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| 45 | No More Mr. Nice Guy | PosVibeEmanator | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 02:16 AM | |
| 6 | Start of Sophomore Year. Some logistical questions. | PosVibeEmanator | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 09:12 PM |
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| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/19/13Recently finished Conquer Your Campus by Mark Redman (read here). Was ok, but it seemed pretty heavy on simply being sociable. There wasn't nearly as much outer game stuff. Obviously I need confidence, but what can I do to easily build rapport with the tons of girls I'll be seeing in a week when I return to school? (it should be noted I go to a small-ish school ~5000 students, which Redman himself notes can be a hindrance) On posture: I've worked on posture a little. Its okay, not great. Every t… | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Should I approach older women any differently than I do younger women or those of my own age?I'm 20. I see attractive 25-30 year olds all the time. I feel more reluctant to approach them then someone my own age. Much rarer to see college-aged girls... | /r/seduction | 29/06/13 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Pickup while working (barback)I barbacked last summer. Unfotunately, my bar was pretty slow, and the promoted nights were lesbian events, so there weren't straight women to talk to. I have a similar question for my new job to yours and am a complete seddit noob, but I got into some conversations last year. Here's how: As part of my job I had to hand out fliers. This led to me talking to a lot of people on the street. People would ask about the place, you could ask them if they lived in the neighborhood, what they did, etc. W… | /r/seduction | 29/06/13 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Game On [Part 2]: An Amputee's Seduction Experiences and FailuresFirst off, congratulations. You're an inspiration. Now, you said: I don't give a fuck * *As I said in Part 1, #4 is sort of a lie. I do care about the people I interact with. But for seduction purposes, your inner game has to be strong enough to deflect rejection, discrimination, and nastiness with ease. The one-legged man should not give a fuck. How? I care so much about what everyone thinks about me, that its honestly holding me back, I believe. I've even been told I care too much. How do you … | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 06:55 PM |
| 1 | As Requested - PUA 101 – Expanding Social Circles in CollegeKinda what I was looking for, man, good stuff. My problem is that well, these steps, its like they don't work for me, or perhaps more accurately put, I can't do them. Not I'm not willing to put myself out there, more like it doesn't stick. “you want to do is put yourself in a position where you’re a good guy to know. Maybe that means finding out where the good bars are, or the good parties, but it really helps if you have some kind of value that you can provide to the people around you.” Become … | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 10:16 PM |
| 2 | PUA 101- Attraction in CollegeThanks, man. I really haven't been doing what I'm supposed to be doing, which is talking to everyone. Additionally after kinda being super raucous and apparently kinda weird at a club, I had bad AA the next week. Finally got back to normal. Really looking forward to seeing stuff made for college. Will their be anything on just expanding social circles in general? I've done the whole, obvious "join clubs" thing and I gotta be honest, didn't really make any close friends from it. Just lots of acqu… | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 09:19 PM |
| 4 | PUA 101- Attraction in CollegeWas kinda excited to see something tailored for college game. However, how is this different from whats on here normally, i.e. game reserved for randoms at a bar? "Give me 3 reasons why you're interesting" or "you're a typical college girl; prove to me you're interesting" seem like the kind of thing a girl would walk away from, as well as making you seem like a creeper isolating you from other girls at the party. The rest seems solid. Is it just you need to have super high confidence and congrue… | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Pre-Seddit vs. Post-SedditI have trouble with this. Once I had a girl ask me to hold something for her for a second. I said no in a teasing way to practice this kind of stuff (I already hadn't escalated quickly so I knew this wasn't going anywhere). She was like "wait, really?" I really didn't care so I just held it for a second (I think she needed to tie her shoe or something). But in a situation where I was actively trying to seduce and use the tools seddit gave me what should I do if a girl finds it incredulous I won'… | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Terrible luck, really has me down. To the point of not even trying.Same, sorta. I've been reading here every day to make sure I stay motivated and confident. But I feel like I'm failing myself too.They whole talk to everyone thing just hasn't been happening. To a degree it has. For example, I met a new set of friends through a girl I met at a party. Went to a club with someone from that, and the next day went to a party we all knew about, I left with some people I met the week before to a different party. Heres the thing: normally I'd approach girls. I've almos… | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Love Systems latest email says it all about College Game.An hour building your social circle now is worth thirty hours in November. So am I fucked? This is surmountable to me, or at least seddit has always said you can change at any time. I'm trying to transition (2nd year guy here). Try to make friends with guys who are very social and make you look cool and don't hit on every beautiful woman you see. Attractive women tend to be friends with other attractive women - keep some as friends so they can set you up with their friends all year. Since I'm no… | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 09:06 PM |
