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I'm the same, but in reverse. It's real easy to see things that support your own narrative and not notice things that don't. Unfortunately I don't have a good solution. Best I can say is interact with a lot of trustworthy men (male family members if applicable at all). I know I don't really trust the women in my family, so it may also be difficult for you if you have similar issues. Good luck
/r/ExRedPill04/04/24 03:49 AM
2

Anonymity reveals what people are actually like. If they act like this when they aren't afraid of consequences, I think that's all you really need to know about them.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/03/23 11:31 AM
1

You're in for a rude awakening my dude.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/12/22 10:21 PM
1

Same, I'm only ever going to pursue men since I'm lucky enough to be bi.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/12/22 10:10 PM
1

I mean, if men's experiences are constantly invalidated, how would you know. There is no way they would open up if this is the reception.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/12/22 10:01 PM
7

Unfortunately no. He would have gotten in trouble, that's how it plays out when it's a woman's word or a mans.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/12/22 09:59 PM
2

Agreed, it says "I trust you". But ultimately, nobody should put the reigns to their life in anyone else's hands.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 05:44 PM
4

Possibly, but I've seen what the above comments describe repeatedly. Honestly, I keep women in my life as just friends so nothing gets ruined. Women aren't all bad, but relationships bring out the worst in them I've noticed.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 05:40 PM
3

I laugh whenever I'm reminded
/r/MensRights29/11/22 03:12 PM
4

Npc's
/r/MensRights29/11/22 03:10 PM
2

I'd appreciate a heads up when you do, I wanna see the fireworks and hypocrisy.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 03:10 PM
2

Spelled it wrong, my bad.
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 02:46 PM
2

Antenatalist?
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 02:43 PM
1

This comment is so chaotic
/r/MensRights24/11/22 02:07 PM
6

I feel so disillusioned by these things, especially when I see my fellow men defending this.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 10:16 AM
3

I've been making a concerted effort to give encouragement to any men I see struggling. I find something they seem to be doing well at and tell them that it looks like they are doing a good job. I offer a ear for them to talk and I genuinely listen. They usually open up a bit and then I can offer more specific encouragements. I know that when similar things have been done for me, even by a stranger, it's helped me to be motivated to continue improving my situation and in the long term, my overall…
/r/MensRights18/11/22 05:49 PM
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A relationship is a waste of time with them
/r/AntiFeminists18/11/22 03:04 AM
1

Agreed
/r/MensRights18/11/22 02:57 AM
1

It's entirely possible I'm wrong and just really unlucky, but the worst people I know are women. It's also possible I'm just biased from past experiences. Whatever the case is, I don't want to deal with them, and they don't need to have me be a part of their life. I've tried to just let it go, but there is only so many men I can watch be ruined before I want to avoid entirely. Sorry bout the dump, I'm just mad, but more so dissapointed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/11/22 02:44 AM
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I give up on women
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/11/22 01:36 AM
1

You're excused
/r/PussyPass17/11/22 10:53 PM
1

Precisely
/r/PussyPass17/11/22 10:52 PM
1

Same
/r/PussyPass17/11/22 10:50 PM
1

See this? This is why I will never get with a woman. Absolutely callous people.
/r/PussyPass17/11/22 10:49 PM
3

That's how it goes, never any compassion
/r/PussyPass17/11/22 10:47 PM
1

I'm sure another girl could come along and help.
/r/PussyPass17/11/22 10:42 PM
1

It's most certainly not the same thing
/r/PussyPass17/11/22 10:41 PM
1

Nobody is owed anything. I certainly would avoid putting myself in a situation with "sharks".
/r/PussyPass17/11/22 10:40 PM
6

That last one is relatable
/r/AntiFeminists15/11/22 10:58 AM
0

Why?
/r/ExRedPill15/11/22 08:55 AM
1

This comment section makes me happy
/r/MensRights15/11/22 07:58 AM
1

I suppose some, but I haven't really seen it
/r/MensRights15/11/22 07:54 AM
1

Same here
/r/MensRights15/11/22 07:52 AM
1

Glad to hear it.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 07:50 AM
1

I'm with ya on that
/r/MensRights15/11/22 07:48 AM
1

I'm a bi man, definitely not prominent though.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 07:35 AM
1

I've definitely noticed this, it's kinda infuriating.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 07:12 AM
1

