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| 1 | Ex girlfriend travels to Bali with her best Female friend after breakupCan the main sub be easily found if it’s quarantined? | /r/newTRP | 20/06/22 07:24 PM |
| 6 | Are you supposed to not respond to texts during a soft next?Hard next is completely cutting them off and moving on, so this would be blocking her on all platforms and never speaking to her again. Soft next is more akin to a punishment for bad behaviour. During soft next the idea is that you do not reply to any of the messages, calls or any type of actions that would seek to get your attention. From what you have said, this girl would be a hard next for me, sounds like real petty drama but if you think you can deal with this kind of behaviour or hopefully… | /r/newTRP | 27/04/22 01:21 AM |
| 5 | Girl I am exclusive with was asked to a dateWould be, could be, should be. But your not. Just ignore it, have fun with other girls and keep her as a plate. If she thinks she can do that kind of stuff then so can you. Unless you have actually caught oneitis for this girl then there shouldn’t be a problem for you. | /r/newTRP | 14/11/21 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Girl didn't bring money to dateI don’t know why some guys here take women to first or second dates to a restaurant. My go-to was taking them to a coffee shop in the afternoon around sunset time and if the date was going well I would pay for the coffees because the cost of 2 coffees if negligible to me. Half the time most girls paid for their coffee anyway. The coffee shop was close to a beach so I would suggest taking a nice stroll across the beach which usually set up the perfect opportunity for kino and escalation. If there… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 12:31 AM |
| 2 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksI don’t like it either and don’t think it should be happening It’s possible she’s a loyal chick That’s your hamster fighting against your conscience. She is crossing boundaries and she knows it. Women know what they are doing and women know the difference between acceptable and unacceptable behaviors. Her texting behind your back and texting a guy to catch up are 2 things that she fully knows is not loyal behavior and you’re setting a precedent by putting up with it. You have plenty of reason to… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 06:07 AM |
| 1 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksDude, you have plenty of replies here all telling you the same thing. Sure you don’t have proof but if you’ve learnt anything from TRP, you would assume she HAS fucked this dude and wants to fuck him again. Toss the relationship or don’t. It’s up to you, not us on what you’re prepared to put up with. If this is a problem then listen to the advice people are giving. If her behavior is NOT a problem for you then was it necessary to make this post? I already know the answer. You need to decide weth… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 05:59 AM |
| 6 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksLet me throw a different perspective or scenario at you. Why does she want to sacrifice her time and resources for him when she could and should be doing that for you? Any women that wants to spend time with man “friends” instead of spending that time with you like going out somewhere or doing something interesting is red flag city. It either paints a picture that you are not that interesting to do things with or he is more interesting and better to spend time with. Flip the script, ask yourself… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Can men and women be friends? Hooked up with a good friend..You overcommitted too early. You caught oneitis after a ONS. You have no abundance mentality. You reek of scarcity mentality and insecurity. She seen it, she ran. Don’t be a cuck and continue chasing this chick while she’s getting another mans load. You will not be able to salvage this, anytime soon or ever. Go back to the sidebar and improve. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 05:17 AM |
| 22 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksThe telltale signs of oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 04:55 AM |
| 18 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksu/gomen01 is bang on the money although it should be a hard next. She has this guy at arms length ready to branch swing incase he ever wants to “explore his feelings for her” which is what she is secretly wanting to happen. You’ve got to be blind to the fact that he is a millionaire with a lavish as fuck lifestyle and she “wants sum of dat.” Why else would she linger around this guy so much. This is AWALT and HYPERGAMY 101 for sure. You tell me one sane woman on this earth that wouldn’t want a p… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 04:52 AM |
| 7 | I can't seem to get over my ex girlfriend even after a long time why am I so stuck on her?I remember reading a really good comment way back when on this sub when someone else came asking a similar question. It was something along the lines of: If you live in the past you will be miserable, if you live in the future as if hoping something will happen between you both again you will forever be anxious. You need to live in the now, experience many things and enjoy life and fill your mind with new memories wether that be life experiences or meeting new women. Reflection is ok, but don’t … | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 12:24 PM |
| 5 | How do you go w meeting her parents?I second the above comment. Be yourself and show respect and simple manners. That’s what most parents look for and that’s the only tools you have. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 11:11 AM |
| 3 | LTR mentioned how they are struggling that I am shorter than themRead the sidebar some more on the main sub. There is plenty of material there and there is a good post titled “Please break up with me”. Go have a read. The sub won’t allow me to share a link to it. She is basically telling you to break up with her. She needs the hamster to spin and rationalise it easily so she is the victim. Women are not the ones that want to kill the puppy and they want to walk away from a relationship without feeling guilt. This is AWALT behaviour. Your LTR is basically begg… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 10:54 AM |
| 5 | Apparently it’s not statutory rape if you “feel” and “believe” he was older than 14. SMDH. Fuck these people.Must have been an adult man playing soccer with a bunch of children. Not obvious at all. Like seriously, either your dumb as fuck, or your a predator. Plain and simple. | /r/MensRights | 04/12/20 07:48 AM |
| 15 | Apparently it’s not statutory rape if you “feel” and “believe” he was older than 14. SMDH. Fuck these people.Maybe he did but last I checked, statutory rape is statutory rape regardless of consent. | /r/MensRights | 04/12/20 03:59 AM |
| 21 | Apparently it’s not statutory rape if you “feel” and “believe” he was older than 14. SMDH. Fuck these people.Yup, what bullshit is that and what teenager doesn’t lie about their age to use restricted websites or social media. Besides, I’m pretty sure this sick woman pretty much stalked this kid from a soccer game and invited them back to her place. I bet my bottom dollar she didn’t even look at his Facebook at all or even knew he had one before inviting these children to her house. | /r/MensRights | 04/12/20 03:57 AM |
| 18 | What is the most valuable/important self virtue for men who found red pill?Posting here to also back up this statement. Nothing turns you into a stoic man faster than taking responsibility for all success and failures in your life including but not limited to social, work-related, family and relationship failures. The sooner you acknowledge your failures, mistakes and shortfalls and take responsibility for them than putting it onto someone else then the more it matures you mentally and you can learn how to not repeat any of those mistakes or stupid decisions and it wil… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 04:40 AM |
| 20 | How do you respond to another guy asking your ltr to dance?Are you crazy? This is terrible advice. I’m almost inclined to believe you haven’t even read this post and comments properly or even read the sidebar for that matter. LTRs can engage in social conversation, whatever that’s fine. But that’s not the point, the point is if some dude comes up and asks your girl to dance, and she says yes and she goes on the D floor and starts grinding her ass on some strangers cock, are you just gonna sit there and watch? Go up to the feller and shake his hand and s… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Why can't people read the goddamn sidebar before asking questions here?Go to the red pill main page on reddit and go to community info which is what the side bar is or if on a desktop browser, the sidebar will be on the right hand side of the webpage. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/19 06:14 AM |
| 29 | Why can't people read the goddamn sidebar before asking questions here?It’s not your problem, man. That’s why a lot of repeated questions here that are already answered on the sidebar either go unanswered or are answered by people who don’t have any kind of firm grasp on TRP. Just scroll past them and not give a shit, use your time to benefit yourself than worry about the quality of posts on either sub and wasting time to rant over them. We were lucky enough to be here during the golden days of TRP. Now a lot of it is recycled field reports or guys that struggle to… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 06:05 AM |
| 5 | Soft Next'd an LTR, Whats Next?Yes if she asks why you were ignoring her just say you were busy, had important things to do and stuff you had to focus on. Then end the conversation and take it off topic to something else. Never let conversations about “why were you ignoring me?” Drag on. Amused mastery, short answer, divert to something else. Simple | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 08:52 AM |
| 10 | Soft Next'd an LTR, Whats Next?Absolutely not, it’s all in the delivery and your attitude to the matter. She has this yearning for “spending time with her family” so if you cancel under the reason that - 1) you’re not coming to see her anymore because she wants to spend time with her family and you’re just helping her out and giving her some more time (when in reality you don’t want to see her because she’s being disrespectful so what earns her the right for you to waste more time and energy to go visit her now after what she… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 08:46 AM |
| 22 | Soft Next'd an LTR, Whats Next?Listen to u/FuckboyAWALT advice, it’s currently most upvoted and justifiably so. Why couldn’t she spend time with her family before or after the trip, she took a big steamy disrespectful dump in your face, man. She knew full well the time, money and energy you invested in this for her to just pull the plug on it for a bullshit excuse like that. Fuck that noise dude. And who gives a fuck about her exam, she should have thought about that before dropping this on you in a blatant show of disrespect… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 08:04 AM |
| 7 | Asked to kiss. Second attempt at trying to kiss her failed.Never ask, just go for it; when in doubt err on the side of too much boldness rather than too little. However in saying that before you go for the kiss make sure all signs are positive beforehand and then when you’re leaning in and right up until your lips touch if you sense any kind of discomfort or red flags from her ABORT. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 06:33 AM |
| 6 | What is the best thing to do if you got an ONS pregnant on a vacation far away?Is this an asktrp question or a legaladvice question? Correct me if I’m wrong but if she’s in another country, as far as I am aware it’s a lot harder for her to squeeze money from you but I’m NAL. From a red pill perspective again if she’s in another country you won’t have to have much interaction with her anyway unless you wanna be spending a shitload of money to go back to where she is from to see your kid, as a man and potential father you got a lot of thinking to do. Also paternity test ASAP… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 05:44 AM |
| 5 | Girl I asked out once invited me and my new GF to a party...is this purely friendly?Take this advice. Just don’t go because you’re “busy” | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 04:15 AM |
