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Damn, I don't like TRP but sadly, I've read a lot of that and they say that, in LTR's you do have to throw in some "beta" qualities. I feel like full alpha is just for tricking chicks into sleeping with them. Once they settle down, they apparently mix the two traits. Like "Hold frame" is "be alpha" then like, you know, be a reasonable human on occasion is the "beta" thing so they mix those in LTRs. Also, TRP women don't seem to want the kind of guy at TRP. Oddly. I don't know. Whatever. Jesus ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 07:46 PM
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It happens. People have different ideas. I wasn't trying to be rude or condescending about that. It was a "just in case" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/15 07:01 PM
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Have before!! It ends though. But thanks! I'm pretty positive about it. No biggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/15 03:55 PM
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I just typed out some long ass shit about an experience that I had with it, and I know it would fall on deaf ears. However, I do want to let you know, that if you haven't experienced depression yet, since you seem to believe it doesn't exist, I have some advice: What happens is you start to become very sad, or maybe completely apathetic, void of any feelings. It sucks. It's really hell at some points. Maybe you'll start thinking you're worthless- thing is, you aren't. You could start to think th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/15 03:15 AM
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I've spent a pathetic amount of time reading TRP, so I recalled seeing men talking to other men concerning LTR's and they would say don't go all for the looks. That's certainly good advice for anyone. Credit there. A lot of people are entitled. I read the post here on PPD that linked to that AskWomen thread (that sub fucking sucks, by the way. I never turn down an opportunity to complain about it) where the responses to COMPLIMENTS from less attractive guys honestly were disgusting. I mean, Jesu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 06:53 PM
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Of course there are different types of women. Bar-sluts, career driven sluts, religious sluts, intelligent sluts, virginal but future sluts. It would be ridiculous to deny that there are different kinds of women. I would have laughed if someone I knew didn't believe that said this. I almost did. I really like offensive humor generally. FEMINISTS HATE ME! Yes, and here is why: Women who are average and above average looking (the ones important to trp) have been treated their whole life a certain …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 05:40 PM
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It is. They are opposite but equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 03:50 PM
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Hello! So, I see that there are then, two categories of dudes. I might be able to make an essay like that actually. However, my curiosity on this matter is concerning "types" of women. I fee like you RP folks do make distinctions between several, however they still fall under one blanket statement (AWALT.) Is it just that women are less varied in striking opposites concerning character, or rather that it's unimportant to differentiate in TRP ideology? I disagree that it would differentiate betwe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 03:50 PM
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What? People who aren't RP are not crazed Social Justice Warriors. There's a LARGE divide there. What I think about the radicals that TiA makes fun of is the same that I think of TRP- utterly and insanely hilarious and I hope that they are trolls. Radical SJWS and TRP are both crazy extremes on different poles. So I guess I think of crazy SJW's just the same as I think of TRP I sub to TiA and TBP!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/15 12:28 AM
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I think it's fucking hilarious that they ask for examples. There are so, so many saved incidents of this on reddit it's hilarious. It's almost like they somehow DON'T know that! Shit, that would be like me saying "I FUCKING HATE CATS!" and someone says, "Uh, no, you like cats." And then I say "psh, okay, source?" Because if you glanced at my post history, eventually you'd find that I like cats in print.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 04:35 PM
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Oooh! I should visit that one! Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 05:24 AM
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Ah! Sorry! I forgot to tell you not to lead with your chin there, as far as your points go on a sub that "isn't really a debate sub."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 05:16 AM
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Oh I was just making a joke. Steelers fans are infamous for shutting down any arguments about how good their team is by referring to the 6 super bowl rings they have (the most in the NFL, though most of those were obtained quite a while ago). In doing so, they believe that they are proving to the fan of ____ team that the Steelers are better. The last Super Bowl ring was obtained in 2008. Seven years later, it's hardly relevant. I just wanted to make a football joke. Maybe your last point was aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 05:13 AM
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Not cool. I take it you're a Steelers fan?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 04:56 AM
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Hey! I've had several very good debates here! I'm not even one of those "stuck on one side of the spectrum people" either, so it works when both parties keep a slightly open mind, anyway. And I do enjoy doing that because the discussions end up being fine. And I like learning about people and their thought process. It's surely a learning experience. You managed to take several shots at me, even making shit up so... I mean, I'm not saying that really leaves you open to attacks, but it does make y…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 04:52 AM
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I'm sorry. That was actually condescending (on my end) and actually meant to be so. I need to work on my technique as well. I graduated high school in 2003, to answer your question! You? <--Actually curious. I believe that you did. You seem intelligent. It's why I want to work to have better debates with you. Usually I would have stopped a while ago, but I have had pretty good discussions on here, and I actually found this one with you interesting. So I'd like to talk here with you again and it …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 04:19 AM
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That might be true! I'm not ashamed of being liberal, so that's cool! I would say (just like, help for the future) that in this particular discussion, quoting me for stuff I never said didn't really help. But I'd say it would be better phrased as a question. Ex. "So you're saying that all men should empathize with women who have emotional sex, even if those particular men do not have emotional sex?" To which, my reply would obviously be "no." Because when you add the quotes and make them up, it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 04:09 AM
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Ha! Well, I've been called much worse. "Commie" is my favorite. So weird. Thought the Red Scare ended a while ago. Makes me giggle a bit. Liberal is technically correct at this point, if we're in America, which I'm assuming we both are. I've heard that in different countries, I'd just be considered about average. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 03:55 AM
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I think that you may be reading too much into what I said. I was just saying that I know a person who disproves the statement and you kept referring to my SO in quotes, I suppose? No, I'm not taking it personally. I was just confused and honestly still am. I didn't say men can't relate to women who can't have emotionless sex at all. I didn't say all men have emotional sex. I don't think all women have emotional sex. Men can totally have sex when they're mad. I just always like providing an examp…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 03:33 AM
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Okay, I'll try to clarify. I feel I've led you to believe something that I truly wasn't saying and for that, I apologize. I may have been a bit rude to you due to communication errors. I am sorry for doing so. When I say my guy can empathize, it's because he experiences the same thing. That he doesn't feel like having sex in certain emotional states. So, that being the case, he isn't baffled in the slightest that someone (male or female) wouldn't want to have sex while in certain emotional state…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 03:19 AM