I suppose I can see your point. I do have a "but" though, these types of people are unlikely to change to begin with. Staying around to try and change them is fruitless and will likely lead to a degradation of your own life; you have to, in the end, prioritize yourself. The options are basically stay at the cost of yourself without benefit, or leave and cut your losses. I've lived with abusive people and your chances of winning the lottery are greater than your chances of changing them for the b…
/r/MensRights21/10/22 11:17 AM
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In a world with principles, these women would be left behind by anyone with dignity. Their punishment and the thing that will steer them away from what they're doing would be looking around and realizing anyone who ever loved them, left them. I'm not saying that they are beyond "salvation" I'm just saying don't toss pearls before swine. I'm not willing to hurt myself to help such garbage people and I don't think you should either.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 11:12 PM
3

Yes, by avoiding women lol
/r/MensRights20/10/22 11:01 PM
2

She isn't likely to change their minds, nor is it her responsibility to do so. She should encourage the men to get out of the relationships and then ghost
/r/MensRights20/10/22 11:00 PM
1

Why? If I'm nice to someone, they don't owe me anything. Nobody owes anyone anything, but it's nice if they do return a kindness. I don't go out of my way being nice to get something in return. If I'm nice to someone and they are nice to me, I would not want any of that to be some sort of obligation. What you describe is a transactional relationship and not something genuine. I'll help people because I want to, not because they are a woman lol.
/r/MensRights13/10/22 06:51 AM
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What do we owe
/r/MensRights12/10/22 02:42 PM
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I appreciate your encouragement
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 03:53 PM
1

That's bullshit and you know it
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 03:47 PM
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Let me ask you a question. In a society that views women as sugar, spice and everything nice, or some shit, how likely is it that unflattering statistics would even be researched, when so many people refuse to even think that there are negative aspects to women or ask unflattering questions. I personally know several men who have been accused, used and ruined by this stuff.
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 03:45 PM
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TF are you talking about? See, you're being intentionally obstinate
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 03:36 PM
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I'm not talking about the media
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 03:31 PM
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You're being unnecessarily difficult. I don't need to write a peer reviewed paper with various forms of evidence, to prove its raining outside when it's raining. Sure, having papers and statistics done is a good thing, but not having that done is not a reason to dismiss a claim outright... Especially when there is clear evidence right in front of you. Imagine if a lot of people were dressing up as clowns and having seizures in the middle of the road at 3am every night. Imagine if lots of people …
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 03:28 PM
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Maybe listen to the many men who get absolutely reamed by accusations. I mean come on, you don't even have to believe them to see the unethical and biased ways the courts handle these cases.
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 03:09 PM
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It is
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 03:04 PM
2

Things are changing, but things aren't that fair for men yet.
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 03:02 PM
1

I never said they shouldn't have consequences, I just think we should be there to help them get back up. It's up to them if they decide to keep making the same mistakes, but we should help each other in the pursuit of self improvement. Together we can be strong, divided we are weak.
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 10:03 AM
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True! You'd think that if these people actually believed what they say, they would think this victim/helpless mentality is degrading and insulting.
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 09:26 AM
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It's a distinction that I haven't heard explored as much as it needs to be.
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 09:22 AM
2

Good point. Someone who is loyal, is someone who remains by your side, even when they become self sufficient. They care about you, not a lifestyle or hedonistic materialism you provide.
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 09:20 AM
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Men are expected to provide, if they aren't providing, they're seen as defective in a way; they're "bums".
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 09:13 AM
2

Right on
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 09:08 AM
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I think he does. Everyone makes stupid choices, and there is no good reason to kick em while they're down. Let's be supportive to our fellow men.
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 09:07 AM
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It's shit like this that makes me never want to marry. It's just to risky and has to little in the way of benefits.
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 09:05 AM
10

An obvious case of cognitive dissonance
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 09:03 AM
2

With the way shes reacting and her dismissive attitude, I'm not surprised he didn't tell her about his SA.
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 09:02 AM
3

Yup, damned if you do, and damned if you dont; double binds.
/r/MensRights14/08/22 01:32 AM
1

I didn't know until now
/r/MensRights14/08/22 01:29 AM
4

I love this, thanks for sharing.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 12:41 PM
0

Ohhhhhhh!
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 02:09 PM
1

Ok
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 01:26 PM
1

Id recommend deriving worth from your own approval, do things YOU think are worth doing, improve in ways YOU believe will make you a better person and so on. If you base your self worth on what other people want, you'll never succeed at being "worthy". You will always find someone who dislikes/disagrees with most everything you do, so you'll always be chasing an ever shifting goal post. Just try to be something YOU can be proud of and you'll find people who like you for that.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 11:54 AM
0

