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-44

Good to know where I stand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:45 AM
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This year I’ve been doing a lot of work with my codependency issues and really working with my therapist and cutting a lot of toxic people out of my life I feel like I should’ve gotten more done this year but this is more progress that I’ve made my entire life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:44 AM
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I’m a nanny so my colleagues are in daycare 😅 still love them to bits though 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:35 AM
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I try to be a hype man, especially the girls in my classes. It’s a really female friendly environment where we can cheer eachother on and help eachother. I haven’t been going as much as I used to but I think I’m going to start going back more and try again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:34 AM
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They were abusive and toxic. I’ve been cutting out a lot of people this year
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:25 AM
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I’ve been trying for months to find friends and I think I’m too annoying to get past the chatting stage. I just want friends that will try to lift me up instead of cutting me down. No one tells you how fucking painful it is to level up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:24 AM
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If I had just one friend, or even a relationship with my family, this wouldn’t be so scary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:22 AM
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I don’t have anyone in my life. I’ve spent this year working on codependency and setting boundaries and have cut off a lot of people this year. My family, my friends, I have no one and that’s fucking scary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:17 AM
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Why is not wanting to be alone desperate? Aren’t we supposed to want human connection?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:16 AM
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I’m on Facebook groups, taking exercise classes in a female only studio, and on bumble BFF. I can’t find anyone after months of looking. I diddnt limit myself to my bf and his family on a whim, I started cutting toxic people out of my life. Turns out everyone I loved was just using or manipulating me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:14 AM
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I’m just so scared of being completely alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:12 AM
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The only people I talk to on a daily basis anymore are him and his family. I will be completely alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:10 AM
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I am in therapy and am busting my ass to get self love. I was raised in an abusive home life and after a really abusive relationship I have been trying so fucking hard to show myself self love but it’s fucking hard when you have no idea what self love looks like. I’m trying my fucking best. Me from a year ago wouldn’t even consider breaking up with him. Think what you want about me but damnit I’m trying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:09 AM
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I thought he was getting better. He’s almost a year sober now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:05 AM
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I make pretty decent money but just enough to have some savings. I’m not rich by any means but it would be a lot of help to have more than just my incomes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:04 AM
-42