| 32 | I can't fucking do it.Bro it takes longer than 6 months to internalize even half of the shit here and then even take the jump and start implementing it in your life, just take a step back from the microscope and relax. You’ve taken the first steps by being here, it’s baby steps from here until you’re running. Keep internalizing what you’ve been reading on the sidebar and then start trying your best to implement it in your day to day life. Where ever you fail, try and try again. You’re expecting to be able to create a… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 04:32 AM |
| 1 | I love youThis is the absolute best response, too many people underestimate this sentence. You can always turn a situation funny and completely off course, one of my favorite lines hands down. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Should I [M21] end it with her [F19] over these Red Flags?My advice to you is just slowly ghost her. If you’re keen to keep banging her, sure go ahead. She hasn’t displayed any behavioral traits that are bat shit crazy. She is just so far as you have described a compulsive white liar. But a red flag is indeed a red flag and if you have no intention to LtR her then just slowly fade outta her life. Cut back the times you guys hang out and fuck each week until it dwindles to zero and she moves on and you can replace her with another plate. If you feel as … | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 10:25 AM |
| 1 | I failed! LTR asks for permission to "have a coffee" with a fuckbuddy she used to date before. I didn't react well, how can I save this?I agree it’s not our business nor should we care. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 11:29 AM |
| 10 | I failed! LTR asks for permission to "have a coffee" with a fuckbuddy she used to date before. I didn't react well, how can I save this?I mean if we take the hatred and inappropriate words out of this guys response, it’s really not bad advice. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 07:53 AM |
| 10 | Broke the #1 rule, now a LTR with broken goodsThis is probably the best advice and only advice you need. OP; you said she was all green ticks before, just because she is “damaged goods” it doesn’t necessarily make her a bad person or shit LTR choice. There are very few exceptions of people coming from a bad place and turning their life around for the better and being amazing people. I know this because I am one of those people and I’ve met others. If she continues to treat you well then don’t sweat it. Just do you and be happy with the LTR … | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 11:13 AM |
| 1 | AskTRP, How do you earn money/what kind of job do you do?Tell me about it. I’m surprised the mods didn’t take it down. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 05:32 AM |
| -1 | AskTRP, How do you earn money/what kind of job do you do?Dude, why do you care what other people are doing with their lives on the internet? If you care that much go to askreddit. A lot of dudes on this sub wouldn’t even look twice at this post because they’re too busy spending their time improving their lives. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 12:37 PM |
| -1 | AskTRP, How do you earn money/what kind of job do you do?This isn’t the place for questions like this. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 11:38 AM |
| 2 | My LTR has a fuckload of beta orbiters.u/auvergant comment below hits the nail on the head. You’re at a point where this may not be salvageable however it’s worth trying because it seems you would benefit from learning dread and being a bit more assertive about the women you decide to date. In my experience you could dread the shit out of her and drop innuendos to try and correct her behavior. For example, the moment you see an example of what she is doing whilst she’s with you, wether it be in real life, TV or she mentions one of he… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 06:38 PM |
| 131 | My LTR has a fuckload of beta orbiters.Can’t agree with this comment anymore than I already do. Would upvote twice if I could. Any half decent LTR would drop their orbiters completely from the face of the earth and would only have the time of day for their Chad. They wouldn’t risk crossing the boundary and potentially losing Chad by continuing to communicate with their orbiters and disrespecting their man. This is something a LTR already knows to do. She doesn’t need to be told. Not to mention how she’s treating these guys to begin w… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Broke up with my LTR of 8 years...stuck in lease?If you got no money right now and I’m assuming you guys share the costs of the household. What are you going to do when one of you bounces from the household and you’re made to fend for yourself with full responsibility of YOUR bills + Child support? Sounds like all you’re doing is just running an inevitable clock down for no real good reason. At the end of the day man the hell up, take responsibility and figure out what action you’re going to take to get yourself out of the bullshit situation y… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 10:07 AM |
| 15 | Another day another AWALTFor context; This was the accused pleading to the judge who denied her bail. | /r/MGTOW | 18/12/18 11:17 PM |
| 9 | Seen this on FB and KNEW that the crazy feminists would go batshit over this.Always AWALT | /r/MGTOW | 04/12/18 04:49 AM |
| 12 | Seen this on FB and KNEW that the crazy feminists would go batshit over this.This is only a handful of comments taken from a comment thread. No joke, if the tables were turned men would be torn apart for making comments like this. https://imgur.com/a/BKjcXVd | /r/MGTOW | 04/12/18 04:45 AM |
| 37 | It’s catching on...Wheres Red Dead 2? | /r/MGTOW | 27/11/18 04:47 AM |
| 7 | I feel so guilty because of my previous addictionNever look back, only look forward. The past cannot be changed and it’s up to you to internalise how you feel and come to terms with it and move forward into tomorrow a stronger and better man. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 02:12 AM |
| 4 | LTR soft next adviceDude you need to go take a walk, sit down near a god damn river or secluded area and think long and hard about YOURSELF! God damn my dude. I am only a couple years younger than you in a prosperous LTR and don’t have a single fuck to give about what other people are doing in the world with their lives including my LTR. You reek of insecurities and it has me dumb founded your GF wants to still be around you, but it’s not my LTR so whatever. My GF is a damn school teacher and has social media so yo… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 08:01 PM |
| 9 | This is for the young MGTOW men who are separated from their fathersNeeds more jpeg | /r/MGTOW | 16/11/18 02:45 AM |
| 14 | Red pill 💊I’ve thought about it all logically and in the end we are all sacs of meat living on earth making our own choices and dealing with the consequences of our actions. As a kid growing up though, these + more people I admired died. As I grew older I understood it clearly as to why. I tend to let my brain wonder and reminiscence leads to this even though logically I already know the real answers as you’ve pointed out. | /r/MGTOW | 09/11/18 04:21 AM |
| 26 | Red pill 💊As much as I kind of believe the universe neither punishes nor rewards anything. Sometimes I think there ARE people in this world just like Patrice who just shine too bright to hang around in this world. Steve Irwin, Heath Ledger, Freddie Mercury to name a few. Patrice was a great man and awesome to watch and listen to. | /r/MGTOW | 09/11/18 04:10 AM |
| 7 | LTR Deleted our pics together.I agree what everyone is saying in this thread. Don’t give her the time of day. Just respond with “no thanks I don’t want you coming over” if she asks why either ignore or flat out end the relationship and never speak to her again. Either way be a man and take control. Don’t let her be the one to be in control of what happens. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Am I genuinely disgusted with this chick? Want to break up and just be rid of her, not even gonna bother cheating.Just bin, if she starts being a crazy bitch and coming over to your house just document everything and get an order against her. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 02:28 AM |
| 13 | Another victim of the wall, dragged kicking and screaming past the pount of no return.Just a fun fact, she ended up having a child in the end IIRC. Donor egg and donor sperm. Still the outcome won’t change. | /r/MGTOW | 28/10/18 07:44 PM |
| 182 | Last minute resistanceMate, I think you dodged a bullet. How many other dudes does she let raw dog her. Is she trying to get pregnant. Don’t overthink this, I would just assume she’s a weirdo and was potentially trying to pull you into a pregnancy. Move on and count your blessings. Also good on you for stopping to put on a condom. A lot of weak dudes out there that wouldn’t. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 12:10 PM |
| 3 | HB9 gets my numberWtf? You’re seeing someone. As far as I’m concerned that sounds like a FWB. You can still see other people in this stage. Generally as far as I am aware, when you are in an actual committed exclusive LTR, then TRP doesn’t advocate cheating. In this case you’re not, she’s just another plate and you should just do you and smash this other bird on the side. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 09:59 PM |
| 1 | This HB 9 Nurse who sent me nudes...I don’t know a whole lot about roids but i don’t think this is 100% accurate. Maybe it depends on the kind of roids you use but my old boy used to smash the roids when he was younger and was huge. He stopped using them at about 30 when my younger sister was born (10 years after me). He’s now in his mid 40s, there was some decrease in muscle size but still retained a lot of his muscles and has never been back to the gym or worked out for years, he might have put on a few on a few kilos but to any… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:36 PM |
| 1 | This HB 9 Nurse who sent me nudes...I don’t know a whole lot about roids but i don’t think this is 100% accurate. Maybe it depends on the kind of roids you use but my old boy used to smash the roids when he was younger and was huge. He stopped using them at about 30 when my younger sister was born (10 years after me). He’s now in his mid 40s, there was some decrease in muscle size but still retained a lot of his muscles and has never been back to the gym or worked out for years, he might have put on a few on a few kilos but to any… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:35 PM |
| 1 | This HB 9 Nurse who sent me nudes...I don’t know a whole lot about roids but i don’t think this is 100% accurate. Maybe it depends on the kind of roids you use but my old boy used to smash the roids when he was younger and was huge. He stopped using them at about 30 when my younger sister was born (10 years after me). He’s now in his mid 40s, there was some decrease in muscle size but still retained a lot of his muscles and has never been back to the gym or worked out for years, he might have put on a few on a few kilos but to any… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | This HB 9 Nurse who sent me nudes...I don’t know a whole lot about roids but i don’t think this is 100% accurate. Maybe it depends on the kind of roids you use but my old boy used to smash the roids when he was younger and was huge. He stopped using them at about 30 when my younger sister was born (10 years after me). He’s now in his mid 40s, there was some decrease in muscle size but still retained a lot of his muscles and has never been back to the gym or worked out for years, he might have put on a few on a few kilos but to any… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | This HB 9 Nurse who sent me nudes...I don’t know a whole lot about roids but i don’t think this is 100% accurate. Maybe it depends on the kind of roids you use but my old boy used to smash the roids when he was younger and was huge. He stopped using them at about 30 when my younger sister was born (10 years after me). He’s now in his mid 40s, there was some decrease in muscle size but still retained a lot of his muscles and has never been back to the gym or worked out for years, he might have put on a few on a few kilos but to any… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | This HB 9 Nurse who sent me nudes...I don’t know a whole lot about roids but i don’t think this is 100% accurate. Maybe it depends on the kind of roids you use but my old boy used to smash the roids when he was younger and was huge. He stopped using them at about 30 when my younger sister was born (10 years after me). He’s now in his mid 40s, there was some decrease in muscle size but still retained a lot of his muscles and has never been back to the gym or worked out for years, he might have put on a few on a few kilos but to any… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | This HB 9 Nurse who sent me nudes...I don’t know a whole lot about roids but i don’t think this is 100% accurate. Maybe it depends on the kind of roids you use but my old boy used to smash the roids when he was younger and was huge. He stopped using them at about 30 when my younger sister was born (10 years after me). He’s now in his mid 40s, there was some decrease in muscle size but still retained a lot of his muscles and has never been back to the gym or worked out for years, he might have put on a few on a few kilos but to any… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | This HB 9 Nurse who sent me nudes...I don’t know a whole lot about roids but i don’t think this is 100% accurate. Maybe it depends on the kind of roids you use but my old boy used to smash the roids when he was younger and was huge. He stopped using them at about 30 when my younger sister was born (10 years after me). He’s now in his mid 40s, there was some decrease in muscle size but still retained a lot of his muscles and has never been back to the gym or worked out for years, he might have put on a few on a few kilos but to any… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Legitimately curious how you guys promote MGTOW to other people. Correct me if I’m wrong but I don’t think this guys gets it?I don’t care what people put out on the internet. As the title says I legitimately am curious if and how people promote MGTOW. In this instance it was the first time I have seen MGTOW mentioned outside of reddit. Do I have an opinion on this particular scenario? Yes. Does it really bother me? No. If majority of people disagreed with my opinion would I reconsider my stance? Yes. As far as I am concerned in the grand scheme of things and as much as you are correct in the last half of your paragrap… | /r/MGTOW | 24/10/18 10:54 AM |
