 AM
21

Also The Duff, Mean Girls and A Cinderella Story (Hilary Duff). And again, they have to change to get their guy! Except maybe Hilary Duff?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:48 PM
4

Do you all realize how many woman’s magazines are out there spewing crappy dating advice? You don’t see any men’s magazines out there with articles like “The fastest way to her heart!” If they did, they would be called “Shortcuts to her pants”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:27 PM
1

“I don’t want to lose him!” “How can I let him know how much this hurts me?” Ya dump him. It’s how men communicate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:00 PM
1

Best open a window, you don’t want to breathe that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:54 PM
2

Sex type?! Yeah, my ‘sex type’ is the one that’s not compatible with these scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:51 PM
3

Dissertation, ha! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:48 PM
3

I, I, I, I, I, I, I,.....don’t want that! Congratulations on kicking him out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:51 AM
2

From the U.S. and still hadn’t heard the term trap house. But, after reading your comment, I think I have an idea, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:35 AM
4

“I was going to do such and such....where’s my parade?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:30 AM
1

Smurfed out? I don’t even want to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:29 AM
1

I’ve always loved this song, but I had never seen the video! Some people men just need disposing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:22 AM
5

Similar. When I was young, i just assumed I would - I didn’t know you could opt out. Then, I thought if I found the right person. I’ll be 42 this year and still single. I do not regret not having them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:16 AM
2

This is misguided at best and sick at worst! So harmful when they should be opening up the eyes of impressionable young women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:13 AM
2

If I’m a participation trophy, then that man’s a booby prize!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:17 AM
12

Not women! adult girls! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:09 AM
16

What a wonderful idea! Love the initiative!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:53 AM
3

Three years without a ring seems like a long time. Why did you move in together with no ring?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:16 AM
3

You’re welcome! Check my edit out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:18 PM
12

Alright, I got you! I had to look under the FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions), but it was the first one. Why We Don’t Split The Bill Edit: I also found this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 09:10 PM
2

Michael Scott vibes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:32 AM
10

Eeewwwwuugghhhh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:07 PM
42

I would do anything to be thin...except diet and exercise!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:49 PM
11

I hope she kicks him in the nads when she leaves him in hopes that he won’t be able to breed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:14 AM
3

Eh, the trolls can suck it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:58 AM
3

This needs to be in the handbook! Mods, please make this happen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:06 PM
11

Eeeeewwwwwe! So sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:41 PM
5

For anyone else out there, there are places you can donate wedding dresses. In your case, you might not have wanted someone else to get that bad juju!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:35 PM
80

I’ve seen this before and I’m happy every time I see it. I think it should be reposted weekly so the male lurkers see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:28 PM
5

My response would be: “Sounds like someone didn’t read my bio, I work in a waxing center!” I mean, the correct response is block and delete!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:07 PM
8

You all are right! The B.I.T.C.H.; the Babe In Total Control of Herself. Self possessed and independent. Makes her own decisions, doesn’t go with the flow, puts herself first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:52 PM
10

How could one win a prize by doing as little as possible to achieve anything? If winning anything was that easy, we’d all be winners in the game of life. Instead, there are many losers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:41 PM
1

The Rules:Time Tested Secrets to Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right. This is the original book. They write a sequel called The Rules II: More Rules to Love and Live By, and they have since combined them into one book: All the Rules: Time Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:25 PM
3

Glad you clarified, because a forever girlfriend not getting chocolate sounds pretty sad to me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:04 AM
4

Better late than never!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:02 AM
14

Eeewwwww! The kiss marks on the screen is so cringe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 09:32 PM
6

You say his name is Tim Skrotely? Well, that’s what I heard! I mean, darn autocorrect!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 09:29 PM
13

🎼What do you say?🎵 I am not a child. Please don’t treat me like one. My father is the type to expect a parade when he does stuff. I have been trained from birth to thank people constantly for doing anything. Mostly it’s fine, I’m not overly gushing and awkward, I just say thank you. Never had a strange look from it, though, I must have a more blasé thanks for mundane things!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:57 PM
10

Probably they met on an app and he wants her phone number. Don’t give it to him, Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:29 PM
10

snickers in queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:24 PM
26

Send that scrote an itemized bill for gym membership, highlights, nails, waxing, wardrobe and expensive makeup and skincare products!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:48 PM
10

Happy Cake Day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:45 AM
120

Too bad you didn’t just get back in the car and drive away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:34 AM
1

FDS (well, a lot of the women here) recommend a FaceTime or zoom before a date. I agree that a man who doesn’t ask you out on a date by two weeks isn’t going to and a man who wants your phone number just wants to send you dick pics. A face time chat will eliminate a lot of candidates (and surprises!).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:16 AM
3

If she were anyone other than my very best friend, I would. I hope to bring her up rather than let myself get pulled down. Her very best quality is also her kryptonite: she sees the best in everyone and gives too many chances. I’ve told her this to her face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:47 AM
7

Someday, I hope. She doesn’t believe she needs saving. She doesn’t get into abusive relationships, but she has never attracted a HVM. I don’t know that she knows what they are. Her most recent relationship lovebombed and burned out so fast I never even met the dude. But he had a bit of a bsdm ‘kink’ and she’s so desperate for male attention she convinced herself it’s her new kink, too. She doesn’t believe porn is bad, and has a ‘to each their own’ attitude about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:21 AM
11

I’m saving this for my pickme friend for when she is ready to hear it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:02 AM
5

I hope she kicked him out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:49 AM
2

Well, maybe men will listen to another man. Even if he neglected to mention we should be treated like people and not objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:40 AM
38

”Just tell me what you want you want and I’ll buy it for you!” This is exactly like “I’ll help around the house - just tell me what to do!” It is giving the woman the job of manager and the mental load
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:21 AM
56

Also, in the second slide she mentions that ‘she frequently finds herself hating him’! So much yikes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:07 AM
4

This worries me that it might escalate to him trying to get into your house! All of you ladies living alone should invest in something like this Add-A-Lock portable lock, so someone cannot enter your home even if they have the key! I’ve heard of women who have had to use it because they had landlords with boundary issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:00 AM
1

Like how she can better ComUnIcaTe! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:25 PM
1

Lol! Is paternal leave mandatory? Because I imagine many wouldn’t bother helping the mother after the birth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:25 PM
13

Yep. This is my very worst fear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:14 PM
7

Me neither! Unless, it was a proven HVM who wanted to buy me a little something. Like we were going jewelry shopping! Frankly, I don’t even like shopping with girlfriends because I like to take my time and go up and down every aisle and that could strain anyone’s patience!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:45 PM
147

Yeah, I saw that rapey sentence, too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:29 PM
5

I feel like it’s in there somewhere, but you gotta dig
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:11 PM
2

I’m a fan of home facial type things. A scrub, a mask and every sample packet I’ve picked up and never used!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:00 PM
1

For anyone wondering, the sequel they made about ten years after the first one is pretty good, too! It has her mother showing some high value qualities and while not as outrageously funny as the first movie, has lots of the zany family member’s antics!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:52 PM
3

I’ll get the windex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:49 PM
16

*unmistakable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:45 PM
12

Probably waiting for his art/music/gaming career to take off! Disclaimer: there are of course men and women who have successful careers in the arts, but they don’t sleep all day. They hustle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:57 AM
19

Yuck! I remember seeing a comment in a thread where this guy was trying to convince (who - women?) that his penis was cleaner than our bodies and he didn’t have to wash his hands after using the restroom! Gross, gross, gross! Edit: trying to reply to u/Annieandfish but it won’t let me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:40 PM
28

He LIED!! I’m sure of it! What else was he going to say - the truth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:59 AM
11

This makes me relieved to be agnostic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:07 AM
38

Oh boy! I was thinking it, but you said it! I guess this is why we vet so damn hard in the beginning, because once you fall in love, it’s so much harder to leave. But not impossible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 03:18 AM
2

He certainly wanted someone younger, groom much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 03:03 AM
6

Not the first time, won’t be the last. There’s a version of Catherine the Great starring Catherine Zeta Jones. I’ve heard that Cleopatra was no great beauty, that she was charming and intelligent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:58 AM
5

Ah, yes. The Dr. House syndrome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:56 AM
20

“Should I be her? Should I be Marilyn?” - Norma Jean Baker (A.K.A. Marilyn Monroe)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:38 PM
4

told that if I had waited one more day I would be dead Yeah. Except that you didn’t wait as long as they’re trying to make it seem! YOU CAME IN TWICE BEFORE THAT!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 07:38 AM
12

Haha! This ones my favorite!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 10:44 PM
19

Mods! We need to add this to the handbook!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:57 AM
28

This makes so much sense, it has to be true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 09:20 PM
23

It must be their worst fear that they are projecting onto us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:42 PM
21

Don’t forget that he really likes her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:40 AM
4

I don’t want him with $60. Add a few zeros and we’ll talk. I mean, not really, I’m not attracted to whoever this is. He looks like Sean Penn and Mickey Rourke’s love child!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:31 AM
1

Can you get in touch with either of her sisters? Are they Pickmeishas or would they want to separate her from him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:26 AM
2

He is absolutely trying to isolate and control OP’s friend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:25 AM
6

Wow! I’m thankful to say that I haven’t heard that in a long time! I guess I’m keeping better company than I did in middle school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:10 AM
9

I’ve always been incredibly horrified by the c word and am happy to say I don’t think I know an r word!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:49 AM
15

As a former (and hopefully future) horse girl, I can say we would all for sure put our horse before that jacka$$!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:46 AM
4