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WHAT?! No, I'm saying MY dude CAN empathize with women who don't want to have sex while angry. I'm not saying it enters the equation for ALL men. Speaking in absolutes would make a fool of me. No way. And I'm not saying then, that for the men who don't give a shit if their angry, or anxious or depressed or sad that their mom just died and still have sex anyway that they should be able to empathize. It is very difficult for people to empathize with shit that they do not understand. That's human. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 02:52 AM
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Sorry, I did google these terms. None of the hits were links to studies done, just anecdotes from random people. I'm just saying, I know a guy who doesn't have sex while angry or sad. You said "their emotions never enter into it" Totally not true. Based on your experience, you are correct, based on my experience, you are incorrect. So admitting that it's a generalization, now you are aware that emotions certainly do enter the equation for men at least sometimes? That's what you're saying? Just t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 02:40 AM
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Whatever. I've been with my SO for over a decade and he would never fuck me if he's mad at me. Also- he isn't in the mood if he's depressed either. Emotions totally enter the equation. This is not true across the board for men. At least not mine. I wouldn't have sex with him if I'm mad at him. Are we going to give each other high fives when we're mad at each other? Fuck no. No way. Have sex? Absolutely not. Generalizing all men is just as shitty as generalizing all women. What the hell? You don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 01:33 AM
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Bull. My SO was 30lbs overweight when we met and he wasn't invisible. He was in a relationship at that time. Few months later he was still 30lbs overweight and he was single and actually and option and we've been together for over a decade. Not invisible at all. Also not rich or well off by any stretch of the imagination. Just an overweight, awesome dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 01:13 AM
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Hey, if the guy helped you, he did well. I mean, you totally want to steer people away from bad ideas and counter-productive thought, that's the goal. And yes! Getting to know your client is super important! Unconditional positive regard. Find your clients strengths, interests and ways to relate them to therapy! He was doing his job very well! It's super important to calibrate your technique to the client. Sounds like you had a good one! I'm so happy to read that. People have so many shitty expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 10:59 PM
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Even the recent Mary Koss "men can't be raped" stuff doesnt even make me raise an eyebrow. Wow. That pissed me off a lot. Uh, yeah you suggest techniques in CBT. And I suppose that's an opinion if I believe CBT works (and I do) but a lot of it is actually just helping the client reach their own conclusions. I would never start anything with "In my opinion." I can recommend books (related to therapy) and shit like that, but really, stating personal opinions falls under "imposing your beliefs on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 09:30 PM
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I'd be happy to debate you and win without insulting you at all. Makes it easier to discuss things with people. Of course, here I'm allowed to state an opinion haha. Won't be the same in the profession I'm after. Ah well. I remembered you for "Not being a dick at all." TiA is a good source of anger inducing images/text. That'll balance out the cat pics. Best of the best radical SJWs! I am sure most of those people are trolls though. They have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 08:35 PM
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Life's pretty good! I still don't have to be oblivious to societal issues. I don't want to be. I'm in college for a psych degree. People and what they say and what they think are fascinating to me. Opinions, stories, anything. It's all quite interesting. People always will fascinate me. ( I don't give a flying fuck about celebrity gossip, that kind of shit is a waste of time. I feel bad for excluding them from "people" but whatever) If it starts upsetting me, I take a break. I rarely get mad and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 07:43 PM
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I believe strongly that the friendzone has nothing to do with a lack of maturity but with a lack of experience on the dating market / with women in general. Thanks for that. I can't argue against this in particular because a very good portion of us have only been in one or two long term relationships and most of us lack a shit ton of experience in the dating scene, honestly. And the reason I can't argue against it (when it looks as though I should be able to) is because most of my friends and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 02:24 PM
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I fucking love my group of friends. Everyone hangs out, no one gives a shit if you're a man or a woman, we have shared interests and laugh and hang out and that shit. Is this different for a group of not single people? I'm just wondering because almost none of us are single. Also, several of us women are also into women. And we still hang out with each other. I'm just curious about the possibility that my friends are all deceiving me and I guess I'm tricking them as well? Like, seriously almost …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 01:33 AM
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Yes!!! They should!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 05:16 PM
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Agreed. I need to work on not being an emotional drain on others, I know how miserable it is to be the rock in the storm. Don't bottle things up. That's the worst thing you can do. I literally suggest therapy to anyone. I think everyone should just go in and say "I need more self-awareness regarding my emotions and reactions." That's what a therapist is for! Really helped me a bunch! Also, everyone should take a communication course, lol. Not that all the strategies I learned are always EASY to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 04:25 PM
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Oh yeah, he always has a solution or finds one or tries. It's not like he's constantly a downer or anything. Just that when he HAS a problem, or he's sad, he's comfortable enough to ask for a hug or talk about it. I know a guy who not only whines hopelessly about his problems, but ACKNOWLEDGES AND STATES THE SOLUTIONS but verbally refuses to do so. He also refuses to seek therapy. Most of his issues are his own fault, he recognizes it, he recognizes good advice. He won't take it. He continues to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 04:03 PM
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Eh, my SO has for over a decade and continues to frequently show emotions other than anger. The anger is the worst because it's a secondary emotion and it's hard for him to work out what's underneath that and also scary to him. But I don't mind at all if he needs a shoulder to cry on or support from me. I get that from him when I need it and I'm happy to do the same for him. It's worked for us for this long. He's not less desirable to me for this. I think he's really strong to be able to speak a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 03:34 PM
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I feel really awful for this guy too. I gave him a couple of links a while back and told him that if he's ever happier to PM me because I would genuinely love to hear that. He, quite literally, will sit here and tell people that they don't think what they actually think, he knows what they think and they do not, and he is very, very angry. I think he's expressing so many emotions. I don't think he's beyond help, oddly enough. He might need medication more than therapy though because I suspect th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 03:19 PM
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The BEST way I've heard it described otherwise is that sometimes people stumble upon TRP. Usually people mention TBP and TRP in the same post. Anyway, it's often said (and honestly I used it that way initially) that when you go to TRP, you might get mad or be in a sad state of disbelief that people actually think that way. TBP is like eye bleach for that. It's helpful to go over to TBP and see that there are people who see the problems with TRP and laugh at it. Other than that, I've never been l…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 09:17 PM
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At least a little, yes. to be honest, I haven't spent a whole hell of a lot of time over there recently, so can't really say that you're as popular as you used to be. I can't say that you aren't either. You're a classic. (I'm saying all of this lightheartedly, for the record. Tone isn't easily detected online)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 03:04 PM
