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22

Are you saying that every woman can be pretty enough to get a discount at the garage just by telling herself that she is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:56 PM
1

Nope. Just no. You can't be expected to be taken seriously when you are using that kind of tricks. It is demeaning. Demand to be treated with respect no matter how you look. No more, no less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:53 PM
13

That's beautiful. This one in particular hits home: Relationships [should never require] you to try to make yourself feel and want things you don't actually feel or want - or at least pretend you do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:23 PM
23

You want me to smile? Dance for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:41 PM
39

TwoXChromosomes once blacklisted me for being subscribed to r/ gendercritical. They are morons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:05 AM
8

I received it too, it was a wall of text I couldn't be bothered tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:28 PM
-6

It implies no such thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:35 PM
19

I know, I havent said otherwise. Saying that steroid users treat women badly doesn't mean that they are the only men to do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:23 PM
8

What is not true, that the general user of steroid is more primitive and caveman-like than the average man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:02 PM
-23

Have I said otherwise?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:01 PM
41

It might be some sort of sick mindgame he is playing by making an appointment then cancelling last moment for a crap reason. Making you wait, showing who is in control. It could be just thoughtlessness, but I wouldn't be surprised if it was a power play. The telltale sign is the framekeeping he does when you call him out. A normal person would just have said "sorry, I didn't mean any disrespect". Questioning your reaction and your sanity in this aggressive way reeks of redpill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:57 PM
92

These are men who are on roids. You would have to be pretty stupid to begin with, and then the drugs further ruin their personalities. They are not representative of normal men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:30 PM
31

The attitude of someone who thinks that taking steroids is a great choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:27 PM
13

I feel that some people use Brigg-Meyers tests as an excuse for not getting to know other people and not developing their own personality. It is so easy to go "I am like this, you are like that, now we know everything worth knowing about each other and this webpage tells us how to react in every situation". It is simplistic and naïve and really just a nothing more than horoscopes for people in suits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:24 PM
118

"Sex work as a part of the divine feminine" is sexism plain and simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:54 AM
13

I guess it is some sort of progress that they will now allow for 20 different types of women where before any woman was either Stacy or Becky. Soon they will realize that we are individuals...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 08:18 AM
24

"Your rude comments highlight your shitty personality"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:14 AM
21

Because they are all following the same sorry redpill playbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:14 AM
25

"Your preferences are not relevant"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:41 AM
5

He wants to share Everything!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:53 PM
3

So women can never suffer from low self worth, only men. And the sole purpose of women is to make men feel better. Literally nothing but trophies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:33 PM
3

The oldest neg in the world. How retro!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:27 PM
2

Depends on the table
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:21 PM
6

Yeah, this man is dangerous and she should leave him without telling him first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 12:11 PM
4

I know men try to do this, but I do doubt the majority are successful in their attempts at it. They would if they could and they are on Tinder to try to attempt it. That is really all we need no know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:04 PM
6

Leaving OLD is the only sane reaction to reading this article.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:01 PM
2

If this is true that means that the quality of men on Tinder would have deteriorated even further since then, as they have made a conscious effort to attract fuckboys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:00 PM
5

I doubt that Tinder paid Vanity Fair for this. It is pretty scathing, not exactly a puff piece.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:55 PM
7

It is a complete insult, as if someone who can't or won't seperate sex from emotions only have half a sexuality. It ought to be the other way round. Those who have sex without emotional connection are the ones who are missing out, they are the ones who are half.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:33 PM
347

He says he’s slept with 30 to 40 women in the last year: “I sort of play that I could be a boyfriend kind of guy,” in order to win them over, “but then they start wanting me to care more … and I just don’t.” Tell me again that FDS is wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:10 PM
9

I'ts like building a bonfire in your living room and setting it on fire and then not expect the house to burn down, because that only happens if you are insecure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:55 AM
17

These people live on another planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:33 PM
21

Exactly, it is just another excuse for not taking no for an answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:30 PM
49

Yeah, he is not ready to be a parent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:47 AM
22

Win, win, win!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:46 AM
45

"Will turn mono for the right woman" - it is bait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 08:49 AM
5

Oh, the ice cream analogy. For people who pride themselves of being masters of communication it is surprising how they mindlessly repeat the same talking points with little variation. And such a very bad point too, because humans are nothing like ice cream. Humans have feelings and thoughts and needs and rights. They are not a product that you consume.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 07:21 AM
34

There are limitless opportunities for triangulation in poly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:58 AM
36

It is amazing how they are unable to recognize that a romantic/sexual is quite different in it's nature than a platonic friendship or a parent/child relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:53 AM
35

BuT iT's Not cHeaTinG when you ComMuNicaTe and are HonESt about blatantly disrespecting and hurting your partner!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:48 AM
45

Jealousy is a feeling that alerts us that we are in danger of losing someone we love. If there is no jealousy there is no love. And then the polyamorous will go: "But you are not losing him! He will come back to you everytime he has been with his mistress so there is no reason to be jealous!" To that I will say: Maybe he will leave me permanently. It happens all the time. Him having sex with other women on a regular basis greatly enhances the chances of him leaving me permanently. And even if he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:39 AM
60

As the feminists of the seventies learned: In free love there is always someone crying. And usually it is a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:33 AM
39

They are trying so hard to paint themselves as this little persecuted minority. Anything to keep the cult together, even if they have to make it up themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:31 AM
83

It reeks of low self esteem. They have given up on finding real love and now they just take what they can get, even if that means being with someone who literally thinks of them as secondary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:27 AM
5