| 4 | Legitimately curious how you guys promote MGTOW to other people. Correct me if I’m wrong but I don’t think this guys gets it?It’s always a strange phenomenon to see, on one hand you get a guy who is trying to promote MGTOW, albeit not in the best way and gets blasted as an idiot; however on the other hand you’ve got guys absolutely smashing him down who don’t realise how much MGTOW or TRP could improve their quality of life. | /r/MGTOW | 24/10/18 09:35 AM |
| 30 | Legitimately curious how you guys promote MGTOW to other people. Correct me if I’m wrong but I don’t think this guys gets it?As the saying goes, you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink. | /r/MGTOW | 24/10/18 09:20 AM |
| 69 | Average women are harder to date than beautiful women.That’s because average woman are approached more often than beautiful women. Therefore the average woman has had a more constant supply of validation and beta orbiters around her which boosts her ego into her mind thinking she is a 10 when in fact she is a 5. The beautiful woman however is approached by far less guys because there are too many pussies who think a woman is out of their league and fear rejection, therefore it’s a time waste to approach such a good looking girl. Because of this rea… | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 05:47 AM |
| 3 | LTR planning a night out....Smells like drama one way or another. A man has no time for that shit. Try this; “Hey babe, lets go to X because I really like eating/doing Z there. I cbf going to [insert wherever the ex works], never really like it there anyway. Sound good?” If she still wants to go to her ex’s place of work maintain frame and just say “Nah, I’m good, could think of better places to go”. You’re the man, you choose where you want to go. If you’re not happy with the destination, be a man and do what YOU want to … | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 11:45 AM |
| 1 | You can access any saved posts from the main TRP Sub on mobile.Quick update. All my saved posts from TRP sub have reappeared on the app version on my phone. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 06:38 AM |
| 1 | How do I access TRP on mobile?Read u/JamzeNeu post. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 02:25 AM |
| 2 | You can access any saved posts from the main TRP Sub on mobile.I’m going to look into that when I get home, unfortunately I’ll still be at work for awhile however once I’m home and I’ve figured it out I’ll come back to this post and share it, I’m sure it won’t take much google searching. Worst case scenario I’ll just Ctrl+C Ctrl+V onto word or something but I’m sure there will be a better way. I’ll get back to you. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 12:46 AM |
| 4 | Friend's girlfriend constantly tries to offend meIgnore. She’s not your girlfriend therefore she’s not your problem. If it really bothers you, have a talk to your mate when it’s just the both of you and reaffirm your friendship with him to make sure she won’t get in the way of you two being mates. Aside from that just don’t give a shit. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Ltr lying?She said she ain’t going to go so just take her word for it and worry less. I’ve got a little story for you so just keep this in mind for the future. One of my ex’s used to let me have access to her phone all the time, I never took advantage of it, the only times I would use her phone would be to check the time or use the internet to look at something if mine was flat or not working. She never had a problem with this and if I wanted to I probably could have looked through her phone to it’s fulle… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Ltr lying?Then shrug it off and pretend it didn’t happen. Don’t bring it up again, as far as you’re concerned the case is closed on this one. Just be vigilant in the future and if you suspect your LTR is cheating, confirm it via incriminating text messages on her phone, odd times she is getting home from work or other people confirming she’s been spotted with someone else. If you can’t confirm something like this in the future then don’t sweat it. Avoid bringing any drama into the relationship and avoid c… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Ltr lying?Doesn’t matter if she was seeing a friend or getting dicked down by some other dude. She lied to you. Are you going to tolerate a lying GF? She has no respect for you if she’s going to lie to your face. Fuck that dude. Hard next. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Getting an Ex Back Into BedI Finally got smart No, no you did not get smart. You’re still a dumbass and need to read the side bar before posting here and looking like an idiot. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 08:07 AM |
| 3 | 37m slept with a girl I thought was singleI don’t think you are quite understanding this guy has a history of violence and has just gotten out of Prison. You think he was just running through daisy fields while he was inside? Get a grip dude. You said it yourself, you have no training nor any experience fighting. I don’t care how big you think you are. Don’t ever assume people fight fairly in the real world, my dad taught me; “Fight to win and not to fight fair. If you don’t think you can win, don’t fight at all.” This dude could very w… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 04:45 AM |
| 8 | Best way to break up with an LTRAlternative method; Leave the country, delete her on everything and never speak to her again. She will get the idea. Saves any drama you’re worried about whilst you are still in the same country as her imo. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 08:00 AM |
| 3 | Should you ever use "miss you" ?Ikr, damn. Lock me up and throw away the key. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 06:35 AM |
| 12 | Should you ever use "miss you" ?Wtf.. How on earth did I put you down? | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 06:25 AM |
| 3 | Should you ever use "miss you" ?Yes but stick to the 2-1 rule. For 2 times she says it, you can say it once. Go back and read the sidebar my dude. It’s all covered there. No need to overthink such small things. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 06:17 AM |
| 1 | she wants to be beaten upThat’s all fair. I’m just making the point that if someone consents it’s ok to do it, it’s not always ok. I’ve always erred on the side of caution and I think a lot of other men who are new or old to TRP should as well when it comes to women asking or wanting bizarre shit. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 02:26 AM |
| 1 | she wants to be beaten upIf you killed someone because they asked you to do it. Are you a murderer, manslaughterer or innocent of any charge? Just some food for thought. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 02:21 AM |
| 1 | LTR communication very dry. Couple of red flagsGot back with your ex and acting like a complete Beta. Confronting her on things and causing drama. Go and read the god damn sidebar. This relationship is only downhill from here so get out of it and start to fix all the areas where YOU are fucking it up for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 08:36 AM |
| 2 | LTR GF wants to talk when she gets home from vacation.The fact she has tried to instill “Dread” into him and is trying to play a stupid power game because she’s either cheated on him or thinking about cheating on him and hits him up with the “we need to talk” line is disrespectful as fuck. Here is even better advice for r/TRPanalyst. Hit her up with ok cool. Then go silent. When she gets back, don’t even acknowledge her existence. Ghost her ass and leave her in the dust. Let her hamster spin out of control until it burns itself out because she can’… | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 01:57 AM |
| 3 | LTR "sex after marriage". How do I get past this?I think just keep going through the motions of dread if this chick is worth going through that, otherwise just dump her and move on if she’s more trouble than she’s worth. In the meantime start gaming other chicks and having more prospects. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 02:23 AM |
| 8 | ex girlfriend tried to contact meTreat the “break” as a break up. Let her hamster run until it burns itself out. You should treat this as you two have indefinitely broken up and you’re now going about your life on your own terms. This is a great time for you to swallow the Pill, incorporate it, internalize it and digest it. I find a lot of men who are in LTRs and come across the Red Pill don’t actually take it in until their relationship falls in a heap. Stay no contact with her and be happy my man. Never tolerate this kind of … | /r/askTRP | 16/06/18 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Worried about ignorance of infidelityYou’re worrying about something you have no control over. Man the fuck up and forget about it, AWALT, and do your thing. She sounds like she treats you right, when that stops then worry about getting rid of her. For the time being just enjoy your turn. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 09:47 PM |
| 2 | My OLTR got drunk and kissed another guy. I never expected her to be exclusive, but she told me she was. What to do?Soft next, withdraw a part of the time and affection you’ve been giving her permanently after the soft next is over and use that time to build yourself or fuck other chicks. This chick is just AWALT. Make what you will of it but the fact that you’re here implies your uncomfortable about what she has done therefore discipline accordingly. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Am I interpreting my break-up correctly?I think he was being sarcastic in response to the other comment. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 05:09 AM |
| 60 | Failed the "I'm seeing someone" shit test absolutely miserably today.Why the hell are you wasting your time with an ex to begin with. You lack abundance and need to go and read the sidebar. If you’ve already done that, go and read it again. ROLLO TAMASSI IRON RULE #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 04:47 AM |
| 3 | Is it weird if i randomly just follow a chick I just met at Gym on IG? Or should I wait and get her IG in person?Who cares about social media and what you want to do with it. Unless you plan on picking up this chick, this question shouldn’t even belong in this sub. Even still if you plan on picking her up, doing that shit isn’t the way to do it. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 02:20 AM |
| 1 | HB10 extremely coldthis one girl Ahh it never gets old. Sidebar my dude. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 11:31 PM |