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Yes, that is definitely TBP. I'm guilty of that as well, but try to leave it over there. Having been over here and had decent conversations with civil TRPers, it's a little different going back to TBP to mock them, I guess. I've found myself quoting posts from TRP to be like "HEY! LOOK! THIS GUY IS REASONABLE! They aren't ALL 100% awful." and usually it's well-received. I did see a guy come over a few days ago to apologize for being a jerk and talk about why he left TRP and he got blasted for ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 01:44 PM
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I post at TBP. What movement are you talking about? As far as I know, it is SUPPOSED to just be a mockery sub. That said, it isn't always JUST a mockery sub. People assume that because I am from TBP that I subscribe to the 3rd wave feminist shit that is kind of turning in on itself, in all honesty. I don't like that generalization because it immediately makes my arguments less valid in the eyes of some people that I'm trying to engage with. A lot of TRPers come here too and also lack the ability…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 01:21 PM
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I don't know about you, but I don't know many men with extreme mental illnesses. I just said I know two. And a couple of women with them, but I don't know about extreme mental illnesses. Not like the guys. So, it was an example I thought you could understand since, not even in your mind could the LEAST stable guy I know be less stable than the most stable woman I know. Or even a moderately stable woman I know. No, I don't, at all, have to find an "unlikely" male example to do this. It's actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 10:36 AM
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Dude, what? You seriously believe that a stable woman, with no mental illness at all, is LESS stable than a man with them? I know a guy with schizo-affective disorder and one with a personality disorder. HOWEVER, neither of these men take meds or really try to help themselves. ALL of my female friends are more stable than these guys. All of them. These guys can't hold jobs, they have shaky relationships, they drink more to self-medicate because they aren't helping themselves. The one guy has eff…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 03:34 AM
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I feel like it could be kind of harmful, just because it gives you this kind of preconceived idea as to how someone is going to act, and maybe that will influence your ideas of the individual you are trying to give a shot, if that makes sense. I mean, you could end up seeing things that might not even be there because you go in with this idea as to how _____ people might act. So then while you expect it and could be prepared for someone to behave a certain way, it could easily skew your percepti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 03:23 AM
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Keller reference in your flair? Sorry, unrelated. I like the first point. I can't tell if you're advocating the second point. I don't agree that this should be done. I can see that it would WORK (the manipulation bit) but I think it's rather shitty and yeah, immoral, however that seems to be common on TRP. They say "amoral" but I think it's just a way to feel better about manipulation tactics. Or they lack morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 03:12 AM
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Are you /u/haircombsnightmare s cousin? (comment above you) Sorry, I laughed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 08:49 PM
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I feel sorry for you. I actually do. If you ever stop this shit, please remember my username and PM me. I'd be so happy to hear that you aren't miserable anymore. I'm not being snarky. With that, I'm done. If you see a gray area, it's really there. You don't have to fight it by making it black or white. It can just be gray.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/15 04:48 PM
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okay, here's what I think: Some women are bitches and expect men to jump through hoops for them. Conversely, some men take advantage of kind women. Happens all the time. Dating sites for women aren't a picnic either. I wouldn't call it an audition process. You just have to weed out the weirdos. And by "weirdos" I don't mean unattractive men with low wages (though those things are important to a lot of people) I am specifically talking about the guys who immediately say gross sexual things and di…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/15 04:07 PM
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Most things are debatable, actually. Especially things without hard scientific proof. Are you like, God or some all knowing being that I'm unaware I've approached? You really do have all the answers, don't you? Okay then. Enjoy.... I guess? You seem to be psychic or something. Have some, unearthly, spiritual connection with the rest of society that most people lack. Do you believe that about yourself? If not, STOP. If so, go to the local emergency ward and tell them everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/15 03:16 PM
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Okay, noooo those women who were jerks were jerks. It wasn't your fault. We all make our own choices. What I'm referring to is your inability to grasp that this view of yours is subjective, and that the woman you were replying to before could possibly (and most likely does) have a relationship like she described. Your ability not to see outside your own lens and realize that it is possible for a man and a woman to be in a happy, stable relationship that is equal is the problem. Here you have som…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/15 02:55 PM
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No, YOUR bad behavior is YOUR responsibility. Take care of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/15 02:28 PM
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There are clinics, likely in your state, that offer counseling/therapy on a sliding scale according to income (if you can't afford it, if you can, you can pay more and somewhat likely for a better therapist.) This might take years, or the rest of your life but self-improvement includes not being bitter, hateful or angry. Anger is a secondary emotion. Get in to see someone about this. For real. This seriously isn't meant as an insult. No one deserves to be this miserable. It's not brainwashing, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/15 04:31 AM
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I think lack of trust is one of two things: your partner is not trustworthy or you are insecure with yourself. I get that shit happens, and it absolutely could, even to me. But I'm not going to worry. I'm the best partner I can be because SO deserves that. I'm enjoying this shit, because it's awesome. We aren't immune to problems. Fear can serve a purpose, but when it starts interfering with your life and happiness, it's a problem. I'd be really sad if my SO was jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 11:55 PM
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It's just not ideal to me to live my life in great. I've got an SO that I don't understand, who means everything to me as well. I'm not going to be afraid of this person. That's not real, to me. If I'm spending my time afraid I'll lose him, that would make me insecure and unworthy of a great partner. That's my take on it. There's just no point to worrying. Waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 11:33 PM
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It's sad that you feel the need to view people who are helpers on such a way. But hey, that's your thing. Meaning you'll probably be stuck as you are for a while, and that's too bad for you. You don't even deserve that. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 11:29 PM
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I'm sorry women are so threatening to some of you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 09:17 PM
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You can call me out, it's fine. I like working on communication techniques. One "rational TRPer" doesn't speak for all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 09:16 PM
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I have literally read all the crap that you just suggested. Long time ago. That EMSK, in my opinion is spot on. You think everyone but you subscribes to solipsism(suffers from it) when going to any thread on TRP can prove otherwise. Immediately. And you guys "hamster" like crazy. Also- no one would say "I'm from TRP and this made sense" like, ever. I never see that here. I highly doubt I'll ever read "You got me thinking about how SHIT TRP is, thank you" but for all I know, it could happen in so…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 09:15 PM