This reminds me of a story of one of the sweetest women I’ve ever worked with. This serial returner (she would buy things from other locations but return them to our location) was hassling her and I don’t remember what the problem was (probably trying to return something past the date, but ultimately wasn’t getting her way) and complained about my coworker to her face. My coworker says “Well, I think I’m a really nice person” in that sweet voice of hers, and this woman replied: ‘You are a nice p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 06:31 PM
19

What about my peace from catcalls and street harassment?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 08:35 PM
6

So, basically you’re Pam and Creed and Robert California are hitting on you? Gross. Unless they are not attracted to you, they can’t be just your friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 10:01 AM
4

Not to mention statutory rape!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:26 AM
10

Yeah. Unless he’s taking pictures of, like, lions or other animals or mountains for National Geographic I’m not interested!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:23 AM
6

Omg! They really do tell on themselves!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 08:23 AM
6

Also, how is it a privilege to get harassed, assaulted and raped? This! So much this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:15 AM
11

Yes. Because they sure as hell do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:44 AM
10

Gorgeous! I was going to guess Alexandrite!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 09:13 PM
47

While this has been all of us at one time in our lives, I think we can all agree to not ask a man where something is going or what they want. We don’t have to ask, they will tell us with their actions!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 09:54 PM
3

Gorgeous! Is that tanzanite? I love tanzanite!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:00 AM
11

Cackling!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:43 PM
3

Check out School of Affluence on YouTube with Anna Bey! Even if you’re not trying to bag a billionaire, her advice on leveling up and etiquette is invaluable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:20 PM
2

Go check out Anna Bey on YouTube! Actually, the name of her channel is School Of Affluence. Her mission is to help women level up in society and many of her opinions line up with FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:10 PM
2

I would love to share this with a particular friend, but she is not ready to hear it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:44 PM
3

This is why if you ever experimented with anal or something similarly kinky in your pick me years, you never ever tell them! Even if you had a traumatic experience, all they hear is that you did something (even if it was forcefully non consensual) with someone else that you won’t do with him. Losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:31 PM
3

“And you’re observant!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:22 PM
7

I thought she was using elderly ironically, as in, a scrote would call her elderly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:02 PM
1

The idea that a helpful local will volunteer to be my tour guide in a foreign country absolutely terrifies me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:58 PM
2

Ugh! That’s so much worse! I’m so sorry that happened to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:40 PM
2

I have lists, too! While I’m not dating right now, I plan on keeping a journal when I do start up again. I want to have a record of behavior so that I can recognize patterns sooner. Also, sometimes things are hard to articulate why you feel a certain way about someone. Having a tangible record of specific actions and things they said can shed light on a vague feeling!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:16 PM
1

I don’t know what clicking means in this context. Did he grab your butt?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:53 PM
13

Cats shit in a box and they’re still cleaner than a large population of useless scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 07:47 AM
12

You seem kind of hysterical. Please let me talk to your man. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 01:02 AM
2

Thank you for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:09 PM
109

Okay, is anyone else going to see the new movie Promising Young Woman? I am. The first trailer I saw for it shows a woman talking to a female dean or principal about her friend/ relative who was raped and/or murdered and telling the dean that the victim did report the heinous crime to the dean herself. Later trailers show this woman getting all dolled up and baiting men to take her home where she.....tortures them? Teaches them a lesson? Kills them? I’m not sure. But I will see it and let you al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:57 AM
15

Oh, I didn’t get one! sniffle, sniffle FINE BY ME!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:52 PM
3

“Feels like teeth, jackass!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:06 AM
7

Well said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 04:21 AM
7

TIL we’re a hate sub. sobs uh huh, uh huh, FINE BY ME!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 04:20 AM
36

Love that Disney villain laugh at the end! I should tape that above my mirror.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:59 PM
10

Men who keep score are insufferable! From paying, to gifts to chores, anyone who trots out their bourgeois accomplishments (which are equivalent to the bare minimum of human decency) and expect a gd trophy for it can go wallow in their mediocrity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:55 AM
10

Everyone has a different love language, but she should cut that gift budget waaay back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:34 AM
3

This post deserves a place in the handbook - this is important sh&t! MODS! MODS!! Please make this a sidebar!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:32 AM
15

“40” year old. Maybe that’s also a delusion!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 11:29 PM
6

I’m sure that it’s hard right now in a global pandemic, but you need to GTFOOT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:59 AM
18

Yeah, cuz the reason you wanted to leave early was to spare the MeN the horror of seeing you vomit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 01:53 AM
200

Or court ordered community service?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 11:32 PM
17

Habitual liars lie reflexively, they don’t even think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:14 PM
3

I assume you’re looking for an answer other than “To have sex”. Power, control maybe, I dunno.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:07 PM
6

I’ve never signed up for this exact reason! It’s not that I’m so 50/50 that I have to get what I give, I would just be very hurt if I tried so hard to give someone a nice xmas, only to get scammed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:25 PM
23

“Men have the advantage of choice, women only the power of refusal.” - Jane Austen Still relevant today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:37 PM
12

Have you read some of the recommended books in the FDS handbook? I feel like either Why Men Love Bitches or The Rules addresses these things in a helpful way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:33 PM
22

This guy is begging for therapy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:23 PM
10

And saved!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:13 PM
8

She was one of our original queens!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 05:53 PM
4

Burn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 05:45 PM
44

Cheap, controlling, gaslights, negs, follow a lot of Instagram models, pays for OnlyFans...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:08 PM
10

I have NEVER approved of the C word!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 11:45 PM
3

As someone trying to lose weight, get in shape and level up in general, I needed to hear this today. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 11:41 PM
35

Anyone else remember that post from a couple months back saying we should start using the male prefix in front of everything to show how stupid it is? This is my male cousin, he’s a male doctor. The male clerk, saw a male cyclist, talked to a male taxi driver today...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:56 PM
13

Yuck! What woman would stay there once she got a taste of their trash?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:51 PM
7

I remember being the first to comment on a post from r/ relationships and the OP sounded young and inexperienced. If I recall correctly, he had managed to go on a date with this woman and somehow fucked up midway through. Said something he realized later could have been taken a different way. She politely rejected him after the date (forget by what means) and he was about to send a novel of a text telling her he would accept her decision, but he just wanted to explain what he meant by the possib…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:37 PM
10

That addendum regarding the ages is frightening! Why the hell does the boys age of consent go up but the girls go down ?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:22 PM
2

Day 2. She still hasn’t noticed I’m yellow, yet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 07:44 AM
7

I feel like a good vetting challenge would be to send the man to the store with a list and see how he does. Points would be deducted for getting the wrong item, taking an unnecessarily long time and attempting to contact me (I wouldn’t answer, of course). Some obscure things on the list would be fun, too: Shallots, capers, brand X fabric softener, jicama, leek, prosciutto, havarti cheese...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 07:39 AM
10

“Forgive me?” All together now, ”Nah!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 01:54 AM
6

They could go to a tailor!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:37 PM
7

Cuz, if I wore makeup like an Instagram model, I’d look like a transvestite!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:36 PM
15

And yet we get to admire their bare faces!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:29 PM
11

My cat certainly does!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 10:57 PM
14

Men only notice brightly colored makeup, like eyeshadow. If you’re wearing a neutral palette, you may as well be wearing none in their mind! Or thick foundation. An ex told me one thing he had liked about me on the night we met was that I hadn’t been wearing much makeup. I remembered that the night we had met I had experimented with a dramatic dark smoky eye. I told him “I was wearing a lot of makeup the night we met!” And he clarified that he was referring to my face (i.g. foundation).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 10:55 PM
2

I downloaded TikTok specifically because someone shared a funny video of a Canadian girl Briar I. May!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:33 AM
2

Thank you for bringing this up! I was thinking about this a while ago and sort of let it slip away. I’m interested to hear everyone’s opinions and experiences!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:22 AM
1

Jessica Fletcher (Angela Lansbury) from Murder, She Wrote! A widow who was a teacher until her nephew sent her first novel to a publisher and she’s an overnight success! She travels to exotic and charming places to see interesting and high value friends! I aspire to be as well mannered as her - even if someone is rude to her she politely but firmly calls them out and accepts shit from no one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:53 AM
1

Pardon my ignorance, what are the country club subs about? I’m only familiar with the term as it relates to drinking and playing golf!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 01:31 AM
6

Ha! I was wearing a size 9.5 at 13! I wear a size 11 now even though those foot measuring things always say 10.5. I’m only 5’7.5”!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:55 PM
1

Misspelled scary looking!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:55 AM
46

Schrodinger’s joke!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:28 AM
23

There’s a lot of reasons to fear port a potties, though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:21 PM
12

Also unattractive are the guys so muscled they look comical. To me, it always reeks of insecurity. I’ve also seen some hot, fit bald guys. Jason Stathom comes to mind!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:39 AM
16

I remember sharing my list with a group of friend/acquaintances and one guy saying I’d never find anyone with a list that long. Guess what- I haven’t yet, but I also haven’t settled!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:36 AM
25

Awful everything! The old man is probably 34, but it’s still just a horrible thing to say to your mother!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:34 AM
128

I don’t know her but I love her!! Does she always talk like a starlette from the golden age, or was she quoting an old movie?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:06 AM
49

I cannot think of a bigger turnoff than a grown adult roleplaying as an infant. This right here sums it up! How unattractive it is to feel like a mother to your partner. I want a man, not a man-baby!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:31 AM
9

Omg. I’ve only heard the term “tendies” on Reddit and I just assumed it was some British (or other foreign nations) shorthand for chicken tenders, like brolly (umbrella)!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:22 AM
10

Omg! Just looked it up! Thanks for the laugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:21 AM
28

Try finding a woman’s shelter in your area to donate to instead of a thrift store! They help so many women and children escape terrifying situations and some of them help them get jobs and apartments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:16 AM
4