I’m going to be alone forever aren’t i?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:00 AM
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I’m giving him 30 days to get a full time job and if he can’t then we will still date but he will live with his parents. The shitty thing is we were actually talking about getting engaged since he got hired at this new job. We even looked at fucking rings together. My heart hurts so bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:00 AM
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I don’t have family, I don’t have friends, he’s the only person besides my boss that I talk to daily and when things are good they are great. I practice self love the best I can and I’m getting better about it. Me from a year ago would have taken it with a smile. I am making progress, just slowly. But I’m an extroverted person with no one to talk to. My family is full of shitty men, so I’m easing into no contact. I went no contact a few months ago with my only 3 friends because they were shitty …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:55 AM
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He keeps getting fired. I’m paying all the bills. He was supposed to start a new job today but he diddnt realize he was supposed to start yesterday so he was a no call no show on his first fucking day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:52 AM
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I’ve never meet a man that treats me as well as he does. I have a lot of disabilities so men run when they find out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:50 AM
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I told him he has one month to find a full time job or I’ll give him a free ride to live with his parents
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:49 AM
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Button poetry introduces mostly female writers and they talk about body positivity and feminism. It’s a great group of artists and definitely worth checking out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 07:22 PM
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Yes she writes the best stuff! She captures these feelings and puts them into words so eloquently
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 06:22 AM
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Alas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 02:20 AM
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We’re in this together girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 01:07 AM
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Men are twice as likely to die of skin cancer because it’s “gay” to wear sunscreen. Let Darwinism do it’s job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 11:50 PM
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It’s ok to want revenge. It’s ok to be angry, it’s ok to be furious, and it’s ok to want him to experience just an ounce of the pain he put you through, but trust me because I have acted on these urges, he will use every word against you. He will twist your words and paint you out to be crazy or evil or pathetic or all 3. You are none of those things. You went no contact so he has no power over you. Keep it that way. Trust me the anger never fades, but it’s never worth letting any man have power…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 11:48 PM
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Be still my heart…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:53 PM
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He is definitely planning on murdering you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:51 PM
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I remember reading a study a while back that people in general find themselves more attractive than when a stranger rates their attractiveness. We all think we’re more attractive than we already are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:56 PM
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My HVM and I have been together 2 years, and he’s 5 years older than me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 02:19 AM
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“Big fancy words make me feel smart”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 07:30 PM
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A man pm me on Reddit insulting my weight. I replied that I love my body the way it is and then blocked and reported. Was sent a message from another uses that the scrote had shared my response on another website and he and Atleast 20 other scrotes were having a field day insulting and mocking my response. Best to say nothing and don’t let them have any power over you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 09:13 PM
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Oh hun I just want to give her the biggest hug and invite her over for a movie night and order pizza and wine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 07:08 PM
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Maybe if he wasn’t a slut this wouldn’t have happened 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:03 PM
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Did she marry my ex?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 10:06 PM
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I agree but it’s better than nothing and backs up op’s claims better than no research at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 10:05 PM
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I’m going to take that as a no. Some research is better than none
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 09:11 PM
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You have contradictory research?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:11 PM
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I had a “friend” that did everything is this video. She talked me into breaking up with someone and then immediately persued him. Few years later she started talking to my rapist so I cut her off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 08:49 PM
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There are 2 types of women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:47 AM
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Ingrate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:01 PM
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I can see that as dates when you’re in a long term relationship but not when you’re still vetting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 10:38 PM
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Thank you for saying this. I was coerced into sex for 4 years thinking it was a normal part of being in a mature relationship. Only after leaving him and intense therapy did I realize I was being raped for 4 years, the entirety of my sexual experience at the time. He would guilt, bribe, and act oh so wiser and smarter about sex than me, posing himself as a teacher. I hated when he took me out to dinner because I knew he expected sex in return
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 07:19 PM
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My boyfriend is an alcoholic and I had to tell him rehab or homeless shelter. I dropped him off at a shelter at first and broke up with him. A few days later he called and asked for a ride to rehab. I dated other guys for a while (my lowest pickme moments, it was my first true heartbreak and I believed my friend when she said “the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else”) and after getting used and treated like a cheap trollup I discovered FDS and leveled up. Cut out all dating…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 09:21 PM