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You make zero sense in the context of this discussion. Like, none. You have met horrible women. I'm sorry you had that experience. I've met some really shitty men, good thing I understand that they aren't all man-children who think they are so entitled to. I'm not even necessarily debating you. I'm just putting the points out there because they're decent for the sake of argument. Just as TRP takes bullshit and turns it on women, I can do that as easily with men. I took a statistic, made a statem…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 08:06 PM
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People who kill themselves have bigger balls? You think it's BRAVE to commit suicide? I assure you that would be the easy way out. So you guys can't complain or whine? Doesn't TRP advocate being stoic? And this is the thing that is leading to male suicide, you think? That fucking sucks. You guys should stop toting that. Unless you think suicide is the ultimate act of bravery. I guess Sylvia Plath was pretty fucking brave then, sticking her head in the oven with her two kids in the house? My neig…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 04:55 PM
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things are fine and dandy to generalize and analyze until you start discussing the sacred and delicate ground of "women" themselves. No they aren't. I'd look just as far down on you if you started generalizing different races of people as well. Or people with different sexual preferences. Hell, I even know some decent republicans. I wouldn't lump them all together, even though the ones on fox news are the biggest dicks imaginable. emotionally and mentally fragile. I asked yesterday. Maybe I shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 03:41 PM
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Stop pretending the effects are the same in men and women. Everything is WORSE for women because they are mentally/psychologically weak. Isn't the number of men who commit suicide staggering compared to the number of women who do? *edit: I really feel awful throwing that out there in a stupid fucking argument like this. Suicide isn't something to take lightly. And I don't. I don't think men are weaker either, honestly. Just wonder what the RP response to that is. I think people who commit suicid…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 06:27 PM
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That's what I was describing except in more of a personal setting. Like, I am hanging out with my friend, I say something that annoys her, she then rips me a new one. I can continue the conversation. I don't start crying immediately. At all. You save that shit for when you have five minutes and are alone. I time it. Make sure I'm also DOING something as well. Like the other day, I started crying (serious reason, not someone hurt my feeeelz) and continued to work on what I was working on. You can…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/15 04:36 PM
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These aren't CMV's. Go to the real sub for that. This is PPD. I've found that in general on PPD, TRP people aren't going to have a view changed because they can't be wrong. They don't take the criticism very well. :/ I have seen RP things that kind of make sense, though. Just saying. Few, but yeah. So, point #1, most times men from TRP can't be wrong here, on PPD. I've seen it. I've seen non-RP folks actually concede "yeah, that makes sense" or whatever. But not too often. FAR LESS often the oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/15 12:40 PM
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I can't fucking tell anymore. It's April 1st, this is a ridiculous topic. Buuuuut, it's in PPD so.... This IS a joke, right? Most subs I can tell but not here. I am 100% serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 11:13 PM
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A lot of them act like morons like that. Some idiot just said "feefees" to me, as though I had them and they were concerning what he thought of me. That's knee slapping hilarious. I'm generally civil with them. What we're not really thinking about is that this is probably very largely a group of edgy 16 year old teenage boys on the internet. Seriously. The same kids that yell about how they're going to fuck your sister into the headset when you're playing online games. I could name a few TRPers …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/15 02:06 AM
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I suppose you glazed over what I wrote. You guys WANT to hurt my feelings. You can't. I don't care what you think. I know that probably annoys those of you who are trying to pick an argument. I'd say I'm sorry that's the way I am, but I actually love it. Meaningful? Maybe try to communicate with someone (even someone who disagrees with you) in a manner conducive to having a conversation that doesn't end in both sides yelling about the other having cooties. I find it odd that you guys seem to pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/15 01:45 AM
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The point to that was that a person clearly doesn't want to have an intelligent discussion while insulting the other person. I'm not going to go around insulting people I'd like to have a conversation with. It turns into something totally unproductive. I'm not offended by you guys because I literally could not be no matter what- but I was just saying that ends a conversation. It IS rude. It just shows how people easily fall into kind of a low-blow type pattern here and any kind of intelligent di…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 09:31 PM
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There is no tone on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 09:14 PM
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I don't know, am I supposed to wait for all my friends to die before saying that I know women with high partner counts that have been in LTRs for up to a decade, and no less than five years, have been loyal to their SO's? I swear, one had slept with well over 20 guys before and has been loyal to her SO for 10 years. The others are at 5-7 years. So I guess in MY circle, it's likely. It's actually the norm.... You wouldn't happen to have a link for the studies, would you? If not, whatever. I find …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 07:04 PM
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I should have said "A" woman. Sorry! I was asking a new question. I can re-phrase: I was wondering if it's the same to you guys if a woman with a high partner counts shoots down a man with a high partner count because he was too slutty? Women have dedication, they work hard, they put a lot of energy into their partners too. What's the difference if she slept around and it didn't take as much effort? Maybe she was expending energy in other ways. Maybe way more than the dude trying to bag as many …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 06:30 PM
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I was just assuming some WOULD want to get married at some point and then I guess it's okay to pass on them due to having many partners because if it's the case that a woman with lots of partners won't be loyal, then I guess a man won't either. Or that's just my understanding of this concept. PEOPLE with high partner counts are not marriage material. Now, I disagree personally. I wouldn't ask a guy his count because I don't care but TRP seems to look poorly on people's high partner counts when i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 04:42 PM
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Okay, so then the woman assuming the man is going to cheat because of partner count is the same and still a respectable decision on her part? Even if she has a really high partner count? I'm just asking that because at TRP, if a woman has a high count, it's a no go as far as marriage is concerned, but the guys claim to have or want a high partner count. And then they really dislike women with high counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 04:40 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 04:21 PM
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Okay, I was just asking a question, calling the statement "retarded" is an example of why people don't want to come in here and actually have a civilized conversation because both TRP and TBP do that shit. You didn't have to be insulting. It's a debate. I could go on to call your stuff retarded and personally insult you but that's kinda fucked up. Doesn't matter that we have different opinions. I had more questions but fuck this. I've talked to reasonable dudes here. That was actually refreshing…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 04:19 PM
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But like, past behaviors dictate future behaviors though, right? So it's quite in-line with your guys' viewpoint, but it's not appealing so discard it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 03:07 PM
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Yeah, but you guys apparently go out and fuck as many women as you can, "spinning plates" etc. So a guy from TRP who fucked lets say 25 women, many at the same time who know nothing of one another decides to get married. Is he going to be loyal? If so, what changed? So, I shouldn't be with a guy with a high partner count because he'll get "strange pussy" on the side then? I mean, if past behaviors dictate future actions, none of you guys realistically should settle into LTRs because it looks lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 03:04 PM