| 2 | intern wants to fuck meFuck her. Document everything in the meantime. Befriend HR and possibly let them know what’s going on to cover your ass. If you cover your ass you’ve got nothing major to lose. Don’t be a pussy. Too many guys are so fucking afraid of this #metoo shit and false accusations and by all means in today’s world they can feel afraid or threatened by this but these guys are the same guys that wouldn’t even think to cover their ass before banging a girl. Any girl can make up shit about you, it doesn’t ma… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 05:22 AM |
| 2 | How to cure oneitis for LTR?There’s very few cures for oneitis. Your LTR dumps your sorry ass and then you find out she had an orgy with 4 black men and gave her a bukkake party You leave your LTR and fuck ten other girls. Any other treatment is irrelevant. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 12:38 AM |
| 37 | Alpha bitch and her minions at work got me firedYou may not have been shitting where you eat but boy you were getting your ass ever so close to the ground to do it. Work is work and you’re there to do so. Don’t go fucking it up by flirting and making sexual innuendos to other girls at the workplace. You’re not there to make friends, you’re not there to game women, you’re not there to have fucking fun. You’re there to earn money and appeases the managers and that’s fucking all. Save that other shit for outside of the workplace. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 12:30 AM |
| 4 | Girlfriend keeps open the possibility to ask for FB password in futureBefore my RP journey, I was in a LTR with a girl that showed these exact same patterns as yours is showing right now. As far as Red Pill goes on this exact scenario. I believe it would be a matter of shrugging it off, not allowing her to have access to these things and if she starts drama over it, then soft next. From personal experience however if she continues this behavior. You should GTFO. Its toxic as fuck behavior and incredibly debilitating to deal with someone who thinks they have the ri… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 01:00 PM |
| 2 | 'why don't you want to be my boyfriend?'Oh I know that’s true. I’m just talking about this post in particular and his plate is at critical point of breaking. But you have given good advice to make the plate last as long as possible before it breaks. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 10:42 AM |
| 4 | LTR don't trust me. Looked through my phone, is now angry more than ever.Doesn’t matter what you think. I once read from another user on TRP “always treat these situations as if you GF is getting strange dick” then factor in other things; like your situation. Is she giving you sex? NO Is she respecting you? NO Does this make you happy? NO Then figure out your course of action. If I were you I would be running for the fucking hills. I don’t give a fuck about other people’s happiness. It’s not my goal to make them happy. I make myself happy, if I’m not happy I change t… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 08:45 AM |
| 8 | LTR don't trust me. Looked through my phone, is now angry more than ever.You need to snap out of this Blue Pilled, Disney fairytale bullshit. You are still acting like this chick is your unicorn. This chick that lies to you (she is already fucking) and is absolutely full of shit. “Working late won’t be home” “got things to do, won’t be home at usual time”. This girl that disrespects you by going through your phone then starts causing shit over nothing. She has stepped over major boundaries and is being disrespectful and withholding sex from you. This is how it all st… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 08:14 AM |
| 7 | 'why don't you want to be my boyfriend?'But as you said. It’s at a critical point. Plates don’t last forever. Plates break. Always. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 06:57 AM |
| 4 | Girl is unsure whether I like her or not, wants me to ask her outStop being a pussy and ask her out. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Gf’s birthday and an orbiterSo, there’s 2 parts to the advice I’m going to give you. 1) You are correct, don’t mate guard. Just let shit happen. As long as you remain aloof and maintain frame you shouldn’t have to worry about your girl cheating on you. You say the guy in question gets pussy, WELP just FYI; betas get pussy, alphas gets pussy, most guys get pussy. The difference is betas usually have ONS, they don’t spin plates because they can’t. I shouldn’t have to explain why this is the case. Alphas, as you should alread… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 10:34 AM |
| 22 | Why do women like dudes who are shacked up? I told my female coworkers that I’m taken, and now they treat me like a completely different person. So much nicer to me and even flirtatious. Even when they’re not flirting, they just show more respect.Give this post a read and the following comments. Pre-selection is a powerful tool in TRP tool belt. However, seeing as you don’t know what Pre-Selection is, I suggest you read the sidebar first before posting anymore questions. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 08:26 AM |
| 4 | Tried AM and A&A. Did I do it right?You’re well off the mark with the whole AM and A&A. It’s fine though while you’re still new and it takes time for people new to the Red Pill to start sloppy, with practice, self development and patience you’ll slowly learn how to do these things properly. My advice to you is to continue to digest the sidebar and explore the Red Pill some more and continue reading Amused Mastery, Agree and Amplify, techniques and examples and also Abundance Mentality. The real key to it all however is it must ste… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 04:33 AM |
| 3 | On kissing on the first date; do it to gauge interest, or not to make them wonder and figure it out yourself?Who cares? Do what you want to do. If you want to go for it on the first date then go for it. I find the rule of thumb going in for the kiss on the first date tells you if she’s into you or not. If she doesn’t reciprocate then you know you don’t have to waste your time and move on to the next girl. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 10:36 PM |
| 12 | SHE approached me and I messed up.How I would have handled it? Amused mastery just like /u/vazqdavid98 said. You need to read it up dude. Basically I would have said something like: Her: You spoke really well. Me: Yeah, I know. Must have been rigged, did you have anything to do with it? (With a smirk) Her: (whatever her response would be) Me: (continue playing with it/joking around/kino) “Let’s go out sometime soon. X place at Y time for drinks” and escalate from there. EDIT: I checked out your post history and I’ll tell you rig… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 11:13 AM |
| 2 | She lets me fuck her in the car and 15 seconds after stickin my dick in she stops me. Wtf ?Yeah that’s basically what anyone with a somewhat decent understanding of TRP would do. Not what /u/GameAndGains is suggesting which is basically rape. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 06:46 AM |
| 12 | She lets me fuck her in the car and 15 seconds after stickin my dick in she stops me. Wtf ?I agree with this comment. This is one of those times where you DO listen to her words. If she says stop you do stop. You really want a rape charge filed against you? | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 07:31 PM |
| 6 | This stupid guy is fucking up my LTRFirst thing you did wrong was not read the sidebar. You’re ruining your own life by acting like an insecure little man and mate-guarding like no tomorrow. The fact you’re mate guarding tells me you haven’t digested the sidebar. You’ve come here asking for advice and everyone has given you input but NO, we are all wrong according to you. That’s fine, life is going to give you a nice hard slap in the face and make you learn the hard way. Dump this fucking whore, read the god damn sidebar and start… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 06:34 AM |
| 11 | This stupid guy is fucking up my LTRAll I can say is some peoples' place in life is as an example of what NOT to do. Learn from this guys post, kids. As for OP. Go unfuck yourself from this train wreck of a relationship and start reading the sidebar. Can’t help you when you can’t help yourself. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Got into a altercation with LTR, not sure how to interpret.You need to set boundaries and deal with this shit on the spot. Not until the next day. Honestly you handled this badly, but we all have to start somewhere and improve our ways. You’ll soon figure this out. When your LTR disrespects you or causes drama or unnecessarily shit tests you, you don’t communicate this with her. If you’ve read the sidebar at all you should know you don’t overtly walk yourself into an argument and demand /negotiate respect. All women know when they’re disrespecting their… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 10:32 PM |
| 3 | How to set boundaries with an LTR?Start Reading Red Pill Threads | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 09:33 AM |
| 3 | Chick I met online is willing to meet same day but wants to meet at a bar. I just want her to come over. How do I win this tug-o-war?Don’t.... | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 06:57 AM |
| 2 | Ex boyfriend is alpha as fuckFrom what you see he might be an alpha but behind closed doors he could be the biggest beta in the world. Stop comparing. For all you know he could still be going home from work everyday and crying like a beta bitch because his ex isn’t there anymore and trying to figure out how to write a love note to get her back. Stop comparing and focus on yourself. All that matters should be you. If she’s dating you, then you got nothing to worry about. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Girl I used to orbit: "You forgot about me"Ignore. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Girl I used to orbit: "You forgot about me"Don’t respond. At all. Minimal engagements in class, as if she doesn’t exist in your life anymore. Don’t be butt hurt or rude when she approaches you just keep it short and move along. Simple excuses are “I’m busy” “I’ve got things to do” “I don’t have time right now”. If she asks why you’re not talking to her or whatever just say “I’ve been busy”. Then continue to ignore. STOP GIVING HER ATTENTION Also why are you still going to Prom with her. Fuck that dude, she will go home after prom to her … | /r/askTRP | 04/03/18 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Guy Telling me to Back off From a Girl I'm Trying to Plate”IM NEW TO THE REDPILL” God damnit, ——>>> SIDEBAR!! | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 10:52 AM |
| 4 | New LTR reveals sexual history. What do I do?No, just demote to plate and date other chicks. Slowly fade out of her life and when she asks what’s wrong, just tell her this ain’t working out. She will either A) Walk out of your life entirely or B) hang around just to fuck and that’s it. No LTR at all with this girl. By this point you shouldn’t care if she’s sleeping with anyone else or not. She’s never yours, it’s just your turn. Side note, I’ve been there with a cheating single mother before. I strongly suggest you walk from this relations… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 10:47 AM |
| 3 | LTR refusing sexNot enough information. Don’t take it seriously this time, could be any reason she doesnt want sex/refuses sex. Come back when she’s refused to have sex with you for a week, that’s when there could be a problem. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/18 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with jealousy?This comment is your answer OP. Move on, fuck that shit. Why invite unnecessary drama into your life because 9 times out of 10, jealous girls will bring just that. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/18 05:12 AM |
| 21 | So i have oneitis. It's a mess. How do you handle the cut off?I’ve been where you’ve been once before. You’re human and those feelings are normal but you have to go against them. Don’t respond to her or explain yourself to her, just let it go and focus on yourself. You’ll feel these emotions but they WILL disappear. All you need to do is embrace it, go through the motions and work on yourself. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 04:58 AM |
| 29 | So i have oneitis. It's a mess. How do you handle the cut off?OPTION 4: Delete her off everything. Cut her out of your life completely, ghost her and move on. Continue reading the sidebar, correct your errors, evolve as a man and then start becoming successful with women and life. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend is illegal (20M)What stood out to me the most is: she’s femanine, sex whenever I want and is a conservative girl that follows my lead and values. Stop looking at this from such a narrow scope. There’s a massive red flag smacking you in the face but you’re turning a blind eye because this girl apparently suits you on a relationship level. There’s a lot more women out there that could easily fit what you described without so much baggage. Do what you want but if I were you I would cut my losses. Why invite unnece… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/18 09:37 PM |