Ah, I see. I think there are some less desirable traits that remain in women, regardless of age, but I'd say that the average 20yo man is roughly the same maturity as a 25yo woman. I'm not sure it's exactly linear though. Perhaps in early adolescence, girls are farther along than boys. I think maybe it has to do with women, generally speaking, not being held accountable to the same degree that men are. Interesting questions!
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 06:51 AM
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Yeah, I said that expecting to get downvoted. I generally think the way they behave is rather child like. I see a lack of accountability, self control and overall maturity. Pretty much why I avoid dating to be honest.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 06:08 AM
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Not exactly ex-rp. I do see women as human, just not really adults.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 01:47 AM
2

I can imagine. He said much the same.
/r/MensRights02/08/22 07:11 PM
2

Ah, makes sense. I also heard from a friend that it's a bit more difficult simply because the demographic is smaller.
/r/MensRights02/08/22 07:00 PM
1

I'm genuinely curious what kind of issues there are in dating other men. How does it differ from straight dating do you think?
/r/MensRights02/08/22 05:08 PM
1

Agreed
/r/MensRights02/08/22 05:05 PM
3

Been that way since 15 years old
/r/MensRights02/08/22 04:36 PM
2

Sexual, physical, mental, emotional... you get the idea
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 05:38 AM
1

Interesting, glad you started coming to these conclusions on your own.
/r/MensRights22/07/22 04:18 PM
2

Was similar to you, went mgtow at about your age. I'm 20 now and have had relationship opportunities, but I didn't chose to follow through on any because none were what I wanted. I'll say this, develop standards and don't accept any women as partners who you aren't sure you're safe around. As a man, you are at high risk, so be cautious. Don't be paranoid, be smart.
/r/MensRights22/07/22 04:51 AM
1

Lol, nah
/r/AntiFeminists19/07/22 03:17 PM
1

That trust thing is definitely a hard one
/r/AntiFeminists19/07/22 01:35 PM
2

Jesus Christ, that's despicable. Sucks that happened to you.
/r/AntiFeminists19/07/22 01:34 PM
1

Definitely relate to the cry thing. When something goes wrong, I just go numb and sometimes depersonalize/dissociate. Weed makes me depersonalize/dissociate without fail unfortunately.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 08:56 PM
2

Sucks you had to experienced something similar to me, hope you're far along your path of recovery.What methods for healing exactly? I'm intrigued if you have any ideas I haven't already entertained.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 07:53 PM
3

Sexual physical and mental abuse. I would also get "food privileges" revoked lol.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 07:31 PM
3

Isn't that nice
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:34 AM
3

Mhhhh
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:33 AM
3

Straw man
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:31 AM
5

I'm aware
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:30 AM
2

Cool
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:28 AM
4

Not really
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:11 AM
3

It's funny you think it's comparable
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:07 AM
4

I hope you're right
/r/MensRights09/07/22 10:20 AM
4

Fun fact, this did happen to me. No, it would not make me empathetic to them.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 10:09 AM
2

That's bizarre
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/22 05:59 AM
2

As someone who plans to get a vasectomy, I agree. Men should get it knowing the risks and that choice should be their own, nobody else's and least of all, a woman's. Imagine how much women would bemoan a man demanding women get sterilized, while at the same time, spreading misinformation regarding the procedure. Absolute hypocrisy!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/22 05:56 AM
5

They're to dumb to see the irony
/r/MensRights07/07/22 12:52 AM
11

Exactly. Honestly, I've gotten more shame from women for showing emotions... but no, they want to victim blame.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 12:34 AM
2

I'm with you on that. I would prefer a more "masculine" women that shows strength, integrity and honor. I'm still RP, simply becouse I have yet to meet a woman who is like that beyond just a front.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 10:11 PM
1

Ohhhhh!
/r/MensRights01/07/22 09:58 PM
15

Thanks. It really should have been more clear
/r/MensRights01/07/22 09:16 PM
2

Reel it in my guy. I think we understand where your coming from.
/r/MensRights01/07/22 06:37 AM
1

Go back to TwoX.
/r/MensRights27/06/22 05:29 PM
1

Well, you were eluding to him being responsible for their behavior.
/r/MensRights27/06/22 05:14 PM
1