Cuz he’s a LOSER!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 09:35 PM
3

If he wants his child to have an account for the future, he can open up one his damn self and keep it safe until the agreed upon time!! I would never let a NVM have a joint account with me and have access to my money! Because he surely wouldn’t keeps his hands out of it and save it for the child!! Edit: I’m sorry, you obviously know this and the post is about your friend. Sorry! Other gals are giving great advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 09:22 PM
4

Maskurbate. Haha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:54 PM
2

“This is not the audience you’re looking for. Move along!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:13 PM
12

Maybe the same is true for their sexual expertise! They think they’re gods in bed because women have been faking all their life!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:12 PM
6

This is pretty funny!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 06:06 AM
2

I am so sorry this happened to you, I hope you are recovering! I have never had anything like this happen to me, but if it did, my plan is to drive directly to the nearest police station. Possibly while on the phone with 911. Hopefully, I never have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 06:02 AM
23

I feel like that hooking around question demands a trip down to HR town!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:32 AM
21

Ah, yes. 50 inventions made by Whole Foods!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:29 AM
20

That is a helpful weeding out tool, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:19 AM
2

Yeah, I got this recently. Ignored it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:09 PM
45

You mean mister online isn’t 6’ tall?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 10:50 PM
2

I didn’t express an opinion. I was answering your question to the other commenter when you wondered where they got the idea that you were putting down someone’s hobby. It was when you called it bs, which is demeaning. If you’re feeling defensive about having that pointed out, that’s a you problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:31 PM
9

The lights in the bathroom at my work spontaneously shut off sometimes and the sensor can’t sense someone on the toilet, so I’ve started making sure I always have my cell phone with me! But, that guy.....I have no idea what was going on in his little peabrain!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 08:40 AM
17

I wash coats less often than anything else, because they’re not coming into much direct contact with my body. But, they get washed if something is spilled on them and once a week or so, depending on how many times they’ve been worn. But sheets and towels? Dishcloths and floor mats? Come on! Wash those germ receptacles!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 08:36 AM
7

Happy Cake Day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 08:33 AM
7

Well, I think she got the idea from your last line: I’ll leave that sewing bs up to him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:33 AM
4

I don’t want them to even imagine that I can cook better! That’s why they’re getting popcorn and delicate dippers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:09 AM
45

Yeah, I was wondering how he got her alone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 05:15 AM
3

I’ve used that one before, with my eyelashes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:59 PM
2

Who is he trying to convince?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:54 AM
1

This is a thing now? What in the ever loving fuck is going on?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:43 AM
9

Eeeewwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:38 AM
12

*Sayeth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:38 AM
6

Great point! I bet you would make a great mom! Hee, hee, hee!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:36 AM
25

“You’re so pretty!” Thanks, you’re observant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:34 AM
7

Right, I thought would be an option!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:09 AM
16

We here at FDS all know that his exes are only crazy because he turned them into psychos! The alternative is that he chooses crazy girls, which is unlikely. Either way, the common denominator is HIM!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:18 PM
20

Yikes and probably true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 05:45 PM
85

Wow. I was expecting a Covid-19 related answer which would be completely reasonable, but wth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:23 AM
10

And, saved!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:16 AM
52

Unfortunately, it’s been my experience that they are competitive in the wrong ways. They worry too much about size and body counts instead of performance! If they were half as concerned about how well they please their partner as they are about the size of their dick, they would put in so much more effort in bed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:39 PM
2

Yeah, you can’t tease us like that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 05:28 AM
8

Omg! You are exactly right! Thank you for translating that so perfectly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 05:09 AM
28

I love that he takes responsibility for his bad memory and found a way to circumvent that instead of using it as an excuse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:51 AM
17

I’m not an expert, but from what I remember from Psych101, I think only a man can have a true fetish. Like, the literal definition of fetish means they cannot orgasm without the desired ‘object’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:04 AM
2

Right? She’s dressed more modestly than Penelope Cruz, who is probably grateful to have reached the age of invisibility to him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:56 AM
60

I’m actually laughing out loud! 😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:44 AM
18

One mediocre sex, please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:42 AM
14

41, never even been engaged. If I ever get married, that man will be a thoroughly vetted saint!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:38 AM
14

Ah, yes. The Jackhammer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:54 AM
13

Ick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:45 AM
17

And maybe she’ll clean their apartment while she’s there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:37 AM
7

I was going to google it, but I’ve decided that I’ll be happier not knowing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:28 AM
11

You don’t spit in my mouth unless you want me to projectile vomit all over you and everything else I possibly can!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:26 AM
22

I feel like this guy won’t quit until he gets a taste of his own medicine. Petty as that sounds, he doesn’t respect her and a slap on the wrist from management is not going to stop him. If I was in her shoes and had 20lb brass ovaries, I would poop in the urinal in the men’s room. But, I’m me, so in reality I’d just quit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 01:58 AM
17

New heroine for me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 03:26 PM
1

Lol! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 07:00 AM
2

Please tell me that his behavior completely killed any feelings you thought you had for him. And read the handbook. It explains why we’re telling you to block and delete him and how to identify a man worthy of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:55 AM
1

I hope she listens! This has rescue mission all over it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:10 AM
3

5’ 6” 290 lbs - sure is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 01:33 AM
6

At the end you find out he’s a troll!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 01:32 AM
3

I’m not a dog, I don’t need to be walked!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:26 AM
2

Yeah, but they gotta break up before Valentine’s Day! Wait, I got that wrong. I remember some scrotes talking about how they always break up with their gfs before the holidays so they don’t have to buy gifts and do family stuff with them and stay single through Valentine’s Day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:24 AM
6

Play some quidditch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:20 AM
6

Sometimes the trash takes itself out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:19 AM
6

Chivalry is misogyny! Right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:16 AM
8

Same here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:09 AM
2

God, I hope she leaves him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:07 AM
3

Can you imagine if he was this honest on their wedding day? “I Scrote, take thee, Sausage Tits...”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:05 AM
14

And louder is more right and red cars go faster! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:44 PM
19

And celibate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:43 PM
7

Well, most don’t respect women, only other men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:39 PM
5

Windshield wipers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:28 PM
17

Ah yes, busy going their own way! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:40 PM
10

Great idea! Mods, can we add resources like this to the handbook?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:39 PM
5

Wait. Wait! WAIT! We seem to be overlooking the fact that her first slip up was CONTACTING HIM FIRST to confirm their plans that night. Don’t we here at FDS believe that if he doesn’t confirm himself by the morning of (better yet the night before), you make other plans? This would have avoided all the gutted feelings and she could have had a nice time with her friends (or whatever she had moved around - btw, never rearrange your schedule for someone you’re merely dating), and maybe met a HVM whi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:36 PM
4

Yeah, he should have come home to her gone! Frankly, she should reconsider her marriage to him, and wether she wants to be tied to this loser for 18 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:20 PM
16

Collect that upfront!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:56 PM
58

“They’re not ready to be with women, because you didn’t raise them to be men.” Ain’t that the truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:17 PM
5

Love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:12 PM
6

Hopefully he’s dead Hopefully he’s fat, balding, and hearing every woman he ogles disgusted “*Eeewwww!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:25 AM
11

If FDS created a dating site, I would sign up in a heartbeat!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:09 AM
2

Some were their forever fiancées, some were ringless forever girlfriends!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:44 PM
11

Why oh, why did I search for that sub? Such sad stories of forever girlfriends/fiancées, many of whom live with their boooooyyyyyffriends. (It was cringy just writing it)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:27 AM
1

Ahhh. That’s like cam girls type stuff, right? Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:43 AM
3

If he wanted to, he would. He doesn’t want you!!!! I’m sorry, that’s harsh, but he doesn’t care about celebrating you on your birthday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 10:58 PM
3

Yay! Old you picked him, New You is going to attract a better bf! I mean, High Value Men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 10:41 PM
4

Refused the sushi? How about refusing the sex!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 09:55 PM
3

Except the waiting part!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 09:26 PM
1

The audacity! What’s OF in this context?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 09:21 PM
3

Justifiable scroticide!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 09:18 PM
61

I was alarmed when she went home with a group of guys. I was disgusted when she volunteered to cook. I was horrified when she gave him her ring! I was somehow still surprised when it took 7 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 08:07 PM
1

Someone said something about his “really gross nipple”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:56 PM
1

Yes. Is that his name or your reply to him?!😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:45 PM
4

That’s why he’s wondering if the app works!!😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:44 PM
2

Well, he said he’s funny, if that tells you anything!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:43 PM
10

God, that’s up there with “Its just a joke!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:38 PM
4

I hope she leaves him, she will do just fine without him! I wonder if he’s calculated how many hours he’ll have to work to pay alimony and child support?🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:36 PM
54

Pretty sure my reaction would be something like “Wow! I’m sorry I’m going to miss them! Don’t you remember I have that thing tonight?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:34 PM
2

If I recall correctly, it stands for if I recall correctly! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:21 PM
2

I would join tiktok just to follow this woman and hear things like this everyday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:12 PM
37

Quiet, MeN are talking! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:51 PM
1

Thank you! I’m 41 and was considering joining. Maybe not!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:08 AM
2

May I ask your age range and the ages of the men that matched or liked your profile?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:06 AM
5

All those sound like great things to ask about on the zoom call or FaceTime!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:00 AM
4

This takes me back to the late nineties when I came home from college to be taken out to the weirdest lunch I’ve ever been on. My dad picked me up from the airport with a family friend (B, a few years older than me) and B’s friend (age unknown). Now this guy was from Australia, but I think that’s unrelated to how odd he was. Amazon.com was around, but I had never visited the website, much less purchased anything from it. This guy was giving me his undivided attention, but he wasn’t flattering or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:35 AM
11