Ask him what table he is talking about. Is it the serious relationship table? The friendship table? The fwb table or the pump n' dump table? You answer that buddy, and I will tell you if it is even a table I want to sit down at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:08 AM
4

Right, we shouldn't judge a woman for being a pleasedon'tbeheadme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:02 AM
6

Scratch the surface just a little bit and they are everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:19 PM
20

And still he is the childish one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:03 PM
22

No lie, wanting to have an emotional connection has become the most taboo of all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:04 AM
30

Also: If he is willing to backstab his wife with you then he will be willing to backstab you with the next woman. It says a lot about a man how he talks about his (stbx)wife
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:53 PM
9

That guy wears more rhinestone than the average cruise ship tourist. Let's have a deep talk about how to properly accessorize
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:08 AM
11

Instead of fixing his own shortcomings he decided that it is unreasonable for any woman to expect him to remain faithful. He then tries to convince us that every man is like him so we should just settle for at cheater because good men don't exist anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:51 AM
26

Let's lower the bar another notch and accept that all men are cheaters... Or how about the men who are not willing to fight for love by not cheating stay single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:53 PM
21

Negging, shit testing, gaslighting, whatever. It is always worded in a way to make you doubt if he is being deliberately rude or just awkward/trying to be funny. And when you call him out on it he will always "maintain frame" i.e. never acknowledge that he did something wrong, always put the blame on you for overreacting. Never accept "playful banter" at your expense. It is a sign that you are dealing with a redpiller/PUA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:07 AM
3

That's CoMmUnIcaTioN for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 04:49 AM
9

So everytime she says something that he doesn't want to hear he will just assume that she doesn't mean it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:56 AM
45

How to be an obnoxious idiot in 4 easy steps!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:03 AM
53

Sending grateful thoughts to feminists of all times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:42 PM
21

Of course. But "just ask" is often used as an excuse by people who are too lazy to take responsibility for their relationship and just want to be told what to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:21 AM
80

It is a great quote to address this idea of "ComMuNIcaTE! JuST aSk!" that is expressed so often when people have relationship problems. But what is the idea of having a partner if you have to instruct them in how to be in a relationship? If they are too lazy or uninterested to pay attention to how you feel and get to know you well enough that they sense what you need, why even bother?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:54 AM
9

*HUG* I hope your surgery goes well and that good and kind people will come into your life instead of this selfish jerk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:47 AM
1

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:31 PM
2

Nobody has limitless potential. Limitless potential is not inherently chaotic. This is not why people are intimidated by highly intelligent people, if they are. You are talking nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:32 PM
441

From "really yummy" to "5 at best" in .5
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 11:01 AM
70

She is a doormat if she is loyal to someone who hasn't promised her anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:14 AM
18

This is so precise, omg. I realized something while reading this: When you are in this situation, there really is no incentive for the man to ever change. He has you where he wants you, he gets a lot of positive attention, he gets away with a lot of things. The minute he actually starts to behave well he will lose all that and he will be expected to behave like a mature responsible adult. You are basically rewarding him for treating you badly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:27 AM
17

Some men will even use this against a woman. He knows what she wants (that he improves) so he has some leverage over her by withholding this reward. Like "If you try just a little bit harder I am surely going to turn into Prince Charming".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:17 AM
17

Turning a bad man into a good one with your love is the ultimate validation for (some) women. Some will literally contact serial killers in prison because they think that their love can transform him. In a way it is a sweet idea (trying to make the world a better place by spreading love) but also rather naive and self-destructive, and often ego-driven.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:13 AM
42

This is even the worst part: When you throw all your love and efforts into helping this man and he is still the same, whose fault is it? Yours of course. If you had been good enough he would have changed. I think this is part of the reason why women put up with so much. If someone treats us badly it reflects on us not them, and therefore it is shameful to say no and leave because that means that we were not good enough that they would treat us right on their own account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:05 AM
1

Women are no more chaotic than men. Women are not mysterious. Women don't have unlimited potential and chaos is not power or artistic, that is just nonsense. Let me leave you a quote that contains more wisdom than the combined works of your professor Peterson: And the Cool Girls are even more pathetic: They’re not even pretending to be the woman they want to be, they’re pretending to be the woman a man wants them to be. Oh, and if you’re not a Cool Girl, I beg you not to believe that your man do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:37 AM
15

What else would you do if your significant other needs your help?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:23 PM
6

You would go to a man who associates the feminine with chaos?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:44 AM
6

No, this is basic pop psychology. He is merely repeating a well known trope. And selling it as deep wisdom as is his m.o.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:37 AM
5

he still knows what men need to do to attract a good partner And what, pray tell, does Jordan B. Peterson consider a good partner?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:35 AM
12

No this is not deep. He is basically reading aloud from wikipedia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:18 PM
4

So he is a religious leader?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:16 PM
20

Peterson did not invent Peter Pan Syndrome. He did not come up with these ideas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:13 PM
6

And one of her sugar daddies is a very desirable (if a bit saggy nowadays) class A actor. And the other one is Brad Pitt?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 03:11 PM
135

How dare she not wear a swimsuit at all times! Why does she think she exists?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:38 PM
5

It is progesterone that triggers the period, not testosterone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:42 AM
5

Men with good genes don't need to brainwash women into being with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:12 PM
3

Also this is completely condescending towards the man. If I was dating a man and he met me with an attitude of "I have detected a problem in you and I will now attempt to repair you with my superior emotional skills" I would be totally offended. You shouldn't try to fix other people unless you are a) qualified and b) asked to do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:57 AM
10