| 2 | I left my childhood friend on the road after the meet up. Did I do the wrong thing?it's a waste of time for me to be even replying to your dumb comments. Yet you do anyway. Good one. You’ll get real far in life. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/18 12:24 PM |
| 6 | I left my childhood friend on the road after the meet up. Did I do the wrong thing?Then why the hell “dangle the carrot” in front of her and proceed with the date after you got the information you wanted. Why did you even write this post to seek approval from guys on TRP to see if the way you “game” a HB4 is the right thing to do? Damn dude, grow up. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/18 12:17 PM |
| 6 | I left my childhood friend on the road after the meet up. Did I do the wrong thing?You’re an idiot. If she shows interest, you keep escalating to F-close, then if your game is good, you can keep her as a plate from then on. You leave chicks on the side of the road that are wasting your time and are showing NO SIGNS of fucking you that date or ever. You pretty much disrespected this chick for no real reason just to show how “alpha” you are and how much “abundance” you have. PLUS, if she is a childhood friend, why the fuck ditch her like she’s a nobody, especially if she is show… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/18 12:11 PM |
| 1 | GF Abuse ProblemAre you fucking dumb. I used to be as stupid as you and be with a chick that pretty much acted the same way. Are you dating my ex? I grew the balls to just leave her and not give a fuck to pursue happiness. I didn’t care about the time I had invested into the relationship in the end, I didn’t care if there was financial loss. I just fucking left. You need to grow some balls and do the same thing. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/18 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Little brother is in love and has found “the one”. Anyway to save him?You can lead a horse to water but you cannot make it drink. All you can do is let your brother learn a valuable life lesson on his own and be there when shit hits the fan. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 09:10 AM |
| 3 | I can’t do it. I’m a failure.Also, another important step when talking to girls: TALK LESS. Ask questions and get the girls raving to you. Women love to talk about themselves and just talk, talk, talk in general. So be mysterious, keep things short when they ask questions, get them talking when you ask questions and when it fits, drop in subtle sexual innuendos. It’s simple really, men don’t need to do a lot of the talking to take a woman home to bed. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 06:59 AM |
| 7 | Cheating Ex gf randomly texted me 1 yr after breakupCan we start a shotgun next on Megan? | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 06:53 AM |
| 5 | Highest n-count you would be willing to have a relationship with?The lower the N count a woman has, the better LTR material she is. I’ve read through a few comments on here and I’ve noticed one important factor that people have failed to arise, that is a woman’s N-count and pair bonding. The more sexual partners a woman has, the less she will be able to bond with her current partner on a biological level and that keeps diminishing with every sexual partner after that. Read this Partner Count and Why It Matters and you’ll gain an understanding as to why LTRing… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 11:45 PM |
| 2 | What are some reasons why my testicles might be small?Wrong sub dude. Go see a doctor. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 09:29 PM |
| 1 | LTR of 1.5 years doesn’t seem to enjoy sexIf what you’re saying about your LTR is true then I wouldn’t consider hard nexting yet unless you feel like her not enjoying sex is a deal breaker for you. she’s never had an orgasm Read the book The Sex God Method and start working on your tongue game boi. Unless your girlfriend has something seriously wrong with her in the downstairs department, she will have the ability to orgasm. You need to figure it out. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 09:24 PM |
| 4 | I'm too attached to my phone...too availableWhen you get a text from your plates just put your phone down and go do something else. Do some chores, go for a run, continue playing whatever video game you’re playing. Then when you’ve finished that, start onto something else. The time will wizz by until you go “oh yeah I should reply to that shouldn’t I?” Then either reply or continue what your doing. Mate, there’s been times plates or even a LTR has texted me when I’m doing fuck all. I read it then just put my phone back down and keep watch… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 09:45 AM |
| 5 | FWB giving less sexAbort mission. She’s playing games with you, withholding sex as a shit test and starting to cause you a headache. No pussy is worth that; especially a FWB. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 09:40 AM |
| 8 | How do you answer "Why do you like/love me?" or statements such as "You could do better than me" in LTR?Watch and listen to how she says this. Could be a shit test. Could be a comfort test, once you figure out which one it is, respond accordingly. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 02:02 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with Christmas?Are you here for a pity party? Who cares what she’s doing. Not your problem. Haven’t you heard the common dynamic. Woman marry up, men marry down. You’re a part of the cycle. Stop caring so much. She’s just being AWALT. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 12:37 AM |
| 1 | First serious girl after 2 years of slutsNo. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 12:29 AM |
| 8 | First serious girl after 2 years of slutsSecond this comment. You should detach yourself from this relationship a little bit. Keep her invested and let the good times roll. Forget about the result and just enjoy the ride. Remain stoic and give her comfort when she needs it. It sounds to me that if you’re not careful, oneitis is going to creep up on you fast... If it hasn’t already yet. If that happens, you can then watch your relationship turn into a heap. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 11:54 AM |
| 7 | Brutal Honesty: is it worth trying to get girls if you are extremely skinny?I’m from Aus as well and this kid is full of it. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Parents wont let me grow up - how do i get them to fuck off?I’ve found OP. No need to thank me. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Parents wont let me grow up - how do i get them to fuck off?Maybe you shouldn’t point guns at girls heads, then MAYBE your parents might leave you alone. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Parents wont let me grow up - how do i get them to fuck off?OP is cooked. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Parents wont let me grow up - how do i get them to fuck off?Wtf dude. Either speak up and say “thanks dad but I want to start making my own breakfast. Maybe you can teach me some recipes”. Start learning from your parents how to adult and use the benefit of living with your parents to your advantage such as saving loads of money before you move out. Hell, these days for kids your age you’d be fucked trying to save for a house deposit outside of home. Stop being such a cry baby and start to appreciate the easy life your parents are giving you. Sure, it ca… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 01:21 AM |
| 4 | GF got preg, she is keeping kid, all of my frame is slippingShe’s showing you her true colors. Is this the type of women you want to be in a relationship with for the rest of your life. This type of constant unhappiness at home every time you wake up in the morning and go to bed at night. It’s not a life you want to live out and it’s not an environment you want to raise a kid in. Unless your a self sabotaging idiot, GET THE FUCK OUT NOW OP. Get a paternity test ASAP and don’t commit to any fatherhood responsibilities unless without a shadow of a doubt th… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 10:57 PM |
| 9 | GF got preg, she is keeping kid, all of my frame is slippingI would pack your bags and leave this chick now. Get a paternity test after the birth of the child. If it’s not yours, sweet. Drive on brother. If it is yours, then step up and help raise the child and keep in mind you don’t need to be in a relationship with a toxic woman to do that. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Girls just want to rawdog?One day your going to spin that Russian roulette and get a prize you didn’t want. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 02:23 AM |
| 2 | No more matches on TinderHe likes you. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 04:53 AM |
| 1 | lied to a girl about something pretty big to get out of something. she found out. what do?All the other comments on here have nailed this on the head so best to take the advice. Realizing your errors is a good first step though. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 04:25 AM |
| 1 | lied to a girl about something pretty big to get out of something. she found out. what do?Then what the hell are you worrying about? Damn dude, check if your balls are still there. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 03:43 AM |
| 2 | lied to a girl about something pretty big to get out of something. she found out. what do?”Takes her out on dates,”essentially my girlfriend but we are not exclusive”. Fracking wut? ”we are at the point of telling each other we love each other” Dude, you’re not fooling anyone, shes well beyond the point of a plate wether you want to admit it or not. Now, with this whole lying scenario, you’re acting like an insecure beta and it’s killing the attraction. We know it, she knows it. You should have brushed it off if she found out or not. If you fuck up, you own that shit and move on with… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 03:23 AM |
| 1 | How do I avoid having sex for the next 3 weeks when I just met a really awesome girl?Unless it’s herpes, what kind of “unofficial” STD is this that causes scars? Either it’s not an STD at all from my understanding and I don’t know what you’re worried about or you’ve got herpes and your ashamed to admit it. So unless this shit isn’t contagious, I wouldn’t go fucking anyone that you could spread this to. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 12:46 PM |
| 1 | How long until she bites? And where to go from here?I don’t plan on responding anyways. Goes on to show us how he responded to her! Wtf are you doing man? The moment you got the first text you could have just ignored it or said yes and then leave it hanging. But no, you let a woman waste your time and you started drama which all women love when you could have actually been pumping weights or doing something constructive. This fish won’t be biting for you. Instead of being stoic, you just decided to be a complete douche. Not only do betas kill att… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 12:38 PM |
| 1 | My Plates Keep Breaking and It HurtsI smell a troll post. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Asking a girl out when you do not have any intentions of getting your dick wet. Thoughts on this?Who cares? You can be friends with chicks and not fuck them. What are you worried about? | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 01:34 AM |
| 1 | She said i have a boyfriend.SIDEBAR | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend stopped swallowingPineapple. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 01:27 AM |
| 1 | My girlfriend texts her "best guy friend" multiple times a weekYou’re thinking about this too much OP. He was there before you but you became her boyfriend. Sounds to me he is just her emotional tampon/orbiter/guy-girlfriend. Stop worrying about stupid shit and get on with your life. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 01:26 AM |
| 7 | gf going camping trip with female + MALE friends. is it over?Wtf is all this shit. The best response is don’t respond at all. Let her hamster spin and either she figures her shit out and doesn’t go at all because women are not stupid, they know boundaries and the difference between right or wrong or if she does go on this camping trip, you hit that NEXT button to FUCKOFFVILLE. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 06:05 AM |