Turkey chili, turkey burgers, turkey meatloaf, turkey meatballs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 03:23 AM
23

Want some Bachelor Chow? 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 03:18 AM
14

Emotional, irrational, unstable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 03:09 AM
3

Towards the end of their marriage, my father apparently started introducing my Mother as his ‘first wife’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 10:31 PM
83

The only time I’ve felt the need to fake moan is when I’ve already orgasmed and I’m just waiting on him to finish up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 08:43 PM
23

Video Killed The Radio Star
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:28 PM
23

My biggest fear in life is to be trapped like this. I’d rather be single and die alone than somebody’s bangmaid/manager/mommy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:46 AM
14

Right?! Even Trader Joe’s has small, modest bouquets for around $5!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:44 PM
2

“Yes. No further questions.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 11:55 PM
7

Eeewwwwww!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 11:40 PM
1

What do we think about pointing and laughing at them? I’ve heard that’s the best tack to take with flashers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:40 PM
2

This is great advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:35 PM
2

“I hate drama”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 03:33 PM
2

Yeah. FDS flags a guy that mentions it like Barnes and Noble flags people who buy Catcher in the Rye!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:49 AM
3

I love this!! He just wanted you to be happy!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:41 AM
2

Who are you - the IRS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:39 AM
5

I’ve heard somewhere (Reddit, probably FDS) that men constantly overestimate their ability and value, while women consistently undervalue their own worth. Later, I read a post talking about wanting the confidence of a mediocre white man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:28 AM
14

Yep. Ginger Rogers did everything Fred Astaire did, but she did it backwards and in high heels!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 01:50 AM
16

I haven’t dated anyone in the last ten years. I don’t miss it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:53 AM
15

The best answer! I would also accept: “Hello? HELLO? There’s no one there/ I think the call dropped. CLICK” and “Chastity belt”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 12:40 AM
3

If he wanted to, he would
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 07:09 AM
3

Keep comUniCatIng! Great, I have to nag some dipshit continuously until I orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 07:03 AM
19

“I didn’t want to go out with you anyway!” Sigma, probably
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:54 AM
209

When I was in my twenties I worked with a woman a few years older than me who once said something that stuck with me. “I’m tired of training men for other women!” As far as I knew, she wasn’t dating anyone, so I assume this was new Queen energy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 04:18 PM
1

Small as the brains of the men who hang them up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:58 PM
5

Frankly, teaching their sons basic life skills will make them more desirable and likely to attract a mate than raising helpless man children!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:22 PM
8

I mean, at least they aren’t putting down women? 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:27 PM
2

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 10:10 PM
4

He was a heartbeat away from admitting that what would make him feel better about her trauma was some rape roleplay!!! SCROOOOTE!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 10:08 PM
2

Check out the sub r/ChoosingBeggars for some great examples!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:59 PM
5

Yeah, this bothered me too! Why was OP still there 30 minutes later?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:52 PM
4

Bullet dodged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 06:33 AM
2

It’s too late for me to dig up the link, but some months ago we all suggested songs and someone created a Spotify playlist with all our FDS anthems!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 06:31 AM
8

Romeo was pining over Roselyn until he saw Juliet across the room at a party he crashed. Shakespeare wrote that when, the 1600’s? This shit has literally been happening for centuries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 06:24 AM
33

Very good point! Perhaps she caught him watching porn and that’s why she lost respect for him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:23 AM
6

Yeah. I’m sure his bedroom is the safest room in the house, too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:39 PM
9

I used to ride horses and am taking steps to get back into it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:21 AM
2

Gosh, I didn’t even think of that at the time! I assumed I would get like, a bottle of water. I think if it was an open glass I wouldn’t have drank it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:16 PM
8

I was filled with so much anger, I almost didn’t upvote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:00 AM
8

This reminds me of the time I was dancing to live music and this guy was trying to pick me up. I decide to let him fight the crowd at the bar and get me a water. I think he must have asked if I was sure I didn’t want something else (like alcohol, hur dur), because I felt the need to repeat my request for water (I was thirsty from dancing and not a big drinker anyway). This clown goes “Don’t worry Babe, I’ll get your water”. I looked at him for a second and then politely excused myself and left. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 11:55 PM
2

Ha! That’s like calling us ugly, it’s just wishful thinking on their part!😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 11:40 PM
6

OMG, you’re right! “The hell would I wanna do that?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:47 PM
5

Perhaps he expected milk to come out of your nipples? 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:39 PM
18

Where’s the fun in that? They don’t want the low hanging fruit that throws themselves at them! They want to neg and devalue a high quality woman and break her spirit. Just to do it. To feed their little egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:46 AM
94

Yeah. nods head. Yeah. You could have to pay for her meal. BITCH, I COULD GET CHOPPED UP INTO SMALL PIECES AND DUMPED IN A LAKE!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:41 AM
18

“Hey, Beautiful!” “Hey, Captain Obvious!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:14 AM
26

Ah, yes. “If I insert enough kindness tokens, sex will fall out!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:35 AM
2

Interests: Thigh gaps, Instagram makeup, bikini models, big boobs, junk in the trunk, mansplaining, cat calling, belittling women, hunting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:49 PM
2

Sands from exotic lands! ~ Gene Belcher
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:46 PM
4

A Queen-in-training!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:36 AM
1

God, even getting you a gold necklace when you prefer silver would have made more sense. You’re right, he just didn’t care. I’m so sorry that soul crushing experience happened to you, and I’m so glad he’s your ex! Hugs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:27 AM
2

Tell him that you can’t because you died laughing thinking you wanted more mediocre sex with him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:47 PM
3

Exactly! “I’m not intimidating. If you’re intimidated by me, that’s a you problem!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:44 PM
2

And the praise they expect for their one effort!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:19 PM
13

Schrodinger’s Joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:50 PM
5

Yeah, I caught that, too! She’s pretty slappy for someone so vocal about perceived male abuse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:37 PM
51

Thank you for your service. You just saved so many of us so much trouble!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:53 AM
6

This is U/ EclecticBarbarella’s response! If they ask you on a walk (I won’t even use the D word), just tell them it’ll be nice to have a workout FRIEND while you stay in shape in case someone asks you out in the future 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:38 AM
7

Warming that couch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:18 AM
14

Yeah. The only HVM was Aiden and Carrie ruthlessly cheated on him. Repeatedly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:11 AM
1

I splurged on a My Pillow and I couldn’t possibly replace it annually. I wash it regularly and change the pillowcase weekly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:05 AM
7

I think I bought some in my grocery store. I never see it in Target or Walmart. Look on the bottom shelves!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:03 AM
14

More like while he’s off emotionally tormenting another victim, you’re leveling up and enjoying your freedom!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:56 AM
1

What fresh hell is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:07 PM
5

I was going to suggest Murder, She Wrote! What is it about these detective stories that really show a strong, feminine woman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:39 AM
7

That’s hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:25 PM
9

I found it funny that he thought anyone would send him money!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:10 PM
3

I wonder if his birthday was that day that he called asking if you had solved it yet? Ha! Joke’s on him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:02 PM
16

That last line - woah! Made me shudder!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:04 PM
2

That woman’s life is literally my worst nightmare!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:54 AM
1

He can take a long walk off a short pier!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:39 AM
60

I was thinking of getting you the next book in the series “But, you didn’t.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:17 AM
1

Friend, pizza and butter!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:14 AM
3

Mediocre is right! Bleh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:24 AM
1

I can go months without drinking anything, and then may I’ll have two drinks. I really just don’t like it. Smoking and drugs just never appealed to me. Years ago, I listed all the reasons I don’t drink and there were like, seven of them! My new response (since FDS) is:”It doesn’t add value to my life”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:13 AM
1

I signed up on the website, but I can’t seem to find the app?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:06 AM
138

You forgot pies and coconuts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:36 AM
38

Also, it’s an odd question for an equally intelligent, powerful woman such as Oprah to ask her. Is Oprah known for enabling the patriotical society?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:50 PM
3

I know this is going to age me, but Angela Lansbury in Murder She Wrote. I view her as a role model for good manners and tact. She attracts and interacts with high quality individuals and the few times I’ve seen that a character has dared disrespected her, she tells them off firmly but with civility. She speaks her mind without coming off as hysterical or overly emotional. She is also an inspiration in the sense that she doesn’t need a man to lead a full, interesting life. She is a widow and cho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:02 PM
2

Grumpy “Maybe you should eat something!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:53 PM
3

Ding! Ding! Ding! This last sentence right here!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:45 PM
3

It tastes like shame and mortification
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:27 PM
1

Right? The cringe factor is real! I can’t imagine announcing to your friends and family how unwanted you are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:26 PM
3

This is even better than my line “I don’t drink because it doesn’t add value to my life”!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:50 PM
4

Cucumber is abundant and will drive to you! 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:06 PM
5

I too, think it reads like song lyrics!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:49 PM
10

And he has that deep, sexy voice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 08:15 PM
4

Had me in the beginning, not gonna lie!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 08:05 PM
7

Eeek!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:52 PM
1

The Kirkland lasagna from Costco is my family’s favorite! But, I agree - don’t hype that shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:13 PM
1

“Oh, well. Nice meeting you/talking to you!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:54 AM
2

Yep. Also, his picnic date sounds like a great way to get raped and killed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:44 AM
1

Mine is a nest of unwashed clothes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:38 AM
88

Well, number 2 says it all, doesn’t it? A gun doesn’t care if you fall asleep after you use it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:33 PM
2

I’ve never faked one either. What a waste of energy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 07:38 PM
110

This is why we date with a mindset of abundance and date multiple men! He should be the one to bring up commitment and exclusivity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 04:22 PM
1