Yeah I knew a guy who thought that the most romantic thing in the world would be if I made myself weak and helpless so he could feel strong and powerful in comparison. He saw no problem in this because he was going to protect me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:30 AM
5

If you hate women this much why are you married in the first place?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:33 AM
6

This so much. This kind of person who can't handle being equal, and you have to keep them down or else they will try to keep you down. It is a constant battle to be with them because you have to constantly defend your boundaries and every time you relax and let down your guard they will try to walk all over you. It is exhausting to be around those, I much prefer someone who will recognize my worth without me playing hard to get and make them work for it and all those bs games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:26 AM
5

This is sexism against men. Of course they are able to resist their biological instincts. If they want to. If a man believed that it would cost him his job/his house/his car/ the respect of his friends if he looked at other women, do you still think he would do it? Of course he wouldn't. It's only a matter of how important it is to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:19 AM
8

ComMuNIcAtiOn!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 07:48 AM
33

But that is a brilliant idea! If liberal feminism is able to make women think that being an unpaid sexual servant is empowering, maybe it is also possible to make men believe that treating women with respect is kinky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:59 AM
48

Even back in the sixties when the pill was first made available everybody thought that this would free women sexually. Instead it just meant that there was no longer any acceptable reason for women to say no to sex, and any woman who didn't want to be considered a conservative prude needed to make herself available for 'free love' in the name of counter culture and hippie ideals. That revolution didn't give women any more sexual freedom rather imposed more demands on them. Much of the shaming of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:46 AM
23

Robin is the archetypical cool girl, that is so spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:26 PM
15

Yes, this. His habit of using women like disposable objects is described as a charming quirk. Ha ha, now Barney went and conned another unsuspecting woman into sleeping with him, he is such a great guy, one of our best friends! We accept him just like he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:23 PM
3

This makes very good sense! Never thought of it like that. Negging is a way for the PUA to avoid wasting his time on a woman with normal self esteem. Brilliant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:43 AM
2

True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 03:47 PM
31

He wanted to share her but he also wanted her all for himself. Somehow she wasn't able to fulfill this impossible demand, so now she is being punished.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:18 AM
108

Yup, he wants a wh*ore, but also a madonna. In the same person at the same time. He wants the impossible and hates her for not being able to deliver it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:13 AM
10

I was just thinking that. He really shouldn't point his finger with those manners
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:14 PM
13

"Teflon woman wanted!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:15 PM
17

That's what he is telling himself to justify being an arsehole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:36 AM
6

"Beauty and the Beast, redux"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:54 AM
29

So one middle aged guy from my hometown got a mail order bride from the Philippines. He wasn't the greatest catch and never had a girlfriend before. She was very young and pretty and didn't speak a word of the local language. She lived with him, kept his house, cooked and cleaned etc. Then after some time she got in contact with a network of philippine women in the nearby city. She learned how things work in this country and that she had rights. She divorced him, took him for half of everything …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:32 PM
29

They should just form a monastary and live like monks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:52 AM
3

Men never has any scruples using women as stepping stones. 'Starter wife' is a common phenomenon. Who ever heard of a starter husband?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:01 AM
2

So the underlying assumption is that I expect a man to be perfect, that I have mood swings, that I want to box him in and expect to be his whole world, that I don't reciprocate his efforts, that it comes at a surprise to me that he wants respect, affection and attention, that I expect to be understood without being understanding? Nah...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:45 AM
86

Me too. "Is he a hardcore redpiller or might his behaviour be a sign of aspergers?" When you are asking yourself this, the answer doesn't matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:25 AM
6

Also he was great in Patrick Melrose
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:22 AM
55

Anytime she wants to she can take it off and be kicked in the face and verbally abused. Totally her own choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:19 AM
86

So true. Many men unconsciously consider it women's job to please them with our appearance and their job to judge our efforts and inform us how we are doing. They really think that the unsolicited opinion of a stranger is going to mean something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:12 AM
27

It sometimes seems like the ideal woman is someone who will never have a negative reaction no matter how you treat her. Someone whose feelings you don't have to consider because she is cool no matter what. Then you can act like a complete arsehole without any consequences or guilt, great huh? Beware people who praise you for being a doormat. Not putting up with crap is not a sign of insecurity, quite the opposite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:59 PM
33

I't a variation over the madonna/whore theme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:43 PM
35

Yes, you can't be kindergarten teacher to the whole world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 08:46 PM
20

And if she refuses it must be because it is just too difficult and painful, i.e. she still loves him. Not because it is just a boring waste of time and she moved on a long time ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:45 PM
54

You just know that you are dealing with a high quality human being when they name people by their HB-rating. Also the revenge fantasy smacks of incel energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:03 PM
11

I hope it won't. But with Mark Zuckerberg on their team who knows...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:59 PM
83

Perhaps it was that he took all his bad sides out on prostitutes which allowed him to seem like he had no bad sides when he was with you. Like you only saw a part of him? Maybe being too perfect is a warning sign in itself. Any way I am sorry this happened to you. Hugs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:56 PM
13

You can't help being attracted to whoever you are attracted to. But showing it or reacting on it is impolite. And if feelings begin to grow you nip them in the bud and stay away from that person. That's common courtesy. And actually that goes for casual dating too. Just because you are not my boyfriend doesn't mean that you can disrespect me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:42 PM
19

Who owns OnlyFans I wonder?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:34 PM
25

Can we perhaps see a photo of him next to a sedated tiger?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:12 AM
38

I see it this way: Red Pill is aggression against women. FDS is self defence against this aggression. Nobody here wants to demean, abuse, manipulate, humiliate, use or dehumanize men. We just don't want to be treated that way either. We don't want to be plates or HBs or pawns in a game or any of that crap. FDS is about creating healthy relationships with men. Can TRP say the same about women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:06 AM
80