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I read this comment. Just thought you'd care to know that since you replied like a week later so I did read it, just letting you know. Here are some other things I noticed: I have seen you here before! I recognize you! I see that you at least thought to say two negative things about my post. Okay. Got that covered. It didn't get buried or go unread. Just assuring you of that. Have a good one!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 04:01 PM
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Okay, I was just wondering- who founded The Red Pill and what kind of qualifications does this individual have for all of you to believe these things? What branch of psychology does he have his degree in? What scientific field? What area of sociology? What makes his particular ideas (or that of any man prominent in the manosphere) so TRUE to you guys? I just need to know. And then if it's not so personal- are you religious at all? I would be going somewhere with that if you answer. Just for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 08:44 PM
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I don't think that you guys are shitty or retarded. At all. Well, okay, let me elaborate on "shitty," because to a certain degree, I do. But that's not ALL of you by any means. It's the guys that hurt women I think that of. And the guys whose hands are the WRONG ones for this TRP stuff to fall into because some of the stuff toted there can really be harmful. And when someone justifies being harmful to another person for their own benefit, I think that particular behavior is shitty, yes. That bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 04:30 PM
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Just going to point out that men suffer from BPD as well. I don't know if you're in America of follow the NFL, but Brandon Marshall has BPD. He's had some crazy shit going on. That being said, Mr. Marshall has gotten top-notch help, and seems to be improving. Anyone with BPD CAN do that. It's just not easy for them. But I'd say BPD, untreated, is probably something people should avoid in either sex. Now, come on. Really everyone woman is about emotion? Truly? I think men operate on a similar pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 03:46 PM
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But some DO revert back, a large portion of trp advice is to stop you falling back into old/easy/bad habits. Okay, while I'm certain TRP and true therapy are two totally different things, the very basic, general idea of both is: LEARN FROM PAST BEHAVIORS, CHANGE. Right? So true therapy should actually churn out better people, so long as the participant is will to take a look at all their ugly BS. Not a great comparison, you were shown the consequences of your behavior yet here you're arguing we …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 04:03 PM
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Oh no! I thought it was a funny story. It's not something that triggered a "man spreading" like campaign. I wasn't thinking you were downplaying a horrible thing hahaha. It's funny. I like telling that story too. I remember that guy. If we're ever in a race to the door again, I'll see how long the standoff will last. I believe that the genders are raised differently for some people. I feel like at this point, that's going to become less and less. You said women aren't raised with the incentive t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 03:49 PM
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So high partner count can happen for various reasons, we know this. What are the acceptable reasons for it? And, just for arguments sake, is your past behavior indicative of your future behavior? I hear that a lot of men over there were "betas" to begin with, right? So then, does that mean you guys will eventually revert to this state of mind you regard so negatively at this point? Does that mean that every one of you over there should assume that all the other former betas are eventually going …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 03:36 PM
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Like, is whatever you're doing here "alpha?" You think this is.... what exactly? What are you even doing? Are you done yet? Whatever you're doing is only serving to make me FINALLY start to feel pretty sorry for you. Surely your TRP friends would even think this is sad. YOU SHOULD SHOW THEM THIS TO CONFIRM THAT SLUTS LIE! OMG THAT WOULD BE TOTAL PROOF! This is sad guy. Go get help. I'm done at this point. I'll let you have the last word, so get whatever you want out of your system for the last t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 12:52 AM
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REALLY GUY?!?! Okay, I'll break and tell you. It's between .0000000013 and around 2 billion. Whew, it was good to get that off my chest. We done now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 09:57 PM
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You are ridiculously obsessed with the number of dicks I've had inside my body. Are you embarrassed yet? Good god man. No woman says that to another woman. Women don't sit around crying about how many men they've slept with. Sure, they might regret one, or two, or more but I've not seen one cry over the total sum. Is this how you imagine life for a woman? Hahaha. This keeps getting better. Oh! Shit that reminds me. I need to feed the cats today! You see, they haven't come up begging for the food…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 08:10 PM
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I look FORWARD from the NOW, but not back. The past doesn't matter if negative patterns cease to exist. Does that make sense? I don't think there's a conspiracy. I think women get shamed for bullshit and men get shamed for bullshit too. It happens. Those disney movies were fucking dumb. I have a kid and I am SOO glad they have started to steer away from "a man will take all of your past boo-boos away and save your life" because that's gross. A lot of people know those disney fantasies are all bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 07:16 PM
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You're really still on this? Are you done yet? I can't believe you're not done! Dude, we're not getting back to "debate" status. I've happily been doing that with other TRPers. You, YOU PERSONALLY, are simply not worth it. But I'll keep laughing at your replies if you keep replying. If you want? I don't care that you were a dick to me. I don't. I just don't find you worthy of intelligent conversation. You've provided so very little and it's over-shadowed by "SLUUUUT" so...yeah. Okay. Did I alrea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 07:12 PM
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Any story can be used for TRP though. You guys do that. With everything. The truth simply was- I was trying to do a person a favor, he was all "UUH UH! I'M DOING YOU THE FAVOR! DEAL WITH IT!" and I'm like "WTF just happened?" Because when someone thwarts, then overrides something like that, it's just fucking rude. I'd have felt the same had it been a woman, or a guy in a wheelchair. A kid? It might be kind of cute. That's the only exception I could make. So I just think it was a life situation t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 07:09 PM
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Again with that? That is why I think you're riled up. See, you keep going back to that, because you're mad I won't tell you. If you didn't care, you wouldn't keep bringing that up. Which you DO, repeatedly. I think you've said that in every single comment you've made so far. It looks like you are upset that some FEMALE decided not to validate herself to an alpha. You're taunting me to tell you my number. You are hilarious. I'll give you that. 10/10 conversation. Would do again. But not this same…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 05:43 PM
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Dude, you didn't hurt my feelings one bit. As a matter of fact, I haven't taken you seriously this entire time. I think that's what got you riled up in the first place. I stated the reasons TRP thinks partner count matters. Should I have then been like "I don't think they are correct?" Well, I clearly do not. Doesn't matter to me how you treat me. I was very amused throughout this entire conversation. You broke frame first, bro. Sorry. You couldn't hurt my feelings if you tried. You really, real…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 05:17 PM
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The thing I never got about the woman having done something previously, what if she didn't like it? Tried it, didn't like it? Or just did something out of duty? I guess we're different. I really do NOT want him to do too much for me if he isn't happy to do it. We're both not very selfish people at all though, so the things we do for one another we are happy to do. I can't imagine being OK with him frequently doing something for me that he wasn't happy with. That's how resentment starts. I guess …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 05:13 PM