Lizards are better than lvm snakes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:05 AM
47

$25 says he blows off the interview!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 03:57 AM
20

he shockingly shook my head You mean his head, right? Whatever, QUEEN energy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 03:48 AM
22

Reminds me of Matthew McConaughey’s line in Dazed and Confused: “That’s what I love about high school girls - I keep getting older, they stay the same age!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 03:42 AM
9

Cool beans!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 03:39 AM
3

Sorry, I should’ve mentioned that I already follow him and like his advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 09:37 PM
15

I know FDS is reluctant to endorse any male dating guru because they still tend to be male-serving, but this guy is gay and very ‘take no shit’ from men, and encouraging women to do the same. I have an assertive (masculine energy?) personality and find his tips on how to soften and bring more feminine energy to the table helpful. I want to politely set my boundaries and put my foot down without coming off as abrasive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:47 PM
8

Yep. This checks out, no lies here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:11 PM
2

What fresh hell is this? Glad he’s not into “real” women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:05 PM
3

That’s so funny!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:46 PM
3

Not personal at all! I just got my cat’s booster vaccinations! $100 USD for visit, feline distemper (I think) and feline leukemia. Or rabies. I’d have to check. Shots are only every three years. She’s an indoor adult cat, so she doesn’t need a lot of shots. A large bag of dry food costs me about $13 and lasts 6 months or more. Mine doesn’t like wet food. Cheap date! You’ll spend money on toys only to find your cat prefers the box and crumpled up receipts. Treats aren’t expensive, though you must…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:42 PM
23

That’s why I’m single and CF with a cat! I do what I want. I have money (not so much right now) and free time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:17 PM
3

Your comment reminded me of a funny story. Years ago, my NVM FWB was driving me to work in my car and we were running late. I made some kind of noise or look when I glanced over at the speedometer and he goes “What?! What are you thinking right now?” Without skipping a beat I answered honestly “Drive faster, you bastard!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:50 PM
1

I think it’s called Squatter’s Rights, hopefully it’s the landlord’s problem now. Although, she might not get her deposit back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:43 PM
1

She didn’t marry him, did she?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:22 PM
11

I just jumped to my kindle app. It’s titled Nagging no More and there’s some subtitles: what to do when he takes you for granted and why nagging doesn’t work, mother or lover, treat him like a friend and show, don’t tell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:48 AM
1

Yeah, your nose is extreme. Extremely good at sniffing out bs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:37 AM
4

Right? I would have dropped dead from laughing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 08:12 PM
6

Lies....about anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:58 AM
8

Joke’s on them - I talk through the movie!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:57 AM
4

“And then, instead of being grateful, he cheated on me with my friend!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:44 AM
7

Hatfishing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:40 AM
2

Post this to r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy so they can see it, too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:07 PM
5

I’m waiting, too. For a normal response!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 06:20 PM
2

He couldn’t call it hiking? Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 05:52 PM
3

That’s what was bothering me about this! I couldn’t quite put my finger on it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:25 PM
86

Like they’d notice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 07:07 PM
3

There’s also no point in stating that you’re looking for a smart person, because stupid people don’t realize they’re stupid!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:47 PM
44

Clearly, she meant a holiday from him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:25 PM
13

This 👏needs 👏to 👏be 👏in 👏the 👏handbook!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:01 PM
3

She goes to a different school!! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 07:47 AM
5

Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:52 PM
12

It’s late and I’m tired but, did you know we have a sister sub called r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy? Check it out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:23 AM
2

Jack Black comes to mind. Although, I love the movie The Holiday- great progression of a Pickmeisha to HVW on Kate Winslet’s part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:22 AM
13

Oh, dear god! I live within 6 miles of this winner!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:08 AM
31

I’ve heard lots of support for cohabitation before marriage, but after being engaged. Something about ‘try before you buy’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:05 AM
2

Sure! It’s not mine, and it’s been passed around so much, only good can come of sharing it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 10:42 PM
4

“No, do you?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:40 PM
1

I mean, after 1 year, she should be on watch. Men know by that time and by 18 months should have had enough time to get their ducks in a row or whatever. After two years, the only reason to not be engaged is because the woman is putting on the brakes (perhaps she is young). A man not proposing after that is wasting her time. Period
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:24 PM
1

Reminds me of a line Mark Ruffalo says to Gwyneth Paltrow in the movie View From the Top. ‘I saw a woman charging after her dream, so I went after mine’ I’m paraphrasing here, but it’s a great leveling up movie if you haven’t seen it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:44 PM
2

For anyone who hasn’t seen it, here is a link to a terrific comic that explains the emotional labor!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:41 PM
1

This is why I love hatchbacks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:41 AM
1

Interesting, I’ll look into it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:06 AM
1

Happy Cake Day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 05:47 PM
1

Yeah, I think your roommate’s right about guy #2. He is looking for a wife ASAP and doesn’t really care too much about what her needs are. Probably he’s out of clean underwear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:39 AM
3

Add a vitamin C supplement, because your body uses Vit C and Zinc to make collagen in your skin. You cannot get any benefits from collagen taken orally or in a topical skin care item - your body has to produce its own!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:24 AM
1

Tretinoin does many wonderful things. What it does not do is thicken the skin. It actually thins the skin. I’m an esthetician and am glad you’re on top of your sunscreen game. Head over to r/Tretinoin for more information.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:18 AM
2

Promises, promises!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:32 AM
15

Dr. Queen!!🏃👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:15 PM
17

Ewww! Dickhead! He must have gone through a lot of effort to find those tapes of hers, and it’s late and I’m tired, but did he imply that he already had them?! What a scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:25 AM
6

Jan from The Office is crazy, but very assertive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 07:29 AM
8

Okay, go to the FDS handbook in the about section of the FDS main page and you will see several articles under the heading High Value Qualities like this one Also, check out our sister subreddit r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 07:27 AM
36

I don’t know about y’all, but I have a new dealbreaker to add to my list. That’s two new ones this week, including the nest bed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 07:17 AM
7

I think it was Lyme disease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:41 PM
2

This is the same line Billy Crystal used in either When Harry Met Sally it City Slickers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:03 PM
6

I saw a post a couple of days ago r/InstantRegret or r/Karma or something like that where a woman was waltzing through Walmart with no mask on, bragging and then on the split screen she was posting on Facebook about how she caught the corona virus and gave it to her family. I had no sympathy at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:17 AM
5

Well, good luck, Oscar the Grouch! Can’t believe he’s still single!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 10:49 PM
5

You might want to browse our sister sub r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy! I’m not actively dating myself right now, just trying to level up and work on myself. I think real confidence starts from within, helping others and accomplishing goals. There’s a book in our handbook’s recommended reading called the Subtle Art of Not Giving A F_! Maybe that might be helpful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 10:32 PM
1

She won the booby prize. A boob!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 10:05 PM
3

If my date wants to announce to me how bad he is in bed, I’m happy to thank him so I know never to see him again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 07:08 PM
38

“I’ve got a joke for you...hey, hold this mirror a second”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:47 PM
2

Thank you, I think it went through!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:21 PM
3

Thank you! As long as you’re doing it for you, that’s fine! Of all things to do for men, personal grooming really shouldn’t be on the list. Maybe I’ve become jaded because in years past, I’ve certainly done people pleasing pick me things. I just refuse to now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:17 PM
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My time to shine! I’m an esthetician at a waxing center where we do mostly bikinis, specially Brazilian. Now, the majority of the women are doing this for themselves, but some infer that it’s for their partner as well. I’ve come to believe that every salon and spa call their services something different, vague, cute ‘lil names. With no standard definition of ‘Brazilian’, I can only tell you that most people have the expectation of absolutely no hair down there. As long as the butt crack is waxed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 09:43 AM
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When I try to go through the website, it asks for the url but, it will not accept www.Reddit.com/FemaleDatingStrategy and I can’t choose the Twitter option because I signed up yesterday and it won’t show me my username on my Twitter account. Help! What url does it want?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 09:04 AM
3

This sub was only created last year. I think OP meant she joined Reddit a few years ago!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:33 PM
2

Because we empower women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:27 PM
7

A Low Value Man adds no value to your life a Negative Value Man (NVM) actually takes value from you/your life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:25 PM
50

But r/Cats is okay, right? RIGHT?!?! Probably going to leave reddit completely after this. I can find cat pics anywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:13 PM
94

If you never leave your parents’ basement, you’ll never meet anyone who might compliment you.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:11 PM
16

The reason is that we empower women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:56 PM
1

Wait! What was GC?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:46 PM
1

On Twitter or the link in the FDS reddit homepage? In the reddit FDS homepage, hit the ‘about’ bar and scroll down past the links for the handbook and wiki page until you see the heading that says ‘Social Media’ it’s the second one down. I just checked Twitter again and when I typed in FemDatStrat, ‘The Real Female Dating Strategy’ popped right up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:02 AM
5

I found it in the about FDS page. It’s FemDatStrat or the real female dating strategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:39 AM
6

I just joined Twitter because of this post. In the about section of the FDS homepage it has our Twitter handle! It’s the Real Female Dating Strategy or FemDatStrat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:37 AM
102

Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:21 AM
2

Uggh! My father. At least I’m getting better at identifying shit like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 02:56 PM
17

He’s a Scooby Dooby Don’t!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 07:23 AM
2

Maybe he wants you to show up at his work! 👀 lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 07:10 AM
1

Couch hound
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:50 PM
1

Idk. He says it right there: plays games!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:47 PM
1

Herb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:31 PM
3

Right. Because shitty one night stands will teach you anything about pleasing women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:27 PM
2

here is the link to the FDS approved podcasts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 06:59 AM
1

Right? I take so long going up every row and trying things on, I don’t even take other women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 06:17 AM
1

