PopeIzalith Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Are Story Reactions an Invitation to Talk?	Fundamentals	PopeIzalith	/r/seduction	04/08/20 08:10 PM
3	My Favorite Piece of Advice	Fundamentals	PopeIzalith	/r/seduction	23/07/20 09:33 PM
1	How to take back the power?		PopeIzalith	/r/seduction	22/09/19 12:35 AM

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1	Eye contact when the other person doesn't break it first "Does making eye contact with guys make me gay?!" ffs dude are you serious?	/r/seduction	12/10/20 06:39 PM
2	How to gain a girl’s interest on a date? What are some things that could be done in order to very lightly escalate things and aim things even more into a romantic/sexual direction - for her to become even more attracted or interested? Having fun and laughing together is the best way to build attraction. You can only really have fun when you're in a relaxed and easy state. Just stay relaxed and be playful. Keep an eye out for signs of attraction through her body language and tone in her voice. Lot's of eye contact and smiling! Don't get…	/r/seduction	26/08/20 05:26 PM
2	Just a small "Hi" When malls were still open, I would take some time and walk around and try to smile and make eye contact with as many people as possible. The results were incredible and surprising! It's amazing how many people are caught off guard and actually smile back. I started getting compliments "you have such a nice smile" "you have nice eyes". Now with masks I had to move from the smile to actually saying "Hi" and greeting people. Interestingly, this has now opened up a lot more conversation. Usually go…	/r/seduction	25/08/20 06:54 PM
-5	Muted Girl [18] I Just Want A Boyfriend... You're confusing "common" with "normal".	/r/seduction	21/08/20 04:21 PM
1	What is the difference between being creepy and flirty. Creepiness is an objective factor; it is not subjective to the girl. If you act normally and reasonably and the girl thinks you are a creep, that is her problem, not yours. I feel like anyone who has spent time talking to women have had that moment where one woman says "I think he's cute" and her friend goes "Eh, I think he was kinda creepy." Who's to say who was right? Creepiness is a perception, it's not a state of being. While it's true that certain actions are going to seem creepy to most wo…	/r/seduction	17/08/20 09:40 PM
4	How to Handle “What are We?” / “Where are We Going?” There's guys all over the place that have agreed to a commitment they didn't really want because they were afraid of how she might react. The worst thing you can do is start lying to women about what you want because you're fearful they're going to leave. Once you start down that road you're not going to have a good time, and this is how toxic relationships form. Honesty is always the best course when the question of commitment comes up. If she decides to stop dating you so be it. It's not fair …	/r/seduction	04/08/20 07:06 PM
4	Is it normal for girls to lose interest quickly if you don't make a move? Experience helps a lot, which is why I always recommend doing some casual dating with multiple women to build that repetition. I also recommend only dating people with a high level of interest in you, because when people really like you they make it pretty easy for you.	/r/seduction	01/08/20 07:00 PM
61	Is it normal for girls to lose interest quickly if you don't make a move? We made eye contact for longer than usual and I could see her look down at my lips and back to my eyes. This is the classic non-verbal cue to go for the kiss. Remember it for future reference. She actually ended up cutting the date short saying her friend texted her saying she needed her help. After this she basically ended up ghosting me. Yeah she bailed on you mid-date, that's a sign of low attraction. She was feeling happy and attracted to you but when you failed to make the move she lost tha…	/r/seduction	31/07/20 10:35 PM
79	Too many people are missing the point The line between sales and dating is very thin. They're both ultimately about relationships with people.	/r/seduction	30/07/20 03:53 PM
3	Too many people are missing the point Excellent post! I also recommend "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie and "How to be a 3% Man" by Corey Wayne. You hit the exact point that all of these books highlight: attraction is a lifestyle, it's not a selection of certain phrases and actions.	/r/seduction	30/07/20 03:53 PM
2	Today I learn something Good self reflection! A lot of guys would just be pissed and not take the time to analyze his surroundings. Confidence is key, but can sometimes come off as aggression. Time and place make all the difference!	/r/seduction	26/07/20 06:00 PM
26	Have a life and they will flock to you, insane how fast it works When a woman starts blowing me off, I do lose interest.	/r/seduction	24/07/20 12:16 AM
75	Have a life and they will flock to you, insane how fast it works The line between dating and sales is very thin. They're both ultimately about relationships with people.	/r/seduction	23/07/20 09:13 PM
401	Have a life and they will flock to you, insane how fast it works I’m guessing it was a combination of not asking her about our failed Monday plans, hanging out with my female friend, and just removing myself a little bit. But man was the change in her attitude towards me sharp and sudden. Scarcity creates value. You have to give women the space to choose you. When someone starts blowing you off, you have to stop asking to see them. If they're interested they'll start chasing you before long.	/r/seduction	23/07/20 06:29 PM