True. It puts the man in the position where he is the one who judges what women can wear, and by trying to change his mind and impress him you affirm that he holds that power. When in reality it is completely unimportant what he thinks someone should wear. His opinion is irrelevant, nobody needs his permission to wear anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 10:18 PM
17

Not only will she have spend hours in hair and makeup, the picture is probably photoshopped as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:16 AM
16

How naive would you have to be to believe that any celebrity would pose in front of a camera without wearing makeup? Let alone go on the red carpet or pose for a magazine cover.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:07 AM
80

I guess women making fun of men is equivalent to rapeporn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 06:09 AM
18

I consider it a neg. "Why is such a pretty girl like you single?" is like saying "So what is wrong with you?" It is meant to make you feel insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:55 AM
103

He wants to dissolve you in saliva, how romantic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 09:11 PM
7

Everyone can google redpill and pua and read about their tricks. But be warned: you are going to find it hard to trust any man after you have seen how they think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:04 PM
74

It is a trope that runs deep in western culture (perhaps other cultures as well). It shows up in old folk tales like Beauty and the Beast and others. A princess kisses an ugly toad and it turns into a charming prince. We are taught that inside every man there is a prince and that our worth as women depends on us being able to get him to make that transition. That if we are good enough then he will treat us right, and if he doesn't treat us right it is because we are not good enough. No sis. It i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:24 AM
20

Maybe someone is conducting some experiment? It actually fits better with the genders flipped. When I read OP I thought "but women don't lose interest because of sex on the first date, it's men who do that"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:05 AM
57

She has taken it a step further: She is a useme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:03 AM
19

Nothing is more sad than a grown man playing hard to get and trying to make women jealous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 05:03 PM
97

Whatever do you mean? He just have to nuke his marriage and order a pizza, then some hot female pizza girl will show up and have kinky nsa sex with him for free. Pornhub has numerous examples of this happening. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 11:15 AM
19

WFAMWIAWTMAE (Waiting for a man who is actually willing to make an effort)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 11:06 AM
2

Majoring in philosophy is a red flag in my experience. They seem to always be insufferable to be around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:28 AM
2

What is wrong with the man, I wonder? If he is not enough for his wife why would he be enough for another woman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:17 AM
2

Also this implies that op is never going to enter his home or become a part of his life in any major way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:10 AM
2

There are no benefits. And they are not really your friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:07 AM
2

This is gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:57 AM
1

It goes further back. At least to Neil Strauss (may he burn in hell) and 'The Game'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 02:11 PM
9

The robot turns into a man training device
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:38 PM
2

I really don't understand why they are important. They are not, unless you believe in astrology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:53 AM
42

Some men seriously think that fulfilling their needs is rewarding in itself for a woman and that she doesn't need anything else than the great feeling of being useful to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:36 AM
3

"Your hair is beautiful! Is it false?" That is literally the canonical example of negging. You will find it in the earliest PUA manuals from the turn of the century. What is wrong with these cretins, do they think we have no internet access?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:26 AM
3

Like we are strange wild animals that need to be tamed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:21 AM
162

"I totally forgot all about you, so much so that I wanted to contact you and let you know that I totally forgot all about you". Or else he has a serious neurological condition. One of the two.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:15 AM
3

Now that is class!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:11 AM
88

No biggie, she hadn't been dispensing sex for a while (due to dying?) so... Big question now: How soon can he get himself a new one without it seeming like he doesn't give a shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 05:04 AM
22

You have been a victim of negging. It is textbook PUA/Redpill behaviour. Avoid him like the plague, he is lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:41 AM
6

Yes. I dont wan't to be neither a whore nor a madonna. I don't want to be defined by my sexual availability at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 04:51 PM
24

I have to say that my immediate reaction to their marriage was that it was arranged. Like Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:41 AM
12

Manipulative bullshit meant to bait women by playing hard to get. She is supposed to walk through fire to make him love her. The prize she wins is validation. Except she is never going to win. Until she realizes this she will put up with loads of his bullshit. When/if she finally realizes, she will feel a failure who is not good enough to be loved. There is no winning with this kind of man. Just stay away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:34 AM
17

These men believe that women's self esteem should depend on male validation. It gives them power over us when their opinion decides our worth. They get upset when a women they don't find attractive has confidence, because she is taking that power away from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 11:56 AM
57

Yes, the poor man is missing the point: That the reason women don't put lingerie shots on their profiles is exactly to avoid guys like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:47 AM
13

I guess all men in the world gathered at a convention and decided that this guy should speak for them all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:42 AM
13

Once a man has integrated the pua ways of thinking into his mind, he is ruined forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:40 AM
10

“women watch it too!!!” Yeah, and men read FDS apparantly, so?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:01 AM
12

Why do this woman voluntarily sign up to having her value judged by men? Why make them the judges? Why give them that power?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 04:40 AM
65

It is like empathy and compassion are kryptonite to their boners. You can be a human being or you can be sexually attractive to them but you can't be both. I think many of them carry a great shame about their sexuality which is activated when a woman triggers their empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:47 AM
5

Am I supposed to care? Does this clown think that women have careers to impress him? What narcissism! How is his opinion relevant to anything?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:34 AM
3

This is wisdom!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:57 AM
5

Poor baby, he is a victim of compulsive behavior!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:37 AM
37

I detest that show for trying to normalize pickup and portraying it as something innocent or even charming and endearing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:12 AM
20