Run very far away Or...shoot them? Because that’s now a viable option. J/k I think I’m going to pick up a martial art
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 06:03 AM
4

I can use the tuna to lure more cats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 08:38 AM
1

Eeeewwwww!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 07:43 AM
3

You think so? I was afraid she was saying ‘nvm, I’ll go’ meaning she gave up on him being a capable adult and has taken on another responsibility for her man child!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 07:41 AM
2

Love it! To be honest, I’ve never heard of it either. But I just Googled it. It’s aged scotch. Now it becomes clear as I don’t drink!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 07:36 AM
5

Yes. My NV FWB (lightyears ago) used this one. Incidentally, he had his last name tattooed across his back. Same guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 09:55 PM
6

Serenity by Jan? 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 09:53 PM
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6:15 I’m running a bit late No shit If I free up If you free up?! And what’s all this IF shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 09:32 PM
5

Don’t forget “No fat chicks” and “Watch your fucking language”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:49 PM
6

Well, there’s one joke and he says he’s 37!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:43 PM
14

Can someone explain the locusts thing, please? Are those dollar emojis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:41 PM
2

Suck it Nike! Wait, wait! Just Suck It!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 12:06 AM
1

Touché!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 12:04 AM
2

Lol! Thanks! I have interesting stories, too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 01:07 AM
4

Most of my dad’s friends are very interesting and intelligent. Many of them are doctors or scientists or zoo directors or animal wranglers for movies and have great stories. They are who those odd kids in school grow up to be. Weird, but cool if you get to know them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 01:01 AM
12

Hey, don’t sell him short - you can milk anything with nipples! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 06:29 PM
87

As the daughter of a herpetologist (Person who farts around with reptiles), I spent way too long trying to figure out the breed and what seemed so off with this. Conclusion: odd colored rubber snake being wheeled in, in a most un snake-like manner. Also: girl is a badass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 06:26 PM
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They can move even faster, but you will see a more side to side motion. Sorry for the nightmare fuel!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 06:22 PM
1

His ‘kid’ just graduated college!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:22 PM
2

Actually, it’s not. I’ve ordered more for just myself at a fast food place. Strange slob.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:19 PM
1

I think asking your friend is a great idea! If he’s smart, he’ll drive you to a place where there are no cars like a big empty parking lot, where you can get the feel of the car without having to worry about other drivers. You can practice parking and reversing, and if there’s a bit of trash on the ground, so much the better! You can find out where your tires are by trying to flatten the empty soda cans, etc. Personally, I think everyone should know how to drive and be comfortable with it, just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:07 PM
3

“Why would I be mad at you? I went out on my birthday and met an awesome man!” Is what you would say it you weren’t quarantined
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:41 PM
1

It also usually means they’re compensating for something and that reeks of insecurity. Or they’re a player/cheater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 08:18 AM
1

Sounds like it came straight outta the PUA handbook!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 01:11 AM
7

All of my five senses are offended. They look and sound awful, probably smell so bad you could taste it in their cloud of BO, and look like if you touched them, they would be sticky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 12:54 AM
4

Beards? BEARDS?! If grooming and self care are now considered hobbies, I just became a hell of a lot more interesting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 12:36 AM
2

I’m thanking my lucky stars I’ve never heard of this douche!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 12:30 AM
1

“He’s trying his best” That’s what’s so disappointing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 12:23 AM
2

Worth it. I’d die on that hill. No one treats me like a dog!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 12:13 AM
1

I like this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 04:04 PM
3

Uh, pay for the privilege of cleaning up after him and mediocre sex? I think not!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 04:03 PM
2

“You want me to....throw it at your head?” Shake that beer first!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:54 PM
4

“I hate drama!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 07:08 AM
11

Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 06:45 AM
4

This is something that I thought was in The Rules, but I can’t find it now. It is similar to what U/throwawayitst said. Not an ultimatum exactly, but a hint about the removal of yourself from the relationship if it’s not going in the direction you want it to. It was something like: ”I don’t want to start dating again, but I will, because this relationship doesn’t seem to be progressing/ going in the direction I want it to.” And then you say nothing and let them process that and think about what …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 07:14 AM
4

I mean, she should leave him for a lot of reasons. Even lube can’t save this relationship, though it might save her vagina!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 07:03 AM
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No, I didn’t. You’ll have to have one come mansplain it to me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 04:35 PM
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Oh, yeah. He groomed her alright!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 04:25 PM
2

Also, he pouts for three days giving her the silent treatment instead of talking to her like an adult!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 05:58 AM
2

Now, I’m gonna go out on a limb here and guess that she’s his first. Considering that he thinks French kissing and tongue kissing are two different things. Pretty sure his ideas about sex are only from porn. What a selfish, pornsick loser!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 05:31 AM
1

This!! This was my first thought, too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 06:15 PM
2

How bout unusual jobs? I’m a bikini waxer. Actually, I do full body waxing but mostly bikinis. The amount of idiots who think it’s erotic would be a long ass list!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 05:43 PM
2

I feel like those ‘free date’ walks and such are for extending a date that he payed for or something to do in an established relationship. He is supposed to be PAYING FOR THE PRIVILEGE OF SPENDING TIME WITH YOU!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:46 PM
2

Eek! I just visited and read the most recent 6-10 posts! All from unhappy women, all negative except for one who was sharing a somewhat positive post about better relations with the BM (biological mom?). So glad I have a cat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 10:51 PM
3

Ugh! The Jimmy Pesto dad is real!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 10:20 PM
2

I feel like this deserves its own sidebar! Most of these sound like excerpts from a book that would be called Winning at life: How not to be an asshole!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 09:46 PM
3

My parents live an hour away and some months I’ve gone up every weekend to see them! Drop his ass like a hot potato- it’s not that far!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 08:54 PM
2

True! The P-Diggers aren’t even good at sex 98% of the time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 08:48 PM
3

Here I’ve been thinking that my natural rudeness and lack of filter was a character flaw that I need to work on! Probably saved my life and I didn’t even know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 08:18 PM
3

Ask yourself if your dream man would treat you that way and, if you would allow it if he did....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 07:59 PM
3

She also would wear a shirt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 07:54 PM
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Right? When she inevitably does not act like his fantasy, he could kill her! This is not like the guy who goes to the same coffee shop hoping to see her! Or shit - maybe it is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 07:52 PM
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With regards to the sexual messages part, do you find it acceptable if they text you sexual messages after a couple of days or do you forgive them for testing the waters but shut that down, and if you do shut it down, what exactly do you say? Also, how long do you give them to ask for your number before cutting them off? I feel like once they have your number, they should ask you out for a dinner date pretty quickly (3-7 days) or they’re cut off as they are probably just screwing around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 07:44 PM
3

Yeah, visits Thailand for the culture!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 08:02 AM
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I wouldn’t mind a Sporty Steve so long as he didn’t expect me to do all that shit with him. I’ll go on the occasional hike, but I have my own hobbies and I expect a man to have his own interests. That said, I’m not at all interested in someone who only watches sports and doesn’t get off the couch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 07:47 AM
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It’s entirely possible likely he won’t even know her when they’re 70!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:27 AM
2

I must have missed the part where he tried the nice guy approach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 01:16 AM
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No way! That’s a sure fire way to get an inbox full of dic pics!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 01:15 AM
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Exactly! If you weren’t married and your partner was in an accident, you would not be considered family and would not be allowed to see them, much less make any decisions! Marriage is a legal, binding contract.
/r/askFDS29/05/20 09:55 PM
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I can’t speak for all women, but I want to know as little as possible about a current partners past partners. I would however, like other women on FDS have stated, want a recent bill of health showing that my boyfriend is completely free from STDs. I’m assuming you’re worried about being judged for your first experience, if it was with a sex worker. Timing is tricky here, because yes, a woman might be really thrown by that. Definitely she should be told before being intimate with you but, not in…
/r/askFDS29/05/20 08:12 PM
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I really feel like the moment he went on about the other girl he was going with, you should have been permitted to slap him. In the good old days, women slapped men silly to keep them in line. If a man disrespected a woman, there were consequences. Buuuuut, women were incredibly repressed and treated like third class citizens across the board. I still think we should be allowed to slap them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:34 PM
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Are you okay? “It’s not me, it’s you.” They are so delusional that it would never occur to them that you’re honestly not interested! They are attracted to you, so logically, you must be interested in them. It’s like when a toddler thinks if they can’t see you, you can’t see them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:19 PM
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IIRC, Jerry Lee Lewis (Great Balls Of Fire) took his 13 year old cousin across state lines and married her. I’m 98% sure it didn’t last.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 04:19 PM
3

Bikini Waxer here. I’ve probably seen more vaginas then all the male population of reddit put together. The majority of women I wax are very hygiene conscious and considerate of my proximity. Then there are some that must have had it drilled into them to never, ever use douches or let soap anywhere near their vaginas. It’s okay to use a gentle cleanser or soap on your folds, folks. Don’t go inside, but for heaven’s sake wash those lips!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 07:31 AM
3

True. And they all treat ‘don’t stop’ as a rest break!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 07:24 AM
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Promises, promises! The ones who survive the great pornhibition might make something of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 02:30 AM
5

I was hoping it meant she was playing some kind of long con on him, to be in such a situation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 01:15 AM
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The fact that she’s still with him is a huge problem. Every time a woman lets her man get away with shit like this, we all suffer from it. THAT DICK SHOULD HAVE BEEN SHAMED RIGHT OUT OF HER LIFE!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 01:09 AM
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I think I’ll just subscribe to his channel, now, because my Dad’s advice involves a long, boring lecture punctuated with tangential anecdotes. I also like to try to do things myself. I became the man I wanted to marry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:55 AM
3