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I love going to the movie theater by myself. My local spot has reclining chairs and a full bar. Grab popcorn, a candy, a beer and enjoy some me time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 10:31 PM
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This needs to be the top comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:00 AM
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God her family is evil. That was my sister I’d rent a billboard putting that scum on blast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 03:25 PM
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I had roommates that did this shit. Got me written up for a noise complaint
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:05 AM
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Yup that’s how I discovered the group! Scrotes complaining how evil this sun was and I was curious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 08:45 PM
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Bullet successfully dodged! Nice catch! Good luck on your date hope he is a sweet HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 07:05 PM
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This post is scary, and I have all the warning traits, and I was in a 4 year relationship with a narcissist. But man I’m proud of this person for getting actual help. NPD is a hard one to admit you need professional help
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 02:01 AM
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Only HVM find happiness attractive. LVM it’s a turnoff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 12:38 AM
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Oh, I thought it was LGBTQ+ does the q mean something else?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 12:34 AM
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I’m bisexual and I refer to myself as queer sometimes… when did it become a slur?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 12:25 AM
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Sounds like she has depression, low self esteem and codependency issues. He preyed on a mentally ill girl and threw her away when he was done using her. We gotta protect the young ones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 06:59 PM
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I had this same mentality when I was with a NVex, except it was a 24/7 fetish thing he would gaslight me into thinking it’s what I wanted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:46 PM
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The fact that he doesn’t pay rent is a red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:08 PM
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My boyfriend is gentle and loving. He coddles our puppy more than I do! All that says to me is that he is kind and will make a wonderful father one day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:33 PM
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I dated a NVM for 4 years. He rubbed his dick raw TWICE and then still made us have sex with his scabbed over dick. He wanted to hit it raw too! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 04:24 PM
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I’d like to see a man push a baby out of his dick. Men and women aren’t on the same planet when it comes to toughness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 06:52 PM
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So you’re upset that women want you to better yourself? So do women if we want a relationship. So sex yes men have it harder. I’m dating and relationships women have it harder. The issue is that women don’t want casual sex and men don’t want romance
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 12:29 AM
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Why is having high standards a bad thing? Plus again you’re looking at this from a hookup culture point of view (if you’re only going to hookup once it should be someone you’re sexually attracted to) and I’m looking at it from a relationship view. I’m trying to see it from your side but I don’t get your point. Why should someone swipe left if they don’t want to have sex with you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 12:16 AM
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So you would ask out a girl you weren’t attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:54 PM
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We are more likely to be murdered in the home, 90% of rape victims are women, we get less pay for our work, there’s the “affirmative action mentality”, we are debased as sexual objects despite our accomplishments, our bodies are regulated by the government, we are trained from a young age to accept abusive behavior in partners, we are harassed on a daily basis, we can’t walk alone at night, we are pressured by society to sacrifice our lives to raise children for free, and so much more. We have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:36 PM
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You realize all of these issues are created by toxic masculinity right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:21 PM
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Also, what advantages?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:13 PM
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It’s not a trump card it’s a fact. You don’t have to worry about this stuff. I’d rather vet a man in safe locations over several weeks or even months before I commit and sleep with him. Guys want to fuck and girls want relationships. We’re arguing about 2 different things
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 01:57 PM
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So you not getting your dick wet is more of an issue than women not feeling safe when they try and date?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:02 AM
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All you need to know is that in dating, men fear gold diggers and catfish. Women fear being kidnapped raped and killed. So no, we don’t have it easier and risk vs reward is way different for men vs women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:37 PM
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I dated 2 men in my pickme days that thought washing their ass was gay. One diddnt even wipe and would leave skid marks in his underwear for me to wash. Enough women are talking about their experiences with or dating men that don’t wash their ass. Also curious as to what you mean about antidepressants. Women are more likely to take them than men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:21 PM
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The sad truth of it is married men are the happiest while married women are the unhappiest. Also single mother’s on average have 2 less hours of household care a week than married women. The best thing to do is either be single or be with a high value man that doesn’t treat you like a fuckible maid. It’s so much better to be single then put up with a man that doesn’t even wash his ass
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:15 PM
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THE 👏AU👏 DACITY👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 09:59 PM
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Why do you think that? Humans still seek out companionship. I would argue that yes there would be lads committed relationships but they would be of higher quality because there’s no manipulation from either men nor women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:19 PM
