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| 25 | Advice on meeting a girl | Conversation | Possible_March_3664 | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 11:38 AM |
| 22 | Did my first cold approach | Conversation | Possible_March_3664 | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 02:06 PM |
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| 1 | Did my first cold approachMet up with her, could tell she was high maintenance.. found out she was on and off with some other guy and she was basically attention seeking lol. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Women are just people bro..It’s ying and yang bro, everyone is different. In my opinion personally, I don’t want ‘attractive’ female friends. This is because no matter how good of a friend they are, as soon as there’s a chance I will take it to have some fun. This is just me though idc if u think it’s sad, I just don’t see the value of having attractive female fiends. The only value you could argue is that it means you can meet other attractive females through them. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 09:54 PM |
| 5 | I’m a 24 year old Virgin and I don’t really find her attractive, but should I have sex to get it over with ?OP after 2 weeks you’ll definitely want to bang her so just do it. You’ll bust ur load in like 20 secs tho even if she’s not that hot | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 09:48 PM |
| 3 | I’m a 24 year old Virgin and I don’t really find her attractive, but should I have sex to get it over with ?Lmfao | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 09:48 PM |
| 6 | Women are just people bro..Fair enough bro. But I promise you there are lots of guys out there in healthy relationships who don’t have female friends. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 08:38 PM |
| 10 | Women are just people bro..I know plenty of guys who don’t have female friends but have a girlfriend lol. What you’re saying is true, from a certain point of view. It’s definitely not a dealbreaker though. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Did my first cold approachOh and for the actual conversation I can’t really remember lol. She seemed in a rush so I asked how her workout went and then that she looked like a snack (which made her laugh) and then asked for the number followed by the snap.. which was a cringy mistake lol. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 08:32 AM |
| 2 | Did my first cold approachOkay thanks for the advice, I’m gonna text her tonight. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 08:29 AM |
| 2 | Did my first cold approachOh yeah and as for the cringy part, I basically followed her out of my gym lol. It was anything too sus as I was leaving too but still. I also made the mistake of asking for her Snapchat right after I got her number.. believe me I have no idea why I did this. She kinda shit tested it and asked “y do I need that if u have my number” and I think she gave me a fake snap lol. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Did my first cold approachSo I made the mistake of asking for her Snapchat right after I got her number.. I don’t know why I did this and she kinda shit tested it cos she asked “y do u need my snap are you not gonna text me?” And then I think she gave me a snap that wasn’t hers lol. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Did my first cold approachYeah it’s just that anxiety and nervousness I get.. sometimes it can be too overwhelming to play it off and I feel like they can sense that. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Did my first cold approachFingers crossed ahah | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Did my first cold approachThanks for the help man! I was thinking about bowling as there is a good ally near me. Was also considering going to this leisure park where you do these water activities. I’m not sure if you’re familiar with ninja warrior? | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Did my first cold approachI’d like to reiterate something I didn’t mention. this girl goes to my gym and has 100% seen me before. I’ve also caught her looking at me a few times (maybe coincidentally who knows.. but still). So I guess it’s not a full cold approach but I still grew some balls and talked to her lol | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Did my first cold approachYep gonna text her tonight | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Did my first cold approachI don’t know y I’m getting downvoted for this lol, but yeah I’ll text her tonight mate | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 08:20 AM |
| -5 | Did my first cold approachWhat should I text her saying? | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 02:56 PM |
| -14 | Did my first cold approachNah that sounds so counterintuitive, I don’t wanna come across as needy | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 02:26 PM |
| 1 | How I got my first GF at 21. Steps I did to achieve that goal!Enlighten me, instead of being the spiteful self-righteous asshole you're being. Wow. I’ve literally taken my time to give you some solid advice. If you can’t act upon that, then carry on being a sad act and get no where. Nobody is going to lift the weights for you. If you’re acting this pathetic on Reddit then I’m sure it’s reciprocating into your actual life, no wonder the women repel from you. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 04:07 PM |
| 0 | How I got my first GF at 21. Steps I did to achieve that goal!I think I know why you can’t get a girl | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 03:32 PM |