| 2 | I'm having trouble surviving Frosh Week... WTF?Dude, so much this. I'm a sopohmore and still have this. I managed to go out to parties on Saturday and Sunday (it was a 3 day weekend), but that is definitely the exception and not the rule. I have so much trouble finding parties. Coincidentally I just read that value giving vs. value taking thing. Really made me think. Gotta stay positive, TALK. TO. EVERYONE. Anything else beyond that? I find it ridiculous that I'm in college and not partying at least decently frequently (grades are most impor… | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 04:33 AM |
| 2 | 27 year old virgin, finally broke through. here is my storyDude, I'm 19, a second year student, and I refuse, absolutely fucking refuse, to squander my college years. I am not leaving college a virgin. This may be somewhat outcome dependent, but damn it, seddit is also about just going for it, striving towards it, and taking risks. But I still feel like I'm not "doing seddit" or following the advice. I mean, just striking up conversations in class doesn't seem to be really effective. I'm hitting the gym, and trying, trying real, real, real hard to keep … | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 09:27 PM |
| 1 | You CANNOT "seduce" via TEXT!!!Just learned this the hard way. Tried to tease via text. Did not work. Oh, well, moving on. | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 04:36 AM |
| 1 | You know what to do. Now do it!Solid advice, I appreciate it | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 03:06 AM |
| 1 | You know what to do. Now do it!Thanks a lot man. I had a guidance counselor in high school I talked with my senior year. He would always say things like that, about the past not mattering since it was already done, or "so what is everyone supposed to like you." Whenever I would respond to one his questions "I don't know" he would tell me I did know, I just had a filter and didn't want to say it. This kinda reaffirms that idea. | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 03:05 AM |
| 1 | You know what to do. Now do it!Thanks, man. I have trouble remembering to make eye contact. I actually got good at it by practicing while handing out flyers for a summer job, i just always forget to make strong eye contact. I could probably use some new clothes and a hair cut, but all around good info. Hopefully, I'm steering well clear of creepy. | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 07:09 PM |
| 11 | When to Make the Moves On HerI've managed to get numbers, but then they never text back. But I never, ever Kino-ed. Its emphasized for a reason, I suppose. Glad to realize I have to do it. Disclaimer: I'm a noob. | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 05:40 PM |
| 1 | You know what to do. Now do it!How does one seem congruent? For example, today in class I wanted to open for the sake of opening. I wasn't particularly attracted to any of the girls, although, yes, they were hot. I thought "nice shoes", maybe. (she had interesting shoes, strange shape and strange pattern" but I thought that sounded stupid. I'm also looking for friends. I forget which article it was (its not important; the point should be obvious) where it said you want a dynamic group of male and female friends. I seem to esp… | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Start of Sophomore Year. Some logistical questions.Thanks for the advice, man. I've always found it hard to socialize though. It always felt like me roaming from one girl to the next asking "whats your name" and then using the contrived major, what classes do you take, where you're from spiel. Same for men. I can honestly say the nights I had longer conversations were the best, I just find it difficult to do. I also make way too many I statements, as you might be able to tell. But it seems difficult to ask questions. Asking why someones an Engli… | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Start of Sophomore Year. Some logistical questions.Yeah, dude, sorry I thought it was kinda self-evident. I'm only gonna be doing this for the first week or so 'cause I don't want to seem creepy. So, far people haven't been too weirded out to me going in and just saying "oh, hey, I'm [Name], I live across the hall, just thought I'd introduce myself." and then transitioning into whatever. Usually the standard, where are you from, major stuff people ask. I've been relatively able to keep conversations past that though. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 09:02 PM |
| 5 | Start of Sophomore Year. Some logistical questions.lolwut We have a thing where everyone leaves their doors open and walking in and introducing yourself is encouraged. I've chatted with some people for maybe 20 minutes to an hour that way. Can't pirate it. At school so the filters or whatever catch it and they'll shut down your internet. But overall thanks for the input, the chilling thing makes sense. Hopefully, I can learn to seem like I'm exuding confidence | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 10:39 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Another first day of classes report, bombed it...Not OP, but I noticed there was a new comment here. A lot of times I just get a "yeah" or and "oh cool." No one seems to offer an statements back which I always have trouble keeping up a convo because of. I mean, I'm interested in other people, but no one seems to offer anything about themselves, much less offer chillage. Anything from your perspective which might help me out? And OP, keep trying man, you're awesome and you know it. You can talk to people. | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 09:16 PM |
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