This. They treat women as stepping stones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:05 AM
8

Idk if there's a name for this phenomenon but it's bizarre. Immaturity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:28 AM
11

It sounds like some way of prolonging her pain and making sure that she didn't move on. Must have been great for his ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:25 AM
9

Oh no! Just because he dumped her for not being long term material does not mean that she should not be pining for him for the rest of her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:16 AM
12

I once saw some puas discussing negging online, and their idea was: The more attractive a woman is, the more times you have to neg her. They think of negging as bringing down the woman a notch. So if for example if a woman is a HB9 (yes, they rate us on a 1-10 scale) and the pua is a 6 then he has to neg her three times to bring her down to his level and four to bring her below his level. Thinking about it this way, negging is the pua acknowledging that you are more attractive than him. And demo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:13 AM
13

I have to say I think she was prettier before the weight loss. None of my business though, her body her choice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:04 AM
3

Right, like "Alpha male eats first! Alpha doesn't share his cookies!" or some similar bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 07:57 AM
6

Makes you wonder how many persons he has asked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 07:44 AM
2

It might already exist: https://slaafws.org/ ​ Having few healthy boundaries, we become sexually involved with and/or emotionally attached to people without knowing them. Fearing abandonment and loneliness , we stay in and return to painful, destructive relationships…. We confuse love with neediness, physical and sexual attraction, pity and/or the need to rescue or be rescued. We sexualize stress, guilt, loneliness, anger, shame, fear and envy.…. To avoid feeling vulnerable, we may retreat from …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 07:43 AM
5

True. It is handing over power to the person who have hurt you. Never a good idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 07:14 AM
5

We’re just walking to go out have a good night and he says ‘Laura is so sexy’ I said ‘what?’ He says ‘my flatmate, she is too sexy for a flatmate’ Social proof (He is hanging around attractive women, he must be attractive) After I walked back home last night I went to sleep and he came in the bed and tried to hug me, I moved away. This morning he woke up and the first thing he said was ‘so when are you leaving’ Dread game (If the relationship can't be completely on his terms, he will discard you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 07:09 AM
3

Oh yeah, "social proof" and "pawning". Red flags to tell you that you are dealing with a pua.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:58 AM
4

Exactly. Nothing is more sad that a grown man playing hard to get by playing women out against each other. He is trying to set himself up as the big price they are both competing for. But why fight for someone who has proven his own worthlessness by being a manipulative pos?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:48 AM
14

They don't see is as human beings. To them we are only objects to practice their skills on and perhaps (in their dreams) have sex with, then report back to their fellow puas and receive high-fives. Our feelings don't come into the picture, same as you wouldn't worry about making a social faux pas against a dog or a three or a lamp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 09:00 AM
6

How tacky...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:21 AM
7

Rewarding him with attention will only encourage him. An instant blocking will tell him all he needs to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:00 AM
1

Even the first three lines disqualifies him from further attention. Why even engage in conversation with someone who lacks the most basic manners? Block this brute immediately and forget that he ever existed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 10:58 AM
19

He kept texting and leaving voice messages the next few months, saying maybe we should “All sit down and talk.” ?? For what?? Polyamory probably...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:54 AM
1

Men should be made aware that it is generally not possible to date a woman short term without hurting her feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 11:49 AM
23

They don't really want NSA. They want you to be attached to them while they are not attached to you. So they have all the power and you have none. They can dump you whenever they want and you will never dump them. It really is evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 08:33 AM
1

The problem is that he thinks it is possible to use this woman as entertainment for a couple of months then dump her without her being hurt. This shows that he doesn't fully understands that she is a human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 07:00 AM
1

pain doesn’t even have to be a component, and when it is a component it is something that is desired by BOTH parties Are you saying that it never ever happened that a man caused a woman pain during BDSM without her desiring it? Also what community are you talking about? Men can be turned on by women's pain without being part of any BDSM community. I think you are reading things into this to further your own agenda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:56 AM
2

'Awful' by Hole 'The Gallery' by Joni Mitchell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:52 PM
3

This. I couldn't have said it better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:31 PM
5

But he is trying to manipulate. He is asking on r / seduction for advice on how to tell her in a way that won't make her dump his ass immediately. If he was honest he would just tell her in plain words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:26 PM
6

If he didn't want to trick her he wouldn't be posting on /seduction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:22 PM
4

The problem is that he has the unreasonable expectation that if he use the right words she will be ok with being with a man who is not serious about her untill he finds someone better. Of course men should only get involved with women they are serious about. Otherwise she is going to get hurt and hurting other people is not ok. Men need to know that it is morally wrong to seduce a woman and let her waste her time and emotions on him when he isn't really interested in her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:18 PM
4

If he doesn't want to hurt her he shouldn't be with her at all after the moment he realizes that he is going to dump her eventually. He is wasting her time, and there is no polite way of telling her that he is only using her until he finds someone who has no children and is into BDSM. Why ever would she be interested in a man who doesn't see a future with her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:11 PM
10

She is teaching him to tie his own shoelaces?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 04:51 PM
4

I completely agree that little boys are any bit as compassionate and empathetic as little girls and that something changes when they become teenagers. It might be due to socializing but I can't help thinking that this is the age when testosterone starts to kick in and that might have something to do with it as well?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 06:14 AM
3

I think you're right. It all comes down to vagina envy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 05:23 AM
5

Yeah I never understood that. "I am going to beat you over the head with a bat but that's ok because I'm honest about it". Honesty is not going to magically cancel out the meanness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 05:07 AM
4

It's emotional rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 03:41 PM
15