| 2 | A female coworker came back from holidays and I asked where she went, and another girl there intervened with “it’s her fucking business....”. How do you deal with disrepsectful shit like that?I don’t know why this comment is getting downvotes. As abrupt as it is, /u/LordThunderbolt has a point. Yes it’s great to have good social ties with your colleagues at work, but we also know don’t shit where you eat. At the end of the day, unless you plan on gaming this woman, then what’s the point? Sure, ask about her holiday or whatever but who really cares? But as for the other chick, yeah she’s a cunt. Pressure flip as all the other comments suggest but also keep in mind, you’re at work, do … | /r/askTRP | 10/12/17 11:35 PM |
| 62 | Wife left me after 6 weeks of marriage. We were HSSHs and together 11 yrs. How can i recover?Can we get this response framed or something and hung straight into the Sidebar for newcomers to read? This is the kind of stuff that first timers on TRP need to read after their wife/LTR has left them because of their hypergamous nature. To this day, I have not seen a logical argument against AWALT. This sub needs more people like you,/u/theDisillusionist. Wether it’s hard truths or not, we gotta tell it how it is and help our fellow brothers who have been brainwashed by the feminine imperative… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Trying to f-close with a plate, SHE decides when we meetYou care too much and she is flaking on you because she senses your neediness. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Girl keeps saying I hate her?A&A on women, not on TRP. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 11:22 AM |
| 1 | I'm an idiotThis is why you VET women out for a long ass time before you even consider LTRing them. These red flags have a way of revealing themselves before you ever need to get in as deep as you got. Ahh well, it’s a learning experience. Use this to experience to improve yourself. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 11:17 AM |
| 7 | Girlfriend weight gain problemCan’t be said enough. Dread, Dread, Dread. Doesn’t matter how close you are to her, going straight up and saying “you need to lose weight” isn’t going to do shit for this situation except cause drama. If you apply Dread correctly, one of two things will happen. 1) She will lose the weight fast as all fuck and give you the best BJ’s of your life. 2) She won’t notice what you’re doing because she doesn’t care about you which means this relationship is inevitably over unless secretly you have a fet… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 11:20 PM |
| 1 | How can I stop being so talkative and just talk less,stop talking shit,making jokes and saying bullshit and trolling?Key is to not overthink how you’re going to interact socially and instead as you stated; observe. What do you see, smell, hear, feel? What are people talking about? What is the environment like? Take a minute to absorb your surroundings, take control and proceed. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Got the LJBF chatThe key is to focus on areas of your life where you need to improve. Have you ever sat on the couch wondering “I should lift more, I should go for a run, I should take up a cause, I should become more independent by doing .... [insert whatever here]” But then you keep sitting on the couch watching tv and not doing it? Well it’s time to do it. Improve the areas in life that you want to improve, soon you’ll give more of a fuck about yourself and less of a fuck about women. Make yourself priority a… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 06:35 AM |
| 1 | "Are you mad?" from LTRAfter absorbing knowledge of TRP, I love setting boundaries with women while I’m dating them. There’s nothing more hilarious when they start pushing a boundary, (especially when you’re together in person and they know their actions would disqualify them for a LTR) when they look to see for a reaction and all I’ll give them is stone cold eye to eye contact to which they immediately look away in a submissive way, then I’ll leave wherever we are/take them home/or kick them out of my house and withd… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Parents forced my girlfriend and me to breakupDude, if she likes you she will keep seeing you. You need to not give a shit about her parents; they don’t control you and she will rebel the more they try to control her. Organise sneaky catch ups (chicks love that shit) and do fun shit together. Have sex like crazy and continue doing your thing. The parents might not like it but they’re just going to have to accept it. They can’t exactly chain her to a wall in their house and they can’t stop you living your life. Take control and don’t give a … | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Unexpected response to disqualifyingYou’ve not been here long I see. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Previously promiscuous girl doesn't want sex since we got togetherSo many Beta guys think they can “fix” their relationship or their girlfriend. All of these guys are ultimately proven wrong and end up here on TRP. So please buddy, unless you want to experience torment at the hands of a woman then reconsider this. Because this is a story we've all seen a thousand times before and we all know the ending. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Previously promiscuous girl doesn't want sex since we got togetherI met a young woman about 5 years younger than me, she said she wanted her next sexual partner to be her last and all that shit. We hooked up the same night I met her and I finger bashed her to oblivion in her car. The next day she was already pushing for commitment asking if anything would come out of “this”, etc etc. I told her “let’s see what happens but don’t get your hopes up”. Fucked her on that second date, proceeded to smash her for a few months after that until she realized I wouldn’t c… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 04:37 AM |
| 9 | Girl asking to cuddle on first meetup?This hits the nail right on the head. OP needs to stop overthinking and just get her over. Escalating to sex from cuddling is as easy as as ABC. Better yet, this chick is already doing the ground work for him. If she wasn’t interested to fuck she wouldn’t be the one making this so easy. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/17 04:36 AM |
| 2 | LDR With Ex, Talking to other guyStopped reading at “so I’m in a LDR with my ex” Rollo Tomassi Iron rule #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. Go read the Sidebar | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 04:27 AM |
| 6 | Girlfriend does not respond after I called her out - what to do?I got into an argument with my girlfriend: she wanted to see me after her work ended, but I couldn't make it to this time (gym) and told her so. She answered with a "then not", which I also did. Shit test. You shouldn’t have replied at all after the “then not” reply and you shouldn’t have let yourself get drawn into an argument. Shit test failed, panties drying up. After that, she immediantly changed her profile picture of us Another shit test. Surely you held frame and didn’t care about such tr… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Redpill & LTR: I need adviceYou need to end this relationship with this crazy bitch. She is gaslighting you and the fact she is looking up “abusive relationships etc” is a massive red flag. All of this is a red flag, I’m surprised you can’t see it. Put the money you owe her in an envelope. Tell her it’s over then leave and never speak to her again. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/17 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend does not want to have sex, is it to late.Both 20 year olds and the sex is declining. Something is very wrong here; I’ve been dating a woman for over a year now and we still fuck like rabbits and I’m only 4 years older than you. Sounds like a case of you giving her commitment too quickly and it’s drying up her panties or she’s found Chad and your just a branch she’s hanging onto in case the other one breaks. Continue to use dread and maybe your relationship will improve again or just end the relationship and look for better prospects. B… | /r/askTRP | 18/10/17 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Is it a good idea to go to the shooting range for the first date?I think it’s a great idea. 1) You took the lead and she was happy to follow your lead. Great sign to start with. 2) You’re doing something you want to do and something you enjoy. She is just there tagging along and enjoying it with you; bonus points on that one. 3) You don’t have to be there long and you can leave when you want to; perfect for when you’ve had your fun shooting and decide to ask her back you your house and F close. Tbh this is actually an awesome date idea from a Red Pill perspec… | /r/askTRP | 18/10/17 09:40 PM |
| 9 | Is it a good idea to go to the shooting range for the first date?Don’t tell her how much it costs. Make it as cheap as possible. It can’t be that hard. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/17 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend doesn't want to have sex anymore because it makes her guilty and depressedRead this. 12 Levels of Dread I would go straight to level 8-9 dread if this was happening. ending the relationship and fucking other women if this were me. Some key points to remember. Under no circumstances, do not marry this woman. Scroll down and read the first comment on this post If you decide to marry her, your sex life wont get better, it’ll get worse; not that it’s already at rock bottom anyway. All you’d be doing is signing away half your shit to her for no return. Besides, why the hel… | /r/askTRP | 18/10/17 09:26 PM |
| 0 | Did I soft next correctly?I think you’re correctly doing a soft next; don’t initiate any contact for a few days. Then just hit her up with “hey, let’s do [insert something here which will ultimately lead to sex]. If she asks why haven’t you been replying all you say is “I’ve been busy doing [whatever you’ve been doing] Sounds like it was a massive shit test for you and a disrespectful one at that. She wanted to test your frame by telling you she was suddenly going to some rugby house party and see how you would react. Th… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 07:27 AM |
| 5 | Never get out of bed for anyone but yourselfI came from a broken home which fell to absolute pieces when I was 3, but I still slayed chicks on the regular when I became sexually active and it never dulled as I got older, the amount of women I slept with only increased. The only damage dealt to me was becoming a massive beta fuck from the start because I was basically raised solely by my mother. My father was absent and my step father and I didn’t have much to do with each other. It was when I started wondering why I couldn’t hold a relati… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/17 07:04 AM |
| 3 | Why do I feel jealous when my friends get girls and I don't when going out?Scarcity mentality. You know how to change this? It’s easy in 3 simple steps. Get with girls> Change mindset > Success | /r/askTRP | 15/10/17 12:04 PM |
| 2 | How to not fear confrontation with my ex?These posts hurt my brain. Why can’t some guys just adapt an easy IDGAF attitude? She’s your ex so you have absolutely 0 obligation to deal with her at all. You might see her at family events or whatever but who cares? She’s not your problem. If she approaches you, don’t make eye contact, don’t engage in any conversation, don’t do anything. Just make small talk until she fucks off to another room or something; if she doesn’t get the hint then you get up and go somewhere else. If you’re all sitti… | /r/askTRP | 15/10/17 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Friend's SisterI’ve said this elsewhere on a similar post. All you need to do is give an answer to a very easy question and you’ll find the right course of action. Is your friendship with your mate irreplaceable? If Yes- don’t fuck your mates sister. If No- Fuck his sister. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/17 11:38 AM |
| 6 | Didn't escalate fast enoughI second the ghosting | /r/askTRP | 15/10/17 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Need advice meeting a girlDo you have to ask that question? A woman never asks a man out on the first date unless she’s batshit crazy or has alterer motives like fucking his dad. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/17 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Potential plate above my league and I know it, does she?She’s 31 - post wall. If “leagues” actually existed then she any woman should be out of your league. You are the prize. Don’t forget that. Go back to the sidebar and get another dosage of TRP. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/17 08:53 AM |