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Okay. Thank you. I don't know about your studies. The evol psych stuff is rarely useful in the field of psychology. As a science, it's not regarded with much credibility at all. You are asking the wrong person about money. I think it's ridiculous to spend massive amounts of money on frivolous purchases. I'd be happy if SO ceased such behavior starting with me. Maybe he'd feel comfortable enough with me and secure enough about himself that he doesn't have to PURCHASE my love? Can you try another …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 04:48 PM
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I get the part about chivalry. I think it's pretty much crap too. Women are people just like guys. I don't get pissed when a guy opens a door for me though. MAYBE if there's a guy behind me and the door holder lets go of the door. The other day I went into a coffee shop. An older (like, 45) guy is walking behind me so I hurry to get to the door to hold it for him. Then it got weird. He walked faster to the door. Then I walked faster. Then I held the door for him. Then he said "NO" and held it fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 04:37 PM
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Well, you could ask someone just about anything, can't you? And I never said the moment you meet! But if someone asks you if you are from TRP, or you believe any of that shit, or if you're racist or whatever, yeah those things should probably be admitted. That's your character. The problem with the partner count thing is that you guys are using flawed logic with it. As in- you think it matters. Or a lot of guys over there want to know all the shit the women did with the ex because if you doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 04:12 PM
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I was just talking to people, honestly. I didn't get wrecked because you asked me like, five times how many people I fucked and I wouldn't tell you. What happened was, you said my anectdotes were bullshit, right? Okay, so after that, I figure well then so, to this guy, is my partner count. You need to work on your feels, man. The other guys were nothing but nice to me. I would have told several of them anything they asked because they weren't dicks. You were a dick. Hence- I don't need to valida…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 03:52 PM
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Is it just women? Why, I was sure a hefty amount of men were quite fond of sarcasm as well! I've even seen it used on TRP! How does what feel again? You haven't repeated yourself enough yet. I'm not quite clear on the subject matter of this particular conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 12:26 AM
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Have you ever seen that poster with a kitten hanging from a tree branch with a "Hang in there" caption? Imagine it. That's my way of giving it to you over the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 12:08 AM
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Okay, you think mine is bullshit. Got it. I have been accused of being full of shit before. Sometimes I am full of shit, sometimes not. Varies with my cycle. It's probably not, I was just assuming the means to get there were. They may not be, I will admit I do not know that. You're right. I do not care. I do know the verdict. I also don't care about that. So...we done here or what? PS- you might have lost frame, but I don't know. I'd over-analyze it and as the other TRPers just to be sure. Just …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 11:36 PM
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Why is my anectdote bullshit, but your guys' are not? I really don't get it. I just read TRP reasons and spouted them for you. It did save you time typing though, right? You're welcome. I hope a conscience.... I have four cats that I love. So I am already collecting! :) I may or may not be a slut to you, but I honestly don't care whether you believe I am or not. Sorry that I have clearly rustled your jimmies. My jimmies will remain unrustled. You can still try if you would like though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 11:19 PM
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Yes, I have seen it 50/50. Sometimes I've seen it more in favor of the man, sometimes more so for the woman, these would be anywhere from 60/40- nearly 100%....in either scenario. Man, some of you guys are really smart. This is sad to me. I don't even know what else to say about it. You know I think you're wrong, and I know you think I'm wrong. But thanks for discussing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 11:15 PM
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You guys love anectodotes over there. The reasons are crap I read on your site and was saying them so that you didn't feel the need to type them all. I don't believe those things. But I know you do. Saved you some time. You want it all. Women, cc, the wall etc. BS yo. I do so wish you'd get help. Then TRP will go away! :) WIN WIN!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 11:07 PM
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TOTALLY LOOKS LIKE A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN OMG
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 09:57 PM
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Oh! I was adding the finishing touches to my "death to all men" plan! HOW WEIRD!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 09:43 PM
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We're going to have to agree to disagree. I personally know women with high partner counts that have been in LTR's for years and they are fine. So I have evidence to the contrary, but you guys can believe what you want, I just wish this wasn't going around the damn internet. It's just horribly misinformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 09:40 PM
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All these TRP dudes being nice today. But we all know what each other does in their respective dens on the internet, so yeah...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 08:48 PM
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No, I understood. That's why I said it was gross. Men also are gross and cheat on their girlfriends. SOME men. SOME women. you know, disclaimer shit and whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 08:45 PM
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Okay. Thank you. I think it's shitty when people will do things for you, and be kind, and go out of their way to make you happy and then you shit on them. That's fucked up. I've seen it reversing the sexes as well. I am a firm 50/50 believer though. I understand that it won't be taken seriously because I SAID it, but yeah. Hmmm, the other way around. Don't know, can't say on that offhand. Or that the guy found it annoying, he did take advantage of it, though. Which is worse to you? I think takin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 08:44 PM
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Well that's gross, but shit happens. Guys do that too, unfortunately. People should just THINK sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 08:35 PM
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No, I realized it was the guy that I call names often and tried really, really hard to be civil, man. The part where I'm taking a course and learning to deal with people that generally rub me the wrong way? That's true. Now, there are several things I did incorrectly, throughout this whole thread, but I did better than I expected. So I realize I'm getting annoyed, chill, take a minute, go back, be nice. (or try) I did find something he said funny. And a lot of the things I did in the last one ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 08:30 PM
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I can see why women find it rude because some guys are like "Why do they automatically mention their boyfriends within five minutes of meeting?" I wonder if those are the guys who are just trying to talk to PEOPLE, though, not get numbers. Huh. And you never really know, I guess. But I have heard that a lot about the girl always bringing up her boyfriend. I felt weird about it when I heard that from a guy friend, then I've read it on forums. So yeah, it's a really weird thing to navigate. I hone…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 08:22 PM
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Hmm, interesting theory. So that's why guys ask about that? Because a partner count higher than (x and then whatever you guys multiply it by, is that 3?) indicates.... what is it again? Ummm, was it that she won't be faithful, or she has issues, or she has fun on the weekends like guys do? To me it's the last one. Though, there are people that use it as a faulty coping mechanism. Well, both men and women. But people do that with food or drugs or whatever as well. Sometimes the internet. But in y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 08:07 PM
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To which article in that mess were you referring?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 08:02 PM