Closest I could find in the handbook was this article talking about dating multiple men at once and not kissing and telling/ none of his business (it’s near the end). Hope this helps!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:38 PM
7

Nunya business!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:09 PM
3

He’s a booby prize! A consolation gift, if you will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:35 PM
4

I would think a female therapist would be more empathetic to rape, perhaps I misunderstood your comment?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 05:26 PM
3

Yep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 05:23 PM
11

Is she being ironic and making fun of pickmeishas? Or is she serious?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 04:39 PM
2

This is so heartbreaking!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 10:57 PM
3

You forgot Jennifer Garner to the pickmeisha list, although she’s free of Ben Affleck now. Can we add Charlize Theron to the queen list? I loved her statement about never getting married!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 10:51 PM
4

I hope not to the pickmeisha list!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 10:48 PM
3

Cosmetologists can apprentice at a salon instead of going to beauty school, but they’re probably the chattiest. Massage therapists and estheticians performing facials probably have to talk the least, because a spa service often is supposed to be peaceful and relaxing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 08:40 PM
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Beauty school is considered a trade school! I’m an esthetician (waxing and facials), and there are also manicurists and cosmetologists (hair). Women will always have beauty needs so you have job security (not right now) and cash tips! Also, your clients and coworkers are predominately female, so you deal with less scrotes, like none at work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:33 PM
14

Exactly! They’re learn all the wrong things!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:21 PM
6

With laughter 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:52 PM
1

Yep, that’s what I zeroed in on, too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:37 PM
10

The moderately wealthy guy that gives you everything is better than the ultra wealthy Scrooge that gives you nothing Louder for the women in the back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 06:05 PM
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You know, some people say flowers are cliche and corny, but the woman who doesn’t like receiving them is rare! There’s always the generic girly gifts like spa sets and candles. What a knucklehead!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 08:59 PM
6

Cool beans!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 12:58 AM
2

So glad I switched to a menstrual cup!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 06:11 PM
2

Should have followed it with “Wrong number!” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 06:09 PM
3

This. In real life, I use the terms high quality and low quality men. Everyone seems to know what I’m talking about and no one calls me a gold digger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 06:01 PM
2

lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:36 PM
2

It is a good movie!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:26 PM
3

Better if more men binge watched this stuff!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 11:15 PM
1

He has one foot in the grave? That changes everything?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 11:13 PM
3

Probably not necessarily ugly, but low value or otherwise undesirable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:21 PM
2

Vampire Cupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:50 PM
3

My love language is touch “Really? Mine is gifts and acts of service!” 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:45 PM
4

This! OP can sing Happy Birthday to me!🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:39 PM
3

My late stepfather was 12 years younger than my mother. She, like you, was in her thirties when they met and it was a non issue. Honestly, if he seems mature, I’d say go for it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:27 PM
3

EEEEWWWWW!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:19 PM
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I think it’s okay to occasionally text first if you are in a committed relationship! Otherwise, you shouldn’t, because not texting him first is a very valuable tool to help you gauge his interest in you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:45 PM
3

TIL a new verb: cashapping!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:40 PM
5

Yes, you can make it at home! I have never had success with it, though. It’s basically made the same as candy, but I couldn’t get the consistency right, I think I boiled it too long. When made correctly, it’s used at room temperature and pushed against the direction of the hair growth and flicked off with the direction. If you warm it up, apply it thinly and use a cloth strip to remove it, it falls under sugar waxing. Both are painful, good luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:27 PM
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Joke’s on them! If they get all the real woman banned from dating sites, they’ll just be messaging bots! “Hey” “Hi” “Sup” “U dtf?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 04:12 PM
2

OMG, you’re right! I hadn’t thought about it like that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 04:09 PM
3

Ick. Should’ve pulled your mask down and sneezed ‘accidentally’!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 04:04 PM
2

I have the Ninja Foodie and I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 05:09 PM
11

Exactly. What kind of grown a$$ adult can’t feed themselves?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:39 AM
4

Couldn’t you take him to small claims court? Was it a joint account?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:45 AM
2

Hmmm. Maybe Disneyland. If it goes badly, it would be easy to ditch him and still have a great time! Mini golf, because I would be armed the whole time with a club. Horseback riding because I can leave him in the dust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 06:48 PM
2

If my ideal man showed up and asked that of me, I would show him the door! He wouldn’t be my dream man if he asked me to give away a family member! I’ve been a pickmesha in lots of ways (before FDS), but that would knock some sense into me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:51 PM
1

Yeah, that’s adding negative value to your life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 06:35 AM
2

Most of us here fall under the ‘don’t have sex with a man until he’s invested a good deal of time, energy and money and he shows you a clean bill of health and is committed to you’ category. However, some of the more, let’s say emotionally compartmentalized of us, have the ability to have a FWB situation without catching feelings. From what I can tell, these men are still held to rigid, albeit different standards than HVM we date. They are expected to be STD free, only have sex with one person, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 12:16 AM
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I think it’s this. The good looking guys that other women throw themselves at, who get by on their looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 07:29 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with being single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:40 PM
1

Omg! This is my favorite!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 12:01 AM
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That sounds awful! At the risk of making waves in your family, I hope you warn off his girlfriends!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:39 PM
1

He sounds dreamy! Thank you for this answer! I’ve been out of the dating game as well and this is the part I’m most dreading; how to handle the bill paying without looking awkward or demanding!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:53 AM
1

Okay, this is interesting. So when he proposes coffee do you say something like “Coffee sounds good. We can meet and see how it goes/ if we’re a good fit/ if we want to go on a real date.”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:16 AM
3

What Angela from the tv show The Office said about Sex In The City is so true “In real life, Carrie would be in rehab and Samantha would have AIDS, or at least herpes.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:46 AM
10

I think this deserves its own sidebar. True high maintenance is simply having high standards and sticking to them - it shouldn’t mean something negative!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:17 AM
1

whistles in American Here, a casual restaurant with a drink and appetizer probably set you back about $50
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 10:08 PM
2

Fraiser?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:59 PM
2

They should be more worried about the possibility of having to replace you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:49 PM
2

I love this and am filing it away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 07:15 AM
2

I think they think they’re invisible or something don’t view women as humans, only as objects, so to them it’s no different than looking at a movie poster. My father blatantly stares at women in front of myself and my stepmom (who I thought he otherwise treated well before FDS), and it’s so disrespectful and embarrassing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 07:14 AM
3

“Yes. I’ll pay someone to blow you. His name is Peter. You can expect him tomorrow!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 07:06 AM
2

Yeah, ick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 07:05 AM
3

If your past is sold to a tv production company, I wanna know about it! That was hard to read, the girl’s behavior was so cringe worthy! And all of those guys sounded like LVMs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 06:33 PM
3

That is a significant discrepancy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 04:04 PM
3

Can’t lie, I heard it from another Sister on FDS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 06:19 AM
21

“You’re pretty chatty for an unsaved number!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:34 PM
4

Argggh!! The whole “You’re cute when you’re mad!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:11 PM
7

Hey, thanks for this one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:54 PM
8

Check out r/ChildFree if you haven’t already! It was a relief for me to find other people who also want pets instead of kids!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:24 AM
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I have a rational fear of being trapped with a LVM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:22 AM
9

Wow! That is what I’m talking about!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:20 AM
14

Ugh! I got more and more agitated the longer I read. I hope her posting it means their relationship is on the way out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:14 AM
9

And I’m subscribed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:39 AM
3

Personally, I hope she tricked him into getting this with the intention of dumping him anyway! Haven’t we all at some point, wished men had some kind of warning sticker on them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:55 PM
3

If you’re not going out on dates and that’s what you want, express those needs and pull back. His behavior will be your answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:52 PM
3

It’s the same one that u/gothoneybones linked!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:28 PM
6

I watch the school of affluence channel more for etiquette and leveling up tips, I’m not looking for a wealthy man and that lifestyle. She did just make a great video on dating though and it’s right in line with FDS! I’ve recently started watching MJ Harris for dating tips, but his videos are often long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:05 PM
1

I like MJ Harris on YouTube. He’s gay, so and he’s not helping create pickmishas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 07:06 PM
3

Derick Jaxn? When I looked up Derrick Jones, I got a basketball player!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 07:04 PM
4

Speaks up if someone tries to disrespect me So much this. I remember hanging out with friends with an ex and a girl said something shitty to/about me and he did nothing! Later, he said (unprompted by me) that he would have spoken up except it was her house. I said nothing in response, but in my head thought but you didn’t. Poor little pick me I was
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:34 PM
6

How about this pickmeshas “If he doesn’t step up, another man will!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:42 PM
2

Yeah, a promise to deal with it in a few days. And check in on OP in a few weeks?! What kind of HR is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:12 PM
1

Me neither. Didn’t realize they were talking about a paternaty test!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:30 PM
18

Driven too far?! DRIVEN TOO FAR?!?!?! How’s about I slap you too hard? in the nuts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:56 AM
3

Very true. You read about the coconut, didn’t you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:01 AM
6

“Well, let’s look at the facts. I didn’t want it to happen. It happened anyway.” P.S. I’m so sorry that happened to you. Hugs and cookie dough!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:48 AM
4

Like the dog he is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 10:25 PM
4

Hope the woman allergic to penicillin is never in a life threatening accident and her husband is left in charge of her patient form!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:50 PM
3

$10 says sushi is his favorite meal!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:48 PM
1

Nice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:59 PM
5

Taalller?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:58 PM
26

If you read the entire article , you find that he self reflects and figures out on his own what he did wrong. He really goes into great detail and breaks it down looking at it from his ex’s perspective. It’s a long read, but worth it I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 09:57 AM
14