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If only the patriarchy hadn’t shamed women for their sexuality we could all be in joying guilt free sex but noooo she likes sex so bun the witch!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:15 PM
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I assume you were using anecdotal evidence? If not what was your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:04 AM
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Don’t take this as a personal attack. I’m just discussing a societal phenomenon with you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:00 AM
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The”simps” label was made by low value men to discredit high value men. But a very clear distinction must be made. Would you be respectful to only those you want to date or bed, or are you respectful to all women, including those you aren’t attracted to. That means you only respect women to get something from them. If you only show respect towards women you find attractive women can sense the insincereness and want nothing to do with it. I suppose that would mean the difference between a genuine…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:35 AM
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Because there is a large group of men that set the low bar and not enough good guys. You get bitter after a while. A largely male dominated society has taught us since a young age that being in a relationship is the key to happiness and that if the relationship is failing it’s still better than being alone. Women are starting to see that being single is a better option than dating a low bar person and choosing to be single. This is why you see more confident women in healthier relationships or s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:23 AM
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Do you think these videos are incorrect? Edit: thank you for providing a source
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:10 AM
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Can you be more specific? I don’t use TikTok much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:35 PM
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People take what they are equal to. You have a shitty personality, you will date someone else with a shitty personality. It’s been scientifically proven that people choose partners with a similar level of attractiveness vs those of a higher attractiveness. Of course there are exceptions but you give what you get. You want a girl who’s hot and treats you like a king? It doesn’t matter if you’re hot, you have to treat her like a Queen or she will leave you or not date you at all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:31 PM
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Then you can’t expect women to want to be with you if you don’t meet her standards just like you wouldn’t date a woman that diddnt meet your standards
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:24 PM
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Then if you’re good looks and a good person you shouldn’t have an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:07 PM
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So what you’re saying is being kind to a woman is too much work? We’re looking for basic respect here, not the world on a platter
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:03 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:49 PM
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Yup exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:43 PM
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Because we’re talking about 2 different bars
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:04 PM
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Men gold dig more than women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 03:17 PM
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Miranda is who I want to be when I grow up. Minus the whiny husband
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 03:14 PM
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This helps, thanks girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:57 PM
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Where did you hear that? Can you site your source? Or is that anecdotal evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:58 PM
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Keep in mind that while women have more yes power, what men and women tend to want is different. Men want casual sex and women want relationships. Women may have their pick when it comes to hookups, but in relationships women are conditioned to lower their standards and be more accommodating towards men, commonly at the detriment of her mental and physical health.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 05:29 PM
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These comments making me feel guilty for having kinks 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:51 AM
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I think it’s about moderation. My bf doesn’t use porn very much and he’s great when we’re together. My ex though, he used porn to fuel his sex addiction and discover more fucked up ways to hurt me under the excuse of “sexual comparability.” He rubbed his dick raw twice that I know of from too much porn
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:01 PM
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You really can’t blame girls for being cautious with new people. I’ve been spit on before and followed for rejecting catcalling or being asked out. Men are honestly fucking scary. I don’t know one woman that hasn’t been harassed or worse by a stranger. And women aren’t rewarding pushy behavior. We’re scared to tell a guy to stop because he might hurt us even worse. In abusive relationships we aren’t just hit or raped we are psychologically manipulated into thinking the abuse isn’t that bad or th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:08 PM
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As someone who ACTUALLY has DID, I hate when people pretend to have our condition to justify shitty behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:38 PM
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😘
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:32 PM
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Nevermind, just disregard my reply
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:33 PM
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I know, just trying to see if he will cop to it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:16 PM
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But I don’t understand, explain it to me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:15 PM
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Elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:04 PM
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Nah I want a reliable partner. Someone I can depend on and will help around the house and know I will be a good husband and dad some day. I think it depends on where you are in life. I used to like exciting guys but exciting guys are assholes. I’m at a point in my life where I want mutual respect and reliability
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 02:44 PM
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I’ve been on that sub. Been mocked and ridiculed over a picture of my hand. I think the women on there should not be shamed for wanting a healthy respectful relationship, which is what a lot of these girls are asking for. But just because they have baggage or they don’t fit the conventional attractiveness the sun deems them only worthy of mockery.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 01:12 AM