Exactly, as if he is expecting a test drive or something. That's not the way it works buddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 08:28 AM
13

Isn't this some sort of child abuse?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 08:22 AM
30

Yeah, they want a Strong Woman(TM) i.e. an endless supply of whatever they want that will never be drained.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 08:15 AM
27

It's a quality stamp for a man to date a woman who posts on FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 07:22 PM
6

Having sex with a guy who is clearly holding his nose and squeezing his eyes shut pretending you are the person he actually wants is one of the most dehumanizing experiences I know of. That is very precise. I have tried that too and the feeling when I realized that he was having sex with me even though he considered me beneath him and that I was just a placeholder that he was seeing until he found someone better is the worst experience I have ever had. Literally. I am still traumatized by it. Be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 09:36 AM
3

Most men have no problem with taking a woman's time and resources knowing full well that she is expecting something in return that they are never going to give her. As long as it benefits the holy dick it is fair game and they are not going to feel an ounce of guilt. They feel entitled to put their own needs first and suspend all human decency in the most cynical way because after all a man's small benefit is far more important than a woman's utter devastation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 09:27 AM
8

Yeah. Actions have consequences. If you really don't want to be a father then don't have sex with women. That's the law of nature and nature doesn't care about your feelings of entitlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 08:44 AM
7

That possibility somehow never occurs to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 08:42 AM
9

Men already are able to 'opt-out of a pregnancy completely'. Nobody forces them to have sex with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 08:41 AM
7

Or crabs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 08:35 AM
9

He is doing the exact same thing to that other girl that he is doing to your friend. She would feel the same way if she knew that he is seeing someone else besides her. But yeah, I have been in that place too and I wish I knew what to do about it. It is so easy to think that when somebody treats you bad it is because you did something wrong. When it really is the person who treats you bad who has done something wrong. It is a sort of auto-victim blaming. It must be some sort of social programmin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 08:21 AM
35

An attempt at inverse psychology. He wins weather you reply or not. It's manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 08:18 AM
36

For some men even the fact that a woman has the right to deny a man access to her body when he wants it is enough to make them resent us. The mere fact that we are human beings with preferences and wishes and a will of our own is an insult because that might stand in the way of the mighty dick having it's needs met. We are supposed to be available to any man who wants us and expect nothing in return but disdain, pain, humiliation and perhaps an STD. And we are supposed to like it. Or else we are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 08:11 AM
5

I knew a man who thought that a strong woman was one who didn't need anything from him. Someone who was self-sufficient enough that she would never expect or demand anything from him. Someone who would always give and never need anything in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:26 PM
27

Well that depends on the partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 03:37 PM
13

:-D Laughing out loud alone in the room, thank you! And the BBC no less!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 02:53 PM
14

Thank God. You might have been that poor wife of his that he is now cheating on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 02:43 PM
13

Because that's the only kind of man there is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 06:33 AM
3

I hadn't thought about it that way. I assumed that it was a case of "You want poly? I'll give you poly!". It didn't occur to me that she was doing it to please him. That would indeed be disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 08:58 AM
3

Thank you, I'll memorize these.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 07:41 PM
2

Playing those intricate games shows interest more than anything else. Not to him, but to yourself. And who cares what he thinks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 07:36 PM
5

Maybe the other couple was in on it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 06:46 PM
6

He suggested polyamory. Why would she care about his feelings after that? He brought this upon himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 06:43 PM
6

Yeah, something doesn't add up here...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 06:37 PM
27

Same as some men think that a prostitute likes her job because she acts like she likes it. Forgetting that they themselves paid her to act that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 06:29 PM
9

We were together 7-8 years, he put off marriage forever, he told me he wasn’t in love with me last Valentine’s Day. Why is he even able to read your posts and send you texts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 02:31 PM
4

Oh no, a natural woman, someone alert the press!! Seriously, if I could have that haircolor without ruining my hair with peroxide and constantly having to touch up the roots, I would do it in a heartbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 06:30 AM
12

"How do I make this woman sacrifice her own happiness for me???" You don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 06:28 AM
6

That note ought to say: "Because you are looking for a relationship on Tinder"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 06:25 AM
6

Give him a time limit for collecting his stuff. If it is still there after, sell as much as you can and donate the rest to charity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 05:47 AM
10

And even if you should magically manage to change his way of thinking and turn him into a decent human being, what happens next: He leaves you for another woman who has not seen his vulnerable and dark sides.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 05:42 AM
83

I think that the story of Adam and Eve in Paradise says a lot about the nature of men and women. They were living in the garden of Eden - they were save and had all their physical needs fulfilled. This was enough for Adam. He didn't want anything else out of life than a full stomach, sex ad lib and a soft place to sleep. He didn't mind that everything was taken care of for them and that they were essentially living like children or even like animals. But Eve wasn't satisfied. She was curious. Sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 07:01 AM
27

Like a prostitute with a really bad business sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 07:13 AM
31

They want you to be skinny without dieting, have flawless skin without makeup, be brilliant without seeing through their bullshit. And then they accuse us of being hypergamous. The mere notion of a women not shaving her legs and armpits will send them into a fit of rage. But shaving is false advertisement too by pretending to be hairless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 07:08 AM
25

Isn't the whole PUA seduction thing about false advertising? Making a woman believe that you are not merely interested in sex because you know that she doesn't want to be pumped and dumped is infinitely more manipulative that wearing makeup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 07:02 AM
1

Definitely make a post if you want to. I personally think that a man expressing interest in poly/open relationship is the biggest red flag of them all and something all women should be warned about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 03:49 PM
2

It's like a competition to be the most absorbent doormat, and winning is really not something to be proud of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 03:42 PM
3