| 2 | A girl busted my game.Ghost is your favorite word I’m assuming. Your history tells me a lot hahahah | /r/askTRP | 15/10/17 08:33 AM |
| 3 | How to make her stay with me instead of her beta boyfriendYou have oneitis and you’re in denial. I don’t even know why you are on this thread to find any kind of help, your actions show that you have no sense on TRP principals and the people on this sub are not going to advocate your actions, not to mention that you’re just going to continue to pursue this woman and “control” her into staying with you due to you oneitis affliction and denial. What you’re trying to do is laughable and the only way you’re going to find any help in this situation is when … | /r/askTRP | 15/10/17 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Shitting Where you EatHorrible idea. This chick probably only wants you because you’re in a LTR (pre-selection). If you drop your LTR for her I’m confident in saying that she will no longer desire you and she will just be a big waste of time and effort because you’ve changed your life to pursue her. If you cheat on your LTR with this girl in such a small social circle, yeah you’re going to be fucked. There’s a reason you don’t shit where you eat so don’t do it. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 08:41 PM |
| 22 | Girlfriend going to rugby party with her friends“K, have fun” Soft next (maybe even hard next this stupid broad) Don’t speak to her for a few days, maybe even a week. This is a huge red flag; do not ignore it, she knows this is crap behavior so don’t let her get away with it. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 08:32 PM |
| 3 | What do you say if she asks if you're ok with her going out with friends while you're busy/out of town?If she’s telling you it’s because she doesn’t think your SMV is higher than hers, therefore it’s “I’m going out because I want to, I don’t care if you don’t want me to because you’ve demonstrated a low SMV to me that I will be going out and finding Chad to branch swing to because you are not Chad” Asking you things demonstrates submissive behavior because she wants and knows you’ll take the lead if you’ve demonstrated high SMV. In this instance it would appear she sees you as a high SMV male but… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 08:53 AM |
| 2 | How to break up with my GF? Warning: Stupid, messy and fucked up situation. I'm an idiotThere was shit loads of crazy shit she did and I really should have ended it within the first month of being with her but the breaking point for me was when I found out she had stopped taking the pill behind my back to trap me into having an “accidental” kid with her. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 05:10 AM |
| 1 | am I a cuckYes | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 05:02 AM |
| 1 | How to break up with my GF? Warning: Stupid, messy and fucked up situation. I'm an idiotAgain, if she’s spontaneous, you already know that so you can plan for that. I say always plan for the WORST case scenario and go from there. But as I said, I would take control of this situation as quickly as you possibly can starting from now and GTFO. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 04:59 AM |
| 20 | What do you say if she asks if you're ok with her going out with friends while you're busy/out of town?IDGAF. If you tell her no and you’re uncomfortable with it, then you’re just being an insecure beta. AWALT, she is going to do what she wants to do anyway. If she is asking you, that’s a good thing already. She wants you to still take the lead in the LTR, it would be a much different story if she TOLD you she was going out wether you like it or not. Just say something where it shows you don’t care what she does. At the end of the day you’ve got bigger and better things to worry about than what y… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 04:51 AM |
| 16 | How to break up with my GF? Warning: Stupid, messy and fucked up situation. I'm an idiotI was once in a similar situation (except having a kid to an ex) a few years ago and this was all before I even stumbled across TRP. I’m kind of glad I used my own instincts to get out of it rather than try and find help on online threads. In saying that, I’ll give you some advice, it’s up to you wether you use it or not. For the most part, no matter what; your happiness is paramount. Always remember that. You don’t owe her or anyone anything. Yes you have a child with her, and if you care for t… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Need advice meeting a girlNext time you see her staring at you, walk up to her, make conversation and ask her out on a date. I feel as though, judging by the way you’ve written this is that you need to read TRP more thoroughly. I’m having a hard time believing that you have been absorbing knowledge from these subs for a year and that you’re still here asking how to even approach a woman. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Police tell me she cheated on me after I am arrestedHe wrote another post on a different account. He is just digging a deeper hole. https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/75ugjg/update_to_police_told_me_my_gf_cheated_on_me/?st=J8ODCBUZ&sh=ea0e21cbhttps://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/75ugjg/update_to_police_told_me_my_gf_cheated_on_me/?st=J8ODCBUZ&sh=ea0e21cb | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Should I ignore or be available?You just explained yourself to a stranger. I’d say you do this with females as well when they test your frame. You have miles to go before you remotely change to anything other than the Beta you are. If this chick really is a HB9, you’ve got no chance. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 05:58 AM |
| 8 | Update to Police told me my gf cheated on meWhat kind of rubbishy shit did I just read including your other garbage posts? You’re pretty much doing everything the Red Pill advocates NOT TO DO. Man the fuck up, get off of this sub and gain some control over your life. Fuck. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 05:29 AM |
| 1 | I have put myself in a horrible position with my girlfriend, how do I get out?Next her. Don’t think about it, don’t talk about it. JUST NEXT THE DUMB BROAD. IDGAF attitude is what you really need here. But you actually need to not give a fuck, don’t even try and fake it. Break up! Next! Whatever. Carry on with your life and be happy. Number 2- Who TF cares, you shouldn’t so don’t. Number 3- Who TF cares. People come and go all the time in our lives. She is just another one of those. However as for number 1- No, you don’t give her a second shot. You next her and carry on w… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 09:08 AM |
| 3 | Am I shitty if I fuck my best friends little sisterI’ve been reading some of the comment on here and the easiest way to answer this is to answer it for yourself. Is the bro bond that you have with your mate irreplaceable (is this a friend for life)? If No - Then fuck his sister If Yes - Don’t fuck his sister and go find another hole to stick you dick into. There’s plenty out there. Take your pick. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 08:57 AM |
| 2 | Got partnered with HB8 for class project, work not getting doneI like the other comments here so far. Yeah, just focus on getting it done yourself, she has a role to play and that’s weed and vag. Play your cards right and in exchange for your hard work, she gives you what you want. Easy. But remember, if for whatever reason she acts like a shitty little brat towards you for whatever reason about and during this project whilst you’re doing the hard yards and she does nothing towards it or for you. Throw her under the bus and don’t feel bad about it. At the e… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 08:46 AM |
| 5 | What's up everyone. Same and this girl were supposed to go on our first date today but this happened. What should I doSidebar. Do you read it? | /r/askTRP | 07/10/17 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Don't understand. Still a betaI’d say just end it as this is already too far gone and issuing ultimatums is a big no no. I’m starting to think you only read the title of the side bar. What you’re doing is already covered in the beginning of the side bar and the fact you’re doing it either means you haven’t read it or you’re really dense or ignorant. If you’re really that hell bent on salvaging the relationship I would not even mention breaking up again, take some time out from the relationship. Don’t say anything to her or w… | /r/askTRP | 04/10/17 06:58 AM |
| 4 | Ex-Girlfriend is in all my classesCan you; with 100% certainty, state that OP not caring about TRP advice is true? If not, go be an angry little man somewhere else. Too many of you plaguing this sub. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 07:27 AM |
| 2 | What is the Beta Male obsession with having a girlfriend?Mate guarding/won’t leave their side/constantly trying to kiss or cuddle them in public/clingy. You get the idea | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 07:23 AM |
| 1 | I want to be married within 2 years (23 f). Men how do I do it? Sick of useless female advice.“Capitalize on my looks (snare an alpha and pump out some kids, maybe leave him and get child support payments before I hit the wall) while I can.” | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up ?Fucken wat.... | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 06:20 AM |
| 3 | What is the Beta Male obsession with having a girlfriend?Family/kids is another one. I read somewhere on TRP that men who seek to have kids of their own, having a LTR is the best way to do it. (Obviously) But realistically, only people who know they can have a successful LTR, going in with abundance mentality and having an indestructible frame are able to pull this off without fail. So that’s like, <10% of men. The rest either start alpha/fake alpha, end up as a divorced/separated beta getting fucked up the ass by their ex. Or start as a beta who ente… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 05:29 AM |
| 2 | LTR wanting a night to sleep by herselfHe didn’t specify in the post that he does. It turns out he doesn’t cohabit with his LTR. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 05:16 AM |
| 2 | LTR wanting a night to sleep by herselfIf that’s the case then she’s probably pulling away because you’re giving her too much of your time and affection that she is starting to take it for granted because BB guys will waste their precious time by always wanting to sleep over with “their girl” and won’t focus on anything else. Then ask “why is she acting different?” Ask yourself why would she be doing this? Am I being a beta? Where did I go wrong? What would chad do? I can tell you right now that Chad would be focusing on his mission … | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 03:04 AM |
| 8 | LTR wanting a night to sleep by herselfIf you’re living together and she usually sleeps fine with you in the bed anyway then yes, consider this a red flag. “Don’t listen to their words, watch their actions”. There’s a reason she is kicking you out of the bed but she isn’t telling you why. She could be distancing herself from you emotionally and physically before she finds chad to branch swing to. Watch her actions and if your gut is telling you something is up then prepare your exit strategy. If my LTR pulled this shit I would be out… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Posting tinder/dating pic of me and my ex?Pre selection. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 05:41 AM |
| 8 | Beta Guys Are the Most Dangerous (in my experience)Weak resort to underhanded tactics, not always violence. But if they do resort to violence, it’s in the most cowardly way possible. The weak are smart enough to know they can’t go head to head against someone stronger than them, therefore any kind of dignity or fair play is thrown to the side. Always be careful when dealing with these kinds of people. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/17 02:53 PM |