This is the video!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:14 PM
4

Thank goodness I’m on the sloppy side! If a man loves with me and doesn’t like to clean, he better be willing to pay for outside help!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 01:21 AM
5

I misread that as ‘Bacon Rose’ and thought YES! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 10:49 PM
5

Hotels accept flowers and edible arrangements! Last year I sent birthday cards to my parents to their hotel where they were celebrating (their birthdays are two days apart)!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:40 PM
41

“Yeah, you should try someone in your own league”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:30 AM
24

*Golden Globes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 12:40 AM
4

The sheer stupidity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 12:49 AM
9

Poor little Pickmeisha has probably still never had an orgasm!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 12:47 AM
2

What’s tim?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 09:04 PM
2

I don’t know - I’m the reluctant owner of a Chia Pet! The gender neutral generic sucky gift.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 08:44 PM
3

Also She’s All That and The Duff!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 05:58 PM
1

Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:19 PM
7

Exactly! If you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem! Saying Not All Men doesn’t do diddly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 09:00 PM
4

What was going to happen at the park? A father son gangbang?! I’m the first to admit that I’m a bit paranoid, but this one’s the most frightening to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 06:00 PM
3

I read it, loved it! Think it deserves its own sidebar thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 05:50 PM
14

Please tell me you didn’t include the Christmas present that you got him! If anything, send back the ‘does he even know me’ gifts he sent you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 05:35 PM
2

The post and every reply is my greatest fear! Probably the main reason I never had children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:25 AM
2

That is a really great point about women supporting each other. You’re right - women aren’t meant to raise children alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:24 AM
3

Can you elaborate on your screening methods or link a post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 11:52 PM
3

here you go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 11:37 PM
3

There is one! I’ll find it! Edit: found it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 11:22 PM
8

Okay, well for sure that second girl’s man is cheating on her. He doesn’t want sex with his butt wiping mommy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 05:42 PM
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That’s hilarious! So productive - not!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 05:22 PM
2

I had to click on it to understand that they meant nudes. I must be older than I thought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 07:50 AM
4

I would have dropped him at ‘Babes’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 07:41 AM
46

Can we walk up to the girlfriend and tell her she deserves a man who doesn’t blatantly check out other women in front of her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 07:15 AM
18

Same! I also agree it should have its own sidebar!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 07:05 PM
6

I think it means if you search for it, you can’t find it. Maybe something else as well?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:17 PM
6

Ditto all your points!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 05:57 PM
9

Oh, I see you’ve met my father! He treats my stepmother (who is awesome and I have a great relationship with) like a goddess while putting down all attractive women he doesn’t know. I’m so messed up, thank goodness I found FDS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 05:29 PM
28

This. I used to work with a woman who said “I’m tired of training husbands for other women!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 06:45 PM
2

Where are you talking about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 06:05 PM
32

I need to buy his book, The Gift Of Fear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 03:47 PM
5

Annnnd subscribed! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 04:55 PM
4

Wait, what? Do you have a link?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 04:52 PM
3

There it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:11 PM
3

Would love to be there when someone tells him that gay men put their penises into anuses and he wants to put his penis where, again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 05:55 PM
36

Then look at him like he’s an ass for asking. Hi is and ass for asking! Make it obvious! Shit, I’d do a slow walk right up to him with continuous eye contact and say “Very!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 04:56 PM
2

I just looked her up on YouTube. Do you have any other YouTube channel recommendations?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 04:39 PM
10

Ew about asking to comb your hair (WTH?!), but the part about his new cat made me happy! Animals can sense evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 04:17 PM
5

Almost every FDS post advises against telling a man what you want first. Otherwise, they can and will tell you what you want to hear! Better to flat out ask what they are looking for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 06:09 AM
4

Well, this audacious scrote invited himself over to OP’s house for a sleepover.... and she shut him down like a boss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 05:00 AM
7

Gourmet Delicate Dippers!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:31 AM
44

“Thanks, I use them to see!” “Thanks, I grew them myself!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:04 AM
6

Maybe that’s why he was hoping it was big?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:33 AM
11

I would F$ck you but... “Really? I would never F$ck you!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 03:12 AM
7

Ah, John Mayer. The Anti-Keanu
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 11:24 PM
2

I’ve watched some of his videos but now I’m going to go reread his book with FDS in mind and see if it lines up. I never thought he was out to deliberately mislead women or herd them into the arms of LVM, but maybe it’s skewed in favor of men and I didn’t notice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 11:20 PM
4

A vat of veet! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:00 PM
4

Worse thought. What if this photo isn’t recent?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 08:59 PM
5

Staring him down like a damn demon Love your 20lb brass ovaries!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 08:04 PM
2

😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 08:01 PM
3

Well put!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 08:00 PM
3

This reminds me of a court tv case in which the scrote had allowed his gfs nudes to be leaked all over school (both claimed to be 18, but still). The judge told the girl “The only time he should be able to see them [her breasts], is when are showing them to him!” Then she mimed the boy looking at his phone “There they are”, implying that there was no reason for him to pursue the girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 05:52 PM
7

I like the look of a Ferrari, but I know I’ll look damn stupid awkwardly getting in and out of a low riding car! At 5’7 1/2” can I at least get someone taller than me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:22 PM
2

Yeah, I could have gone my whole life happily oblivious to that sub’s existence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:28 PM
5

Please tell me the name of this YouTube channel!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:47 AM
11

And remember that Joshua Jackson dated, (dated not married) Diane Kruger for like TEN YEARS. At what point does a woman wake up to the truth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:25 AM
7

Thank you! Feel to post more helpful content like this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 06:16 PM
6

This! As long as they are taller than you, it should sooth their insecurities!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:56 PM
4

Responsible people also realize they’re not going to meet you on time before the appointed time and let you know so you have the option to reschedule!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 11:23 PM
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Right? What idiot announces he’s so bad in bed that his partner is thinking about her grocery list?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:17 PM
5

I’m not anywhere close to dating. I’m working on myself, inside and out. I’m getting back into a shape I find desirable so that I can pick up my forgotten, more active hobbies. I’m going to work hard on myself so that I will be able to attract someone I find desirable. I’m going to build an exciting life that only a very deserving man will be lucky enough to be a part of. And if I don’t meet him, I’ll still have an exciting and fulfilling life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:01 AM
6

Many of them have undiagnosed mental illnesses, which does make me feel bad because they will never get help on their own accord. It’s very magnanimous of you to recognize this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 10:56 PM
8

I guess “Ask your husband!” is not an appropriate response The sheer audacity of some people!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 10:40 PM
1

Uggh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:13 PM
4

He probably had eggos!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:57 PM
1

Ooh! Good one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 01:14 AM
2

Good girl! So, is dubbing like snubbing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 09:17 AM
3

I needed to hear this, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:53 AM
1

Found the unicorn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 05:44 PM
1

Green gummy bears, green skittles, green Jolly Ranchers.....broccoli
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 04:59 PM
7

What the hell?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 04:46 PM
3

I love this! Absolutely going to do this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 09:00 AM
4

Check out the sidebar on the FDS main page for more info! The FDS Wiki link has FAQ and recommended reading and the FDS Handbook has recommended threads to read. Very informative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 09:05 PM
1

I Want Everything by Hope 7 is a good jam while leveling up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:07 PM
1

OMG! 😂 This reminds me of Bill Paxton’s character in the movie True Lies when he’s trying to impress Jamie Lee Curtis’ character!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 04:49 PM
2

I discovered her channel right before I discovered FDS. I’m not dating right now, I’m focusing on myself and trying to level up (my figure, my goals, my life in general). The more I immerse myself in the FDS culture/mindset, the more I realize that I’m not after a wealthy man, just one who treats me very well and that I’m crazy about. However, I like her etiquette tips and think her view of men paying for things is in alignment with FDS. She’s very clear that women can choose whatever life they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:12 PM
2

Actually, I think she was born and raised in Sweden, although she’s lived in several different countries since then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:04 PM
2

Matthew Hussy has some techniques for building sexual tension. I can’t find a great example on his YouTube channel for your situation, but I feel like he does a better job in his book Get The Guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 04:51 PM
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I wish you would post about it! Most FDS don’t recommend OLD, so if you have any tips you can share to help navigate the mess of LVM, I would appreciate it. I’m not dating right now, I need to work on myself, but I predict I’ll have to OLD at least to start for practice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 04:53 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 06:22 PM
5

I’m so sorry for your loss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 07:36 PM
4

May I ask, how do you split the check now? Does he still insist on paying for most or all of the night’s activities? Do you offer to get the tip or dessert somewhere else? Do you sometimes treat him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 07:34 PM
5

🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 03:38 AM
25

A woman who tries too hard/chases after men/accepts crumbs (Netflix and chill) instead of a proper date. Check out this subs FAQ here Comes from the desperate wail “Pick me, pick me!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 02:24 AM
1

Ugh! Ryan and Kelly from The Office!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 11:54 PM
3

👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 04:56 PM
4

Am bikini waxer. Can confirm I dislike the word personally and virtually no woman uses it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 04:52 PM
3

If you go to the about section on the main FDS page and click the wiki link, there are recommendations for dating and self help books. One book I’d already read and can recommend is Why Men Love Btches (the word btch is not used in a derogatory way, just to describe a strong, independent woman)! link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 08:39 AM
11

Can I answer this question with something like “I’ll know when I find it!” indicating that I’m not going to give out a map to my pants?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 08:33 AM
13

Gee, I can’t believe he’s still single!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 06:50 PM
7

I think your experiences deserve their own post! I for one, would find some examples very helpful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 07:43 PM
12

Can confirm. Even as a teenager I understood that I was to be polite to my uncle’s lady friends, but there was no point in learning their names.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 12:29 AM
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