Or "he found another woman but did not want to lose his faithful live-in nanny and housekeeper, so gave her an ultimatum"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 03:38 PM
27

At least he is honest about how big a creep he really is...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:39 AM
14

Brad: "How are men supposed to navigate when different women have different preferences? That is just too complicated for me. Am I supposed to know the women in my life on a personal level?! That's way too much work. Why can't you just all be the same?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 05:08 AM
5

He knows what you like and what you want better that you do yourself. After all he has studied redpill theories for years and has scientific insight in the subject, can you say the same? Thought so. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 05:03 AM
1

He is clearly a man with many important things to do. Yet he has found time in his busy schedule to disrespect you! If that isn't a compliment I don't know what is. Hang on to this one sister, he is a keeper. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 05:00 AM
6

How long before someone tries to sell a book,an online course and tickets to a convention where incels can learn the secret dating tip that works every time, on every women: Be a decent human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 04:35 AM
2

Women like to be treated with respect, kindness and consideration. It is not really a big secret.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 04:31 AM
2

Spot on :-D And no, Jeremy, if you aren't even able to correctly type in two numbers your height doesn't matter much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 04:19 AM
11

Not giving sex away to strangers who don't give a shit about you is, like, literal rape! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 03:41 AM
6

You shouldn't have to make him confirm that he is not a bot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 05:01 PM
5

Well there you go. How were you to know that he was full of shit? Now you know though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 07:39 AM
4

Don't blame yourself. Not your fault that he has bad manners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 06:57 AM
6

their version of feminism is about proving they’re just as good as men Maybe so. What they are actually proving is that they are just as bad as men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 06:53 AM
4

The thing is that if orgasms is the only thing you're after there are very effective devices on the market that will not disrespect or manipulate you or leave you feeling stupid and used. They will give you an orgasm every time without complaining or demanding that you return the favor. If a man can't offer anything but orgasms he is useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 06:49 AM
2

I don't want to be treated that way so I wouldn't like to do it to others. But if you can bear it and if he consents after you've expained to him how you feel then why not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 06:24 AM
6

He wants some good hearted woman to come and fix him and build up his self esteem and take responsibility for his issues. And when he feels confident enough, he will leave her for a high value woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 06:21 AM
10

I really couldn't care less what people think. I am not here to appease them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 07:05 PM
20

Fuckboys need to feel that all women are madly in love with them all of the time. As long as they are sure of you they seem indifferent but the moment you begin to move on they suddenly care. Just because he isn't interested in you doesn't mean that you are allowed to not be interested in him. That wouldn't be good for his ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 07:03 PM
5

There is no excuse for this kind of meanness. I don't care about x or y. Nobody deserves to be talked to like this. I am so glad you got out of that relationship. Please be good to yourself and keep safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 06:46 PM
5

If Pickmeisha has feelings for him and hopes that he will feel the same for her if she treats him well it is unkind to take advantage of that. We have different notions of what constitutes a high value man, but using someones love against them, even if you don't love them back, is mean in my opinion. I would see that as a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 03:07 PM
2

it sucks it doesn't exist The internet isn't big enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 12:07 PM
9

I don't agree. A high value man understands that women are human beings with thoughts and feelings. He treats all women with respect, pickme women too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 12:00 PM
7

But the men you meet through sugardating were never high value to begin with. If they treat their wifes like crap they are not hvm no matter how much they do for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 11:59 AM
15

Also 50K in gold ?! Is he 85 years old? Buried under a tree in his someone's garden no doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 11:50 AM
78

If men age like fine wine, does that mean we should keep them locked up in the cellar?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 11:45 AM
1

I would feel demeaned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 06:25 AM
2

How is it flattering to be compared with a prostitute?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 06:22 AM
3

He has hurt her and broken her trust and now he doesn't understand why she is hurt and acts like she doesn't trust him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 06:07 AM
24

It's so bloody true. If men can't control themselves because of their visual nature, how about they only leave their home wearing a blindfold and in the company of a female relative?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 06:57 AM
7

chafy and disgusting glowing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 06:28 AM
20

"I am looking for my dreamgirl and in the meantime you may tend to my physical, emotional and practical needs".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 06:39 AM
11

It's just advice on how to protect yourself from getting your heart trashed and not being anyone's doormat. How is that a bad thing? I guess it it a bad thing if you really like trashing other people's hearts and using them as your doormat. It says a lot about men that they are so threatened by the idea of women insisting on being treated with respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 06:28 AM
12

It's just another way of control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 07:05 AM
24

Resents that his gf is making any demands of him but also doesn't want to face the consequences of saying 'No I couldn't be bothered to cook a simple meal for you when you are sick.' So he gets passive aggressive and f*cks it up on purpose to teach you never to expect anything from him ever again. What a prince.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 07:01 AM
17

The bitch can't accept that she is unlikable and no one can stand her for very long so instead of embracing that perhaps she is broken and needs to fix herself to find a partner so she seems adequate she decides to DOUBLE DOWN . He just described each and every member of MGTOW. Talk about projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 06:55 AM
28

His parents failed him badly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 06:49 AM
13

That beard is there for a reason...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 05:57 PM
7

If you spend your whole life on reddit you might overestimate the value of upvotes to people who have a real actual life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 05:18 AM
7

We will just have to learn to care less about what people call us. Imagine one of these men being accused of being a beauty/youth-digger. Would he go out of his way to prove that he isn't? No, he would just shrug his shoulders and go 'whatever'. We can do that too. The reason that women are shamed endlessly while men are not is that women react to it while men are generally shameless. If we stopped giving a damn the shaming would die out eventually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 04:57 AM
14