2	Sexual desire differing majorly from day to day? Libido sways naturally, especially as you get older. As long as you aren’t having trouble getting the general to stand at attention, I wouldn’t worry.	/r/seduction	23/07/20 03:31 AM
3	How does one express to a woman that he like her without being or acting needy? Please don't take this advice, OP. This is a massive waste of time. You want to date people who show a high level of interest in you. If you follow this route you're going to wasting a ton of time trying to hint at something that you're just not confident enough to say directly. It's needy and weak behavior. Mature adults don't have a problem being direct about their attraction, because they're not afraid of being rejected. If a woman is really interested in you, she's going to go out with you i…	/r/seduction	20/07/20 05:52 PM
6	How does one express to a woman that he like her without being or acting needy? The fastest and least needy way to let a woman know you're interested in her is to ask them on a date. You're both letting her know that you're interested and you're testing the waters to see if she's interested. Don't communicate indirectly, you're not a child. This is fastest way to the friend zone. Men of high value and confidence don't dance around hoping to win the approval of someone. Don't be ashamed of your attraction to her. Strike up a conversation, get her laughing, offer a compliment…	/r/seduction	20/07/20 05:45 PM
1	"Never Chase a Girl" I'm not sure I ever used the word "game" and it has nothing to with insecurity. It has everything to do with placing a high value on yourself and on your time. It's true that chasing women can turn them off, but that's not why you shouldn't chase. You shouldn't chase because your time is valuable and if someone isn't respecting your time or what you have to offer you should be focusing your time elsewhere.	/r/seduction	15/07/20 07:59 PM
1	Does height matter? I’m also 5’6’’, was also told when I was 18 I’d probably grow to 6’0’’ but it never happened. I’m not going to lie and say that it doesn’t matter, there are a lot of women who really want a tall guy and I’ve received some rejection because of that. But it’s never really slowed me down, for all the girls who don’t like my height there’s even more girls who are shorter than me, extremely hot, and aren’t bothered by my height. I’m pretty successful with women because I make sure to focus on my othe…	/r/seduction	11/07/20 08:11 PM
6	"Never Chase a Girl" Tip 3: Do this if she doesn’t respond Normally, you send a text or call a woman a couple of days after meeting her. If she doesn’t respond, wait one day and text something funny and filled with confidence: You missed out on me yesterday, baby. You and I had a really great connection. And I was really looking forward to it. The funnier you can make it, the better. Humor takes off the pressure in a relationship. And then don’t ask her anything but let her respond instead. That’s how you come from …	/r/seduction	10/07/20 06:42 PM
2	How can I be less meek and more in control of my dates? The first two dates your main problem is that you're going out with girls that you're not that interested in. You might not even realize it, but people start to pick up on that and it lowers their attraction towards you. You should only be going out with people that you're excited to see and that are excited to see you - that's how you have an effortless good time with someone and that builds attraction. But literally as the conversation was getting to us talking about how we lost our virginitie…	/r/seduction	09/07/20 11:04 PM
10	How are you all doing with day game and meeting people in person during the pandemic? Interestingly, I've actually found that a lot of women I've been encountering are even friendlier than usual. It might have something to do with the general lack of social contact everyone is experiencing right now. I used to get the occasional compliment on my smile, but recently I've been getting more creative compliments and more frequently. The other day a woman said "I really like your personality!" Kind of unusual compliment but that's what made it nice. Most importantly, masks have been a…	/r/seduction	09/07/20 10:44 PM
3	Guys who started going on dates and getting it with attractive women, what is your secret? Be the best version of yourself that you can be. Don't do it for the women, do it for yourself because you deserve to reach your full potential. Get your health and career goals set and go for them. Only spend time pursuing women with a high interest in you. A lot of guys get bogged down chasing really hot women that are on the fence about them because they're afraid they won't find anyone hotter. The reality is that there are a plethora of really attractive women and the more time you spend cha…	/r/seduction	09/07/20 07:04 PM
2	If you’re still single, you should never cut ties with any woman unless she explicitly says she’s disinterested. Have to disagree here. Nobody should be telling off women that reject you, but if she’s showing signs of low attraction you should absolutely cut your losses and move on. If she reaches out months later (showing signs of interest) then make a date. But it’s poor advice to wait around and simp over women who aren’t making the effort to see you. Never chase. Never simp.	/r/seduction	30/06/20 07:39 PM