| 5 | Why did this happen?Don’t overthink these situations. Online dating is aids these days. A lot of women are there purely for validation and to waste your time. This chick probably hasn’t met up with anyone off of online dating and probably gets kicks from doing this kind of stuff. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Tinder game : what do I sayRead up on as many red pill basics on dating and PUA advice and just familiarize yourself with as much as you can and implement it on dates. Practice makes perfect in my experience and I owe a lot of it to TRP. Mainly focus on escalating and get her comfortable with teasing and Kino. Best way to get them back to your house is to say something like “come check out [insert something cool here] back at my place” show them whatever it is for like 5 minutes then continue to escalate until F close. Ha… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 06:41 AM |
| 3 | Tinder game : what do I sayMatched with a girl and her bio said “the weirder you are the more chances I will like you” The conversation went like this: Me: Shit, I’m not ready for someone to fall in love with me yet. Her: Yes you are and plus it’s too late Me: Damnnn. So what now! I offer you out on a date and sweep you off your feet? Her: I think so.... Me: Well, nothings better than striking while the irons hot, let’s grab a coffee sometime this week, how’s tomorrow at 6.30pm sound? Her: Yes! I love this! & I think you … | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 12:43 AM |
| 22 | I briefly cried in front of my bros after telling them about my depression, and now I feel like a pussy.I’ve cried in front of my bros before, and we are still as solid as ever. They have never judged me for anything I’ve done and I treat them the same way. We are all there for each other when we need it. By the sounds of things, these guys have got your back and are there for you. Just because you cried in front of your pals that doesn’t make you any less of a man. We are all human and we all have emotions. In a more red pill sense, when you’re feeling weak and need to confide in someone, go to y… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Plate losing interest - very oddA couple of things could be happening. 1) 10 months for a plate is a long time, most plates hardly last even 6 months. If you’ve been doing other activities than just “come over for Netflix and chill” then you guys have formed some kind of relationship. If you don’t feel that way, certainly she does and she is starting to get comfortable. The honeymoon period for you both or just her is starting to fade. 2) Plates are called plates for this very reason. Just like the man who spins the plates on … | /r/askTRP | 23/09/17 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Help on dont thinking her?Your friend is right but also acceptance is a part of it as well. Accept that you're probably always going to feel this way towards this girl but you're never going to have her, then continue focusing on your goals, your MISSION, and slaying other girls. I had oneitis for a woman too and I know I'll never have her. She's engaged, etc. I still see her around town and our conversations seem like we are both really into each other but I've accepted that I won't have this chick and that it's all ima… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 10:31 AM |
| 1 | LTR withholding sex on 1 year anniversaryCan't see comments. What's up with that? | /r/askTRP | 17/09/17 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Woman in Need of Male adviseHere here. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/17 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Sex issues in LTRThe biggest giveaway is how you explain that she skips foreplay/wants it to be over with quickly/only likes 2 position (I'm guessing missionary is one of those/doesn't do any kind of oral. She's a dead root, any other normal woman would love to do this stuff and get kinky as hell (provided you keep a strong frame and continue improving SMV). Unless you want to end up on /r/deadbedrooms you'd do well to get out of this quickly. Goodluck with it all. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 09:20 AM |
| 2 | Sex issues in LTRSounds like she could be the problem and not you. It's shit sex because it seems like she is making it shit wether she's putting that into your head or just star-fishing the bed. I would seriously consider figuring out an exit plan and getting out of this relationship. It might seem difficult in your head to come to terms with breaking up with her but your missing out on your best years with a woman who is making your sex life shit when you could be slaying other women who would be screaming you… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 09:07 AM |
| 3 | GF decides to spend time with her friend than meCommenting so I can follow this, interested in what experts have to say. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 01:56 PM |
| 3 | Short story on how cheating girlfriend broke up with LTR accusing him of cheating.He got himself treated afterwards. According to him they were having sex almost everyday of the week. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/17 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Why would mothers raise their sons and teach them beta male characteristics?I was raised by a single mother alpha widow and I can agree with most of this and the comments. I cut her out and moved out of home when I was 16 but It wasn't until a couple of years ago at the ripe age of 21 and coming across the red pill did I learn that I had been making mistakes in my life for all these years, wether it was love, goals, happiness or life. I was only able to see my father once a year for either a Christmas or Easter because my mother controlled those arrangements and he live… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/17 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Out of the ordinary text message I got from a woman I've been dating.Actually I think we have been dating for 8 months now. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Out of the ordinary text message I got from a woman I've been dating.Is this the push for commitment or next situation? | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 11:29 PM |
| 9 | Made out with the girlfriend of a 'not so much friend' and people saw.You need to not care about it, grab this situation by the balls and don't regret/apologise for your actions. Being drunk and on MDMA is a pretty good fucking excuse to me to be honest. Everyone becomes someone they are not when they're off their tits and think they're a fucking dragon. So anyway, if anyone says something to you or wants you to explain yourself, simply tell them you were off your head and had no idea what you were thinking but it's not your problem if a woman wants to cheat on he… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 11:27 AM |
| 1 | How do I quit an mmorpg?If you're telling yourself you want to quit but find it difficult to do so then you're addicted my friend. I was also addicted to an MMORPG many years ago and I was logging into it as often as I could, whenever I got home, anytime I had a spare minute with the computer. Your brain is producing dopamine every time you play and that's why you're addicted because it makes you feel good. There's plenty of documentaries out there about online gaming addiction and how it affects the brain. The only wa… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 02:01 AM |
| 3 | I soft nexted and she sends me this text... Did I do something wrong?Well you should be doing a lot more dating then. Anyway invite her over then, or do whatever you consider the norm with this woman but dates are usually the way to go. Depends on your age though, you sound young. Yeah there was a reason. There always needs to be a reason for nexting someone your seeing otherwise you're just punishing them for nothing and then they will just up and leave without a goodbye. My reason for the soft next was she started to act standoffish for whatever reason when I w… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 09:50 PM |
| 3 | I soft nexted and she sends me this text... Did I do something wrong?Nope, the fact she's texting you this shit is a good sigh. She's trying to get a response from you and bring you back into her frame. If this is her first soft next. Give it 3-5 days. Until the time expires, do not contact her in any way at all. Go do constructive shit for yourself. Hit the gym, read a book, pick up a hobby like playing an instrument, take up a cause. Whatever you want to do while you're not focusing on this woman. Then send her a message like you would any other time when you t… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Implementing a Soft Next for the first time. Need some more advice.I'll take this into account. Appreciate the advice! | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Implementing a Soft Next for the first time. Need some more advice.Don't really care what she tells her friends to be frank. It's not just her holiday. But all in, I'll analyze the situation over the next week and see what happens. Maybe the soft next will do something to her hamster, maybe it won't but I feel like it may be too early to call it as it is just yet. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Implementing a Soft Next for the first time. Need some more advice.That's what I'm asking, I can't back out of it. Everything has been paid for so how should I proceed on holiday? | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Implementing a Soft Next for the first time. Need some more advice.Ok, I hear you loud and clear. The thing is, how should I approach things when the holiday begins. We are overseas together for 8 days. Just do my thing and ignore her? | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 01:26 AM |
| 1 | What kind of behaviour was this?I never thought of it this way. Quite interesting if this is how some women think. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/17 11:07 PM |
| 2 | What kind of behaviour was this?Hahaha. Thanks for picking that up. I'll fix it | /r/askTRP | 30/05/17 11:41 AM |
| 1 | What kind of behaviour was this?That would be true if I was her orbiter and we weren't currently FWB right now. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/17 11:40 AM |
| 1 | What kind of behaviour was this?Wrong | /r/askTRP | 30/05/17 11:39 AM |
| 1 | What kind of behaviour was this?Haha, was waiting for this. FYI. Expect the unexpected. I do things when I want to. ;) | /r/askTRP | 30/05/17 10:36 AM |
| 6 | How to Ask for nudes?Just forget it then. See her Thursday, bang her like a porn star. Then after Thursday bring up another conversation, organise another catch up and while you're still talking to her, do what this other guy said | /r/askTRP | 29/05/17 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Using Dread and working the hamster in my favor. What next?I've never bothered to ask her cycle and she hasn't volunteered to share that information. This wouldn't be the first time in my experience with women where I haven't found out their cycle until way later down the track because for whatever reason some women take longer to share the information depending on how comfortable they are talking about their period. If we were fucking all the time then yes I could have figured this out in my own but we don't. I am simply too busy with my own life to ha… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 06:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle phone conversations in an LTR?LOL. This made me giggle. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 06:20 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle phone conversations in an LTR?Yeah, that definitely needs to change. Lastly, keep in mind whenever you decide to call her. Ask yourself why you are calling her and what is your objective. At the end of the phone call you should be setting up a date together. I can't put a number on how many times to call your LTR to set up plans but if it were me, once a week IF that. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 03:37 AM |
| 2 | How do you handle phone conversations in an LTR?I think the answer is within what you've already written here. Call less, find other things to do with your time when you would usually be on the phone to her. If you can already tell your emotional (beta) expressions and talkative nature is pushing her away then obviously change it. Stop calling. If she starts to question why. Be your old mysterious self. "I'm busy lifting, im busy reading, im busying doing [insert hobby or something constructive here]. Sure it's okay to say "I love you" but us… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Reasons for a soft nextCould you elaborate on this? What kind of attitude were you getting? How long did you soft next for and did you re initiate contact after the soft next expired? How did it improve things? | /r/askTRP | 23/05/17 03:07 AM |
| 6 | Need elaboration on soft nexting.Ok I will shift on to asktrp | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/17 11:14 PM |
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