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If you are genuinely putting yourself out there, and still not getting laid then there’s a red flag somewhere that you’re not seeing. One I see a lot is referring to all of your exes as crazy. That translates to “I make sane people do crazy shit”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 03:58 PM
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I’m going to set aside 500 dollars extra this month so I can really splurge on vacation next month
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:29 PM
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Idk my brother got arrested for beating a guy that put a roofie in my drink. Idk if that’s a pro or a con
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:57 PM
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In dark alleys
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:55 PM
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Maybe I have an advantage because I’m extroverted, but honestly if I like someone I’ll just go up to them and ask them to join me or ask them out on a date
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:47 PM
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Lmao I’m still getting nasty posts from the Scrooge’s on something I posted 3 weeks ago!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:15 PM
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Awesome source thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:42 PM
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Burp slim Jim and oppression 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:38 PM
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I’ve never had a problem with my partners watching porn, but I did have an ex that took it to the extreme. He would watch violent porn for hours a day and actually rubbed his duck raw (not once but twice) and could only get off during sex by degrading me or choking or hitting me. Sex was scary and uncomfortable and he played fast and loose with consent. (It’s not rape play if she is actually saying stop) he had issues
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:44 PM
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Idk I’m attracted to skinny guys with a bit of muscle. Maybe it’s not about having low standards, but different priorities. I’d prefer a partner to push me in my career and push me to give more romantic gestures and try new things then someone who’s only hobby is hanging out at the gym. I think you have a point though, priority dictates attraction to body type. I feel like I’m attracted to skinnier men because they (in my experience Atleast) hold interesting conversations and are passionate abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:37 PM
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Wait... so if they sell the house they can both retire early and instead he wants her to get a job? Where is the logic in that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:30 PM
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I believe our society is past basic nature. You’re right, egalitarianism cannot truly be reached, but that doesn’t mean we can’t hold our partners to higher standards. It doesn’t go against nature to wash a dish or change a diaper or demand respect from your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 11:09 AM
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So you agree men just want a second mommy then. Feminism hasn’t gone far enough yet. True egalitarianism hasn’t been reached yet. Women have to do the work because it wouldn’t get done otherwise. Men say to their partners, “pick up after me or live in my filth.” Maybe we can’t change men’s ideas on respect and behavior, but hopefully we can change women’s ideas on not needing a relationship to feel complete. Have a high quality partner or enjoy being single sounds a lot better than lower your st…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 03:40 AM
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I think there’s more of a prevolence of this behavior in men, maybe that’s just my personal experience (my dad hasn’t washed a dish in years) but it seems to me like society urges men to have a good job and expects women to have a good job, raise the children, keep the house clean, and prepare meals. Seen a lot of men in my time not even put their dirty underwear in the basket, just throw it on the floor
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 03:24 AM
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It really is an art form and sport
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:12 PM
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I really wish we could discuss this issue more because women are trained from a very young age to accept this behavior and that we are supposed to make the men more comfortable than we are. this can be situations such as pressure for sex all the way down to pressure to pay his half of the rent “just this once” to who’s going to do the majority of the housework. our fathers and grandfathers and our mothers and grandmothers teach us that we are supposed to cater towards men and be quiet about it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:06 PM
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Not every guy but a lot of them do just want someone to pick up after them and cater to their every whim whil putting the minimum effort in. I know because I’ve dated two of them. When I turned down their proposals and stopped taking care of them they wanted nothing to do with me. My cousin is the same way with his wife
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:36 PM
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A woman is less likely to leave and be more tolerant of poor behavior. This is more common with a woman that is a care taker type that takes care of the majority of responsibilities and finances. Gotta lock down mommy 2.0
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:50 PM
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I actually like my pole dancing classes. I just do them at my women only studio and I’m in the best shape of my life. No man has ever even seen me touch a pole. I do that for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:46 PM
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My bf is an alcoholic. He’s currently in rehab. It’s amazing the shit you put up with when you are codependent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:16 PM
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My ex told me that his ex girlfriend was a gold digger and expected lavish gifts and to be taken out to nice restaurants. Guess who never even got a birthday gift? Guess who always paid for meals because of that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:56 PM
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Check out the oneanddone subreddit. Much healthier mindset there full of mature adults
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:59 PM
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Oh my god I would be devastated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:03 PM
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Second this. I dated a LVM and when I finally left him he went NUCLEAR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:17 PM
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Ugh I have paid off 2 men’s debt. Never again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:39 PM
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Her nails thoooooo love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:04 PM
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I’ve done that a few times and it can be fun but only in a safe place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:59 AM
3