Yes you do
/r/MensRights27/06/22 05:09 PM
1

Ah yes, it's the man's fault every time.
/r/MensRights27/06/22 05:08 PM
1

Yessssss
/r/MensRights27/06/22 05:02 PM
3

How?
/r/MensRights26/06/22 05:45 AM
5

Good response
/r/MensRights25/06/22 06:36 PM
8

This seems to be the case from my observation.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 06:33 PM
3

It's almost funny if it weren't sad.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 01:56 AM
1

Jesus
/r/MensRights25/06/22 01:54 AM
5

Well, by asking this question, you're definitely doing better than most imo.
/r/MensRights23/06/22 02:19 PM
1

Lol
/r/MensRights19/06/22 08:38 PM
8

I can see how it would come across that way. No, I'm not being sarcastic. Your comment made me squee.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 08:35 PM
5

Adorable
/r/MensRights19/06/22 08:33 PM
3

Hah! Rather telling ain't it?
/r/MensRights19/06/22 07:14 PM
1

Yup
/r/MensRights19/06/22 07:13 PM
1

Well, we have that option, but we won't be successful.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 07:06 PM
2

Hah! Good on you, man.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 01:47 AM
3

Wtf
/r/MensRights17/06/22 08:30 PM
2

Tell the same thing to women lol
/r/MensRights17/06/22 08:28 PM
7

Glad youre able to see things as they are, unfortunately, this can't be said about many.
/r/MensRights17/06/22 08:25 PM
6

You're joking right?
/r/MensRights15/06/22 12:04 AM
5

Hah! Nice
/r/MensRights15/06/22 12:02 AM
13

It's always "not a big deal" if you're a man.
/r/MensRights13/06/22 08:15 AM
8

That's infuriating
/r/MensRights13/06/22 08:13 AM
1

Alright, I can side with you on that.
/r/MensRights11/06/22 12:39 PM
1

Well you're a piece of work aren't ya?
/r/MensRights11/06/22 12:27 PM
1

I tend to see it as a hate movement
/r/MensRights11/06/22 12:26 PM
2

Yup. Many men don't come forward because they'll get shamed. Look at some of the women that are lamenting the Amber Heard and Johnny Depp trial. "This is a huge setback for women." Men are systematically silenced because a win for men, is seen as a loss for women.
/r/MensRights11/06/22 12:14 PM
1

That in and of itself should tell you that the social narrative is biased against men; the very reason why MRA is necessary.
/r/MensRights11/06/22 12:05 PM
2

I'd say the further they drift one way or the other the more misandristic they are. Highly conservative women are almost as infuriating as highly liberal women.
/r/MensRights11/06/22 11:40 AM
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I can't say I've ever met a woman in person that isn't at least a little misandristic. None of the women in my life are in support of MRA's, at least as far as I'm aware.
/r/MensRights11/06/22 11:27 AM
1

I'm not sure I agree entirely. I think trans people of any kind shouldn't have to deal with some of the shit that they do. Where I have a little bit of an issue, is the hijacking of MRA groups to benefit women. I'm not saying people shouldn't support trans women, It just leaves a bad taste in my mouth trying to twist the narrative of men's rights to be about women. Ya feel?
/r/MensRights11/06/22 11:24 AM
1

A small part of it. The majority comes from christian boomers though.
/r/MensRights11/06/22 11:04 AM
1

This is why I'm very careful about the women I interact with.
/r/MensRights11/06/22 10:56 AM
1

Yeah, I got banned there for commenting here.
/r/MensRights11/06/22 10:50 AM
1

I can agree with that
/r/MensRights11/06/22 10:42 AM
1

Lol. Unfortunately, I and I think more men than not, want more than just sex. To me, if I don't have a partner I feel I can love and trust, it's not worth much at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:10 AM
7

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:50 AM
2

That's reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:39 AM
1

Interesting. I'm glad I joined this subreddit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/22 09:32 PM
1

Friendly misandrist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:22 PM
1

From your perspective, what would you say is different between interaction with men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:20 PM
1

Sounds like fun hehehe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:17 PM
3

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:14 PM
2

Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:11 PM
0

I just wanted you to clarify, I wasn't entirely sure I understood what you meant
/r/MensRights23/05/22 01:38 PM
0

What do you mean?
/r/MensRights23/05/22 01:31 PM
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That's a problem in and of itself
/r/MensRights23/05/22 01:27 PM
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