It's the same with Nikolaj Coster Waldau. After becoming a big star of Game of Thrones he still remains loyal to his wife. That's what a real quality human being does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 05:58 PM
12

Brilliant. Been there. Not going again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 05:22 PM
19

Frequents the manosphere and believes what he read. Employs PUA techniques. Sees no problem with polyamory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 05:01 PM
69

They share the child that she gave birth to but they don't share the money he made while she was pregnant and going through post partum depression? He expects her to work full time and be the model of motherhood while he lives on his fortune? The level of selfishness and disloyalty is astounding. He has no empathy or sense of solidarity with the woman he chose to marry and have a child with. No wonder she plays video games all the times to escape the harsh reality of having married and procreate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 06:50 AM
13

And then he goes 'wow'. As if he was expecting a positive response for cyber-flashing his miniscule penis peeking out from under his enormous hairy beer gut. As if he has any right to be offended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 05:39 AM
14

How can anyone be this immature and use this much PUA lingo at the age of 27?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 04:36 AM
14

Be sure that he was. Those were carefully studied lines. And when some good hearted women perceives it as social awkwardness and gives them the benefit of the doubt, they go back to the manosphere and brag about how effective their methods are. They will never learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 04:03 AM
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That's classic negging. He wants to remind you that you'll be ugly soon. Just to make you go into a panic and grab the closest guy (him) before you turn into Goldie Hawn who is apparantly the ugliest woman alive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 03:57 AM
3

See how he drags his knuckles behind him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 01:59 PM
20

I'm not really into having sex without being comfortable and at the very least exclusive That sounds reasonable and healthy. You do you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 12:16 PM
8

That whole sub is pure gold!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 12:09 PM
14

Yes, and it's funny because it's true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 11:57 AM
5

They are walking around in the hospital all day like the lion on the savanna with all the young impressionable nurses and secretaries looking admiringly at them hoping to be picked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 11:47 AM
3

My dad was a doctor. He was constantly cheating on my mother (also doctor) with young naïve nurses that had read too many novellas. When my mom finally had enough and kicked him out he married another female doctor and kept cheating. His third wife was a nurse and while he was married to her he had a stroke and retired and was unable to cheat anymore. This made him quite bitter and grumpy, and wife 3.0 eventually left him. Now he sits alone somewhere in the north and wonders why none of his many…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 11:41 AM
5

Jazz musicians. Just. Stay. Away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 11:24 AM
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If a male character acted like Amy Dunne, would he even be a villain? Think about James Bond. Did he treat women better than Amy treated men? Men admire characters who are able to control and use women but when a woman does the same she is an anti hero.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 07:07 AM
5

I thought so too, I am not a native english speaker either. Thank you for posing the question, today I learned :-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 06:51 AM
7

The saying ought to be: "If his mother overindulges him he will expect you to do so as well".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 06:47 AM
3

It's heartbreaking that so many women (and men of course) are participating in dating in the style of war. Nonsense. Very few women are partaking in any war against men. We merely try to protect ourselves. This is solely on the manosphere. Why don't you go preach to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 06:33 AM
1

Do you realize what the '\s' mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 05:49 AM
5

Oh yeah, the hybris of women: Think that my love will turn a worthless fuckboy into a good and loving man. Then realize that he knows that women think like this and it is part of his fuckboy routine to make us think that we can save him by loving him no matter how badly he treats us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 05:48 AM
5

"I fired two warning shots. In. To. His. Head."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 04:53 AM
3

Why would he want to keep her around? She has no boobs! \s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 04:51 AM
2

these women outright inform them that they KNOW they will age also and have no interest in being with a man that views it as a bad thing That's powerful. Why live in fear trying to avoid something that is inevitable anyway. Why be with a man who feels justified to leave you because you were unable to stop time? A man who will blame you for something you had no control over?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 04:35 AM
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Also Joan Baez. Whenever someone mentions 'the wall' I think of her. She is in her 70's and beautiful as ever. Happy and carefree. Also a great inspiration when it comes to taking no cr*p. She is the woman who turned down Bob Dylan himself because he didn't treat her right with his rock star manners. And he spend the rest of his life writing songs of regret while she went on to create a wonderful life for herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 04:31 AM
3

Precisely. The younger you are the easier you are to impress and less likely to see through bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 04:25 AM
1

How were you able to withstand that level of charm? You must have a heart of stone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 04:19 PM
8

Perhaps by 'cool' they mean 'really good at giving oral'?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 04:14 PM
3

It's not our job to educate or change them or make them understand anything. We just need to avoid them and spend our time and energy on more worthy men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 02:46 PM
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r/FemaleDatingStrategy is an emotional self defence class, same as you might take krav maga classes to learn how to defend yourself against physical violence. This screenshot perfectly demonstrates why this is necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 05:43 AM
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He probably paid some pua internet guru good money for teaching him that rudeness will make women swoon all over the place. No wonder that these guys are so angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 05:58 AM
3

So girls, what should I do to attract a good partner? A good start would be to stop rating your own value on a one dimensional numeric scale. You don't want to see yourself through the lens of an immature incel. I know it is very popular, but I can't help thinking that it is self defeating to adopt other people's standards. Make your own standard. What do you think constitute a good person? What are your own values, who do you want to be? A good partner for you will have the same values as you a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 05:30 AM
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​ 'Your makeup looks NICE. Did it take you a LONG time to do THAT?' "What an inappropriate thing to say. Are you always socially awkward or is it only when you are around women?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 05:22 AM
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