2	Having trouble understanding how to actually seduce via conversation. Getting over rejections was the hardest part for me - congrats on moving beyond that fear! Most women know within a few minutes of meeting you if they're attracted to you. Not to toot my own horn, but I'm considered a great conversationalist by my boss, employees, family, friends, and romantic interests. To my dismay, no amount of good or interesting conversation can create that initial attraction. Rather the conversation is about screening women to find someone who is both interesting and inter…	/r/seduction	20/05/20 11:28 PM
2	What if a girl reachs out but then doesn't actively partecipate to the convo? Whenever she reaches out, send 1-3 texts max then ask her out. Text convos are not great, you should be working to get some face to face convo because that’s where attraction is easiest. If she can’t see you due to COVID, offer a FaceTime date.	/r/seduction	15/05/20 08:38 PM
1	A Fix for conversations “drying up” Definitely true that guys spend too much time talking and not enough time making dates. But I don’t ascribe to telling women when and where the first date is - in my experience you’re more likely to get a yes if you ask “when are you free this week” and make a date in 2-3 days. The rest of what you said still applies. If she says “I’ll think about it” or “idk when I’m free” then it’s a no and you should move on to someone who wants to see you. Circle back around in a week and ask again. If you g…	/r/seduction	27/04/20 09:19 PM
5	Difference between conversation and seduction? Give me examples of what you would say when seducing. Be bold and playful. Eye contact is really important. My favorite thing to do is to have a nice conversation with lots of eye contact and laughing. When there’s a lull I just let the silence takeover. then I just smile at her and if she smiles back I say “I think you need to come over here and kiss me” 99% of the time she’ll walk over and kiss you. Kissing leads to heavy petting which leads to...well you know the rest.	/r/seduction	26/04/20 07:36 AM
3	Lay low during this quarantine Skip the convo and ask to come over. If he says no, find someone who will.	/r/seduction	19/04/20 05:22 AM
2	Lay low during this quarantine While y’all are leaving your women on read I’m having them over for drinks and dinner. 1 on 1 dates are fine, even during quarantine.	/r/seduction	19/04/20 04:51 AM
7	Don't I've heard from all my exes this week....been a pretty busy quarantine.....	/r/seduction	25/03/20 03:37 PM
1	We all know we can't make a girl attracted to us. So if the girl is attracted to us, what's the point in gaming her? For me anyway “gaming” is just screening (for lack of a better word) incompatible women who I have attraction with. It’s a question of time. You don’t want to spend time chasing women who aren’t compatible just because they’re attracted to you. Not all women respect space, have good habits or good relationships, etc.	/r/seduction	06/03/20 06:37 PM
3	Texting in between dates 1 date a week, and I wouldn’t even worry about texting in between dates until things develop more. If she wants to hear from you more, she’ll reach out or let you know.	/r/seduction	01/02/20 09:59 PM
9	Texting in between dates Whoever told you that is a fool. Let her come to you. Nothing turns a girl off faster than a needy/clingy guy. If you want to talk to her, that’s fine, but never get to a place where you are texting a girl because you feel like you need to. You should only really be concerned about initiating the dates: that’s where real conversation occurs and where attraction works.	/r/seduction	01/02/20 08:23 PM
8	Here we go again. Same problem many of us have. Huge oneitis. Again. Why? How do we stop it? I want to emphasize this for OP: A FUCK LOAD. When you start really approaching a lot of women you start getting more dates and seeing higher quality women. But you gotta put the effort in.	/r/seduction	26/11/19 08:50 PM
6	You've waited all week for Friday... I usually just smoke weed and watch Princess Mononoke.....	/r/seduction	04/10/19 11:51 PM
71	Friendly tip. If she doesn’t do this when you offer up a day to do something she’s just not interested. Move on. Women will offer up alternatives if they can’t when you ask them out This is great advice, especially for guys just starting out. Flakiness is a natural reaction for people if their interest is low, especially women. This method helps filter out women with low attraction because if she really wants to see you she will reschedule or offer an alternative. No fence sitters! You have to view your time as a valuable resource Spend your time with people who appreciate that value. If someone wastes your time, they don’t appreciate its value.	/r/seduction	03/10/19 01:41 AM
5	delivery guy flirting with me? I was a delivery guy for a couple years and seeing/flirting with pretty receptionists was the only thing that made it tolerable! Some of them would flirt back, some wouldn't but it was always fun. They would usually start by making fun of my in some small way "Looks like you're struggling there boss, need some help?"or would compliment me in some way. Got a few dates out of it!	/r/seduction	13/09/19 09:54 PM
7	I aSked For CoNsEnt aNd sHe GoT mAd Sorry to break it to ya’ll but I’m OP and this happened to me. It’s not a lie. You can believe what you want, but I asked for consent and she reacted very strangely. I’ve never had someone react that way - so I wanted to ask others (especially women) if they think asking for consent is really worthy of that kind of reaction. I didn’t ask because I was hoping to have justification to not ask consent in the future - I asked because I believe in asking for consent. I thought it wasn’t as weird as s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/19 05:06 PM