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You are actually displaying an amazing amount of self-awareness that I never would have expected. I'm just enjoying learning things about you guys. Not, of course to the extent that I'd buy into TRP as a whole, but you know. But can I ask why then you guys say all this crazy shit about women in general? I am getting several responses here that are like "Here's normal shit people would say, but I'm going to say it so that it freaks people out a bit and in a way that is confusing." on this thread …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 06:12 PM
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So, always be the best you can for your partner, because if you start acting crazy, bad things will happen? I could have stated that without TRP ideology. Why are these things so wrapped up in like, a paranoia box over there? With all these unnecessary terms and scary hypothetical scenarios? Because you just said things that made total sense once you took away the extreme wording (which implied different things, tbh) I just don't get it. Sorry if that's annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 05:50 PM
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If it was out of pure curiosity and we'd been together long enough for me to determine that it really doesn't matter, I'd tell him. That being said, I don't lie about it, my SO knows (I've been with him since I was 18, I have a different view on this topic than I did when I was younger, to be fair) So I don't really count for that particular statement. Who would I have to lie to? And then if someone asks me (hypothetically since I'm not single) within the first like, year what that number is, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 05:47 PM
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I'll try to do the best job I can. "wife goggles" maybe. Dunno. I find him adorable. Whatever it is, I like it. I was fairly sure you were referring only to physical attractiveness. Okay, jobless stinky hobo and chick? Uh, would a woman cheat on that man? Maybe! Would she break up with him? Maybe! Would she talk to him about it and try and help fix it? I hope so! See, the thing mentioned was "cheating" I did say that if he were a douche, I'd leave him. I don't deserve that really. So what you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 05:41 PM
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That makes a lot of sense about how many people you actually run into. I am somewhat (not terrible though) of a recluse, just to add to your topic of interest. So, yeah, it may (and I'm saying may because I've never been outgoing and don't know the real result here) happen that if I were out all the time being approached and annoyed that I would get annoyed and not always be respectful. I'd like to think that I could always shoot guys down respectfully. I've had an SO for over a decade, so I DO …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 05:32 PM
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Shit well, it's a rented box from the fucking cable company. Thank you! Opening it up, with my skills, would cost me hundreds of dollars in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 05:24 PM
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HA! (I don't like putting LOL, but I laughed because I found the end bit humorous. Not in a mean way.) No, I don't think they advocate that at all. I've never seen that over there in the months (year?) I've been at TBP, honestly. I DO feel like it's a train of thought there, but I REALLY hope no one actually does that. I highly doubt that they do. That would be some amazing show of stupidity and lack of common sense. One thing about those guys is that they, mostly, seem intelligent in one way or…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 05:23 PM
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...You are not even the person I posted that to. Take or leave my input. I'm just bored and it is interesting to talk to you guys. Some of you are actually okay (minus TRP stuff, but whatever). I'm learning here. I like that! Do you want to tell me how to tweak my input? Was it the sarcasm part? Because yes, I realize that was useless. Apologies on my part. Or is that just an insult? I always like constructive criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 05:20 PM
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I don't care if you have sex or not. See, you were on one extreme and you flew to the other why? Is that "branch swinging?" What you just described about the line-ups you have if your wife leaves? Are you in the camp that thinks men love more intensely and purely than women? Just wondering. Because what you just said proves otherwise. Unless you see what you have as the purest form of love, in which case that's quite depressing. Why would you not want to take the high road? I never will understa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 05:12 PM
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Okay, that may be the case then. I was just thinking it was a basic consideration for other people, and a lot of people would agree with that. Several people are using the "admiration" definition and I just really never thought of it quite like that. Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 04:50 PM
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Would that make it do that? It's been whirring all fucking day. Can of air, then? Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 04:48 PM
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You know, I don't honestly see another possible mate at this point. because I'm not looking for one. So this "branch swing" thing is ridiculous. Do people do that? Sure. Men too! I know I'm not looking to. So how's that going to happen to me? Well, I AM a woman, right? Is that it? I just don't give much of a flying fuck about looks. I didn't in the beginning. To me, I know his looks are going to fade. That's fine. He's great. Now, that being said, in dating I did care about looks a little. I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 04:44 PM
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Fair enough man. Thank you for explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 04:14 PM
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: a feeling or understanding that someone or something is important, serious, etc., and should be treated in an appropriate way> Basically this one, from: http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/respect That's what I think of in regards to respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 04:13 PM
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Do you respect her?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 04:10 PM
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Okay, #1, I never think that partner count is anyone's damn business. For either gender. Who fucking cares? Do I need to hide it, no. But if I were dating and a guy asked me that, I'd ask why it mattered. Sure. But that question is so telling of his personality, that I think I'd be pretty put off. Sir, if you are a hateful, spiteful person, don't pretend not to be. If you don't like women, and you think they're all bitches, MGTOW. Yeah, a person in a relationship with you should know if you view…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 04:09 PM
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Couples grow wrinkled and old together. At my age, I see 60-100 year old men as unattractive. But I've been with my SO for a long time and I'm assuming it's not going to matter when he's old and wrinkled because I actually love him. He's been morbidly obese, I did not cheat. He's gotten in great shape. Point is, either I was likely to cheat if I found him not so attractive, or I wasn't because I loved him and was loyal. Looks like the latter is the truth. You want to try and convince me otherwis…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 04:05 PM
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What I always think people MEAN is that 0 respect equals negative attitude towards someone, I guess. I think of it as basically giving someone RIGHTS to their space, thoughts, personality, etc. Shit like that I suppose. I'm having trouble wording this. When you asked that I was like "shit, I can't even say it right" sorry. I mean, they deserve to be treated kindly and not thought of as a jerk immediately. I think I'm basically using my reasoning under a different definition that indicates basic …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 03:58 PM
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I didn't say it was impossible. Do your friends know you're on TRP? Do they respect women? Just as a test, you could ask them if they think you respect women. If you're a good actor, you'll find a way to do this without leaning toward the - "I don't respect women and it's possible people notice so I'm asking" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 03:49 PM
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It used to not be my default, actually. It's only been that way for a few years at this point. BUT, I was always nice to people whether I believed they were assholes or not, and I still can be. I'm just happier (and more often correct) if I assume everyone I meet isn't at least 50% asshole. It just helps a lot of things. But, I chronically suffer from depression so I take my optimism where I can get it. Not saying that for pity, it's just WHY this happened. Oddly?? It's untrue that everyone is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 03:46 PM