I was just raised with a deep appreciation for alcohol. The culture and craftsmanship is really fascinating to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:12 PM
2

Had an ex do this. He was sexually abusive and financially dependent on me. When I broke it off he decided to tell anyone who would listen that I was accusing him of rape (only my therapist and a support group knew) and that I only left him because of my bipolar and schizophrenia. No boy, I left cause you were a scrub NVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:49 PM
34

The audacity of this bitch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:25 AM
5

Can someone recommend a subreddit with all the good qualities of FDS like the support for women and calling out abusive behavior and double standards without the hostility?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 11:28 PM
2

Yes! I can’t imagine all the sludge you have to wade through. I love how I can see the beginning of apathetic post and it’s gone before I can even report it! Love you ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:01 PM
27

I had a doctor once tell me that I “need to get on that” after I told him I wanted to get a long therm birth control option (IUD) I was 24.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:53 PM
5

Ugh give me strength ladies. Had to report 3 guys that stalked my profile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:41 PM
1

Sex and masturbation are different for me. Yes masterbation is great but I’m very clear that I want a one time thing and they are fine. Mutual benefits and if I’m not comfortable I have always walked away and it was fine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:56 PM
1

I do masturbate. And I’m always safe. I bring my own rubbers not the nasty ass rubber that’s been sitting in his wallet for 3 months. If they try to use us for sex why can’t we use them for the same thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:21 PM
1

Idk I’ve used men just for sex and never cared if he called back. Sometime you gotta scratch the itch and move on with ya life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:17 PM
2

Good on these girls for learning from their mistakes! I was a pickme for years! Glad I left those days behind!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:09 PM
1

Yay! I don’t get why everyone hates this subreddit. Shame so many people are offended by women with high standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:07 PM
11

I don’t have an issue with it as long as you show me a clean STD test
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 06:00 PM
2

I’m not sure, I have a boyfriend (teetering between HVM and LVM we will see how it goes)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:08 AM
5

Thank you I’ll definitely try that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:31 PM
0

Yeah I’m on there all the time it’s very helpful. I catch 3 meetings a week over zoom too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:51 PM
10

A meninist subreddit screenshot one of my posts on here and are making fun of it. It’s funny to watch the incels get angry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:10 PM
60

Wow men are fucking trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:50 PM
1

Tf is the “sidebar method”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:39 PM
1

How do you get a guy btw?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:32 PM
1

Had to check that I diddnt post this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:28 PM
1

I have a high quality guy, except when he drinks. He’s in rehab right now so idk. Maybe he will go back to being a great guy if he can stay sober
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:59 PM
1

That really sucks. Afraid of being alone so I guess I’ll settle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:39 PM
1

Are there actual HQM out there? Because I’ve never met one in the wild. I feel like I just have to settle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:29 PM
4

So cute! Pandora?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:01 PM
1

This. I had an ex that accused me of being a gold digger when I made 2x his income
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:49 PM
13

Diamonds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:42 PM
2

It’s really hard to get out of this mentality. I keep getting stuck in the “I can change him” headspace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:32 PM
9

It’s a rose gold setting with diamonds. It’s been my dream ring ever since I was a little girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:23 PM
50

I diddnt think about it that way but I love that idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:22 PM
7

Go for it! Love yourself girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:56 PM
6

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:05 PM
59

It’s a lot like my mothers engagement ring. I’ve wanted one just like it ever since I was a little girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:29 PM
110

Had an engagement that ended in me breaking it off so he could go to rehab after being financially dependent on me for a year. He proposed on a whim (even though he is still married to someone else) and I had to get my own ring. This ring is in honor of the steps I’ve taken in my journey of self respect and battling codependency
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:13 PM
14

They are diamonds the light just hit them weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:47 PM
17

Yeah this is part of my codependency recovery. Time to put myself first!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:46 PM
9

Thanks! It’s the ring I’ve wanted since I was a little girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:40 PM
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