| 2 | How I got my first GF at 21. Steps I did to achieve that goal!Dude you sound beta af. No wonder you haven’t pulled if you’re behaving like this on Reddit. Fucking man up and go and work for it. I don’t care if you’ve been rejected a 1000 times, eventually you’ll be successful. Prove it yourself lol | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | How I got my first GF at 21. Steps I did to achieve that goal!Dude it’s not hard.. are you telling me you’re gonna let some 100lbs girl stop u from being a man? U stop caring by not focusing on the outcome of the situation and just living ur life. One day we’re all gonna die so may as well make the most of it and stop giving a shit about what people think. I don’t know what else u want me to say lol.. nobody can do this for you. Just go out there and talk to women, you will be successful. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 03:15 PM |
| 1 | How I got my first GF at 21. Steps I did to achieve that goal!As I said.. you will suck at it the first times you do it. You need to change your mindset man. Train yourself to not give a fuck. I don’t really know what else to say. Now instead of asking how with the advice I’ve given you, go out there and do it. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 07:54 AM |
| 3 | How I got my first GF at 21. Steps I did to achieve that goal!There’s no getting there you just do it. As OP mentioned a few times, you kinda have to fake it till you make it. You will probably suck at it a few times but quickly you’ll learn how to do it the more you seduce. Just show you don’t give a fuck basically and give off the vibe you have other ‘options’. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 07:43 AM |
| 2 | How I got my first GF at 21. Steps I did to achieve that goal!Staying in your masculine. Don’t let the girls throw you off balance no matter how they act or what they say. You can’t come off as needy or get butthurt when they throw a shit test at you or even straight up reject you. Don’t let her looks and physical features throw you off and treat all women the same. No pedestaling. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 07:38 AM |
| 16 | How do you deal with anxiety ? Lately I’ve been avoiding taking calls hanging out with friends every social interaction just doesn’t appeal to me . Do I need help ?My biggest advice for dealing with anxiety is to sit with it. If you feel yourself getting anxious DO NOT suppress it. Just let it fill you up and accept it’s okay to feel like this and it gets better with time. Exposure therapy works like magic. Do small things that make you anxious and then lead that up to bigger things. The dopamine you get when you succeed in something you find challenging is insane. I personally try to live by the quote ‘seek discomfort’. If it doesn’t challenge you or make… | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 08:17 PM |
| 5 | Unusual Stare in PublicBruh you should’ve just grabbed her face and kissed the fuck outa her | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Advice on meeting a girlThank you, this is really good advice. I’m already doing very well I just need to get myself into scenarios where I meet new people. Appreciate you taken the time! | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Advice on meeting a girlThanks for your input my friend! Appreciate you taken the time to type this. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Approaching girls and what the other might sayI dig this, gonna change my ways and start cold approaching in confidence! | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 08:15 PM |
| 0 | Advice on meeting a girlInteresting view, thanks for sharing your advice, I appreciate it. I’m going to start making a change now and I’m confident I’ll be successful. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Advice on meeting a girlI’ve tried bumble and it’s relatively the same as tinder IMO. Sure they message first but they’re always so boring and generic. They just send one word openers like ‘hey’. Then u try get the convo going and it never progresses 😂 I will give hinge a look at though, thanks man. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Advice on meeting a girlCould be worth a try… | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Advice on meeting a girlOkay mate thanks for you help, will definitely take what you have said into consideration! | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Advice on meeting a girlThanks for the advice! | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Advice on meeting a girlAppreciate the advice dude | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Advice on meeting a girlThat’s honestly some great advice my friend! I can’t believe I overlooked this. I’ve always wanted to start jujitsu and possibly some CrossFit. Thanks for the help mate! | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Advice on meeting a girlAny suggestions of social situations? I only have 2 close friends and aside from that we don’t know many people. I’ve tried clubbing before, sure it’s sometimes a good atmosphere but it’s so difficult to really meet someone unless it’s a hookup- which are usually a ONS and that’s it. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 11:55 AM |
| 5 | Advice on meeting a girlThanks for the advice pal, that’s given me some clear thoughts. You’re right, for 5 years I’ve been very dedicated to training in the gym and eating well. I will use this advice and apply this dedication and effort elsewhere within my lifestyle. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 11:47 AM |
| 7 | Advice on meeting a girlMy main hobby is going to the gym. Problem is I’m so focused on my workout I don’t really acknowledge anyone else there. Sometimes attractive girls are there, I just never have the courage to approach them without coming across as ‘that guy’. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 11:43 AM |
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