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Eh, thought I'd ask. Thanks anyway. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 03:06 PM
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You wouldn't happen to know anything about cable-boxes, would you? Mine has been making a noise quite like a laptop when it's probably too hot. That fan blowing noise? Yeah, that. And the cable box only does it once in a while. Am I gonna get exploded?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 03:03 PM
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Nice points! Thank you. I'd laugh if a guy told me he was a farter, but I don't think I want to hear it immediately, no. That's not my fetish. But you don't still eat it, right? Heard it's good for the immune system... You're Jewish? People shouldn't realistically give a shit, some people will. I don't lead with atheist, no. But I don't pretend to pray or believe in god if asked either. See, the past stuff (booger eating) that was in the past. The Jewish/political shit, that's gonna come up. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 03:00 PM
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That was some grade-A input, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 02:47 PM
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I lol'ed. No. Not at all. Chill. Therapy maybe. No interment camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 02:46 PM
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I'm going to be fair here- as a woman who treats women the way I treat men (the banter you're talking about, if I am getting it correct- the poking fun at someone kind of, not in a mean way just having a laugh or whatever, no malicious intent) I've noticed that my women friends actually don't take as well to this as my guy friends. And never is it anywhere NEAR the level of banter with my SO. With neither men nor women. People think we fucking hate each other sometimes. No, quite the opposite. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 02:44 PM
7

You guys would be dumb as hell to go spouting that shit in public. Now, I'm aware you're fine with doing in under the shroud of anonymity that the internet gives you- cool. Most people say worse shit online than they'd say in person, or so I fucking hope. But I've met a couple of guys here and there that really believe they are enlightened and better than people who aren't and they do spout this shit. Regularly. In front of women, I will add. So of course no one wants to fuck them, and they're s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 02:31 PM
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I never understood this particular sentiment about respect needing to be earned. So.... you basically assume someone is a piece of shit until proven otherwise? You go around assuming everyone on earth is unworthy of your time or whatever good-will you may possess until they prove themselves worthy? I really don't get it. As in- I'm asking if this is how it goes. I think people have to earn a lack of respect. And yeah, that can happen quickly. It just seems easier to default to "Everyone is a wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 02:15 PM
3

Ahahaha. I'd make a rule like that too if I was terrified of the first six months! You know they don't always sleep in hour or two spurts, right? Mine slept fifteen minutes at a time quite a lot. There was no "daytime" or "night time" there was no "bed time" it was quite chaotic. I stayed home with my baby. I got up in the night for my SO if he didn't want to. I wanted 12 hours of sleep for my birthday AND for mother's day. Those were the best damn twelve hours of the first six months. You have …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 05:22 PM
2

29, female, and 1. Met current SO when I was 18, first dude I slept with, we've been together since. I am NOT a red-pill woman type at all either, that's just how shit happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/15 02:08 AM
4

Okay, I read what I read. Will you then, please re-word it? Did you mean that there is no excuse for hitting someone, but that an individual should not provoke violence if they'd rather not find themselves a victim or...? I rather like most men. I don't care that you are a man and you said what you said. Whatever your equipment situation may be, it appeared that you used the phrase "cause someone to hit you." But that doesn't happen, is what I'm saying. Under no circumstances does anyone literal…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 09:38 PM
4

My reactions aren't anyone else's fault, what the hell? My feelings may be hurt sometimes and rightfully so, but I actually have control over how I behave and what I say. How I feel? Not so much. I'm also aware that on occasion, during irrational moments that my feelings may dictate my actions. So I leave the fucking room. Looks like you don't want to have to take responsibility for how you act there, man. That's not how THE WORLD WORKS. You are responsible for what you do. How you feel is diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 08:01 PM
-2

Groovy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 11:12 PM
-4

That part was apparent. the use of MEAT for the analogy was just hilariously telling, even if unintentional. ESPECIALLY if unintentional. I can't get offended by you people 'cause you just make me giggle so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 10:30 PM
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I don't argue with you guys. It's not my thing. Blue Pill/red pill arguments are like a room full of deaf people screaming at each other. It doesn't effectively communicate shit. It wasn't a debate. I'm not engaging with you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 07:09 PM
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He quite literally just compared women to pieces of meat. And that about sums up TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 03:20 PM
2

My dad- the kind of man TRP would hate. He was a doormat. Kind as hell and smart, but he would let people walk the fuck all over him all the time and he still does. Love the hell out of him though. Other than that, he's a great person. My mom kinda sucks as a human being, but she works hard. She and dad were always empathetic. ETA: My mom actually fucked my dad over. She had kids with him, divorced him, then seriously took his money and left him with a ton of debt. The SECOND woman he married di…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/14 12:51 PM
8

That is super offensive to people who actually have autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/14 05:51 PM
9

I read subs that seem to be a mockery of extremists. TiA is another one. SOME SJW's are completely batshit. So much so that it's hilarious. I sub (and comment) on TBP because I find TRP so extreme and nonsensical that it's hilarious. However, sometimes it seriously is so sad and alarming that you just have to say something about it that isn't sarcastic. I see the same thing in a lot of mockery subs. Some SJWs that are linked to in TiA are really sad and actually hurting their cause because they …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/14 04:54 AM
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That's honestly my experience with people. I know both men and women who do that. The worst offender I know is male, but that doesn't mean that they ALL do that. I hate that characteristic in people. Absolutely can't stand it. It's getting to the point that I honestly admire someone who apologizes quickly, takes fault and moves on to improve things. I can say that since I want other people to act that way with me, that I always go over to see how anything could be my fault and how I could work i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/14 01:39 PM
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It just seems like it's everywhere. I mean, hell, it's the reading material on the side-bar. Like, these are supposed to be logical thoughts, that women are just tall children and shit like that. I personally don't find that logical at all. I hope the bit about generalizing and hating women as part of a stage is true and that a lot of TRP doesn't take it really seriously, but the place runs wild with it, really. But there are a few rational members, kinda. It's not the whole site. The sad thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/14 04:55 AM
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Why do you guys not occasionally operate on emotion? I see this thrown around about the women all the time, but you guys are apparently far more logical. But then I see that most of the "venting" and "woman-shaming" shit occurs during your supposed "bitterness/anger" stage of "swallowing the pill." So in this particular instance, using your kind of generalization, suppose I could believe that all the hate on women over there is based on your guys' FEELS! Therefore, non of the generalization and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/14 04:12 AM
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